Khloé in Wonder Land - A Conversation with Global Icon, Dolly Parton

Episode Date: July 10, 2025

Khloé sits down with the one and only Dolly Parton for a conversation that’s full of heart, humor, and sparkle. They talked about God, glam, growing up, and how she’s managed to stay gro...unded with all eyes on her.Episode Sponsors:Cymbiotika is doing their biggest giveaway ever this summer. You could win a brand-new 2025 Rivian, a luxury wellness retreat for you and a plus one,or a full year of Cymbiotika products. You do not want to miss this. Go to https://Cymbiotika.com/summersweepstakestoentertowinStop putting off those doctors appointments and go to https://zocdoc.com/KHLOE to find and instantly book a top-rated doctor today.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

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Starting point is 00:00:00 I was wondering how you got to be a fan of mine. You're so young. Well, you're just everything. I ain't everything. You hear that I'm sure all the time. Well, I hear stuff, but I don't believe any of it. Someone who has been in this industry for as long as you have, I feel like you've never slowed down. There's always new dreams. I always say I wake up with new dreams every day and a lot of my people that work with me they say yeah
Starting point is 00:00:32 and your dreams are killing us. Yeah. Because they have to help me carry them out. Right. I remember once my grandpa said about me wearing my makeup and everything and he said something like well don't you want to go to heaven and I said something like yeah but do I have to look like hell when I get there? Sometimes I'll write a line and I'll think, yes, yes. Oh, I knew I couldn't think of that on my own. Had to come from some kind of a spiritual place.
Starting point is 00:00:57 So I just think, yes, thank you. Yes. I just want everybody to be able to do the best at what it is they dream of doing. But in order to make that a reality, you're going to have to sacrifice, but never sacrifice the things that are the most meaningful to you. But you've got to work your butt off. Nashville is the place to be
Starting point is 00:01:21 For big dreams and your favorite cheese Take your chance, discover chance au Spl with you, Ms. Dali. Well, thank you so much for having me. I'm a fan of yours as well now. You've got a lot of followers and I'm one of them. Well, thank you. I'm definitely one of yours and I've been one of yours for so long. I mean, your talent and your gifts are obviously undeniable, but I think something that I gravitate so much to is
Starting point is 00:02:25 your heart and your humor. I'm someone that really relies on humor to get through almost everything in life, bad, good, the ugly. Don't you think that's really like a part of like the of why people get to be funny because they have to kind of make fun of it? I know when we were growing up in the mountains as poor people, my daddy's people were so funny, my mom's people were so funny, and just the people in the neighborhood. Because if you don't have a sense of humor,
Starting point is 00:02:51 you can't tolerate some of the things you have to do. So you just kind of make the most of it. And sometimes that is, you know, a sense of humor can get you through things even good medicine can't. Amen. And it's the truth. A lot of people don't have that bone in them where they're just innately funny and you have that. And I admire that so much.
Starting point is 00:03:12 And I'm really drawn to that. And I wanted to first lead off with my, as you know, my 40th birthday was almost a year ago, which is crazy. And I did Chloe Wood in honor of Dolly Wood. No, I got all the pictures. Everybody was showing me what you were doing. I was so, so honored and so, so flattered and just thought it was just great that you would do that.
Starting point is 00:03:35 Your sisters, your beautiful sisters, your mom and all those girlfriends. Were some of those your relatives in those pictures? No, there were all my sisters, just family friends. We have a small little tribe that we sort of do anything and everything with, but we had- The beautiful women, obviously. They're just beautiful.
Starting point is 00:03:53 A bevy of beautiful women. My sister Kim threw the party and she leaned in and did every little detail and I was so proud of her. And it was my Dollywood dream. I've never been to Dollywood. Oh, you've got to come here in Nashville now. I know. So it's just to, well, actually it's three hours driving,
Starting point is 00:04:14 but just about 30 minutes if you flew up there. But whether it's this time or not, one of these days, I should probably have to be the one to show you around. Maybe you can film something else up there. I would love to do that. We'll make it Chloe Wood for the day. Chloe Wood for the day. I'll take Dolly Wood. But because I want my 40th and it's Dolly Wood's 40th. Well it is. In fact we just did a big celebration up there and I came out of the cake when I first opened it 40 years ago. I came out of the cake in a white dress. I'm a little older now so this, I came out of the cake in a white dress. I'm a little older now, so this time I walked out of the cake.
Starting point is 00:04:47 They just, I don't think I need to be climbing up there and then climbing out of a cake and doing all, but it was fun and we kind of duplicated the opening for our 40th anniversary, but yeah, it's grown so much and I'm just so proud of that. We really employ a lot of people up there in the whole county, and at least 40 of them are probably relatives of mine.
Starting point is 00:05:08 I love that. They're working in the park. A lot of my relatives work there doing the music, but they also do different things. But it's just a wonderful place for families. It's like Disneyland. There's something for everybody. Right. And it's just fun for the kids and grownups alike. I mean, did you ever think 40 years ago that it would still be here
Starting point is 00:05:29 and getting only bigger and bigger? Now you have the water park and all of that with it, but what it does for the community and the legacy you're leaving with Dollywood? Well, you don't really think like that when you, I mean, I certainly had hoped it would be here forever when we started it, but I never dreamed that it was going to go the way that it has. And of course you can dream big and I do, everybody knows that I'm a big old dreamer,
Starting point is 00:05:53 they call me the dreamer in chief at Dollywood. Love it. But of course we come up with new things every year, but the way that it has grown and we just win all kinds of prizes every year for being the number one this, the number one that, the number one park in the South, the number one, one of the number one parks in the world. So the fact that that's just in my hometown and that is something I can be proud of, that my people can be proud of me because I'm very proud of my people and where I came from.
