LadyGang - LG QUICKIE: Meet Our Galentine’s

Episode Date: February 11, 2021

It’s time to take a walk down memory lane as the ladies introduce everyone to their very special Galentine’s. They're sharing all of their favorite childhood memories, through the ups and... downs, that helped shape the women we love and know today. Check out our amazing sponsors!!! Don't miss Firefly Lane - based on the best-selling novel by Kristin Hannah - starring Katherine Heigl and Sarah Chalke - ONLY ON NETFLIX! Away: Start your 100-day trial and shop the entire Away lineup of travel essentials at AwayTravel.com/ladygang  Brooklinen: Go to Brooklinen.com and use promo code "ladygang" to get $25 off, with a minimum purchase of $100 Best Fiends: Download Best Fiends FREE today on the Apple App Store or Google Play. That’s FRIENDS without the R – Best Fiends! See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

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Starting point is 00:01:06 The Hollywood Girl Posse with Lady Gang Quickie. Here's Kelty Knight, Becca Tobin, and Jack Vanek. Let's make this quick. Hello, hello, hello. Welcome to The Lady Gang Quickie. I'm Becca here with Jack and Kelty and a special guest. Well, we're so excited. And this is like such a 360 moment. Is that what you call it? Because we're not sure yet. We're not sure. Well, we don't even know what we're doing, but no. So last night I was in the Facebook group and I saw that like a bunch of our members were talking
Starting point is 00:01:37 about binging Firefly Lane. And they were like, oh my God, I watched the whole series in one day, blah, blah, blah. And every once in a while, we all kind of in the Lady Gang community get on these shows. We did Bridgerton, now we're doing this. And then I was like, wait, we have something really special planned coming up with this show. So this episode of Lady Gang is actually brought to you by Netflix's new show, Firefly Lane. So it's basically this show about two inseparable best friends throughout 30 years of ups and downs. You know, they go through all of their vibes together, their failures and depression and disappointments. And then they have this unthinkable betrayal that breaks them apart. And the two women go their separate ways. And it's
Starting point is 00:02:18 unclear if they'll ever be able to be best friends again. So the series is based on this very famous novel by New York times, bestselling author, Kristen Hanna. And she's the co-executive producer of the show, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah. Anyway, it's a female led drama, which we're excited about. It's a must watch. It's uplifting. It's nostalgic. And then we were like, Netflix reached out and they're like, would you want to do something with us around Valentine's day and Galentine's day? And I was like, Oh my God, this is the opportunity for us to each invite our longest, bestest friend on the podcast to interview. And so we've set it up that we're each having our bestie on the podcast today. So this is going to be a really special episode. So thank
Starting point is 00:02:52 you, Netflix. Thanks, Firefly Lane. Okay. So first up is me. Please, I should have done like intros. Anyway, please welcome to the podcast, Boobs. Boobs, my best friend, Katie. Katie, hi. How long have we known each other, boobs? We have known each other for 32 years. Oh yeah. I'm so sorry. It's been a trip. Let's just say that. Oh, I'm sure it has. So we have been best friends since the first grade. And what is your earliest memory of friendship with Kelty? Um, friendship. Like I knew we would be really good friends for a really long time probably in I think it was the first or second grade and you had a desk fall on your foot which probably is why you have so many foot problems if I think about it now but you were just you were beside yourself you didn't know what to
Starting point is 00:03:59 do and I was like I don't know what's going on with this girl but I'm gonna help her and I think it was probably one of the first times i just like came in i was like let's get you down to like the nurse's station out of the room like you need to like calm down and then we heard about the foot for weeks on end weeks on end until the next oh so this is normal she does this is normal it all stemmed from that death yeah and then another one i don't know I think it was like story time and Kelty someone was sick in class and Kelty got barfed on so again one of those moments where I had to come in and like help her out and I was like I'm just gonna be here for this girl no matter what and then I think it kind of switched in our teenage
