Language of Love with Dr. Laura Berman - Connecting with Loved Ones Beyond the Veil with Maureen Hancock

Episode Date: April 9, 2025

Your loved ones, even after passing, are still with you, guiding you, and sending signs of their presence. In this Language of Love Conversation, I sit down with Maureen Hancock, a renowned medium, holistic healer, and comedian. For decades, Maureen has been helping people heal from grief by bridging the gap between this world and the next. After surviving lead paint poisoning, a near-death experience, and a serious car accident, Maureen discovered her unique gift to communicate with the spirit world. But Maureen’s work goes beyond delivering messages from the other side—she helps people reframe their grief, teaching them that love never dies and their loved ones are always near. In this episode, we explore: How Maureen’s near-death experiences opened her to the spirit world The role of humor in healing and why laughter is a powerful tool for raising your vibration What life is like on the other side—do our loved ones continue to grow and have “jobs” in the spirit world? How to recognize signs from spirit and feel their presence in your daily life The power of raising your vibration to receive messages from the other side The importance of self-care and grounding to stay connected to your intuition and spiritual guidance If this conversation opened your heart or got you thinking, why not dive deeper? Check out Maureen’s upcoming events and courses on her website, or join her for a live Zoom session to experience her incredible healing energy in real time. You can also follow her on Facebook or explore Helping Parents Heal for even more support. Got a question or a story about connecting with a loved one in spirit? We’d love to hear it! Send us an email at [e-mail], and be sure to visit my website for tools like the Good Grief Course to help you stay connected with those you love. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Hey, I'm sex, love and relationship therapist, Dr. Laura Berman. And for the past 30 years, I've been helping people just like you learn to love and be loved better. Here on the Language of Love Conversations, I'm talking to some of the world's most influential and revolutionary experts, thought leaders, spiritual teachers and celebrities about love, sex and relationships from a mind, body and spirit perspective. and that way my goal is to awaken your mind body and soul it's time to become fluent in the language of life so the medium next door maureen hancock is gonna be coming on in just a minute hello hi love how are you bud how are you and i'm so happy to talk to you me too and we're all excited you're here now Maureen we I don't think we even officially met I knew of you before but I'd never seen you speak or heard you speak before but I was invited by my friend Anita Morjani who's a

dear friend of mine invited me and our friend Tina to come as her plus twos to heartbreak I wait to uh helping parents heal yeah conference in Phoenix I didn't know what I was like okay whatever Anita asked me to do, I'm like, all right, I'll come. I like, don't even look into it. So I didn't even know about helping parents heal. And I walk into this like convention area with 1200 grieving parents in the audience, 1200. And all of these amazing, well-vetted, top-notch medium psychics and people who'd had near-death experiences, including Anita, were on the faculty. So I listened to your talk. I had never heard you talk before and I loved it. And I loved how spot on you are and how freaking hilarious you are. So.

And some people are asking, it's called Helping Parents Heal. You can find them on Facebook. Yeah. And Tina, you're here. So if you can help me with putting things in that we're talking about, I would be really grateful. But yeah, Helping Parents Heal is the organization that we're talking about and where I saw Maureen speak. So I wanted to interview on my podcast, but then I thought maybe we should do a live because you're so good at readings and because the podcast is recorded, we'd like have to line up calls and it's this whole ordeal. So we're going to see what happens. But have you always, you were probably born this way, I'm guessing. Not that we all don't have the capacity, but someone like you probably was born this way, right?

Yeah. And you, you just hit the nail on the head there that everybody's born with this. For me, I had lead paint poisoning back in the day. Now in a minute, everyone will hear my wicked, awesome accent from Boston and everything was lead paint back in the day. Okay. And I ate enough lead to kill five male adults. I was in children's hospital for three years. I was in a coma for a while brain shunts encephalitis and it was just a huge miracle that I survived and my little Irish mother in heaven now she started the lead paint poisoning prevention bill wrote it passed on the state and federal level so my mother's the reason why you can't sell your house everybody but when I came home from the hospital at five years old and you have that a lot a lot of medium states

five years old five years old and that's when people were walking through the walls and around the house and they thought it was the medication or the coma residuals. And it wasn't, it was spirit. And then cut it off. Like a lot of kids stop around, I want to say six or seven because it's too odd and weird and you know, and so in my twenties with hormones, right, it comes back with the vengeance, like maybe 18 years old. And I started to notice instead of seeing them, i was hearing and so that's player audience and i kind of i like it better that way i felt like i could control it more rather than my room filled with dead people and uh and by the way today is november 1st and and yes i know it's all saints day tomorrow's all souls day it is my holidays

i'm very powerful but so i'm in a car accident 1992 broke every bone in my face had a near death And then I started Miraculous Recovery and I felt my grandmother on the impact and they didn't know how I get out of this crushed car on and on. And then I started to hear instead. So it was all the time. And then I was litigation manager at Logan Airport. 9-11 happened, this whole series of events. And that's when I left and I started working with kids with cancer. since I was a little child my mother always told everybody you always said you wanted to work with people with cancer it's just and really now it's any end stage to help them not be afraid of death and just um I either pray over them or I am doing hands-on healing my background is holistics as well and that's my story but what I love and I didn't mention this I love this about you and this is rather unique. Well, first of all, you also have worked as a comedian, right? Like you've been a professional, I mean, and you are basically a comedian, which I know, which I love because I

