LadyGang - Paris Hilton

Episode Date: September 15, 2020

The one. The only. Paris Hilton is here and THAT’S HOT! She’s still influencing us as she dishes on some of the highlights in her new documentary, This is Paris, while sharing the details of her new relationship and letting us help name her possible future twin babies. Plus, she may be giving the LadyGang her iconic hand-me-downs.   Thank you to our sponsors! BEAUTYBEEZ - Use code LADYGANG for 10% off at www.beautybeez.com   Home Depot - Save even more on the styles you love when you use code LADYGANG10 at checkout at homedepot.com/decor.  Brooklinen – Use promo code LADIES for 10% off your first order at brooklinen.com.   Daily Harvest – Go to dailyharvest.com and use promo c ode LADY for $25 off your first box.  Ritual – Get 10% off during your first 3 months at ritual.com/ladygang.   Rothy’s - Check out all the amazing shoes and bags available right now at Rothys.com/ladygang.   See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

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The Lady Gang. Things are about to change around here. Each week, we catch up with Hollywood's hottest girl posse, Kelty Knight, Becca Tobin, and Jack Vanek. Hello, hello, hello. Welcome to the Lady Gang. I am Becca Tobin, here with Jack Vanek and Kelty Knight. Hello. Becca has makeup on. i have full glam i know i just finished a home shoot oh how did it go it was a good good time and actually you know what i'm gonna bring this into you know it's time for good week yes it is

bad week oh no so my good week is that i finally finished my house upstairs downstairs it's still a hot mess, but every other room is done. And we did a home shoot today, um, of all the rest of the rooms that we hadn't done. And it was a weird day because there's fires all over California. So like everything's orange. Um, but doesn't that, wouldn't that give you a nice lighting? I don't mind the lighting inside. My house is like apocalyptic right now. It really is such a weird thing right now. I feel so bad for the people in Southern, in Northern California. The skies are bright orange where they are. It's crazy. Yeah, it's crazy. Anyways, my good week is that I finally did that. And soon you guys will see my photos. We're going to try to get an exclusive

with someone important and amazing. You know what my favorite part of your house is? What? Is in your bathroom downstairs, the phone in the bathroom. Oh my God. It can't be the bathroom downstairs because that has not been touched by us. I love the phone. Like who are you calling in there. I also love, I love this renovation timeline too, Becca, because it's like literally on your Instagram two days ago, you guys were like painting a wall and then you shot it today. Like way last minute, the finishing touches. Well, because we have an amazing designer. Who's like one of those creative types who like gets struck by an idea and we just execute. And thank goodness we did. Cause like, it looks amazing. It's just, you know, final hour shit. Okay. So

my bad week is this. I go to, I have a mailbox, like a separate mailbox from my home address so that I can get stuff sent there and people don't know where I live. P.O. box. So the other day I went into, it's not really a P.O. box. It's like a mailbox place. I don't know the difference. It's so weird. I go into the place and I'm like picking up my mail and I go to the, it's the same people every time, every time. And I'm like, Hey, I'm picking up a package, blah, blah, blah. They're like they look at me so weird and they were like uh this is for number 393 and i was like uh yeah they're like are you the owner and i was like yeah yeah hi hi i've been here for two years and they were like one second the guy goes back and he talks to the girl who runs the shop and

blah blah blah and he comes back he's like i'm really sorry uh you just look you look really different today what what were you wearing did you go today because you're all done up no it was a normal day like a normal day i will say that that day was like one of those days that i just looked in the mirror and i was like you look tired and old like you know like oh it was the worst for wear it was the worst for it and like the botox on my forehead is worn off completely now so i have lines that just stay and i honestly and you looked like the girl's mom yeah no they were he was looking at me like i was maybe like a crazy person who walked in from the street claiming that i owned a mailbox there rude like you see me every day fred i go there at least

