Keep it Positive, Sweetie - KIPS LIVE - Pt. 1: The Group Chat w/ B. Simone, Pretty V, Watch Jazzy + Shamea Morton

Episode Date: March 30, 2025

This week on Keep It Positive, Sweetie, we’re taking it back to the KIPS Live Show Pt. 1: The Group Chat! Real, raw, and unfiltered conversations with my girls – because there’s nothing like a safe space where no topic is off limits. Get ready for laughs, love, and a whole lot of truth-telling!

How y'all feeling tonight? I'm feeling good. I'm feeling good. I'm feeling good. I'm feeling good. I'm feeling good. I'm feeling good. I'm feeling good.

I'm feeling good. I'm feeling good. I'm feeling good. I'm feeling good. I'm feeling good. I'm feeling good. Hey! Are y'all ready to have a good time? How y'all feeling tonight? Woo! Guys, we have so many surprises in store for you.

I just wanna thank you all so much for coming. I love y'all. I love it. I see the t-shirts. So guys, there are so many different sides to me. You know what I'm saying? I love my girls. I love good girl talk. Hey cuz. You know, I love talking about Jesus. I also love some deep conversations. I'm gonna stay biosexual if y'all didn't know that. You gotta get me here. And then also, I love connecting with y'all. That's the most important part.

All right, so tonight we doing everything. Are y'all ready? All right, so we gonna go and get this show started. So first up, I have some real raw, unfiltered girl talk with some of my favorite girlfriends. Are y'all ready? Yes! Welcome to the stage, my sisters,

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V! V! V! V! V! Watch Jazzy! Hey, hey, hey, hey, hey, hey! And my sis, Tamiya Morton! Hey, hey! Hey, Girlfriend 3! Girlfriend 3! Hey!

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But I would be lying if I said I have not been stressed out lately, trying to balance everything from putting the show together with my amazing team to balancing travel and appearances, nurturing relationships. And I recently had to check myself because I realized I'm not nurturing the relationships how I should. Wow. Now all of us are very busy. And I just want to ask each of you how

are y'all handling, because I need some tips. I'm hoping you can help me out. Oh my gosh, how am I balancing being busy? Well first of all I'm a new mom y'all. Shout out to all the mommies. Yes. How many kids you got sis? Two? None. Two, two, three. Oh my gosh.

So I just had my first child a year ago. It was her birthday last week. Thank you, thank you. So being a mom has me extremely busy. Extremely, extremely busy. But honestly, the balance, the balance that I do in order to just keep my life flowing, oh my gosh, prioritize, prioritize.

Honestly, I wake up every day and I'm a slave immediately. It's not easy, but I'm very blessed to be doing something because I could be waking up and doing nothing at all. So I try to just shift my perspective from being overwhelmed to be overjoyed with gratitude, to being to being busy at all. Yeah, right. That's the blessing. Yes. V, now you got a whole devotional out.

You're on the cover of Upscale magazine. God is good. Come on the cover of Upscale Magazine. Come on. God is good. Come on, y'all. He's so good. God is good. He's worthy to be praised. Amen.

How are you balancing it all? Girl, girl, girl. How are you? Wait. How are you balancing it all? Ooh, Lord. First of all, I thank God for it all. Thank you so much, Crystal,

for choosing all of us on this stage right now. We thank y'all. Give it up for Crystal, y'all. Forever. She is such a beautiful soul. But forever, like, I mean, I just enjoy what I do. And the balance gonna come, you know. And when you just have fun with everything, everything falls into place.

So I mean, I don't really stress about the what if and maybe no more. Only when it's time to make some decisions, I'm worried. But in the midst of it all, I'm just having a good time. So whatever comes with it, comes with it, and I just be prayerful in all things. So I mean, it is what it is, I just go with the flow. There we go.

I love that. B, my sis, you just launched an app. You have a podcast as well. It's coming, okay, the app is coming. You have a podcast, you. It's coming, okay, the app is coming. You have a podcast. You're doing comedy shows. You're all over the world. And you're traveling.

