LadyGang - Dorit Kemsley

Episode Date: May 29, 2018

The Realest Housewife of Beverly Hills and business lady extraordinaire Dorit Kemsley joins the Ladies to answer the hardest-hitting Housewives questions including Kyle's sneaky drama and Lisa's extensions. Follow the podcast on Instagram @theladygang and you can email Jac, Becca and Keltie at Hello [e-mail]!  And thank you to today's sponsors: Amazon – Go to amazon.com/shop/ladygang to find their favorite products while keeping the podcast FREE!  Fabletics = Get a free trial membership when you text LADYGANG to 303030  FrameBridge = Get 15% off your first order when you go to Framebridge.com with promo code ladygang  MedMen = Visit MedMen today and mention the LadyGang for $10 off your order (limit 1 per customer)    Omaha Steaks = Go to to OmahaSteaks.com, type LADYGANG in the search bar to get alimited-time offer for Father’s Day for only $49.99  ZipRecruiter = Go to ziprecruiter.com/gang to post jobs for free  See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Hey guys, it's your Lady Gang, Jack Vanek, Kelty Knight, and Becca Tobin. Thank you so much for subscribing on iTunes, and thanks for supporting the great sponsors who make it possible for us to have this much fun with you every single week for free. Well, what is this? Welcome to the Lady Gang. That's amazing. Say that again. The Lady Gang.

Things are about to change around here. Each week, we catch up with Hollywood's hottest girl posse, Kelty Knight, Becca Tobin, and Jack Vanek. Hello, hello, hello, and welcome to the Lady Gang. I am Becca Tobin here with Kelty Knight and Jack Vanek. No! I know we're like a broken record, but we're trying really hard. We really mean it, trying to cut out like.

It's hard. Did you have to think about it just now? Yes, I know. But see, here's the thing. It's going to be on our minds, and we're going to do really well for a while, and then we're going to forget, and it's going to come right back. We've got to do like, see? We've got to do the 21-day habit breaker.

If you do anything. Rehab for likes. Should we just slap each other on the hands when it happens? You know what it is? It's this. It's our generation. Yeah. Because I thought it was California, but my friends in Atlanta say it just as much as

we do. I didn't even realize I was saying it so much. And when I listen to the podcast, I want to jump off a bridge. I know. Just imagine how much. I'm really sorry, you guys. Yeah. But everybody says it in real life.

You're just not listening to yourself like we are. But when you're listening to a podcast, I do notice. Yeah. It's annoying. Anyway. Fudge. Okay. I don't notice.

We're going to try. All right. so now it's time for with no light good week yes it is bad week oh no let's go first i'll go okay surprise surprise jock going first so i went to coachella i know you guys are probably gonna make fun of me for it because you both actually you don't hate it that much you were i love coachella i was gonna go and then i had to have this work done on my house and just go and becca hates it even though she went last year i go for work i get paid to go i do too it's just not as much it's like a sad sad amount okay so anyways i was at coachella i'm at the bar wait is this a

good week or a bad week this is a good week okay i'm at the bar i'm like going to order a drink i see this super hot super tall guy and i was like i go to afton i'm like oh god that guy's so hot a lot of likes right now shit i know was that yeah okay i go to afton and i said this guy is super effing hot and then literally two minutes later he starts coming up and talking to me and afton was like how the hell did you how did you do this this is like the best thing that's ever happened imagine i conned it so as i'm talking to him we're like chatting whatever and out of know where this girl comes up no and she goes to the guy in the face no no she goes to the guy she's like do you know who this girl is she is a celebrity and i was like yes excuse me then goes

on i swear this girl must have been my biggest fan i've ever had she knows everything about my entire business she goes to him she's like there you have to say like you can say like when you're you're doing great you're doing great it's hard though i know because then it's still a word that you say i know so anyways she was like you know talking to him about my business talking to him about the podcast and she was like she's not just like an influencer she's a business woman and blah blah blah i feel like i should have paid her to show up at the perfect moment where this guy thought i was the coolest person that has ever existed in life what happened with him yeah we exchanged numbers and we've been talking he's cute cute super tall um super tall did i also start in

but did you also meet salt bay no did you think it was though no fake salt bay so no it was a friend of ours that we had met and he dressed up as salt bay for halloween and everybody thought it was actually him so he was like now i'm gonna dress up in a normal area and see how many people think it's me people are getting his autograph like it was insane wait i thought it was the real salt bay and i was like fooled you yeah wow yeah he looked a lot like him and he was saying had the right like little and when the sun went down like everybody sorry i said like everybody thought it was him like he was an actual celebrity wow it was pretty crazy okay so salt back um my bad week is so fry sent me a pair of like the coolest sorry the coolest military boots ever

