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Episode Date: July 29, 2025

Botox Gone Wrong, Birthday Sex & Angel Numbers. This Is Chaos. In this emotional rollercoaster of a Good Week, Bad Week episode, Keltie’s Botoxed lip is spiraling, Becca’s planning (and panicking about) her Leo husband’s epic 40th birthday, and Jac is deep in the post-surgery struggle of being gaslit by yet another doctor. The girls dive into everything from lymphatic facial massage, home saunas, and vibrators in Ibiza to the haunting magic of angel number 11:11. It’s raw, it’s hilarious, it’s healing—and somehow includes mythical creatures, red light therapy, and a reminder that no one else is looking at your forehead wrinkles but you.We have summer deals for YOU!!Boll & Branch: Get new summer bed sheets! Get 20% off PLUS free shipping on your first set of sheets at BollAndBranch.com/ladygangCornbread CBD: Need some relief? Get 30% off your first order at CornbreadHemp.com/lady and use code LADYOld Navy : Need summer activewear? Shop in store OR online at OldNavy.comSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

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The Lady Gang. Things are about to change around here. Each week, we catch up with Hollywood's hottest girl posse, Kelty Knight, Becca Tobin, and Jack Vanek. Hello, hello, hello. Welcome to Lady Gang. I am Becca Tobin, I'm with Jack Vanek and Kelty Knight. Hello. Hello, everyone. Hi, guys. Woo! Wow.

You okay? Well, my Botox lip is getting worse. I kind of noticed that, actually. What are we going to do? How is it getting worse? How long has it been since you got it? i got the botox before abiza oh so it's been a few weeks kind of fresh ish i feel like two weeks is when it peaks it is okay yeah that makes sense hopefully it's not permanent nerve damage it could be dude one time i got botox in my in my chin same thing but i got it for like

the wrinkly chin which is so stupid because that's just literally what chins do and it made like an indent in my chin that lasted for like nine months it was really weird like the muscles like atrophied strangely and it took so long for it to come back not to freak you out but you'll be fine yeah i mean we're taking a lot of liberties with where we're injecting botox these days a hundred percent she basically does my whole face yeah i'm like side of the nose chin Yeah. Sided like all like just a sprinkle. And I'm just like, are we, we're freezing my whole face. And yeah, crazy. Maybe I just do the OGs. I do the forehead and the crow's feet. And then my masters. You want to know something so crazy? What? So my best friend, Katie is a massage

therapist and has been doing it for 15 years. And she is a big believer in facial massage and like lymphatic facial massage and facial yoga. She's the same age as me. She's three months younger than me, she doesn't have any wrinkles and she's never done Botox. She's never done anything. She just does facial massage and facial stuff. She's like, I mean, she lives a different kind of life, you know, a slower life, a little bit of a slower life. Sure. But when you guys see her skin anyway, so she's going to teach like a lymphatic facial massage class on the beach where she can teach you how to like, she wants to do it on the beach so she can show that you can do it anywhere but like all the little tips of like how you can get everything moving in your

face I'm like well I could have used those tips when I was 18 thanks for nothing yeah I mean I believe facial massage and those things can help but like I've had deep set wrinkles in my forehead since I was a child so yeah like I don't think but anything but Botox would have really remedied that I do believe though that like I'm doing a lot of Botox in places that I probably could every day, pay a little attention to and like not have so much tension. Yeah. But who has time for that? You know? No, I'm like, it's something you have to do literally all the time every day. And it's like, I don't have that. And it's so much of it is genetics. One million percent. Everything is genetics. Anytime anybody's like, I did this and this is what happened. I'm like, it's because

you have good genetics, period, done. It's true. But it does feel good to lymphatically drain your face. Like I, I definitely notice a difference. Like, I don't know. Have you guys ever had a lymphatic massage? Like the results don't last. It's really good if you're going to a wedding or a red carpet or like you've just, are you maybe a photo shoot? Not that everyone has those things. Well, I used to the like probably like nine months leading up to my wedding. I number one started sleeping on an incline, not like a big one, but just like with my head up a little bit. And then I did facial massage in the shower every single morning. And the difference between my face waking up like first thing in the morning, I used to be so puffy, like where my mouth

