Juicy Scoop with Heather McDonald - Britney Pregnant, Only Fans Killing, JLo Engaged and Billionaire Matchmaker

Episode Date: April 12, 2022

JLo got a green stone for her sixth engagement and a second ring from Ben Affleck. Will Smith has been banned from the Oscars, and Jada said she did not need defending. Only Fans model stabbed her boyfriend dead. Was it murder or self-defense? Gina Hendrix is a matchmaker for the billionaires and the uber-wealthy. We go through the biggest dating mistakes and best ways to present yourself in real life and on your dating profiles. Where are the best places to go to meet the eligible wealthy men? We cover it all. Enjoy!  Subscribe on Apple Podcasts to get exclusive Extra Juicy episodes every Friday and get all episodes of Juicy Scoop, ad-free Or get access to Extra Juicy on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/juicyscoop To bring your brand to life in this podcast, email [e-mail] Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

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Listen in, listen up. Woo-hoo, and a McDonald. Juicy scoop. Hello and welcome to Juicy scoop. I have a great show for you. I've got a fabulous interview with a matchmaker to the billionaire men. That's going to give you guys some really great tips since we're getting some juicy conversation. Now, let's just get into the hot topics. I first want to say thank you to Tempe improv everyone

there in the Phoenix Scottsdale area that came to my show. I had a much better weekend than the last time I was there. One of my lovely meet and greets Patreon was a the doctor that jumped up on stage and helped me. It was great to meet her in person and also a nurse. It was really fun shows and I wore my tennis shoes and my helmet and it was just perfect. It had a great, great time. So thank you for that everybody. So now let's get into the other exciting news besides my triumphant return to stage, which at one time me falling on stage as a stand-up comedian was the most viral moment on stage

until Chris Rock stole my thunder. But I'm okay to pass on that crown. And breaking news, according to Britney Spears Instagram account, she declared she is pregnant. She posted a beautiful photo by Andrea McClain, a photographer of a pink teacup, which appears to be coffee in it, and some pink carnations. It's also the flower of the National Sorority Gamma Phi Beta, which I'm part of, and she said, beta, which I'm part of, and she said, I lost so much weight to go on my Maui trip only to gain it back, a bunch of emojis with hands up. I thought, geez, what happened to my stomach? My husband, who is her fiance, Sam, they are not officially married. We is what we know they're not married, but you call them husband. Said, no, your food pregnant silly.

So I got a pregnancy test and, oh, well, I'm having a baby. Four days later, I got a little more food pregnant. It's growing. If two are in there, I might just lose it. Emoji faces. Obviously won't be going out as much due to the pap's getting their money shot of me,

like they unfortunately already have. It's hard because when I was pregnant I had perinatal depression. I have to say it's absolutely horrible women don't talk about it back to some people considered it dangerous if a one complained like that with a baby inside her but now women talk about it every day. Thank Jesus we don't have to keep the pain a reserved proper secret. This time I'll be doing yoga every day spreading lots of joy and love to hearts. Everyone's going crazy. Literally every news outlet is reporting this. Some people saying is this just one of her kind of quirky posts? Just kidding y'all, it was just a food baby.

I just, I don't know why y'all take me. It's my Instagram post so seriously. I don't know. We know that she wants to have a baby. We know that she'd love to have a little girl. Hope, hope if she has a little boy, she'll be just as happy. And we haven't heard from Sam, so we'll see. But I had to break in right now and get this in there that she has announced, according to Instagram, that she is pregnant.

Also in Britney Spears news, Chris was on the show last week and he said he thought he spotted a pet poo in the back of one of her fashion shows in which her stomach looked very flat, okay? The post right before this one she's wearing low rider jeans which her stomach looked very flat. Okay, the post right before this one, she's wearing low-rider jeans and her stomach looks very flat. So I don't know why she thinks it's not. Anyway, she has a new assistant named Vicki who responded and said,

that's not a dog poop under my post of us talking about it. I took this video and it's part of the plant that the puppy and the cat we're playing with. Well, thanks Vicki for cleaning that up, but clearing it up. But I'd also say, if you're going to do a dancing video or a fashion video, if there is a weird leaf that you're cat and dog are playing with, maybe pick it up. Just, you know, if you're the assistant who's doing the video. And if you're the assistant that helped put this Instagram post together, congrats on

Britney's pregnancy. And the other big news that came was Jen and Ben got engaged. Jen has this very unique lime green diamond. Now this is the sixth engagement ring she has received and the second from Ben Affleck. The first one was a light pink diamond which was very unique at the time. So this is even more unique. We've never seen anything like it. And the way she announced it is she went on Twitter and her other social media and said, I have some big news. Please go to on the jl.com and join my email list and I'll tell you the news.

And I just kind of was like, wow, this chick just never stops. I mean, she's collecting email addresses to get the scoop out. Well, of course, every one of us a scoop out that she got this ring. Now, I wanna say it, it's not my favorite. I love a colored stone.

Lime green is not for me, but when if it was my sixth engagement ring, maybe I'd be like, you know what? Let's do a lime green. Let's do a fluorescent lime green. Let's do a deep purple. I don't know. I mean, she has literally has six rings. So because she was married first, to the first guy who was like a waiter like they were struggling. Then she married Chris Judd, the dancer, a choreographer. Then she married, what's his name? Oh my God, what is his name? The one that she had children with.

Anyway, the singer. Then she got in, oh, in between Chris Judd and the singer, she got engaged to Ben Affleck. And she married the singer, which I'll have his name in a second. And then she got engaged to A-rod. I don't know if she gave back that ring, she shouldn't have. And then she got back together with Ben Affleck. And let's remember who we need to thank for the fact that they are getting married again, engaged again.

And that is Southern Charm cast, okay, because it was Madison LaCroix who was supposedly allegedly talking to A-Rod in which Craig, the pillow guy, screamed it out at a reunion. That all became common knowledge to the world in which J-Lo then dumped A-Rod, leaving it open for Ben to re-enter her life, and now they're in love. I don't think Jennifer Garner cares. She's got her capital one card She can go on a shopping spree and be like good runs. So What was his name mark Anthony, okay? So

but I had said On my just skip obsessed. I'm not in love with the green ring. So face reality 16 a great Instagram account She got all the deets on this. So, it is a 8.5 carat natural green cushion modified brilliant cut diamond. It is like very, very, very rare and it synchronizes with nature and tranquility and represents life, health and associated. Youation. It's a big deal. So I don't know. I think it kind of looks like a jolly rancher.

That's just my opinion, but happy they're getting married. Apparently the $50 million estate that they were going to get in Bel Air, the deal fell through. I'm not worried that they can find another house, even in this crazy market, I'm getting guests that their offer would prevail. Okay, let's talk about the latest on Will Smith. A woman's soul is a great Facebook account and there's been so much that has happened. She put it together really great, so I just want to tell you everything that has transpired

since the slap so you know where we're at. So he is banned from 10 years of the Oscar ceremony. Okay, so he cannot go back to the event for 10 years, though they did not take his Oscar away. He is one of his films was canceled, and Bad Boy's Four was also canceled. Fast and loose movie, he was shooting for Netflix, has been canceled. The movie I am Legend 2 no longer wants it,

and they offered it to Michael B for their for the role. He was expelled from the Academy of Sciences and Cinematic Arts. He didn't resign. He was fired. So that's a different thing. Jada, his wife didn't mac them up in an interview for American Weekly. That's us Weekly. And she declared she didn't ask to be defended. Chris Rock's brothers are looking for him. They publicly said, we're going to tear you apart because one of them, I know, is a standup. I think he said that in his show. No producer wants to really work with him.

It appears. And their dramatic series, Bel Air, reboot of Bel Air Prince, is being not well received by critics. And at this moment, he's in some rehab to control his depression and temper. Also, Jada went on the red carpet last night for some event with a Shonda Rhymes. And I don't know when she's coming back to the red table talk. But yes, it was interesting. She was stopped. I believe it was us weekly. And she said, you know, I wasn't, I didn't,

I don't need anyone defending me. Meanwhile, meanwhile August the guy that she had the entanglement with he has dropped a song with the words entanglement in it and apparently is maybe gonna get a book deal I heard that allegedly to tell his story so he you know for hey on the bright side his life might be on the upswing but nobody else is really in this scenario as far as the the Jada and Will and their family. So there we go with that. Jesse Smollett, he also released a song claiming innocence weeks after him leaving jail. I have not heard the song. I just thought that was interesting. As you know, he was convicted. He went to jail, they did the appeal, and they said,

we believe he should be released while we examine the appeal. So there you go with that. Now, Real Housewives of Beverly Hills, the trailer came out, and I can honestly say, I'm one of the many people that got chills, tingles down there, the whole thing. It's going to be really good, at least what they showed us looks to be very good. people that got chills, tingles down there, the whole thing. It's going to be really good, at least what they showed us looks to be very good. In one of the scenes, Erica says two things. Erica Jane, as you know, I described in the last episode that now, you know, her trouble

are still there with the Tom Gerardi case. She's been named in the $50 million lawsuit, specifically herself. At one point she's talking to the girls and she says, I don't care about anybody else, but me in this scenario. So everyone's like, what do you mean you don't care about the victims, being Tom Girardi's victims who are already victimized, he then represented them. They won their money that they deserved and then he took it. And then she allegedly went dancing and padded her push with it.

