Just Trish - Trisha's K-Pop Charts Take Over + Calling Out Worst Ex Ever... | Just Trish Ep. 279

Episode Date: May 26, 2026

It's a sister, sister special because Kalli is here! Our favorite gamer girl is back, and she's sharing an emotional update about the health of her beloved (and infamous) pup, Mukbang. Plus, Trish goes boots on the ground to investigate Bravolebrity Bethenny Frankel's shoe drama with another 'Real Housewives' star. And Trisha says a big 감사합니다 to South Korea for making her K-Pop debut an international hit. 💖🪩THANK YOU TO NOCD FOR SPONSORING💖🪩 If you're struggling with OCD or unrelenting intrusive thoughts, NOCD can help. Book a free 15 minute call to get started: https://learn.nocd.com/TRISH 💖🪩THANK YOU TO DRAFTKINGS FOR SPONSORING💖🪩 Download the DraftKings Casino app and sign up with code JUSTTRISH to claim your Flex Spins and experience Cashingo 💖🪩PRE-ORDER TRISHA'S NEW MEMOIR NOW!!!!!💖🪩 https://linktr.ee/trishapaytas_ 💖🪩GET TICKETS TO TRISHA'S LONDON SHOW!💖🪩 http://royalalberthall.com/tickets/events/2026/trisha-paytas 💖🪩SUBSCRIBE TO MOSES' COOKING CHANNEL💖🪩 https://www.youtube.com/@mosescookingvideos 💖🪩FOR EXTENDED EPISODES AND BONUS CONTENT💖🪩 https://www.patreon.com/cw/JustTrish 💖🪩NEW JUST TRISH MERCH!💖🪩 https://justtrish.com Subscribe to Oscar!:  @oscargracey  Edited by  @jimmywhetzel  https://linktr.ee/jimmywhetzel TIMESTAMPS: 0:00 BRITRISH INVASION, KALLI'S HERE, RACHEL ZEGLER, ALAN RICKMAN 10:00 UPDATE ON LITTLE MUKBANG'S HEALTH, BOILING CRAB 23:00 TRAMPOLINES, MICHAEL JACKSON, ROBERT IRWIN, AI IS EVIL, JOHN TRAVOLTA'S BERET 43:00 STREAMING, CHRIS PRATT, MORMONS 48:30 THE VALLEY ON BRAVO, BACK TO BACK PREGNANCIES, POST PARTUM DEPRESSION, DANNY AND NIA 1:19:00 MY WORST EX, WADE WILSON, GEOFFREY PASHEL 1:28:00 THE CRASH DOC 1:34:00 TRISHA'S KPOP SONG CHARTING 1:40:00 BETHENNY FRANKEL SHOES DRAMA 1:46:30 DISNEYLAND, MOSES SAVES A BIRD, MARTIN SHORT Join this channel to get access to perks: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCy2A0jf5lYUYQxi7iKHmHhQ/join Follow Just Trish on Social Media https://www.instagram.com/justtrishpod/ NO PURCHASE NECESSARY. Open to legal residents of the 50 U.S. states and D.C., 18+. To enter: (i) Sign up to Whatnot using the following link https://www.whatnot.com/invite/TrishP88 , and (ii) follow the following Whatnot account @TrishP88. One entry per person. Entries must be received by 6/19/26 at 11:59:59 p.m. PT. Winner selected at random on or about 6/19/26. Winner will be notified via the email associated with their Whatnot account and must respond within 5 days or prize may be forfeited and an alternate winner selected. Prize: $500 of Whatnot credit redeemable for purchases on the Whatnot platform (ARV: $500). Winner is responsible for all applicable taxes. This promotion is not sponsored, endorsed, or administered by YouTube. Sponsored by Whatnot. Void where prohibited. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

No, I hated that so much. And I was like, you're such a loser. And like you're just, like you contribute nothing. Like you said, he's not rich, he's not hot. He's like contributing nothing. So also you're not a good father on top of that. Like you have to pick, you have to pick one. You have to pick one thing that you're like good at

and you're good at nothing. Nothing. You're literally good at nothing. Oh, welcome to the Justice Podcast. I've just come back from Cross the Pond and it was amazing. Although I don't know if it was amazing because we're filming this a couple days before. I've even before my show, but hopefully it's good. I don't know.

What do you think? Mame. Honestly, your accent eats I can never Okay. Pim, period Cheerio. I appreciate it.

Oh, oh, I crocky. No, thank you. Okay. I hate when he doesn't want to do an accent with me. Thank you for doing it. You're welcome. What do you think of when you think of a British accent? Like, what's the first sound that comes in your mind?

Right away, I think, Paulet. Oh my God, it was insane pirates of the Caribbean, even though it's like Caribbean, but like... It was. They were from England, I think, half of the... them. Well, yeah. Commodore Norrington. That's what I

think of, though. She was everything. Karen Ely was like... Oh my God. She was like my everything. The national treasure of the UK and she has disappeared. She's what made me want to have a straight hair. You know? Oh, okay. She's what made me what... I remember that when they did Pied with her and she had a 20 inch waist.

I remember being like, I need to have a 20 inch waist. No, that's like a Barbie. Yeah, I don't know if that's ever going to be possible for me. But we love and she was so good in love actually, too. Oh, I was going to say love actually. I guess anything British was was here nightly for me. Yeah, better like Beckham, like she was. That's what I'm saying, she was London.

I know. I hope, hopefully it went good. Anyways, if you guys saw me, I was at the Royal Arup Hall and, yeah, I'm probably flying back now. Well, the merch is tea. The merch is tea. Yes, the British invasion. I hope that it was good. I mean, the merch was good. The concept is good. In my mind, I think it's going to be really good.

I think it's going to be great. I think so too. We're having a string quartet. It's your first time performing over there, right? First time performing over there. I'm going to be singing my new Sarang Hay live. I think a lot of people are like, but can she sing this live? I would sing for you guys right now, but maybe just come to the show and then it's it. But I have full confidence in that song more than anything else because I practice that song more than anything.

But first time live, going to do a little Sweeney Todd. I'm opening the show with like, there's no place like London. Did you ever see Sweeney Todd? It's so funny that you say that because I constantly quote Sweeney Todd. What? I don't know why and I don't think anybody understands like where I got it

from. But it's like... Did you love it? I don't. Nothing's gonna harm you, not while I'm all around. I always sing that. That's such a good one. Wait, what? How did you, how did you watch it? Because I watched it.

I remember watching me, Todd. I literally watched it with you. But I watched it first in 2007 after I got out of the hospital for three weeks. My dad found me in my apartment, just covered in like feces and stuff like anyways. And he took me to the Riverside Hospital. I don't know how that even, we weren't even talking to me.

My dad. I think my neighbor Superman, who was like literally Superman at the time. R.P. Christopher Dennis. I think he was to call my dad or something. because I was just like in feces or whatever. And then my dad takes me to Riverside Hospital in 2007 in December. And I remember like getting out of the hospital and he was like, do you want to go see a movie? And I remember with Sweeney Tahn.

And I remember giving me like Will to Live. I was just like, I want to be in this world. Okay, good. A little dark though. I mean, he was just slicing gross. I mean, he's like literally killing people and like cooking them into meat pies. I felt the pain though. I felt, I felt it because he was doing it out of vengeance.

He lost his daughter. Yeah. And Alan Rickman, we love RIP, was Judge Turpin, but he was keeping her as his work. but also like his lover? I don't know. It was very weird. It was like he was kind of like into Joanna. And did you know, Vecna was,

I feel you, Joanna. Oh my gosh. I didn't know that, but I do love him. Jamie Campbell Bauer. I wonder if he's over there. Anyways, I'm gonna find a bunch of people in the UK. He's actually humming, I heard. Oh, I would cry.

I would actually cry. That would be everything. By the way, my sister's here as the co-host today. Kelly is here. Yes, we had a pre-film ahead of time and Oscar's coming this afternoon to help me from. my Thursday because I'm going to be gone for a week.

So I was like to switch it up because there's always very different topics. Oscar is like the smartest person ever when it comes to Hot Topic. I'm always like, what? Tell me. And I love learning things. My sister, right away, the first thing she said is like, not even a hot topic. Did you hear Nicacado straight now? I was like, it's very different.

This is a very different hot topic. So we're switching up only because we're filming. We have to film the hot topics in the same day. And there's only so many hot topics. Literally my sister's like, well, hopefully something happens before that. I'm like, don't worry. He already has like his hot topics figure. He has hot topics if there's no hot topics.

But I'm excited to hear your hot topics today. Are you prepared? What I'm here, it's like more of a Kiki and I like that. But, like, we're trying to get the hot topics. But yes, I am excited. But we don't have to get started right away on the hot topics. You should do a little recap. You look great, by the way.

You look fabulous. You look like Kiar Nightly. You used to look like Kier Nightly. You used to look like Kier Nightly. Oh, I love the dog thing. Oh, my God. Yeah. Knaightly?

No. Rachel. Oh. And I have a defender. We didn't even talk about that. I hear it. I was like, I wouldn't know. It's mouth acting. I was like, it's giving Keirr-Nightly and it's everything. Skinny. Mom does it. It's giving like, look at my jaw. Yeah. And you know what? Honey, I was looking at that jaw. That's what we do.

Always. You put the tongue above your mouth and you're just like, you have to like, you have to do it. It's giving Kear and Ily. People were just not familiar with her mug game. No, they don't know. They don't know her mug game because she outwogs everybody. And she is so good. I know we didn't talk about that and death because I was like, people just love to hate on a girl who's serving and she was serving so much. And that is a great. And that is great. And you used to do that. But immediately I was like, oh my God, Kira Knightley.

Like, it reminds me of like that jaw, strong claws. Okay, get it. She'd be like, Pallet. Yes. But Pirates right, do you have to do Pallet? It means this. It's like also very Hermione Ranger. Oh, I was so jealous of her.

She was with Orlando Bloom and Johnny Depp. Oh, but not in real life in the movie. Yes, she got to kiss both. I remember she went on like, Regis and Kelly were like one of those shows. And I remember they were like, what was it like to kiss Johnny Depp and Orlando Bloom? And she was quite nice. And I was like, I bet it was girl.

I don't know where she is anymore, actually. Just living her life in England town. She probably makes hell of residuals, honestly. With Pirates and Love, actually. I wonder. I do wonder. Yeah, love actually was so good. Yeah, it was so good.

Alan Rickman, too. I miss him. Do you remember how to Alan Rickman? Yes. For real. I feel like people like, oh, I loved Alan Rickman because of like Harry Potter. But, like, I was like the original Alan Rickman stand before Harry Potter even came out.

I loved him and Die Hard as Hans Gruber. You remember that? Hans Gruber and Die Hard? No. You never saw Die Hard? The first one? Yeah. Yippy Guy,

motherfucker. I literally watched it with you growing up. I saw it like back then when it came out. I don't remember. I feel like that's like the classic when someone comes to America, they watch Die Hard because they just think that's like so like Bruce Willis and like fighting. Oh, geez. What was he fighting?

I don't know. Does he find terrorists? I have no idea. I don't know. I was like so young watching that with you because like. Because Alan Rickman. Yeah, because you were obsessed with Alan. That was when you got obsessed with someone, you would have to see all.

all of their movies. All of it. If they made a soundtrack or if they made an album, you would have it. Any kind of merge, posters, whatever maybe. I had so much Alan Riemann posters. Like, and Alan Rikman from like. The memorabilia is insane.

Oh, I like loved him from everything. Do you remember the most obscure Allen Ritman movie we watched? Because we would like rent movies and I would watch so many of these. I don't remember. If you say it, I'll remember. Do you remember the movie?

I think it was called Blow Dry. Yes. Oh my God, yes. It was Heidi Kloom in it too. I love that movie actually. And they did like the It was a hair show. Yeah, and they did like, I a heart pubic hair.

Yes. I love that movie. And they did like crazy styling and I just like loved that movie. That was so much. Yes, that was cute. If you have not seen that movie, you have to see it. It's really good. That was the Alderman and that.

He was also in dogma and I remember he was pantless and I was like, he was like my sexual awakening idea because I was like a weird like horny teenager, but I remember that like Al-Ruteman is pantless in this one. But like he was like, he was almost like an alien, I guess like there because it was kind of like, I guess he was like an alien. angel and dogma? I'm trying to think of how that worked. I don't remember that one. So he kind of had, oh, it was Jay and Silent Bob's first movie.

And I remember being like, yeah, and he kind of had like a it was covered. It was basically just like a almost like a vagina without the slit, I guess. I don't know. It was kind of that. Also, Galaxy Quest. I didn't, I don't remember that one. I know of it. I know. And he had the crazy. And he was like signing at Comic-Con. They were just actors who were in like a Star Trek show, but

real aliens came and Rain Wilson was one of the real aliens. I got it. And they're like, come to space with us, but they're like, we're on a TV show. We don't know how to do this. You don't remember? I did not like any kind of sci-fi movie growing up. But it was like a sci-fi parody. Yes. Oh my God. Alan Ringman had

such a good discography. Is that what it's called? I think so. I don't know. He had such good. I know you guys might like him from Harry Potter, which he was great in Harry Potter. Yes. But there is so much that he's done. Obviously, like, Sweenie Todd was so good. I love it actually. I mean, he's so good, too, in that. I mean, those are like, his mainstream ones.

But I like a deep cup. I like a Michael Clayton, if you will. Like, I love a deep cut of Alan Rickman. And he is, Moses gave me Alan Rickman a little bit when I first met him. I was like, you're giving. I made him brew with Professor Snape. Yeah, he's good. Everything.

He gives, no, he has to. You're like, oh, he's kind of like Jason Momoa. Oh, he's kind of like Alan Rickman. I was like, okay. That's why I married him. When I did the TikTok, I sounded like him. Who? Alan Rickman.

Yeah, do your impression. You remember. Oh, silly incantations in this class. Oh, okay. Just doing the whole monologue. That was close. That was great. There was something about like, actually?

Like, what was the? It was, oh, God, it was a TikTok trend. It was, and I don't know, I can't remember either. Possibly. Like, there was something about, like. I know, we need the TikTok sound. And dun, da-da-da-da-da-da. Yeah.

