Keep it Positive, Sweetie - Do It Anyway w/Tasha Cobbs Leonard

Episode Date: February 9, 2025

Gospel superstar, Tasha Cobbs Leonard, opens up about her fertility journey and her new devotional book, "Do It Anyway: 60 Days To A Bolder Faith."

Coming up on Keep It Positive, sweetie. Sometimes your heart will be broken and you don't understand the season that you're in. But I want you to dig deep within yourself and do it anyway. And so I got up seven days after my dad went to be with the Lord. And I won my first Grammy. Sitting there they called my name and I was like there is no way to just be calling my name. You know, so I got up and the first thing I said is seven days ago the greatest man who ever walked the face of this earth went to be with Jesus and I would love for you guys to honor my

father. Hi, I'm Crystal Renee Hazlett and this is Keep It Positive, sweetie. A safe space to heal, laugh, grow, and love. I can't wait to bring today's guest to the couch. Her musical ministry has definitely brought me through. I'm talking about the goddess of gospel, Tasha Cobbs Leonard. With a voice that carries the essence of praise and worship, a musical ministry that has blessed millions around the world, Tasha Cobbs Leonard is one of gospel's most grounded torchbearers. In recent years she's traveled the world carrying her gift of song and surrender with her. These days she's on and off tour stages managing a ministry with

her husband, mother and her children and enjoying the release of her new devotional, Do It Anyway. And in the midst of all that guys we got her on the couch to talk to me. Tasha thank you so much for coming. First of all you came in here you got the curls popping. What made you even decide to cut it off? We talked about the big chop. That's such a it can be a spiritual journey when you chop your hair off or emotional. What made you chop your hair off or emotional. Yes. What made you chop your hair off? I love it. And I love that you mentioned that because I don't think my expectation was for it to

be so spiritual. Originally I was like, hey, I'm going to cut it because a lot of people don't know, I don't do wigs. So I had sew-ins all of those years. And so it was just pulling, pulling, pulling, damaging my hair. And then when I don't have the sew-ins, you're doing braids. It's the same thing. I know we call it protective styles, but it's not so protective. So it was just kind of pulling my hair and I noticed that it was just damaged. So I told my stylist, I said,

after this, so I did the big curls for one of the vols. So beautiful. Oh my gosh. Thank you. Stunning. Yeah, I love this. After this, I'm going to chop it. And she was like, all right, let's go for it because I wanted it to be healthy. So that was really the original thought behind it. But after cutting it, I was just telling some of my friends like I feel exposed. But it's in a great way. Like you see me. Yes, like almost like I've been hiding. I was talking to Priscilla Shire called me and she was like, girl hair is amazing. I was like you know just pray for me I'm in this place where I feel like something is being revealed and it may not be for everybody but I feel like you know all the years of hiding behind the hair, hiding behind this and that now I'm in this space where hey this is me taking a leave. So that's it. It's been a really good spiritual journey for me. Yes, I love that.

And my husband loves it. That's all that matters. That's all that matters. I love it. But I love how I can see your beautiful face. And I asked you, I was like, have you got any compliments that you got to do? Like a lot. Yes. Because all the times we don't realize how we hide, we do not intentionally, but we hide

behind our hair. And we don't realize when we reveal all that it's like wow people really can see your true beauty yeah I can see me see that yeah that's powerful yeah that's powerful I love it you know the products that you like to use you know what I've tried a few and I like that it's different things for different people yes and so for me it's been right now the soft curls by Miss Jessie but it's been working really good I love it the curls pop a bit I know that's right I'm here for by Miss Jessie. But it's been working really good. I love it. I know that's right. I'm here for it. I'm here for it. Now you recently just dropped a new devotional called Do It Anyway. And I feel like that is a testament of just who you are.

There's things that you've done that the Christian or Gospel world may look at like, but you do it anyway and it works. Yeah. You know, what actually inspired your devotional? So the devotional is actually the second portion, I'll say, of off of the main book. So the main book is called Do It Anyway. And the story behind that is when I released my album, Grace, so that's the album that has Break Every Chain, Confidence, Happy, you know, Smile, all of those songs are on there. That album was nominated for seven awards that year. So it was stellar awards, double awards, and two Grammys. Wow.

Literally a freshman artist. It's my first album with a label and my dad was a down home. I'm from Jessup, Georgia. Country pastor and he didn't leave our church for anything, so literally we would do vacations from Sunday evening to Saturday morning because we were gonna be back on Sundays, right? And so all of the award shows literally are on weekends, so Saturdays, Sundays, and I'm thinking, oh my goodness, daddy is not leaving Jessup,

but they weren't that kind of parent, they were very, very supportive. So my dad was like, hey daddy is gonna be with you in Nashville. I'm coming to Nashville. But daddy's not gonna be in LA, but I want you to go anyway. He just kept saying, daddy's not gonna be in LA,

