LadyGang - A Snack Special

Episode Date: April 7, 2020

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Well, what is this? Welcome to the Lady Gang. That's amazing. Say that again. The Lady Gang. Things are about to change around here. Each week, we catch up with Hollywood's hottest girl posse, Kelty Knight, Becca Tobin, and Jack Vanek.

Hello, hello, hello, and welcome to the Lady Gang, quarantine edition. I'm here with my quarantine better half, Mr. Snack Martin, everyone. Hey, babe. Hi. How are you? I'm great.

He's freaked out. He doesn't like the sound of his voice. I can hear myself breathing. Do you think it's too echoey in this room? I just thought of that. I don't think so. Shoot. I don't hear an echo.

I just hear myself breathing in this headset. Okay. All right. Well, we're sorry if it's too echoey, you know, left to our own devices. This podcast will turn to garbage without one Kelty Knight. um okay so zach and i are on day 20 of quarantine who knows i know we kind of lost track um but we're going strong and um oh you know what i actually should give you an intro okay this is off the cuff this week's guest is mr zachary martin he's clearing his throat right now uh he

is married to actress and podcaster Becca Tobin. He hails from Noonan, Georgia. The closest big city to that would be Atlanta. Both of his parents worked for Delta for many years, which is why I'm so loyal. Shout out to Delta. They're the best. They're the best. And what else? He graduated from auburn university that's in alabama he was an agricultural what was it economics agricultural economics which was the easiest major that you could choose yeah you were not the greatest student but you partied hard um and then he graduated from college the recession hit because he was going to get into commercial real estate which is what he's always wanted to do recession hits 2008 and then he gets a job instead doing medical device sales

no no oh you went to breckenridge 2007 i moved to colorado right okay for a couple years he moved to breckenridge and smoked a lot of weed and ate dollar pizza and worked in a ski shop and told everyone there that his name was lebron and he actually had a name tag on his ski jacket that said LeBron. Is that just because there was someone who had worked there before who left his name tag behind? No, I just created it.

I wanted to see if my boss, who just came in chipper and happy every day and just smiled and just read people's name tags. I wanted to see if I could create an identity that he would actually think my name was and it worked for two years. He thought I was LeBron. That's incredible.

And then he decided to come home because he, isn't it the thing, are you the one who told me about Like, you either moved to Breckenridge for, like, a year or you moved there and you never leave or something? Yeah. I mean, there are lifers who are there. You were scared of becoming a lifer. No.

I came home for the first time to Atlanta for a month and realized, I mean, to put it, there were no girls there. This is pre-you, obviously. But like the hottest girl in Breck had like one armpit that she grew her hair out in and had like a squirrel tattoo that looked like a squirrel burying its head in her armpit. And that's the caliber of women that were living out there. So really you just ran back to Atlanta because there was no hot girls in Breckenridge. Yeah, it was like a 10 to 1 guy to girl ratio. Oh, yeah, that's tough. That's hard.

But it's fun. You became a great snowboarder. You're one of the best that I know. but i don't know many thanks i'm the only one you know no um okay so then he comes back to atlanta and decides to be a real grown-up and get a real job he gets a job in medical device sales and he sold urology equipment for many years and you won a lot of awards and you crushed it um and then 2000 and that's when i met you was like 2014 the end of 2014 we remet each other um and you were doing that you were living in atlanta i was home for the holidays we're gonna

have you tell the story of how we met yeah um but then we fell in love and you moved to la and then you decided to get long distance yeah we did long distance for like a year year and a half yeah if we got engaged and then i moved out here yeah and then you two years ago you were like three years ago, you were like, get, I'm going to follow my dreams and go back to what I originally wanted to do, which was commercial real estate. And we'll get back to that. Like, um, but it was cause we didn't have kids yet. And we were like, if we're going to take a chance, you know, with the unknown, like leaving a really great job for something that we weren't sure was going to be, you know, but we're good. Okay. Now it's actually time for