Starting point is 00:04:49 years where like Kelty was always the one that was like swooping in for me and like rescuing me when I had boy trouble and all sorts of things and she hasn't stopped in terms of my being there for me in my life when I have boy trouble well I always say that I think it's it's really important to have lifelong friends if you can hang on to them not everyone is lucky enough to hang on to them but it's really special because there's someone that knows you that's chosen you it's not family like oh my god you have to see this person this is like we've we've chosen to be in each other's lives for 30 plus years. And Katie's probably that person. Oh, by the way, her name's not boobs. That's a nickname. Katie is probably that person for me that really knows me the best,
Starting point is 00:05:36 like knows that I'm actually a big, well, actually now the podcast knows I'm a big nerd, but like, I don't know. I just think like, I don't know. How would you describe real Kelty? Like not showbiz Kelty not showbiz Kelty yeah do you even know her um no I do I don't know her I guess I'll say one of the things I love the most about our friendship is that like actually for the majority of our friendship we've been separated by miles and miles and miles but we still come back and like can connect and it's pick up right where we left off and it could be literally years since we've seen each other so I just really appreciate that because like you do live this very like high high energy lifestyle and you're go go go go go like when we have those moments where we can
Starting point is 00:06:24 just like slow down and connect and I see that you're like the not you'd love nothing more than like sitting on the couch and drinking a cup of tea and like watching a stupid show and like just connecting and like not thinking about life for a second and I feel very fortunate that we had that time last February so and for some miracle of miracles you just weren't super busy for three days on ET and like we got to just like chill and connect and it was just so awesome yeah Katie came out to LA last year and before the pandemic and it was amazing um what do you think of your best friend being in the spotlight I wouldn't want it any other way and I don't think it would be other any other way I noticed you it's funny I like nobody can see this but do you remember this
Starting point is 00:07:14 yes it's we have this girlfriend's book yeah so it's just a book that when Kelty left for the cruise ships for the first time we sent it back and forth and one of the things I wrote in there when i first noticed you before we were friends was when we used to have like school assemblies and there'd always be a performer and kelty would always be the one and she did this performance to annie and like had the hair the hair and the dress and i was like who is this girl like and it didn't stop like she was always the one like on the stage front and center i can do it let me be this person and I always knew she was gonna do something great I knew when she's like I'm gonna dance in New York I'm like yep you are like everything she said she was gonna do
Starting point is 00:08:05 she did it so there's no doubt that she was gonna end up where she is now like falling following her dreams crushing her dreams and like never settling it's awesome oh kelty how do you have such nice people in your life i don't understand just like a classic supportive friend just a solid solid solid solid little boobs well i mean kelp like it's it's the same though like kelty's been there for me too like i remember i was living in montreal because i chased a boy and idiot as we do mistake too and moved across the country this is why I'm always so harsh with people on the podcast I'm like you gotta learn it the hard way though you know yeah totally and we had a fallout and it probably should have saw that
Starting point is 00:08:57 red flag and saw it for what it was probably shouldn't have married that guy but okay okay but Kelty like she hopped in a plane she was there for me for like and she just let me cry for like three days and then finally she was like okay like you gotta like get yourself together like put on some clothes let's go shopping and we were like walking down the street in montreal on one of the main saint catherine's like one of the main streets and my part like x or whatever i want to call i don't know what i want to call anyway he was walking down the street with his brother and like kelty and i were just so into each other in our conversation didn't even notice him like didn't even see him and kelty was just like that's it
Starting point is 00:09:41 Like, that's all you need to do. That's the moment. It was, like, just a moment. And we just, like, laughed about it. Wow. I went back to him and whatever. Love that. And now you're divorced.
Starting point is 00:09:54 Now you're divorced. But we have two beautiful humans. It's a hard, hard way. Yeah. Yes. Yeah. We have two beautiful humans. And we do get along well now.