probably felt like yours does Kelsey, but it was just like fluid buildup just from like sleeping and my face just getting like disgusting, but it did help. Do you know what I also think about all the time when I'm like, Oh my God, like I got to fit in the the lymphatic before I do this thing or the, this or the, that I'm like, I've never looked at anybody's face and noticed anything. No. Like anything about anybody or anything about anybody. Like, it's so crazy. We spend so much time being like, Oh, it made such a difference. And it's like, to me, I literally, I I'm very, actually very proud of myself. Cause over the past couple of years, I've kind of like, let it go. Me too. I've let go of the obsession. Like I haven't done

anything other than Botox in years and I'm just like you know what it is what it is it's the face I've been given I'll get a facelift at some point but like until then it's like I'm not going to spend like four thousand dollars on Sculptra to like see a minimal difference right you know yeah I know I vacillate between the two things like sometimes I'll just be like I am who I am and I'll go many many months of just like doing nothing and then one day I wake up and I'm like I'm a hideous beast and then I'll do everything and you know drop thousands of dollars but but I always have to remind myself like right now it's the end of summer I have been indulging like a crazy bitch I have not done anything my hair my growth of my grays is beyond I just look like

to me I feel gross but really I have to keep reminding myself nobody is looking at me the way that I'm looking at myself like nobody has me under a microscope the way I have myself under a microscope i'm having to give myself pep talks because we're going to tahoe oh for zach's um 40th actually let's make this a good week bad week because i want to talk about the 40th all right it's time for good week yes it is bad week oh no so you guys know that i went to the lady gang for advice because i married a leo and leo's notoriously love their birthdays they are the king of the jungle jennifer lopez released a second she's on tour right now she released a second birthday song she did an entire tour for her for her birthday wait she did a tour sorry

she did a tour for her birthday a bunch of years ago that was like it's my birthday i think it was like her 40th or her 50th i can't remember i think it might have been her 50th and then her birthday is now right because it's yes leo season and leo season and she released a second single like she already had a birthday song like years ago and now she's a new birthday song she just released it i saw it on instagram i love jennifer lopez i love her so much she's so indulgent if this does not prove that leos are obsessed with their birthdays i don't know what does she leo yeah oh yeah this is in a nutshell this is if zach were a singer performer whatever he'd be doing my birthday tour and my birthday song that's so funny because i just like don't see that in his

personality not at all doesn't like come across i'd be like this feels so weird if i saw it like in the wild it's a hidden poker hand of yes so confident he's like but what are we doing for my birthday i know i don't know what it is i think wait sorry i have a question yeah so he like loves his birthday he doesn't want to plan it like he wants to be surprised and have somebody else plan it for him no he really doesn't like to be surprised because he's the planner he's a very like control freak type A person, but he wants something special. It's such a difference. That sounds like me. It is you. It's you with your birthday. Like how you go on like an insane birthday trip every year.

Like I'm 36. I'm going to, you know, Antarctica. But I planned mine. I would have loved if Jared, I'm too particular. I'm like, I just got to do it myself. Yeah. You can't, you can't, being married to someone like that is the kiss of death, just trying to plan anything. So he, you know, I've been going, I went back and forth and back and forth and it's just such a crazy time of year to be planning anything. And I decided we have friends, thank God for fancy friends. They have a stunning house in Lake Tahoe and it's like, looks like being in europe the lake is like tahoe what is it so it's it's northern yeah it's in

california oh i like thought it was like in well it's connected to reno yeah so it's like nevada california mountains or is it flat mountains mountains but then there's this massive lake lake tahoe and it looks like you're in europe like it's it's it's not one of those brown lakes that you think of when you think of a lake and it's a big ski destination like you can they really good skiing there uh so so we've decided to do a bunch of couples meet in Tahoe and have a weekend together and I think it's perfect because there's going to be a day of golf for the guys and there's a casino nearby which is super fun so one of the nights we're going to go to dinner at the casino and like have a fun night out and then the other one they have this

like crazy house on the lake with a wrapping porch and like they're bringing in a chef and it's gonna be and i don't have to do much i mean i i completely dropped the ball though so i was i should have gone to the lady gang for this this is so dumb i needed to you know they have like sayings for people's 40th yeah yeah like you know hell and yeah but like incorporating their name into it oh i i was trying so hard i wanted to get like custom cups made for us to have on the boat. Zach's big bash. Yes. So I just, I completely dropped, I had analysis paralysis. I couldn't make a decision. And I was like, Zach's also very picky about things like that. He'll make like logos for my friends, like matches that

