LadyGang - Spirit Daughter's Jill Wintersteen

Episode Date: November 20, 2018

The neurologist-turned-astrology authority joins the Ladies to give them the real scoop on how their astrology sign works and examines their moon signs to get a real glimpse of how Keltie, Becca, and Jac tick! Check out new episodes of LadyGang's TV show on E! every Sunday at 10:30 ET/PT on E! Follow the podcast on Instagram @theladygang and you can email Jac, Becca and Keltie at Hello [e-mail]! And check out the show page @ladygangtv! And thank you to today's sponsors: Amazon = Go to amazon.com/shop/ladygang to find their favorite products while keeping the podcast FREE!  LadyBox = Check out the lastest LadyBox before they're all gone at www.theladygang.com/ladybox/ MVMT = Get 15% off today —WITH FREE SHIPPING and FREE RETURNS—by going to MVMT.com/LADYGANG Q Drinks = Go to www.qdrinks.com/try and enter code “LadyGang” for your free sample Quip = Get your first refill pack FREE at GetQuip.com/LADY Robin Hood = Get FREE stock like Apple, Ford, or Sprint to help build your portfolio when you sign up at LadyGang.RobinHood.com TalkSpace = Go to Talkspace.com/LADY, and use the code LADY to get $45 off your first month Ulta Beauty = Find what makes you beautiful today at Ulta Beauty See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Hey guys, it's your Lady Gang, Jack Vanek, Kelty Knight, and Becca Tobin. Thank you so much for subscribing on iTunes, and thanks for supporting the great sponsors who make it possible for us to have this much fun with you every single week for free. Well, what is this? Welcome to the Lady Gang. That's amazing. Say that again. The Lady Gang. Things are about to change around here.

Each week, we catch up with Hollywood's hottest girl posse, Kelty Knight, Becca Tobin, and Jack Vanek. Hello, hello, hello, and welcome to the Lady Gang. Your brain is not fooling you. This is not Becca Tobin. I am Kelty Knight, and I have some really crazy news for you. We're going to get right to it, because it's time for... Good Week. Yes, it is. Bad Week. Oh, no. good week bad week bad week one of my jobs in the lady gang is that i take the files after we record

them and i send them over to our awesome producer heather and heather edits it all together in a nice big box and sends it out to the interwebs so you can listen to it and well transferring the files from this week's episode the internet ate one of my files they ate this good week bad week so now it is 10 10 in the morning i am in the entertainment tonight sound booth alone and i'm looking at mike the audio engineer here who also ps is a huge fan of lady gang tv and i appreciate that and i am crying and embarrassed because you're getting a good week bad week that has been slightly chopped together and this is how we're gonna do it we're gonna say our good weeks and bad weeks and we're gonna edit it together and it's gonna feel like we're all in the same room

except that it's going to only be Becca and I because Jack is still day drinking somewhere and without a mic. So this is as good as it gets. And this is what I would call the time that I want to have a mental breakdown because it's not going to be perfect. And I want everything to be perfect for you guys. But anyway, so without further explanation, here's my bad week. I deleted the files. Okay. I sent them off to our producer and then I was like, well, now they're in her hands. and I just deleted them off our SD card. They just don't exist. There's no way to find it.

I even called over to the transfer company and was like, but yeah, you guys have it in like a secret trash can vault on the internet somewhere, right? That you can just pull it back out of. And they were like, yeah, no, we don't. If it gets transferred, then it gets deleted after that. And I was sad. So, but in a bigger way, my bad week in general is that

this is the most exciting time in my life. I have everything I have ever wanted and worked so hard for, and it seems so overwhelming. It's like I think my husband sometimes says like everything goes wrong in your life because you're like a tornado. You're moving at such a fast speed that you just kind of scoop up everything, and your phonetic energy like messes with the world. And so everything that I've been touching lately, whether it be I made a banana bread, but I forgot to put the eggs in, so it came out as just like fluff last night. And my husband, we waited forever, and it wouldn't cook, and it wouldn't cook. And we're like, when is this banana bread going to be done? And then I tasted it and it literally crumbled in my mouth like flour because there was no

egg in it because I just forgot the eggs. You know what I mean? Like, why did I try to be a homemaker? It's just everything. I spray tanned and I got a little extra spray tan in my hairline and now it looks like I have zits across my forehead. Like, just everything is kind of going wrong at this moment, but at the same time, it's the best time of my life.

So good week, bad week, that. Okay, good week. on Thursday, I have once again been asked to host the Thanksgiving Day Parade on CBS. This is one of my favorite assignments of the year. I love it. So today we're actually, Chris and I are traveling to New York. And the really cool thing about this week is that my parents and my brother are coming from Canada to see me actually film something. They've never been with me on a set ever in the last 10 years. So they're going to be there during the parade live. I have a really cute coat. I'm thinking of wearing a high pony um I get to see Carmen my makeup artist in New York who I never

see anymore because I haven't been traveling and it's just such an honor this is my fourth year and it's a really big deal because before the longest girl that ever did it did it two years and then got replaced and I'm on my fourth year so I'm doubly I guess is entertaining but honestly I think it's I'm just I don't know I just I guess I'm just easy so they just keep asking me back so that it's easy for them I don't know the answer but anyway I'm so excited and I hope that everyone tunes in on Thursday morning on Thanksgiving and watches me host the parade. And now it's time for Becca Tobin to do her bad week from her house. Good week. Yes, it is. Bad week. Oh, no. Okay. Becca here reporting in for my good week, bad week. This feels very weird. I'm sitting in my bed

