Joel Osteen Podcast - The Rewards of Integrity

Episode Date: January 6, 2019

In this message, Joel reminds us about the power of a life lived with integrity. Integrity is the foundation that a successful life is built on. God is looking for people who are willing to live at a ...higher standard. Often, challenges in life are integrity tests—will you compromise when no one is watching; do you live differently behind closed doors? A life of openness and honesty is a life that God can bless. When you live with integrity, God can trust you with great things.Proving your character begins in the small things—in how you talk to your family, how you honor your commitments, the way you spend your time at work. Make the decision to live in complete integrity. Subscribe to SiriusXM Podcasts+ to listen to new episodes of the Joel Osteen Podcast ad-free and a whole week early. Start a free trial now on Apple Podcasts or by visiting siriusxm.com/podcastsplus. Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

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Starting point is 00:02:00 we'll make it feel right at home. I'd like to start with something funny. And I heard about this groom. During the wedding rehearsal, he said to the minister, I'll make a deal with you. During the vows, If you'll leave out all that honor, obey, love stuff, I'll give you $100. He slipped a $100 bill into the minister's hand, walked away with a smile. The next day, during the ceremony, the minister said to him, do you promise to bow down before your wife? Take her breakfast in bed, fulfill her every desire. He gulped in astonishment, said in a weak voice, I do.
Starting point is 00:02:37 He then whispered in the minister's ear, hey, I thought we had a deal. The minister handed him his money back and said, Your wife made me a much better offer. Say it like you mean it. This is my Bible. I am what it says I am. I have what it says I have. I can do what it says I can do.
Starting point is 00:02:56 Today I will be taught the word of God. I boldly confess, my mind is alert, my heart is receptive. I will never be the same. In Jesus name. God bless you. I want to talk to you today. about the rewards of integrity. There's a lot of compromise in our society. People that think nothing
Starting point is 00:03:17 about being dishonest, making underhanded deals, not keeping their word. They wonder why they can't get ahead. It's because they don't have integrity. Integrity is the foundation that a successful life is built on. You can have talent, vision, determination, but without integrity, you won't reach your highest potential. Now, person of integrity does the right thing when no one is watching. They don't play on the computer because the boss stepped away. They don't leave someone out of a commission because they didn't know about the sale. They don't cut corners at the job site because nobody will find out about it. they give it their best whether anyone is there or not.
Starting point is 00:04:05 When you have integrity, you don't take supplies from the office to bring home to use. You don't show up late to work and have somebody clock in earlier for you. You don't spend half the day making personal phone calls at the office. Well, they don't pay me enough anyway. Maybe not, but that's not integrity. If you'll do the right thing, God will make it up to you. He's keeping the records. Many things we face are simply test.
Starting point is 00:04:35 God is seeing, are we ready to go higher? Maybe the bank teller gives you too much money in return. Are you going to have integrity, go back and make things right? Or are you going to say, thank you Jesus. You did it again. That is not the answer to your prayer. Do you call in sick to work, coughing, sniffling, so you can take the day off and go shopping? you could win an Academy Award with that performance, but that's not integrity.
Starting point is 00:05:05 Don't be surprised if you can't find anything at the store. They don't have your size. Nobody will wait on you. Traffic's backed up. Maybe it's because there's no blessing on it. We can't deceive people and expect to have his favor. When somebody knocks on your door at home and you don't feel like visiting, do you tell your child, go answer. Tell them I'm not here.
Starting point is 00:05:28 That works, but it's not integrity. Don't complain when your child doesn't tell the truth. We're leading by example. We can tell our children do the right thing. Stay on the high road. But if they see us compromising, they're going to do the same thing. When you have integrity, you pay your bills. You don't sweep things under the rug.
Starting point is 00:05:52 You keep your commitments. Don't buy things that you know you can't pay for. Well, Joel, I'm stretching my faith. I'm believing for increase. Stretch your faith before you sign on the dotted line. Let God bless you first once you have the funds, then you can purchase it. But it's not integrity to make commitments that you know you're not going to be able to keep. Don't promise people the moon when you know you can't get to the clouds.
