Joel Osteen Podcast - Serve One Another

Episode Date: March 6, 2019

In this message, Joel wants to remind you to live outward. God has put people in your life on purpose so you can be a blessing to them. Every morning, we should ask, “God, what is my assignment toda...y? Help me see the people You want me to be good to.” ----Visit https://joelosteen.com to receive daily updates and encouragement from Joel Osteen.----Have you followed Joel Osteen on Instagram? https://instagram.com/joelosteen. Subscribe to SiriusXM Podcasts+ to listen to new episodes of the Joel Osteen Podcast ad-free and a whole week early. Start a free trial now on Apple Podcasts or by visiting siriusxm.com/podcastsplus. Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

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Starting point is 00:01:27 See terms and conditions at UNES. See you. Hi, this is Joel and Victoria. Thanks for downloading our podcast. We enjoy spending this time with you. I hope you'll leave inspired. Make sure you subscribe to get new messages every week. We appreciate your support. It helps keep the ministry going. Enjoy the message. Well, God bless you. And thanks so much for letting us come into your homes. And if you're ever in our area, please stop by and be a part of one of our services. I promise you we'll make you feel right at home. But thanks so much for tuning in. and thank you again for coming out today. I like to start with something funny. I heard about this husband and wife.
Starting point is 00:02:20 They had been arguing, and now they were giving each other the silent treatment. The man had to get up early and catch a flight the next day, and he needed his wife to wake him up. Not wanting to break the silence, he left a note on her side of the bed. It said, please wake me up at 5 a.m. The next morning, he got up at 8 o'clock.
Starting point is 00:02:41 Missed his flight. He was so upset. He went in to find out why she didn't wake him up. There was a note on his side of the bed. He opened it. It read, wake up. It's five. Hold up your Bible. Say it like you mean it. This is my Bible. I am what it says I am. I have what it says I have. I can do what it says I can do. Today, I will be taught the word of God. I boldly confess, my mind is alert, my heart is receptive. I will never be the same. in Jesus name. God bless you. I want to talk to you today about serving one another. Jesus said, if you want to be great in the kingdom, if you want to live a blessed life, it's very simple. You have to serve other people. He wasn't talking about an event that takes
Starting point is 00:03:32 place every once in a while. He was talking about a lifestyle where you live to help others. You're always looking for ways to serve. You're helping a friend, volunteering at the hospital, taking care of a relative. It's not something you force yourself to do. It becomes a part of who you are. You've developed that attitude of serving. That's when you'll have true happiness, true fulfillment, not living to get, but living to give. And this is the reason a lot of people are unhappy.
Starting point is 00:04:06 They're only focused on themselves. my dreams, my goals, my problems, that's going to limit you. You were created to give. God puts people in our path on purpose so we can be a blessing to them. Every morning we should ask, God, show me my assignment today. Help me to see the people that you want me to be good to. My friend Johnny, I've known practically my whole life for over 40 years. He's always serving other people, running somebody to the airport, taking a friend to dinner, helping a relative with their project. When my dad was on dialysis and one of the family members couldn't take him, we'd always ask Johnny. We knew he would gladly do it.
Starting point is 00:04:52 One time I called him on a hot Saturday afternoon, he answered, and it was very noisy in the background. Could tell a lot was going on. He said, Johnny, where are you? He said, I'm on top of a house. My friend's next door neighbor is an elderly woman, and we promise we would re-roop her house this weekend. He didn't even know the lady. It was his next door neighbor's friend, but he's developed this habit to serve one another. When you serve others, you are serving God.