twice a week and i see the same people and the woman who runs it had to tell him like that's the same person oh dick dark that's really time for botox dr diamond i'm going to see dr diamond next week. You are. Can I go with you? Sure. Okay. You have to ask Tammy. I'll text Tammy. Okay. So I'm going to go. Um, my good week is when I feel like shit about myself, like the easiest thing for me to do is do like a spray tan, like a cake or eat like a thing of Oreos, you know? Okay. Either or. Um, and every time I do a tan, Jared always gets pissed cause he's so fucking pale that he hates the comparison of my beautiful tan skin against his white freckly body. So I finally convinced him to let me self tan part of his body. We're starting

small. I tanned his thigh, which then moved into the balls. So he has orange balls right now. Wait, Jack, I love you. I can support you with a spray tan just barely. I can support you guys spray tanning men cannot spray tan and also no jerry is a naturally light skin freckly like fair person you can't fake anything other than that no he is very translucent but i wanted to do it for like just to see as an experiment how was the thigh i don't want to know about the ball but how was the color on the bright orange i use the saint tropez stuff it was like a nice a nice golden tan i don't believe that for a second i swear to god it was he's on a conference call right now i'm like too pale for that tanner i don't know it's like it's it's a special secret

tanner that just like works it worked for his skin tone i don't know if it would work for the face or any part of the body that's near the face but for the leg it was great what you should do for halloween for halloween you should think of a costume where he needs to be super tanned and now I'm going to be the excuse to try it out and maybe he'll be hot and you'll want to keep the tan, but you like, you don't want someone, your sheets are already ruined on one side. You're going to ruin both sides. Well, and Jared has like a white facial hair. So when he gets like a sunburn, his eyebrows turn white. So that's not like a good, a good contrast, but it's okay. We got that. We got the leg. It's fine. Okay. So my bad week is the other day I was taking an Instagram

story for like a new mask that I got and I put my camera up and it was like in my room and I had my bed in the background i uploaded the video and then had it up there for about five minutes until i started getting a bunch of dms that my vibrator was just sitting in the fucking background of my instagram story oh yep what vibrator the womanizer no am i right i couldn't find my charger for the womanizer so it's just died it was the the um the magic wand but the huge one oh they have to plug wait was this a sponsored was it a sponsored post for the masks no yeah okay good i was like i bought a few masks and i was like oh this one's cute this one's from this brand and then yeah but that's not a dildo that's like the bit it's the massager one it's supposed to be

for massaging like your back so you use like a back like the way our parents used you you you use like a sex in the city first cynthia nixon vibrator a sharper image vibrator i stand behind the magic wand vibrator over any other vibrator in the world is it a vibrator for your is it for your vagina no but it works better than any ones that are meant for your vagina because it's meant for a vacuum cleaner suction it is very strong but you know sometimes when it's like you you're in your head blasts off my mom's listening to this or my dad god sorry dad well you're the one that put on your instagram after five years you're worried about the giant back massager vibrator that is not your biggest problem also after five years you're just worried

in general about your dad listening like he's heard it all by now he's heard every you just said you self-tanned jared's balls should we apologize now to bill also my dad has heard worse during our live shows when he can't escape or turn it off so so true i'm probably true kelty all right um bad week so just wanted to update our listeners on my beads by becca transition or transaction um many months ago i was offended becca and so i wasn't allowed to have beads by becca and then i apologized and then again a few weeks ago i brought it up to her saying hey beads by Becca. Like, I apologize. It's time for my beads. And it is now the mid September and I still don't have my beads. So when I was on my trip two weeks ago, I was in Sedona. I bought my

own beads. I bought amethyst, but I still do want my line. Here's the problem though. Here's she's over it. She's not making them anymore. I'm not well, somewhat over it. But also I realized that my etsy bead shopping was really getting pricey right you're not a $400 necklace it adds up so i was like this is stupid unless you're actually selling these like i mean listen you're worth it and i still have some beads left over and i can definitely make that happen for you i'd even take a bracelet at this you're taking the leftover beads that becca didn't like no i actually have beautiful opals that i have a necklace i've been waiting to do that but i just like for someone special someone extra special and we'll be right back with the goat you're listening to the lady

