LadyGang - LG QUICKIE: Tonight We're Gonna Reflect Like It's 2019!

Episode Date: January 3, 2019

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Hey guys, the following podcast is a Lady Gang Network and Podcast One production, which means it's going to be awesome. It's time for a quickie. Podcast One presents The Lady Gang, the Hollywood girl posse with Lady Gang Quickie. Here's Kelty Knight, Becca Tobin, and Jack Vanek. Let's make this quick. Hello, hello, hello, and welcome to the Lady Gang Quickie. I am Becca, here with Jack and Kelty.

Hi, guys. Hi. Are you guys ready for your New Year's quote? Yeah. Okay, it's time because we're starting off 2019 with a big, nice beginning. Okay, ready? You always know that we're going to start recording these. You should find them before. I know. She's all up in our asses to start recording, and then she takes a million years to get a quote. Kelty literally, for the past five minutes, she's like, I guess I'll just sit here alone and do nothing.

Well, then I guess you could have found your quote that you bookmarked. Okay. Are you ready? Yes. This is for. Oh, sorry. Why are these? Okay.

So many complaints about the dog's noise, by the way. I know we do. Ready? Brave girl. Promise me you will not shrink yourself in order to make others feel comfortable. That one's for you. I actually kind of like that one. You do.

Tell me why. Let's get into it. Let's unpack this. I like when motivational quotes or inspirational quotes aren't too metaphorical. So that's something you can just like take and be like, okay. Have you ever shrunk yourself to fit in with other losers? Yeah. Of course you have.

I feel like I am the loser. People shrink down four. That's not true. Yeah, I'm pretty sure. Four and a half. I'm 99% sure. I don't think that's the way that works. I think I shrunk myself down for like all of my 20s.

And then I was like, well, this. And that's why I only have like five friends now. Yeah. And you're like, ah. cut the bullshit cut it out like that okay oh my god we're already starting out i'm trying to be more positive you know and accepting and nice 2019 is going to be a good year for me you guys okay today when we come back what i'm so excited about this so i'll tell you a little bit of a story and then we'll come back so every year this is well okay i can't talk are you having a meltdown

short circuit yes okay so way way way way way way way back in 2010 i moved to los angeles and i was living up the street from christina perry who was already living here and it was like close to new year's and we were sort of hanging out on my veranda of my shitty apartment that i shared with two people and we were both like i'd kind of recently retired from dancing and she her music career was like doing nothing and she hadn't even played any shows or anything and we're both like what the hell are we doing with our lives and we looked out we saw the capital records building and we're like we should write a letter to the universe and like really set our intention so that year the first ever letter to the universe i wrote like quit diet coke get bangs like

stop dating stay stop dating and christina was like she went in she like went balls to the wall it was like play three shows meet jason moraz get a record deal like really lofty goals that at the time we're looking at each other like oh if that ever comes true blah blah you'll never meet jason morass you'll never meet jason if you ever quit diet coke yeah exactly so then we hung them up on our mirrors and we looked at them every day for the year and it was the year that christina recorded jar of hearts and i gave it to my friend stacy tukey who was a choreographer she used it on so you think you can dance it went to number one that night that was back when like that many people were watching so you think he nads Christina signed a record deal she played like

300 shows she met Jason Mraz flew to London wrote songs with him thought she maybe maybe was in love with him for like a second and I was like I don't even like I don't even want Jason Mraz like it was like the most amazing year so crazy like everything on her list happened like it was I remember the first time we're eating sushi together and like I was teaching dance so like I had a little bit more money and I would always buy lunch and she was like I've got this because she had gotten this like record advance from Atlantic and it all gets deposited into your bank account like one day. So you go from having like minus $20 to like zero, zero, zero, zero, like crazy. Anyway. So then from then on, we were like, we always have to do these letters to the

universe. So for the last decade, every end of the year, I write this list. So does she. And we always, no matter where we are in the world or where we've been in our friendship, like sometimes some years our friendship has been stronger than other years. We always send each other this thing. Um, so last year I made the goal of that. I really wanted to be on entertainment tonight came true and I really wanted us to have a television show and it also came true. There's some things on my list that did not come true, but every year I like to write this list.