I want you to go anyway. And I was like, nobody expects you to go to Nashville, LA, nowhere. You're not leaving justice. So I'm just excited that you're coming anywhere. And so the Stellar Awards happened in Nashville. And I had 60 seconds to sing Break Every Chain. So 60 seconds. It felt like two minutes but it was 60

seconds. So I was like I'm gonna give it all I got in these 60 seconds. And to look out and see my parents in the audience because they had like the stage in the middle of the space and so I could see everybody's faces. My dad, he's beaming with pride. And so that night I won three stellar awards and we were hanging out in my mentor's hotel room, just hanging out celebrating what happened that night, William Murphy. And he was like, call dad and see if they want to come hang out. It was about two or three o'clock in the morning. So I was like, guys, we got daddy to Nashville. We're at the church. He's not coming to your room at three o'clock in the morning. So I text him like, dad, hey, we're just hanging out a little bit. He immediately responded. It was like me and your mom were on the way. So they came and my dad was two things.

He was a man of very few words, but if he spoke, it was either profound or he was going to have you in the floor screaming laughing. And so that night he pulled out his greatest comedy show. I mean he had us in the floor just crying laughing and um I remember they were leaving at about four o'clock that morning he was getting on the on the elevator and I said hey dad he had three awards in his hand because I told him I would give him those awards. That's a long story we'll have to revisit that. Because I did an independent project and I talked him into being the executive producer. And he was like, oh yeah, yeah, yeah. He figured out what it was. He was like, wait a minute, I had to pay for all of this? So he would always say, when daddy gonna get his money back, when the executive producer get paid? He would always say that. And so I told him, I said, this is what I'll do. If I win any awards, you can have them all. And so he took that thing to heart. He's out in the hospital. So right here, he built a curio for all of the awards

that he felt like I would win. And so that night, he was getting on the elevator. He had the awards in his hands. I was like, hey, take out one. I want to take a picture. And so he took out one of my stellar awards. I snapped the photo. And that would be the last time I saw my dad on the Earth.

Yes, the next morning, they got in the car. He had a heart attack in the car and went to be with Jesus. And so of course it was devastating. You know, like this is unexpected and I could always hear his voice ringing in my ear. So the Grammys would be seven days later and I could hear him saying, dad, he's not going to be be with you in LA but I want you to go anyway. I want you to go anyway and so now I realized that he was leaving with me the last lesson that he would leave that sometimes your heart will be broken and you don't understand the season that you're in but I want you to dig deep within yourself and do it anyway and so I got up seven days after my dad went to be with the Lord and I won my first

Grammy sitting there they call my name and I was like there is no way to just be calling my name. So I got up and the first thing I said is seven days ago the greatest man who ever walked the face of this earth went to be with Jesus and I would love for you guys to honor my father and so the entire Academy stood up and gave my dad a round of applause. But so that lesson I felt like I need to give this to as many people as I can. So if I got to do it in a form of a book or a devotional or a song, I want people to know that whatever you need is within you. You just got to dig deep and do that thing anyway.

Oh, where you going with that? My eyes are red. I'm like, oh my gosh. Tasha, thank you for sharing. That's an incredible story. And I know a lot of people wouldn't have been able to get up seven days later. Yeah. Everything about it is still foggy right now. Yeah, because you're smothered in grief at that time. It was unexpected. Yeah, but I knew one thing that daddy wanted me to be there. He did, yes. That is beautiful. You are all over the place. You're doing music, you're touring, you just started your own church. That's so incredible. The Purpose Place. Oh my goodness. What started and what inspired that? Because I know a lot of my Christian friends say that they have such a hard time finding a safe church home. I have friends that live in LA that are like ministers and people that really are seeking that

they're like we just cannot find a place. So what made you say I want because I know you to do lead, praise and worship at different places and you actually I used to go to Free Chapel and what's the church here I just drew a blank. Louis Giglio. Passion. Passion. I love that live album that you did there. But so you've gone to all these different churches what made you say honey we need to start our own church. What was that? I didn't. I've been walking with pastors my entire life. My dad was a pastor. My husband tricked me. I tell everybody my husband tricked me because while we were dating I asked him are you a pastor? He said adamantly no. So I said are we good? I don't want nothing to do with this. So we're about two years into our marriage and here he comes sitting up in the middle of the night crying.

I feel the call of God. God did not say that though, you told me. Yeah, and we're gonna do it again when. We gotta stick with the program. I like the program well right now. So yeah, he had this calling and I think it was obvious, you know, the entire time because both of us just have a heart for kingdom ministry

and for people to fulfill purpose in the earth. So, and it's what we've done, even with our team members, we push people, I don't want you here working for me forever. I want you to do what God calls you to do. If this is to start a business, whatever it is, I want this to be a ground where it's like you're educating yourself. You're getting what you need so you can do what God has called you to do. And so I think it's just always been in the both of us because he's the same way. So my husband's

actually the senior pastor and I'm just, you know, I'm just there. I'm a co-pastor, buddy. But we were about two or three years into our marriage and he was like, you know, God has called me, Tasha. And I know that you also have that calling on you. First of all, you need to stop being rebellious. Yeah, that's good. But I felt like, you know, what does God need with another church? So we have to be very, very sure about the vision. Because it's just not a place where I want us to come sing some pretty songs. People have

you know experience to give you chills and all that kind of stuff but you leave and you're not changed or transformed. And so that was we went to work just praying and at the time we were actually serving as worship pastors at a church in Greenville, Relentless Church with John and Abbot. And during that time we had conversations even with them. Like, hey, we feel this calling on our lives, but where we're serving at right now, we feel like it's a great place for us to get training together.