good week yes it is bad week oh no okay my good week bad week so i'll start with my good week because we just did it last week we were sitting on the couch and zach has never ever indulged me in watching any of the bravo shows like very very like he'll pop in occasionally but like housewives quickly pop out yeah housewives yeah well housewives is like so way too far for you southern charm you sort of watched a little here and there dipped your toes in so then uh i was started watching summer house a couple years ago and it's like one of my favorite bravo shows and last week i noticed that zach was sitting next to me longer than i anticipated and then he pretty much stuck it out through the whole show and also i know that you're hooked on

something when you start investing in the characters i don't know their names no you still you never will but you really didn't like that kyle was talking about his wedding and he sounded like such a doofus oh is that the the goon the goon you don't like him biggest goon on the planet Yeah. And this week. So anyways, my good week is that this week I, I knew he had gotten hooked and we sat down and watched a proper episode of the new summer house that came out and you were, you were also invested again. I mean, you still made fun of Kyle. What are your observations about Kyle on summer house? kyle is just i mean he's the type of person i don't like a lot of energy a lot of like look at me you know peacocking peacock i just can't handle i mean i i bail out of that scenario quickly i don't really like any of the guys that are on there to be honest yeah it's entertaining i don't say i don't dislike i would not see myself being friends with any of those people

yeah i can't imagine you being friends with any of those people what is your what do you mean is that really what they're like i'm sure a facade well i think that if someone followed you and your friends around for like one crazy summer when you're all single like you could probably border on some of this obnoxious behavior he would not be as kyle you would not be no you would never be kyle you're the silent but i mean they produce it too so they cut yeah the stuff to make it yeah but kyle you can't you can't produce that that is natural we we made an observation tonight about people there's always people in your life that want to have college themed parties like a frat party keg party let's have a sorority party

and they're all in their 30s and like don't be that person like you can be it but just please do not invite us it's true it's very true i will not be attending any toga party no it's true well that's my win is that um i got zach to invest in summer house and we're gonna watch the whole series together and i i mean wednesdays have become my favorite night because of this okay my bad week is so during quarantine my salvation has been long walks or running i actually the other day got to like six miles, a six mile run. I did walk maybe a mile of it, but I was like, wow, like, you know, this might save my sanity. I can start like training myself to do long distance runs and like really take the time to do that. And I've been working out so hard on that

obey app. And today I had to go downstairs and get my computer charger, which is the most annoying task that anybody can have to do in the house. It's so annoying. It's never where you want it. going downstairs i'm in a hurry and i come at the bottom of the stairs and my foot hits a snowboarding bag that's my bad that's been there for a while thank you so much for this acknowledgement i know you've been wanting it you've been milking that i just want me to say sorry for not moving that thing but well this is just i you know it sat there for like a really long time first it was in the bedroom six weeks ago you went skiing it was in the bedroom i think it was about six weeks and then i moved it out of the bedroom because i've been doing my workouts

in there and i was like i'll move it closer to the closet that it belongs in so that maybe he'll get the hint that it needs to go in the closet it belongs in and then the other day i was like god he hates being nagged and he hates being told what to do but i'll just casually say do you think you can get this bag unpacked and put in the closet like soon and you say yes and then today when i come barely down the stairs and i hit my foot i literally scream i feel like you did it on but You, like, threw out a couple extra MFers. You think I did it on purpose? Probably just Nancy Kerrigan yourself on my back just to prove a point.

It is desperate times in this house right now. It's true. Corona. But this is the difference between men and women that I've noticed. So, like, women are such caretakers that anytime you hurt yourself or I hear an ouch or, like, a motherfucker from another room, like, i'll run in there to make sure that you're okay and then i'll stay there and i'll be like do you need ice are you okay can i get you anything i did that today you took so long i was in the shower but you heard me scream i was fully nude in the shower you weren't in it the shower was not running

anymore did i walk up to you in a towel yes but you wet i heard you lathering yourself with lotion deodorant that's creepy but that's the difference between men and women i come running and you took so long to come and see me and it really hurt anyways i'm pretty sure i broke my toe it's purple and it really really really hurts and i'm not milking this i more than anyone want to be on the mend i wish everyone out there could see my face right now that i'm making i do too because Because it's really crazy that you can't acknowledge. The noises you were making were not, I am in distress, please come help me. It was like, I am so mad that I just stubbed your toe.