I don't know. So at one point in this one scene, they're dressed up, I think, doing like a 70s type of party. And she said, you're not going to make me look bad, Garcell. And Garcell says, you don't need me to do that. You're doing it quite well on your own. People loved this little tiny part of the trailer, but you know who didn't love it? Erica Jane.

And apparently, a bunch of them have stopped following each other. And the thing is, is that if you are no longer friends with someone or they're pissing you off and you don't want to see them having a good time this weekend, you can just mute them. So when I think celebrities specifically unfollow people, they want that person to know, but they also want the fans to know that we are in a beef.

It's a whole, something page six actually writes articles about. So, but she, inner trash can, pretty much, this is from her Insta story over the weekend. She wrote, at Garcell, even though you unfollowed me, I'm sure you'll see this with a little lip emoji. And in this trash bag is Garcell's latest book that is the paperback, which is what you give to people before it's available to everybody else, which is her life story. So I guess she gave it to all the girls

and Erica threw it in the trash. Also disturbing what's in this trash is it looks to be a black trash can, not a blue. Blue is what we do here in LA for recyclables. She's got a red bull can in there, a plastic bottle, and then she's got like an old telephone. And I just want to say, you know, gosh, it's too bad that Erica didn't go to Cresby High School this weekend because they were accepting all old electronics that you could have recycled the proper way. So anyway, they're in a beef, then meanwhile there's a great

scene with Kathy Hilton in which Lisa Rena, by the way, I'm using her lip stuff, I really do like Lisa Rena's beauty, Rena Beauty is actually really great, okay, but she's sitting there and she's like, oh, you're so angry. And Kyle is crying and she says something to Kathy, why do you treat your sister like this? I am gonna make it my business. And then Kyle's like, Kathy, I feel like you hate me. So we are like, what's going on because we know that Kathy kind of

exited the show halfway through and wasn't in like lots of the last events while they were filming. So it is gonna be juicy. Then there's this new girl named Diane Jenkins who's this really pretty blonde, who's this very wealthy socialite, and she says you're looking for a new villain. Well, here I am. Well, the stuff that came out about her in the last two days by some of my favorite Instagram blogger type people is so explosive that I'm too terrified to even talk about it. Start looking it up. See

which come up on your own, I'm literally too, I'm not comfortable saying what some people are finding and what they believe she might be involved in. If it is in fact true, it is by far the worst crime that any celebrity from Bravo has ever done, but I literally won't even touch it. So if that's the case, it makes me wonder, my God, is Bravo seriously, are they looking for people because they know that that's what makes a great season, is a criminal charge. What is this? Or is this just, you know, misinformation that's coming out because it's been a boring season and other franchises?

I don't know. JoJo Siwa heard me. My prayers have been answered. She first got rid of the pony, which I just like wanted to to give her a head- like a head-scalp massage for years. Got rid of the bows and got her hair in a really short cute sassy way. And seemed very happy about it and posted it on Instagram and people reported on it.

However, she did come forth and let people know that it was not her choice, that she was not at the Nickelodeon Kid Choice Awards this weekend in which she had appeared for many years. She said she wasn't invited. Now, I really don't know why she wasn't invited or if she should have been invited. Is she necessarily in the kids' choice world anymore? Did the kids want her to be there? Has she kind of graduated to more mature audiences because she is not a teenager anymore? I know, she's at least like 19 or 20 now.

Or was it because she is an out lesbian now and she wasn't wearing her bows anymore? So there's a lot of interpretation there. Nobody I we don't know the truth right now. But anyway, she's happy. Her head is free. Good for her. There's a very sad crime that happened. Came out over the weekend. An alleged only fans girl. I mean a killer if they're calling her killer but it's a big story because this couple is very attractive.

The guy is a professional type of guy, he's good looking black man strapping. This is his girlfriend of like I think at least like a year. She is an only fans model with a big only fans account, social media following, she's on TikTok, all the stuff. She is a very attractive bikini type blonde girl. And the police were called when she said she stabbed her boyfriend. It was one stab room, but it caught, it's like in the middle of his chest, and by the time we got to the hospital, he was dead.

She said she stabbed him in self-defense. So, but she was arrested for the crime, but they're not, I don't know, now I'm not sure if she was arrested. They're still figuring it out because they're believing that, is it self-defense, is it not? Her mother said that she went

and tried to help her daughter through situations. People are saying it was a very tumultuous relationship. There's people on his side saying that she was the aggressor. There's people on her side saying that she had told them that they were fighting and things were happening and that she didn't feel safe in the apartment that they shared together in Miami. Meanwhile, she's out after the death of her boyfriend at a hotel and people know who she is and are like, why are you enjoying yourself having a drink here?

They're following her around. So people are very invested in this crime. There was also a TikTok that she did at one time that someone did the duet of or inserted themselves in there in which they predicted that this would this relationship would end badly. So there's just been a lot on social media about this. Very, very sad for this young man's family, but we'll see what evidence comes out. Also another really sad juicy crime update. You remember the horrible story of the man and his wife

from Santa Barbara, California. They had two little kids, or like a four-year-old, and maybe at 10-month-old. And he took the kids, and he killed them in a very horrible way with, I don't even want to say how that was, but they found out that he was like, know losing his mind and it was a lot of QAnon kind of talk and he thought that they had some type of demon inside of

them whatever. Of course everybody just immediately felt for the woman they weren't separated they weren't fighting it was like what is going on did she know how well now according to people magazine, they found text exchanges between Matthew Coleman and his wife on the morning of the kids murders. And they're very disturbing in the fact that she is, I'm here for you. We're in this together and all this kind of like weird rhetoric is like, was she on the same page thinking about this but not aware that he had any plans to kill their children or was she in fact part of it somehow

it's very disturbing and something that nobody thought would be the case when we first heard about the horrific crime this was also a trial with the Parkman shooter, which I can't believe this jury, this is finally happening now, but the parklin, okay, it's a horrible, that is horrible, but there was one kind of light moment in the jury picking. This woman is being questioned by the judge,

who by the way, the judge in this case looks like she's like a super model and She's interviewing this woman about okay. Well, what days might be issues for you? She's like oh, I've got a birthday here. I've got a birthday there Well, I don't really think that could show to jury duty and then she says and I have to see my sugar daddy every day Judges like excuse me. She's like yeah, I have to see my sugar daddy every day So I don't think this jury you know being on jury duty every day is gonna be like excuse me. Just like, yeah, I have to see my sugar daddy every day. So I don't think this jury, you know, being on jury duty every day is going to be very upsetting to my sugar daddy. This went viral. So I'm guessing she did not get picked for the jury and gets to spend extra time with the sugar daddy. This, this season. Anyway, guys now for my very juicy interview with Gina, the matchmaker,

to the billionaires and more, get ready to have some fun and hopefully gain some tips if you're out there in single or if you're like me and you're married but you're just intrigued by the dating life, this is an entertaining one. Hello and welcome to juicy scoop. Well myicy Scoopers have been asking for an episode like this. As you know I'm happily married for many many years but I'm obsessed with dating and I've got a dating expert Gina Hendrix who has a book here that great manhunt. I've found you on TikTok and you are the the secrets of the billionaire matchmaker and I came you on TikTok and you are the secrets of the billionaire matchmaker. And I came across your TikTok.

Welcome. Thank you. One of your TikToks that I thought was really good as, you know, there's so many documentaries, so many stories about these dirty John, these fake guys that, you know, oh my god, he said he was a trust, he had money coming from his aunt and he was a Navy seal and he's like tip but they all seem to to drop on to the same and well he couldn't have social media because of this because he's in the CIA and because and you said

something like that's bullshit like yeah you know what are some signs of like don't believe this person right so so there are I have some clients that are on social media and some that that are on social media and some that aren't on social media but I think though when I was talking about specifically in that scenario and then I'll answer is that like if a guy is on social media and he's private that part to me is is a little for a guy I feel like sometimes they're up to something and usually it involves multiple ladies yes you know I mean that's usually a men wanna argue

like on that TikTok and say, oh well we don't wanna show off and that. And that's not, I mean I'm not talking about showin' off. I think more than likely if a guy has his Instagram private, he's just up to something. He's up to something, he doesn't want other ladies to know. Okay so ask me that question again, sorry. But the question was, what are some things?

Telltale signs. Yeah, to look out for to say, you know, is this guy really rich? And I'm just not used to dating such a rich person. So I shouldn't pry or are these the red flags that like chances are this guy is probably not being truthful. Well, I think when I talk to a lot of ladies there, I mean, God, this one woman sent me an email and this thing went on with this man and she thought he was so rich for like two years or something.