Because both of us had done ministry separate, but we were never together in our marriage. And so that gave us an opportunity to work together, plan together, grow together. And so we were there for two years. And then after that, you know, we just felt like, hey, it's time. And this is the interesting part where God

always throws these monkey wrenchers. You think you got it, then he's like, no, here's a little twist. And so we were planning to do like this pop-up, like, okay, we're gonna do a pop-up in Spartanburg, South Carolina. We had never even really been to the city. We just knew it was 45 minutes outside of Greenville.

And it's just where my husband's heart was. Like, hey, it's the city, it's Spartanburg. I feel like we were called to. And so we were gonna do like this pop-up service, see if people show up. And I mean, as soon as we were about to do it, the pandemic hit. No. And so we were gonna do it in June, the pandemic hit in March, right? And we're sitting at the house like everybody thought at the time it was gonna be two weeks. So it was like two weeks

gonna be gone, everybody would be killed. And it wasn't. So a month, about three weeks later, I was downstairs, my husband was upstairs, both of us came together and was like, hey, I feel like we need to do Bible studies right now. I feel like God is saying, and he was like, God told me that too. I was like, oh, okay. So we're two church kids and we have a plan. We know how to do this. You build, you start a Bible study, you do pop-ups. You know, we had a plan, but God was like, no, we want you to do this in the pandemic. So how do you start a church in a pandemic? We started in April. It was a month after the pandemic started. So for two years, our church was virtual. We had never experienced in-person church whatsoever. So even now to this day, like the mother of our church, she lives in Chicago. We have people that drive in from Atlanta, driving from Savannah, because they connected to us in the middle of a

pandemic. And right now they love their church so much that they're willing to get in their cars, to get on planes, to fly in. So I think that that's what makes our church so interesting that in the middle of this moment that feels like chaos God brought this group of people together and he's like we're gonna build a community of people who will restore hope to the community So that's our vision Love that it's funny cuz I just did a podcast with B Simone and I don't know I guess since I started dressing more ladylike. Every time I come to church they're like because I would wear like first lady. I'm like I am not going to be a first lady. They're like don't ever say that. I don't know it's on your limit. It's so funny like you just started dressing so ladylike all of a sudden.

I was like you know I just got older and I was like, you know, I just got older. And I was like, let me switch it up. Because I'm still a tomboy at heart. And I told y'all I love my sword to have hoodies. I'm like, pull over hoodie any day. Even if it's 90 degrees outside, I wear a hoodie. Like, I just love hoodies. But she said that and I was like, mm-mm.

I was like, no. So you said you're asking that question, I was like, wait. I'll identify how you are, because that's, no. It's a beautiful experience, though. Just to watch people grow. I can imagine. There are some that started with us four years ago.

And now I look at them and where they are and how they've grown as a person. It's just like, wow. To see the transformation is what keeps us going. Like if we were there and we show up and everybody feels a bunch of crazy. I mean, we ain't caught in this because nobody ain't growing up. But to see every week that different people are just growing and fulfilling purpose. That's what keeps us going.

I love it. Now when your husband told you, I feel like God has called me to do this. Was there any moment where you felt like, okay, I feel like God has called me to do this, was there any moment where you felt like, okay, I need to submit to this? Because we talk about submission when it comes to marriages, but even though you were having a little hesitance and reluctancy, was there any moment you were like, you know what, okay, God, let me just submit to this. If this is what his vision is, how do you navigate submission in your marriage?

Yeah, I trust the God in my husband. Like if he says God says something, no matter how I feel, like I'm submitted to it wholeheartedly. There's not been a time where I've said, okay, God, I trust what you've said to him, that it's let me down. Wow. And I know he's human and he's flawed and all of that,

but I believe that he's assigned to lead our family. So when I said yes to him, I said yes to everything that God instructs him for us. You know, that's my dude. This is my baby. He's like, hey, even if we going down, I'm gonna go down with you. But I felt like, yes, yeah, yeah.