on a Monday morning working from my computer. And we get a text from Kelty. As she explained, we had a little boo-boo it's not her fault she's overworked and Jack and I never offer to take any of these responsibilities off her plate because we don't want them um and because if we take them off her plate she actually just then inserts herself onto the plate to then um you know micromanage it so it's like you know what just let her do it you know and sometimes if she messes up the only thing that Jack and I can do is just not get mad at her upset with her because we're like I would rather you f**k up once in a blue moon than us have to take on this responsibility. So you know what?

Just being a team player here. This feels so weird talking about my good week, bad week with nobody here. Like the peanut gallery is not here to annoy me and ask me infuriating questions about it or like give their commentary. But I'm going to try my best. I'm going to make it snappy. My good week is a couple months ago I talked about running into somebody who works for that interior design company Hutch.

She's adorable. she was at an event that I was at. She's an interior decorator and this app is all about decorating your home. Shouts out to Ashley. And she and I teamed up together and started to redecorate my house and we're done finally. And we shot it. We got these beautiful photos and you know we're hoping that any publication is going to pick it up and like you know that hopefully I'm like relevant enough to have like my cute home featured anywhere. So anyone have a blog out there that they want to like show some pictures of my house i'm just kidding um i'll let you guys know when those are up and um where you can see them because they did an amazing job uh

my bad week let me like set a disclaimer and say my bad week has to do with lady gang tv but i love the show i think that we're doing and saying things that women have not been seen doing or saying on TV before um and I'm very I mean like Howard Stern's been doing this for years uh we're kind of just for lack of a better word um I don't know how to say this like we're doing what men have been doing for centuries you know what I mean like we get a little dirty we get a little vulgar we get very candid sometimes it has to do with sex um and I'm while I'm very proud and I get excited to watch, I also have like nervous diarrhea thinking about my family, mostly my in-laws because my family has known me for 32 years and they're forced to

love me no matter what. But my in-laws, I'm, we're going home for Thanksgiving and I love them and they support me and they watch everything I do from like Wholesome Hallmark to the Lady Gang, even though like we're like, you guys might not want to watch this. It's, it's traumatizing for, you know in-laws to watch their you know daughter-in-law or sister-in-law be disgusting on tv um however i have a feeling they're still watching and i am like kind of petrified to go home for thanksgiving um because i have to you know look them all in the eye after talking about testicles and buttholes on international television i was going to say national but it's international because we are playing in several several countries which is really exciting

anyways that's where I'm at this is the reality of being on TV and being quote unfiltered it means family holidays are stress inducing even more so and I'll

update you guys I don't want to exploit them my in-laws too much because they're sweet people who don't deserve this monster of a daughter-in-law that they have so I'm going to always protect the privacy but I'll keep you guys posted I'll give you like a scale of one to 10 how my holidays went. Say a little prayer for me. Now back to

the lady gang. Our guest today is the definition of beauty and brains introduced to yoga and astrology as a teenager. She's been interested in wellness and the human experience from a very young age. She went on to study at John Hopkins in order to become a neuroscientist, but felt a calling to change her path and learn the ancient art of Chinese medicine. Now she's a badass creator and astrological entrepreneur of spirit daughter a venice-based brand gaining traction for its beautiful moon guides and workbooks here to help the three of us ladies find a little bit more peace because god knows i need it and grounding in our very crazy lives please welcome jill winterstein winterstein is right right winterstein is right cool thank you so much

so before we talk about the stars and stuff how do you go how do you go from like i think i want to be a neuroscience scientist to like stars from one spectrum to the other uh well i started studying stars before neuroscience um so for some reason around 15 16 i just had a desire to study the consciousness and the human consciousness and so i basically started studying anything that could help explain the human consciousness which is a very hard subject um and i even took I remember I was in college and I even took psychology of the consciousness. And in the book, the first line was, it's impossible to study the human consciousness. What am I doing with my life?

So but, you know, basically that started me off in astrology and it led me to psychology, which led me to neuroscience because I wanted to go into the brain and study it. And then I spent a wonderful summer in California. I was on the East Coast this time and I came out here. and i just i smoked a lot of pot and i just thought we knew we liked him and uh you know i decided that you know i didn't want to contribute to what i was doing anymore in psychology i wasn't happy with what i was doing and what i was studying and i also just wasn't happy with like the politics that occur sometimes in research because there's a lot especially at a high level uh as in hopkins was like you know there's just some politics and i was young and

i was like i don't want to deal with that yeah uh so i left i didn't know what to do with my life i had like a whole mental breakdown because i was just you know just track a student you know i always knew where i was going i always knew what the next step was you know and for the first time my life was like i have no idea what i'm doing so i started doing yoga like twice a day uh almost like obsessively and it just led me on this path and it led me back to astrology uh it led me to chinese medicine and it led me back to you know studying the consciousness which is what i always wanted to do um and i got a little off track i think in neuroscience because when you're in research you end up like you know doing these things to get the right grants and then in the

