LadyGang - FLASHBACK FRIDAY: Nico Tortorella

Episode Date: November 11, 2022

Super hottie Nico Tortorella (star of TV's "Younger" and host of the "Love Bomb" podcast) leaves the LadyGang swooning, literally... in this hilarious episode that covers everything from "sexual fluidity" (WTF?) to polyamorous relationships to having sex with your co-stars on set! Plus, Nico and the girls play "Cougar or Cold Shoulder" and have plenty to say about Madonna, Mariah Carey, Sharon Stone, and Cameron Diaz. Original Air Date: November 22nd 2016 This Flashback is brought to youby Progressive! Quote your car insurance at Progressive.com to join the over 27 million drivers who trust Progressive!See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Hey, Lady Gang, welcome to Flashback Friday, where we bring some of our favorite Lady Gang episodes from the vault to you in the feed. We have over 600 episodes of this podcast, and whether you're an OG and you've heard this episode before, or you're a new listener and we're just bringing this up and you had no idea we had this person on our podcast, well, you're welcome. Small caveat here, we are an imperfect group of trio of ladies, and we've been podcasting for almost six and a half years. If something we said in this podcast doesn't align with Lady Gang 2020, please give us grace. For instance, there was a period on Lady Gang where I was not into Taylor Swift. It was a reputation era. I wasn't feeling what she was begging, but now I'm like

a Swifty again. And so I just don't want you to hold me to that because we're all growing and learning and our opinions change pretty much every day. Without further ado, welcome to Flashback Friday. Ah, Nico Tortellini, one of the classic episodes of Lady Gang. We loved Younger and we had no idea. I mean, we knew he was hot, but then this again was when we had the studio in Beverly Hills and he drove to Beverly Hills and we sat with him for an hour and he just, he has the specialness of Nico. He's so special. He's so warm. He gave great advice. He's so open. We giggled like school girls. And I think this was one of those episodes that everyone always remembers because we can play it so cool. And then inside we're all just like fangirls. The fact that I've

never looked at nico's name and not said nico tortellini since is incredible one of our favorite episodes enjoy this classic from the vault and have a great weekend well what is this welcome to the lady gang that's amazing say that again the lady gang things are about to change around here each week we catch up with hollywood's hottest girl posse kelty knight becca tobin and jack Vanik. Hola. Hola, Becca. It's our bilingual episode of The Lady Gang. Chimapel Kelty Night. And it's done. Español. Hashtag thirsty. Thirsty in all languages. Hi, you guys. I'm sorry if this is your first episode you're listening to. Maybe go pick another one. We're on another level today. I'm Becca Tobin, sugar addict and actress. And next to me is Jack Vanik,

clothing designer of jack vanek across from me kelty knight what are you nipple hair grower and entertainment journalist professional professional at both um and um thanks for joining us this week let's just kick it off with good week yes it is bad week oh no becca yes before we begin can i just make mention no we're so excited about our lady box oh my god the lady Oh, we've been working on this for months. Our box is delicious. Our box is so good. So basically, we're spending all this time promoting other people's boxes.

And we're like, we love most of the products in there, but we could design the ultimate lady box. So inside your box, we're going to reveal one of the items today. Which one should it be? It should be yours. Mine? Yeah. We have a special Jack Vanek slash Lady Gang zip pouch. And there's only 500 of them.

And once these are gone, they're gone forever. You can't buy it again. So anybody who wanted to get our tank before and thought that they're going to get it later, we won't sell anything again. This is a limited edition. It's like a $200 value for $49, and we're so excited. It's the greatest gift, too, for the holidays. I'm giving it to everyone.

Me, too. We're so excited. There actually is none left for you all to buy because we're buying them all. We're so excited, and we're so excited to partner with Frolic on this amazing project. Exactly. Is that your good week? That was just what I wanted to just say. Good.

All right. Well, do you want to jump into Good Week, Bad Week? Yes. Do it, Kelsey. I'm excited. Today, I did my second ever fake paparazzi photo shoot. Oh, God. And I was great.

I just died. Who? Did you call for this one? I didn't have to call them. They set it up. They asked me, will you be in the fake paparazzi photo shoot? Who said this? The publicity people.

Oh. So they wanted to get me in this certain dress. and i think you'll see it in the magazines pretty soon and did you get paid no am i supposed to yeah how much for a fake paparazzi shoot or she used yeah but i'm getting paid in press it doesn't matter oh really you're helping them more than they're helping you are you sure i feel pretty excited when i see myself in a magazine that's probably why they chose you because they're like oh we need a girl to come wear this dress who'll do it for free kelty night well she's so thirsty i always feel bad and then they're like do you want to take any of the clothes i'm like

that's fine but i did take clothes i know anyway i was excited and i'll tell you two reasons i was excited number one i didn't hate my face the way i normally do and i thought i looked cute um i have a bad week that is so bad you guys know that i was recently celebrating the fact that i finally got photographic evidence of jeans man yes well then picture this me and rebecca are on for those of you who've never listened before jeans man is my gym stalking person and he comes to the gym and he wears a bedazzled jean from 1999 and works out for like six fast minutes and then leaves and he's like incredibly handsome except for the jeans and we it's a mystery so we've been tracking him so i'm on the treadmill i'm running sprints rebecca my makeup artist behind