I felt like if God said this to him, that he's not gonna, number one, he's not gonna say number one he's not gonna say God said something he didn't say. My husband ain't that kind of guy. He'd be like I feel like, you know what I think. But when he says God says, I trust in her heart. I love that. I love that. So you all have a blended family. You recently adopted and you've been very open about your fertility journey. I recently went to my gynecologist and got all my labs done, blood work, testing and everything and she said you know it's too late to freeze your eggs. And it was like a gut punch. I was like ah and I had this friend and I used to get so frustrated with her because every time we would talk it

would come up, hey frozen your eggs? Did you freeze your eggs yet? I'm like get out of my uterus girl, leave me alone. You know and I've been so my career took off very late in life so the time that I should have been. It's such a beautiful career it is. Thank you. You are such an inspiration. Thank you so much. I want to be that for people because a lot of times we feel like it's too late to get started and get going. I hope that I'm a source of inspiration for people who are still searching even later on in their life. It's never too late. That's how I feel. But in this moment when she told me that I was like, oh my gosh, and she said, yeah, she's like, I don't even want you to go through IVF because if they go in and they pull the eggs that you do have, say only two of them are like good, and what if you lose them? And she's like you'd be more she said you had your probability to have a child is better to do it naturally then to go through all that and I would like to

know because a lot of people leave out they're like oh yeah I froze my eggs but they leave out all the wear and tear and how emotional that journey was. Yeah. Can you talk about that a little bit? Yeah I think and I don't really I don't want to over-spiritualize everything, but I think everybody's journey is different. You know, I feel like it's for me, so our experience is that we went through IVF and we talked a little bit before and it's something, we actually ended up with three embryos, one that was implanted and we ended up losing that baby.

And that was literally one of the hardest things I'd ever gone through. And for me, just super transparent. We can sing about the God of peace, the God of joy, the God of life, we can preach about it. But when you have to walk that thing out and live it out, that's when it's the true test of your faith. And for me, I needed that season to show me

that there were areas that have been lying dormant of a lack of faith inside of me. Because I immediately started questioning God, like, do I believe what I've been thinking about? Do I believe what I've been preaching about? Because you didn't come through with what you said. Come on. You know, and he had to remind me that Tasha, you heard my will, but you didn't stick around to hear my way. You did it your way I'm about to run. So he started just showing me through timelines that hey I showed you yes you're gonna have a beautiful baby boy he gonna look just like you act just like you but I never once said that it would be the

traditional way. You went about trying to fulfill God's will your way and that never works. And so we had to go back now and say well what is your way? What is your way? We know your will and that excites us. Sometimes the will excites you. You're gonna have a match, you're gonna be a millionaire. But the process shout it, Shana. Don't just shout that. We shout it right here. You know, and I believe that so many of us, we hear, you could hear the prophecy.

You know, when we're younger, people speaking over your life, I remember my mom would say, I see your name in life. You know, we love that one. Oh yeah, I see that. We love that, the process. To get to that.

For his way. Yes. His way is not always comfortable. And sometimes it's foggy and you can't see it. And so for us, God's way, I remember my husband came to me probably about five or six months after we lost the baby. And I had gone through just, oh, it was very challenging. It was a dark space for me. And I literally had to record an album in the middle of that. So I remember going to Nashville three days after we found out we lost the baby and I was like I'm not going to no rehearsals. If you want me to

do this, you gonna make this happen. So you know we can get sometimes like you die, you totally know, I'm upset, so you do your way. So I went and I was like, I'm not gonna go to rehearsal, I'm not gonna do anything. But I ended up going to one of the rehearsals and they were doing a song that's on the album and says, you're gonna get the glory out of this. It was a song that I wrote before ever really getting into losing the baby, it was during the IVF.

I know you're gonna get the glory out of this. And they started singing that song and literally Everything I was feeling the walls came down It started to break and my team didn't know what we were going through But they felt us so they immediately just started praying for my husband and I and I remember after going through that Recording if you go back now the name of the album is royalty. So going into it I'm thinking I'm singing about we're the Royal Priesthood and I'm a keys kid. I'm all excited about all the gowns on the photo shoot and God was like no no no I'm gonna show you what royalty really is and what it really means to

be to be my child. And so through that season I had to to really live out. There's a song on that album called You Never Gave Up. It felt like the walls were closing in. I'm writing all of these songs before that season not knowing that these songs were gonna usher me through that season. You know I'm thinking I'm writing for everybody anybody going through depression, anybody going through anxiety. But it was really really for me and so when we got back home, my husband was like, baby, what do you think about adoption? And I didn't hear just my husband. I heard him speaking to me, this is God's way. So we went through that process and it was miraculous. So my answer would be everybody's journey is different. And you can, I could sit here and say do it my way or you

know your friends can say do it their way but ultimately I would say do it God's way and you will know when it's his way because it feels right you know it feels like man this is me. Yep exactly and it's funny you say that because when you said your faith was truly tested I find myself now being in a position when she told me, it's too late for all that. Now it's like, okay, you really gotta activate this faith that you in a different position. Because I've had faith in my career,

I've had faith in how to, for God to lead relationships and to guide me through life, but this is something totally different. You know, and the fear. So have faith for the things you can't see. Yes. Like I can see that this relationship ain't right. So I can see, let me me go get out of this. You know, I can see where my career is going, but I can't see where this baby is. Yes. That's a different kind of is different. Yeah. So I

find myself sitting in just quiet spaces, praying and talking to God to like, just lead me through this. Don't let it like take because sometimes it can overtake your mind. I know for like when I turned 35 everything was just like going up to my lightning speed career and I'm just like boom boom boom and then you get to like 40 and like how do wait I'm here already and then it's like oh yeah it's too late and you're like wait what but I know the God I said oh yeah it's never so I did um the Terri Woodfields podcast, Dear Future Wifey, and you'd ask about that. And I said, I feel like now. I feel like I'm in a space now where if it's meant to be, God will allow it to happen the way he wants it to happen in his will, not my way. Because I know, I mean, I'll be like, all right, we're gonna figure this thing out. But definitely faith is super activated right now.