So I know that you guys think this is bunk, but I put some categories together of things that we could manifest and I thought we could talk about our manifestations of what we want for 2019 and everyone listening to this podcast can also like look at these categories and kind of think about what they want to manifest and we can do a group lady gang manifest for the year okay great when we come back the lady gang so the categories are i just want to give you them because some of them might overlap love self-care money business home family something silly like for me grow bangs or get bangs or grow my hair health which is not the same as self-care and travel you didn't have career on there that's business okay but yeah right do career

we could do business career business and career separately no that's the same it's just it is the same business is like lady gang business but i thought that was like two one-sided it's not everyone has a business okay so what do you guys want to start with should we start at the bottom travel that's an easy one travel where is one place that you'd like to visit this year i want to go to thailand because i had a very tumultuous situation happened about a trip about going to thailand and it never happened so i'd like to finally make that happen for me have you never been no i've never been you would really thrive i would thrive in thailand little thailand bali but yeah i want to because i had such a bad taste in my mouth from like a situation

that happened with it that I would like to like reset it and go on my own terms. Oh, I love that. Nice. This is going to sound stupid. No, but that's the thing. Here's my travel list. When you make these lists, nothing is too stupid. My travel goal is to only get on an airplane unless I'm – if I'm truly passionate about

what's coming. Oh. Sometimes I feel like I'm guilted into taking trips and feel like, yeah, I should do this. But what I find about myself is that even if it's the most amazing place in the world, if I'm not in a place to enjoy it like here's the thing that's probably TMI but like our honeymoon I was not in a space mentally and like with my career to be able to be like peace out two weeks I'm gonna go it was a great time yeah but I wish that I could actually take that trip over again I was so stressed I had like a panic attack on the plane yeah because I just was like we can't

afford to be doing this right now like what are we thinking like I need to be in LA getting a job Like not like So my goal for travel Is just to make sure I'm doing it For the right reasons What about you Kelty? I love that

I'm like jumping on This Iceland That everyone's doing Everyone's doing it Oh I want to go I know But I Really

I know I really Like Icelandic air I have felt strongly That my next vacation Needed to be a beach vacation Because I just need To go chill out

That's what I need to do But I actually think I need to go See some nature So I'm putting Iceland On my list for this year I don't have any Vacation days

Because I've used them up To shoot late again tv but good luck you know whatever okay what about health health i would like to start working out for once in my life oh what kind of workout you know what if you did like pilates once a week well see i used to work out like all the time i used to be obsessed with going to the gym i'd go for like two hours a day but that's also when i was in a really like unhealthy mindset when it came to learn moderation yeah that's the thing it's like you don't have to go every day like you could just go once a month my best time is like when i was doing hot yoga because for me

that was such like a mental and emotional thing that i would go when i was feeling like especially anxious or going through like a hard time so that's kind of like my happy workout okay and it's also very like trying on your body yeah as well and like a really good workout you know they say aging is the loss of flexibility that's how like the medical profession defines it it's not by like your organs getting rotten or your wrinkles it's like as you lose mobility and flexibility that's how they decide an age so interesting for my health this year i'm gonna quit diet coke just putting that on every year yeah i just need to be healthier in general okay that's not really how manifesting works you gotta like really visualize and think but i'm

gonna give you a pass on this one probably get back into yoga too okay because you were in it from then you went to berries i did an alternating berries yoga but i did sure oh have you ever gone to moto have we talked i have i don't like moto as much as i like core power i love moto okay we're not going together family yeah see mine i know right away i need to see my niece and nephew more they're like their skit their little kid schedules are so filled that i do everything last minute because i don't know my schedule and by the time i'm like hey can i see the kids tomorrow it's like saturday and they're like oh we have birthday parties all day like it's not impossible but like they're at the age where i should be having them over for sleepovers and i

should be like closer to my niece and nephew and i feel really guilty they're in burbank oh my gosh oh yeah my family my extended family is all over the country but i mine's kind of similar in the sense that we have a family group chat that all of my cousins you know post pictures of their kids or whatever and a lot of the time i let it kind of terrible well i have it on mute but that's the problem i have it on mute and then i miss all these things that like people are sending and then it's been too late for me to like go back and like read everything so i'd like to be more present because for me it's like i'm not getting to denver and philly and new york city and like whatever that often just you know watch my family grow up so a lot of it is like via like digital

and i deleted my facebook so i have no idea what's going on so probably to be more present i like that bex yeah i mean i need to spend more time in atlanta next year for sure this year with the fam okay what about home i mean i don't need to buy a house do you i mean i'd like to i don't think you do no why there's no reason for you to buy a house jack why because it's just a waste of money i just spent ten thousand dollars fixing my hole in my roof it's such a goddamn money pit well i can't buy a house in the place i'd want to live anyways exactly well i don't know i don't think you have to buy a home until you like figure out where you want to be yeah where you want to be with who well i wouldn't want to buy a home unless i was like with somebody that i could go on it

with because again it's like i'm not gonna be able to buy a house in marina del rey yeah exactly That's not like the size of a bathroom. I'm going to complete my backyard renovation with an infrared sauna, a hot tub, and an outdoor TV. Oh. Because I want to be able to watch Lady Gang TV in my hot tub. Dude, that would be sick. And I want a lot of outdoor fountains so that I can go in my backyard because I live right

