LadyGang - Chrishell Stause

Episode Date: July 6, 2021

While she may be Selling Sunset, Chrishell Stause is stealing our hearts as Hollywood's most eligible bachelorette. And although she’s looking for sexy mature men, she’s putting the time into healing herself in order to continue hustling and working with her reality co-stars. Plus, find out if she’d ever date Brad Pitt! Check out our amazing sponsors!!! European Wax Center: Visit waxcenter.com to book your reservation today and check out the new line of products — remember, your first wax is free! Nutrafol: Grow thicker, healthier hair by going to Nutrafol.com and entering the promo code LADY to save $15 OFF your first month’s subscription! ThirdLove: Go to ThirdLove.com/ladygang to get 20% off your first purchase! Obé Fitness: Start your trial today at obefitness.com and use code LADYGANG to get one month free! Hyundai: Learn about the stylish all new TUCSON at Hyundai.com  Tini Lux: Visit tinilux.com to see their new site and take 20% off with code LADYGANGSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

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Well, what is this? Welcome to The Lady Gang. That's amazing. Say that again. The Lady Gang. Things are about to change around here. Each week, we catch up with Hollywood's hottest girl posse, Kelty Knight, Becca Tobin, and Jack Vanek.

Hello, hello, hello. Welcome to The Lady Gang. I am Becca Tobin here with Jack Vanek and Kelty Knight, and I am very excited. We have a repeat offender on the podcast today. There are not that many people that we have had on twice. Nope. And she is a beaut. Lover, lover, lover.

Okay, but before we get to that, it's time for... Good week. Yes, it is. Bad week. Oh, no. Who wants to go first? I'm pulling up my... I'll go.

Okay, go. List of crimes. My list of fails. what am i going to talk about today so my good week i don't know if you guys remember this is probably months ago during covid times i would sit out on my balcony and i would kind of watch the world go by there's a street that's right outside my apartment complex and i would always see this really really old man don't tell me running with us so every day at like 5 45 i would see him in the summer when it was still light out I'd see him and by run I mean he was like going

so slow but he was so cute and he brought me so much joy because I'm like this guy's out there he's getting his exercise he's really doing it and then I didn't see him for a while for like months but then I was walking I saw him in the gym and he was on the treadmill doing his little walk he's just changed his location but i was really i was very disturbed because i'm like if this guy's gone he's the only thing that brings me joy in this past year he's getting it you know this the only first of all i'm very happy about the only thing that brought you joy honestly one of the only things that brought me joy in 2020 us we didn't bring you any layers definitely not us um but this brings me to a thought that i had like as we're getting into our middle age i mean

I mean sort of not really who even knows what middle age is anymore but like how do you keep it up your mojo to get yourself out there and like exercising at that age I feel like I'm gonna just be like Wally where past the point of it being capable of being attractive I don't think there's going to be anything that's going to motivate me to get off my ass I know well so my parents the good thing that happened in COVID for my parents is they started walking because they i mean my mom did exercise sometimes but nothing that was consistent but with covid they do daily walks and they're still doing their daily walks even though they've gone back to work and they're in better shape than i am i'm like how are you guarantee your parents have a crazy

sex life kelty i'm just saying about that but they're like we went hiking in the grand canyon and they're like straight up hiking i don't know i don't know but i guess you just got to get in a little routine and then just do something like walking that's nice that's not intimidating my mom does bar classes like a maniac so i don't know what's motivating her my mom does the senior classes on obey cute cute i didn't know they had senior classes yeah they're really adorable oh my gosh in the chair um okay so my bad week is uh one of the perks about having a boyfriend is being able to like steal their sweatshirts because they're like big and comfy and you know whatever so somehow now me dating jared has kind of flipped or he is now stealing

all of my clothes because i like an xl sweatshirt i like an xl sweater so everything that i get that's not a tiny little crop top is now somehow our shared wardrobe that jared is taking for the majority of the time well that's what happens when you order xl merchandise from the lady gang jack I know. And he doesn't, he's like this pink sweatshirt. Yes. It's mine now because it's my size. I'm like, I'm into it. Super tight. But yeah, it's really cute that he does that. It is cute. He loves it. And it's one of the, it's one of those things when it's not yours, you want it more. It's like how I always want other people's food. I'm like, this is your only child showing you did not have to share clothes with a sibling. And now your