That's awesome. I love it. So Asher, yes, I got to talk about my babies. We need to talk about all of them. Oh, yes, I'm an audience. You know what? So we mentioned the blended family. Yes.

And for me, it was such a growing up experience because you're thinking I'm gonna go in and this is the role I play. This is the parent that I am. I'm the disciplinary. This is what I bring to the table. And it was so much different. My children have taught me so much about life, so much about myself. I've had to grow up to become the mother or stepmom that they need. You know what I'm saying? Just to fill in those gaps and to be able to do it with their mom and with my husband. That's awesome. And it wasn't always that way. You have to grow into that. I will never forget our two youngest before Asher. Their mom called me one day and she was like, I was just watching this podcast with Jada Pinkinsmith

and Will Smith's oldest son's mom. And she was like, she said something that literally just shook me to the core, that I love you the way that I love you, because I saw the way that you love my children. And she told me, she said, Tasha, I can't help but love you when I see the way that you love my babies. And from that moment, all of the anything that was a source of tension, we go into it looking like, hey, this is about these kids.

And so we put ourselves to the side and it has just been such a beautiful experience. I love it. So my oldest is 21. Okay. 22. Yes, 22 now. She is, she just graduated Fayetteville State. Okay. 22. Yes, 22. Now she is she just graduated Fayetteville State. Okay. Yeah. In Charlotte. She got a job and everything. So she's out of her pockets. Yeah. So our middle son, he is at North Carolina A&T. So he's a freshman there now. And we have

Symphony, who is our 13 year old. So that's the one to try you. And then we got Asha who really tries you. You're a 3 year old. What is wrong with these majors? No, my nephew is 3. I'm like, they're like adults. Yeah, but what's your line? They're like so grown. People warn you about, but they don't really warn you about three. The three is different. Because they can talk now and talk back. Oh yeah. What do you want? Where's my little baby?

I ask him that all the time. Where's my little tiny baby? He's like, I'm a big boy. Yep, that's right. Yeah, so Asher is our baby. I love y'all's photo shoots, you all do it. It's Sunday shoots with Asher. Ooh, that's a Asher. He's a drummer so Asher plays the drums. And it wasn't forced on him. Asher picked up drumsticks probably at about three months old. Wow. And I posted a video the other day of him like playing playing. People was like oh this

this used to be like you but now it's a real thing. He can really play. That's incredible. So is he going to be playing for the church? You know we tried to, I checked Sunday because he stares at our drummer the entire service. I mean he's a rocker. So while he was staring at him because Asher wants us to carry him so he can see the drums. He can't see what people standing up. He's 50 pounds. Like I can't hold you the whole service. So I stood him up on the stage and I was like, just go over there. He was like, no, not big enough. He knows. He comprehends that I'm just not big enough. He had for one day. I'm going to be over there. That is so cute. I love that. That is beautiful. And I love that your husband's ex was able to like, because a lot of people are not that blessed to

have somebody mature enough to say I love the way you love my children so I love you for that and to be able to get along yeah because it doesn't have to be people move on life goes on but we can all get along yeah They'll post something like that and they're like, that's y'all, they'll never be any. And I think you have to grow to that place where I will deny myself for the sake of peace for these children. Absolutely.

And whatever that means. Because she trifling, he trifling, it's never gonna happen. That part you have to leave into a place of prayer. The growing up, the maturing, the putting the past behind us. But the only person you can really work on is yourself. And you got to find out where have I been the problem. You know, you got to really be honest with yourself because we got to be honest y'all. It ain't always there.

It's not. No, it is not. That is real. That is real. You have been very vocal, even through your music, about depression and mental health. Where do you stand now and how important, because I know now everybody's talking about it, but you've actually spoken about it. A lot of times Christians don't speak about it. So I love that when you sing about the state of depression, on one of Maverick City's albums, you took a moment to talk in the room and you talked about your cousin staying with you and how she loved you, like she said, Tasha, I can't do this no more.

And you felt rejected, but God was like, no, like this, you gotta work on this. What steps did you take to get to where you are now? Because the Tasha I see now, like you look like you've done the work. Yeah. You know what, and it's, I am an advocate for therapy. All of us need to get a therapist. You know? And even if it's not every single day or every single week or even if it's in seasons,

there are some seasons where I'm like, okay, I feel myself getting a little heavy. Maybe I'm trying to carry too much. Let me get on the phone. Let me call. Go back. You know? So I feel like all of us need a space where we can release the tensions of life, just life in general to talk these things out. I believe there's a story in scripture that talks about two sisters, Mary and Martha, and Jesus stops by, the Bible says Martha's house. I don't think we often put enough focus on that. Jesus stops says Martha's house. I don't think we often put enough focus on that. Jesus stops by Martha's house and when he enters the house Martha goes back to working and cooking and preparing for him but Mary sits at his

feet and she worships. I think a lot of times what we find in the Christian arena in the kingdom is that we can work so much that we fail to take care of ourselves Mentally, I believe that what Mary was doing was getting a mental break a space in the presence of God where I'm seeing for myself I'm seeing about myself instead Martha was like a lot of us. No, I got to get this done I got to get up your preach every week. I got to go to work every day I got to make sure that I'm encouraging people, like you were saying, I gotta make sure I'm inspiring everybody.