And he never met her in person. Like he always made excuses. He even, she even ended up buying her own ticket to, because she wanted to crack the case, you know, and she went to Texas and she wanted to meet him. And then this man showed up at the airport that was huge and overweight and like looked nothing like who she was expecting. And she faked her way through it was polite. And then this guy in the texting her saying, Oh, that was my bodyguard. We were texting you. It's like, I mean, testing you. We were testing you. It's like the thing is, if it feels like bullshit, it is bullshit. I mean, there is no, you know, I think as you know, we're raised on these fantasies

these books where you know the actually frog actually turns into a prince, you know. And so we, and so we, there's deeply rooted in us where we really want to believe that, you know, pot of gold at the end of the rainbow. Even if it doesn't sound right or make sense, but the truth is if it doesn't sound right, if it doesn't sound right or make sense. But the truth is, if it doesn't sound right, if it doesn't make sense, that's because it's not going to ever make sense. Do you know what I mean? So I just think, I think we just, the signs are obvious. I think we just tend to overlook them, you know what I mean?

Like he should be, you want a guy who's going to be transparent about who he is, about his life. He can get together with you. He's available. He's not totally unavailable. And it's all shrouded in this mystery that's weird I also just think women fall into it because they come on so strong and they love bombing you and they say you're the greatest thing on earth and why wouldn't you want to believe that of course why blame anybody finally somebody gets me I've

always don't know as fabulous finally I know. I've always known as fabulous. Finally, I know right. Right. I met the guy who really thinks I'm this fabulous. Right. And it's like, but then even when you hear the flattering things, you can't let that become your rose colored glasses so that you don't really, so that you don't see and hear the other things that just aren't adding up, you know.

Yes. Because they're right there. And it's like, a man who is legit will, and if he's truly hot for you, and I've said this in my TikTok, they wanna get together with you. They're gonna make time to see you. They're gonna get to you anyway they possibly can.

They're not gonna put you off. They're not gonna prolong it. Or, you know what I mean? And so this is what I hear from ladies a lot that ends up getting them frustrated and upset. prolong it or you know what I mean and so yeah this is what I hear from ladies a lot that ends up getting them frustrated and upset and you know and taken for a ride you know because they they knew things didn't but they were hoping they wanted to believe because the other side of that coin is that then you're cynical and jaded which perhaps I am but I know too

much you know but there's a little bit of like, you know, he's just not that into you. And then when you just when you think it's dead and he's ghosted you, then they reappear. And then you're like, oh my God, I've wasted so much time, maybe he really was busy. I'm not seeing anybody else and I don't want to have a completely empty slate. Yeah.

I want to have a little something spark to look forward to. You know, so it's like kind of a hard, I understand why some women have a hard time really like cutting it off. I understand that too, but I think that, you know, and so I have a private Facebook group for women called Badass and Brilliant Women. And boy, they are coming in and draws from TikTok now. And they are asking the questions.

And it's kind of fun. We're having all these interesting conversations. I'm like, this is not just about dating, ladies. It's about everything, but We're having all these interesting conversations. Like, this is not just about dating, ladies. It's about everything. But they're talking about dating. And a lot of them are talking about scenarios where a guy did string them along for too long. And how do I notice the signs and all this stuff?

And I understand. I mean, it's flattering. But then you just have to be careful. If it doesn't add up, it doesn't add up. Yeah. Do you watch any real housewives? No, okay. Well, there is a scenario.

But I read the gossip's pages and stuff. So there's a scenario with this girl, she's one of the most popular ones, her name is Teresa. Okay. She's a niece or whatever. Yes, so she's divorced her husband. She did a year in jail. Yes.

She did four years in jail. He lives in Italy. She's got four girls that are like teenage 20 four but yeah, yeah, okay, and she falls in love with this guy named Louis Okay, and you know aesthetically they match like he's fit. She's fit. He's cute enough and But there's all this shady shady stuff about him. Yeah. But he presents her with money. He's done a private jet. He wins her over, but he has two ex-fiance days

that have spoken poorly about him and said that he, you know, there were some accusations of not treating them right. And Teresa's like, I don't want to hear about his past. I don't care. You know, it's about the future, about the present. And now there's like a couple lawsuits that are happening with businesses where he like giving,

oh, one person, 144, that 144,000, another 144,000. There's another thing. Yeah. And she's like, I don't know if I'm going to get a prenup, but I'm going to get married anyway. And it's like her personal and everything. She's just so happy to have, because he was a total love pre-napped, but I'm getting married anyway. And it's like her personal and everything. She's just so happy to have because he was a total love bomber.

Does she come off as a dingbat a little bit or no? I saw her on celebrity apprentice years ago. She was on there, but she didn't seem like a total dingbat. But the way you're imitating her makes her seem like a dingbat. I mean, I think that they have great sex. I think she's physically very attracted to them. And I think after being with the husband for over 20 years, and I don't think I think he cheated on her. There's evidence that he cheated on her, the ex and then wasn't nice to her, you know, and I think she has a lot of resentment that he's the reason why she went to prison and why she missed the last year of her mother's life, because then the mom died when she got out. So I think

she, so that ended. Right. So this guy comes in and it's just like, he can't keep her hands off of her. How did she meet him, do you know? She said she was walking down the street and with her friend and he drove up and stopped the car and started talking to her. And of course, he said,

I never heard of real housewives of New Jersey. I never knew who you were, which a lot of my famous friends when they would get with someone, they would be like, and he'd never even seen the show. And I'm like, oh really, but he dated these three other actresses before. So you don't think he knew who you were, like, you know.

I'm glad you brought this topic up actually, because I was thinking about, Janet Tick talk about this. So many of celebrity women, settle for these losers. And then their publicists make them sound like this dream guy. And it's like they marry to do that, that maybe presented well. And they talk themselves into wanting to be in a relationship so badly. But he's usually, it'll come out later. I don't know how long they end up saying, married

that, you know, spent time in jail or owes these back taxes or, you know, whatever his financial troubles are. And I just, I hate to see that, but it happens over and over and over again. I mean, I think she lays in bed at night and knows that she shits. She shits. There's a lot of red flags.

Yeah. But I don't want to prove to the world. I don't want to prove to the world that they were right. Right. And I was wrong. I can see that. This prove, how am I't want to prove to the world I don't want to prove to the world that they were right and I was wrong I can see that this prove how am I ever going to find a guy that these this cute that I'm not attracted to that dress me this nice That doesn't you know that doesn't have this. I don't want to cut my losses. I want to keep This fantasy going. Yeah, don't want it to end. She wants that lemon to turn into lemonade Yes

And I think you know and then being on the show, this gives her a whole nother season of planning the wedding and everything. So she gets something out of it too, though. Yes. For sure. But I mean, I think I'm fine with her marrying him. I just think she has to really have a prenup

and keep her finances and keep it all separate. Yeah. So when he, if he does get in trouble or something, it'll never affect. Yeah, she lives or have her own home that he's not on title of. Like that's what if she was my friend, I'd be like, you want to be in love, go get very good fine, but do not mesh your money, don't get involved in the businesses. They all should do that. Because he's obviously not the ideal businessman. I don't even think, I mean, I don't

know. I don't think she should marry him at all, but I'm saying, if that is your goal, if like your goal is, I just want to man in my bed and in the sky, like goes down on me and is gonna be with warm dick and a whole body. Yes, and I just want to me, that's it, that's it. But then just like, like if there's three different losses going on with your businesses,

that shows you that there's a common denominator going on that how are you doing your business is problematic. Let's just say that. It's problematic if it's happening this often. Yes, very much. I do. I think too many of these ladies settle and maybe it's convenient.