they have in their house. Like he's so particular and I'm like, I'm just going to make something shitty and it's going to be an ugly logo and ugly colors. And so I didn't, but I did get these tattoos made. And there's two pictures. One is a baby picture of Zach. And the other one is when Zach was at his peak hotness with like an eight pack when we started dating and we were in Italy together. Is it a tattoo of his body? Yeah. He's like on the, on the, on the edge of a boat, like leaning back and he looks just, you know, it's really smoke show. So anyways, that's my good week. I will report back because I am leaving in two days to do that. I'm super excited thank you for all the feedback everyone um what sexual favors are you gonna do do you

have like outfit planned i knew this was gonna be something i should have thought about but no i think it's weird to have crazy sex in a house that you're sharing with other people don't you know it's your birthday you have to do something just don't should i borrow something from my mom oh my god do you have to have an outfit i feel like men right now men would just be happy with the sex right how is that many different from the side do i just have to perform better oh i think you just need to have sex period oh yeah sex i'm saying it's birthday sex i feel like you need to amazon yourself you need to amazon yourself a treat like it doesn't whatever it is it's just like i brought because it's like the thought this is my personal opinion the thought of like you

pre-thought about like i did this in ibiza i got actually the girls gotta eat girls um after we announced them to lady world i was like oh they have that vibrator line and i like went on and i was like wait they have a lot of vibrators so i got like a new vibrator and i brought it even though i have like a 10 vibrators and i like unpacked it and i was like i got something new for the trip and chris was like so excited you know so it's like can you amazon on yourself like a tiny little new something yeah that's a great idea and just be like and like wrap it and be like okay here's your real birthday present and it's like yeah it's just sex again but it's like you've been married a long time you got to keep it you gotta switch it up i see but

you just have to like act like i was thinking like you know what i mean well and men will be excited about this like smallest shit when it comes to sex too yeah exactly okay well i'll do that. Sorry, dude. You want me to send you a link? Send me a link. Okay. Use my affiliate code. I will. Code Kelty for 20% off. Perfect. Okay. And just my bad week is that, you know, we've been gone all month. We've been gone since the beginning of time and we've been away from the house. Last summer, I had a nervous breakdown about two weeks into doing this whole operation because Ford was at such a tough age at that age. I have to say I did not hit my limit until yesterday.

And it has been over a month of being out of our house. And I am very proud of myself. It's probably the antidepressants, but I was very, very nervous. But I did hit my limit yesterday and it was horrible. What did you do? She had a back down. I did. it is it is I I sent some text messages to Zach wait is he not with you right now no he is we

were actually at the lake with his family when this happened he was on the boat and I was just having I had just gotten off of zoom for lady world I was sitting in this lake house for a lot of the time we were there like doing stuff for lady world which I knew all right honey no it's not anybody's fault and like quite frankly I it's I I wouldn't have done it any differently it actually gave me like a little bit of a break to like be by myself and go in a room by in a quiet room, whatever. But I got off of zoom yesterday. And I was just thinking I, we had one more trip planned after Tahoe, like, and it was the one that Zach was looking the most forward to. And I unleashed the beast. And I said, I'm canceling our flights. I can't do this anymore.

Even our kid is asking, he literally is like, when are we going back to Texas to my house? like my kid who's being spoiled by family members and gone in like 8 million different pools and beaches and boats and whatever. So he is, but he's like, I need my home. And so do I. And so I canceled something. And so now I'm definitely gonna have to order vibrators. You got to make it up for him. There you go. That's a lot of trips in a row. It's insane. Even if I'm doing like no matter where what I'm doing if it's for work or play there comes a time where like my anxiety is so high that I'm like I have to get home I don't even know why but like I have to yeah you just hit your limit you hit your limit and and it was like the week before all this

vacation started I was doing the Wyndham um right the Wyndham stuff so I've been doing stuff with the hotel group and I go all summer yeah so I have I've got so many sky miles which is great but I also am ready to never leave my house again. Yeah. Woof. Happy summer. We'll be home soon. Calling all fans of heated rivalry.