right labs and you end up playing this whole game and i felt i was really far from where i wanted to be. So I left and then I, you know, studied the body, studied anatomy, studied yoga, studied the body as much as I'd studied the brain. And, you know, went back to my hippie ways. Crystals in the stars. Love it. It's awesome. Do you want to ask your question, Becca, off the top or you want to wait a minute? Let's get into it a little bit because I still want to like talk about. Yeah. So just so you know, I'm an Aquarius. Okay. Becca's a Capricorn. We're pretty close together. okay and jack's a taurus okay and i know nothing about astrology except for i think that i'm stubborn and loyal that's as far as my knowledge goes um that's pretty accurate okay aren't those

like the two major traits so what do you want to like tell us a little bit about each of like our signs do you guys know your moon signs by any chance yes i don't how do you figure that out um you have to know your time of birth and your location um and then we can look at that on an but okay because the the thing about astrology is there's many many parts of it so i'll tell you a little bit about your sun sign but know that there's a whole bunch of other factors like your moon sign and your rising sign that will play into it as well as like where your saturn is and and we have many facets of the pie so to speak but just sticking with the basics the sun is your core personality so in a lot of ways that's what you've come here to learn and to master and to

understand and also the energy that you bring in from another life shows up in your son it's not necessarily like what you were in your past life but it's a blueprint you know so the astrological wheel you know a lot of interpretations will say that it's a signature it's an energetic signature your chart from you know past life that you came into this life with and your son is the center of so that's your core um so your son is an aquarius uh aquarius um are very known for their freedom loving ways which is so crazy because i'm a total asshole but i do like to do whatever the i want well i don't want people to tell me how to do it exactly so there's a high side and a low side to every sign every energy actually we could talk about you know anything talk about high side

high vibes low vibes right and so Aquarius like the high side is they're progressive and they're thinking they think outside the box and actually Aquarius like there is no box you know they can think of things that the rest of us can't they can creatively problem solve but we're like how did you do that you know but the low side is they can like just you know flip off society and be like I'm doing what I want you know and go run out into the woods or wherever and they also can sort of turn their mind against society where they're like I know how to do it better

that's a nutshell of KK right there and our job is to learn how to really embrace the high side and become aware of the low side which is something I encourage people to do like on a full moon, a full moon is a time of release so it's like look at your low sides you know for something like Aquarius like look at where

blaming and complaining shows up in your life Like, look at where stone throwing shows up, you know, or you want to, like, cast the stone. Because you probably do know how to do a lot of things better. But, you know, the high side is to understand that you're here to move society forward. You're here to expand consciousness. Ooh, that's a lot of weight, Kelsey. No big deal. Big responsibility.

No big deal. Anyways, I'm going to take that as Kelsey. What about a Capricorn? Now, Capricorn, they're very interesting. Capricorns are usually very grounded. So they're an earth sign, where Aquarius is an air sign. Capricorn is earth, so they're very stable. They're very grounded.

Do you feel stable? I do. They like their solitude. Capricorns are, they're very much like solidified earth, where like Taurus is an earth sign, but I always like to say like Taurus is like younger earth. It hasn't quite settled, right? Capricorn is settled, right? They know who they are.

They know where they want to focus their energy. they know where they want to put their attention and they can be very particular about it like my best friends at Capricorn and man she's just like very like on it you know and she's very direct like I'm always calling her like oh I have this like problem with boundaries can you help me and she's like you just need to state your boundaries like this yeah that's a very Capricorn you know Capricorn knows their boundaries they know how to state them they're very clear in their communication normally um they can get a little lost in their solitude because they don't really need anybody right capricorn's the sea goat it can traverse the sea and the land with ease so like

nothing can stop a capricorn it just has this like energy of stamina and perseverance um so that can make you feel like you don't need anybody yeah which can show up a lot in relationships of all kinds um where you do need your space so like if you are in a relationship like you need to make sure you have space and time with yourself, either connecting with nature or like your own meditation room or whatever that is, because your center is you and you need to reconnect to it often or else you end up, you know, kind of like running off, you know, disconnecting when you don't normally want to. Yeah. That makes sense. Wow. Do you feel that? Yes. Majorly. I had to have like a lot of therapy just realizing like I I need that time like to be alone even though I

wasn't like naturally drawn to do that like I had to sort of discover that that's what I needed to recharge because I did start feeling a little out of control and a little bit drained yes um and I didn't know how to like ask for that time like whenever we have family vacations like with Zach's family i love them so much but none of them need alone time yeah right you know it's hard and so it's like wow yeah nature too like you want to yeah for sure you actually need to plug into nature you know so go like take long walks yeah even just you know even around here anywhere yeah the forest would be great or the beach you know but really just anywhere and think of it that you're actually like plugging your battery into the earth that makes sense earth has a pretty

larked battery. Restore from it. That makes sense. What about our resident bull? Is Taurus a bull? Taurus is a bull. Taurus is a bull, but she's a peaceful bull. That's what I always like to say. Taurus is, they're very creative,

which is awesome. They're a really creative sign. She's the most creative. Yeah, they're very, like yesterday with the full moon on Taurus, I was telling everybody, I'm like, go be creative. Go create something. It's a great day to tap into your creativity. Oh, man. The energy is still here, so you can still tap into it today.

