Judge John Hodgman - Juvenile Court With Kurt Braunohler

Episode Date: April 3, 2024

Kurt Braunohler returns as we re-open Juvenile Court! Dads who gotta dance, siblings, and age minimums for William Friedkin's THE FRENCH CONNECTION!Catch Kurt every week on The Bananas Podcast wherever you get your podcasts! He's also on instagram @kurtbraunohler.We are on TikTok and YouTube! Follow us on both @judgejohnhodgmanpod! Follow us on Instagram @judgejohnhodgman.

Welcome to the Judge John Hodgman podcast. I'm bailiff Jesse Thorne. It's been a long time since we have opened up the doors of our juvenile court, but the letters from kids have been piling up. It's time we clear them from our docket. Piling up. Piling up, John, like the toys in a child's uncleaned room. like the toys in a child's uncleaned room. Piling up like the abandoned toys next to the garbage hole at the dump in Western Massachusetts, which I used to look at forlornly, thinking that's the saddest thing I've ever seen.

John, my home right now is locked in an eternal battle between my children leaving small pieces of plastic on the floor of various kinds and my new dog picking them up and turning them into differently shaped small pieces of plastic on the floor of various kinds and my new dog picking them up and turning them into differently shaped small pieces of plastic. Go junior. My name is Judge John Hodgman and this is juvenile court, but this isn't about parents bringing their kids to court for the

things they leave lying around. This isn't like parents with Lego dents in the bottom of their feet because the kids can't clean up. This is about kids who have beef with their parents and with their siblings. We have a very special guest joining us. He is a parent, and he's also one of the funniest people in the world. An incredibly tall person, incredibly charming person, traveled the entire country on a jet ski. He's wonderful. He's the co-host of the podcast Bananas. Welcome back to the show, Kurt Braunohler. Hi, Kurt.

Hello. Hello, John. Nice to see you, Kurt. Hello, Jesse. You're a man whose life has been transformed by parenthood. But I think when I say transformed, I want to be clear. Having known you for 15 years or so, you were a dad 15 years ago, long before you had children. I know. I was, I always say like, uh, like, like my life finally caught up with my looks. I just been looking like a dad for 40 years with no kids. Yeah. Eventually your life

experience, uh, was comparable to the commercial casting notices that you received from your agent. to the commercial casting notices that you received from your agent. The joke was always that, yeah, like, that dad seems too drunk. You know? And now it's like, hey, that dad is too drunk. Kurt, you were on After Midnight the other night on CBS. Wonderful program featuring some of our favorite comedians

like Judge John Hodgman. And it got to the final round. Oh, this was an incredible moment in broadcasting history. You used your call a friend. Yeah. And magic occurred. It was. So the bit that they said, they were like, look, if you lose, you're going to have to call someone and tell them you lost. And then I was like, hmm. And I called Lauren and I was like, what if. This is your wife. Yeah. What if I lost and I called you and you just told me, like, don't come home.

And then she was like, no, that's dumb. And I was like, okay. And she was like, well, no, what if, if you call, you have to explain it to the kids that you lost, like that they're very excited. And I was like, okay, that's much funnier. And, and so then I just told Taylor, cause I've done the show before and I just told Taylor like, Hey, the host of after midnight, Taylor Tomlinson, who hosts the show. I And I just told Taylor, like, hey, the host of After Midnight, Taylor Tomlinson, who hosts the show, I just said, just make me lose because it's all fake, you know, and she and she was like, OK, OK, great. You have a bit. And I was like, we have a bit. And then so I lose. I have to call. And you can hear the kids in the background because it is dinner time. How many children do you how many children do you have? I have two. I have a four

and a six year old, almost four and seven. Four and six-years-old. And Olive is my sixth, almost seven-year-old. And Lauren's like, oh, I tell her I lost. I'm so sorry. And then asks, and then she's like, can you explain it to the kids? Because they were really excited. And then, like, the audience just

goes like, oh, no! And then you just hear Olive's little voice. Come on. Hi, Papa. And then I tell her that you just hear Lauren going, oh, no, no, Olive. No, no, Olive. Olive.

And it just seems like Olive's very, very upset. Olive was like she was just immediately walked away. She's like, I'm going to turn it on the TV and see what what's happening. She thought it was like happening right then and there. Oh, OK. But she wasn't actually very upset, but it sounds like she was very upset. It was really magical. It really looks magical.

But as a child of Brown Oler, Olive knows a bit when she hears one. She knows a bit when she hears one. But I think what was very disconcerting, I think, for her was she could hear the audience in the background, you know, like having reactions, which I don't think she expected. She understood a bit of this comment. She's used to you performing to dead silence. Exactly. Yes, exactly. Well, we've got complaints from a lot of children.