karma is getting you. And now it's making you share with your boyfriend. i know and it's like you know what we are starting to look alike we're that couple because our hair is growing out at the same length and now we're just dressing in the same clothes so we're pretty much morphing into one person good for you thanks thanks i i will only accept it if when he goes on tour this summer are they still doing like they that thing where they all wear white and you have to wear all white too yes i'll be like i'm part of the band too like here's my white vest ready All right. Who's next? Um, I'll go next. So I was home in Atlanta a couple of weeks ago and my dad told me when I was home that my sister and I needed to go to the bank

to put our name on the safety deposit box. Cause I guess during COVID he was like, what happens if I die? And parents got morbid, weird stuff. So, you know, we had to go there with our IDs and you know in person so he said he had said to me beforehand that his bank the girl I don't know if she's called a banker or what her position is I'm so like ignorant on what positions are called at banks she works at the bank and she's his person her name is Mallory and he's like she loves the lady gang and I'm like okay I mean my dad is the sort of person where he'll tell people like have you heard of the lady gang my daughter's lit and then polite people will say oh yeah i love it or cool just trying to appease him yeah so i'm like oh

she probably doesn't love the lady gang so he was like bring bring her some merch and bring her a book and bring her all this stuff and i'm like first of all i'm gonna gauge how big of a fan she is because i'm not gonna show up with something and be so presumptuous to assume that she likes the lady gang and then she's gonna tell people how weird i am and whatever so we go Mallory is adorable she's in her late I would say mid to late 20s she's engaged she's getting married soon she is in fact a lady gang listener she's she's great and I just love meeting that meeting girls out in the world my dad was right thank god um so that was my good week and afterwards I ended up sending her merch because she actually was you know a lady gang you're gonna

be a creep yes but here's here's the bad the bad week also comes uh it was at it happened at the bank so we're sitting there and my sister is older she's been on here before jessica she's four years older she went to law school she's a partner at a law firm she's you know she's like the academic sister so mallory's sitting there and she's writing out our paperwork and she's like oh yeah your dad told me all about you guys and my sister's like i'm sure he didn't mention me because obviously i'm his favorite and mallory goes no no he said to me no jessica she's my smart daughter oh i mean is he wrong he's not wrong but he could have said my smarter daughter my well-educated daughter um but my professional daughter anything other that's my smart daughter

So, um, I may be his favorite, but he doesn't think I'm that smart. So it's nothing like being 35 and finding out what your parents really think about you. You're dumb. You're a dumb ass. My smart daughter. I love that. Wow. And she probably just bit her tongue after that. She was like, Oh, lost that guy's business. No, of course not. It was very funny. I appreciated it so much because my dad is a quack he's crazy not a quack but like he's a he's an eccentric guy and he says really inappropriate things all the time so you know i love your dad can't blame mallory can't blame mallory not mallory's fault all right good week so as you guys know a few months ago i announced on the podcast that baby kelty existed i recently got a dm from someone who i had taught

dance to at the showstopper dance competition about 15 years ago and she said hi kelty i know you won't remember me but i just want you know that you taught me jazz dance um at showstoppers and i remember meeting you that day it was one of my favorite dance classes i've ever taken blah blah blah of course and she said i always loved the name kelty and i have always thought about you and i just want to let you know i just had my first baby no and i named it kelty can't be so Now there's two, not another baby. Two babies have been named after me this year alone. If that's not influential, I don't know what is.

And baby, this baby Kelty is equally as cute. So adorable. Did you see a pic? Yep. Sent me a picture. Is it a boy? It's a rude. It's a girl.

She's very cute. And you know, everything's great. Baby Kelty. Baby Kelty. Times two. There's two of them out there. Okay. And then once I'm feeling good about myself, the world will just knock me right back down.

So bad week. I have been trying to figure out what to do with my floors, as you know, on Instagram, which is riveting for everyone. And I thought for a minute that I might do a carpet or a tile. So I was in this store on Ventura Boulevard that was right by the house. I just like drove down and I was like, oh, it looks like you sell carpets. I was just checking it out. And I kind of just was like in my sweats or whatever.

