LadyGang - LadyGang Most Discussed

Episode Date: May 26, 2020

Keltie spends a LOT of time in the LG Facebook group and she’s pulled the most discussed topics that YOU want to hear talked about. This is the episode packed full of all the advice you nee...ded and asked for! (Or maybe you didn’t. It’s always questionable. But you’re getting it!)  Big thanks to today's sponsors! Larabar – Try one of Larabar’s Original Fruit & Nut Bars today!  Hammit – Go to hammitt.com and chat with their team to mention you heard about them on LadyGang to get a special gift!  Hidrate Spark – Go to hidratespark.com/ladygang for $10 off your first o rder.  Caldrea – Get free shipping on orders of $50 or more when you shop online at caldrea.com.   See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

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Starting point is 00:01:13 Kelty Knight, Becca Tobin, and Jack Vanek. Hello, hello, hello, and welcome to the Lady Gang. I am Becca Tobin, here with Jack Vanek. Yeah, you are! What the fuck? You're not even Jack Vanek, and you're screaming. Jack Vanek and Kelty Knight What's up
Starting point is 00:01:30 How's it going guys Oh my god What I'm just excited to see you guys Oh my gosh So excited It's such a good time to have friends around me Are you going through something
Starting point is 00:01:45 Yeah what's happening in your life I'm good You're good Cool Ready Alright well Let's do it Now it's time for
Starting point is 00:01:54 Good week. Yes, it is. Bad week. Oh, no. Who's going first? I'll go first. Okay. Good week.
Starting point is 00:02:06 Good week. Brooklyn Beckham is my style icon. He consistently dresses like he's in the musical Newsies, and I think it is fresh and fabulous. Every time I see a photo of Brooklyn, I'm like, way to rock to your own. It's a fine life, carrying the better in New York. It's a fine life. Gotta better, better, better, better, better, better, better, better.
Starting point is 00:02:33 Anyway, do you know that song, Becca, from Newsies? It's a fine life, carrying, you gotta carry the better in New York. Anyways, how old is Brooklyn Beckham? He's like 22, and I'm here for it. Page boy, short shorts. What does he do for work? He is Brooklyn Beckham. What is this called?
Starting point is 00:02:53 A suspender? A suspender pant. A tweed sock. A loafer. What does he look like? He looks like the Newsies. Okay. What does his face look like?
Starting point is 00:03:03 A young Leonardo DiCaprio. He's cute. Getting on the Titanic. I like a Newsie look on a really good looking... A cutie cutie. Yeah. But he's short. He is short.
Starting point is 00:03:12 He did not get David's height. He looks tall. He's not tall. Is David tall? Yeah, David's tall. He is? Are you sure? I've heard he's short.
Starting point is 00:03:19 David's like... Well, Brooklyn's way shorter then. David's like 6 feet and he's probably 5'8 He might still grow Chris grew exclusively in college Same with Zach Zach went to college at like 5'9 Brooklyn Beckham's 5'9
Starting point is 00:03:33 Oh he is cute though He's so cute He looks a lot like her Yeah he really does Okay Yes he's 6 feet Beckham David Beckham
Starting point is 00:03:43 Yes Okay so I have a bad week So my bad week is This is old but I just wanted to share it with you that you guys know i plan my trip to the seychelles i can't believe i'm bringing up seychelles post seychelles anyway you know i planned it for like nine months right so i just wanted to like clue you into something so i got the dress for the renewal and everything and then like i had had these shoes that i was gonna wear the whole time like nine months i'm like okay i got the shoes
Starting point is 00:04:11 i got the dress i got the flight i'm ready to go then the night before we left for some reason i was like let me just try on the dress to make sure it fits the shoes didn't work you know what i ended up wearing an 11 glitter sander from amazon what it what could you even see the shoe you could see it in some but it wasn't about flat it was a flat because the dress was shorter than i remembered i couldn't wear a sensible sandal heel why didn't you just do bare feet you're on the beach i couldn't do bare feet i'm not a trash whore i'm not wearing bare feet on the beach i'm not i'm not wearing bare feet that's the bottom line is that i needed to have a shoe so offended okay but anyway i i was disappointed because i thought i should have had a nice shoe
Starting point is 00:04:59 and i ended up having like a really shitty fucking sandal on that's the end so sorry okay so my good week is i have a new favorite instagram and it is in the influencers in the wild and it's basically just a collection of all of the crazy people all over the world taking their instagram pictures oh it's like the behind the scenes it's behind the scenes oh yeah heather mcmahon posted about this it is incredible content because it's the the most insane it's embarrassing versions of this that you could find my favorite one is getting on this you have to fall immediately my favorite one is it's on the beach it's this younger hotter lady with her older husband little bald guy you know tank sinatra runs this page i don't know what tank sinatra is that just
Starting point is 00:05:52 another meme page i don't know anyways god if i'd only started a meme page i'd be so much more famous i had a meme page you can't even pronounce gif so that gif um no my favorite one it's this This lady with her old, like, gross husband on the beach, and then it zooms out, and their four-year-old son is taking pictures of them, and she literally has her leg over the guy's shoulder. It's bad. That's disgusting. But it's a great follow.