Starting point is 00:06:22 And so it's just a wonderful thing for families to enjoy each other. It is, and I think everyone is so proud to have that and what you've done for the community out there. It's a beautiful thing. Well, they are, they're my people. There's a song that's actually, which we'll talk about a little later in my play, it's called These Are My Mountains.
Starting point is 00:06:40 These are my people. These are my memories, this is my home. And that's who they are, even though they're not all related to me, many of them are. And they all feel like family, because it's like a family of friends and just a family, a community like ours. When you grow up poor, like so many people did in that part of the world, you really have to depend on each other. And so you really do become like a family and a spiritual family as well. You kind of lean on each other spiritually.
Starting point is 00:07:11 And so many of the people in that part of the world are church going people because you have to rely on God, something bigger than you to get through. Like we were talking earlier about just a sense of humor, how you have to have that, but you also have to have your faith to get you through. And I always say, you want to make God laugh, you tell him your plans. So I think God has the biggest sense of humor of them all.
Starting point is 00:07:34 Yeah, I think that has to be true because a lot of people say, you know, sometimes I get a little out of hand just making jokes, just like I remember once my grandpa said about me wearing my makeup and everything, and he thought that I was going overboard, and he said something like, well, don't you want to go to heaven? And I said something like, yeah, but do I have to look like hell when I get there? But my mom was saying, that's sacrilege. But I thought, Lord knows I'm just kidding him. I think that God has to have a sense of humor.
Starting point is 00:08:06 He wouldn't have created me, I don't think. I believe so too, trust me. God has the biggest sense of humor. Yeah, I think He wants us to laugh. Even the Bible says that if you're a spiritual person, you know, the Bible talks about a merry heart, a happy heart does good, like medicine. So I think laughter is one of the most healing things. And a joyful heart, I think, is a wonderful thing to have.
Starting point is 00:08:32 It is. And I also think laughter is what keeps us young and going. And for me, it gets me through everything because we could have the most horrible things happen for some reason in the darkest of times, I will find it will be a dark joke and probably in an inappropriate time, but it's what gets me through that time.
Starting point is 00:08:51 I know, but sometimes the most inappropriate things are the best things, like I said, for you, because if you can laugh at whatever, even if somebody says, oh, like mama, that's sacrilege, it's not. I don't think God looks at their body. You know, in my spiritual world, it just talks about it. It's just the, you know, the intent of the heart
Starting point is 00:09:12 is what we're judged by, our deeds and the intent of our heart. So if we're not intending to do something, you know, to me, I'm like you, I'm intending to lift the spirit. So that's a good intent. Yes, great intentions. Someone who has been in this industry for as long as you have, how do you keep going where you make everything fresh? Like starting so young in your career, I feel like you've never slowed down. I feel like you're only having
Starting point is 00:09:38 more and more hunger to do either leave a bigger legacy and you do so much for so many other people. It's not so much about yourself. Where does that ambition and drive come from? Well, I always say that I live on spiritual and creative energy. And I always want to see things happen. Not only do I want to see them happen, I want to make things happen.
Starting point is 00:10:00 And it's because of my faith that I believe that I can do something. I believe that I would be sinning if I didn't make the most of everything I feel like God has given me to work with. And so I wake up every day because every day is a new day. And every new day brings on new things. You know, it's like let tomorrow take care of the things of itself. So tomorrow we will take care of the things. So when I look around, every day I wake up and I think, well, of course I have to carry over the things
Starting point is 00:10:29 that we're working on, but there's always new dreams. I always say I wake up with new dreams every day. And a lot of my people that work with me, they say, yeah, and your dreams are killing us. Because they have to help me carry them out. But I just love life. I love people. I love people. I love my job.
Starting point is 00:10:47 And I just love what I do. I just love that I can write songs. I just love that I can sing. I just love that I can go out on stage and make people happy. I love that I have that gift that I feel like is a God-given gift. There are many people more talented,
Starting point is 00:11:05 but I'm going to make the most of what I've got. So I just see a new chance every day. So I just go for it. I like to entertain myself too. I like to be entertained. So that's everything I start new. There's going to be new entertainment for me. Well, and my mom, my mom is a really hard worker. A lot of people ask her, are you going to retire? And she says, the second I retire is the second I sort of feel like I'm going to die. Like mentally, the creativity, the constant moving, I really think all of that keeps everyone younger. I agree because there's an old saying, it says, I would rather wear out than rust out.
Starting point is 00:11:43 Because I think a lot of people, when they do retire, they start to rust. I mean, I don't even know what that word means. I really don't. I can't even imagine, like if I said, I could say I'm gonna retire, but I wouldn't. How could I? Because I would still wake up with the same thoughts.
Starting point is 00:12:01 I might not go do it, but I would want to. Or I would think, why did I say such a stupid thing?. I might not go do it, but I would want to. Or I would think, why did I say such a stupid thing? Now I have to live by that. I'm always kind of put off a little bit or I kind of laugh when I hear all these artists, oh, they're on their farewell tour. Or this is the farewell, I'm retiring.
Starting point is 00:12:22 So-and-so's retiring. And they do in about six years or so, well, they're back on the road. They wanna go back and say, why even say it? Right, I agree with that. Just say, well, this is gonna be one of my last two. I'm taking a break for a minute. Don't say my last, yeah, just say something like that.
