LadyGang - FLASHBACK FRIDAY: Josh Flagg

Episode Date: June 30, 2023

Becca was on Bravo’s Million Dollar Listing LA! So we’ve got the man with the plan who found her the home, Josh Flagg! He’s talking about finding Becca’s dream home, what a big commission can look like, and we’re playing the very important game… Flagg or Bag! Original Air Date: August 4th, 2020 Check out our amazing sponsors!!! SKIMS: Go to SKIMS.com - place your order - and select "podcast" from the dropdown menu! Plus, get free shipping on orders over seventy five dollars! Just Thrive: Get 20% off a 90 day bottle of Just Thrive probiotic and Just Calm at JustThriveHealth.com with promo code: LADYGANGSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Hey Lady Gang, welcome to Flashback Friday where we bring some of our favorite Lady Gang episodes from the vault to you in the feed. We have over 600 episodes of this podcast and whether you're an OG and you've heard this episode before or you're a new listener and we're just bringing this up and you had no idea we had this person on our podcast, well you're welcome. Small caveat here, we are an imperfect group of trio of ladies and we've been podcasting for almost six and a half years. If something we said in this podcast doesn't align with Lady Gang 2020, please give us grace for instance there was a period on lady gang where i was not into taylor swift it was the reputation era i wasn't feeling what she was begging but now i'm like a swifty again and so i

just don't want you to hold me to that because we're all growing and learning and our opinions change pretty much every day without further ado welcome to flashback friday well what is this welcome to the lady gang that's amazing say that again the lady gang things are about to change around here each week we catch up with hollywood's hottest girl posse kelty knight becca tobin and jack vanik hello hello hello welcome to the lady gang i am becca tobin here with jack vanik and kelty knight hello hi guys hello stretch do you feel differently about me now that i'm also a bravo liberty honestly you know about that yeah i mean so can i talk about it a little bit yeah yeah so I watched I started first of all your dick because you literally did not remind us like

I saw it on your Instagram like everyone else I didn't know honestly if I hadn't texted one of the producers asking about the timing of it coming out like to line up this episode no one was gonna tell me they don't send you like assets they don't do anything they clearly don't they clearly don't need more viewers because they are not even trying to get not even trying they're not like Becca can you please post a story they're like we're not even gonna give you the story to post so good luck they're like we don't need you i got more text from people same for my 2.4 seconds of saging your murder room like the amount of dms they're like what is the and it was like my real friends they're like what does the murder room look like now like hey did she did she really

take that house. Like people are invested in your proper tie. Anyway, I thought Becca, honestly, there's so many things I want to say about this before we get, sorry, I just have to go off. Number one, Zach was the star. Zach's always the star. Zach's facial expressions won me over because he was exactly the thoughtful, stoic Zach that he is in real life on this show. He just sat back and was like, he was so mad. Why not want to be there? He did not want to be there. Yeah. Yeah. And you could tell. And it was like very much when Zach, when we're at your house and Zach is asked to do something, Zach doesn't want to do same face. Worst. Like he had to take off work for all of these showings. And, and he's like, we would have, cause the thing is, is normally

we would have seen houses like around Zach's schedule and his work schedule, but because it was had to be filmed, there had to be a crew there and we had to have Josh and we had to have like all these things. So we had to go see these houses like it, like Tuesday at 11. And then honestly, I don't want to tell anybody how the sausage is made, but it ain't easy. Oh my God. Well, and then you have to probably see like 20 houses to get the two that they're going to show. And it's exactly, it was amazing. Thank you. But you were so darling. Like I was watching it and I was like, God, she really just is an actress. Like your face. Oh my God. No one looks good in that car closeup. It is a terrible angle. And I was like, that's always like a nice

fish. Oh, beautiful every time. And then you had like the little turtleneck with the bow in your hair. And I was like, who does she think she is? Ms. Sally Prescott. Like I just, I really thought you did such an adorable job and Jack and I, we were great too. You guys crushed it. It was good. I mean, they, they edit that show beautifully. Like I think that they really captured all of moments. I hate watching myself on TV. And for some reason, like I wasn't planning on watching this. Like I didn't have it like in my queue, my calendar, like ready to record. Um, but I got so many messages also with like last week when I was in the, like coming up next week, I got so many freaking people. And I was like, first of all, I am so scared of how many people watch the show