to wear for coachella and a friend of mine said that fry boots usually run small so i ordered a smaller size they come in the mail they're kind of tight i was gonna wear them anyways yeah idiot don't do that put them on it you know how big that polo feel that coachella is oh yes i walked a good 20 000 steps which is about 10 miles every day so i put the shoes on within an hour i have the worst blisters of my life actual wounds on the back of my heels and to make matters worse somehow the way that my feet fit in these tiny shoes excuse me somehow the feet the way my feet fit in these tiny shoes every step that i took it sounded like a fart so i had to like i had to with anybody that i was with be like i'm not farting i swear to god and it was so loud

that it was like going over the music it was going over conversation and it was just so bad here's my beef with coachella what exactly what you just explained what these girls are and i'm sorry you're going to be lumped in right now that's fine you but you you in particular love to dress in costume and you're thematic in your life so i get that and i appreciate that about you that's true and here's the little but i'm gonna and you dress like this no matter where you are you're somebody who dresses like this to the bungalow on a saturday right this is your real style but we also wore costumes at your wedding yes we love a costume well no here's the thing my the things that i wore this year were just normal outfits i didn't dress like a

goon no you didn't dress like a goon there but what i was noticing i love that you think that's a normal outfit you were like a lingerie like robe a crop top with like metal holding it together and then a skirt that two slits two thigh slits up to your pelvic bone and she couldn't wear underwear yes i could everybody is so they don't understand that you just pull your underwear up okay well whatever anyways here's my beef i was going through instagram big mistake and i'm just girls dressed like fools what i don't understand why you're wearing a crocheted underwear with a fuzzy jacket and a weird heel and i i just i cannot i cannot justify the purpose for that And I'm such an old lady and everybody's going to say I'm a hater because I just, I love hating on things.

Well, the purpose is fun, Becca. But also it's turned into this weird thing where now people are dressing up as like EDM costumes and like super, like, I don't know. It's different. I guess you're right. It's a free pass to wear whatever you really want to wear. But it's also a fashion show for all these influencer blogger girls. And it's, I don't, I just. Coachella has changed a lot.

It's 100 degrees. You're walking 10 miles. why are you wearing that fuzzy jacket it's hot okay but it gets cold i love it anyway i don't i loved i loved it back in the day way more yeah i just love an event i don't care what it is whether it's a sports game or i'm skiing or i love them all the same so it's just another event it's true okay um i have such a good good week tell me oh my gosh so i've been so disappointed by the fakery of hollywood and it's really starting to irk me you guys know i like to follow the rules but it's in the last six months it is rampant like the rampant the fake followers there's someone i

know that's in the same business as me that has gone from like 2 000 followers to 40 000 followers in six weeks shut up yes like you're not fooling anyone by the way they are fooling a lot of people They are fooling most people. That's the problem. So it really drives me crazy because I'm a stickler for what's right. We don't lie about our downloads. I don't lie about my Instagram. I wish I could buy 25 more thousand to get over that 100,000 hump because I'd be way cooler.

I just lost out on $6,000 on a job because they picked the girl that had a higher social media following, which probably is fake. It's just so annoying. It urgitates me, urgitates me, or whatever that word is. You love a hybrid word. It urgitates me. So anyway, I was talking to our friend Dunham today, and he helps us with Lady Gang stuff sometimes. And he was asking me for a couple of our stats for our listenership and who's watching.

And I went on to our little reporting dashboard and I was pulling the numbers and I said, you know, our reporting dashboard has only been around for so long and I wish it went back to the very beginning because then we would probably have a higher number or whatever, even though the number was really impressive. and i said should we like guesstimate and like say oh it would be this for all over these two and a half years and he goes he said this why lie when the truth is so impressive love it i loved that so much because there's so many people in addition there was someone who tested once on a show i was at and then from then on have been like i was a host on the insider and

i'm like girl you host it for two days like you want to host the insider and that stuff bothers because I got up every morning to, like, do the show, you know? Yeah. So why lie when the truth is so impressive? Just be your honest, impressive selves. Well, when everybody else gets sued for fraud from all the money that they've stolen for companies. It's true.

There's a way to audit it now. I know a website. I don't think I should say it because I don't know how legitimate it is, but they're coming up. They are coming up. Yeah, they're coming up with. There's an actual Instagram audit where you can plug someone's username in and it tells you how many of their followers are real.