Starting point is 00:12:39 But no, I'm like your mom, which by the way, I admire her very much. Oh, thank you. I think she's amazing. She's raised a beautiful bunch of gals that are so smart. She's had a lot of brains to kind of help put all the things together that you have. It's amazing what you all have done. So I think that there's a lot to be said though about just, like I said, wanting to make things happen. There is. Is there one of your gifts that you feel more connected to than the other, whether it be
Starting point is 00:13:06 songwriting, singing, acting, the philanthropy? It all is important to me. I think that I get the most, I guess it's because I feel the closest to my spiritual self when I write. I'm a songwriter. I love feeling like that I can create something to leave something in the world today that wasn't there yesterday. A lot of people can sing and a lot of people can write, but everybody don't.
Starting point is 00:13:32 But to me, I just think that to be able to write, because everything begins with a story or a song, every movie. You've got to have a great story. Doesn't matter how great the actress is or the actor, doesn't matter how great the actress is or the actor Doesn't matter how great the director is if you don't have a good story You don't have a project same with a song all the great singers some of them right some of them don't But you've got to have a great song. You've got to start with The creative end of just creating whatever it is you're gonna put out there in the world. So I think that's one of the reasons I love to write
Starting point is 00:14:08 because I feel like I'm so connected to God right then. And I just, sometimes I'll write a line and I'll think, yes, yes, ooh, I knew I wouldn't, I couldn't think of that on my own. So I felt like had to come from some kind of a spiritual place. So I just think, yes, thank you. Yes.
Starting point is 00:14:26 And I think that's true about anybody that's very serious about their writing. So I just love that. I feel like I'm in my own zone then with God. I love that. And is there anything that you've written that you haven't finished that you had a writer's block or that you weren't able to finish? Well, I don't think I've ever had a writer's block or that you weren't able to finish?
Starting point is 00:14:45 Well, I don't think I've ever had a writer's block. There was once when I, when the closest I've ever come to that was when I was writing some things for the best little whorehouse in Texas. That story was already written and I was trying to come up with stuff for that and they were demanding certain things and there was a time element. That's the first time I'd ever written outside for, you know, I write because I love to write. I write what comes to me. And so I was having to write under somebody else's direction, trying to come up with what they needed, but me trying to
Starting point is 00:15:16 come up with how I wanted that to sound. So when I was doing that, I thought, you know what, this must be what people call writer's block because I thought well I'm not going to finish this unless I do it my way then we can tear it apart then I can go back and refix it restructure it but if it doesn't come from me if it doesn't come from you know I can take the idea of what they need right but I still have to make it your own my own and I have to you know to do that So that's the closest that I've come but there's a few things now my husband passed away three months ago I know but when you asked me if there's stuff that I've started haven't finished several things
Starting point is 00:15:55 I've wanted to start but I can't do it. I will later, but I'm just coming up with such Wonderful beautiful, you know ideas, right? But I think I won't finish it I can't do it right now because I've got so many but I think I won't finish it. I can't do it right now, because I've got so many other things and I can't afford the luxury of, you know, of getting that emotional right now. Right, I understand that.
Starting point is 00:16:14 So there are times like that, things like that, that would, we'll stall you a little bit, but I'll write something else though, if it comes. So I'm just putting that all on hold, but that's my special, that to me is like my joy, and it happens just to be my job. But it is also my joy. So I love it when I just get a great idea that just comes
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Starting point is 00:19:53 and I heard that you wrote both of them on the same night. Well that is possible. Both of those are on the same album, which oddly enough the album is Jolene, I Will Always Love You was on that. And then we, I have it on a cassette, but you know there's space. A lot of times when I would write, but I don't know if it was written the same, at the same time, but it was certainly written within, you know, that little time frame before you write. And I must have been in a really good writing mood that night. Yes, I would say so. Yeah, so it's like to have two of your biggest songs
Starting point is 00:20:28 to have been written and to both of them be on the same album because they put Jolene out, and then I think I Will Always Love You was the second single off of that album as opposed to I think the other way around. That is crazy. And I also don't know if this is true or not, but my dad, my dad was in the music industry before he passed away and he loved all sorts of genres of music. And he told
Starting point is 00:20:52 me that Elvis Presley wanted to re-record, I Will Always Love You. But at the time, and I might be saying this wrong, said to you, or maybe his management, said, if Elvis Presley records this, they need like 70% or all of the writing royalties. And you said, no. And it broke my heart. But here's how that happened. It wasn't Elvis.
Starting point is 00:21:18 But what a powerful move. He loved the song. And as a matter of fact, years later, Priscilla, I was working with her on some things, and she had told me that Elvis had sang that to her on the steps of the courthouse when they divorced, when they left the courthouse, that he was singing to her, I will always love you. But he loved the song.
Starting point is 00:21:35 He wanted to do it. It had nothing to do with him. I never met him. But I was going to go to the session that day. I had been invited down. They were here in Nashville. And so he was going to be recording it by Colonel Tom Parker the day before, the evening, the afternoon before the session. The next day called and said, well, you know that we don't record anything with Elvis unless we have the publishing. And I said, well, that's my
Starting point is 00:21:59 most important copyright right now, so you can't have it." And he said, well then Elvis can't sing it. And I thought, well so be it. And I cried, I cried, I remember crying so hard because I had told everybody that Elvis was going to sing my song and all that. But I couldn't give it up because it was already, like I said, had been a hit with me. It had been a big hit with me. And then I just something to say, because I had just started my own publishing company, had just started my own business, starting to claim my own things, because when you're new in the business,
Starting point is 00:22:34 you have to compromise. You have to work until you can get to where you can on all your things. And by the way, since that, what few songs I've had scattered around through the years, I've got them all back, made deals with record labels or with other potion companies to do this or that, to do something for them so I can have all my eggs back
Starting point is 00:22:56 in the same basket. But at that time, that was when I had just started my potion company and that was the big one. And I thought I can't do it. And that was heart-breaking. So that goes to show you though when you're in business, there are some decisions that you have to make that might break your heart. But look what it did when Whitney recorded it.