by the 101 freeway and it's very loud. And you can hear water. And then I can hear. I have an infrared sauna that I've not used since I've lived there because it's missing a part and I just. Where is it? God damn it. it's if you walk out the back door to the i think i knew that you had that i didn't know that it's

brand new what never been used can you fix that i'll come over yeah it just needs a part sauna get the part it's like 400 okay let's do a few more podcasts um sponsors what about love oh jesus i had oh no i need to find a good guy i think i did i hope he's not a psychopath path my problem is like i've been so tainted from my past that like even your taint no did you say taint i've been so tainted is that even the right way of using that word yeah yeah tainted love but like everybody's been scorned and shit from their touch my baby tainted but it's hard for me like even dating like such a wonderful person there's so many thoughts in my head that i'm like am i still being duped like how can i trust this

person with somebody that i've known for like 10 years still i like get terrified about it so i guess maybe like what that's the thing that fucked me up the most about men is that usually the most charming ones are the worst humans no they're the absolute first i know from experience you know this yeah no but it's i don't know so i think for me is letting my guard down a bit if i can trust somebody and like to find that person a nice man maybe you just need to tell the person that you're dating like listen i'm gonna do things like go through your phone and i'm gonna ask to see your email because i'm scarred and i need this i don't even it's not even that like i've never it's like intention it's intention and it's almost like my own self-doubt but i can't trust my

own like instincts if you had gone through voldemort's things you would have seen the truth that's the thing i never did you need to do that yeah you need to do that i went through chris's phone for the first year we dated because i was so scarred really see i don't but i don't with him i don't feel like i like i need to but maybe that's like the problem maybe you need to maybe that's no but i don't think probably i don't think that you do need to i don't i don't think i do there's so why not yeah you know what do you gotta lose it would literally be like love letters written to me so i know won't you feel good when you find those probably we're giving her the worst advice ever we are that's why we're in the lady gang um becca what's yours i just uh uh love

um to not get worse than it is wow it is january 3rd ladies and gentlemen i mean not that it's not bad but like i feel like there's a steady decline each year you're married i'm happy with where we are yeah i just want to keep it consistent like this yeah i probably need to have sex more often with my husband me too who doesn't everyone i feel like it's never enough though i know never enough never enough i was laying in bed with chris the other night and he was listening to old voice messages that i had left him and then he saves and i was like so cute it was like four years ago and i was like hey chris it's your birthday it's your beautiful wife calling to say i love you why because you're so special i haven't left a voicemail like that in like five

years like so i was so nice and like i just think like i i'm really not a great wife so i want to like my wife thing i'm not good i'd like think i'd do a really good thing if i'm like hey when you're on the way home i'll put some dinner in the oven for you my question is did you used to be like super sappy and sentimental because like i am the the biggest sappy sentimental person and then the guy that i'm dating also is and i wonder like does that just fade when you like have are with each other for so long i think you just get lazy yeah it's like it's you're always like that they're not a priority anymore it's like do i have do i have two hours to write you a card no i don't even get you a card anymore same anniversary card in my desk drawer for like

years for yeah two years now that i've just not written him a card any at all yeah two years exactly so it's like you just kind of now i feel like i'm superstitious about it like i'm not going to we can't do it because then i'll get a divorce chris used to make me mix cds like my first day dating he gave me like a mix cd that's so cute but like i know not anymore not anymore okay what about self-care this one's important self-care i feel like i'm pretty good at this one get more korean scrubs yeah i'm great at this one okay i think for my self-care it probably has to come more be nicer to yourself yeah which i think that i've done this year like i really have especially for our tv show like somehow the effect of our tv show on my like self image

is that the right word body image whatever it's probably reverse of what it usually happens to people that go on tv oh you're like so you think you're pretty i well no i don't but i like don't cry every time i see myself on like a camera like i don't know if i've talked about this on the podcast but i went to go see your media coach yeah before i don't think you have and we did this was before we started filming the tv show because in my head i'm like i there's some weird like part of my like body dysmorphia that i have this reaction when i see myself on video that i burst into tears and like i think i look like my face is melting off so i was doing this thing with your media coach suzanne and that's what happened like when i was in there with her i'm like

something is wrong with me but once for some reason once the show was on air i'm like there's something about like not having any um control over it that i'm like it is what it is can't do anything about it and also it's like i think with instagram and everything it's like you try to perfect everything you put out there so when somebody else is the one that's putting it out there i'm like oh well so you're so good on the show and you look gorgeous so you should feel really proud of yourself thank you like 2018 was the year of like tv debut also we're really lucky that we get to like choose how we do our hair and our makeup yeah we wear yep like that's a big difference too right no one's dressing no one's dressing you and no one's like you do that somebody

was dressing me that really threw me for a flu yeah oh i bet i bet yes self-care for me i uh I'm going to try to go out into nature more often because I am a homebody and I will really sit at home. Like if I don't have to leave my house, I won't for like three days. So I want to try to like take a walk with just music. Walk around your hills. Yeah, with like the dog and just like hike on the weekends if I ever have spare time. I just want to like get out into nature. I think it's going to be – this is like 2019 is the year of nature.

