LadyGang - LG QUICKIE: The Cole Sprouse Co-Star Update

Episode Date: February 10, 2022

It’s been a few weeks, but Keltie’s been dm’ing Cole Sprouse about the role he offered her. Find out if it’s her time to shine! Plus, ever wonder who snorts on the podcast or why Keltie went on The Bachelor? The ladies are here to answer all of your burning questions. Check out our amazing sponsors!!! Ritual: Get 10% off your first three months at ritual.com/ladygang    ThirdLove: Get 20% off your first order at ThirdLove.com/ladygang    Progressive: Get a quote today at Progressive.com and see why 4 out of 5 new auto customers recommend Progressive!See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Attention, attention, all the things you've been swooning after on theladygang.com, all of our clothing and beautiful merch, there's a huge warehouse sale happening right now. It's not going to last long, but go over to shop.theladygang.com and you're going to find some epic things like you can get a velvet dress for $39, you can get a hat for 10, the Swacket is 99, head over there, there's so much greatness and you know what? You're welcome. it's time for a quickie podcast one presents the lady gang the hollywood girl posse with lady gang quickie here's kelty knight becca tobin and jack vanek let's make this quick

hello hello hello welcome to the lady gang quickie i am becca here with jack and kelty hello hello hi ladies um valentine's day is coming up and our longtime sponsor third love was like hey we're trying to like basically rebrand valentine's day instead of you feeling disappointed and bummed out that you don't have a lover or your lover didn't get you the gift you want or like you got all dressed up for him and then the sex was mediocre like whatever it is we want to rebrand it and valentine's day needs to be a self-love day you know the expectations are super high and so like i love that we are all in a self-love mode in 2022 and you know it's important to practice self-love around valentine's day this time of the year especially after the

holidays but it's really important the other 364 days of the year and so um you know there are so many loves in your life like we were talking about like best friend love like i've had best friends that are way like more important than chris i thought i didn't want to say it but it was coming out so i just said it sorry um best friend love sister love you know yeah those loves are very strong very very strong you know you don't have to live with those people you can love them from afar which is the best that's why the relationships stay you know they don't crumble yeah some of my best friendships are the ones with my friends who live across the country well and i love the best friendships that you like might not talk to them for a few months and you can just like pick right

up yeah you guys my friend melissa i mean she was at chris and i's wedding like we lived together she was she was a flight attendant i lived in a crash pad with her we had no money like when i couldn't pay my rent she gave me like 400 like we were so broke and we like really went through like the new york city queens like e-train bullshit together and then since i got married like we kind of lost touch and I saw her a couple of times and then I hadn't heard from her in a couple of years. And I was like, I got to reach out to her. And I was like, Hey, where are you? Like, are you coming to LA? Let's like hang out. And she sent me a picture and she was nine months pregnant. And I was like, Oh my God. And then we just started talking and it was like, no time had

passed. Yeah. It was Queens. It was 2003. I love that though. That's the best type of a friendship because you're like psychically connected, like somehow, some way. And I was like, I'm not even mad. You didn't tell me you're having a baby next month. And then you're back with that asshole ex-boyfriend of yours and he's the dad. Like whatever you live your life, girl. Like you're still making mistakes. It's fine. Um, anyway, no, no, no. We're happy for her. Okay. So anyway, today's about self-love. And so I, last time we did this, we focused on body and I thought it was very positive today. I want to focus on our mind. So our brains, those evil little bitches living in our heads, trying to ruin everything. Um, Becca, what do you love about

your mind? What I love about my mind, and it's getting harder to do this as I get older, but I'm really trying to harness this thing I used to be able to do in my twenties really well. I have a really great approach to disappointment or getting upset or whatever it is. I will only live in that moment for no more than like a 12 hour period. The next day I am never waking up with the same bad feelings, negative feelings, like I can kind of reset myself and recalibrate my brain. Just kind of, I don't have to work that hard. I mean, now I'm working harder, but it's a natural thing for my brain to do. And I, I don't know if it's an avoidance or whatever it is. We're not going to unpack that. This is a positive segment. No, but I am happy because

