LadyGang - Flash Back Friday: Lala Kent

Episode Date: October 20, 2023

She’s here to give us some Lala! Lala Kent joins the ladies and details her birthing experiencing, the Yacht that inspired her baby name and how Al Pacino responded to filming a scene with her. Plus, you maybe able to dial the 1-800-GIVETHEMLALA hotline soon enough to start living your best lady life. Original Airdate: May 4 2021 Check out our amazing sponsors!! Jenni Kayne: Get 15% off your first forever pieces at jennikayne.com and use code "ladygang15" Loft: Use code LADYGANG at Loft.com to get $25 off your full price purchase!See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Well, what is this? Welcome to the Lady Gang. That's amazing. Say that again. The Lady Gang. Things are about to change around here. Each week we catch up with Hollywood's hottest girl posse, Kelty Knight, Becca Tobin, and Jack Vanek. Hello, hello, hello. Welcome to the Lady Gang.

I'm Becca Tobin here with Jack Vanek and Kelty Knight. Hi, guys. Rest in peace, Met Gala. It would technically be Met Gala week. Oh, bummer. devastated they moved the Met Gala to September do you think I'll be invited next year yes I do think you'll be invited next year what designer I think you'll be invited who do I have to start um being sucking up to well you know all it's high and low end the Met Gala because the high

end designers they don't have any money because no one's buying a couture gown so really the H&Ms of the world are the only ones that have money so I think you're I think you're a shoo-in to be honest wow thank you we gotta start sucking up to yeah i mean jack we're not invited but becca can go but you know what i'm gonna be really pissed i always think about it i'm like you know most people don't go to the met gala more than once unless they're like big mega celebrities and i'm thinking wouldn't it just suck to go on a year that the theme was shitty oh yeah but like what what's a shitty met gala i mean i don't think you can make it anything you want really i guess but it could also one one year was weird it was like extraterrestrial or maybe that would be my dream

oh my god it was just like camp was so general like i don't know anyways it's it's my favorite was heavenly bodies because it was just so beautiful everything was like gilded and and angelic and there was feathers and gold and rubies and married maybe jared leto came with his own head do you remember that oh yeah that was really cool i like it when people go all out it's my favorite thing of the year i just love watching that next year 2022 excited for you thank you so much i'm gonna put it in the calendar like the shared calendar kelty meeting with jeff bezos yeah we'll all be over here doing nothing well it's time for good week yes it is bad week oh

No. Can I go first? Because my bad week is so epic and I've been holding it in. Yes. Okay. So I think by now the episode of Zoe's Extraordinary Playlist has aired. I think it was last week by the time this airs. And I had a table read. So I was in Vancouver and a table read is when a new episode comes out for a TV show. Before you get on the set and before you're in hair and makeup before any of that happens usually you sit around a table in a big room and all the writers and producers can sit there and hear the actors say the words to see if everything's good if things need to be tweaked if jokes are landing blah blah blah so now because of the day of covid age of covid we did everything on zoom a zoom table read yeah so i turned on my zoom and there's like 20

faces because it's the whole cast it's the creators it's the whatever and i didn't know really anything about this season of zoe's before going in to film it because it's delayed and it's not airing i'm not knowing and it's like all of a sudden bernadette peters um oscar nunez from the office like all these people who are coming in to be um guest stars on or recurring guest stars on the show and it was like so exciting and mary steenburgen is somebody who is so she's like icon she's an actor's dream because she's in every single thing you've ever seen but she and Ted Danson live this quiet life like an oh hi together they're not in the it's just she's annoyingly um perfect to me she's on that show she's been on that show

since the beginning and so she's obviously in the table read and I get a dm in the middle of the reading and everywhere, you know, it's not my scene. I'm not even in like the rest of the episode. So I can kind of sit back and chill. And I got, get this DM from the director and I've worked with the director before and we'd like, just hadn't yet connected yet, but we both knew we were doing it. And she just sends me this message. She's like, Becca, I'm so excited. You're doing this. Like, thanks for being here, blah, blah, blah. And I go to respond and I'm like, oh my gosh, I wanted to like, thank you so much. This is so exciting. When I saw that you were directing this episode i've just flipped out i was so excited and whatever it was mandy