She's doing, is it two countries or one country every? I wanna go to one country a month this year. One country a month. Oh, give us the goal. Yeah. I know that's right. So I'm doing good. It's only March, no.

It's the end of June. Yeah. I love it. To answer your question, first of all, your edges are beautiful. Shout out, Sharnel. Sharnel, Sharnel, Sharnel. They are so thick. I'm over here like, okay, let me brush my now.

A little fitting. I was just talking about this with one of my best friends, Sha'Kyna, in the back, just saying, she was like, how do you feel? I was like, I feel so good. And I was, the lady was touching us up in the back, the makeup lady. I'm sorry, I don't know her name. Tiffany. Tiffany.

Yes, yes, she was great. And I was like, I'm about to cry because I remember sitting in makeup chairs crying because I didn't feel good and I had to go to work. And I'm about to cry now because I feel good and I'm in this makeup chair and I have to go to work. So I said all that to'm in this makeup chair and I have to go to work. So I said all that to say this week man I've been honed in and she kind of was like what do you think

it is? I'm like I don't know because I've done everything. I got a chef and changed my diet. I was in the sauna four times a week. I've been doing two a day. So that just goes to tell you and show you all of it matters. All of it matters, from your health, to your wellness, to your mindset, to your reading, to everything. I had church today, I went to two services, I'm like, all right, man. Come on, come on.

Hey, show it up. So, all of it matters, I feel good. She kinda was like, what's the mission when you go out there? I was like, to exude joy. Yeah. I love that. So, I hope y'all feel this joy, and I'm just so glad to be on a stage where I feel good, but all of it matters. You can't just focus on one area of your life and neglect

the other. You got to go to the gym. You got to walk. You got to watch what you eat. It's all the things that add to your joy, your wellness, and your peace. That's so good. I love that. Shamiah. The mother of all trades. She does everything. Y'all make me feel so cool. Oh my God. Oh, it's love for me! Offer smiles. Anyway, no, I'm just honestly,

I told myself you just have to give yourself grace. Because I'll start out my day with a list of 10 things, and if I can get through half of it, I'm like, you know what, I did good. I was actually listening to Beatalk, and I looked down and I saw my boot was halfway zipped, and I was like, oh, and then there's that. I mean, you know, just get yourself, get your clothes on.

I mean, honestly, I think when you're a mom and a career woman and you're doing all the things, sometimes you get so wound up and wrapped up in everyday things and you're like, I didn't get to it or I'm not doing enough or you get flustered. I can just say, give yourself grace because most people aren't doing 500 jobs like us. You know?

That's good, that's good. And if we're able to be above the ground and just walk in our purpose and in God's will, we're doing it. I love that. I love that. So we are all very career driven and we are go-getters. And oftentimes when it comes to our love lives, it can take the backseat. I know for me, I'm in a relationship and trying to. You do that. Justin was there.

Justin, you were there. He said, they really haven't. But yeah, it's like trying to balance everything. And I had to check myself. I had to ask him one day, how are you? Because I was like, I'm a little bit of a He said, they really haven't. But yeah, it's like trying to balance everything. And I had to check myself. I had to ask one day, how are you?

Because I realized I had been so consumed in everything that I was doing that I hadn't really checked in properly. And I think there's so many times because I'm a creative and when I get, I can literally lose myself in creativity and I forget everything else is going on. I'll be up all hours of the night and I'm like, oh, it's four in creativity. And I forget everything else is going on. I'll be up all hours of the night and I'm like, oh, it's four in the morning, I need to go to sleep. You know, because I actually love what I do. Have you guys had any issues with that as well

in trying to balance relationships and nurturing, whether it's platonic or romantic or even family relationships? I'm going right to you. Are you looking at me? Oh my gosh. Okay, yes, yes. Honestly, you know, and I hate to be that person

and just keep talking about my child, but when you have a child and you're in a relationship, it changes things. You know, you might go from, I know we sanctify holy people in here on Sunday. When you go from it being every day, two times a day, to maybe once a week, because the baby on your titty,

she hating on you, he mad at her. It's like, it's hard. It really is, it's really hard. But I think that, you know, you just, you just gotta find time. And it's funny that you said that you didn't check on your man, because for me, it's like, I do so much. I was looking for somebody to check on me.