Starting point is 00:06:20 My bad week is, Jared and I have been dating for, like, a year and a half. Like, three weeks ago, he just started f***ing snoring. Out of the blue, I don't know what's happening, and I don't know what to do. Chris also started snoring lately. Out of nowhere? After 10 years, I'm like, I thought I married a non-star. They get old. You know, men's ears and noses never stop growing.
Starting point is 00:06:42 I thought everybody's ears and noses never stopped growing. Oh, I think it's worse in men. It's everyone. I know. I don't think that. It's like a, or not, whatever. What are you going to do? I don't know.
Starting point is 00:06:51 You're going to have to break up. You want to condemn your life to a snorer? I didn't. If he would have snored from the beginning, it would have been a deal breaker. That would have been a red flag. That's a bit, it's not a red flag, but it's a deal breaker for me personally, because I'm such a light sleeper. So what are you going to do?
Starting point is 00:07:05 hypnotherapy i don't know i have been like kicking him out to the couch and it feels so bad because he's the sweetest guy in the world is he sleeping on his back no does he have a neti pot no i think and i think it's like allergy sinus related i just don't know what to do can you get those nose strips it didn't help oh i'm right now so if anybody has any snoring remedies earplugs no that's what probably what's next no she sleeps with ear pods in i know it's weird curb your enthusiasm that's only blaring with you guys thank you so much for saving it was a great night sleepover sorry um okay so my good week bad week it's all the same started off bad week i got this message love it you make fun on instagram you make fun of hallmark movies question mark you
Starting point is 00:07:51 you make them so much worse seriously stop overacting i hate your movies i no longer she spelled no I no longer listen to Lady Gang because you are such a bitch you are the mean one stop being such a bitch to Kelty she's the only reason you're getting getting any salary
Starting point is 00:08:12 was this you? it was me and I hate your movies first of all I don't make fun of Hallmark movies at all we love Hallmark movies I've never made fun of Hallmark movies and yourself anyways I was like here's my here's my good week i never respond to trolls i haven't in seven years yeah never
Starting point is 00:08:35 like really never because it's like what good what comes from that i was feeling extra confident super spicy and this was this was like uh the end of december that i got this and i just said thank you for your kind words heart emoji happy holidays they never responded okay no shit but like i felt good about that i wasn't even being sarcastic i was just like i hope that you have i i wish you well because for someone to spew so much hate at me i mean i'm awful i agree but like you don't have to be so worked up about it yeah it's like and that's not even hate well it what's interesting about this particular hate becca is that it's not just on one plane it's all across everything i've done yeah it's like hallmark hallmark movies overacting hatred of
Starting point is 00:09:28 kelty like you know you're the reason i get any salary salary like not wrong like it's a lot of it's an overall this person knows too much i think it is kelty and you're the reason also if if i'm paying your salary then definitely you should talk to your boss and get a raise well i should talk to my boss and be like hey can you actually put me on a payment schedule instead of just like occasionally we get checks when she feels like checking the bank account i know sorry speaking of making it rain i know this isn't the point and i don't really care kelty and i don't care that you pay my salary i need more furniture in my home and i just don't know what to do how do people do this what do you mean you bought a massive house i know but it's not that big for like the rest of
Starting point is 00:10:15 the world well and also the the real problem and i'll be honest with you as your friend and co-worker is that you're not enough of a whore like you could get furniture but you have to really want that furniture oh when i get a house hopefully soon right jack is gonna get a bed for every room i'm telling you i've been all the things i've been whoring i have i've been doing things i don't like to admit okay i've been sending dms i do not do that oh i do all the time really so i get all It feels like asking a guy out. Which you have no practice with, so this is why it's happening. Rejection is so, I mean, I have done it.