gang our guest today needs no introduction every selfie you've taken every sweatsuit you've ever worn every time you've been on the beach feeling yourself and started singing if you show me real love baby i'll show you mine the paparazzi itself exists because of our guest she's had a best selling book invented reality tv has created a bomb ass brand which includes 19 product lines 50 boutiques worldwide a club resort in the philippines her perfume line alone has brought in over three billion dollars variety named her a billion dollar entrepreneur for earning over 10 million a year from business ventures. Oh my God, I feel like a loser. We all know that, but we all know that behind every super motivated, crazy, successful woman is some sort of trauma that made

them want to prove everyone wrong. And now she's getting real on what drives her, what keeps her up at night and her life behind the perfection in her brand new documentary, which we all watched, that is incredible and is out right now that you can stream. It's called This Is Paris. It's available for free uh starting yesterday september 14th please welcome to the lady gang paris freaking hilton welcome what's up ladies oh my gosh now i want i want to welcome i want to start this this conversation with a story because i have been interviewing people for 10 years on television and three people in the history of the interviews i've done have ever sent a thank you note after. And Paris Hilton is one of those classy babes. Wow. One of three of all those

millions of interviews. She sent me the perfume. She sent me a thank you. Like you're so rad and so professional. And I love that you put up this documentary because there's no way you could be a dumb blonde and have this much success. So I love that you're showing people the other side of you. Yeah, I'm definitely not a dumb blonde. Just very good at pretending to be one. Yes. I think we all, we all knew this. We all knew this because we are this. Yeah, we, we do like, we do it to like the same little bit of an extent, but I think, I mean, I can't speak for the other girls, but you have been like my dream guest to get on lady gang. So this is like such an exciting day for all of us. Thank you so much. Really is. So, okay. So the things we learned in the

documentary, just a few teasers, the fact that you said you love to scrapbook, it really took me to a happy place because i also love to scrapbook and so where are the books like what you're a homebody i am a lot of people don't know this about me but i'm actually like a secret introvert and people think i'm like this extrovert which like is my other persona and the character i play but in real life like i just love like being at home chilling in my juicy couture tracksuit scrapbooking eating cereal watching Rick and Morty and cartoons and just like painting and chilling with my pets and my boyfriend and I don't know I love being at home so even though this whole quarantine has been obviously scary and like an uncertain time for everything around

the world I always try to like look at the silver lining and for the first time in my entire career being able to actually be in one place and be at home has been just a really amazing experience well yeah watching the documentary too you have just been a go-go going for like a decade straight and I felt like you needed that reset so bad I really did and after just watching the films like so many times and seeing that I'm like wow you needed this time so yeah I'm for the future like I'm not going to be traveling like I used to like I I've really just reflected on like what's most important to me in life and you know I used to only focus on my career and my business my brand and not pay attention to my personal life and now I'm realizing that my personal life with

my boyfriend and my love and just creating a future and going on the next phase of my life is more important to me than all of that. So crazy how that's happened to so many of us, like all these crazy psycho career women, we've all slowed down and we're like, Oh, this is what this feels like. It's uncomfortable at first, but then it gets really nice. Like it's, it's really, it's been cool. I also think that it kind of doesn't seem that much fun to leave the house. If you're you like in the documentary, it was, it was kind of jarring to be honest, Paris, because you're like, you're getting grabbed at and pulled at and like, of course your fans and you love your fans.