am inappropriately funny at whenever I can be. But, you know, a lot of people are like, no grief, you know, it's very sad. Or obviously when we're in early phases of grief or when we're in a really tough, any phase of grief where we're really feeling it and deep in the sadness, it's people can have a strange reaction to humor, but I love it and welcome it. And you know what I say to folks at the beginning of my live events? I say, hey, listen, I've been doing this work for 28 years and I still get a little anxious because I can feel the love and the energy and oh my gosh, they want to see you smile again and they want to see you celebrate life and memories. And they always say, if you can't do it for you, do it for me. So when we smile and laugh, it actually sets

off this high vibration and it raises theirs and so that you can actually meet in the middle you can feel it to heal it you can be in it and you should be but not being stuck in it so they always say like what what would i do like the spirit love and and my sister's son passed tragically at 19 and that was the big turnaround for me i left my job as litigation manager at logan airport started my center healing wellness i'm all into chinese medicine and everything right so and sean came through to teach us my first son right like hey you know this is what sean came up with i'm not dead i'm just different yeah yeah well you know what i i it's funny because we just did last weekend we did a retreat called heartbreak to healing in chicago grief retreat for

women and there were all sorts and whatever loss they had had it didn't have to be a child but there was one mother who had lost a child and we had this long conversation where she was saying exactly this that i can't let myself i feel so responsible even though she wasn't responsible for her child's death her daughter was you know in this case an addict and you know we all whatever however our loved one dies we go we all struggle with the what it could have at us. We all want to blame ourselves and feel guilty. Maybe we didn't spend enough time with them. Maybe we could have done something. Maybe we could have pushed the doctors more. Maybe right. And so she was really stuck in that and not giving her felt like, and I hear this all the

time, like it would be a betrayal of my loss and dishonoring to my loved one if I allow myself to feel joy, if I allow myself to heal. And I have experienced the complete opposite of that. And that's the message that I keep getting from Sammy and what you just confirmed that they are at such a high vibration. They can't connect with us when we're down in the bowels, when we allow ourselves to feel aliveness, however that happens, that's when they can really, and they want that. So I love that you said that because that's really what they want. I mean, you talk to more of them than I do. That's what they want, right? They do. They're like, they're like, it's okay to grieve, but allow yourself some joy. So I'm all about finding joy through grief. And by the way, I just took the

dogs for a hike and there was a huge hawk that came up. And while we were just talking, I don't know if anybody saw it, just go. So I, that's your son, you know, they'll use things of light affair, right? Birds, butterflies, butterflies, you name it. But you should have seen me at the field, I was like, come back at four. And he just did. But yeah. And working with the kids with terminal illness is, oh my gosh, it teaches us so much. Right. So just like this little boy was like, I mean, am I going to be able to do crosswords and am I going to see angels? And they're just so brave and amazing and have taught me so much just how don't sweat the small stuff. you know we all have our stuff and are you noticing too i'm really into like the astrology

of like um even the sun explosions right now and the solar flares yeah it's it's i met you about this because you were complaining that you felt crazy and were exhausted i was like it's the solar flares and the crazy things happening in the planets right now like a g9 which hasn't been since 2017 so that's why everyone's feeling uh a bit off and like shaky and anxious and not sleeping and there's a lot going on and that's why we had around me in boston the northern lights come on yeah because of those geomagnetic storms but it has made my ability stronger so at my events it's like, they're just, hello. At least what you did at the Helping Parents Heal conference was this, I don't know if this is often what you do is postcards from heaven, where you were like,

kind of framing it as they were sending, but you know, same thing with a phone call, phone calls from heaven. I mean, this is a big, we could talk for an hour and let me know. I'm not that I'm going to let you read and see who comes in, but let me know. Just cut me off if you're getting, you have to be really fricking smart. I have learned much smarter. I think that I am, or I have to train my brain better to be a medium because you are holding like 10 conversations in your mind at the same time, right? Like people are coming in and you're listening to me and right. Like so much. Yeah, pretty much so. But because 28 years in, I don't let them interrupt. Like if I'm here, it's almost like human boundaries. I'm like, I need to finish.

I need to form a thought. I really want to share this here on this level. And then when I decide to go up, I don't know if we can just, you know, people have to actually request to join. And then I rolled the dice and just click on and they hop on 15 people here ready requesting to join so I can roll the dice when the time comes but the one thing I want and we can start now if you want to but one thing I want to ask you because you're the one to ask you spend a lot of time connecting to the spirit world talking to spirits not only about what they want us to know but about what they're experiencing, what their life is like on the other side. So can you just talk for a minute about what it's like there? I found those conversations so fascinating about what life

is like on the other side, right beyond the veil, just in a different dimension. A hundred percent. And there's something to be said for, and I'm really digging deep into this for they tell me there's no past present and future it's all happening simultaneously does that throw you for a loop and so it's kind of like hmm my nephew will say you know energy is boundless I can be in all places at once and by the way they're not watching your private times either so we want to know but what is it like a lot of them tell me like we have jobs and you've probably heard this before, where some are like a mentor or their scene of heaven is something they love. So when they come through, I'm like, oh my gosh, he's on the golf course. Oh, he was

obsessed. Or he's doing this or she's doing that. But mostly they say to me, especially the kids, we're helping humanity. I have chills when I say that. We're trying to help humanity. So they don't just like go and they're like, we, you know, puppies and butterflies. They're like, we have jobs. We're trying to help you and guide you. We're trying to ship things. We're trying to do it. How are they helping? I mean, I'm sure they're dropping messages in and trying to guide us, but what else? Yeah, there's so much. I mean, let's say it's like on a personal level, they might be trying to get you to leave a job and take this new one or come out of your comfort zone. And so with spirit, when they're guiding you, it's very nudgy. Hey, hey, hey, hey, you know,

