Las Culturistas with Matt Rogers and Bowen Yang - This Is The Reason (A Long International Nightmare) (w/ Matt & Bowen)

Episode Date: July 17, 2024

After a long international nightmare, Matt & Bowen awaken to culture. And it was a bit of a dark week all around! The girls are on one discussing lost luggage, the Eras Tour in Amsterdam and new reflections on Tayla, volcanic eruptions, which women's haircuts to trust in Italy, jellyfish stings, heat exhaustion, being called frociaggine, and Katy Perry. All this, why gay men are so sad, the... assassination attempt, and having a crush on a sweet lil straight guy.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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Oh, I see. Wow. Bowen, look over there. Wow. Is that culture? Yes. Oh, I see. Wow. Bowen, look over there. Wow. Is that culture? Yes. Oh, my goodness. Wow.

Las Culturistas. Ding dong. Las Culturistas calling. My girl crossed her arms before I counted down for the opening of this very fabulous podcast, Las Culturistas. Can you talk about your body language for a bit? So we're going to get into lots of stuff that happened on our trip to Europe,

but let's just say, suffice it to say, right now I am still without my bags. I am still without my bags from the trip. I am recording this podcast episode on an old microphone. It's a very long story. They did lose my bags three times on this trip. I am recording this podcast episode on an old microphone. It's a very long story. They did lose my bags three times on this trip. I still do not have them. My podcast mic is in there. And I just got word, just got word before we started that actually Ita Airways, ITA Airways, which is like the Italian airline, I guess. Sky Team. Sky Team.

They, because of their, I don't know, a failure in how they do what they do, my bag is sitting at LAX. And if I don't get there in a few hours to be able to like pick my bag up, they're going to send it to Central Bag in Atlanta or something. It's just been a complete nightmare. And I am someone who's gone through life without ever losing any bags

until this trip when my bag was lost in three different cities. It really makes you go, why check a bag ever? Oh, honey. And first of all, I want to say, let me not erase the fact that Bowen Yang's bag was also lost.

But honey, I am really making space for my sister here because what you have gone through feels like I felt like fucking Sandra Bullock at the end of Gravity when I got home from this

hellish journey, tumbling through the void. I'm literally picturing you just like trying to learn to use your feet again, like in your apartment, like while in the background, it's like. I need to watch that movie again. The iconic score of Gravity, which is just like a woman screaming in the back. I'm just like, I love it.

And you know what? Like what a beautiful moment to illustrate the power of women. And cinema. That sustained belt as Sandra Bullock pulled herself up off that nasty beach that she crash landed on from space, honey. While she, after she was careening. Wow, Sandra.

Sandra, you did that. You? I'm sorry, but, Bo, what's 10 minus 2? What is the number of badges per Pokemon region? Bitch, how many continents plus one? Girl! How many planets now that they took Pluto out?

How many studio albums does Beyonce have? Cut to me counting. I think that's right. Hold on. Let me see. Cowboy Carter is the eighth studio album. Thank God. Wow. Okay, it is. I was going to say, can we do it? Oh, yeah. Here we go. Are they counting the one with Jay-Z? I never really do that. Here we go. Thank God. Wow. Okay, it is. Okay, I was going to say, can we do it? Oh, yeah. Here we go. Well, are they counting

the one with Jay-Z? I never really do that. Okay, here we go. Dangerously in Love. Dangerously. B-Day. B-Day. Sasha Fierce.

Sasha Fierce. Four. Four. Self-titled. Lemonade. Renaissance. And Cowboy Carter. So that, yeah.

Perfect. Not even counting the Carters. Not even counting any joint albums. Which I personally, that's my canon. Like when I think about Beyonce, I think of her as even counting any joint albums. Which I personally, that's my canon. Like when I think about Beyonce, I think of her as having eight studio albums, for sure. Oh, yeah. Well, and let's get back on the subject of your bag.

So I'm just going to supplement Matt's experience here by saying that when we get to Amsterdam, all very excited to see Taylor Swift. First of all, our flight was delayed by a few hours. No problem. The six of us were posted up in the Delta Lounge. It happens. Kicking, whatever. It happens.

No problem. But we get to Amsterdam and we got to say, away. What a wonderful luggage company that has really served us a nice, streamlined design for several years now. It's gotten to the point where at least in America, at least in the States, too many people have them

and there are only a limited amount of colorways so that you are bound to get your bag mixed up with someone else's, which is exactly what happened to Matt. Yeah, I can no longer encourage people to buy this product because it has no longer become tenable in, you know, carousel, in baggage carousels. Because what had happened was we get to the baggage carousel in Amsterdam and my bag does not come out. And I think, okay, it's okay. I'm not going to panic.