I've had friends who go out for an audition and I've been down to like the damn wire where I have signed contracts. I know that I could be making tons of piles of money and I get down to the very end and I find out that it's not my job. Even after that experience, I have one day where I, where I am down and the next day it's like, it didn't happen. And I have friends who it is not the case. They continue to wake up the next day and I feel very badly because that is a shitty way to feel. Yeah. I mean, it definitely is like some sense of like a compartmentalization where you can just kind of like put it in the box put it aside and like not let it spiral and ruin your life basically yeah and it's kind of this mentality of well I can't change it so the energy that I

would be putting toward that negativity or anxious or anxiety or stress it's just it doesn't do anything it just harms me yeah so I like that I have that and please please baby Jesus let it day i think it's probably part of you like it'll stay to some sense i'm getting a little it's getting to a point though like it'll creep back in the next day but it'll only like live for you know 30 seconds or something but yeah and then i'll just shove it back in that hey that's a real power that's a real deep down deep down so then one day it will explode deep down don't you ever come back here jack vanek what do you love about your mind um i love the fact that i am so innately creative and this is something that i've obviously been my entire life and i think people with

creative minds sometimes don't understand like the gift that it is like i'm gonna just like be nice to myself for a second um because that's the whole point yeah i know you know i hate talking about myself. This is exactly why we're doing this. It feels weird to be nice to yourself. Go ahead, Jack, be nice to yourself. Give yourself compliments. There's just like a lot of things that come really easy to me when it comes to creativity. And, um, I don't think I ever like really sit down and think about the fact that that is, you know, uh, really cool thing about my mind that a lot of people don't have. And a lot of people really work really, really hard to achieve the same things that come really naturally to me. So, um, that's something that

I think I realize as I get older because sometimes I'll have like a random idea pop into my head and then two hours later I'm like working on it on the computer and I'm making it come to a reality where I think a lot of people have these ideas and it's so far-fetched to ever think that you could like make it happen and actually you know come into fruition so that's what I like about myself in my mind I like it too because every time I'm on Canva because I do love it it really is the closest that anyone who's not creative can feel to being creative yeah but you should see me i'm like how on earth with all these options and all these things do you even get to a point where you know what looks good yeah that's like that's when you know there's a real difference between jack

and and well us kelty 100 because i've on the other project that i'm working on i've had like people are looking to me and they're like, you're the idea girl. I'm like, I'm really not the idea girl. I'm the list girl, but okay, I'll take this on. And I keep having to make Pinterest boards of like inspiration for branding and the logo and the set and all this stuff. And then like, it turns out and I'm like, okay, I've got this. Jack can do it. Cause like when we first started Lady Gang, Jack would be like, here's a board called pink. And it would just be like the coolest shit you've ever seen in your mind. You're like, oh my God, I want to be this. And then I put my board together and i'm like this is a hot dumpster fire like this is so shitty i don't even want to be here

like you just do have this amazing natural brain and it's such a gift um the only time i question it is when you have your needlepoint pillows during the holidays yeah that's when i question it too i'm like really a ski need a point pillow this is you know what she's full of surprises that's why we love her i know that was a real curveball i don't know how that got into my life but i love it god it blows my mind every freaking december when that thing makes its journey onto your couch i just question everything i'm thinking of even getting like a custom one that like says like but that would be more that would be you that's not the home goods one that every person in oregon has gone skiing or something yes i needed a lumbar pillow for my couch and it

was the only one i could find okay all right well in honor we're still back here we're still with third love we're doing our minds we're doing our minds we love our minds what i love about my mind i love about my mind is that i have replaced the everything's on fire everything's blowing up the world is ending brain that i have been born with that i had learned through my years of whatever and i really do feel in the past couple years that yes did i had a big anxiety night last night did i sleep no i was up at three in the morning i was like oh my god nothing's gonna work out like everything's a dumpster fire but but then i woke up this morning and i like had a giggle with chris like we were laughing about something and i was like you know what we're all dust it's not that

big of a deal especially your phones you love saying we're all dust these days because when i was in the middle east there was so much dust and there were so many tombs that i'm just like oh wow i guess we're all dust okay sorry but not yet but my point is that like i i love that i'm no longer that meme that like the little the little dog is sitting in the fire and he's like i'm fine i'm fine like i was that person that was like emergency the website is down like that's that's not an emergency like everything's gonna be okay and i have this mantra that i keep saying over and over in my brain i think it's really helping i am healthy i am safe i am loved and Like it just keeps saying it.