call this person, call this person. It's slight. It's like your sister, your sister, your sister, your sister, until you act on it, you're driving and you hear, look over your shoulder, look over, look over, look over, look over until you're annoyed and you act on it. Right. On the bigger scale, it might be okay. You know, where there's a lot of like huge spiritual lessons with things that are going on in the world and are we going to get it out are we going to rise above it and still go back to kindness and you know they always say to me like just help one another like reach out and you're doing that I'm doing that and coming back to love it's all love but we do get stuck in like talking about people or in this negative energy and people around you so look at

your group they like to keep you down sometimes so you have to look at your life re-examine and try to do something that brings you joy is that helping others so you know there's a bigger scale of like hey leave that job and do something to help the world uh or this isn't fulfilling right am i talking too much no you're not are you asking are they asking that are you asking that you're not talking too much. I love this because I do feel like this is the age of Aquarius we're in right now. And we all, our souls all came here for this shit show. We all signed up for it. And you know, there's like this mass awakening that I'm seeing like where people are, what used to work no longer works. That job that I've had for 10 years, I just cannot anymore. It's like we're

being called to a higher level, whatever that means for us. It doesn't mean you're going out and saving the world. It may be you're just saving your neighbor, who knows, or saving yourself. But I feel like we're all being called to something higher. And I'm remembering just what you were talking about the other side and what our kids do. You reminded me, there was this beautiful moment you were reading and you kind of call on, I see a girl, she's adorable. She's got blonde hair she has a piercing in her dimple like something really specific and then this mother stood up and you said what she's showing me is that she really loved working with children and now what she's doing on the other side is she is mentoring and when the children come in

she's like supporting them and working with them and helping them and there were all these other things that the mother was like holy shit like how did you know that but anyway that just reminded me of like this idea of that are, if we had capability of like, there's no time, everything is possible and we can manifest whatever reality, job, life, living situation we want in any given moment. That's what it's like, right? Definitely. People always say to me, like, easiest said than done. And so I'm back with the Irish shop, like, well, then do the work. it and once you say like this isn't easy but give me the strength to guide me we have a whole team working for us we have our spirit guides our guardian angels and our loved ones in spirit

and they are on different vibrational levels so the guides are like way up here you can say ascended masters you could say jesus buddha you know whatever works for you but you do have a whole team and they really are trying to wake you up to come out of that lower vibrating level that we can get stuck in with what's going on in politics, what's going on with, um, you know, family and friends and relationships. And it's like, you are stronger than this and see it done. So that helps me a lot when I'm going through, cause I have a lot of anxiety. I use humor to cover it. Like I want to see myself on the other side of this and it's already done and complete. And I teach yoga. I have a wellness studio as well. And I'm really about trying to get the

nervous system back into regulation because we're not sleeping. We're irritable. Our stomach is disrupted and all of these things where the constant thoughts come in. And so we talked about that too, tips for regulating the vagus nerve. But right now is the most trying time. So your team is ready for you. So all you have to do is show me, give me the strength, guide me, show me. They can't do it for you because people say to me like, well, if they really heard my prayers why didn't they fix this this and this right and I say well it's not really about it's about it's not about fixing everything for you because then you can't learn your spiritual lessons it is about just kind of getting you on the right path in the right direction and use your

spidey sense use your feelings does this feel good to me or do I need to change this yeah do I sometimes have to be really brave I mean sometimes it takes your life turning into a shit show for you to really make the changes. That's one of the gifts of tremendous loss I've found. It burns away everything that doesn't matter. So you stop giving a shit and you make those changes. I mean, ideally, I was talking to him on the other day. She's like, you could also just get old

and stop giving a shit, you know? But the goal is that we all can kind of get to that place where we're willing to take those leaps and make the changes in our bodies and our minds. But I know people are anxiously waiting your readings. So what should I do? Should I just scroll and click on one? Say, yeah, because when it's on my end, I just kind of get a feeling from spirit.

I scroll. I trust your intuition. So you're just going to roll the dice. You're going to be drawn to a certain name. You're going to bring them up. And to do some fast readings, everybody, I am going to say to you, who are you hoping to hear from? So have that in mind.

But do keep in mind that somebody else may pop in that you're not thinking of. And we'll just go from that. And we'll do just a few minutes. just i'm not even i don't know any of your these people i'm literally just like letting my finger be guided this is interesting okay i just let someone in let's see what happens because it's a mess are you here i don't even see who i let in i literally just stopped them to accept it to have to accept and people want to know how to join down at the bottom wherever you're on there's usually like a little request to join camera type of a thing

i just accepted suzanne kudzingi i think it is because the last one does so suzanne if you're here suzy kudzingi there she joined she comes hi yeah hello yeah how are you i'm great how are you good so just get settled so yep i love that the light on and this i can't be moving with the shit storms going on okay so i tune in first definitely strong motherly woman coming through first for you and that could be mother or grandmother is your mom passed yes okay and dad's passed as well i'm yes smiling because he's just like what am i chopped liver i love him and i do feel like you have somebody recently passed as well so when i get chills usually it's true years are under, this feels even under a year. Does that make sense? It's recent, but not quite that

recent. Okay. So I'm just jotting some things down. Who was recent for you? My son. Son. Okay. I'm going to tell you this because the way his energy was coming in, all way of chills is like soulmate. Like I'm the other half of you. He's definitely a fast, like all over the place. Like me, ADD, ADHD, I'm asking them to slow down. Now, everybody listening, what you can say to your spirit loved ones on the daily is this, in your head or out loud, slow down your energy, come closer, make it more obvious. They don't know they're too fast outside of the physical body. He just said, sorry, mom, you understood me better than anyone.