Starting point is 00:23:18 I mean I made millions of dollars because of that on the publishing. And you trusted your gut. I did. You protected yourself. But I still, I grieved over that. And so I even wrote a song years ago. It was in my rock album, the Rockstar album I did a couple years ago. It's called I Dreamed About Elvis.
Starting point is 00:23:38 And I tell this story about having a dream about Elvis. And we talked about that whole thing. And I said, well, it is my dream. Maybe we could sing it now. So then I wrote this song and I had an Elvis sounder like, guys sing with me on it, singing I will always love you. And it is so cool. So when you go home, look up,
Starting point is 00:23:56 I dreamed about Elvis from the rock star album. That is genius. And I just think it says so much about you. And even if you know it or not, your business sense and how you've learned to trust yourself. I think being women in general, it's a little tougher especially around so many men that can be so intimidating, but especially then and in the music world, it's very intimidating for a woman. Well it was at that time, but I've never been
Starting point is 00:24:24 intimidated by men. I love men. I have six brothers and my dad and my uncle are very close to my grandpa. So I've never met a man I didn't like. Some of them like more than others. I'm like Will Rogers. Same. But I kind of, you know, I understand that.
Starting point is 00:24:39 And usually it's like anybody else. It's like a bully that you can get away with what you let them get away with. So to me, I always felt like when I walked in at a record label or whatever, I just said, I think I can make us both a lot of money. What do you think? Right. To me, I never was willing to sacrifice my integrity and my principles and values because I figured I had enough talent that sooner or later something would happen.
Starting point is 00:25:02 It's so important for people to know that it's okay to stand your ground and trust your gut and something that you've worked so hard for, it was yours. How do you feel about how cool that Beyonce covered Jolene on Cowboy Carter, but then she sort of flipped the messaging of Jolene a little bit.
Starting point is 00:25:20 Well, she did. In fact, I heard she was doing Jolene. I was so excited. And then when I heard it, I thought, what? You know, it's like, cause it was completely different. But see, that's the difference in, I don't know that it's the difference in the times as much as it's the difference in the person.
Starting point is 00:25:37 Mine was like, was a true story. I mean, like it was an emotional time, just like I will always love you. You came from my heart and it's kind of, you know, just like I will always love you, you know, came from my heart. And it's kind of, you know, even though I played it up more, but being vulnerable because you, there's always a Jolene out there. There's always somebody prettier than you.
Starting point is 00:25:55 There's always somebody that might be better than you about this and that. So, but to me, it was about just being vulnerable. It's like somebody can, you know, if you take him, but you don't know how much I love him. And so with her, she flipped it around thinking, you think you can take my man? But she's that cool, you know, she's that cool.
Starting point is 00:26:13 But I loved it because as a songwriter, you love to hear how other people interpret your songs. And the fact that she did it, I knew I was gonna make a lot of money. Yeah. Do you have any unusual writing rituals And the fact that she did it, I knew I was going to make a lot of money. Do you have any unusual writing rituals that people would be curious about? Well, I do different things.
Starting point is 00:26:32 The thing I love the most to be able to do, being a spiritual person and a creative person. I bought the old Tennessee Mountain Home, our old home place years and years ago. So the thing I love most is to be able to try to set aside some time to go back up to the old Tennessee Mountain Home with the purpose of writing songs and getting closer to, you know, to God as I perceive him. And to be able to like fast a few days and then once you get over the headaches and get to where you can think clear. Is it just a water fast? Well, for a day or two, a few days, three days, and then a juice fast, and then to try to, you know,
Starting point is 00:27:13 to clean your body out too, just detox your body. It's been a long time since I've been able to do that. But that's what I used to love to do, go and stay, you know for several days to get closer to God and to See what comes that is a ritual but for the most part I can write anywhere I've always got a notepad and a Close by in my purse whatever because something's gonna come right? I bet yeah I love how much you speak about faith and I love that you're allowing me to talk to you about faith because I have such a strong faith. I'm Christian and I believe in God. And I know that you said that you found God in your music and there was a very transformative moment
Starting point is 00:27:58 at church where you experienced the way that He shaped and how you approach life. What was that experience? Well, that is also in my musical, how I did that. But my grandpa was a preacher and we were Pentecostal. That's that hellfire brimstone. And Lord, if you don't go get saved tonight, you might go out unprepared and a truck might hit you and you're doomed forever.
Starting point is 00:28:23 So I was so scared every time they had an article. I'd go up, I must've got saved 15 times, but never did. Right. You know, in the church. Right. Baptized over, but you know, to me, I just wanted to be better safe than sorry kind of thing. But I didn't feel it. I didn't feel like it was fear. And I think scared religion is no religion. And you know, it's like, and I think scared religion is no religion.
Starting point is 00:28:45 And you know, it's like I'm not religious as much as I'm just bonded to that thing that is God that is so much part of me. There was an old abandoned church house down below us where it had been a church years ago. We had still had an old abandoned piano broken down, and this is where people go to drink, have sex, stuff written on the walls. We still had Bible verses and everything. But I would go to that old church and I felt the presence.
Starting point is 00:29:09 I felt the presence there. And so it was in that old abandoned church that I just praying to God the way that I was just saying, well, just show me, help me, save me, because I wanna be ready. So it was then that I just had this peace fall over me and I just felt like that I had for the first time in my life had truly found God and I felt like that I just had a knowing of what my life
Starting point is 00:29:36 was supposed to be and I thought it was like it was just a feeling that said you go and don't you stop till I say stop. So I never have. So that was kind of how that happened. It had to happen without fear and without influence and without anything else. So a lot of people are just too smart to believe in God. Well, you have to believe in something bigger than you. And whether you call it science, whether you call it nature, whether you call it nature, whether you call it this or that, doesn't matter. You know, there's a force there. There's an energy.