Whenever I start feeling that anxiety of my brain trickling up, I'm like, no, you know who controls my brain? Kelty bitch. It's Kelty. I am healthy. I am safe. I am loved. And it calms me down.

So I love that I have learned how to take care of myself and not, you know, I love my brain for like maturing, if you will. You really have grown so much. And especially in the time that we started Lady Gang, like you have done a, not a complete 180 maybe like a 175 and how your brain works like it was usually like every other week there would be some sort of an explosion going on behind the scenes it really peaked um like 2020 oh yeah yeah june 2020 was um the darkest hour of lady gang it was when the book was coming out And Kelty realized that her dreams of touring the universe come to an end.

It was a dark time. But listen, here I am. And my mind is still. We're proud of you. Yeah, exactly. So anyway, please tell us, Lady Gang, what you love about your mind. We're so excited for Third Love. And if you need to, you know, like reward your mind for being so great, you can head on over to thirdlove.com and pick up some of their new collections.

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and see why four out of five new auto customers recommend Progressive. Progressive Casualty Insurance Company and Affiliates. National annual average insurance savings by new customers surveyed who saved with Progressive between June 2020 and May 2021. Potential savings will vary. Discounts vary and are not available in all states and situations. The Lady Gang. Hello, ladies. Kelsey, we need to get into what's happening to you right now. What is happening? You want to get into it now? I think we should. Okay. Recently on the podcast, i discussed that i had gotten a movie offer from cole sprouse to be in his movie if you remember i just want to like review i got an email that was like hey kelty i think you're really talented

and underrated actress i would like you to star in my movie i'm going to give you thirty thousand dollars and i i knew in my heart that i was destined for stardom so i was excited about it i read it you guys weren't so sure yeah um and we made it into like a little video that we used to promote the podcast by the way if you like this podcast if you could just share those videos with your friends like on social media and tag us that would be awesome um anyway so i put the video out just on my instagram and i wrote and tagged him in each one because it was like four parts or whatever saying like i'm ready cole sprouse like let me like you know what i tagged him yeah how many followers do you have like 35 million or something 35 million yeah yeah yeah so jesus so

i just just now in the break received a response from cole spraus he i said i'm ready cole spraus and he wrote the crying emoji it's coming this is coming from his verified account yeah he said sorry about this got some imposter people sending these emails out everywhere oh no i responded so are you saying it's not you and he said unfortunately the offer does not stand and i said am all in caps am i not getting the 30k and the fame oh my god do you think he thinks you're being serious with these questions no i think he thinks i'm a smart ass right then next the offer does not stand i said so i'm not getting 30k in the fame he said i'll send a bag of money as an apology for the inconvenience oh hell yeah i said to cole sprouse wow i really thought i was

something special and he goes look for an amazon drone colored like santa you are special don't let any fake email convince you otherwise and i said thanks director let me know when it's my time to shine and he hearted it you know what i like him for this i am so shocked that you had a full on conversation with him it's cute right yeah what a guy do you think it's really him or do you think he has a social media person that lives i bet it's him is cute i bet it's him he seems like i've always liked him he always seemed like he was very like quirky and quick witted and stuff yeah yeah i bet it's him he's just like i'm gonna respond yeah do you guys want to know what i just did and this is not an ad okay what i haven't been to the grocery store

in a million years and i was like i'm so hungry it's lunchtime here and i have like a full day of work and i just made one of our freshly meals oh they're so good sponsor they're so fucking good chris ate ate all of them we don't even have a kitchen he makes them in the microwave and they're still delicious that's how you're supposed to make them oh really minutes yeah in the microwave yeah they're like a tv dinner like but like adult tv dinners it's like a glamorous lean cuisine yeah wow so good we did definitely did not get paid enough for that but congratulations to you becca on your meal i was raised on lean cuisine and this is really like I used to eat a fettuccine alfredo before ballet class.

