LadyGang - LG QUICKIE: A Quickie In the Morning with Donna Sexton

Episode Date: August 2, 2018

Before leaving NYC for the heatwave back home, the Ladies do this week's Quickie in their hotel room with Becca's favorite ornery Aussie and personal trainer Donna Sexton! She goes into her very tough love method to training and her unconventional life path that somehow invovles a brothel. Follow the podcast on Instagram @theladygang and you can email Jac, Becca and Keltie at Hello [e-mail]! And thank you to today's sponsors: Amazon = Go to amazon.com/shop/ladygang to find their favorite products while keeping the podcast FREE!   Care Of = Go to TakeCareOf.com and use code LADYGANG to get 25% off your first month’s order of vitamins  LaCroix = For more information or a full list of retailers visit LaCroixwater.com   ZipRecruiter = Go to ziprecruiter.com/gang to post jobs for free   See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Hey guys, the following podcast is a Lady Gang Network and Podcast One production, which means it's going to be awesome. It's time for a quickie. Podcast One presents the Lady Gang, the Hollywood girl posse with Lady Gang Quickie. Here's Kelty Knight, Becca Tobin, and Jack Vanek. Let's make this quick. Hello, hello, hello, and welcome to the Lady Gang Quickie. And our guest today, I know we don't normally have guests for our quickie, but she's the

perfect person to have on for a quote quickie she is personal trainer to the stars new york city's hottest aussie she is known for she's flicking back off she's flicking me off for her worldwide famous camel toe just kidding and her big natural boobs and her tight ass yeah her name is donna sexton she's australian she'll whip your ass and she's here to be with us and talk to us about getting skinny welcome donna sexton thank you very much welcome welcome i'm nervous as i ate just like half a donut but okay um yes okay so we're so excited you're here how did you guys meet so i was 18 years old i just moved to new york city um chasing my dreams of being a professional broadway person um i'm 18 a person performer

um and i am pretty homesick you know moving straight from atlanta i'm very lonely i didn't come to school with any friends yeah um i'm living in this building on the upper west side and i go down to the gym and there's this really loud mouth blonde tan aussie and she's like talking to somebody on a treadmill that she's standing next to being like don't be a pussy run like it was out of a reality show very bad australian i know i know i know it's always been bad they're hard so I look over and I'm like oh my god like I kind of want to know what this woman's story is I'm a young 18 year old and I go over and we start talking and she's actually training a girl that I went to school with and cool Donna's like well anytime you want to come work out you know just

let me know so I call my mom and I was like there's this woman in the gym and she's sort of like crazy but it seems like something I want to do and my mom has always been a huge proponent and like if you're depressed the first thing you do is you get out there and you exercise like endorphins so she's like i am happy to take away from your beer fund and add a little bit to this personal trainer yeah so i started it and donna became like my den mother and she was the person i went to with boyfriend advice but also she like by the time i was done with her i could do one arm push-ups and i had like an eight pack oh my god so it was like yeah it was like this fast friendship and she became like my second mom away from home and inappropriate mom but inappropriate

Yeah, very. Exactly, very inappropriate mum. She didn't know what she was getting herself in for at first. It was like, oh, she seems quirky. She's a little bit out there, the Aussie. But I've got a foul mouth on me like a truck driver. And she talks about her camel toe. I can knock hers out of the park any day of the week.

That's true. And so it started off like that. And then she had another little girl, Peggy, that was living with her. And she recruited her to come in as well. Becca was a little tougher. And Peggy was like, I think I'm having a heart attack. I think I'm having a heart attack. Oh, my God.

And it was like, she wasn't having a heart attack. She just didn't want to work out. Right. So to me, it was really, why has this young woman looked at me and thought, okay, she could be an influence in my life. She could be a good trainer. I sound like a drag queen cross with Phyllis Diller, which you may not know because you bitches are too young.

Phyllis Diller? Yeah. And it's like, so here she is, you know, recruited me. And the love affair started. I've now known her for like 15 years. oh and uh i know a lot of secrets about her and she has a lot of secrets about you should tell them all right now i'm so glad you're here for a quickie we've just extended it to a full episode where we're both confessionals this is a great place to do it it's not like

hundreds of thousands of people are listening no but like donna's the original jillian michaels so everyone was like oh my god she's so tough but i think what's different about donna and like why she's so successful what she does and like you're very you're you're no holds bar you're very like i said with your approach with this little this girl it was like it wasn't a shallow comment it was like you're you're in your 20s and you're unhealthy you know and she's not afraid to look at someone and say the fat around your gut is going to kill you so it's like you are look i'm an acquired taste a lot of people find that really like too much but at the end of the day you're going to get a lot of people that will come up and go oh you're just being too tough on yourself

