LadyGang - LG QUICKIE: SMASH OR PASS

Episode Date: July 4, 2024

What are we smashing or passing on for 2024? From Corp-core and the Alt baddie style to water parks, Nancy Myers living rooms, dark fantasy weddings, chunky 90s highlights, and aquaculture, we give our thoughts on all the latest trends.  Check out our amazing sponsors!!! Huggies: Get your baby’s butt into Huggies’ best fitting diaper! Huggies Little Movers. We got you, baby. Macy's: Get all your summer must haves at Macy's! Remember to shop in store OR at Macys.com  See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

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Hello, hello, hello. Welcome to Lady Gang. I am Becca here with Jack and Kelty. Hello. You guys, it's time for smash or pass. Oh, exciting. It is 2024 summer, right? Yeah.

Okay. I guess. There are so many, um, things, things that are in style that we are not privy to. Oh, and I need to know all of your thoughts and I need you to bring full lady gang opinionation. Are you ready? Okay. Number one, smash or pass maximalist fashion. Does that mean a lot of accessories?

Just like more is more, more is more big, bright patterns, platforms. The statement jewelry of 2004 is back. I love it because as somebody who likes color, I tried to find some outfits this summer and nothing exists anymore. Brands are so scared to like do anything that's like a little bit outside of the box or add any color. Like everything is brown. So I'm like, I number one, love anybody that like doesn't give a and they're just like,

I'm going to dress however I want. I don't care how crazy it looks, but I'm into it. I'm into it. Even if it's like trendy at the moment, I don't know. there's something about just like not wearing like a tan dress yeah i appreciate it when i see it in others i it's just not something that i ever feel comfortable myself doing or being in you know yeah there's this one girl i don't know what her name is on tiktok but she has like the crazy she has like frog shoes yeah and like huge hats and like she just like throws so much shit on and i'm like

this is great yeah it's like expressing yourself everybody's too scared to do anything there's a woman who works with me at e our stage manager joe i've never seen her wear the same pants and the other day she was wearing a combat boot that had like um fire like um flavor town fire like on the top that was just flapping in the wind behind her like it was crazy and i was like you know what you do you joe i love it my problem with dressing like that is that it brings unwanted attention i don't like talking to people even today in the airport some guy made a comment about my jumpsuit and I'm normally in sweats so no one can talk to me and while it was a really nice compliment I was also like well I don't want to I want to be invisible here yeah so when you

wear something wild and crazy then you have to accept the compliments or just talk about it yeah you know it's like I love it minimizing connection with strangers yeah I mean I'm into a big necklace again I don't know what happened I was like oh many many layers of delicates and then now i saw this like one i got it i haven't worn it yet it's like just white balls like i'm literally that i dress alpha what's her name what the lady oh the old lady with the big glasses iris yeah i'm like i'm iris like yeah but like she's a maximalist dresser yeah she is and it works for her yeah yeah okay bold bobs everyone's got a bob i did it so recently i'm over it i think it looks great on people but i thought it was already a thing every time a pop comes back it's

like it's like a new thing i'm like our bob's always they've always been in style but all the supermodels have a bob right now i know right they can because their faces look good deed bob bob bob i like the french bob i think that's cute but again not for me i've tried the bob horrible the bob's hard but you know bob even i had a john and kate had six i had a john and kate plus eight haircut yes but i will i will say the reason the bob is so hard and it's i see this with the most beautiful celebrities ever i forgot who it was i won't say who it was because it's not i'm not saying something bad but i'm not saying something complimentary but with a bob unless you're glammed out and like looking great and makeup and blah blah it's really hard to be like

a natural girl who doesn't wear a lot of makeup on the day-to-day and doesn't like to like dress up to sport a bob in those off times yes glam times it reads slightly um like soccer mom it's like having a bang yeah it only works when you're really like doing the thing yeah yeah i agree 100 okay i don't know what this is but it's a trend alt baddie do you know what the alt baddie is no jack you should know google it baddie it's like a style i think i like baddies it sounds like something you would be into i can't believe you're not an alt baddie that's why i wrote it i think i am alt baddie it's like is it a goth girl alt baddies wait what's an alt baddie okay grunge aesthetic yeah yeah that's the style alt baddie it looks like i mean this is like an emo kid