Okay. Today is a very special episode of Lady Gang. I say that every episode we are here because I have posted and asked me anything on our Instagram and the people have inquiring minds. And so we're here to help you and answer your questions. Are you guys ready? Let's do it. The worst advice you've ever been given and why?

oh i remember some really bad skincare advice i was given my like one of the first like women that i went to go get a facial from it's when i had like cystic acne my skin was so inflamed so up like painful itchy irritated horrible i went to go get a facial and the lady's like oh you know the secret to good skin is you have to splash your face with six times of water she's like you're just not splashing your face with water enough and she literally thought that that is what was going to clear my cystic acne up an esthetician told me this did you try it yes i did how long did you splash before you realized this was bullshit for months and i was like i was lied to but i always remember that as being like

i can't believe i was given that advice by like a professional does anyone successfully wash their face without getting everything wet in like the countertop their sleeve no so here's an idea for a lady gang product i need it a bib no it's not a bib like what i need is like a face palette that attaches onto the sink yeah and so when it's time to wash the face it takes the water out of the tap and does a light sprinkle like like almost like a sprinkler on your lawn for your face oh like a water fountain and gives like you just a little like a bidet for your face a fide fide you know where it just sprinkles you up and then helps you and then it all can go in the sink because yes becca i agree it's annoying and you gotta get it clean you can't just use the towel

because that's just remnants of dirt i know you got to get those six splashes in you know that got worst advice you've ever been given oh i don't know if this is advice well yeah yeah totally when you're going through fertility stuff and you're talking to other people about it people who haven't had fertility struggles and they say something along the lines of, if you just relax, it's going to happen. Or when people are like, watch this, you're going to go through all this fertility stuff. And then one day just out of the blue, you're going to have a baby. I need everyone to take this out of their repertoire. Like there is actually nothing worse to say to a woman than that. Or like, you should

just like pray about it or something pray about it and just could you meditate you know just like get really relaxed your body just needs to be relaxed i'm like totally so that was bad advice because if i had just waited and waited and waited if i would still be you know square one and just relaxed you would just be really good at yoga at this point you know what i mean she's so she's so chill my worst advice i ever got um and i write about it in our new book lady secrets is uh the agent that told me that if i want to be famous i should go on the bachelor well you honestly kelty you could have you're just a little you're like a couple years too early it's true but now it's like these women are too late now i think people are going on

the bachelor now to like get the influencers late they missed out it was like it's it was like the cassie the hannah brown like that kind of that was the realm was the time and then now it's, it's really Fedotowski. I mean, exactly. Oh gee. Okay. Uh, Megan wants to know Jack wedding planning update. Um, no update at all. Um, I'm kind of just dreading everything. Um, but I'm still thinking March, 2023 ish, uh, in a beachfront villa in Mexico. That's as far as I have gotten. And I'm looking at wedding dresses, but that's it. Fabulous. Yes. How to be nice to my mom while planning the wedding here's what i'll say about moms in general i've done a lot of therapizing on this is that you have to go into it with compassion for your mama because she's probably holding on

really tight about her opinions on your napkins and your dress and your invitations and who should come and her a guest list and all this stuff because of like some past trauma in her life Like I know that sometimes my mom hangs on really, really, really tight because she lost her mom when she was in college and she never got to have her mom at her wedding or in her adulthood and help her with her kitchen dishes and Thanksgiving meal. And so she holds on really tight because of her trauma. And so I think in anything like this, especially with weddings and those big family events, just have compassion that like your mom is losing her mind because of something with her and it's actually nothing to do with you. I remember the morning that I married Chris. My mom was like in a f***ing tizzy. I had no bridal party.