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don't miss it heated rivalry author rachel reed thursday october 13th massey hall get your tickets at masseyhall.com now back to the lady gang my good week is i officially have my sauna set up in my house oh you got one i got one i got one for from this brand called health me they're amazing i had unfortunately it has to be an indoor sauna and i don't have much indoor space so it's sitting in my garage right now which is fine you know yeah that's where you're gonna do it right yeah yeah it's like right when you like enter my garage so it's not like well you know of course I wanted to make everything a thing and make it like a spa in there but it's just the sauna but I'm so

excited I've been using it like three times a week and I just love it I love to sweat is it one person or two two oh yeah but Jared hates being hot so he probably will never go that means you can lie down and that's important that's the one thing I regret about my little home sauna it's like a sit-up one and I like I put my legs up like a v like I'm in a coach seat on the southwest yeah I'm like my vag is just out and I'm like I would love to lay down but it's fine yeah um well I read when I'm in there so but and then I was trying to bring my kindle in for a little bit I'm like this doesn't seem right you know what you have to make you jack you have to make a line in the sand of like sauna is not for electronics. Oh yeah. You know what I mean?

I don't bring my phone in there, but I didn't have a physical book. And I'm like, let's see if the sauna, I mean, it was fine, but I'm like, it's probably not fine. There's times where I brought my phone in and I was like, I can just like sit here and do emails. And like, while I sweat and I'm just like, you know what? This is healing. This is free. This is you time. No, I know. But reading is healing too. Like I love reading in a sauna, but I bought, and you know what book I bought Kelty a physical book remarkably bright creatures that's gonna be my sauna book are you reading it right now I haven't started it I just got it from mail did you read it Becca yeah yeah you know they're doing a movie with Sally Field um well that's my

good week um so my bad week is you know that I keep having these like uh stomach problems stomach issues I got my fibroid removed I thought I'd have relief it's just been worse than ever I'm more bloated than I ever was my constipation is crazy and so the other day I was like so right after my surgery like two weeks after I noticed there was like this like line this like lump by my belly button and I'm like oh that must be like scar tissue they like literally took the fibroid out of my belly button and it's just gotten worse since then and I finally thought about it the other day and I'm like maybe I should go get like a lymphatic massage and like have her see what's going on she went in there and she's like you have so much scar tissue around

your stomach it's like crazy and then I was like you can like feel it when she's massaging so much like all over like across my belly button and underneath my belly button and I can see it like I look at I like will do a profile in the mirror and I have like a little lump around my belly button that was never there before surgery and it just appeared right after so I'm like it has to scar tissue. And so I wrote my surgeon that did the fibroid surgery and they had a she had a cancellation yesterday. So I went in to see her. I've never been dismissed more in my life than I was by this doctor. She looked at me. She's like, you look fine. She's like, No, I don't I don't see anything. I'm like, Can you like feel my stomach? And like, give me like a physical exam. And she's

like, she presses my stomach ever so lightly. And she's like, No, you look good. It looks so great. And I'm like, this is again, like the 10th doctor that has gaslit me about my health shit. And it just like pisses me off. When you look online of like what, I guess my question is like, what do you do if there is scar tissue? Like what is, or what is, what could go wrong if there's scar tissue? Cause like, that's a normal thing to happen post-surgery.

So it can like cause adhesions, like it can adhere to your organs and stuff. so and I have something going on in my lower right stomach too like when she was pressing all of my stomach it was like gas bubbles fluid like there's like something going on and that never I never felt before my surgery and um of course I'm asking chat gbt I'm like throwing in every like little symptom that I have and it was like it kept leading back to like scar tissue maybe like adhesions I mean you can like it's self-massage and getting like lymphatic massages to like break it up and you can wash it and like dry needle and like all that kind of stuff just to try to break it up. And then if it's bad and it's like adhering to an organ, you have to get it removed, which is

like extreme and insane. Cause then it can cause more scar tissue. So it's like, now that you're saying this, there was a friend of a friend had her appendix taken out and years and years before she got pregnant. And then she delivered her baby at 26 weeks, which is like barely viable. I mean, it's like it is viable but it is like very dangerous yeah and they found out if she had scar the baby survived thank god but she had scar tissue from her appendectomy really yeah that i guess was like getting in the way of the baby being able to continue to grow in her uterus this is exactly why i'm like i need to figure this shit out before i try to get pregnant because it's like yeah i i don't know what's i mean i think i know what's going on and of course