So I'm like looking through the carpet and this nice guy's helping me. and he's like oh there's like a lot of people like this and it's good i was getting prices and he stops and he looks at me and he goes um hey is is that paul abdul in your shirt and i was like yeah it is and i felt so cool and because i had like my little paul abdul shirt and i cropped it and i was like yeah it's paula and i was expecting to be like oh cool and he goes oh yeah i think my mom likes her wow it was like my parents when they used to listen to the eagles and i'd be like oh my parents likes

the eagles and like everyone from that generation was like what a bummer also he's not wrong I mean how old was he I have no idea but I mean how young is the mom I'm pretty young How young and hip must his mom be His mom must be so hip he's like is that Paula Abdul On your shirt Paula's been around for a long

Time I mean So she could How old's Paula 60 something Yeah I think I mean she's ageless in my eyes But yeah she's ageless she was doing a TikTok dance the other day on my Instagram Search page and she was working it

how angry are you that no one has asked me to do the dance with Paula? She's all these influencers and no one's like, what that are all dancing to do straight up. Now tell me tick tock. But anyway, live your life, Paul. So she's doing that song with a bunch of different celebrities on our tick tock. Oh, that must have been what I saw.

Rude. One day, Kelty. One day. All right. Well, coming up, we have our friend Chris Shell is here back by popular demand. Texas ladies, listen up. It's Becca, the new texas lady amongst the lady gang there is a live show coming to my new hometown of austin texas

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Our guest today is back on Lady Gang, and wow, has a lot changed. Like a sexy phoenix rising from the ashes, this soap opera starlet, having starred on Days, All My Children, and Young and the Restless, became America's goddamn sweetheart when her own life became more dramatic than a daytime soap. The star of the biggest new reality show on the planet,

Selling Sunset, beautiful queen with some ugly, non-pointed toes on Dancing with the Stars, and a woman who legit showed me a house in January that I was thinking of buying with over 2 million fans on Instagram and three longtime fans here at the Lady Gang. Please welcome to the show, back to the show, Chrishell Stouse. Wait, what was the tone comment? Can you just write every intro from now on? Everyone knows that Chrishell, like, you know, we always say on Lady Gang that God is fair, right? And so it's like Chrishell, so beautiful. Like that face, the hair that I think is mostly all natural, like her legs,

her butt like everything so nice so talented like hottest thing since sliced bread in hollywood and then gets on dancing with the stars she got the hottest partner and then out come the feet and she had to work on them so hard because that first dance it was like a little sickled like little little like you know seeing a chromosome or something yeah in the in the feet department something yeah and i was like you know what thank god because if you had come out with some like ballerina arch I would have been like you know what I've had enough of her I gotta let her go but like my foot does the opposite I think it curves down you were so great and like you are so great what a crazy time like when we had you we were in the

studio in Beverly Hills um and you were like kind of doing the rounds and and auditioning and I mean your life has changed dramatically how has it been to I assume this is like kind of the fame, stardom, success that you always dreamed for yourself. And now you have it all, but you have like almost too much. I know it does get a little crazy. You have to take the pros with the cons, obviously. You know, it's not all great stuff, but of course the stuff that's great is so great that you can't complain. So you know how it goes. So it's one of those, you know, I just kind of feel like I'm lucky that I had such a slow start into the business so that by the time it really hit a boom I felt like I was prepared as much as you could be to just know that

you know all of that stuff doesn't change who you are in a room although it will change how you're treated in room to room depending you know but I'd been doing it long enough to understand that like one day you're in one day you're out and you need to know who you are whatever room you're in whatever you know whatever part of the roller coaster you're on so I do I am happy that it kind of went the way that it did because when this kind of stuff happens and you have no sense of you know I've actually seen it I you know with some of the people you know that I watched the same thing happen to and hadn't had anything before this wildly you know treat certain people differently and think that they're bigger than the show and you know just things like that where

it's like, okay, everyone needs to realize nobody's bigger than the show. Be happy. You're here. Be grateful. You're here. And hopefully if you act like that, you'll keep working and keep being successful. And if you act like an asshole, I personally hope those people's days are numbered. Come on. We're all adults. Like don't act like that. So, I mean, segue of all segues, you're filming the show right now. I see your outfits. The first question I have is where did you get that jean dress you were wearing it was so good i don't know you that's uh i hope i'm saying this right retrofete they make cute stuff so cute so what is it like to be back because you guys are really back for the first time since the mega mega mega mega success what's it like you

know it's it's interesting to be back i think every for the most part everyone's excited you know of course nobody could have imagined the show became such a success that it did uh you know but that being said it it kind of you know it just yeah for the most part i will say that it's been really great so what she's saying everyone is we are some assholes in the cast yeah there's some assholes in the cast we won't get into that so i think it was tmz that i watched where harvey levin said that you are the most eligible bachelor and that's what he said right is it tmz yes it was harvey yes he was like like this is the hottest girl available to anyone i okay well first of all that's insane but i i was so flattered i don't think i've ever been