and I've seen now where I live. Like that's terrifying. Um, probably would have thought about that further if i knew but i was like oh it's like million dollar listing i don't know who watches it everyone allegedly all the people millions to show how many people watch bravo versus other channels that we've been on it's true damn they got them numbers they they know what they're doing over there they got them numbers um well let's dive into good week bad week because uh it has to do with this it's time for good week yes it is bad week oh no i do want to just say that we recorded with josh way back when we record when you recorded your episodes when you filmed it up to here is like from when we filmed with josh we were together it was pre-covid

but we're keeping a fresh good week bad week for you because we want to pass this up yes um so my bad week is that after like kelty said after the episode aired everybody's asking me like let me see the red room let me see the murder room what'd you do to it and we've been in this house a really long time we shot that in the fall so um a really long time and i'm so embarrassed to tell people that we've done nothing with the red room and i was actually wondering and you love it and i love it have you cleaned it it was honestly completely new so the person selling the house put in this stuff to show, here's what you can do with this space. They just had really bad taste. So they put in brand new curtains. Those are brand new curtains, brand new carpet, and a brand new couch.

Like that couch has had not even been sat on. What was the room, like when they sold the house to you, what did they say the purpose of that room was? Well, they were assuming, we didn't talk to them personally, but we assumed that it was like storage or like, you know, something like, because is not attached to the house completely. So I think just extra storage. Um, but yeah, they thought it would be like a good selling point too, but I'm, I'm also, you use it. We use it all the time. The, the TV in there is huge. The sound system is amazing that they put in there. So really it just is so bad because they, they need to finish it. Like they need to actually put up drywall cause it's just like cinder block, but the curtains block it and the concrete floor is

covered in that like cheap red carpet but weirdly during covid we've watched so many movies it feels like an outing because you actually have to like go out of the house and go around to the side and yeah it's an activity it's an activity and it's a huge screen you feel like you're in a movie theater i feel very rich when i'm in there oh yes so actually thank goodness we cleansed the spirits then you know a job well done i recorded the audiobook in that room for a lady act like a lady because it was like the most quiet soundproof place in my house so you know what that was actually my my bad week into a good week is that i'm embarrassed that i've done nothing to it and now everybody knows that i have this ugly creepy room and yet i kind of like it like what

are you doing becky you're like just watching a movie in the murder room the murder porn room that jack was like shoot head bundy i didn't watch it did that make it in there yes yes yeah john wayne gacy shoo get out of here btk it was amazing it was really funny i love that jack's playing my little like melon harp it was so funny we really saged those ghosts out of there oh my god well what people don't know is that like you said how the sausage is made so they're like hide in here and you're gonna light the sage and becca and zach are gonna come down and you're gonna be staging the room we're like okay and of course i'm like hurry jack they told us to sage like let's light it up we were in there

for like 15 minutes they had to like empty some of the sage out because you couldn't see with the camera smelled like sage for weeks weeks after that good the whole house like the whole outside of the house you're welcome yeah you're welcome um i'm gonna go so my good week is jared is officially moving to california he is a california resident in like one week he's packing up his house in arizona as we speak nice we'll be moving here chris knight is helping us look for a house oh my gosh i found your house by the way did someone already bid on it which one he sent it to you and he was like this house is amazing and you're like i'm obsessed with it oh yeah that like storybook looking house yeah it was amazing well chris like loves to find houses so i'm gonna let

him be my like pseudo realtor. So that's my good week. Jared's moving here. My bad week is a bad week kind of for both of you. And that is, you know, I think that we thought the toilet paper gate was like really going to be over and done with last year, but there's been a resurgence of information that I need to share with you guys. Okay. So there was this post on our Facebook group and it was like, what is a random fact that you know? And one of the comments was from uh, our gal heaven. And she says, this is her random fact. It takes seven layers of toilet paper for fecal material to not get on your hands off. That's not true. I'm going to die. That's a true fact. So you guys are walking around. Where did she find that? Where did

