LadyGang - Josh Flagg
Episode Date: August 4, 2020Becca was on Bravo’s Million Dollar Listing LA! So we’ve got the man with the plan who found her the home, Josh Flagg! He’s talking about finding Becca’s dream home, what a big commis...sion can look like, and we’re playing the very important game… Flagg or Bag! A very special thank you to our sponsors! Brooklinen – Use promo code LADIES for 10% off your first order at brooklinen.com. Daily Harvest – Go to dailyharvest.com and use promo c ode LADY for $25 off your first box. Carefree – For more information or to buy, check it out on Amazon or Wa lmart.com. Or you ma y find it at your local grocery store or CVS. Fitbod – Try fitbod free for one month when you sign up at fitbod.me/lady. Home Depot – For a limited time, you can save even more on the styles you love when you use code LADYGANG10 at checkout at homedepot.com. And shop the LadyGang collection now at express.com! See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
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Well, what is this?
Welcome to the Lady Gang.
That's amazing.
Say that again.
The Lady Gang.
Things are about to change around here.
Each week, we catch up with Hollywood's hottest girl posse,
Kelty Knight, Becca Tobin, and Jack Vanek.
Hello, hello, hello.
Welcome to the Lady Gang.
I am Becca Tobin here with Jack Vanek and Kelty Knight.
Hello.
Hi, guys.
Hello.
This is a stretch.
Do you feel differently about me now that i'm also a bravo liberty honestly
You know about that. Yeah, I mean
So can I talk about it a little bit? Yeah. Yeah
So I watched I started first of all your dick because you literally did not remind us like I saw it on your instagram
Like everyone else I didn't know honestly if I hadn't texted one of the producers
Asking about the timing of it coming out like to line up this episode
no one was going to tell me they don't send you like assets they don't do anything
they clearly don't they clearly don't need more viewers because they are not even trying
to get not even trying they're not like becca can you please post a story they're like we're
not even gonna give you the story to post so good luck they're like we don't need you
i got more text from people same for my 2.4 seconds of saging your murder room like the
amount of dms they're like what is the and it was like my real friends they're like what does the
murder room look like now like hey did she what did she really take that house like people are
invested in your proper tight anyway i thought becca honestly there's so many things i want to
say about this before we get sorry i just have to go off number one zach was the star zach zach's
always the star. Zach's facial expressions won me over because he was exactly the thoughtful,
stoic Zach that he is in real life on this show. He just sat back and was like,
he was so mad. Why? He did not want to be there. He did not want to be there. Oh yeah. Yeah. And
you could tell. And it was like very much when Zach, when we're at your house and Zach is asked
to do something Zach doesn't want to do, same face. Worst. Like he had to take off work for
all these showings and and he's like we would have because the thing is is normally we would
have seen houses like around zach's schedule and his work schedule but because it was had to be
filmed there had to be a crew there and we had to have josh and we had to have like all these things
so we had to go see these houses like it like tuesday at 11 and then honestly i don't want to
tell anybody how the sausage is made but it ain't easy oh my god well and then you have to probably
see like 20 houses to get the two that they're going to show. And it's exactly, it was amazing.
Thank you. But you were so darling. Like I was watching it and I was like, God, she really just
is an actress. Like your face. Oh my God. No one looks good in that car closeup. It is a terrible
angle. And I was like, that's always like a nice fish. Beautiful every time. And then you had like
the little turtleneck with the bow in your hair. And I was like, who does she think she is? Miss
sally prescott like i just i really thought you did such an adorable job and jack and i
we were great too you guys crushed it it was good i mean they they edit that show beautifully like
i think that they really captured all of our moments i hate watching myself on tv and for
some reason like i i wasn't planning on watching this like i didn't have it like in my queue my
calendar like ready to record um but i got so many messages also with like last week when i was
in the like coming up next week i got so many freaking people and i was like first of all i'm
so scared of how many people watch this show and i've seen now where i live like that's terrifying
um probably would have thought about that further if i knew but i was like oh it's like million
dollar listing i don't know who watches it everyone allegedly all the people it goes to
show how many people watch bravo versus other channels that we've been on it's true damn they
got them numbers they they know what they're doing over there they got them numbers um well
let's dive into good week bad week yeah it was passed to do with this it's time for good week
yes it is bad week oh no i do want to just say that we recorded with josh way back when we record
when you recorded your episodes when you filmed it up to here is like from when we filmed with
josh we were together it was pre-covid but we're keeping a fresh good week bad week for you because
we want to pass this up yes um so my bad week is that after like kelty said after the episode
aired everybody's asking me like let me see the red room let me see the murder room what'd you do
to it and we've been in this house a really long time we shot that in the fall so um a really long
time and i'm so embarrassed to tell people that we've done nothing with the red room and i was
actually wondering and you love it and i love it have you cleaned it it was honestly completely
new so the person selling the house put in this stuff to show here's what you can do with this
space they just had really bad taste so they put in brand new curtains those are brand new curtains
brand new carpet and a brand new couch like that couch has had not even been sat on what was the
room, like when they sold the house to you, what did they say the PR the purpose of that room was
the, well, they were assuming we didn't talk to them, um, personally, but we assumed that it was
like storage or like, you know, something like, cause it's not attached to the house completely.