Starting point is 00:10:04 And I wouldn't trade it. It's part of my story. Yeah. it made me you know realize what was really important so and kelty was always there the whole like the whole step of the way right supporting me marrying him and then i was like and then when it goes badly i will also be your friend yes but that's a true friend you know you got to let your friend do the do the thing make the mistakes and then you just have to be there when it all comes you know crashing down sometimes you know how often lady gang we get
Starting point is 00:10:33 asked that question of like hey my friends dating this person are going to marry this person and he's like we hate them like should I tell him and I always say no like people have to learn their own thing but it's like you just got to be there like I kind of knew this she knew my first husband was trouble I knew this guy was trouble but it was like what are you gonna do you know okay last thing before we move on to another best friend um do you remember either um like uh ever liking the same guy i don't think we ever did uh grade two jay willman okay grade two jay willman had these jammer pants where when we go into the music room for music class and they would turn the lights off because we were like in the 80s we had like projectors they didn't have like those fancy
Starting point is 00:11:16 screens and when you turn the lights off jay woman's jammer pants glowed in the dark jammer pants like i think you mean in atlanta but like no it was like a sweat pant like you remember how boys did not wear no one wore jeans until like the fifth or sixth joggers like joggers but we call them jammers yeah i've heard that word before up in canada it's weird canadians and australians have weird words for things yes it was i remember sitting in class and looking over and he was licking white glue off his hand so at that moment it was over for me wow so yeah wow wow oh my god And then I went back and like dated him for a week in high school. Do you remember?
Starting point is 00:11:58 Oh, my best friend. I love you so much. I love you so much. This is so fun. Firefly Lane on Netflix story of best friends. And now they are sponsoring us to bring in Caitlin. Please introduce your best friend, Jack. Kate.
Starting point is 00:12:14 What's going on? Oh my gosh. Caitlin's going to be a podcast star. I don't think so. I mean, that's like, that's a pretty tall order after following and, you know, and your guys' footsteps for sure. The bar is low. It's for sure not low. I actually wrote an intro for Caitlin Kelty. Are you proud of me? Oh my goodness. Wow. Here we go. Okay. Kate, are you ready for this? I mean, yes. I'm like super stoked. Go ahead. Okay. Caitlin and I are the epitome of
Starting point is 00:12:47 opposites attract. We met in freshman year of high school. I was a popular varsity cheerleader and Kate was an ASB school spirit tomboy. She was way too peppy and friendly for me and her zest for high school was honestly extremely annoying. After many failed attempts at trying to befriend me, Kate finally wore me down during Mr. Colgan's AP biology class
Starting point is 00:13:05 and we became fast besties. My friendship with Kate is a special one. We were never attached to the hip. We never hung out all the time, but we just always got each other. It's always been for me like a soulmate connection and we've both kind of done our own thing in life, but we always cheer each other on for the sidelines.
Starting point is 00:13:20 side note kate the second that the uh lady hang la tickets went on sale kate bought tickets immediately refused to go on the guest list she's like i'm supporting you no matter what that's a real friend it's a real friend kate is the type of friend who would bail me out of jail even if we hadn't spoken in years and she's the type of friend that i know i will have until the day that i die oh my gosh that was like so wow that was so sweet jack wow i'm yeah we oh my gosh we like we totally we are like the complete complete opposites um I we like I think we met each other we really like bonded around um like our yearbook for high school so it makes like Nesman's class and I was like yeah just the most obnoxious I was played basketball and soccer
Starting point is 00:14:12 and I was in ASB like I was in tutorial with my teachers all the time and Jacqueline was just like the ultimate I mean the coolest girl ever she had myspace first like she was always going to she was always good she did she made my myspace for me um and she did and she made my password like burt mccracken or something the singer of the used the singer of the used exactly um and yeah I mean it was just the most kind of like super special for me relationship that I've ever had because she just kind of stays um a constant for me and I've done you know I'm I I'm pretty outgoing and um you know like I didn't have a hard time making that many friends but I also don't get that you know super close to people but with Jacqueline it was just always it was always easy