me we're running sprints we literally jeans man comes in he's on a buso ball and he's doing like deep ab set workout and i'm we're like yeah yeah yeah and then he stands up and puts the ball away and he comes by and me and rebecca literally are like running level 10 on the thing in the middle of a sprint we both look at each other and we go married we saw the ring oh no now listen we're both married so there's really like nothing was gonna happen anyway but he has a gold wedding ring on we never noticed it before jeans man has a wife and i have come to a conclusion she purchases the horrible rhinestone jeans to keep him at his hotness level down muted because if he was dressed properly he's a david beckham you cannot if you this man did not have

these terrible jeans you gotta knock him down he would be cheating on her so she puts the jeans on him to keep him out of like a clean seven what can i do to sneakily do this to zach you're not like oh you want to put him in a row you want to bring him down a hotness level i know you have to do it with clothes i guess clothes are like acid in the face it is it's so well clothes are like for girls it's a immediate turn off you can be so hot but if you have the wrong shoes or yeah shoes put them in like he has great taste in clothing so it upsets me yeah but i see we were at the hollywood bowl recently and i saw these girls like i effing him from afar 100 it's gross he's oblivious thank god but i'm like watching these girls like they're like a few

rows in front and a few rows off to the side so like diagonal and they're like looking back and they're like and i'm do you see me i've had the same thing happen it's upsetting when i and chris is so tall that you can i can never tell like are you just staring at him because he's so tall are you staring no they're predators they're predators predators get the way they don't even care that i'm there chris you're getting a bedazzled gene i care no the girls care i don't like it i used to care i would never i remember if i saw a guy and thought he was hot and then if i realized he was with another girl i felt terrible like an idiot yeah but you're not like some thirsty girl trying to hook up with guys sometimes chris doesn't wear his wedding ring

too and i'm like yeah that thing is super glued one time one time he was like um he was posted someone posted a picture on his wall of him with his arms around a girl and i was like who is this and i like cried and i was so mad and like it turns out like the girl had cancer and it was like she was dying and everyone was like posting their pictures and tagging him and i felt so bad healthy all right i think a bedazzled genie is easier next jack i'll go um so i don't know if people have been listening to this podcast for a like the past year everybody knows i like do these grab bags of like random stuff i found around my office and i sell it for cheap and whatever so a couple weeks ago i did these grab bags for flannels that i found around the office i sold

them for 29 bucks on my website whatever i was like oh i'll get rid of them in a few days i I post it in our secret lady gang Facebook thinking that I'm like, oh, I'll give these girls first pick. It'll be a nice gesture. I sold out of him in like an hour. Just for the lady gang? From our lady gang fans. I love that.

Why didn't I start selling on there? I know. It's such a great tool. Secret Becca. You're going to have to be on Secret Becca if you want to sell something. I know. You got to start talking to people too. But yeah, I was like, it was before I could even post on Instagram.

I'm talking. They just don't know it. You're the asshole starting like fights everywhere. What if that was me? I'm going to have to moderate you out. talking shit about you it'd be great are people talking shit about me i haven't seen any shit talking i mean we moderated out very quickly who gets talked the most shit about about things we say yeah you you oh okay well that's not really a surprise no i know i don't even know why you asked

okay okay that was your good week that was a good week okay so my bad week um the other weekend uh scott and i took his kids to san francisco and for like a little like staycation kind of thing and so we're all staying in one hotel room obviously and the kids are asleep and you got did it no oh sorry scott they're like sitting on the bed and just talking and we had eaten some like really greasy disgusting food and it was like my tummy was a little rumbling now and i'm sitting there like oh i got a two and i've farted in front of him before but it's always like a cute one and i'm sitting like kind of sideways on the bed and i sort of like try to squeeze it like clench it and so it doesn't you know never work did you shart and i i was like

okay i'm gonna just oh let's like let it out it's fine i let it out it is the loudest fart i've ever done in my entire life like in my entire life loud on a skev one to ten it was it was hotter than that oh my gosh wow and i woke his kids up with the fart that's amazing wait that's amazing and i didn't expect it i usually can judge him what did he say he was because i guess you're pretty comfortable in a relationship now oh my god no kidding i didn't mean to what a rite of passage i didn't know that's great all right my turn i don't know if i i mean i don't even feel like i should even say what mine are this week but i'll go um this one actually is kind of appropriate for your fake

paparazzi shoot it's pretty in line okay so i was at the hollywood bowl and i was walking from the bathroom with zach and to our seats and i noticed these girls like all up in my grill behind me and it's crowded there so i was like didn't think much of it and they're just like really up in my business and like walking very close to me and i could tell that they were trying to get like a look at my my face because they were walking behind me and um and they were like oh my god so many b-listers out tonight shut up my god and i was like oh my god you really think i'm a b-list thank you so much i didn't say that but i that's so nice if you're on the b-list that's good i mean i feel like that's a pretty good group of people to be associated with like i mean the only thing

