Joel Osteen Podcast - Take a Seat | Joel Osteen

Episode Date: September 27, 2021

Instead of trying to fix things in your own strength, trust God to fight your battles for you. When you learn to live from a place of rest, you will experience greater peace and power. Your best days... are still ahead, and together we can make a difference in this world with the message of God's hope and love.To give visit JoelOsteen.com/GiveHope Subscribe to SiriusXM Podcasts+ to listen to new episodes of the Joel Osteen Podcast ad-free and a whole week early. Start a free trial now on Apple Podcasts or by visiting siriusxm.com/podcastsplus. Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

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Starting point is 00:01:58 come into your homes. And if you're ever in our area, please stop by and be a part of one of our services. I promise you we'll make you feel right at home. I like to start with something funny. I heard about this mom. She was cooking breakfast for her two young boys. Ryan was five and Kevin was three. They began to argue over who should get the first pancake. She saw this as an opportunity to teach them a lesson. She said, boys, boys, if Jesus were here,
Starting point is 00:02:27 he would say, let my brother have the first pancake. Ryan turned to his younger brother and said, okay, Kevin, you be Jesus. Say it like you mean it. This is my Bible. I am what it says I am. I have what it says I have. I can do what it says I can do.
Starting point is 00:02:45 Today I will be taught the word of God. I boldly confess, my mind is alert, my heart is receptive, I will never be the same in Jesus' name. God bless you. I want to talk to you today about keep your seat. In the Old Testament, the priest had to go into the temple at certain times a year and make sacrifices for the people's sins. sins. That's how they had forgiveness. It was all based off of works. There were no chairs in the
Starting point is 00:03:15 tabernacle, no reason for seats. The priest couldn't sit down. They lived under constant pressure. Their work was never done. Another sacrifice was always required. But when Jesus was crucified, he said on the cross, it is finished. He was talking about the old way of having to constantly work for God's goodness. The scripture says he sat down at the right hand of the father. Him sitting is a picture of rest. Under the old covenant, the priests were constantly working, trying to cover the sins, trying to be good enough, trying to make things happen. Under the new covenant, Jesus is sitting and resting. Here's the beauty. Paul said in Ephesians, we are seated with Christ in heavenly places. There is a seat of rest that belongs to you. You don't have to go through life wrought up on the
Starting point is 00:04:14 inside. Worried about your finances, trying to make a family member do what's right. Frustrated because a dream hasn't come to pass. Do yourself a favor. Take your seat. Enter into this rest. When you live seated, you're in peace. You may have problems, but you know God is fighting your battles. People may have done your wrong. You're not trying to pay them back. You know God is your vindicator. He'll make your wrongs right. You're struggling with an illness.
Starting point is 00:04:46 The medical report doesn't look good. You could go around upset, worried. Instead, you stay seated. You know God has you in the palm of his hand. You know the number of your days he will fulfill. David said, though I am surrounded by trouble, my heart will know no fear. for the Lord will bring me safely through.
Starting point is 00:05:08 He was saying, even though everything has come against me, I should be worried and upset, but I know a secret. The battle is not mine. The battle is the Lord's. So I'm going to take my seat. But when you try to make everything happen in your own strength, pay people back, fix this problem, live worried about a child,
Starting point is 00:05:30 when you stand up, God steps back. as long as you're working, he'll rest. But when you sit down, God will stand up, so to speak. He'll go to work. That's why he told the Israelites again and again, be still, and you will see the deliverance of the Lord. He was saying, take your seat. I've got this. I'm bigger than what you're facing.
Starting point is 00:05:55 This doesn't mean that we don't do anything. We sit back passive all day long. We should be responsible. We have to pray, believe, dream, but do it from a place of rest. You can work hard with a rest on the inside, knowing that you're doing your best, and God will get you to where you're supposed to be. Not working hard, frustrated, thinking, when am I going to get good breaks? Why isn't this changing?