But the problem is that the higher-ups at these companies, they don't understand that yet. So I'm just really glad that we are legit and, like, everything we do is legit. And it's pretty cool. It's true. Anyway, why lie when the truth is so impressive? I love that. Love it. Okay, bad week.

So I'm on a work trip to San Francisco, and I have to take an Uber from my shoot to the airport. And I had one hour to kill, and I thought, well, I could go to the airport early or I could, like, text Matt Nathanson, my favorite singer who lives in san francisco and ask him if you like hey can you meet me for tea i have an hour you know play me some of the new record he's married he's a baby okay anyway so he was like yeah i happen to have shingles and so he did he's like so i'm actually in town like kind of sick um but come meet me at this coffee shop and i'll play you some of my new record because you know the musicians never want to send it to you they just want to play it on their phone so i was so excited so i met him but then of course we got chatting and i'm running late so i called

the uber to get to the um airport and the people pick me up it's very disconcerting because it's a man in a full three-piece suit and a woman in like a going out dress she's fancy your uber is they're on a date so it's a man and a woman they're on an uber date wait they're they're together the driver that was driving that's his date isn't a three-piece suit no it's his wife but they're uber they're like getting driving yes no listen and we continue so so we're driving we're driving and i'm thinking i'm following him and he gets up this crest of the street and he goes oh which way you think we should go here and i'm like in my head i'm like i'm freaking i don't live here and he's like well i guess i'll go straight and we go straight it's looking oh

well this is just a back road like he probably doesn't know where we are and then we keep trying to get on the highway and he keeps going the wrong way and i can see the uber resetting itself like we're not going the right way and then they get to chatting with me they are on a date they wanted to see san francisco they've driven up the coast they've never been to san francisco before people doing this and they're paying for their trip by driving uber during the day and then they go out at night that's how they pay for their trip and they wanted to just see san francisco so they're just looking and so they we were on the highway taking the wrong turns they're like oh look at i wonder what i wonder who lives there look at that house that's so pretty on the outside like

they were on the star tours i was like i need to get to the airport they're just like redirecting while you're in the car yes and you're just paying for all this extra time i think that there's a rule that you can't have another passenger i was trying to be so nice and then so sketchy the third time we didn't get on the highway i said listen i am running a little behind and i have a flight to catch in 35 minutes so we kind of need to like get going where we need to go and i i was still nice but anyway i didn't even dock them stars i just felt like it was so sweet and i thought you're in a three-piece you're driving an uber yeah if you're an asshole you can get less stars but if you're if you missed your flight right then you'd give it it does bother

me that i don't have a perfect five stores on uber i don't think anybody does either i don't know how to mine doesn't have anything on it i'm like the only person i can't check it that's probably that low anyway that was a very long conversation becca okay i'll keep this short and sweet my good week is our guest because you guys have been talking about the bachelor and we've had all those basic bitches on here and i've smiled right through those interviews and i've been like oh you're riveting you're boring guess what it's housewives bitches and it's one of my favorites dorit it's time to shine okay i'm so excited okay that was my good week my bad week is this you guys can't see this because this is a podcast do you see this bruise on my arm

no um oh yeah yeah okay so i was walking down the stairs in my house with a giant box a cardboard box to take out to recycling and i was in socks and we have hardwood stairs i am not joking when i tell you i took a fall that was so bad that mid-fall i thought i'm either going to die or be paralyzed after this i swear to god it was slow motion there was no way for me to fix it there was nothing i could do i fall backwards holding the box and i literally slam my back into the stairs and slide all the way down no i swear to god are you bruised on your back yeah my back is bruised my arm is bruised i've been smoking so much weed because i just need to get Get rid of the pain.

But it was really scary. I am going to say, you have quite a lacquered stare. It's slick. I think you need some peats. I need, well, I need a runner. Like a, you know, and Zach's like, why do you need a runner? Are your stares narrow, too, because they're older? They're a little narrow.

Yeah, they're narrow. Yeah. Slippery. Slippery. Well, I'm glad Dorit could help your week. Listen. Got to bring it back up. She's here.

I'm glad you powered through to be here today. Yeah. My little accident-prone one. Yes. You're listening to The Lady Gang. Our guest today puts the real in the real housewives of Beverly Hills. Becca's literally about to jizz her pants. Oh, my God.