None from Olive, though. We did not receive any letters from your child, Olive. Oh, well, she's got complaints. But maybe we can capture that lightning in a bottle by emailing her by the end of the podcast and see if we can dig up an issue. What complaint do you think she would have with you if you were to ask her? Oh, it would probably be about some unfairness between her and her brother. Right. Because the younger sibling, I do think, gets away with a lot of stuff.

Yes. Oh, yes, that's true. Yeah. I mean, I'm an only child, but I've observed it. Yeah. Also, they get a lot of different kinds of and more attention being the baby. Yeah. And more sympathy on some things.

And I think she feels that even though we try and assuage it. Which reminds me, as a gesture of gratitude for your coming on the show, I have a couple of gifts for your kids. Oh. Yeah. I have a single bit of honey for Olive. And for your younger child, I have a cashier's check for $5,000. Oh, wow. Wow.

That's awesome. I just know what they like. It's good that she knows not to accept a personal check. No, no, no, no. I received an explicit instructions cashier's check only, please. Is a bit an official unit of honey measurement? Yeah. Okay. Only thing worse than a bit of honey is a mega bit of honey. Here's a case from Samantha, age 10, in San Jose, California. Dear Judge John Hotman, which is what I used to call you when I was little. I remember that, Samantha. Love it. Now Samantha's all grown up, and I hope that Samantha can call me Judge John Wrongman. But go on.

My dad, Todd, likes to dance in public, especially in stores. It's embarrassing. Dancing with me at home is fine. Dancing along to Mom's ringtone is also fine. Dancing is fine, as long as no one else is around. But he says dad's just got a dad and that shaking his booty in public is okay. Please make him stop.

Thank you for saving me. I don't know, Kurt. Should we save Samantha from Todd the dancing dad? I wonder, I mean, we should, I mean, I wonder my main question is what is the option here is to rob Todd of his rights to dance? Yeah. You know, Kurt, it's fairly settled law here in the court of Judge John Hodgman that weird dads have an inalienable right to embarrass their children at any possible opportunity. You know, I think we can go to a rule that's often abused in my home.

Yeah. Which is my body, my choice. So we've taught my body, my choice from a very young age to the point where many children in a household, my household, have attempted to use it to justify not going to school because it is my body, my choice. And then that puts you in a sticky situation of having to, you don't want to say my body, my choice isn't right. Um, but then you have to work, have, have side rules about my body, my choice. Um, but still my body, my choice, Todd's body, Todd's choice to dance. Let me ask you, as a dad, Kurt, and you too, Bailiff Jesse Thorne, are there any things that, any behaviors that you are banned from doing by your children? So, for example, my children who are now grown, but for many years, get very upset with me when I say grazie.

Especially in Italy. We visited Italy one time and I said grazie and they said, no, don't do it, dad. No. And now I say it all the time just to annoy them. That's very funny. And is there anything that you're banned from doing? When my daughter Grace is in the car, I'm not allowed to listen to anything on the stereo. Not just music, nothing.

Yeah. I can't listen to the baseball game. I can't listen to music. I can't listen to whatever. I can't listen to a driving meditation. I truly, there's no sound allowed. But I think, like, sound is a big one. Because I have neurodivergent kids, like, they're very sensitive to different kinds of sounds.

So, like, I also, as a broadly speaking, despite the fact that I have in the living room a beautiful vintage Macintosh receiver and turntable and gigantic JBL speakers that are my most treasured possessions, and, you know, maybe, I don't know, a thousand records along the, on the wall. I am not allowed to listen to them. I think that, I think that the, the proper ruling is Todd, Todd, the dancing dad, you

may dance, you have human right to dance, but instead of dancing like no one is watching, dance like Samantha is watching and feel how that feels to know that your daughter, Samantha, is feeling embarrassed because of you. Take that into consideration. She has feelings. Here is something from Sam in Silver Spring, Maryland. I'm almost 11 years old, and I want to watch the 1971 crime movie The French Connection with Gene Hackman and Roy Scheider. How do you know a child is a Judge John Hodgman listener? They want to watch The French Connection.

My dad says, no, as a compromise, he said I could watch Joseph Sargent's The Taking of Pelham 123. Elliot Kalin's favorite movie, by the way. Yeah. And one of my favorites too. Top 10 all time for me, I think. I loved it, but it's not the French connection. I asked my parents' friends and at least one of them says I should watch it. By at least one of them, I think he means one of them. One. Yeah, yeah.

That person is very thoughtful and considerate. My dad is a lawyer. He says, if you rule against him, he will respect the legal process. Wow. Okay. So for those who don't know,

according to Common Sense Media, because I've never seen this movie, commonsensemedia.org, which rates movies for suitability for kids. Wonderful website. The French connection is boring with cursing just for the sake of it and no plot to speak of. That was submitted. Oh, that's a review that someone submitted to Common Sense. That's a review.