on a list is like that's what i thought so i feel like the b-list is pretty good and i was like i know that they wanted to insult me but it actually was a compliment great like because on no and on no planet do i ever think a-list no but they i mean that was b-list is the a-list for everyone else in the world exactly that's true so that's thank you so much um bad so many b-listers so many b-listers tonight i'm like who else i also want kind of want to be like who like i don't see anybody like less famous than me um so my my bad week though is that i have been traveling a ton since since i was like 18 you know when you like do shows and you're doing theater and like you just travel you get on planes you're like i i'm always on an airplane and i have never been had

an issue with it it's annoying i hate it but i have friends who are like terrified of flying terrified and i always used to kind of like silently judge them 100 because they're like i need a xanax i need a drink oh my god i'm gonna like at any turbulence they like grab the seat next to them and i'm like you're fine either you're dead or you're fine exactly and so i was always like this real you know so cruel jackie you're dead or you're fine it's true there's not in between so i was always like a pretty big you know you can say bitch bitch about it and now i i've become scared of flying like i was on the last couple flights i was on the turbulence was crazy and i'm not joking i did that awful thing that like old people do i grab the seat next to

me i'm sitting next to strangers and they look at me like you idiot you're gonna be you're either dead or you're fine exactly and i and now i like i don't know if i've built it up so much the anxiety but now i have fucking fear now i have a fear of flying i developed a random anxiety of flying is it gonna go away mine did it has to yeah mine like came and went it was really weird i can't start doing drugs xanax does help them yeah on the plane but then it like knocks me if it's like a 30 minute flight it's kind of like i'm done yeah like i'm gonna fly down to san diego and be like done for 24 hours after that so there you go pretty bleak but what's coming up it's not bleak no it's not probably the most excitable episode we've ever had with lady gang you're

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Well, hello, everyone. Our guest today is a major babe who plays Sutton Foster's love interest on the hit TV series Younger. You've also seen him on Make It or Break It and the following. He is the host of the podcast The Love Bomb, where he talks about love, gender, sexuality, relationships, and how difficult we all are, and we really love it. Welcome to the lady gang. I am going to kill your last name. I'm not sharing it.

Nico Tortella. No, terrible. That wasn't even close. Tortella. Wait, I want to sound it out. Nico Tortorella. Tortorella. There's Tor, Tor, Ella.

I feel like it's pretty phonetically. Nico Tortellini, welcome to the podcast. I mean, if I had a nickel, let me tell you. What do people normally say? Are you Italian? Irish, actually, Nico Tortorella. He's German. That was racist, Kelsey.

Yes, I'm 100% Italian. I just did a DNA test, and I found out that. Oh, did you? Which one? I'm 67% Italian, 14% Western European, and 13% from Caucasus. do you have any idea where is that isn't that white no no no that's caucasian i thought the same exact thing caucasus is an area like just south of russia and north of georgia it's like this old like biblical land i didn't even know you do kind of look like hot jesus i'll take it

i'll take it you can't say there's a rule no uh no no f word on this one take that out why don't we just bleep his yeah we should bleep it no it's fine i'll really try i'll really try okay So Nico Tortellini, Younger is one of the best shows on TV. It's made and created by the same guy that created Sex and the City. For people that are not hip and they're not watching it, give us a brief synopsis and why we should get into it. Yeah, well, if you love Sex and the City, you will love this show. It kind of is Sex and the City. It takes place in Brooklyn most of the time.

I don't know. It's about this 40-year-old woman that's pretending to be 26 to get back into the workforce. and she kind of jumps through a bunch of hoops and, you know, gets a whole makeover and gets a studly young boyfriend and all else falls into place. I love this story. Very inspiring.

It's a great show. And then once the TV career is on lock, then you can start all your side hustles when you're on hiatus. And so you started a podcast. Welcome to the podcasting world. Thank you. Where can people find the episodes

and what day can they subscribe? And then also, what is the podcast about? Well, the podcast is called The Love Bomb. it's on at will love bomb great name it's good it's a good name funny story about how i came to that name have you trademarked it yet be careful uh no i haven't oh you should go get on that if somebody wants to use it go ahead this is a love bomb what if you're using someone else's then we'll try to see you such a cool outlook on it when we were doing it we were like if anybody tries to take the lady gang i mean do you realize how many lady gangs there's probably

we get to shut them down now you own it now well we started off our podcast i'm gonna go trademark love bomb and then i'm gonna sell it back to you i'll just change the name okay so what do you talk about on the podcast is it just about love uh no it's not just about love i mean it is how love fits into everybody's lives in different ways you know i think it kind of takes its own form in everybody's life uh completely differently and i don't know i mean so many people are having this conversation about sexuality and gender these days and that's definitely a big part of it um the more i've been doing it the more i just have realized that everybody is so different it doesn't matter where you fit on the spectrum just everybody should be treated as an individual

because our stories are all so different um so you have come out in the press gotten a little bit of heat for saying that you are sexually fluid sexually moist is actually what i have to say sexually moist sexually moist well i actually i hold on i hate the word moist too but i also don't love the word fluid it was taken it was taken out of context the way that i said it it's better than other words i just don't know what it means well like christian stewart said she was sexually fluid now does that mean you're bi or or did somebody say that christian stewart This is my question, but I don't even understand what it means. What is the difference between you like guys and girls bi and sexually fluid?