You can read the Full Moon and Taurus book. But, yeah, so they're very creative. Their creativity, though, comes from stillness. So they need stillness, too. All their earth signs need stillness. So Virgo, Taurus, Capricorn, they all need some stillness. Where our air signs can, like, navigate life a little bit quicker and are more social in a lot of ways. So the air signs like Aquarius, Gemini, Libra.

But our earth signs need stillness. they need connection they need to restore and Taurus especially like needs peace and quiet they need to get back to their senses in a lot of ways so Taurus is all about senses so feeling things touch seeing things smelling things I always tell like a Taurus who feels ungrounded to do some mindful eating where you like take you take like a piece of chocolate you hold it you smell it you know you're really like engaged with the chocolate you put it in your mouth let melt you know and this is like a mindfulness it's a meditation technique like with eating in your senses and so that really helps to ground Taurus because it brings them back in the present moment

because Taurus can get really lost in their head and they can get lost in fear they can get lost in insecurity they can get lost in like their worth and if they're worthy of where they are that's a big thing with Taurus is like working with your self-worth so they can get lost and when they get lost they get attached to their comfort zones where they don't want to like try new things they don't want to like venture out whereas like aquarius is always willing to like shatter comfort zone stuff just to kind of very uncomfortable even right now constantly uncomfortable constantly but like tauruses can you know they can they can stick to their get attached their comfort zone so they need to ground find their stillness find their

peace within from their senses and then from that place they can create right so the creation comes from stillness interesting yeah do you feel that any of that i feel everything about that except for getting stuck in comfort zones because i feel like i'm like i don't i embrace change a lot that's awesome yeah but other than that like very very spot on yeah yeah no that's good that's good so that's like the low sign of taurus so you're like you're not giving into the low side right so that's awesome yeah good for you all right so we heard i heard that venus was in retro you know people are like we're in retrograde and shit's going wrong yeah is that real mercury you mean oh yeah it's mercury so all planets go retrograde oh first of all they're not actually moving

backwards it's just an optical illusion so when we look at our sky like if you think of mercury which is the most common planet that goes into retrograde because three times a year mercury goes retrograde um so when we look at the sky like they're moving forward and when mercury is stationed retrograde it looks like it's moving backwards it's not actually moving backwards it's an optical illusion so that's like the first misnomer um and it mercury is interesting when mercury is retrograde mercury rules our systems and our communications so when your phone like breaks down it's when your phone breaks down exactly so the thing about mercury retrograde If things aren't perfectly aligned, it will break it.

So if your email server is not, you know, up to par, you know, or the back end of the code is a little off, it's going to break. People always say don't sign contracts during Mercury retrograde. That's, I think you can. You have to read them over, like, three times very carefully. And I always say, like, if it breaks, it's a good thing, right? Because we have a chance to rebuild and rebuild something that is much more in alignment. now that's just mercury retrograde and that's the one like everybody talks about it's like having its day like mercury it's like a cool trend i have i have a pillow from baron von fancy that

says mercury wasn't retrograde and it's right on my couch yeah because it's really common and it does it does affect like systems and stuff and i always tell people like if it breaks your computer your email server goes down your phone goes haywire take some deep breaths use it as a time to recenter yourself uh so that you can come back in alignment with your energy and then whatever you're dealing with that just broke will also come back into alignment so but all the other all each retrograde brings us something different uh retrogrades just spin the energy of the planet inward so the venus retrograde uh which is going on right now which everybody's been talking about venus is the planet of love and beauty and so where venus falls in your chart is going to dictate

how you love right and the things like you find beautiful all right so for instance like my venus is in leo so leo is like this big heart so like i love things but leo also loves like velvet and fashion so you know i love clothes or like i find like you know you're sort of like royal garments like beautiful you know it's a very venus and leo trait um so with venus retrograde it's like spinning that energy of love inward so I'm calling it like a return to love where we get to recalibrate and we get to return

to like what we love and you know what we find beautiful in the world Venus also represents the divine feminine so it's also like a return and a restoration of femininity and feminine power which is kind of interesting to see what's been

going on the last you know couple weeks while Venus has been in retrograde wow we launched our TV show so I think we all grew up reading like the back of a Cosmo Cosmo girl and being like oh my god what's my forecast like you want me to read you so how do you know when one of the girls wrote in and said like how do you spot a BS astrology project prediction and like what can you trust because it seems like they kind of pop up everywhere they kind of pop up everywhere um i did that too i read all of cosmos sorry i read all of cosmos um horoscopes myself those

are based on your sun signs so you know that's not gonna have anything to do with like where your moon is placed or your rising sign so that's the first thing to know um i always say if they seem over generalized they're probably bs all of those in the magazine you might be in contact with somebody from your past at some point like yeah yeah if they seem over generalized but they're like specific like that because astrology the way i think of it is that it's not really like this gypsy forecasting like you're gonna meet a dark stranger next right right under the moon um it's more like you know venus venus right now is like conjunct your natal venus so be open to opportunities for love right so to me it's an opportunity so if i was going to like write a horoscope it's like