and don't listen to her and so i just literally straight to the gut tell them how it is it's like you know i wear a singlet that says if you're easily offended or singlet or tank top tank top i'm like a what yeah sorry we yeah tank top single girls yeah i need one really i'll get you one i'll get you one of these and it says if you're easily offended now would be a really good time to fuck off oh my god amazing i don't advertise myself falsely i don't go up sort of you know clapping my hands and saying i can help you i'll be there i'll help you and i'll give you 110 percent of myself but it comes with a fucking sledgehammer and it's like so i love that though yeah but not everybody they sort of back off and most people will say i want you i need you and then they get

me well not most people the ones that get it and understand that there's nothing i won't do for them for them to get to their results they'll get on board and a lot of a type personalities or they you know know what it's like to work out hard so they'll get on board and say okay maybe i will try this crazy bitch yeah because i say some shocking things it's like you're not going to get laid with that thumpa folding over your vajayjay because they won't be able to find it to stick their dick in so let's get rid of it and let's get going so yeah there's some there's the one line is to come out the whole workout this is the whole workout yeah it's sort of tough love but it's really if you scratch the surface of me because um first off you can sort of be a little

bit alarmed but then once you get to know me there's nothing that these young women the men you can call me at three o'clock in the morning i'll get up you've just had a baby you've lost your mind and you i'm up at three in the morning running down yeah 180 yeah and i'll be in there rocking their baby get on the treadmill we can do this we can get through it so if they don't get that you know but that's the thing you always feel better after a workout yeah getting going is the hardest thing it's like getting dressed is always the hardest for me and like actually going to the gym well i can give a shit if you did it naked as long as you turn up oh but you know you you never regret the workout you're never like oh i'm really sad i did that today so it's

like i like that yeah you're spot on because the endorphins and afterwards they can be abusing me they can be because i don't care they can come for me and say fuck off and you know i'm not doing this and but at the end of it they actually turn around and say i feel really good thanks donna yeah exactly they can ready to cut a bitch but i think it's you can definitely i mean i just met you but you can tell even though you're such a hard ass like you really give a shit and that's why i feel like people probably respond so well to you yeah it's not like you're just a dick to be a dick it's like you're just really tough love and it's a method in my madness totally yeah the lady gang yeah i also want to point out that like donna is the the original hustler like this

woman's had eight lives she was a bar owner in australia she's done we're gonna get to the most exciting job you had in a second but before we get there i want to talk about being a woman a one-woman business and a one-woman show like you came to new york city with with nothing you left australia and you were like i'm gonna be a personal trainer in new york city like and now you have tons of clients very wealthy important people and i watched you over the years hustle your ass off and you are very similar to kelty where it's like you if you don't hear yes the first time you're gonna sit 75 more times so like what's your biggest thing for girls starting out well look where it started wrong for me because i looked like

an old leather bag at this point my ass is cute my face is a bit but i there's a lie by the way but that is the funniest thing i've ever heard okay sorry but really you can do a lot of washing on my forehead look how wrinkled it is my face is kind of tough i've got to show you later when i was on the andy cohen show last night i brought this tape and tape back my neck because oh i wrote about that oh my god does it work oh my god what kind of tape are you using it's like i've got it in my bag neck tape no it's for neck tape to take your neck back so and it works old leather bag didn't look so it works like and to pull it off is like unbelievable but let me focus yeah what would you tell girls getting back starting i started

at 21 years in hospitality i owned bars in australia and i was 25 when i got my first bar and nothing was going to stop me from getting it and um so i never ever took no and then i built that little bar up then i got another bar and then i got this big nightclub and i did really really well but hustle hustle hustle becca's absolutely right i never took no for an answer i would always find a way if somebody wasn't going to you know convert over to my way of thinking nothing was going to stop me again i don't care what they say i know what my vision is i know what i'm going after so i would go for it and then i um sold the last big bar that was the club and um came to america paid off my house i've been very sensible i always try and tell people

have something to back you up if you're a woman alone i have been married three times but these gave me nothing nothing they're useless useless some good dick but outside of that they really didn't have much to offer me i'm like okay so i've done it all by myself and then you get yourself a dildo and then you're fine yeah exactly it's like so so then i'm in love with you it's amazing i'm just over here i'm never speechless and i'm just like i think we should have four people in the lady gang yeah absolutely you're part of it continue on and so then i decided after the second marriage um i'll go sell the bar rent out my home and uh then i'll just go to europe for a I went to Europe, hung around for about eight months spending a shitload of money.