more the choreographer she's direct she directed the episode and all of a sudden i get a message back from dan and mary's ipad and it's like wrong person i accidentally sent not dan wait mary seen virgin ted dancing ted and mary's ipad is what it said which is adorable that her like zoom name says ted and mary's ipad the cutest thing i've ever seen very on brand and she writes back she's like wrong person and i realize i somehow with the zoom chat room i don't know how it happened but instead of responding to mandy i sent that direct message to mary steenburgen and i was like first impressions are everything and she's probably like this troll is just sending me weird messages and you're like a guest in someone's house as a guest star it was so

embarrassing for the next like 30 minutes of the read the reading I was like bright red panicking I didn't even respond to Mandy because I just like maybe there's a glitch and I can't even like fix it so I ended up just directly emailing Mandy and I was like hey got your message but somehow I magically accidentally responded to the one person so i hate technology i hate zoom it was mortifying it was mortifying it was terrible so there's that stories behind the stories oh my god did what did you say back to mary and ted's ipad i said nothing i literally was like she's in the middle of reading of a table read i'm not sending her another message that's going to be so distracting and then when i did the episode i didn't have a scene with her so it's not like

i could have been like hey girl also fun fact the the first talk show i ever did mary was the guest before me and i remember just being like you guys are connected wait i have a question is mary you know i don't know anything is mary the mary and curvy enthusiasm that's married to ted danson yeah so the yeah i do love her yeah she's amazing and she's she's i don't know names She's in everything, but she's, she's wonderful. Okay. My, my good week was I was on my last day of shooting Turner and Hooch and I was walking to, to like craft services with rollers in my hair and a mask on my face and looking like garbage person. It was my very last day of shooting the show and I'm walking and I keep hearing somebody say my name, but I'm like,

nah, I don't know if it's my name being said, everyone's in masks. I'm not sure. And I just keep walking and then someone's like really saying my name and I turn around it's this adorable girl and her mother and they're like we drove an hour we found out you were shooting here and we've been waiting to see you oh my gosh and let me tell you first of all it was crazy I was even working that day because it wasn't the type of show I was working every day it was crazy that I even left my trailer to go to craft services because there's no way she would have seen me if i had done my regular like not stop and get a snack routine right and this girl her name was donya her and her mom she ran up she had a glee poster she also had the lady gang book

no how cute yeah and she loves the episodes and she said her favorite episodes are allegedly what's happening which is true that's what's up uh so it was really really cute that made my entire experience. That's so cute. That's adorable. Yeah. Becca's in the wild. Okay. I'm going next. So my good week is that I finally got to do something that I've been waiting for an entire year to do since the beginning of the pandemic. And that is going to Topgolf. Oh, I saw on your Instagram. Oh my gosh. It was a dream. It was everything that I ever was waiting for it was funny because you know the day that everything changed jared and i were supposed to go to top golf last year and then we didn't and then i'm like this is my biggest

marker for when things are going to be back is going to be able to go bowling like be in a bowling alley stick my fingers in the ball eat chicken wings takes fireball shots but this was pretty good and we went to top golf in scottsdale uh arizona and lady ganger is the hospitality manager there brie so if you ever want to do a lady gang top golf uh experience she can hook us up and all i really want is to see kelty top golf oh i don't know if i want to that's all i want kelty have you ever golfed before yeah are you good i'm good at everything i'm a three on the enneagram uh the last time i went to top golf i had it was like a cast thing and i think my foot was broken so i did not actually do much swinging i actually think i'm a terrible golfer i'm like

it's really hard golfing is it's so hard but i hate it it's so fun if you just drive around and drink on the golf cart well top top golf is fun because it's basically bowling with a with a golf ball so i just want to see fun and they had fried foods there and that's like a specialty like i'll come just for the fries oh yeah top golf actually has really good food which is surprising and you just drink and eat and play games. And it was so fun. So that was my good one. So my, my bad week is not, I don't, I couldn't tell if it was a good or a bad, but so I was talking to Jared and I was like, you know how his hair has grown out. It's almost as long as mine. Yeah. And I was talking to him. I'm like, I have a question. Like when you shower, does your hair ever get stuck in your