I mean, you're stopping, you're taking pictures, you're like talking to them. You're not like snobby at all, but it's like you go out and it's like this, these piranhas and then you're all of a sudden you're like alone in the car and they're around the car. The car can't move. Like, this is frightening. In my opinion, I would be at home scrapbooking too. Yeah. Did you ever need a break from all that?

like in this entire time of being so famous for lack of a better term it's literally been like that's the where I got used to it right but just having to be on all the time and people grabbing you I felt kind of like a zoo animal almost like this like a unicorn that was like in a cage and like everyone wants to pet it touch it grab um it's it's been a lot like it's it gets very overwhelming just having that constant having to be on having to play the character and of course I love making people happy I love my fans but then the paparazzi can sometimes get so aggressive especially when they're trying to fight for the shot because they all want to get you know the exclusive shot. And it's just, sometimes it would get very scary actually, because people would just

get insane. Yeah. Well, in the documentary, they're talking about how, you know, you being one human being were funding like tens and 20 people's salaries for an entire year. Like there were people making their entire living off getting your photo and then they're punching each other to get the best photo. Like that's, that's not normal. You know what I mean? Whether your family is famous or not or you're famous or not like it's that's not normal so I love that you've gotten this time off and I also love that you were talking about how you've never been photographed in the same thing twice and I want to know what happens to the outfits when you're done and if there's like a lady gang hand me down in the closet but what I do with them is some stuff I

put into storage because my mom kept all these amazing pieces for Nikki and I and I just that was such a great idea so one day when I have a daughter she's gonna have all these really iconic pieces and then other ones I've either given for charity auction or donated or to my friends um so yeah I'll send you guys some stuff so we'll see how the interview goes we'll see how the lady gang i mean who are we kidding kelty it's going to be like how britney spears has the zone right now there's going to be a paris hilton something with everything you've ever worn i can yeah you need a museum you need a paris hilton experience yes we were talking about that right before covid happened we were planning that we already had the space everything it was

so epic and now it's this i don't know it'll happen yeah it'll happen we'll be the first the world opens again i'm hoping yeah everything but the ball pit you know what i mean the ball pit we can never have a ball pit again the ball pit's over for the rest of our lives um okay so one thing so we get a lot of like listeners that are talking about their relationships and struggles and you know and we call people out on cheesy shit all the time um and so the part of your documentary about love that i loved is when you were with this guy and he like put i love you and rose petals on the bed and you walk in and it is like papal ball that you think this is the stupidest shit you've ever seen in your life and you're looking at the camera and I was like Paris

is all of us like oh my god we like seriously do the dishes and rub my feet like I do not eat a rose petal bed that's all I'm saying men out there listening I think if you're actually in love and like it was something romantic and like it meant something but when you thought someone was beyond and they do that yeah like you're even more beyond than I thought like please like get away I love the quote this is actually probably my favorite quote of all of my life is when you took away can we say certain parts of this documentary you took away this guy's and you go I can't believe I've never done this before I took away his artistry span it was the meanest thing you can ever do to anybody and I'm like it really resonated for us I know that's actually

my friends everybody's like that's is the most iconic line like the fact you said that and like the people that can relate to that so good it is it's true gripping those off his arm was such an amazing feeling because I've never stuck up for myself yeah guys just do so many terrible things to me and I just never said anything and that was the first time I actually took control I was like you know what off and get the out of here and rip those bracelets off and that was like one of the most like empowering feelings ever no and I love this and and and listen when I was watching when we're watching the documentary. We were like, you know, if, if Paris Hilton can get caught in the dick sand, which is what we call it when you get like caught and you're like, you're, you know,

it's bad, but you can't stop. You know, if you and everything you have and your brains and beauty and Braun, like you can get trapped in it. Like we're all screwed, you know? And, but what I love is I love that we were watching you sort of come into yourself during the filming of this. Like you couldn't have planned that, you know, but here it is. And you're doing the biggest show you've ever done in your life. And this guy is so insecure. He's trying to bring you down because he doesn't want you to soar. And I hate a man like that. Um, I was married to a guy like that. Like, it just is so, so brutal. So I love that you showed everyone, like you take that artist pass and you move on. Um, but there's this whole other level of, of openness in the

