Just Trish - Tana Accused of Shoe Theft & Taylor Frankie Paul Needs to Log Off | Just Trish Ep. 296

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Starting point is 00:01:06 It's like, I'd rather survive jumping out of a car than survive the second location. But if he's kidnapping you, I don't think he'll be turning on Google Maps to the restaurant. That's how they do it. That's how they do it. That's how they do it. And then you're like, but red lobster's that way. Like, you know, that's I. We'll see enough of those.

Starting point is 00:01:21 Okay. If he was the total opposite direction, then maybe I would have a little different. But you keep missing the turn. You're going to just go past it. So we're going to have to turn around at some point. Oh, and welcome to the Just Trish podcast. I am summer weaning it up today. I went out, got in and out in a pumpkin onesie.

Starting point is 00:02:01 That was so much fun. And now I'm in a pink skeleton shirt for our audio listeners because it's summer wean. It's also Trish Mists right now. Trishmas tickets are on sale. Well, technically they're on sale Friday. Did the artist pre-sale end? I'm not sure. But on Tuesday, we had an artist pre-sale for Just Trish.

Starting point is 00:02:17 It might still be going. If not, you can get your tickets tomorrow, which is Friday, July. what is today? July 24th. On Friday? Friday, July 24th. You can still get tickets to Trishamist and Florida.

Starting point is 00:02:32 You better come out because I've never come to Florida. I don't know if I'll be back to. Maybe I will. I'm going to manifest a really fun Florida trip. I'm going to get all the oranges, no gators, except if it's Caligator. And I'm really excited. And you guys are really excited

Starting point is 00:02:45 because the pre-sale happened on Tuesday and all my Floridians were like, I'm showing up. Even the East Coast people that usually go to like New Jersey, they're coming to New Jersey, and they're also like, I'm also going to go to Florida.

Starting point is 00:02:52 to support. People were really excited about being in St. Petersburg. Ever heard of St. Petersburg, Florida? Florida. I have. I have. I have never in my life. And we're from the Midwest, and they love a Florida ship in the Midwest. They do. Go to Orlando or in Tampa, Fort Lauderdale, Miami. But I'm going to St. Petersburg. I'm going, I think, Jacksonville. I'm going Orlando and Fort Lauderdale. So I'm going everywhere. And, well, those four cities. And get your tickets today. That'll be there December,

Starting point is 00:03:18 third, fourth, fifth, sixth. And then I go to Niagara Falls. And, and, uh, Atlantic City, which are my two casino shows, and I love a casino show. I love my casino show. Ocean's Casino, they already were like, hey, they already posted, they love it. I love them. It's everything. Manifesting a casino residency somewhere. I'll do it in Niagara Falls.

Starting point is 00:03:35 I'll do it in Connecticut. I'll do it in Vegas. I'll do anywhere because I love casinos. They're nice and cool because it's freaking hot, and this is our, it feels like a casino here in your day. It's like nice and cool. You get so many food options. It's just like everything's in one place.

Starting point is 00:03:46 You don't know what time it is. You can just sleep and have no guilt about it. You can eat and have no guilt about it. It's great. Casinos are just. the best place ever. So come see me, Trishmas, 2026. And also, pre-order, crying on the kitchen floor, my memoir. I got my advanced reader copy. I'm very excited about it. I'm recording the audio book this next week, which I'm very excited about. And I'm filming lots of content around there.

Starting point is 00:04:10 And there's a lot of special perks to the audiobook. I might be doing a little ASMR teas. I might be doing a little speed reading. I might be doing, you know, little ad libs here and there. And then for my UK readers, I might to even have Tavern Trish come by and do a little reading my publisher's idea. And I was like, you know what? I'll do it. Not the whole book, but there'll be like little tidbits in there. So get the audiobook as well because I'm very excited to start recording that. I've been signing copies, so many copies of the book. So it's all really fun and wonderful. Go to patreon.com slash just for bonus episodes. Today we have a bonus episode with our guest co-host, my sister, Kelly, which would look beautiful.

Starting point is 00:04:49 Hi. I didn't know. We were stunning. today. I didn't know it was summer ween. I'm just summer over here, so that's my bad. It was my bad. I'm not let you know. I'm summerween every day over here. We are summer weaning it up. The Halloween trees and the four years, but I want that. I did see that when I walked in. I was like, oh, okay. I know. It looks a little like a dead cat right now because it's on up, but it's going to be beautiful. It was the store display. Everyone's like, why did you

Starting point is 00:05:10 get a store display? I'm like it was the only one left. It's a whole thing. But you look, uh, Romney, Michelle, or you kind of also look like Catherine Heigel. Oh my God. Is that what the look at? There's both the looks that I was going for. Oh, my God. You're giving... Thank you.

Starting point is 00:05:21 Rosie Michelle had like the white... I think they had like a cherry dress. I think Michelle did. And then Kevin Hegel had the hair with the clip in Wish Upon a Star. But also I was like kind of looking at myself. I'm like, why is this kind of giving Jennifer Coolidge a little too? Okay. I mean, we love Jennifer Coolidge.

Starting point is 00:05:36 Yeah. I love all of it. It is giving maybe... I'm trying to think what movie... I don't know. Like maybe... Night the Roxbury? She was a cop though, but I don't remember what she wore at the end.

Starting point is 00:05:45 She was... When she was young, she had this like... Yes. Something. It is giving a movie a movie a movie... Oh. kind of like, I think Best in show. Was she in that?

Starting point is 00:05:53 Yes, she was. I don't know if I saw, see it all the way through. I remember like Catherine Herrera is in it. Yeah. I should watch it. Maybe something like that. You have Birkenstocks on today with socks and so does Moses. And I think this is a, I should do a little B-Rot on my phone. I should do a little Beryl for Jimmy, my view right now. I walk in and she goes, you look like your dad.

Starting point is 00:06:09 And then Moses goes, what's wrong with Birkenstocks and sandals? And we looked over. I'm like, okay, he got the memo. That was crazy because I've never seen you with Birkensox and Sox. but my sister's dad notoriously always wore socks and burkenstocks. And maybe it's not a weird thing. Maybe my mom just thought it was weird. Because I remember just being like, okay, love it.

Starting point is 00:06:25 Maybe it's not weird. It's a little weird for summer because it is like 100 degrees. Well, like my toes get cold, but I want the convenience of sliding something on, you know? Feels cleanlier. Yeah. Yeah. I'm going on a plane tonight. I was like, I should probably pack some socks.

Starting point is 00:06:37 I like to do those socks. You should try it. The Birkenstocks and socks? Yeah, because then you can slip them off. You just call it the Birkensocks. Okay. Well. Like Blentz yoga shoe socks, those were horrible, though, because it's like, it's kind of hard to get your whole foot in a sock.

Starting point is 00:06:53 It's easy to just slide a sock on in the shoe. But maybe, maybe that's, go on Sharkay and pitch it. No, I'm just saying that's how we should call it. Oh, I'm just how we should call it. I like it. You look just so cute. I can't even get over it. I know.

Starting point is 00:07:05 I feel like I'm always, like, rushing to get over here and I'm like half done. But wow, this is like, I was like, I'm getting full glam today. I was getting full glam today. And I don't know why. You know, like, days, it's so funny. Like, I, like, lose weight every single day. not every single day. But I'm like, you know, I'm like on my health journey. I'm like really taking it seriously yesterday. I felt like I had a really good day. I think as I'm morning she'll just wake up and you're just like,

Starting point is 00:07:25 I still feel bloated. So I'm like, I'm just going to wear a t-shirt and it's like my period is ended. So it's not that. It's everything is extracting. I still have the hemorrhoid situation going on. It's, it's off, but it's the recovery. So it's like the gauze is still up there. Got my sis removed yesterday. Oh my gosh. It was rip the black head. Oh, yeah. Well, that, that literally, okay, so trigger warning, pimple popping. which I think is so disgusting and it's so disgusting but if you're into it, watch, if not, skip ahead to... I'm into it. You're into it.

Starting point is 00:07:53 That's why I was like, okay, I'm saving... I saved the Hummery Talk for you and the... I am so honored. I love to talk about this. I know. I was like, I have to give you up the... So what's underneath the Band-Aid. She literally, like, cut it.

Starting point is 00:08:06 Did she show you? So, kind of. So she... I was so painful. I don't know. Did I show you the picture of it yesterday? You didn't show me the actual picture of it. You saw it last week, I guess.

Starting point is 00:08:16 Yes. And then... And yesterday it was like, like, so unbelievably painful. Like, I couldn't even sleep. Like, if I just, like, bumped it on something. Just lifting it. I was like, this is so painful. It was so weird.

Starting point is 00:08:25 But I had gone, like, a year ago. And she had told me it was just like a cyst underneath. And it was like, yeah, this blackhead. But like, weirdly when I went a year ago, she was like not concerned about this. Not not concerned. But she was just like, oh, the cyst you can just like take out if you want, but it's like not really anything. And then the blackhead, though, I was surprised.

Starting point is 00:08:40 Like, she don't want to like pop that black head last year. But that's what I'm like, was it even popable? Was it even a blackhead? Like, why wouldn't? It definitely was a dilated pore because it was always coming back. And you have one on your back, but that was, that one's not, that one's fine. But it was, but was not poppable, the arm one. You couldn't do it.

Starting point is 00:08:55 I got a little bit out, but it was so deep. I guess it was just so deep, I guess, but yeah, you think she would have been, I mean, I love my German, I love my dermatologist and I love my proctologist. I love, love them so much. Moses came to the proctologist with me, and he's such a cool guy. And then he, he like, called me on like a Saturday night. I was like, how's the hemorrhoid? Like, great.

Starting point is 00:09:13 I said I actually had a bowel movement. the first night. He's like, wow. That's great. Yeah, he's like, that never happens. That's, you're an A plus hemorrhate recoverer. And I was like, thank you. I was, yeah, it was very weird. And then I love my doctor here too. My dermatologist at my age is so weird. Like, doctors just seem like they should be older. And then I'm older. We always had this conversation. I guess I'm an older person. But I'm like, and she looks really young. She looks really young. And she was cool. And she was great. She reminds me of you. Where she's just like, ah, we're going to get this little guy. Get out here. Come out here.

Starting point is 00:09:40 Like she talks about it is so crazy. And she was so funny. And then, she was so funny. And then I was like just telling her, I was like, oh, my God, I think this is like more painful. Because as being a baby, I was like, I think this is more painful than my C-section issue. Could you imagine me as your guy? I know just being like, get out of here, a little sucker. And I was like, yeah, she was, we're going to pop that baby out of you. Literally, she said that. She's like, you're going to birth this sis tonight.

Starting point is 00:09:59 I was like, oh, my God, because I was like, I'm so in so much pain. I feel like I kept saying the child birthing. And she said, I was like such a baby. They even, like, laid me down and put me on my side because I'm like, I think I'm going to pass out. They did numb me. And the numbing even hurt. There was like seven shots of numbing. They have to do it all around, no?

Starting point is 00:10:14 I must have. And it must have, like, been in there into the, I guess a sister. There's just like a big ass pimple underneath. I don't know what it is, but it was huge. And it felt like it was just like stinging, like shooting shots of like stinger in there. And I was like cry. I was like, I don't know why this is so painful. Like I literally had like three epidurals, painful epidurals that were missed and C-sections.

Starting point is 00:10:31 And I just had my hemorrhoid removed. And I was talking to Jeff yet last night. And he's just like, you know, you're the kind of friend that you can never blackmail with information because you just like stare. He's like, stuff that you couldn't waterboard out of me. He's like, you're just like, yeah, my hemorrholy got out. It's still bleeding. I'm like, well, whatever.

Starting point is 00:10:47 I was like, this was breaking news. I opened it and like, in-news is reporting on your hemorrholy. No. Not the butt doctor. In-use. What's it said? Tricia Peda celebrates butt doctor removing her bolder hemorrhoid with luxury gift herself. What a headline is that.

Starting point is 00:11:07 Was this recent or was it? Would it happen on Friday? I haven't seen that because I get Google words for myself. That's so funny. It wasn't a boulder. Did I say boulder? I don't know. It probably did.

Starting point is 00:11:18 Sometimes you talk so fast. Then the second slide is your TikTok about it. Okay. That is so funny. Sometimes what? Sometimes you talk so fast, I don't even think that you remember what you say. That's true. And I was also, I did take a pain pill after because I was like so scared of feeling pain,

Starting point is 00:11:32 which honestly should even pain pill for this because not, I'm an end biotics. Not for this. I'm just always on something now. But I didn't want to take a pain pill, but I was like, let me just take a pain pill. but I was like, let me just take one because I'm scared to feel the pain because I wasn't feeling anything. So I think when I made that TikTok, you were in the mall, you were getting wetzels pretzels and my shoes. And I was just like bored. So I was like, I'm going to make a TikTok.

Starting point is 00:11:50 And I don't really remember what I said, which is why I don't take pain pills because literally one and I'm out. So yeah, the hemorrhoid was crazy. But that was great, though. That was a good experience. All of them were great experiences. Doctors are amazing. Do you have to ever get a colonoscopy, like, soon? Well, he was trying to sell me on a colonoscopy in tandem.

Starting point is 00:12:08 them with my hemorrhoid removal. He's like, well, you would have been out. That's what he said. He's like, then you're out, and then you don't have to like think about it. But I was just like, maybe when I'm like 40, I know he should. I don't have history of colonoscopy. I get my boobs because my grandma, my dad's side and my mom both have breast cancer. So I get my boobs squish.

Starting point is 00:12:25 I think everybody at one point in house to get it. They do. But maybe in the four. I guess get it whenever. I might be on the little young side. It's like a facelift. It's like maybe in my 40s. Sure.

Starting point is 00:12:32 Maybe I could do a double facelift and colonoscopy in my 40s. I don't think that's how that works. They just pull it from back there. Oh, my God. That'd be a tight. That would be very tight. Tight face, yes. Tight everything.

Starting point is 00:12:46 Oh, my gosh. Moses was in there when it was happening too. I was like leaned over like a wedge. Oh my God. Did they put you out? No, no. It's topical. You just, I mean, it's.

Starting point is 00:12:55 They numb it. It's actually less serious than what they did on your hand. Well, I feel that. I think this is the most painful. She was just going to get antibiotics. That's what I knew. I didn't know they were going to actually open your arm and take that out.

Starting point is 00:13:08 Oh, yeah, she sliced it with a scalpel. I would have gone with you if I knew that. I actually didn't either because it was like the very last appointment. They closed at five. It was like 4.45 and they're like, well, we can't like remove it because if it's infected, like, it's dangerous. I should probably, yeah, give you like medicine or they said a shot. And I was like, I don't know.

Starting point is 00:13:22 It gave me 5,000 shots. And yeah, she was like, oh, we got to get that baby out. And I was like, okay, yeah, because it was her reaction was, this is bad. I was in pain. I'm flying tonight. I'm going to be on like a red eye flight. And I was like, okay, I'm going to be on like a red eye flight. I don't want to be in pain.

Starting point is 00:13:35 It is relief today, but oh my God, yesterday. So it was like, she's scappled it. As soon as she's scaffold, she had goggles, it like flings in her eyes. So she's like, American psycho, just like when he's like chopping that guy and the blood's like splattering up. It's like that. And then is when she goes in. And I couldn't feel the scapple, obviously.

Starting point is 00:13:50 And she's like, can you feel it? Can you feel it's very C-section vibes? And I'm like, no, I can't feel it. But obviously to push it, she does the pressure. How are you, wheezy? You love this. I would love. I'm kind of like having FOMO that I didn't go with you.

Starting point is 00:14:02 Oh, I know. I was like, how are you not setting up a video before this? Because, like, their reactions to it were as if it happened for the first time. They go, whoa, did you see that one? Because then she did, um, then she did the one where she just like push it out. And it just, once again, no way. American cycles splattered on the wall, white shooting out, blood on the, I was like, what the hell is happening?

Starting point is 00:14:20 So crazy. I was checking out a little gunk on your shirt, whatever. And then like towards the end when she was really getting it out, which thanks to your zip popping, because I mean, I guess we should put trigger warning at some point of this because it is just going to say at the end of your thing, Jimmy put some trigger Yeah, and put trigger warning at the beginning. Okay, I'll say a trigger warning now, and Jimmy can put it at the beginning. Okay, trigger warning.

Starting point is 00:14:38 But you gave me practice because she was really trying to get the last of it out. And I'm telling you, we were squeezing and pulling and stuff for probably like 30 minutes. She's trying to get the, there's just a little, I can't get it out or whatever. I'm like, do me to push against you? Because that's what I do for my sister. Like I resist back. And as soon as it happened, it came out. You're so welcome.

Starting point is 00:14:55 Yeah, she loved it. She's like, yes, do that. So I pushed against her. And it was a really crazy experience. and the assistant that was in there too. Everyone was just like, this is wild, this is crazy,

Starting point is 00:15:05 and yeah, by the end, I think at some point, because it was so painful at some point, I literally, like, I think I just became numb to the pain. I was just like, I was just, like, laughing at that point.

Starting point is 00:15:17 I'm like, I don't know what's happening, but my arm is going to be so bruised, and so, but I think we got it out. Honestly, the incision this morning when I went to go shower and changed my bandages, like wasn't as bad as it.

Starting point is 00:15:27 It felt like they, like, or ripped my arm out, like, you know what I mean? And it felt like so, and it felt like a little stingy too because they put the patch on and it felt stinky and I was like really worried. But there wasn't anything. It's pussing for about a week. It is going to pus for and leak for about a week.

Starting point is 00:15:40 But I know. Nice. I know. Everyone wanted to. Tana wanted to pop it. She was just like, I want to pop it, but I don't want to hurt you. And I was like, my sister tried. I think that's how I got the sis.