Starting point is 00:05:25 When you do it for them, you're doing it for him. Jesus said, if you give a cup of cold water to someone in need, you will share. surely be rewarded. Every time you serve, God sees it. Every time you help others, you go out of your way to pick up that friend. You come early to sing in the choir. You stay late to train that coworker. God is keeping the records. Nothing goes unnoticed. He says, you will surely be rewarded. That word surely means you can count on it. Have no doubt it will happen. Now here's the key. don't look for people to pay you back. People may not say thank you. You may not get the credit you deserve. Nobody may be giving you an applause. Let me assure you, when you serve others,
Starting point is 00:06:19 there is an applause for you in heaven. Almighty God sees your sacrifice. You don't need people cheering you on. You don't need somebody clapping for you. You're not doing it for people. You're doing it for God. He's the one that matters. He's the one that matters. He's. sees every act of kindness. He sees you volunteering at the hospital. He sees you working in the nursery each week. He sees you taking your neighbor to their doctor's appointment on your day off. When you serve others, God promises you will be great in the kingdom. J.J. Moses right here on the front row was a star football player in college. He was drafted by the Houston Texans and played for them for five seasons. J.J. was the
Starting point is 00:07:05 kickoff and punt returner. He's as fast as lightning. So quick. When he'd get the ball, he would electrify the crowd darting here and there amazing to watch. In the football world, he was at the pinnacle of success, career-wise at the very top, playing in the national football league every week in front of millions of people. But during the off-season, or whenever he didn't have a game. Do you know where he was every Saturday night? Not at home with his feet up, not out enjoying his celebrity. He was right over here ushering in this section, welcoming the visitors, seating people, passing the offering plates. Many people, they didn't know he was a star professional football player. In the stadium, all the lights were on him. Everybody wanted to get a
Starting point is 00:08:01 picture, everybody tried to get an autograph. He could have let that go to his head. I thought I'm not going to usher anymore. I'm big time. I'm J.J. Moses. I'm the original J.J. before J.J. Watt, I was here. I don't want to wait on anybody. I want people to wait on me. No, still, every Saturday night, he's ushering week after week. He told me, Joel, my greatest honor was not playing in front of 80,000 people in the stadium each week. My greatest honor. My greatest honor. is to volunteer at Lakewood each Saturday night. What am I saying?
Starting point is 00:08:38 You're never too important to serve. Never too big, never too influential. I know a man that was worth $9 billion with a B. He's in heaven now. He started off with nothing. Got into oil business and obviously made it very, very big. He loved God.
Starting point is 00:08:55 He's a good man, always helping others. He owned, among other things, a big retreat center where couples could go and spend the weekend and be refreshed. One day this couple came to the front desk. The receptionist had stepped away. And it just so happened, he was there. He was an older gentleman, very kind, very friendly. So he checked them in, gave them their key. Then he picked up their suitcases and carried them to their room. He got them all set up, laid out their bags, even got them some ice. When he was about to leave, the lady reached in her purse and gave him a five. He gave him a
Starting point is 00:09:33 $5 tip. She thought he was the bellman. I love the fact that he wasn't too important to serve. He could have said, excuse me, do you know who I am? I own all this. I don't need you a $5. No, here's what I've learned. It takes a big person to do something small. It takes humility to say, I don't have to do this. It's not required of me. Nobody will fault me if I don't do it. but I know in order to serve God, I need to serve other people. And if you want to have a great life, it doesn't just come from success, having a bigger house, more accomplishments. That's all great.
Starting point is 00:10:12 God wants you to be blessed. But if you're going to be truly fulfilled, you have to develop this attitude of serving one another. You were created to make somebody else's life better. Somebody needs what you have. somebody needs your smile. They need your love, your encouragement, your gifts. When you serve others, you will feel a satisfaction that money cannot buy. There will be a joy, a peace, a fulfillment that only God can give.
Starting point is 00:10:45 One time Jesus and his disciples had traveled a great distance to the city of Samarian. They were very tired and hungry. Jesus sent the disciples into town to get some food while he waited. by a well. He met a woman, told her about her future, and gave her a new beginning. In a few hours, the disciples came back with the food, but Jesus wasn't hungry anymore. He was sitting by the well, refreshed, at peace. They offered him something to eat, but he wouldn't take it. He said, I have food that you know nothing about. Well, they thought maybe somebody came and gave him something to eat while they were away. They started to eat. They started to eat. They started to
Starting point is 00:11:28 talking about it. He was hungry a little while ago and now he's not. He was tired, but now he looks so refreshed. How could that be? And Jesus overheard them discussing it. He told them the secret. He said in John 4, my food comes from doing the will of him who sent me to accomplish his work. He was saying, I get fed by doing what God asked me to do. My nourishment comes from helping people. My food, my strength, my peace, my joy, my satisfaction. It comes when I serve others. Sometimes you can work all day and naturally at the end you're kind of tired. But there are times when you serve others. You get up early to help that coworker. You swing by the hospital and pray for that friend.