Starting point is 00:10:55 I have poured it out. But it's hard. Maybe people don't like your style. They don't know my style because I don't have anything in my house. Maybe people think you're a horrible over-actress. And maybe they know that I'm paying your salary, so they don't want to give you a freebie. Maybe I'm just so mean.
Starting point is 00:11:13 I still think that that person was Kelsey. I don't think that person was listening to the lady gang. Yeah, they would know how much you love me. They would know how annoying you are and how I need to be this mean to you. Somebody has got to bring you back down. Also, can we discuss something I meant to bring up hours ago? You're wearing the same shirt today in a different colorway, and it's not like a cute shirt at all. Why do you have a shitty shirt in two colorways, and why do you wear them every day?
Starting point is 00:11:46 Did you buy those? I knew you were going to say that. I did buy them. You did? From where? Well, let me tell you. Where is that from? This is from Nordstrom.
Starting point is 00:11:54 What's the brand? Nordstrom money? No, it's like a BP. It's shitty. It's a shitty Nordstrom brand. I'll tell you, because one year, this is many, couple years ago, my goal, I've since let it go, was to, like, dress cute at work. Oh, I remember that.
Starting point is 00:12:09 I was like, I want to, like, come to work every day in a look so that when I'm running around the office, I don't look like this trash wagon that I am. Yeah. And I was getting up quite early in the morning, so it was like I just needed simple basics. So I bought this shirt because it's cold in the office. I don't always want to wear a sweatshirt, but it's not T-shirt weather. So it's a long-sleeve striped shirt, and I was like, I can tuck it in with a pair of jeans and, like, a loafer and just be, like, cool. But then it's been washed, and it's become kind of like a sleep shirt, a spray tan shirt, like a nasty shirt, and now it's just extra nasty. did it come with the boat neck or has the boat neck become it's a shirt to become exaggerated
Starting point is 00:12:44 i think the boat neck has become i haven't seen a boat because you can't wear it's almost off the shoulder you can't wear a bra with that it's it's an eye it's ironically it's a weird neckline no it's this is stretched it was cute it was white at some point okay you know what you're being rude what the fuck are you wearing right now i mean actually she has no leg to stand on this bitch I don't fucking knock off easy a live shit green legging with a blue thing. With the weirdest cropped windbreaker ever. It's like a cropped windbreaker slash shirt from Hamilton. I love it.
Starting point is 00:13:17 And a brown scrunchie. What are you channeling? Yeah. Let's talk about your ugly fucking clothes. I don't even know. I wasn't trying. I wasn't saying that I was going to be cute. Never today did I wake up being like.
Starting point is 00:13:28 Never did I today say that I was going to be cute. Becca just brought it up because she's mean. And when we come back, more of this. Now back to the Lady Gang. All right, we're back. Now I want to talk about your shitty face. Great. No, Becca looks cute today, actually.
Starting point is 00:13:47 It's really annoying. Yeah, I do. You look cute. Thank you. I had a meeting with, like, people more important than you. Oh. Yeah. No, now I'm a trash bag now, so it's, like, back to me.
Starting point is 00:13:56 I'm a trash bag, and I don't care about what I wear anymore. I'm a trash bag. Do you think this will travel to the bathroom if I need to go? No. yes you can okay so today for this lady gang episode i thought it would be really fun um the the ladies have been asking for more content that's just us and i can see why this is riveting this is like so good you're welcome i'm glad we don't have a celebrity here because all you need is us so what i thought would be so funny is if we call this episode the lady gangs most discussed
Starting point is 00:14:27 because as you know i am super thirsty i spent a lot of time in the facebook group talking to Everyone constantly. Sharing too much. Jack comes in and out eventually. And Becca, you won't come in at all. No, I come in. I just don't. You just watch.