Starting point is 00:15:49 Not to blame you. But I think that's how I got it. I'm a little blamed, but that's fine. I remember when you were trying to do it that day with all your tools. And I have to have faith in you because you get all of them. but I think that is where the cyst started was when the push but that happens but you know what it's not your fault now it was my it was mine it wasn't your fault I was like but that's yes well I was googling did I say that to say where do cyst come from and sometimes it can be from pressure

Starting point is 00:16:12 or that kind of stuff so it's not gone I have to go back in a month to get the cyst removed so they just popped it and drained it this was the infection around the cyst yeah so I was supposed to get the removal next week I'll come with I don't think it's as exciting because they're not going to pop it. Oh, you know what I mean? No, okay. Yeah. Like, who's she?

Starting point is 00:16:35 She's here for my observation. Moral support. I guess, yeah, I guess if Moses can watch my hemorrhoet get removed, I suppose you could get, we're talking about Mercury retrograde and how everything is happening and I feel like mine. I was like not feeling it because, like, Tiana was feeling it, it, you were feeling it, all this stuff was happening. And I was like, I was not really feeling it.

Starting point is 00:16:49 And I was like, maybe all this stuff like extracting out of me. I was just like, okay, my hemorrhoite is coming out this. I does feel, talking about energy. I just feel like an energy. is taken out of me, like in a good way. That's good. Some sort of negative energy is coming out of the cyst, that of the thing, because they're so ugly, right?

Starting point is 00:17:05 Hemorrhoids are ugly and cyst are ugly, and I just feel like, ooh, something ugly was taken out of me. That's good. That's a good way to think about it. Yeah. I'm glad that you got your hemorrhoid removed before your $17. Or not a 17 hour flight. Oh, 17 hour trip.

Starting point is 00:17:16 Yes, six hour flight. Same. That was also very painful. It was also something I was avoiding. And a lot of comments on my TikTok were like, you're inspiring me to get it off because a lot of people have them and they don't remove. And it's like, yeah, you don't have to remove it. Unless it's bothering you is what they say.

Starting point is 00:17:30 Unless it's bothering you. And mine was just kind of, it was just enough to bother me. It was just like knowing it's there. You just feel, like I feel ugly. I felt later after I got it off. It's like I didn't feel. I felt like I had like a literal tail. Like every time you wipe his shave, you feel it.

Starting point is 00:17:42 You're just like, what the hell is this thing? So I feel much lighter. I just, you know, self-care as going to the doctor and the dentist. I felt better after I got my teeth fixed. It's like a miracle thing. The recovery from the hemorrhoid was easier than the uncomfortable. you had from it on a daily basis. Yes, that's true.

Starting point is 00:17:59 Like, how did they do it? Well, this one was external, so they just, they literally just cut it off. They'd give you a shot. Both of these things gave me a shot of numb, numbness. Because I always thought that they did it like a rubber band method. Like they put a rubber band and it would just fall off. I swear. Maybe I don't know.

Starting point is 00:18:16 There is that method. Okay. I thought I was crazy. That exists. He was like skepling it. I think the difference was she had a blood vessel in there. That's the difference. Oh, maybe that was it.

Starting point is 00:18:26 Yeah, because he said that. At least someone's listening in your doctor's appointments. I know. I was watching like a hawk on everything. Okay. Whoa. Hang on now. I was on the side of you, so I didn't see the event, but I was watching the doctor.

Starting point is 00:18:40 I'm like. Okay. Okay. The doctor's cool. You like the doctor. Doctor is very, I love him so much. Very cool. He kind of looked.

Starting point is 00:18:52 I guess I can say it doesn't matter. He kind of looks like welfare. It feels like a S&L skit because he looks like willfarrow. like just like Will Ferrell and he's like a proctologist so he's a doctor right like he went to school but he's kind of spiritual hippie

Starting point is 00:19:03 he kind of has like evil eyes and stuff like that and kind of like those two things usually don't mix so it's kind of funny how they're gonna find that they're gonna Google all of that and then his pictures just pop up no he's probably his thing can I say right he did say he has to blogger like a mommy blogger he's like oh if you want to

Starting point is 00:19:16 talk about it she goes I can't talk about my hemorrhys or something like that yeah something it's not a part of life I know I would tell I would say it I would give a shout out but most people don't talk about it so I don't want people to swarm too hard. I don't know because it's like what if I go back there? I guess it's fine.

Starting point is 00:19:30 First of all, he was great. 10 out of 10 did his job. He was judging. He was super nice and super, you know, accommodating. And he loves his job. He's got little poop things everywhere in his stop. He got little butt things. He got rose water. He's like, I really think that rose water is really good for your

Starting point is 00:19:46 penis, I guess. I don't know. It's just recovery. That's good to know. So I was like, all right, let me take some of that. He has like guess how much poop is in the jar. So it's like little chocolates in there. He's got a flashlight. Oh, we have a B-roll. We'll send me the B-roll. Oh, okay. Yeah, Moses.

Starting point is 00:20:00 Oh, I'm excited. He got little butt lights on a key chain so everyone can take one and be like, you can look at your butt with that. It's so cute. And he has like a bubblehead of himself in there. And then he's got like, but, like, what's a fart book? Isn't that so funny how like you just decide to go in which one, like, which practice? Like, he's so passionate about butts and hoop and whatever.

Starting point is 00:20:20 And he's been doing it for so long. And can I tell you your story or no? What in what what what is just the fact that you're you had a hemorrhoid removed once so mine was like many many years ago and I just described to him what my doctor looked like and he immediately knew who he was his name and yeah well because most like oh I went somewhere like a long time ago in Beverly Hills he's like oh it's the doctor's like I don't remember and then he's like but he was really big like he was like a giant like really big you know and it means like oh I sure one's Santa Monica and then most like actually maybe and then he said the name he's like oh yeah that the one like he knew he's like yeah I worked with the like you want to forget when you look at the doctor and that's what was nice your doctor like mine was like intimidating yours was like he's looking up and like like he said because because it feels like an s&L skit it feels lighter you almost be like like this is not happening yeah yeah that's a big deal that's none of this is real right now it was funny he is a funny guy I liked I liked him I love my my dermatologist too I really like all my doctors

Starting point is 00:21:19 I loved my OB like he's so funny yeah they're all doctors are just funny you think doctors are Like era, not even like getting healthier, but like even taking care of like your everything. Your body. Oh my God. Everything. Your butt. Thank you so much to time for sponsor today's episode of Just Trish.

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Starting point is 00:23:54 I'm going to get my implants out at the end of the year. Are you? Yes, I'm going to a couple doctors right now in the area, but if you guys have any ex-plant doctors, let me know. I may feel so good once I get my implants out. I'm going to feel so good. Do you know how they're, are you going to do like a fat transfer? Are you just going to do nothing?

Starting point is 00:24:10 That's a good question. Have you been like thought about that? Well, I've only gone to one consultation and they had suggested putting a small implant, which I really don't want to do. That kind of defeats the purpose of an ex-plant. Yes. Yes, and then fat transfers. I like the idea, but if I, like, want to continue losing weight,

Starting point is 00:24:26 it's going to, like, just deflate my boobs again. I don't know. Maybe some people have said a lift, not doctors, but people I talk to her saying they got the lift. I want to say Bunny Ex-O got the explant, but I think she got a little implant book back in after. I think originally she was trying to go all natural, and then I think she might have gotten a little because it's hard when you're, like, young.

Starting point is 00:24:47 I don't know. I'm trying not to be, like, vain or superficial about boobs, but then it's, like, when you're young, you're kind of like, oh, I still want to look good and like a top. And my boobs, as you know, are already like flap jacks. They've been flap jacks since I was like literally a child. Like I literally had a D cup and a B cup and they were floppy and flappy. And they've always went down and just like I've had two lifts and they're just not good anyways.

Starting point is 00:25:05 And you've had traumatic experiences with your breasts. My boobs are just there. I just remember taking care of you one day and I'm just like I felt so bad like your one scar was or your one incision was just like split open. I'm like, I don't think that sounds supposed to love. Oh my God. That's so crazy. So when I was going over legal for my book, they literally were like, do you have anyone that can testify that? Me? Your roof was split open after that trip to Palm Springs. I took care of you. I fed you mashed potatoes in bed.

Starting point is 00:25:30 Yes. And I was like, well, my doctor, he was like in New York. Obviously, he called in antibiotics because it was infected. And obviously, like, my mom and sister were training my dressings and they saw it. And it was right when I came back from that trip. So like, that's, that's it. There's a bit. There's proof of that. Because I was like, yeah, actually, I do have proof. Well, there you go. Yeah, it was. Yeah, that was infected. Everything was infected. So I'm trying to get them out. I don't know. And maybe I'll try and get them out and see. if I like it and then if I don't, maybe I get another implant for 10-I don't know. I'm not trying not to. I guess a fresher implant is better than an old-ass implant. I don't know. But maybe fat transfer or maybe just let it out until I lose the weight I want to lose and then get a fat transfer.

Starting point is 00:26:04 Yeah. I kind of don't want to wait because we had talked about maybe waiting to like, you know, you get down to your goal weight, then you can like tummy tuck and all stuff like that. But I kind of don't want to wait because I'm just like swimming out. They feel heavy. When I work out, it hurts like all that hurts. Your back. My back and just the boobs in general. I feel like gurgling.

Starting point is 00:26:20 You said like, oh, you want to look good in a top. Like, sometimes I don't feel good in a top. I want to wear cute, flowy things, and it looks like I'm just, like, a tent sometimes. Oh, interesting. Wait, why? Because, like, my boobs are pushing out the, like. Oh, well, yeah, I would get small-ass ones if I did. But that's why I guess I should look to see how my boobs are with a lift or something after.

Starting point is 00:26:40 Because, I mean, I loved mine when I first got them done, but then I gained weight. And now I'm losing weight. So now they're like. But do you feel I felt? I don't feel. sick. I don't feel like any type of way like that. Mine are like older. I also feel like in photoshoots I did one for Trishmas where I'm in like a sexy Santa and I'm like, oh, you're so snatched. But then I just have those like big old cow letters and I'm just like oh, I don't like

Starting point is 00:27:02 the way they look. But I also don't like the way they feel. I'm going to get them out this year. So at some point, maybe we're on Christmas. I'm trying to get it wrong Christmas because that's time I have a break. But yeah, I've been going to all the doctors. I feel like I have another doctor's appointment for something else. Good for my health and I can't remember. Maybe I got the melasma road. I got a chemical peel. You got a chemical peel? Yeah, and I'm getting a laser next week. That's why your skin looks so good. Thank you.

Starting point is 00:27:26 I need to do that too. I just got Botox today. With your makeup on? No. Before? Oh wow. You did a day. Oh my God.

Starting point is 00:27:34 I've been so busy. This morning? I went to the post office. I went to go get like a light spray tan. Wait, what? And then after I went to go get Botox and then I came home. Oh my gosh. Then I got ready for this.

Starting point is 00:27:46 Then I had to try and take some notes for the podcast. For today. Yeah. What did you get the spray tan for? Just to feel good? I'm going on a trip. It's exciting. Give it on a vacation a long time.

Starting point is 00:27:58 I know. I'm so excited. Oh my gosh. That's exciting. But yeah, I was like, I feel great. I know it takes like two weeks to like fully kick in. I'm like, I feel frozen already. Oh, I love going to.

Starting point is 00:28:09 I loved going like right away and just feeling it. It just be like, I got it done. It feels so good. I don't get it that often. I get it maybe once a year for a treat. I'm kind of the same way. Because I like a little movement in my face. Yeah.

Starting point is 00:28:19 Like I don't want to be like, have nothing on my face like when I'm in my 40s but I also would like to not have like a huge like line. Yeah, we have those genetically, the little lines. Yeah. Exactly. Whatever it takes to make you feel a little better. Yeah, I feel great. A little good. You bring suggestions with your hair. This is my hair. Wow. Thank you. And I love a natural hair too. I did my hair yesterday too. I did like my highlights. I did a little trim. Yeah, you look fresh. You look fresh. Thank you. I was like I'm feeling fresh. You look amazing. Thank you. You want to do a marathon with us? No, I will be passing on that.

Starting point is 00:28:53 Why? Everyone's doing it. It will take me 48 hours to finish that thing. No, if I can do it, you can do it. No. We only have eight hours to finish it. So at the eight hours, someone has to come get you with their car. And imagine I don't finish in eight hours. It's like, okay, well, did we really want it?

Starting point is 00:29:07 You will. A half marathon is only 13 miles. Are you doing a marathon or a half? Or doing a 10K? That's six miles. Okay. Because every time I keep asking. Well, it's a marathon.

Starting point is 00:29:19 So you can choose to do a marathon. six miles. They'll also have a 1K for kids, which is kind of cool, too. We can do like a 1K. But, oh, okay. I would do that. Yeah, just take the kids' mail. Okay, the 1K.

Starting point is 00:29:31 I'll take all the other. I'll take the kids. Okay, I'll see you. Yeah, that's actually kind of cute actually. But yeah, now's the training of thing. I guess now we can bring them. But no, I would not be running 26.2 miles. Well, that's, you know, I think our brother did the marathon.

Starting point is 00:29:45 Didn't he? Oh, my God. And he's like, he didn't even train for it. He's like, I just did it. I was like, that seems crazy. And he, like, drank the night before. I'm like, oh, okay. Humble brag.

Starting point is 00:29:53 If it was half a marathon or a marathon, it definitely was one of those. And I was like, I have to figure out which one he did. No, I think it was a marathon. I think so too. I'm like, you're not related to us, I don't think. We should do the treadmill for like five hours a night after school. Oh my God. When we got that treadmill, he would be on it and like just play his video games.

Starting point is 00:30:13 For like five to six hours and he lost a lot of weight. We never saw him. He's just in his room in the basement. And the basement with no windows, just on a treadmill. Well, he had a little window. Like, you know, those, like, ones like that go. It's still underground. You're just, like, seeing a little peep in there, which is like.

Starting point is 00:30:29 Yeah, but during the summer, that was where to be, because it's so hot. I know, you got to be nice and cool. But, yeah. Cool for the summer. If it's a 10K, I could probably do that. Okay. Sign up, Callie. We're having a whole.

Starting point is 00:30:39 We're going to have a whole group. I know. It's going to be fun. I'm excited. I'm really excited for it. We'll sign you up. Thank you. Shout out, by the way, not sponsored.

Starting point is 00:30:46 But Cody except me this Lola Blanket, which I'm so excited about. We're actually sponsored by Lola Blinkets on not Lovelin, but not on Just Trish. Lola Blankets. We love you over here too. But they sent me like a Lola blanket with their little. I love them. I feel like I'm going to be a spokesperson for Kodiak pretty soon because have you had Kodiak? I'm not sponsored.

Starting point is 00:31:01 I have. I have. I have so much. Oh my God. They've got granola. They've got like pancake mix. They got. Well, when your brother was here.

Starting point is 00:31:09 Yes. Yeah, those bideos. The protein ones. Yes. Oh, my God. The frozen waffles. Yeah. Forget those eggos, baby.

Starting point is 00:31:15 Yeah. Not sponsored by either. either one but I didn't get paid to say that either by Kodiak I just like they're so good they're like chocolate chip one they have like blueberry muffin in a cup that you can do I love the granola this is a fresh one but the cookie butter granola you guys have seen it maybe on my thing I love cookie butter too try it's so like I usually put this in my yogurt but I can have it straight up granola anybody want a little protein granola

Starting point is 00:31:40 nice on your mom with you when she come over with the protein coffee what's a protein coffee I know mom was so about the protein like two years ago Good. It's... What do you have it with? Just plain? No, like yogurt. And I put a little chocolate

Starting point is 00:31:55 protein powder in it. And then I put bananas and a little bit of honey. And peanut butter. A little doll of peanut butter. I made it on my TikTok before it's yet. Which is like Eons different from growing up because you used to use... What was it?

Starting point is 00:32:10 Nutra... No, it wasn't Nutra grain. Was it Nutraign? Those little pellets? Grape nuts. Grape nuts. I'm like, how do you like that? Well, that was before Kodiak.

Starting point is 00:32:18 I know. That was all that was market that was healthy to us. It's great nuts. At least that's full of flavor. I can put it in a Yoplay. I used to do it in the Yoplae, the great bits on the Yopla. They're so good. They are really good.

Starting point is 00:32:28 It's like a teddy gram cracker. Oh my God, it does. It's good with like oat milk or whatever. You know what got me on the Kodiak, and I think that's why they sent to me. Honestly, they didn't even ask for my address. I don't even know how they got my address. Or maybe they did. I don't remember.

Starting point is 00:32:39 Maybe a long time ago. Zach Efron used to be their spokesperson. Oh, really? I actually didn't know that. Oh, he was so... I finally figured out my Zach Affron obsession. We're about to embark on another Troy Bolton High School musical music video very soon.

Starting point is 00:32:53 But I think it's, I want to... I think I want to be him more than want to do him. Because that's why am I obsessed with Zach Efron? I... And I'm like, when I saw him in the Kodiak ads, I was like, I want those arms. You're coming for his brand and brand Z. I know, because he's no longer tweaked Zach Ephron.

Starting point is 00:33:11 I got to go back to tweet. Now he's just all bulky Zach Ephron. But like, I got a personal train. because I wanted my arms to be like Zach Efron and like I have a girl I love my Plottie's girl and I love her and I was just like she goes she was like oh you should get a trainer because then you can get those arms I want to be literally Zach Afron arms okay I can see it I'm starting with Kodiak I'm starting with anything possible and I was very excited about that but on the note because that's what we're going to talk

Starting point is 00:33:30 about earlier we're planning yes a trip back to back to Utah to go back to East High I don't know if they're going to let us film I'm hoping they're going to let's film in the actual school maybe on the weekends I thought you were going to redo the same video 10 days years anniversary. I was only seven. No, I haven't ever enjoyed Troy Bolton one in mine and I'm really

Starting point is 00:33:50 excited about it because I'm going to be ripped by then. It's going to be in a couple months and I really feel like I'm going to be really ripped because I've been like getting my gains and doing my protein working out all of that. And we're doing a like, you know, maybe a road trip because it's, what was it last time? Like you have to drive. It was like eight hours, I think.