butt crack now? Cause it's long. Like, you know, we always get hair stuck in our butt crack and he's like no but like it i have gotten hairs wrapped around my dick yeah so he gets these long hairs that are fully wrapped around his dick and he like doesn't know how to get them off incredible incredible i've never thought about that as being a problem with long hair obviously i don't have a penis but he this i guess is an issue that men with long hair have to face but it's also just men with like girls hair sometimes like when you do laundry like my hair will be in zach's clothes when he puts them on and he's like your hair's everywhere we know it's not zach's hair but it's definitely not zach's hair but it hasn't ever gotten wrapped around his dick before

i've got to be honest i've heard this visual it's hard for me i can't wait this i just want it to happen and then i want to like play with it like a little puppet oh my god up and down you know you're disgusting. Okay. Sorry. Um, good week, Chris Knight, you know, I ha he is not a great gift giver and I've had to train him over the years to give gifts. And he's very much like that. What do you want? I'll do anything for you, but you need to tell me what you want. Yeah. And the other day, um, it's been kind of a weird time for us cause we've been moving and everything's like all over the place, which is not when I do my best self care. Um, I, he, i came upstairs and there was a thing of flowers and some toffee fade and a beautiful card that

had like a really nice written message about our building our life together oh my god stop it for no reason you don't deserve him you don't that is so that he loves he loves to a card doesn't he's so sweet he didn't love a card until i yelled at him like eight years ago to give you I'm like, I need words of affirmation. And he writes me the most beautiful cards ever. That is so cute. You save them, right? I save them all.

I have boxes of memorabilia. That's so sweet. What a little say is the goat for candy. Taffa Faffa Faffa sponsor me. Actually, because I eat a whole box in one sitting. I've gotten a double box at a Walgreens before and ate one box on the way home and then eaten another box that night you're a sugar monster your candy binging is so intense it is so insane it is so intense okay are you ready for my bad week it's not that bad but it's still bad um okay

so we moved into the house and everyone has been saying to me like oh well how are you gonna get furniture because the wait times are so long blah blah blah blah blah and i was like i don't know i'll just figure it out like i'll buy online or i don't know anyway so here's the bad news i hate carpet there's nothing more i hate than carpet and especially moving to someone else's house like i'm living on their carpet body cells skin cells secretions i mean everything is in this carpet the carpet is old it is dirty that soft fabric holds bacteria shorter periods of time than hard surfaces excuse me but at least with a hard surface you can clean it off but you can steam clean carpet i'm not gonna pay to steam clean the carpet that i'm going to rip up right

right right right right anyway so the carpet's disgusting so at first i want to put cement down we don't have a good subfloor can't do cement then i was like i was like maybe i'll do a different carpet no it can't do a carpet then i was like i'm going to do these tiles so i finally decided of what I'm going to do for the flooring, these like cement look tiles, but the wait time is 12 weeks. So now I have to live with this disgusting ass old carpet until the summer, hot Las Vegas Valley summer with a gross old carpet. I don't know if I can stay with you in April when I come to visit. Well, you can't stay with me because I don't have anywhere for you to sleep. But I mean, have a blow-up mattress and i have a pool noodle so those are your choices pool noodle is very

helpful in this scenario you know what i mean no it's like a pool a pool sitter a pool got it got it pool thing anyway okay uh when we come back we're gonna give you the la la stop wasting your nights on a mattress that doesn't get you experience the most comfortable mattress in the world the sleep number smart bed at the touch of a button you can personalize your comfort choose firmer or softer adjust cooler to warmer and right now save up to twenty five hundred dollars during our massive labor day event hurry into your local sleep number store today because we have your number you're listening to the lady gang