One of the stars of the reality show openly shares her love of glitz and glamour, but believes in making all women, especially moms, feel their most fabulous at all times with her iconic swimsuit line, Beverly Beach. She's also here today because Becca said if we have one more person from The Bachelor and not someone from a show she loves like housewives she would leave the lady gang forever please welcome to the lady gang dorit kemsley hello you know you were such an icon obviously yes but well no actually i didn't but becca you have made my day i'm like the biggest fan i'm also one of your biggest fans because i'm

very opinionated on the housewives oh they're very polarizing i mean for a reason yes yes but I mean, can I ask questions or do you want to ask your questions? I have eight million questions for you. I think you need to take that. I need to. You want to start with Becca? Yeah, you need my personal one-on-one right now. Yeah.

Okay. Forget we're even here, Becca. Forget I spent hours making this rundown. No, we can do that. Okay. I'm upset because you've been called the pot stirrer this season. But I just feel like you just, are you the type of person that likes to just get everything out in the open and you are uncomfortable when unsaid things are in the room?

Completely. Okay. Because you can get that from me. Oh, you do get that. you don't get that i get that from you and i feel like i knew that that was the type of person you were and it wasn't like to trouble make no becca you get me i get you it's because you are the same i love it i'm the same it haunts me i don't like it particularly in a big group of women you know we're six seven women at any time and things happen and after going through my first

season it was like oh my goodness i just think best to get things out let's just talk through it and let's move past it yeah so we can go on to the next silly thing to talk about right to go on to the next fight exactly go ahead also i've been a big crusader in your accent so a friend of mine married a brit and lived in london for a while and she came back with not an accent it's just like a dialect it's like the cadence of the way that you say stuff but also i have a friend who's friends with carlene your makeup artist oh i love carlene and when i said you're coming i was like here's what we're going to talk about and she's like the reason she has an accent is because you speak like 75 languages too i do how many languages you speak i speak four

fluently that's insane which languages hebrew spanish italian and english do you think that's why you have like a i think you know of course i don't think i sound british at all my husband doesn't think i sound british um but i've always spoke with a cadence and an inflection really it's sort of gotten stronger and more powerful. I lived in Europe. Obviously when you speak different languages and you're around, my parents are not American. My husband's not American. A lot of our friends aren't. So I'm sure that there's that influence, but I don't, you know, I don't hear it like other people do. And I think once you get to know me, you kind of just realize I tend to enunciate, over enunciate. And well, there goes my accent story. Was that so annoying?

I feel like that would have been annoying. You know, it was in the beginning. It was very much in the beginning, particularly when people thought that I put it on. Or you're, like, pretending to be British or something. You know, like, you're Madonna. Exactly. That I was trying to put on the way I spoke. And I kept asking, like, for what reason?

Why would I want to be doing that? Don't you think that would give someone a headache to try and be that person at all times? Yeah. So I think that was annoying. But other than that, no. I mean, you realize that once you lose your privacy and you become a public figure, there's a lot of things that come with it girl what were you the most what were you the most surprised about when you joined the show oh my goodness um i think well goodness i mean becoming a public

figure or just filming maybe just filming maybe just being part of that that crazy machine that it is and oh god the franchise i would say you know i never thought that i would ever do it i never had aspirations to do it so I didn't really know or expect anything going into it um it's a little bit still a little bit crazy when you're walking down the street or I'm somewhere and people you know right scream your name and they want to take your picture and I think it's the sweetest thing ever I kind of melt every single time particularly when it's young girls and they come up to me teenage girls much like my stepdaughters and and you know they say what an inspiration and they you know love to watch the show and they adore it that that's just

it's everything it makes almost everything better yeah um but everything else i just kind of take it as it comes yeah my husband and i try and stay like a bit in our own world but yet you're exposed right yeah so uh one of the things that just recently happened that we love love love love was this people article where everyone went without makeup yes how stressful is that and And, like, did you Alicia Keys it where you, like, still had some powder on? No. Did you have a tinted lip balm, girl? No.

But you know what? I did lick my lips profusely before because I just thought, oh, my goodness. What it feels like, no makeup, taking a picture, knowing it's going to be everywhere. But at the end of the day, that's all of us. It's all of us women. And it's fantastic. I love to put on my face. And I love to have my hair done.