Starting point is 00:34:05 I think six because wasn't it two hours from Vegas? Oh, was it? Maybe it was six or, I don't know. I think we've always inflated it. You do the thing I do where I was like it was like eight hours and I always thought eight hours in my head. But my dad goes up to St. George in that area a lot and he's just like, oh no, it's only two hours from Vegas. And I was like that kind of makes sense, I guess because that seems to be where we were. I guess. But I always thought it was five hours to Vegas.

Starting point is 00:34:26 No, I think it's only two. But I think there's a weird thing too where it's like you had to fly to Vegas and then rent a car. So we just ended up driving the whole way. So I was like, well, maybe we'll drive the whole way. And what we were talking about doing? Oh, stopping at the grand. Well, we would stop in like Vegas and then maybe stop at the Grand Canyon because that just seems like a family vacation spot. But what were you going to say?

Starting point is 00:34:41 Oh, I was just going to say like my favorite moments of that music video because I was hair and makeup on that. That's right. In case that no one knew. Oh my God. That is so right. You got the wig installed, but I was like making sure it was like looking good. Well, I slept on the wig because we went up there the day before. So I stopped on the way.

Starting point is 00:34:58 So you had to like make sure it was, I don't have that wig stayed on for days. Days. You love that wig. You didn't even want to take it off. That's why I want to do it again. I'm like, oh my gosh, wait, but I want to go back being like, and I was in pretty good shape in that video because I had the knee injury a couple weeks before. But I was like in really good shape at that time. Now I want to be in like muscle.

Starting point is 00:35:14 You know what I mean? That was more just depression. Now I'm like, let me get some muscle in that. So I'm really excited. Well, you're welcome to join us in a car. Round two. Maybe we'll get a sprinter van. Utah.

Starting point is 00:35:22 I'm like, I love Utah. I do love it. It was really pretty, I will say. Like the mountains and like the golf course is really pretty. St. George, Utah. It's beautiful. Maybe the Mormon wives. It was a swag up there.

Starting point is 00:35:34 Oh my God. Do they live that St. George? I don't know they live in St. George, but they don't live in St. Utah. Yeah. You watch them? No. I don't.

Starting point is 00:35:43 You don't watch it at all. I don't. You don't keep up with TFP? I try to. You try to? Well, I try for the sake of in case I need to be on here. Well, she has a lot of updates. I mean, what's the latest, you know?

Starting point is 00:35:59 I heard that, like, her mom was trying to get custody or something. Oh, actually didn't hear that one. I don't know if it's, like, the validity is true, but maybe she was trying. Her mom's in the TikTok comments. Her mom is everywhere in TikTok comments being messy. I'm like, yeah, moms. She's just like, I think she's trying to have her own, like, claim to fame. Always gives me a-

Starting point is 00:36:18 Trying to secure that spot on the Mormon wives. Oh, I know. I'm just like, I'm over it. As soon as Wendy's gone, I'm over it. I'm like, I don't know. Although I do like the other girls. I like Macy and Lila and, like, everyone else do. But I think sometimes those shows have run its course.

Starting point is 00:36:32 You know what I mean? Do you think so? Maybe not. I guess people like them so they'll keep producing them. Do you think they'll ever show that Bachelorette? or no. Well, they said they were going to, but I think now with the latest, I mean, DCFS is coming to her house and, yeah, like, there's just so many crazy claims. It's very sad. And the whole thing is sad. And, like, more video comes out and all this stuff like that. It's just like everyone looks

Starting point is 00:36:56 horrible. Taylor just loves to always comment. And sometimes it's just never, like, great to keep commenting. You just got to let it go. You got to stop reading. Yeah, because even though she says it's not a crash out sticking it for yourself, it just looks like a crash out. Like, I know, I know. I know how bad it is to want to defend yourself and everything. I saw, you know, Bruce Lee. Bruce Lee. Yeah. Like, yeah.

Starting point is 00:37:16 Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. He had a good quote about peace and someone's like, how did you find your peace? And he's like, you don't find peace. God, I just retweeted this too. Oh my God. You did just retreating because I saw it.

Starting point is 00:37:28 It's like, you don't find peace. Peace comes to you when you stop giving your energy to like things that don't serve you or stop giving your energy to like negative things or something like that. And I was like, that is actually so true because, yeah, it's like you don't really find peace. It just comes when you just like let things be let things go. I agree. People. Truth comes out. It does or it doesn't. But everything works itself out. Everything comes to light. Like I always say everything happens the way it's supposed to. You want to have it. I love this quote. How do you find peace? You don't find peace. You choose it by what you ignore, by what you release,

Starting point is 00:38:06 by what you stop giving energy to. that's the shift. Wait, pause it. So you choose it by what you ignore, what you release, and what you stop giving energy too. I love that. And first one, Taylor, Frankie Paul, and me.

Starting point is 00:38:21 You've got to know what you ignore. And it's like, it's so hard because you just want to, like, defend yourself and you're like, you're getting it wrong. So it's saying nobody knows everything. It's taking out of context. And it's like, but we don't need to know.

Starting point is 00:38:32 And always, always in these cases, too. It's like the one that silent is like always wins. And I think that's like, yeah, it's so hard. It's so hard. but I just think it's hard to watch her because it is, yeah. Because that's like a double-edged sword too, because if you want people to keep knowing the truth, it's like then more people are going to pry into your life.

Starting point is 00:38:49 And like, if you truly want peace, just like live your life for you. That part, yeah, because people will just rip apart everything you say and then you just keep going back and forth in the comments and it just becomes a thing. Because I think the Bachelorette was going to air, but then maybe not now because like I forgot what the latest thing was, but also just something. When it keeps like when it's not calming down, it just keeps.

Starting point is 00:39:08 Yeah, escalating. Like, okay, we're going to put a lot of energy into trying to bring it back and then again. And she says, she said that something big just happening. Maybe it was the DCFS thing where they came to like investigate and she said it always happens when it's like something big and the same people keep reporting it. And so it's like, well, yeah, but like there's obviously stuff to report on it and stuff, which is like, you know, I think it was like her, like one of her eight year old was like changing the diapers of the two year old. And then she did a, then she did a response, which makes it look for us. And I know the one you need to defend, she wants to defend, because she's obviously a mom and you always want to defend yourself as a parent.

Starting point is 00:39:42 One thing I learned about being a parent, though, is like, don't hear any of it online of how you're parenting, because there's, no one's going to always, no one's going to agree on the parenting styles. So she had said something, and people take these words, right? They take words for exactly they said it. And she had said something like, why don't force her to change the diapers? She just, like, mommy's helper. So then people are like, well, why is she changing the diaper?

Starting point is 00:39:59 Right. She's like, you know what I mean? So whatever, and help people parent, whatever you do in your household, I guess, like, you know, do it. told me too. It's like, um, there's no, there's no right or wrong way to parent. Like, if you give someone advice and like, oh, you shouldn't do that, like, they can just go online and say, is it okay to do this? And they'll find an article that says, always, it is okay. Yes. And then the other person would be like, well, I found this article of what I said and they can find an article

Starting point is 00:40:24 on that too. It's just like, always. There's, my TikTok is a big debate, like iPad kids versus non-Ipad kids. And, um, and it's very much like, there was like one TikTok that just went viral recently and it's like someone being like bear like this child was being feral in a restaurant basically like just like wild like on the table like a waiter had hot food like in the tic-tok and the child's like going like right underneath their arms or something like that and it's like uh just please bear with us like we're raising non-i-pad kids and so then obviously all the comments of the people at ipad kids is like uh like just because well oh so the non-i-pad kids people are like well just because they don't have an ipad doesn't mean they have to run feral like this and then

Starting point is 00:40:58 the ipad people were just like maybe they should have an ipad so they can like sit down or like coloring or a different alternative but this person was like you like you're This kid was like running muck. Anyways, it goes back to the parent sharing the child on TikTok, just running a muck at three years old. Like, I mean, no matter what, if you're an iPad kid, if you're not iPad kid, like, they're all going to be running muck, you know, most of them in the restaurant.

Starting point is 00:41:14 And then, but then you have the parents that are just better than everyone and just being like, they'll show their kids just like politely eating dinner. And they're like, this is what it looks like when you raise non-Ipad kids. And it's just like, who cares, who cares what anything is. Like, I just, I don't know. That's why I just don't share. Are they happy? Are they healthy?

Starting point is 00:41:30 Are they fed? Do they sleep? Yes. That's really all that matters. because people just sharing so much. And I get, like, wanting to, like, share your kids. All the, like, personal stuff. I'm like, oh, my God, it's so crazy.

Starting point is 00:41:41 But, yeah, the parenting, I never will. I never, even, like, showing, like, what they eat, all this stuff like that. Because people, again, you think you're doing something healthy, right? You can get, like, a pre-planned kids meal, and you're like, oh, like, they're healthy jars. But, like, no, they're not healthy looking to this thing. And she's like, oh, my God, I just, I don't know.

Starting point is 00:41:56 Yeah. No one can ever win. But also, like, if it wasn't that healthy, they wouldn't be selling it in the market. Which part? like a jarred whatever. Oh, jarred whatever. I mean, I guess there's like the argument that, yeah,

Starting point is 00:42:08 there's like maybe some non-healthy, like, cereals or something. I don't know. It even goes back to like when Billy Eilish, this is a while ago, when she said, if you don't homeschool your kids, you're lazy. Well, the homeschooling is so. I learned to never talk about that either. Like homeschooling is so, but yeah.

Starting point is 00:42:23 I'm like, but you can't, come on, people don't have that luxury either. Also, also, maybe someone is not like confident in their own knowledge to teach their kids, you know? Yeah. Both of them work. Yeah.

Starting point is 00:42:36 Both of them work. So it's not like they can be with the kids. The school is basically helping them babysit the kids so they can go to work and support the family. And some people want to go back to school. Like a lot of kids will be like, I want to go into high school and stuff. They don't want to be homeschool. Like there's benefits to both.

Starting point is 00:42:51 Obviously the socializing and all that stuff you can learn at school. I also think there's so many benefits to homeschooling. But homeschooling definitely a luxury for sure because it's like someone has to be home with the kid and you're with them and it's a whole thing too. Yeah, I think in general, and I learned it. I learned it. I was one of those people before kids. I was, I was so judgy.

Starting point is 00:43:08 I was like, wow, you're a bad parent. Because I think if you, like, don't have kids, it's so easy to say it. And I'm like, once you have kids, it's just like, I, obviously, once you have kids, that's why I never judge now. I was more judgy before I had kids. That's very much like, wow, bad parents. Well, I don't, I don't, mm-hmm. Mom had three jobs growing up, and, like, we were in public school. Like, that was, like, pretty much our only option.

Starting point is 00:43:28 I wish I wasn't, but yeah. Okay. Like, I would have done anything. Like, my had a bad. That's fair, but like sometimes like that's your only option. For sure. Yeah, we definitely kind of have been. I mean, at least we went to school.

Starting point is 00:43:38 Well, we both did homeschool in high school. In high school, yes. So we went the opposite way. We got ourselves out of public school. Yes, I think that like. So we didn't like public school. Well, no. We didn't like the kids.

Starting point is 00:43:50 I didn't like the teachers. Oh, I liked my teachers. Okay. I didn't. They called me like four eyes. They called me guerrilla. The teachers? Oh, kids.

Starting point is 00:44:01 Oh my God. They called me fat. I always got dressed. coated though like in fifth grade because or in sixth grade or whatever and I'm like at one point I got so pissed so stupid because I was like she gets to wear these tiny ass shorts and just because I'm built a little different at the thick I'm not even thick but yeah you were no I was you guys you were not thick for sure you just had mature thighs okay to put it in perspective when I was in fifth grade they um my my gym teacher made us

Starting point is 00:44:34 all go out one by one in the hallway and wait ourselves. Did we have the same gym teacher? Is this the same one? You can't even know. I don't even know. Who cares? I hate that guy. I don't know which one you're talking about, but same. Regardless, all of the above. I had to be your name. By myself, Wade, I weighed 122. I'll never forget it. Oh my God, skinny. And, well, in fifth grade, he was like, well, you're overweight.

Starting point is 00:44:57 The being, look at this chart. You're overweight. I'm like, oh. That chart. That chart. I hate to you saying that. There was like a guy that was like 6-2 and like 210 pounds and he's like, I'm technically, my BMI is technically obese. Like I'm morbidly obese. I'm like, oh my God, I'm so over this BMI. Because like, I was 5'3 at the time. I'm 5'3 right

Starting point is 00:45:17 now. I was 1.25 up until I was like 27. Oh my gosh. How can you say I'm fat as a 10 year old? No, at 10 and 2. I was maybe 13 when I was told I was fat by the doctor and I like he, I forgot it was. I went in for

Starting point is 00:45:33 something and like that's why like fat people hate going into doctors because the doctors will always just say it's just because you're fat and I got that when I was like 13 and I wasn't even that fat I remember I was like a size you weren't even fat at all I was like a size 10 dress but then the size 10 just didn't fit when it came to eighth grade graduation and so I'd get a size 12 and I didn't want to because I was going to like starve myself and my mom's like it's two days away hon I think we're just have to get a bigger size and I was like okay and then was it was a black and pink dress it was what I ended up wearing the black and pink dress but I long bad dress that was the one that was like fitted and had like a ribbon around its waist

Starting point is 00:46:03 and that one I had to return it. Honestly, that other one was way more iconic yours. And I looked so slaying it too. I remember I wore it. I feel like I was in sixth grade or something. But I loved it. Where'd you wear it too? I don't know.

Starting point is 00:46:15 I just tried it on, I think. I was like, I thought you were always beautiful and snatch and queen energy. I just wanted to be like you. Aw, thank you. I love what anyone else says. I do love Little Sister Energy. I see that with Elvis so much, like, wanting to be like Malibu. And it's so cute.

Starting point is 00:46:31 And anything. Literally what they were doing the other day. Like, Malbu was like on the bed. We were all in bed in the morning. Well, we go, like, we went from like their bedroom to our bedroom. We kind of like shift. We're all kind of like in the same bedroom. But then we shifted into our bedroom because it's just brighter in there.

Starting point is 00:46:43 And then we were watching TV. And Malbu, like, Elvis was being so cute. She just wanted to be next to Malbu. Malbu was sharing her game with her or whatever. And then she was like, I'm like, Malbu, no, no Blanky or whatever like that. You know, after the when you first wake up. So she's like, Elvis, can you put my Blanky over there? So we're on the steps of the bed.

Starting point is 00:46:59 Elvis has to go down the steps, puts it on the couch. And then she's like, Elvis, can you put this over there? Like another thing over there. And then she does that. And then she's like, Elvis, come give me a kiss. Elvis, give me a hug. What? Little sisters, I know.

Starting point is 00:47:12 And everything she asked her, she said, Elvis, go do it over there. And she's like, sure. And she just is like so happy to do it. And it was like so cute. But it's just like so funny because she just wants anything Malibu related. If Malibu asked her to do something, she'll do it. Yeah, because we want to be included. It was really cute.

Starting point is 00:47:25 It was giving that same energy, but it was really cute. Yeah. It was really cute. I was looking through my camera roll and I'm just like, I was watching them in the back and they were holding hands. I'm like, you guys are so cute

Starting point is 00:47:37 and so sisters. I love sisters. They love holding hands with each other. They hold hands to go to bed. They hold hands to go down the stairs. Like, they're always holding hands with each other.

Starting point is 00:47:45 They wouldn't let go like in the car. They wouldn't let go. And they get off of the chairs holding hands. Oh my God. And every time we get in the car. And sometimes Elvis is the one

Starting point is 00:47:54 that has went home. My husband was like, Elvis hold my hand. And if maybe Elvis is like tired or a mood or whatever. She's like, no, she's like, Elvis won't hold my hand.

Starting point is 00:47:59 She gets like so sad about it. And so it's like really going on the slide they hold hands. She wants her everywhere. Malbo went to a slime, I don't know, what is slime museum, I guess, today. And she's like, slime kitchen. Slime kitchen. And she's like, I want to make one for Elvis too. So she was like making like a little yellow one for Elvis.

Starting point is 00:48:15 Of course, Malbo gets the pink of everything. And then she gives Elvis. Sure. She knows what colors Elvis likes. And she does like yellow. She like, like she made it in her in mind. Like she put the charms that she knew Elvis would like. I wonder if Elvis really likes yellow or Malbo just told her enough times that her favorite color was

Starting point is 00:48:30 Yellow. No, no. When she was, well, she has changed. Like, now she likes more purples and other colors. Yeah. But that was the first color she said and she used to really like yellow. Like, that was her thing. So maybe she like loves it.

Starting point is 00:48:42 But no, there's, there is a discussion about like, am I the pink sister or the purple sister? Oh, really? Yeah. Interesting. Yeah. There's a whole discussion about that. I wonder if every older sister is the pink sister. I think you give pink vibes and I'm purple vibes.

