LadyGang - LG QUICKIE: Here Comes the Elder Emo

Episode Date: October 6, 2022

Now that the first leg of tour is over, Jac is ready to start planning her wedding. Find out what style dress she is leaning towards and the advice that Keltie and Becca have for her. Check out our amazing sponsors!!! Addyi: Revive the sex drive you once knew and visit HSDDtreatment.com  Chime: Start your credit journey at chime.com/lady  Progressive: Quote at Progressive.com to join the over 27 million drivers who trust Progressive!See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

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fit and more and you should too score some amazing deals in store or at marshall's.com this segment is brought to you by hsddtreatment.com if you're frustrated by a low libido you don't have to live with it forever. It can be treated. Learn more about an FDA-approved treatment at hsddtreatment.com. It's time for a quickie. Podcast One presents The Lady Gang, The Hollywood Girl Posse with Lady Gang Quickie. Here's Kelty Knight, Becca Tobin, and Jack Vanek. Let's make this quick. Hello, hello, hello. Welcome to Lady Gang Quickie. I am Becca here with Jack and Kelty. hello hey how's it going hey guys i'm looking at a wedding dress right now that i really like

so i need to talk to you about the wedding oh god let me see the dress here's a it's a discuss this is a not a visual medium so it's a straw i like a strapless dress with some applique but i'm just wondering if this is too see-through is there too much skin showing no can i see it just whatever you want it to be this is a dress we're looking at it so it has a corset top well i'll tell you what I hate about this dress right now. I hate when you can see a breast pad. Oh, so she's looking at a corset dress. It looks like a bustier and then it goes into like an A-line skirt, but it's all kind of see-through and the boning, but where your boob is, is a colored pad. I hate that so much. And that's why I'm not a big fan of like the see-through in the front bustiers because you

always see that boob pad in a photo that just like is what stands out. You've tried on dresses like this that had more of like a white mask and the whole thing is kind of like is it see-through is it not yeah that is thank you you know I need your guys's opinions because it's funny like I know what I like but I don't know if it's right right yeah I like I have no um experience in wedding dresses very interested this is I'm so glad we're talking about this I'm very interested in your love of the applique? I don't know what it is. It's so left field for me. I think because it is, um, does it brings interest to the eye? Like it makes it not a two dimensional item of clothing. It's like art and you're an artist. It's like a very intricate. So you,

you appreciate that. Well, and I don't like, like, I don't know if it's satin or whatever. Like I wouldn't get like that type of a material. Like I want something that has like the tool, I'm not using the right words, but like, yeah. And I think if it's just flat or even like, I'm not a sparkle girl, not lace, like I feel like that's, that's the, yeah, no rhinestones. I feel like that's the, the, the thing that would make it different. I know. I love the applique, the dress that I thought that was going to be the dress when I was

actually going to probably get married early next year, um, was all applique. Yeah. i think it's i am so surprised by that like i really i don't know what i expected you to go to but you keep sending dresses and they always have they're all kind of these appliques it's a similar dress you just haven't like really nailed which is good that you're liking the same thing yeah because mine were all over the map were they oh my god she almost had like this like neck thing don't let anybody talk you out of something oh i got talked out of a dress that i'm really pissed who talked you out of it everyone in my life really like you're not gonna like that in a

couple years i'm like guess what i like that better now than my other dress yeah it's annoying and it was more it was more like unique yeah yeah so does jared have a say like have you shown him anything well i posted a bunch on tiktok yeah because people love a wedding dress oh yeah she's like for the for the views um no what does he say i mean he he literally has jack goggles on all the time and he like thinks i look the best and everything um but his joggles jack goggles. Um, but yeah, I've shown him like the idea, like, cause I think I want like a strapless with the fun detachable sleeve. Like I feel like that's my, the direction that I'm going for. Um, but yeah, I haven't found the right one and I don't want to pick one now because I still

don't have any idea when I'm getting married. And yeah, I can't put, you almost need to do like a little break from looking at dresses. Yeah. And I have, the last time I looked at dresses was like a couple months ago. The really horrible thing about wedding dresses. And I mean this, like with all love of my heart is that new ones keep coming. I know. And I like, after I pick it, I'm like, I can't look at a wedding dress again. Cause I'm going to find one. I like better right after. And the algorithm really fits you. I'm glad I didn't have the algorithm going when I was getting married. I would have been destroyed. Yeah. Yeah. And I also think like, for me, I would have never picked like a big ball gown romance. Then I saw like Stassi's