these are your opportunities you know they have to do with like the sun this month um you know for the majority of this month is going to be in scorpio and how does your natal sun interact with the sun in scorpio right so it would be based more of that so if they're too over generalized where it's like this month's a great month for finances so what's a moon sign then if the sun sign is like aquarius the moon we can't figure it out this you gotta do your birth chart like my rising what does it like so the moon sign rules your emotions so the sun rules your core personality and the moon rules your emotions so the moon rules like your feelings yeah right and oftentimes it's not logical it's most of the times it's not logical so it's sort of like

um you know a kid having a tantrum where you can't like reason with them that's your moon your moon can act like that so i you know i always tell people if you're feeling anxious you're feeling depressed feeling elated look to your moon right your moon is the one that's actually controlling your emotions for the most part what is what does the rising represent the rising is that's also called your ascendant so that's a common question rising and ascendant are the same okay and that's the sign that was rising in the horizon when you were born and so that becomes your mask that you project outward and not mask like in a bad way but it's just like in a jim carrey way oh i love that movie like mine is a pisces i'm a pisces moon

oh there you go Pisces are very emotional so people are going to perceive you as a Pisces or perceive you as the energy of Pisces which is like going with the flow you know easy going which is kind of funny because you're a Capricorn

so true I'm super easy going people are probably like oh she's so easy until you're like and this and this my mother-in-law she says it about me all the time I'm just like, oh, my gosh, you're so easygoing. You just go with the flow.

Yeah. I'm like, you don't know what's going on in my head. Right. I have a question. So I just looked mine up, and my rising says Taurus, too. Is that correct, or did I do it wrong? No, it's probably. If you put in the right time.

Okay. Yeah, so you can be a double. So you're a double Taurus. What does that mean? That means you have a lot of Taurus. So you actually project, like, your core, which is nice for the people around you. Mm-hmm. Because you're going to be like, oh.

You are very, like, authentic. I'm pretty honest, I think, yeah. if you're kind of like what you get is what you get yeah yeah and i feel like when people's rising and suns match that's the comment like you're real you know you're an authentic person so like i i you know i knew you from the first minute i met you i knew who you were yeah i feel like i don't really put on a facade and i am very emotional so that makes sense yeah now the real most important question and this came from the lady gang is if your signs are not compatible is your relationship doomed no no no i get asked that question all the time and um it's so again

every sign every energy has a high side and a low side and so first of all if both people are embodying the high sides you're all good right yeah now there are some like general rules i like to tell people um but really like you have to factor in your moon sign because your moon rules your emotions right so when we're dealing with our relationships and especially our romantic relationships we really need to be comparing sun and moon and maybe even venus if we want to get technical because venus is that love component so you want to look at a lot of things so there's no easy answer okay i think you don't have to write like a blog series on this answer that would be great yeah yeah i do i do want to give like i do have some general rules like fire so you look at

the elements right so every sign has an element that goes with it um so like fire signs usually all get along right so aries leo sagittarius those generally good matches for people um you know your water signs generally get along water gets a little tricky because it's such an overly feminine sign like scorpio cancer pisces are very very feminine so you know you want to be careful with with that uh in relationships but you know generally they they get along pretty well uh earth signs generally get along pretty well virgo capricorn taurus uh and then our air signs aquarius can always be tricky in a relationship because they want their freedom right aquarius and sagittarius always want their freedom

uh those are the two freedoms i would hate to be married to me i feel i i i am very aware that it sucks to be my husband and that's okay like he still loves me but i'm like one of those people that's like don't bother me when i'm working don't bother when i'm reading like i need and like i'm gonna do what i'm gonna do and i'll see you when i see you like very much and he has to be a part of that you know what time is he uh he's april 25th april 25th So, he's a Taurus. Interesting. He's creative, I guess.

Okay. Yeah. It's more of a cusp, though. So, that's nice. Yeah. That's the thing I wanted to ask. Wait, can I ask about the babies? Oh, yeah.

So, my husband and I are now hung up on the whole thing. We had a friend send us a chart that, like, says when we should conceive because what signs are best for, like, our signs. So, now I'm really overwhelmed. She basically has, like, one period to get pregnant and then she has to wait a whole other week but we're all while we're 30 we're 30s so we don't have like years in between yeah no i know i know uh yeah tell us the truth uh is it real no i mean what is your so what's your husband's side he's a leo okay capricorn okay so that's an interesting mix fire and earth

it's a lot right so but you ground him so that's good right so fire you know is grounded by earth right so fire is interesting because air feeds fire right so you always want to think about how the elements interact when you're dealing with relationships right so that's that's the key to relationships um so you know when you have fire you have air feeding it which can work sometimes or it can make you bat shit crazy right but earth will will ground fire right so you actually ground your husband most likely um but you know for you guys to have you might not want to have a water sign oh shit so it is real well i mean there's like certain things like what pisces aquarius scorpio yeah yeah you might and it depends it depends why you have uh because water will really

dampen the fire oh damn you don't want to dampen the fire becca but not as flame so if you imagine like we've got earth we've got fire we throw a bucket of water on it what happens yeah fires out and you're left with mud oh god this is getting like really bad really but it's okay because mud you know you can always spin it and that's the thing it's like you can always you can always find the high side so mud can be detoxifying and it also can be very fertile so you know it can be good but a water sign might dampen your husband's fire a little bit which he may need i don't know your husband i was just gonna say not the worst thing yeah he might need that air may you know like if you have a girl and she's an air sign i mean you know