Starting point is 00:06:22 Don't write a check and then pray for three days, hoping it'll clear. Check your balance first. be honest, be trustworthy, be a person of your word. Your reputation is one of the most valuable things you have. Proverbs says a good name is worth more than great riches. You can have great wealth and be looked down on, seen as shady. But when you're a person of integrity, when people look at you and think, I can trust them. They always do the right thing. They're honest, they're fair. They're they don't talk to me one way and then talk to my friends behind my back another way. They're consistent. Your reputation is too important to let it become tarnished by not having integrity. When you do the
Starting point is 00:07:14 right thing, when you stay on the high road, that will take you much further than being dishonest, manipulating, trying to gain an unfair advantage. We can't turn in an exaggerated expense account and expect to be blessed. We can't be deceitful on taxes and expect to have God's favor. I knew a man, he tapped into the cable line behind his house and brought cable into his home without paying for it. He was so proud of it. He bragged to us for years how he was saving $40 a month. That man never did rise out of mediocrity, constantly struggled, barely got by. He thought he was gaining an advantage. The truth is he was putting himself at a disadvantage.
Starting point is 00:08:04 You may gain with people, gain some material things, but what if you lose with God? He controls the universe. He's the one that can open the windows of heaven and pour out blessings that you can't contain. I would rather have favor with God than favor with people. That man would have been better off to pay the $40 so he could have God's blessing.
Starting point is 00:08:30 There's a lot we can get by with, hide, exaggerate, but anything we gain without integrity won't be as good as it could have been. It's better to be truthful and have less than God's favor will take you further. But too often we're letting little compromises keep us from the big things God has in store. instead of trying to cross the line thinking how much can I get away with and still get by why don't you try a different approach and see how far behind the line you can stay ask yourself what is the right thing to do if I was standing before God what decision would I make the more integrity you have the more God can bless you John chapter 1 Jesus saw a man named
Starting point is 00:09:22 Nathaniel coming toward him. Verse 47 says, Jesus knew Nathaniel's thoughts. He honored him, saying, here comes a man in whom there is no deceit, an upright, honest man, that is free from hypocrisy and double standards. That should be our goal.
Starting point is 00:09:42 God, I want to be so above board, so full of integrity, that you'll describe me like you described Nathaniel, that there is no deceit in me. Well, Joel, that's not me. Maybe not yet, but it can be. You can become a Nathaniel. You can make decisions that honor God.
Starting point is 00:10:02 When you have integrity, you're the same in private as you are in public. You don't treat people at work nice and kind, and then come home and be rude and harsh to your family. That's not integrity. That's hypocrisy. You should treat your family better than you treat anyone else. Don't be kinder to strangers than you are to your own spouse. Don't be more considerate to coworkers than you are to the people that live in your own house.