But who is taking time to take care of you? And I feel like we can compare ourselves sometimes to those two characters in scripture. Am I gonna be the one who's work, work, work, work, working, and never sitting down to take care of myself, and sitting at the feet, even for some of us that work in church, you ain't got to be the one up singing every Sunday.

Sit down and receive. You don't have to be the one up at the door ushering every week. Sit down and receive. Do something where you're filling yourself up again so that you have what it takes to go out and pour more. So I found that space for me and it wasn't always me. I was the person who was always living in next. Like I could be there there are times like even with that Grammy, I don't really remember it. And then it wasn't so much just grief. It was just because I was a workaholic. I could be like, did y'all answer that email? You know, where are we going next week? I was like, we gotta get There's just so many things. Celebrate the now. Yeah, ooh that's good. Celebrate the now.

What you find sometimes in scripture is when they would experience major successes, that they would build an altar. They would take a moment and establish something so that when I'm facing something hard in life in the next five, 10 years, I can look back to 2004 and see what God did, and the same God that did it back then is gonna do it again.

So stop and build an author, celebrate those moments. And one of the things that my therapist would tell me to do, I still do to this day, and she told me, make those people who are closest to you, make them make you be present. And I was like, how do I do that? And she said, so for me, I have arthritis in my toes. I know my sneaker game tight, but it's because, you know,

I have arthritis in both of my toes. I used to play basketball. I broke my toe a whole long story. So I was like, if I got to wear sneakers, I got to be the best at it. Right. So I started studying the culture, all of that. So we own a sneaker store, all this kind of thing. It started from me having a broke toe with arthritis. You know, sometimes you gotta make lemonade out of the lemons. Absolutely. And so she would say to me, she said, make them ask you questions like, how do your toes feel right now? Do you have a headache right now? They make me be present in the moment. My husband will stop sometimes and he'll grab my shoulders and he'll say, do you have a headache right now?

You know, what does this moment feel like? You were just on Crystal's podcast, how do you feel? You know, so those just minor little things to make me be present, I still work a lot, but now I think I've matured to the place where take care of Tasha first, and all of these things. You know, sometimes success can be fleeting. It can be here today, gone tomorrow, but have you taken care of yourself?

Am I strong enough mentally that if it's gone tomorrow, that it won't break me down, that I won't die in that season? You know? So that's just where I am now. I love that. You just helped me, cause I know my team back there like, thank you for saying that.

I know y'all look. I would be sitting in a war show sitting about you. What are we talking about? I'm always like, I don't know. I think also because I had the example of like a Tyler Perry, who like, was there with us grinding. Every time I looked at when I was tired, I saw him behind that monitor. I never felt like I was in it alone

as the person who was pushing, you know, the whole thing and he was driving it, but we were the ones working together. So I think a part is like, I never want anybody to feel like we do an artist and she just shows up. You know what I'm saying? But there is a part of where you gotta like

let people do what they do, you know? Because you also, you're building the culture. Yeah. So they see you doing it and they're like this is how it, this is, I have to be this way in order to be successful. Yes, and that's why. My husband says this thing that rest is trust. Pastor Darius is also our pastor. I don't if you know that. So Pastor Darius is our pastor. Yeah he teaches us that you know trust God with one day out of your seven. Because God will allow you to do more with six days than the average person can do with seven. That is so true. If you trust him with your rest. So rest is trust. I'm trying to get that Saturday off so I can rest.

Oh Saturdays, you make it your Sabbath. Yes I'm trying to do it this week because I'm trying to get this Saturday off so I can rest. Oh Saturdays, you make it your Saturday. Yes, I'm trying to get it this week because I'm tired. Yeah, get you some rest. But thank you for that seriously, I needed that. Because it is hard to find the moment to just decompress and breathe. Yeah, it's important. You just got in it though. Thank you. I tell everybody to make sure you rest and then why you not resting girls to the house

somewhere. Rest is trust. It is. I like that. I think that's gonna be my takeaway for this. I like that. Rest is, I gotta remember that. Rest is trust.