So I think just extra storage. Um, but yeah, they thought it would be like a good selling point
too, but I'm, I'm also, you use it. We use it all the time. The, the TV in there is huge. The
sound system is amazing that they put in there. So really it just is so bad because they, they
need to finish it. Like they need to actually put up drywall. Cause it's just like cinder block,
but the curtains block it and the concrete floor is covered in that like cheap red carpet. But
weirdly during COVID we've watched so many movies. It feels like an outing. Cause you actually have
to like go out of the house and go around to the side and it's an activity and it's a huge screen.
you feel like you're in a movie theater. I feel very rich when I'm in there. Ooh, yes. So actually,
thank goodness we cleansed the spirits then, you know, a job well done. I recorded the audio book
in that room for a lady, act like a lady, because it was like the most quiet soundproof place in my
house. So you know what? That was actually my, my bad week into a good week is that I'm embarrassed
that I've done nothing to it. And now everybody knows that I have this ugly, creepy room. And yet
i kind of like it like what are you doing becky you're like just watching a movie in the murder
room the murder porn room that jack was like shoot ted bundy i didn't watch it did that make it in
there yes yes yeah john wayne gacy shoot get out of here btk it was amazing it was really funny
i love that jack's playing my little like melon harp
it was so funny we really saged those ghosts out of there oh my god well what people don't know is
that like you said how the sausage is made so they're like hide in here and you're gonna light
the sage and becca and zach are gonna come down and you're gonna be staging the room we're like
okay and of course i'm like hurry jack they told us to sage like let's light it up we were in there
for like 15 minutes they had to like empty some of the sage out because you couldn't see with the
camera smelled like sage for weeks weeks after that good the whole house like the whole outside
of the house you're welcome yeah you're welcome um i'm gonna go so my good week is jared is
officially moving to california he is a california resident in like one week he's packing up his
house in Arizona as we speak. Nice. We'll be moving here. Chris Knight is helping us look
for a house. Oh my gosh. Chris Knight found your house, by the way. Did someone already bid on it?
Which one? He sent it to you and he was like, this house is amazing. And you're like,
I'm obsessed with it. Oh yeah. That like storybook looking house. Yeah. It was amazing. Well,
Chris like loves to find houses. So I'm going to let him be my like pseudo realtor. So that's my
good week Jared's moving here um my bad week is a bad week kind of for both of you and that is
you know I think that we thought the toilet paper gate was like really going to be over and done
with last year but there's been a resurgence of information that I need to share with you guys
okay so there was this post on our Facebook group and it was like what is a random fact that you
know and one of the comments was from uh our gal heaven and she says this is her random fact
it takes seven layers of toilet paper for fecal material to not get on your hands
off that's not true i'm gonna die that's a true fact so you guys are walking around where did
she find that where did she find that because if that was a real fact then toilet paper would
be made better or would it i don't know seven seven layers to not get i have always wondered
how they say there's fecal mat on everyone's cell phones and i was like if we're all
we're just leaving i'm not wiping up on my hands i probably do have that many layers for number two
yeah you're thinking yeah i would i'm thinking of when i pull it out and then i do the fold
i'm gonna i'm gonna simulate this after this podcast because i need to know that's disgusting
you need to double check if you guys are getting poop hands that shouldn't be allowed this is so
gross another thing we need the muffler i mean we need the budget nista to teach us how to
invest our money to retire and we need someone to teach us how not to be savages and not get
poop on our hands when we wait thank you what did we learn in school nothing i know i'm like
why isn't this a lesson in school because there obviously is so much controversy around the
subject and nobody really knows the true answer except for probably heaven so i thought i'd show
that tidbit of info all right well i have a um bad week i'll start there i am very concerned
about dogs and their temperature like their forehead like this has kept me up at night like
are dogs cold when it's cold? Okay. What the is happening? Like, okay, no, this is like,
no, this is a real, this is a bad week. This is a real question. It's kept you up at night.