Starting point is 00:14:59 and she never she never judged um and she was always just someone that I've like constantly constantly admired like huge especially now with what you guys are doing like it's it's absolutely it's incredible really and she always makes it just seem so easy and you know it's it's I know that it's not I know that it takes like crazy hard work from from all of you guys so um yeah I don't know I've it's it's a super super special friendship for me too for sure well and we have the type of a friendship where I mean we don't see each other that often sometimes we don't talk to each other for weeks or months but the second that I see you or the second that we start talking it's like no time has passed like we go right back to where we where we were at before and I
Starting point is 00:15:43 think that those are the most important friendships to me because it was never needy it was never one of those where it's like why haven't you called me and blah blah blah like yeah and that's why I always knew like we will always be friends because it's just so easy and effortless and it really is like one of the most important friendships and easiest friendships that I've had in my entire life wow yeah I have a question for Caitlin I have a question when you have seen Jack date all her different dates and then has ended up with Jerry like what are your thoughts on that yeah I mean like she has had the wildest stories which I'm sure she's obviously told like on the podcast all the time and to you guys and so it's you know um it's it's super super special because they
Starting point is 00:16:27 honestly feel like they are they they compliment each other so much like like jerry is you know i mean i don't think that he's exactly like her dad like not like you know totally like bill but i mean he does he has like those they're just the perfect compliment to each other um and i mean it yeah she's had some wild wild guys and dudes come into her life and just i mean it's obviously so different um than than my life so yeah her with Jared is like it's just a dream I mean and the creative like you know juices that are coming out of him and like it can match Jacqueline's creativity and just all of that and they're you know um just the fact that they met so long ago it's yeah I mean it's super it's a super special bond well and Caitlin Caitlin
Starting point is 00:17:15 meeting Jared was like the final piece of the puzzle I think you're my last like really close friend that I'm like okay now it has to get through Caitlin which number one you would literally like love anybody that I anybody ever because you're like the nicest person in the world but I'm like I need it's the final piece of the puzzle that Caitlin has to meet Jared and they need to bond and like this needs to be a thing yeah no it was like yeah I think that I think it was actually did I meet him at the at the podcast taping I'm pretty sure no we met at Nick's in San Clemente Oh my gosh. It was Nixon. I was over a drink. I want to know the craziest Jack Vanek phone call or text you've ever gotten. Oh my gosh. The craziest Jack Vanek phone call or text.
Starting point is 00:18:01 Oh, well, I know. Well, I can't talk about the craziest Kate texts that I've ever gotten. Is it inappropriate? Yeah, it might be. It might be a little bit inappropriate. this podcast i would love to tell it we can maybe take it offline oh my god he has some crazy stories i'll can i say uh well i have like a very important text that kate has sent me that i so kate is gay and she sent me when she like came out to me quote unquote which number one not a surprise at all i mean i've always known the picture that we're using for this podcast was during uh halloween and i was a punk rock princess like all dressed up and kate dressed up as a boy for halloween i made this naturally i already had pretty much i looked exactly like this i just had
Starting point is 00:18:52 like a hat on my dad's clothes yeah you're like perfect costume um but i remember so she texted me and i remember exactly where i was when i got the text i was in cleveland ohio on warp tour on a day off at the bodies museum. Like, I don't know why I was there. Um, that was the museum was I was at like the reproductive room that you need to like sign a waiver to look into. It was very weird. But anyways, I was literally, I remember the moment that you texted me and it was the most thoughtful, um, vulnerable text message that I've ever gotten in my life. And I just remember that moment so much because it was such, it was such a huge moment for you just to be that vulnerable and to reach out. And then I also felt so honored that you took the time to, you know, tell me
Starting point is 00:19:43 personally. And I just remember like sitting down for like two hours and like crafting a response and just making sure that you felt heard and supported and loved from my end. But I think that that's what, you know, kind of makes our friendship and a lot of friendships like that important because it's not always like you're hanging out every second of the day. Like those moments to me, obviously that was impactful because I remember, I remember it from 15 years ago. Oh yeah. Yeah. No. And I mean, and it was for me too, cause like obviously growing up in Orange County, like where, you know, Jacqueline and I are from, um, you know, like I always knew that I was a little bit different. I was always kind of, you know, off. I got along with everyone