Starting point is 00:48:55 But I wonder if it's because I chose that because Malbu chose it early on. She's like, I pink. Yeah. That is true. You had the pink and purple. purple heart room and I had like although I did really love my daisy room you had a yeah I'm lime green and yellow and like daisy stickers that we got from limited to and I did love that I mean that was my vibe yeah but was it thrust upon you or did you actually choose that I like the daisies did you like

Starting point is 00:49:19 the pink and purple better you know I like them both I think the daisies fit me more though I do like I don't know yeah that's me now I would say interesting because I do I always like wonder that I'm like I wonder if the older's just to say like this is well I think if you looked at our rooms now well like you know if you had like back then you would love all the pink stuff and whatever yeah I'm just like well I kind of want just neutrals and like airy and like whatever that better now now so wait let me tell you what the okay okay because this is a personality trait so you tell me which one you think you actually were because a lot of people were not what they thought they were okay so what did you see this where did you see the results I saw it on TikTok and then even on

Starting point is 00:50:00 You probably just had it handy, by the way. It's like a whole discussion. I know. I got this. So the pink sister of purple sister dynamic was kind of a viral TikTok personality theory. But the theory suggests that your assigned color defines whether you were neat, girly girl, the golden child or the bold, messy, free-spirited sibling. Oh, okay. So the pink sister personality.

Starting point is 00:50:24 No. Wait, wait. Yeah, I think you will discover it. Look at my closet upstairs. It is so perfection. It's perfectly neat. Okay, okay. It looks like a store.

Starting point is 00:50:31 Anyways. Okay, so the pink sister is often viewed as the golden, golden child, goody to shoes, classic girly girl. Me, yes. Typically, neat, organized, empathetic and compliant. Pathetic. Empathetic. Empathetic.

Starting point is 00:50:47 Pathetic. Just throw a zinger in there. Tend to avoid conflict, follow the rules. And that's true. That's true. Cover for the siblings ending. The Purple's sister. I do cover for you.

Starting point is 00:50:58 I do. The Purple sister. The purple sister. Often see the headstrong, rebellious, tomboy sibling, traits are free-spirited, sassy, independent, and sometimes unorganized. Sassy for sure. Yeah, okay, I can see that. I am very tight. You're neat.

Starting point is 00:51:15 I am neat. Well, God, I try to be. When I am on like that mindset of like I'm keeping everything clean. Oh, and the last thing, though, too, might get into more trouble but are fiercely protective and loyal to their pink sister. Oh, that's very true. Which we've seen in action. You are very loyal. That is true forever and ever.

Starting point is 00:51:35 I am. I'll be here for you. I know. I always see those family members that go on and like the McBrooms. I think there's like some other like siblings and you do that like the sister will go on and like expose the other sister. Sometimes just on random TikTok too. Like a sister's like actually. Well, they're not sisters.

Starting point is 00:51:52 So that doesn't really apply. McBroom, Austin McBroom and his brother Landon are exposing each other all the time. People always go on there. Yeah, but those are brothers. Those are boys. Those are men. We're sisters. There has to be a sister one.

Starting point is 00:52:04 That's true. Yeah, maybe I'm trying to think. That's why you can't think of one. Social media sisters that turn on each other. Yeah, I don't think so. Maybe not. There's a code. There's a code with sisters.

Starting point is 00:52:14 Just be like, yeah, that's true. That's a good point, actually. Well, that is, that's pretty accurate to us. Because I always think, too, like, I didn't know if you actually loved like Ashley Simpson or you're just like, well, I guess that's the one I am. I love that Ashley Simpson. But more than Jessica Simpson?

Starting point is 00:52:29 I mean, I fit Ashley more because I like that style of music anyway I love Kelly Osborne Because I was like I'm Jessica I don't know Because I was like I don't know I put just to be in

Starting point is 00:52:42 A Domino's I was gonna say Remember they did the other competitors commercial? Yes With the wings Yeah I want to do one for Domino's

Starting point is 00:52:50 I'll never forget Ashley saying Oh God It looked like a boy I'm like I feel the same And then the mom was trying to judge The hair because they were trying to be like It just doesn't happen Volume.

Starting point is 00:53:01 Yeah, it was so flat. And then they had the same hairstylist. Like, Cat Pabas was doing both of them. Like, oh, he was sabotaging her, I think. And then she had the shirt that was billowy. And Jessica was in the tube top. She was trying to, like, tighten it up. I look fat from the side.

Starting point is 00:53:14 She's like, don't sit from the side, honey. Like, whatever. And then she's like, oh, Jessica gets to be hot. And I'm like, I'm the boy. I'm the boy sister. Like, hi, I'm Jessica's sister. Jessica, Buffalo's don't have wings. It was so, like, why do they make her like that?

Starting point is 00:53:29 Oh, my. I think she had to be that too because she was blonde when she started. And I think like you're just going to have to go and be the alternative sister. Well, because you know what? That's crazy that you say that because I was the alternative. I had pink and dark hair. I think maybe you thought you chose that, but I think it didn't. I think it chose you.

Starting point is 00:53:45 Maybe. I think you had to. Like immediately after that I'm like, I'm going bleach blonde, play me. I want to be like Kendra Wilkinson, girls next door. I'm not going to be like Ashley's sister. You did have that pink hair. That was kind of cool at the time. But yeah, you had the piercing.

Starting point is 00:54:01 That's what I'm saying. I think you had to be the alternative because that just... Yeah, I had to break out of that. You know, I'll be the Purple Sister right now, but I had to break out and be my own person. See your own person. What was the Ashley Simpson song about it? Living in the shadow.

Starting point is 00:54:15 Someone else's dream. Oh my God, you knew all of it. Oh, my God. I was like, she just gets me. I am living in the shadow. She was holding out for the Purple Sisters out there. I mean, that's good. Everyone needs one for sure.

Starting point is 00:54:27 Everyone needs... Oh, sisters that don't like you. each other and feuded, Haley Duff and Hillary Duff. They talked about each other in the media. And actually it was always kind of more Haley and then Hillary just said something, not like shocking, but kind of like, yeah,

Starting point is 00:54:39 I don't talk to my sister anymore. And it was kind of like, ooh, damn. Because I feel like if we never talked, I wanted to be like, yeah, I never talked to my sister. I'd be like, oh, damn, just stop up. We don't say anything. No, that's not going to happen. Family. No, yes, we always talk to each other, but. I wonder what happened. Didn't they do that one movie together? Wish we could do that.

Starting point is 00:54:56 We've kind of aged out of that. We could be the older version. Oh my God, what was it? They were like, they were like struggling. They lost all of their money. Marchetta Cosmetics. Yes. Yes.

Starting point is 00:55:06 What was that called? God, it was, no one's probably even watched that movie. Oh, we shade. Well, I mean, like, since like, in our era. I really feel like it was like Hillary Duff and her mom being like, okay, you're going to get Haley in this. And it's like, and that was actually the reverse, because Hillary was the young one. It wasn't like she was trying to be like the other. Yeah, that's kind of rare.

Starting point is 00:55:25 It's usually the one that's older. But don't worry. I don't feel like that. I can never do it to do. I get a stage fry all of the time. Which is very much happy. It is true. You're a streamer.

Starting point is 00:55:35 Yeah, but like I'm not on stage. You're my stand-in for the pro commercial. You were my standing. Also not on camera. I was on camera to like set up lights and lenses. But you were serving. Every day I saw you in a shot, you were like, you were serving. You were serving.

Starting point is 00:55:52 And they even said that too. They're like, wait, this feels like Trisha. It was so great. That was so fun, can I say. I had so much fun. It's a really compile. Maybe you can help me. more gigs where you need a stand-in.

Starting point is 00:56:01 It was really fun also to do have a stand-in because that meant like I didn't have to stand there for lighting. I remember the first shot you're like, you were out for like a minute and then you came back and you're like, you must have did so good because I was done. Okay, so if people don't know, like a stand-in, I actually had one for hacks, which was great. I think that's the only other time I had a stand-in, but usually, obviously for my music videos because of budget and stuff like that, I'm just

Starting point is 00:56:19 standing in for the lighting. And what that means is like, you have to get there like probably like 10 to 15 minutes before the shot so they can get, obviously, in your case, the role commercial was like budge, so they were like really doing it like more. But like for my music video will be staying there for 10 to 15 minutes while they're just like moving cameras moving like okay Trish will be ready in like 15 minutes you're just like standing there and you're like then by the time the shot comes around you're like not tired but you're a little like all right guys let's just do it or whatever because you would have to sit there yes so then so that's what was great then about the row

Starting point is 00:56:44 commercial my sister did the stand in like the walking formation of me being like I love tracking it on a row like all that stuff like that she hit the mark where to land they had the mark there literally took me two shots yeah I was like I check my app on right and it was like it was so fast it was so quick It was actually amazing. I was so happy because I think they were trying to get my stand-in from hacks. I don't know if she wasn't available or what. And I was just like, you know, my sister's kind of my stand-in. She's kind of like, you have lost a lot of weight too.

Starting point is 00:57:09 But like we're similar, shape, size, height, coloring, all this like that. So it was. But also I think a lot of people were like, they would tell me like what to say so they could kind of get an idea of like how my head movements were. Oh, funny. And since we were so similar with our gestures and like our like mannerisms, they're like, Oh yeah, that's Trisha's sister Were you spinning on the bed? Do they spin you on the bed?

Starting point is 00:57:32 They spent me on the bed. Oh, okay, because that was quick. That was fast. As soon as I got to spin on the bed, I did like one rotation. I'm like, only on row. And then it was a whole like... The wink and the... They made me do that whole line.

Starting point is 00:57:43 Do you remember how I can't remember it? Actually, I don't remember the line, but like you went like this with the dress. Yes. And then you went like this. And then the other shot, you'd be like, you'd look at the camera and then up. And wink.

Starting point is 00:57:58 Yes. you really crushed it, but you were my stand-in in the freaky Spanish version. You were my standing in Beetlejuice. You were my standing. Suddenly Seymour. Suddenly Seymour, dead and gone. This commercial.

Starting point is 00:58:13 Yeah, just never, I guess, let's manifest more things for you to be a stand-in for because it's... And you vouch for me, so thank you. You are my sage mom. I know. Well, I was also just excited because I knew it was going to be like a long day and I just love having people there. So it was fun to be like in the trailer with you and stuff like that too.

Starting point is 00:58:26 because Santa is also stiffer than stunt double because I had a stunt double in hacks but I also had to stand in in hacks and yeah it's great because then you kind of just go and do your lines and it's it is a luxury of

Starting point is 00:58:37 that was great it was wonderful 10 on a 10 experience yes my sister I was giving budget like the craft tables were like they would have like bougie breakfast

Starting point is 00:58:45 and then they had all of the bougie snacks and then they would serve around like smoothies oh my gosh that's right and then like in the afternoons you would have lunch and then in the afternoon they would have like

Starting point is 00:58:56 little like dumplings and a cup with a cute little mini fork I'm like this is a matcha cart. Remember we brought a macho man and started making matcha? I was like yeah they were everything I love Roe. I love anything like this. Honestly that was the the fanciest commercial I've ever been on and I felt like this is

Starting point is 00:59:11 everything and it just actually inspired me to work harder because I would love to do another Roe commercial when I'm like 30 pounds down I'm like still on row you know we love Ro. And I do love them I really do it really is great I'm still loving it and I feel very happy now at my dose I'm at 10 milligrams that bound and I feel really good.

Starting point is 00:59:27 I think I was stay on this for a while because I should feel perfect on it. I'm just, you look great. You always look great though. Thanks. I'm just happy that you have your energy back. Like, because I was in the same boat. Yes. Yes.

Starting point is 00:59:36 That's all that matters. That's all that matters. I really was fine with the way I looked. Like obviously look back when people do before. I'm like, oh damn, I was like, it's like bigger or whatever. But I was actually fine the way. I was always wearing like hot outfits and stuff like that. I really didn't think much of it.

Starting point is 00:59:48 But the energy is a big one. My knees feel better. My running. Yeah. And your confidence. You know, it is. I had confidence when I was 265 too, but your confidence does get better, and I love it. It's great because we struggle with the same thing.

Starting point is 01:00:01 I wish this episode was sponsored by Roe. It's not. But I am a Roe partner. But, like, yeah, just your whole life where you're just like you eat and you're still hungry and you still think about the next minute. I never think about it. I'm just like, damn, I'm just good actually. Or if you're bored, you're just going to have like a little snack of your, you know.

Starting point is 01:00:16 Yeah. And it's like, it is the craziest thing. I promise I'll stop talking about it because people are like over me talking about it. But like, it is the craziest thing because we have like so many chips in her house. Like our kids love chips and stuff like that. I used to be so obsessed with chips. I could eat like a whole bag of chips. And it's like, I could be hungry and I'm like looking for a snack.

Starting point is 01:00:28 And I'll like go in there and they'll be like fresh bags of chips. I'm like it just like doesn't even sound good, which is so crazy. So they still sound good. I love my pastas. I love all this stuff like that. Pizza sounds good to me once in a while. But like chips I really have just been like an inversion too where I'm just like I don't really want that. I don't know what's like very weird.

Starting point is 01:00:41 Actually yesterday when we were going out to lunch after the podcast, we usually go to a pizza and pasta place. And it's kind of like I kind of want pizza and pasta. I kind of want like steak or something, which is very crazy. Charlie Sheen's daughter. her on TikTok? I have. Sammy Sheen. O-F girl. Yes. She recently

Starting point is 01:00:59 got a place, kind of a nice place, and all the comments, like, it must be nice to have Daddy's money. So she responded, this is, again, the power of not responding, because every time you respond, and I, I'm saying, but I swear, the Bruce Lee quote was so real, I swear when you can't ignore it, and it's so hard, and obviously I have a gossip podcast,

Starting point is 01:01:15 so I can't ignore everything, you know what I mean? But when you can, it's like, it is peace, it is peace, because you just, if you give nothing, then there's It's like right. Like nothing to give back. Right. Like if you're boxing someone and they're just like,

Starting point is 01:01:27 like, you, that's it. There's no more boxing match. So, um, but I do like Sam Machine. I think we met her at Tanna's tart party. I think we met her. Um, I think. And she, so then she responded to the comments and being like, no, like, I make my own money. My dad hasn't given me anything since I turned 18.

Starting point is 01:01:46 But then she talked about how he gave the other daughter, her sister. I think they're both from Denise Richards. Um, like he bought her. car. He bought her a car and so then she is like well I don't want a car but like can you buy me a horse and he said no of equal value. Okay I wanted to see your initial reaction because the comments were kind of split. My initial reaction was the same as yours. I was like that's not fair but not fair but all the comments and I started reading and I was kind of was giving me how it was with my brother when he got a corvette and a private college tuition I was kind of like where's

Starting point is 01:02:21 my corvette? You know what I mean? Like it's kind of one of those things. No. I'm still, I think it's not fair. Okay, because I was a reason like, not fair. But then, okay, you explain and then I'll tell you what the comment said, and then kind of what I think. Well, because you're always going to feel like that's the favored child. And then you're going to have some weird animosity towards your parent.

Starting point is 01:02:41 I mean, unless you hate them anyway, but like, because our brother did get a car before the Corvette. He got a brand new Jimmy. Are they still around? Jimmy. It was called a Jimmy. It was like a mountaineer Jimmy. Oh, I didn't know what it was called.

Starting point is 01:02:55 Shout out Jimmy out there. There was a Jimmy. I was called Jimmy. I don't know what's all wrong. And like, you didn't get that. You did not get a car. Shut on like, I don't like down to there for a second.

Starting point is 01:03:05 That vocal stem where it was like I went to the yogurt and I didn't get it. That was just like her. That was crazy, which I love. Okay, so that's what I'm saying. Okay. So yeah, like. Yeah. And like so you felt like, you know what I mean?

Starting point is 01:03:15 Like you felt like you were the less loved one. That's true. Even though you loved him. And you were. Or the less obedient one. Because usually parents use money and as a control mechanism. But I was, at 16, I was, I was cool with my dad. Yeah.

Starting point is 01:03:30 If the child does what they want, they get into stuff. Oh my God, I was like always seeing my dad. I was always like, wanting to my dad won't see me. I was like so down. As a kid I was. Yeah. I layered it became defiant because of that. So at 16, you could have got a car.

Starting point is 01:03:41 You could have drove a car. He didn't get my brother on his 16th birthday at brand new Jimmy Mountier. It's like an SUV back in the day. It was like this like bougie one, blue and drew it back. It was right around September 11th, 2001, because I got me. That's when my brother turned 16, right? Was that right? I think so, yeah.

Starting point is 01:03:55 Okay, and I remember he like drove, he drove it back. That's what it was because my brother's birthday, September 18th. And my dad drove back the car. And then I was, like, scared for him to fly back. So I think that was around September 11th. So he got him a brand new one. And I was like, oh, my God, I can't wait until I turn 16. Like, oh, my God.

Starting point is 01:04:08 I'm going to get a bug. I'm going to get all this stuff like that. And then 16 rolling around and nothing, nothing. And then like I start, then I start whatever. My age junior year, I guess, after my homeschool. Oh, we didn't even get into our homeschooling thing. No, I know. Home school, but I didn't go to school.

Starting point is 01:04:24 So I bet I had to go back to school. You're just at home. We do. Work you? I think Nick did my Spanish paper at one point. I was like, I don't know what's happening. I did Rosetta Stone, and I'm like half-assing it. And my mom's like, just let her pass it.

Starting point is 01:04:40 Oh, did she say that too? People. What people? The administration or something. So did you graduate? Yeah. From high school? Yeah, I am a diploma.

Starting point is 01:04:51 Okay. From where? Where's the diploma say? A Place Academy. I don't know. Okay. It was in Georgia. Oh, mine, I think was in Georgia.

Starting point is 01:04:59 Mine was in North Carolina. I was Seton University. It was like a, or seen Catholic school. I don't know what the hell was. It was something. Yeah. But I didn't finish because I was like, I don't know. But then I had you put back into school.

Starting point is 01:05:07 Yeah. And then my mom did get me a $2,000 Jeep Cherokee. But it broke down. And then I would be so mad at my dad. I'm like, I broke down on the side of the road on the way to Freeport, Illinois. And I was just like so scared. So it was just like, then I drove mom stick shift. I don't know. It was just a mess.