I asked chat, I'm like, does this seem like something serious to you? And they're like, no, everything I get, you're explaining just seems like it's probably like a scar tissue issue, but it's so insane going to the doctor and being like, I started crying in the doctor's office because she was so, she like, wasn't taking me seriously, totally disregarding me. Wouldn't, I'm like, can you please touch my stomach? Like refuse to touch my stomach. And then just like sent me on my way. She's like, there's nothing I can do. I took the fibroid out and like, whatever. And didn't even like refer those. It was crazy. It was crazy. And I hate doctors sometimes. That Therabody, um, red light thing that I'm giving you for your TMJ, you should do

it there. Cause my friend's son actually had a face injury and he used it. The doctor was like, use it like three times a day to make sure there's no like permanent scar tissue. And she said it was amazing. And even the, even the doctor was like, this is going to make it so we don't have to actually do any surgery because it was so it's all like yeah like manual and then you can do pelvic floor therapy I have heard from and I had so many girls reach out to me in my dms that have had not like with myomectomies but like with c-sections or like other like abdominal surgeries like the same kind of thing going on and it's just so crazy my doctor's like there's no way it could be that I'm like like it's so insane you know jack like I actually it's so funny

it's not funny it's so sad i'm so sorry you're going through this i did a i got randomly reached out to by this magazine in the uk or a newspaper in the uk called the independent and i actually did an interview with them yesterday because they were like doing a women's health thing and they wanted to talk about like a year post hysterectomy and it was interesting because i looked up like my notes from my journal and i just feel so much sadness for you because it's such a frustrating process. Like I remember when I was, and I was talking about this and I was kind of going back over it with the girl and I was like, yeah. And then like, I'd be like, oh, my thyroid. And then I'd be like, oh, and then I have mono and then I have, and like all these, and like, then I have

hives and then I have these things. And like, and then I remembered in this journal entry when I went to a doctor and I was like, I'm just so tired. I don't feel good. I don't feel good. And they were like, you have chronic fatigue syndrome. And they're like, what do you do for that? And they're like, nothing. And you're just like, but, and so, you know, you just have to keep going, but I would say the thing that you have to keep in mind is that it is all connected. And I think you know that, you know, it's like this scar tissue with the gas, like those are probably not together, but it's like, you're, I think what I've learned through this journey is that like, it's, it's everything. So like the thyroid is off because the blood is off because

the health is off because you're eating wrong, you're drinking wrong, you're sleeping wrong, your, you know what I mean? And then like, what part of it is, is genetic? What part of it is something you can change? What part of it is, you know, all of it. And I think I just wish health for you because I was in the same place as you a few years ago when I was going to all these doctors and I was like, I just don't feel good. I feel like something's off. I feel like, and no one was listening. And it's, it's just like, yeah, you just cry. You get in your car after the thing and you're just like, I know like deep in my soul, I can feel it that I am not my best self. Like I have lived on this planet long enough. We're late thirties where I have like been out. I've been on

vacations where I woke up and I felt good. You know what I mean? Like I felt fine and now I don't, and no one's taking me seriously. And it's just a really hard place to be. Just keep, keep going and keep looking at, at, for a whole health journey, like a whole health thing. And like, you will get there, you know, just don't give up. It's so frustrating. And I hear you, you just have to keep going and like fight for your own wellness. And you'll never feel a hundred percent because once you get over all of this, something else is going to go wrong. But you know, it's like, you, it's just, I don't know why we're so gaslit, but it just, that's what happens. So just keep going. And I'm proud of you and I'm sorry, you're going through this. It really sucks.

No, it's, it's, I mean, it's not fine, but it's just, it's so annoying. Cause it's like, all I wanted was relief. And I'm like, I'll have relief after surgery. And then it's like, relief just never came. And it's like gotten worse. And that's just the one thing that I've realized over the past couple of years. It's like, you can't, I mean, doctors are amazing when they're amazing, but it's like, you have to advocate for yourself over and over and over again, or else nothing, nobody's going to listen to you. The only doctor that has ever listened to me is my naturopath. Like that has actually helped and like taken me seriously and has looked at my body and like a full body approach. Obviously other doctors have their specialties. They're not going

