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It's time for a quickie.
Podcast One presents The Lady Gang,
The Hollywood Girl Posse with Lady Gang Quickie.
Here's Kelty Knight, Becca Tobin, and Jack Vanek.
Let's make this quick.
Hello, hello, hello.
Welcome to The Lady Gang.
I am back to you here with Jack and Kelty.
Hello.
Hey, girls.
Oh.
Today is a special episode of Lady Gang.
We haven't done this in a while,
but we went on our Instagram at The Lady Gang.
and we let people ask us anything.
Oh, God.
Are you ready?
I'm scared.
Number one, Mary asks, who is the most famous of you three?
Mary?
Mary.
I don't know why the way you phrased that.
I was like, Mary asked.
Yeah, Mary asks, who is more famous of the three?
Kelty Knight, she's hitting her stardom.
Yeah, the star is rising.
The star.
She's on the Hollywood Walk of Fame.
She's twinkling.
Adjacent.
so i mean i am paying someone to hopefully try to make me relevant yeah but i still think becca
based on our video views alone you've you have the face of a girl we know yeah do you know what
i mean no i have a question for you though do you feel like my fame should be resulting in more
like instagram deals because right now i got like a like a adult underwear and like that's
about it's pretty dry we all got the underwear and i see becca or jack is like very busy on
instagram deals well listen i am the best on instagram out of the three of us yeah for sure
of making good content yeah so that's probably i'm sorry although you know what you know what
it's this is all court of public opinion because it depends who you ask kelty's garbage
are the most loved beloved thing in my heart loved i don't think i could go a month without
no athletics the most recent was absolutely can we re-watch it the best part is that fabletics
somehow approves your ads with all of your cups in there i cannot believe because they like a
real authentic lady is that have they given you a note where they're like we really like how kelty
left this five seconds of silence in the beginning you know what i actually think fabletics is they
could take a note other brands could take a note from fabletics because the more curated perfect
they are people hate it well it's so obvious it's an ad i mean yours are obvious it's an ad but
people tune in because they're like what is she gonna do this day it's i'll tell you this while
you're looking for that becca not only do they compliment me but i have been featured multiple
times in like the brand deck that they send out to all the influencers every month examples of
content that works right try on haul and it's me in my closet yeah i mean you do and you look great
in the clothes but i'm mostly wondering like are you gonna trip i know you're gonna leave it in i
know i did make are you gonna like look and be like i made a small mistake because i want to do
this funny thing because i know in the background of my video was like my squishy like emotional
support stuffed animal so she tried to do this and she just oh yeah i meant to put music over it
like who can say where the world go but then i just accidentally put my voice again but that's
not hashtag that wasn't one of my things here's that this is why it was good because if you put
the music over it it wouldn't be funny like you trying to be funny it doesn't work yeah like you
being you is what makes it so good so we all agree i'm the most famous then you're you're the most
you from thea how do you deal with older men demeaning you while you pass them on the corporate
ladder well thea none of us are on the corporate ladder at all so we are not going to be able to
give you those bees ain't paying your bills you pay those bees no mind but i think the problem
is they're paying her bills no she's passing them on the corporate ladder saying
she's surpassing oh so if those bees ain't this i'm sorry
kelsey you look like you're wasted but you're not you're completely sober which is insane i'll never
she's like we're going for a hike sorry and you're like making these like we'll have amy
repost this on instagram it is the most insane so yes jack you may be better at curating content
no these are two different these are two different skills we're talking about here
like yeah mine is a skill that I have crafted over the years Kelty's is a skill that lives within her
like that it's just you know what you're either born with it or you burn it yeah she's just born
with it no it's just it's literally it's it's not a learned behavior no it's not nobody can be you
no and I will tell you hold on yes thank you so much and Mary it is I Kelty the most famous of
the lady gang now back to Thea um older men demeaning you I have to tell you Thea just this
week I Celtied too close to the sun with a man and I was reminded that they don't like to be told
what to do when you're on the corporate ladder. Well, I can't really say out loud, but I, I will
say that this, I listen, if you want something done, you do it yourself, obviously. Um, there
was, there was something that had been done and I did not think that it was the best idea. And so
I had written and said, Hey, what do you guys think about this? Very open. You guys have taught
me. I have really learned over the last years. What do you guys think about this? I think it
could be really great for, you know, promoting this show to which we got up. I'm sorry. No,
we can't do that. So then I Celti too close to the sun with the followup of, I see you,
you can't do it. And I'm going to give you a four paragraph or of why you actually should
and why i'm right okay and then i'm gonna guilt you a little bit about it and then you're i'm
gonna kelty too close to son i'm gonna hit send without thinking about it and then someone's
gonna complain to someone about me and everyone's gonna hate me and then i'm gonna have to hear
about it from someone that i trust and love being like hey girl you gotta calm down and then i come
down you know what we're having jody on the podcast oh i think she would be oh my god but
you know what you guys, okay. Yes. My partner, Jodi, she should come on the podcast, but here's
the thing is that like, I feel like I Kelty too close to son and you still like me. And I feel
like Jodi is like, this girl is ruining my life. Well, she has a lot to lose. Well, I guess we have
a lot to lose, but not anymore though. We got nothing to lose. We got nothing to lose anymore.