yeah alt baddie is it like the gen x version of emo yeah the new alt baddies flannels and yeah you should be like making alt baddie i am the queen i invented alt baddie yeah okay it is basically like gen z emo which is so gen x or gen no gen x is older than us yeah that's what i'm saying is the 90s grunge is gen x they're a version of emo yeah no but all baddies are now no all baddies that's what i'm saying though is that is it the style what i'm saying is is it the style now is like the gen z is the young kids yeah it's a version of emo yeah yeah which i have the emo was our version of grunge yeah but there are some unless you're me and you live through both there are some kids on tiktok that are probably 20 ish and i'm like they are

legitimate emo kids like they have the the raccoon hair they have this i'm like it's not even a joke i'm like these kids are actually living this which blows my mind because i'm like i can't imagine somebody genuinely liking that but you did it i know but it was such a moment in time like i don't think it's something that like would be recreated and like recycled everybody thinks that though i know i'm still an alt baddie i feel like i am it's the way we feel becca whenever free people does like a ballet inspired photo shoot and they have the models and it's like some sickled foot and a girl that's like and i was like this is my world yeah you could have had just the original ballet core you know belly core okay wedding dress jumpsuit allegedly a lot of people have decided

no wedding dresses just the jumpsuit smash oh sorry it's a we haven't done smash your pass oh my god okay smash all baddies smash okay all baddies pass okay for for me it's a bad it's a pass okay but no shocker dress jumpsuit i'm gonna smash yeah it's cool do whatever the you want I'm gonna pass I saw someone that we know recently have a jumpsuit and I didn't like it on them that's just the truth I I don't think pants are the right thing for all people pants are f***ing hard a white pant you guys let's discuss this a white pant in order for it to work this the fabric has to be perfection you can't have a seam that's shown the underwear under like it has got to be correct so i don't want these girls saying i'm so mean but i'm just i'm telling

you the truth do not think a wedding jumpsuit is for you sometimes there's something great about a princess dress you can have a wedgie you can have a panty line no one's gonna see it yeah you can't even find yourself to pee you have to have six people hold it up well i like it though because there's so many girls out there that aren't dress girls at all that have never been a dress girl and then all of a sudden you're forced to wear a dress on your wedding day and then it's weird and then it's weird and uncomfortable and it doesn't feel like you i would rather see you what was this jumpsuit that we're talking about was it like girly or was it like androgynous i just feel like if you're gonna go for like the wedding look it's like then to have it be a pant is it's with my

brain like i'm just not sure but maybe the lady gang feels differently i feel like a wedding suit i love a wedding feels fabulous yeah it's the jumpsuit and this may just be because i have a giant camel toe the jumpsuit is less timeless right yes than a suit or a gown it is less time and also so hard to pee in i was gonna say how are you doing that that's hard you know i mean it's your wedding it's hard to pee in all things on your wedding day it's true but i just feel like a jumpsuit is it's i do love the right length you know what i mean like something usually it's probably like a nicer brand that you're i don't know okay pass um smash smash or pass avocado fries no pass have you had them why because they're like really slimy it's like i feel like

we're trying to do something we're trying to like make something happen but like an avocado is so a hot avocado is so gross it's like a slimy noodle that they fried i'm gonna i'm gonna go with smash because i do like an avocado fry i like hot avocado i the other night had a avocado creme brulee at a restaurant it was hot and there was like a crust on top it wasn't sweet but it was bomb really i'm gonna pass because i don't like it when you try to make other things french fries that's what i'm saying let the french fries i don't even like a sweet potato fry and the asparagus fry is good i love an alternate anything like i love an alternate pizza crust i love an alternate french fry i love an alternate pasta yeah i love alternates why say avocado again

avocado avocado avocado is that a california thing avocado avocado avocado maybe okay um oh uh smash or pass corp core what corp core is the new style corporate core isn't that just like business and taylor like corp core like um pass but is that not just like a shirt with a sweater with a blazer with a bag with a scarf on the bag this is all this is not new too many things too many things like preppy like prep i core is like corporate girly i love it this is not related but like all the memes about like in 2009 when everybody's going to the club in a business casual look and a blazer and a heel and a skinny jean with like a statement necklace yeah with the same necklace oh my god it's actually funny the other thing on the switch

the flip of that is that i think it's so funny when you go on like revolve and it's like what to wear to business and it's like you kill this like your ass is hanging out yeah it's a micro skirt a corporate like i'm like that's only jack vanna can wear that i'm like sounds good for me the rest of us in the office cannot be wearing like a short skort to the office yeah they're like they don't know revolve doesn't understand a business friends who work in you know the real world and it's really hard because the bosses are all gen x the senior employees are millennials and then they have all these gen zers coming in and they're all wearing very inappropriate things to work and and putting themselves together very inappropriately yeah and no one can say anything