Ooh. Mm. That's the word. You know what I'm saying? I said, because I'm gonna say it like this, postpartum is not talked about enough, and we don't support each other enough in that, and it is hard.

It is hard, and it is dark. It is very dark, and you know, you know, it is hard. It is hard and it is dark. It is very dark. And you know, you know, it's dark. So sometimes just because I might look nice and pretty on the outside doesn't mean that I don't have internal damage going on on the inside. Because I woke up, I cooked for everybody, I fed everybody, and I realized it's 4 o'clock.

I didn't eat a thing. And nobody even asked me if I ate a thing. Baby on the titty all day, she good, she chunky and fed, and here I am starving, malnourished, losing my ass. It's hard. It's real. It's really hard, and I think that it just goes back to your support system, you having them people who really check in on you.

I'd be like, hey listen, I know you're busy, I know you got a lot going on, but like, how are you? Right. What's going on with you? Right, that's real. Can I help you do anything? Can you just vent real quick? Come on now.

Sometimes I just need to call and be like, don't say nothing, just let me run it. You know? Yes. But the balance, you just have to make a conscious effort and you just have to, anything else that's important in your life and you're intentional about, if it's important to you,

you gotta be intentional about that too. I love that, I love that. That's good, that's so good. I'm working to pray for me, y'all, because I ain't figured it out yet. I'm still trying. But just being intentional with everything that I do, along with my relationship,

but I also need him to be intentional too. Come on. So, it goes both ways. That's so good. B, now you talk about if you sing it for too much longer, you're gonna be a nun. At this point. Oh, I can't wait to say,

oh this is how me and my husband balance. Work life and entrepreneur life with my man, my man. I can't wait, it's coming, thank you Lord. I am it and you shall receive it. Every morning I be like, ooh, okay. Yeah, you know, I just figured out. But balancing, this came up in therapy. Well, it wasn't really a therapy session.

It was a podcast episode with Thema Bryant. Yes, yes. Dr. Bryant was on my podcast and she was like, you have to realize that when you go through bad things, we're like, it's not that bad. We all probably do that. It's not that bad, it's not that bad, it's not that bad we all probably do that like it's not that bad it's not that bad it's not that bad because you've been through worse no that it's not that bad it's still bad yes don't diminish the

things you're going it's not that bad it's just a little just lost another friend no that's bad another betrayal that's bad another jealous spirit that's bad another oh he just cheated on this was not that no that's bad. Another, oh he just cheated on, this is not that, no, that's bad. Don't diminish what you're going through. So I think to balance it all, you have to address it. You know, you have to address it. You have to address the postpartum like Jazz said.

You have to address I'm not okay. You have to address the only way to fix something is to be honest. Come on now. You can't brush it under the rug. I need a minute. Yeah, I wanna strangle my friend or my boyfriend or my baby.

That's real, that's real. No, that's real. No, it's not. That's real. That's real. I gotta get up. Intrusive thoughts, I'm just saying. No, that's real.

Yeah, that's real. Address it so you can fix it. Don't bury it. And then now it's a snowball effect and you blow up and really do it. Oh, Lord. It's true. That's really the-

I'm serious. You have to talk to someone. You know what I'm saying? Yeah. Talk to somebody. So the only way to get through is to start walking through it and address it. Come on.

I love that being. That's so good. Everybody. Me. Me. V, I'm gonna ask you a different question. When you're dating or looking, well, I guess as a woman, you don't look. They find you.

Come on now. What are the most important things for you and what's your deal breakers? Oh, my deal breakers and what's important to me. One thing about it, two things for sure. What's good? Anybody out here? I'm single. But let's be very clear, I am single, but you gotta be God-fearing for me. Like all this like who the Libra is

or what the son of told y'all, like I don't wanna hear about that. I wanna hear about what God said. I wanna know what he talking about. What's in your spirit, man? What's in your inner man? Cause your inner man got to talk to me. You know, I'm that girl, but you have to be God fearing.