But when we did have something, but we still loved you. I'm trying to like really put myself.
yeah she this is a huge opportunity for both of you to work together and she probably is like
thinking of the repercussions of what could happen yeah well when you healthy too close to the sun
when we were working together yeah we weren't thrilled no so yeah we laugh now because we're
like it's like when you get divorced and then or like broken up and then years later see them with
their new wife or whatever and you're like yeah yeah that's your problem now yep just kidding
jody jody sure shan renee says constipation and travel tips
i don't get constipated okay even when you travel have you never been constipated yeah oh yeah
i have i used an enema in your bathroom oh yeah i remember it worked like a charm god that's not
my constipation that was the first time that you were constipated that i know that i used an enema
and i and i was like why did i not access this sooner have you done it since no i haven't needed
to oh but you know in a first trimester of a pregnancy yes the estrogen is soaring which makes
you incapable or the progesterone i don't remember which hormone i'm an idiot something goes crazy
high yeah to where literally there is this is so gross there's all the poop but it's sitting
yeah at the top of your sphincter yeah just at the hole knocking on the door but no one will
let them in and you'll sit on the toilet yeah i was shaking and crying like no joke in my sister's
bathroom so anyway you could have used the enema there because the enema is for when it is knocking
on the door that's what i'm saying is i'm very angry with the people in my life mostly my sister
who did not know tell you and tell me that i could have access to something that was so simple yeah
it's just a little water up your bowl but i'm glad that jack gave me the tip of you have to
actually actively suck it in with your butthole yes the water yes gotta hold it in yes i think
when you're traveling darling you need to have a good probiotic you need to have some sort of
magnesium pill oh my god i started taking magnesium the other night a week ago magnesium i told you
forever the calm stuff yes i have never slept better in my entire life jack i've never really
been telling you to take this for a decade it's amazing it's incredible and i was like take this
before you go to sleep you'll actually sleep you're welcome you know what i am it works better
than my sleeping pills well i take it with my sleeping pills becca have i not said this you
have i don't remember yeah i'm a new woman and i have the girl who sleeps 11 hours a night
had really good poops this week too so i don't know if it's related but like a hundred percent
really have you not seen the meme on instagram that's like are you sad take me everything is
connected to magnesium everything is connected yeah i will i finally did it i'm so happy for you
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The Lady Gang.
Nessa, can Kelty share her hair routine?
Yes, Nessa, I can.
So I used to have no hair in my head, and then I started taking Nutrafol.
I take four a night.
Once a week, I put an entire castor oil from the drugstore, Amazon, $7.
I cover my entire head of castor oil.
Now, you're going to ask me, wait, castor oil is so sticky.
Yes.
Yes, it is.
You're going to want a tangle teaser.
You're going to want a tangle tease in the shower after you wash your hair, and then
you're going to want to put the castor oil on, tie it up in a knot, sleep on it overnight.
If you can add heat to that castor oil mask, you should do that.
If you can go in the sauna, maybe you go out in the sun.
Perhaps you have a heat bonnet, which I also got on Amazon, or a blow dryer.
Add some heat.
Sleep in it.
Oh, sorry.
A heat bonnet.
I have a heat bonnet.
I bought one because of you.
Yeah.
Heat bonnet.
once a week you want to castor oil number two you want to avoid heat as much as possible because
the truth is it's not that your hair is growing your hair is breaking off okay so you want to
avoid clumping it through you have to treat your hair at all times like it's a delicate lace
you treat it like it is the lace on jack vanek's wedding dress you guys are both on your phones
now you motherfuckers anyway i'm listening i'm really excited for you you're giving advice on
hair yes what didn't you just ask me about how my hair looked i just complimented your hair
I didn't need, I don't need Nessa's.
Okay.
Nessa, that's it.
And then, okay.
So the other thing is, is that you are going to want to sleep on a silk pillowcase and
do not be fooled by some of these pillowcases that are made out of satin like polyester.
We need a real silk pillowcase.
And if you can stand it, a silk cap.
I think I need to invest in a silk, silk cap.
A silk cap is beautiful.
What I like to do is I like to put my little rollers in, put up my little like, you know,
silk cap, tie it up like, you know, fancy lady.
And then I lay back and I sleep.
And what happens is like there's no friction because sleeping is actually really hard on
your hair.
The next thing I'm going to say is there's a product called Malibu.
Malibu is like a cleanser.
It's for hard water.
We live in the world.
The water sucks.
There's so much plastic in the water.
The little microplastics are going on your scalp, making them not beautiful.