Starting point is 00:20:24 And I fit in, you know, with a bunch of different types and groups of, of people, but there was still always that element of just knowing that like, I wasn't the most welcome on kind of a mass level, but with Jacqueline, I like always felt safe and always just felt like I could be, you know, uniquely me without having to make any type of like adaptations or changes or, or anything. And like, I think that that's why that connection and that fuse, like, and that bond between this has just like kind of, you know, been, been able to withstand everything in time and distance and, you know, life changes and all that. And we still just come back in a right here. So
Starting point is 00:21:00 yeah, I mean, that's, that's, that's, that's crazy special that you're able to, I know to say that. Just having such a cry now. So special. I love you, Kate. I know. I love you too. thank you for joining and um thank you for being jack's bestie and supporting her when she probably cries about me no i'll yeah i only made me get up at four o'clock in the morning to go on gma and she made me wear a bra and it was awful um oh my god love you best friend okay love you guys i was just watching the real housewives of salt lake city i'm a little bit behind so they had the Vegas episode and I noticed that Whitney was rolling through the airport with her Away luggage
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Starting point is 00:26:28 That's wearfigs.com, code FIGSCA. brought to you by audio up and podcast one available on apple podcast spotify or anywhere you listen to podcasts the lady gang all right we're back and now we've saved the best for last because becca tobin is so popular on instagram and in life that she has to have two besties she could just have one when i said just get one bestie she had dev two and we're so excited to be here today presented by netflix and their new show firefly lane which is all about um two best friends that have been friends for 30 years and their ups and downs. And I know all of Lady Gang is binging it right now. So Becca, take it away and introduce your two besties. Okay. The reason
Starting point is 00:27:10 I had to have my two best friends is because I literally have their initials tattooed on my body. It was like choosing between a child and I just couldn't do it. So this is the tag team. We call ourselves that because our middle names, our initials spell tag. Katie, formerly Brownlow, now Colston Tyler formerly Donaldson now Parker no Wilson sorry oh my god sorry her husband has a double name it's very confusing okay it is it is okay so Katie and Tyler and myself met when we were Katie and I met before in elementary um and then a couple years after meeting Katie she was like you have to meet the coolest girl her name is tyler donaldson and she's a year below us but she has a hot older brother and she's so cool so she introduced us i think we were 12 and in a pool
Starting point is 00:28:11 and they were just uh we had that like crazy like fairy tale friendship where we just had the greatest times together we made collages for each other fought like sisters um yeah we've been through some stuff um good bad and ugly and we're still standing so hi guys hi this is a good intro yes what is what an intro i feel like we've never fought before in our lives yeah right katie actually this is a notorious katie story do you want to jeez i'm sweating profusely take it away Becca I'm dying to hear my favorite story of you two I'm sweating profusely because I feel like I'm gonna have like haterade after this well just so we know Becca's not always like you know Susie Sunshine so in my defense okay like I can't remember what we were arguing
Starting point is 00:29:08 about it could have been you know it could have been anything it could have been like i cut my hair like hers i have no idea but we were arguing for whatever reason and i decided to go with tyler tyler tries to play like the innocent part i don't know i don't think i was a part of this i'm pretty sure an accessory you were an accessory yeah so regardless of the fact i took every basically every almost every photo i've ever had with becca as a child and cut her face out oh know and so it gets it gets better jack um i take the i take the photos of her of her face not of my face of her face i put it in like a little bag it could have been like a charlotte roose bag back in the times um and knock on her door ring the doorbell her mom her sweet little mom comes to
Starting point is 00:29:57 the door he's like oh hey girls let me go grab becca i'm with a guy at the time the guy that it's in the book i'm pretty sure like god no it was blake's who was my like soulmate as a child we would talk to each other about how we were gonna get married and like run off into the sunset together and katie shows up with him okay so blake's standing there because obviously cutting her face out of a picture wasn't enough to be like a bad friend um so her mom's like oh my gosh guys it's so good to see you let me go get becca and here comes becca like in her old childhood house i can see like her coming through her kitchen like oh my gosh what are you guys doing there because she knew we were not in a good place and i'm like here here this is for you