So, you know, there's some people that have dogs and they're outdoor dogs on their farms.
And then at night they like go to the barn to sleep. Yeah. Does that dog need a blanket?
it. Oh, I know what you're, yeah. Like I think certain temperatures, they can be in colder
temperatures. Some breeds like Huskies. Like the reason this started is because I wash Callie
every Sunday. She gets her bath and then I wrap her and she's shivering. Like she's so cold and
I just warm her up and I keep her and I feel so bad. And then when she gets out of the towel,
she wants to get out. Like she wants to go run around and like be on zoomies. And when she
finishes zooming, she crawls up into my pillow and makes into a little Fox ball and then just
shivers for like two hours. And I'm like, are you cold? Do you need a heating pad? Like, well,
you can use a blow dryer, right? I, yes. Do I need to do that? Is my question. Is she cold?
I think that dogs are not, they're not going to hide their feelings from you. So if she's cold,
I think she's going to shiver and you'll know if she's cold, she's not going to like pretend
she's not cold for your I always have to do if it's if it's at night and I bathe orally I always
have to do like a quick blow dry or she shivers a lot but then if it's daytime I bathe her and
then I let her go outside and like lay in the sun she loves that so I do think they get cold
I just want to know about dogs I need does the dog need a snuggie like I don't know but she will
refuses to go under a blanket like Callie will not be tamed she does not want to go under a blanket
she's probably she's probably fine like living her best life a good temperature well now that
i've bored everyone here's my good week you guys know that i've been deep in my soul searching this
uh pandemic and uh during therapy i was sitting there and i was like having a cry and
feeling all my feelings and then i was just sitting there and um i looked down at my hand
and the tiniest, tiniest little tiny ladybug landed on my fist. And it was, I've never seen
a ladybug so small. It was like the tooth fairy delivered this ladybug to me, special good luck
from heaven. It landed there. And you know, a ladybug is like, good luck. Yeah. Yeah. It landed
on my hand while I was talking about my fear of the future. And it is like a sign that I'm going
to be okay. I was more concerned that you were calling it your fist. Like you're holding.
No, I wasn't. It was right here. It was like on the meaty part of my, it was on my hand. Okay,
cool. And then that also brought up something from my past. When I was in high school,
my senior thesis in the dance course was a dance called mosquitoes on my hand. And then I'm just
thinking so many thoughts. That's all. Mosquitoes on my hand. Yeah. That was what it was called.
There was five girls and I had to like the modern dance and, um, it was called mosquitoes on my
hand. And I was like, it was the discussion of how invasive it is for bugs to land on me without
my permission. Did you create this? Yeah. It was my thesis. Yeah. Oh, without bugs landing on you
without consent, without consent, like how rude you just bite at me anyway. I'm so symbolic for
men, the bugs. No, I literally, I don't know what I was thinking. I was an idiot. I was linked to
like, listen to a lot. It would have been dope mosquitoes on my hand. No, I don't think I was
that smart anyway. Okay, cool. Well, when we come back, Josh flag is here. You're listening to the
lady gang our guest today is a top agent in beverly hills and beverly hills adjacent
for selling homes and becca has invited him today to the show to see if he's the top of the lady
gang choices he's known for his record sales and very little fails with over two billion dollars
in sales that's a good point three billion interrupting the host get it right that is
not great we're fighting already this is not going well so far he's sold sold homes to some
of hollywood's hottest a-listers including adam levine steve aoki shonda rhimes might have heard
of her with recognition by forbes magazine the wall street journal and the hollywood reporter
he gets better press than we do please welcome to the show a man who knows what he wants and
certainly gets what he wants and possibly gets becca tobin's business josh flag um okay so i
some questions for you that becca wants to know but she's polite so she's not going to ask you
what's the biggest commission that you ever got off selling a house a million bucks so that would
be a 10 million dollar house no that would be i wish that's 40 50 40 50 million wait what's your
percentage of commission two and a half percent oh that's it well that's way better than being
an agent oh okay damn a million you just get a million dollar check or how does that go how
does that come as a wire cash i wish well i don't know i don't realtor i don't think that you're
gonna get a million dollar commission off of me it'll be like five grand maybe i'll steal it from
you i you i would notice like for sure i'd be homeless you need the money what did you when
you got a million dollar um commission what did you um spend that money on what's the most
living well what's the most expensive thing you ever bought oh is a like a fun thing yeah like
Did you buy a Ferrari?