So you're going to want to do a Malibu treatment every two weeks.
and for everything else you can visit my instagram at kelty thanks for asking
it's like a treatment it's like a powder and you mix it with water and then it like kind of
takes away like all the hard water but then she's ordering it oh no i know it's great
then do you have any tips for people who have a life
just wondering jobs friends no i know that is the most swimmer's hair yeah but the gold one
if you told me i would either have to wear a wig that's malibu hard water
yep jackson you've got a sucker i'm in i'm telling you um here's the thing you can either
have a life or you can have nice hair and you can't have both yeah i started trying to oil my
hair for a while and it was it took up too much time yep well and i also just want to say to all
the women out there who were always on this constant i'm one of them this constant like
battle to just improve you know like improve the skin improve the hair improve the body improve the
wardrobe there's something to be said for just being okay with where you're at yeah and kelty's
job is on tv and requires her to look a certain way so i understand why you're going through this
crazy mania um but i don't think that's healthy for a normal woman no and here's the thing too
i think that tiktok has really fucked us in the way where it's like well number one half these
people that are like promoting this shit are like scammers they're like look at my beautiful hair
like that i grew it from nothing yours is real the way that you grew yours but a lot of people's are
like authentic wearing extensions and trying to show whatever they're trying to show but so much
of it is genetics and how thick your hair is normally i don't believe it for a second i have
terrible genetic hair i'm sorry for what i'm saying i mean i've had terrible hair my whole
life okay so well congratulations on your beautiful hair yeah and also you know what
i feel like this is an episode of that drake podcast where the lady was like really mean
oh my god yeah were we being mean to you no not me mean just being a little sassy becca well it's
just realistic no i just i'm fatigued from i understand constant get better amazon like the
amount of times i go see something on somebody's instagram and i go to order it on amazon because
it's gonna improve my this my pores are gonna shrink my business it's like i yes i understand
some of those things are amazing yeah and i love them but i think that there are people out there
who are chasing the dragon so much.
And I just want to remind you
that no one other than yourself
and your two friends who stare at you all day
are even going to notice your hair improvement.
No, for sure.
Also, if you improve your hair,
it's not going to make you happy.
True.
I mean, maybe you are.
It's definitely going to make you happy.
Kelsey's happy.
But that's the thing, too.
It's like chasing the thing.
Like, if I get a nose job, then I'll be happy.
If I lose five pounds, I'll be happy.
If I get my hair looking better, I'll be happy.
This head of hair is a physical result
of all the inside work i've done i believe truly that this would not be growing so beautiful
had i not been beautiful in your heart yeah well stress because you yeah you would have been so
stressed out exactly it's very important and i think that like being satisfied and happy yep
yeah okay madison this is important how do i get over a breakup that wasn't my choice
i think immediately you just got to get out there and hook up with somebody else
spoken like a true jack fan get some attention go somewhere to feel good yeah like getting like
male attention even though it's like not this is a short-term thing that you need to do is go get
some other male attention and it's like the stupidest thing ever but to know that you could
be like wanted from somebody else and like desired by somebody else i think is just that instant ego
boost that you need like when you're like smack dab like in the beginning of a breakup yeah and
then you can start trying to do the healing process but like you just have to do it like
you have to get out there yeah hook up with some other guys go out and drink with your friends
and like know that you still got it yeah and you don't want to love something that's not going to
love you back like you deserve better than that oh but it's so hard because you know like me
in a youthful age it's like yes you know that but you're like but i can change them yeah i can make
them love me. If I'm prettier, funnier, don't text for three days and then act busy. Like whatever
it is, you think you can change them into loving you. But the truth is like, they are not, you got
to be at a place where you're okay with accepting the Jerry in your life, the Zach in your life,
the Chris in your life. Like you have to be in a place where you're not choosing the unavailable
bad boys. Cause it feels exciting. And you're like, Ooh, I wonder if he likes me. He, you're
going to know he likes you. You're going to know he loves you. He's going to be calling you and
wanting to marry you he's never he you're gonna fight about things but he's never gonna disrespect
you treat you like trash make you question yourself and your validity or your worth as a
human being validity diddly-doo yeah no and also like i don't know this is generalizing but i don't
actually know any couples where the girl or the guy started off not feeling romantic feelings for
the girl and ended up together. Yeah. And then it happens and stayed together. It happens. I think
a lot the other way around with Jared and with Zach and even with Chris, like when you first
meet them, you're like, I don't know, like we're all a little bit like trepidatious, but it's very,
I don't know if it's the way that we work, the way we're wired, whatever it is, but I actually
don't know. And I'm sure they're, they exist. But for the most part, I don't know any women
in my life who ended up marrying a guy that she had to like talk into loving her right yeah well
when you do that it ends badly well because yeah you're probably compromising part of yourself or
trying to pitch yourself a version of yourself that isn't like where you are like in your natural
state so it's always not going to be that way but also somebody it's like i know that there are
couples that break up and end up back together but like when it a lot of those couples i feel
like there's more of like a mutual breakup and then you find yourself back together but like if
somebody is just dumping you out of nowhere and like throwing you to the curb like it's really
hard to come back from that good and it's just like forever go take care of yourself all right
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