he she could really drive him nuts like in teenage years you know you could see that you could see that going a little crazy but what sign were you told to have or what sign are you trying for they said we would be good with a sagittarius he would be good with sagittarius yeah would i not be you would be i have an interesting dynamic with sagittarius yeah when signs fall next to each other because sagittarius is right next to capricorn that's what happens really you can get along with them but you also so signs are like an evolution so capricorn is actually the evolution of Sagittarius so it's like you can understand it but in a lot of ways

you're like aren't you done with this yet right wow it could be really good as a child because you know you'd be teaching you'd be like the mentor but if you don't have that mentor relationship it may not be like a good match

this is fascinating the last thing before we go to ask the lady gang I know there's so much to talk about the difference between between sort of what you've learned from Chinese medicine and Western medicine as far as self-care and taking care of ourselves and our emotional health. And I mean, listen, that's a whole other podcast, I know. But yeah, I think it's really, I think it's just such an interesting, fascinating

world. Yeah. So the difference between, I think the main difference between Eastern and Western medicine is that Eastern medicine is nonlinear. So in Western medicine, it's like A causes B causes c causes d causes e which is why you know when you take a pharmaceutical you know when you prescribe something you get tons of side effects because they're only looking at like well a causes b so let's you know treat a and they're not understanding infection that follows exactly exactly so you'll take this pill to get rid of your thing and then you'll take these 17 pills and rub this cream on so that your vagina isn't on fire exactly so eastern medicine um you know and naturopathic medicine, uh, and osteopathic medicine, they look at the entire body. It's

holistic. And so if you envision like that, A, B, C, D, you know, it's in a circle. So it's like everything is connected to everything. A is connected to B, D, E, F, C, all of them. Um, and so they treat the body that way. And that's, that's probably like the biggest difference. And I agree with like holistic. Now if I'm having a heart attack, I'm going to go to the hospital. right right but you gotta know when to go with which yeah i'm gonna go to my acupuncturist to you know help prevent it uh and i've read some really interesting stories upon like hands-on healing and stuff they've done some insane studies with like hands-on healing like clearing blocked arteries you know where people were supposed to go in for heart surgery the next day and they

get to the surgery and the surgeon's like pissed off because why is this person here oh my god time you know wow you know what's real crazy though right um i had a really bad car accident in april of this past year and someone suggested oh you should go to this acupuncturist and she helped me after my accident and she did um a fear release treatment on me and yeah and i was like this is so stupid i don't really have time for this like this you know like because i wasn't necessarily in the pain you know but she was like i when you have something like happen to you your body holds on to that fear and it's locked in your muscles and they like kind of release it exactly and i felt so much better after like i was weeping because it was just like it was very

emotional yeah we hold stuff in our muscles we hold energy and that's so crazy it's like we're dealing with energy we're energetic beings um we forget that and we really live within the world you know in the quantum realm in many ways it's like we we should really be basing everything off of quantum physics when we're even dealing with like medicine and psychology and we're so far from that uh but we're energetic beings and you know this energy we don't understand it it's just that simple it's like we don't not know what's going on sorry guys great well i'm so capable circle yeah thank you for coming on the league but we can create and that's why i teach people about intentions and you know working with intentions because you know this energy is

malleable and like we can create anything we want with our minds it's insane like the sky is the limit it's not even the sky's limit like let's go with aquarius like there is no limit i mean i talk to my plants and i know that it makes them grow and when they're hurting when they have mealy bugs or brown leaves i talk to them and then they heal yeah oh yeah i know that's not don't laugh at me becca it's true it's true i just laugh because you can't get on board with So she's like the least, I don't know, fuddy-duddy, like woo-woo person. Yeah. But this one thing with the plants, it's like, I'm like, I feel like that's the biggest,

the hardest concept to grasp. But you are there. You don't care what your sign is. She's the one thing. She's there. She's a believer. She's a progressive. She's a progressive.

There's people out there that play their plants classical music, like huge farms and stuff, and it keeps the bugs away. They don't have to use like chemicals or fertilizer. No, I'll walk in and my energy will flow. you up but i will talk to my plants she doesn't give a shit about anybody else but she loves her plants i love it you could take it one step further and give love to the water before you oh i read hidden messages in water i know yeah that is kind of weird you take the water like i don't know if you have a picture or something yeah to your heart and actually send love from

your heart into the water and then water your plants with that water oh my god i'm done okay i send love to people that i hate i know it's a really hard thing to do it's really good i think you taught me that it is it's really good for you it changed everything it's very weird it's called meta that's what they call it vipassana meditation meta loving kindness and so look it up too because there's a whole thing you can do where you like say may you be happy may you be free you know you wish them you see them you envision them in their happiest state and you can do it to anybody but it's good for you and your energetic field to do it to people who you resent or you hate right Because it'll clear those vibrations out of you.

It's all about getting rid of those low vibrations. We want to raise our vibe. That song, Good Vibrations, really knew what they were talking about. Some beach boys. Oh, my God. When we come back, Jill's going to fix your life because she just told us that nothing we do matters. No, she told us that we can manifest.