Yeah, but think about when that happens with you. I come running. So, I'm telling you right now, what it will take to get me to come running through our house fully nude, soaking wet, is you to say, please come here quick. Okay. Not, ouch, I stubbed my toe. Okay, fine. Well, it's just... Also, the thought of you seeing me running through the house fully nude.

I've seen it before. No, you haven't. You've never seen me run. No, you're right. I've never seen you run. Not going to happen, ever. Anyways, that's my bad week. So I'm probably going to be cooped up and not being able to get some fresh air.

And I'm going to be really pissed at that stupid snowboarding bag. But it did get put in the closet afterwards. So thank you for that. Okay, your turn. I guess I'll start my bad week. I'm married to this girl that has been bitching to me to move the snowboard bag for weeks. And she stubbed her toe on me today. So now I'm never going to hear the end of it.

That's not your bad week. I mean, I haven't been able to think of this because you just told me a few hours ago that I'd be doing this with you. So I appreciate the heads up. I gave you a couple hours. A couple. That's great. um bad week is i keep gaining weight and contagion it's probably because you eat good week is we're getting low on food so

we can get to a point where i cannot eat luckily you know when we first went into this self-quarantine it was like i'm going to college the first weekend and we're stocking the fridge with just bullshit yeah crunch berries well because we were trying to get stuff that wouldn't go bad yeah i get it but we ate all that and now here we are i know it's true like what i all that's gone so now it's just cucumbers and almond milk i'm not eating cucumbers but oh yeah so zach will not eat really he does not eat cold food definitely don't serve him a cold sandwich he needs a hot sandwich no let's he will if he's forced but i've never seen you eat a cold sandwich in five years here's my thing i prefer cheese melted if the place is making bread and

making sandwiches they have the ability to melt the cheese yeah you hate so in my opinion just i just want a warm sandwich you know i want my food warm like a prepared meal yeah you want all of your food warm i just love like a fresh like a good not fresh fresh wasn't a great word no newly prepared meal yeah you love a home cook i don't love leftovers i will eat them i've been eating them this week you barely touch them i've been eating them the last three weeks you've been doing a you repurpose them when i started in real estate i ate leftovers every day yeah that's true but that was like dire straits well is that a saying that's a band yeah but like you you i've actually never seen zach eat unless it's sushi i've never seen him eat a salad or like a cucumber

or anything raw like it's all cooked it's a hot sandwich it's a hot vegetable it's a hot meat prosciutto you will eat prosciutto melon okay but that's fruit you can't cook fruit i mean you can but like you you're like the king of like your your worst nightmare is like a cold salad bar Yeah, I don't like salad. There's nothing. That eliminates a lot. Yeah, yeah. But this is just something.

Like for an appetizer, would you rather get a salad or get a plate of nachos? Well, obviously nachos, but some of us have to stay thin. Well, I'm just saying. You do make really good nachos. They're great. They're so good. I'd just rather eat a warm. In mayonnaise, this is like any of my friends listening are going to be like meat and cheese only.

Yeah. They call me meat and cheese Marty is what my friends call me because this is my thing. Restaurants love to slide mayonnaise on your sandwich but not listed on the menu. So when you ask, you know, what all comes on this, they just assume, this is the biggest problem I have, So some chefs or just general people in the kitchen assume that everyone likes mayonnaise. Yeah. It's bullshit. Most people do.