documentary are you nervous for the world to see it yes yeah when I first started doing this film the original premise was just because I was so sick of just the rumors the misconceptions people thinking I'm just like this airhead who has no idea what's going on who's had everything handed to her who's had the easiest life and no one knows what I've been through so I was I just wanted to show how proud I am of what I've done and then all of this other stuff came out but yeah I'm just proud just even though I've been through hell and back the fact that I'm so strong and I could make it through anything and I hope it's an inspiration to other girls if they're going through something like that if they're being pressured into doing something they don't want

do if they're being abused to stand up for themselves and say something and get out of there and just we just no woman should ever be treated that way and I hope that if people watch this and they've been through what I've been through that they can be strong and tell their story and get the hell out of there I love that and the trust issues like how could you not have them and do you think that there do you think that there's a possibility in your life that you can get past this and trust because it was like your sister said she was like you know Paris has a lot of people a lot of employees a lot of people around you a lot of yes men you know how do you trust people how do you trust they're not selling stories about you you know well and even when

you're mentioning about your family as well where it's like it's hard to even trust like the closest people to you? It's been really rough. I've literally, because of what I've been through, I obviously have built up this giant wall around my heart, around my mind, where I would not let anyone in and just couldn't trust anyone. I've been burned even after dealing with going to these schools, being abused and coming out of there, getting in these relationships with the most terrible people it's just it was hard to ever really let anyone in and finally for the first time in my life I have my boyfriend which I am like so in love with and deserves my trust and opened my heart in a way that I've never thought was possible and I never thought it was possible

to be this happy because I always pretended to be happy and pretended like I had this perfect life but I never really felt that way. I just wanted, I didn't want to think about it. And I wanted people to think I was happy because I thought it was part of the brand, but now to actually feel like this is just the most magical feeling in the world. Yeah. It's really cool to see you evolve because I think for so long you, like you said, it was like protecting the brand. You had to be this like perfect person and can't complain because Paris has it all. And it's like, I think right now is such a huge time for women with social media. We've all been, we're so fed up with perfection and the timing of this film is just amazing. And you can tell that it's not

contrived. You can tell it's just, you feel like it's the time. So I think a lot of women are really going to be blown away. We certainly were. So congratulations. Thank you. The part that like stopped me in my tracks, I took out my notebook, had to write it down, was the term that you used, electronically raped. This is, in my opinion, game changing. The fact that you could name what this is. Because there are so many people out there, how is it, it's the woman's fault. The woman is a whatever. And like, how about the guy? How about him leaking it? How about him selling it how about him making money off it how about him what's you know what happened to you is so unfair and so uncool and i love that you said if it happened in 2020 like it would not

be called the same thing yeah and the term electronically raped we see all these women who have sent a photo sent a whatever and then are blackmailed for it and then are used for it and that's what it is it's right well it's like what but when this is happening to you like revenge porn wasn't a thing yet so it's like the woman was like you said like I was the bad guy where it's like well maybe the bad guy was the guy that was selling this video and trying to promote it for his own benefit and it's just times have changed a lot and you just unfortunately had to go through that like the worst part and the worst time to be a woman when something like that happened to you it was a nightmare and just like the fact that the whole world is looking at it

laughing making fun of me calling me a slut this was a man i was a teenager i right i'm in love with him i trusted him and then to be just violated like that and then the whole world blaming me like it's my fault it's just I'm so grateful that times have changed and that people are finally realizing how wrong it was um obviously I wish it never happened but if it would have happened at any time I wish it was like now instead of back then because the way I was treated was so just wrong and so painful and just I don't know it's the biggest regret in my life is meeting him because I feel that he took everything away from me you know for the rest of my life people are going to judge me based upon one night with someone I really trusted when

no one was ever supposed to see that and you know just just saying such terrible things about me for something that everyone does you know everybody obviously hooks up and I know a lot of people who have filmed it um but you know put it out like that yes and you were also so young like so young every child every woman who is having sex when they're in their teens early 20s um and experimenting but figuring out what they like who they are like you you try it's just so unfair like it's like reaching puberty and then having the whole world see it. That's so fucked up. Okay. Next topic. I feel like I want you to have a daughter to have all those amazing clothes, but I also feel like having a son would be such an important thing for him to have someone like you.