I do feel a fast passing. He is saying like, oh, she did everything for me. She did everything for me about you. The dreams will come. You've had one significant. He likes my dogs. He's making my dogs bark. I swear to God.

Do you have a dog? No. Did he? Yes. I'm like, are you sure? When he was in the middle. Because he has a dog with him. Okay.

And he did give you a hug dream. Is anybody, so there's a, this is sometimes too, like a Chris or like, he's trying to give me this hard, you know, is that him? or it might be a good friend uh claire is that a living person no is it is it somebody he's referring to that's alive i think so so it's on there that's his best friend one of them right he's trying to help okay that's what he said trying to help him i'm trying to help him and it would be like the c with the r sound when you said claire it didn't vibe for me it's somebody be here and that's what he does i always try to help everybody so you have two children or two

one here oh so you say one here one in heaven right all right he loves that you say that and mom we what did you do with the necklace oh i just took it off right now i wear necklaces with his ass every single day you do with it ask what you do with it what's happening he's really funny he's so funny he's a very like empath like I love you mom and I think he just keeps saying I'm sorry okay so he knows but he found peace that's what he said I have peace you understood me better than anyone I couldn't get out of my own way does that make sense yeah yeah I kind of helped like troubled kids I was always different and I was always different there's like a Jonathan or just john tell me who's that his stepbrother okay he's trying to help him that's john right yeah yeah

because he's like mom this is what i do i try to help everybody that's what you taught me he loves you so much so much gosh it's three years now four well it'll be four in december so it's still three so anyway he's um what he's saying my dog not not a person we love um lots of love i love how open you are lots of love from the heavens above thank you thank you thank you and oh how you can click off so unless you know how laura no i can get rid i do you know how to click off suzy no i will try because i want to go to him you might have to i'm glad i'm glad you're here marine because what do i do from live video okay i'm removing you from the live video and back in and then i'm just thinking about my my camera here you're welcome going

but you're not going i know it's not yours i'm so sorry i don't want to talk the time for other people remove what happens nothing can i bring someone out then while she's here no no because i would still get that all right hold on so should i just hang up maybe so other people can get it okay i'm back and on thank you okay thanks guys i'm literally pushing remove remove but i guess your son doesn't want you to be removed so you have to remove yourself listen look at she's frozen oh my god all right we're gonna look for someone else i'm just literally just letting my finger be drawn and i hope do you still see her on the screen because i need yeah she's still stuck there darn it it's so funny it's her son it's hysterical

there we go okay and just with that everybody on helping parents heal if you have physically lost a child, they have mediums all month coming on. So go join their Facebook page and look at their schedule. And I'm on there every couple of months doing readings, but I'm here too. Definitely. Most of us have no idea how to move through loss. There's no roadmap to follow when you're trying to navigate grief. And I realized this when I lost my son three years ago. As a therapist who understood grief, a whole new level of pain opened up to me when I lost my 16-year-old son. And since then, I have been building resources that have allowed me to navigate through loss, not only in a healthy way, but in a way that has transformed me for the better. We can move through

the most terrible loss with grace. And that's why I have created the course, Good Grief, Healing from loss with love. You can find it on my website, drlauraberman.com, right there on the homepage, as well as free resources letting you know how to support others who are going through loss. None of us has to do this alone. Okay, let's see. I'm just scrolling back and forth and letting myself stop okay this is linda mcnally are you linda that's a strong mother already and i love how the mothers come in to help right yeah are you coming on linda and you'd like to take it and then they have to like accept and when i do it it's it's a break them a roll like this you know i'm glad it's not just me so linda mcnally if you're on

come on join and she has to accept it yeah she doesn't and if not i'll pick someone else mm-hmm all right let's try jill c perkins oh she's here yay is this jill this is jill okay just want to make sure it wasn't linda hi hi there so what i do everybody is in my head i'm like jill's people only hoping that because i did start to tune into linda's and i felt like her mom pop in in case she comes in late so you are jill i'm just going to write this down okay and dad's past for you my dad no his father-in-law because i don't get in law step x right oh my husband's my husband's father has that's what i mean so i'm not going to get any in-law step x attachments and it was actually

kind of weird like he came out of left field like oh is this on hello i wouldn't believe in this but he does have a message he just said uh tell him i'm proud of him i never got to tell him that and it's been a long time for him that's what it feels like well it's funny he he just walked he just got home and he said what are you doing and i said maureen hancock's live and he went upstairs and he's in the shower right now and i almost want to go in the shower and go look i don't need to see that he's not gonna believe me though that's okay oh my god It's on my page and you can play it back. You can play it back and you can even move the arrow right up.

But I know this James or a Jim as well. And so remember that that can be living or past. And what they did is they showed me my database. My father's name is James Francis. So either you have a James or a Francis. Do you happen to know? There's a lot of James in my family. Is this my husband?