And we can also bless our LaCroix before we drink it. I just kissed my empty bottle of LaCroix. I did not realize it was empty. Okay, so for this part of our podcast, we have our listeners write in questions, and we try to give them advice. It's usually bad, but now we have you, and I feel better about it. Are these questions astrologically based or just life questions? Life questions. So we can get questions.

Yeah, we can just get your general opinion. Godspeed. Godspeed. All right. First question was from Anonymous. She says, my boyfriend has always been super close with his mom, which I always thought was so sweet. But now it's become slightly, quote, very annoying. Take last week. He was sick. And after being in class all day, I rushed over to his house with $50 worth of treats and medicine. Did I hear anything afterwards? No. Only about how amazing his mom is for bringing him soup and how it was the best part of his day. He'll also go over there regularly. And if he has a bad day to get a neck massage from her. am i a bitch for thinking this is weird and being annoyed by it what it was the neck massage really threw it over the edge for me it's like soup girl tell her to bring you a cup yeah so men have very interesting relationships with her with their mothers so weird um so weird they um they have to deal with them at their own time at their own pace and some men really have a hard time

detaching from their mothers um and it takes you know therapy and a couple years of it to to really do it um i would not recommend she try and sever the bond or she like get you never get in between a man and his mother right um not good so but for her you know what she can do is ask for appreciations from him and sort of instill it's not a rule but just a relationship suggestion like hey how about every day we tell each other three things we appreciate about one another and so for her that might just shift some of the energy that he's giving to his mother to her and then you know when when she runs and brings him lots of treats you know then maybe she'll at least get appreciated for it if they have this suggestion what is it with guys and their moms though

why was his mom giving him an neck massage yeah i mean it just depends it's usually the mother it's usually the mother who set up the relationship from the beginning i mean there's all kinds of of things that can occur um you know between you know maybe he's the first son or maybe you know his father left or you know maybe like there's all there's all kinds of things and it's it's always the mother and men typically don't want to disappoint their mother because they respect their mother which is a good thing you know you want your your man to respect his mother because that means he respects women you know that's his model right there so it's very tricky do you think it's true that men are looking for someone like their moms freud would definitely say yes really

freud would say yes um if they haven't worked out their mother issues then yes and we all do that We all look for repeating cycles so that we can break our traumas and heal, right? So that's why we often end up dating the same guy over and over again until we heal the part of us that needs to be healed. And we do this, you know, with everybody. So if we had issues with our father, we do this. If we had issues with our mother, you know, we'll pick friends, like even, you know, that replicate what our mother did to us. You know, we might find ourselves, you know, in a situation where we're friends with somebody for four years and you look at it and go, you're giving me the same shit my mother gave me my entire life. You know, and then it's like you click.

So we'll create these situations that are circular patterns. So something keeps showing up in your life. If you find yourself saying the same thing over and over again, like everybody does this to me, you know, then it's usually you. Sorry. And it's usually you're attracting the pattern. You're interacting the same situation over and over again so that you can heal, so that you can figure it out, break free of the energy, break free of the energetic attachment, release it, and move on. Your energy is going to call in what you need to heal, what you need to raise that vibration. Sorry, Anonymous.

We have nothing to say about this. Jill gave you the full rundown. I'm very happy with that answer, Jill. Okay, our second question comes from Maggie. This is kind of long, but it's good. She says, so I recently moved to New York City and started going on dates with this guy that I actually knew from an ex. It was a sticky situation, but also really nice to be with a familiar face. We went on about three dates, and things were going really well, and I definitely had a crush.

I go back to his place with him after a date, and we end up having sex. And it was all great, I thought. He definitely finished, and we passed out. A few hours later, I wake up in the middle of the night to the bed shaking a bit. I turned over, and he was lying there masturbating next to my sleeping body. I was so shocked and confused, I couldn't really form words, and he basically was like, oh, sorry, I got horny, and I didn't want to wake you. I sort of rolled back over and pretended to fall asleep, and the next morning acted like nothing happened.

But we had only hung out three times. I was not this comfortable with him. So after days passed, I knew this was not okay and not normal, and I'm very disturbed. He recently texted me asking me to go out again, and I don't even know how to word how I'm feeling. What do I do? the thought of telling him makes me feel nauseous i mean maybe he has a crazy sex drive and he just needed to masturbate he probably has a crazy sex drive yeah or maybe he has a thing with masturbation you know i mean i think it's like from his point of view it's okay yeah like i feel

like we're very um put off by different sexual things that people have and everybody's like entitled to their own sexual experience now for her though she has the right to say i'm not comfortable with right yeah and not feel guilty about it uh and not feel judged for it you know it's just boundaries i did have a question for her because she's like he finished like did she because that's the important part you know it's just like she you know she has a right to her own opinion yeah right i'm happy with that that's totally fine you know i think there's a thing that girls think that if a guy masturbates that he wasn't like sexually satisfied yeah and as i've gotten older i've realized that

it actually the two things are so separate they're so separate that and then also i was watching i was watching love island and oh my god jack this is not the bible you can't only just like shitty like british reality show whatever but anyways but there's this one couple that the guy lost his boner a couple times and she thought it was because he wasn't attracted to her it caused this huge fiasco but there are a bunch of those different types of things that have nothing to do with you when you're young you don't really know that yeah it's you yeah it's it's not you it's not you right you know it's your moon it's your moon it's your mother it's your mommy issues but it could be your moon i mean it could be you know astrologically