she find that? Because if that was a real fact, then toilet paper would be made better or would it? I don't know. Seven, seven layers to not get. I have always wondered how they say there's fecal mat on everyone's cell phones and i was like if we're all we're just leaving i'm not wiping up on my hands i probably do have that many layers for number two yeah you're thinking yeah i would i'm thinking of when i pull it out and then i do the fold i'm gonna i'm gonna simulate this after this podcast because i need to know that's disgusting you need to double check if you guys are getting poop hands that shouldn't be allowed it's so gross another thing we need the muffler. I mean, we need the budget Nista to teach us how to invest our money to retire.

And we need someone to teach us how not to be savages and not get poop on our hands when we wait. Thank you. What did we learn in school? Nothing. I know. I'm like, why isn't this a lesson in school? Because there obviously is so much controversy around the subject and nobody really knows the true answer except for probably heaven. So I thought I'd share that to a bit of info. All right. Well, I have a bad week. I'll start there. I am very concerned about dogs and their temperature. Like their forehead? Like this has kept me up at night. Like are dogs cold when it's cold? Okay. What the is happening? Like, okay. No, this is a bad week. This is a real question it's kept you up at night so you know there's some people that have dogs and they're

outdoor dogs on their farms and then at night they like go to the barn to sleep yeah does that dog need a blanket oh i know what you're yeah like i think certain temperatures they can be in colder temperatures some breeds yeah like huskies like the reason this started is because i wash callie every sunday she gets her bath and then i wrap her and she's shivering like she's so cold and i just warm her up and I keep her and I feel so bad. And then when she gets out of the towel, she wants to get out. Like she wants to go run around and like be on zoomies. And when she finishes zooming, she crawls up into my pillow and makes into a little Fox ball and then just shivers for like two hours. And I'm like, are you cold? Do you need a heating pad? Like, well, you can use a

blow dryer, right? I, yes. Do I need to do that? Is my question. Is she cold? I think that dogs are not, they're not going to hide their feelings from you. So if she's cold, I think she's going to shiver and you'll know if she's cold. She's not going to like pretend she's not cold for your I always have to do if it's, if it's at night and I bathe orally, I always have to do like a quick blow dry or she shivers a lot. But then if it's daytime, I bathe her and then I let her go outside and like lay in the sun. She loves that. So I do think they get cold. I just want to know about dogs. I need, does the dog need a snuggie? Like, I don't know, but she will refuses to go under a blanket. Like Callie will not be tamed. She does not want to go under a blanket. She's probably

fine. Like living her best life. Okay. Good temperature. Well, now that I've bored everyone, here's my good week. You guys know that I've been deep in my soul searching this, uh, pandemic and, uh, during therapy, I was sitting there and I was like having a cry and feeling all my feelings. And then I was just sitting there and, um, I looked down at my hand and the tiniest, tiniest little tiny ladybug landed on my fist and it was i've never seen a ladybug so small it was like the tooth fairy delivered this ladybug to me special good luck from heaven it landed there you know a ladybug is like good luck yeah yeah it landed on my hand while i was talking about my fear of the future and it is like a sign that i'm gonna be okay i was more concerned that you

calling it your fist like you're holding no i wasn't wrong like just like it was right here it was like on the meaty part of my it was on my hand okay cool and then that also brought up something from my past when i was in high school my senior thesis in the dance course was a dance called mosquitoes on my hand and then i'm just thinking so many thoughts that's all mosquitoes on my hand yeah that was what it was called there was five girls and i had to like in the modern dance and, um, it was called mosquitoes on my hand. And I was like, it was the discussion of how invasive it is for bugs to land on me without my permission. Did you create this? Yeah. It was my thesis. Yeah. Oh, without bugs landing on you without consent, without consent, like how rude

you just bite at me anyway. I'm so symbolic for men, the bugs. No, I literally, I don't know what I was thinking. I was just an idiot. I was linked to like, listening to a lot. That would have been dope. Mosquitoes on my hand. No, I don't think I was that smart. Anyway. Okay, cool. Well, when we come back, Josh flag is here. Let's talk stress. How fun, right? But it's important. Do you ever feel this tightness in your stomach when you're sitting in traffic or you get sick to your stomach before a big presentation? That is because your gut, not your brain is responsible for your stress response. Mind blowing. I know. So to manage stress, it's really important to take care of your gut. Personally, we trust just thrives probiotic because it's recommended by