I don't understand. Please explain this. And did you say that about yourself? Yeah, and are you? Somebody else. Confirm or deny, Nico. I was having a conversation with a journalist from Page Six. First mistake.

You can't say you're having a conversation with a journalist. You're getting interviewed. I have lots of conversations with journalists all the time. Um, and I was talking about how as a whole, uh, humankind is moving towards a more fluid mindset of everything, right? Correct. And then the next day it comes out, Nico Tortorella comes out as sexually fluid, taken out of context a little bit.

Um, I don't know. Fluid just, just, just means that it doesn't have to be one thing for the rest of your life. You can change your mind, you know, you can go back and forth. You can like, there's, there's room for growth. You can contradict yourself. It just – Based on the two minutes you saw at the Lady Gang, when you're fluidly feeling females, which one do you want to make out with?

This is really awful. Which one do I want to make out with? This is awful. This is – Kelsey, why do you do this? Don't ask her. Okay. But – He was getting ready to do that.

How has the Page Six article affected your life in Hollywood? Because unfortunately, this kind of stuff can blow up in your face. Like a love bomb does. You know, just – Love bomb podcast. Blow up in your face. I don't know I think it's kind of just taking the weight out of the conversation it's not

I mean if I hear like one more coming out story or somebody else writes an article about their like troubled teen years exactly oh my god Becca you have a kindred spirit here with so many no but I think that like it just

it gives the opportunity to approach the conversation with a much more light hearted attitude you know and i think that um that's what i'm trying to do nico tortellini what is it like to be so good looking like to be so ridiculously good looking what is it i mean no it's it's it's crazy like it's insane yeah you're so damn attractive it's upsetting i have to tell you i'm gonna this is a confession would i have a confession too it's all confessed anytime one

of my girlfriends goes through a breakup i'm always like well i was i was like what about that nico guy from younger i've said this like seven times and they're like stop living vicariously through us we cannot date him and they're why not they're always like i think he's gay i don't know what he is i think he's bisexual i don't know and like so well if i'm bisexual then it works we're good it's true but like we were so unclear about who you were we wanted to we wanted to put you in a box i am single and available okay what's your condition so i was a really big uh fan of the following nice and a very big fan of you when it was coming out that i like these are just us like trying to get you to pick us at the end of this bachelor this is like we're going back to

the main question who do i want to make out with the most i need to sell myself okay jack go your turn oh no i thoroughly stalked your instagram i've like seen every single page when i was single i was trying to pursue it oh are you into my instagram or does it get real douchey sometimes it's a little douchey it's a little douchey you dress a little you have to be douchey but it's Okay. Yeah, but I like laugh at myself. But I think that you're, yeah, it works because you're kind of goofy and you don't take yourself seriously.

At all. I mean, it's so normal. But if you're into, you've worn fedora hats in your pictures. He loves fedora hats. Yeah, Jack hates a fedora. Oh my God, he brought a fedora to the lady game. That's not a fedora. No, this is not a fedora.

That's like, it has the white brim. It's called a fashion hat. A fashion hat. It's fashion. That's the technical term of it? Wait, okay, then I haven't worn a fedora because all of my brooms are this size. Fedoras are like the little ones that... Like a Justin Timberlake.

Yeah. No, like a pit bull fedora. Yeah. No, it was like the front down and the sides up. I feel like I remember you wearing a fedora, though. Kelsey, you don't have a confession. Nico, I have no confessions about you. I'm playing hard to get.

Hey, baby. First time for everybody. First time in my life at 34 years old. Okay, you have a lot of tattoos, so we want to know, what is your favorite and least favorite of your tattoos? Which one would you doctor tat off, and which one would you like to keep? first take off your clothes so we can see them all i don't know my favorite tattoo is probably my whole chest piece it has um the male sign on my right shoulder the female sign on my left

shoulder and says not this not that beyond definition on my chest oh it's like so deep You're so beyond definition. I'm like crazy. You're so... Jack is feeling like a schoolgirl. She doesn't even know what to do with herself. It's so hot. I'm just so glad I'm not single.

Jack, I've never seen Jack be such a loser before. I love it so much. Are we going to fight harder over Nico or Larry David? Oh my God, no. I don't know. Oh, shit. You're the only man who's ever come between Larry David. She's crying.

She's so in love. She's emotional. She's not. She's torn. This is insane. Our listeners are bored. They're so bored. They've turned it off already.