No.
I bought a Picasso.
There you go.
No big deal.
That's something.
How much was the Picasso?
Half a mil?
Oh, my God.
Well, Becca.
No, probably not.
Three quarters of a million.
Becca.
But that has nothing to do with that sale.
That was other stuff.
That sale, I didn't do anything.
I don't know.
I just put it in the bank.
Becca, do you want to use this opportunity to tell Josh about your art collection that
you'll need to be showing?
Or lack thereof.
I have one important piece that my grandmother is actually an artist that she did.
It's a nude of my mother when she was 16.
Oh, lovely.
Josh, what's the most you've ever spent on shoes?
On shoes?
Yeah.
This is important to a lady.
She's got a crazy shoe collection.
She's got some Gucci sneaks on.
That's $568 right there.
That is a very...
I know exactly how much those shoes are.
Because you saved up for them all winter.
She bought them for the guy's assistant that does our plastic surgery.
Love it.
I don't buy my assistant's Gucci shoes.
Actually, though, I gave him my used ones.
I swear I was at the altery.
What's the place where they repair shoes the other day?
And I'm like, this is beyond repair.
And I go, Wiley, do you want them?
He goes, what the fuck?
What size are you?
Oh, actually quite large for a person of my height.
How tall are you?
I don't know.
Five, nine maybe?
What size shoe?
Ten and a half.
Wow.
Could Zach wear those shoes if he gets the sale?
No.
No.
Okay.
I give him my used shoes.
Strike against.
Well, that's a really good present.
We're going to need used great shoes because we're not going to be able to afford anything
else after we buy a house.
Yes.
um okay now i know you have some rivals in the business and becca's also going to be meeting
with a couple of them oh okay um so who do you hate the most um out of the business
who do i like is the real no one you don't like anybody you hate everyone no i'm just superior to
them who's your biggest rival there's like a group of 10 of us we all do about the same business and
it's always like you know who wins uh-huh like if you had to name a name for the purpose of this
show who do you hate the most like who should becca definitely interview with as her number
who's your biggest threat yeah who's your biggest threat and why well i can't say that on he's gonna
give him yeah nuts yeah you should say it i'm gonna get a letter from their attorney i can't
do that oh okay allegedly okay who is who's your least favorite personality who do you think
what's a safe question we can ask you who do you think would be if if you're not available
who do you think Becca should get? Be nice.
Who's the best? Who's next to you?
James and David.
James is
probably my best friend. He's coming right after this.
Really? Oh, good.
Yeah, we're cycling you out.
He sucks. Don't use him.
And David, too.
I think James is the smarter one of the two, though.
Sorry, David.
This is nice, though.
I like a man that doesn't actually dog other people.
Yeah. That was a test.
That was a test and you passed.
No, no, no, no, no.
Let me get something straight.
Once the microphone is turned off, I will dog the shit out of half of them.
Nice.
Oh, nice.
That's good.
You're smart.
I'm not a kind person.
I'm not a kind person.
This is good.
Neither am I.
Yeah.
Can we like go to dinner like tonight at Craig's and call them ahead of time and like have
the paparazzi shoot us?
I mean, they won't show up for me.
Actually, they show up and I walk in.
They're like, hey, Josh.
And they don't even like photograph me.
It's really pathetic.
Oh, my God.
So they know who you are and then they don't put their cameras up.
Me too.
Well, Kulti calls a paparazzi on herself.