Because it was about water. Oh, okay. Well, I believe you. I know you're going to find it. He's good to be. He was pretty good. Yeah, you did it good. Do yours again?

I don't know the first part or silly incantations in this class. As such. You know what? That's a trend right now on TikTok Because they have these dogs running around Because you know how I put blankets on my dogs or whatever And then they get up and it looks like they have a cape When they're running.

Oh no, I know. So they use that sound. I don't know. It's like Professor Snape with his big black cat. Yes, I remember we used to know that whole like monologue. Oh my gosh, I know everything. How are you? How is Mucky update on Mucky?

Mucky's doing okay. You know, he's got kidney failure, but. But how's he has a spirit? He's good. So he can't drink? Drinking water. He's making a joke. He said he can't drink because he has kidney failure.

Right. Alcohol. Right. You're like, no, he's drinking water. He's surviving. That was a serious. Alcoholism is. But no, when I found out, I was like, can I give him my kidney?

I know. That's crazy. Can they do a kidney transplant? They said that it's not very, like, it's not successful. Dog to dog? Yeah, it's not very successful. There's mucky. I know.

Miko, you mean. Miko. No, because that's like the lovely bones or my sister's keeper or what is that? I don't know. Remember, like, they had another child because the other one needed a transplant. And I'm like, could you imagine being born just to give your sister? I think a lot of, I think that happens a lot. I know, no, it's awful.

I think it's awful, but I do think it's like if I were born. It was a movie. Yeah, I don't remember what it was called. Well, it was a book, but. But yeah, if you were born, well, we had a different doubt. so I don't know if you could give me your kidney. I don't know how that works. You have to have like...

Oh, maybe you can. You can. Like the same blood or something. Oh, no, maybe not. Because like Sina Gomez got a kidney. And I think George Lopez got a kidney. Yeah, you have to have the same like blood. Or if you're O positive.

What are you... I know. Our sponsor today. Well, that's why I'm like, oh positive. It's like the neutrally universal blood. You could donate to everyone. O positive? I think it's O positive.

I know that. I know because I really don't know what my blood type is. Well, you should probably know what that is. Okay, no. I don't know how to figure that out. Go to the doctor. Blood test. That's where you lose me because I don't like getting my blood drugs.

Usually got a blood panel. Just overall, you are over 30 now. I usually do. I usually do. But like, honestly, you don't know your blood type? Oh, my phone type. Oh, my gosh. Yeah, so I'm in need of anything. I don't know anything about my health.

Well, let's get knowing about it. Yeah, probably. Well, I'm glad Muckie's doing good because they were like saying he was sick. but he isn't a good spirits when we see him. He is in jumping. My dad just visited recently and like when he came in like, oh my God, you wouldn't even think that he was sick because he was just like jumping all over the place

and so obsessed with my dad. He loves, he loves boys, huh? Well, we don't have a lot of male figures in his life. Yes, so he gets excited. So when there is one, he gets really, I mean, even when Moses was first coming around and I would bring Mucky over to your house, he would be all up in that hair.

I don't know if Moses was in. that. I'm like, I... Yesterday we were at Boiling Crab. We made it to Boiling Crab, by the way. If you guys, I watched last week, it was like, if we were going to make to Boiling Crab, we did.

By the way, Boiling Crab is insane right now. They even said it, like, we haven't seen you guys in here in a while. That's because last time we went to Mowing Crab with the two girls when I was pregnant with Aquaman. It was like, literally we get there. Okay, boiling crab opens at noon on the weekends. We got there at like 11.30. And it was already like, literally like 30 people outside.

We were waiting in the hot sun. Then it happened again yesterday. They opened at 3 p.m. on Monday. and we get there at 2.30, and now we're like one of the first couples there. But by the time that gets let in, too, it was like so hot

and then everyone behind us. But they said usually it's a two-hour wait. Like if you're not there at rope drop, that is like a two-hour wait for boiling crab. Not the rope-drop. Yeah, the rope drop for boiling crab. We're there. Oh, there's like 50 people at the rope drop for boiling crab.

And we want to get a booth. We want to get in there. Boiling crap, if there's any connection to get me like a VIP card or something, I would love to like have a number because we do love it. so it's so good. It's also so expensive and it's packed and I'm like how do people avoid it's like a it's like a bougie thing for us like we were celebrating something so I was

like okay let's go to blame crab but like 160 bucks and we got some crab legs and some french fries which are delicious I love the crab legs and then we only got like two crab legs last time and I'm like this is insane but like everyone eating there like six tables of six to eight people I was like I think most people are celebrating something or they get the different things on the menu yeah some things are because you like the wings there, right? Or the chicken. We did get chicken wings. We did get chicken wings. We did get fried oysters. Well, we got fried oysters too.

Okay. There's a bunch of stuff. Oh, they did get some potatoes and some hard boiled eggs and some rice. But they have new menu items too. They have those sandwiches with fried. So they have lunch options now that are cheap. If I go there, I got to get some crab legs. I did think of you. It was like late. We also had to wait in line. Like we got there at 2.30 and we had to wait in line for a half hour. So it's like this whole thing. We also was like a mean greet. We had a lot of fans there yesterday. Like when we were like lined up, people were like,

Can we get pictures? And then when we sat, everyone was like, great, we were eating. And as soon as we got up, everyone's so respectful. Everyone's like, then I got literally, I got like a little bombarded. And I love that. They're like, oh my God, can we have a picture? I smell like crab. And I was like, I'm so sorry.

But I did love it. It was fun. It was like a little minkery. People were getting up out of their seats and their little bibs. And I was like, love this so much. So obviously. They need a local child here. That's what I mean.

It's close. It's like 10 minutes. No. 15 minutes. No. They need one closer. That's crazy. And the Venturo.

We drive 30 minutes to get into Benihana. That's true. I mean, we drove an hour. We drove an hour and a half to get to the Tanana one, which was worth it. It was so good. Yes. No. Santa Anita.

Okay. Well, same thing. It's not the same thing. It's close enough. It's also called like Arcadia. There's like so many names for that area because we're like, my mom dated someone in Arcadia and she was like the worst to get to. But then she loved the little peacock park that was there.

It was actually so cute. Yeah, we should have brought the kids because they were like there was a little peacock. She was like hanging out of the park. Peacoggs, yeah. It was cool. She did like that part of it anyways. It was an adventure. You know, it's our bonding time, though.

We don't see each other as much. And so we had an hour and a half bonding time. We got the big fishbowl drinks. Shout up, Benihana, go get that Trish Trio. Love the Trish Trio. We got to see the sign. Everyone was so nice there. The general managers, but everyone was just like a vibe.

And it was so much fun and they were so nice. And they offered up as a private room. And I was like, no, I need to sit with everybody. Like, I love to just sit with the people when I go to Benny Hanna. You know what I mean? Like, that's the experience. And it's fun. So go get the Trish Trio.

Thank you guys to everyone. Seriously, for everyone who goes out there, like, that's so nice. It's so weird to see, like, humans. Like, you see numbers. You see comments, but, like, actual people going out and, like, dressing up and, like, taking their boyfriends or, like, someone did a full Trish cosplay at Benny and Hanna. Jimmy Wessel went with a group of people, our editor. Like, the fact that, like, people are, like, real-life humans are, like, going out of the house

and taking pictures next to, like, my little Trish Trio. I'm like, that's so cool. No, it is really cool. I love seeing all the TikToks. too. And it's a good meal. For people that go, they're like so happy about it. It's all I ever ordered for the past 30 years. It's a show and a dinner.

Yes, and it's the best one. And it's quality food, the filet mignon with that truffle butter and the shrimp. You won't leave hungry, that's for sure. Oh yeah, you guys had like leftovers for days after. We had a whole box of them to go. I always get so full on like the soup and the salad. Yeah, it's good. Can I say? You know I don't like soup. That soup is so good. They're stupid. I always have her. I always have her.

No, but I was like her. I do eat some of it. I don't eat all of it. She eats like a little bit. I do like it. I do. That's why I was saying is I don't like soup. I do love that like a little mushroom soup there. It's pretty good. It's really good. Anyway, so thank you for all the love on that. The UK show just ended. But the Vegas show is coming. Triciaanana Vegas. Yeah, I'll come. Yeah, he loves a Vegas moment. I love a Vegas moment. You can probably be in it actually. It's a whole show. Like we're how we have so many people like Holly's in it. Page. Oh my God. Molly. Yeah. Well, maybe I'll be there. You want to come out. We're doing a variety show. One day with Tanna, and I love this about her,

it's because I'm so the opposite, but I love it. Like, I love when people bring this out. It's like, she's like more people the better. Like, Tana will travel with like 20 people deep for anything and just have them a part of everything. And I'm so the opposite because I'm so such an isolated person. I even Google, because I'm like, is there something wrong with me that I'm such like an isolated person that I'm just like always wanting to be alone. There's just two different types of people is what I found out.

There's just a personality traits. But I do love, I will say when I went to Tiana, Tiana went to Unwell together. I do love kind of the camaraderie where everyone's just like trying to like squeeze into one car and just like, oh, we're all going here together. Like there is, there is a vibe to it for sure. Yeah, like let's all go get lobster tails at the Golden Steer and Holly's so great too. She'll be in Vegas. And it's just such a fun vibe. So I'm inviting everybody. I said, you want to come to? I'll come. You know, Tana loves you. June 12th. June 12th, right. At the Cosmo. Slay. And she loves you too. She loves you. I love Tana. I actually was like, ooh, let's like channel our Tana with this.

You are giving Tanna what they had. I love it too so much. Also, last time you were here, I figured this was the great update because you're on this episode. Oh, the dumpling. You got the glitter dumpling. But I thought it was going to be bigger. This was my $600 stock X. That was the $600 dumpling. It was supposed to be the big one.

Can I see it? Can I touch it? I don't know. I'm just kidding. Call you the mom in the car. I know. Wow. How do we feel?

It looks good. It's good for it. I don't like how sticky it is. Okay, Malboom. Anything sticky? If it's a rice crispy, it's like it's sticky. Oh, yeah. It looks like it's literally oozing out.

Oh, you think it's like it's. knockoff what's happening. Oh, maybe not. No, I don't know. They verified it. I thought it was going to be a little more sparkly. Let's see.

I thought they were big. It feels like an implant. Well, there is, right? It kind of does. Oh, it is sticky. You thought that, no, what did you say? They do you have big ones.

Yeah. I thought this was going to be a big one. I'm so bad with sizes. You know, I like, you're so bad with sizes. You're so bad with quantities. It's so bad. And size too.

You're so bad at knowing if you've already ordered it or not. Oh, that part. Yeah, I'm always getting double all. You had one time. You had two of the same Prada purses. We did sell one on posh. And you're like, oh, well, I'm like, no, I will try and return it for you. You don't need two of these.

Well, that's what I, that was when I was done with money. You were just like, you're like, I'll just take the L. I'm like, $2,500. Well, that wasn't before I had kids. Yeah, yeah, yeah. This was like, crying on the kids. I was like, maybe the Prada store needs it more than I do. You know, maybe they need that $2,500 more.

So I was trying to help Mr. Prada. He probably has kids too. We'll forget about the little man. I think he's doing quite well for us. We don't know where Mr. Brata is. You want to see this over there? My little dumpling. Probably.

Oh, that's sticky. Oh, okay. Everyone's just like first reaction. But maybe that's the realistic side of it. It feels like one of those like car cleaners. Like in the vents that you like push it on and like gets all the dust off. You know what I mean? No.

A car cleaner. Or like the key, it's where the keyboard. It's like a sticky utensil that you use to like pick up all the dirt and debris. Oh, they do that. slime too like slime picks up slime. Ew. I hate slime. I'm a slime hater. Can I just say that? Well, you know, Malibu. Malibu wants to play slime with me and she's like, Kiki, can you get this how? I'm like, oh, can we play with play? Oh, I do. When she asked me to get the

slime, I do say, oh, I'll be so good with slime. I just like don't love the consistency of it. I was like, you know, Kiki doesn't love the slime. I know. It does get everywhere. But if you go to the slu-moo, like the slime museums, like they do tell you that slime takes off slime on. I'm sorry, there's a residue on my hand. That one. That one. It does it never come off on that. That is surprising. They like slime because Malpoo, even if it's like a sticky, like rice crispy, she doesn't like sticky.

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That's nocd.com. Thank you so much to NoCD for sponsoring days episode of Justrich. It's like a texture thing. I'm not sure. Yeah. I don't like the feeling of it. Do you like slime? No, I always divert to Plato.

Oh my God. We're all doing the same thing. Yeah, me who loves slime? you see. That's interesting. Yeah. Slime and sand. They have all kind of sand toys too.

I like the kinetic sand. Yeah, it's fun to play with them, not to clean. No. It ends up everywhere. Oh, my God, yeah. Well, we have a sandbox now outside. They can just go to the sandbox. Oh, like the old school turtle one?

Yeah, there's a sailboat. Oh. Have you not seen it outside? No, I haven't. And for Elvis's birthday minute I got our trampoline. Like he's always, I think we're going to run out of room in our backyard now. A trampoline? Yeah.

A big one? Eight foot. Oh, is it up? Not yet. Oh, my God. Are you doing it underground? I think it's above ground. No, it's because it's a kid.

It's kind of like for kids. No, I mean, it's big. It's eight feet. Oh, is it? I don't know what that means. No, I'm bad with dimensions. So I mean, you can lay in it. Are you eight, what's eight foot?

You? No. No, I'm a little bit less than six. Oh. So two more feet. So I can lay in it. Okay. They love a trampoline.

I love a trampoline. Oh, yeah. The house with the slides had a trampoline. I remember. And in ground one. That's been my dream. I think that's going to look at that one day. I love that.

I love that. I love that. Well, I was very excited for the birthday present then. So I can't like. Oh, yeah. Well, her birthday was just literally yesterday. So that's why. Oh, Alice is.

Yeah. That's right. Who's birthday? No, I was supposed to bring, um, I have gifts for her. Well, I'm sure you'll see her. Right. At some point. Yes.