I'm not telling you that you have to be the pastor's son. You know, we don't got to go down to God's Redeemer temple every Sunday sometimes. I know you may be busy, but just make sure you hold on to God's word and it's embedded in you. You know, thank God for the foundation that I have and I want my man to walk in that as well, in that light.

The deal-breakers are for me is, let me see, let me see. Ooh, Lord. You a liar, you a cheater, you a deceiver, heartbreaker, and I won't let you back in my life, so I'm taking the house. Okay, Lord. I want it all.

I got it. Oh, Lord. I mean, like I said, God-fearing man, I mean, respectable man, you have to be, you know, I'm Caribbean, so you have to have some manners, okay? You have to have some manners. You have to walk with some manners, you know, but God-fearing is my foundation. There's no ifs ands of what's about it. I'm not negotiating what you believe in.

You're betting to believe in Jesus Christ around me. You know, if a man get to it, you don't have to be perfect. I'm not asking for you to be perfect. I'm asking for you to be head to toe. This and the third, you might have a limp in your dip. I might still talk to you. You might you might have a little bit of I might still, you know, we can work some things out.

She is lying. She was not going to lie. No, no, no. I'm not saying that limp. I'm not saying that limp. But make sure you have something. Okay? I'm not saying that limp. Because we're going to have to ask God to fix that. You know, I can't talk to that now. But the deal breaker's for sure. You just can't cheat. That's it. Don't do that. Okay, I might take him back, but you didn't say can't cheat 10 times. What kind of cheating was it? What kind of cheating? Okay, the first half. Okay, about 10 kids, 10 kids, somebody, somebody,

it's something down there. 10 10 kids that's a deal right here maybe four over that is a problem I don't know oh my goodness okay Shabia you are married and a wise man once said a man with no money has a lot of time and a man with money has no time. When you were deciding on your person, did you choose time or money? Oh that's a great question. Duh! No, no, no, seriously. I'm gonna keep it a hundred. I mean, you know, my mom used to always say, fine you somebody, baby, that love you more than you love them. And I used to be like, why would I? No.

And this is my second go. My first marriage, I was just all about just love. But my heart, but he's so sexy and so handsome and all the things, right? But he was horrible. He was abusive. He didn't care for my heart. And he had money. So I said the next time around,

God fearing, it's gotta be the center of our lives. And I don't want anybody with kids anymore because the last one had a kid and, oh. The kid used to cuss me out better than the stepmama. I used to be like, man, both of you, the child and the cuss that she can cuss to. So I was like this time around I you know I had to be honest with myself like I came from you know a household where my mom and dad both lived in under the roof, and I was lucky enough to have both parents there.

I was like, I want something like that. And I was like, well, I should have to minimize and change up my wish list because there could be somebody out there like that. So I met my husband, and he was not what I thought I would have as a husband. To just keep it 100, people would come under my page like, oh, she got her African. Then they would tag me in the African starter kit, which was like the Chanel bag and the ashy flip-flop shoes. And I would be like, what?

He's not decent. And I mean, and to be honest, he really was, he's amazing. Again, it was not what I put on paper, but he was all the other things that I needed. Back then, they didn't want me, now I'm hot, they all on me. He wanted me when I wasn't hot. When I wasn't, I was shaking pom poms

and getting that $25 a game. And I just, he believed in me in moments that I didn't even believe in myself and I think that's what you need you need someone that that loves you more than what you love them at the moment because it's gonna shift and there's gonna be seasons in your marriage or relationship where he gonna be hot and I'm like well hold on now now you know been in the gym and you got your little chest wall you. But it really is important because then when you start dreaming and you want the career and all the things,

like right now, I'm able to be here amongst the stage with all these beautiful ladies with you because he at home with the children. Come on now. And help me. A lot of times we say, oh, money. Well, then there's roles in a relationship, but not in this one.