Because I think that that's the thing is we've really fucked up as a society is that men have lacked empathy for women when those things happen. And the shame that we carry for the rest of our lives like that will never go away so i think i do hope for the universe you have a boy too first one i'm planning it already it's gonna be a boy and girl twin when you freeze your eggs you can pick if you get a boy you get a girl you get twins so i have baby london which is the girl and i'm trying to figure out for the boy so if you have any suggestions i'm oh do we want it to be city named like is there you carry on a theme of like cities but i don't know it's it's hard to decide but london for sure for the girl the boy i'm just

still trying to decide on we'll put our thinking caps on we're deep in egg freezing right now so we're like wait we haven't named the eggs yet there's a whole new level see paris still influencing us. Yep. Boom. I wanted to ask you about being a powerful woman, because this is something that we talk about all the time in relationships where, you know, we're big, powerful women and we have our brand and all this stuff. And then we kind of have to like, act like sissies around our guys or husbands so that they still feel like they can save us. Like, it's like this weird thing. How do you deal with the fact that you are famous, you are successful, you're super smart, you're rich. How do you feed someone's ego or allow there to be room for them

to be masculine or in your relationship? Does that make sense? Needed. Yeah, like needed because you don't need a man. Yeah. I never had before, but I would let men into my life that shouldn't of them and they would become emasculated jealous feel insecure they'd want to put me down to make themselves feel up and I feel like they would try to just do things to me to make me feel so insecure like I could only get them and just a lot of just weird manipulation um and this is the first time in a relationship now where i'm with an equal who has his own thing going on he doesn't want to be in the spotlight he hates the cameras he's a brilliant businessman he's so successful doesn't need money he doesn't need fame he just needs love and me and every other relationship

before this has been the complete opposite. So yes. Yay. It's about finding the right man that actually can like mesh with you. We call them dating normies. Yeah. We all have normies. I mean, we're not on Paris Hilton level, but we're like, Becca's married to a normie who hates the camera. I'm married to a normie. It's the camera. Jack's like less of a normie, but, um, it's like, you need a, you need a normal guy. That's like, I don't want to be on your Instagram. Leave me alone like that's the guy you want to be with yes yeah it makes it more fun the rest of them are just hungry tigers clout chaser is the new word for hungry tiger

someone's like clout chaser i'm like what does that mean they're like remember you always say hungry tiger i'm like yeah they're like well clout chasers like the new word for it i was like okay i like that sounds good that is good a lot of clout chasers in my life it's such a it's been also just like in la there's just find a man that doesn't chase clout no they're all that's what they're all here to do we need to make a shirt that's like clout chaser and then like has the like so uh before we move on to ask the lady gang last thing i i do want to ask you paris because a lot of this documentary revolves around the school that you were sent to i went to go check out the school and they have a disclaimer. Uh, I don't know if you know this, like at the top of their

website, that's like, Hey, we're under new management. Like there's a documentary. I mean, they are freaked about this. It's crazy. Yeah. Um, and, and you, you get together with other survivors and I thought for me and the girls might have a different idea, but for me, the most interesting part was when you had, you know, all these other survivors that you went to school with in your, in your house and you're all talking and they were like, yeah, we watched the simple life And we're like, where did this voice come from? And like, Paris is acting like she's never seen a mop, but they like used to make us mop every day.