We'll be here. I'm very excited. Um, do you the new Michael Jackson movie? No, but I heard it was really good. Do you go see it? No, I don't see movies usually. You know this about me Gosh, but the Michael Jackson

That was my other hyperfixation as a child was Michael Jackson I really, really loved him He was just, even when I had posters You loved him, that was your first one I think Like your first everything Yeah, because it was 2001 It was Michael Donnie

I mean Alan Norgman somewhere in there Allen might have been at the Byron house He might have been earlier Michael Jackson I think Alvinut would have been before Michael Jackson Really? Michael Jackson was a little edgy I remember when I found him, I was like, whoa.

You loved. That was like your hardest crush, I think. It still was. I remember when he passed away, we were living together in Sherman Oaks, and I was like, devastated. He passed away, and then Brian passed away like a week later. And I remember that was like June of 2009. I was like the worst month ever.

It was so awful. I was like, I was so sad about it. You know, because like I think people who have like delusions, like I really thought I may marry Michael Jackson. As a child. You did go to the Neverland Ranch. All the time with my dad. We'd always go up there and just like hang out, hoping to like see him and stuff like that.

We'd always go up there. And yeah, I really thought in my mind he may want to marry me. And so when it became an actual possibility once I became 18, I was like, okay, I'm in California. Now I'm living here. Like this could be a thing. I went to all his court cases up at the Santa Maria courthouse. I used to go and like hang out there and just, I mean, there were so many fans. But you had all of the colors of the heartbreak.

album. Invincible album. Oh, Invincible album, yes. But it had... There was a song. Heartbreaker. Wow. So you were a Michael Jackson fan, too,

because Invincible's kind of a deep cut. Well, of course, because I wanted to be like my big sister, too. Wait, did you like Heart? How did that song go? Oh, no, that's Invincible. Hold on, let me look it out. Heartbreak. No, it's like...

That was a good album. That was good. Because what were you singing? What song were you just singing? Uh-uh. That's invincible though. No, not after you do. I'm still gonna be here.

You can try to stop me because Or is that unbreakable? There's unbreakable. Invincible. I think Jay-Z was on unbreakable. Wait. I don't even remember. Remember?

Was there butterflies on that one? No. You give me butterflies. Oh no, there's another one. Okay, tell me the Invincible album. Okay. You give me butterflies inside, inside. And I just want.

to do your touch. I swear butterflies on that one. Heartbreaker. It's giving Britney. Yeah. A little bit. That girl I can't take her. I should have known she was a heartbreaker.

God, we loved that one. I did love that. Oh my God. And play the... Is there one called Butterflies? What's like a slow song on there? Oh yeah, it is. It is.

Oh, yeah, Butterflies. Inside, inside. This was a good album. It was a rated. good one. I'm gonna ask at least on my playlist. Yeah, that was so good. Rock my world.

I wanted to be that girl and Rock My World My World so bad. I know. My world, you know you did. And everything I own I give. There is nothing that's fine. Someone like you to call. Remember Chris Tucker?

He's like, oh, look that girl right there. You know she's fine. I can get her. No, you can get that girl. I can get her. Well, come on then. And then he's like, he goes over with his arms. My life.

And never be the same. God, he was so good. He was really good. You need to go see the new one because his nephew, Jafar Jackson, plays him, and he's uncanny, Michael. Really? His eyes, the way he looks, I've damned him multiple times come on the podcast.

I'm like, can you please come on the podcast? So you saw it. Yes, actually was going to go. Actually almost was by myself. I think Moses thought I was going with you or something. Because Moses, I had two tickets from me and Moses, but Moses had to go take care of something. And I was like, can you meet me?

He's like, I don't know if I'm going to make it. I should go get groceries. I'm like, all right. I was like, and I was literally in the theater by myself. I guess I'll just watch it by myself. And he's like, oh, I thought she was like, sister was coming. I'm like, what? No.

I was like, what are you doing? It's like, I'm going to watch a movie. I was like, usually when she says that, it means she has a plan with you or your mom or something. You want to us to go together. But you didn't ask me, do you want to go watch a movie? Wow. You're just like, I'm going to watch a movie. But you should just know that I go everywhere with something.

I was like, you know what? I'm like, you know what? I might actually make it. So anyway, the guys were installing something. What were you doing? We were installing something. And then they were like about to clean it. I was like, no need to clean.

Just wrap up. Because he was like. Well, because you know what I did? I sent him the ticket. I was like in case you can make it. So I already had the ticket. So he was like, oh, I thought you were. I guess I could have asked you.

But I don't know. Yeah, because I do like Michael Jackson. He was just. And now you know. Favorite Michael Jackson song? God. I did my top four and they're all ballads. I love Michael's ballads.

Which one? ones. Give me your one. Just give me a top two Michael Jackson songs. I think I like, hold on, let me look. Because I do like a lot. I like Heaven Can Wait. I like Heaven Can Wait.

From what album? From that one? Yeah. Oh. And then Earth Song. Earth Song. Okay, so that was one in my talk about. I love Earth Song.

I love Earth Song. I love his vocals. I love the music video. I love Earth Songs. We are the world. That was a really good one too. Have you seen that trend all over TikTok? Yes.

When you're down and out, there's nowhere we can fall and if you just believe that's no way we can fall can stand together as one and Michael's just like looking in the back like what the did you ever see like they are like

I haven't seen that way I was like Kate when that's okay I mean I remember Did you love it? Of course Did you feel healed where the world was healing? Yeah I mean I love the song

Yeah the song was like a moment It wasn't as like you know The COVID song imagine But it was pretty good They were trying to be we are the world. What about yesterday. What about us?

People like stop singing this whole episode. I love. No, but I do love Michael. It's so good. I love Michael, too. Anyways, I had to go deep into the Michaelor with you because we didn't really fully get into it. But the movie is really, really good.

I do think he should win an Oscar. Have you been seeing John Travolta's beret? Yeah. Burray. And new face. Have you seen him? Have you seen his new face? I was like, wait a second.

I'm loving this new face era of facelifts. Oh my God. He looks. so good. He looks so good. I think he was taking a picture. With his head, he's like this and like me when I tip my Starbucks barista. No. No, I think I saw a picture with him and his daughter, I believe. I think. Oh. Does he have a daughter? He does. Yeah. There's a picture of him with someone.

Randomly and that's when I was like, oh my God. He looks so young. Well, he kind of went away for like a couple of years. And all of a sudden he came back from like. You can see that he's dye in his beard and then something, you know, people think he got some work then. Does he have hair now? Or is he still bald? He doesn't wear a beret, so I don't know. Oh, got you. But I do love the bray. And he said he was wearing the bray

because he's trying to act the part of a director. And I love that. I love a cosplay. I couldn't find my beret. Oh, I see the beret. The white beret. He has a white and a black, you have to see the black beret with him, like, being posing.

And he's kind of doing a little, I'm Pierre, you know? He's doing like a little, like. No, you know where I saw him. Well, you can cut this you want. Recently? He was in the front row of the Scientology, like, 100th anniversary or whatever. Why were you there?

I wasn't there. He definitely wasn't there. I saw a picture of it. Why would I feel like, you know where I saw him? And I was like, yeah. Are you one of those kids that's running to the building? I think I'd be much more successful if I was one. Wait, why got it?

Are you scared they're going to come get you? No, I'm not scared. Oh. It does, that picture, like, does something to me. Why is he not playing a director? I think he plays a director in his new movie at Cannes. Oh, I see. Yeah.

Have you been to the Cannes film festival? No. Ever been to the South of France? I've never been to Europe at all. Oh, really? Why did I think you did? You've been to Asia. Only Asia.

Oh, I need a desire to go over to Europe. No. I don't. I mean, I, maybe, maybe, but I love all of like the more tropical places. Yes. You went to Bali? I went to Bali. Billy Bali.

Oh, I love that movie. And I've been to Singapore, Bahamas. Lift your phone in Singapore. Left my phone in China on my... Layover. Oh. Yeah. Oops.

Bahamas. You were trying to get into the Australian tour of Eres of Dres. I was. I was like, what is I? We're going to Australia. You might be going to Australia. You do love an Australian. But yeah.

So the koalas. I just want to hold a koala. You can visit the the koala ward. The koala ward is where? Yeah. They have like a little... In Australia.

Yeah. Are you going to go to Robert Irvine's... You sound like... Irwin's or mine. Literally, she's like, you should go visit Robert Irwin. I was like, I don't think you just go like hang out with him over there. Oh, maybe. I also think he's like over here doing Dancing with the Stars and all that stuff.

Is that still going on? What? Dancing with the Stars? I mean, yes. It's been going on for 40 years. What do you mean? He won, right? Yeah, he's like hosting the new, but he's hosting the spinoff,

the Dancing with the Stars search for the pro. Oh. Yeah. And he's on a tour. I don't have people. So. When we went to the tour here in LA, he was one of the dancers that came out with like, came out with Andy Richter and stuff.

People went, that was like the loudest applause I've ever heard was for Robert Irwin dancing. Like it was, they went insane. It's, yeah, no, I love him too. It's just an interesting. How amazing, though, like, to be loved and, like, your dad was super loved and adored. Yeah. And have that memory go on forever. I love that for him.

And continue being a good legacy because, like, Steve Irwin was, like, so unproblematic. Everyone loved him. And that's kind of, like, the new generation, Bindy and Robert. Like, everyone just, like, loves them so much. You know? Yeah, they seem like they have it all together. And Terry, his wife, like, she never remarried. I was like, once you have like the greatest, you can't remarry.

I was like, that's... I know, and it's so sad. And then your kids turn out to be so good. Hopefully there's like a heaven. And you can actually, like, you know, when they say they're watching. I really hope that's true. I hope like our souls or something can like watch. I don't know.

I don't know how that happens, but that's a whole deeper. A deeper subject. Let's see. I'm looking at my... Have you been doing the AI? baseball trend? You haven't seen that? Where the girls use AI and they're just like beautiful in the baseball stands?

No. What? Oh! Yes, on the Jumbotron? Yes. Yes, I have seen that. I'm like serving phase. Everyone's like mad about it.

But I'm like, if I knew how to use AI, I may be, no, I shouldn't. I can't. No, AI is not very, it's not good. Don't use AI. Right. I am against AI. I don't even know how to, honestly. People would be like, oh, I put it into AI.

And I was like, where do you put it? I don't know. You have to like sign up for something. something. But they're popping up everywhere. Speaking of AI, did you hear that Alexa is, or Amazon is going to have an Alexa Plus where you can have, you can put in a topic and you can have a podcast on demand. It will AI generate a podcast.

No. And have like AI voices host the podcast for you. It's just like not going to be good. I just feel like you can't get this on AI. You can't get this. No. You never know what we're going to say. That's the part.

It's just like, oh, did AI predict that I was going to do a K-pop song? No. Like, you know what I mean? Like, if you typed in Chichapeda's, like, they're not going to just give you Chichapeda singing in Korean unless you type that in the prompt. In which case, I'll just do it. So I feel like, yeah, they don't know. And even those, like, AI fruits and stuff that I used to like, I'm just kind of like,

it's not even that good. No, what I mean? Like, you know what I mean? Dancing fruits? No. No. Where, like, the AI fruit dramas. You never watched those?

And then when they had the baby, it was like an avocado? No. I quite literally don't know. even know anything about that. And now they're getting crazy because it's like AI like tampons with like a menstrual pad and they're like having babies. On YouTube? Where is this?

Oh my gosh. No. We don't support them. No, I don't support. Yeah, you're right. No, I don't either. Yeah, my dad sent me because we had, I had baby hummingbirds in my backyard and he sent me a video like of a baby hummingbird.

I'm like, dad, that's AI. He's like, is it? I'm like, look at the fingerprints on it. I know. I know. I fall for it too. Mom, she falls for it all of the time and she's just buying stuff. I'm like, okay, mom.

Oh, I know. She'll be like, can you dispute this with the card company? Like, it was, was it the dinosaurs? It was a 3D dinosaur blanket. I'm like, mom, why didn't you? You need to start asking me if it's real. Otherwise, I'm like, you could have made your own. So some freaking stuffed animals on a blanket.

Boom, you got a 3D dino blanket. Did she keep the dino blanket? She did. She could send it down. anywhere. Oh, yeah. She's like, I don't know where this is in Illinois. I'm like, okay, well.

It ended up all being famous. And then I'm like, where did you buy? Where did you even find this from? She's like Facebook. I'm like, oh my God. All the Facebook. Oh, my God. That's the problem.

That's the target market. I know. They are targeting elders because they don't know any better. Just people on Facebook that are like, it makes me so sad. We don't know. Or like even AI like articles and stuff like are just so not true. Oh, yeah. Well, actually, Facebook in general, Facebook

Marketplace, I think Tanna talked about the Sutton Out Love Line. She got, like, scammed with, like, a car, like this, like, blue convertible. And this guy was like... Hold on right there. A car on Facebook Marketplace. Tana... And it was...

I forgot what the scam was. Check out of all of it. I don't remember, but I guess he was just like... You know what it reminds me of? What? LAMbo on Offrup. Oh, my God. Yeah, when my Lamborghini was stolen,

the guy sold it on Offerup for $10,000, and then a fan of mine bought it, and he's like, is this Trichipata's Lambo? I was like, yeah, I'm selling it for her. Like, this guy that's like this guy that stole it in like broad daylight. And then the guy, that's how we found it, but I felt so bad. And I couldn't communicate with the guy because, like, obviously you can't, like, give a reward because then it looks like insurance fraud or something like that. Like you just can't do.

Yeah. Like, I had to stop communicating with them because they're like, well, this is now like a criminal investigation. And I felt so bad. But that's what it's getting. A car on Facebook market. Oh, right. Yeah. And so this guy would be like, this is my, like, baby.

I love this so much. Like, I never want to part with it. I can't part with it for you or something. And she said she felt something, like, something was off. And she, like, ended up, like, not getting it because something, like, was weird. But I guess he was, like, in this business of just, like, selling, like, the same car over and over. Okay. But, like, wasn't selling the car.