That's not Common Sense's final word. Yeah. A professional film critic wasn't like, Boring! Cursing for no reason. Cursing for the sake of it. But you get a more complete plot synopsis from a user named Mission Impossible Tom Cruise,

who says, Parents need to know that The French Connection is a gritty but classic police drama directed by William Friedkin about two cops that are trying to stop a drug dealer that is shipping drugs from France to New York. This classic has great acting, great screenplay, great directing, and overall a great cop film. This is one of the best or the best cop films ever made.

It won five Academy Awards, including Best Picture. And the point is that Mission Impossible, Tom Cruise, has submitted that review as 11 years old. Oh. Whereas the person who just said boring is an adult. So I think it shows that different age groups can appreciate things in different ways. And maybe some kids, especially kids who know

that the original Taking of Pelham 123 was directed by Joseph Sargent, which I didn't know, as opposed to the remake that was directed, I think, by Tony Scott. Yeah, I think that was the Tony Scott joint. In any case, anyone who knows that there are two versions of the Taking of Pelham 123, I would say that Sam is a budding, if not established, cineast there in Silver Spring, Maryland. Silver Screen, Maryland, Silver Screen, Maryland, they should call it. Before I rule on this, Kurt, what was the first R-rated movie you ever saw? Do you remember? Oh, I do. I was, I don't know, between 10 and 12, I guess. I saw, my mom took me to see Christine because Oh, she loves she loved horror.

She loves Stephen King. She loved all of his Stephen King books. And so she really, really, really, really wanted to see it. Single mom. Sure. And so I ended up going with her. How old were you? I what can we look up what year Christine came out?

I was either 10 or 12. 12, I feel like it's old enough. Maybe I was eight. I just remember being like, oh, I don't I I don't want to do that again. John. 1983. Oh, I was seven. OK. Yeah, that. So I was seven years old. And, you know, Christine is a car that kills people. And it was directed by John Carpenter, the master of terror himself.

And seven, of course, is roughly a second grader. Yeah, yeah. Seven. My daughter's about to be seven. I would not bring her to see an R-rated movie. At the same time, I am not a single parent. And it is also not the early 80s where things were loosey-goosey. Absolutely.

But, look, I said that I've never seen The French Connection, and that was true as of yesterday. And I thought, should I watch it? And then I was like, well, I'm not going. I mean, it's a big blind spot in my movie watching because it's a very famous movie. But I'm not going to let Sam and Silver Screen, an 11-year-old, give me homework. I'm a grown-up. I can't just see a movie because he's sam's making me but then i was up at three o'clock with insomnia and i'm like you know what sam you

win i'm gonna watch the french connection on my phone in the middle of the night in bed the way it was meant to be seen and i'm glad that sam made me watch this movie it's have you seen it kurt no i would now i want to see it. I've seen it. It's fantastic. I would argue that the two Common Sense Media reviews that we heard, that it is one of the best cop films ever made and acclaimed,

incredible performance from Gene Hackman and won all those Oscars and that it is boring and has swearing for swearing's sake are both true. And they add up to one of my favorite movies. I mean, I would say, yes, that's absolutely true. I did not find it boring at all. I find it riveting.

One of the reasons that I had avoided seeing it is that it is so famous for its car chase scene. And it's not exactly a car chase scene. It's a car chasing an elevated train. But there's like this groundbreaking, exciting, dynamic, never before and brutal. Like that car takes a lot of damage. It's a really exciting scene. But it's so famous for that that I thought that's probably all that it was. But Frame by Frame is one of the, I mean, William Friedkin did a good job directing that movie.

Frame by Frame is one of the most interestingly framed and paced films of all time. It has a documentary style feel. And Gene Hackman is so good in it. And William Friedkin did not want to give him that role. He wanted to go to paul newman but it's like no like there's a reason why your dad suggested watching the taking of pelham 123 because these are two movies from the 70s set in new york and new york that no longer exists starring the most frumpiest meat men of all time like walter mathau and and and Gene Hackman wearing big, thick dad overcoats and dad gloves and dad hats in New York winter.

It's a real vibe. And the fact of the matter is that like the Popeye Doyle, the character that Gene Hackman plays, is a monster. He is in no way a good person. no way a good person uh and and you should be warned uh sam whenever you might see this film and sam's dad that like it's full of excessively bad language and one word in particular that is particularly explosive within the first five minutes or so um it is a it is gritty it is seedy. It is dark. And the fact that you are watching this guy, Popeye Doyle, pursue this bad guy for no reason other than spite. It's really fascinating. It's a great, great movie. So it's an incredible film. And I thank Sam for the prodding to finally see it. But should I then return the favor and overrule Sam's dad and order Sam to watch The French Connection?

Kurt, what do you think? 100% yes. Really? Mm-hmm. I also feel like Sam's father has opened the door by agreeing to the very official judicial process that happens herein. Right. So then I believe, I think that we are given the right

to order, not allow, but order Sam to watch it. I think it's possible, if I can take what you said one step further, I think it's possible Sam's dad wants to watch The French Connection with Sam, but just needs cover. Like just someone to blame when Sam goes to school and starts using the F word.