Starting point is 00:10:33 Be consistent. Some people on Sundays, it's God bless you, great to see you. They'll wave real big, real friendly. But on Mondays, if you cut them off in traffic, they'll wave with one finger in the air. That's being two-faced. that's a pretender. You have to get honest with yourself. I'm not asking you to be perfect. I'm asking you to be real. You'll never change if you don't first acknowledge that there's some pretending going on. The next time you're tempted to switch over to the pretend you, the compromising you, the dishonest you, put your foot down. Say, no, I'm not going there. That is not who I am. That's an invitation. I am kind, loving, honest. trustworthy, calm, consistent. You talk to yourself that way long enough and you'll have integrity with yourself. You'll become consistent the same on Monday as you are on Sunday, the same at work as you
Starting point is 00:11:35 are at home. This is what I saw growing up with my parents. They were the same in the pulpit as they were at home. They weren't loving in public and then hateful in private. And I believe this is one reason that all of us kids, with the exception of my brother Paul, turned out okay. You can fool a lot of people, but you can't fool your children. They know when there's a double standard. They know when there's not integrity. Our son Jonathan gave me a compliment a while back on my birthday. He wrote, My dad is one of the kindest people I know. He treats everyone he meets with respect. I didn't know that he really noticed, but people are watching. Parents, we are leading by example. This is not to make us feel pressured, but to make us strive to excel, to be honorable,
Starting point is 00:12:31 trustworthy kind, people that stay on the high road. When you have integrity, you're not making underhanded deals, hoping that nobody sees you. If you have to hide what you're doing, it's probably not integrity. I've heard it said, don't do it. anything you wouldn't want to read about the next day in the newspaper. I was at a restaurant years ago in another city. We were traveling to an event. I had brought some lemons in the car that I wanted to cut and squeeze into an energy drink before I spoke, but I forgot the knife. We were going straight to the meeting, didn't have much time, so I thought maybe at this restaurant, I can take one of their knives. After all, I'm paying a lot for this meal. Just a
Starting point is 00:13:18 a $3 knife. They're not going to miss it. They're not going to care. Started reasoning it out, trying to justify taking a knife. I thought, how am I going to get it out of here? The only way is to hide it. I thought I can't do that. I'll get Victoria to do it for me. My partner in crime. I finally came to my sense that, you're a pastor. You are not going to go out of here hiding a piece of silverware. I call the waiter over. said, sir, I need a favor. Can I buy this knife? He went and talked to the manager, came back, brought me a set of silverware in a bag, said the manager said, you can have it. I thought, Lord, thank you. Kept me out of prison. But here's my point. It's much better to be open and
Starting point is 00:14:06 honest. I probably could have walked out of there with some silverware hidden. They may not have seen it, but here's the problem. God would have seen it. The scripture says, It's the little foxes that spoil the vines. I doubt many of you have big areas where you're lacking integrity, but maybe there's some small things. The good news is it's not hard to correct. It just takes a little effort, digging down deeper to do the right thing. It means getting out of ruts where we've gotten comfortable compromising and doing things
Starting point is 00:14:42 that are less than our best. David said in Psalm 101, I will lead a lot of. a life of integrity in my own home. He was saying, where nobody can see me, I'm going to do the right thing. When I could slack off, compromise, give into temptation, be dishonest. Instead, I'm going to take the high road. I'm going to be a person of excellence. I'm going to show God he can trust me.
Starting point is 00:15:11 He went on to say, I will not look at anything impure. Not going to watch things that poison me. Verse three says, I will not have crooked dealings. Not going to get involved in things that are shady and underhanded, unethical. David wasn't perfect, but he made up his mind. He was going to walk in integrity starting in his own home, starting in his private life. We can fool a lot of people in public, but what God is concerned with is what goes on behind closed doors. The scripture talks about the hidden man.
Starting point is 00:15:48 of our heart. That's our motives, what we do in secret. How you live in private will determine how high you go in public. People may not be watching, but God is watching. Don't take that as something negative like, oh man, I'm going to get called. I'm in trouble. Take it as a challenge. God is watching to see when he can promote you. He's waiting to see when you pass these tests so he can take you to new levels. And I wonder, how much higher we would go, how much more favor and promotion we'd see if we would deal with the areas that we know are holding us back. Start making things right. Have an integrity in your finances, in your relationships, in how you treat people. Joel, I didn't want to hear about integrity
Starting point is 00:16:37 today. I wanted to hear about prosperity. You will never have prosperity if you don't first have integrity. The two go hand in hand. I was at a music store with Jonathan when he was 10 years old, buying some equipment for his guitar. When I went to pay, the man told me that Lakewood had an account there, and we could put it on that account. And I told him that this was personal, and I didn't want to do that. He gave me the bill, and the tax on it was $20. He said, at least let me put this under Lakewood's name. That way, you won't have to pay the tax.