Like it was very chill. We were getting ready at my house. Like she was in a tizzy and I had to grab her shoulders and I said, mom, I love you. Let's enjoy today. this is the Zen zone. We're Zen about this. And she was like, like, she just calmed down. Yeah. You know? So sometimes it's not about, you can't control her. You just have to love her through it. My thoughts. Yeah. Compassion. It's inevitable. Like it's just, it's bound to happen. I find that with my mom, when we don't see eye to eye, there's no point in engaging and fighting it

out. It's just easier to be like, okay, we're going to just disagree on this and we'll, it's my wedding. So we're going to land where we land on it. I take what you're saying. I'm going to take it in and think about it. But at the end of the day, but also is your mom paying for your whole wedding? Because really don't be a dick. Let her in if she is, that's the price you're paying because there's no such thing as a free lunch or a free wedding. I definitely think that this question, that definitely matters. It's like if your parents are paying for the whole wedding and your mom wants to have her opinion in things, it's like you're going to have to let her have her opinion in things because they're fronting the check. But if not, it's like you can have

a bigger boundary. If you're paying for the whole thing or whatever, your partner is wealthy or something like that and they don't have any monetary like input then you know jack when you get married do you think your dad will have the handy cam out during the wedding filming it or do you think he'll be present and like in like there for real because there's a professional videographer i don't know like i feel like it's such an innate video at our austin show and you were like my vagina is sore and he was like let me get a close-up well that's like his whole like that he has this innate thing in him that he has to like document it for himself but the funny thing is especially like now with like the iphone and stuff like all of the things that he takes are

so bad like there's like the quality is horrible he loses them all i could be like dad can we get like the video from christmas when this happened and he could would not be able to find it no but he has to do it so i feel like even though if i would tell him like hey we have a professional videographer and photographer like he would be like sneaking it out just because he has to can't wait to see this oh my god it's so much okay what do i do when i'm holly says what do i do when i'm in a bad mood my partner wants to have a good time like in what way i think she means sex oh oh i mean you're not obligated to have sex with him just because he wants to at that moment yeah just don't if you're in a bad mood often in a bad mood um yeah but here's the

thing you train him because i now i'm at a point unfortunately i'm just gonna say this chris gonna hate it like i've trained chris now to never make the moves on me because i say no all the fucking time and now i'm like looking at him and i was like do you still think i'm hot do you still like oh you did it to yourself i did it to myself so this is like a very slippery fucking slope polly no you gotta let him come after you still and just shoot him down 90 of the time zach has a good ratio going like he kind of knows that he can't ask every time he wants it because that would just be heartbreaking to hear no he's really good at figuring out the temperature you know if it's gonna be the right time so that i'm not put in a position where i

have to really say no often jared constantly is asking for it but his feelings don't get hurt when i say no most of the time because i we've also had this conversation he's like would you want me to you know stop and i was like no i like want to feel wanted like every second of the day And it doesn't annoy me or bother me, but we've cut, we have like a good agreement going on. I think that's actually a really nice dynamic because the only time that doesn't work is when they take it personally. So they get offended, they get offended, the ego gets bruised.

But if you have an understanding that he's just going to keep asking, you like that he keeps asking and he's okay with asking and hearing no a lot of times. Yep. I got to bring that in. it only takes one yes because it only takes one yes and then you've worked i know i was watching yellowstone and you know the like sister the daughter in yellowstone has like she's hot but like she's elder you know not elder like she's older she's like my age and but she's hot like i'm very attracted to her she's amazing boobs too which we don't have over here but incredible but

i was like i was like i need you to pause this and then i looked at chris and i was like do you find that woman attractive and he was like I don't know how to answer this and I was like like I find Kevin Costner and Yellowstone very attractive like and he's like yes and then I was like so she's sexy and he was like yeah and I was like so like an older lady can be sexy like I and he was like he's like it's not about the age he's like I don't just in like think 19 year olds are hot Kelty like I was like oh thank god that would be an issue yeah I once had a boyfriend who was talking to an older gentleman in his like seventies or eighties. And this older gentleman said to my boyfriend, he goes, I have really bad news for you. I think I might've told this on the

