LadyGang - Elle King

Episode Date: March 7, 2017

Elle King is sassy, fresh, talented, and telling it like it is when it comes to love, relationships, and confidence. She's got a VIP mom, a helper dog, a fantastic mirror message, and a sure-fire way to deal with haters and loser boyfriends. She's also got a wicked right hook, a great story about Dierks Bentley, and a hilarious plan to take on the fashion police. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

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Details at WoodbineMohawkPark.com. well what is this welcome to the lady gang that's amazing say that again the lady gang things are about to change around here each week we catch up with hollywood's hottest girl posse kelty knight becca tobin and jack vanik hello hello hello and welcome to the lady gang i am becca tobin actress and vlogger beside me today is jack vanik she's wiping her mouth because it's covered in champagne clothing designer and ceo of jack vanna clothing and to her right miss kelty knight what are you today entertainment journalist and instagram icon wow it's not true 50.2 oh thousand followers who do we have with us today oh my gosh get ready for this you guys this is the

intro of all intros our guest today is a three-time grammy nominated badass way cooler than we are kind of gal uh i've seen her play live and if you think that the lady gang has potty mouths uh you need to go online and see the moment uh of l doing the acoustic version of my pussy my crack she started gigging around new york city when she was 16 years old using a fake id to get into nightclubs and recently she won the cma for musical event of the year for her duet with dirks bentley different for girls uh we're so excited to have her she's so cool please welcome to the lady gang okay yeah girl what an intro yeah that was really did you like it do you feel better about yourself in general i really i feel very amazing do you want to have kelty go with

you everywhere and intro you like that i mean i'm pretty sure that she has to from now on do you have a hype man because that's a thing in music right um i bring my mom with me okay my mom is like a pretty good hype man and she also like when i'm tired and want to go take a nap in a corner she just kind of like dances for everyone and so that's kind of like a hype mom okay hype mom i have a thing that she she uh she thinks it's really funny she calls herself vip mom and she does like hashtag vip mom and she makes like hats and t-shirts and she wears it and then she meets like like other celebrities moms and she says like they're honorary vip moms it's pretty cute is bieber's mom jealous she didn't come up with it i feel like she would be right yeah she actually

trademarked it already but my mom did meet beaver and he was like whoa you're beautiful and my mom yes he hit on your mom that's like her claim to fame that would be anybody's claim to fame you're like i have this daughter who's been nominated for some grammys before but my claim to fame is the time beaver said i was hot i mean as it should be yeah you're right you're right you're right okay so normally we don't have our guests in this part of the show but because you're so special we're having you today thank you you're gonna join us for good week yes it is bad week oh no okay who wants to kick us off oh my god so many good things kelty all right i'll start okay um okay so i'll start with my good week it's musical for you

beyonce have you heard of her stop i'm done bored yeah beyonce is pregnant no beyonce was on my lot my television lot where i film my tv show and she was next door and the whole world like kind of ended and so you guys know like i don't really freak out over celebrities except paul abdul and like when i heard beyonce was on the lot i was like oh my god beyonce's here and then everyone else got hyped up so then i felt like i needed to get in on the hype like i'm not in the beehive like i don't care at all yeah i was gonna say you don't no i don't care i actually don't even i'm like please get a new outfit like i'm sick of the body suits but anyway i was like you know what i'm into it so i went on like a deep scout out for beyonce on the lot to find her

i'm not kidding you you guys she had three snipers on the roof of the building looking down and then this is the best part she had a partition a blue partition that followed her around literally driver roll up the partition please so like let me use let me do it people if this glass of champagne is Beyonce. Everywhere she went were a whole bunch of men going like this to like cover her up so that no one could see her. What do you think their job description is on their W-9 or whatever

it's called? Partition holders? They're like, bitch, actually. Beyonce's bitch. That's insane. It was pretty amazing. So even though Beyonce spent 15 hours next door to my office window, I never saw her. She was behind the partition. Was she even there? That's why there's probably

never really that many paparazzi photos of her are there i think there's lots of paparazzi photos for but she's pregnant so she's probably doing like some big exclusive anyway or probably because she's not really pregnant or carrying her own children and that's why they're being so crazy about it what do you think there was that whole thing that she wasn't actually pregnant because she sat down at oprah and like her stomach indented like it was a fake pregnancy pooch do you remember that with the first baby you guys are crazy we are i know it sucks anyway i was really excited because i have to be honest on the cbs radford lot where i work it's not a good lot like it's ncis la the talk baby daddy and like every multi

can that gets the odd couple that like last three season or three episodes and it's canceled like this is not the lot where like cool people are coming interesting here's my bad week all right so i had this elaborate plan to get more press for myself so that i could become more so weird i know you know that kelty does call paparazzi on herself right yeah have you ever call the paparazzi on yourself al no because she's psycho so mind blown right now did you know that you can call the paparazzi on yourself i heard that people do that when they go to airports yes i was wondering about that oh yeah sometimes people get out pretend they're going in the airport and then get back yeah i saw leah rhymes do that yeah because you know she's hungry you