Starting point is 00:30:40 like such a nice friend that i was and i thought it was a gift and i hand it to her guys and and i we blake and i walk away this is like seriously out of a movie it was and i was at this point, whatever the fight was, whatever the fight was, you know, and, and because there's three of us always during these big explosions, Tyler, nor it was normally explosions between me and Katie and Tyler would have to pick a side. So it was so, it was very, very tumultuous at times. And it wasn't that often, but then the person left alone was truly left alone. The best part about this whole entire story is that during this period, like Becca basically like didn't have any friends because we didn't want to be around her and she, and she, um,
Starting point is 00:31:38 would wait for her phone to ring and it would obviously never ring. But when it did, it was like back in the day when like Nokia had that ringtone and it was like, and so still to this day, like Becca cannot hear. that ringtone it like it literally like breaks her out in hives because she's like I like it brings back the worst memories of being pushed out of the friend group but it was only a short period of time yeah it was very short if it makes anyone feel better I have never lived it down it's very hard because when we're looking for childhood photos we don't have any and Becca brings it up so needless to say I feel horrible about it for those of those people that are
Starting point is 00:32:24 listening and like uh this girl is an awful person i feel bad about it i probably deserved it and that brings us to our next question okay what kelty asked her i think we both asked both best friends what is like something or how what am i like really so like you're you're without the like i'm being so famous fame and the internet what is becca tobin um she is she is like the greatest friend like to the core um she's literally gotten me through my mom passing away when i was 16 her and katie were like the only people for probably three months that I would even like speak to. And so my dad just kind of like made Becca stay over for, I mean, it was probably a month. I don't think you left my room. Um, and I, I mean, I love you
Starting point is 00:33:27 to death, but she is somebody that I literally pick up the phone and call like in good times and bad times. And like I, on the other end of the phone, it's always, and, and I know it's going to be very honest when it starts with here's the thing I'm like oh my gosh oh no um oh my god it's such a classic backup it is here's the thing and I'm like oh god let me just sit down she's gonna tell me exactly what I need but you guys know my parents and why I'm like this exactly she comes from like the greatest family in the world who I mean honestly like our second parents. Um, she was raised like to a T and she would take, like Katie just said, like take a bullet for anybody that loves her. And I mean, she's just, and the, and the best thing about
Starting point is 00:34:26 Becca is like, she has like a very small group that she, I feel like, you know, we'll take a bullet for. And I've just, yeah, very select amount of people. When Becca says best friend, that's it. Like, she's not like one of those girls. Like I'm sure I'm one of the, like, Oh my God, my best friend, my best friend. No, you know who she's talking about. It's a handful of people. And when you wrong her other than cutting her face out of photos, um, you're out, you're done, you're done. And so, but she really would, she's always going to be brutally honest. So it's like, I actually had this conversation with someone the other day. It's, it's something that you respect as you get older with people, you don't necessarily always like what they're
Starting point is 00:35:07 going to tell you, but as an adult, you appreciate it so much more because it, it makes you almost level up in your life. Like, Oh, maybe I should stop being this person or maybe stop wearing this color. Cause it looks bad on me. You know, she's going to tell you, she's going to tell you like it is. So yeah, she'd take a bullet for you. And she had that ability. She had that ability, like at age like 12 to tell you exactly what you needed to hear. Like if it came out wrong, like you still needed to hear it. Like just brutal, honest that, I mean, I think that's why we just like respect her so much. Yeah. The honesty was there, like from the very beginning. I'm too afraid not to be friends with her. We were actually all just together last year,
Starting point is 00:35:48 but they bring out a side in me. And I think we do it all with each other where I will do anything. Like I will, I feel for whatever reason, so protected. And maybe it's because I think I'm 12 again. And I don't think I could actually get in trouble and go to jail, which is incorrect. But the things that we do are like, we revert back to being 13 year olds, like bad girls. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. That's totally true. The one, the time that she's talking about just recently, I mean, we're in our thirties now. Um, and we wake up the next morning and Tyler's husband is sweeping up the kitchen floor because we decided to roll the kitchen floor at like 4am at 4am. We have no recollection of it.