Starting point is 00:06:24 Everybody's passing me up. Don't take your seat. Work from a place of rest, knowing that God's favor is on your life. that he's breathing in your direction, that goodness and mercy are chasing you down. Inner rest is just as important as outer rest. Your physical body may rest, but if your mind never rest, if you live wrought up on the inside, fighting everything you don't like, that's going to wear you out.
Starting point is 00:06:53 Even things we should stand against, an addiction, a sickness, dysfunction, if you're always in fight mode, pressured. thinking, I've got to change this, constantly working. It's going to drain your joy, drain your energy. You're living under the old covenant, under works. If I can work hard enough, if I can make myself change, if I can make this problem go away, your heart is right, but your approach is wrong.
Starting point is 00:07:21 Why don't you approach it from a place of rest? God, I can't change this on my own. I need your help. I'm going to be my best. And God, I know you're the podcast. and I'm the clay in your time and in your way, you will help me to change. Instead of doing, doing, doing, the right attitude is done, done, done. It is finished.
Starting point is 00:07:45 God has already defeated every enemy. He's already planned out your days for good. Now take your seat. Live from a place of rest, a place of peace, a place of trust. When I first started ministering, I would get so nervous. I knew I was supposed to step up and pastor the church, but I dreaded having to get up in front of people. All through the week, I'd have to fight these thoughts. What if I don't know what to say?
Starting point is 00:08:12 What if nobody comes? What if people don't listen to me? When I would finish my message on a Sunday morning for about 30 minutes, I would be so relieved and so grateful, then I would start thinking about the next week. What am I going to say next Sunday? What if I can't come up with anything? After about six months, I thought, I am not living like this anymore. I'm going to take my seat. If I had not made that decision, I wouldn't have made it to 40 years old. You weren't created to carry those heavy burdens, waded down with worry, stress, frustration. This is the reason some people have health issues. They can't sleep at night.
Starting point is 00:08:56 They have digestive problems, high blood pressure. It's because they're, they're not. They're not. They're There's no inner rest. They haven't learned how to take their seat. On the inside, they're constantly worried about their child, trying to figure everything out, frustrated because it's taken so long. The psalmist said, be still and know that he is God. This infers if you're not still, if you're not seated, you won't really know that he is God.
Starting point is 00:09:25 You won't see his favor, his blessings, his goodness like you should. when things come against you like with me it's easy to let your mind constantly play all the what ifs what if it doesn't work out what if the report isn't good what if they don't change remember when you're working god is resting if you'll start resting turning that over to god then he'll start working he sees what's happening he knows how big the challenge is he knows who did you wrong The good news is he already has the solution. He's not going to just bring you out. He's going to make the enemy pay and bring you out better than you were before.
Starting point is 00:10:10 Now do your part, take your seat. Quit trying to figure everything out. Some situations, there is no logical solution. You have to turn your mind off in one sense. The scripture says, lean not to your own understanding. It's okay to say, God, I don't see how this can work out. I don't see a way, but don't stop there, follow it up with, but I know you have a way. I know this is not a surprise to you.
Starting point is 00:10:40 You had the solution before I had the problem, so I'm not going to worry. I'm going to live from a place of peace. David said, God will make your enemies, your footstools. A footstool, of course, is something you put your feet upon. It's another picture of. rest. God could have said he would make our enemies like grass so we could walk on them or like sand so it's soft. God used footstools to remind us to stay at rest. When you face challenges, things you don't understand, things that are not fair, one of the first things you need to do
Starting point is 00:11:18 is put your feet up. Come back to a place of peace. You have to do this by faith because every voice will tell you why it's not going to work out. You're not going to get well. You saw the diagnosis. Your family will never be restored. There's too much strife. That's the enemy trying to deceive you into standing up. He'll do everything he can to keep you from staying seated. He knows when you're seated in peace, trusting God, he doesn't have a chance. When you live from a place of rest, all the forces of darkness cannot stop you. God has the final say. It may have been meant for your harm,
Starting point is 00:12:01 but God is going to turn it into a footstool, not just a place of rest, but instead of being a stumbling block to stop you, it's going to become a stepping stone to take you to the next level. It says in Hebrews, labor to enter in to the rest of God. That sounds like a contradiction.