Cause they don't want to say the wrong thing and they don't want to get in trouble. So they're just having to sort of like passive aggressively send signals that they'd like for you to not come to work and like, you know, a crop top they'd like for you to not come to work with like nails that are six inches long. Like it's really, it's a, it's a, it's a dance that's happening right now. And I don't know, do they go back to dress codes? Cause are you legally allowed to put a dress code on anyone? I don't know.

I, I passive aggressively, like try to hype up the girls at my work when I see them and they're giving like corp core and I'm like, you know what? I would give you a raise for that outfit. Like I try to like, I'd be like, you know what? That feels like a promotion. This feels like an elevated. She's ready for business. I try to like corp core her, but maybe I'm not supposed to say that.

Well, I also just want to be like in the workforce dress in life, dress for yourself, but in the workforce dress for your audience. Corp core. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. You know? Okay.

um smash or pass the new wedding so when i got married it was like outdoor um farm like it was very like farm to table farmhouse yeah when you got what you were like winter wonderland and then you were like parisian everyone's having european weddings now the new wedding is dark fantasy wedding like twilight like just everything's black and black dark roses like dark fantasy wedding is the new wedding that's cool i mean it's emo i don't think it's like new york city weddings when i go to those yeah just a little sexier yeah sexy sex dungeon okay you had a dungeon i just it's weird okay smash or pass oh the new interior is based on something about her is the nancy meyers living room okay that's one of the number one things that was searched on

pinterest this year i believe it really is how to make a nancy meyers living room that's kind of like grandma core yeah but like i don't know eclectic i love it i love it too i recently went to a friend's house in austin you know right now anybody who's in la it's mostly coastal that has a house and did it with an that has like enough money to design it or whatever they all kind of have the same aesthetic right like it's very muted some natural things like here and there textures but it's all very neutral and i and it's beautiful i went to my friend's house and she has the coolest like wallpaper and print like pattern chairs and dark wood you know beams and like really not so far from what you're used to and I thought this is what I want my next house to feel

like it feels like homey and it has character it can go wrong so fast it can but like do you know who Kelly Wurstler is she's a dream yeah it's like that kind of vibe but more even like more lived in more lived in um more not grandma but but it's like vintage pieces yeah it's not as modern as kelly worstler yeah like like rupaul's house amazing i've never seen rupaul's house like i was an architectural digest he's like a disco ball amazing like just a bunch of disco balls yeah i like a house with a personality now yeah you know this episode of lady gang is brought to you by macy's what's the biggest event of the summer for you beach days pool parties barbecue you road trip, you know that I finally finished the renovation on my house and I will be spending

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now it's back it goes through that's why you always got to keep all your leopard shit they'll come back well did you see the whole thing that everybody's trying to make the tankini happen yeah i saw a video where it was like bathing suit or two pieces are out well and it was like i don't know if it was like a whole uh scam is not the word i'm looking for but if it was like gimmick no like a company trying to make something happen that nobody was into a marketing and yeah like a marketing thing where it's like tankinis are back tankinis are back and somebody was like i haven't seen a single person wear a tankini my mom loves a tankini well other than like our parents i mean like for like it's like the hot new thing is a tankini that's they're

trying to make it like trendy it's so interesting but i am gonna smash this because i believe there should be more diversity in bathing suit silhouettes yes yeah because it's so hard even when the one pieces became really popular in the last couple years i look horrific in a one piece it doesn't matter the cut it doesn't nothing it literally just is not the most flattering thing for my body but i was like well i want to be like trendy and chic so then you buy this one piece and you feel like shit in it yeah so a tankini i'm sure is a really ideal silhouette for some body types and so now they can wear it and not be embarrassed that they're in a tankini no i love it i just it was weird because there were no available but they're like tankini is the thing