I called last time.
Tori Spelling and I were having dinner, and I called ahead of time.
Tori wasn't a big enough draw for them?
No, they shot Tori.
They shot Tori.
But I had to let them know ahead of time that she could be prepared.
Yeah, get ready.
Spelling on her way.
Okay, Becca, I wanted to use this opportunity for us to talk about the yeses and nos in your house.
So you'll give some, and then we'll also tell you what you want.
Oh, okay.
Okay.
So let's start with the yeses, must-haves.
Must have space.
I need more space than what I'm currently living in.
Well, how much space do you have?
Her house is small.
It's small.
It's like a tiny little cottage.
1,200 square feet.
Oh, okay.
I need at least double.
Okay.
I love indoor-outdoor vibes.
Hell yeah.
I need privacy, but I also need convenience.
So I'm thinking the hills.
Okay.
I like Mediterranean style.
I need it to have character.
I don't like those, like, very modern, minimalist homes.
I don't like those either.
They're not my jam.
I love your jelly.
The what?
I just made up a really dumb joke.
Yeah.
What'd you say?
Yeah, that was dumb.
Five points taken off.
Sorry.
Okay, Becca.
How many bedrooms do you need?
You need one?
I need at least three bedrooms.
One for you guys.
One for me.
One for me.
One for a possible baby.
And then a podcast studio.
And then your parents are always there.
You have five bedrooms.
Five?
You guys share a bedroom?
You have to share a bedroom.
We don't want to share a bedroom anymore.
We share a bedroom on tour sometimes.
Becca, what are your no's?
No's.
Carpet.
I do not like gross floors.
I don't like carpet.
I don't want to have to do a ton of work.
So no carpet in your bathroom?
No carpet in the bathroom.
Oh, God.
I don't want to do a ton of work.
Oh, so move-in ready, they call it, right?
Mostly.
Move-in ready.
So not a fixer-upper.
Look at her with that lingo.
Is that what they call it?
Move-in ready.
What does that mean?
I'm scratching my nose because I'm itchy.
Oh, I thought you were giving me a sign.
She's like...
Does that mean like...
She's like, right?
Move-in ready.
She's scratching her nose and looking at me.
I'm like, is that a sign?
What do you call it when we don't have to reno?
Move-in ready?
Turnkey.
Turnkey.
Turnkey.
We want a turnkey home.
Turnkey-ish.
Or how about like a home that doesn't need work?
Yeah.
Yeah.
Okay, turnkey-ish.
Not a fixer-upper.
I do not want to be on a busy street.
Okay.
I want to talk briefly about a must for our house.
Yeah.
Our house?
Yes.
We, as you can see, we are filming.
You want to explain to them about the room we need?
The podcast studio, as you can see, is quite a bummer.
It's bleak.
It's a little random.
So we are hoping that my new house could have a space for the podcast.
And it would be incredible if it was like a guest house.
Yes.
Separate.
Just separate.
where there's a separate entrance
where people don't know they're necessarily
in my house.
I don't need them to see my tampons in the trash can.
Why don't we just do what I do with my therapist
and just have a separate entrance into her house
and I like, you know.
That could work.
It always bothers me though because I'm like,
what's behind the door?
She's like, that's my personal space.
Right. No, but I like that.
Okay. We are going to play a game
that we've created. The game is called Flag or Bag
and we're going to talk through some of the things that we love
in homes.
We think this is watch what happens live.
You're going to decide.
Are we going to have a code?
This is what we do on Lady Gang.
Yes.
Okay, here we go.
Number one, and everyone's going to comment.
Jack, we'll begin with you.
Shiplap.
Flag or bag?
Bag is bad.
Yeah, bag is like put in the bag, take it to the trash.
Bag.
Trash bag.
Why?
Trash bag.
Shiplap.
You know how I feel about it.
Shiplap is so basic.
You don't even know what shiplap is?
It's like Chip and Joanna Gaines.
They don't shiplap in Beverly Hills.
It's for like cottages.
I'm glad that you don't know because I don't want that.
What is it?
Great.
It's like when they put-
Shipwreck is a beautiful old wood that you put sometimes in your bathroom at your house.
It's like-
Wainscoting?
There's just like wood panels.
Wainscoting, but the other way.
Wainscoting.