Starting point is 00:30:11 There's a greatness. And those of us that, you know, do believe like we do, however you find him, just do. I agree with you. You have to have a higher power, because that's your moral compass. And if not, who are you afraid of? Even if I knew there was no God, I'd choose to believe it because I want to believe there's something out there. And I do believe it. So it doesn't matter.
Starting point is 00:30:32 I genuinely believe as well. Oh, I definitely believe it. And people say, well, you shouldn't talk about that. I say, well, yes, I should. I'm not telling you what to do. I'm just telling you what makes me work, what I believe. And if God can shine through me, and I ask Him to, all the time. If somebody can see something in me that might lead them to whatever's working for me might work for them. It doesn't matter. I just hope that I can do some good in the world. Well, you do so much good in the world, and you bring so much joy to so many people around you. But when you are having that tough day, do you rely on faith? Do you rely on prayers that you're
Starting point is 00:31:09 writing? I rely on all that. I'm very close to my sisters, my family. I've always leaned on that. That's the best. And you certainly, no matter what's going on, no matter how bad it is or how bad you've screwed up or no matter what, they'll love you anyhow. I have that. I've always had a best friend. She's not well now. She's out of commission now and has been for a while, but there was always that to go to. I wrote a song called Jesus Is the Only Friend I Need. I don't have to have all that. I can actually
Starting point is 00:31:39 just go to that place that gives me that, I think, a higher wisdom and a higher peace and an inner peace. So I don't have to go outside it. But there are a few people that I can go to if need to be. So I just do all kinds of ways like that, to write or whatever. The beauty of, at least for me, having so many siblings is, and especially when you're as close as you are,
Starting point is 00:32:06 I am with mine, this world, especially when you're in front of the spotlight a lot, can sometimes get overwhelming. But also, I never wanna believe any hype about me or anything, I'm like, I'm just a person, I never wanna be someone that thinks I'm better than anyone else. And when you have siblings that are so close to you,
Starting point is 00:32:25 I don't think you'll ever get to that place because your sisters will always bring you back down, but in the best way possible, is that something that rings true for you? Yeah, I think so. But I think just the way that I grew up and the way that I do believe in God, I don't believe in idol worship.
Starting point is 00:32:40 In fact, being in show business and when people kind of, you know, it's like those of us that people literally, the way they follow you and the girls, and the way they follow me, it's like, I've asked God every day, do not let me fall under that. Let me, if somebody, if they see something good in me, let me find my way to give that back.
Starting point is 00:33:02 So I think you have to be very careful, but that's why one of the reasons I stay very humble and ask God to keep me humble and to keep my, you know, I could say my feet on a solid ground, but with these heels. But I'm still grounded. Even with these high heels, I'm still grounded in my faith and in my belief. But yeah, you need to stand for something good if you're lucky enough to get in a position where you touch people, you reach people. You need to do that in the right way. Right. I agree. So much so. You've said before that your faith has carried you through hard
Starting point is 00:33:40 times. Do you have a go-to prayer? Are you conversational with God? Well, I talk to God like He is. In fact, sometimes it's just, you know, Father in heaven, I say, hey, Dad. So I talk about everything. I talk out loud. If somebody was to see me when I'm by myself, you know, if I get excited about something, I'll shout, I think, Lord, somebody saw me. They'll think I was totally insane. I don't know I'm the same, though. I don't come to God just with my problems. I thank Him for everything. I'm always so grateful. You've always walked this incredible line. You're so deeply spiritual, but you're also so grounded
Starting point is 00:34:16 and obviously wickedly funny and larger than life. How has your faith shaped your relationship with fame? And do you think that relationship has what kept you so grounded? It is. It has. And I think, you know, to me, I think you're going to reach more people, somebody like us that are in a place of power. I think there's a lot of people out there that don't know what to think, don't know what to believe. They want to believe in something, but they don't.
Starting point is 00:34:46 Just, you know, whether they believe in God or not, if they believe in something you're doing, and if you say something, you know, that'll give them that hope that there is something more. So I really, I just think we're all, we just have to walk that fine line to kind of try to keep it within ourselves, but to be able to project that to people. There's something going on, so I'm going to know more about that. So I don't think it's wrong. Although I look like a jazz bell, I want to feel like more people would be drawn to that
Starting point is 00:35:23 than if I came out, like the Pentecostal women I grew up with, I always make a joke about you can tell a Pentecostal woman because they got those big long bangs and their hair and their Sasquatch hairy legs. You know, it's like, because in some, but I really think that you can reach more people if you're maybe on the edge, so to speak.
Starting point is 00:35:47 Right. I mean, if you look one way, but you're another. Right. I mean, because it's like, it's okay to, but if what you're saying, it goes back to what I was saying, it's the, it's your deeds and the intent. Right. And the content of your heart, which is like the intent. But if your intentions are good and you want to do great
Starting point is 00:36:06 and you're working toward that, then I think that sometimes people are gonna pay more attention to somebody that looks like us. Speaking about the way that we look and represent ourselves, do you think the way that you've looked, or whether it be the rhinestones or the makeup or the chest or the hair, whatever, was that always something intentional from you? Well, you know what? My look came from a country girl's idea of glam. We didn't have anything.