our guest today is here to give us the lala actress whose credits include starring next to al pacino in the upcoming axis sally feature i mean no big deal and hard kill with bruce willis plus way more and also the star of vanderpump rule she's a mama to her brand new baby ocean creator of give them lala beauty and author of the upcoming book give them lala she's known for her quick wit fearless honesty and the face honey there's truly no one like this woman we can't wait to chat please welcome to the podcast lala kent oh my gosh i want to thank you for having me i i want to bring you with me everywhere and every time i walk in a room please do that introduction well this this is this is so exciting i want to start with your al pacino story because i have

a girlfriend named courtney who is a dancer and she was like in one of his movies and got to do this scene where they were like slow dancing and it was maybe 10 seconds like it was nothing but she like told the story and she was like, this is such an incredible man with such incredible energy. So like, what is it like to be on set and just be like, I'm in a costume and I'm like working with Al and Pacino. It was, it was absolutely insane. I, when I first signed on to Vanderpump, I had this like Z list blog that was like, if you could work with anybody, who would you work with? And I said, my dream was Al Pacino. So I manifested that shit. I know. And I won't even lie. There was, we were in a courtroom. That was our scene. And

I would look at him and I had to fight back tears because watching him is just incredible. It was like, how am I sitting here doing this right now? Like, I'm just a girl from Utah that signed on to a reality TV show. And I'm doing a scene with Al Pacino. Like what, how? It was incredible. Were you nervous? Did you screw up? Did you get it right the first time? Like how did you prepare? Oh my God, no, I did not get it right the first time. And I worked with an acting coach and I was intimidated as it gets. And we start the scene and Al likes to improv, which is like such a work of art when you watch him do it you have chills all over your body and I was so nervous and we do the first take and the second take and we just we just were having fun it was like almost

I was warming up as we were doing it and by the time we finished and I will forever remember this moment he said you're really good and I said thank you I know I almost I know I for real and I said thank you so much and he grabbed my arm and he said no I'm being serious you were really good so happy for you and then you know and then new mom and the baby like tell me we we are famous on the lady gang for hearing a birth story so I don't know if you want to share but like was it as traumatic as you thought were you fine was it easy I thought that it was going to be horrific because my pregnancy was definitely not easy. And, you know, we go to the hospital to get induced. You guys, I literally, Randall says that it was like an exorcism. They put the, they put,

yeah, the easiest part of the whole delivery, right? Where you go in, they put the IV in your arm, literally the easiest part. And I completely eyes roll in the back of my head. I pass out twice. They said it wasn't a seizure because ocean's heart rate stayed consistent. Like she was good, but I definitely passed out twice. And they asked me, they were like, you know, doctors and nurses above me, Lala, do you know where you are right now? Do you know what you're doing? I was like, I'm at Cedars having a baby. Like I totally know. Yeah. Like I'm good. And I know what I'm doing. The epidural was good. And I slept like a baby that night. You guys, it was awesome. They kept checking me to see, cause you know, I wasn't due. So I came in at a zero. You

got to get to a 10. They checked me every two hours. They were like, you're probably going to give birth like later tomorrow night, maybe the next day, literally four o'clock they checked. They're like, we're at about a five. The next time they came back at six, I was at a 10. They had me do a practice push. They were like, okay, your body is responding. Well, do not move. I see the head coming out. It's just me and my mom and like a couple nurses, like we're, we need the doctor, right. To deliver this baby within 15 minutes, the doctor was there. This was like six 15, six 20 by six 45. That babe was out screaming on my, it was, it was like a dream birth you know are any of you moms no not yet not yet or you don't want to be I totally get it

but you guys it was the most amazing experience of my entire life I was like this this is in my mind what heaven would be like you know just seeing your baby and some people like I used to feel that way when I looked at my dog now I'm looking at Lily Lily barks when the baby comes in with the night nurse and i'm like shut the f**k up randall's like wow from you loving lily to now she just gets shut the f**k up i know i'm it's horrible there should be like a place that dogs can be sent to maybe it's me and kelty's house where we like treat them like their moms have real babies yes like all of you like you're my favorite doggy camp doggy camp we get it honestly, my sister, no, no, no. My sister did the same thing. So my sister has always loved my

dogs. I like my dogs are my babies, blah, blah, blah. And she's, she loves these dogs. Well, my first dog, she had her first baby and it was like, it was crazy. The dog made a peep while the baby was napping. She's like, I'm going to lock your dog outside of this house. Like I love your dog, but there's no comparison. There's nothing you can compare this to. The baby must sleep. And what's the story behind Ocean's name? I love the name, by the way. It's so good.