Starting point is 00:12:19 You mow your neighbor's lawn after work. You should be tired and run down, but you leave re-energized. you leave stronger, you leave refreshed. Why is that? Because when you do the will of your father, it doesn't drain you, it replenishes you. Many of you today, you serve, you volunteer here at Lakewood, maybe in your community. You get up early and go to church on your day off to work in the children's ministry, to sing in the choir, to help others. Maybe you go clean neighborhoods on Saturday morning with our community outreach.
Starting point is 00:12:57 Perhaps you spend an afternoon at the prison encouraging the inmates. You'd think you'd be tired, run down, man, I've got to go home and rest. I've been volunteering all day. No, just like with Jesus, when you do what he asks you to do, you're being fed. Strength comes, energy comes, joy comes, peace comes. You should be run down, but when you serve others, God re-charges, re-energizes, refreshes. you don't leave down, you leave up. You don't leave low, you leave high.
Starting point is 00:13:31 God pays you back. I know every time I leave this auditorium after a service, I always leave stronger than I was before. Why is that? Because when you serve others, when you make somebody else's life better, when you lift people, when you help heal those that are hurting, not only are they being blessed,
Starting point is 00:13:54 but you're being blessed. you're being refueled. You're getting filled back up. Now, if you never have any energy, no joy, no strength, one reason, not the only one, one reason may be because you're not doing anything for anybody else. You've got to get your mind off of yourself. Go to the seniors home and cheer somebody up. Bake your neighbor a cake. Coach the little league team.
Starting point is 00:14:23 When you lift others, God will always lift you. and this should be something we do, not every once in a while, if we have some extra time. No, this should be a lifestyle where it's a part of our nature. We're always looking for ways to be a blessing. And it doesn't have to be something big. It can be something small. Simple words of encouragement can brighten somebody's day. One time Victoria was walking through the hallway after service, we had just dismissed,
Starting point is 00:14:56 There were hundreds of people in the corridor. As Victoria passed a young lady, she stopped her, looked her in the eyes and said, You are so beautiful. Ten second conversation, no big deal. They both went on their ways. A couple of weeks later, the young lady told me how that was a turning point in her life. She had just gone through an abusive relationship, and she felt so unattractive, so bad, about herself so beaten down by life. She said, when Victoria said those words, you are so beautiful,
Starting point is 00:15:34 it was like a chain was broken off of my mind. Something came back to life on the inside. The scripture says, kind words work wonders. All through the day, we can serve God by speaking kind words, giving a compliment, giving encouragement. Hey, I love you. you. Hey, you look beautiful. I believe in you. I'm praying for you. Simple things can make a big difference. And really, this should start in our homes. It's great to serve people when you're out in public. That's important. But make sure you serve your own family. Husbands serve your wife. Honey, I'm going into the kitchen. Can I bring you anything back? Or let me run. Get your car filled up with gas so you don't have to tomorrow.
Starting point is 00:16:26 Let me help the kids do the homework. You take a night off. Be a blessing to your spouse. I'm convinced if we would have this servant's mentality, more of our marriages would stay together. Now, I know husbands that they expect their wife to do everything for them. I'm not going to serve her. I want her to serve me.
Starting point is 00:16:46 Cook, clean, bring me my food, make sure my clothes are washed, keep this house straightened up. That's not a wife. That's a maid. You might as well call a cleaning service. You can hire somebody to do that. If you want a wife, if you want a friend, a lover, somebody to make your life great, you've got to serve that woman. Make her feel special. Bring her breakfast in bed. Pick up your own stinky clothes. Help with the children. It's not a dictatorship. It's a partnership. Well, Joel, the Bible says the wife. The wife. I have a feeling there's more ladies here than men, but
Starting point is 00:17:29 Joel, the Bible says the wife is to submit to her husband. The only scripture, a lot of men know. Yes, but it also says the husband is to love his wife like Christ loved the church. Jesus modeled a servant's attitude. He had all the power in the world, the most influential person
Starting point is 00:17:53 that ever lived. Yet he bowed down and washed his disciples feet. He could have hired somebody to do it. He could have called an angel down from heaven and said, hey, wash their feet. I don't feel like it. They stink today. Matthew's got some fungus on his toes.
