LadyGang - LG QUICKIE: F*CK IT/BUCKET: Part Two

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Starting point is 00:00:30 it's time for a quickie podcast one presents the lady gang the hollywood girl posse with lady gang quickie here's kelty knight becca tobin and jack vanik let's make this quick hello hello hello welcome to lady gang quickie i am here with jack and kelty and i'm becca oh are you becca you're the odd one out we have lady gang merch on and you are or is that the lady gang sweater no no this is actually a gift that was sent to me and i've worn it eight million times that you know that brand lily silk yeah i'm obsessed they sent me a cashmere sweater with my initials on the bottom oh i love a monogram it was really cute yeah i love it it's also a camel blondes and camel is a tough boring thing to pull off i can't do it but the color of their camel

Starting point is 00:01:25 has like a a good tone for for me i don't know something about it so anyways if i don't have a spray tan with a camel it's game over death becomes her i look like a corpse dark freaking times well welcome to the 2024 bucket list i love that so the girls the lady gang you went crazy for the manifesting episode as you do every year and i heard this thing i can't remember where i heard it. So if I've stolen this from you, let me, let me know. But I heard this thing called the bucket list, which is the thing you're not bringing into 2024 and then thing you're doing in 2024. And I had this crazy idea. I do not know if this is going to work. This is experimental to have everyone DM us a voice note of what was on their bucket list this year into the lady gang

Starting point is 00:02:17 Instagram. I have not listened or pre-produced at all. We're going to listen to them live and give comments while you guys think of your bucket list for this year and um and at the end we'll wrap up with our buckets okay don't you love just saying bucket try it it sounds so good right bucket oh no that's different that's a whole different show that's a whole that's on pornhub.com all different show okay so here we go i'm going in let's take a listen let's see I'm very nervous. Me too. Get to tracking, planning, and trying so hard to get pregnant in 2024.

Starting point is 00:02:59 Still praying it happens. But here's to living life with my wonderful husband. Anonymous. I am fully support of your f**k it because it is grueling. It is horrible. It is really one of the hardest things to go through as a woman. I'm so sorry, but you're right. Enjoy that amazing husband of yours.

Starting point is 00:03:27 Give yourself a break. Guess what? Your uterus will always be there. I mean, unless you take it out, but give yourself a break. I love this. It's time. You're tired. You got this.

Starting point is 00:03:39 I know coming from somebody that hasn't experienced that yet, but I've seen a lot of the time when you give yourself a little bit of grace and you allow your body to chill out for a little bit and not be in such a fight mode and allow yourself to just, you know, experience the things around you and appreciate it. I think it, it'll,

Starting point is 00:03:59 it'll help. Yeah, I agree. And in hindsight, I wish that I had spent more time enjoying my marital bliss, you know, before. So you're right.

Starting point is 00:04:09 You're right on track. So get good. Okay. Here we go. let's listen to the next one. Hi, Becca, Jack, and Kelsey. Uh, one thing I am saying get to in 2024, I just got out of a six year relationship. We lived together for four years. Um, definitely thought that was my person and I am now on my own. So I am saying get to letting my breakup and letting living alone be scary. And I am embracing this time in my life that I'm going

Starting point is 00:04:42 to be living by myself, cooking for myself, shopping for myself and not having to live with a man for now. So, um, that's what I'm saying. Good to, and your guys' podcast is always helping me get through things. So love you guys. Wow. I gotta say congratulations because that relationship was obviously not serving you. And it's great that you got out when you did, and you can now take this new chapter in your life to figure out what you want minus a penis in your life if they don't say anonymous can i say their first name or is that weird should we keep it all anonymous she doesn't like the last one was like please keep me anonymous this one just sent it oh i'm gonna say chloe this is chloe no i'm so i'm super stoked for

Starting point is 00:05:31 you chloe after going through obviously a few breakups that i felt like the world was ending you get to reinvent yourself. You get to figure out what you want for yourself without anybody else in mind. And you get to be really, really selfish. And I think it's a great time for you. And I'm excited to see where you end up. Same. Congrats. I just had this vision of her like in her apartment and it's like really cute, like urban outfitters, kind of like kitschy. And she's waking up in the morning and she's making tea in like a really good, beautiful teacup. And she's just like thriving. Like I just had this vision of you, Chloe. So I'm so excited for you. And like bad breakups are the worst. And, um, God, six years is a long time

Starting point is 00:06:11 like to redo your life for four. That's crazy to be living alone. And God, you didn't marry that piece of shit or have kids or anything. Yeah. You're well, sorry. I'm just, I'm really excited for her. And when you start dating, I'm just excited for her to start dating again. Cause it's like having the butterflies of going out on a first date is so fun. I love it. Yeah. And the first time you have sex with somebody, I mean, after six years of sex with the same person, you're in for it. It's going to be a real treat. Oh my gosh. Okay. This is Cheryl. Hi, lady gang. I am saying fuck it. I'm just giving zero fucks about what other people think of me. I do the things that are right for me and my friends and my family, like the close