He can say, well, listen, my favorite podcaster, Sam's favorite podcaster. Yeah. I think that's what's going on. When he starts dressing like Gene Hackman.

Yeah. Just wearing a beanie pulled down, a big tweed trench coat. Yeah. What if Sam went as Popeye Doyle for Halloween? That would be... Fingerless gloves. Yeah, that would be incredible. But, you know, look, you say you're almost 11, Sam.

So I guess that means you're 10. I hope it doesn't mean you're seven. And I would say, you know, around 11, 12, and certainly into 13, it is time for kids to start experiencing culture that's a little bit above their pay grade. It is okay. It is appropriate for them to be a little bit disturbed and to not understand and um and to seek understanding and that i'm not saying that they should de facto just watch stuff that is r-rated or whatever but i would say that if the if the piece of art is worth it if it is a really good piece of art the french connection really is then I think it's okay. In particular, I would say, Sam, you should really look at how Friedkin frames the shots. You should look at the scene

where the bad guy is having a gourmet meal in a restaurant and you can see Gene Hackman staking him out through the window and he's eating a piece of pizza and having coffee at the same time. It's beautiful juxtaposition. If you're the cineast that I believe you are growing or have already become, Sam from Silver Screen, Maryland, you want to look at this movie, if only for film history and for film composition, because it's really spectacular. And Sam's dad i i wish you good viewing two thumbs up i want sam's dad to know that given this ruling it's really important that sam's dad watched this movie with sam um yeah not just to interpret the bad parts for sam the you know the slur that you mentioned john those sorts of things things, and the sort of dark main character, but also just to give Sam a chance to, like, grow in his understanding of fiction. Like, what a beautiful thing this movie is. Incredible movie. And he'll get so much more out of it if his dad is there to share it with him. Coming up around the corner, we've got juvenile versus juvenile justice.

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that it gets under my skin. I'm asking you to order August to either round up and say that I'm three years older than him, or just say that I'm two years and 10 months older than him. Thank you for your consideration. I feel this one. First of all, preliminary side ruling, August has the wrong name. How could you be named August when you were born in July? I mean, my kid's named August, born in September. What? The best laid plans of mice and men, John. Because we wanted Gus. His name is Gus. Yeah. Okay. That's fair. That's fair. Gus is great. And you had eliminated Gustav for his possibility. Yeah. And Gustav had been... Gustav had been taken? Yes.

Yeah, exactly. Okay. Well, then I take it back, August. Your name is correct. But, you know, Kurt, you are the parent of two children. Are you indeed a sibling as well? I'm both an only child and I have many siblings because my dad had many, many children. Oh, gotcha. For sure. I'm an only child from my mom's side and I grew many siblings because my dad had many, many children. Oh, gotcha. But I am an only child from my mom's side and I grew up with my mom. Okay. So how are you reacting to what's going on between August and Aria? It is a constant battle in our home as well because Gus is two and a half years, almost to the day, younger than Olive.

And Olive, first off, it started as confusion. As it's like sometimes she's three years older than him. And sometimes she's two years older than him. Right. And so we always say it's two years. And it similarly annoys Olive as well. And my approach to it has been and then when gus does insist on it and in stuff like this that the insistence is always a means of getting under the older one's skin and i i say you are in control of whether or not this works. You are allowing this to work.

Right. You simply do not respond and it will stop. But that doesn't work. That doesn't pay off. That never works. But I do want her to understand that she is in control of whether or not she gets annoyed by this. Well, you know, one of the things that's true about parenting is that you can say the wisest things and they will be ignored. Yes. And yet those words still got into their heads. Right. They're in there somewhere. They're in there somewhere rattling around. And someday

a long distant echo will come back to Olive being like, oh, yeah, I don't have to let this get to me. It might be something completely different, maybe in Olive's adult life. Maybe that's when that's when Olive will finally get the message. I think there is a clear way to express this that is also accurate, and that is almost three years older. Almost three years older. Your perception of reality is absolutely true and valid. And I can drop the gavel on that, and I'm going to do it for you right now. There it comes. No, forever.

Judge John Hodgman dropped the gavel. There is no discussion about it. Just let it slide and make sure that it doesn't get on your nerves. And I don't think August is going to do it anymore, or at least less. Don't get him the satisfaction, they say. Here's something from Ruslan in Tucson, Arizona. My name is Ruslan and I am eight years old.

My sister Katya is 13. I want her to stop stealing my limbs for warmth. She does this because she's very cold and I am very warm. I don't like it. When she steals my arm, I can't use my arm. She also grabs my neck with cold hands and I do not like that at all.

I would like a ruling that she stop doing this. Ruslan, thank you for writing that letter, which we have not edited in any way. This is exactly how it is written. Ruslan's sister, Katya, is hugging him or grabbing him or cuddling with him when he doesn't feel like it. And occasionally what we call Homer Simpson-ing him. Yeah, right. Occasional cold hand strangling. Occasional cold hand strangling.