Starting point is 01:05:21 Yeah, that was bad. Everything was a mess, but... Yeah, you... I had resentment. I was resentful for you as well. Okay, agreed. I totally agree. And then my brother goes college and he gets a Corvette.

Starting point is 01:05:30 And I was like, oh my God. What do I get if I go to college? I go to Mount San Nizento. He'd go into like this private where I'm going to like Mount San Ysaintio community. No, but there's always rules attached to it too. He had to get a job. There's always rules attached to it too. Like you had to get a job.

Starting point is 01:05:41 Yes. You had to work at Target. No, damn. It was crazy. Well, anyways. So I did hold resentment. And I agree with you on that, but it was like a car for a car. She's asking for a horse.

Starting point is 01:05:53 So all the comments on TikTok were like, okay, girl, it's a horse. Like, I would say no, too. Why? Because you don't need a horse. You need a car. Okay, then give me a car. I'm going to trade it in. That's what they said.

Starting point is 01:06:03 It's like, take the car and sell it for a horse. Like, what does it even matter? Like, that's the same. I think parent logic, I would be the same way. If I was like, okay, I get Malibu, Moses has promised Malibu a pink car at 16. So that's all she thinks about now. She's like, can't wait for a pink car.

Starting point is 01:06:22 Abba told me I'm going to need a pink car. I was like, okay, damn, all right. Love that. And yes, I'm down for it too. Maybe I'll get it first and then I'll give her like a hand-me-down car, you know, like that way. So maybe I'll get the pink car and then give it to her. Um, the pink cars are kind of dangerous. She can only drive it when we're around because then people like know where you're at.

Starting point is 01:06:36 Yeah. Anyways, okay, we get our car. And so then Elvis turned 16. It's like, okay, well, we're going to get a car too. but if Elvis is like actually no, instead of a car, I want to go a backpack in Europe. I'm like, well, no. Why not?

Starting point is 01:06:48 That would be a great experience. Because you're 16 and like if you need a car, you need a car to get to school, but like to get to your job or wherever you got to go. I think my sister can drive me road. I mean, first of all, I think, you know, this is 14, 13 years from now. I don't think cars will be the same thing.

Starting point is 01:07:04 They're going to be flying. No, it's all self-driving cars. You just hop on and off of them. Okay. Like ownership of a car is going to be. different. I don't know. But in general, but in general, it's what they want. It's not about us. It's not like, oh my gosh. So if he got her $25,000 car. She wants to $25,000 a horse. You're going to like, okay. I would give the equal. Wow. Yes. That's what I'm saying.

Starting point is 01:07:32 Like there's there should be. No, there should be quality. Like he can't treat one kid one way. I think it's so different. I think it's so. Oh my God. That is a crazy coming. But that's your opinion about it. But our opinion has nothing to do with it. But what? Our opinion has nothing to do. If I, at 16, I'm so passionate about horses that I'm like, I'm going to walk in LA everywhere so I can have this horse.

Starting point is 01:07:59 Then you're getting that horse. You know what I mean? That's wild. I think it's very different. If she cared so much about a car, she would ask for that car. I guess like another term, right? Okay, my brother gets like a fancy private college tuition or whatever. It's like, okay, give me that $40,000 so I can go buy a con.

Starting point is 01:08:12 in Hollywood. It's like, well, okay. No, you're getting an education. I don't know. You were never going to go to a university. Of course, but I would have loved, and I would have loved the equivalent, but I get why. Okay, here's a thing. No, because here's the reason. You always wanted to be in Hollywood.

Starting point is 01:08:28 Yes. And who helped you? My mom. Exactly. No, of course. My mom gets a little special shout out in the book at the end. Well, she gets a lot shots, but I always say special thanks for giving me like literally all your money. I always say that. I always say my mom gave me everything. So it's like, if he had the means. You had the means to do that for you to get you a jump start?

Starting point is 01:08:45 Like, you know what I mean? No, because look at you now. Agreed, agreed. And I mean, that might be a little bit different. I guess if, like, Malbu's like, I want to be a model in New York. And it's like, if you have the means to help you. Of course. Yes, I don't want her to become a hooker on the street, obviously, like a me.

Starting point is 01:08:57 I was like, no, I would do it. I guess the horse situation is just different. I think it's just different. Maybe she wants to be one of those things called the equestrian. Yeah. A jockey. Maybe. Maybe all the above.

Starting point is 01:09:07 A horse, like, I have friends that have horses. Like, it's their best friend. It's like it's a real person, you know, horse. It's not even. Maybe they want to do horse racing. Maybe they want to train them. The key is to know things are, like, I told myself early on what, like, I know they're going to put me in uncomfortable situations because I think I'm going to be a great dad. They're going to get whatever they want.

Starting point is 01:09:30 Everything is going to be fine. But I know they're going to come and ask me for something that I'm not comfortable with. And that's going to be the challenge is to take away myself. and see them for what they are and give them. But what does that mean? So you're going to, so you'll say yes? There will be things that we are not comfortable with because we are a different generation.

Starting point is 01:09:47 Think of something. Think of something. I have no idea what that even would be. But that's not saying that it has to be an unknown. Yeah. Because everything that we know. Let me put it into a different perspective. So instead of you going to like a university,

Starting point is 01:09:59 he takes that money and like puts you in acting classes. Okay. Yeah, that's a good equivalent. Okay. Yes. I think a horse is different though. No, it's not. What if she wants to train them?

Starting point is 01:10:09 What if she wants to like race them or whatever? I think a horse is like luxury. I think a car is more of a necessity acting school. Some trade schools and necessity. If it's beauty school fine. A car is also not a necessity. But kind of. Not really anymore.

Starting point is 01:10:24 You don't want to take public transport. Yeah, but that's dangerous. Waymo. Dangerous. I'd rather my kid drive themselves. What was the cost of the car? 25,000. I mean, that's a luxury.

Starting point is 01:10:34 It could have bought her a $2,000 car. Okay. Well, if it's a $2,000 car. breakdown because that's what I had. I think it's just like cars are cars. Yes, sure, but like I guess that she would ask for a $25,000 car, he would have given her a $25,000. Maybe not. But that's what I'm saying. Parents use money to try and get their way with their life's kids and they shouldn't do that because it happened to me too. It happened like I did things that I wanted to do that my parents not necessarily wanted me to do so they didn't support me. Had they

Starting point is 01:11:05 support me, I would have a much easier journey getting to exactly the same place that I met. Right? And you with that $40,000 condo. But I would love that too. That would have been a $4 million condo by now probably in Hollywood. It would have been an investment anyway. Especially that area. That really went up. Everything got like built up nice. Yeah. I don't know. I see it differently. I think if I think if I get a 16 year old girl, my 16 year old Malibu, 16 year old Elvis wants a horse. No girl, but you want to be more. I think it would be more dangerous for a 16 year old to be behind the wheel than a horse. horse. I think a horse is more dangerous.

Starting point is 01:11:38 No. 16-year-olds are kind of crazy behind a wheel, but I want them to be independent. Everything is dangerous when you think about it. No one's even getting their license anymore. They wait till they're 18. That is true. No one is getting their license. That's like a whole bunch of people that don't drive.

Starting point is 01:11:52 I guess it's fine. I love driving. I love it. I hate driving. But I'll be a passenger princess. That's so much time. I love it. We both love driving because I'm driving.

Starting point is 01:12:01 I like driving. I feel like in control of it or something. I don't know. I also get cars sick. Although, let us know your thoughts. Oh, wow. I was like, you with the Google Maps, I just can't, though. I don't do Google Maps. I do Maps.

Starting point is 01:12:13 He does Google Maps. What's the difference? Maps is horrible. Maps is on your phone. Google Maps is the app you have to get. It doesn't even matter what app you follow, because you don't even follow the map. The Apple map is horrible.

Starting point is 01:12:25 You know what I'm talking about? Sometimes they'll take you to places. There's a road close. Like, they're not updated. It always takes you the wrong place. What if you're on a date? Let us know below what you guys think about this, because I don't know.

Starting point is 01:12:36 But I think I know. I think I'm on the right on this. But you guys let us know, maybe Mos and Callie. If you're on a date with a guy speaking of maps and he has location on and the maps, but he keeps, he keeps, he's going his own way. He goes off, off the grid with the maps. Like she's like, oh, you missed the turn. Oh, you missed the turn.

Starting point is 01:12:53 What are you doing? What are you going to do? Wait, a person you don't know? Like, first date or a second date, third, first or second or third. Or is it your boyfriend? No. Okay. Your boyfriend.

Starting point is 01:13:03 It's Moses. You got to set up a bit more. They're going to, let's say, a restaurant. I think this person was a second date. But they're going to a restaurant. They're going somewhere that they both know where they're going. I'll tell you the TikTok thing. So literally it's just like she's like he was like such a nice guy.

Starting point is 01:13:17 I'm probably not getting this mix up with another checkup. I think this way. He was like such a nice guy. He was such a nice guy. And like he was like really great and stuff like that. But the thing that was like the red flag and she stopped going on a date with him. It was like the second date or something like that he was following. Like they put their like location.

Starting point is 01:13:29 They were going to dinner or whatever. And he just kept he kept not going to get missing the turns. Okay, turn left, turn left, and he wasn't turned left. She was, hey, what are you doing? He's like, oh, I'm going to go a shortcut. And she was just like, absolutely not. But anyways, I'll tell you how that ended. Tell me how it would be for you if he just kept missing.

Starting point is 01:13:45 He's like, I want to take a shortcut to dinner. Well, I know that if you miss a turn, it's like annoying for me. He's like, are you even paying attention to the road? That's annoying for you. Yes, but I mean, I guess. That was you at one time with Moses. No, with you. Oh.

Starting point is 01:14:00 With me? We were trying to go to the movie theater. I'm like, uh, I think it's this one. you're like, Callie, I got it. And then it's like, redirecting. I'm like, I'm like, I'm, too. So you're just pissed. You're not even scared.

Starting point is 01:14:10 Well, no. Well, yeah, probably I'd be pissed. Okay, so you're just like, so then what do you do? I'd be like, why would you even put it in if you already know where you're going? Are you going all the way to dinner? Are you going to see him for a third date? I'm not going to see him for a third date. But you'll have the dinner.

Starting point is 01:14:24 I'll take the dinner. So you'll keep going in the car. Yeah. Well, how am I going to tuck and roll out? Yes. That's my first instinct. What? I would be like, okay, if I was like, oh, you're, I'm taking a shortcut, I'd be like, I'm hopping out of this car.

Starting point is 01:14:38 Like, I'm going to take my chances. It's almost like second location sort of thing. It's like, I'd rather survive jumping out of a car than survive the second location. I'd be like, if he's kidnapping you, I don't think he'll be turning on Google Maps to the restaurant. That's how they do it. That's how they do it. And then you're like, but Red Lobster is that way. Like, you know, that's I.

Starting point is 01:14:55 See you enough of those. Okay. If he was the total opposite direction, then maybe I would have a little different. But you keep missing the turn. you're going to just go past it, so we're going to have to turn around at some point. I don't know. I guess, like, I guess...

Starting point is 01:15:08 I'd probably call someone. So what if you make it safely to Red Lobster? You're still not going to go on a third date? No. That pissed you off that much. I hate that. Don't even put it in if you're not going to follow. What if he was just in the conversation

Starting point is 01:15:20 and he was, like, this is Moses a lot. Sometimes he's in the conversation. Well, okay, that's a little different. There's so many different scenarios of how this can go. So I'm not... You're not immediate alarmed. You're not, like, I'm going to roll out with it. I'm not immediate alarmed, but I know, like,

Starting point is 01:15:32 Why aren't we going this way? And if I am alarmed, I'm just going to call someone. And are you in the back of the front on a date? Well, I would hope that I'm in the front seat. Oh, interesting. You don't want to be chauffered. When we got the Maybach, who was in the back seat and who was in the front? Moses is in the front.

Starting point is 01:15:52 Because your car is. I was like, do you want to go in the back? I'm like, I guess. What if he's trying to connect me on the way back from the Mayback place? Because it was a nighttime. He was like, do we go in the back seat? And I was like, yeah. I do.

Starting point is 01:16:02 Thank you. I put my feet up. This car is designed to be chauffered. The whole car is about the back seat. It's like a first class. That's what I'm saying. It's a luxury. You like,

Starting point is 01:16:10 you like to film it. You like to experience. I'm not going to go in the back on someone's Honda cord, okay? We don't know what kind of car was. It wasn't in Rolls Roy's. I can tell you that right now.

Starting point is 01:16:18 You're going to be kind of fun about being chauffered. About being in the back and just being like chauffered around. Like that one time your dress was too big that you couldn't sit in the front. Oh yeah. That was yes. You were like, I don't,

Starting point is 01:16:28 which one of worry. Loddy from Princess and the Frog. So I'd be like, okay, you need to get her in the back because there's no room for the day. He was trying to get in half you again. So I was like, shuffering her home. I liked it. I like being chauffefer. That's what I'm saying.

Starting point is 01:16:40 Okay, so you're always in the front on a date. I'm always on the front, yeah. Unless it's a girls' rights. How are you talking to each other, yeah. Go in the back. Go in the back. Drive to here. You've been in a waymo?

Starting point is 01:16:50 No, I don't ever want to go in one of those. Why? I don't like that. Self-driving. I think that's the future. I think that's the future of self-driving cars. I don't like it. I like the women's only rides, though.

Starting point is 01:17:01 Yeah, but then you got to worry about, like, I don't know, trafficking or something like that, too. Trafficking. Well, women will come up to you in Target. Listen, I can take a bitch out. Any time I get a target. If push comes to shove, I can do it. I believe that. Thank you.

Starting point is 01:17:16 I think I could do once I get my jeans. And honestly, they're the vulnerable ones in the front seat. Loopers. Click their ears. Okay. No. Everyone. Okay.

Starting point is 01:17:26 Okay. That's too much. Everyone to stay safe, stay vigilant. Let's all be kind. Who your head on a swivel? That's crazy. What? That analogy?

Starting point is 01:17:34 Keep your head on a swivel. It means like make sure you're aware of your surroundings. You've never heard that? I think of Game of Thrones and how Ned Stark was on a swivel. No, that was a spike. Moses? I don't know. You don't remember?

Starting point is 01:17:52 It was a spike. Let us know if it's a swivel or a spike. Oh my God. Anyways, if we would get to the, the how did it end or what would you do well you're gonna thrust yourself out of the vehicle actually don't know how that ended on hers oh my god uh what i was gonna say if i'm like in my hometown i know the way to a place let's say sometimes google maps will tell you go a certain way but i'm like well i'm more comfortable going that way then i'll go that way you know what i mean so it's like

Starting point is 01:18:20 that can easily happen that i'm not following the directions i have a really good driver that takes me on when i was on tour it takes me to him from the airport all that i'm He's my favorite driver and he's like the safest driver anytime we need to go into LA or something just because of like driving we always have him he's like my favorite In fact I just want him like full time for me because I like love him so much and he's such a good driver and I remember Actually it was hacks he picked me up from and it was like kind of like a Kind of like a dangerous part it was like during the day but it was a little sketchy part of like LA because we were like downtown kind of like USC And I remember I wanted to go get this like taco place and he's like and I was like oh can we like go get tacos like I guess like I said him the taco place like I'm like oh me oh wait where we're going tacos and he's like

Starting point is 01:18:55 He goes I think it's too dangerous he goes I think it's too dangerous he goes I And usually he, like, if we go into Raising Keynes, he'll wait out the car for me. He'll, like, wait for me, whatever. But he's like, he's like, too dangerous for you and for me. And I was like, oh. So sometimes, yeah, I guess people just know instinctually. Or also traffic.

Starting point is 01:19:08 Maybe they were avoiding traffic. No, he said it was too dangerous. I meant the scenario. Yeah, I guess he's just like, here's a shortcut or something like that. I don't know. Well, I just roll out of the car, girls, if you see him going the wrong way. I don't know. Or don't have him pick you up.

Starting point is 01:19:26 I mean, that's another girl. I do love a meet there option. I think on a first day, I mean, Moses did pick me up, although I gave him my mom's address. So I was like, well, he won't know my address. Yeah, well, she put us at jeopardy. Well, there was a lot of apartments. It was a complex.

Starting point is 01:19:36 Mine was a house at the time. And I was like, well. I wouldn't know where you guys were. Unless you were on the balcony. So look in that part. But also, if she did get kidnapped, she's like, oh, he drives a red Ferrari. No, he did not. It was a red Porsche.

Starting point is 01:19:52 Okay. Thank you for that information. Because they were outside looking for him. And they're like, and like, oh, no, it was a red Porsche. I was like, no, it's a red Ferrari. And then it was like, he circled again. And I think that's him. I was like, oh, yeah, okay. And I know I didn't know. You just sent me a picture of it. I was just like, I don't know. I can't get to her about Porsche again because I knew you love that car. I feel so bad about you. Can't have that car. It makes me so sad that I can't have it. It's just

Starting point is 01:20:11 a two-seater when you have three kids. It's not exactly. And I'm too big for it. practical. That was my thing with your Porsche that I could never get out of it. It was so low to the ground. Like it would hurt my knees if I don't go in and out the right way. Do you tell that TikTok of you getting out versus me getting out? Probably. That was so funny. I was like, I was like 200 pounds back then and I was like pretty, and that's like tiny for me. And I like couldn't get out.

Starting point is 01:20:31 I was just like, but you were like so effortless about it. You were so like effortless getting out. Well. But you can also carry pepper spray or taser or something like be safe. Because I think if it's if it's that. Can you carry pepper spray? Yeah. Because if it's that early on in a meeting somebody, yeah, meet them over there.

Starting point is 01:20:50 Like be responsible for yourself. Let someone have your location. Yeah. Yeah, I think nowadays a lot of people have locations. And yeah, just drive yourself or something. I don't know. I don't like the pickup. I don't want you know where I live.