know you're like she's real hungry she looks she needs to eat yes hungry for so many things all the things the dink the food and the breast thirsty so where do you can i just ask okay where do you um call them like so mostly i usually call my paparazzi in new york i have a guy and i say like hey i'm in new york and he goes oh where are you going to be and i said oh i'm going to be at this hotel or i'm going to this event whatever like also julia roberts is coming and he's like i'll get you on the way up like i tip him off to like where other people are going to be so like the next time the paparazzi chases you it will be because i was like oh l's gonna be walking out of becca's house picture of me in front of you and then i'll be going out 10 minutes before to get

my picture but i'll be like oh my god hi and in her photos she's always like ah yeah she does she looks so good back with a smile and i was like oh my god you're taking a picture of me but i knew he's gonna be there he's been waiting he just texted you there photo shoot anyway back to the plan my bad week so i had an elaborate plan i was picking out dresses for the people's choice awards and I was like going through the racks because I rent my dresses because no one will dress me for real so I have to pretend you know so anyway I go through the list of dresses and I was like wait I love this blue dress someone has worn this before perfect I will wear this dress and then I will tell all the magazines to put me in it for who wore it better wow you know yeah that's a nice

setup yeah so I wear the dress and honestly the girl who wore before sorry it's like your bestie leah michelle she wore it and i thought she looked hot but i did in my soul think i could outdo her yeah like i was like i've got this like i'm gonna do more i feel you so i did it with a teal eyeliner and a giant ponytail and like a gold strappy sandal and i really thought i have won this fashion face off so of course the next morning i get to work and i start emailing all my magazine friends and i was like hey um you know that favor we've always talked about this is it and then i sent the pictures that i'd already like cut and pasted together as a fashion shit were you sent in her picture too were you up all night like on pick stitch or whatever that

stupid app is are you kidding me so i put it in i was like look at this this is my favor and then so my girlfriend amanda at life and style was like i got you girl it's gonna run in two weeks so then it runs but then she doesn't tell me she just sends me a facebook message hey you're gonna be in this week's life and style and i was like yes because the last time i was in life and style i don't know i can't keep track what i won against rita aura oh my god i don't know who won who votes anyway no one make up a random number i think they just make it up so anyway i was really excited so i went to the 7-eleven and i got the magazine and i'm flipping i'm waiting for myself to come up she's so sad and what happened she won i lost and they how many points there's no points

yeah they usually do like 46 no this one is just an x or check who wore it better not me that's Karma. So it backfired. And then they said her teal – hold on. I'll show it to you. Oh, you have it? You have it. That's weird.

I know she posted it on Instagram, didn't you? I did not. I would never. While she's pulling this up, let me just tell you a little story. When I first moved to this little la-la land from New York, I had to start working with a stylist because apparently that's what you do. And I – here it is. Read it, Becca.

Read it in dramatic actress voice. Oh, and it's such a big one too. Okay. effortless elegance is lit is hashtag it oh that sounds stupid both beauties achieve bombshell status oh that's hey in a plush one thousand five hundred and ninety five dollar didn't buy it number but kelty's teal eyeliner and teased up to got a tad too 1980s it sounded like you're going to an 80s prom when you're describing they're calling you paula abdul you should feel good and it pays off bardo inspired fringe and barely their makeup give off seductive bedroom

vibes and opting for a deeper plunging in the neckline ups the allure even more when you borrow the dress you're not allowed to tailor it no you're not bullshit that's why i can never borrow pants you're like five feet i swear to god anyway okay next who's up next this is going on way too long i didn't finish the story my stylist was like okay so here's this dress so and so wore it last week they didn't get photographed very much she goes but let me tell you there's two women in this industry in this town there's the ones that try to do the who wore it best because then you get in publications and then there's the girls who think that that is like the worst thing that ever happened to you guess what kind of girl i am and guess what kind of girl i am al have you

ever been in a who wore it better no because you were originals right from the runway she's just cooler no i i i kind of do have a new um secret plan to be on every wet worst dress list well kelty used to live there so she could give you some pointers you could even borrow her clothing and now you know what to do you have to send in your own photos this is bullshit just too much about me jack good week bad week okay i'm gonna start with my bad week so the other day i was at starbucks waiting in line and you know there's all these weirdos doing things in the starbucks and i like turn to my left and i see this lady sitting and reading a book and she's taking a piece of her hair like this no twirling it no no sticking it in her mouth slobbering all over

her hair was she homeless nope and then what and then wrapping it around her nose holding it like that and sniffing her disgusting spit and i got a picture to prove it because i'm not a liar she was like i'm not lying and spit is like my biggest fear in life like i have like a spit phobia i hate the smell of it if you like get it anywhere kissing is like weird right like making out it's like just don't put your tongue yeah just i don't want spit anywhere so that was like jobs don't even get me started it's the worst right i give like the palm springs version of like a blow job because i tried so hard to get no saliva anywhere no that's the grossest because then it's on dry and then you oh okay back to your story about the lady that was that

was it it was the worst thing i would have probably dry heaved are you guys no i'm not done oh shit her good week sorry i got so bored and my good week you were just talking for 20 minutes my good week is dedicated to you by the way uh-oh true friendship so my mom was cleaning out my parents house no and she found no no some old awesome things of kelsey and my mutual ex boyfriend give me that one are you that's the one we had sex with let me i didn't have sex with them i gotta see a closer look at it not only did she find the magazine what she found this bag let's see if our stuff was similar including you keep these things my parents did and there's also amazing he looks are there emails printed out no there's a printout of one of his live journal