Starting point is 00:36:41 And I wasn't a natural beauty like some of you girls are. This isn't have anything. And I wasn't a natural beauty like some of you girls are. This isn't natural either, babe. It's like I wasn't. And I wanted to be pretty more than anything. And I wrote a song called Backwards Barbie. I just wanted to be pretty. I got my look actually from the Frederick's of Hollywood catalog that one of my aunts had and had
Starting point is 00:37:01 to keep under the mattress like you'd keep a Playboy magazine, you know, cause you weren't allowed to. But when I was little, I thought that was the most beautiful thing, I thought that's how I am. And then I tell the story about the town tramp that I grew up with in our hometown. She was just beautiful to me. And everybody said, oh, she ain't nothing but trash.
Starting point is 00:37:21 And my joke about, well, that's what I'm gonna grow up to be. Well, I don't think I'm trash, but I like the fact that I can you know be over exaggerated have long nails But it came from a sincere place And I feel better My personality can shine through if I feel like I look good look good for me how I feel That's why I believe you everybody should dress everybody should dress according to how they feel. That fits their personality. You've said before it takes a lot of money to look this cheap.
Starting point is 00:37:51 And that's the truth, ain't it? It really is. Yes. No, I do. It is. And it's a clever line, but also it's an example of how you use your humor. Because I also think that how people sort of come at you with the positioning, it's not to compliment, it's sort of to tear you down and you come back with such wit and humor and you do it in such a way that I think disarms the other people that are trying to say these things about you and there's nothing they can do. I'll be like, yeah, you're right about that. But do you think that you use that humor as more of a shield or as that sword to be like, you're trying to come at me, but I'm just going to come right back at you?
Starting point is 00:38:31 Well, some both. Some of both, yeah. Because I'm going to always, you know, I always know people. I just have, I love people and I just have the gift of discernment too. I just can perceive what's going on in people's mind toward me or whatever's going on. So I'd rather than just be ugly about it. Right. And I'd rather get the jump on it
Starting point is 00:38:52 because it's gonna hurt my feelings if they say it first. Right. And I'm clever enough to turn it around. So I guess there's some of both. That's a double-edged sword right there. But it's a powerful one and you hold the power with it. I'm the same way. I love to beat people to the punch.
Starting point is 00:39:06 You're not gonna get me first. How do you practice self love or self compassion when you're off stage? Oh, I just, I like myself better than anybody. I'd rather be with me than anybody because I'm comfortable with me. I'm comfortable with who I am and with my connection with God. I just feel like I wouldn't have to have anything else as long as I have that good,
Starting point is 00:39:29 safe relationship. And so if I don't like myself, I don't think anybody else would like me either. I mean, I don't dwell on a thing like that or a question you expect to get, but I enjoy my own company. I'm not one of those people that has to have somebody around me all the time. In fact, I don't like it. I mean, I have to be out in the public, and I belong to the public, but I am such a private person, and my husband was as well, and that was the thing with us. You know, we were so good for each other because he's a total loner, but we could just be in the house all day and say two or three words, didn't matter.
Starting point is 00:40:08 Or we could talk all afternoon, or lay in bed and talk at night, you know, in the dark. But I think you have to be comfortable with yourself. I think you need to make friends with yourself. You need to be your own best friend. You too? And you need to like yourself better than anybody. I just mean if you can't be all that for you, what can you be for them? Right. I've been single for like three and a half years, but not dating nobody. I have two young
Starting point is 00:40:37 kids and I was so used to being from relationship and then getting distracted by another guy when I broke up with somebody else and I've been so intentional about, now I have children, it's different dating with children, but also I wanna be alone with myself and really like myself. The easiest thing to do is get a new man. That doesn't fulfill me and I don't get to know me,
Starting point is 00:41:01 but now I love being alone and love being by myself. I'm so full and happy, so now I have to figure out how to incorporate a man when I'm ready, but I agree with that so much and I genuinely like the person I am and I see so many other people in my life. They can't sit still with themselves. No, they don't like themselves and that's why they have to be surrounded with other people or they tried to be other people They don't even know who they are If you don't know there's a dolly saying, you know, dolly quotes They say this says find out who you are and do it on purpose. Yes, you know
Starting point is 00:41:36 You have to have purpose in your life You have to and do it with purpose and do it on purpose You know, you need to find out who you are because so many people, they just, well, they can do it for a moment. But it's not going to last long because they think, I got to get out of here. Because they don't even like who they are. They don't even know who they are. You're never going to really find out if you don't spend personal time with yourself and with how you make that connection to that higher wisdom. Right. Do you think one of the reasons why you had such a long marriage is because it was so private?
Starting point is 00:42:12 Certainly had a big, had a lot to do with it. We were different people. He was not involved in the music business at all. He loved music, but he was a loner. Like I had said before, he did not want a bunch of people around him, except me. Of course, he had friends, but he was also the same way. He'd rather be at the barn, be on the farm all day, and if he was going to go sell a
Starting point is 00:42:35 loader or buy a loader or have somebody come work on one of his trucks or tractors, he'd have to let people in, but he'd just soon be there. But I really think that there's just certain personalities that are great for each other. And we were together 61 years. We were just so different, but we were so similar. Like we were perfect, like as far as the temperature in the house. You know, it's like we didn't fight over that because we both were comfortable at the same thing. So we just, so many things we were compatible about
Starting point is 00:43:11 and we just got along great. And I don't know if any of you follow the signs, but he, you know, when in the Zodiac signs, I'm Capricorn, he was cancer. I'm a cancer. And that's supposed to be compatible. Yes. I do like the signs.
Starting point is 00:43:25 Yeah, but he was a homebody. So maybe I have to look for a Capricorn, because I'm a cancer. I've never dated a Capricorn. Well, they're all goats, you know. They're goats. They're mountain goats. That's his sign.