He understands, like, these roles in the things change when it comes down to a successful marriage. As long as you are God-fearing you have your finances in order because hello I like nice stuff and and you have that sex because that is very important. Even you, it's a thing. She said, speak on the mic. That's what she said. Because even when you can't communicate, and they mad at you, if you sing a little song on the mic,

they're going to be like, OK, I forgive you. So I just think you just got to keep those things in order. You know, the sex, finance, communication, and God. Come on. I love it. I love you. So I just think you just got to keep those things in order. You know the sex, finance, communication and God. Come on. I love it. I love that. So I think it's safe to say that all of us are really strong in our faith. We've all at some point had conversations about just our faith and how we had to lean on God in certain situations. And I would say recently I just did a podcast about this and opened up about you talking about sex about God convicting me on sex Yeah, I'm with you V. I mean B. I ain't doing it no more. I've been delivered I was I promise swear. What no more wait

So wait, oh Yes, oh my. Wait, so you celibacy? Yes. Oh my goodness, congratulations! Thank you. That's amazing. Thank you. Yeah, so thank y'all. So is the goal until marriage?

Yes, the goal is until marriage. No! Yeah, because... Y'all need to get married next week! Listen, okay, come on, let's read this thing. But does that include marriage? No, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no,

no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, Y'all need to get married next week. Listen, okay. Come on, Laura, speak this thing. But does that include my talks? Does that include everything?

Honey, I threw my vibrator away. What? Yes. I was dead serious. Yeah, so like I've been really in my Bible and like every time I would read it seemed like I have on this Bible plan. So it gives you like different books to read from. And I feel like every morning it was like sexual immorality.

I'm like, it was just like jumping out the page. I'm like, look, what's okay. Calm down. And finally I just got to the point. I was like, all right, guys, I'm in a relationship and just transparently I was having sex. So I was like, this man's about to leave me. You know what I'm saying? Because like, you feel like, we have been conditioned,

I'm sure we all can attest, we've been conditioned that what you don't do, another woman will, right? Yeah, so we've been like really groomed to like take care of a man and make sure that we know what we doing. You know, and when we had that conversation, I literally was in my kitchen like crying as we're on the phone and God was like, you just gotta trust me on this.

And I had done this before and the relationship didn't work out. So I was like, well, that didn't work. So I'm gonna go on back to bustin' wide open and maybe that. I just bein' trans, we keepin' it real, unfiltered and raw. And then this relationship came I just be in terms we keeping it real unfiltered and raw and Then this relationship came and God was convicting me again. I was like, alright, I really have to take this serious

So we got through that and he was like no he said we'll just find other ways to be intimate without any sexual Yeah Yes, so I, we're doing that and that was December that we like stopped it and then I was at home, I was at home and God literally said, I was sitting in bed and he said, that too. And I said, what you talking about? You know what I'm talking about. And I looked at the nightstand. I said, now you taking it too far, Lord. He said, that too.

And so I literally pulled my vibrator out the drawer, put it in the trash can, and it was the day that my cleaning ladies were coming. And that's when I knew I was serious, because I said on the podcast, I said, if I wouldn't, if they didn't come that day, I might have pulled that thing back out and washed it off. Put some soap on it.

One more time. One more time for the role. One for the role. I'm on a full charge. I don't want to waste it. Don't waste that charge. I'm done. I'm on a hundred.

You doing away on a hundred. On a hundred. Listen, 99 and a half on dude. That's what they said. Oh, I'm trying to make a hundred, okay? But no, I just want to know, like, has there been any, any moments in your life where you guys have been tested, your faith has been tested,

where God has really like pushed you to your limits? Cause that was the limit for me. I said, that flesh is hard to fight. Anybody want to tie me in? V! V went with the mask! V just was like, hmm. She was like, skip me you doing? She's like, girl, she be showing me how to dance and stuff. I'm like, you do not be doing that. I'm like, what are you doing? I'm like, girl, you do not be doing that.

I'm like, what are you doing? I'm like, girl, you do not be doing that. I'm like, what are you doing? I'm like, girl, you do not be doing that. I'm like, what are you doing? I'm like, girl, you do not be doing that. I'm like, what are you doing? I'm like, girl, you do not be doing that.