It works out, but sure enough, you'll hear down the road. And it's just like, I don't know. I think Jennifer Aniston did it right. You know, they never, never legally got married. I knew that. I knew that Justin through it. Yeah, Justin through it. I said that. And I, um, do you know if, if, um, Gwyneth Paltrow is really married to her second husband? Oh, that's a good question. Probably not. I bet you not. Yeah. I was like, yeah, they had their thing. And then, then, because I was like, this is the easiest break I've ever heard of. There's no way they were actually really married,

but they wanted to have, she wanted the world to know, and people to know that we are committed, and this is our love together. But kind of a smart thing to do, especially when you both are worth that kind of money. Yeah, I agree. And it's like, oh yeah, she did it the right way. And I almost think, I was too bad that Teresa like can't do that. But all these bravo like internet will

know that she didn't actually have a marriage license. But like, but really, I think that's what she wants. I think she wants the world to know I got a man. Right. She's from that old school Italian thing. Yeah, yeah. She doesn't want to be 15 and single or not married. But actually what she should do is just have him be your boyfriend and never marry him and then let him deal with his finances and all that stuff. That's exactly what she should do. But I think that comes from, there's definitely insecurities going on there that, you know, because if you care about what people think and you know, celebrities a lot, you know,

you buy into it, it's part of what you get on that train you know um... you you buy in to the what people are saying online about you and everything and you feel this pressure and i think she feels the insecurity and she needs to be validated and you know yeah it sucks though honestly because i think a lot of these women get into relationships where they secretly know you know oh i may have to put the bill or i may have because i know i know this ridiculously gorgeous woman and she's so wealthy and everything and it pretty presents her younger good-looking husband and the mayor in number of years now like he's got money to and that i you know when they in

all these pictures but then i know somebody that knows them says no she's putting the bill for everything behind the scenes you know because that's again that's embarrassing and it really shouldn't be at this point. Right. Like it really shouldn't be like, if you're that wealthy as a woman, it's probably gonna be hard to find someone

exactly at your level. It is, that provides, and why can't you be like the rich man that has a really pretty wife that maybe doesn't make a million dollars a year, but she's a great decorator, she's a great entertainer, you like to work out, like you love her. Because there's the stigma. It's the stigma and it's like,

and then you have to prove to the world or you have to, you know, your publicists have to make him sound like, yes, or like try to get his own business going, which then now that's muddy waters for you, like, you know, because then it's like, you know, it's real, it is hard. So when you're dealing with these, with the billionaire guys, and you have one that's like, you know, because then it's like, you know, it's really, it is hard. So when you're dealing with these, with the billionaire guys, and you have one that's

like, you know, good looking and nice and everything, they're all good looking. What is there, what is their complaint? Why is it that they have been unsuccessful or what are they hoping that you will bring to them that they are unable to get on their own? I, well, it's a tall order, but I act more as gatekeeper for my guys. Do you know what I mean? Like my guys don't have any problem meeting ladies and the ladies like them, but my guys are ridiculously picky.

So so picky, you know? And because, listen, and I try to tell these ladies out there that like these guys will date them, you know, they think that's everything, but it's not. It's like when it comes time for these guys will date them, you know, they think that's everything But it's not it's like when it comes time for these guys to get married, you know, if you look at I mean There's exceptions, but for the most part if you look at like big celebrities like you know Well like Kanye he wanted a woman, you know, remember that song she ain't a gold digger Whatever he really wanted a woman who had her own money they all did want their own money they want a woman who who is successful and accomplished and that's who they really want to end up marrying me jazzy i mean i'm

giving music examples but right yeah even elan musk like the crime star on the crime she has her own thing going on maybe not a successful they don't necessarily care that you're as successful but they definitely want somebody who is definitely has it going on and isn't somebody who necessarily needs them you know yeah and so I'm I'm tasked to find everything on the list like she has to you know listen the perfect prototype is the supermodel with the master's degree who who visits the orphan children in this in Sudan or you know what I mean that's like whoo but then here's the thing

oh so we're searching a lot of times on instagram my scouts and myself yeah but then the celebrities are dropping into these women dm like they're getting dm by chris pine and kanya and and the lakers and the dodgers so those guys are my competition for these ladies like it's a race to the finish line because they get snatched up right off the market so soon These hot these fabulous fabulous girls. I mean yeah, they're not on the market long Choo choo choo. Yeah gone Gina just start seeing somebody but I'll let you know if I'm single again

Okay, and the next thing you know you read that thing got married to that celebrity guy or whatever. I'm a baby. Yeah so She got married to that celebrity guy or whatever. I'm going to baby. Yeah. So, um, what can I do? Do you get frustrated when you have the billionaire client and you, and you know, he starts dating one a girl that you found and he seems happy. Then does it, does it get to like a counseling session where he's just like, but I don't like this or I sure. Yeah. What are some of the conversations?

What a, but I have those conversations with the ladies too. So it's like, even though the women aren't my clients, I care very much about them as well, which also makes me different than most matchfakers. You know, I care about my ladies, and so I want them to be able to talk to me and everything. And it's kind of cool because I do get to see both sides behind the curtain, you know, I think his perspective hers, and it is a unique perspective. And so I will talk them through it like, well, okay, I'll tell you a good example, but kind of it's a good thing I come here because a lot of times,

if in the real world when people are dating, if a guy let's say, isn't feeling it or isn't sure, usually he's never going to turn around. It's never going to change for him. But what they'll do is they may still keep and women tend to do this sometimes they'll keep them on the hook just because well she's nice but they know she's not the one well that's when I step in and I say we got to call it we can't I'm not gonna keep her on the hook thinking there's something happening if there's no potential so then I kind of step in and I say let's make a decision and then happening if there's no potential. So then I kind of step in and I say let's make a decision and then they have to make a decision and we call it and you know and just on it I believe in honesty and so there's like a doctor like no I'm gonna say yeah

yeah like we have to make it I'm calling it 12 14 yes exactly the death of the dating the devil dating so so things like that i've also had couples they ended up got getting married but there was there's always going to be that first speed bump in the road that a couple hits and if there's if if they're smart they keep in touch with me because then i get to see both sides perspective and i've talked quite a few down from the ledge when they were going to like oh it's it this is over

and it's usually just a miscommunication. It's never been anything where anybody was like cheating or anything was like that. It's just more of really communication issues. And then I'll step in and I'll say, well, here's what she told me and how she feels. And then he hears it through me, her perspective, and then I'll share his perspective

and then somehow they've gotten back on course. Yeah. What about when you find a girl, how much research do you do on the girl? And then I'll share his perspective and then somehow they've gotten back on course. Yeah. What about when you find a girl, how much research do you do on the girl? Like what if she has an only fans? What if she's been a rule of a baby? I usually rule them out if I know that. That yes.

Or even if on Instagram, like just all ass, hi, here's my ass, my ass and my ass and my ass, it's like, yeah, no, that's not going to work for me. Or when a woman fills out a profile and she literally for the guy, because you know, you answer about yourself and then about the kind of guy for you. For a file for you. Yeah. Any, any, any, any for guys like any, don't care any age, any height, any, that's a red flag for me.

You know what I mean? You know what I'm saying? She'll take any I'll do. Right. So it's like, well, on the one hand, these women that are so particular, they put me through hell, you know, I respect that more than the, because then I know that she's, she legitimately cares about who she's going to partner with versus somebody who shows up and says, just give me anybody any rich old dude, you know what I mean?

It's like, I'm not in that business, you know, I've had a girl who, she was fantastic in every way. Six-foot tall blonde, blue-eyed, looks like Victoria's secret model, Danish, even, which is always a bonus for some reason. And so I met with her, I interviewed her, and she was very sweet. She was like 25 or something.

And then afterwards, she called me and she said, Gina, I just want to be honest with you, which I'm so glad about. She said, I just want to be honest with you. I really just want someone to pay my bills. And I said, I always thank them for their honesty because I'm grateful. And like, thanks for the honesty,

but I'm not in that business, you know? And then I heard later, and I was like, why do you even, you're so gorgeous, and you could like, be on runways, like why do you, you know, I've got a lot of bills, I don't know, whatever. A lot of people, not to sound like Kim Kardashian, but a lot of people don't wanna work. No, right, and it's just, it do you, you know, why I've got a lot of bills? I don't know, whatever. A lot of people, not to sell like Kim Kardashian, but a lot of people don't want to work.

No, right. And it's just, it's a very interesting thing and I joke about it because it's like, I came from the generation where my mom was like, you know, so excited that women could do whatever they want, make your own money and don't depend on a man and all that. And then there's these younger girls that just wanna do a blow job for Chanel bad Chanel bad right and they brag about it on Instagram

and all the other hose are like go girl you get your bag and I'm like wow where are you going to be at 30 and I also also think like I always thought like a funny like romantic comedy movie would be something that was you know a girl is a sugar baby and then she falls in love with the guy over dreams and She meets his family and like his uncle is her former sugar baby like. Oh, that's fun Could that guy still marry her knowing that she Didn't want to work. She didn't want to buy her own show now I mean, what does that say about somebody? They usually won't marry those women right? They usually won't you know

And I did an instagram tiktok about that and uh... set set the tiktok on fire where i said you know if you really want to stand out be a woman that cannot be bought yeah they went up in arms about that that they want to be bought it's like it's like it's like it's like a cyclical

they think it was so like yeah and that's their form of feminism like you know and that can that can be true too but i knew it i knew it's true back in the day and in the nineties and i love she was awesome and she was like not your typical stripper skinny skinny from canada travel all around was the guest star and uh... and she love she said jean i have and she would read a nice nine or you know what is and all of a sudden, she's very smart. But she just loved taking advantage of the man and stripping and getting their money.