wedding dress and I was like, that's like, just so beautiful. I tried on that dress. you did and it's a similar shape to kind of what you're going for yeah and it's just so romantic and beautiful i'm like why did i want something tight on my bum i see that i know i don't want that i hate tightness around my like hips and my stomach like i want a nice and also it's more like special it's more like a wedding dress and something i wouldn't wear so i think that i had to go tight because i'm so short oh really everything it is strange so awful oh does it look bad terrible if i i had is it just too much dress you just look like a like you're going to cupcake wars yeah it's so bad i mean some people pull it off i just it was so bad that i was like

okay i have no other choice but to show my hips and my bum interesting but yeah if you're tall take advantage of of like a big the ability to wear a dress yes a dress yeah well because the one you wear the dress the dress don't doesn't wear you yeah the one that i thought that i was Like this is my dress was a Galia Lahav one and it was a low deep V big bell sleeves, but then it was like a tight mermaid kind of a thing. And when I tried it on, I'm like, I feel like I've worn dresses like this. Like on, like if we went to like an event or something for lady gang, it was like the shape of something that I've worn before.

Well, and I think the silhouette that you just showed, which is like more of an a-line and not hugs around like the lower body. That's, I love when brides wear something that's a departure from their everyday. Yeah. I know everybody wants to be comfortable and I understand the appeal of sticking to a silhouette that you feel good. Like it feels like me. No, that's what I loved about it. I'm like, it doesn't feel like me. Yeah. And it feels special. Yeah. It feels like you, but not you every day. It feels like you on your special day. So it's like, really, I'm glad that you're going in that more traditional silhouette, but I want it to be like funky. Exactly. And special,

which it still will yeah it still will be i think like the thing that you just have to be so careful about now that i've been to a zillion weddings is just about like especially because you're towards strapless i mean you're really lucky because you're so petite and like that bustier will stay up on you all night i don't have a boob yeah but it's like it's the underpinnings of it all like that's what makes or breaks the dress for me is like when you are having the see-through thing like what are you seeing and like are you seeing your boob pad your under like your shoe like it's those little details that I think make or break a gown for sure and like I even on the red carpets like it's like the people who do that kind of thing so well like JLo her

stuff is always tailored to the max yeah Rihanna is always tailored and like you could put the same dress on another woman who's as beautiful yeah but just the way that it's fitting them and the way that it's tailored and like you know and also the way something photographs because so often the way that you look at a dress in the mirror and you're like oh my god i love this and then you'll see it on video have you had that experience all the time like i feel amazing this and then you see it on video you're like wait i'm not yeah well that's one of the dresses that i tried on had like silver sparkles on it it was like it was a burda dress and it had silver sparkles and i'm like this is hideous it had like a little bow that was like a silver bow i'm like this is so

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the lady gang do are people starting to get pissed where they're like here's jack again trying on 10 dresses no i mean i go to kinsley james i've gone to like five times and they're like anytime we have something new and come on, try them on. I'm like, I will. I mean, it's good because you're posting about it and all that stuff. I love it. Actually throughout being on the tour with you and seeing, because I hadn't, I had no idea. I mean, I feel like we know each other so well, but just because you are such like someone who's so social, I had no idea. Like people are very surprised when they hear that you're actually like have this social anxiety. like you're such a social person you're always at a brunch you're at an event you're wearing an

outfit like it seems like you're the like you're the Paris Hilton no but you're actually not and when you got engaged obviously like you didn't have the best time at that moment had a meltdown and then being on tour like also seeing you struggle which you've crashed by the way um actually one of my friend Emily when she came to the Atlanta show she was like you would never know that Jack doesn't like being on stage she's great so just know but anyway with that it's like I actually think all i'm glad all these things happen you didn't rush into a wedding oh my god because i think i'm like becca i agree like i feel like you should go off to italy or somewhere like that get married with 10 people and have a big party but like really that that dress up like

the stairs of like some vintage like portofino moment is gonna be so romantic i know i'm glad that i didn't just like rush into it because i'm like i don't even know what i'm doing right and my idea of what i want to do changes every two seconds right so and you and you can change your mind too like you know like you can you can decide something and then not like sorry that doesn't not making sense but like like for me as many things i love about our wedding and there's things that i would change yeah i mean like there's people i wouldn't have invited now i mean not many i'm shocked by the women who say it was the best day of their life and they wouldn't have changed a thing i have met women like that and i'm like how did you get that how