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there be sure to check out all the other research-based gut and immune health products there's even a probiotic for your fur baby all with a bottom of the bottle guarantee make this the year you take control of your health with just thrive you're listening to the lady gang Our guest today is a top agent in Beverly Hills and Beverly Hills adjacent for selling homes. And Becca has invited him today to the show to see if he's the top of the lady gang choices. He's known for his record sales and very little fails with over $2 billion in sales. That's a good point. $3 billion?

Okay, interrupting the host. We'll get it right. That is not great. We're fighting already. This is not going well so far. He's sold homes to some of Hollywood's hottest A-listers, including Adam Levine, Steve Aoki. Shonda Rhimes might have heard of her. Nice.

With recognition by Forbes Magazine, The Wall Street Journal, and The Hollywood Reporter. He gets better press than we do. Please welcome to the show a man who knows what he wants and certainly gets what he wants and possibly gets Becca Tobin's business, Josh Flagg. Okay, so I have some questions for you that Becca wants to know, but she's polite, so she's not going to ask you. What's the biggest commission that you ever got off selling a house? A million bucks. So that would be a $10 million house?

No, that would be, I wish. That's $40, $50 million. $40, $50 million. Wait, what's your percentage of commission? Two and a half percent. Oh, that's it? Well, it's just added up to a million. Oh, okay.

Damn. So you just get a million dollar check or how does that go? How does that come? Is it a wire? Well, does it come in cash? I wish. Well, I don't know. I'm a realtor.

I don't think that you're going to get a million dollar commission off of me. It'll be like five grand. Maybe I'll steal it from you. I would notice. Like, for sure. I'd be homeless. You'd need the money. What did you, when you got a million dollar commission, what did you spend that money on?

What's the most expensive? Living. Well, what's the most expensive thing you ever bought? Oh, is it like a fun thing? Yeah. Like, did you buy a Ferrari? No. I bought a Picasso.

That's, there you go. No big deal. That's something. How much was the Picasso? Half a mil. Oh, my God. Well, Becca. No, probably, no, three-quarters of a million.

Becca. But that has nothing to do with that sale. That was other stuff. Oh. That sale, I didn't do anything. I don't know. I just put it in the bank. Becca, do you want this to use this opportunity to tell Josh about your art collection that

you'll need to be showing? Or lack thereof. I have one important piece that my grandmother is actually an artist that she did. It's a nude of my mother when she was 16. Oh, lovely. Josh, what's the most you've ever spent on shoes? On shoes? Yeah.

This is important to a lady. She's got a crazy shoe collection. He's got some Gucci sneaks on. That's $568 right there. That is a very – I know exactly how much those shoes cost. Because you saved up for them all winter. She bought them for the guy's assistant that does our plastic surgery.

Love it. I don't buy my assistant's Gucci shoes. Actually, though, I gave him my used ones. I swear I was at the alterate. What's the place where they repair shoes the other day? And he's like, this is beyond repair. And I go, Wiley, do you want them? He goes, what size are you?

Oh, actually quite large. for a person of my height. How tall are you? I don't know. Five, nine, maybe. What size shoe? Ten and a half. Wow.

Could Zach wear those shoes if he gets the sale? No. No. Okay. I give him my used shoes. Strike against. That's a really good present.

We're going to need used great shoes because we're not going to be able to afford anything else after we buy a house. Yes. Okay. Now, I know you have some rivals in the business

and Becca's also going to be meeting with a couple of them. Oh, okay. Done, done. So, who do you hate the most out of the business who do I like is the real question you don't like anybody you hate everyone

no I'm just superior to them who's your biggest rival there's like a group of 10 of us we all do about the same business and it's always like you know who wins but like if you had to name a name for the purpose of this show who do you hate the most like who should Becca definitely interview with

as her number two who's your biggest threat yeah who's your biggest threat and why well I can't say that on he's gonna give them podcasts Yeah, you should say it. I'm going to get a letter from their attorney. I can't do that. No, okay.