to like, she's not going to know why I have hives, but like, I had to run around town. I was just talking about this yesterday with that file folder and I'd take it to the gyno and I'd be like, here's what the other three doctors are saying. And she'd be like, Oh, interesting. And then I take it to the naturopath and then I took it to the blood doctor and then I took it. And finally, I like remember begging my gynecologist to call the oncologist and get on the phone with the naturopath so they could all compare notes. And that's when they finally decided. And like, I'm a new person. Like I feel so alive after my surgery. So it's like, but like I had to go around with like every resort result printed in a paper because they don't talk to each other

you know it's so annoying yeah well and i think for doctors too i mean it's not their fault they get 10 minutes with you and they see what they see in that moment and she's probably like a surgeon is like their priority is to take care of the thing that is that needs to be taken care of and as long as you're worried about scar tissue no she's like she's looking at my incisions and she's like those look great the fibroids out and like you're period done yeah but it is just I mean I just wish she would have taken me a little bit seriously and been like here's a referral or like you could go see this person and maybe they could help you or like maybe it could be something but she I mean I'm going to see a GI doctor in September took me like six months to get an

appointment but you know just the grind so fun never-ending sorry yeah person's gonna have a lot of answers for you because I feel like a lot of your stuff is GI related, like with your constipation and the, all the like stuff like that. I feel like that's going to be and any, and you have or haven't done like the food sensitivity. I did a food sensitivity with my allergist or no, it was through my naturopath and like nothing crazy. I did a SIBO test. It was negative. I did a ton of stool tests. There's like a little inflammation of my gut, but like nothing crazy. So it's like, it's not no parasites. So there's, I've already done a lot of like GI testing and it's just like, everything is pretty normal for

the most part, but yeah, whatever, you know, love being a woman. It's normal till it's not normal though. Yeah, that's true. So fun. Yeah. You're listening to the lady gang. Okay. Well, my bad week is that I'm holding up a book. 50 Beasts to Break Your Heart is over. This book. Okay. So my friends at Dog Ears book. It's over meaning you finished it. Yes. Dog Eared books. They always put out like a list of like the best books to get or whatever. And then on independent bookseller day, I bought like 25 books. I just stocked up and I like didn't even really look at them. I just like went off the recommendation. I would never buy this book. This book, the cover of it has like mythical creatures and it says real magic, real delight. And I'm like, I would never buy this

first paperback. I don't believe in a paperback. So there's just like a lot of things wrong with it. Jack, you would love this book. Okay. Basically it's all these like, it's like going into Harry Potter world. Like again, you know how Harry Potter was so fantastical and you were like, this is not real but like god i'm just like in love with this little dolby the house elf and like you just the characters were so amazing okay so i have something i want to read to you dolby whatever okay so there's there's a bunch of stories about all of these like creatures and stuff and then there's the creatures you would love this so there's like drawings and stuff oh my god i love them it's so weird okay so they're they're

talking about um they're talking about all the i actually i'm not gonna read it because i'm gonna sound like an idiot but um you know anyway they have all these animals and they're all made up of things and like it's just so crazy but it's not like i don't like fan like harry potter's the only fantasy book i kind of like like i don't like a fairy or like any of those type of things is it more like like okay so gorling gorlings unlike most other animals have five sexes within the species. One of these sexes resembles a man's torso. One resembles a left leg and a right. Another resembles a right arm and a left. Gorlings will grapple desperately among themselves for five compatible parts in hopes of assembling a complete coalesce. Once they do, the group is free to walk

up and engage with the world as a human might. As there's no gorling head, they search out a replacement, a basketball, a balloon, a boulder, or finally a snowball if they want to integrate into society. They're obviously fooling no one, but if you see a gorling trying to fit in, it doesn't hurt to be polite. Oh, wait, I love this. It's awesome. Anyway, super weird. I loved it so much. And now I'm reading something else and I'm very excited. So, okay. That was my, that was my bad week. It's bad. It's over. I'm so sad. My good week is I am an angel numbers girly now. Okay. What's your angel number? 1111. Oh, that's mine. Is that not everybody's? Yeah, think that's everybody's okay no people have like 222 or like 888 well I've been doing some research

on it it's a very powerful angel number I guess and um when I went to Ibiza I did not look at my phone for a week like I turned it off and I would turn it on once a day just to make sure everything is okay and mostly around night because you know you wait till like two in the morning to go out and I every day when I looked at my phone and turned it on it would be 11 11 and I was like Whoa, weird. And I kept like screenshotting it. And now all this weird stuff is happening where I'll get like really good news in an email or like something will happen and I'll look at my phone and it's 1111. Like it's all happening at 1111 night or morning, like 50 times in the last three weeks. So I'm thinking about getting a tattoo or excuse me, please do not. Okay. Oh my