Starting point is 00:14:40 She's a secret lurkey. So what I've done is I pulled up. I don't do well in those environments. I pulled up and pulled the most popular topics of the Facebook group so that we can all discuss them. Cool. So that people know what we're thinking even though not everyone is talking. All right. So I'm going to start from most talked about.
Starting point is 00:14:57 Okay. Most talked about dating and relationships. What advice do you want to give the girls overall, Becca? Dating and relationships. I don't want to run old advice into the ground, so let me think of some new stuff. Okay. Jack, if you think he's cheating on you, he's probably cheating on you. Absolutely.
Starting point is 00:15:13 You don't have to like your in-laws, and butt stuff is fun. I don't know. Butt stuff is fun. I have seen a lot of posts on the Lady Gang Facebook of girls that are dating, like newly dating, dating a lot of guys, like not dating somebody exclusively. and there's been a lot of posts about the anxiety of like what do i do i really this is an amazing first date like when do i wait for him to do i contact him does he contact me and i've been in that boat a million times millions so many she's had her legs open for all kinds of explosions
Starting point is 00:15:47 millions of men suitors i've been in that situation where you go out on a first date it's amazing it maybe lasts too long maybe you have too many drinks and then you think you have a lot of chemistry when maybe you don't so i my advice would be to once a date is over don't think about it bye because it's it's bad to ruminate on something and to really hope something into existence when you never know and also another piece of advice is everybody is dating somebody else and somebody else until you have an exclusive conversation yeah dark don't assume that somebody is exclusive if you haven't talked about it i have really good advice and it just came to me okay make sure before you start seriously dating a guy you meet all of his
Starting point is 00:16:40 friends yep because you might be more into one of his friends than him oh i did not think that was the direction this happened to me and Zach way back when like 10 years ago you met right you were dating one of his friends well yeah the first time we ever met each other was after I'd been on a date with one of his friends like like at this point it might be 15 years ago forever ago and so I like casually dated this friend of his but if I had been living in Atlanta and still like running in that group of people like he would have been off the table for me like Zach because I would have already his friend that's okay anyway um so and and and I remember dating I remember during the time that I was dating I would like be like oh this guy's great
Starting point is 00:17:29 like I'm gonna do this like yeah let's give this a try yeah and like you get kind of not serious but like into it monogamous and then you like meet a friend of his and you're like I'd like to yeah i want to swap wife swap so like i would do it early i would really try to meet his friends early yeah like date number two i met chris's friends on date three yeah it's good and i was like oh chris is the coolest also just meeting a guy's friend says a lot about him are they wearing flip-flops are they a bunch of douche no it's okay if friends are wearing flip-flops you just it's like if you're not rule them out rule that friend out friend i would not like to okay recommendations was number two pop culture was number three work related advice
Starting point is 00:18:13 don't take it personally ask for the raise don't be afraid to ask questions as long as they're not annoying know the difference between an annoying question and an important question and don't ever work with kelsey knight she's a real dick amen okay now this is fun what should my wedding hashtag be we get asked this all the time but i have a facebook group for wedding hashtags i think we do have a separate group but i think it would be really fun what would our wedding hashtag be for all three of us like if i marry you jack and then like well ours would be jelty oh jelty you know what jelty did not get the focus on our television show that it deserves got the attention it deserved it was fucking brilliant well jelty that's our hashtag jelty
Starting point is 00:19:03 It was supposed to be our production company. Jelty Ever After. Guys, it's not that groundbreaking. Like, the name Jelty, Kelty and Jack put together, like, it's really not that great. I think it's genius. Okay, what would Jack and Becca's be? Jekka? No, you can't do that.