I'm going to say, first off, it is not okay to wrap your hands around someone's neck, even if your hands are cold. Not a good way to warm up your hands is definitely a great way to violate that person's personal space and sense of safety. Their body, their choice. Their body, their choice. I don't know that I can. And I think for stealing limbs as well, I think that Katya's got to get a cold hands off policy enacted here. Don't you agree, Kurt? I mean, it's I have to come back to my my single guiding light, my body, my choice.

Katya, do keep your hands off people without getting full consent and happy affirmative consent. And don't strangle your brother to warm up your hands. That doesn't work. Our guest is the great Kurt Braunohler, and we will have more Juvenile Court in just a moment. Hello, teachers and faculty. This is Janet Varney. I'm here to remind you that listening to my podcast, The JV Club with Janet Varney, is part of the curriculum for the school year. Learning about the teenage years of such guests as Alison Brie,

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And I do have a couple of things coming up now that we turn our eyes to the future. In June, June 29th specifically, I will be returning to curate the comedy stage at the Solid Sound Festival at the Mass MoCA. That's the Massachusetts Museum of Contemporary Art in North Adams, Massachusetts. What's Solid Sound, you say? Well, it's only the Arts and Music Festival, hosted every other year by none other than the band Wilco. Jeff Tweedy leads the band, and he and the band bring not only their own sweet musical stylings to two big shows on Friday and Saturday night in a big old beautiful field that surrounds a former electrical parts factory turned into a large-scale installation art museum. But also there's all kinds of music and food and fun and delights and a comedy stage that's inside. So whether the rain or shining, you're going to see some

comedy and I'm going to be hosting it. Our friend Jean Grey is going to be there. Our friend Dave Hill is going to be there. The incredible Sydney Washington is going to be hosting it. Our friend Jean Gray is going to be there. Our friend Dave Hill is going to be there. The incredible Sydney Washington is going to be performing. Brittany Carney is going to be performing and other surprises. It's going to be a lot of fun. Solid Sound is what it's called, and you can find it by using your search engine. Hey, that's up in Western Massachusetts, but what's happening in... I just want to say I am so excited that someone has tricked Paul F. Tompkins into going to Maine. I mention this because the Waldo Theater in Maine is this wonderful theater that's been refurbished and hosting incredible films and performing arts in Waldo Borough, Maine, which is not that far from Portland. And they have an incredible lineup all the live long day. But they're bringing Paul F. Tompkins and his Varietopia variety show, uh, to Maine.

And that's happening on April 30th. And, uh, I really, really, really am encouraging. I mean, the tickets are going fast. It will sell out. I really want Paul to get a, a real Maine welcome, which is to say icy stairs and no, no reaction whatsoever. No, I want him to get a fake Maine welcome of people who are really excited to see him there. And he's going to be traveling all over the country.

As you know, he's a friend of the show. And I'm so excited that he's going to be going to Maine and also Portsmouth, New Hampshire, and also Boston and so many other places. If you just Google Paul F. Tompkins Varietopia, you'll see everywhere he's going. But please go see Paul in Maine. Jesse, what do you got going on? I'll just say, John, that we have had some really incredible guests on Bullseye lately. Just in the past couple of weeks, Peter Dinklage, John Malkovich, Jenny Slate, the wonderful R&B singer, Sir,

Senator and Basketball Hall of Famer, Bill Bradley. This week, Paula Pell, one of the funniest people in the world, and Shabaka Hutchings, who's one of the greatest jazz musicians in the world right now, as far as I'm concerned. So many cool episodes of Bullseye for you to listen to. And coming right up around the corner, both Alison Brie and Keita Takahashi, the creator of Katamari Damacy. So holy. Well, yeah, that's I mean, talk about S tier level guests. It's hit after hit of the most interesting and delightful over there on Bullseye.

And I'll tell you something. We're just talking about Paul F. Tompkins, our friend, one of my favorite comedians. You know where I heard about him? The show that became Bullseye. Holy cow. Did you know that? The Sound of Young America.

Yeah. I mean, I think that that's the first time I ever heard him interviewed. And I'm like, I like this guy. And you know what? It turned out to be true. Yeah. Turns out he's a genius. And I was like, you know what?

It turns out I like both of these guys. Paul and Jesse Thorne. Top interviewer in the world. Bullseye. Check it out. Let's get back to the courtroom and Judge John Hodgman. Welcome back to the juvenile court of Judge John Hodgman. I'm Bill of Jesse Thorne. Kurt Braunohler is here from the Bananas podcast, our good pal. We're clearing the docket of cases from children. This one is from Musa in Jupiter, Florida. I want to have free control over all screens in the house.