Starting point is 00:17:15 Lakewood is a church, and churches are tax exempt. I said, thanks so much, but no, I want to pay the tax too. This is totally personal. He looked at me so strange, kind of shook his head, like, man, you are way overboard. Nobody would know you didn't pay the tax. My company wouldn't know. The church wouldn't know. The IRS wouldn't know. What he didn't realize is someone was watching more important than all those that he mentioned. The most high God sees everything we do. These are opportunities for us to pass the test. If God can trust me to be honest with $20,
Starting point is 00:17:57 maybe he can trust me to handle $20,000 or $20 million or $200 million. I would hate to think I didn't reach my destiny because of small things I wasn't honest in, small areas that I didn't pass the test. Sure, I could have saved $20. But what is that in comparison to have a, the blessing and favor of the creator of the universe. When God can trust you, when you prove to him that you're a person of integrity, there is no limit to how high he will take you. I saw this with
Starting point is 00:18:33 my father. He was a man of great integrity. If there was the smallest question of something not being above board, perfectly ethical, he wouldn't have anything to do with it. Through the years, people would bring deals by. Hey, you got the that big church, all those people. You can take advantage of it, make some extra funds. But my father valued God's blessing on his life more than what any person could come up with. He taught me to have a high standard. And if you don't feel good about something, you have to talk yourself into it, make excuses as to why it's okay, it's not worth it. You will never go wrong by taking the high road. Short term, I could have saved 20 bucks.
Starting point is 00:19:18 long term I may not be where I am. Prove to God that he can trust you, that you'll go the extra mile to do what's right. You may have to say no to some things that people don't understand, not do what all your coworkers do. Maybe they're fine with slacking off. They're okay with spending company money on personal things. Don't judge them. That's not our business, but don't become like them. Don't lower your standards. They're not going where you're going. You may not be able to do everything your family members do.
Starting point is 00:19:56 Watch what they watch. Do business like they do business. There's a price to pay to become all you were created to be. If it was easy, anybody would do it. This takes people that have a made-up mind. I'm going to honor God. Not going to compromise. take shortcuts, do things that are not ethical,
Starting point is 00:20:18 not going to push people down to get an advantage, not going to be sloppy in my business dealings, I'm going to be a person of integrity, trustworthy, honorable. That's the kind of people God rewards. But sometimes when we compromise and do things that are questionable, we think we're gaining an advantage with people. We're getting the upper hand. But when you walk in integrity, you're gaining,
Starting point is 00:20:44 an advantage with God. His favor on your life will take you further than any advantage with people. You may have made mistakes in the past, not had integrity in certain areas. That's okay. We all have. My challenge is start making things right. Let today be a new day. Don't go the next 30 years letting the same things hold you back. When my father was in his 20s, back in the 1940s, he bought two suits on credit from a store in Fort Worth. He had good intentions. He was planning on paying them back, but he got busy and things came up. He never did. Years went by and he'd forgotten about it. One day he was driving through Fort Worth and suddenly he remembered. It bothered him that he had never paid that debt. He got in the phone book but couldn't find the name of the company.
Starting point is 00:21:39 So he drove to the location, but they were closed down. The people next door said they had been out of business for many years. He could have thought I did my best. I tried. He didn't stop there. He found out who the owners were. They had passed away. But he was able to track down one of their children.
Starting point is 00:21:58 He called this man. He was my father's age and explained that he owed them for two suits he didn't pay for back in the 1940s. The man says, sir, don't worry about it. We've been out of business. We're all doing fine. my dad thanked him for being so gracious, but said, no, I still want to pay you. He drove to his house and gave him a check with interest 40 years later. No wonder, God bless my father.
Starting point is 00:22:26 No wonder he took him higher and higher. It wasn't that he just had great talent. He had great integrity. He was determined to make things right. In Genesis chapter 20, Abraham and Sarah had just moved to a new city. Sarah was very beautiful, very striking. Abraham knew when the king saw her beauty, he would want to take her into his harem. He told Sarah, tell the king that you're my sister.