Starting point is 01:21:04 My address. Willy-nilly. It is funny to think about it. It's almost like a military operation. Like somebody's going on date. All the friends are like, okay, checking locations. Oh, they're very off the road. They're not going on the way to the restaurant.

Starting point is 01:21:18 Yeah, I probably would be. Did you check my location? I was gone for such a long time. And I'm like, what about was just? You did. I did when you were. I saw like, MD. So I knew were at the dog.

Starting point is 01:21:28 This was before. So I think you were in the car for a while before you went in or something to the doctor. Oh, weren't you like concerned? I was gone for so long. Because especially at CVS. I was sitting there for like an hour and a half and I'm like, weren't you like? No, because exactly CVS. An hour and a half at CVS? I was passed out in the, in the blood pressure machine because I literally went to go get my thing and I like fell over from it. They still have those. Yes. They still have a blood pressure machine. And the guy knows me. The pharmacist knows me. And he's like, I'm going to rush it for you like 10 minutes or whatever. And I was like,

Starting point is 01:21:56 great and as soon as I did I just like went and like felt these first he's like oh my god are you okay and I was like um I'm like I actually I don't know and then so they had the blood pressure thing and next the blood pressure thing they give you like suckers or something like I said you want sucker and I was like actually I would love a sucker and then I also open a coke did I don't know I I got a double check I think I did um and yeah I was like passed out for five minutes had I know they were going to do the thing on you or would they've gone away to you and let you go by yourself I'm just saying I was a CVS for a long time and I was like well no one even knew I need one of those like alert things, be like I fell.

Starting point is 01:22:26 Well, the pharmacist, shout out to the pharmacist. He was like, you want a sucker? I was like, yeah. Actually, did help. Have sugar if you pass out. I was so light out of from this wound. I'm like telling you it was like the most painful thing ever. I was just like, oh my gosh, it was a whole.

Starting point is 01:22:38 They didn't do it on that arm, though. Do what? The blood pressure. They didn't take my blood pressure. Oh. I went to the blood pressure machine to get a sucker. I thought like, let's take your blood pressure. I thought you passed out because you were getting your blood pressure taken.

Starting point is 01:22:54 And then they'd go. I did it on the same arm that you just had your sis taken out. No, I just had my arm cut open and I could stand. This whole scenario is just gone off the rails. Nobody was there either. It was like eerie. It was like 5 p.m. and no one's,

Starting point is 01:23:06 I'm like, why is no one getting their prescriptions after work? Like it's 5 p.m. Like, why is no. Oh, I guess by that time, it's like 6.30, I guess. Anyways, it was. Well, you know what? You were fine. That's true.

Starting point is 01:23:17 That's a good point. I know I have to travel today. I really hope I can make it traveling. But I felt much better this morning. I felt more there. Weddings happened this weekend. You have to influence her weddings and all. Weddings?

Starting point is 01:23:28 Three big weddings happened over the weekend. Maddiehili? Oh my gosh, okay, yeah. Paige Lorenz? You know her? I don't know her. Shea Sullivan? Is that the, is he like our age?

Starting point is 01:23:41 Chase Sullivan? She's a girl. Oh, then no. But I did hear about Maddie Healy. Wow, you did not hear. The Paige Lorenz and Shea Sullivan were big because it was like battle of the dresses. One had a very classic, like, sleek wedding. The other one had more of like, I mean, they both were beautiful dresses and expensive.

Starting point is 01:23:55 of weddings, but here's the internet once again divided over, who had the better dress, which wedding would you rather have? So kind of like, are you a purple or pink girl? Are you a Shea Sullivan wedding or are you a Paige Lauren's wedding? Are you looking it up? Chase and versus Page? Shea Sullivan. Shea.

Starting point is 01:24:09 She. She. What do you think I said Che? Like Che Gueveira? I thought you said Chase, like Shea's lounge. Okay. I see why you would think Chase then, yeah. Did you look at their wedding photos?

Starting point is 01:24:25 Yeah. Oh. Which one are you looking at first? It's like side by side. Oh, wait, let me see the side by side. What did people put side by side? Who had the better wedding? That was my TikTok.

Starting point is 01:24:36 You had the better wedding? I know. People are. But I love this. I love what TikTok weighs in on just like things about that. Well, I know which one you're going to choose and I'm going to choose. Oh, pink and purple sister. Which one am I? I mean, I would choose the same one as you.

Starting point is 01:24:52 Oh. Wait, so why did you say you knew which one you would be? No, because. you and I are going to choose the same one. Oh, which one? I like a glam. Just because I was a purple sister, doesn't mean, I can't be a purple and a pink sister. Well, Rachel Rends is

Starting point is 01:25:05 the clean girl glam. She had the slick back I don't like that. I hate an updo. I'm sorry. I'm sorry. So that's the thing, right? I'm just saying though, like for me, I wouldn't want that. I'm with you. I think we do have like a weirded version to, like, slickbacks. Yeah, I do not like it. It's very in, and I'm with you on that. We have a weird thing with like up

Starting point is 01:25:25 dues in general. I think I just don't want like a fat face either. But also I just like something a little more like with character. We like the bigger hair. That's so crazy because I was like people were being so... But even the dress I like better. Like, I don't know. What am I trying to be? Audrey Hepper? You know what I mean? Like what I don't need to be timeless. You want to take that comment. I don't need to be timeless. No, I liked it. I liked it. I think that it's pretty still. I want to choose it for me. But he said it was so strong. But like, I hate... Well, I mean, I just want to choose it for myself. Now, I like this other... Well, I can't see the bottom of this dress.

Starting point is 01:26:00 They have two more dresses. Let me see. They have a lot, actually. So they have this one. Yeah. Also, it looks like the person that did our wedding dresses did this. Our bridesmaid dresses. Oh, Ryan and Walter.

Starting point is 01:26:13 Yes, doesn't it? I don't think it is, but it does kind of... It gives that vibes. I love their stuff. I was just talking to Walter the other day. I'm like, I'm going to dress for my next special about. And then, like, this is a bad picture of this. But, like, this looks okay.

Starting point is 01:26:24 this looks like more of a like a personality I think oh interesting um yeah I do think it is just preference I mean people are like this is the they thought shade they called shays tacky then of course a lot of people love shays because she got mirro in like Lake Como and then same then people love um like I love that page I love that with the feather little veil yeah it looks beautiful I mean that looked beautiful too I mean it's just not my style and I think that's okay to say yeah I think that's what it was like, the internet was so, like, who had the better wedding? And I was like, this is so funny. And I was like, it really is just a preference thing.

Starting point is 01:27:00 Burke Schofield, though, finally felt redemption because she wore a slick Beckbund for her wedding and everyone came from like, oh, why I slick Beck Bun? And she was like, Paige. And then Paige did get a lot of love for this, like, Beckbund. And I was like, wow, so elegant. Yeah. I mean, I think it's like, it's your wedding day. You should have it, like, how you want it.

Starting point is 01:27:14 Yeah. Who cares what anybody else says? I just go based off, like, I wouldn't, I would have something different. What would you do? What was your? Mine was always like, oh God, your Maui dress Was like my dream dress Oh, the lace one? That one was really pretty

Starting point is 01:27:29 I thought you just, I love a mermaid look I always want, if I ever got married I always wanted to have like a yacht that we had the reception on And like the, you know, I thought it would be really fun Ari got married and had the reception on a yacht and you put beach And she like loved it. I would love that. She told me that I'm like that is like my dream Yeah

Starting point is 01:27:47 So that would like that kind of vibes like loose waves down like I don't know very mermaid Mermaid Boho Easy vibes Not like so much Structured I don't know

Starting point is 01:28:02 I'm not that kind of a person I did love a big gown Like I love shades Because I love how like I guess her isn't like cupcake dress Mine was a cupcake dress What I'm recommend a cupcake dress If you're short and stout

Starting point is 01:28:11 But Yeah I thought I was gonna like mine more And then I looked back of pictures I don't really I didn't love it like I thought I loved it At the time we kind of like I was giving a little Ursula Not that I mind Ursula

Starting point is 01:28:22 but I was giving a little Ursula. I wouldn't necessarily have that other one's dress either. I just prefer it over the other one. Oh, Shay, you wouldn't have her dress either. No, I wouldn't pick it out for me personally. But I did like her hair and her makeup. She did her own makeup too. Really?

Starting point is 01:28:39 She gets matured hair. Yeah, she's very pretty. I like watching her on TikTok. She's kind of just like on TikTok. She's just known for being pretty and having good blowouts. I mean, maybe she does. I'm not saying she doesn't do more than that, but I think that's like what she's known for.

Starting point is 01:28:50 She's being, you know, one of those people, just have like a really pretty face. She's like, damn. She's like 25 and she has like a son. And I don't know. She seems cool. I don't know anything about her. The groom's always, the grooms are more like, I don't know who you are.

Starting point is 01:29:01 Yeah, I don't know. I don't know why. Well, they're like influencers too, but you're kind of like. For what? I don't know. What are they influencing? I don't know. I don't want to go too hard on them.

Starting point is 01:29:11 But it's kind of like these girls are so beautiful. And so, I don't know. It's giving dad talk a little bit. But, you know, I don't know who are. They seem fine, I guess. I guess the one guy seems nice. I just don't know I don't know who they are

Starting point is 01:29:22 enough to judge I don't know That's true I guess TikTok is meant for that Matt Gilly's wedding Did you like his Was he in New York I think I thought

Starting point is 01:29:31 Didn't he and Billy Elish Just break up Like not too long ago He did Billy Elish Didn't he? I love I like to Moses As if he knows Well I feel like he's a fact checker

Starting point is 01:29:41 I can't have needed I'm pretty sure they Yeah they did Because that was like the Oh wait maybe not Is he from 19 1975 right is that right yeah he dated Taylor Swift oh maybe not then who did she date yeah someone from the neighborhood I think what neighborhood band okay well he said it's not

Starting point is 01:30:07 like oh the neighborhood um but no I whatever I don't really care for him I don't know him how'd you see the wedding then because it came up on my for you page and what did it say It was just like he got married. He got married this weekend. Like the dress? Her dress? I don't like a long sleeve. But like I said, I think a wedding dress just is supposed to go with the personality.

Starting point is 01:30:31 Okay, so you liked it or you didn't like it? I don't like it for me. I like it for her. She seems like that's... Oh my God, she's giving it like Priscilla vibes. I kind of like a long sleeve because I always hated my arms. It's kind of a smart move, actually. I think Jellie Peeper had long sleeves.

Starting point is 01:30:43 I could be wrong. I love long sleeves. Oh, maybe she did. I liked her dress. Her just pretty. You know who's dress I did not like? But like, and it's not even her personality for me. It doesn't fit her.

Starting point is 01:30:57 It was the Paris Hilton dress. Oh, yeah, I agree. I think, like, I love Paris and I like her style. It was, like, kind of like shocked by her, especially that main one, the lace one. And didn't she have her hair up too? She loves a slick back bun too. She's like a slick back bun girlie. I know.

Starting point is 01:31:10 We love our hair down, but I think that is something specific to our family. I think mom and still the pot. And we obviously, like, go with it. But I remember from a young age, mom's like, updues or, like, old ladies and I was just like oh yeah okay so I think I think that in my head and I always wanted to do an updo and I just look at myself like you know oh my last time I had an updo oh god yes oh my god I had a meltdown and we're never doing that again are we postpartum psychosis it's real it was not psychosis well you know what I was actually just thinking

Starting point is 01:31:37 about this because I have the picture like coming up my stairs anyway of me and Malibu and we have like this beautiful shot I literally like your child here's me and my baby you had to get an outfit change. I'm like, well, I'll let me get some shots of my but I remember thinking that at the time. But like when you came up, like you didn't even like your hair and then you're like, oh my god, you saw this picture of me and Malibu like the best photo of the day. She wasn't smiling. She wasn't smiling at all and you guys were so smiling and I kept saying I didn't want my hair change because I'm like, Malpoo's only going to be good because she was like three months.

Starting point is 01:32:04 I mean she's only going to be good for like another like 20 minutes and she's going to be out and I'm like I need to get up there and like I don't know I could not get up there and I was just three months postpartum I was like in the worst postpartum person without even knowing it. I felt so bad. And I was like so, and like, we didn't have a lot of money at the time. And I was like, I spent money on this dress. I spent money on this photo shoot. I was like, I really just bought these pictures.

Starting point is 01:32:20 And I just felt ugly. And I just like had this like full blown cry, meltdown, breakdown. I feel like everyone was scared of me for a minute. Luckily, like we had a female photographer feel micawrust like they understood. Because I thought what was happening. I was like, I feel so bad. I like couldn't stop it. That's the thing with postpartum.

Starting point is 01:32:38 Postpartum in general. It's like your feelings and emotions, it's almost like you can't. It's like not you. Yeah. And I remember like being like, this is so stupid. Like, why am I crying over my hair? Like the hair looked fine. Why am I crying over this? This is like so dumb. Why am I crying? Because my sister got a good picture with my elbow. Like, none of it made sense. It wasn't that. It's just like, man, I should have been up there because that was like, that could have been like our photo. Like, you know what I mean? I guess. Yeah. She was just so. And then she was, she was like getting tired after that when you came up. Yeah. And I just remember. Yeah. With babies, you get such a short window. Yeah.

Starting point is 01:33:12 She was the first baby So like you didn't even know like How short it was gonna be or whatever Oh my God And everyone was like laughing upstairs having fun And like you're just like all of a sudden You just like are filled with rage Most of the rage I think is also what I had

Starting point is 01:33:25 I think I had a little rage The first one And you weren't even mad at anyone though You were just so upset And you just can't control it Because I remember in the photo I remember we're all outside taking the photo And I'm just like trying to smile

Starting point is 01:33:36 And just like tears are just coming down I'm like I can't do it like I'm just sobbing And I just really was trying Because I'm like okay you spent money You got the dress, you got the glam, like, just freaking take these photos. And I just could not help myself. And I just, like, started crying, which that woman's case is coming up. Her name is Lindsay Clancy.

Starting point is 01:33:55 You know her? You know this case? Her case is coming up. I think she's going to trial in a day. Maybe look this up so I don't get it wrong. Okay, okay. I think it's trial. There is something happening.

Starting point is 01:34:05 Trial live, day one. Trial live, a live trial? This is the second day today. It's happening? Oh, there was one yesterday? Mm-hmm. Oh, I haven't seen anything about this. People can watch it.

Starting point is 01:34:17 Yeah, so I think it's televised or like on YouTube or whatever. Oh, I haven't seen this like anywhere. Maybe not. Don't quote me on that. Wait, is she at trial or no? She is not trial. She's 12 out of 18 jurors seated after day two of Lindsay Clancy murder trial. I wonder how they choose the jury for this.

Starting point is 01:34:38 I hope she gets a fair trial. because like how do they choose the jurors for this? Like can you be like I'm sure you can't be a mother to be on that jury. I think... Or you should be a mother, actually. Actually, all the mothers should be in the jury. I think the, um, I think each of them can go through like which one they want and they'll like dismiss who they don't want.

Starting point is 01:34:58 What do you mean each of them? Like each like the defendant and the prosecution people will go through. They pick them? Mm-hmm. To, in order for them to all get a fair trial. Hmm. Okay, so Lindsay Clancy is the trigger warning on this one too. I talk about this.

Starting point is 01:35:17 Okay, I'm just like, I feel like I talk about this to raise like the awareness of postpartum. But like here's the sad part about this. Lindsay Clancy, really, really sad. Trigger warning, obviously talks about child loss. She was a mom of three. And when she, after her last baby, I don't know how many months postpartum she was. Maybe eight months. She strangled all three of her kids.

Starting point is 01:35:42 slit her wrists and throat jumped out a window on the second floor of her house. Now what's crazy about the story, obviously you hear that. It's like horrific. And it's like, yeah, that's insane. That's an insane thing. But what's so crazy is because I've been on the side of TikTok is like, because I'm like, I like talk about postpartum because it's like it's good to like so you're aware the symptoms, the signs that get help.

Starting point is 01:36:03 But she was like telling her husband. She told her husband. She told doctors. There was even a point where she was on so much medicine. They gave her so much medication. the wrong medicine, like this high dosage of it so much. I'm on such a high dose. I'm going to check myself in to like a postpartum care facility,

Starting point is 01:36:18 like a mental facility. And for postpartum psychosis. And they're like, oh, no. Like they didn't consider it PPP because they were like, oh, you're on medication for this. So you're not postpartum. So they sent her back. They like, you can't stay here for this.

Starting point is 01:36:34 Like we're going to send you back home. Told her husband. She had auditory hallucinations. She told people. She thought about harm. harming herself and the kid. She's like, yes, this person, this thing is telling me to take all the kids so we can sacrifice them and get up to heaven or whatever.

Starting point is 01:36:49 Like something. So she's telling people all this stuff. Doctors who are prescribing it. Postpartum people. Her husband. And it's like, it's just wild to me because you know how quick I was admitted to or not admitted. What's that called when they force you? It's 51.

Starting point is 01:37:06 It's like they force you. involuntary. Involuntary. Yeah. They're like, I didn't get a choice. I literally said, like, I'm going to, I was like, I'm going to off myself, like, whatever. And this was after I had the Adderall, after I was drinking and on drugs, all this, so like that. They still were like, your ass is going to a mental health facility for at least 4 to 72 hours.

Starting point is 01:37:24 And you were there. You came and visited me. And I was just like, I'm not crazy. I shouldn't be in here. And like, whatever, but they still hold you because they're like, well, you might be a danger to yourself. So it's like, she verbally said this to so, like, to husband, medical professionals. They were, like, put her on these wrong doses. So it's like, how?