But because I needed to, 16-hour days, all these years, and I just wanted to treat myself. You know, the Ritz-Carlton with the butler smoking a joint on a couch and giving him a beer, said he was the best client he ever had. And so I did that little thing. And then I landed in New York and got out at the airport at LaGuardia. And it's like, these people are like, fuck you, fuck you. And I'm like, oh, my God, this is my home. these are my people it's like you know so I came in and thought I'd just stay here for a little

while and um and I ended up staying for a while and nothing I said to my sister I think I might stay here and do this and send me some more money she has power of attorney she's a sensible one she's a very wealthy woman and she's gone no get a job you're not spending any more of your money you know I'm like okay you're right so I literally as Becca said started not knowing a soul not having anywhere to live i'm not having a business and i literally just started with one and two and i think two was becca i don't know who one was poor bastards um forgettable yeah forgettable you weren't forgettable but i don't know i don't remember anyone after becca tell me exactly and so i just went from there and networked the shit out of myself standing on the street

just handing out flies introducing myself cracking jokes wearing really good camel toe and i just kept i didn't stop until i built it up to like 10 15 20 and just running around like a chook with its head cut off and build it up and then i built a really good little business i think that you are the definition of self-made like there's a whole article the kylie jenner one on forbes that she's like you know a self-made almost billionaire and the lines with that are so blurry because is that really self-made when you are coming from a famous family with a shit ton of money like you are the definition of being self-made yeah she's got she had a lot of she had a lot of help there yeah like all the help i also think like her lip kit is good and i did

so like bravo to you kylie yeah no i'm just saying the definition of self-made is really hard I'm actually sitting here and you women are really annoying me there's not a bloody wrinkle on your faces Botox she's told me to get Botox because once I sent a photo to her and my forehead and she just sent me a message get some fucking Botox

because I'm doing this and going like this and she saw this have you ever done it well once when I went with one of my clients and she got it so I had left over of her I don't think that's how you're supposed to do it you're not supposed to share needles You're not supposed to share.

Well, no, it wasn't a shared needle. There was another needle. Oh, okay. There was another needle. I just don't think you're supposed to share both locks. It's like so. Yeah. Okay, just kidding.

Yeah, I'm like, sounds interesting. No. Yeah, so I did a little bit. Yeah. But he's all looked so gorgeous. I'm going to say, I think, okay, hold on one second. No, not time to be over. Time for you to ask about the question I really want you to ask.

I know. Okay. Well, one more thing. I think that like the girls listening, you were somebody who knew your brand. You're very authentic to who you are. And I think that's the power in every brand. and, like, you're not afraid to be yourself. Yeah.

And it sets you apart. The Lady Gang. So here's what I want to talk to Donna about. Donna has a very colorful past, as we know, and she had a friend in Australia who owned a brothel because they're legal in Australia. So her friend was going away for a period of time, not to jail, just, like, on holiday.

She just wanted to have a break for a while and wanted someone to come in there. And she knew the only person cut out for this job It was Donna Sexton. Take it away. So. Tell me your. Well, first, is your real last name Sexton or is that a stage name?

It's one of the, one of the first husband and I kept it. Because you're like, this is sick. Donna Sexton. I'm like, great fucking stage name. You're like, I married you for the name, but now you're gone. Yeah, so. You've been the name getting rid of you, boy. Yeah, so you could, you could imagine when I got this Sexton name, I'm like, this is

too good. Because I've had enough dicks to sink the Titanic. So I'm like, I'm keeping this. This is great. What's your maiden name? is lee's l-e-y-s like keys yeah yeah yeah you're definitely a sexton it was worth the marriage and divorce yes it was absolutely and so i would be in the office i said yes okay i'll help you out jackie no problem um i was in between uh bars and i'd opened a dress shop huge mistake i can't tell

people they really are a size two all i can say is that color suits you so i was like okay i've got to get out of this so i had a little break i sold that had a little break and i thought i'll help her out so i go in there and it was called the harem international so they all wear harem outfits the girls i love a theme yeah and the men would come in the door and they call it an introduction then they walk out and i know we're on radio so it's hard but they're just showing all their wares and it's like hello my name's tiffany and they'll rub them on the thigh or put their hand down their neck or you know so these guys already start to get a chub and and they're like okay uh i'm having her she was great or porsche or tiffany or chanel and i'm like okay and so

i'm in the office you can see everything and this what becca's alluding to is one particular time and it's not the first time you'd have all sorts of characters coming in you'd have a guy come in and say Chanel in and we'd like, yeah, she's available. He'd go back outside, he'd put red lipstick on a dress and stilettos and think you didn't fucking recognise him. It's like, buddy, you're six foot two, you've just put on some lipstick and you're whilst back in here. So he liked to have sex as a woman?