It could be husband. i don't know but it's definitely a living person and jill who are you hoping to hear from i want to cut right to the chase here my brother brother yeah oh somebody on this your feed here said this keldridge said my dad is james francis and um i'll keep an eye on that is he past keldridge because sometimes they break in but let me try to get your brother i'm smiling just because your brother i love his beatings yes and in your brother's funny he's taking my crystal like you know like just i love the great sense of humor he's a deep thinker as well and just a yes and no i do feel a fast passing with him do you understand that because he just said everything

happened so fast it was tragic oh my legs like i have chills all up and down my body i know that he just said he loves that you know when he's around like he's like oh she knows she knows right and let's see here keep showing me like mountains i don't know where you're from but in my reference point it's like new hampshire maine where are you from in the country new hampshire you are yeah i'm sorry right now i'm right now i live in massachusetts but my family's from new hampshire oh my god see because I know Laura and I have people tuning in from all over the country if not the world and that was so cool because we had a little chalet in New Hampshire so he knew to show me the mountains of New Hampshire to get me to say that to bring you back to childhood and talk about

you know just family and all that right yeah and he's just like I'm oh oh has it been some time for him uh yeah it doesn't seem it but yeah i feel long like it just happened about 15 years okay and i know there's a july connection as well because july comes up that actually jumped to you laura is anyone july birthday my husband is a july birthday okay because this is because i can see you right on the screen so like sorry this oh no it's totally fun and to be right so but please know that your brother is absolutely with you and yeah he's like oh shoot did he help my son yes he's telling me like his head hurt or something and then there's i've got this heart i keep hearing like heart attack so did he pass by head injury though my brother if not somebody

with him did because i keep getting a head injury type of thing so okay hold on brother i can't get how he passed i gotta ask you uh suicide okay i wrote toxins because i thought he had toxins in his system so felt like so but listen know that he's with you huge guardian angel give a big hug to everyone for him he said he's the favorite child he's the favorite no yeah you did not say that well it's true that was his that was his big joke that i was like the favorite child well he is now because i felt like um three kids like do you have there's three kids right yeah i have a brother another brother okay she's talking about boss three he is the favorite so no stop it lots of

love from the heavens above thank you thank you so much thank you i can take you off if not you hang up but i am removing you if i can how do i find where to watch this back to my page when mrs dunn you come back to my instagram page i'm going to post it on the feed and i'll post it too all right all right yeah so you may have to pop out and go back in thank you everybody a lot of your comments it's just about i understand right grief is so hard and and how do you feel them yourself you can you got to get out in nature you got to ground yourself you get a tree babe you're gonna get in the ocean or at least put your feet in and if you're not there you've taken a himalayan salt bath you've got to do some self-care get some

reiki done meditate take a yoga class at the zen loft in bridgewater massachusetts but you have to take care of you so that you can become a clear channel to receive because on those walks you're going to see a deer or you're going to see the hawk or a heart-shaped rock or something in the clouds. So nature is where you can really pick up spirit. Don't you think, Laura? Yeah. I mean, also because nature and I'm letting Wendy Patterson, if you're in here, accept the thing. Nature has the highest frequency and it keeps that. It doesn't match our, we're usually matching each other's frequency with nature. It holds a high frequency. So when we're there, we rise to meet it. I think that's why it's so much easier there. Anyway, dive into

Wendy. Hi, Wendy. Hi. Okay. Yours is going to start a little bit different where I know everyone's intuitive, but since you were little, like you agreed to a lot in this lifetime, a lot of challenges you you took on the triple whammy of uh lessons and shit let's just say right and tell me your first name when when Cindy okay and your mom's path no my mom's still here okay really really strong motherly woman I was so confident like she came to the front and it's not an in-law or anything I might be on the grandmother level but I believe there's like five kids or five of one sex connected somehow you know that can go back to you or your grandmother do you know um well i didn't know any one of my grandmothers because they were both passed before

um we were born but i have four other siblings i have four brothers so what you want yes on the middle it's going to be your family right usually it's like talk about this and listen this is what I'm hearing. Even though you don't know me, I know you. Okay. And I know somebody passed in like their later sixties. Cause I just kept hearing sixties. Okay. And you can put this together later. Okay. Hold on. And who are you hoping to hear from my brother, Jody? Okay. But isn't your dad passed? Yes. Okay. Cause he was like, do I get to talk? I'm like, okay. I want you to know that first your dad showing me like I don't know if it's a full this happened in my family so I see it a lot like they got the tip of their fingers cut off so I see like someone getting the hand

caught in a thing or maybe you remember that yes tell me about that as far as I know because my my dad died right after I was out of high school I think he did like security and he did a lot of stuff working with his hands i think it was just like the tip of his finger doing work yeah so but it wasn't like anything no no big deal but i want you to know like that that happens if somebody coming through that's very like you know i need the facts and i need facts and not just oh honey it's like oh i gotta think of something good that only she'll know and then they get so i know you ask your brother but then i do feel like your dad he just said um you know through these years he hasn't missed out you have children right i know they're no grown oh you know so i wonder who is

either um mike or mark okay so tuck that in your back pocket you may find or like oh because it's leaning a little bit more towards i know it's a common name michael and that's not connected to one of your siblings kids no okay none of them are michael or just remember no m's just remember that it could be a middle name okay i want to go to your brother now is he he's kind of a wise guy he had a good sense of humor he was down syndrome oh well anyway he's doing that thing too he wants me to get props i think he loves oh here's one okay he wanted me to do this and make a joke like hello hello this is my cell the night but um you see one day you laugh okay and you're gonna think of the mic or you're gonna think of it because they just said it again and if that

happens you'll think of it later you'll be like oh my god that was his good friend you know and i feel a fast passing with him like he went downhill quickly i feel terrible breathing i'm not trying to diagnose, but I almost feel like a seizure or something. I don't know. It just feels weird to me. My body feels weird. How did he pass, if you don't mind me asking? Starvation. He was on IV and they put him in a nursing home that doesn't do IV. So he wasn't getting enough nutrients in his system. So within the time they took him from the hospital to put him in a nursing home for rehab he didn't last less than 10 days wow it's weird because it just felt like I'm having some kind of a seizure or something but I know he's returned to wholeness and I love that you know

he's your guardian angel you don't need me to tell you right that he came in to teach everybody that's why in the beginning I said oh great to the triple whammy and he said like you would always like what do you say you treated me with dignity i love that and treated me more more i learned more from him yeah but just treating him like you know human you know just like smart and you know you didn't talk down to him anyway he's thanking you for that and then there's a little like did you ever have like a little dog that passed it's like yes okay because he has just quite a little oh yeah i don't know jitsu or a lasso but it almost looks like a we had a pug a pug okay whatever one has an underbite

all right listen wendy lots of love from the heavens above thank you thank you so much both of you it's fantastic thank you thank you thank you over here i'm gonna try to remove you but you remove yourself because it's not listed very well today I have to do it like three times

remove confirm okay bye everyone bye I think I'm gonna

let's see you wanna go to one of these that are here that you're reading well see if you can find this Gail