Starting point is 01:37:38 Oh, especially all, like, do people just not take it seriously that it's like a real thing? Postpartum depression is real. Postpartum rage is real. Obviously, we know now postpartum psychosis is real because it's not the first mother that did this to her children. And like most, and they all have something in common. They all just had a baby, right? They're all in the hormonal stage, all this stuff like that. So it's obviously a real thing.

Starting point is 01:37:58 You see videos of her when she was in the medical field before she had kids. And she's like talking very clearly about it and kids and how much like kids. She's just very smart about kids and very intellectual and all stuff like that. So it's like, obviously now we see here in court, like in the wheelchair. And obviously she's like the shell of a person still. Like obviously the shock of it or whatever. But so that's why I'm like worried about like the trial because I'm like, okay, if we failed her that way, like everyone failed her that way, it's like, how is she going to get a fair trial and people are going to just look at it and still not take it seriously?

Starting point is 01:38:26 Just be like, oh, she's a monster and just like lock her up, whatever. And then this continues to happen. I don't think people think that way. I think not a lot of people do now on TikTok, but I think like people in the medical professional are, legal profession like they they do they try to set her up as like I don't know as as because they don't want the blame placed on them that's what it is yeah because those they should be held liable if you've turned someone away that actively is like I am not okay and like I want to admit myself they're like no you'll be fine come on how much more of a cry for help do you need I know

Starting point is 01:39:03 well the comments are saying that too like comments say that the comments are saying like the husband left alone. Yes. And he knew about, he knew that she was a threat to the children because she was hearing these thoughts. And she, he went to go pick up food or she sent him away to go pick up food an hour away. And he did it.

Starting point is 01:39:19 He, like, just, like, left her with three kids alone when that all happened. And it's just like, I don't know. It's a tough one because it's like, obviously you don't want to blame anyone else. She did it. And it's obviously, like, horrific and all stuff like that.

Starting point is 01:39:31 But it's like at the same time, you know, I don't know how much more she could have done. I don't think she could have done. I don't think she could have done it anymore. I think no one's helping her, and she's just like in this psychosis, and you're not out of it. But I also think, like, not to blame the medical field,

Starting point is 01:39:46 but, like, I do think, I place blame on them because a lot of medical professionals, like, don't believe women. And that's, like, a bigger, like, argument to the story. Like, even me, like, I can't find a diagnosis of what I have. Like, do I have PCOS? Do I have endometri? your house is odd. They're like, oh, you're fine. Just take birth control. Like, even something that's small as bad. Oh, interesting. They don't really believe women. And, you know, that even goes

Starting point is 01:40:17 hand in hand with like the Me Too movement. Like, no one believed women. They're like, no, it's just like whatever. Right. I guess they don't, you just think doctors. I've just had such great doctors, I guess. So where it's like, when I go for those checkups, like they literally ask you about your mental health and they're literally like, if you even put like a, there's like sad faces, if you put like a little mild face, like they like do a follow up. They talk to you. They refer you to people. people to talk to and so like that. So it's like... We also live in a state where like mental health is very like serious and like there's

Starting point is 01:40:44 avenues for that. Like, she doesn't... Maybe they don't have that there. I mean, and also people medicating her and the, but more of the facilities she went to that kicked her out and was like, you don't have... I mean, if I go to a mental health facility, I'm like, I'm crazy. I'm like, I'm going to hurt myself. Like, I think there...

Starting point is 01:41:01 Because even when I was in that one and I was in a bad one, I was like a little janky or whatever like that. But like, I remember even going in there and it was like... It was like even if you had a slight, like, I still think about, like, hurting myself or something like that they keep you in. It's just so. Yeah, you'd be 50-250. Yeah.

Starting point is 01:41:15 Sometimes it's, yeah, it's like they really just should have kept. If you're like, I don't know, especially when it's like children. I don't know. I do look at the husband a little side-eyed and be like, I don't know. Why don't she's supporting your wife? Where were you? Maybe think she's being dramatic or she wouldn't do it. That's what I'm saying.

Starting point is 01:41:31 Like, no one really gives, no one believes women a lot of the time. And it's really sad. I do feel really bad for her. I'm sure she feels terrible. Yeah, I think most people do think like... I'm sure she's just absolutely, like, distraught. How... If that were to happen, like, I wouldn't be able to smile.

Starting point is 01:41:50 I wouldn't have any life behind my eyes. I would just be like, I can't believe I did that. Yeah, I wonder if she's, like, processing. Like, does she talk? It's like such a weird thing because, like, it's been three years now. But has she, like, come to now? Where it's like... I would think, but, like, you have to live with that every single.

Starting point is 01:42:06 single day of your life. Yeah. Yeah, that's, it's awful. It's like, it's really sad. Like you said, it's just like none of resources. I guess what there are resources. Which is crazy because it's like there's people's like schizophrenia like and people take that seriously.

Starting point is 01:42:23 Yes. And like they call them crazy even though that's an awful word to call them. Yeah, hallucinations are usually taken pretty seriously like whenever I've had them or I've told people about them and stuff like that. Like it's usually, although sometimes people write them off and they're like, it's just interesting thoughts. It's just this. It's like, well, even if they are, it's like, I'd rather have help for that than, like, not help.

Starting point is 01:42:39 It's just such a, it's such a sad thing. I think the whole thing is. But it's real. Postpartner is real. And I bring it up wanting to say, like, it is so real. And if you don't have the people around you that believe you, that's a big one. That's, I think that's the biggest one. I think, like, I had it pretty bad with Malbu, like, postpartion, not this.

Starting point is 01:43:00 Yeah, yeah, yeah, no, no, no. But I was lucky that Moses took it seriously. and researched everything. And then by the time the second baby rolled around, we were like, you were so much better. You knew, like, I think you kind of figured it out. And then even Aquaman, even though my hormone levels dipped, like it was always like you just kind of knew the plan.

Starting point is 01:43:18 It's like, okay, get extra help, get something. It's like, but if you don't have that or if I had someone like gas lighting you or something or just being like, I'm sure a lot of guys are just like you're dramatic. Also, the fact that mothers have to do most of the childcare, the formula, the feeding, the breastfeeding, all the stuff like that. Like, I did not. Like, again, Moses was great. but like I think that kind of would be such an added stress to be up no sleep lack of sleep

Starting point is 01:43:38 lack of nutrition for yourself like it's really uh and a lot of times left alone in that situation yeah oh my god yeah it's like you know husband goes to work you left alone three kids in that case and it just like oh and that three that that three number oh my gosh it gets overwhelming it gets overwhelming and like if you don't have someone I mean and I tell you all the time like if it's ever an overwhelming movement I'm just like okay overwhelmed like you're really good at it, but it's, yeah, if you have a, yeah, I think, like, him, like, leaving her, not to say, again, like, it's his fault, but it's just, like, such a crazy thing where it's, like, I mean, I don't know, it's order that food in or something, but, oh, it's awful.

Starting point is 01:44:17 It makes me, it makes me so upset, and I think, I just think there's just not enough discussion in her defense, I suppose, but not even her defense and just more of the awareness of, like, look at all this stuff, because I didn't know all of that. Yeah. I was like, oh, damn, this mom did this, and that's crazy. Yeah, it's insane. And you have to be, I mean, you have to be. mentally ill to do something like that, right?

Starting point is 01:44:37 You have to, like, there's no question. She's not somebody that woke up one day and she's not a murderer. But that's why I'm saying. I don't think so. If you look at her beforehand, I don't think she is. She's in a medical professional. She, like, went to college. Like in this field, she's like totally equal here.

Starting point is 01:44:47 I really think it was the post, I think it was really the hormonal imbalance that shifted after her pregnancy that she really put her into a psychosis. I don't even think mentally ill. I think that put her in a psychosis. That's what I mean, like, or not in a sound mind when she did it. Well, of course. Yeah. Yeah, yeah, that was.

Starting point is 01:45:04 So in that sense, I don't know even what they're trying her for because you know that. Murder. They're literally, which, it's like, yeah, yes, it is. And it just, it is that sad too. And those poor kids, it's like, no one was, like protecting them. And it's just like, I don't know. And it doesn't matter even what punishment she gets. She's already in a living hell right now, living with this every minute.

Starting point is 01:45:26 Yeah, I guess it's not. Because if she, if she was, let's say, in that psychosis or some kind of like imbalance, two, three years after that, you step out of it so she kind of like wakes up to a hell hellish of a life which is only there because nobody helped her no that's what i'm saying i'm ultimately not trying to like care of she gets justice one way or the other because it's like i don't i don't know she should deserves justice because she did do that and you know like whatever but it's more like what are we doing learning from this and what are the laws being put in plate like what can we do psych evaluations like to check on moms because what if like people are too scared what if they're too whatever like you should go to someone's house and just do

Starting point is 01:46:01 those checks, maybe routine checks. Like, you know, even when we went to our checkups, like, they would give you those mental health things to figure out, which was great, and I loved it, but I think it might be Korea in Japan. Like, I see this all the time, or maybe like Malaysia or something like that. Like, the Asian countries, I think I sent them to you when I was, when I was great through my postpart. I'm like, literally after they have the baby, they're, like, stay in this, like, really beautiful, like, hotel almost kind of place that the government does pay for with like whatever government money, tax money, whatever is over there. And they have, like, round the clock care. And like, the baby's always in the room with you.

Starting point is 01:46:31 So like the care comes from like those, the nurses coming in, bathing you, bathing your child, feeding your child, all that stuff like that. And it's not like a hospital setting. It's like a really bougie, like maybe it's even like Dubai or something like that. And maybe those are like whatever. But I think in Asia specifically like everyone does it. So for like the first like two months after you get birth, you're in this like really nice facility was surrounded by people, surrounded by support. And it's like you and the baby are in there. And you can do activities and you can do lunch.

Starting point is 01:46:57 And it's like we need stuff like that here. I think we need stuff because it's like, yes, like education is important. like obviously I have a really good husband but like obviously there's people who are the husbands like you said have to go in nine to five or work overnight or just because it's not whatever not possible to or they don't have the capacity because it is hard and as I really think it's like providing more support for the moms after giving birth. Also if she was like if she had a new board I don't know how old her youngest was but like you're losing sleep you can hallucinate based on that alone.

Starting point is 01:47:28 100%. So if you have like that very scary like psychosis with not sleeping. That's like a really bad recipe for disaster. Awful. The lack of sleep is that, yeah, that's what I'm saying. It's almost like,

Starting point is 01:47:39 you should be given a night nurse for the first year or something like that. Like you should, I don't know, just something to make it, obviously that's a whole other issue, like daycare and all stuff is so expensive. It's just like, why is it so hard to raise a child and there's no other help? And this stuff happens.

Starting point is 01:47:54 It's just like, yeah, it's like they should send somebody, something because it's just like too much. And no one talks about it. And I guess it's just like a good. PSA that it's so real and even though like at the time I didn't really even know it was like postpartum depression or those kind of stuff it's like damn it's like just I don't know just know that it happens and try and get a lot of support and no one talks about it and then you know all these babies and then you're just like what the hell no one said the severity of it and you just look at

Starting point is 01:48:18 people like that and you're like oh she was crazy or that wouldn't happen to me or whatever but she was a completely normal person with a completely normal family like a husband a husband kids like oh my god this is like a this like a bathroom episode I'm so sorry A bathroom. Trigger. Trigger. Trigger warning. It's heard of you.

Starting point is 01:48:32 I know. I'm surprised you want to talk about this stuff. Well, because I'm because it's like it's you. I'm actually proud of you. Like you before you could not handle anything. If someone farted, ew.

Starting point is 01:48:45 They're gross. I mean, well, I'm not on purpose. But like. No, well, obviously having kids and just so much poop all the time. You're just like, well,

Starting point is 01:48:54 it happens. It's not really a hot topic, but it's a hot topic. I want to know because I feel like this is something. and I think there's no wrong or right answer. I'm just so curious to know your bathroom etiquette. Blowing up someone else's bathroom or you're in a public space.

Starting point is 01:49:11 Like, okay, just blowing up someone else. Okay, come to the house. You share a hotel room. You're sharing a bathroom space. You go into an office with one bathroom. Like you're a trailer with a bathroom, whatever. There's one bathroom and you blow it up. What is the etiquette?

Starting point is 01:49:25 Do you do it? Do you hold it? do you just do it be like sorry guys you warn people you close the door let it air out what are you doing i'm using um poopery you carry with you all the time i do you have with you right now not in my tiny but i guess you're my i didn't plan on going to the bathroom here and blown up i was i don't even want to talk about it it's like it's like it's like it's like for my work oh i don't want to wear anything bougie at work. You know, anyways, okay, that's not the point.

Starting point is 01:49:58 No, I didn't bring it with me today because I didn't plan on blowing up anyone's bathroom. Well, that's in my house, so it's fine. No, I would never though. People blow up our bathroom a lot. Well, I would never. A different people and it's fine. I don't ever want to be like, oh my God, she's like... It's just, we have so many people, it's specifically down here because we have, it's like a separate entry way. So it's like all the podcast, all the glam,

Starting point is 01:50:18 all everything like that. It's just like a separate way. And it's kind of like the guest one and whatever. I mean, you can use any bathroom. I'm not that person who's like, don't use my bathroom. bathroom but um it is so funny because so different people have different well i'm not a kid when it comes to blowing it up okay so i do the i do poopery if i don't have that well i if and in conjunction with you have to do a courtesy flush that what's that mean i don't do a courtesy flush i mean maybe what is that i could try to teach her oh like halfway through like you're done well you do that you flush and then like if you have to do more you flush again and then you wipe and then you

Starting point is 01:50:52 flush. Okay. I guess I don't do that, but... Because you're trying to get rid of, like, the smell? The smell of it. So it doesn't linger. So you're just not letting it stew in there. You know what I mean? And one flesh doesn't do it? Well, in case something else comes out more. So the science of it is if the reason you have the water is the poop falls in the water, then it doesn't smell. There's no smell. Yeah. If your poop just sticks a little bit off the water. That's where the smell comes from. I trust Moses completely because he never, it never smells when we go to a bathroom, a hotel, like with one bathroom, his never, never smithful.

Starting point is 01:51:27 I'm still trying to teach her. What part? He said I still trying. Right now. I said to try. I'm like a courtesy flush. To flush as you go. Not to just wait to the end and flush.

Starting point is 01:51:39 What do you mean you're trying to teach me? Because when, if our toilet gets clogged, it's usually because it's a buildup of poop toilet paper. Like all of it at once and it just sits there in the park. But if you flush as you. go then it's not that much because she uses a lot of toilet paper I know she doesn't it's the toilet paper so I'm not I'm just saying that's why it's better like flush as you go then we don't get I think we're different wiping techniques too because I can know well he's a bit well not even that but I just know I'm like I crumple it up and Mab was like no fold it I was like oh

Starting point is 01:52:12 someone's folding it oh because I was like what why do you do it so I'm like what would you make it into a ball I'm like why would you make it into a ball you want to make it as wide as you can so your fingers are. So suddenly I see Mallor, like a little Tricia, like take it a paper. But I said she said she said me, fold it. I'm like, fold what? The little tissue? The one piece of tissue we're folding?

Starting point is 01:52:34 I was like, oh my God, okay. So. Wait, before we even continue, by the way, that poopery is not allowed in this house. Poopery, I know. Why? He hates. He hates the smell. It makes it worse.

Starting point is 01:52:45 It actually makes it worse. Someone's phone is bothering me. Oh. Oh, thank God it's not me. Because you. You're so scared of me yelling at. It makes it worse because then you have that perfumy smell. Oh, okay, fine.

Starting point is 01:52:58 Well, I wouldn't anyways because you hate all smells. That's true. It's everywhere. Like, it took us weeks to get rid of that one time that you used it upstairs. Which one? Okay. The poopery thing. That's a little dramatic.

Starting point is 01:53:12 I probably used a spray. A spray. Oh. It was something. For breeze or whatever. I love this spray. That doesn't work. Airwick.

Starting point is 01:53:19 No, that doesn't work. Flushes you go safe as well. way to go. Yeah, yours never, ever, ever has smelled. I like that slogan. He's going to get he's going to get an ad for Charmin right now. For bidet. I mean, I'm the biggest. Probably not poopery, but Charmin. Badee he's been trying to gaslight me into. I know, I would love a bidet. No, I would like, well, we had the doctor, at the poop doctor. He's like, she's like, she's a bidet after the signal, it's fine, to wipe. Well, I was a valid question. She has a wound. I didn't know if she should. I didn't know if she should. It's like, it's fine. It'd be

Starting point is 01:53:48 less friction. And I didn't even think she should be there like the one we have. upstairs more like the douche you know that one you use like after pregnancy you have that for the portable not the not the yeah yeah I wouldn't like okay back to blowing up other people's toilets toilets not our own anyways yes I do it of a courtesy flush you should do a courtesy flush don't let just let it stack up turn the fan on turn the fan on if there is a window open the window you know what no one ever does and I feel like I know what oh here's another thing I always keep the fan on and close the door behind me. Yeah.

Starting point is 01:54:23 And if anyone yells at me or comes from me, like, oh, why you keep the fan on? Well, maybe you know why. Who's yelling at you with the fan? I don't know. Someone is. Someone will. That's so weird. Okay.

Starting point is 01:54:35 So, well, if I do it here, like, I'll keep the fan on and I'll close the door. So it's so funny. Don't ever open the door after. That is so rude. Don't ever open the door after? No. Close the behind you. What is sometimes to go to the bathroom?

Starting point is 01:54:48 Because we have, like, photoshoot. So there's like, you know, photographer's background. costumes, talent, producers. Then I will try and wait to be the last. Because people, it's always on a day when we have a ton of people here. And it's like, obviously, people have to go in and use it and stuff like that.