Starting point is 00:19:18 No, these girls do them, but they're so good. They're like, Earth to Jekka, or like, you know what I mean? They're like, she said yes to Fan. Fan? Like Dan and Franny, you know what I mean? not so mr bright house or whatever like yeah yeah yeah yeah creative so you're jack vanek and you're becca tobin jack bobin cobin jobin nothing rhymes with tobin nothing rhymes with tobin it's a throwback to your panic days because oh nothing room circus what that was their tour
Starting point is 00:19:54 nothing rhymes with circus oh was it that was that was after my day okay what about this what about wait what it's becca that's a good wait what it's jekka wait what it's jekka could be your hashtag i mean okay that's fine i think you can only have a wedding hashtag if you have an amazing one yeah so why do people have hashtags just so they can all the pictures can be just tag the people what was your hashtag nothing no you had it was put your phone away we did not have a hashtag no one person posted a picture you got married before hashtags oh my god what year is it you did though babe no no i was definitely on instagram let me just look up my wedding hashtag night what is it if you can't remember what it is then you probably didn't have
Starting point is 00:20:41 one no i had one cdk c kc wedding right what yeah ckc there's another bitch with my wedding hashtag she was in utah no oh how do her pictures look she's in india she's beautiful man um my wedding hashtag is ckc wedding and there are 100 plus posts oh but you got married i you got married before people were coming up with like the really punny hashtag yeah i was just looking as a place wait what because night is like a perfect last name to turn into a hashtag i don't even know who this is getting ready for the wedding who are you probably at the other wedding that wasn't yours oh yeah definitely no there's other weddings oh my god i don't know these people i didn't have bridesmaids this is an abomination of my life well now you can pretend that you do if you want
Starting point is 00:21:39 to prove that you have friends to people you can tell them to look at the hashtag i guess so of somebody else's wedding all right next thing on facebook let me look here okay next birth control are you gonna put on your headphones or no oh my god okay come on let's get out of here callie we need to finish this episode okay birth control birth control is check check is this me yes it doesn't feel like me it is okay what to buy a significant other as a gift so we're not doing birth control i mean birth control you didn't seem that interested i'm not really that into it advice for birth control if okay as little hormones as possible and if you have a heavy heavy flow don't get the copper aud true spoken from a woman who has complained every week about her
Starting point is 00:22:26 copper you do here i bled for three weeks out of the month we know you asked for advice bitch okay what do you get your significant other as a gift a good attitude i know i don't actually know what do you guys want as a gift i mean zach's obsessed with like what golf so if i got him like a golf trip yeah or a or like he loves traveling right like the trip is great yeah i mean he doesn't like he doesn't really ask for stuff like if there's something he wants to buy he just buys it that's what's i mean gifts as an adult is hard jared is a big nerd so one of the gifts i've bought him yeah he loves star wars like a lego you know the baby the life-size baby yoda no i don't want that junk 219 dollars
Starting point is 00:23:17 it looks really cute it'll end up being in my house and i don't want it no i got him a really cool like limited edition vintage star wars tea from like the 80s oh that's cool that's cool yeah how does it smell it's actually fine but you know you get them on ebay you're like crossing your fingers that it doesn't smell like garbage with it yeah okay what's wrong next topic is poop eight votes like advice on pooping i wouldn't know coffee yeah coffee or even just if i smell a cigarette that's so true or if i even think about taking an adderall does adderall make you poop oh yeah i've only taken adderall maybe twice it makes you poop instantly um okay help me name my new pet kelty yeah we need to have we need an update if that girl ever named her dog kelty or
Starting point is 00:24:10 not that's right she never wrote back to you i actually like it like um heather morris had from Glee had a cat named Becca. She didn't name it after me. Oh my god, she had two cats, Becca and Zach. I need to text her and see if she still has Becca and Zach the cats. Okay, that's kind of cute.
Starting point is 00:24:30 I do love a human name for a pet more than anything. Yeah, for sure. Kelly wants to play so bad. Sorry. Alright, when we come back, we're going to fix your life. all right and we're back and we're fixing lives first question comes from these are all now anonymous okay so a couple weeks ago i had a really out of the blue and honestly too fucking vivid sex dream about a guy friend of mine love those they're the best i've happily
Starting point is 00:25:03 been in a relationship for over a year and a half now and never thought anything of this friend despite knowing him for years that's fine ever since this dream it's all i can think about when i see him and it feels like i'm keeping something from my boyfriend even though i would never let anything happen i haven't wanted to bring it up to friends to air how weird i'm feeling because i feel so ashamed i could really use some advice or reassurance it's fine dream your dream i have sex dreams well i did have that dream that diplo tried to steal me away from jared and i had the dream that you dumped jared for liam hemsworth yes so i mean it happened i'm gonna tell you guys something they've say a lot that sex dreams don't actually mean you want to have sex with that
Starting point is 00:25:44 person. What does it mean? It's deeper meanings. It may suggest that your libido is high and you're not getting your needs met. Oh. Recurring sex dreams with an egg. I doubt that one. Okay, what's next? I don't think that...