posts back in the day oh my gosh live journal about me and all the comments but then this is the best thing who printed that you did or yeah who printed that my mom because yeah who printed that so there's all these like letters only child her mom keeps everything my mom is like my biggest fan this was a note that i wrote after we broke up oh and you just read this jack liar greedy backstabber fake cheater hypocrite heartless selfish horrible drama queen wicked unappreciative careless ruthless asshole i was like a child like you two are so much more unstable well no i knew kelty was but like i feel scarily outnumbered now that you're just very i'm telling you i'm i'm internally not crazy do you i just never let it out i feel so good about myself i feel so sane

and okay i do i mean i thought the intro was good but like what i'm gonna take away from this is like dang it's like what i what i feel like when i watch mori it's like you're doing great out it's how yeah it's how i feel when i watch the bachelor don't even get me started on that so becca okay i'm ready so my bad week as you guys may remember a few weeks ago i was distraught because i went to go get a bikini wax at my place with my girl who i've established a really solid relationship with and they just tell me when i walk in that she's no longer there and they can't tell me where she went and she's not coming back and i'm just gonna have to use someone else well guess what she's back nope oh i opened my mail

yesterday wait you let her from a new place nope you never said if this is a good week or a bad week this is bad bad and i opened i opened the mail and it's from my hospital cedar sinai it's a letter that my ob-gyn no is gone and not practicing anymore and that's the worst the worst who do you trust your vagina that's the thing why are all these women and who are in charge of my vagina abandoning me i don't want to el didn't want to say it because she's i don't know maybe take a look down there is it my vagina have you done the mirror thing because my half time the common denominator is now your vagina my vagina yeah but i am like so devastated because i'm a couple years from having children and like normally i would probably

just like go find someone else whatever but that's like a big thing the woman who i always imagined people like my feet being in the stirrups and her face being the one i'm looking at is she old no i think she's going through some medical things and i just i want to reach out but i feel like that's kind of creepy but like i know when this woman has had a silver duck bill of metal in your vag and opened it like this and took a real good look i feel like you can reach out i know and we're pretty we're pretty good friends like but here's my plan but are you gonna reach out and be like are you okay or personal info i already tried but i know where her daughter's getting married and when do not show up at the wedding you know there's a curve enthusiasm

about this yeah where he keeps calling his doctor yeah and he's like don't call me we're not friends but i feel like she is my friend i'm not making this up i'm not imagining it and i just feel like what if i not go to the wedding but like send something to the wedding and be like please do the vagina mold and send it miss me what do you think is going to happen when you contact her Do you think she's going to come back and practice? She could freelance. She could be her midwife. That's true.

You could get a doula. But I'm upset. Anyways. That sucks. I'll keep you updated. I have to find an OBGYN. I haven't had a pap smear in years. Here's my good week.

So I have this friend who used to take acting classes at the Church of Scientology. Amazing. And he told me that there's this trick that they use for actors. And they tell you the way that you book all your jobs is to walk in a room and make everybody think that you want to have sex with them. So make everybody feel like sexy and make them feel like, isn't that just like life actors? No,

I walk into a room and I like everybody that you're competing against. It's like the opposite. I wear a bra that's like so stuffed. So I think I'm trying to be sexy. No, but it's not about you being sexy. It's about like you making that person feel sexy. So you leave them with this feeling of being like that person made me feel

sexy and like wanted. How do you do it? It's like this magnetic kind of like eye contact. Like apparently Tom Cruise, every time he meets somebody, he like looks into their eyes and he's like l nice to meet you that would make me uncomfortable i'm tom yeah nice to meet you especially coming from tom i wouldn't i wouldn't take that as like oh my god it's a robot i'd be like oh my gosh she wasn't upset

will you somebody else not tom tom cruise does this oh yes so my friend was trapped in an elevator with him and she said it was really awkward did he do it to her yeah she's like it was like being a robot who was like with a robot who was like short-circuiting like he could just keep smiling trying to act and say her name over and over and so anyways so i was like that's the opposite of what i've ever done in my whole life with like dating with everything like i got my husband to marry me by making him think he's like the grossest person in the world and that he's never gonna find someone to love him because he's too gross you know what i mean and like casting directors i'm like do we know what she means no i do yeah yeah that's how i got you know yeah that's how i get

my guy yeah you're like you're too attractive i gotta bring you down i gotta like doing the army it's like break you down just to build you up yeah you know right okay break your spirit and then this is a new way of thinking it's amazing honestly and how it makes you feel about yourself it's like putting somebody else down does make you crazy you're crazy we just tapped into it okay that's true to say that i'm not crazy is a lie but yes so here's what i'm gonna tell you okay i was always kind of like is this a real thing is it i don't know i'm waiting at the sugar fish the sushi place that's like you have to go to while you're here it's like orgasmic i'm standing at the valet waiting for my car and this like amazing audi a7 pulls up with like very