You have been an incredible merger between gospel and hip hop. I love the song, you know, you work with Nicki Minaj and that was like, even when I saw her, I was like, okay! That's fire! And I love that she's taking these risks. What made you say, you know what, these are people I want to work with and I'm gonna do it no matter what, because you know you'll get backlash for certain things, but what made you say,

I'm gonna do it anyway? I'm gonna do it anyway. And I love this conversation conversation I think it's great because I've been hearing you talk a lot about the season that you're in and how people the comments about you representing Christ and represent the kingdom you know each of us we are the Bible talks about walking out your own soul salvation you know how is God instructing you to represent him in the earth and it may not be the you know, such and such was called to do it or those who went before me were called to do it. Like I love Yolanda. Yolanda goes

on different platforms that you don't see a lot of gospel artists on, but even her walk is different than mine. You know, and so there are some areas where you have these people where you can you can say, okay, that person mentors me, my life a little bit looks like theirs, but then there are some doors that God opens for you that's just for you. It's like, hey, I want you to represent me this way. And that's what that has been for me.

And you see a lot of different collaborations now, like Kirk does a lot of collaborations. Chandler has done collaborations. But in the season where I did this song with Nicki, I'm Getting Ready on my album, and it just wasn't very, very popular. You know, I had done a song with Common before, but then you go to somebody like Nicki Minaj

and people think she represents one thing. You don't really know these people. You know, a lot of times it's career, it's the success, sometimes it's just character. You're not judging you based on Zatina. It's the character that you put on it. It's your job. And so I got to know Nikki. And then knowing Nikki, Nikki has relationship with God. And she cares that other people do too. Does it mean that she's without flaw? No. None of us are. You know what I'm saying? So who am I to say that she called me and she said, you know, this one, this, I want this album to be the first one where I put my relationship with God on display. And who am I to say you

can't do that? Right. And so after hearing God and praying about it, if God says yes, then I'm gonna go with what he says. And yeah, we got backlash, the comments were crazy, I sold out, you know, all this kind of stuff. It was terrible. You know, but when you hear God say for you to do something, stick to it and do what he says. Because some of those same people now, years later later have come back, they are in my DM saying, I judged you when that happened, but now I have a greater understanding. You know, now I see, yeah.

So there are people who have come to me and repented, you know, for what they did or what they said. And even if they don't, you know, I'm sure that this was God's will for me. Even this song, so we did another one, for instance, on her last album. And that, even that moment, for me. Even the song, so we did another one for her last album. And even that moment, so we were in the studio,

I went to LA to do that one in the studio with her. And we just had a moment where it was like, hey, we don't wanna just leave it up to chance that people understand who we're talking about. So Nikki said to me, I want you to say the name Jesus. I know that's right. You know what I'm saying? So a lot of people may think this is,

no, it's going both ways and there's a relationship there and it doesn't matter how people may judge me or what they think about it because I know for sure that this is something that God has called me to do. So you have to just stand firm on that. Now in the midst of like the backlash, how did you handle that? Because for me, and you've heard me be vocal about it, there's times when I'm like, I ain't about to say nothing else, like I'm good. Like how do you handle it in the middle? Cause I'm inside you're like,

I said yes to what God told me to do. And people had something to say, but like, what do you feel in those moments? Yeah, I mean, it's painful. You know, a lot of times, and we're human, so you can get a million comments that are like go girl you did it you killing it. And then you're like, yeah. Why can't you just be like everybody over here? You know I've learned that blocking is a ministry.

I love the blocking. So before I respond I'm gonna give you grace and just block you. You know there have been seasons where I responded, but even during that time, I may have responded like once I think I posted something. And then after that, I just didn't feel right. I felt like, okay, let me just let this breathe. And whatever happens happens because I know that ultimately vengeance is the Lord's. It is. It comes, it requires a lot. Like right now, my husband and I have been studying Proverbs, just talking about wisdom. It's crazy, man. We did a lot of challenge. That book of Proverbs.

The first three chapters of Proverbs, man, it'll bless you. So right now, I think what being able to not respond requires wisdom. That's so true. It requires you to say, you know, this ain't about me anyway. Yeah. You know, it's ultimately maybe the person who's commenting, maybe they don't have

a great understanding, maybe they don't have a revelation of what you're called to do. That's true. And I can't prove this to everybody in the world. You'll be commenting all day. You will. Because you'll respond to that when somebody else gonna come back and before you know it,

you're overwhelmed in this space. And it's like, I'm not even gonna take myself there. Ultimately, I know that I'm doing the will of God for my life and that's all that matters. That's all, I love that. Cause some days I have time. Some days I have time. Some people, like my friends are like,

Crystal, who's around you? Tell them to take your phone. Give your phone to somebody. My god kids will call me and say now we know you're not gonna respond do you release us to respond. So I'm like what? Just a little bit. Don't give them too much. That is so funny. My fans when I tell you I realize I don't have to say anything because they were laughing me so hard. So things I really want to say, I love you. I could just say that because I'm like, yes, that's exactly what I wanted to say. But I love the Black Brighton. It's my favorite. Yeah, it's my absolute favorite.