Starting point is 00:26:00 Okay, number one, it's normal. I feel like everybody has sex dreams about people that aren't their significant others. But isn't it exciting when it's so real? It's super exciting because then you start seeing someone in a different light. This did happen to me once about... It was a friend of mine that was just like And I would never touch him with a 10-foot pole.
Starting point is 00:26:16 And then it was a sex dream, but also we had a really good conversation about Breaking Bad. And it was a guy that I thought was stupid before. But in my dream, I'm like, oh, you're actually kind of intelligent. And then I had a crush on him. And then we hooked up. And then it was very anticlimactic. And it ruined it. So maybe it's better in the dream.
Starting point is 00:26:33 I wasn't going to bring this up because I know you hate to talk about dreams. But I had a crazy. I really. I know. But you have to listen to this dream. Oh, no. This is so weird. i had a dream last night that i lost my job and became like a i i don't really know what my job
Starting point is 00:26:49 was but i grew this is the type of dream i hate i hate this hold on she's like i was wearing a shirt but it wasn't really a shirt you know what i mean like i spun in a circle kind of a dolphin and but no listen i'm gonna say this so clear i had a dream where i was a character that i lost my job and i became someone that was could not take care of themselves and i had i had vaginal pubes as long as vaginal pubes as long as like a weft of like fake hair that we put in our heads and then in my dream when i decided to get my life together the first thing that i did in my dream was hold out my pubes like super far and then cut them and that was my dream and i needed to talk about it but i didn't know if there's gonna be an opportunity actually thank you for
Starting point is 00:27:38 that because that's probably the best dream i've ever heard anybody god you saved it i'm sorry i just i didn't you know what it is it's the lead up to the weird part because you're like i was wearing like a shirt or was that you that's me that's my dream i tuned you out so thank you for bringing i was wearing a shirt it wasn't really a shirt but i spun around in a circle and then i turned into but think of it like i was like my long piece of self-cutting disgusting i bet they were black that sounds like they were straight so it's just like a it was like a sheenie it was that i really do that sounds like it has a very distinct meaning to it yeah it's time getting your life together you're you're brushing out your vaginal hair and cutting it i mean there's
Starting point is 00:28:21 a lot of meaning there when my bikini line is waxed i feel like i'm ready it probably means It's like your life has spun out of control. Yeah, like get it together and get those pubes under control. Okay, next question. All right, that was a great question. Second question says, there are so many things I want to do. Travel, go out with friends, try new restaurants, et cetera. But lately I get a sense of dread before doing anything.
Starting point is 00:28:40 Me too. Even going to work many mornings, I feel so anxious. Me too. Even though I like my job and have been at it for several years. Is it social anxiety? Once I get into a situation for about 20 minutes, I'm fine and can even have fun. And so what gives with the extreme uneasiness beforehand? Yeah.
Starting point is 00:28:57 Do you have any advice on how to ease this unease? It feels like it's really affecting my ability to enjoy life. Does anyone ever feel anxiety like this? I have like a touch of this, but mine is more that like there's like some dread associated with socializing. That's how I am, yeah. But then once you get out there, it's like, okay. So when I start to realize I'm becoming a hermit and I'm turning down every invitation and then stuff that I can't turn down, I'm dreading. I give myself, like, a little pep talk where I'm like, you are going to have a good time.
Starting point is 00:29:28 It's going to be fun. Think of a few things you're looking forward to. Like, if you love your job and you have something exciting coming up, like, that you're having lunch with a client you love. Like, that's what you think of going into the day. Like, the positives. Yeah. Or, like, I have to go to a group dinner. Worst experience ever.