a little like proud to have been on tmz it's always like slightly embarrassing it's like always something where you're like oh my god oh my god um that was the first time where i was like Yes. Yeah. He was like, she should date Brad Pitt. Didn't you say you should be one at one of them did, which is obviously a terrible idea, but it would never happen in any, you know, not with that attitude for shell. If you have the opportunity, I feel like you should maybe take one for the team, even on a short amount of time. Oh my gosh. Well, listen, I will, I would definitely take one for the team, but you know, you guys I'm 39. So let's, uh, let's remember okay but he's like and and he's like 60 okay he'd be so lucky so he's so lucky to have

tmz's most eligible bachelorette no but who do you okay so just like put it out there in the world like i know you're getting hit up to date and you're doing everyone like everyone is like hey girl hey like who do you who is not hitting you up that you are like i would like i'm interested well I'll tell you in general I don't know what the deal is but so many young men keep hitting on me and I don't know if it's um but it's so weird so the ones that have really like gone out of their way to really pursue me and ask me out and all this stuff they're always so young and I so I would like to be hit on by more older men great I think this is amazing because I'm also 39 and I can confirm that I go out all the time without my wedding ring and no young men hit on

me something is definitely up here no but you're looking for a forever love so you don't want like a 25 year old boy we get it no I don't uh you know I I get it if that's what somebody else is looking for it's just not the phase I'm in I'm so happy with what I have that I'd rather be by myself like doing all you know I don't need the headaches of anything so if I'm gonna yeah put have you had anybody any in my head they need to be like my age or older I have um you know it's always very flattering, but, um, I, you know, I, for the most part, don't really respond or answer, but I'm always, you know, there have been a couple of times where I'm like, you know, it's still a, such a compliment, you know, for sure. Are you at the place and you can totally

ignore this question if you're not wanting to answer, but I'm just curious, cause we have a lot of girls who write in who are feeling a lot of shame around their divorce or failed relationships or don't see any light after the darkness they're in in the middle of it so we watched you go through the darkness essentially and it seems like you've come out the other side stronger more vibrant more joyful like can you can you say that that's genuine and that you are grateful for that experience that is a thousand percent genuine i feel like when you're so in it um you you have lost perception of things and you're so jumbled in your own brain and really taking the time to unravel all of that and to find your feet again and to figure out, you know,

and then, you know, a lot of times when you're in the wrong relationship, it can be a blessing blocker and to kind of move that energy out of the way and really just kind of work on being your best self and not needing to fill a void. Um, and then you start to see all of the things that come into your life that serve you and that, um, and so, you know, at the time I didn't realize that I was even in a bad situation at one point, and then you got to see me go through a situation where, you know, it was the war. I mean, that was the worst time of my life. And so it was definitely, I couldn't have even imagined where I would be a year later and just like kind of where my life is now and and now what I will accept for myself and just the standards that I have it's just

if anybody is in that space now I would just I love connecting with women on that issue where it's like you know this you know everything really does happen for a reason I really believe that and I also think you know if you're putting that time and space into healing yourself which is really important, then you're going to, there's no doubt you will end up coming out better, you know, because you, of course you will, you know, it's, it's one of those things where you have to get your mind into a place where you accept more for yourself. And a lot of times as women, we were in such a pleasing position and making something work that wasn't serving you for yourself that by the time you get out of that, you're now aware of what you need for yourself.

And it's not about just like pleasing someone else. And it's about finding what compliments you and making you happy and not filling a void or, you know, fixing somebody or, you know, that kind of a thing. I love that you said a blessing blocker. I literally, I'm literally sitting here being like, don't forget to say blessing walker. This is a game changing phrase and probably the title of your next book. talk. But this is amazing because you have what you think you want and you don't realize it's suffocating you in some way. And it can be, you're at the bad job. You're in a bad relationship. You

have family shit going on, like your health shit's going on. Like it's blocking the blessings that when you open yourself up and get rid of that, that thing gets pushed out of the way, then it all falls into place and you're like the testament of that. Yeah. Something that I really love seeing you do is if something comes out in the tabloids or some Instagram bullshit or a rumor about you comes out, that's not accurate. You take to your own personal media, personal social media to just say, Hey, here's the truth. And I think it's so amazing to be able to control the narrative the way you do. And it doesn't come across as catty or petty, you know, cause sometimes people do that and you're like, Oh, this doesn't feel genuine. It feels like you're kind of trying to like