And she felt empowered by that. And so I say, but, but, but in her case, I think she was actually saving her money. She was getting dollars. These women are just getting items and I don't know if it's smart. I think stripping honestly is different than like being a sugar baby. Oh, I know you're straight up boning for money and doing stuff for money. Right. I always, I call it hooker light, but it's still, you're still, I was like, wait, would

you just say, you're still, you're still you are. That's what it's still, isn't it? Yeah, fair enough. And, hey, you know, it's like they won't call themselves a sex worker, but what it's still isn't enough and hey you know it's like they won't call themselves a sex worker but like it's just become it very normalized right and almost like celebrated because we're such a society about showing off that you have a designer bag or whatever and people are like well and then if you criticize that person then the comments are like oh you're too ugly to get someone to buy you a bag and I mean that's

like the comments that go back and forth. And it's like, all right, to each of them. But I do think what I'm trying to say is like, if you really see your life, I'm saying like, if you're a young girl and you really see your life, like I want to have a lifelong husband, I want to experience life together,

I want to raise children together, I want to babysit our grandchildren together. That's what I want eventually. At 25, I don't mind giving a blowjob for a Chanel bat, but by doing that, I do believe you're jeopardizing the end goal. It'll come back to haunt you at some point. In fact, I just had a conversation with a client yesterday and I had to tell him, I'm not 100% sure it's true. You just don't know if anything's true. But he said, this one girl I'd set him up with, and she sells real estate.

She's beautiful. They're both young. And he says, yeah, I was with a guy friend and we ran into her at a bar and he said, you know, man, she's been like, you know, prostitute. That's a well-known fact. And I had to tell my client, I'm like, well, just because this guy says it, does not make it true.

You know, I mean, you also have to keep that in mind. I mean, like, did he pay her for sex or he said, oh, it's a well-known thing. By who? One guy that maybe got mad, she didn't like, who started a rumor. I mean, I get mad about that stuff too, because we don't know what's true. You know, unless you're the guy who actually paid her, and how do we know you paid her? You know, it's very... or that guy friend is not a guy He's not a friend and he's jealous and it's like trying to kill it

Exactly, so what is friend to right one love? Yeah, they already dated and didn't work at he yeah Whatever this is like a couple years ago, but I just I don't know that whole It's murky waters, but yeah, but yes a lot of the girls are prostitutes unfortunately sex workers is the prep Tiktok says is correct term, but um... i knew i knew a model i know i sex work they correct on everything this is monica she looks very cute and she writes she's a recruiting marketing manager good job she went to any any university

she's catholic she's moderate, politically. And she's pretty in fit and all that. So so many people get caught up with, like, look at this gorgeous scenery behind me, the ocean, though, sorry. I guess that's when she's in Honolulu. But a guy, you have to ask yourself, is a guy gonna say, oh, I've gotta date her because,

I guess she went on a high. Because she went on a great location. Yeah, no, no. Like like i think she's almost like i think there's something that i think there was advice before like you know don't be in a bikini actually be in like an athletic outfit so you look like your athletic and your on a high i also heard that women who a guy who has a dog in his profile does much does well but men don't like to see dogs and women's profiles because they think they're gonna be all about the dog well I'm not gonna be as focused on the boyfriend I mean I think it's it's a

valuable real estate that you don't want to compromise by not having the very best photos not having it all about you you know i mean it's a very limited time people are right now it's it's highly competitive i say it's like the dating olympics you know you wouldn't show up to compete in the olympics like haphazard or tenish you know you train and you'd show up at the right equipment but nobody does it on the dating apps and they want the very best and i guarantee you she wants like

because every woman does and every Man wants everybody wants the best. I think her stuff also because she probably I can guarantee you I can guarantee you if I spoke to her She's gonna tell me that she because there's a prototype of a the same guy every woman wants She wants a guy who's smart and successful and at her level and Darara and she's gonna tell me if she was here She would say oh I just meet these average guys. They just want to play around. They're not at her level and dada and she's gonna tell me if she was here she would say oh i just meet these average guys they just want to play around they're not at my level let alone okay but that's because her profile while it's not hideous believe me i've seen a lot of hideous ones it's not hideous but it is not it is

nowhere near like really elevated to a level like what i like to call a rockstar level and i think her job and i know that this girl's a winner first of all this is a I know I can tell that I can tell she's not elevating herself totally agree to make it stand out like oh I gotta have this to you know so it's just some fine tuning that needs to happen like everybody and and her prompts you know they're not digging deep I I tell the ladies when I'm working with them to because I do you know i do coaching as well i got so because my match making so i can only match a few

i have this other side of the business where i coach the ladies because they need the help you know whether they think they do or not the person they do uh... and and so she's not out of the gate even like showing off like how smart and great she is there there's this fluff here you know i mean and i would like to see more substantial uh... prompts like you know i'm blah blah blah like i want to

it's interesting here's what's interesting a lot of times men tend to over amp up they amp up and and and they brag about things that aren't even true they they you know i mean that yes what there how great they are and it's usually not the truth. Whereas women, they never really, they're uncomfortable playing up their greatness. They just are. Like, I had a woman fill out a profile for me and she was fantastic. But like, I knew she had achieved all this success at her company and all the

stuff. And she just skated, like, made it like, oh, I'm market, I'm charge of marketing. Or to, no, she was like, big time. I was I was like hey you need to really like ramp up because my guys care about it a man who's substantial and Looking for a real relationship and looking for a real partner. Uh-huh He cares about that stuff. Yeah, he cares about that stuff And so but these women are so used to dating losers. They're like well I've never met a guy who cared about that that is because he either didn't see you for a real relationship for whatever reason or He wasn't looking for one or he wasn't substantial himself

because if they are, that's what they want. So I said, you need to really ramp it up and she was like, why should I try to impress a man with my accomplishments? Okay, baby, you are on Instagram trying to impress these men with your tight little dress but we've been conditioned to do it that way. They need a little, with your tight little dress, but we've been conditioned to do it that way.

They need a little, we need a little boat, right? So, yes, hot and sexy is great, but for a real substantial next level guy, you've got to ramp up the info as well. This is Justin, he's 33. Okay. He says, news producer at NBC and he went to this university, lives in San Francisco, and then about me, are you vaccinated? Do you like to laugh?

Do you like to cuddle? If you've answered yes to these three questions and find my picture appealing, please swipe right. I'm looking for friends and dates. I will have your back. Do we know if... Okay, and he has a shirt on that says bike, curious. That's pretty clever.

Yeah. Now, but he does have sunglasses on. I know, that's a problem, right? I think he's dumbing down his stuff too. Yeah, like why is he wearing like a suit? Right, that's exactly like he needs a little sexy. Okay, moving on. Yeah.

Okay, this is, okay, what is this? Why is she racing the middle finger? Okay, anyway, so she's got a bunch of girl. Like, she's a really cute drink milk from my mom's boop. No, it says one thing I never do in this is a question. Drink milk from my mom's boop. But still, we heard it not that funny.

Well, so in here is the thing. So she's five, seven, she's in Scottsdale, she's young, she's 23. Yes. So we'll give her a pass on that but the only photo that's actually decent is though is that her first one which is absolutely adorable she should just stop there that's a graduation if she stopped there and what you can you have to have a

certain amount of pictures uh... on the dating apps unfortunately but if she stopped there and then put like you know like amped it up with you know I don't know fully what she does for a living is she out of school she must be out of school she is out of school she works as a good job no I matter but she she what she's a beer rep but like a marketing rep like I'm a marketing rep you I'm a marketing rep. You know, whatever her goals are, blah, blah, blah, blah. She just need to amp it up with that picture and like an amped up, like bio of sounding substantial.

Yeah. She is that girl in that picture that like every guy wants to take home to mom. You know what I mean? But then the rest of it is not awful. Yeah, the rest of it is. So it's like, here she's doing cute with her grandma or whoever that is.

Like, here she's doing a shot. I just never have that. I can't even do that. She's making a joke me in the wild and it's her like emptying her trash. And I guess she thought it was funny that there was trash everywhere. Yeah, no, no, she's just young, you know? Okay, and then you should not go out with me and then her answer is if you walk slow, it's kind of bitchy actually.

Well, I mean, anyway, and then old lady. So I, the old lady's holding a corona, she's a party. She goes me and my best friend. Me and my best friend. Obviously, your best friend's your grandma, but I also don't think that's appealing to a guy. Of course it's not. No, no, no, no.

Nobody wants to eat. No one want that to me would make me go, are we gonna have to visit grandma like every Sunday? Is this grandma gonna move in with us? This's the thing. This is a this is a profile. This is a this and drink beer and drink all my beer. This is a this is a profile. It's going to get a guzzle my coronas. And you know, this is a profile that's just going to attract all these low endudes. It's she's she's literally got like the bullhorn. Come in, you losers right here. We're all welcome.

We have to be low end loser. And then what you know is awful. And then you know what she's going to say. She's going to say, I hate the dating apps. There's no good guys. Well, hello, this is because this is what you're using to attract them. I mean, listen, I met this girl.