Starting point is 00:22:55 That way he won't kill me just to get to you. Like he thought, the king sent word for Sarah, had her come to the palace. One night the king had a dream. God said to him, why have you taken a married woman into your family? the king said, God, what do you mean? Abraham said she was his sister. She told me Abraham was her brother. In the integrity of my heart, I have done this.
Starting point is 00:23:22 God said in verse 6, yes, I know you are innocent. Because of your integrity, I have kept you from touching her. Now return her to Abraham. This king was about to make a mistake, get off course, step out of God's favor. But because of his integrity. integrity. Because he was trustworthy, honorable, God kept him from what he couldn't see on his own. Proverbs 2 says, God is a shield to those who walk in integrity. He guards their path, watches after them. Like this king, there are mistakes you could have made. Wrong terms,
Starting point is 00:24:03 compromise, but because of your integrity, God stepped in and closed the door. He kept you from the trouble from the heartache. He's guarding your path. Some of the temptation that you resisted, it wasn't that you were so strong? Wasn't you just decided to say no? That was God holding you back. There is a blessing on your life that protects you, guards you when you honor God. David talked about it. God keeps my foot from dashing against a stone. God will not let my enemies triumph over me. When you walk in integrity, God has a shield around you. He's keeping fiery darts from hitting you. He's pushing back darkness. He's not letting the temptation overtake you. He's closing doors that would be harmful. If you want to keep that shield up, keep your integrity.
Starting point is 00:24:57 Be trustworthy. Be honorable. A person of your word. Be somebody that can be counted on. There was a very wealthy man that had a friend that was a builder. This builder had been down on his luck and not had much business. The man felt sorry for him and decided to help him out. He gave him a set of plans with a check for $200,000. He said, I want you to use these funds to build me a new house. You handle all the details. Just call me when you're done.
Starting point is 00:25:29 He assured him he would pay him very well if he'd do a good job. builder was so excited that he finally had some work. But he got to thinking if he would cut a few corners, save a little here, save a little there, he could pocket some of that money without anybody knowing about it. So he went out and found the cheapest concrete he could find. Had the workers water it down so it could go further. He saved several thousand dollars on the foundation. He bought the cheapest lumber. Some of it was old, crooked, warped. He didn't care. He's going to be behind the walls. Nobody would see it. He got the cheapest plumber, cheapest electricity on and on, right and left, cutting corners, pocketing the money. When he finished, he had saved nearly $40,000.
Starting point is 00:26:17 He was so happy. He called the owner over to look at the new house. The owner was very impressed. Look beautiful on the outside. You couldn't tell he had cut corners. This builder couldn't wait to see how much he was going to get paid. He knew the owner was a very generous man. The owner said, you know, I don't really need a new house. I have a beautiful one. I just wanted to help you out. He handed him the keys
Starting point is 00:26:43 and said, here, you just built your own house. The builder nearly passed out. He thought if I'd known it's going to be mine, I'd built it a whole lot better. We may not realize it, but we are building our own house.
Starting point is 00:26:59 We can cut corners here, compromise there. It's not hurting anyone except ourselves. Everything may look fine on the outside. What matters is what's happening on the inside. Are we watering down our foundation, not being trustworthy in commitments, slacking off at the office? What kind of materials are you putting into your house? I'm asking you to be a person of integrity. Do the right thing when nobody is watching. Don't let small things keep you from the big destiny God has in store. Start passing these tests. Be honorable, trustworthy, a person of your word. If you'll do this, I believe and declare. Because you walk in integrity,
Starting point is 00:27:47 God is going to have a shield around you. He's going to keep you from making major mistakes. You're not only going to be protected, but you're going to see promotion, good breaks, new levels, the fullness of your destiny. In Jesus' name. name and if you receive it can you say it been today I'd like to give you an opportunity to make Jesus the Lord of your life would you pray with me just say Lord Jesus I repent of my sins come into my heart I make you my Lord and Savior if you paid that simple prayer we believe you got born again get in a good Bible-based church keep God first place Victoria and I'll be right back to speak a blessing over you.
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