contrive or manipulate something. But for you, it's like, no, I just laugh at the tabloids every time they do a story on you because you're like the first person to fact check it. And it's just so good. Well, thank you. I think it happened because, you know, I think I am such a weird mix of somebody that's like uh you know had a taste of the industry but now I'm in you know reality television so it's like such a an interesting mix where um you know it could have been gone either way but at least for what worked for me I was like you know this isn't okay you can't just like make this stuff up or use sources say and and so I just love that I'm able to use my own channel in that way because there are there I think I went through a phase

where I didn't do that and it felt very suffocating and it felt like people think this and that's not true and you know and I unfortunately have that personality I know Kelty and I are kind of the same with you know I wish I didn't care what people thought I think we talked about this once before together and it's like I I really admire those people that truly can be you know more like Jack or whatever where it's like I don't know like you guys I feel like you guys are just I look up and admire the people that I feel like truly can just be like, I don't give a shit. I am adopting it as much as I can. But that being said, that's what, that's what it came down to where it was like, you know what? I don't care what happens. I'm going to say it. And it just got to that point.

And then over time, it's like, it's kind of worked for me. So it's nice. I feel like it kind of goes back to you. Like when you're talking about how you've kind of been in this world for a while and you've grown such a sense of self. So there's so much knowing who you are at your core. So you can, you know, go on Instagram and be like, here's the facts. And this is how I am without it feeling like you're trying to prove something or you're trying to like spin a narrative a certain way. It's kind of just like, it is what it is. And I'm confident in saying that because I have a sense of self-worth and I know who I am. So that's how it comes across, I think, to people watching it. Can we also agree and just tell everybody who reads, uh, tabloids that you, a source is

a publicist who works for the person or it's like the person sometimes it's the person it's camp it's the camp of the person it's not like a fucking housekeeper okay it's the fucking person or their publicist i know because then it would be like how come there's so many of these like horrible backstabbing bad friends out there it's like no it's the person there are some bad friends out there too i will say there's some real shitty friends but i wanted to oh sorry go ahead well i'm just gonna say sometimes they try and bully you into making a comment because they're like we're gonna run this story do you want to respond and so that's what happened is like i'm not gonna respond i'm gonna wait and see what they run and then i'll be able to go on my own channel and say

what the truth is because you don't know if they're telling the truth or not like do they really have that story are they just trying to bait you into saying something right you're smart girl i know blessing he's no dummy well the last thing i wanted to ask uh before we move on to ask the lady gang is i thought this was a really interesting sort of parallel between you and becca so when we first started the podcast becca obviously was acting full-time and it was like kind of a side like an odd choice i think everyone you will say becca like everyone in your life and all of your peers in the acting world were like a podcast really like and now becca has a brand new which we're so excited about disney plus series coming out so it's like it has and now

all the people that I worked with have podcasts. Right. And then Chris shell, a very interesting thing for you. Like, of course you have been acting, you've been on so many shows. You were beloved in that community of actresses. And then you went and did reality. And I think a lot of people are like, really a reality. She thinks it's going to help her acting career. And then by the way, yeah. So I think there's a parallel of you both taking like major, major risks and it turning out to actually really help your career in a way that you couldn't have expected. And I think it goes to what you just said about knowing who you are, because if you were going to take that criticism personally, you know, I wouldn't have been able to make that choice. If I

let those, you know, naysayers kind of get in my head, even when I went to get my real estate license, I got a lot of shit for that from other actors, like thinking that meant I gave up or something. And, you know, and then, and then again, with the jump to reality. So I feel like it's like if you really know who you are and if you're not paying my bills you know you can kind of you know make those decisions and be happy with um you know again like if you're the one paying your bills then I don't really care what other people are saying you know I do like you were saying I do care when it comes to like when your character gets misconstrued that's when I feel the need to go on my own channel and clear something up but as far as like how you know what

outlet i'm gonna use to you know keep the lights on and and live my best life please do not tell me which way to do it if you're not the one writing the check so that's like rupaul's mom she's gonna pay those bees if what is it if they ain't paying your bills pay those bees no mind that's right it's so true amen but you could have never imagined like when you were even shooting the first season of selling sunset like you couldn't imagine like there's so many reality shows that go out into the world like you just happen to be on the juggernaut of and didn't it not get like massive until the second season yeah it was yeah I think of the first season you know it was like I think it did well for what they thought but it certainly certainly wasn't