Okay. Which Dr. Tad-Off would you Tad-Off? I woke up one day. With a tattoo on your ass. With a tattoo on my leg. What does it say? Show us. Take your pants off.

Jack wants to see. They're typewriter keys. Oh. They're old typewriter keys and it says good people. And then a month later, I got love across it. Did you cover it up with love? No. I cover everything up with love.

Oh, my gosh. So you don't love that one? It's the first one I would take off. You don't love the love tattoo? It's just not good work. It's like some asshole in Venice put it on. Is the meaning of it that you love good people? Or that good people love?

Or that people love good? you're so deep I can't believe you don't live in Los Angeles I lived here for a long time I live in New York he just winked at you no there was hair in my eye I wasn't making eye contact

I'm sweating you guys are so I can't believe I'm the one pulled together sometime on the podcast one time I laughed so hard I cried for like 5 minutes for no reason when I was happy it was so weird I'm so calm

It's not a puzzle. It's okay. These teenagers over here. Get it together, lady gang. I'm embarrassed for you. Wait, how old are all of you guys? We're all 17, Nico Spaghetti. Here we go.

Nico Spaghetti. Okay, what's going on? Now, here's the lady gang. Okay, I have a game prepared for us because we all love games. Wait, here's the greatest thing. Oh, no. It's this game. The game is the greatest thing.

No, I can't say it. Okay, the game is called Because of Your Show Younger. Involves a cougar. So hot. We're not even drunk right now. My hat just went in the fire. Wait, speaking of drunk, I brought some THC oil in case any of you guys want some. I will go in a corner and hyperventilate, but thank you.

It's really wonderful. Last time I did that, I felt like I had blow darted. I couldn't even keep my eyes open. Okay. This podcast is horrible. We have to get back together. Here we go. Pull it together.

cougar because of your show hit tv show younger involves a cougar so i'm calling this game cougar or cold shoulder so cougar is you would do them or cold shoulder is no and we're going to go through the list of very famous female cougars not you guys not us not these whores we're pumas younger than a cougar how old is it y'all are like like legitimate options what are you talking about cougar puma you're my age how old are you oh my god you guys yeah we're the same age we're the exact same age all right cougar or cold shoulder this is my original skin here we go i had a peel last week okay okay first choice demi more she remember remember she dated ashton Kutcher, who was 16 years younger than her.

She was 41. He was 25. Demi Moore. Cougar. I have some great Demi Moore stories. Do you want to tell us? Do you hook up with her? Nope.

Keep going. Have you dune her? Have you dune her? Have I dune her? Have you? Did you dune her? I'm just going to answer Cougar. That is the answer to that.

Oh, I think he did. Okay. Cougar. Yeah, she's hot. That bikini pic on Instagram, probably taken by Tortellini over here. She's so hot. She's hot. Okay.

Next up, Mariah Carey, Nick Cannon. Cold shoulder. she was 38 he was 27 cold shoulder not like not even remotely interested are we talking about like the relationship no i'm just talking about mariah like if we think they're cougars mariah cold shoulder i say cougar i think mariah would be so fun you would have sex with mariah carey well what what mariah honey mariah a hundred percent that's like 20 years ago not glitter mariah and not current mariah but like honey mariah and the white tube top and then she was on the sea this is about them being cougars so right now her at this age well she is i think

it would be fun for one night because she would be like first you'd be in a bubble bath with champagne and you would be on her yacht you're just thinking of her in the episode of cribs she's like here's all my fan mail i love my butterfly lambs and then she's like here's my butterfly diamond ring and she's just like in the bathtub i think it could be fun sorry okay well all right sharon stone she was 57 and he martin mika was 27 cougar cougar yeah for sure i i have different tastes than you guys clearly uh i'm saying cold shoulder you would consider mariah carey taste yeah seriously okay um madonna she dated braham zabit who's 30 years different She was 55 and he was 25.

Would you do Madonna? For the story. For the story. Madonna. Do you think Madonna... Well, hold on. Just think about the gay street credit I would get for that. Play the game.

It's like that Lindsay Lohan credit. He says cougar or cold shoulder. Cougar. Cold shoulder. I'm not like a Madonna person. She tries too hard. I say cougar for the experience because I'm like you. But here's my question.

Can someone that puts out that much sex in the world actually be sexy behind closed doors? I feel like it's a fact. Are you asking me that question? Yeah. Personally, how is the ratio of sexiness on the outside to sexiness on the inside? But you know what I mean? Like, it's such a show out there. I bet she's just in her, like, athleisure wear at home.

No, she's definitely not in athleisure wear. I feel like she's a freak. She's, like, always with, like, Ricardo Tisci, like, running around in zero clothes. Yeah. She probably is a freak in the bed. She's got some freak in the bed. Damn on her, dude. Yeah.

Does yoga. She's real bendy. I'm more tired than she is. Deb Mazur is one of her best friends, and she was at – Deb is on Younger. Yeah, Deb is on Younger in Cuba for Madonna's birthday, and there was some wild stories. Wild stories. Okay.