Thank you so much. People, you know, like you hear the name like Apple and all these crazy names. And everyone's like, what is this? And I'm like, you know, people may not be married. They may be. It's weird. You know, it's a weird name. It's unique.

I love a weird name. I love a weird name, too. And I... I have like a couple things like, it sounds horrible. Like I should have some beautiful story behind the name. I was walking in the Bahamas and I walked past a yacht called the ocean Alexander. And I was like the name ocean. I'm obsessed.

Cause here's the thing with the ocean. That's a great story by the way. It is a great story. It's a beautiful story. I walked by a yacht. I mean, I've never heard anything more Lala in my life. That's the most Lala thing I've ever heard. Right.

I know I was mortified. walking in the Bahamas next to a yacht and that's so tight yeah and I told Randall the name and he was like oh my god this was before we even got pregnant we were set on the name ocean boy girl didn't matter and I dig it because here's the thing I love the ocean I'm like I go to the protest like leave our orcas alone but I don't with the ocean like that like I'm not trying to get in it that thing is something I can't you know I can't explain it it's powerful so it was like the perfect name i love it i love it that soundbite right there is why you were unfortunately meant to also be a reality like i know like what a soundbite what a soundbite you can't write that

shit it's just i love the ocean but i don't quit it i thought you're gonna go into this whole thing about how like your happy place is the ocean you love like frolicking and swimming and you're like the ocean i save orcas i don't go to oceans no that thing is powerful i don't know where the bottom is no i live from afar and so during this time you've pushed the wedding a bunch canceled we've pushed the wedding a bunch and now we're in the zone of it's like you're pretty much my husband we have a baby together like i want to be with you we'll get around to the wedding you know I mean we had to reschedule it like three different times and you guys when your wedding is put off three different times because of a worldwide pandemic a higher

power is speaking to you being like not the right time I'm sorry I feel that way yeah yeah but did you already have like the dress the favor the everything we had everything it was like it was going down it was what was your wedding originally supposed to be april 18th so listen to how crazy i know april 18th and ocean was supposed to be born in april so i have had i i made like a bunch of gifts for my bridesmaids that were like april 2020 so now they just have these things with no with a date that means nothing and then i got a bunch of shit that was like april 2021 because his ocean was going to come. She came in March. So now I have a bunch of shit, another April date that doesn't mean anything. I'm done with April. It's not happening anymore. I don't with April,

you know what I mean? Don't ever plan anything else important in April. So let's talk about the book. Um, give them Lala. So, you know, explain to the people who may not know what this title is all about when i walked away from the show i'm on vanderpump rules for anyone who's living under a rock that's a tv show on bravo um and i left and everyone's like we're so sad you left so my narcissistic mind was like give the people what they want give them la la's i'm like hugging jack daniels you know it was awesome when i came up with that on my twitter and then as I evolved quote-unquote and grew up a little more I was like you know what give them more about like just like do you boo like give them whoever you are and it just became this like

thing that I was I go by that name you know people say it when I'm doing interviews like this it's the name of the book it's the name of my beauty line it's just like it's the go-to give them lala is a vibe for everything that's what it is honestly i'm gonna give them lala from now on next time in the ocean i'm gonna give them some lala i'm gonna go to mama's walk by a yacht give my best lala in my peasant closet right now i'm not giving much lala i am in my craft closet i am also not giving lala i have my scissor collection in view i don't even think i know that is not giving them lala kelsey you need to fix your life right now some craft scissors here for you lala um so the book is like it's the memoir or it's advice i wouldn't say it's a memoir because i'm

30 years old like i don't don't have enough life you're not ready to have it no it's it's a book of stories that i felt were defining moments in my world and i feel you know this book wasn't something that I was like I'm gonna write a book because people are that interested in me it was more of this I felt like however many years I had been on the show I had been labeled as like a homewrecker the second I walked on the show I was a whore that went on yachts with celebrities and got paid I wish that was true because that would have been awesome it wasn't true um I just felt like this book was something that was going to be my purge I was going to put it all in here and I was no longer going to walk into situations or rooms with this scarlet letter on me anymore.