Some people do. Some people don't. Well, you also were in the South for the majority of your life, and the South loves mayonnaise. So you were in a bad place. Whatever it may be, whatever condiment, don't just sneak it in assuming I'm going to like it. You hate a sneaky condiment. Tell me what's on it. Yeah.

and then the second part to that is now i've gone so far as to make sure i hate mayonnaise okay so if i order a cheeseburger i say meat and cheese only with bread literally only meat and cheese if they bring me meat and cheese with no bun and nothing i'm like that's that's awesome you're you took it very literally if they bring it with a bunch of akutama bullshit on there that i it's a hot tomato just like you know oh he'll he didn't care about that he said meat and cheese it's just that drives me crazy i know you hate it so much because i'm very clear yeah and what i want yeah i know well all you servers out there i hope you learned a lesson from when you hear meat and cheese only don't do a sneaky condiment

they don't call him meat and cheese marty for nothing you're not sneaking in okay so chris has uh arkeld asked chris a few questions last week and i thought it would be fun to ask you similar ones okay um what's it like to be married to me um always entertaining thank you always challenging in a good way it is for real yeah i mean not everyone keeps me like i mean my personality not like vested i mean you're always like keeping me on my toes okay and it's always funny not always but it's yeah i mean marriage is hard in general it's very hard you know married to you luckily i think both of us married someone with like core fundamental similarities yeah some things are get a little funky here and now but

it's true as long as you revert back to that yeah i like that answer um i'm also on my toes all the time because not currently not thanks to you um never i never i'm never bored um and most of the time that's a good thing and occasionally it's a terrible thing um you know we have a lot of fun we don't take ourselves too seriously but we take what we have seriously i think that's like i felt that did you feel that nice yeah thank you that's i think that's the key to marriage it's like you know be able to sort of like listen i don't have the keys to marriage obviously because you know i'm not should we get a henna tattoo of that i don't want

well henna doesn't last i don't want it to be permanent what did i even say bad luck about doing something with you yeah you can't we can't i keep thinking about i want to get a tattoo so bad henna tattoo kit on amazon and see what happens all right and i'm gonna do we don't take it wait what is it we don't take ourselves we don't take no we don't take no okay um next question uh i was gonna ask you your favorite episode of lady but you don't listen but chris does so he could answer you can't um what is something you wish i would change about myself chris said that he wanted kelty to be less hard on herself so i'm just gonna lay it out there so that i was gonna say something along those lines really what would you change stop being so analytical or so uh

well that's impossible i'm a genius so critical critical okay not analytical critical it rhymed yeah i'm critical but what am i critical about um i think because of the work that you do your looks and your like that sort of scenario you think i'm critical of my looks no you aren't but i think the line of work you're in right you're harder on yourself than you should be okay but i think i'm pretty chill for an actress like pretty secure in my physical stuff you know uh-huh you don't think i am i do i mean everyone has their moments oh are you looking at my frozen forehead um okay um what is the sexiest thing i do i mean you don't like try to be sexy and i guess that would be the sexiest thing really hmm interesting you see how it did right

there yeah it's kind of a weird answer but are you being real though the last time you tried to actually be sexy towards me yeah but like something an example the other way around is like i'm not asking like oh when i put on those tassels shout out to kelty but like i'm saying like like when you do things around the house that are like masculine and like handy like that's sexy to me is it yeah huh but so like it's unintentional is there anything i'm doing unintentionally that's that you sometimes think is sexy yeah your work ethic and you're building this brand thank you yeah wow your success and your drive who knew um what was i wearing when we first met Some jeans

A black jacket and a gold necklace Jeans, a black jacket Yeah, but that's because we have a picture of it That's why you remember Okay, what was I wearing? Actually, we weren't You were wearing a blue button down Wow, look at you

Are you so impressed? I am Remember when we were getting married And someone asked what my favorite movie was And you said Field of Dreams No, I didn't say Field of Dreams No, I said Josie Whale is that even the name of it outlaw josie wells yeah that is so random what is your favorite movie

what about bob oh yeah of course that's an easy one what's my favorite really not easy i always forget josie wells i don't know if i've ever even said that movie to you before it's a great movie okay um if you won the lottery what would you buy how much good question um let's say 20 million no 200 million i feel like that's a pretty like standard price of a lottery winner 200 million okay so we'd get 100 million yeah those damn taxes those damn taxes um first thing i'd buy is a good attorney and probably a plane or a NetJets account

and hop on it. Pick a few people up and go somewhere. That'd be fun. Like an epic vacation. Yeah. Ugh, I can't. Thinking about vacation.