Like, I thought that was really telling because, you know, you can say, Hey, this is a character or this changed me forever. But for other people that you haven't seen in 20 years to say, we watched you and we're like, is this, is this, this is not the person we went to school with. That must've been like a real trip for you to have them say that. Cause you probably didn't even realize you were doing it. I didn't realize. I think I literally just was doing this just because I wanted to escape from thinking of all

of that but I ended up forgetting who I was and basically like losing myself almost in the character I think just from being so traumatized and not wanting to think about it and then becoming someone else almost where I forgot how I was before and that's why in the film like I had to even walk out of the room for a second I just broke down I was crying because I was just like I don't feel alone anymore these people like they know the real me and the fact that the people and staff at the school took away who I was it's just uh it's just it's but like you know I were you were you that bad like I just feel like to be sent away oh no yeah I felt like this was extreme you just like to party a little bit I was awful as a what teenage girl is not not listening to

their parents what happened with me was I lived in LA my parents were so strict literally I was not allowed to go to a school dance I couldn't go on a date I couldn't wear makeup I couldn't like do anything and my parents just were so protective and wanted to shelter me then I moved to New York like 15 16 years old all of a sudden I have every single brand every single club like sending me dresses like having me go to parties and I'm like living at the wall of Astoria it's so easy to like sneak out at night and get into a cab I had never been to like a party in my life so I just started just sneaking out going to clubs then ditching school and then my parents talked to this therapist who I found out later was actually getting paid off by these schools

and send children from affluent families there because he was getting paid off um and then my parents thought it was a normal boarding school. They just thought, you know, my kid's just going to be safe. She's not going to be able to go to a club anymore. So at this point I had not even partied. I had no boys, not even drinking, literally drinking like Sprite and Shirley Temples and just dancing. Cause I just love music and attention. Wow. Well, listen, I am, I'm very proud and I'm, I'm so happy that you have put this work out. Um, I think that, uh, it's certainly very brave, um, and must be terrifying. Um, but I think that you have done a lot of good with it, you know, like I think in so many of the different topics we talked about,

whether you have a bad boyfriend or someone's taking advantage of, of, you know, you digitally, or you know you're growing up or whatever it is like i think there's a lot to learn here and we need more women sort of speaking their truth because it's the only way we can learn you know i hope by me being brave and courageous and telling my truth that other people could feel comfortable to tell their truth and it's people because no one deserves to be treated like that and people need to be held accountable for what they do amen amen when we come back paris is going to fix your life now back to the lady gang all right so we're back so paris for this part of our podcast we have our listeners send us send us in questions about life and love and everything

in between and we kind of give them some advice so you ready to change some lives yes all right first question comes from Haley she says I've been with my boyfriend for two years and he is 100% the guy he's perfect except for two things the large pores and blackheads on his nose and the fact that he's a coffee drinker so his teeth are stained brown he has good hygiene which is why I'm confused about this how do I bring these things up to him or should I just forget about it because other than that he is perfect oh I'm like the same way you don't want to hurt someone's feelings but like you want to also make them hot so that you're like attracted to them um so my advice would be to not just be like babe you like have gross blackheads and yellow brown teeth and

it's beyond instead like be sweet about it be like oh like let's go get a facial or like there's like these really amazing machines you can i've ordered them on instagram actually that like sucks things out of the horse so maybe go on instagram or like google it or send them to a professional like applicants like a couple's facial yes and like whisper to the facialist before like like this guy so many like beyond like blackheads like can you please pull them out and then with the chops just be like not mean about that either just be like oh my god i found these new like I don't know what they're called like the white press strips yeah do it as a couple even if you don't need it like at night just like maybe give him coffee and be like oh

babe like I think we're drinking too much coffee I think we both need strips on like and we'll do it together at night so it feels like a couple things so you're not it's like you're trying to better yourself even though you probably don't need it so you're not like being mean but you can like fix them up and like give them a makeover for the chops and that's good advice that is the best advice for one there's a two-for-one deal at the dentist like one person can get whitened but they'll do two or i just got like i got a free whitening thing from a contest i did there's so many ways you can go about it and i have a giveaway i have a blackhead sucker and it can be very sexual if you're naked if you do a naked blackhead suck that's a happy saturday