Starting point is 00:18:09 Peter needs some odor eaters. No, he willingly bowed down, pulled out his towel, washed their feet one by one. He did this as an example. So we would know we're never too important to be good to people. You're never too high. to where you can't bow down low and serve somebody else. The more humility you walk in, the more you serve others, the higher God can take you.
Starting point is 00:18:37 And some of you, if you'd start serving your wife, serving your husband, you'd see that marriage go to a new level. I heard about this guy. He was bragging to all of his buddies about how he was the head of his house. He said, yeah, I'll run things around my house. about that time his wife walked up. He said, I run the vacuum, I run the dishwasher. Victoria and I made an agreement when we got married
Starting point is 00:19:03 that I would make all the major decisions. She would make all the minor decisions. It's funny, in 26 years of marriage, there's never been a major decision. Let me ask you, who are you serving? Who are you lifting up? Who are you being good to? Be on the lookout for ways that you can be a blessing.
Starting point is 00:19:25 God puts people in our path so we can brighten their day. A few months ago, I was able to baptize nearly 800 people on a Saturday. There was an older gentleman there that he had had a stroke and he didn't have any kind of mobility. He couldn't walk and they rolled him in in a wheelchair. The young man that was pushing him, he looked to be about my age. And you could tell he really cared about this man. He went to great lengths to make sure he was always. okay. To get in the baptistry, you have to walk up some stairs and then walk back down into the water.
Starting point is 00:20:02 And some of the workers lifted up the older gentleman. That young man, he put one arm under his knees, one arm under his back, and he carried him into the baptistery waters. It was a very moving scene. Seeing this older man crippled, couldn't walk yet. He was so determined. He wanted to be baptized and seeing the young man carry him down into the waters. After we got him baptized, we put him back in the wheelchair. I said to the young man, is that your father? He shook his head and home. I said, well, is he your relative, your uncle?
Starting point is 00:20:37 Who is this? He told how he was a random man that he sat by one Sunday at Lakewood. Never met him before, but it was the Sunday that I announced that I would be baptizing people in water. The older man turned to him and just, in passing said wow I wish I could be baptized I guess I waited too long I can't walk anymore so guess I missed my chance the young man told him that he would help him to get baptized that older man said I don't have a ride and I don't have any family here and I can't walk he said don't worry about it I'm going to take care of you he went and picked him up got him to
Starting point is 00:21:16 the fourth floor had him baptized he had only met the man one time before my prayer is God help us to have that same compassion. Help us to not be so busy, so preoccupied with our own affairs that we can't serve somebody else. God is asking us today, will you carry someone? Maybe not physically, but will you help lighten their load? Will you help make their dreams come to pass? Will you go out of your way to be a blessing to them? helping less fortunate people is the closest thing to the heart of God.
Starting point is 00:21:56 I will never forget that image of that young man carrying that crippled man into the baptistry for as long as I live. I could understand it if it was his father. It would make sense to me if it was a relative, a long-time friend, but he did it for a total stranger. He gave up his Saturday. He could have been out goofing all. off on his day off, down at the beach, working out, hanging with friends. Nothing wrong with that.
Starting point is 00:22:25 But his attitude was, I have an assignment. There's somebody God put in my path on purpose so I can serve. Somebody I can brighten their day. Somebody I can make a difference in their life. Jesus said, when you do it to the least of these, you're doing it under me. I love the fact that this young man, he wasn't looking for any recognition. He wasn't making some big announcement. look at me, everybody, I'm doing a good deed. He didn't have anybody cheering him on. He was quietly serving this other man. Nobody would have known about it if I hadn't have said something. Many of you like him are constantly being good to people, going out of your way to be a blessing, making sacrifices nobody knows about. But let me tell you, God sees what you're doing.