It was like, I'm releasing it. This is what happened. And now we're done with it. We're moving on. I'm not talking about it anymore. We're not talking about how Randall and I got together and the timeline of everything. It's all in here and now we're letting it be. So yes, that's the reason why I wrote the book. You basically, you basically like took control back of your narrative. Right. And there it's obviously there's things when I was a kid in here, you know, it's, it's funny. There are stories in here that are funny. There are things that stories about when I was drunk and those are also funny looking back on them now that it's over, let's laugh about it. And there's also things that are going to make people feel very uncomfortable, which I like

to do. I like making people feel uncomfortable, have a conversation. So I'm excited about it and I hope everyone enjoys it as much as I enjoyed writing it. You've been sober for how long? I have been sober for two and a half years. What would you say was the thing that helped you the most to get sober and stay sober? Now I'm going to get cheesy with you guys. So I attribute to staying sober to the fact that when I decided to get sober, I entered AA and I took on a program that holds me accountable. But I, and no matter what your belief is, is totally your thing. And I never want to push my belief on anybody. So please don't take it that way. But I believe that my dad had a huge part in, in keeping me sober. I just feel like I have this guardian

angel because my last, the very last drink I had was exactly six months from when my dad had passed away and just the way I woke up the next morning after I had been on a three-day binge fest it was just like you can't you don't come to that realization without a higher power coming to you is my experience so I would say me believing in my higher power and also going to my AA meetings and having a sponsor and just being very aware that if I decide to pick up a drink that cycle will start over. It's not something I'll grow out of. Thanks for sharing. Of course. Thanks for asking. That's amazing. Um, one of the things that it was in the, the, the book description was talking about, um, something you said about never feel guilty for, uh, sorry, I want to say

it properly. Never feel guilty for deserving more was like a piece of your advice. Never feel guilty for deserving more. What does that mean to you? Well, I think that women have like this, uh, it's kind of embedded in us from the time that we're, we're kids, you know, and we're trying to break free of that narrative desperately, even now in 2020, where it's like, this is your role as a woman. And I feel, especially with girlfriends that I have back in Utah, I watched them and they have all of these dreams but they don't feel that they can talk about them because their role is I'm a mom though and I I have a husband and this is what I this I should feel lucky that this is my life it's like you should never feel like this is enough if you don't feel

that it's enough it's okay to want more and aspire to be something other than a housewife so that's I attribute that line to what I've seen I come from a town in Utah that just that's what women do well and that can be true for I mean I mean even us when in the working world and people asking for raises and just everything that the misogynistic society has embedded in our brains to just not ask for more what you think you deserve just because we think that you know we're going to be perceived as a bitch or needy or whatever it is. So I love that just as a woman in general in life can take something from that. A hundred percent. And last thing, before we get to ask the lady gang, I do want to ask you like, what is your best, most historic clap back of all

time? Or like, what is the clap back that you like to use? Oh my gosh. Well, the line on Vanderpump when I called Raquel, I love saying you're welcome, like saying something and then being like, you're welcome. You don't even need to thank me for me giving you two seconds of my time. I have an idea. I have a great idea, a business idea for you, Lala, because I think we're going to take, I think you should start a business where for us as, as the lady gang, a female run founded brand business, whatever, you know, like there can be trolls and there can be people who like to piss in your Cheerios and like, you know, shit on your success. That's like any woman who's living her life out loud. You know, we're all open to that. But what I think I'm going to