Starting point is 00:43:37 I have to look for that. And you know, and I think today with social media, everyone has such a need to put everything out there. And definitely the older I get and the more failed relationships I get, my best friend just asked me, do you think your next relationship you would have it be so public? And I said no. I don't find the need for that anymore and I want something to be, you know, just close to my heart. Yeah, well that was the, getting back to your very first question,
Starting point is 00:44:08 my husband did not want to be out there. He never did an interview in his life. In fact, he'd be out more in the yard on the tractor and the fans would come by to see our house and they'd say, you know, they'd say different things. So are you Dolly Parton's husband? He'd say, do I look like I'd be Dolly Parton's husband? He'd have on his old straw hat and his coat,
Starting point is 00:44:28 his old work clothes and all. I didn't ever expose him to that. I tell the story that when I was early on, when I first got here, I won the Song of the Year, and I won a BMI award in 1966. That's the year that we got married. And he rented a tuxedo, didn't want to do it. I begged him to go.
Starting point is 00:44:47 And then when we were leaving that, he started taking that off, taking off all the jacket. He said, now I want you to do great, but don't you ever ask me to go to another one of these damn things because I ain't going. And he never did. And I knew right then that I'm just going to keep him private as best I can, never ask him to do nothing. And certainly he's not going to volunteer. But he was very proud of me.
Starting point is 00:45:12 Of course. But he was, you know, we got along great because we didn't have nothing to fight over like that. Right. Well, that's a beautiful thing and a beautiful lesson for me. I do want to talk about all of your business ventures that you have and what a smart lesson for me. I do wanna talk about all of your business ventures that you have and what a smart woman you are. Obviously, I'm so excited that you were gracious enough
Starting point is 00:45:33 to collab with Good American and you're actually wearing your Jolines. I am, top to bottom. Top to bottom. Rhinestone, everybody don't want these, but we have those beautiful jeans. Yes. With the, you know, that that are plain ones the dark denim and the light denim and they make your butt look good don't they? They do. It's the stitching on the back.
Starting point is 00:45:51 Even if you don't have a good butt, you make it look good. And if you got a good butt it's amazing. No it's the stitching on the back it's perfect. So you've worn denim since you've been a little kid. Did you know what you wanted to design? And just because we're denim junkies, you and I. Well, we are, but that's a country girl's thing. And growing up with us, and it's like with all the kids, you know, there's 12 of us kids. And there was an old generous store out on the highway where my daddy used to go, or daddy and mama, at the school, when the school was going to start and get a pair
Starting point is 00:46:26 of denims for each of us. And that's what we wore to school. And so that started early. But then if you get in, you know, as you go on, you're country people. And you like to wear your denims. And then you start wearing prettier denims, well-cut denims. And then even now, I love, I just love, I just live in my blue jeans. I know.
Starting point is 00:46:47 As we all do, you can put a beautiful blouse or sweater. So when we start talking about doing this, it just seemed to make the most perfect sense for it to be denim to start with that. Yes, and everyone loves your T-shirts, it's just with your butterfly, because everyone wants a piece of dolly, so if they can't get the denim or whatever
Starting point is 00:47:05 the t-shirts are selling like hotcakes. Yeah there's all kinds of pieces in that that's doing great and I just feel so proud to be in business with you. Oh well I'm so honored. You got into your music career but then when did you start thinking that like okay this is a real business and I'm going to be this business woman and I'm going to take control and have all these different avenues because you have your hand in a lot of different pots. I do, but they have to come naturally and they do. But early on, when I first came to Nashville, you have to kind of compromise when you're young and new in the business. You can't just go in and say, I'm going to publish my own songs. You wouldn't know how to do it anyhow. You
Starting point is 00:47:47 have to learn those things. So everything I did in those early days, I watched everything everybody did thinking, someday I will publish my own songs. Someday I will do this, do that, have my own record label, whatever. So I'm like a sponge. I pick up everything that's going on, whether I'm aware of it or not. I make myself aware of doing a lot of it, but I just naturally pick up on things. But that was probably, to answer the question, was really when I first came to Nashville, when I first started thinking, when I can, I will. We were talking about the Elvis thing with my publishing when I started, I will. We're just talking about the Elvis thing with my publishing. When I started, I think I got to start my own publishing company.
Starting point is 00:48:28 Then I felt I had enough wisdom and enough, you know, to kind of pay enough attention to know how to do copyrights and how to do all that. So I just think it's important if you can own as much as yourself as you can. Right. Well, the Kardashians should know that. Yeah. Well, we learned from you a little bit, I would say. You are like the blueprint to it all. To get back to a little bit more forth, the question that you really asked, because once you get famous, once you get a name, then you get your brand.
Starting point is 00:48:58 You know, it's what they call it, your brand. And if you've got a good name, good reputation, a good brand, then other people come to you. They want you to go into business with them because they know that you're reputable and that you have your following and that you're going to be able to sell to that group of people. And if you say it's good, they can believe that it's good. Some of it I want to do myself. I've always wanted to do makeup. I've always wanted to have all those things that we love. The one thing I have not done yet is a line of wigs and it's the most obvious thing ever. And it's the thing that I thought would be so successful for me, the hair pieces and wigs and bangs.
Starting point is 00:49:40 And never done it. I've tried so hard so many times and it never comes. So maybe if I ever do it, it'll either be a big success. Oh, I think it will be a big success. But that was before that everybody was doing it. I need to have a lot of work to do. You do, and what's stopping you? Well, I'm trying with all these different people. We can never really seem to get the right company
Starting point is 00:50:01 or whatever, but I will, I will. But that's the one thing that I have not done. That's so interesting. That I have wanted to do. It's one of those things where something's keeping it from happening. But the way that I believe, I think, well, maybe it's because the bigger one's gonna come
Starting point is 00:50:18 and it'll be, yeah, whatever. Well, God's timing. I do wanna talk about Imagination Library. Yes. It is so beautiful. Imagination Library has now delivered over 200 million books around the world to children that don't have access to books. And did you ever in a million years think that Imagination Library would be as big as
Starting point is 00:50:42 it is? No, I did not. I'm so happy as it is. No, I did not. I'm so happy that it is. Yes, of course. When it started, I'm sure you've heard the story, that I started just in my own home county. I wanted my dad to get involved in it, because daddy couldn't read and write.