tinted windows charlie's theron gets out she's meeting a friend and it's a it's a gentleman but they're clearly not in a relationship they're like hadn't seen each other in a while because like they made a big thing of it but then she like gets in his face and she's like oh my god of your beard like i've not seen you with this like beard before and she's like so it's so intimate i feel like i'm like looking in on something i'm not supposed to be and like this guy was just like wait she's just i don't know but it's the whole theory about like how to be successful in hollywood and this guy was not good looking she didn't want to have sex with him but she wanted him to think that she would have sex with him and it was like amazing so smart and it's

so smart and i'm gonna try it now we're gonna try it okay um good week bad week okay let's see bad week i got into uh a fight at the airport oh like a physical altercation no no um but actually it's kind of a two-parter so i i've been um boxing like religiously and um i uh have never felt more like tough yeah no i love this about you yeah the new boxing l yeah it's really weird i'm like trying to like slow down on my like positivity pose because like people are like you're getting weird out like i don't understand like drinking the kool-aid you're walking straight you're not slurring your words i don't understand oh no yeah it's like people are like they don't know who i am um and so um i i was taking the subway and i have this way about me and uh people just like want to

just talk to me i don't know what it is i think because i you're just so approachable am i you're like charlie i wish i wasn't i wish i wasn't um gotta get a wrestling bitch face on but it was like kind of a warmer day and i i get on the subway and and this guy follows me very closely and like starts talking to me and like he's really drunk and uh i'm just like i don't have any money and um he just keeps talking to me and then i go to boxing and i walk out and i see this guy and he's following this girl and um and she's going into the gym and he kind of like follows her a little bit and um i'm waiting to go to the next game and i'm like killing time so i'm like just looking at my phone and he and he turns around and he comes and he steps right behind me and he goes

yo could you tell me why there's so many good looking bitches out here and i didn't look up for my phone and i just put my head up and i said whoa just like feeling so tough yeah i'm like strong from boxing i just went i just went whoa if you're gonna call women bitches you better step away from me oh my god he goes he goes i just need somebody to tell me why there's so many good looking bitches and i look up and i said step away from me and he was like he was like kind of like like wasn't expecting like a blonde girl to you know be like that like yoga pants and um and he just was like shove it up yeah shove it up yes and he walked away and i was just like yes awesome that's cool like i could just like give him right hook if if he came back around and i was like

almost waiting for him to like grab me so i could just show everyone how tough i am um but then it takes me to the airport which uh you can't use the same kind of toughness because the tougher you are with them they don't like it they don't like it they're not gonna let you on a plane no and so i'm traveling without my fiancee and we have a small dog named sugar and um i guess this is segwaying into my bad week uh and she's a very small dog and she's registered as a service animal okay but the emotion are we rolling our eyes like is she a service animal or like she's really a service animal no she's not a service animal okay no service animal emotional support animal she's a service animal as my mom would call her she's a helper dog okay um

she just helps you you know um she helps with everything but you need that letter if you're gonna fly first class with the lay down seats otherwise you can't bring her i have the same letter girl i have the same letter i've been forging it for years but it's what kind of dog is she she's a uh just a mix she's a chihuahua um like min pin mix okay and she has a liver disorder and so she's like like what i wish i look like you know like it's like sticking out yeah and just like she's got like her teeth like what i look like um and so i i but the letter is in my fiance's name so i go up to the front and the woman is like get it's so stupid it's really really dumb I can't even believe I'm talking about it, but I, I get this woman, um, to let me through

and she was like, you know what? It's fine. We're just going to, we're going to let it fly. And she didn't charge me. And so we go through and we have lunch and, and then we're, we're boarding the airplane and the guy's like, I'm holding her. Normally I would just like shove her in the, in the carrier and like sneak her on. And, um, just like holding my little puppy.

And, um, he's like, we don't have her registered. She's not on the file. You're going to have to go back and talk to Diane. and i was like oh no damn it diane not diane no and uh it's so dumb and they just make you wait you know and i'm like hey he sent me back um the lady at the front like i obviously got there and she was like i'm just gonna stop you right there she's like that doesn't matter what they say up there i'm running the gate here and it's just like so much attitude and like i just was like wanting to like burst and then somebody comes up and talks and then they make you just wait

and they make you just stand there. And I see the last person board the flight. No. And I'm just like, the last person just boarded the airplane. And she goes, so? And I was like. Diane. Do you know who I am?

Jeez, Diane. Diane. And it's just like in my head, like, do you know who I think I am? Like, you can't talk to me this way. And so, like, I don't say anything like that because then it just makes them more mad. But she did say, why are you being so aggressive with me? And I was like, I'm not being aggressive. I'm just not going to, I don't need to go through this so much.

you don't have to make it such a big deal and so finally she goes she just like hands me my ticket and she goes this is more of an exception and i just went thank you your highness and i just like i just like like literally ran on the plane before she could like anybody could say anything and i heard her like walk behind me and say to the guy like who like scans her ticket like that girl and i just like ran on and sat down and um and it was great i had a great flight and then And it kind of kissed me on my head. And it was weird. All right.