Yeah. And I bet she's, she looked like that picture. Yeah, she's gorgeous. Yeah, she's funny. Right. She's cool. She's, she's, she's in a green bikini. You can see she's a nice flat stomach. She's a nice body. Yeah. She has no makeup on and she's flipping off the camera. Oh, I know. So you can't even like really see the body. It loses her party, dude. That's who she's going to attract. Yeah. So, and then a social cause I care about a four-day week work week, a four-day work week. Well, I mean, so she's smart.

She's funny. It's kind of fun. But here's the thing, I think, what happens a lot of times, people sometimes I think they think they're so smart that they can get away with this stuff. You see it, I mean, because she knows, I think probably she knows that in the real world, she is probably quite popular, I would imagine. When a guy meets her, he probably really likes her. But she's not going to call that guy in using this profile.

Now maybe in the real world, and she is popular at school, and I have no doubt when he meets her, he's probably blown away how much better she is, but she's get him through the door not with this that's okay now we have alley who's 41 she writes straight woman lives in Nashville less than a mile of way about me a new to Nashville show me around on pernure podcast host plant based speaker author karaoke queen I actually think karaoke queen is kind of a negative thing, but whatever. I mean, not necessarily. Smart, sassy. Yes, smart, sassy kind, happy, drama-free, feed me wine, make me smile, and then lived

in, yeah, then just a couple of other things. Then no kids, just a beagle, looking for a relationship. And her passions are travel, plant-based, karaoke. I mean, I guess we got to keep karaoke dog lover and wine and then there's photos oh i know gelato drinkin so there's two photos with a wine glass there's one photo with the dog uh... she's very pretty she has a sense of style uh... well i mean here's the thing so i mean that first this picture

it's not good at the dog or her oh she has a picture with the dog and a wine you can't see her and it's a great shot of the wine glass if that's what we're trying to show off but and maybe she liked her outfit in her boobs and picture but you can't see her face and you can't even see the dog's face so it literally does nothing that's like big x x okay this is uh... this is a gay guy he is this is Philippe oh he's 33 he's self

employed and it says Italian-American open to all types of connections open mind open heart traveling cooking nights out family friends I mean share and and my Yorkie oh he like share my Yorkie I can't I mean I think and, and my Yorkie. Oh, he like share and my Yorkie. I can't, I mean, I think his, I think for what he's looking for, because he says open to anything, you know what I mean? Like he's looking for a little, uh-uh, and a whatever. And you know what I mean? I think his photos are good.

Yeah, I do too. His photos are good. His photos are good, you could tell he's good looking. Yeah, shows his body. Yeah, you know, and if it really is, he's just looking for anything fine. But if he's really looking for something more specific, then I do think he should ask for more,

something more specific. Oh, well, absolutely. I mean, just like in the, sometimes people to say that, because they're like, I just want to get all the matches. That's the biggest mystery. That's the biggest mystery. Yeah.

And I think that is a mistake. It is. So I say to everybody, you don't want to attract everybody, because how can you possibly filter through them? Right. You need to be as specific as you possibly, like the women, I tell the women to always say, you know, especially if they're successful or whatever,

or if they're looking to have a baby or they're like, put it in the profile. You know, I've created a great career, I have a wonderful life, I'm looking for a man who meets me at my level, who is also successful and looking for a real relationship and wants to have children. I mean, I know that

freaks women out when I tell them that because we're so conditioned to like want to attract everybody. We don't want to offend anybody. Hell, offend them. You need to turn as many office possible because then you're left with the ones who really want what you want. Right. It's so much more efficient. Anyway, but yeah, his looks good. And we got the last one. This is Carly. She's 23. She's a Pilates instructor. Her questions were, I get way too excited about cats, the musical, and the animal.

Do you know her? Yes. She's Annie's roommate. But she's cute. She's cute. She's very petite in real life. I don't know if she can tell that. Oh, it says 5-2 here.

She's active. She real life. I don't know if she can tell that. Oh, it says 5, 2 here. Oh, yeah, yeah. She's active. She has an undergraduate degree. She's, let me see, exploring new cities and tennis concerts. So since you're here, what's her complaint about the dating apps? What? She never gets taken to dinner. Or she never gets taken to dinner.

Yeah, I can tell you why. Can't you, Heather? Well, she does says if I could eat one meal for the rest of my life, it would be pasta. The reason is because she kind of comes off like a party girl. Like, you know, like the stick in her tongue out in the first photo. I thought that was awful. And then the girls, what is it just while? What was that thing that girls get while what was that video

Girl scott wild photo here, and you know, it's like of course, she's got a girl on her back That's what I'm saying. A whole other person is featured. Yeah, and and then she's got the two other girls She just she definitely needs an elevated profile now I get that she is showing her body and the one from behind in her hair is gorgeous in that photo But it also looks, it just is a little, like, high look at my ass, which is not very classy in my opinion. Do you know what I mean? I want to ask a couple more questions before you go.

What should you wear on a first date? Now, let's see here. I mean, I think that it definitely, I mean, I've known women that I've set up with my guys before. And like, they thought it would be cool to like, act like they didn't like one girl rolled up and she was like casual and she liked him, but he didn't like her because she didn't put any effort into herself.

Right, like act like you don't care. Yeah, yeah, yeah, that's not a good move. I think you don't want to ever dress on a first date too sexy. I like classy sexy. I like looks, especially like as a stylist, which I was before this. And I like looks that are a bit timeless.

So you never want to, like if you're going to make a choose, are you showing your boobs or your legs? But don't show both. You know what I mean? That's a lot. And I think if you, I think classy, sexy, make them wonder and want more. Now one tip I also need to give is that one thing, I know the men are thinking when you go on dates because I do this when I'm interviewing my women.

When the women show up and they're all layered up, you know, part of my job is not only to interview them and ask them about their profile, but I'm there to check them out. I'm there to see their body for my guys. And so, and I feel awkward, I don't say anything, I should, but they're all layered up and you can't really see what's going on. And then I usually don't even end up setting them up

because it was a wash. I don't even know what they fully look like. So, what I'm saying is that if you're going to wear layers if it's cold, then at some point, you have to make sure that you take your layer off and you make an excuse like, oh, I'm getting a little warm. I'm going to go to the bathroom. I'll be right back and then let them see your body, right?

Let them check you out and then come back and you can put your coat on or whatever you want. But that's what they're sitting there thinking the whole time. OK, besides showing up as a casual slug at the date yet what are some other worst date mistakes oh let's see here i think you know certainly when people show up and either they go one of two ways they either like quiz the person and it's so

unsexy in fact i i was coaching this one girl she went out with this guy and she said i was just like an interview. But so many people make that mistake. So tell me. And do you want kids? And do you want, and they just drill the person and it's not fun and playful at all. And then I think the other end is that sometimes when, especially if people drink too much,

they start opening up too soon. You know, like they want to tell people, you know, about their psycho-axe or all the, you know, losers they've dated or whatever the drama is and You know people need to or or you know like here's an interesting I've talked to a woman just the other day that I'm helping her with her profile and she has a special needs child I Don't know that anybody even needs to know that until like even like maybe date three. Yeah.

Because date three is where it's like, okay, now this thing might actually be turned into something, date three. Yes. But you need to make people earn the right before you tell them... Everything. Deep dark secrets are personal things. Yeah. They have to earn the right for that.

And we tell people too many things, it's another business to know. I agree with that. So I think keeping the phone out is another big one i think uh... you can put it away i'd get away somewhere you don't need it out on the table you know that uh... and you know we a lot of times my guys one of their pet peeves is that a lot of these women of course because we're in the way they're bragging about you know

oh i know you don't must can i know this guy and i know in their bragging about, you know, oh, I know Elon Musk and I know this guy and I know in their bragging about all the famous people they know. A guy does this or a girl. No, the girl they went out with did that. And it was a big turn off to him, you know. Yeah, obviously. So, you know, name dropping. Name dropping.

Yeah, just assuming the same way girls get turn off. Well, if you go out with a guy and he's gonna say, oh yeah my ex she was so hot She was like a playboy playmate at one point, you know, it's like nobody wants to hear that right, you know I'm here with you now. Can we just talk about like what we might have in common I want to know are we gonna have any fun together? Yeah, you know, that's what I saw this thing where this guy was saying like you know Hey, it was you know it goes up to this motivational speaker and he's like, I just want to say thank you so much because I just got out of a horrible four-year relationship. And he goes, I'm going to stop you right there.

Change the way you talk about your past and your life because moving forward. What if you said, well, for the last four years, I really got to know more about myself. And now that I'm single, I know exactly what I want and I'm gonna be, you know, and what works for me and I'm just so excited about the future. Like instead of frame it differently. Yes, that's what I'm not saying it perfectly, but I know what you're saying.