And I love to be glamorous. But we're all not at some point in our lives. and we share that and there's no reason for me not to be able to promote that and be able to take a picture and show this is really me beneath all those layers of foundation so i love that did you ever not have it together like post baby or um sure oh my goodness i mean there were times nine months into the pregnancy and then you know right after pregnancy going in that you're just not yourself yeah um but i am one of those people that doesn't really take the time to rest and relax I jump right back into things so I I sort of I keep trudging forward always

that's just my my motto so you kind of almost look back and say wow you know I was a few pounds overweight after I just gave birth but you know it just starts to drop off of you I want to ask about the swimsuit line because I already have been on the website and picked out what I would life there is like the cutest one piece that has like the it's like the beverly hills sign yes it has the patch the beverly beach patch yes i know it's so cute it's so cute and it's so good for beach to lunch throw on your jean shorts throw on your skirt and you go right to lunch it's it's like having a bodysuit on and so was that pre or post did you have it before the line before the show i owned my own swimwear line i had my own swimwear range resort wear accessories for a

number of years i sold all over the world and this was before i met my husband yeah and then i put my career on a hiatus and i closed the doors to my own company yeah to start a family yeah and here we are five years later and so i've done this many times before in many years but this just poured right out of yeah and the one really exciting bit is that it feels like there's so much more to come it was like i got a little taste i'm back yeah and now i am where i need to be doing what i love because one of the things about the housewives and becca like hold my hand don't be mad at me for this is that what it is a great opportunity to to mass market something to the world and i feel like there's only a handful of housewives that do it with like a little bit of

chicness and then there's a whole bunch of junk with people's names on it so i i feel like that must have been not difficult for you but it is hard to like put your hand and your name on something and then put it out and know that we're all judging it but it's great yeah of course that's scary yeah i mean that's scary to do without the world watching let alone when you've got millions of people you know with eyeballs on it but you know there's always there's going to be those that it appeals to um i'd love to think that i can create things for everybody always um and i'm certainly gonna try yeah and adding a bit of chic and glamour and authenticity to it is it's necessary for me has anyone worn lisa renna's duster that she gave as a gift i wear it all the

time i wear it all the time it's so soft i died when she handed it to erica because i was like she will never even look in that bag again i loved it yeah the phones were causing buzzing yeah they buzz um okay so mostly you haven't been here long but i feel like you get a sense of becca yeah she really wants to be a housewife like could you put her through the audition she needs to get on give her some tips she was married now um she's fancy she drives an alley really fancy today yeah she's usually more glamorous honestly i'm disappointed i'm sorry i had a lot of stuff going on and i don't even have children i have no excuse yeah but you know do you could you help her through the audition like send in your tape

you need a tagline wait how did they find you to come on the show did you audition for it or did somebody send they approached me and then of course i had to audition and um and i wasn't really sure i wanted to do it it's my husband that was encouraging me and he kept saying well just audition and if they choose you then we can decide i love that yeah that's my life like that Say yes to everything until you have to say no. And that's what he, and he sold me on that. And then, of course, by the time you go through the process and they have selected you, there's no way in hell I'm actually going to say no, am I? Right.

So here I am finding myself. But the answer is, Becca, a million percent you can be on Housewives. In fact, I want you to come on as my friend. Oh, my God. Any? Oh, hell yeah. You're one foot in. I don't know if I could do that.

I would be so anxious. It's not easy. It's nerve wracking, right? And also, like, I think. I think at this point, everybody with those stupid shows, like, not stupid shows, but the shows like Unreal, where you're kind of seeing behind the curtain. There's a lot of pressure that producers put on you guys to do certain things, right? And to perform, almost. It's, like, be interesting.

At the end of the day, you have to remember, it is a show. It is reality. And it's dialed up reality in a lot of sense. Because some of the things, we wouldn't ordinarily have conversations about conversations about conversations about. But, you know, it is a television show. and people don't want to be bored to tears. So when people cast you, do they put you with the other women

to see like what your dynamic is with them? Or do they just are like, this woman's great, we're going to throw her in. They decide, the powers that be decide, the puppeteers really. And they decide,

oh, this personality will fit in just well. I knew Lisa Vanderpump before I started. We had a great friendship. So I knew her going into the show, but I hadn't met any of the other women. And I met them for the first time with the cameras on. Whoa.

that's so crazy and how hard to go into that group of women as a new person because that's a tight one and it's a popular one yeah people are upset and it's yeah don't mess around with beverly hills well now it's not like you can kind of like go downhill and people will be okay with it yeah yeah no it is and you know they're there it is a group of very strong successful women that have opinions and they also had history i was a newcomer erica had done it um you know she was a year ahead of me so i kind of looked to her almost like for the empathy you know as the newbie but she wasn't prepared to offer any empathy at that point yeah it took a while all right so i have some housewife related questions for all of us a little fun game love it um okay