do from now on, when I get down in the dumps because of these people, I'm going to call you and I'm going to be like, make me feel better about this because I feel like you have this really healthy relationship with being very true to who you are and knowing exactly who you are. and the people who try to kind of like tell you who you are you know what I mean like thank you for saying that I I feel like it's gonna give them a hotline give them and you can be like this doesn't matter bitch look at you you're soaring okay so when this is my retirement plan are you looking for a cut I'll take a percentage okay we don't even need a percentage we just need like a free service no

percentage too because this is gonna be huge becca you're so on my page i'm like no bitch i need a percentage of the business let's do the give them lala hotline right now like becca you call call lala why are you down in the dumps okay ring your lala i'm gonna i'm gonna fast forward to july when the tv show that i just worked so hard on and put all whatever it's coming out in july and i can guarantee you there's gonna be some tweets or instagrams or something when I go to say like, what an experience. I'm so happy. I've been working my whole life for this. And some bitch is going to say like, you look ugly. You're terrible. What would you tell me to say? Give them Lala. Yeah. Give them Lala bitch. And then I'm going to tell you Becca that you

have to separate yourself. You then have to come up with your alter ego. Mine is Lala. Okay. you can be we'll say that your alter ego is b when you get onto social media you better can become b all right you don't give a damn about anybody or anything you're a hustler and you are like in teflon all right yeah any don't let anyone see becca except for the people who deserve it that's when you can be your sensitive self lala i would have given you $350 for that. Really? Yes. Yeah. I feel like this is a new thing. All right. When we come back, Lala's going to continue to fix all of our lives. Oh, I love you. Oh my God. That was absolutely incredible. So we have, um, our listeners writing us questions and

we try to fix their lives. And it's usually really stupid and shitty. The advice that we give excited to have you here because we're going to actually fix some lives. Oh my God. You guys are so fun. I want to stay on here all day. We'll have you all the time. I know. No, you're the best. Okay. So our first question comes from, am I my boyfriend's mom? She says my boyfriend is a capable adult yet. It always feels like he thinks I'm his damn mother. If we go on a trip and I don't pack the toothpaste. It doesn't get brought. He puts his coffee cup in the sink right next to the empty dishwasher that I emptied. He wants something on the grocery store list. He tells me to put it on the list when it's on his phone. How do I tell him, or have you told your men that

they're capable and I am your partner, not your mother. Oh my God. You guys feel, I feel this way sometimes. I'm not going to lie. I mean, Chris and I takes really good care of me, but I am such like a type planner person that I just like naturally become that person in a relationship um where it's like really annoying I think you just hit on something really important Kelty is he taking Chris Knight I would say takes better care of you than you could take take of Chris because he emotionally supports you oh that burden you know not that he wants to he wants to But look at the other things that this person may be supporting you and maybe they're not as obvious as putting a cup in a dishwasher and maybe it's being an emotional support or being your biggest cheerleader or being some other thing. I mean, if they're not and you're still bringing the toothpaste on the trip, then that's a whole nother.

I'm telling you, I went away for a weekend with Chris and he never packs. So I was like, I packed a bag for you and I literally forgot the pile of clothes that I packed for him on top of his dress. I didn't put it in the bag. he had to wear the same shorts for the whole weekend. That'll teach him. They'll start doing it themselves. I was going to say, just stop doing the things and hopefully they'll end up learning their lesson the hard way. But then I feel like we pay for not doing it. Cause it's like, I also need toothpaste. I don't want to look at a dirty dishes in the sink. I know what you do. I know what you do. You bring, you bring a personal toothpaste and you hide it. Oh,

you go to the bathroom you close the door you lock it you brush your teeth you put on the sink so he doesn't hear you and then when he says he's like where's the toothpaste babe it's like i thought you're supposed to bring it looks like you're going rogue can i tell you guys so randall does this randall's guilty of leaving shit everywhere and it's so annoying so i went to the length the great length of wrapping my ankle up and pretending like i tripped on his shoes in the middle of the night that we're just, and I was, yeah. And now he's slowly, but surely putting his things away. Okay. So sometimes you just have to fake an injury. This is the best advice ever. I don't know if we've ever had anyone better on this podcast.