anything like uh what it ended up turning into kind of like water cooler talk um so yeah I think it was just one of those things in my head I was like okay well realtors pay for advertising to build their business. They, they buy those, you know, benches and stuff like that. So I was thinking like, this is, it could be a good opportunity to just get free advertising to build a business. That's like, okay, acting can't, you know, sustain me for my whole life. What's a good backup, you know, thing. So I was just thinking business-wise like, okay, this could be good, you know, where I don't have to pay, you know, to get in advertising of my business. So it ended up just kind of rolling. It's the, and then of course what it turned into

was crazy. So crazy. Well, it's super nuts because I remember during COVID, Krisha, I'm sure that you don't even have time other than like a few select listings, even have time in your life to like be doing real estate full-time anymore. But she was doing it up until like three days before Dancing with the Stars, because I remember that I went and saw you listed a house on your Instagram and I was like, wait, I love this house. I was like, is this real? Could I come see? And you're like, sure, I'm doing an open house. And I was like, okay. So we're like rolled out. And then all these rumors were going around that Chris shell was doing dancing with the star. So she's like showing me where the lady gang office, she'd be like, this would be the office. And I was like,

Hey girl, you do know from the start. Like we couldn't tell anyone. It was like four days before it was announced, but it was like, you're still doing the hustle. Like, that's what I love about you. And you're like, we are going to sell this house today. I will never stop hustling. You guys, even when we're not filming stuff, like I'll have people that want to do real estate, but they don't want to film. I'm not going to give up that listing. I'm still going to do it. So I, you know, I'm, I just, like, I'm always like hustling. Can I ask one more question? Just one more.

Sorry. Um, I was so excited that you were talking about freezing your eggs during dancing with the stars. How was that experience? Yeah, it was crazy. Cause I was actually completely in it when they, you know, asked me to do the show and I didn't want to stop in the middle of a round. Um, so it wasn't ideal timing.

I remember having to put on really tight gold sequins and it just felt like I had a basketball under my skin at the time. Um, so I like to blame my shitty tango on, uh, all the shots on bloating, but I don't think it can take all the credit for that. I think the, the feet we were talking about was a lot of the problem too, but, uh, but I actually am so happy that I did that. It feels like there's a weight, you know, off of my shoulders a little bit. Um, because you know, my career is the best it's ever been, but obviously, you know, I only have so much time with that. And so I just don't want that stress, you know, cause otherwise I'm, I'm really happy. And of course I would love if that works out. Um, so I just like that. I have some eggs in the

freezer and, uh, you know, hopefully they'll work if I need them one day. They will, they will medicine is getting very, very good. So we're happy for you. No, it's awesome. And it's awesome that you shared that too, because I think people feel just like embarrassed or it's like this, like, Oh, we don't want to talk about it. And you were like, I'm going to tango and also I need to give myself a shot. Well, I think it's because of the pressure we put on ourselves as women. It's like, does that mean I failed at something? Does that mean, you know, it's same thing you mentioned before, like a divorce, it feels like a personal failure, um, you know, in with the children you know and eggs and it's just like we have to I think talking about it I

love that something that's come from you know the pandemic it's just like a little more transparency where you end up bonding with people you don't feel like you have to go through stuff alone and it's actually just way more refreshing to just kind of be like yeah this is you know I'm not this person that's like oh I have it all I'll be the first person to say I'm trying to figure it out. And because I don't have it all, I'm trying to do everything I can, um, you know, to, to help me out, you know, that gets to happen one day. Yay. All right. Chris, how's going to fix your life when we come back? So I was at the lake with a bunch of my girlfriends this past week, and they saw me working out outside my bedroom and they were all very jealous that I was able

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remember, your first wax is free. Don't miss out on this. They are seriously the best waxers in the biz. Okay, we're back. So for this part of our podcast, you've done it before, Ask the Lady Gang, where we answer our listeners' questions about love and life and everything in between. So we want our ladies to write in questions, askladying at gmail.com. We're going to do our first question. Yeah. Submit your questions. So our first question doesn't have an alias. So anonymous says I'm 26 and just got out of a four-year relationship. I started seeing this guy. And the first time we met, we made out in his car, like teenagers. I love it for three hours. He was talking dirty to me the whole time. And he told me how he has a high sex drive and how

he would have sex twice a day. If he could, is that normal? Do I keep seeing him and enjoy the sex that I do? Or do I run the other direction as fast as I can? I thought about when Becca dated that sex addict and I wanted to ask if she regretted it. Help. No regrets. No regrets. I mean, how many times a day, several, but like we were in our twenties, I feel like people in their twenties, they, no matter who they are, they're having lots of sex like that, but he may not be your forever person and you're 26. So like, you don't need to have, you don't need your forever person. I think have a good time, have fun. And you're going to know if it gets to be too much. And if it does, then it's like, this was an amazing ride pun intended and goodbye.