Say allegedly. Okay, who is your least favorite personality? Who do you think – what's a safe question we can ask you? Who do you think would be – if you're not available, who do you think Becca should get? Be nice. Oh. Who's the best? Who's next to you?

James and David. James Harris. I like them. James is my – one of my – James is probably my best friend. Really? He's coming right after this. He's in my – really? Oh, good.

Yeah, we're cycling you out. Oh, good. He sucks. Don't use him. and david too okay i think james is the smarter one of the two though sorry david oh wow oh this is nice though okay i like i like a man that doesn't like actually dog other people yeah that was a test no no no let me get something straight once the microphone is turned off i will dog the shit out of half of them nice oh all right that's good so you're smart i'm not

a kind person just i'm not a kind this is good neither am i yeah can we like go to dinner like tonight at Craig's and call them ahead of time and have the paparazzi shoot us. I mean, they won't show up for me. Actually, they show up and I walk and they're like, hey, Josh. And they don't even photograph me. It's really pathetic. Oh, my God. So they know who you are and then they don't put their cameras up. Well, Kulti calls a paparazzi on herself.

I called last time. Tori Spelling and I were having dinner and I called ahead of time. Tori wasn't a big enough draw for them? No, they shot Tori. But I had to let them know ahead of time that she could be prepared. Yeah, get ready. Spelling on her way. Okay, Becca, I wanted to ask use this opportunity for us to talk about the yeses and nos in your house so you'll give some

and then we'll also tell you what you want oh okay okay um so let's start with the yeses must haves must have uh space i need more space than what i'm currently living in her house is small it's small it's like a tiny little cottage 1200 square feet oh i need at least double okay um i love indoor outdoor vibes i need privacy but i also need convenience so i'm thinking the hills okay i like mediterranean style i need it to have character i don't like those like very modern minimalist homes i don't like those either they're not my jam uh your jelly what i just made up a really dumb joke yeah that was dumb five points taken off sorry okay how many bedrooms do you need you need i need at least three bedrooms one for you guys one for me one for me one for

possible baby and then a podcast studio and then your parents are always there you have five bedrooms you guys share a bedroom you have to share a bedroom we don't want to share a bedroom anymore you don't want to share a bedroom on tour you becca what are your nose nose uh carpet i do not like gross floors i don't like carpet i don't want to have to do a ton of work i don't want carpet in your bathroom no carpet in the bathroom oh god i don't want to do a ton of work oh so move-in ready they call it right mostly move-in ready so not a fixer-upper lingo is that what they call it move-in ready what does that mean i'm scratching my nose i thought you were giving me a sign she's like does that mean like she's like right what do you call it when

we don't have to reno move in ready turnkey turnkey turn we want a turnkey home like a home that doesn't need work yeah yeah okay turnkey um not a fixer-upper i do not want to be on a busy street okay um i want to talk briefly about a must for our house yeah our house yes um we as you can see we are filming you want to explain to him about the room the podcast studio as you can see Which is quite a bummer. It's bleak. It's a little random. So we are hoping that my new house could have a space for the podcast.

And it would be incredible if it was like a guest house. Yes. Separate. Just separate where there's a separate entrance, like where people don't know they're necessarily like in my house. Like I don't need them to see like my tampons in the trash can. Why don't we just do what I do with my therapist and just have a separate entrance into her house and I like, you know. Oh. Oh.

That could work. That doesn't work. That doesn't sound turnkey. It always bothers me though because I'm like, what's behind the door? and she's like, that's my personal spending. Right, no, but I like that. Okay, we are going to play a game that we've created. The game is called Flag or Bag,

and we're going to talk through some of the things that we love in homes. Really, this is Watch What Happens Live? You're going to decide. Are we going to have a code? This is what we do on Lady Gang. Yes. Okay, here we go.

Number one, and everyone's going to comment. Jack, we'll begin with you. Shiplap, flag or bag? Bag is bad? Yeah, bag is like put in the bag, take it to the trash. Bag. Trash bag. Why?