When we come back, we are going to play a game of, pun intended, X's and O's. You're listening to The Lady Gang. Elle, now we get deep into you Dr. Phil style. Okay. What has been the ish moment of your life? The moment where you thought you are the cat's pajamas. There's been a lot of those, I think. but none that like really mattered

it wasn't more of like oh whoa I'm so cool because that's just like every morning when I wake up but like the moment where like holy crap wow I might actually be the next level was this past December I got to honor Mavis Staples at the Kennedy honors and I got to meet the

President Obama and First Lady and it was truly an honor and I also met Aretha Franklin and I got to have dinner with Mavis Staples and I met James Taylor and and you know joe walsh and it was just like it was really amazing and it was unforgettable and i was like boy the caliber that i am running with now i was like this is what it's like yeah i was like oh my gosh they let me in the white house like two days in a row i was like this is

tight and um it was really amazing and even though it was the scariest thing i'd ever done it was like it was really amazing what's been the hollywood heartbreak the moment where you thought F this I'm done packing up my bags Out of show business Every day at noon So you wake up thinking you're the shit And by noon you're like Eh not so sure

When I work out There's always big mirrors And I'm just like gosh Can you just cover that up with a sheet please And so I just want to quit And then 3 o'clock rolls around and it's fine But I really did I had a lot of ups and downs

I got kicked out of a girl band When I was in LA when I was 21 what was it called thank god oh my gosh no okay you don't want anyone to go to google no but um all of us went on to have individual success which is really amazing yeah and like one of them sang back up on my album and um she won the voice and then the other girl um her name is elsie juber she she's become like a huge songwriter and um i'm l king so like i've obviously been pretty cool too um but it's nice that we all you know stayed friends but that was hard for me to get kicked out of a band.

And I was like, I don't know if I could do this. And then I was fine. Solo artist. What's the best lyric you've ever written? The one you love the most? Like if I was going to get it tattooed on my face. On your face? No.

What's your favorite lyric? Let's see. Well, I think one of my favorite lyrics, I'm high class in the category of white trash. Yeah, I like that. Pretty good one. It sums me up a lot. I mean, don't get that tattooed on any part of your body.

so on the forehead next worst dress you'll see kelty with that on her forehead and i'll be like l king told me to yeah she's a list so it could move me up from like the back of the magazine um okay i want to do this different for girls question so you have this massive massive smash smash song called different for girls with dricks bentley and it talks all about the fact that like when you break up with someone guys just go out and get laid and hang out and drink and it's fine and then for girls it's like all the other stuff it's different you can't just do that so i want to know what is the biggest thing that is different for girls than for guys in life period uh but also i have to say because it's really funny that i ended up being the girl who sang on this song

because i do all those things um like in every one of my breakups like i just drink let myself and my apartment go you know that's exactly what i do have intercourse yeah you do the guy as as dirks would sing it uh scroll through your phone looking for a band-aid um but no i just sleep with a bunch of people but i think the most like through a breakup or just in life life in life i don't know i i don't it's really hard because i'm like such a boy that i don't even really know what it's like to be a true girl would you say that when you do that sort of thing more people are more likely to call you slutty or trashy or whatever and then when men do it it's like oh he's just like going through a breakup and like just a guy he's just having fun again people say that

about me yeah well you're lucky I think it's because you have very cool energy and you're confident but most girls most girls would probably it's actually unfortunate but I would call my friends sluts for doing that yeah so it's a nice double standard for you and your friends yeah but the thing is that like I I don't really see like I don't know I I think of a lot of my guy friends as like dumb bitches and like they they act like little girls uh and I know a lot of girls who act stupid as well so i think everyone's an idiot in their own way i know i am um for sure not us i i just okay you guys really are doing great though we're not idiots at all like not even a little last thing i love an inspirational quote it's my favorite have them all in my mirror at work

just keep me going do you have a mirror message l king i love this tina fey quote um you can tell how smart someone is by what they laugh at oh yes that always just like rang true to me because the sense of humor is so so so important to me and i mean as as many like poop and dick jokes as i can make like if people don't laugh at like my stupid things like we won't get along you know right but i just thought that that was really smart you know because you have to laugh your way through life otherwise you're like gonna be like just really sad all the time you know what other tina fey quote i love that might become a new mayor message the one said don't call me bitches or something because bitches get stuff done remember that hello that's true well i

counted out all sagittarius's in my life for a while because apparently a characteristic of their sign is that they they don't find many things funny oh and so every person that i met that didn't laugh at my jokes i would ask them if they were a sagittarius many of them were What's Sagittarius' birthday? Yeah. Like, late November, early December. I hate those people. It's because they hate when their birthday is, too.

Yeah, and maybe that's what it is. They find no gravity in life because everything's been taken from them. Yeah. Yep. So don't date a Sagittarius. Speaking of funny, when we come back, we're going to play a fun game with Elle called X's and... Hoes.