I'm like, girl, you do not be doing that. I'm like, girl, you do not be doing that. I'm like, girl, you do not be doing that. I'm like, girl, you do not be doing that. I'm like, girl, you do not be doing that. I'm like, girl, you do not be doing that. I'm like, girl, you do not be doing that. I'm like, girl, you do not be doing that.

I'm like, girl, you do not be doing that. I'm like, girl, you do not be doing that. I'm like, girl, you do not be doing that. I'm like, girl, you do not be doing that. I'm like, girl, you do not be doing that. I'm like, girl, you do not be doing that. I'm like, girl, you do not be just saying, I'm like, B, what do you be doing? She's like, girl, she be showing me how to dance and stuff. I'm like, you do not be doing that. You know what's so crazy is me and B be talking about like celibacy.

I was one year and I told her like, I haven't had, I wasn't having sex in it for like four years. Wow. Four years, no sex. That's amazing. Right? But then some dude came around and you already know how that go. Dread head tattoos, you like, oh God.

It's tough. Glory to y'all. All right. And well, the last time I had sex was, I could talk about this, was September 6th. So I didn't walk in the new year with, you know, having sex. I was, and I think I'm going to wait. You know, I don't know about the marriage, Christ, ooh. I might do that, I might, I don't know.

God hasn't, I just don't, right, in this season, I'm just not in a space of talking to anybody, so I am, like I said, I am single. And in this season, I really was just focused. Like I said, it took me two years to write my devotional, so I really and truly didn't walk in this season with a group chat, or friends, and all that good stuff. I spoke to like three, four people in this season.

It was B. Simone, my hairstylist, makeup artist, my mother. And I just kept at it because I knew I had to sacrifice something. And that was one of the ones, like September 6th was that. And again, I was intimate with this particular person. So I was like, okay, we're not even talking to each other no more. We're not dealing with each other no more. I could just stop this whole thing. And I haven't had sex since that. So I just was so focused on putting this book out,

really posturing my heart, really and truly. Thank y'all. Like literally posturing my heart, clearing my mind. Like I said, I'm not, I used to stress about the what ifs and maybes. I used to be depressed. I know what anxiety looks like. I know what nervousness looks like.

I know what it is to really battle the what ifs and maybes. And I just told myself, I can't do that in the season if I'm writing day one do a hundred I have to live by something I can't tell my readers and my listeners that I'm doing this I'm out here I'm having like yeah put it in yeah yeah like what nigga what like it don't go like that like it don't go like it just don't make sense like of course I'm a comedian I'm a beef funny I'm gonna be on the table I'm gonna have a little g-string with boots on we gonna dance we gonna do all this stuff but the foundation of what my source is God because I remember when I

remember when I sit beside this body y'all watch the jazzy and she was the first one that took me on the road you feel me the first person to take me on the road the first one give it up for Jack the first one that took me on the road. I haven't seen this face since 2017-18, like face to face. I haven't seen her since then and she has been doing her thing, being a mother, you know, killing it, but I haven't told you that I just love you. I love you for stretching. No, seriously, I could say that because I haven't, we haven't spoken, you know, in a minute, but you were the first one to take me on the road when everyone else did not believe.

And you told me, girl, get on the road. Like, you're so funny. You'll be able to do this. And I'm like, Jazz, I'm in Charlotte. I got to figure it all out. I don't know what to do. Just go and do it. And there was a lot of haters on that tour that year that was like, oh, she can't do

this. She could just host. But you said, no, my friend could do it, you know at that time So I appreciate you for just stretching me and pulling me 2017 to say come on the road And that was my first tour Then Wildin Out came and if you guys know my story and I said every time I always say I lied to get on Wildin Out and jazz was the one who told me girl I tell him that DC ain't calling your uncle.

Like, here's the email. Here's the email. And so that was her. So every interview I do, I always say, my friend at the time told me to lie on the, just lie in the application, just lie in the email, and just say, DC, your cousin, call us your uncle, girl, you'll get in.