But my mom says no. The people involved are me, my mom, my stepdad, and my two cats. I'm not sure how the two cats are involved. Unless they're cats you know have you seen that's the cats on instagram who like love to watch cartoons there are a couple of different cats that the whole deal on their instagram accounts is like they're they have a special little ches long for watching cartoons a cat-sized ches long and they're constantly waking their person up all the time to get them to turn the cartoons on. They love watching cartoons spirited away as a favorite, which is like,

this is the greatest cat of all time. I can barely get my cat to look at a piece of kibble. Wait, they specifically like anime? Yeah. I don't know what to say. It's incredible. I think that we should do a panel at Anime Con in downtown Los Angeles. Oh, just for cats? Just for cats that love anime. And then film that. Make a fortune.

Some are into Dragon Ball. Some are into Miyazaki. Maybe that's why the two cats, maybe they're into watching television. But we asked Musa his age, and he reported saying that he is 11 and one-sixths years old. How old is your oldest again, Kurt? About to be seven. You got a screen policy in your house that's evolving or taking shape? We have.

It's evolving because we just recently got into a thing called Legends of Learning, which is a... I don't know how they haven't been sued by Pokemon, but it's essentially Pokemon Go, but you have to do math in order to battle. Right. And because it's math, we've kind of allowed it,

but that is usually like 10 to 20 minutes a day for that because they play it together. And then TV, we've been trying to get rid of TV in the morning before school. It takes a lot of work to reduce screen time in a child's life. It takes a lot of discipline on your part. The screen is so easy and that is it's evil, right? Right. But I also don't necessarily consider family viewing of television to be like screen time.

And I know that a lot of people do. Because we're interacting. We're all doing it together. It's collective. That's the way I grew up. Oh, we would eat dinner and watch TV together. What would you watch? A-Team, The Hulk.

I love it when a plan comes together, by the way. I know, me too. You are really watching the best television program. Yeah. Just the creme de... They say peak TV was just a few... Peak prestige television was just a few years ago. They hadn't seen The Hulk.

The Hulk was so good. When would you say that you had control of, quote, all screens in the house? Obviously, very limited, very, you know, limited, very different definition of screens at the time. Yeah. But when did you have full control? Probably pretty early on. But the thing is, is that social media didn't exist. And so now that social media, the evil exists, full control of screens should not be given. Exists. Full control of screens should not be given for until high school, like late high school. I'm trying to push it off. I haven't engaged. Good luck, buddy.

I know. I know. That's the good luck, right? I can tell myself to go jump in a lake. That's John Hodgman. Talk about big brother over here. Talk about big brother 1984. Talk about big brother over here. Talk about big brother 1984. It's a, you know, Musa, I feel you like you are, you are coming up. We were talking about another 11 year old or near 11 year old, and it is not inappropriate developmentally for you to start seeing some stuff that's outside of your, you know, a little above your pay grade. But the stuff that is online compared to the endless reruns of Gilligan's Island and Three's Company that I watched in the afternoons when I got home from school, it's a lot more extreme.

And that's an issue. And there is an entity. I think that that is my main issue, is that there is an entity engaging the brain. Once you have an artificial intelligence that is geared towards your child's brain and trying to feed it things that it will drop dopamine, that I think is where we get into a problem. So as long as you're not engaged with a neural net of any sort. I mean, I have to say, like, it's really, really challenging. I think that full control of screens

is something that's going to be part of your kids' lives before they are... What did you say? You wanted them to be 35? Like high school. I want at least high school. Yeah. Middle school, it's going to be an issue is there middle school in la we just send children straight to set

yeah they have their tutors on set exactly exactly like it does it seems like at this point the rule of thumb tends to be phones kids get phones in middle school right or wrong i'm just saying that that is sort of where it's at yeah and so it's not surprised that musa is starting to feel like if not now at 11 and 1 6 musa is going to have friends soon who who have phones and have access to a lot of stuff and And there is a lot of parental control software that you can use and et cetera, et cetera. And I guess you can use that. I mean, do what works for you.

But I think that the only and best thing to do is to offer a lot of modeling of behavior, of what you watch and what you engage with. Um, showing kids, your kids stuff that is really good. Like watching television together as you do, Kurt certain,

certain television is not merely not evil, but kind of essential. Mr. Rogers adventure time, the French connection, the French connection to, uh, yeah. And in terms of social media, Mr. Rogers, Adventure Time, The French Connection, The French Connection 2. Yeah, and in terms of social media, you owe it to your kids to start talking now,

before they even encounter it, that there is stuff that will get to them. Highly sexualized material, highly explicit material, a lot of right-wing recruitment material, if you can even call it the right wing. There's a lot of bad stuff out there. And more so now than ever, I think you should be having a conversation, Musa, with your mom, your stepdad, and your two cats about what the algorithm is and what it's designed to do and what it's going to do to you. I have really strong screen time feelings, John,

which is that I think all children should have the childhood experience that I had at my father's house. My father was a single dad from when he had my mother divorced when I was a young kid till when he remarried when I was eight or nine. So we had a good run from like four to eight of my dad being a single dad in an apartment. And my dad only cooked, he only knew how to cook pasta, steak, and salad. And we couldn't really afford steak. So it was just pasta and salad.