Wind she said husband Mike and brother Mark asked because sometimes they have no spirit etiquette

and they bust in and they don't care that I'm a spirit etiquette and i like that you have a lot to to go through but gail you could request to join me you can request to join i don't see a gail here i'm looking with g-a-l-e gail b wind gail a b wind i'm i'm accepting you come on if you're there the next contestant on the price is Gail G. B. Wynn. There she is.

Hello there. Hi. Can you see me? Oh, there I am. Greetings from Cape Cod. Cape Cod. I was just there. I know all about it.

I was in Harwich. Where are you? Yeah. What a beautiful town. I'm in Falmouth. Nice. Nice. Okay.

By the way, if you go to Maureen's website, she does like a gajillion and one events. Every time I look at your Instagram, you're like, I'll be in Wildmouth. I'll be in. I know, really. I'm in Wyndham. I'm in. Yeah, I know. And just walking the dogs all the time.

And for those out of state, I have an online Zoom December 30th, 630 to 8 Eastern. And so you can find that on my link tree on media, Marvin Hancock on Instagram or Marvin Hancock.com. So, but anyway, your husband's chomping at the bit to come through. He's definitely laughing and he's saluting. Was he army or Navy?

Yeah, he was army. Yes. Oh, army went in early. Is everybody there? Your mom's past. Yep.

Right. And Helen, who is that? Ellen Evelyn and it's like this oh I don't know oh thank you it's who Helen it's my grandmother oh grand my god yes okay no Helen who got her for a minute we saw her mom I mean I love she was no she was one of my mother was one of 10 so that poor woman oh okay first cat but mom dad here and then mark is your brother yeah oh yeah there's your yes they're sort of going back and forth bantering here you have a lot on the other side you have the variety of dead people

so your husband is showing me you doing everything for him okay so don't picture me trying to breathe he just said he's clearing out like his chest here i know there's a heart attack for somebody is that you know my husband okay yeah so just don't picture me like that and i could hear you he said i need you to know that buddy he just brought up but i think it's a dog excuse me so and uh let's see here do you also know paul yes oh my goodness yes yep so when i like just cornered back and it was like say paul hear that name more right yeah and he's just you know he saw the light on and the way that i feel your husband is he is inviting everybody in that's he's a good heart he's feeding it like

hey you know we have enough steaks for everybody come on over you know and then about hold on do you remember a story about like a near drowning he's bringing yes yeah he's bringing me back in time i'm not sure if you would know about that well but tell me what that's about because they're all knowing you know hold on at this point yeah i think it was an incident where we were at my mom and dad's pool and my daughter was a toddler i maybe one ish to wish somewhere in that and she was tiny and walking and you know how they go to the pool she fell in without anything her anything aiding her and i froze who's the guy my mother jumped who is it my mother you know and i believe yes so it was an interpretation i was a little bit off because i wrote that you were a child

i thought it was you but it's the toddler that you're saying but sometimes they'll bring up these near misses right that like oh wow wow wow wow and the medical field is connected there as well so who was that near drowning who was that that was the their daughter now what does she do now she's a teacher but my other daughter's a nurse perfect yeah so he wants to know kids and I was so confident. I kept saying, the nurse. And I know someone's like Katie or Kathleen. Yes.

You know, Kathleen, very close friend of my best friend's daughter since second grade. Very close. I just got chills, okay? So it's never to worry you. But listen, from your husband, he said he's your best friend, and that's never going to change. and he hears you all the time lots of from the head oh wait he's going walks you started walking

again yes yes you just yes going for walks with you speaking of that the other night i won't take too much time i was coming home from dinner with a neighbor and there stood a buck dear look at us we both went we were in the car and we said look at that puck

it had you know the horns and everything looked straight at us and then my friend rode down the wound and said okay

now be safe go on your way and he just walked through the woods and I always think that's a sign from spirit you should say like Bob

I'm back at seven so listen And lots of love from the heavens above. Both of you. Oh, I'm in December 12th with John Holland. I'm back in Harwich, maureenhancock.com. December 12th. Bye-bye.

All right, you get off. As quickly as I can. Now, Maureen, while I'm trying to get her off, I think I did. Did I? No, I did not. you get your why is this not working

it's putting all kinds of people might have to pop off wait wait oh wait a minute what if I do this bye and you can join again

thank you bye hopefully not letting me do anything anymore and I love that Yeah. Ava, I just watched you on your Next Level Soul amazing podcast. Tell me about that. Who, me? Yeah. What was I on? I don't, I mean, I'm, I find myself on doing so much around because since Sammy died, I feel, I mean, I always sort of connected, but I feel such a deeper connection.