Here's one for you, Becca. Kim Zolciak. Croy is six years. She's 31. He's 25. I don't believe she's 31. That doesn't really make her a cougar. First of all, she's not 31.

Is that the blonde? Can't be lying. It's the wigs. The girl with the wigs on House 5. The blonde. With the wigs. The one from Atlanta, right? Yes.

Cougar. Of course. You love the Housewives. Jack? I don't know who that is. Play the game. I don't know. Cougar?

Spaghetti. Cold shoulder. Cold shoulder for me, too. Cold shoulder for me. Do you know who she is? Yeah. Okay. I obviously don't know who she is.

Because if you knew who she was, you would... Because if you knew... It would be Cougar. Cougar. Okay. Susan Sarandon. She was 64. he was 33 when she dated Jonathan

Brooklyn. Cougar. Cougar. Cold shoulder. Oh my god. The talent alone. I know. Susan Sarandon. She's like. She's not. It's not an audition. It's set. Or is it? She's gonna make it. I've had many a people because they were talented.

Is talent something that makes you want to It is the only thing that I'm talking to. I don't know. It's a huge thing. 100,000%. Yeah, there's this successful, hot, you know. So what is your vote?

Susan Sarandon, do you even know who that is, Jen? I need some chapstick. Did you just have that in your hand? Yes. I always have chapstick. This peel is making my skin. I'm such a mom. What kind of peel did you get?

I did a V-peel. A vagina peel? A V-peel. So my face is really... Okay, back to the game. Are you voting? Cougar. Great.

Cameron Diaz she was 31 when she dated little 22 year old Justin Fedora wearing Timberlake aww Cameron Diaz

I feel like is fun times yeah cougar I think she should have worn more SPF in her young years but I'm gonna say cougar she also did like

a ton of coke in her young years too well she's a model allegedly no I was there like no I'm just kidding she did it off my ass

cougar cougar for sure okay she's the first all four cougar wow All right, the last one. Sandra Bullock, she dated Ryan Gosling, which we all forgot about, when she was 38 and he was 22.

And the red carpet pictures are so magical. But that age difference is massive. That's crazy. He was 22? 22, and he was wearing, like, oversized suits like the Backstreet Boys that didn't fit him on the red carpet at the movie premieres. He had, like, that spiky hair. At the movie premieres. At the movie premieres.

Wait, can I ask you guys a question? What's the oldest that you've dated? Excuse me, I'm the moderator. Can I please just get one? I am the Anderson Cooper. Please vote. What's the one question? You can have it, but vote first.

Give him the one question. I said Cougar. You have to say, yeah, Cougar. Cougar, yeah. That's like Hollywood. I never even knew that happened. And so hot. She's so hot.

I mean, Miss Congeniality. I do not enjoy brunette. Oh. A brunette. I do not enjoy brunette. It's a cold shoulder from me. You're making a statement against brunette. I know.

I'm not attracted to brunette. Never? You've never looked at, like, J-Lo, would you? Do you like my hair? What about a brunette guy? She is not a blonde. Okay, then I like brunettes, but not Sandra Bullock. You hate Sandra Bullock.

Tortellini. Yes, ma'am. What question do you want to ask? How old is the oldest person you've dated? Becca? Dated or... Oh, age difference. Yeah, age difference.

10 years. 10 years? I dated somebody that was like 42 when I was 28. Okay, that's good. 87. Just kidding. Oh, I think in my like late... No, in my early 20s.

maybe like a 38 someone oh shit mine's more i forgot about someone i was 20 no i can't say how old but i didn't sleep with him i just went on a date were you gifted things yes he was a sugar daddy gifted shoes what what kind of shoes oh it wasn't even good it was like a cole han mine was 18 years oh 18 years were you gifted anything he was like 50 just the d i was so just the d i have 30 years 30 were you gifted anything no 30 years emotionally yeah 30 years um how old were you at the time was it a guy or girl girl oh you were 22 yeah wow so you're saying there's a chance that love's still available out there oh my god that's the greatest thing that's ever happened on lady gang when we make a highlight reel it's just gonna be this moment well

this podcast you know what nico tortellini we really have had fun with you and we're gonna ask you to stick around because clearly you have your life figured out you have the right kind of fedora you have the right kind of tattoos you got the right definition you love the word moist we haven't asked the most important question what do you will you marry becca do you have sex with people you work with oh this is the first show i've ever been on where i haven't had sex with somebody on it that is impressive yet so far you and sonny foster have amazing chemistry i mean we're obsessed with each other that like you can tell yeah and you really yeah she's married though yeah yeah she got married the first season what a bummer that sucks no no

it's great she's a great guy but yeah love ted ted hey ted married a guy named ted hey ted so that means you're available yeah i'm single i'm recently single yes yeah you are recently single Because when I was trying to set you up with a girlfriend of mine, they were like, I think he has a boyfriend. I had a girlfriend up until like two weeks ago. Oh. Yeah. But which boyfriend are we talking about?