of the summer and then so jack's like oh let me get in on this i must be super trendy one brand that tried to make them they like did some collaboration with like an influencer or somebody like a celebrity and the colors were like bright red bright blue and bright yellow like they're very elementary yeah it's like make the tankini sexy or like make it cool and trendy it was like kids colors yeah yeah i'll tell you what i'm not wearing a uh a tankini that's my worst nightmare yeah like when you're it's just not a good it's not i have no boobs so it's not really doing anything but then if you don't have boobs bathing suits are not meant for you no that's not true i think a triangle bikini on a no it's beautiful but that's the only option

only as a triangle or the ones that are like the i got it i got a tiny little one no there's a picture of me oh it's literally our tour picture where i was wearing your bandeau dress thing and like i leaned over and the sadness of like where my cleavage should be it's like oh it's just sat in there it's like the little lip yeah it's not great it's just not it's okay and like with the triangle like you can't you would tie it so tight yeah and I'm like I'm the red line because if I tie it tight enough then I can like lift the triangle no you just no you just have to accept you're not gonna lift what I want is just topless you know what my boobs are so cute in nothing then you need a micro you need like a little pasty you're good in pasty i am good in

pasties okay next um bubble skirt smash or pass everywhere we go a bubble skirt amazon bubble skirt net-a-porter bubble skirt everyone wants to be in a bubble skirt bubble i used to love a bubble skirt of course it's giving like 2012 it's giving pookie look fire it's giving pookie yeah love she's pregnant i know so cute pookie maybe pookie um i am gonna smash this i loved a bubble skirt then i love it now okay me too smash not for me wish i had one it's so there's nothing less my vibe than a bubble skirt it's true okay um oh uh smash your pass water park rides i did a lot of water park smash all day smash i love a water park i think i used to go to the wild rivers in orange county it's like my favorite thing um i smell it still yeah you know like yeah chlorination

But I love any sort of an activity. So like smash, but I don't know if I can get past like the cleanliness. Do you know what you, where you would thrive in the Bahamas, Baja Mar, it's this three, like there's a Rosewood there. There's a, there's two other, like two other hotels, but there's a water park that only those three hotels, if you're staying there can go there. So it's not like a general population, like stinky. so it's part of the resort and it is so fun oh i'm into this it is very fun it doesn't bother

you that you're bathing in other people's pubic hair yeah well you go in a public pool but i don't go in a public pool you won't get in a public pool i do not enjoy a public not even in a hotel not really i mean i have i will i don't want to yeah i mean the last time i was in vegas i put like my ankle well vegas is no no no but like i'm nice there's like tampons in vegas how i will i don't even like in going in my own pool i'm like is this clean i would like an open water water park because then it takes away all of the yucky what do you mean in open water like when they have a bounce house on the ocean yeah like at a lake or something like open water lakes are disgusting i know lakes um it's like when i used to go in the turtle lake and i get a leech

no lakes lakes ocean chlorine you guys chlorine is in a wonderful chemical i know but i just think everything just kind of sits yeah oh okay um so you're passing no you're smashing i'm smashing you're smashing yeah okay i would never say no okay um the next the new wedding colors are for pinterest told us burnt orange and sage green pretty feels like fall feels like a hard thing to pull off any other time of year. Yeah. But I don't know. Maybe that's like an old lady thing of me to say that colors are reserved for certain times of year. It's kind of stupid. Yeah. But I like those colors. So smash, but I see just the light green, like a light, like grayish kind of like what I'm wearing. I think it's a regret in your future. Why? I just think those colors together

are burnt orange and a sage. I don't like it together. I don't like, I don't, I think sage green is a color kind of like the other things like the tankini where the wedding industry is like we need a color that you can't find yeah anywhere else you can't just go to macy's and get a dress you have to go to the bridal store there are a million sage green dresses i feel like that's such a bridesmaid color i know yeah because at bridal boutique.com yeah but not at revolve because people think it also doesn't look good on anybody sage as a neutral yeah they think give it as a neutral i'm not sure it's as neutral as you want no it looks amazing on you but you have green eyes and blonde hair i also sage on me looks like a scrub from the hospital no i look

horrible in it i need some color um i don't think you need one color or two i i don't go to like a palette it doesn't need to be like only orange and green like because then i feel like that's what ends up dating things some people need that kind of structure yeah and like direction yeah you're artistic so you like yeah i just had bright colors but you know how to do that um okay mangoes mangoes are ripe i literally the internet told me this mangoes are ripe pun intended for reinvention everything's going to be mango 2024 flavor mango is mango is the fruit of the year mango i like it because i give it to ford and it helps him poop oh it does uh-huh well i'm slightly allergic to it so it makes me itchy oh okay so pass smash smash i'm um passing i did not