And especially now, just recently, for a long time, I wasn't willing. I wanted to hear from him, but I wasn't willing to try to have a two-way relationship. But now I can't get you off and I can't get it to go off. All right, leave. Mike, see you later. but now I'm starting to connect with him more and even at certain times when you were reading like I can I feel him come in through my back sometimes he's often on my right side and his energy feels really different than mine and I know what it feels like because I was very like into energy

I always have I mean for like 10 years now so I know what like for lack of a better term what each of the signatures are of my children like I know what their energy feels like and he just like comes in sometimes it's really interesting and for me you know like if I'm being interviewed usually I don't read the host but your son has been here the whole time like my whole body's in so everybody if you get chills out of the blue you think of them you meditate you pray that's called the quickening and that is their spirit body coming into your aura and it's almost like a hug from heaven but without green but he kept saying and like you spoke for me you spoke for me and just like whatever you wrote um he just is like this like it was

award-winning like according to like he's so humble but so proud and he loves that you get that he it's really hard but he's like she knew i wasn't long for this world because i'm such an old soul that it's just like you worried about him more than the others i don't even know do you have two other kids? I do have two other kids. And I mean, I'm worried about all of them have their issues. I signed up for a lot of stuff. We had quite a few soul contracts before we came here. But he really struggled. He struggled to fit in. He was an extremely old soul and insanely smart, which like way too smart for his own good. So, yeah, I mean, I didn't think he was going to die but I worry I mean obviously every parent worries about that I just worried because he had

I knew and we we had conversations right before he died where he said look I know that grown-ups love me and I know that when I grow up I'm going to be able to find my people but like no but you know kids just did not get him and they bullied the shit out of him um so he came back too soon in this incarnation you know because he just wanted to come back and help and touch lives and He's doing so much on the other side. But please tell me about this, because he's saying like, like, did you actually have the strength to speak for him at some celebration of life or something? Yeah, I speak for him constantly. And right after he died, like two days, it went I didn't mean for it to the news of him dying suddenly from fentanyl poisoning because a drug dealer had gotten in touch with him on Snapchat. I had no idea at that point, this was three years ago, that there were drug dealers, you know, being matched through the Snapchat algorithm with our children and reaching out. I thought you had to know a dealer or find a dealer or have a connection to a dealer.

So I thought he was safe at home. This drug dealer, because we were during the pandemic, but a drug dealer got in touch with him and delivered the drug, you know, sent him a colorful menu, said, here, I'll give it to you for free, you know. and he took the, he was curious and stuck at home and lonely and isolated and way too smart for his own good. And good kids make really dumb decisions sometimes. I sure as shit did, but it didn't kill you back then. So he did it, but literally, and so I posted on social media because I didn't know what else to do when I found out what had happened. And especially when the police told me when I showed them the guy's Snapchat handle because I had the screenshot of the dealer's menu that his friend sent me because Sammy had sent it to him. And the police said, we don't even bother

calling Snapchat. So I started going on the news like two days later, snotty, crying. I was just like, I'm going to save the kid. I'm going to tell what happened. I'm going to speak for Sammy. So that's probably what he's talking about. Oh, I love that. I just like literally felt my whole body go right and my dog loves it too but he loves that he loves that like like how brave like look at my mother he's all puffed up so my boys 23 and 25 i think he was younger was he like 19 or 16 what would he be now he would be 19 now 20 most yeah but he's still 19 right yeah june he turns 20 i think okay okay because a lot of times they come in like i'm growing up in heaven i'm still me i'm still me i wanted to ask you about that but they keep growing yeah like some

um i don't know i think years ago um what's her name sylvia sylvia brown would say like everybody's 36 in heaven and i'm like no no hold on i gotta bribe my dogs while she's bribing her dogs i i mean i could keep are you on your back already oh yeah i'm getting streets to bribe but anyway like they grow up they say like so i i connected a woman to her son i said oh your son was 43 years old she goes no no he was three i go oh my god what would he be now and she goes i don't know she didn't really believe she goes oh my god today's his 43rd birthday so like there's such proof that that they continue and it's just like yeah everybody bring and they always say like my nephew i'm not dead i'm just different

maureen we're one layer above here summer in the fifth dimension depends on the you know their soul contracts or whatever you know but your son feels just much older too yeah and so there is something about, oh, I know this is going to sound crazy, but does somebody need a colonoscopy? I don't know. That's a good question. I don't think I'm due for one, but it's interesting because my husband has gotten really paranoid about his health. I guess he's in the other room and I want to make him feel that. But he goes to the doctor constantly, not like crazy, but he's constantly doing like all the, and he just recently did that poop test. Cause he's not due for a colonoscopy. And he was trying to convince me to do it. I'm like, I'm not due

for a colonoscopy. I just had one. I'm not due for another one for four years. He's like, just shit in the box, make sure nothing's wrong. I'm like, I'm not shitting in the box. I'm sorry. so maybe that's what everything fine but for him they may say to him like hey you shit in the box but you need a colonoscopy so all right i don't it's kind of weird i know i would not normally bring that up but he keeps saying like oh you need to follow up on this you need to follow really cool so yeah let's do one more unless you have to go yeah let's do one more do you want to choose one or do you want me to go in and yeah let me choose here blake it says big blake underscore piz okay i'm looking for blake asked to join blake if yeah there he is or they

are i don't know whether it's me i think but i do and i feel asked you to join evidently i this is the tricky thing with technology there you gotta be yes oh my god i know it's like when a chicken dinner right oh wow so now now i wonder right because i just felt like a woman was going to come up is your son's name blake that's my dog which was my son's yes yes he's johnny i see okay so your son's coming in the name blake i thought it was him right and um but hold on and i just we take care of them and his name's blake and you know everybody dogs cats they can see spirit babies can see spirit they can sense them