Framing it differently. People are stuck on their stories. Yeah, they're so married to their stories and that's when, like when you, no people, I've known a lot of people who like continue to struggle financially or they're never meet anybody good it's because they're stuck on this story about always being broke or not meeting the right, you know what I mean? You have to reframe your story and I have had people ask me like you know when I say like don't go into hardcore

details and keep it light so you know if somebody wants to like pry because some people do, oh, so, well, why did your last relationship end? Really, you know, what happened? And you don't really want to go into that, you know, the best way to say is, you know, what? It just sort of ran its course. They were, they're a great person, but, you know, enjoyed our time together. It just didn't work out. And then move the conversation along, change the subject. That's how you handle that. Now in this crazy world of politics and, yes. Are you that's how you handle that now in this crazy world of politics and Yes, are you back so you're not covered in this? Yeah If that's something that you need to make sure that these people are probably should be aligned with because yes

I mean in my world I was more conscious of it certainly when there was a lockdown because I was still setting up clients up All during the lockdown and everything somewhere afraid to date aren't and some really wanted to make sure they were vaccinated and all this stuff. But if you're on the apps and actually we just had this conversation in my group, the woman was saying that she lives in a place where it's really conservative and she's on the dating apps and she puts that she's liberal, but yet these men are matching with her even though they're conservative. And she's like, I don't want to come off of like a crazy liberal, but yet these men are matching with her, even though they're conservative. And she's like, you know, I don't want to come off of it's like a crazy liberal, but I want

to know, like, are they even reading what I wrote? And I said, well, the first message, you should probably send them should say, you know, oh, it's so great to connect with somebody who is also open-minded to liberals, like you need to reiterate so that they know, you know what I mean? Because a lot of times people aren't even reading the information. Another thing I do wanna mention before, because I know we're gonna wrap up here shortly. So yes, but to round that out, I will say,

I do think as somebody is like anti-Trump, you know, that kind of whole thing, that whole thing, or anti-vax. Yeah, that's very specific, and they should be with their own people, you know what I mean? For sure, if you're vegan, probably you don't have the data vegan vegan, but it'd be better because you can go to the same restaurants. The more you can have in common, the more potential for a relationship. Now one other thing I was going to say that I did a take talk about this, is that, you know, a lot of times

because so many women will say, and did this thing on clubhouse, and these women were like, this girl, one was like, I keep dating these men and, you men and I'm meeting on the apps and they're married. And I was like, married, because I know there are some people that want to say like there's married men on the apps, but there's not many fully married men. Yes, there may be, you know, maybe, there's gotta be a sum, of course. But it's like, that's risky for them to be on the apps

and showing themselves Anyway, yeah, but so I thought that that was odd I'm like married as so many on the apps and I said do you mean like married or maybe not legally divorced and she said Yeah, they're not legally divorced That's what she meant and I said so then what you need to do is this is what I always do when I'm talking to somebody I Always whether it's you know as a perspective client or whatever it is if they say they're divorced I repeat

back to them I say so how long have you been legally divorced you know what I mean like you need to say those words and have them because that's when they usually say oh well I'm legally double-eyed yeah we're still it's probably gonna be wrapped up in the next couple months you know, but if you don't actually say those words. Yeah, you won't you might not you might end up dating somebody and then find out after a few dates That they're really just separated. Yeah, and if that doesn't work for you, then that's not gonna be good You know, so always are you legally? I want to just jam through a couple of these before you have to go Wait, where to go in a city to find the most eligible men? I think high-end restaurants. Mm- restaurants. I think that you can even go to

Let's say you don't live in like a high-end area. Well make a day where you get yourself fixed up And you go to the grocery store in the high-end areas or you and you walk your dog in the you know You need to go where affluent men live. Yes. And make it maybe your Saturday thing, maybe every Saturday you go and you hit the park with your dog in an affluent area or you go to lunch at a particular place where it's near a building where all the like network, you know, like executives. Yes.

You know what I mean? You just go to those areas. So that's one way. And then another way I've said is like You'd have to do your research, but you know, there's a lot of like private private Private groups you can get into there's you know private events. There's there's a lot of like where people speak for Bitcoin Tech, you know, and then look at who's speaking on the panel like what I did back in the day when I started my business Right I googled eligible bachelors.

And then I Googled, you know, you do some research. And like, if there's like an eligible bachelor too, and they're speaking on a panel in your town, then go. Yeah. You know what I mean? Go where the most. I also just think like Richmond like steak.

And good steak places. Yeah, steak houses are great. Steak houses. I think catch them after work is good too. Like go to the warehouse at like 530 on a Friday or Thursday or whatever. And with a girlfriend and good luck. And even get like the high in the high in market. So you know, you can go to an affluent area

and like if you went like to Veniceines beach for example yes and that's high in the low end it's mixed over there uh... because i live in over there and uh... but but if you went specifically to the highest the most expensive grocery store which is air one as opposed to rouse rouse you'd meet every dirt bag in vines but if you went to air one if you went to air one

you'd meet all the like hot eligible that are there and the women and i mean men go to scope out the women at air one if you went to air one you'd meet all the like hot eligible men that are there and the women i mean men go to scope out the women at air one you know so just do some research about where the the most expensive restaurant and maybe you don't do dinner there if you can't afford right you can do lunch you can do a drink at the bar yeah i mean you can even go into air one and just get a you know ten dollar coffee or whatever you know i mean i'm all stuck what I mean? I'm just going to have to do that.

Yeah, just scooters are just going to be Air One's for like five hours straight. Right. Just hanging out. Like, but there's only one thing to put a butter. Yeah. Yeah. Oh, that's a good, that's a good panning acid. Yeah.

If you look like a prostitute, if you're by yourself at the master's bar, let's call a sex worker. Let's be precise. Yeah. Yeah, like you look like, you know. Right, so I know that's the concern, but I mean the good, but here's the thing. Like if I was sitting at a bar, look at me. Like and I know I'm, right, I'm in my 50s, but there's some old hookers too.

I mean sex workers anyway. But, but I, even when I was younger, if I'm dressed like this or well, I do have on leather pants But I don't think anybody's gonna think so it's like it's what you wear It's how you carry yourself, you know, you're not like looking at all the men in a low-cut top You know, and if you're just a cute girl at a bar You can also these days have your phone out you can have a little laptop with you and you'd be doing work and no

I think that you know if you don't show up looking like a sex worker or acting like a sex worker, then I don't think they're gonna take you for one. But the other thing is with the phone, which I think is kinda hard. It's so great because it's so awkward when you're waiting for a friend or whatever and you're like,

oh, I have my phone. I agree. But if you actually are like trolling for fresh dick and you're like looking for a guy, I think it's, well, I agree. But if you actually are like trolling for fresh dick and you're like looking for a guy I think it's well I'm gonna have to be there for two hours and you can be like completely looking on your phone and no one's gonna Approach you because they're gonna be thinking they're interrupting you. We yes and no If they think you're cute enough believe me if it was Heidi Klum sitting there on her phone

Yeah, I think the guys not gonna approach her no. Yeah, um, so so there's that But then the other thing I think like what I do is like if I'm on my iPad or my phone or what I phone, you think the guy's not going to approach your no. So there's that. But then the other thing I think, like what I do, is if I'm on my iPad or my phone or whatever, I'm listening and looking. So you can't just be seriously on your phone and not conscious about what's going on or what you do. That'd be like a little bit.

You've got to be almost like faking it or just whatever, using it as a prop. But then what I do, of course I'm talkative. But I know you didn't notice. But like if I hear an interesting conversation, I'll chime in like, oh really? London, huh? And just, you just insert yourself into the conversation.

And who cares what they think? Like, if they're interested in you, they'll be glad that you did. And if they're not, who cares? You can just go back to your phone. You know what I mean? But don't be afraid. I think don't be afraid to say, oh, I love those shoes. Where did you get them?

If you like his shoes or great watch, or I've never eaten here. I'm trying to think what to get. What's good on the menu? You can, you would need to kind of get a little chatty. If you want to meet men in the real world, I tell people you got to get friendly because people sit next to each other all the time and they don't know if you're in a relationship. So even when you go to events, you go to events, and then I can remember going to so many

events and we leave and we never talk to anybody in the whole place. You've got to get friendly, you know, and sometimes when you're by yourself it forces you to talk to more people. Okay, what should you text a man after the first date or wait for him to text you? What do you think I'm gonna say? I think wait for him to text you. Nope. Nope. You know what I'm gonna say? I say it's always a classy move just to say thank you for the meal. You know, that is a classy move. And I mean some of them will say some will say, well, I thanked him in person. Yeah, but you know, I just think it's And I mean, some of them will say, some will say, well, I thanked him in person. Yeah, but, you know, I just think it's just, I don't know, polite.

I, whether I like them or not, I always say, thanks so much. It was great meeting you. I enjoyed my dinner or whatever. Yeah. And I do it just because I think it's just a classy, a classy move. All right.

And let's pretend for a second that you don't like the guy. Yes. That's a nice, nice question. So then you say, thanks for the dinner. You seem like a great guy, but, you know, and I would say this because it helps the guy. Yes. That's a nice question. So then you say thanks for the dinner. You seem like a great guy, but you know, and I would say this because it helps the ego. Maybe you felt the same way, but I don't think we're the right match. You see, and you've said, maybe you feel the same way, which is now going to definitely soften the punch. Got it.