Liked to have sex as a woman. Interesting. No wig or anything, just the dress and the lipstick and stilettos. And so there's a lot of men that have fantasies, Which blew me away to the extent of how many, we're talking doctors, lawyers, you know, fathers, husbands, boyfriends, men that if you, well, is there all married, girls married? Well, if they say they're having a bucks night and they're going to maybe go to a stripper joint or somewhere, slap the fuck out of them and say that is not happening. the amount of guys that would come in on their bucks. What do you call it here?

Bachelor parties. Their bachelor parties. Oh, God. And then they were addicted to the hooker. They would come back over and over again. It was heartbreaking to watch. You just got married last week, but you can't get the hooker out of your head

because she knocked the head off that better than anybody could ever do. And that's what they're trained for is to get them coming back and back. Yeah, making the money. It scared the shit out of me as a woman. I won't, you know, because I think I was on my second husband then. so if they ever said anything like that I'd be alarmed. Did anyone ever try to

work you? Oh yeah all the time because you're unattainable you know. You can have anyone but sexting. Yes you can have anyone but sexting which is not true. Good girl, not true you don't have to pay this bitch she'll just lay down on her back

exactly so we'll tell you a bit of a story, I think Becca's favourite story was it may may not because i'm very visual it may not translate over the radio i think we'll be fine i'll do my best so you'd have guys that come in with fantasies and there's one little guy he was a barrister and he would come in and he'd bring five balloons with him and he'd check in with the um sex worker and he would check in with her and then they go to the room she had to blow up the five balloons and she would have to bounce on it until he heard and it popped and he's

actually wanking off at a hundred miles an hour just watching her just watching her do that that was his thing and then i'm in the office and i'm watching the tvs and all of us figure out that that's their thing a childhood birthday party yeah exactly so weird and so then i'm watching this on the tv screen and all of a sudden i see the little five foot man with hair plugs lunge on to the sex worker trying to choke her what so i there's a panic button yeah that we can press to get into the room so i tear down there go into the room and flick him off he was easy to flick off and it's like what are you doing you crazy idiot and he's like i didn't get the full service what do you mean she's busting balloons what do you mean full service he said

oh well the first four went and the last one went so that's what no shit that's why he was choking because she didn't pop the balloon correctly yes oh my god yeah my god nutcases wow so i have a question yeah please you could see everything everything you've never watched that show on no gigolos oh yeah bunny ranch it's nothing like what you can see on these screens surveillance oh the intro yeah and they're like yes yeah well the intro you just have like just all the sex all all the sex okay well what did you learn oh my god what didn't i learn about like if you could say the three things that every man wanted included in their fantasy what was it Okay, the biggest thing is suck their dick as often as you can.

And, yes, they want it a certain way, whack a grapefruit on it, you know, and so it feels like they're in your vagina and it's all juicy. I'm actually an expert at that now, just saying. I might be a little long in the tooth, but I can still put it down. I'm just letting you know. If there's a fourth husband out there and you're listening to this, I can rock your world in probably three minutes flat. oh my god this is the best thing i've ever heard oh my god okay so everybody wants a blow job

but mostly there's a lot of men needing this validation over and over again of how fabulous are how great their dick is like over and over but it is such an individual thing if they want you to pee on them there's people that want you to shit on them and they are the most normal men on the planet so if you think that it's just for these weirdos walking around and you can pick them a mile away that you can walk up and go oh okay he wants you to pee on him he wants you to burn the shaft of his penis with a cigarette he wants you to yeah nasty stuff or nasty as you would say yeah nasty stuff it's like and i would be just sitting there like walking around with a dog collar on them through the hallways and you kick them and they say thank you mistress no problem

buddy i'll be back in 10 and give you another kick in the guts it's like yeah but men i would say are the most insecure out of us as women they're the most insecure this validation that they need that they're fabulous all the time the reason they come back for more to the sex workers because they get it and it's like oh baby you're the best oh it's not even like the sex it's the validation it's the validation so we all think we all think we've got to have all these tricks as well the tricks don't hurt but it's the validation of that there that you're the best i've ever had in my life and if they don't want to hear it once they want to hear it a thousand times and the thought of them having sex is like every seven seconds they think about it and in this particular place they had to

put their penis dick penis why am i being appropriate now under a um fluorescent light and it would light up to see if there's any little blemishes or anything on it and if you yep it's like the tsa for your dick before you make sure yes so you don't have any stds it's an inspection of their penis oh my gosh so wait is it hard is their dick hard yeah uh some do the moment they've got they touch it yeah it goes it goes some are soft and they're nervous and embarrassed about this procedure and when the when the sex workers i'm really stuck on that word aren't i when they're busy um i would have to put a glove on and it was the highlight of my day like they go in there and they're like okay before we start your pants down

and they had to get it out put it under the light under the light But aren't there some STDs that don't have, like, other than, like, warts and... Yeah, but this is, like, a, you know, you've got to see it. Yeah, there can be a little discharge. But then they wear a condom, right? You'd be surprised the amount of people. If they give them an extra $500, they'll take that condom off. And it's really frowned upon, and they get kicked out.