Starting point is 00:23:16 He sees your heart of compassion. Nobody may be class. for you down here, but up there, all of heaven is cheering you on. See, I realize I'm receiving some of my reward right now. People thank me, cheer for me, clap for me. I'm very grateful. I'm very flattered. But when nobody is clapping for you, when you're not being told thank you, you're not getting the recognition, don't be discouraged and think that you're being overlooked. Your reward will be greater. When people give you credit, that's part of your thank you. That's part of your reward.
Starting point is 00:23:54 But when nobody's giving you credit, the scripture says, what you do in secret, God will reward you in the open. When it comes time for the rewards to be passed out, some of us that are in the front now are going to have to step back. And the people that were behind the scenes,
Starting point is 00:24:14 the ones that volunteered year after year with no great applause, the ones like this young man, that went to great sacrifices to make somebody else's dreams come to pass. The ones that have given time, energy, money that nobody knew about, those are going to be the greater rewards. Not long ago, one of our ushers went to be with the Lord. He had volunteered here for nearly 30 years, as faithful as can be.
Starting point is 00:24:43 He was an older gentleman, and he always dressed nice, had a pleasant smile, a quiet demeanor. I don't know that I ever spoke to him personally, but I remember seeing him month after month, service after service. You could count on him. My mother helped officiate at the funeral. One of his request is that he would be buried wearing his Lakewood Usher's badge. And there he was in the casket, in his finest suit, and on it was the badge that he had worn for nearly 30 years. He was so proud to be an usher.
Starting point is 00:25:17 He could have been buried with anything he wanted, but his greatest honor was serving other people. Don't you know when he arrived in heaven, there was an amazing welcoming ceremony. I can hear the angels sing. I can see people clapping. I can see the trumpets blowing. See, there wasn't a lot of fanfare, not a lot of applause for his life of service and generosity here on the earth. but nothing goes unnoticed, you will be rewarded. The scripture tells how when Stephen went to heaven,
Starting point is 00:25:54 Jesus stood up to welcome him. Jesus is normally seated at the right hand of the Father. But I believe there are times like with this usher when he arrived, an unsung hero, there will be times when Jesus says, you know what, this one deserves a standing ovation. He'll stand up to welcome you home. I heard about this older missionary couple.
Starting point is 00:26:18 They had served over in Africa for more than 60 years, helping the less fortunate people, given their whole life and done so much good. Now they were returning home to New York City to finally retire. It just so happened they were booked on the same ship with President Teddy Roosevelt. He was returning home from one of his big hunting expeditions. When the ship pulled into the dock in New York, York. There was all this fanfare. Band was playing. The mayor and other dignitaries lined up.
Starting point is 00:26:50 Balloons going up in the air. Confetti coming down. When the crowd saw President Roosevelt step off the boat, they begin to cheer. Tens of thousands of them waving, cheering, trying to snap a picture. The missionary said to his wife, doesn't seem right. We've given our whole life to help other people, to give, to serve, to make a difference. He goes on a vacation, and the whole world welcomes him home. Nobody even knows we're here. They got off the ship, very discouraged. That night, he was praying.
Starting point is 00:27:25 He said, God, I don't understand it. He goes on vacation and comes home to the fanfare of the world. We come home after a whole life of service, and nobody even says hello. Down in here, he heard God speak to him. He said, son, it's because you're not home yet. There will be a celebration. There will be a reward. You will hear a band playing like you've never heard before.
Starting point is 00:27:53 It will be the angels. All of heaven will welcome you home. Many of you have been faithful, given, served, volunteered. Be encouraged today. God sees every act of kindness. Nothing goes unnoticed. You will be. rewarded. Remember when you do what God ask you to do, you're being fed. You're getting stronger,
Starting point is 00:28:16 refresh, re-energized. So be on the lookout this week for ways that you can be good to people. If you'll develop this lifestyle of serving, God says you will be great in the kingdom. Now, I believe and declare, because you serve others, you're coming into your reward. You're coming into favor, coming into healing, coming into promotion, coming in to breakthroughs, you're coming in to new levels of God's goodness in Jesus' name. If you receive it, can you say amen today? We never like to close our broadcast without giving you an opportunity to make Jesus the Lord of your life. Would you pray with me?
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