did you achieve that yeah or like it was just such an amazing like everything about it they didn't want it to end like i'm like i just is it a personality type or is it somebody that just like really planned better planned better or just like actually in the moment yeah and loves well it's Yeah. And loves the attention. Yeah. I'm like, but it's so bizarre to me. There is no hell greater on earth than my in-laws and my family being in the same room together. Like, and I love them both. I love them both, but like so stressful. And the fact that like, my parents are not from LA, they don't understand Uber, you know what I mean? You're having to take care. Oh my God. It was like, it's even though I had a super low key wedding, it's still so stressful. And maybe the

people who say it's the best day of their life have like a really good support system around them or like wedding planner or families that do weddings. Well, you know, there's like families that do like money that they could hire a bunch of people to take care of all the shit for. I don't know what it is. Like, I don't understand how you wake up and it's not stressful. I'm not going to lie. I used to never understand a wedding planner. I was always kind of like, what are they doing? Yeah. But now I really, yeah, truly believe you should never have a wedding without somebody else who is dealing with logistics. Yeah. Cause it's like really hard. And I was thinking about for you, even if you go to another country and you have 15 people

or 20 people or whatever it is, like I instantly got anxiety about your friends texting you being like, what are we doing on this day? What do I need on this day? Like having someone just fielding every single question that people have regarding that trip is going to be a number one so that all you have to think about is what am I wearing and what am I packing and that's it right because you want someone that literally has everyone's flight itinerary everything and so when this person misses their flight and they're going to need to be picked up at the airport 10 hours after yeah you're not getting that text you don't even know you don't even know yeah you know because that's like where it gets stressful that is the most annoying well and all I want to do is have it

be like a fun experience and not feel like a wedding and that kind of shit is like what makes it feel like a wedding thing yep and all the bullshit yep when you said the thing about uber i was like oof and you have you give your friends and family way too much credit going into these things yes and then you're shocked in the moment that you're like so you're telling me this person doesn't know how to travel is texting this should be my problem the day i'm leaving for my big trip my big wedding. This person is actually texting me asking me what hotel we're at. Yeah. Like that stuff is going mad and you'll hate people before you even get to be with them. So it's like hire yourself an Alex for the wedding where it's like, I won't be answering a single goddamn

question. Not one question. Don't ask me about a flat or a heel or this or that or a taxi or an uber like this will be unread and ignored yeah text this person yeah i love this yeah you need to find this is honestly number one revolutionary okay it's a dress this is priority number one it's so important because it is so annoying like and and people you will be so surprised that people are like hey um where should we go eat our room's not ready go find a fucking diner patty you know what i mean don't ask me patty you know yourself don't ask me you know what i mean like it'll shock you it'll shock you and the little details that get fucked up like i'll i'll remember forever i don't know why it's a core memory but like we had cupcakes at the wedding because it

was like in the backyard and some of them were gluten-free and some of them weren't and the boxes were marked and whoever put them out didn't put the little flags in them so all my friends were gluten-free kept coming up to me all night and they're like do you know which cupcakes are oh my god celiac you better pick up a goddamn cupcake or not don't make it my problem i am that's what people do sorry that is fucking insane that's what people do yeah that's what people shock you they're asking you about the gluten-free flags yeah yeah you know what i mean and like haunt my life yeah it really haunted our tour it haunted our tour it haunted our well we have one really bad allergy and we have one celiac we have alex who's celiac and then we have me who

just has a pooper that won't stop yours is a whole nother issue it's a whole nother thing we know it's been i actually feel so sorry for for alex because yeah she has like an anaphylactic um allergy, sorry, Chelsea and everyone out there, all you dumb shits that are just being gluten free to be gluten free. Cause you have some belief in something that doesn't exist. You're ruining it for Chelsea because she goes to a restaurant and I've seen this over and over and over again. She walks up and she says, hi, I have a gluten now, or I have an allergy to something very specific. Can I see the ingredient list? The way people look at her is the way that they look at most people who don't have an actual allergy, who just want to stick to their diet, who should

Just stay the fuck home. And that's why I'm never leaving my house again. And that's it. And I'm like, I just, I feel so sorry for Chelsea. So I started to coach her on what she has to say going in and being like, hey, I am not an annoying high maintenance person. I will die and I will be in the hospital if I have this one ingredient. She's been good at it though.

She's been getting good. Gangbusters. Yeah, yeah. And I coached her on it because she has been so sorry and apologetic. And I'm like, no, all these other people are ruining it for you. That's true. All the people asking Kelty which ones are gluten-free in their backyard, those people are ruining it for your anaphylaxis.

Because they weren't gluten-free because it was like a f***ing trend. Because they, yes, exactly. So. Live your life. Anyway, on that note, can't wait for your wedding. It's going to be so fun. Me too. Okay.

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