Starting point is 00:12:21 labor to rest. But God used the word labor because he knew it's going to take work to stay seated. It's easy to stand up. It's easy to be offended, try to pay people back. It's easy to live worried,
Starting point is 00:12:37 discouraged by problems. That's why it says labor to enter his rest. It's going to take effort. This is one of the few times that God tells us to work. It doesn't say work to straighten out your neighbor.
Starting point is 00:12:51 labor, work to make the problem go away. He said work to stay seated. Maybe you're trying to break an addiction. Yes, you have to be disciplined. You have to be determined. But if there's a war going on on the inside where you're upset with yourself, frustrated because you're not further along, trying to force it to happen in your own strength, you're not tapping into the grace that's available today. You're like that priest that had to make a sacrifice again and again. No, you're under the new covenant. Christ defeated every enemy. The price has already been paid. You are not working to get the victory. You are working from victory. When you know that you've already won, there's a rest. You don't live worried. You don't lose sleep at night. You know the outcome. God said he always causes you to
Starting point is 00:13:46 triumph. It may not turn out every time the way you thought or on your timetable, but God's ways are better than our ways. This is what trust is all about. What I'm saying is when you live from a place of peace, you'll not only enjoy your life more, but God will make things happen that you couldn't make happen. My parents started Lakewood in 1959 with 90 people. For about 13 years, the church didn't really grow. They had less than 200 people. My father had much bigger things in his heart. At 17 years of age, he knew one day
Starting point is 00:14:24 he was going to pastor a church with thousands, but he wasn't seeing any of that. His friends would come by and say, John, what are you doing out here still pastoring this little church? They meant well, but sometimes your friends can be discouraging. They were saying, John, why don't you stand up?
Starting point is 00:14:42 Why don't you make something happen? why don't you do it in your own strength? My father's attitude was, I'm going to keep doing what I know God asked me to do. I'm not going to be frustrated because it's not growing. I'm not going to slack off because it hasn't turned out my way. I'm going to keep my seat. He lived from this place of rest,
Starting point is 00:15:05 knowing that God is in control, that God is keeping the records. These are tests that we have to pass. One of them is being faithful when nothing is changing, doing the right thing when it's not growing. It's easy to get frustrated. God, I've got bigger things in me. Why isn't it changing? No, keep your seat.
Starting point is 00:15:27 God is watching you. He sees your faithfulness. He sees you doing the right thing when it's hard. And at the appointed time, in your due season, God is going to catapult you further than you can imagine. You are not falling behind. You are being prepared. God is getting you ready. Everything you went through deposited something on the inside. The delays made you stronger.
Starting point is 00:15:56 The fact that you're not as far along as you would like, that was ordained by God. Those people that didn't support you, the people that walked away, you could have become bitter. Instead, you stayed seated. You kept your peace. Now get ready. Your time is coming. God has something bigger than you think, more rewarding than you can imagine. He's going to exceed your expectations.
Starting point is 00:16:20 That's what happened to my father. He ended up pastoring a church with thousands and thousands. But sometimes the reason we're frustrated is we're trying to change things that only God can change. You can't make people do what's right. You can pray for them. You can encourage them. But they have their own free will. don't let them steal your joy.
Starting point is 00:16:45 You are not responsible for other people's happiness. You cannot keep everyone in your life happy. You are responsible for your own happiness. And I don't mean to live selfishly, but sometimes we take on a false sense of responsibility. We think we have to keep all of our neighbors happy, all of our coworkers happy, all of our friends, all of our family. I've learned some people don't want to be happy.
Starting point is 00:17:13 They just want your attention. They want you to cater to them and come running every time they call. If you don't, they'll try to make you feel guilty for not meeting all your demands. What they really want is to control you. Don't fall into that trap. Be nice. Be kind, but don't be a doormat. You have a destiny to fulfill.
Starting point is 00:17:36 You have an assignment. It's very easy. to let people cause us to stand up. Lose our peace, live frustrated. No, sit back down. Stay at rest. I had to learn this lesson because I always felt responsible to keep everyone around me happy.