I heard of that before, yeah. I don't know. I don't really get the Facebook marketplace. She does love a Facebook marketplace. But I'm like, Oscar does, too. He'll, like, meet someone, like, in the middle of, like, a mall parking lot to get a little boo-boo. And I was, like, back when the boobos were a thing, which they're canceled now. But, but, um, not me.

The boos are canceled? I think just, they're over it. Expired. Okay. God, what a craze. And that last, that was such a short-lived craze. They made their money and now they're, they bounced out. Yeah.

I'm sure people still buy Labibu's, though. See, this is why you don't go with the trends because I don't have any. Well, I was gifted one, but that doesn't count because I never bought it myself. What one were you gifted and where? My friend Jenny gave me one. It was just like a great one with like the rainbow. Oh, that was like a rare one. That's like a rainbow.

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gave us one that one podcast. She's got a curlics and a whole, oh, she's fierce. She's fierce, yeah. A bus down. That was a good one. That was a good lo-bobo. That's the difference with Wynn. Oh, my God.

Here we go. I thought that thing was gone by now. This is true. I know. Where did you get that from? Where did it come from again? What do you mean? He just finished his shift at all this.

No, but I mean, it was like last year and now it's still here. You have kind of all time. Of course, because that's what I'm saying. It's not like people just get the Labibus and don't care about them anymore. And is that an Arby's Hal on it still? And shirt, yeah. I do love that, though. I still want the Hot Girls wear Arby's shirt.

I have one. I think it's sold out. I have one, but it's a double XL in your tiny team. That's okay. I'll take it. How's your streaming going? It's going really good. We forgot to give you a shout at the beginning of the episode, but let's do it right now.

Calgator 143. Calgator 143. How often are you streaming? Five days a week. Do you ever do collabs? Streaming clubs? I used to. But a lot of the time,

viewers just want me to talk with them. Oh, like not play a game. No, no, no, no. We're always playing a game. But, like, but yeah, no, I haven't done a collab in a while. Any streamers, you want to go on their stream, a little kaisenet, eye show speed? No.

Clivocular, neon. No, none of those people. Aiden Rons. Absolutely not. No. None of those people. You wouldn't do like a... Vanilla Maze.

I would do Vanilla Mace, yeah. Katie B. Okay. I don't hear about these girls. You know what? I collab with Jimmy. Shout about Jimmy. You did?

What was the collab? Jimmy and Oscar we played Fortnite before. One time. No. Multiple. Mm-hmm. And how does that work? Who won?

Well, we're on a team, so. Did you guys lose? I don't think we won one. Okay. Well, that's okay. I do carry them. Sorry. You do carry what?

Carry the team. Oh, with Fortnite? Yes. Well, maybe you need to play on their field, like Animal Crossing or Pokemon. I'm down, yeah. But like that's not a, that's not a shooter game. It's like a competitive game. Yeah, it's not a competitive game.

That's just like a Hangout. I'd rather do a hangout game. Give me a Minecraft all day long. Oh, I love a Minecraft. Oh, my God. I would love to have a Minecraft server with you guys. I feel like they like Minecraft too. We need to get on it.

Maybe not Oscar, but. I don't think Oscar plays it, but. Jimmy definitely does. He did like an edit that took two hours of me playing Minecraft or something. Yeah. It's literally so good. This is the one for E3.2. Oh.

Do love Minecraft, yeah. We play it all. I like the movie, but I don't know about them. You haven't even played it. What? You haven't even played Minecraft. Minecraft X. Trish, when? You tell me.

You tell me. You like Mario? Yeah. Do you watch the movie? I don't. I watch the first movie, but. I don't like to support Chris Pratt. Why?

That's so random. Because he's problematic and I just don't like him. Oh, because of his right. Yeah. It's something with like his first son, he doesn't really acknowledge as much. That and just there's a lot. We could go on a deep dive, but we won't. He's a politician now?

Now he's not a politician. He's married one. LDS. What's that? Mormon. No, that's two different things. Latter-day Saints is different than Mormons. It's the same thing.

Oh, it's not. Yes, it is. Someone Google it. Yes, LDS refers to the Mormon faith. What's the other one? And the Mormons are like, don't call us Mormons because it's a slur. I'm like, okay, calm down. Who said that?

Which Mormon? Well, the Mormon wives didn't it? Well, the Mormon, so the actual Mormons got mad at the title because they're like, oh, they're giving us a bad name. Oh, right, right, because they're not practicing Mormons. Right, right. So now they don't even want to be called Mormons. Okay. Well, I just respect.

The term Mormon typically refers to members of the church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints LDS Church. I'm thinking of something else. The largest branch which follows Birgham Young. That's not God. But they can also be independently religious, secular, and non-practicing. Well, anyways, I think that he owns a house that was on like a plantation. It's just like not good vibes. Or maybe that's Blake lively and Ryan.

I think that's Ryan Reynolds. Oh, no, you know what he did? He tore down a historic house. Chris Pratt? Yes. Yeah. So my hate for him runs. Oh, my God.

I don't hate him. I don't hate him, but I don't want to support him. Who would you rather support? Chris Pratt or James Charles? Oh, God. Oh, my God. That's, I guess I'm going to have to go with Chris Pratt. Wow.

Yeah. That makes sense. Yeah, he doesn't seem like he's making fun of people who lose their jobs or anything. Or he doesn't, like, do inappropriate things with underage children. Right. Yeah. Young boys. Yes.

So. Hmm. Speaking of awful people. The Valley. Oh, my gosh. Did you watch? I had my sister watched for you. I've been researched.

I love that she started from the beginning. We tried to start from the beginning. And I was like, let me just get into the episodes everyone's talking about because from the beginning is diabolical. When you're like, do you watch the show? I was like, it's a tough one. Moses was tuned out. It was like, no. Can I just.

It's not a good show. It's not a good show. It's, I was bored. But everybody loves it. So I'm like, you know what? Let me. No, everyone does not love it this season. They did love the first season.

They're like, how is someone worse than Jacks? Like I guess apparently Danny and Luke, Luke, that's the name, the one that's married, the one who just had a baby with. Christian. Yeah. Luke. They were kind of like beloved the first few seasons because I think they didn't talk. But the season, they're like diabolful. When they open their mouth, that's the problem.

Part. Jacks was on the first couple of seasons. I don't know. I only know Jacks was a Britney and I just know he seems like he looks like a little. I don't know. You know him? I don't know his vibes. Yeah. Well, I would catch a few episodes of Vanderpump rules. People love that one. And PPR. That's why people like the Valley because it's them now grow up, grown up and like married and have children and stuff like that. Well, that to me kind of got me, which I like, by the way. I'm not like hating on this. I like that they're like my age. I kind of like that they're like millennials. Because I thought that everyone was like young and hot. Not to say they're not attractive,

but it's like, oh, these are people that like look like me and act like me. And I kind of I think it's a show geared more towards you because it's definitely about like young families and like navigating the new relationship with a new baby and like struggles with postpartum and stuff like that. So I do see it for that audience. I don't relate to that. But that is like right. It is kind of like my era. But I think it's also like maybe you watch it to feel better about your own life because that's like to go. Well, let me tell you, I did feel better about my own life and my decisions.

I'm like, if this is trying to make me. want to have a family? I don't. No, for sure. No, and that's what I said too. I literally started off my TikTok. I was just like, because I'd never make TikTok something like really upset about something and I was seeing all the clips of Danny and Nia. And I was just like, this actually like is the reason people don't want marriage and don't want babies specifically. And he just looks like, oh my God, he reminded me of like an old smurf. No, like a soap opera actor. You know what I mean? Like he's got that look. And I'm just like,

He also kind of looks like a pug, kind of. But so sorry to the pugs, because pugs are pretty cute. But when they's... He's like, okay, maybe he's like rich. No, they just moved to Santa Clarita. I'm like, girl, no hate on Santa Clarita. It is affordable living. But she was like not having it.

She's like, I'm away from my friends who's like, I'm struggling with postpartum too, that I could be close to them. Yeah. Well, she also has been pregnant like me for like literally like... Well, she has four kids. So she's been, she says she's been pregnant or breastfeeding. for literally like the past five years, six years. I don't know how she does it.

It's, yeah, I don't know if that's, I'm not like hating on it. I don't know if that's like a recommended thing because your body, like, I feel like needs, like, adjust. It takes time to... The hormonal adjustment. Also, yeah, like, reproduce some milk, replenish your body.

I think it's recommended to usually wait a little bit. Yeah. I think you are even worried that you had gotten pregnant so fast. That third time? Yes. I'm like, especially with C-section. They're like, you're supposed to be. supposed to have at least a year.

They recommend like a year and a half. And like two, okay, fine. You're only supposed to really have three C-sections total, but also back-to-back. Like, when you told me that, I'm like- No, same. No, we didn't even record our reaction. We have reactions to our first two pregnancies. I wish that you had that reaction of me because I'm like, what?

I know. I was like, you just had a baby. No, but like it was so hard at both those babies. Like, we did the HSG test both times. And if you guys don't know, that's like when you clear out your tubes, we did it both times and you get like if you have trouble with like infertility like like it's the first step when you take your fertility journey to like do IVF or something like that to kind of check and clear all your stuff and like a lot of people do get pregnant after those tests and those work so

if you're struggling with something might I recommend they don't usually recommend IVF to you or I'm sorry IVF um HSG test before IVF because it's less expensive it's only like 600 dollars so I think in general they kind of want to like make more money so they can sometimes skip that but I would ask if you're struggling with infertility to ask for an HSG test we learned that from Tiffany um we learned that from someone else too that I was like let's just try this out so it's work for people and they'll use it yeah and they'll use it basically as a test before they do the IVF so it was even hard to get it because we went to the doctor the doctor was like wait why are you here how'd you get here how did you get this test you know we snuck in a little so we're like oh our doctor recommended

it you can say yeah we're going to do IVF but we want to this test first and then go for it after trick them, you know? Although by the second time we went, they're kind of like, okay, you're back and I was like, yeah, well, we got pregnant the first, so let's try this again. So, like, and sometimes they're good and they will, but like, yeah, a lot of times they don't want to tell you that, whatever, and we recommend it to some people we know an IRL

and it worked for them and they were like over 40. So that was, that was great. But all that to say, where was it going with this? Well, like, I'm just saying it was still back-to-back. For Elvis and Malibu did the HSG test, because, like, with Elvis, it was taking, like, a little while, like, longer than expected because we went in back-to-back to because of our ages and stuff,

and my age, particularly. And then, so when we got pregnant with Aquaman, it was literally like one time having sex. And it was just like, how that's how. The floodgates were open, apparently. I guess so, because also it was like way, I was actually like tracking and I was like that week of ovulation,

like not even anywhere close to it. So this was like right before my period, all that stuff like that. I was like, oh, this is whatever. It's fine. Insane. That was the most insane thing. And yeah, like they, again,

I'm not a doctor, but what I've read a lot is you're really only supposed to have like three Cs. sections and definitely like wait a year in between because you um something where it like needs to like rebuild like your because you can have uterish rupture you have a scar that's healing and there's like six different layers yeah even if after getting your boobs done it's like six months yeah yeah you get another pregnancy which means all of those scars are going to stretch now so you need them to be fully it's also like you risk uterine rupture like that can happen and so you have to like really

monitor really well I think even um I mean Aquaman came so early but that was was the not problem, but like I had such a traumatic birth because his head was like really like far down already. And I think they did say it was really thin, whatever the layer was super thin. And that's why he got the fetal laceration, which was like cut in his head and stuff like that. So it was just like. Well, now he's got a perfect head. So he doesn't have a perfect head now.

It is wonderful. It healed nicely. Babies are resilient. We talked about this like, I think yesterday on Hot Topics talked about how resilient they are. But yeah, I think Oscar talked about he accidentally dropped a baby on that. Or no, it was a baby fellow. I don't know something. But I was like, babies are resilient.

but a while ago when he was a little kid. Not now. Anyways. Got it, got it. But I was like, they're resilient. And they are. So don't be too scared of a baby. Obviously watch them.

But if they get a little bump, they're usually fine. But all that to say, aside from the physical aspect, also just like emotional, hormonal. Everything's just like, and it's a lot. Can I tell you now being I'm 10 months postpartum for the first time? I've been pregnant for the past since 2021. Since December 2021, I've been pregnant. Or, yeah, like postpartum. And I only had like three periods in the past four years, which is like so crazy.

But now being 10 months, which is still not fully out. You're really kind of fully out at like two years. So like you kind of start feeling yourself again. But even now, just like energy and the way I feel, I was like, oh my gosh. Like you really are like a different, like you feel like a human again. Something when you're pregnant, I loved it. But it does feel very surreal and very abnormal. And hormones are crazy.

And you are like just, it can be all out of whack. As much as I love being pregnant, I also realized that I was just a little bit out of my little cuckoo. postpartum though I saw it but you can't tell any you can't tell a woman about postpartum you know yeah and sometimes you don't know sensitive right that's for sure I was trying to be respectful of you and like your feelings are valid

too like yes yeah yeah yeah I your emotions are super heightened and it just felt so bad for you that I would be on the verge of tears because I'm like I see my sister suffering no it's a lot it's a lot and people like don't realize I think also people like online it's like when someone just had a baby because people like are really respectful when you're like pregnant they're always like glowing love this and then like they forget like the aftermath is like it's so funny that you say that Kristen on the show yeah had said oh my god everyone was like

oh my god you're pregnant when are you do and da da da da at the like the food store I was being praise and everyone was being nice to me and then I have the baby and then they forget about it quiet everyone just quiet forgets about you like just oh go she's fine now like whatever she'd have the baby but it's like that's like the hardest and then you also have to care of a baby on top of that we were talking about last hot topics at elsie hewitt who just a baby with Pete Davidson. Oh, yes. Apparently he's a deadbeat dad.

Right. We talked about that yesterday. Allegedly. Yeah, allegedly. Not allegedly, according to Elsie. She's like, I'm doing this on my own. And she's just like, she's not around like financially supporting or physically supporting. And it's just like, you just had a baby.