Starting point is 00:06:51 ones and everybody else can fuck right off because I don't care what you think anymore. I don't care what you think of me. It has nothing to do with me. So that is the thing that I'm giving zero about for 2024 i love it cheryl amen cheryl you know what's so funny it's like the older you get i had this conversation with a friend recently where it's like the older you get even like you're really good friends you start noticing like how weird they are and i think it's literally it's everybody that's getting older and is literally saying it the way that she's saying it and letting their like actual personality shine whereas you're younger you're trying to be a people pleaser you're trying to like fit in with the status quo with all of your friends and

Starting point is 00:07:31 as you get older you just get super weird and unique and i i love that it's so true people are so much more interesting when they don't give a shit what you think of them it's so like it's the year of bill murray he's the quintessential i don't give a and nobody could be more fascinating and just like magnetic to me should we be the female bill murray i wish you know that my my one thing that I wanted when I was growing up, I didn't think about my wedding or whatever. And the one thing that I wanted was for Bill Murray to officiate my wedding. Like that is the only thing I cared about. I know it didn't happen. No, I think your wedding wasn't worked out great. I don't know about Bill Murray minus bill. We'll try to get you for the re the reval.

Starting point is 00:08:13 Um, Matt Nathanson has a great song about Bill Murray. Okay. I just had to put that in. He does anytime I can. Okay. This is a lease. It's only eight seconds. I'm scared, but let's see. This is Elise and I will stop scrolling on my phone before I get out of bed in the morning. I'm done. Yes. I'm sorry. Okay. Elise.

Starting point is 00:08:35 Good job. I went a step further last year because that was my goal for last year. And I started charging my phone in the bathroom and it is a game changer because it forces you to get out of your bed before scrolling. Well, what if there's an emergency? that's my only thing about sleeping with your phone in the other room. How would you know if there's an emergency, if somebody is trying to call you? Here's the thing. The only emergency in my life that I need to be there right away for is my child and I have a monitor. And as far as

Starting point is 00:09:04 family goes, unfortunately there's not a whole lot I can do. There's, if they're calling me, they can call an ambulance. And I also don't even live in the same city as those people. Yeah. I guess you couldn't do anything. Yeah. I have thought of it though. I'm like, do I need a bat phone? Do I need this? Do I need that? I would like to hear from the lady gang, what their solution is because I no longer sleep with them. Is there like a setting that it can be like all in my like sleep mode? You can. Well, you can like have a setting where it's like only blah, blah, blah will ring even

Starting point is 00:09:31 if it's on silent. So I guess if it's in the bathroom, you'd hear it. Yeah. Yeah. Don't you wish everything was more rewarding? With Rakuten, almost everything is. You can earn cash back on those new shoes you've been wanting. You can save on the next trip you book.

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Starting point is 00:12:15 in 2024 is choosing me and choosing the people who consistently show up and choose me no matter how crazy life gets, no matter how busy they are. Um, that's what I'm doing. By the way, my name is Stephanie and I love you guys. Okay. Bye. I love you, Stephanie. No more scraps for Stephanie. Scrapless Stephanie. I love this. No, it's true. It's like once you kind of, I feel like I've done a really good job about this with people in my life, like just cutting out the fat and we stop wasting your time on people that are fair weather or acquaintances or whatever, because it's like, once you have that quality, it's like, you don't need the quantity. You don't need to be affect a hundred people. It's like, you just need to affect the

Starting point is 00:13:06 closest people in your inner circle. And I feel like that's a really liberating thing to not have to care about. It's true. It's true. It's great. And you know what? It's like the people that don't have the time and that are giving the scraps, bless them and send them on their way. They're not necessarily bad people. They're just people that aren't your people for this moment in your life. And they could come back around. So I will say don't write anybody off and don't take it personally, but you can say for me, these are my boundaries and these are the people I want in my life. However, people do come around just as somebody who is notorious for not ghosting, but just getting caught up in busy and not being a very good friend at times. I, I've, I've had a

Starting point is 00:13:47 lot of luck with friends who have been patient with me and I come back around and I'm the, I'm the friend that they need me to be at the time. Yeah. And I also think like nipping it in the bud personally for you before you take it to a place where it can't be fixed. Like, I think just, you know, in my twenties and early thirties, like if someone kind of ghosted me or wasn't around, well, I've never been this person, but I think I've been this person for other people. If I'm being real, like if I was really busy and I, you know, and I, and then for them to get so mad that they're like, no, you, you're like a bitch and you're like so selfish and whatever. And then

LadyGang - LG QUICKIE: F*CK IT/BUCKET: Part Two

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