And you say that. And you do think you should say that right off the bat. If you never want to go out with him again, and you enjoy your dinner. Well, listen, if it was a horror show, then you walk away and don't even tell the story. Yeah, yeah, yeah. But if the person was nice and you had good conversation and you think that they might be interested, why not?

It's a classy move. Yeah. And then let's say you don't thank them, but then they do follow up with you anyway, and they like you or whatever. That's when you don't think them but then they do follow up with you in the end they like you whatever that's when you should at least just respond and no nobody wants to do this but it's good practice for the soul it's the right thing to do and you know not that i do it every time but um but it's the right thing to do just to say you know you're very nice i just don't think we're in match i'm you probably feel the same way you know

i mean i have to say you know I was dating, texting didn't exist. And texting is the greatest gift from God or whoever created it, because you really can do these things. And it's not, there's nothing scary. Right, like you're not on the phone, you're not shaking, you're not even blocking people if they get weird. Right, I mean, it's the greatest thing. So why not, if you're questioning it,

why not just do it? Right, and like, yeah, it's a great thing. So why not, you know, if you're questioning it, why not just do it? And like, yeah, that's good. I think too many people miss, they don't wanna, they say, oh, I don't wanna be mean. Well, it's more unkind to leave people with false hope. As he and Kim. I saw him at Soho, I also was like, he looks like an opportunist, anyway.

Who looks like Rod. Oh yeah. Just not my back anyway. So okay. Pete and Kim I did a tick talk about this. I don't think it's real. I don't think it's real. Even though we got tattoos and got her name brand. He's got so many tattoos. When you have that many tattoos what does another tattoo mean? Nothing. That's what anything but then the branding I thought was kind of I don't I didn't see the branding. That's what anything but then the branding I thought was kind of. I don't know. I didn't see the branding. What's the branding? Just Kim.

You know, listen, I guess if it gets you a new TV show, because you know, he just got a new TV show. He just inked a new deal since this whole thing. Oh, did that just happen today? No, no, no. That was like within the last, maybe, well, what's it about? Since I don't know, but he, yep, but look it up. Google it. Google it.

Um, yep. And I think he loves the fame and I said I said look but she I'm like look type she is not his type but I think they are boning and I think they're enjoying each other I don't know how long it'll last but he is one of those comics and one of those types of industry people that acts like he doesn't care about being famous and you can call it up but it totally does yeah yeah and he would love to be Dave Chappelle. So it's like how do I get to like arena style stand up and it's becoming he's never been more famous than stating. Right. Well, I mean listen, it's actually it's worked well and I know

like the controversy about Kanye and like not performing at Coachella or whatever, but I know it's he's not performing at the Grammys. Okay, the Grammys, right. Yeah. But, you know, what does he care? As long as like they're in the news and people are talking about the new record, so it works for everybody. Right. It's really the way to turn the lemons into lemonade. And you Chris Jenner, who knows if she's behind it, but you know, she's very smart that

woman. Um, Joe Jonas and Sophia. That's an interesting couple. She's, they're expecting a second baby or a baby, right? So they never get married. They get married. Yeah. Oh, an interesting couple. They're expecting a second baby or a baby, right? So they never get married? They get married. Yeah, yeah, yeah. Oh, they are married.

Yeah. Well, then I think they're solid. Yeah, yeah, yeah, I think they're solid. She's on second baby. I don't know what I can tell you about Neil. Yeah. And then Pete, sorry, don't pick it. Megan Fox and Machine Gun Kelly.

I mean, it'll run its course, right? I think they're not going to be like, you know, Paul Newman and Joanne Woodward, like, to the death, you know what I to be like you know they're in the newman and joanne woodward like to the death you know i mean but it's but yeah they're engaged but i don't think they'll get married now i don't it's gonna be a lot of the same it's a lot of them will end once they get married so the novelty of yeah

what you're a care you're right you're right i don't think they'll ever i don't think they're getting it married i have to say i am shocked about brion austin green getting together with that other girl because i felt like he was so hung up on on uh... fox what's what's what's her well i think she moved on and then i know that rolly was with got pregnant and that yeah yeah i just like happen yeah yeah yeah

oh that's and there you are there i am and how long have you been married i've been married 21 years. Wow. How'd you meet him? So, I met him because a mutual friend of ours, he was my friend and I was like, I think I have a guy for you. So I always tell people it was an actual blind date. I didn't have a photo of him, nothing.

He was just described to me. And then, what made you like him so much? Right away, he was like, it was a birthday party at El Chola Restaurant in Santa Monica that I was going there and a guy I was dating was going to be there too. And he wanted to pick me up and take me there, but I knew that the Peter guy was going to be there. So I said, just in case I like him because the other guy was one of these types that I thought would be over and then he called me a little later. I was like, I'll just drive my own car.

And then the minute I walked in, he was just like, hi, I'm Peter, I can't believe we're finally meeting. And it was just, he was just very much like on me, you know? And like, I think also being like a sales guy and I think also maybe knowing that there might be this other guy that is there. I think the challenge was there a little bit.

And then right away, like, made a date, called me, came to my house like within days for the next day. Well, like what I said, when they're interested, there's follow through. You don't ever have to question it. So I mean, I love that. Yeah. And then it was just,

and then it was just the simple thing of like, we just really clicked and got along and like physically he was my type and then just really easy and fun to talk to and so that was it was just one of those things I was saying with my sister I was like how do you know your husband's the one because they've been married even longer than I have and I just remember she goes it's just easy yeah like I just right there you know when you back, there's so many times you're, you know, you're having conferences with your girlfriends, you're trying to figure this thing out. I always want to crack this case. It shouldn't be. Listen, if it gets to

the point where you're just dating somebody and you have to like spy on their Instagram or feel like you got to crack the case or talk for hours with your girlfriends about, this is not a relationship that's like meant to be. you got to pull the plug and move on but I've been that woman I've been that girl I we all have yeah we all have and but then when you're in one that's not like that then you're like yeah oh you know I don't have to wonder if we're doing something this weekend right of course we are right you know like yes um let me see okay well got a strong women looking did you oh yeah let me ask so what about what okay well fine Yes. Let me see. Okay, well, great. I see. I see. I see. I see. I see. I see. I see. I see. I see. I see. I see. I see. I see. I see. I see. I see. I see. I see. I see. I see. I see. I see. I see. I see. I see. I see. I see. I see. I see. I see. I see. I see. I see. I see. I see. I see. I see. I see. I see. I see. I see. I see. I see. I see. I see. I see. I see. I see. I see. I see. I see. I see. I see. I see. I see. I see. I see. I see. I see. I see. I see. I see.

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I see. I see. I see. I see. I see speaking I mean maybe once in a rare while I'll take on a female client but usually I don't because what I find most of the time is that the women who could afford like the at the level I'm at right a private matchmaker at my level and my fee substantial they've achieved a lot and usually they definitely want a man who's their equal well the problem is a lot of times these these ladies, they're energetically, they're a lot. They're just, they're, they're, they're energies a lot. They're a little demanding, they're a little pushy. They're, they're very assertive

because they've had to be to accomplish most, everything they've gotten. And, and the type of men they want don't want that. Do you know what I mean? So they want a man who's their equal, but those men usually just find that to be too much. And so for that reason, it just becomes very complicated. So like when I've taught,

there was a woman who was married to a billionaire and she is now back on the market and just having a conversation with her. I knew what her problem was. Right away she was just a lot. That's the best way I can describe it. That's what men, those words they would choose as well. A lot.

Meaning, she isn't show up as like necessarily interfeminine, soft and flirty. It's just like we start having to run the show. As we get older, we just start doing that. I mean, that's just kind of what we do. I don't know. Do you do that, Heather, in your relationship? I mean, I don't know. I think it would be very hard for me to date for the same reason.

Same reason, right? Exactly. As we get older, our dynamic, and yeah, like I definitely think. So it's a lot. And so then when women want their equal At a after a certain point in life. Yeah, it's very hard to find that dynamic and it's it's challenging Yeah, so yeah, well, thank you so much Sure Gina tell everybody where they can follow you. Oh, let's see you can find me on TikTok matchmaker Gina Hendrix Instagram matchmaker Gina Hendrix or my website

Gina Hendrix.com or the greatmanhunt.com which is where I do all my coaching for my ladies or my Facebook group which is for women badass and brilliant ladies but no badass and brilliant women. What's my group called? I love it. Thank you. Thank you. Thanks. This was fun. Thank you. Well that that was really juicy, Gina. And if you guys want even the juiciest information stories, personal stories, Hollywood, insight, stuff that I hinted on on this show that I'm like, I cannot speak about. I do speak about it on Patreon. You go to HeatherMcDolle.net, click on Patreon, change your life, years and years of content

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