And we had a, this is in, I want to be clear, the late 80s. We had like maybe a 10 or 12 inch black and white television. We would watch one episode of Cheers. And then we would watch that classic father-son bonding television program, the McNeil-Lehrer News Hour. PBS News Hour is what we would watch together. Here's a pitch then, based on that. Do you remember the small seat booths at airports where you could go in, put a quarter in, and

then watch black and white TV on a 10-inch screen? Yes, and bus stations as well. And bus stations. Yeah. If we have one of those installed in the house, then that child has total control over that screen. I love this. This is like when the Brady Bunch got a pay phone.

Oh, Moosa, you don't get any of these references. And that's why I am also ordering your mom, stepdad, and two cats to get you a bus station chair with a coin-operated TV in it that will only show you episodes of The Brady Bunch so you can catch up. Catch up and go back in time with our Gen X and elderly millennial ramblings. Believe me, that's going to be the most exciting television you ever watched.

Here's something from Oliver, age nine, in Brooklyn, New York City. I really love graphic novels and I want my mom to read them to me. My mom, Emma, says graphic novels aren't real literature and are too boring to read to me. I would like the judge to rule that my mom will read me at least one chapter of a graphic novel before bed every week. Thank you for your consideration. Ah, I feel this one. Go on, tell me. Olive started reading very young

and gravitated towards, once she was done with like kid books, gravitated towards graphic novels because the, like the, just the word count of a chapter book, I think, was intimidating. And now it is her preferred, although she has moved on to chapter books, it is her preferred book, our graphic novels. And I have decided to take it as a win, even though I would prefer her to be on chapter books. Even though I would prefer her to be on chapter books, and I keep explaining, like, with the graphic novel, it's one person's imagining of what it looks like and feels like.

Whereas with the words, it's you. Like, you get to actually, it's what you would imagine. Right. And so I've been trying to work with that, but I've just taken it as a win. If she's reading a graphic novel, I'm fine with it. John Hodgman all the time saying like, I listened to this book on audio books, but my friend Dave says I didn't actually read it because I didn't read, read it or whatever. And that is true that that's a different, a different way of experiencing the work, but one that is as equally valid as reading the prose. And similarly, I mean, I think that yes, you are having the images drawn for you by the artist or the illustrator of that book, by the creator of the illustrator of that book. But the compensation is you get to encounter some wonderful art, you know, and obviously comic style storytelling is ancient, perhaps even older than prose.

And it's a very, very valid way to engage with story. And I get it. But that said, it is, as a parent reading to a child, reading a comic book or a graphic novel is harder. It is harder than reading a regular old book. Because there's also large sections where it's like you say one word and then it's just look it, look it, look it, look it. And you have to match pace. It's very awkward.

Yeah, yeah. Yeah, yeah. I mean, it's a little bit more challenging. Not that I didn't do it and love to spend that time. I mean, any amount of time that you're reading with your children is good, is, is infinitely valuable. And,

uh, and so, you know, my inclination is without further information to rule in the side of Oliver. Uh, I have a sinking suspicion that Oliver is not giving us the full story. I have a sinking suspicion that Oliver is saying, us the full story. I have a sinking suspicion that Oliver is saying I would like the graphic novel to be read instead of my mom reading or my parent reading a

regular chapter book, a chapter of a regular book to me. That could be. And as long as it's not instead of, I'm okay with it. He's only asking for one chapter a week. A week? I thought a night. One chapter a week. Oh, this is very reasonable.

This is a reasonable child. There is, as they say on Reddit, missing, missing reasons here. We did get some more background. So on the one hand, Oliver specifically wants Emma, his mom, to read Dog Man by Dave Pilkey. You're familiar with this, Kurt Brown? Oh, yes. He's an excellent author. He has very cool style and he invented the patented flip and fight, I think it's called, which is very, very funny. He invented he wrote the Captain Underpants series as well. He invented, he wrote the Captain Underpants series as well. Jordan, Jesse Goh, and I did a fundraising show for the station at the base of the UC Santa Cruz campus where the cars come in with the remote equipment.

We brought out the remote equipment, blew the dust off of it, and recorded an entire episode of the show in public in our underpants. And when we did that, Mark Maron was one of the guests. Mark Maron. one of the guests. My friend Mark Maron. God bless him. But when we did that, I had the idea to write a note to Dave Pilkey's publisher and say, hey, we're a community radio station. Could we have some copies of Captain Underpants to give away as thank you gifts for our Underpants fundraiser? That's great. And they sent, I'm talking about a cubic yard

of Captain Underpants books. And what I didn't tell them is like, this is a small community radio station. We were hoping for maybe 15 people to give money, 20 people to give money. And so there was just free Captain Underpants books in the lobby of KZSE for three years after that. Wow.