I have 11-11 on my finger tattooed yes I've had this for 10 years hello nice to meet you I've never seen it yes I mean not that I haven't remember when Paris Hilton would go on like Instagram or TikTok every day I'd be like it's 11-11 yeah wait why did you get the 11-11 it's my dead boyfriend's birthday oh great yeah so that's cool and you know my friend you know what's crazy is that my friend Kelsey, whose husband passed away, um, a couple years or seven years ago, like a couple of years after Matt, he died on 11, 11. Oh, wow. Is that not wild? So Matt's birthday was 11, 11 and Kelsey's husband died at 11, 11. And when Kelsey and I met, I had this 11, 11 tattoo and she had a necklace that said 11, 11. And we were like, Hey, what

does this mean? What does this mean? She's like, it's my dad's husband. I was like, Oh, it's my dead boyfriend oh my god that's crazy wait so and when he i mean in his birthday like after he died everybody was like oh 11 11 is like an angel number like he and our address that we lived at when he died was 33 11 and everyone's like 33 is also like a major angel thing and 11 so he was an angel here just temporarily he got here and he was like this place and he's like peace out wait and so do you see 11 11s or is it just the matte thing i think 11 11 is a um what's the term it's like seeing a yellow punch buggy yeah where you're like you look at a car and all you see is that car yeah yeah not confirmation bias but like yeah whatever that yeah i get that i can't think

of the term but yes it's like once you're yeah like once you're made aware of something like you talk about redheads today and then tomorrow you're like there are redheads everywhere so it's like that type of yeah you want to hear something that's crazy because I'm an 11 11 girly too I got it because there is or it started being my number because there's a something corporate song where he says it's uh I always catch the clock and it's 11 11 and I was like this is obviously going to be my thing now um yeah but like around the time that we were buying our house last year like I was i was very much like into signs and i was like very desperation will do that yeah definitely um and we had a a lot of back and forth with our house like with the buyer it was like a whole

thing and it almost fell through like a couple times and there was a moment where we literally canceled the entire thing we're like it we're done and they sent like the cancellation for the or for the mortgage, whatever it was for the getting the house, the contract, they sent it over at 1111. And I was like, I was like, well, I was like this, we can't get this house. Like this is in our house. This like happened on 1111. And I'm just taking the sign as like, it was not meant to be. And then like two days later it got uncanceled. And then obviously we live in the house now, but there was a couple of days that I was like, I feel like I'm making a grave mistake because I took the no I think it was a good sign you think so yeah it was like hey

this is like on paper this is bad but like it's 11 11 so just know it's gonna all work out I guess I mean well I will take that now just because I don't want to think I made a mistake no you didn't make a mistake you did beautiful beautiful beautiful world oh thank you well well I'll be seeing 11 11 together now well me and kelty i'm gonna pass now i'm gonna give that one to becca and i'm gonna look for a new something you can have it in your heart it's you can do like those like little quizzes and it's like what's my angel number yeah and find one or i'll just here's the thing my therapist is having a baby and so it's like a very stressful time i'm like steve i'm trying to when is she leaving i have my last my last therapy tomorrow and then

she said she's gonna find me someone scared for all of us all i have is this tiny rock that says laugh oh my god it's really like not appropriate you know you don't even have a live rock just No, just have laugh. Or no love. No love. No love. No live. Just laugh.

Just laugh. Okay. Anyway, well, we use this whole episode. This episode will just be the longest good week, bad week of all time. And we'll talk to you guys on Thursday. We'll do our allegedly on Thursday. Sorry about that. But we had lots to talk about.

And okay, we'll see you next Tuesday. Bye. Social support from Kali Carrera. Editing from Jared Monaco. Producing from Steve Delameter. and iconic hosting, creating, and being the gang gang of all gangs by Becca Tobin, Jack Vanek, and Kelty Knight.

Kelty Knight support by Derek Haley.