I don't know. Because I've had lots of boyfriends too. I don't know. I had all the wrong information. Well, now you have it. Wait, what girlfriend were you trying to hook me up with? I'll talk to you off the record. Oh, dude, we are being matchmakers.

Okay. On that note. Can I ask one more question to you guys since I have you in the room? Sure. Have you ever dated a bisexual man? No. No. Would you ever?

She's married. Well, no, I will say when I was 21, I thought I could turn a gay man straight, which I think a lot of people do. Like there was a Russian gymnast named Sergei. His name was Sergei? Like Sergei? Sergei. Sergei. No, Sergei.

I don't even know what part of that. Discussed. The gymnast? Maybe the gymnasium didn't tip you off No, I know, but I Where did you meet Sergei? I just left home in Shored Park, Alberta, Canada I was working on my very first cruise ship

I was a performer And I was my Honestly, I don't know if I ever knew a gay person Before I met Sergei, so I didn't understand How it worked And he was so cute, and he'd follow me everywhere But I think he just wanted a work wife Like a hag, you know

And you thought it was love I thought it was love. We ate together in the crew mess. You and Sergey running through fields of wildflowers. That's like the story of your life. This is amazing. Oh, my God. Anyway, have you?

So you don't have a problem with it. So you wouldn't have a problem with it. Yeah, she's done it before. I don't know. No, I didn't do it. Okay, so if you're dating somebody new and he's like, hey. Don't you ever miss the penis if you're with a girl and vice versa? Like, do you ever want the person?

Yeah, it's totally. It's not about what's between their legs at all. It has nothing to do with that. But sexually. But sexually. That's what I'm saying. It has nothing to do with what's between their legs. But what should you like more?

But it does. No, I mean, I understand that. It depends on the person. It's totally different. So, like, pleasure is pleasure. I mean, that's like saying a whole is a whole, and that's, like, not what I'm saying at all. But he means – Becca, tell us what he means.

Becca and I are cut from the same cloth here. How long was your – I have a question. How long was your longest relationship? I've been in a relationship for the past 10 years on and off with a person that's my best friend. But we've been dating on and off for 10 years. Male or female? Girl. I know who it was.

I remember from my stalking. Bethany. Yes. She teaches Pilates? She does. Did you ever? Okay. But there's been plenty of long relationships in between all of that.

Two-year relationships, three-year relationships. And do you usually go back and forth? Like if you had been with a woman, you go and you're with a man next and vice versa? Cause like personally, I like, I do that with men. It's like different flavors. Yeah. They're all men, but they're different flavors. I mean, there really is no format here.

It's just kind of like, have you found that you've gone? It can switch on the like daily. Really? That was a bad answer on that. No, I think she's just getting really anal about having to wrap up this. Yes. We have to wrap it up. It's time to move along.

Always wrap it up. You figured out your life. Mom has figured out your life. You figured out your life so well, Spaghetti Tortellini, that you're going to stick around and answer some very sexy Ask the Lady Gang questions after this. Hey, ladies. Funky. Ask the Lady Gang.

Okay. Before we start, if you guys want to get 20% off of jackmanic.com, use code LADYGANG, and I have lots of fun, sassy candles that smell delicious. Okay. So for this part of the podcast, you're going to help us answer our Lady Gang's questions. okay our first question comes from anonymous we have so many anonymous i know people are really getting hip that they're getting called out now so many people are listening they're scared their friend is gonna listen i know and they want us to yell at them by name i would get nervous though

like what if your boyfriend hears or something i agree okay anonymous says the boy i like created a snapchat account the other day and he had he added all of my friends but me the thing is we've been making out for about five months i think i deserve the ad shall i wait till he does it or should i add him that's what she means i couldn't read that i know i need to put my glasses if he's like actively adding a bunch of people and he's choosing not to add you he's embarrassed by you and you should get rid of him thank you yes yes a hundred percent if he's adding your saliva into his mouth but not adding you on snapchat it's not okay yeah becca what should she do about the snapchat guy oh um i think it's just like i think it's pretty easy to like figure out he's just if

If a guy wants to, like, see you on Snapchat, he's going to see you on Snapchat and add you on Snapchat. So, like, keep it moving, sister. Yeah, I think hold shoulder him. Bye. Okay, our second question comes from Danielle. She says, my ex cheated on me last year, and I found out the girl he cheated on me with is in a polyamorous relationship with another man whom she was seeing when me and my ex first met her. We're both 22, and getting over him was impossible, so I joined the relationship in the past month. I feel a lot better, and it's really helping me emotionally,

but I still feel a slight resentment for what he and the other girl did to me. What should I do? Do you really want to be in this relationship? You're in this relationship so you can have him and not have to deal with a heartbreak, but this is not the situation you want to be in. You're feeling crappy. Well, yeah, she said that she'd join the relationship because she couldn't get over him. Yeah.

If you don't want to be in a polyamorous relationship, don't be in one. Yeah. And that's it. It like takes a lot of work to be in a poly relationship. I feel like, yeah, you have to work on your jealousy issues like a lot. You have to work on yourself more than any of the other relationships in it. Yeah. And also like thrive in that environment.