you know compatibility i mean you can look at lots of different things but i think when women are younger they blame themselves for like anything that they find different in in the bedroom and everybody has a different sexual experience everybody's entitled to it and it's not you right now it's not your fault you didn't do anything right but you do have the right to say i don't yeah i mean if she's uncomfortable she's uncomfortable she should say something exactly but i don't think that's like a wrong thing zach would masturbate every time he wanted to have sex instead you know what i mean yeah like wait until you're married you're like this to be a blessing. You'd be like, thank you. And you'd be like, that sex was great. I laid there

in my sweats. That was amazing. And watch sleep TV. You good? I'm good. Great. Ideal. Okay. Last question is titled to move or not. I am 24 and we'll be marrying my fiance next month. We've been together forever. He's my best friend. We went to an out of state school two hours from home. The plan was that we always move home after school. My fiance ended up getting a job somewhere else and i went with him much to my parents dismay we have had so much fun and we love to travel and experience different things as much as i didn't want to leave home this move has helped me grow and helped us become even more of a team now he said he wants to go live in colorado which is a whole flight away from my mom and my dad he says he wants a different experience he wants to

experience another place for a couple years before we move home and settle down i had always planned to study abroad which didn't happen because my parents didn't want me to go so now do i agree to live out west for a while or do i choose to be near my family which was always the plan well what does she want to do a plans can change um and this actually sound like i would love another signs so this actually does sound like an astrological question really um because my guess is like he's like a sagittarius or something or has sagittarius in his chart and she may have like taurus in her chart or something this is you know where we see comfort zones yeah going home and stuff show up when there's like prevalent taurus in the chart or

like another earth sign um so you know that would be interesting but you know it comes down again like what does she want to do like he wants to have this life like what does she want to do i would suggest that she meditate like every day for 15 minutes or so in the morning with herself she can do a very simple meditation she can get an app there's tons of them out there now uh to you know do a guided meditation and journal and really you know write down like what what she feels what she wants you know um and try to understand herself and what she really wants because it sounds like she doesn't know yeah sorry i didn't catch her name but sorry she didn't have a name anonymous um you know it's just like she's going with this guy you know

what he wants and then she's you know the pull is between the guy or the parents and it's like well what do you want yeah i wish that i had spent more time like traveling around and not trying to settle down like i was very drawn to like i need to set up my life and like you're 24 like don't try to like yeah if they can bounce around now it'd be yeah go do it but that's the thing only if she wants to like she didn't say at all what she wants in this and it's kind of like we had this plan but now my boyfriend's sort of doing this and this and that and i'm following him i think it's great to travel and especially live in other cities if you can but if that's not what you want then that's not what you want it's what she wants she has to align with her

intuition uh and her soul and figure out what her path is and so you know maybe it's to travel maybe it's to go home but she needs maybe just to go somewhere totally different you know maybe she wants to move to la i don't know who doesn't last important question tell us about our little spirit daughter moon kits you brought us journals yeah what are these are um these are yours right yeah so i write wait who's this for you uh so the moon workbooks i write two of them a month they're based on the sign the moon is in so they're not based on your personal sign so they're for everybody no matter your sign uh and how they're written is you know they really are to help clarify what you want like the intention behind them is for you to figure out what you

want what your soul wants uh what you're aligned with and they use they utilize you know the energy coming to us through the moon so like yesterday for instance was the full moon and taurus so this big beautiful full moon and you know we have taurus and it was opposing the sun which is in scorpio and so the opportunity on every full moon is to release the opportunity on every new moon is to set your intention so on new moons you dream you decide what you want you get into your subconscious because the veil is lowered because of the new moon you understand who you are like that question that we just answered like i would suggest she you know really practice on the new moon understanding who she is the full moon is when we release the low vibes that are

blocking us from our dreams right so the new moon we set the intentions the full moon we do the work that we need to do to break down the barriers within us that are preventing the energy we're trying to attract kelty this is you're gonna really love this because in these beautiful books that everybody needs to get it's like there's journal like you can journal it has like kind of like it's so pretty too but it also has some quotes oh we've got an inspirational quote the unknown is a place of limitless potential boom drop the bomb where can everyone find everything if they don't live in la and they can't make it to venice oh well they can go online spiritdaughter.com okay you can also go on instagram at spirit daughter and the instagram

I'm going to give you tons of information just on the moon signs. It'll familiarize you with what's the current moon sign. I do little astro talks and tell people, like, today's a great day to do this. So I teach really about, like, the collective astrology, like what's going on for everybody. I like that. Yeah. That's cool. So for everybody right now, the sun is in Scorpio and the moon is in Taurus.

Okay. And what's the Instagram? The same? Spirit Daughter. Spirit Daughter. These workbooks are real, real cute. I know. It's really cute.

Thank you so much for coming. I mean, you have to come back again because I know we're going to have like 100 more questions after this. It's going to be insane. I want to find my moon and all that good stuff. Yeah, thank you for having me. Thanks for coming. Okay, guys. Well, my little Tauruses and Scorpios, make sure you follow us at The Lady Gang, at Becca Hickelty, at Jack Vanek.

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