Hoes. No, just O's, not hoes. I just wanted to say hoes. Just O's. Okay, what's going on? now here's the lady gang okay so now it's time for a fun game i created because you have a hit song called x's or x's and o's x's or o's which one x's and o's and you guys know it's so hard i mean yeah it's a major hit um and so i put together a list of male celebrities and i need

everyone on the table to vote x as in no thank you and oh but you have to do it in your like sigh oh voice if you're thinking if you're saying yes okay okay here we go l equal j better be on that list does anyone have a pen that is so random yeah that is he's hot okay bieber x i would owe him no you have to do oh okay x justin timberlake oh we all know i love him that's not the game i did it she did it she's she did okay x oh justin timberlake has been an ongoing debate on this podcast it's an x for me so nice to his mom hello and have you seen him dance like it's it's an x it's an x he's either an x uh miles teller oh yes i love him okay x i love i don't know who that is so x you're like so oh i'm gonna say x he's a dink chris pratt chris

prat yes no that's not the game it's not yes it's x's or o's oh okay x what's funny he's funny he's so hot i like neck tattoos i don't know whoa it's a very distinct i'm like oh my god okay forget the rest of this list um it's an o from me zach efron oh wait hold on oh oh x x too short oh if i'm hammered that would work right oh all day all night there's no neck tattoos just yeah but have you seen his abs i mean doesn't matter chris pratt has abs he's not that guy front have you seen neighbors yeah i'm gonna say oh right oh if he wears those things in his shoes that make him tall oh um uh what are they called um splints no no no lips lips if he has lips we're like in the 70s yeah he needs platform shoes uh john stewart oh x x oh it's

hot he's hot okay um his beard now hugh jackman isn't he gay no he's married he's married yes he's been in his life forever that's true that's true jack really i like that you think about it so much like the rest of us are like whatever actually asking yeah like you're gonna have sex with him he can dance he can dance he can how i'm just gonna go i would like to know how tall he is but i'm gonna say oh very tall he is very tall oh i'm gonna say x he's tall x for me interesting bradley cooper oh for sure no that's not the game she said oh no you said oh you said oh for sure i'm sorry i thought that was why do you hate me today jesus say oh like oh like an orgasm like sexy i have different o's for depending on the person okay different levels yeah i'm gonna say

oh in the hangover but that's it he was so hot before he knew he was hot you know i just hate that he knows i think he knew he was hot in the hangover i don't know i think he was not hollywood i think he knew and i think he's too like frat guy mean boy for me i mean wedding crashers killed it so x i need to know oh yeah i'm saying x because he has shifty eyes like when you do an interview with him he's like this yeah and then i really was excited to be in it like you're lying about something oh he's on drugs allegedly allegedly he also gets liposuction where and i know i know this allegedly like where does he get life if you say i know this you can't say allegedly allegedly i know this channing tatum what's oh yeah hex what what he's such a like he's so hot come on doofus

like he's so like he's such a meathead but he's funny yeah you know oh no oh yeah he has like one of those weird like blockheads you saw magic mike though i love his block even worse than magic yes oh my gosh body rolls like body rolls i said no to huge okay okay like don't i would be nervous around channing tatum because i can't dance though did you say have you seen it he just posted a he's learning piano oh my god he's so cute he's a he's a bro but he seems like a bro with the heart no x for me he's the same i know he's the same shaped head as bart simpson brody jenner oh i'm gonna say x because when i had sex with him last week and it was just okay i feel like he'd be shitty it sucks the hills the hills my mom was like oh my god brody jenner looks

so much like your dad did in high school he's so good looking i was like that's never that's it vagina dry he's hot that's an x for me it's an x for me too brad pitt oh yeah yeah i'd be lying if i said nothing interview with a vampire it's the hottest man in the entire world oh snatch like i'm gonna say i guess you're right and also oh my god then you can own felma and louise brad pitt is like you can own half an year of all okay we have three more leo dicaprio he'll take you to like antarctica he'll like plant a tree in your vagina no that's too he's too humanitarian for me x meanwhile he like bangs every underage model and no i know and then he'd leave me for a 21 year old allegedly um i didn't see their ideas i just heard their friends in the bathroom it's

not a big deal um they poured a tampon i'm gonna say we all do girl we got you an absolute no oh no x x what is what i want absolute oh x an absolute x that's like a oh times 10 like it's really leo leo in the titanic if he does his south african accent from blood diamond maybe i'd let him finger me i'm gonna say leo in the titanic but then i would be almost robbing a cradle yeah that's fine he asked my mom out when he was like 15 my mom was like no your mom is getting it with all the sluts she's super hot she's a supermodel my mom's a yeah she's a big international woman of mystery okay two more harry styles x tiny scrawny oh really what yes i saw him at cafe habana in malibu and he was just like you're so cool but he was there by himself

which i found you have already told the story i know because it changed my mind forever and he was just like cool and he was really nice was it man bun harry or was it long-haired harry no but he was nice and he had like skinny leather pants on which in malibu is questionable it's a beach town so it was weird but like he was nice and he like thanked all the servers when he left and like and he was there by himself so i'm like i like a famous person who can like be solo and not be like oh my god i'm like so famous yeah because the paparazzi doesn't follow you unless you call him well no but like with fans and stuff you know what i mean fans coming up to him no Because I think if you play it cool and you're like, I'm just a normal person today, everybody

respected that. He went to a club on his own? No, it was like a restaurant. Cindy Crawford's restaurant in Malibu, Cafe Havana, right? Isn't that what it's called? Is it full of her like denim couches? I don't think so. That'd be amazing.

I mean, I would do the one-two punch if I had a restaurant and denim couches. Is that the same person you know who I'm talking about or is it a different person? I don't know. I have no idea who you're talking about, but I'm like nodding. No, I know. Rooms to go? Yeah. Rooms to go.