All your hormones are out of whack. And then on top of that. And she, like, put out an Instagram story, Elsie looking for like a mommy's helper, a nanny. Like she was like looking for this. Like he's not helping her. He's not going through an agency to get like a nice nanny or something like that. Like she's posting all this alone. And I'm telling you, you are like the worst kind of person because it's like,

Like even if you like don't like each other. Because usually guys, we always say this. Well, we saw it from the valley, back to the valley. Was it Luke who was like, oh, I don't get like any like intimacy or any like sex? And she's like, my body like hurts. Like my body, I just like don't feel good in my body. Like what do you mean? Like I don't want to have like, I just don't want to have sex with you right now.

Like I have this baby. Because not only that, you have to take care of the baby. Yeah. But then when your man is a baby too, when the father is also being a baby, which is both Danny and Luke. Luke, I give a little more pass. I guess like first time dad. He like maybe is a little shook that he's not getting all the attention. but Danny, it's your fourth time around

and you don't know how to swaddle your baby. Like you have to like... And then he's like, mad that she's eating a sandwich. And I was like... That was... Did you see on the train? So... Okay, so the Valley is...

Okay, Vanderp... So they worked at Vanderpump rules. That's what it is. And now they're, like, grown up. Some of them. I don't know if Nia did. I don't recognize some of them because I watched the earlier seasons of Vanderpump.

So I don't really recognize... Where does Tom's... In this role? In this role... He was on San Devalval... He was on Vanter Pump rules. He was with the group, like, Jackson, Brittany. Yes. Okay. And Schwartz and Ariana and Katie and Lala, all of them. I do like Lala. I like her. She was the one that came out and was like, I'm not comfortable with the way you're speaking to Danny.

And I think first of all, he was belligerent. I think that was a parent. Drunk. Yes. Yeah. Absolutely. And like he was just so weird. The fact that like I don't see them together as like a couple. Dania. Yeah. It is. She seems so much more like together and he seems like. like, I don't get either. I guess he was like a child star or something like that. So maybe she thought there was like some appeal there that he was like famous at one point or something. I don't know what his deal is. I don't know what he does now on the show.

Does he work? I have no idea. It didn't mention it on the show. Yeah, I don't know if he's like working. And then he went to go get his like his vasectomy or whatever. Did he? Oh, I didn't see that. What episode was that?

Was that before after the San Diego trip? Before. Oh. Yeah. And what did he say? Oh, so that's good. At least he got that done. Well, then he's like, the doctor was like, oh,

first of all he's very crass about his genitalia. What did he say? He's just like oh my god, my balls are so big or whatever. I was like, no one cares about that, okay? Just skip your... Like on TV. You have like four kids. I get it. Maybe they're like trying to play it up for the TV, but like

honestly it's very off-putting. It's off-putting. Because I think that you don't need to play that up for the TV being like, no, no one cares about your balls. Maybe Nia does, but I don't. I certainly don't, sir. Nia does stand 10 toes down for him because I feel like next next episode, but well... She's so meek and like like so like you know quiet maybe it gives someone who like kind of like what you were saying

who doesn't know they're being I don't abuse is like such a crazy term but like doesn't know they're in this like manipulation cycle this like gaslighting cycle because she does so she kind of just is like I don't want to escalate it's got four kids with him that is that is the hard part that is the hard part and of course we don't know how their relationship is out of just this one segment but it is not look, it doesn't all exist. He was saying that she is the one who wanted more kids. He was, like, good with, like, two. She was the one that made the vasectomy appointment.

Oh, okay. So, I don't know where he's saying that from. Okay, so maybe I don't know either, but that's, yeah, four kids is a lot. I always say that. I always say three kids is a lot. Four kids seems insane, but more power to you. But going back to, like, the vasectomy appointment, when he got, the doctor told him, like, you'll still be able to, your sperm will still have, be able to create a child after 35 times of ejaculation,

then you'll be sterile essentially. Oh, I didn't know. Is that true for all of asectomies? I believe so. Good to know, because people can get vasectomies and be like, we're pregnant again. I'm like, well, maybe you know the fine print. Right. I didn't know that, but.

So then he gets home and like she's struggling. She's always, you know, breastfeeding or doing something, that poor girl. And, like, four kids under four almost, right? Like, oh, she's, like, trying to, like, have a serious conversation about, like, how her, she's feeling, how she's been feeling about, like, away from whatever her postpartum. And he's like, well, you're going to be a lot busy because I put 35 days of sex on the calendar. I'm like, you're so. Oh, God. I know.

When people say that, it's, like, actually so gross. Like, what do you mean? Like, that's not what I'm thinking about at all. You're so gross. Yeah. And that's what you say to someone who's, like, trying to open up and be, like, I'm kind of struggling right now. I it's like juvenile like humor I know and they're like middle they're like my age my age right like middle age older he's older is he 40 I don't know let me look it up because honestly

I hate that guy I do hate that guy I do hate him too I do no my blood boil that's why I was like this is why women don't want to have kids with men and like I honestly I don't blame them like I it's it's I don't know I don't know I would if I had kids with anybody that I wanted to have kids with before I probably would have been like 42 yeah you're way too old and too grown and it's not cute like you said, I get it if you're like trying to play it up for the thing, but this is not cute. But what people were saying is like, if this is you on camera, like imagine off camera. Well, that's a lot of said. Right. Yeah. Like, if this is how you talk to her

in front of people, how do you talk to her behind closed doors? Yeah. And then he's like, in son of your business. I was like, you're in a communal house that you're all sharing and you're being loud. I hated that episode too when she was giving the makeover to him and he was being so like condescending. He's like, you know, just put it on. I need it to be perfect and I need this. And it's just like, you're taking the fun out of everything. When they went on their a little date on the pier and he was just like you're being performative right now. I'm like, you're being performative. He's insane. Reminded me of an ex and I think you know what I'm talking about

where um like like a switch like yeah where you remember we were like all on the side of the music video and he was just like so grouchy and as soon as someone came around he was like turned it on and I was like that is giving Danny and that is giving psychopathic tendency in my opinion and that was like so scary to watch and then calling her performative I'm like you're without the kids she's probably so happy she's probably trying to like you know you you try and get the energy up like okay, we're out without the kids. What are we going to do? Like, and to like throw it in her face?

The fact that she had to explain to him, like, I've, you've only been around me for the last five years when I've been with kids. Yeah. And so this is me without kids. Yeah. And it's like he didn't know the difference. And she just had a baby.

So she's also still going through like the postpartum changes and everything like that. Yeah. The fact that he like couldn't grasp. What really was concerning to me is that like, I forgot who mentioned it, but someone was like they don't air their dirty laundry. they very much keep it at home. So I'm like, who? Danny and Nia.

Who said that though? I don't remember who said it. But like someone had prefaced it. So the fact that he is doing this like so openly, I'm just like, oh my God, what are they dealing with at home? At least like that's out there and people can like see it now. And I think it's good. Honestly, it's giving like 16 and pregnant where it was like, you know, the teen

pregnancy rates like dropped greatly after 16 and pregnant. I feel like that's going to happen with this. It's like girls will stop or women will stop having babies with like lose men. You know what I mean? birth rate is the lowest it's ever been. Is it? Yeah, if you are, it's like, I'm not going to have kids. It's so expensive to have kids, too.

Yeah. It's very hard to find a partner that's willing to help you raise a family. The men are actually, like, so worthless in this, like, partnership. Like, that is actually, like, so crazy how you can't help at all. When she had the baby in the carrier on the train bouncing, trying to eat a sandwich, and he's laying back getting a massage. I wanted to, I wanted to, like, I want it to, like, I'm. I know.

Shake him so hard. I'm like, what is your problem? Take the baby or something. Feed her the sandwich. Like, what are you? And then she's like, can you take the baby? He's like, I'm going to get a coffee. And then she's like, okay, well, when I said, I was going to get a coffee first.

I was like, I like, I like, and she doesn't see it. Like you said, like, I feel like Lala will get, like, chewed out for like, you know, saying any of that stuff because she like doesn't either see it or like, like you said. Well, Lala has her own past. So she recognizes. Lala has shares a baby daddy with one of the other people, right? No. No.

That's another person. There's two girls who share a baby daddy. No. The blonde. Oh, yes. Lacey and, oh, Michelle. Yeah, yeah. And they're like cool now.

But they don't have a baby together, Lacey, and the other guy. Oh, okay. They don't. They're just dating. They're just co-parenting. Got it. Okay, the other. Okay.

So no one shares baby daddy. But Lala had a very abusive or manipulative, whatever, kind of narcissistic relationship. Oh. With a Hollywood producer. Okay. Yes, I did see something like this. So she has experience in seeing like shifts in men and like, so she gets very triggered. Yeah, I would.

And then that. Danny just started taunting her with the triggered word. He's like, oh, I missed triggered. I miss triggered. I was like, actually, no, you're just a douche. He said, yeah. Oh, my. No, like, you're actually the worst person because it's one thing to do it to your partner.

And it's like, all right, she has to deal with it, not me. But then you're doing it to other people on the cast and in the house that are obviously all down there for the same purpose. No. Oh, I hated that so much. And I was like, you're such a loser. And, like, you're just, like, you contribute nothing. Like you said, he's not rich. He's not, he's not hot.

He's, like, contributing nothing. So also, you're not a good father on top of that. Like, you have to pick, you have to pick one. You have to pick one thing that you're, like, good at, and you're good at nothing. Nothing. You're literally good at nothing. And that's, and it seems like her mom is around a lot of the time, too. And then on that trip, they brought a nanny.

And it's just like, what do you do, though? What do you do? Except for complaining that you have to put the baby down and her eyes are waking up. The way is. Like her eyes are waking up. I'm like, first of all, sir, I don't think that's how you say that. You say I can't get the baby down. Not her eyes are waking up.

And I'm like, the English is not my first language, but I would not say. That was. We saw that because that was the clip you were watching. You were not saying it over and over too. I'm like, I don't think that's the right way to say it. Have you never put like your baby down? And you know, know when her eyes are like open and she's just not sleeping. Like what?

Like it's so. He's like never done this before. That part like scared me. I'm like, this is your fourth baby. I get it for a second. Okay, but like your fourth baby? You can't put your baby down. And then he's like, well, we have to sit here. Like, what does she here for? She's also like cleaning. The nannies like cleaning stuff and everything like that. And there's three other babies. I'm like, you are so. Also, imagine being the nanny and he's like, well, why do we get a nanny here? But they showed her like doing the bottles or something. Like she's cleaning something else what she wasn't doing. I'm like, he's just. Oh my God. You're eating a sandwich. I'm like, oh my God. I'm going to bite your head off next. How about that? Don't ever comment on my food. That part. I was like, wait, what do you mean? You're so upset.

She was getting like a little huffy and stuff. And I'm like, understandably so. But it's like, God, just one thing after the other. And then the makeover and then this. And I'm just like, this person is awful. And people do not want him on the next season. And I think this overall, this like, I actually don't really like a lot of the people on there. I like the girls.

I like Brie. I like Brieney. Tom. And that's going to be controversial. I'm sorry. Which one is Tom Schwartz? The one that's single and he's dating. He's on there now?

Yes. Was he on the trip to stay? Diego? Actually? Yes, I think so. He's gay? No, he's very much straight. There's a gay one. Zach. I like the gay ones. I like Zach. I do think that he gets into everybody's... Well, that's his character. I guess. He's this. If there is an issue, Zach's right there. Yeah, that's why we need a sassy gay all the time. We need you in the weeds. You need to be in the mess. I just, I, he's like in everything. He was, he was at the appointment with Danny getting of a sex to Oh, see, that's what I'm saying.

He's just there for the tea. He's there for their time, honestly. And I love that. That's why you need that. Okay, so I like that they have it. Like, the Mormon wise needed to gay a woman. It's not even that he's, like, in the middle of it. I feel like people go to him for issues.

Like, Kristen and Luke, like, they were both talking. Voice of reason. I'm like, why don't you go seek a professional maybe? Well, maybe he is. What does he do? He's not a therapist. Do we know? Yes, because he said, you guys need to go see.

Oh. Was he working at Banner Pump? I don't know. Like I said, I didn't watch the later seasons of Vanderpump. What happened to pump? What happened to that restaurant I love with the lobster pasta? So the show couldn't keep it alive. Where's Tom Tom?

Tom. Tom, I think. No, it's down. Really? I think. I don't know if it's down. I think Jack's bar is down. Oh, Jack's had a bar?

In the Valley? Maybe that's why. Was it in the Valley? Was it in the City? I think it was in the Valley. Yeah, it's like, oh, no. But I think Tom Tom's still around. Because I think they had brunch there or something.

Okay. in the show. Well, Jack's not on this season, right? No, thank God. And you know what? I never understood why Stasi and whoever it was. Kristen maybe, did Kristen date him? I don't know. One of the girls dated him. He's not hot. They were fighting about him. I don't think he was hot. Like, even in his youth days.

I don't think he was hot at all. Like, Tom said, well, okay, kind of hot back in the day. Back in the day, but he's... Yeah, I don't get it at all. Brinney was hot. Biddy is high. I still think she's high. Obviously, she just had, like, babies and stuff like that. But she was also very hot when she was, like, she was always the hot one in that relationship. You know what? The Valley would be fine if there was no men on the show.

I think that's why I was going to say. Because Bernie's man was also pissing me off too. Which one was he? Brandon. It's a new thing. And like by the next episode, he was like being in everybody's drama. I was like, okay, you're new here. You're new here.

That part. You're new here. And he started on Mormon wives too. Like he was new and he was like telling her like you're being manipulated by your kids. I'm like, you're new here. Like who are you? You're like a 24 year old with no kids. Like why are you?

I hate when that happened. I hate. You're the new kid in school. Yeah, don't come in here. Lazing, unless you're on real housewives or something like that. Yeah, it's 100% with you. I'm 100% there. Yeah.

Yeah, the Vanner. Vandor, what is this one called? Valley, the Valley. It's giving, like, I like, I like the women. I do like the women. And I do love, I like what you said. Like, you're not in that era, but I do love that it's, like, showing real. And I love, that they do wear, like, no makeup.