so if you could have a free unlimited service for your entire life would you rather have a good cook a chauffeur a housekeeper a masseuse or personal secretary you might have all she's like oh what three do i need to take away i'm just thinking how would i do without any of becca what would you want the cook like the chef good one the chef because i hate cooking jack i mean i can't cook so maybe a chef but i feel like i do a housekeeper i would love a chauffeur i hate to drive oh i hate that too i don't like to be on my phone texting my journey she's like she's like on the way she's like it's great it's so good you don't even know how good it is until what happens it is nice particularly when you're working but i do drive i do drive i mean i don't

have a you know a 24-hour chauffeur 12 hours just most of the time okay when was the last time you stole something why haven't you stolen something since is there anything you'd steal if you were certain you wouldn't get caught oh my god last thing i stole was my husband's heart for sure Oh, that's the best answer. Yeah, and that was the best thieving anyone could have ever done. I don't really remember ever stealing. I'm one of those that if I lie or steal or cheat, it's written all over me. Oh, that's how I am.

I break out in hives. Yep, that's exactly how I am. Like, I can't handle it. This is why, you know, you're always going to get honesty with me. It may come out like diarrhea at times, but at least it's going to be honest, and it comes from my heart. i literally break out into hives if i lie or if i'm doing something shady like that so i'm the exact same so the last time i think i ever stole something and i think i've talked about it on the podcast was in seventh grade i stole a ball to a belly button ring like the little ball to screw

it on but i bought the belly button ring and then my cousin that i was with got like arrested in quotes for shoplifting a thong from jc penny and she went into the like yeah the jc penny jail and i was like that i was i started screaming and running away because this cop came up to me the cop was for the belly button ball and i'm like my mom told me not to talk to strangers and like run away and i'm crying it was bad but that's what a story but why the ball i don't know because were you missing one no it was during that time that like i when we were younger like in seven it was like the removal somehow to butterfly with like a trickle down yeah but gemstones but everybody during that time just like everybody was shoplifting it was like the

cool thing to do when you're in junior high so i was like i'm gonna try it and then i tried it and my cousin immediately got mall arrested and i was like never gonna do it again oh you learned your lesson i did learn my lesson vicariously through your cousin yeah thank god it wasn't me i died i was gonna say that i can't remember stealing but then i just realized that sometimes when i get intoxicated at restaurants and they have fun things like miniature spoon like a cocaine spoon not for the purposes of cocaine i just i wanted i don't know why or cocaine yeah we were at it i don't know and i think i feel really like ballsy when i'm drunk so i'm like i like this i'm gonna take it there's sometimes i'm staying at a hotel and gotten room

and i'm like this ketchup is so cute i should take this home with me those are always the miniatures i know i think those are meant to be taken yeah they are they are they're too cute that was not really a very no no you know none of us i steal all the books for me t i'll probably get fired but you know press like we get a book for every celebrity biography and then like they're all missing and they're like does anyone have the schwarzenegger book and i'm like i don't know and it's like literate why do you want to steal that you got fired for stealing the arnold schwarzenegger book kelty was recently let go of her job for stealing one too many snooki biographies okay last one and then we'll go to ask the lady gang this is very good it's a yes or no question

okay if you could kill people by simply imagining their deaths and simply saying the word goodbye under your breath would you use that power assuming they would die a natural death and no one would suspect you oh my god this is like i was just thinking of some ghost wife like savage shit oh my god i'm not a chance wow i would love for you to ask that question to the other ladies because they would out of me they know where the bodies are buried who's the most ruthless of the housewives who would say yes to that question you know what there is okay i've seen an entirely different lisa rena this year i mean just yeah so lovely i cannot even tell you she's been so supportive yeah she has been but it's hard when she put those extensions in and tried

to grow out her iconic haircut i don't want i know i don't want her hair looking very chic in the in the interviews yeah she's like slicking it back i'm loving that i like it disrupt you but like don't grow your hair out lisa can you tell her for us yes for sure for sure and you know um we just filmed the reunion and i'm not going to give too much away but she plays around a little bit with a hairstyle there as well and the thing is the reason why she has the same haircut for 30 years it looks damn good on her and only her and she's that would never look good on anybody you got that haircut i would kick you out of the lady i would look like a potato with a wig on like no no but doesn't she say that harry loves her short hair too like so if your husband loves

it i guess you just do it absolutely no no so i mean i would probably have said her because she can be very scary when she comes out of left field and i i wouldn't say that there's anybody that would wish death on anyone in the group i sure hope not um but if no one knew if no one knew oh god i don't you know i think oh i think kyle likes to kind of stir things up from you know from the side she's a big big stir she's she's very sneaky she she's the real sniper from the side oh my god i said it oh my god i said it well this season you were able to see like Because you had the love triangle with her and Lisa Vanderpump. Yes.