night no that's gross gross okay okay girls i love you you're awesome we love you wish it wasn't like corona and we could like actually be in a room together i know we will we will i know next question okay next question comes from natalie she says my startup has failed maybe it's a business question sorry business questions yeah my startup has failed maybe it's temporary. Maybe it's permanent. And I feel like I feel lost as to what to do next. Should I revive it? Should I bury it for good? What do I do with my inventory? Do you have any advice right now? It feels like five years of dreams and paint plans down the drain. I feel like you should never give up. If it's your dream and your passion, something you really believe in, just put your all into it

and start using your social media platforms building that brand getting it out there even if you have to contact I don't know what type of business you do but find other people who are maybe in the same business with you who have a following and collab with them and kind of build a following in that way and just really just put the content out there like social media is such an amazing platform to build a brand and a business. And it's so important. So I think just really focusing on that. And I feel like anything's possible if you really put your mind to it and you have a good heart and good intentions. And I wish you so much luck. I hope that everything goes well. It would make me sad if you waste, not wasted, but if you spent

five years doing something and we're upset about it. So I'm going to send you good vibes. You've got the Paris sparkle on you now. And this whole year is a dumpster fire. There's so many people whose dreams, businesses, whatever are like in the dumpster. Like it's a pivot this year and what's happening right now. And you saying your startup failed, like it doesn't mean it failed. it's 2020 is a black hole that will suck any joy out so it's like just wait till 2021 have a fresh launch see what happens then i agree 2020 is beyond bullshit but but paris what it's good for is that you would have never met this guy and had this relationship if you had the time if you had been on a plane 360 days a year it wouldn't have happened you had to have this is almost we were

talking about it last week, like the joys of COVID is you had some time to actually work on your heart. Yeah. We talk about that all the time. It's like, it's like, I was like, even though this is like crazy with COVID, like the fact that I've been able to be with you 24 hours a day, seven days a week, like we've literally spent what like most couples would have like in a five-year relationship. Because if this wasn't happening, then I would literally be on a plane. I'd be all over the world and I wouldn't have had this time with him. So I agree. I have a question. Do you feel like you're sleeping better now that you've put this out in the world and like have this relationship? Yes. I used to have the most severe nightmares. It felt so real just every single

night being kidnapped and taken, being back in this place, trying to escape, just like literally severe nightmares where I'd wake up just like sweating and just being like thank god I'm not there like that wasn't real and ever since I spoke about it and then then with my boyfriend who we just like cuddle and like it's so safe and like I'm finally home and I have not had one nightmare since we've been together which is such a relief wow it's made power of love yeah I assume it's like hard to go or like have a therapist or like go to therapy when you're a celebrity like is that weird like I tell my my therapist we love therapy we like go we all go but like is that weird to be like I need a therapist but I'm Paris Hilton like I'm going to tell someone my deep dark secrets I

must feel weird especially with trust issues ever since going through all I went to at those schools I don't hate all therapists I just I'm scared of therapy I don't trust them and especially being you know in the public eye I don't trust them I feel like as soon as I tell them something they're gonna go brag about it to their friends or tell their husband or their wife or whoever then one day they're like gonna write a book about me like I'm so weird about that so I would I would never have a therapist honestly I just don't it's so interesting yeah it's kind of sad too because it's like you have so much to deal with as a human being and so much pressure on you that like, so unfair, you know, anyway. Now you have your man. You have your boy.

We're so excited for Paris. I know that you're already following her. Cause like the entire population of the world is, but if you're not, if you're the one person who's not, um, it's at Paris Hilton and this is Paris is available now on YouTube. Um, the documentary, we loved it. Um, you must watch it right now. Finish this podcast, finish your workout or whatever you're doing and go put it on, watch it tonight. Let us know what you think. and Paris thank you for your time and thank you for supporting women run businesses by coming on this podcast because I know that you did not have to say yes to this and the fact that you did mean so much to us and thank you for supporting us thank you all about girl power and I love the

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