It's a very, very well-run professional industry in Australia. They don't play that. They all have to come with health certificates. they have to go every two weeks and get it and then come back yeah so you know i think that's a good thing yeah yeah for sure and you know they could do like 14 to 15 clients the lubricant that's going through that place could sink a boat sink a ship a cruise ship i'm not kidding thank you for me yeah it sounds exhausting it's like i hope i have sex 15 times this year but we'll see well don is the scariest person to talk to when you're married because she's like if you're not

if you're not fucking your husband he's gonna go find it like you've said that before on a podcast yeah like she's the person who scared me straight about you like putting out yeah because they it's it's they're animals yeah they're animals you have to do it but i mean i'm i'll be really honest i don't look at men i i think i've had such an education of them because i'm nearly fucking 94 and dead but it's like i've had such an education through of course the brothel as well as three husbands and 800 boyfriends and i've never had fear of sex itself it's not love it's just sex i don't apologize for it men can do it over and over again and they're not judged for it so i'm a real stickler with that i will never call a woman a slut or a whore or in australia

would say you're mole i don't know where that came from either but i'm really a big advocate if if a woman wants to have random sex one night be very careful but it's okay but if you're not equipped emotionally to do that do not do it and then when you get married and or you've got a boyfriend look it's a bit sad that they think about it so often it is such a priority in their life but don't doubt it for a minute is such a priority in their life that it makes them it fills them up it makes them feel you know validated and it's just something they think about all the time and i'm telling you if you don't do it somebody else will do it i believe every man given the opportunity may never give get the opportunity i get pushed back on this all the

time but i've seen it so often given the opportunity they will stick their dick in a warm donut so we have some warm donuts yeah okay let's try it with the microphone yeah me i could yeah so look it's a really it's like it's like a minefield for women because they'll be the first to say well then that's all i think about my feelings are hurt this is her you've got to separate the two and it doesn't mean that they don't have to look after you nurture you emotionally you know support you in your endeavors and what you're doing we get off and we get our chub in a whole different way but we've also got to be serviced and feel good but it's just it's just a different journey to what theirs is so when women are saying to me i don't care he wants it

all the time and he's always getting up my ass and you know i've just had a baby i've just had this i get it ladies i get it but if you don't do it that warm donut's looking real good to them it's like american pop yeah amen i feel like that's a perfect place to wrap up but you were on tv recently right yes i was i did a little appearance we had a little reality show becca take it over because it's called breadzilla scared fit and then they brought donna in to whip some women into shape yes amazing congratulations any advice to us because you know we're about to have our show and so i don't think you're going to need after seeing the show yesterday she came to the lady hang oh it was so terrific i thought you were all so great so animated

the audience i couldn't believe it you have got some real supporters here they were just crazy for you there was a few bunny burners you know bunny burner you know where boiler where they boil a bunny and you may not be able to get away from them but they were bunny boilers yes and i was like we call them punishers punishers man they were so into you my ass was hurting like they were just and it was fabulous so you can see they were so engaged they're so in love with you and look i would just say like the whole process of it is is a little overwhelming um but you girls are so well seasoned i was a novice i didn't have a clue what i was doing and i just had to be myself and i find that you girls are just you know authentically

yourselves and it really comes across like that because if you were dickheads and i felt that you were just not being yourself i would have been oh really this is just you know boring right but it was really engaging from start to finish i was hooked so you'll do really well girls and i wish you nothing but the best i wish you nothing but warm donuts donna sexton and if you live in new york and you need a personal trainer who's going to get very real with you and give you an eight pack please go find her she's at the bossy aussie yes the bossy the bossy aussie on instagram send her a message thank you we love it yeah thanks for being here thank you for being here what is our tagline again um we weren't here for a long time we're here for a good time

or is that the one that we don't we weren't here for a long time but we're here for a good time one day one day we might figure it out bye that escalated quickly thanks for joining us on lady gang quickie check out new episodes of lady gang every tuesday and more quickies every thursday on podcastone.com the podcast one app and apple podcasts