Starting point is 00:17:55 It was easy when I was young, had a few friends, a few family members. But as I got older and had more family, more friends, cousins, relatives, colleagues, neighbors, I ended up spending half my time putting out fires. calming this one down, cheering this one up, running over here so this one wouldn't be offended. One day I realized, I can't become who I'm created to be if I'm trying to please everybody around me. I had to draw that line in the sand and say, I'm sitting down.
Starting point is 00:18:28 I'm staying in peace. Now, I'm not going to let people who won't take responsibility for their own happiness make me feel guilty and try to control me. And I'm a nice person. I sound mean, but I'm not. I will go the extra mile, but some people are high maintenance. They will drain all the life, the energy, the goodwill out of you if you allow them to. They are not being disciplined to manage their own life, their own emotions.
Starting point is 00:19:00 They'll expect you to keep them fixed. But you cannot fulfill your destiny. You can't accomplish your assignment unless you put up some boundaries and not let people pull you out of rest. Make you feel guilty. Get you upset like you have to keep them happy. That is a codependent relationship. They can't be happy without you. That's not healthy.
Starting point is 00:19:25 Be nice, but be firm. You have to labor to enter into this rest. God wouldn't have said labor if it wasn't going to be unlawful. uncomfortable at times. I know you're like me. You don't want to hurt people's feelings, but you are not doing them a favor by catering to them. You are enabling their dysfunction, and that's keeping you from moving forward. You have to set some boundaries. I'm not going to come running every time they call. Not going to change my plans and not spend time with my family to go help them for the 400th time this month. Some people are alarmist. Every
Starting point is 00:20:05 time they call it to major crisis, a major emergency, it's got to be dealt with right then. I don't know about you, but I have enough drama in my own life. I don't need somebody else's drama. If you're a drama queen, call my brother Paul. He'll help you out. Years ago, I had this friend I went to high school with. We played basketball together, and he's a fine young man. I enjoyed being around him, but he started becoming overly dependent on me. I had to call him. I had to tell him what all of our friends were doing. I always had to go pick him up. I felt pressured.
Starting point is 00:20:41 I was young, didn't know any better. I did it. But he got married. I got married and I didn't have the time like I had before. He couldn't understand it. He would get upset. I'd try to keep him happy. I'd go see him.
Starting point is 00:20:53 Let's go play basketball. Let's hang out. It was never enough. He'd call back again, upset. Got to the point where when I saw his name on my phone, I didn't want to answer it. I felt guilty. so I did, but he'd tell me all the reasons why I wasn't being a good friend.
Starting point is 00:21:09 One day I learned what I'm telling you. I am not responsible to keep everyone around me happy. And I was nice, but I stopped answering his call. And the funny thing is, I didn't feel guilty. I felt good about it. I knew he was pulling me out of rest. There are some people you cannot stay seated with them in your life. if you don't make an adjustment, you'll be frustrated for the next 20 years.
Starting point is 00:21:38 Be respectful, but put up some boundaries. Well, Joel, what if they get upset? What if they don't want to be my friend? Say, thank you, Jesus. They did you a favor. Here's the bottom line. When you get to heaven, you are not going to answer to people about what you did with your life. How you spent your time, how you used your gifts.
Starting point is 00:21:59 You're going to answer to God. your destiny is too important to let people control you. There are a lot of things in life that we can't change. We can't make people do what's right. We can't make ourselves get well necessarily. We can't make a dream come to pass. But we can change our approach. We can choose to not let these things upset us.
Starting point is 00:22:22 We can make this decision to take our seats. Somebody cut you off in traffic. It's tempting to stand up. attempting to get upset. Let me show them. Let me blow my horn. They've already moved on. They're already in the next lane. You might as well sit back down. Don't let a stranger pull you out of rest. It's not hurting them. It's souring your day. A lot of these things are simply test. Are we going to keep letting the same things upset us? The same people get on our nerves. The same delays sour our life. My message today is very simple. Stay seated. This is a freeing way to live. When you know that God is in control, that nothing can happen without his permission, and that he is directing your steps, takes the pressure off. You can live calm, in peace, not fighting everything you don't like.