Starting point is 00:50:55 As a lot of country people in rural areas, you've got to go to work. You've got to work the fields to feed the rest of the family, because most of those people come from very big families. And so that just always hindered him. I mean, he was the smartest person I ever knew, but he was embarrassed by the fact. So I wanted to start that, a little program in our home county where we could give books to children from the time they were born until they started school, so they could learn to read in those most impressionable years. Got my dad involved in it and then we were doing really good. You know, I was just thinking it would just be there, maybe a few counties over. And then Tennessee, the governor at the time,
Starting point is 00:51:35 Governor Phil Bredesen, he got wind of it and he thought this is a really good little program. So we took it statewide. Next thing you know, we're in Canada. Next thing you know, we're here, we're there. And now we're in places all over the world. And we just, it's just doing great. Do you ever hear from adults that grew up with Imagination Library and like what that does for them? Yeah, they love it. One of the cutest things I love though, is when they, when they age out, you know, when they start school, they don't get their books anymore. And they write me. They want to still
Starting point is 00:52:11 get the books. And so we've always thought, well, what can we do? So maybe eventually, since the program is so good, we've often thought that we might start doing some different things for different age groups. And then I have met some of the children, because this is like almost 30 years old when we started. So every now and then somebody will come up to me and said, ''You know what? I used to be in the Imagination Library, and they'll bring their little kids and now their kids are in the program or their grandkids.''
Starting point is 00:52:41 It just keeps going on. It makes me feel happy and proud. I bet, and in honor of your father. I always think of daddy. Yeah. You know, anytime like when I went to different things, I go to Washington to read, the Library of Congress read to the kids.
Starting point is 00:52:57 It's just like, they don't see daddy there. Right. But I just kind of feel him right there. What do you imagine or wish for in the future, not only for yourself, but for others and like the legacy you're leaving behind? Well, I just want everybody to find themselves. I want everybody to be able to do the best
Starting point is 00:53:21 at what it is they dream of doing. And you've got to understand that if you feel that you've got the talent, whatever it may be, and if you're willing to work for it. You know, I wrote a song called Sacrifice that's also in my musical, my life story, that tells so much. It's my journey from my little girl self,
Starting point is 00:53:44 my dreams as a child, all the way up to now. But it's talking about, you know, it's like empty or full, I've carried my pail, but you don't drink the water if you don't dig the well. You know, it's like lines like that. It's like with so many things you sacrifice, but I was going to be rich no matter how much it cost. I was going to win no matter how much I lost. And all through the years I've kept my eye on the prize, but you ask if it's worth the sacrifice. And I reckon it is. But you've got to be willing to know that you're going to have to compromise and you're going to have to sacrifice, but never sacrifice the things
Starting point is 00:54:21 that are the most meaningful to you. But you, which gotta work your butt off. Yes. I think people always think, oh, if I pray for something or if something is even handed to me on a silver platter, you still have to work. I don't think people realize that all of this, there is a lot behind it. They don't know. That's true. They get mad at God because they pray and the prayer ain't answered. Well, God's willing to help them, that's willing to help themselves. Mm-hmm. He'll give you a hand. Yes.
Starting point is 00:54:49 You know? And even hand out at times. But they want it all laid out. But you can't, you know, you... A dream is a dream and you gotta work it. Like I always said, you gotta put legs and arms and wings and eyes and ears on that. And a dream is different than a wish. I mean, a wish is like a fantasy thing. You can make a wish all day and wish on a star and on that. And a dream is different than a wish. I mean, wish is like a fantasy
Starting point is 00:55:05 thing. You can make a wish all day and wish on a star and all that. But in order to make that a reality, you've got to really do all those things. What we talk about where you got to gather all those things to put faith. That's what faith is. And what is next for you? I don't know. I'll wake up tomorrow and I'll see whatever God has in mind and whatever I feel that I can tackle. I love that. And He'll do that. But yeah, I never know because I've got to finish the things I've already got in the works, but my life is always look at my life like it's
Starting point is 00:55:40 been like a tree. You know, that had roots, deep roots. Then it had all the limbs. Then it had all the, you know, the little leaves that, you know, everything branches out to something else. And it goes back to where you're talking about your brand, or it goes back to your dreams, because I know God's gonna give me something else. And I'll try to leave myself wide open.
Starting point is 00:56:07 I try to keep myself very private in my world so I can hear what I'm supposed to know and that I can act on it. And then I'll go for it and I'll work it to death. I think that's the beauty of life is sort of the unknown. It's the scary part, but also the beauty. You never know. Yeah, it doesn't scare me.
Starting point is 00:56:28 It excites me. Yeah, I love that. Well, thank you so much for letting me invade your space, come to Tennessee for my first time and have you on Chloe in Wonderland. This has been a dream of mine and I'm just so thankful and grateful. Well, let me say thank you for doing this and thank you for being a fan.
Starting point is 00:56:48 And thank you for being all that you are to people. You've made a lot of difference in a lot of people's lives. So these kind of things I think help people. Yes, I hope so. You know, so they can follow their dreams to see that dreams can come true. They do come true. But like you said, you've got, there's a lot more that goes on than just these hats and yeah rhinestones just the aesthetic working it ain't we girl yes we have so thank you thank you

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