It was really interesting to see because you saw like a little bit of an insecure, possessive side of Kyle. Yes. And, you know, the funny thing is in our love triangle, I've never felt that. And we spend a lot of time off camera together, the three of us. We have a barrel of laughs. I'm sure. I mean, I have got a great friendship with Kyle or so I sort of thought. And she feels the same.

But I saw some things in her this year that was that were surprising, you know, and this kind of way she thinks about the friendship between Lisa and I and a little bit of jealousy there. Yeah. So I would be jealous, honestly, because now that you're here and you have that snatched high pony, like I want to be your best friend. And she's a show pony with a high pony, honey. You look so good in real life, too. Like you are beautiful. Yeah, you're stunning. Thank you.

Okay, Becca, one last question. We have to do Ask Lady Games. Oh, please don't be the last question. i love you i could ask you eight million questions who's the richest oh i mean i guess you can never really know but what do you think i mean you guys seem like you're crushing it yeah we do you sell your body on the side like how come you're crushing it i know we you know my husband and i work really hard yeah we have a lot of businesses and we're both real you know operators and we work lisa Vanderpump um I think I don't even know who's the richest but maybe I would say

her but she's like yeah she's also making that Vanderpump rules money she's doing the better yet they're doing maybe you need a pen about like your swimsuit company for a reality show I know I love that idea Beverly Beach babes there to cast i want to absolutely my dream is to cast a reality show oh my dream i think it's so fun so much happens behind the scenes particularly you know in my world and it's a sexy world you know but glue yeah well yeah oh you know i don't know about butt glue the girls when they're in miss america don't you remember when we had miss america on and she told us they have to glue down their bikini with butt glue so it doesn't get a wedgie when they're modeling yeah right also

So does everyone have hair and makeup on those big trips? Like Germany, did everybody have hair and makeup? No. Most of the girls do their own hair and makeup. You usually get your makeup and hair done, right? I do. So you and Erica are the most high maintenance. Yes, for sure.

I think Erica and I would definitely throw our hands up. Listen, if I could afford it, I'd do it every damn day. And you guys look so freaking good. Yeah, thank you. It's true. Thank you. But no, the other girls also, they're masters at it. I mean, sometimes I look at Kyle and I'm like,

good you definitely had your makeup done she's like no i did this in the car so i mean i think if i had that talent also i wouldn't be getting it done but you know my um my glam girls also they're they're like friends yeah yeah so and we do a lot of things together so that time even together is spent well yeah all right when we come back we're gonna help you fix your lives and in our break know that i'm going to be asking to try on your giant diamond okay we'll be right back fun fun hey ladies funky ask the lady gang i have pretty much only been staring at it did you believe that i had nothing to do with choosing this nothing he did it all by himself all by himself that's some goals okay we're back no jack okay to help us um talk to her well

never mind jack's gonna tell you so we have our girls like writing questions and we give them like questionably good advice so you ready super i love it so our first question comes from jealous betch jealous betch says betch b-e-t-c-h that's how she's a bitch she says before my boyfriend and i met he just worked out a little bit by lifting and doing other manly guy stuff aka no cardio now he's super into running because of me and is better than me as in he is faster can run longer and is just better at running in general it pisses me off when he tells me he ran four miles in 25 minutes when i would really and i mean really struggle to go that quick but i've been training for longer i love my boyfriend so much he is so hot and i'm obsessed with him and

his bod but how do i get over being pissed when he does better at me than something that i got him started into that i'm the og at it makes me really crappy wow you know i don't have that competitive thing with pk i kind of thrive when he's doing well particularly if i put him on the right road to do something so i can't say that i understand i guess my best advice would be to just think about it that you know it's you got him there take credit for it in your own mind you know you should feel better about it and then you won't feel so jealous there's nothing more disgusting than that guy with a big beer belly hanging over his pants so i would just be thankful that he's running yeah and also men are just bigger and usually faster than women that's

biology so i mean a guy can go to the gym a few times and we get a six-pack where we have to work out for months and months and months to get the same kind of results so it's just like it's annoying and unfair but well and it's also you have a common interest and i think that's sort of a good thing in a relationship i think you should break up enjoy i don't think this is your maybe it sounds like she's almost a little bit too sensitive though yeah i think that uh jealous betch needs to be a little bit less jealous and change your handle okay next question comes from rachel alone rachel says i've been with my boyfriend for over two years we've lived together for over a year he has a three-year-old son who is with us five days a week my boyfriend