Air Force One and figure out where I'm going to put some investments. Oh. That's very like old man of me to say. Yeah, it's super.

What do you want me to say? Like a couple jet skis and a tiger? i would pay so much money to see you on a jet ski right now i would rip a jet ski right now feel the wind in my non-existent hair clearly we've been watching tiger king i don't even want to talk about it everyone is just constantly talking about it hi i'm barbara aka your nursing educator on instagram i'm a registered nurse, and I create content to help nursing students feel ready to take on anything and

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check out figs head to wherefigs.com and use code figs ca for 15 off your first order that's wherefigs.com code figs ca okay well when we come back you're gonna tell the story of how we first met where are we going now back to the lady gang and we're back good are you gonna tell are you gonna tell the lady gang how the story of how we first met how we first met or when we uh when we either either because we met like i don't know 12 years ago we met like seven years before we started dating yeah like very very casually like occasion every couple years we bump into each other yep and you always thought i was smoke show i mean be a little more enthusiastic yeah i thought you're so hot um no i did and we knew of each other and then you came in town

and we're our big friend group well we went up to one bar and it was kind of raining and there's a valet line and i remember walking up to the door and you did a hood slide on the front of a car that was waiting in valet to get out of the car and i remember watching that and then looking and seeing the person driving and seeing the look on their face and was like well that was a box check there of things i do like that was unbelievable and landed it honestly that's to this day like top three coolest moments of my life unbelievable you couldn't do that again yes i could you can i think i could you couldn't i literally to our bedroom without hitting the snowboard back today that's true i mean i literally just

slid across the hood of that car nice into the entrance of the bar it was unbelievable it was like a movie it was just like a yep in my mind okay well i can't believe that was something that was like a good thing for you i mean had you not stuck it it would have been weird we probably had to like get you an uber home it says a lot about you that that was something that was like a positive a pro on the list not a con i just like random you love i know it is conversation and you just did it i know and after like knowing you and your family for the last five years like that's all you guys are it's just my old go-to move was just be mid-conversation and turn hard right and dive into the bushes that are there and disappear yeah when you were drunk

okay so i hood slid like a superhero into the bar and then what we were all just hanging out you were you made out with your high school boyfriend it was dark times yeah and i remember him like being very what's the guy's name kevin miles no but what's the guy on the show he was a lot like um kyle kyle being very kyle-ish dancing and fast dancing in front of you wanting you to go dance and you wouldn't stand up and then he this is after we had made out i didn't know that you had made out no but he like reached out and like slapped you on the face like not like a hard like a playful slap not like a i cantina but like a yeah you know like a slap but i didn't like that and i chucked him yeah a couple feet yeah he came out of nowhere

like i didn't even know you were behind me and he like playfully so what had happened was i had made out with him i was so drunk i had made out with him and then i came back to my friends and i was like you know what that grossed me out like just keep him away from me i just don't want to go down that path meanwhile it's like i mean it was 10 years since we had dated like weird i think i was just nostalgic and then it came to my senses and i was like this is too aggressive i just need him to be away from me so i was sitting with my two best friends katie and tyler he comes up he playfully slaps me because i won't get up and dance and then all of a sudden like a superhero slap on the face yeah yeah a superhero comes out of the corners of the darkness of the bar

and he's like did you just king slap her get the out of here like you were so but you didn't scream because you're like scary and more quiet i didn't scream but it was something like very intimidating and i just remember looking over and just all of a sudden i hadn't really noticed you at all that night i mean i'd noticed you but i hadn't like zeroed in on you and then suddenly i was like holy shit battle chicken wow yeah yeah i was like the universe is sending me a sign right now that like bitch you need to be saved and this is the person who's gonna help you and then we hung out for like several days after um we did some fellowshipping what's that you said you need to be saved what's fellowshipping