No, no, no, no, no. she has like with uh oh wait she both those sluts pedal furniture but i can't remember like which one has allegedly sluts allegedly property's the mole yeah yeah she's got a she's got a denim yeah sofa yes she's got a denim couch set i know what to get you for your birthday that's please oh my gosh also patches on it are you gonna do hairstyles yeah x not for me it's an x i don't like a pretty boy who'd like tries to not to cut you off but no you have to be like really hard hard neck tattoos again probably a big wiener okay last one nick jonas i just want to remind everyone this is the middle jonas that has real musical talent youngest nick's the

youngest joe's the middle oh you're right joe and his eyebrows okay he's the one that is the only one that's talented right allegedly allegedly in your opinion in my opinion they're all way too small i'm gonna say yeah i'm gonna say x to any jonas anything what about bonus jonas there's a fourth brother that wasn't the jonas brothers i think his name's like harold and he's now he's also very young he's like yeah he's a baby that's unfortunate would you bonus so much money he doesn't care um i mean i was obsessed with that song and i lost my shit at jazz fest side stage so that's an o for me which jonas nick jonas nick which song jealous yeah yeah that album was it was pretty far pretty good yeah i mean i listened to that song

over and over he didn't write that song it was very jt so what are you saying and then i did a mash-up of that into um the weekends can't feel my face yeah you did and um It was really badass. So it's like a pretty good song, but it's also the same song as came from it. They're the same song, but every song was the same song. If you really think about it,

that's true. On that note, since we'd all bang Nick Jonas, would you bang him? No, no. Oh, since only Elle would bang Nick Jonas,

we're going to move on. She clearly has life figured out. And when we come back, she's going to help you guys figure out your lives, burning questions with Ask the Lady Gang. the lady gang okay before we start ask the lady gang if you guys want 20 off of jack vanek.com use code lady gang and get yourself a retired emo kid shirt and match me in kelty i don't actually have one my friend jack vanek hasn't given me one yet you haven't asked me for one you haven't bought

one my 20 use code lady gang um okay so for this part of the podcast we have all of our listeners writing questions about like life love whatever and we give them questionable advice on how to live their lives hopefully it's not about breakups after seeing that letter you wrote oh my gosh i can give a good breakup letter advice i give a breakup block them never meet them again that's the only way to do crushing okay our first question comes from sage and i like your name sage too um she says my boyfriend of two and a half years is bisexual recently he disclosed to me that he wants attention from guys and is actively seeking it out on instagram as well as in his daily life he says he just likes the attention and doesn't want anything else

he also says he has no doubt in his mind that he wants to be with me for the rest of his life but i now have doubts what do i block him that's no that's just people everyone in the world stop letting people treat you badly no just say i don't want that in my life unless you were into an open relationship right she doesn't sound like she's old enough to be dealing with this no you're not married to him no he's not the one for you you want someone who's gonna give you all their attention and love and that's just sounds messy you don't want that you don't you're not like dying for him i feel like i'm bisexual after hearing that advice oh my god just for l though that was great that's like the best like that was great advice advice we've ever gotten for

any question that's a t-shirt that's a t-shirt i don't know that's a song i need to yeah write that down it's gonna be a long t-shirt lock him bang bang and block him yeah it's true i think it doesn't matter if it's i think the bisexual thing she's using is like a clutch or something to be like oh well he's like bisexual and it's not like a thing but what if he was doing that with girls yeah you have to look at it just like with anybody yeah just as a human it's not about the sexual preference it's not it's about the fact that he wants he's craving attention from an outside source right and it means that what you're doing is not fulfilling him and so if you are that naive to think that it won't go one step farther i feel sorry for you you need to like take

a step back and realize your worth and care about yourself and block him and block him bang and block him boom jack easy second question comes from a boy what anthony hello anthony one of our five boy listeners hi oh my god this is amazing okay um have any of you dated a guy who has a foot fetish what are your thoughts on a foot fetish slash feet worship sucking on your toes only women's feet on wiki feet.com my feet are on wiki feet becca is rated me too compare feet compare feet right now no i'm not i'll pull out your foot no way that's a good foot it's because your feet are so small because they're beautiful i think it's because they're small little there yeah how big are your hands though big wait your your fingers are long wait

can we talk about wiki feet what the hell what do you mean there's like a lot of um okay your foot's too close to me like disgusting they'll they'll take they'll like crop their feet from red carpets yeah yeah they will so then you're rated what is your rating i don't know my rating i don't click on that is it just celebrity feet or is it like any yes what level of celebrity like kelsey we know who you're emailing in an hour are my feet on there kelsey's gonna be in a corner taking pictures guys finish finish that's the lady game i can't see what are you doing over there okay um okay anyway so what do you guys that's not really a question but do you think this guy is a couple footy people you have have you ever had your toes sucked yeah i have my

fiance paints my toenails too and like loves you like it yeah like i've had guys like guys right you know you do things with your feet sometimes and like like like a handy but a foot you can do a funny job yeah i feel like i would be really coordinated i can i'm really coordinated i can write with my toes i'm not going to show you anthony but she's not on the market yeah sorry but somebody else on wikifeet.com might be wow um a footie what are your thoughts i don't know what the question is he's saying what are your thoughts on on foot worship and and foot fetish whatever floats your boat and also but also just come out with it out of the gate yeah like definitely i think most men probably do i think there's darker shit out there so if somebody's