I think it's going to be really good on my soul to just like see some trees and some sun. That's what the tarot card reader told you to do. Oh, yeah. You're right. You got to do some barefoot walking. Get the energy of the ground. You know what I get pissed about every year? That I live in California and I never go to the beach.

Never. I've been to the beach twice since I've been here. Literally why? I moved to the beach. I still don't go enough. And I literally live on the water. So sad. We need to go to the beach together.

Okay. Or just go to the beach. We don't even have to go together. Just kidding. Okay. Money. I'm going to delete all my shopping apps. Oh, God.

Because I have this thing where when my life is out of control, I think that I can like – like what do I do at night when I'm calming down? I'm just online shopping. I'm online shopping too. I'm like on RealReal and then I'm on Nordstrom and then I'm on Revolve and I'm just like – I don't need any more stuff. I need nothing. Do you know what really helped me with shopping? I did a whole year where my resolution was to not buy clothing. And how was it?

Amazing. and I swear to God I still even now that I allow myself to do it I don't do it that often because I realized that I could go a whole year I think there was like one occasion that I like had a black tie something and I didn't actually have something

in my closet and it wasn't something I could borrow it was one like I would only let myself do it if I was like stuck and I absolutely needed something and it was I'm cured because I used to shop so much yeah but this was before oh the debt was basically like just paying for life house yeah and like the house and renovations

it was on my manifest list last year to do no personal shopping and i lasted like six weeks and then i went back do you think we should try i think we should also you can also do a no spend month like they say like no spend february and no spend november so it's like you just do one month as a goal i can do that though i'm doing that all the time yeah okay um okay we're almost out of time let's do a silly silly what did i have did you know before we run out of time that i did make a manifest list for this year for 2018 and i made it inspired by me it was really cute and had all these little illustrations on it yeah so if you want an illustration manifest list that's actually cute okay but what was on yours um will you post an instagram of it

a lot of it like had like money like specific like dollar amounts yeah because i mean that's like tacky yeah um but it was like certain goals for my clothing line which i did not hit um because i didn't have a website for like three months uh lady gang tv show yeah a number of subscribers for my other podcast oh oh my god for international trips did not hit it because we've been filming our show um uh self-care it was just like it was a lot of like basic stuff and a lot of like money driven like goal stuff but i did make one i love it i don't think i ever told you about it becca you have a silly no really i can't i really can't get my car fixed finally oh okay that's really silly um i would like to you know i always have one that has about my hair yeah wait i want to

stop texting and driving oh that's such a good one that's very important i actually have one too but this isn't silly mine is be more proactive about like fixing practical shit so like for example the bluetooth has been up in my car for like three months and i keep putting it off and putting it off and like with returns i like we'll keep putting them off and then the return window like closes and then i'm stuck with a nightstand that i didn't want so being more practical stuck Fuck with a nightstand. I've been, I'm on like my fourth nightstand, but I need to be more, yeah, proactive with practical shit and not let stuff slide by.

I want to grow my bangs out so they're the same length as my hair. Good for you. That's it. Okay. On that note, I hope all of the lady gang is so inspired. What are you going to do this year for love, self-care, money, home, family, something silly for health, for travel? Think about it.

Send us a text or DM or Twitter on our digits. Oh, our digits. And we're so excited to hear for the Lady Gang resolutions. I love this so much. Thank you guys for humoring me. And we are so excited that you can follow us at the Lady Gang, at Becca, at Kelty, at Jack Vanek. And we, nope. We're not here for a long time.

We're here for a good time. Bye. That escalated quickly. Hey, guys, thanks so much for listening to The Lady Gang. You can subscribe if you love the show and check out new episodes every Tuesday and Thursday on Podcast One or wherever you get your favorite podcasts. Follow us on social at The Lady Gang or follow us personally at Kelty, at Becca, at Jack Bannock. And head on over to our website, theladygang.com, to ask us a question, sign up for our newsletter, or buy all the cute Lady Gang merch you see us wearing. Thanks for listening, and we'll see you next Tuesday.