And I did, you know, so I appreciate it. I appreciate it. I appreciate that, big, big, big, big dog. Like, you really, so I appreciate that. I appreciate that. I appreciate that, big, big, big doll. Like, you really helped me in that space. So again, my faith has always been rocky. I used to dwell on my mother's faith so much, because she's such a prayer warrior. And I was like, how the doctor just told you

that Dominique gonna die in 72 hours, and you still going on? That's what the doctors told my brother. He had 72 hours to live. This one I was in Miami. He was on breathing tubes. He had to feed through his stomach. He fell off his motorcycle.

And my mama said, okay, well, that's what the doctor said. But the guy that I served. Yeah, yeah. The guy that I served said, okay, now I need to go on my fast for 72 hours and I have a brother to this day. I have a nephew. I have a nephew. I have a nephew.

So it was in my bloodline. And again, I had to shape in my heart and get my posture and get my mind right to come into this season to be something else. And I always say, I don't want someone to know me from back then. What do I look like now? And I stand tall in my victory, I do.

I love that. Ladies, this has been beautiful. Oh my goodness. So good. So I'm introducing a new girl talk game. Before we close out this segment of the show. I want to play it with y'all. Okay. All right, let's do it. So there should be some cards next to you. These little cards. Do you see your card? You got your card? So I'll go first, alright? Oh Lord. Yeah. Well I ain't got my phone on me, but it says send a voice note to someone saying I had a dream about you last night and let them wonder. Oh yeah. Send it to your man right now. Get Crystal her phone please. Where my phone? Can we have Crystal's phone? No, I'm phone. And you gotta say it in that voice.

I had a dream about you last night. No, cause you trying to be celibate. I'm sorry. Look at the devil. See, it be all people. I'm sorry. Okay, so somebody else go so we can keep it going. And then we'll get to this. Mine says, so you going to be.

I was talking for five minutes. It's okay. Okay. Okay. Have you ever stalked an ex or their new boo on social media? Be honest. Yes, I did. Yesterday. Yesterday.

Yesterday. That's good. Okay, so I'm ready already because I'm really excited about this one. So I'm going to hand you my phone. It's already on my DMs. This says, let the group pick someone for you to send a flirty DM to. That's good. Okay, so I'm ready already because I'm really excited about this one. So I'm handing my phone. It's already on my DMs Okay, this is let the group pick someone for you to send a flirty DM to pick Did you say

Who is it I want to do it fresh Whatever, what if you go to it and it DM already late Like somebody I'm trying to bag, somebody knew. Javonna Xcel. Oh wait, they already got a message together. I'm looking at the corner of my eye. They already got a message in there together. What is she saying? In her, wait, in her bubble is already big that she already said something to him. They had already said something.

What's the flirty text saying? What's the flirty text saying? She want me to DM the baby talking about, hey boo, I still like you. I knew it was him. I knew it was him. I knew it was him. I knew it. I knew it.

I knew it. I knew it. Thank God for the unseen. Look at the end of it. Look at the end of it. Y'all, vanish mode. I'm like Sandy. OK, now, Samia, what you got?

I hate you, Yana. OK, I don't know. Which one y'all want me to do? I knew it. The fan one or the other. Let's pick one, because we're running a long time. So go ahead and pick one. OK, I'll just do the fan question.

Alexia Timothy, hey, best friend. You in here? OK. There she is. OK, I see. I'm trying to look out for you. So she wrote, how do you move past the heartache of what you thought was a genuine friendship,

but in actuality was jealousyy rearing his ugly head. Wow. Next to ya. Take us there. Come on, take us now. What God has for me. Come on. It is for me.

For me. Come on. Woo. What God has for me. Yeah, yeah, yeah, it is for me. I know without a doubt that he will bring me out. What God has for me, it is for me. Yeah! What God, it is for me.

Yeah, that's the perfect answer, baby. That's good. Ladies, I love y'all. We love you. I love you too. Thank you guys so much. Guys, you guys stay tuned. We have so much more in store for y'all. DJ Mars, take us away.

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