Because that's, like, me half the time. Like, no makeup, hair down. I felt really bad for Kristen, though. She went out for, like, breakfast with some of the, girls and like she just had a breakdown about like how she doesn't feel good about her body and herself and her self-image is like yeah i felt really bad and i do think that's really positive to show other women that are at home that like yeah don't get to see that you know oh i've been loving the conversation on it too like uh hidden penitier just went on j shetty and she was talking so much

about her uh postpartum depression and they diagnosed it as alcoholism like obviously she was like drinking at the time too she goes but they didn't even tell me that it could be postpartum depression. It was just like, oh, you're an alcoholic. We're going to treat you for that. Like, not tying in, like, maybe the reason behind the drinking and stuff like that, which was the postpartum depression, which is when she, like, signed over custody of her daughter kind of unknowingly, like, how, like, she wasn't, like, going to, like, get her back and now her daughter's and now they have a good relationship and stuff like that. But it is so wild when, and she was young. She was, like, 25 when she had her daughter. And it's just like, I do like that people

talk about it. Because it's scary too. People judge, like, Hayden Penitier was like, you know, she was like her mom. She was like, she was scared she was going to be like her mom. And the thing is, is, like, everybody, I think. goes through it even if you don't know it. Like I feel like with Elvis, I felt like I had a perfect postpartum, but I was just also like maybe not like looking back because you just don't know. You don't know when you're in it. But certain things can like trigger you.

And it is a crazy thing. Like I was pretty happy. I had so much support from Malibu to Elvis to Aquaman. I had so many people. But it's still like one of those things that's just overwhelming. And it's a change every time you have a baby. Also, even if you have people around, he doesn't make you feel. Sometimes that doesn't make you feel any better either.

Like it's an internal thing of yourself. You know, like you're dealing with the hormones. You're dealing with your thoughts. You're dealing with your new body and stuff like that. That other people can't, you know. Your body changes like so much. Even if you like snap back, whatever, just like the internal of everything, like your body changes. So I do appreciate the valley for that because it is giving like realness.

And it's because, you know, there's the housewives, right? But they're a lot older than me. And it's like they're a different lifestyle. They're all like, you know, whatever, skinny, rich, everything. The valley gives more real. And so I don't know where any of these people are, but I like it. And that's why I like about it. I kind of like, I love that these people are just on there.

But the fact is... I do like Brittany, though. She is very... I love Brittany. She's like, what can I do for you? Like, she's so... Because she knows. She was getting a mommy makeover.

I was kind of like, I need you as my friend. She's taking care of everything at the house. I think she's just like paying for his taxes. She made a whole sensory room for her son. I was like, that's so too. No, I would like to go on that sensory room. Me too. We all need a sense free room.

I think that's so... Yeah, she's so special. I just wish they would show, like, I do love that they show like musty-dusty-die-dusty-Men. because that is the reality that are so many women have. I don't think there's one man on there that I like. That's what I'm saying. I wish there was like one person,

kind of like Connor with Whitney on, there's like one guy that gives you a redeeming hope. Like, oh, maybe one day, you know, but you just see all these pieces of shit. And it's like, we get it and we like that. And you know what's crazy? Here's the crazy part.

Janet is not a favored person on the show. Yeah. She was pretty much alienated from the group because she called out Danny for being inappropriate. What, What season? When? This was like...

Early in the episode. No. No. Like previous season. What did she say? I didn't know that. Something about like her, like him being grabby. And so I'm like, wait a second here.

They tried to like... And so they alienated Janet, which honestly, I don't know much about Janet because I only watched this season. She's not on this season. She is on this season. Was she in the San Diego trip? No. Oh, yes, she was.

Oh, which one was? Okay. Was she on that? Or maybe she was at... a different party. Anyways, but I thought it was very interesting that she called out Danny. That always happens. When you're the one to call out bad behavior,

they try to extract you. They try to be like, oh, no, like, they protect, like, the toxic one, and then they extract the person. But then it's like, that's the problem. And we were talking about this the other day, too, on Hot Topics, is when you're the first to call out, someone, everyone sees you're crazy.

They were talking about this because when I called out James Charles back in 2021, Oscar read me the list of people who were like, yeah, get her, eat her up. It was like, dream, Charlie Demilio, like all these people out. And I was just like, let's ask their, opinions on James Charles now, you know what I mean? But when you're the first to say something, that's why nowadays,

I am being a little more meek and mild these days. I know it's shocking, but it's like I just kind of like to sit back because it can't come from me. You can have your own thoughts. I know. But if it's like a James Charles, I've been saying this about James Charles. But yeah, I try to like. Yeah, the cats are already.

Yeah. And sometimes the messenger, it's like maybe, okay, maybe not from me. You need to hear it. Maybe you need to hear from someone else, which is, which makes sense. Like when Jackie I and I called out James Charles, everyone's like, oh, you know, because they listened to her. Which makes sense.

she's, like, respectful, never in drama. We love her. She's a queen. And honestly, I don't think maybe Jackie, or Jackie, Janet was wrong. Because. About Danny. Well, obviously not.

Because look at how he gets when he gets drunk. He gets out of control. Yes. Oh, I don't know. Yeah. I haven't, I don't know. I don't know about grabby, but I'm just. We believe it when we're, or we're believing her because context clues is like

he seems a little. Mm-hmm. I need to get it together. It's also like, it's also like, you are like parents at the end of the day. And it's just like, you know, obviously, can lose and make mistakes and all that stuff like that. But also like, you know, your kids will see this one day.

Like, I don't understand how you're just... Also, the way you treat their mom, it's also just like... They're just taking care of all your kids for you. Like, what? Like, it's so weird. But anyways... Well, yeah, I'm glad that you don't like Danny either because I was looking at it and I was, like, cringing. He's the...

I don't want to say he's the reason I started watching the show, but I guess I had to because I was just seeing clips. I'm like, there's just no way. This must be out of context. There's no way he's this bad. Also, just don't ever comment on what a woman is. is eating ever in your whole life okay not what she's buying at the grocery store not what she's putting in her mouth nothing ever never ever comment if you didn't learn from love is blind

how many years ago with the clementines oh my god that's so specific well because we're going to have dinner well still don't if she wasn't have an or he's joking he was he's joking I know just remember that whole scene he knows well he knows because he knows he knows because he knows me Like, not that he ever did, but I'm very sensitive with food. When it comes to food, it's like, nope, don't even question if I'm hungry, whatever. But you've always been good with that. But some people is not that way. And they need to get it in line.

It's like weird. But it's weird what you will put up with because I do, I had exes, like, obviously who had issues with me just eating in general. And it's like so insane what you put up with and thinking like, oh, it's like cutesy. It's like you're like laugh or whatever. Sometimes I'd be like side-eyeing. But I was like, you have to. realize if you have a partner. Oh my God, you with the chicken nuggets. Hello.

Yes, amongst other things. But even like just eating like a simple panda express meal, but I can't believe you would eat that. I'm like, but if you have a partner who says that's that too, just knows like projection. Like they're, they have issues. They got some issues with their own food and body and their intake. And so they're trying to project it on you just because you're just like eating like a normal person. If you're eating, you're fine. You should be eating. Like it's- Eat what you want. Eat what you crave. Eat what you crave. We lose that. Like as like children know so well when they're hungry, when they're not when they're full. Like they just no. And it goes in spurts

with children with adults too. Sometimes you're like so ravenous and you just want to eat a lot because that's just your body going through it. Sometimes you don't want to eat a lot at all. Like you just listen to your body and don't comment on people's food. And if someone is commenting, they're projecting their insecurities. Danny with your shortness, Danny with your ugliness, Danny with your lack of anything, like able to provide for your family. Like all of it.

Like you can't even clock it. Hunt or gather. Like you can't do either. And so I think that insecurity he's projecting on this woman who's literally a goddess who's starring on a show who's birthing all these kids for you and taking care of them and carrying the show. I guess it makes for good TV. I don't know.

I'm kind of hooked on it, I guess. I kind of have been like seeing what. I didn't actually like it, but I'm like, well, now I got to see how it goes. I know. I need to see it for these women. I need to see them through. But I'm here for it. Well, maybe they'll be on the next season of my worst ex on Netflix season three.

Okay. I hope not because that's terrible. Oh, right, right. Okay, that's a bad transition. Bad transition. He's trying to be asking him when he's not here. I'm like, what's transition? I'm very good at that.

I know. That is a quality I don't have. I don't have it either. Maybe they'll be on my worst ex was just thinking like they'll be an ex. But you're right. This is about killers and they're not killers. That's very different.

I guess you can just be so. Yeah. Well, I only watched the first two episodes of the new season. Jeffrey was on the second season. Yes. He was episode two? Yes.

Mm-hmm. Or episode one maybe. I don't remember. But regardless, he's on the new season. one was Wade. The new season. My sister's a true crime girlie, which I didn't know. Which is so funny because you texted me super late last night. Yeah. Well, I don't know what, it wasn't even not late. I think it was 8.30. I was just late. I was going to bed when I was exigating. You're like, I don't know how late you

stay up. Well, I was about to go to bed. So I'm like, I told me such her to watch a documentary at like 9 p.m. the day before. Oh, I already know that story. Oh, yeah. I was like watched the crash on Netflix because like I really want to talk about it. I don't think Oscars watched it yet. And then on Hulu, they had one called Mean Girl Murders. And she was also featured on that. So I was like, oh, watch the crash. Because to me, I was like, I'm in my documentary area for sure. Right now, I'm like so, like, have to be able to my documentaries. Which is crazy because, like, you were not messing with that.

I never liked that. My mom is always, like, watch a documentary. Yeah, she's. If it's not somebody feed-fill, it's a documentary, true crime. Yeah, you guys have been on it and you, like, already knew about that story. So, well, where do we go? Oh, wow. Let's do the my worst.

And then the crash, okay. Which, who is, I was going to say who's worse, but I guess probably the my worst. Well, obviously way well, so. Guys, it is crazy because, right, comparing, not to compare the two, but like obviously the crash, I do think it's horrific. And I think she's like not held accountable at all. And like, she was like the 17-year-old girl and you're just like, what is wrong with you? Like you slammed your car and killed these two people. And I think intentionally, in my opinion.

But these men on my wear sex. And I watch it because I. Grown men. Jeffrey has kids. More like several kids. Yeah. And you're just like, are you a monster? They look so normal.

He is a monster. Well, wait, doesn't look normal anymore, but, like, did look normal at one point. It's like, Jeffrey, very unassuming. I only watched... He starred in, or not starred, but he was, like, in the... Yeah, he starred.

He was a main character, a 90-day fiancé. No, I'm talking on actual acting shows. What show was he at? Oh, my God, I got to look it up. Really? Yes, he was like, he had speaking lines in actual shows. Like, cop shows or whatever. What?

Oh, wait. Before 90-day or after 90-day? Before. Because he always wanted to be famous. Did you even watch the thing? Yeah, but I didn't know he was acting. Yes, it said it in there. Oh, and I did not.

I did not watch this full episode. I had only had seen the Wade one, and I watched clips of the Jeffrey one because Jeffrey's a heart of stomach. I mean, Wade is too, but, like, I think because... Jeffrey's heart of stomach for me because I had an ex exactly like him. So you saw the... And so I was, like, cringing the entire way. He was on Fatal Attraction.

episodes like those kind of like shows. But it was scripted? Yes. Oh, that's so weird. I didn't know. Yeah, I watched it because well you told me about I don't watch your crime. He was on Snap too. Like you know how they do flashbacks? Oh, I do remember that. Was he doing like a reenactment? Yes. Twice right.

Like a detective. He was a detective or whatever. Ironic because now they're going to do a snap about you. Because it was, it's so insane. I remember talking to him on Instagram live. I remember you talking to him too. Oh my God. Like he was on 90-day fiancé. That's what's kind of like scary, right?

It's like, so he went on 90-day fiancé. He had just did assault, like a physical assault on his, was his girlfriend, not wife. Fiance. Fiancé where he's obviously like domestic abuse where he like smashed her head. But he said she said even before that he had charges. He had so many charges before because it's like one thing she goes, okay, it was six months before he left for the show. So maybe they didn't know hers. But like there was so many like charges prior.

and they still had him on the show, which is like risky because, again, like you show him, girls are hitting him up, which obviously we know from my worst sex is like, that doesn't stop anyone. The Wade, what's the same, Wade Wilson? Yeah, they are very,

usually abusers are very charismatic and they're very, like, good at schmoozing. That's how people get hooked into these relationships. And then they get stuck in these relationships because the hardest part about, like, leaving, that's the hardest part, is leaving. It's the most dangerous part. in a relationship. Of course, yeah, it's hard to get out of it. And, but on top of that,

these, some of these, like, Wade, they know what he's done and they write to him. Yeah. I mean, when he went to prison the second time after killing the second girl, he literally TikTok is flooded with, like, he's so hot. I literally don't understand that, that whole mentality of like, this man is an abuser, he's killed women and you think he's hot? Like, no, he's a psychopath. And it's like one thing to be like, that guy's hot or whatever, but to, like, write him and be like, I wouldn't have a relationship with you. Put money on his books. Girl, you look so desperate. You actually look like a clown. Okay?

I just don't understand. Like, I don't. And being so openly public, too, like, people have, like, made TikToks about it. Why would you make a TikTok on that? Yes. And there's something wrong with you, actually. Well, then Jeffrey's current wife, Varia, is, like, still supporting him after hearing all these stories. Because they show his, Jeffrey's ex that he, uh, physically assaulted. And, like,

she's selling the story. graphic detail and how he was trying to like get away with it and stuff like that. And Varya's like still supportive of it. And I'm just like I guess because he's in prison and she's just like peace. I have to deal with, you know, she doesn't have to deal with the repercussions of him, I guess. Because he has

is he had life sentences? What is his no. He doesn't because he didn't kill anybody. But I thought that was like the get good because he, I thought he did have life sentences for or not even though he didn't or am I just like getting that wrong. Like I thought he had like consecutive ones. Right. He didn't 2037.