what is that do you do that it's like church okay you know i've never been to church fellowshipping okay no but we had some like heavy makeout sessions we did i remember you saying you ate asparagus and you didn't want to pee in my apartment this is in your my place yes so so weird it was me to smell it okay well here's the story so i had had family dinner at my sister's house it was like christmas break and i ate asparagus and i just know that my pee is so potent after asparagus. And so I went over to Zach's, we like make out, we have such a nice time. And he has this like very cool loft space in Atlanta. And there's this one bathroom downstairs. So I was like, I have to pee, but like, I don't want him to like pause this movie, let me pee. And then also

be like, you know what? I'm going to pee too. So I kept waiting for Zach to have to pee. I didn't know at the time, but literally Zach Martin never has to pee. Like never. He's woken up maybe once in his whole life in the middle of the night to pee. His bladder is massive. I didn't know this. So I was like waiting and waiting and waiting and waiting. I'm like, I cannot go in there and pee because it's going to smell so bad. Like so, so, so bad. Asparagus pee is potent and it lingers. So instead I got to the point where I thought I was going to absolutely die. And I was like, you know what i'm gonna head home i get in the car i call my best friend katie and i'm like i'm about to pee in my pants and i tell her the story and i almost did not make it i mean i'm

i almost peed my pants in the car closest i've come as an adult to almost peeing my pants but that means i really was into you yeah because i didn't want you to smell my asparagus pee now you can now the scale of that worry i know i i was unfathomable i know it was like i tricked you a little bit yeah you got me good got you good girl okay one final question what have you um been wait what what's your favorite thing about lockdown um i don't know i mean it's kind of like vacation i mean being in real estate there's not a lot to do right now because no one really knows what the hell is going on and so you really just kind of work and then you work out and you do like a like a fake workout because you can't really work out because you can't buy any weights anywhere

online it's true story and then you eat and then you're like and then you drink should i shower i I can shower and then you shower and then you're like, okay, I get, yeah, maybe I'll, maybe I'll drink some wine. What should I drink today? Yeah. And then you drink a lot. Yeah. I've been giving myself a limit of like maybe one drink during the week, maybe none.

I haven't. I know. You love, you love your piney elder beer. Yeah. And wine. And wine. And I also found that you really start exploring different areas of your house because you're just trying to see something new.

it's true i just went and stood in the backyard yesterday just looking around it's the longest you've ever been there i don't know what i was going down there but i know it's crazy well when we come back we're gonna ask answer questions from us the lady gang you're listening to the lady gang okay i'll read you the question anonymous wants to know My boyfriend and I have been dating for three years. It's very clear that his love language is physical touch. By physical touch, I mean that he always wants to touch me. He's constantly grabbing my boobs when I'm trying to watch TV, do work, or do chores around the house. When I ask him to stop, he says, what? I'm your boyfriend. Can't I touch you? Our sex life

is great, but am I weird for not wanting to be touched all the time? I'm starting to get annoyed and irritated as i really like my personal space is there something he will is this something he will grow out of three years in it do you think that um the person asking this question is actually the guy from love at first sight remember um what's the couple the boy what was his name what's love at first love at first sight the netflix show that we watched together and the couple where the girl kept touching him and touching his face she would not stop Barrett Barnett and whatever her name is she would not stop touching him and I was like that is suffocating but he was into it I guess he's into it okay what do you think she should do

I mean the boob grab nonchalant around the house is a little bit weird um I don't know I mean at some point you have to like react to it and if you don't enjoy that you gotta be honest he's got to read into it and if he doesn't read it i mean it's obvious you're telling him and he's like what yeah he says what i'm your boyfriend can't i touch you first of all no sir no he didn't own you so like i think you just have to be honest i think this is a situation where it's three years yeah god you haven't grabbed my boobs in months is it like playful like he's probably just a more physical person is it a sexual boob grab it's probably a little both their sex life is great which is a really good thing at three years

in um yeah you just have to say you have to be like listen set some boundaries set some boundaries like zach and i both are very similar in the sense that we definitely need some physical space like we need a bubble around us at some times and then that makes the times that you don't have your little bubble out nice when you can actually cuddle so i think you just need to say to him like hey i love how much that you love touching me i feel so admired and adored but i just am somebody who didn't grow up with that kind of touch so i get a little bit like thrown off it's a little jarring so you know like an uninvited boob grab it's not really like a great thing to experience yeah i mean and something could have happened in the beginning of the relationship