Yeah. I mean, if the sex is good and you're having a good time, you might as well do it. until you don't feel like having sex anymore and then after a four-year-long relationship you should have enjoy all the sex don't don't think too much about it just do do you do you remember when you were young and used to make out a car for like hours you never got none of the clothes it's not just about being young it's just about being single right right right right i was having this look i was having this conversation about pda and about how it's pda is never nobody ever wants to see any PDA. I never want to see a makeout unless it's with a stranger. Like if one of my friends starts making out with a stranger, I'm like, yes, now the vibe has been raised and

it's a great night, but do not make out with your boyfriend. Oh, you know, Chrishell, do you have thoughts? Sorry. No, I guess I get the point. That would be a little more exciting, you know, but I, I mean, it doesn't ever bother me if people make out in front of me, I'm like, Oh, go get your, you know, get it on. I don't know. But you're also, so you also a former soap star. So like people making out was like a daily occurrence for you. So you're probably like a little bit numb to it. Yeah, maybe. I think it's just a Tuesday. It's fine. Tuesday at 11am. Our second question comes from introverted loner. She says, I'm having a hard time making my own friends. I have about two good friends and a handful of acquaintances,

but I feel like I'm missing out on real long lasting friendships. I'm 23 and work in a corporate environment where I'm the youngest employee by 15 years. My boyfriend is also the opposite of me. He makes friends with anybody and people flock to him in a social setting. And he has so many meaningful friendships. I think his popularity puts pressure on me. So what are some ways to make new friends without seeming desperate? What's your at? Let's just all go friend her right now. she listed herself as introverted introverted loner that's all we know i'll say that i was um recently dming with an author that i like and i just we just started chatting because i posted

her book and then we started chatting and then we moved it to text and then i said i've just gotten in the like uh thing of just looking at it like an adult another adult woman and i say can we be friends in real life that's actually cute and then she's like yeah i'll be friends with you real life and then when I was at Miss Universe I was with this woman Tatiana and like I we just really got along and after the week was over I just turned around the last day I was like can we be friends in real life will you come see me in LA and she's like sure and so we exchanged phone numbers and now we're friends so maybe use my line it's cute I feel like that's gonna be a hard one though for an introvert because that's such an extroverted thing to say it's very cute

and it's very Kelty but I feel like maybe if you were giving an introvert that idea maybe if she would say something like, um, you know, uh, Oh, I'm going to have, maybe if she has drinks with her boyfriend, you're like, Oh, I'm going to have some people over. If you want to come, you know, something a little more casual, something where you're inviting someone to, to enter into your world a little bit. I don't know. That's nice. That's a good idea. And it helps that she's in a relationship and he's super friendly. So you can kind of just invite her along on social stuff and use your social boyfriend and all his friends as buffers for non-awkward female friendship. I also think if you have two or three good friends, then that's more than a lot of people

do. And that's honestly all you need. I know it's like really hard to look on social media or like if you're looking on whatever and people look like they have a million friends, but if you have like a couple of people that you can rely on and really trust with your life, then you literally don't need any more than that. It's just filler. I have a question about selling Sunset. So clearly everybody's not like the best of friends all the time. And there's people who you're closer with. And I was watching Housewives last night and I was wondering like, cause you know, at a certain point in your life as a woman, you're like cut the, cut the fat and the toxicity needs to just be eliminated, but you're not able

to eliminate the toxicity because you are, it's your job to be dealing in it. So like, how do you manage to engage in all that and keep your kind of your sanity? I think I've kind of gone through different tactics at one point, you know, it really was like cut the toxicity. And I just, I was like, I won't, you know, I'm not working with them anymore. Figure it out. Like, this is crazy. This has gone to another level. And then, you know, where to the point where it it hurts the show and it hurts like the actual so at this point I'm I'm trying to get to where I'm I see the bigger picture and the good of you know and obviously you hope everyone can get to that point where it's like you know it can be very understood you