18 years Oh Which is more than Still pretty good for Not murdering someone Yeah That's pretty good that he's in there 18 years

Wow that's so wild So will he be with Vari when he comes out I guess I guess she'll be like maybe She's still around If he's still around No one's promised tomorrow But yeah It was crazy

I had an ex that hid a son From me And I didn't find out till like To use That hid a son Yes That hid Is this your first one or second one?

First. Remember? Oh, no, I don't. So what, yeah. I remember him, but I didn't know because he had a son. So he had two and I only knew that he had one. Oh, yeah, that's why. Oh.

And like, two years in a relationship, he was like, I found out that he had a second one. And I'm just like, how old? Then if you start like thinking, I'm like, oh, my God, I don't even know this person. No, that's terrifying. That's terrifying. If it was like, I, by the way, I had a kid. I'm like, oh, my God. I would be like, I am sleeping with a stranger.

That's what I would feel. scary. So how old was the kid? Seven years younger. Or no, he was like four years younger than me. The kid that you didn't know about? Yes. Okay, you were 18 at the time? No, I was actually 20. So he was 16. How was old was the other kid that you know about? 13. But like when they mentioned that he had these two teenage boys over and like the fiancee was there, they're like

oh, these are my friends kids or whatever and then come to find out they're his kids. I was like, girl, right? How are you lying about that to someone that you're like dating? Apparently multiple men do it because I've experienced it too. Yeah, you're so right. That is so scary. That is so scary. Someone who are you going to go to date?

I'm like, I'm really good, actually. I'm really good. I think that's the consensus for a lot of women online and I feel the same way of what anything happened to us. I don't think I would. It's so scary because like what do you mean? Like, but even people who have been married like 20 years.

Oh my God. We go on hikes. I'm like, because you just like sometimes they're like, oh, they were married 15 years. Then he just pulled her scuba to I even think. She like got... There was one in Hawaii when they went on a vacation and the husband, like, gave her an injection and tried to push her off the mountain.

I just saw one, too, in Indonesia, he, like, threw off a train. And I was, like, the husband, I'm like... Because, like, she took her purse off to help her, and then he just, like, threw over. And I was just like, what? And it's, you know, not all men, but always men. Because if you look at, like, the females who have done some of this stuff, like,

there's usually, like... There's a reason. The one from monster. Charlie Serran. Yeah. Like there's always like some provoked. Yeah. Or like they're protecting their children.

That part. I've seen so many women on like death row and it's like they literally like shot someone that like killed their daughter or something like in court. That should be self defense. Yeah. Or also just like you should be able to. Like if you did something to my daughter, I should be able to shoot you if you did something like that's so insane especially when you're underage.

So yeah, or self defense or any of that stuff. Like it is wild. Yeah. Mom should just be able to do that period. But yeah, these men do it truly just out of nowhere to like random people. And you're just like, I don't get. Like that's why I don't like watch. I don't like, can't I watch True Crem too much because it does like freak me out.

Even the case, I don't know her name from the crash, but she's like the 17 year old girl. McKenzie. Mackenzie. Yes. Even watching that, it's like obviously not as like eerie. But it's also very much like those kids were very young. I mean, he was like, she was 17, I think, at the time, but Dominic was like 20. His friend was like 20.

And it's just like the dangers of really just like your child. Like who is the, sorry, I don't want to get his name wrong. It's Dominic and who was the friend, Davian. Davian. Davian, who was like a friend that like just was, like just knew them and just was like why he was in this car. But it's like you also have to worry about your kids being friends with people who are like toxic with each other because you could end up in that backseat of that happening and stuff. And it's so, it's just so scary. And these are children, right?

She's in high school. And it's just like, you just don't expect it. But maybe he did. Maybe that's why he brought him. And it was just like, I don't really like trust her or whatever. And it's just, I don't know. And then the fact that there's parents like hers that were just no accountability. They are so tone deaf still until this day.

To this day. And that's the thing. It's like take some accountability. Yes, she was like underage, but still like take some accountability of where like you went wrong. Like you can just tell she was just like coddled like this her whole life. And it's just zero. Oh, she's not. murderer and like let her go those were her family

those were her people she's like just like no does not lie though she never stepped on the break right you can't tell me that's not intentional some people said that they were like trying to shift to neutral and then back to drive and they were like that they may have been trying to like fight to get it we'll never know really the truth

but that's I think at this point very like least now is like if you are so if you are remorseful and you're so sorry like tell the truth to the family so at least they have the closure because it's just like not and she got to very different edits on the Hulu versus the Netflix one. I think with the Netflix one, I think the family thought,

because I think she's up for, what is that called? She's not up for parole yet. She's not, or is there like a retrial happening? There's something. She's trying to appeal it. The first one got denied. They're trying again. So I think they thought this might make them look good.

It actually made them look. The appeal is based off of making one of the victims look bad. And I'm like, this is not what you think it is. Yeah, no, that's the thing. It's like, why are you victim blaming it all? Like, your daughter was recklessly driving regardless of why the intentions were, which... I can't imagine going 100 on the freeway. Imagine doing that on, like, cross streets, like little streets.

Yeah, there was somebody doing like 100, like, they already went to trial in this area, too. And same thing. And they were trying to, like, plead, like, that they weren't even reckless driving. I'm like, what do you mean 100 miles? Like, that's so... It's so fast. First of all, a car going 100 miles an hour, a lot. lot of cars will shake because they just can't

like handle going that fast. But also what's really triggering too is that like she was like they thought that she was under the influence absolutely sober. Yes she had THC in her system but like that stays in your system for a while but. Oh right there's so unphased by her like smoking and stuff like that. I'm just like living with your boyfriend when you're 17. Yeah like that tells me everything about the parents. A hundred percent is the parent's fault. I mean she has a product of her parents and we can

see why she is the way she is and has all has like zero countability and also like zero remorse and just like cold blooded and all this shit it's like that's why like obviously the parents were like neglectful in some way like you're just like letting her love with the boyfriend oh you're not you're not like shook by her like smoking like the fat as joint like it's just so it's so crazy and the fact that yeah watching them like in the court also still trying to like defend it all and stuff like that because it's like like one thing to like love your daughter but you're oh davion is a new friend just sit down I know I was like stop talking he like he like because he like Because one, you're not making it good for your daughter.

And two, you sound like a fucking idiot. Yeah. And there's like their families are there. And you can't like give them some sort of. Absolutely tone deaf. Yeah. Your daughter is still alive, even though she's the one to cause it. And it's always the case of the one that causes it.

But I do think, my opinion, I feel like it was intentional. I feel like it was like an intentional murder. And that's because who goes that fast under that with those pretenses. Yeah. So I just, the documentaries are crazy. But I guess also it's, it's good that it's out there. Again, awareness for everyone. And for parents to not let your kids like drive to tell them like don't drive with other teenagers.

No, that's the law. That is a law too that I wanted to bring up too. Once you're, if you're under 18, you have, if you're driving with another underage person, you have to have someone, I think, like of the age of 25 or you can't drive. That should be, I didn't know. Is that a lie? It is. Yeah.

I guess that's. So another neglectful parent issue. Yeah. And it really does come down. Honestly, they should be tried to. It's like, okay, if they can't try them for this, but it's like you often should be. tried as an adult, but... Oh, she was.

Yeah. Yeah, because, I mean, 17 and also. Yeah, and it's just good awareness. I think for also people in toxic relationships, don't get in the car with, you know, and that's not there for, obviously, but it's just... Well, the saddest part is Davian was supposed to go home with someone else to help him do something,

and he's like, I just want to go to home and, like, get some sleep before I go help you. Oh, that just, it's so hard. And also the other people on the road, too. It's like one thing with them, but there's like other people on the road. And it just like is, yeah, and there's no, you know what? There is like no solution. That's what, like, sucks is like these people will continue to do it.

They'll continue to go to prison. There's people who are in the same prison at the time and saying how awful she was and how she, like, just thought she, like, got away with stuff and everything. That's like, no girl you're in prison. Also, if you are younger in watching this, you do not have to go fast. Whatever you're going to can wait. It doesn't matter if you're late for work, for school, whatever. Go ahead and sweet on it.

Yeah, because a lot of times people do. You're right. They try to go home and like rush home and it always, I see that too. I see that a lot. Everybody. Yeah. Yeah, nothing is worth risking your life or other people's life. That's what I'm saying.

She had just, I think she had malice because she, absolutely. She's not remorseful. If you're really sorry, like you give closure, you give admission, you give something, but she's not. And she's still trying to like get away with it and the parents too. Yeah. And, yeah, it's, it's awful. I heard Korea loves you. After your new song.

No seriously. They've been like tweeting or like commenting about you. Yes. That's the next, next show for you. Go to Korea. Go to South Korea.

I would love. That's like the goal of all goals. I would absolutely love it. I know the response has been really nice. And we talked about it a little yesterday, so I haven't liked it too much. But like the response is like super nice because I'm just not used to people.

I love making music. I will make music and music videos forever because I just like love it so much. Even if like no one cares about it. But like this was so much fun. And I like love learning. the language and people were like really supportive of it and do you like the song i love the song saarang hey and you sound so good thanks darling mclean people breaking news it's breaking news u.s k-pop

charts it's number 45 how did you find out just on twitter stop on i tunes oh my did 45 is crazy okay just you understand i have so my hair's bidding so number 47 is Demon Hunter strategy, like one of their songs. What? Number one is golden. So you're like 45. Oh my God. I think between the Huntrics.

Oh my gosh. That is so. Congratulations. I appreciate it so much. So by the time you watch this video, we might be number one. Imagine. Oh my God. I would cry.

I literally was telling Moses, like, I was being so serious at blowing crap. I'm like, are we ready to go to South Korea? Like, are we ready to go over there and like perform? Because I, I love it. so much. And I have other Korean songs in my roster. They're not like fully done yet, but I have other ones that I've like started working on like before all this came out. Because I was going to do

an EP. But I was like, let me just see how people are liking it. Yeah. A little big toe in there first. And I'm glad people appreciate it because I do it always out of like respect. Like I love the culture so much. I love the language so much. Like I appreciate K-pop in all its entirety. As I've said before, it's like my kids like love K-pop so much.

So, um, I'm just glad people liked it because I, you know, again, I can always never know. But it is a good song to it. And shout out to Alex Wright for writing it. It's like really a really good song. But yeah, and Amy, who was helping me with my pronunciation through it all, she would send me like voice memos if I needed help with something. And she was like so proud. She was like sending me it too.

Oh, you did so good. And I think, I don't know if I mentioned or not. Maybe I'd mention, but yeah, I think I mentioned it last. Well, I'll just like touch around again. But like, yeah, a lot of people were saying maybe do like some English in there. But a lot of people appreciated that I did all Korean. And that was just important to me. I didn't realize how it was important, that important to, like, the K-pop world, that

there was more Korean in here. It's all Korean. There's no English words in it. But, like, for me, it was important because I just, I really wanted the challenge. But I still just think it's a really beautiful language. That is like, okay, if I'm going to do a K-pop song, I want it to be all in Korean. And I'm glad that people also appreciated that as well because I just, I love the language. I always have.

I love languages at all, like, always. Yeah, you do. And specifically, Korean is, like, such a beautiful language. So I'm trying to learn more as I go. But yeah, I really, I appreciate it. Well, congratulations. Thank you. Yeah, because I saw all the craves.

They were like, you know, streamed the song now. Let's get it up. Because it was like 57 this morning, just an hour ago. Wow. Wow. It's 45 now. It's a lot. Oh, my God.

We got a post about it. That's so cool. That is really, really cool. I'm really. And I've never had this happen to me. Like, Instagram. I'm just scrolling. And it's like it's all different.

People reacting. Like different accounts. There's a lot of, you know, obviously fans of K-pop accounts. And all of them are just your song and the video and everything. What's so crazy is yesterday, Oscar's like, you should create a, do the dance, like a dance trend. So people start, like, recreating your dance. I was like, oh, I don't know. Like, I don't want to just do it myself.

And then afterwards, like, maybe you should, like, pay people to do it. And I was like, I don't know. I was not really anything. Literally this morning, we woke up to people just doing the dance on their own. Like, do not pay, do not, like, reach out. And they have, like, 20,000 likes on it. Like, there is kids. you have to show her the one.

I'll show her. There's three people who are doing it phenomenally and doing the choreo exactly. It's, I don't know, it's so wild. Oh my God. Crazy. They're eating. Awesome to Jimmy.

Wow. Oh my God. Sometimes I'll scroll and, you know, it comes up somebody watching the video, putting a post about it, and Elvis will hear it. And she runs to me. She's like demands to watch it.

I love that. And then she wants me to put it on the TV and she stands there and she's watching. They love the music. Yeah. She's learning the dance and the words. She's so focused on it and, yeah, learning the words of it, which is like so cool because they do with like demon, deemers, they know all of it. Yeah, it's wild.

And I will get better. Oh my God. Just like even the encouragement where it's like pronunciation is not bad where people are like, it's actually pretty good. Like I understood like 80% of it. It makes me just like want to do it more. So I've been like really, I was telling Alice, I was telling Amy. I was like, I really want to like get with someone to like really learn it because now I

already loved it as is, but now with the encouragement, I was like, I really, from Native Korean speakers, which makes me feel really happy and I want to do it even more. And I want to just be fluent in it. I want to be fluent in Korean. And that's my new goal. So, thanks. I appreciate that. I love that. Can I go into music bank. Music bank. I'm going to come there. I'm going to be there. I would love. I will fly over tomorrow. Sometimes I want to play your music videos on stream. And I'm like, ooh, I might be copyrighted. I don't think so. I think mine are. No, you leave your songs. Yeah, I usually leave mine open.

Like, I think I leave it white listed. I think all of them do. This may be different because I do have different producers on this. So maybe they do. But all my songs you can use, but maybe this one is different. I don't know. We'll see. I guess we'll find out.

Did you see the Bethany Frankel shoe scandal? Shoes scandal. She wore a pair of shoes from another housewife's daughter. I think her name's Dina from Real Housewives of maybe New Jersey. I don't know. Dina's daughter has a shoe line called new, N-O-U, like new shoes, no shoes, no shoes.