I know this advice is next level. Fake an injury. Okay, great. Next question. Next question says no name, no name. Hey ladies, lately I have been very unmotivated to work out. i'm very self-conscious about my body and i know i should what do you guys do to motivate yourself to work out the worst question ever during covid because it's like who gives a shit there's nowhere to go who are you trying to impress if you're on social media you just download the snow app suck in the you know tips you know you just make your body excuse me snow app is it like facetune you guys it's responsible for getting khloe kardashian and all that trouble yes that's the snow is it the one can you edit a video is that uh is it video editing i only know

how to do it as pictures but like my lips people will comment on my lips they're they're they actually look pretty natural when in real life but i get on the snow app because in pictures they look a little deflated so i puff them up on my snow app i also thin my face out oh yeah the snow have is the goat i'm gonna tell you something i i hate to tell you this but you are much more attractive in person you're stunning like i'm shocked yeah no like i i think that you i think it's time to get rid of the snow app i know your lips are you are your lips are huge and luscious and beautiful they're over lined they're over lined today i know you don't know it's really oh god ditch the app ditch it i need like the a i need the a a of like but it's also your brand

you're like i can't stop i can't stop it's also your brand like that is your like people come to you for whatever that is like it's like the aspirational as like yeah elevated kardashian type beauty. Yeah. Without even going under the knife. Yeah. So awesome. You know what the snow app is cheaper than plastic surgery, you know? I mean, and I know that and like, also you can get it done and then you're still not that beautiful. Like you're just mildly like looking I know. I was like, I need this. You have a killer jawline. Can I, I need that. Well, you also popped a baby out like two days ago, right? Give yourself a break. let's blame it on that to get motivated to work out you can't get motivated you just have to do

it it's like the same thing as sex with emily was like men are like frying pans and women need to warm up you got to warm up your brain to work out like you're never going to be like you know what i can't wait to do right now is work out just start and then it'll be over and you'll be done for the day that's my advice i agree with that and also i've noticed when i take long stretches that where I don't work out. If you just break yourself in slow, just say like today, I'm going to do 20 minutes. And then all of a sudden you're like, I'm cool to do an hour. So I definitely agree with you. Don't. Yeah. Boom. I love it. Okay. Last question comes from Josephine. She says my boyfriend asked his grandmother, if he could have her wedding ring passed down to him

to eventually pass down to me when we get engaged, the sentiment is so sweet. However, I just don't like the ring. I have a shape and style in mind that I love and her ring doesn't do much for me at all am i a horrible person or how do i tell him this without sounding ungrateful oh don't offend grandma is lala's answer gonna be to lose it accidentally no i don't know actually if there's one thing i do know because i always like to say like shoe on the other foot how would i feel if he was like i really don't like this ring that you gave me of your dad's I would murder him and we like it you know I think I think in this case suck it up and then maybe for like a monumental anniversary you can put it in his brain like this is the ring

I want and then you can just start wearing that one instead yeah I do think I agree 100% with Lala 10 years in I'm on like my fourth ring that I wear as a wedding ring like it's not a forever thing you can always have that and then add a band and then just wear your band and then switch you know like wear that one as a neck like whatever I just think if if it's a heirloom like it's probably meaningful and you know you could always maybe just take the stone out I don't know reset it yeah you could do that reset it that would be cool yeah put it into some other kind of jewelry be like I love this the meaning yeah don't rock the boat though by telling him you don't like it. Nope. Nope. Nope. Nope. Well, Lala, you really gave us the Lala. I feel like

we really had it today. We're so excited to see you May 4th. Give them Lala is out. That is today, by the way, it is May 4th today. Uh, the book is out today. Go get it wherever you get your books. Let's make this girl a best seller and you can follow her, which we already do at Lala Kent. um give them la la beauty and we are waiting for the movie to come out and see you with your big al pacino moment we can't wait you guys are amazing thank you for having me congratulations and we will see you next tuesday thanks for listening the lady gang is produced by alex ingbert will sterling steve delameter and jared monaco make sure you subscribe rate and review our podcast and if you love it share it with your friends on social media like oh my god i just

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