Starting point is 00:29:45 But I'll be like, I'm going to set myself up to win. I'm going to sit next to my favorite person, so I'm going to text them before. I'm going to be like, we're sitting next to each other. tough for them if I'm not the person that they want to sit next to you get and you're like thinking like I can't wait to catch up with this person this is going to be a good part of the day so I'm like kind of the same I had way way more social anxiety when I was younger and as I got older I realized a lot of it was when I was put in social situations that I couldn't really control like right now like at my age the thing that I hate the most is like a mixer or like a forced
Starting point is 00:30:16 socializing like an event or something like that so what i started doing is if it's if it's something you can't control say no to the things that you can kind of pinpoint what is giving you the most anxiety and i like that if you're going to this forced group dinner that you don't really want to find your little person yeah you're like safe thing and i i like the idea of doing that but also like i have like a cocktail that i like to drink and i'm like great i look forward to having this specific cocktail when i get there yeah but it's like you don't have to say yes to every social situation just to say yes like pick the things that will actually make you happy girl you don't have to like people stay at home that's my answer that's terrible advice terrible advice
Starting point is 00:30:56 and like work stuff i mean i mean work just is hard sometimes it just sucks and you get in a rut like maybe change it up maybe start going and working out in the morning and like see if that changes the way you feel about the rest of your day yeah um okay last question says my best friend's brother and i have been texting every day for about two or three months now without my friend knowing i love this situation it's often just sharing our lives and stuff but now he said that he wants to go out with me i know my friend would never allow it so should i agree to go out with him secretly turn him down tell her or or ask to be just friends with benefits edgy please help me i literally have no idea what to do
Starting point is 00:31:36 is it bad advice to say go out with him secretly see if there's something really there and if there is tell your friend yeah it's not i think yeah i think that's fine are they best friends um just friends my best friend's brother a best friend's brother okay well i have a brother and all of my friends wanted to get with my brother not all of them but like some of them that were dumb um tried to get like my brother was like kind of like he had a thing about him in high school i think and like some of the girls they wanted a bad boy and they like liked him and i remember people came over my house for sleepovers and then they'd like end up playing super nintendo with my brother and like i didn't like it but i also didn't care that much so i think sometimes
Starting point is 00:32:22 you're like oh my god my best friend's brother it's gonna be so weird like it's it's really not that weird like it's weird because it's my brother and like you gross he's gross but like it's not that big of a deal like and you can't make a big thing if it doesn't work out you can't bring don't drag your friend into it she's always gonna choose her brother's side 100 well actually that's untrue because the reason i became friends with christina perry is i dated her brother i didn't know her and then i met christina through the brother but that's different though because you didn't know her before and it wasn't like bad blood because of it no because it was like a friend no he dumped me after like four weeks and i was like no i love
Starting point is 00:32:57 your sister and we stayed in touch and then became super close different though yeah because you didn't you weren't best friends with her before right i'm just saying that friendship has been complicated i'm just trying to add to this conversation sorry i won't talk anymore just leave me alone okay more in the corner oh my god what's happening i just entered hell i feel like i'm in hell that's what you said you said i'm looking at your face oh my god i'm Looking at your face, I'm in hell. If you could have seen what you're facing. No, I don't want to see it.
Starting point is 00:33:29 It's fine. All right. Next question. Last question. Those are it. Those are it. Oh, God. Okay.
Starting point is 00:33:33 Well, we're going to kill each other. Yeah. Listen. Lady Gang's over. No, you know what? I think we need to round it out with something. Well, what was your idea? Positive?
Starting point is 00:33:40 No, I want to say this. I want to say that this episode was all about the Facebook group, and it really is an amazing community. You're the wind beneath our wings. You are the wind beneath our wings. You really are. And, like, be nice to our moderators. They're doing the best they can.
Starting point is 00:33:52 And also, if you haven't joined the Facebook group or you haven't been on Facebook in like 10 years. It's a fun place to be. Come on back. It's really awesome. And there's tons of cool subgroups. And we're going to continue to spoil our Facebook group because they're like our OGs. There's some fun things coming just your way. There really is.
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