Starting point is 00:36:32 Sorry, I can't talk. And I have videos of it. I have video footage there. We can never show it because there's, you know, body parts that come out on accident. But, I mean, we're doing snow angels in the floor. And the next morning, John Parker made us, he made us coffees and was handing it to us. We feel horrible. And he's sweeping up our mess.
Starting point is 00:36:52 And this is us in our 30s. these are 35 year old women having like a frat pot, a frat party with Tyler's two children and husband sleeping. Yeah. That's the best part. My last question for Katie and Tyler, I just wanted to know is what has it been like for you knowing Becca so long, knowing that she, you know, is so loyal and such a exhibitionist, I guess, in a fun way, like watching her dreams come true, you know, like watching her move to New York, watching her, you know, be on Broadway and then get Glee and then become like a New York times bestseller. And then like her new show, like, what is it like for you to, to watch her rise? I mean, honestly, it's like, I kind of feel like
Starting point is 00:37:36 my dreams have come true, like just watching it all unfold. But the greatest thing about it all is how humble she's been. And I'll never forget like her saying, I guess it was probably 10 years ago um like she will no matter what like always take katie and i's phone calls like she'll be you know probably like about to go on stage but like she would always if one of us called like she would drop everything and answer the phone and i just it just really like shows the type of person that she is um so to watch her come this far i think for us it's like equally as amazing um we kind of just feel like we've been there with her through it all but like it to us it's like the same like you know idiot becca that yeah like yeah it's like we don't we
Starting point is 00:38:31 honestly like don't view her any different we're just like you know can you just send us some free stuff we can thanks we love you when we come to la yeah that's why um can you just like set us up with the Kardashians. Thanks. Yeah. Can we get some lady gang swag, please? For crying out loud. Just like Tyler said, the same thing. I mean, I remember when she got glee and I remember right before that it was that she was just going to quit acting and was just going to become a yoga instructor and all these things. And then she got glee and I'm, I'm like freaking out. I remember sitting in my bed at my old apartment, just being like, Oh my gosh, Oh my gosh. And she had tried to call me. And of course, for some reason I was too busy. Cause I'm so cool. Um, and I'm so famous
Starting point is 00:39:15 guys. Um, and she, I texted her, I think I even called her or texted her something. And she was just so nonchalant. Like, Oh yeah. I mean, I'm kind of, I'm excited. Like it's, you know, I can't wait to see. She was not like me where I'd be telling everyone screaming from the rooftops. And that just shows, you know, it has never gotten to her head. And that's what, when we go out, when she comes home and we'll go out with our friends, you know, people will stop her and say things to her, which is so weird to me. Sometimes like we'll be walking down the street. It's weird. i'm a huge lady gang fan i'm like oh my gosh like you know and people say it all the time and it just doesn't faze me because she doesn't she doesn't act like that and i guess i just i i
Starting point is 00:39:54 don't know anyone famous so i guess for me it doesn't you know i i wasn't used to the whole thought like how to how people would act but she just is herself and she's always stayed true to her core and she's never changed and i have to appreciate that and it goes back to like exactly like how she was raised like yeah she's been humble since day one I mean yeah I just want to go on the record and say that I'm the only um non-idiot that uh did not get you two idiots tattooed on my body so we do we have matching tattoos but Tyler dodged it because her dad oh my god that's what I would have done guys I had a con she's the jack yeah I had a contract in writing yeah jag i got a i had a contract in writing from my dad who said if i ever got
Starting point is 00:40:41 a tattoo before i moved out of my parents house that i would be kicked out and these two idiots made me go first and while the guy is starting to ink me i hear both of them go oh yeah i can't do this i can't stop now and so i'm the only person that had like their life on the line and needless to say had to hide it for like years until my little brother was like what's that on your back you know, but I mean, yeah. Excuse me. I don't think it's on your back. I would like to call that a bullseye. It's a little bit above her butt cheek. It's, it's what Kelsey's been having removed. Send me the bullseye. I love it. All right. So this could go on forever. I think we should have you back. Cause there's way more stories here that I want to get into, but we