Trash bag. Shiplap, you know how I feel about it. Shiplap is so basic. You don't even know what shiplap is? It's like Chip and Joanna Gaines. They don't shiplap in Beverly Hills. Yeah. It's for like cottages.

I'm glad that you don't know because I don't want that. What is it? Great. It's like when they put- Shiplap is a beautiful old wood that you put sometimes in your bathroom at your house. It's like- Wainscoting? There's just like wood panels.

Wainscoting. But the other way. Wainscoting. Beadboard? Kind of, but not that. Not as classy. Okay. I'm going to bet-

I'm going to flag it because I think it's great. We know. Okay. Jack, hot tubs. Ooh. It depends, like on a really nice house flag. Are they recessed or are they elevated off the floor? I didn't even think about it.

Make your boat flag, depending. If it's the post ranch inn and it's the stainless steel overlooking the cliff, I'm going to flag it. However, I will get in any hot tub. I can't lie. I love to flag it. Flag it. Me too. Flag it.

If it's recessed, flag it. If it's, like, one of those ones that, like, you know, you have to put your feet into and, like, hike into it. Yeah, that's one that Kelty got. Like the one you get at, like, Leslie's Pools. Yeah, not down with that. That's the only one I was thinking about. I haven't been around enough nice places for the other one. Okay, we'll take you around.

Thanks. We'll get you there one day. Okay, this is an Instagram quiz. This is a lightning round. Instagram. Bathing suit pictures. I mean, flag. It's her lifestyle.

Yeah. Bag. Motivational quotes. Bag. Bag. Bag. flag i love a quote i hate quotes so far i don't know about him but you guys seem to be the same person we are aligned okay private jet luxury car pictures like when you're like oh just getting on

the jet bag i mean but i would do it i haven't gotten the chance she would i haven't gotten the chance yet bag so bad but i've done it before okay i think it's flag i think it's fierce i like your honesty weren't you didn't you try to get a picture in front of the jet suite it's like why You wouldn't do that if you had your own jet. No. It's not a pathetic. No, it's always the hanger on our friends. It's always the lingers.

It's the ones that travel for free. Yeah, it's the model. Those are my favorites. I love those. I love being those people. Next one for flag or bag. Karaoke. Oh, my God.

Did it last night. Flag. Trash bag. Karaoke. So trash bag. Flag. Boring. Will you do karaoke with me?

For sure. And what's my song? Faith by George Michael. I've talked about this on the podcast before. Do you remember her talking about this? I do. Last flag or bag. Threesomes.

Whatever. I haven't done it, but flag. I mean, not for me, so I'm going to bag it. I'm down for it. You like a threesome? Well, I did when I was, like, single. So you don't have a threesome? Except it was really disappointing, like, when, you know, you're all getting ready,

and you're, like, there, and you're like, you know this is going to happen, and then you get in the bed, and everyone gets naked. This is not now. This is, you know, my single years. Right. And then, like, everyone gets into it, but leaves you alone, and that's really sad. Right. The two other people.

Oh, yeah. You're left out. I'm at five. that's that's not a threesome oh sorry we're talking about oh okay when we come back real estate icon to the stars josh flag is gonna fix your life this episode of lady gang is brought to you by the fits everybody collection by skims the fits everybody collection and more perfect fit essentials are available now at skims.com plus free shipping on orders over 75 skims is creating the next generation of underwear for every body so i'm obsessed with their thongs

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that follows happy shopping now back to the lady gang all right and we're back um so for this part of the podcast we have all of our girls writing questions and we give them really terrible advice so you ready yeah first question comes from inappropriate crier she says i was in a long-term relationship and after about two years i just started crying halfway through sex for no reason the sex was great and i didn't hate him the tears would just come on and not stop we broke up a year or later but still every time i have sex i cry it's so embarrassing and now i have constant anxiety that every time i have sex i'm going to cry it's putting me off dating altogether please help me you should at the same time when you're crying when you're crying when you're crying you should

be like me me me and then they'll think you're crying out of passion ah it's so good that just say me why is she crying she just started crying halfway through sex that's gonna make that empower the guy he's gonna be like wow i'm really that good she's crying but then he's gonna jackrabbit her and that's gonna hurt oh what was that like were you just like pound like a oh okay gotcha you know i love someone that cries during sex i feel you girl do you i've definitely had tears But are you crying because you're sad and it's like a – No, I'm crying because it's like it's an overcoming emotion of love. Like this is my person.