don't get along with someone at work or something like that but if you can both understand the greater good of just being able to come to work without the drama and the anxiety because I hate the anxiety that comes along with having to walk into a space where there's that kind of a hatred or, you know, negativity. So I think it's just, you know, unfortunately, like, yeah, in real life, I would just never see that person again. I would cut them out and be so, so easy. I don't deal with people, um, that I don't, you know, that I can't get along with and normally could get along with anyone. Um, this has given me as a special, uh, obstacle, uh, unlike anything I'd ever dealt with before and so i think because of the show um it doesn't unfortunately just doesn't work as well

if you don't have to address it at times and if you don't have to kind of hit it head on so i think it's actually harkening back to what you guys said before know who you are in those moments don't you know you you kind of just have to stand in the uncomfortability and know you know what you stand for what you want and you know at the end of the day if you end up saying or doing something that's not exactly the best, it's like, you're still human. And so hopefully when people watch a reality show, they understand that, you know, you're doing the best you can when you watch it. Yeah. You probably the first person to be like, okay, I could have done that better. It wasn't my best, but if we don't have those moments, it's not going to be interesting in the first place.

Yeah, it's true. Okay. Our last question comes from off limits or who cares? She says, i've known this guy from the bar for years when we first met he had a very serious girlfriend and he and i were just friendly even though a friend said quote you two are going to get married there's so much chemistry and sexual tension now months later he is apparently in an open relationship last weekend he and i got into a very suggestive conversation and the night ended in a casual lap dance from him to me a casual lap dance okay this took a turn from him so he did a casual lap dance on her do i continue to flirt for fun or do i fully friend zone him love a casual lap i have so many thoughts on this and it has nothing to do with a casual lap dance i do not believe

first of all i'm wrong coming from someone scorned by someone going around and telling everyone we were in an open relationship when i was in that relationship and no one told me we were in an open relationship i never believe a flirty man when he says i'm in an open relationship i think that's something that people say when they're in a public relationship and you know that they're taken but they want to have sex with you and book closed i'm sure they exist i'm sure people unless you've talked to both people unless you've talked to both people and they're in an open open relationship where it's a known thing not like you went to dinner yes the three of you went to dinner and they said we're in an open relationship that's awkward they don't have to

go to general they're not looking they're not looking for yeah it's not that like formal you should write her write the girlfriend and be like hey um jake told me you're in an open relationship and i just want to make sure that's true no but if she doesn't know the girlfriend i don't really sound like she's oh see i thought open relationship meant like they wanted to do a threesome because i was about to say it sounds like she's about to get to know her but that just means he can sleep with whoever he wants and she gets everyone's yeah okay okay this is not the guy for you run is my advice he's not the one but like i mean she could have fun if like they are don't catch the feels yeah and also a guy that's willing to be in an open relationship

not that there's any judgment but it means that you also if you end up with this guy probably have to be open to an open relationship so if you don't think you're capable of doing that you know that's maybe think about it well that kind of casual lap dance okay chris shell has to go she has many jobs um you can follow her you already are like two million people, um, at Chrishell's Dallas. And then you also, um, I Googled like seven pages of Google and couldn't find out exactly the date. The new season of selling sunset is coming, but you guys haven't announced a date yet, right? Yeah. They don't announce a date cause we're actually filming it right now. And then they have to take it, lock it in, translate it to a million different

languages. So as soon as they give us a date, I'll, I'll let you guys know, but we don't have one yet, but it will be coming out this fall. Have you watched any of the other versions? Like, have you watched Spanish Chrishell and French Chrishell on, on Instagram, people will at me in stories. And so I love watching them because it's the first time I'll hear, you know, the different languages. It's very funny what they pick for your voice. Sometimes it's really good.

Listen, we're so happy and thankful that you made time for us. Um, and you guys haven't forgotten about us. It was just so sweet when we reached out, you were like, I absolutely want to do it. So thank you so much and congrats on everything. You really deserve it. And we are, you know, big, big fans. We're stoked for everything going on with your life and no one deserves it more truly. I feel the same way about you guys.

I loved watching the show and you guys, like from when I first did your show till now, it's just, I feel like we've both done so many things. So I love you girls. Anytime you let me know. We had blessing blockers and now we're free. We're free. We're free. We will.

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