Starting point is 00:41:29 want to say thank you to Katie and Tyler for being a part of Lady Gang today and all of our besties this was such a fun episode and we want to thank netflix and for sponsoring this very special galentine's day quickie and of course we want all the lady gang to head on over to netflix and watch firefly lane right now we need more friendship content in our lives how great are these stories this is so much more interesting than talking about boys oh my gosh and periods and bums and beccas anyway okay um thank you to katie thank you to kate uh thank you to tyler and katie and um so many we had wow we had katie caitlyn and wait katie katie and caitlyn today katie caitlyn and tyler whoa that was so fun okay five five lane out now on netflix and we weren't
Starting point is 00:42:19 here for a long time but we're here for a good time bye thanks for listening the lady gang is produced by alex ingber will sterling steve delameter and jared monaco make sure you subscribe rate and review our podcast and if you love it share it with your friends on social media like oh my god i just listened lady gang this episode's a great swipe up to listen and if you really want to which we know you do please follow us on social at kelty at becca at jack vanek and at the lady gang sign up for our newsletter at the lady gang.com and join our secret facebook group it's super fun see you next tuesday Deep within the bowels of hell, the devil scrolls through Instagram and TikTok, looking for fresh souls to enslave.
Starting point is 00:43:05 Yo, yo, yo, what's up, my gents? It's your boy, Jaden Extra. Who are these people? Easy pickings for a possession, your lord darkness. They're truly unbearable. I believe they refer to themselves as influencers. Do you have anyone particular in mind? Hmm. Money, money, money! Him.
Starting point is 00:43:29 My numbers are way down, babe. I need to change it up. Didn't you see that Halloween video Machine Gun Kelly made with the devil? He's like huge now. All because he sold his soul to the devil. This could be my big chance. I'm not having this conversation. It's wrong, Jaden, and it's evil.
Starting point is 00:43:45 I'm done with the drama, fam. Just leave, all right? And you're not coming to Cabo with me. I hate you. hey y'all it's back what's up it's jayden what's up it's carly hansen hey y'all it's oliver tree yo what's going on it's ian dior and we all know valentine's day is the most romantic time of the year whatever my friends and i are about to turn the whole holiday upside down in our new scripted holiday series valentine's day in hell are you familiar with the work of anton levee is he on
Starting point is 00:44:23 TikTok? No, he's not on TikTok, you dumbass. Anton Zandor LeVay. He's the dude who founded the Church of Satan. I'm starting to fear that maybe you're messing with powers that are far beyond your cognitive comprehension, Jaden. I got it, bro. I've seen a version of this movie 20 times.
Starting point is 00:44:38 You're like the badass demon hunter, and I'm just some little shit who is messing around with things he doesn't understand. And in the end, I'll get all messed up, and it will be up to you to, like, save me. First, we spent Halloween in hell. Now, you're invited to be a part of our next musical podcast from our In Hell series. This time around, the devil is playing games with all of our hearts, trying to ruin our Valentine's Day plans by dragging us down to the fiery inferno
Starting point is 00:45:09 in the deepest depths of hell. Demons, place a hood over Jaden and escort him to hell. this is your fault oliver i know jayden came to you for help satan has picked jayden for some reason now it's up to us to make this right so who's with me i'm with you oliver i'll go what about you sad girl i'll kill some people if that's what you want then that leaves you clappy count me in oliver besides i ain't got nothing to do might as well spend my valentine's day in hell in each episode you're going to hear new original music from artists like ian dior jayden carly hansen and me fam subscribe to the valentine's day in hell podcast for full episodes bonus
Starting point is 00:46:01 material and original music this february check out valentine's day in hell brought to you by audio up and podcast one available on apple podcast spotify or anywhere you listen to podcasts I'll see you next time.

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