grow up with magnos mangoes in canada we never got them uh it was too exotic for us so i don't like to try new things and so they haven't come even though i'm in california avocados is all i have room for as far as new fruits and vegetables there's also a new way to cut a mango on tiktok where you kind of like you could the mangoes like this shaped vertically yeah and you kind of cut around it like halfway and then you twist it and then it comes off and then you kind of have like the mango dick in it and like the mango vagina but like you know what i mean that's how i've been always there's no other way to do it well allegedly there is i thought that i don't cut that was my instinct anytime i would cut a mango really you twist it and then like the innards come

out i do that with avocado like you do it and then you cut it and then you twist it and then yeah yeah so it's kind of like a long avocado okay but there's no but you eat the mangoes are tricky because you have to only eat them when they're in season that's really when they are the most delicious so if you are going to try mango kelty which is weird that you haven't i won't you should pass i won't i don't want it i don't want a jamba juice you don't like a dried mango i've had a dried mango they're delicious it is honestly if i'm gonna have a mango it's a dried mango but that in a dried fruit that was available to me and it all kind of went together like okay i knew that i liked the brown part of my trail mix as a child but i didn't know it was a date oh i just knew

it was the soft brown part yeah anyway all right aqua texture like architecture with water yes oh now the new thing is water features not just a fish tank it's underwater gardening small aquarium designs and over-the-top turtle terrariums will be everywhere this year okay so there's this thing it's called fruitager arrow have i talked about this before it's like a design era from the late 90s early it reminds me of this late 90s early 2000s okay remember like with like the macbooks that were like the see-through yeah i loved this yeah and like all and the phone the soap that was like that have like the little fishies in it and it was like blue and like all of the kind of it was like mixing um like aquatic with architecture yes it was a whole it was a whole design aqua

texture well it's called frutigero but i guess the same thing but anyway slowly frutiger f-r-u-t-i-g-e-r new word a-e-r-o frutiger and the whole thing what the whole thing about it was that like the vibe it gives you is this hope for the future that never happened like when you aqua world or water world let me all like it's like you it was like i'll show you it was gonna be the future and then that future didn't never happened yeah the promise of like a future of like peace and like aquariums ocean happy planet sunshine and like you just never got it and so when you like look at it so anytime you're washing your body this kind of stuff washing your body with the soap like all of this cut the windows 95 like screens we didn't ever and it made you excited for like

technology and like what that would bring so anytime if you look up for gerald on tiktok it has this really creepy sound that they always have on the like on the videos so it makes you think about like how it like how the future is so bad and sad so that's gonna be a pass for me what could have been i'm obsessed with it i think it's cool i'm gonna pass on it sorry okay um you're smashing i'm sorry why do you get i'm you're i'm jack vanek and i'm officially smashing fruit fruit is your arrow aqua structure okay um side jewelry love it how do you put jewelry on your thigh i don't know but i love it like a like the thing you the brides used to wear a garter yeah garter or like i've seen some skirts that have like something attached to it yeah you have

like a i mean i love it for my high slit high slit so you can have a little chain hanging out like a little what is it attached i don't know i no one will see my thighs unless i'm in a tankini so I'm not going to be wearing any jewelry on my thighs. Badminton. Move over pickleball. No, it's not going to happen. Don't try to make it happen. With the weird netty type ball.

It's wonderful. Oh, I love it. Tiny rackets. Yes. It is so hard to play. The long racket. My parents have it at their house and we always try and it is so hard. Because the rackets are so small.

It's so small. It's almost impossible. I have three birdies and two are in the palm tree and one is still in the yard. We can play later. It's not going to happen. Okay. I have two more. uh 2000s chunky highlights pinterest reported that searches for 2000s chunky highlights are

up 5400 percent this year wow i'm into it me too i'm sad about it are you i think it's fine you can always change it like the vitamin c pass big as we go on okay 90s french tip nails love it i was thinking of doing it's actually called smasher pass oh smash um on other people I've been really liking the way it looks on myself. I'm passing. What about a French tip pedicure? No, no,

no. I had a friend who dated a guy that he would, he would only let her get no French pedicures. It was the only thing he approved. I thought you were going to say he gets them. He probably does. All right. Well,

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