I do think she needs a little therapy. Therapy might help for sure. Okay, next question. Second question comes from Jealous Friend. She says, I know this is a first world problem, but I don't know how to deal with it. My best friend has a perfect life with everything handed to her. She's dating a perfect guy who completely spoils her. She has a great job.

Her parents give her anything she wants along with hundreds of dollars. I've been single for five years. my job is shitty but i need it in order to move up and i'm barely making ends meet i'm super far in debt from student loans she always calls me when she's on trips to other countries and makes time for me but it's so hard to not complain about my situation when she tells me all of the amazing things she's doing and how well everything is going for her how can i be happy for her instead of just tell the bitch to share the money be i mean that was like a that was a no-brainer well And if she does, then drop her ass.

But do you share your money with your friends? Can we have some of your money? No, but I don't have any friends. Can we be friends? And then can we start asking for money for no reason? Yeah, but you won't want to hang out with me when I say no. Drop my ass. I say she drops her fucking ass because she has no benefit.

If the rich person's not helping her out, drop her ass. Maybe she likes her friendship. I think jealous friend, here's the thing, that life is a circle of life like we're in the Lion King. There's always going to be hyenas and there's always going to be Mufasa. This is weird. you where's this going well what i'm saying is that there's like in life there's always going to be someone who's above you and you have to look at them like inspiration like wow this is like great i'm so happy for you and there's going to be someone that looks at your life

the way you look at your friend's life so you need to have gratitude and compassion for your own life and then also like be happy for your friend like it's exciting also if it really bothers you and you guys are in totally two different places then reevaluate your friendship if she's that tone deaf to not realizing. And I guarantee not everything is going as well. No. Everyone has period cramps. And if she's poor, dump her ass.

She's not. Well, here's the thing, too. You should be very proud of yourself that you're making your own way, and she's rich by injection. Injection rich. It's not the same. Yeah, but you'd rather be injection rich. No.

This is for real. Yeah, no, it would be great, but it's more meaningful if you're self-made. Good for you. Really. It is. Yeah, tell that to the person. I don't think so. I don't think Josh is – he's not a fan.

He's not our audience. Are you self-made or are your parents rich? They are rich, but I'm – Did they give you money? Did they pay for college? But he's working. Oh, yeah. No, but I did – it's not like I sat back and did nothing.

Oh. It's not like they handed me – Look at him. He's working his ass off. Yeah, look here. I'm sitting here hawking a house to you. I'm a dirt peddler. I pedal dirt.

Are you calling my future home dirt? Oh, sorry. No, I'm good. He's like – yeah. Last question comes from Anonymous. anonymous says my fiance and i have been trying to schedule a date for our wedding with both of our families but it's become extremely difficult because of my fiance's mom she's been putting off the wedding date conversation for months and although my

fiance has been standing up to her in his own way it's all culminated yesterday when she told him that we shouldn't get married and that he's making the wrong decision this is the future mother-in-law uh-huh yeah i don't know what to do and i'm heartbroken he even told me that he will not break his relationship with his family or his mother for me goodbye do we have a chance or is it completely over since my fiance said dump her ass dump her ass his ass it's over it's over it's over yeah sorry but like also be happy that you're not going through with a marriage because a mother-in-law like that sounds brutal she would have if if she has that much influence over him in general like thank god you didn't get married because she will break him down did your husband's family like you

and vice versa yeah everybody got along everyone's happy wow josh it's been great to have you here we've loved having you thank you for joining the lady gang would you like to work together sure wait what well she's paying me you decided now you didn't even ask us our opinion i can sense it i can tell when you guys like people it's a giant no for you it's a great yes that is so rude Yeah, well, give her 100 bucks, she'll change her tune. Give me $100,000 and then I'll be fine. Josh, welcome to the Lady Gang. Thanks.

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