Starting point is 01:55:00 But one thing that people who love the bathroom never do is tell you. And I feel like they should tell you so you can just tell people. I'm not going to go tell some of the minute. Wait five minutes. Like put a little post to be like, wait five minutes to enter. Because that's better than going in there and being like,

Starting point is 01:55:11 oh my God. And there have been somewhere. I'm like, Jesus Christ, what just happened in here? Like, do a courtesy, wait 10 minutes. Most people try to like not be seen. But we know. I saw who just came out of there. I'm always in the glam room.

Starting point is 01:55:22 Well, but they were hoping you didn't do a courtesy flush. They throw their Chipotle in the trap. I know where that Chipoli ended up. It's now in this because now I'm smelling both Chipole and the poop that came afterwards and it's fine. People poop. But give me a little notification so I can tell other people. No one's going to tell you when they're going to take it to.

Starting point is 01:55:37 I'm going to put up to use my bathroom. I don't care. I'm just saying I'm going to put a post it down there to be like, hey guys, wait five minutes because you've been in there. And it's multiple people. It's not even like whatever. Multiple people. And it's fine.

Starting point is 01:55:45 It's fine. It's fine. totally fine. And I've gone to, but you know what I do? And this is maybe bad, don't do what I do. But I just like, if I go to other people's houses, I'm just not pooping. I'm just not going to just hold it. I will hold it until I get home. Like, I'm not going to poop in your house. What if I plug it? What if it builds up? What if it's like, there's just like, there's just so many things that could go wrong. And it's like, I'm holding it. Yeah, but I've noticed some people are just very comfortable pooping wherever they are.

Starting point is 01:56:05 They have no problem. Like, and I never, like, I had one friend that's like everywhere we went. He just goes to poop. Like, everywhere. I had one friend that I don't have anymore, But he's the same thing. He would wait to come to my house just to poop. I'm like, does your plumbing not work? Why are you doing it right when you come to my house? And he only am here for an hour. And I was like, why are you doing it?

Starting point is 01:56:22 Any time. Could be morning, could be afternoon. Could be night. It's just like, I'm going to come here and just like poop in your toilet. I'm like, and massive and massive and a lot. No, I feel like, wait. I feel like you have like some sort of trauma because one time you clog someone's toilet. Oh, I mean, that sounds familiar.

Starting point is 01:56:38 What do you know the story? I don't remember, but like I do. I probably did. and I'm so bad. And you didn't know how to... That's what it is. I don't have to plunge, so I would just keep fleshy. And I would just like...

Starting point is 01:56:49 You've got like a complex. Maybe. I don't like it. I don't like poop. And that's why you want everyone to tell you when they're going to poop. Yes, please. Or just I would. If I was in someone's house and I never would because I would never poop in your house,

Starting point is 01:57:00 only because I'm self-conscious about it, but I would at least say, let's put a little sign on that and just be like, don't come in for five minutes. I think that's a plate. Do some body spray. No spray. No spray. I'm spraying in our house. I'm spraying upstairs all the time.

Starting point is 01:57:12 I'm like, especially because like Malibu and I're sharing the bathroom a lot. It's like I'm going to just spray. It makes it worse. Only to you. Well, I'm the one that leaves me. My mom always seems it smells good. Should I was like, oh, it smells like good or whatever like that. You know, not like.

Starting point is 01:57:24 For a second. I think it smells good. For a second is crazy. All right. Final hot topic. Well, I mean, this was kind of one that got traction, but we love to talk about Tana on here. Tana and Louis Castro.

Starting point is 01:57:34 Did you see this one? Oh, I did. Yeah. Tana Louis Castro. Louis Castro has accused Tana. It's so funny because you were talking about spill slash. And I was like. And so I just like went, you know, I haven't checked.

Starting point is 01:57:44 I used to always check her channel before Hot Topics. I had checked in a while. And today I literally was like an hour ago. And it was like, Tanna Mojo accused of stealing. Did you see anything about this before? I didn't click on that because I didn't know if we were going to talk about it or not. Well, I just saw it because of Tana. Tana talked about over the weekend.

Starting point is 01:57:59 And talk about Mercury and Retrograde. That girl's Mercury and Retrograde is she's in the hospital. She's having like, and she said it like last week too. She was like, I really am feeling this Mercury and Retrograde. And yeah, she's like this whole thing. So, yeah. So I, and I don't know Louis like that, but I just know him as like an influencer.

Starting point is 01:58:17 And he, I guess, accused Tanna of, I guess they weren't of that reality house together, like Kean and J.C. Do you remember that show? Do you watch it? I never watched it, but I do remember it. I was on the first season of it. And I think it was, was Tana in season two?

Starting point is 01:58:33 I don't know. I was on like another season where I feel like Tana was there. I remember she was season three, season three. And I guess they were in the house together. And he said when she left that, well, when he was, leaving the house, he's like, my shoes are gone and he's like, I need to see the footage. And then they said, they saw on camera

Starting point is 01:58:48 that Tana took these shoes, which were size, not her size, like 41 or 42. And at the time she was like a 39. So she was like, why would I take shoes that don't fit me? But then she was saying she had like a panic attack because she's like, what if there's like footage and I actually did, did, like, you know,

Starting point is 01:59:06 not thinking about it. Like you're packing. She talked about it, how she was like in this house and she said it with Fusi Tube and it was like uncomfort. and she was trying to leave in a hurry. I've accidentally taken people's things all the time like that. And you just like realized, like, oh my God, I took this thing or whatever like that. So then she started to get panicked to take what if there is because she's like, there's no way it would be me. There's no way it would be me.

Starting point is 01:59:24 The way he said it too, and here's the thing about podcasts. Because it's all in Louis' podcast. I either talk about it. It's like podcasts, you do just be saying. Yeah. And the way you say things because you're just being, you're trying to be funny or trying to be like dramatic. You're trying to get those clips or whatever. And the way he said it was very much like, Tana, like you owe me for those shoes.

Starting point is 01:59:39 Like you still the shoe like very much like Tana stole my shoes. And then Tana and her piece era, she's just like, why is this being brought up? It would be bad. Like, I would think that too, like if a young influencer, I mean, they might be the same age. I forget Tanna's so young too. But like, I feel like someone was like 10 years, like 10 years ago, Trisha stole my thing. I'd be like, why are you bringing it up now if you have the footage? Yeah, I guess it, I wonder

Starting point is 01:59:58 what the context. That's the other thing with podcasts. It's sometimes like, what is the context? I'm like, you're just telling the story so you can get some views? It's like us today not having a hot topic. I'm like, what's a story that I can tell? It's like, I was really trying to think. I'm like, what story I can tell about myself and I'm like I don't have one so we're doing this one but yeah and then it's like yeah and then it's like 10 years later god there was something that was brought up to and it was like something old of mine from like 10 years ago I'm like why we're talking about this now but anyways it was it because it's relatively whatever yeah and it's like if he had the footage you think you would at least show the clip or make it a funny version just to be like oh my god this was so crazy like yeah stole my shoes to get the the headline like did he have a clip of her stealing it oh I don't think so because I feel like well he said he said he saw it. I don't know if he has the footage in hand. Well, it's

Starting point is 02:00:42 her board versus his. But I know, yeah. It's a weird thing to like, I guess yeah, I don't know. I guess more it was like maybe just a story aside. I don't know the context of it all. But. So when was that like sitting on it and waiting

Starting point is 02:00:58 this long? Ten years ago. Not no. It might have been, no, because like reality house that I was on was like seven years ago. Oh, okay. I would have to say maybe like five years ago, which is still a long time. Yeah. Like you would think if you're doing a story time or a TikTok or something, like it would be... We've got some people on... Not it sounds so bad, but like we've seen some people like take things, you know, not in the stealing way in a very much like, oh, they may...

Starting point is 02:01:23 They probably don't want this kind of way or something. So you like go on the camera to see what happened because you're just so good. You're just like, oh, my God, what happened with that or whatever? But I would never like call someone out because I'm like, oh, they probably just thought it's never like something like deliberate. Like they didn't steal a chair or like a cup or something. It says something like, oh, they probably thought it was like trash because they were sitting by the time. trash something like oh I'll just take this whatever but I would never call

Starting point is 02:01:41 someone out for it I mean I've had it's like that watch that I lost well I didn't I didn't lose it oh yes someone took it because but we never had footage of it we didn't have footage and that's why I never said it like I've always we've always bleeped it it was an influencer

Starting point is 02:01:57 yes it had to have been because that was all that was back there that was a tough one because but that's like I don't have any footage and I can't do anything about it it's kind of the same thing too because it's like the Reality House is kind of a tough one too, because it could have been. It could have been. Well, I guess he's saying he had footage, okay, that's different.

Starting point is 02:02:12 Because your specific thing was at my show and there was like, not a lot of influencers, but like maybe like five influencers back there. So like, there's one that like has a history. Yes. And it's like, but do you accuse the one that's like had the history of stealing things? Or yeah. But I don't believe him that he has the footage. First of all, he doesn't have the footage.

Starting point is 02:02:30 He said he saw. I don't know if he has it. And it didn't sound like he saw it. He sounded like he asked them and they told him that when they looked at the footage, that what they saw. It's so weird. Why wouldn't you send a video? If there was footage, or he saw the footage, he would be more descriptive of what he saw.

Starting point is 02:02:48 You know what I mean? Because to me, it's very interesting. Like, okay, she's rushing to leave. Let me gather my stuff, push it in a bag, and leave. Were there shoes next to her? They shared bed next to each other. Or there's footage of tend to go into my stuff, getting shoes out of my stuff, putting it in her bag. Right.

Starting point is 02:03:06 Very different situation. So to me, it's like he made it vague enough that anyone can, it's been long enough that she can't refute it. But then I don't know. So that's to me. Well, I just felt bad because I feel like she got into like a little anxiety. And obviously like Tana's my friend. So maybe like bias. And I really like Louis too.

Starting point is 02:03:24 I like his art. And obviously, spoiler. Like they made TikToks together. They're like fine and everything like that. But I do know Tana's like anxiety over these kind of things because it is like a drama thing. People want to like pile on. It's not so much like the influencer influencer. Yeah.

Starting point is 02:03:36 Yeah. It's like the audience. That is going to come for her. Yeah, yeah. And I think she's just, she really is trying to be in this like peace era. And as she said, like the brand safe era at all.

Starting point is 02:03:45 And it's like, yeah, and it's hard. And it's hard. Especially when it's something that is so, um, one, it could not be true or two,

Starting point is 02:03:51 it could be like kind of like silly. It's kind of like, well, she didn't maliciously be like, I'm still in these. Um. Or being seen like, you remember that girl that got shoes on Poshmark and returned them used.

Starting point is 02:04:04 But then you saw all of her pictures. she was using those shoes. Oh, yes, yes. So it's not like he's showing, and here's footage of Dana with my shoes, wearing them to this. Like, I don't know. It just sounds a bit.

Starting point is 02:04:16 Yeah, maybe just a little bit fabricated. I'd have like a story or something like that. I don't know. So there's a sex in the city episode where she goes to this party and they tell her to take off her shoes. And she doesn't want to because she was wearing the outfit. Well, when she went to go put back her shoes, they were gone.

Starting point is 02:04:31 Now that's so interesting. I think that was jackets too. Yeah. So she's like, well, you told me to take off my shoes. and I feel like you're responsible for paying for them. Oh, in real life. Or was the sexy city? No, it's in the city episode.

Starting point is 02:04:40 I think this was real life too. I think something happened like this. But go ahead and yeah. And so she's like, they wouldn't have been stolen if you didn't ask me to take my shoes off, whatever, whatever. So if he really, really, one of those shoes,

Starting point is 02:04:50 he would have asked whoever was there last. I mean like, hey, do you have my shoes or have you seen my shoes? Yeah, I wonder if he brought it up to her. Can you check your bag? It didn't sound like he brought up to her at the time either. Like it is kind of like a weird timing. And it's like, yeah. And I get both sides.

Starting point is 02:05:05 Like I totally get him wanting to like have like a story. I feel like I've definitely shared like story about influencers. I'm like, did I need to share that for drama purposes? No. But then I also feel, you know, for her because it's like the anxiety. Because I think she, I knew she was feeling the anxiety because it's like, what if there was video or whatever?

Starting point is 02:05:17 And I didn't think it was a different time in her life or whatever, obviously before she was sober. And then on top of that you could tell she was feeling something because then they went over the top and then they did like a TikTok lab. They go shoe shopping together. She's buying a mat. She bought him a pair of shoes before she like knew the brandy like. She got them these brand.

Starting point is 02:05:32 Then they went and bought matching shoes at this like. They really went. full out on it. I was like damn. So. Yeah. He get matching of whatever like. What are those called?

Starting point is 02:05:41 I don't know. Yeah. Did they get matching ones of those? That would have been really funny. I think they have the same size now. I think that was the gag of all because I think Tanna's foot has grown and stuff. I almost was like wait. But then I forgot how what her size was.

Starting point is 02:05:55 I was like oh wait. Maybe they could have put her. She's, she's grew. Her feet feet. Mine do too. Mine do too. Mine are like the tiniest size six and mine are like eight and a half almost nine now because I was going to order a pair of like ugg slippers.

Starting point is 02:06:04 and I was like, I got like nine feet now. They really do, girl. It's actually good, though, because when I got those shoes for Tiana, I got her, like, these hose one for her birthday because shout out. I love a friend when I'm like, hey, can you help me out, like, getting a gift? Shout out that he actually knew. Yeah, that he knew. Yeah, that he knew.

Starting point is 02:06:19 Whatever, whatever, whatever. And it's like, the fact that he knew she loved him. Those were crazy. I almost like... They actually were so cute on her. They were cute on her. And I remember, like, those are crazy. But it was the only pair left.

Starting point is 02:06:28 They obviously were popular because it was the only pair left. It was in her size, which is like a size 40. if you ever want to get 10 out of a shoe, the size 40, and European. And I was like, it's kind of good, though, because everybody always wants, like, the 37s and stuff like that. Like, it's kind of good to be a little bit bigger because now no one's going to have those.

Starting point is 02:06:43 Yeah. But I'm glad it was resolved. I'm not here to be like, whatever, but it's just like, when you have a podcast, you're going to say, I think that's why a lot of people should have a podcast. Probably me sometime, too. That's why I'm very much like, you know,

Starting point is 02:06:56 you just talk. You talk for so long, and you just say, like, whatever. Sometimes, too, you don't mean. took it out a certain way. Sometimes I can start drama and you're just like damn it probably never meant to be that serious which I'm assuming he probably thought too hence why he like went over to I mean he was like in a G-Wagon when he pulled up

Starting point is 02:07:11 at Tanna's house I was like well he seems to be doing well everyone's doing good yeah she's doing good but that was Mercury retrograde please stop for Tana's sake 23rd everyone oh is it okay 23rd Callie sake too she was telling me all her Mercury Retrograde and oh god I walked out of a job

Starting point is 02:07:27 no call no show oh wow yeah that was another incident and a different job. And then I got a new job during this time. Yes. You are in your job era. Yeah. Yes.

Starting point is 02:07:39 I got a new relationship. It's just been all over the place. Okay, just dropping the bombshell at the end of the episode. Is it a relationship? Yeah. Okay. You did tell me a little bit about it. And I'm very excited for you.

Starting point is 02:07:50 Oh my gosh. I'm going to go visit her on next week. Oh my gosh. Are you so excited? Yeah, I am. Oh, my gosh. I am so excited for you. I was so happy when you told me and you're like,

Starting point is 02:08:00 no one else. Oh my God. I love it. And I was like, oh my gosh, I love that for you. I'm so happy. Yeah.

Starting point is 02:08:05 Well, you definitely are just like, glowing differently. And maybe that's it. I was like, wait, you look so like good. And you always look good.

Starting point is 02:08:11 You always do your hair and makeup. And I was just like, wait. I know it's, it wasn't that. So it wasn't that. It's like, it's the happy love glow.

Starting point is 02:08:17 I know when you posted the flowers. I was like, I love it. We'll have so much fun. I know because next week is. Hopefully we've prepared you for your, yes. Because if,

Starting point is 02:08:26 you know, she gets the wrong cure. That's you. Wow. You really. There's so many things. This whole episode was... I should have your location in general, though.

Starting point is 02:08:37 You can have it. Yeah, you have it. I love a location tracker just in general because, like, and it's not ever a gotcha moment, ever, because I'm just like, whatever. And if you don't want me to know, you can turn it off or something like that. But I like to have it. I should get moms too because it's just like, I kind of love it, actually, just to make sure not pass out and see.

Starting point is 02:08:54 And it helps finding the phone we learned. Oh, yeah. My dad showed how to pinpoint it exactly in the house. What? because I always lose it in the living room. So I just push on her location and then there's find my phone and it literally kind of like guides you through the house. Yes. You can find it exactly on my God.

Starting point is 02:09:10 On top of it. Yes. Literally a human was on top of my phone. Somebody was sitting on it. And most like, um, it's under you. It's just like, did you? Yeah. But it's so funny because like leads you, leads you.

Starting point is 02:09:25 And then you get to a person is like, you have her phone. Like, no, I don't have her phone. Like, so get up. That's so funny. It was really funny. That was the way you said it to. Moses, you know his delivery is just... Anyways.

Starting point is 02:09:41 Okay, the end of the episode, it gets a little loopy, looks a little crazy, but... Shout to everyone involved for the happy ending of Shugate. And, you know, it's all good. It's all good. I sometimes have some of her stuff here because I'm not leveling. Sometimes some of her stuff just gets left here because everything's leopard, everything's matching. Yeah, it gets mixed up All right, well it was great to have you

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Starting point is 02:10:36 It's like high school, except all of us graduated in different years. Decades, really. All of us, but that's fine. All right, love you guys. We'll see you soon. Bye. All of us.

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Just Trish - Tana Accused of Shoe Theft & Taylor Frankie Paul Needs to Log Off | Just Trish Ep. 296

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