It's a blessing. It is. It really is. It is. When we talk about blessings, do you find that there's a burden and a blessing that comes with being in the ministry? Because sometimes people feel that there's a weight that comes along with carrying this. Yes. It's a cross. the weight that comes with it. One of my good friends, his name is S.Y. Younger, and he was talking to us the other week and he said, we love to talk about the cross that Jesus carried, but I think we live in a generation now of Christians who are crossless Christians,

where we don't to carry our cross. And I was like, who? You know, because the cross is heavy. It is. So there is a burden that comes with representing Christ, especially outside of the four walls of the church. Like, I applaud. I applaud people like you, who know I'm not standing

on a stage preaching. I'm not, you know, I'm not Sarah. I'm not standing on a stage preaching. I'm not you know I'm not Sarah, I'm not Priscilla Shire, but I am Crystal and I'm doing it now. I got to do it through TV and film. That is, it's a weight. To represent him in that way, but to see the benefits of it. To see so many people now who say maybe I'm not like Tasha and I'm not like Sarah But I see myself in crystal that I have all of these gifts that may not be used so much in the church But they're used outside of the four walls of the church and many times that's where you would find Jesus

Yeah, because we are in church Yeah, he was walking up the street He was hosting conferences about the ocean with fish. And so that's the kind of God that we serve that, hey, I do want you to forsake not to assemble together at your weekly gatherings, but I want you to take that out now and represent me.

And that's not always gonna be easy. There's a weight that comes with that. But I am honored to carry. If he could carry his cross and die for us, do all the things that he did, certainly I can carry the weight of my little cross. Absolutely. I love it. Tasha, thank you. So who knows to you? You killing it, girl. You represent the kingdom well. I don't care what nobody says. You represent very well. Thank you. Thank you so much. Because I do doubt that sometimes. Like, God, am I doing? And even in this season, I found myself

searching and talking to him more. Guide me in the way that you want me to represent you. Like, because I think it was, it may have been Sarah or something happened during Woman Devolved where someone said, we are living in a time where the people that are unlikely will be the ones that are raising up the kingdom and spreading the word and it's a people that you wouldn't even expect like wait that's who he's using? And I was I made a comment about how I noticed like a lot of like singers and different people in the entertainment industry are publicly turning the life of their Christ and bringing the millions of followers that God brought to them

but it was for his glory in the end. That's one of the things that happened even with the songs with Nikki. There were so many people who started following me or bought my album who they would say to me I didn't believe in God before I heard this song or this is the first gospel album I've ever purchased. That alone I'm like hey you know, and I get the testimonies too of, well, what about our girls? And what about our girls being exposed to this and exposed to that? I believe that God will cover our children. It will cover those who we are called to, who are in our churches and our homes, but we also have to reach those who are not. Yes. You know, how else do we do it besides collaborating with people

who represent him outside of the four walls. So you know I know that's what I'm called to. I know that's a part of. So thank you again for that. Yeah thank you. I appreciate that. Is there anything that you can let us know that you're working on? What's coming up? I want to know. We are on the Good News Tour. I'm excited about that. I'm out there with, I call them my kids. I'm Auntie Tasha now. So yeah, we're with Maverick City and so we got Todd, Todd Galbraith, Naomi Reign, Chandler, Tim Godfrey is going to be with us. So it's going to be incredible. Tim Godfrey is gonna be with us. It's gonna be incredible.

I'm looking forward to it. Tours always stretch you. So I'm looking forward to how I'm gonna grow as a person, just being out in different cities every night. I don't know if people know that side of it. I'm also growing every night having these encounters and having this experience in worship and even having the conversations

with different artists backstage and living with them for all of these months. We grow together and it sharpens us. So I'm looking forward to that. I'm excited. You got to come to church. I'll come to church. I'm there, I can't wait.

And I went to the last Kingdom tour they did here in Atlanta. And I had to film the next day. I didn't have a voice. Baby, I was at the bus ride. I was like, okay, you gotta calm down. I kept saying, I have to wait tomorrow. I have to wait. I was like, God will give me my voice.

He'll give you something. If I got a whisper, I'll go crazy tonight. Yes, it was so good. So we do have the tour. I'm excited about that. And the books, the devotional and do it anyway. I put my life in that. So it's memoirs and stories. Amazing.

Even my childhood of going back, watching how it was just a theme in our house to get up and do it anyway, even if you don't feel like it. I love it. I believe it's going to be an encouragement to so many people. Oh love I'm looking at the titles that you have discovered, pursued, read it, heard it. That's a good one. Yes question it. I'm a creator so I love that. Oh wow so so it's a 60 this is amazing 60 days. I cannot wait to dive into this. Thank you. Seriously, I love starting my day with devotionals. I love starting with meditation and just really

being still. So I'm going to add this to my morning routine. I cannot wait. No, thank you. Seriously, I love you. I'm so glad I got to share space with you. This has been incredible. Thank you. Thank you so much. You're so good. And keep rocking it. Keep rocking it. You too. The girls are popping. Thank you.

Thank you so much. Guys, I have to admit, Tasha Cobb's Leonard left me with so much to think about and pray about. So much that it was actually kind of challenging to come up with a gym for the day but if I had one takeaway it would be that rest is trust. Guys I'm such a workhorse I love having my hands and everything because I have so many things going on but sometimes I just need to be still so that is my takeaway and my gym for this week. Today's show was nothing short of amazing and I can't thank you guys enough for watching. You

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