Beat board?
Kind of, but not that.
Not as classy.
Okay.
It's not.
I'm going to flag it because I think it's great.
We know.
Okay.
Jack, hot tubs.
Ooh.
It depends.
Like on a really nice house flag, on a-
Are they recessed or are they like elevated off the floor?
i didn't even think about it flag depending if it's the post ranch in and it's the stainless
steel like overlooking the cliff i'm gonna flag it however i will get in any hot tub i can't lie
i love to flag it flag it me too flag it uh if it's recessed flag it if it's like one of those
ones that like you know you have to put your feet into and like hike into it yeah that's one that
Like the one you get at, like, Leslie's Pools?
Yeah, not down with that.
That's the only one I was thinking about.
I haven't been around enough nice places for the other one.
Okay, we'll take you around.
Thanks.
We'll get you there one day.
Okay, this is an Instagram quiz.
This is a lightning round.
Instagram, bathing suit pictures.
I mean, flag.
It's her lifestyle.
Yeah.
Bag.
Like pictures of...
Just in a bikini.
Do you like a bathing suit shot?
Depends what the person looks like.
I like your answer.
All right.
Okay, excellent.
Five points.
I want to see Rosie O'Donnell in a bathing suit.
I do.
Flag.
I do, too.
Motivational quotes.
Bag.
Bag.
Bag.
Flag.
I love a quote.
I hate quotes.
So far, I hate quotes.
I don't know about him, but you guys seem to be the same person.
We're aligned.
We are aligned.
Okay.
Private jet luxury car pictures.
Like when you're like, oh, just getting on the jet.
Ugh.
Bag.
I mean, but I would do it.
I haven't gotten the chance.
She would.
I haven't gotten the chance yet.
Bag.
So bag, but I've done it before.
Okay.
I think it's flag.
It's so douchey.
I think it's fierce.
I like your honesty.
Didn't you try to get a picture in front of the jet suite?
It's like, you wouldn't do that if you had your own jet.
No.
Yeah.
It's kind of pathetic.
No, it's always the hanger on her friends.
It's always the lingers.
It's the ones that travel for free.
Yeah.
Yeah, it's the model.
Those are my favorites.
I love those.
I love being those people.
Next one for flag or bag, karaoke.
Oh, my God.
Did it last night.
Flag.
Trash bag.
Karaoke?
So trash bag.
Flag.
Boring.
Will you do karaoke with me?
For sure.
What's my song?
Faith by George Michael.
I've talked about this on the podcast before.
Do you remember her talking about this?
I do.
Last flag or bag?
Threesomes.
Whatever.
I haven't done it, but flag.
I mean, not for me, so I'm going to bag it.
I'm down for it.
You like a threesome?
Well, I did when I was, like, single.
So you don't have one?
Except it was really disappointing, like, when, you know, you're all getting ready,
and you're, like, there, and you're like, you know this is going to happen,
and then you get in the bed, and everyone gets naked.
This is not now.
this is my single years right and then like everyone gets into it but leaves you alone
and that's really sad right the two other people yeah you're left out five oh that's that's an
orgy oh sorry we're talking about oh okay when we come back real estate icon to the stars josh
flag is gonna fix your life now back to the lady gang all right and we're back um so for this part
of the podcast we have all of our girls writing questions and we give them really terrible advice
so you ready yeah first question comes from inappropriate crier she says i was in a long-term
relationship and after about two years i just started crying halfway through sex for no reason
the sex was great and i didn't hate him the tears would just come on and not stop we broke up a year
or later but still every time i have sex i cry it's so embarrassing and now i have constant anxiety
that every time i have sex i'm going to cry it's putting me off dating altogether please help me
you should at the same time when you're crying when you're crying when you're crying you should
be like, f**k me, f**k me, f**k me, and then they'll think you're crying out of passion.
Ah, it's so good that she cries.
Just say, f**k me.
Why is she crying?
She just started crying halfway through sex.
I think I've cried during sex.
That's going to empower the guy.
He's going to be like, wow, I'm really that good.
She's crying.
But then he's going to jackrabbit her, and that's going to hurt.
What was that?
Like, where you just, like, pound.
Like a...
Oh, okay, gotcha.
You know, I love someone that cries during sex.
What?
I feel you, girl.