where he like did that and then got a positive reaction out of you yeah he just keeps doing it that's true so you just have to you just have to be honest phase it out phase it out phase it out okay next question sports hater my boyfriend of three years is obsessed with sports and every game that is ever on tv hockey basketball baseball golf college league football and all my all his freaking fantasy leagues one time he even took me on a trip to san diego and we ended up spending the night watching the little league boys baseball championship oh my god because of this i've grown to hate all sports it's even worse when his team loses a game because it ruins his day i'm interested in fashion culture new restaurants traveling and it feels like our whole life and

adventures revolve around games do you think we should go separate ways for lacking similar interest or do we find things we both like what do you do when your guy is watching sports well you can i mean you don't watch them no i don't watch them but it would be but that's because you watch you don't watch them often so like when college football season is on i watch a lot of you but i do it that's there's the kicker what i don't sacrifice you and i no do stuff in order to do that yeah we plan around it like if it's a saturday and his team is playing he'll tell me like hey my team's playing at two so we'll go to brunch in the morning or we'll go for a walk in the morning or like we'll do something fun at night like

I mean even that's like sort of annoying but it is what it is they're men and they like sports and there's nothing wrong with it but this sounds insane he sounds like he has like an obsession that's not healthy I don't think I mean you can try you can try to find things that you both enjoy doing but like if he's averaging more hours watching sports than you guys spending time together then you got to have a hard conversation about it or you got to get the out i mean i've never heard of anyone traveling to see a little league world series unless they worked for the major league baseball or something like yeah yeah that's interesting this is like a very but you know i mean test one is just playfully laid out there let's i mean do we need really

need to go see the little league world series i mean you've got no kids playing in that so yeah let's meet in the middle on that one at least yeah like i mean i'd love to sit around and watch housewives marathons all day on a saturday bigger question what the hell is he doing right now because there are no sports on tv oh that's a great question you guys driving right now they probably are or maybe he's losing his mind this is actually sports hater this is a great time i want you to send us an update because i'm very very curious but i think he is in in there watching espn the ocho right now and the dodgeball tournament that has been on espn probably is or like the cornhole games and stuff yeah it's gonna be bad it's a fact bad sitch well sports

hater i think it all comes down to communication you put three years into it don't throw it away But I think that you got to, you got to like, you got to see if this is something you can put up with your whole life or if he's willing to bend a little bit. I mean, we all, there's all, all of us have things we'd like to do all the f***ing time. But if he's doing it now, it's going to be worse when you get married. True. Like you're going to have kids and he's going to be locked into that little league baseball game and not helping you change diapers, which would literally send me into. Slip, slip, kids start yelling at your kids when they're playing sports, just being aggressive. Oh yeah.

this is so bad we're like making up stuff about this person it's true it's what we do in this this is what welcome to the lady the only advice i have for everything is approach it head on and it doesn't work well so don't listen to me no zach approaches things head on but he doesn't give it a nice little sugar coat he's very similar to kelty actually i married somebody who is um very similar to my business partner which is very interesting they don't have a great ability to um uh their delivery is sometimes a little too harsh but it's also because the two of them are two people who um are very capable humans so your tolerance for other people is low because you're confused as to why everyone else is not operating how you guys are sliding mail on the

sandwich yeah don't put that mail on the sandwich okay you guys thank you so much for listening we're sorry if we bored you to death but like this is what we got this is quarantine in a groove right now are you oh this is over we could do another one i mean who knows how long we're gonna be all right well um do you know our sign off i mean you don't listen to the podcast but do you know see you next tuesday yay bye guys thanks for listening thanks for listening and make sure to rate and review this podcast wherever you wrote your podcast we have new episodes of Lady Gang every Tuesday and Thursday. Follow us on social media at The Lady Gang. Follow us personally at Kelty, most importantly, at Becca, and at Jack Vanek. The Lady Gang Network is

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