Starting point is 00:23:17 You have a disappointment. The medical report is not good. I'm not going to worry. I'm staying seated. God is my healer. You have a setback in your finances. You lose a big client. every voice will say, be worried, be upset. That's not fair. If you'll listen, you'll hear the still, small voice saying,
Starting point is 00:23:37 stay seated. God's working behind the scenes. Payback is coming. Abundance is on the way. I wonder how much more we'd enjoy life if we would learn to live from this place of rest. In the scripture, it compares a believer to an eagle. It's interesting how an eagle handles challenges. A crow is one of the eagle's biggest pest. When the eagle is flying, the crow will come up right behind it and pester it, do things to annoy it. Even though the eagle is much bigger, it can't turn as fast as the crow. And so instead of fighting the crow, getting upset, trying to defend itself, the eagle will simply stretch out its eight-foot wingspan, catch the winds and rise higher and higher.
Starting point is 00:24:26 an eagle can fly at heights that no other birds can fly. At some point, the crow will have to fall away. He can't breathe at that altitude. In the same way, we all have some crows in life. Some chickens and turkeys, too. People that want to irritate us, get on our nerves, and do things to try to bait us into conflict. It's easy to get upset and try to straighten every crow out.
Starting point is 00:24:55 But remember, you're an eagle. You can go up higher. You can fly where the crows cannot fly. But if you stay down at their level, try to straighten out every crow and get involved in conflicts that don't matter, that will keep you from your destiny. The crows, the chickens, the turkeys, they are simply distractions. When an eagle faces a storm, there's bad weather in its path, it doesn't bury its head and try to force. forces way through it, fight the winds, fight the rain, fight the thunder. Again, it catches the thermal winds and goes up higher until it's above all the turmoil. Like the eagle, we all face
Starting point is 00:25:38 storms. We all have difficulties. The key is to rise above all the turmoil. You don't have to fight your way through it. Don't let it get on the inside. Remain at rest, stay seated, and God will fight your battles. Too often we're fighting when we should be resting. We're standing when we should be sitting. And yes, I know we have to stand strong. I'm talking about in your spirit.
Starting point is 00:26:05 Even when it's stormy all around you. Things happening that you don't understand, you need to have a rest knowing that God is still on the throne, that he is bigger than anything you're facing. When you're an eagle, when you've learned to rise above the challenges,
Starting point is 00:26:21 you'll be at peace. When You could be upset. You'll have a smile when you could be discouraged. You're showing God that you trust him. You're taking your seat. Sometimes after a long day, I'll be standing in my kitchen talking to Victoria and our children. We can talk for a long time. At some point, I'll tell them I have to go get off my feet. I know when I'm done, when I need to sit down and relax. Maybe today you need to get off your feet. you're living worried about your health and stressed over your finances. Upset because that child still hasn't changed. Why don't you come back to a place of peace?
Starting point is 00:27:01 God has it all figured out. Those enemies you're concerned about, those obstacles, they're not going to stop you. They're going to become a footstool. Instead of laboring to try to fix everything, I'm asking you to labor to enter this rest. You weren't created to carry the heavy burdens. There is a seat of rest that,
Starting point is 00:27:21 has your name on it. You may have been standing for a long time, but God is saying, take your seat, live from a place of rest, work hard, do your best, but on the inside, stay in peace. If you'll do this, I believe and declare. You're not only going to enjoy life more, but God's going to bring dreams to pass. Problems are about to turn around, health, wholeness, favor, victory, the fullness of your destiny in Jesus' name. If you receive it, Can you say amen today? I'd like to give you an opportunity to make Jesus the Lord of your life. Would you pray with me?
Starting point is 00:28:00 Just say, Lord Jesus. I repent of my sins. Come into my heart. I'll make you, my Lord and Savior. Friends, if you prayed that simple prayer, we believe you got born again. Get in a good Bible-based church. Keep God first place. Thank you for listening to the Joel O'S-Deen podcast.
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