And she gifted a pair to Bethany Frankel. Bethany wore them. She does outfit of the days. She tagged a dupe of the shoe. And so then the daughter who made the shoes

called out Bethany. And then Bethany's like, I don't usually respond to this, but I'm going to call out because it's a bad business practice. She's basically like, why would you post a link to the you got them for free, I gifted them to you. Why would you post a dupe where you're an affiliate? Then Bethany Frank called her out and sent us bad business practice because she's like, everything I wear sells out, Gap jeans, all this stuff like that.

So she thought her calling her out was bad business practice and that it wouldn't do well for her small business. However, the gag is, the shoes are now available. And I guess they were sold out. Bethany, I think, said they were sold out and people want to get the shoes now. So she found the dupe. Oh. Because I also think when I went to go order the shoes, because I did like the shoes.

I thought they were cute. When I went to order them, it did say like six to eight weeks. So I think it was like a pre-order. So like I kind of understood what Bethany was saying, where it's like people want to know what the shoe is now because people were asking what the shoe is. People will wait though. Yeah. And she could have tagged them and people could just find out they're on back order or whatever. People can find dupes on their own.

Yeah. I think I'm with you on that one. I think her like linking a dupe was a little tacky. Your gifted shoes. She used. She wore the shoe. shoes a few times. First time she didn't take anyone anything. Right. And then later on, she was asked and then she started tagging, but not the person that sent her the shoes.

And then when they called her out, she was like, she said, well, I get PR all the time. No obligation to post. I have an obligation. I do what I want with it. You send it for me for free, so I do what I want. So it's like, you know, it's, it's nice to acknowledge who sent you the thing. Yes, especially people are asking. She did say she had made the content saying, the shoes were but it was banked meaning like it hadn't been posted yet and i think she ended up posting that video from that same day so you see she's in the same outfit saying glam seem like new york stoop and she does shout it out so she did have it banked she does say these shoes she takes off the shoes she looks at it from new or something so she did say it but it didn't have been

posted yet so she's like i already did i did shout it out but like i hadn't posted it yet so i think the girl's issue was like she tagged the dupe i think if she just like never said anything or like posted it later or something like that. I like getting upset because I do feel like they're also mutuals because if her mom was a housewife too, they probably know each other. So she probably was like, this is annoying.

And she's a small business, a female run business. She's like, you know, it would have helped my business so much. What happened to females supporting females? That part. Especially in the business industry.

But it did work because everyone is now going to these new, new, new shoes, N-O-U shoes. Did you look up the shoes? They're kind of cute. I didn't pop up. You did. You type to have any for angle.

shoes it didn't have up. This was everywhere. Where do you type it in? They don't show the shoe. They just tell me about the, is it like a peep toe? It's a peep toe. It's a black peep show. Oh, I see it. Her website, does it curate things or is it the shoe itself is her? It's the shoe itself, I think. Oh, okay. Oh, I see. I see. Yeah, I think so. I think it's a shoe itself. I think she's a shoe designer. It's a good shoe. It's like $30 50 or something. It was so it must be good quality. I don't know how it feels for white feet, but I should look. People ask me why you wear crocs all the time. Because they're made for wide feet. That's why I wear them. Of course.

I would love a shoe for a wide foot, but I suppose that's a niche. Maybe not. Probably a lot of people. You know what you do? You buy dance shoes. You can wear them all the time. Oh, that's all I wear on stage are those capizios. Well, I wear them if I go out.

A capizio? Yes. A character shoe? No, well, no, no, no. Not like the theater shoes. Oh, what do you do. But they made, like, dancing shoes, like dancing with the star shoes. Oh, yes.

The sole ones. And you can wear them all the time. That is a good. Life hack. If you can't wear heels, those itty-bitty stilettos. get some dance heels. They're super flexible. That is a good hack.

I found a pair of heels. What did I wear that are comfortable? I found a pair of Jimmy 2 chunky heels that were pretty comfortable too. I wore them to euphoria. I wear them everywhere. But the good thing about those is like they're flexible. A lot of shoes are, they've got that stiff soul.

So are you team Bethany or team new designer? I mean, they didn't have a contract. I get it from that standpoint. However, like if her daughter, if Bethany's daughter went into business, she and did that with a housewife, you know, she would be down their throat. That's true.

That's true. And she is a businesswoman. She had to put the shoe on the other foot, no pun intended. Literally. How would she feel, you know? Yeah. And she could argue, well, I know business. I would never let my daughter do this, da, blah, da, blah, but like regardless, whatever.

But you also know business and you know that would help. Yeah. So much. It's a tough one because I would imagine Bethany gets lots of PR. Yeah. So, you know, it's like you have, she probably has a. garage full of boxes, lots of PR. And when you send a PR, you feel so personal, you're like, I hope she gets it. I hope she uses it. I hope she tags me. But it's like lottery. Yeah.

The chances are a small percent and you'd be thankful if one of the 10 influences you send it to actually does it. So it's a tough one, right? You have a lot like a lot of emotion invested in it. The person's sending it. And the person receiving it has zero emotion into it. It's one of a hundred boxes they received. To them, it's like, like, you know, you're like, I'm even showing it kind of thing. So it's like, it's a tough one. Yeah, but she did wear it and she did like love it. So it's like, damn, I would have loved a little tag as a tag can go away.

Well, but it seems like she was about to. So in theory, if she was holding back a little bit, her emotion, waiting a minute, the tag would have happened. Things would have happened. So it's like, but I understand also the emotion. You're like so emotional about it. It's a tough one. Yeah. I guess also when you link something else when you drove the traffic elsewhere.

Yeah. In that case, I would just send a nice DM saying like, hey, thank you so much for using my shoe. By the way, you tagged the wrong one. Yeah. Or I know the way down a little bit. Or that's on my link. I know it was sold out, but now it's back in stock if you can update the link. Something.

Like, I would just try to make her aware of that. Yeah. But definitely not blast her for it. So bad. We were supposed to do the Disneyland recap at the top of it because we were supposed to Elvis's birthday. Elvis's birthday was when I was performing my UK show on the 24th. And originally we were all going to go over there together.

So I thought, oh, I'm going to get a cute little tea party theme for her. And then it just didn't work out because we just couldn't find anyone help us over there. My dad couldn't go for that period of time. It was just kind of complicated. But anyways, so we ended up like staying back. And so we celebrated Elvis's birthday early at Disney, which we love a Disneyland experience. We love it so much. I guess my only hot topic from Disneyland, which is not really a hot topic is,

ever been to that bird? Tiki Sam's. It's a tiki, tiki, tiki. Tiki room is a Tiki, Tiki, Tiki. I love Tiki Room. What? I love the Tiki Room. I feel like I'm transported in Maui.

The Tiki Room with robot animatronic birds? You like pirates. Don't even come for me. Well, you're just sitting there watching these birds. Malbo's like so dark. That would be in here? Oh my God.

The birds are literally doing what you just did and they're like, but they're above you and you can't really see what's going on and it's just kind of like loud. And then it's just like, Malbo's like, is it done? And I'm like, no, but you're in there? there for like 15 minutes and you can't get out because the doors are all like closed around

you're just like what is happening right here and all I wanted some dull whip and we have to sit through these birds just yapping and it doesn't stop yapping it just tweet like birdie tweets tweet tweet tweet and I'm just like what and then it starts raining and for no reason oh my god because you're in the rainforest it's giving rainforest cafe but at Disney without the food okay and it's just like no let's at the end I guess do you like it I love the teaky room well I love birds in general so oh Oh, that doesn't make sense. Actually, we forgot to talk about that. You was saving a bird.

Moses found a baby bird and was holding it at the stone house the other day. We were at lunch. Yeah. And both Malibu and Elvis are obsessed with, they just want to touch the bird. You know, so they chase birds all around everywhere we go, the lake. And then suddenly I see like below Aquaman, there was like a little baby bird. It was a baby. And I was like, oh, wait a minute.

Let me. So I picked up the baby. And then I got Malibu and Elvis to come and they could finally touch a bird. They could finally, and they were so like, yeah, it was like so cute because the baby bird couldn't fly. Was it a fledgling? I don't know what that means. A fledgling is like when they're learning how to fly. So sometimes you'll find them.

It was really young. It was really little. It just had some feathers and some still like a little white feather sticking out. So it was really tiny. And Malbo even because she gets a little nervous. Elvis was about to pick up that bird right out of your hand. She's like, let me get that bird. Oh, yeah.

She started holding it. Yeah. I didn't want her to squeeze it too hard. Yeah. Yeah. I held it and I let them touch it. And then Malbu did it on the back. It was really cute.

So you saved the baby bird, but birds are not my thing. So that's why you thought the teaky room would be fun for them. Well, yeah. I think the tiki room seems like more like a place to stop, reset, cool down. Yeah, you can sit down in the shade for a minute. It was our first stop, though. And I think we were just too, I was too anxious to get to like Dumbo and stuff and like Mickey's. You don't take that on pirates because it's dark and scary.

Yeah. I want to, though. That's my fave. But we can barely get on. I'm going to say, yeah, if Malmoo. I think we're building up towards it. Didn't like the dressing, the dress up. No.

No. But they did love this time for the first time the mermaid's ride. They did love the mermaid and small world. Oh, that's a dark one too. A mermaid is dark. It's dark. It's all dark when you're in there. But then she gets a little nervous at first and then after.

She's like, I want to go again. She's like, loved it. It is really pretty in there. It was fun. We love Disney. And then real quick, sorry, guys. We were like, I was on a little time frame today. May as,

Mental Health Awareness Month, and I love Martin Short has been doing a bunch of interviews. Have you seen this about his... I actually just saw his documentary on Netflix, too. Oh, there's a documentary about Martin Short. Yes, it was so... And it's so nice because

he's such a great human. Like, he just oozes joy, and, like, it really shows in the... Because they have, like, old footage of, like, him hanging out with friends, like, Eugene Levy, and... in O'Hara. And it's just like genuine friendships.

And it's just like all the kids know each other. I did see that, like those clips of that of them and genuine. It's like back in the day when people would just be friends with people just to be friends. It's not like YouTubers who are just glabbing. What can we get? The clout. All this stuff.

And then like, oh, let's start drama for beef. Like, I just love back in the day where people would just be friends with each other. And Steve Martin was in it too. And like, he's had a hard life with his parents passing pretty like young in his life. And his wife. and now his daughter. And I liked what he said about his daughter.

She had borderline. She took her own life. And he said she struggled for a long time. And he said it is like a disease like cancer. Like he equated he lost his wife to cancer and he lost his daughter to, you know, mental health struggles. And he said it is a disease. And I thought that was like so important. That's why like Hayden talking about stuff.

Like it is so important to recognize it because people will show. on TikTok to, even just people that I don't know will show like this was him two days before he took us and they're like laughing and smiling and stuff like that. So it's just, it's important to like check up on yourself, of course, but check up on the people around you because it is, it is an illness. It is a sickness. It is a disease. Just like cancer. Like you can fight it so hard. And he said she did. He said his daughter did fight it so hard. And sometimes you just lose the battle just like cancer. You don't want to. And just with it being Mental Health Awareness Month is to just check on yourself, check on others.

And I always say this. The thing that helped me the most is like asking for help. And sometimes I had family too. You know, sometimes you have family around and you're like, family's like, God, I wish they would talk to me about it. But sometimes you just don't feel comfortable. Sometimes just getting outside help is also the answer. It's great if you can talk to friends or have support or something like that.

But if you don't feel comfortable with it, like sometimes just talking to others because it can help so much. And at the end of the day, like Warren's her said, it is a disease. and it's just something you have to fight every day. I fight it every day. I fight it every day while I have good days and bad days. Like it is something that you just have to really actively work on and have to check in on yourself and know your triggers, know your breaks,

and give yourself that grace. And I wanted to like go into more about it, but we are. It's isolating. It may feel isolating, but just know everybody has some sort of mental, you know, struggles. Everyone does, yeah. So you're never alone. even though it may feel that way.

And for those of you who are still here that have also had the struggle of wanting to live, just hang on, hang on because it's, you know, you leave behind so many people who like love you. And I don't know, I just, I feel like if you can just hang on, it's the answer. Life is short, as the Martin Short documentary says, like, life. is short as it is but it's also like a gift and it's just I know it's hard I know it's hard but like man if you can just like survive one more day like it'll it'll get better there's highs and lows and sometimes going through those like dark times make you appreciate when like the light times come and as someone who obviously has been there as well like the light the happiness

I feel now is something that I never thought I could feel my life for my first 30 years I really I was just doomed to always feel like alone in this world, even if I had family around me, even if I had that. And the happiness and the joy that I feel now is like, thank God I made it through. I would have missed out on like so many core memories. And I just want everyone to like hang in there and hang on. And it's really tough. And, you know, the people you leave behind, it's it can be really painful.

And there's always solutions. and it's just hard. But anyways, I say all the people too who have lost someone, I've lost someone dear to me too, to taking their own lives. There is American Foundation for Suicide Prevention that can provide support if you've lost someone or if you're someone going through it. There's hotlines out there and there's people who will help

and support groups for it all. But never stop sharing your stories, and I'll continue to share mine, and I appreciate Martin Short's sharing his. It's very tragic his life. or his losses. But keep going. Keep hanging on there.

And I want to talk more too because I know you've gone through stuff too, but we'll save it for the next one. Hold on for one more day. They had it right. Wilson Phillips. They really did. Or good Charlotte.

Hold on if you feel like letting go. All right. That's it. Okay. We love you guys. And sorry I had I cut this off abruptly. Thank you, Callie. Thank you, Calgary.

Calgary. Calcator 143. Check out Moses. He's changing all the things right now. Moses cooking videos. We love you guys. Thank you so much for the support in England. I think Australia might be happening soon, so I'm very excited. Well, in the near future.

And maybe South Korea. Maybe I'll just pop over there in between. I love that. Love you guys. Thanks for watching. And we'll be back with Hot Topics with Oscar for the next one. And we'll recap England for real after I have come back with my old fish and chips. We will.

And have a spolti. Bring some tea back for you. I always do. All right. Christi. Pip, Bib, Cheerio.