got a foot fetish like just throw them a parade okay because they're normal i've had one of my girlfriends dated a guy with a foot fetish and all he wanted to do is buy her like louboutins so she could wear them in front of him i mean that's the best situation that could ever happened in a foot fetish yeah anthony get it live your best i'm wanting to buy a gucci bag anthony if you want me to i can probably like send a few photos for like some money it's not a big deal okay our last question comes from send you some socks worn worn dirty socks oh my god that's my worst nightmare okay our last question comes from anonymous anonymous says i recently got married and i'm so happy with my husband however recently i've been having dreams about my ex

boyfriend that i dated for four years we had a very bad and messy breakup and i wanted nothing to do with him now i'm having these weird dreams about him now that i'm married about how i should leave my husband for him he's this changed person and i should go back to him how do i get these dreams to stop i hate this because i'm so dedicated to my husband and i really know he's the one for me and i feel terrible about having these thoughts okay wait i'm gonna just jump in do it i love it like when you first started you were like this oh my gosh you're like i'm here with a lady game Okay, well, first of all, like, talking about relationships and weird stuff is like, okay, it's my life, okay? I have, my whole life is just weird stuff with relationships.

Okay, A, anonymous, you need some closure. B, you need to realize that you have a really good thing going. You married this person and you broke up with that person for a reason. It's very, very, very important. You have something in your subconscious that is pulling up these dreams, that is making you focus on them. And because you're probably not in contact with your ex, it's giving you this codependent thing. And don't talk to your husband about this. You really shouldn't because it's just going to bring up a lot of like self-conscious and like jealous issues.

So don't. But you need, I think it's healthy if you look him up. Don't call this dude. But I think you need to see that a lot of people don't really truly change their behavior. and and so if you broke up with this person for a reason and then you got into a healthy relationship and got married you need to remind yourself of that and you also don't have to like give in to every like weird like indulgent thing that you may feel you have to do because you're having these dreams about this ex just remind yourself that people are your exes for a reason

and sometimes they work out but most times they don't and take it from me I wrote a song called x's and o's because i always sleep with my x's it never works out so be good to your husband and either search him and find out like that he's still awful and never think of him again or just push it out of your mind and focus on the good things in your life i feel like i can't really top that yeah no i don't think i will say that once i interviewed a brain surgeon about this and she, Dr. Jill Boat-Taylor, have you ever seen her TED Talk? I know, she's amazing.

And she told me the reason that you can't stop thinking about your ex is because when you think about something incessantly for a long time, it makes the neural pathways in your brain easier. So it's easier for you to think about your ex than like think about math. You know what I mean?

Because it's something, it's like a road you've traveled a lot. And so when you've spent all these years or months or whatever, like obsessing over this person, it's very hard to shut off your brain like that because it's like open. And so you really have to train your brain.

And I also think better to be, like, having weird dreams about your ex and getting those emotions out in your subconscious than to be, like, spending hours of your life when you could be watching The Bachelor or whatever, like, looking on their Instagram and accidentally liking their photo from 100 weeks ago. Like, it's just better to let that – like, sometimes I think your sleep is about – I don't know which of those actually sounds more depressing. Well, the thing is I think that she knows that it's weird because she's not like, oh, when I think about him in my waking life and I'm, like, looking at his shit. should i leave my husband and get back with him no she that's what her dreams are saying that the guy says that he should do that oh my gosh she just had this one is a meditate her question was like how do i get them to stop because i love my husband your dreams but that's the thing it's like sometimes people have weird dreams and like sometimes they don't make sense there's obviously

some weird subconscious thing that's happening and something that's like yeah some kind of a closure issue or something she could write a dream journal and a lot of times that it's it's actually really important because i have extremely vivid dreams and i remember a lot of my details and so if you write a dream journal a lot of times you can see a lot of like common denominators like weird threads throughout your dreams yeah and you can like if you are in therapy you can talk about them with with a doctor and you could like work through and find your own like answer in your subconscious you know like i i like to dissect my own dreams and like don't do it in dreamjournal.com like that's not no they're like sounds like livejournal.com but it's it's true you should

keep a dream journal that's what you should do and don't let your husband read it oh my god don't leave it in your bedside table unlocked get one of those like little locks from seventh grade hide the key in your jewelry box that's a whole different problem okay anyway l um i think you were fabulous thank you even though you would make out with a jonas yeah we're not gonna hold that against you do you know he's like he's been sleeping with the who does the not anymore they're done yeah but like for a while like she's true he's got game he's got game um okay anyway we love you so much where can everyone follow you on social to follow you along uh instagram is l king whoa uh yeah i know i got it you got it early boy did i um i don't really tweet anymore so there's

no point even going on and you're working on new music right now right and your record coming yes yeah after the the this grammy week um i i jumped straight into recording my second album um and i hope people are excited to hear it i can't wait to hear what song you write about the lady gang i know oh my god yeah maybe more than one thirsty bitches.com okay crazy girls crazy girls yeah no carbs um okay ready see you next tuesday join the lady gang every tuesday at itunes and at podcastone.com that's podcastone.com thanks for listening