podcast. Apologies if I had, he goes, we are always going to be attracted to young women. Okay. Not a question, but had a dream. Me, Jack and Jerry were sledding in kayaks all over my hometown sledding and kayak sledding in a kayak that sounds dangerous diana wow that sounds it's like it's like a luge a light uh liza says who's the snorter on the podcast i love it so much 90 of the time it's kelty jack occasionally i have a snort occasionally but kelty's is definitely the most prominent yes oh wait she wrote another one hold on it was the happiest dream we were sightseeing and had dogs in our kayaks top three dreams of life oh my god dream this sounds incredible it does it's so innocent she went back to the story twice

to write in twice oh my god amazing i would love to hear about your experiences moving away from home well thanks for asking becca um i moved away from home after my senior year of high school that summer to New York city. I hated the first like four months of being there. Um, I was like, I made the biggest mistake of my life, but I couldn't admit that to anyone because everybody had worked so hard to like get me there physically, financially, emotionally. And, um, it was so brutal and i had a roommate who would steal my clothes and like all the time have weird orgies

in them and in the clothes yeah she was a very dark person like very very terrifying um and it was pretty much terrible it was pretty terrible and then i became friends with some good people and that's when it turned around but it i don't think anybody leaves home i mean you might you might feel differently and is just stoked. Like I made the best decision ever. I think it's scary. You just push through. Yeah, I agree. I had two versions of moving home because the first time, so I left home, I got this job on a cruise ship in high school and then I met my first husband. And so I felt like I was living on a cruise ship, which is like camp. Like it doesn't feel like you're not settled anywhere. So for two years I was just like traveling around the world and it

kind of felt like my home was still in Edmonton and then I had this crutch like I moved to New York but I moved with him and his family was there and so like I wasn't on my own so I actually feel like when I was 21 and I left him and then was living in the flight attendant crash pad and then on the Upper West Side with the dog that got its period on our white couch from Craigslist every month and like had six roommates was living in the closet in the twin IKEA bed and I would try to have sex in like the kid bed and anyway that's when I feel like I was on my own and it's fucking terrifying but there's something so beautiful about that time in your life like you just have to i always told chelsea this too when she was with us like you just have to lean

into it it's okay to not have it all figured out and it's okay for it to not feel safe or easy or like right like you just need to be the messiest horrible like that person it's just a rite of passage so i hope you're terrified when you move away from home when you go to college when you have your first big girl apartment when you have your first big girl job like i hope you feel terrified that's what makes you as a human and usually if you're uncomfortable you're gonna grow yeah um okay well that's it there's there's a ton more we'll do more of these um this is a really funny question i'm just gonna end on this what will becca get in exchange for doing the second book great question i would like she'll get a good payout i mean i do think i should maybe

get something extra like a bonus because go yourself it's pretty annoying and i'll tell you what else i hate doing the press regarding the book i hate that too it is awful um and best part i hate press in general it's not my guys remember when jack remember when both of your parents came with us to the today show oh my god that was so funny my mom has never been more excited in her life wait was your mom my mom becca and my parents yeah yeah everybody came except for my bad yeah the book i i anybody feel free to suggest some things that the girls could get me like maybe jewelry or some handbags um plural handbag i actually think i'm out of my handbag stage my face me too like in like as

it i just you're going back to like a normal doesn't matter yeah it doesn't matter it's like i mean they're great and they're i appreciate them but if you were to give me like two thousand dollars the last thing i would go spend it on would be a handbag whereas in my 20s i would have been like oh yeah i'm gonna go to in neiman marcus and buy a bag like a loser well now it gets you like a good fridge or something well that's the thing i got a stove top okay we weren't here for a long time we're here for a good time yeehaw thanks for listening the lady gang is produced by alex ingber steve delameter and jared monaco make sure you subscribe rate and review our podcast and if you love it share it with your friends on social media like oh my god i just

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