Do you cry?
I've definitely had tears.
But are you crying because you're sad?
No, I'm crying because it's like it's an overcoming emotion of love.
Like this is my person.
I do think she needs a little therapy.
Therapy might help for sure.
Okay, next question.
Second question comes from Jealous Friend.
She says, I know this is a first world problem, but I don't know how to deal with it.
My best friend has a perfect life with everything handed to her.
She's dating a perfect guy who completely spoils her.
She has a great job.
Her parents give her anything she wants along with hundreds of dollars.
I've been single for five years.
my job is shitty but i need it in order to move up and i'm barely making ends meet i'm super far
in debt from student loans she always calls me when she's on trips to other countries and makes
time for me but it's so hard to not complain about my situation when she tells me all of the amazing
things she's doing and how well everything is going for her how can i be happy for her instead
of just tell the bitch to share the money be i mean that was like a that was a no-brainer
And if she does, then drop her ass.
But do you share your money with your friends?
Can we have some of your money?
No, but I don't have any friends.
Can we be friends?
And then can we start asking for money for no reason?
Yeah, but you won't want to hang out with me when I say no.
Drop my ass.
I say she drops her fucking ass because she has no benefit.
If the rich person's not helping her out, drop her ass.
Maybe she likes her friendship.
I think jealous friend, here's the thing, that life is a circle of life like we're in The Lion King.
There's always going to be hyenas and there's always going to be Mufasa.
where is this going well what i'm saying is that there's like in life there's always gonna be
someone who's above you and you have to look at them like inspiration like wow this is like great
i'm so happy for you and there's going to be someone that looks at your life the way you look
at your friend's life so you need to have gratitude and compassion for your own life and then also like
be happy for your friend like it's exciting also if it really bothers you and you guys are in
totally two different places, then re-evaluate your friendship if she's that tone deaf to
not realize it.
And I guarantee not everything is going as well.
No.
Everyone has period cramps.
And if she's poor, dump her ass.
She's not.
Well, here's the thing, too.
You should be very proud of yourself that you're making your own way, and she's rich
by injection.
Injection rich.
It's not the same.
Yeah, but you'd rather be injection rich.
No.
It's not real.
Yeah, no.
It would be great, but it's more meaningful if you're self-made.
Yeah.
Really.
It is.
Yeah, tell that to the person.
I don't think so.
I don't think Josh is – he's not a fan.
He's not our audience.
Are you self-made or are your parents rich?
They are rich, but I'm –
Did they give you money?
Did they pay for college?
But he's working.
Oh, yeah.
No, but I did – it's not like I sat back and did nothing.
Oh.
It's not like they handed me –
Look at him.
He's working his ass off.
Yeah, look here.
I'm sitting here hawking a house to you.
I'm a dirt peddler.
I pedal dirt.
Are you calling my future home dirt?
Oh, sorry.
No, it's good.
yeah last question comes from anonymous anonymous says my fiance and i have been trying to schedule
a date for our wedding with both of our families but it's become extremely difficult because of
my fiance's mom she's been putting off the wedding date conversation for months and although my
fiance has been standing up to her in his own way it's all culminated yesterday when she told him
that we shouldn't get married and that he's making the wrong decision this is the future mother-in-law
I don't know what to do
and I'm heartbroken
he even told me that he will not break his relationship
with his family or his mother for me
goodbye
do we have a chance or is it completely over
since my fiance said he doesn't know what to do
dump her ass
it's over
I'm sorry
but like also
be happy that you're not going through with a marriage
because a mother-in-law like that sounds brutal
she would have
If she has that much influence over him in general, like, thank God you didn't get married
because she will break him down quite a bit.
Did your husband's family like you?
Of course.
And vice versa?
Yeah.
Everybody got along?
Everyone's happy?
Wow.
Josh, it's been great to have you here.
We've loved having you.
Thank you for joining the Lady Gang.
Would you like to work together?
Sure.
Wait, what?
Well, she's paying me technically.
You decided now?
You didn't even ask us our opinion.
I can sense it.
I can tell when you guys like people.
It's a giant no.
for you it's a great yes that is so rude yeah well give her a hundred bucks give her a hundred
bucks she'll change her to give me a hundred thousand dollars and i'll be fine josh welcome
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