What do you guys think? You would thrive? Because you'd only have to be around like 30% of the time. I love it. And if you like have an issue, you have like two people that you can go to with it. Have you been in one before? Yeah. Say you handle like anger better than she does.

Like I can go talk, like flip out on you. You can always talk to me, Nico. Okay, great. Great. But, like, she's more emotional, so I can go talk to her. Right. There, you have options. I am.

Thanks. And I'm the best in bed, so you can talk to me. So, like, exactly. Done. Perfect. Here we are. We're fighting for him again. So stupid.

Sister vibes over here. I'm like, yeah, I am emotional. I loved that show. I'm obsessed with that show. So good. I don't know. I think this isn't the place for you, Danielle. I feel like this isn't your true happiness, and every minute that you spend in this relationship

trying to make this thing work that's not working for you, it's one more day that you're not, you know, meeting the love of your life. So I think start fresh. And the relationship started out of infidelity too. And that's always a disaster. Okay. Last question comes from another anonymous. They say I've had genital herpes for seven years. I've been breakout free for five years and on meds the entire time. So with safe sex, this is literally statistically a 1% chance of being a problem with someone I date. However, my question has to do with modern dating and how i transitioned from getting through the first four to six dates without bringing this up i don't want to have such a personal disclosure too soon and turn off a potential interest i think you should

change your twitter headline what's the twitter headline what are you talking about like just like i have herp oh oh my god you're such a bitch i'm just kidding it sounds like a backup here's the thing so many people have herpes like it's not even great but no one talks about it i'm not saying that i do but i'm just saying that like this is not an uncommon thing yeah but it's would i be right to say that a lot of people it's such a lot of people have hpv i mean yeah like a lot of people have stds stds are at the highest rate right now than they've ever been i love how you're holding your microphone i'm like really into this like i want okay so what do we do when what date does she tell the person i feel like you should probably tell them before you have sex well i

no i think the way to go about it is to ask them if they have anything first put it on them but then what if they're like ew no yeah you'd be like well i do so you're going to in 10 minutes you have to tell them right you have to no i think as long as close it is you're not putting them in any sort of danger even though there is no danger but i think if if i slept with somebody and they didn't tell me even if they weren't breaking out or whatever and then they didn't Like, that's... I don't know. That's f***ed up.

Yeah. Her face just has, like, a ring to it. It's got a stigma. It has a huge stigma. I mean, I have a friend who was hooking up with this guy, and he was like, I have to tell you something. I have to tell you something. He's like, I have HPV.

And she's like, guys can't... So do I. So does everybody. Also, guys can't know they have HPV. Yeah, yeah, guys. Unless they've had warts on their balls. Yeah, I think that he probably gave it to some girl. Oh.

Warts on their balls. No. that's the only way is it for a guy to know there's no yeah some of them turn into general awards but interesting mostly guys don't know yeah i think honesty is the best policy but like right but when so is it when you're you make out make out maybe like hook up for a while and like be like i don't want to have sex yet i don't want to have sex yet like be just pretend to be a lady and then yeah you tend to like your lady powers intimate get intimate and like but being safe and then you like just really and and feel it out too because you want to make sure this is somebody you

want to spend time like yeah you don't want to go telling everyone on the street that you have herpes until you know for sure that this is a person you want to even you know consider dating so give it time and if you're like shit i'm really into this guy and it's like going somewhere that's when you can be like i need to tell you something yeah make sure it's like worth it make sure he's drunk yeah i was just gonna say that and he forgets the next morning yeah is there like a herpes like handbook group i know there's a herpes like dating website yeah there's gotta be isn't that like 80 percent of the population yeah i think a lot i think there's like a large percentage of the population that has herpes not even herpes you like love herpes no i don't but i don't want our

girls to feel bad about themselves if they have it because i think a lot of people like no there's a safe have safe sex please like have smart conversation don't be that person that's like also pulling out i'm 14 if you got it don't do that it's like it doesn't make you a dirt you just got unlucky i mean there's really no the stigma behind it is much worse than it actually is so it's like don't like approach it like it's this awful thing and it's gonna kill him nico tortellini nico tortorella yes ma'am it's really not nico tortellini i loved having you here make sure that you check out the love bomb on itunes what day does your new episode come out i say the same thing at the end of my podcasts what's the next tuesday is it tuesday yeah okay

so after you listen to an hour of lady gang you can listen to an hour of the love bomb it's right on trend i love that and you can go follow the same instagram that jack has been stalking for years at nico tortorella i'm gonna spell it for you t-o-r-t-o-r-e-l-l-a or if you like it the way i like it tortellini um we're so excited to have you on and thank you so much and we'll come on the love bomb anytime you want and on that note also follow us at the lady gang and check out our site the lady gang.com for exclusive bloogs for bloogs for blogs and posts and you can follow me on instagram at kelty knight at it's becca tobin at jack vanek we love you so much and see you next tuesday

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