sleeps in his son's bed with him every night that we have him which means i sleep alone nearly every single night the baby mama will still soon be moving out of state and his son will be with us all the time i don't like sleeping alone and my boyfriend said that it would just be until his son got adjusted to the new place fast forward a month or so i approached the issue again to which i'm told if i don't like it i should leave i've become extremely lonely lonely in the past couple months seeing as i have no family or friends in the area due to moving closer to his support system for his son what do i do oh i am a big believer in empowering women to be strong and fearless and i you know when something doesn't feel right change change the situation take ownership and

change it um his son is always going to come first that is just the way it's always going to be yeah not his baby mama but the son is always going to come first if she's having this trouble now then there's big danger ahead yeah i say have a conversation if it doesn't go the route in which you would like it to and he's not understanding of it then you need to look elsewhere yeah i mean it's a tricky thing dating somebody with kids because they're obviously going to come first so if it's somebody that has some kind of like a jealousy or they're codependent or something there are a lot of sacrifices that you have to take dating somebody where you know they have a huge priority and his son obviously needs him he's not going to say screw you to his son so he

can sleep with his girlfriend i know and also i think at the point that you hear your significant and others say if you don't like it tough luck yeah bye yeah also sleeping alone is the best you can starfish like girl you've been with him long enough to know what it's like to be like i want you out of my house so i can do whatever i want by myself do face mask and make it stretch by myself okay next one sorry okay last question comes from kate kate says i've been single for five months now and have been on all the dating apps tinder and bumble etc to get over my ex i went on some casual dates and i've just been having fun when i was swiping around on tinder the other day someone super liked me i went to go look at it and he was my fucking hot ass professor

that i literally have had a crush on since i met him he's 28 and i'm 23 fyi i graduated and he isn't my professor anymore it's been two years since i've seen him and then he goes to ask me if i would like to have some coffee or a drink with him i have literally been freaking out and i have no idea how to cope with this goddess of a man help i love you guys i'm not understanding what the issue is. There is no issue. I haven't understood what one issue.

28, 23, not a professor, not a student anymore. Dude, go for it. Maybe she's just, like, finally has her hands on her ultimate crush

and she's freaking out. It sort of seems like she's saying, I don't know how to cope with the goodness. Ah, okay. Yeah, exactly. Take a swig of vodka.

Yeah, yeah, yeah. Get your big girl panties on and go for it. Yeah, definitely a few drink a drink or two before the date to like settle your nerves yes exactly this is gonna be and then he super liked you what is that what does that mean uh okay i thought i knew what it was jack has no one ever super liked you oh jordan jordan jordan jordan super like it's so you only get a certain number of super you get one a day or something no no it depends on either a if you

have a free account then you only get a certain number a month oh that's when i had it um and damn jordan if you pay money then you can get more what does it do again does it put the person in the front of the line or it tells them that they super liked you tell them that you super liked them oh damn he super liked you girl that means he probably had a crush on you when you were in college and he probably felt terrible about it well listen i'm just wondering so does that mean when you get a like you feel kind of like shafted yeah they didn't give you a super like and if they were out of super likes they should have just bought more so that they could right i don't know if i trust a man who's not willing to buy a super super like for me yeah if you're not gonna pay for

a super like you're not gonna get this wrong i'm like we got high expectations how did you get pk to super like you oh my life naked stretching i think i you know there was naked stretching that's so cute um there was very quick banter between us it was not love at first sight um we were both in a bar restaurant and we were not supposed to be there it was like the stars were in line and we were meant to meet at that particular moment and you know there's there was like three months from when we actually met the first time to when we really went on our first first date but it's chemistry isn't it it's chemistry when you vibe with someone and um you know those heavenly green eyes don't hurt but i knew i knew early on that this this guy was the

one for me and i was engaged twice before him really yes did you know that they were not your people i did both times even when like when you're in the engagement um the first one i think i knew going into it i had said no twice and then he asked a third time and this was like over the 10 years and then i kind of did it and i was living overseas i was living in italy at the time and he was italian and um it was kind of one of those i couldn't say no yeah but then i knew shortly after i had said yes that i had to figure out a way to move i know i think i can give such good advice to girls single girls yeah nowadays i've just been through so many areas and i think you just have to bring it down to basics you know if something doesn't feel right if a guy is not

treating you well move on you know it's on your gut if you feel like something's wrong something's probably wrong yes like intuition is everything we have that we're we're given that we're lucky to have that we have to trust it we do and i trust that becca tobin is going to make her debut on real housewives of beverly hills this year we are so excited to have you on um where can people via the swimsuit line? BeverlyBeachByDurit.com. Cute. Okay.

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