But I've always been so grateful. They sent the most encouraging note and we're like so excited about it. Oh, that's awesome. And Dave Pilkey does wonderful, wonderful work for kids with learning differences as well. And, you know, his work is really well-tuned to kids who, you know, there's a lot of kids who read graphic novels because parsing text is challenging for them. Yeah, I was just going to say, a friend of our show, John Kimball of David Reese and John Kimball's Election Profit Makers just was talking about he has a brain difference called aphantasia, which it makes it difficult for him to picture concepts in his mind, like

to imagine. So, you know, the part of the joy that we have of reading is creating a mental picture of the castle or the dragon or Popeye Doyle in a, you know. Are you reading the novelization of the French Connection? I am. That's my next project. Got it. But some people maybe have difficulty and the pictures are a real help in terms of them comprehending and enjoying the story. But Captain Underpants, not uncontroversial due to the underpants content over here on Common Sense Media. Free in Faith 99, an adult gave Dogman two stars. Oh, come on.

They say the covers of these books make them seem innocent, fun, and a perfect book to get reading, but they're truly disappointing. He just crosses the line as what would be deemed inappropriate and to the minds of young children. Because of these books, my son thinks it's okay to write cuz, C-U-Z,

instead of because. And then Free and Faith goes on to say, Oh, you got trouble. Because of these books, my son has quadrupled the amount of potty words, he says. But of course, Free and Faith writes spells quadrupled quad R-O-O-P-L-E-D. So there it is. I'm closing the tab on you, Free and Faith. You're wrong.

Yeah. Free and Faith. It sounds like what Free and Faith needs is a boys band. You're wrong. And Oliver, I think you're right. But one thing we might not have considered is that Emma might have their own feelings about graphic novels and comics that might be personal, that might explain their resistance to this? And would it shed any light? And I have permission to use Emma's last name.

Would it shed any light if I were to tell you the true fact that Emma's last name is Batman? No. That may be their childhood trauma issue. And I don't mean that Emma's parents got murdered after they went to the opera. It was the movies, Jesse. It was Zorro. Yeah. I don't know whether Emma dealt with any Batman-related teasing on the playground that maybe made her turn her back on the world's greatest detective and all of his illustrated ilk but uh dog man is not batman emma and and comics are good so read them to your child

even though it's a little bit of a different experience as a reader i'll say this you know my friend jordan who with whom i did that in advance broadcast and with whom i host the podcast jordan jesse go he's got a young adult graphic novel on the way called Youth Group. Look at this. There we go. I say pre-order that, lock it and load it for when that kid hits 12 or 13. Make it happen. Youth Group by Jordan Morris.

Wait, how old is Oliver? Age nine? Yeah. That's old enough certainly to watch the French Connection, but I'm not sure. Yeah, I was going to say that's prime exorcist age don't watch hey hey oliver don't watch the exorcist don't you'll do it it's not okay too much too scary too much too scary can i just recommend uh reina telgemeier's oh of course young adult graphic novels are fantastic smile guts what are the other ones we don't have to remember all the names.

Drama. They're really wonderful. Yeah. And I like them most because the dad in them is a San Francisco Giants fan. My kids always run to me holding it. Look, this dad is a Giants fan too. Okay, that's it.

Our docket is clear. Everybody's already pre-ordered Youth Group by Jordan Morris and acquired Z to the Space Girl for their younger children. Wonderful book. And everyone's gone over to Kurt Braunohler's social media. I mean, I'll say to Musa, you are allowed to check out Kurt Braunohler's social media. You can find it at KurtComedy.com.

That's Kurt with a K, comedy with a C. dot com. That's Kurt with a K. Comedy with a C. Kurt is also one of the hosts of the very funny podcast Bananas that's about strange stories in the news, strange behaviors by persons as reported in the news. Yes. Strange news and storytelling

is how we say it. I can't wait to listen. Let me re-say that. It's one of my favorite podcasts. I to every week. Judge John Hodgman, created by Jesse Thorne and John Hodgman. A big welcome to Natty Lopez, our new social media director. And this is important, Kurt.

Okay. If anyone out here is listening and they have dank Judge John Hodgman memes, we want these memes to be very dank. Yeah, yeah, yeah. Not medium dank. No mid. No mid Hodgman memes. We want these memes to be very dank. Yeah, yeah, yeah. Not medium dank. No mid. No mid memes. Dank memes.

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Do you remember when we spoke a couple episodes ago with Abby and Tyler about top five lists? Yeah, I sure do. So a lot of people are, Kurt, we had these nice young people have a little dispute about top five lists. And if I remember correctly, Abby was an actuary and we wanted some hot actuarial gossip from her office. Hot actuary gossip. And she told us some. She spilled the tea. We had to redact it. We had to bleep it out because we didn't want anyone to get in trouble at her office and people have been begging us to know what's the actuary goss and you know what we we are we are people of our word and you will never know but it did

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