you know that's why spirit's able to use lighter fare like dragons butterflies birds they can make it appear so your son is snapping his fingers which is a fast passing to me or i did just get chills okay hey has it been a while for him uh only 18 months oh that's not what it seems no it's not really i want to know that i wrote seven to eight years so that's going to be somebody with him and you'll probably figure that out later okay i also want to ask you if you know barbara that's my mother-in-law my husband's mom who passed right yes a while ago sorry she goes i better be i'm talking to you 54 years she passed 54 years ago on tuesday just this past day no oh no 54 years yes

on election day and that's what i'm okay so for 54 years boy did she come in she was like i'm barbara ann and like so because she saw is that her name yes yep and because listen i get to see your face sir that's my name hi there your son yes your son what your son yes okay yes but your your mother said even though you would think i didn't know your son he's here with us and your dad's there too yeah okay and i know someone's gone or jack because i heard that name as well you got a lot of uncles and a lot a lot of them like back in the day drinking you know so i know but he did how they survived but your beautiful son um yeah he passed unexpected correct correct yes yes so did he have toxins in his system well it was definitely alcohol and i'm

not sure about other toxins it was in florida how did he pass i'm going to show you something how how did he pass i can't see it maureen no no i'm gonna tell you what some kind of an accident yes yes yes because i wrote you the motorcycle or car so he fell so i fell it i feel it in my head okay like a head injury or something however i have to tell you something there is somebody coming through who passed on a motorcycle there is because he's laughing at me ask your husband no not that i'll know okay i remember i'm not sure and listen for everybody on the feed this person on the motorcycle is connected to brian or ryan so this is they know we're winding down and we're going to be hanging up in a minute so your son is a helper he helps everyone he's like

I think he's, you know, I don't know if he smoked, but he's handing something out. He did smoke. Oh, he did smoke. He's handing cigs out. I've seen you, Maureen, actually once at Five Bridges in Rehoboth where he did come through. You tried to slow him down. You said he was very fast. And isn't that.

and then a few that it's our anniversary 54 years on tuesday and she needed to come in because she's so proud of her son and she's like about your son in heaven she's like we've got him he's safe he's safe with us so a lot from the heavens above he's just so he's doing okay oh he's so happy because he's he's like ma i don't feel gone from you i feel like i'm right there And he has a dog with him and a pit bull, a pit bull or a boxer. So lots of love, you guys, okay? Thank you. Thank you very much.

Thank you. Thank you. Thank you. You may want to get the box off. Yeah, we're trying to get you off, but you may have to hang on. You know, it's just so interesting. There's so many of us parents, especially, and I'm noticing, I mean, I think you attract parents, but I certainly attract parents who have lost children.

Do you attract a lot of parents who have lost children? Yeah, I do. Because when Sean passed in 2004, I had a three-year wait list and I dropped it. And I said, here's what I want to do. I left my job at Logan Airport. I started a cancer foundation. And I said, I'm only going to read

mothers who lost children and do it for free every day. So 2004, 20 years later, I'm still doing that. But my wish is for everybody. I'm sorry. I have over a thousand on my wait list. I feel terrible. I can't get to everyone. So I like to do things like this.

So we'll do it again sometime and then follow me, Medium Maureen Hancock, follow Helping Parents Heal and just for anybody with grief, like I miss my mom, my dad, my everybody. And they want us to live the best life that we can while we're here. so one day Laura we might have to do a grief retreat together I would love that I just did like I said last weekend I would love to do a retreat okay okay well I love it this was awesome so in my book the medium next door it's good for anybody but it's really geared towards parents who lost children because I had about five mothers do a chapter each and then I talk about how can you be a clearer channel to connect to spirit? Because we do all have this. We really

do. Sometimes it takes going through this kind of loss to be, I was like you, I had it when I was little and then I shut it off. And I find that a lot of mediums who are really legit had the near death thing. I did not have that, but I shut off my intuition and my spiritual connection because I, nobody, everyone told me I was making it up and I was too scared, but it started to open when my mother died about 10 years before Sammy. And I had already done all this research in quantum physics and the fact that energy can't be created and destroyed. So I'm so grateful that by the time he left, I didn't need to be convinced of that. But I find that so many of us, when we go through this kind of terrible loss, it finally opens us up to the potential

because we so want to stay in touch. And then we open up these beautiful channels that, you know, have been there all along, but we never really accessed before. So I'm so, so grateful for the work that you're doing and for your willingness to come on. So fun. I know it's tough.

It's healing, but it's fun because they want to see us smile and laugh again. I love that. And for the people, they want you to be happy. You're not doing, you're not honoring them by being sad. You can be sad and you need to be sad. But Lord knows I'm all about feeling your deepest pain in order to be set free. But if you are holding yourself back from life because you feel like you're dishonoring them by living your life and choosing life, you're not dishonoring

them. In fact, what's honoring them is living life in their name, living the life that they're not here to live, but they're right by your side. Yes, absolutely. I love it. Yes. And I see a lot of people in your comments about Brian, the motorcycle, blah, blah, blah. So they poke in because they have no spirit etiquette. So rude. And if you want tips to the Medium Next Door podcast, I have like 10 episodes on there. I'm not really doing it anymore, but people can go to that it's really um there's a couple with my sister that's geared for parents who've lost children and then teaching you how to do this i love it yeah you have a university too where people i i forgot i have an online university and there's a special right now for the year

it's like 200 bucks reach out to me message me and um 25 bucks a month but i go live the first monday of every month for an hour and a half we meditate i do readings but you will learn how to do what is ingrained in your soul thank you beautiful thank you marina i'll talk to you soon all right talk to you soon bye everybody i went to the doctor said i'm crazy