Then I see someone else's bag, not even on the carousel, off the carousel, with a name tag on it that has someone's full name. And by the way, this is a dark blue standing hard case away bag. And it had a bright orange tag on it

that said this woman's full name and all of her information. And I thought, let me call this number because I'm sure she just took my bag, thinking it's hers. But then what's the fucking point of buying the orange tag is my question. Honey, this is where

I start to get really frustrated. Ornery. And you know how frustrated I got because what did I do to that carousel? Oh, I don't want to, I didn't want to say this. I want to show up today in my truth. Okay. Bless you, sister.

And I respect you to the mountains and back. My sister, Matt Rogers, in his expression of anger, kicked the carousel. I kicked it. But that's okay. It's like, you know, I'm being dead ass. Like anytime someone like punches a wall you know adam driver's it like anytime someone like hits thank god it's not a living thing but

you like you know matt this is someone and i will speak on matt's athletic prowess in another story in another travel anecdote that happened on this trip. Oh my God. You know what I'm talking about. Yes, I know. But Matt really kicked the girl and it gagged us. We were like, she's angry. And she has every right to be. Suffice it to say, we got in touch with the woman who immediately burst into tears.

And her boyfriend, because she couldn't face me, her boyfriend came back with the bag and it was like, yeah, thanks. And thank God. But can I ask a question? How, and if you are the kind of person who does this and listens to this podcast, I need you to turn off the podcast.

And if you're driving, you need to drive off the road. You need to Steve Carell in Morning Show because anyone that just goes to that carousel, grabs a bag that they thinks is theirs and doesn't check the bag tag to make sure in a world where away luggage is everywhere and everyone has pretty much the same bag. You are a monster because this added a lot of time and a lot of stress. And thankfully, like at least prior to the trip, you had your wits about you because you put a bag tag on your luggage if only you had thought to use that bag tag. So a couple hours later, we finally get it back.

And honestly, Amsterdam was lovely, was it not? Amsterdam was so lovely. Taylor Swift, the woman that you are. You are fucked up for singing Archer into question for your piano and not to mention Guilty as Sin into Untouchable which is so underrated

I can't describe what it felt like first of all it's kind of like it's even higher stakes than like waiting to find out if you won an award it's actually you know what I would to find out if you want an award. It's actually, you know what I would liken it to? I would liken it to the finale of American Idol.

When the final two contestants are standing there locked arm in arm, looking at the floor, like weighing their future. That's what it feels like before Taylor Swift starts to sing one of the surprise songs. And when she started guilty as sin on July 4th, 2024. You felt like Kelly?

I felt like when they said the words Kelly Clarkson. And that you were Kelly Clarkson herself. We all were. Well, yeah. I mean, I think we all experienced chemically, like on a neurological level, like what Kelly Clarkson must have felt like the day that she won America,

the moment she won American Idol. Oh my God. We literally, Bowen, I think the last time I felt that way was when we were there and she did clean. No, you,

but you also felt that way when she did, um, death by a thousand cuts, death by a thousand cuts. You said, and your famous words, as if a great leader had passed away, which literally 75, people screaming wailing at the sky like we had lost someone who was crucial

to the success of our humanity uh-huh but in a positive way like no one could believe it guilty as sin starts coming out of her mouth holy shit to say nothing of how good the tortured poet section was and can you just talk about this this is what we want to say if there has been any doubt

no doubt that has been born out of us and the way we've talked about tortured poets department on this podcast nope seeing it live it all fucking just clicked No doubt that has been born out of us and the way we've talked about Tortured Poets Department on this podcast. Nope. Seeing it live, it all fucking just clicked. I really love that album. I adore it now after seeing it live and seeing just like,

I don't know, on a shrooms level, I was like, well, this is perfect. 100%. I was like, oh, I get it. She wrote a 1975 album

and she just, she wrote a better 1975 album than Maddie could have ever written. It's so cool what she's done. That's all. There was a moment where after the Torture Poets section and the Errors Tour, so after I Can Do It With a Broken Heart, which by the way, is the moment of the whole

show. I mean, the production is nuts on it. Bowen turns to me and he goes, I feel like I already loved it, but now I truly get this album. And I just toss over my shoulder, she's depressed. And then Bowen goes,

Bowen goes, well, yeah. I was like, she was depressed. She got love bombed and then she wrote an album about it. You're actually also getting me fresh out of therapy. Fresh out the slammer. So I said to my therapist today, I was like, so, cause I didn't know if I told you this, but I've known for a couple of years now that there's something about midnights for me. And anytime, any, by the way, someone that we're very close with, I would never say their

name calls it flop nights and i'm shaking what i what i have to say about midnights midnights is that girl and midnights is my last relationship every single song speaks to that experience to the i had this epiphany the other night where i was like listening to it because I've been watching like, they do this stupid shit on YouTube where it's like, I listened to Midnight for the first time. I listened to Folklore for the first time.

Like, and that's just how I choose to turn my brain off lately. And someone did it with Midnight and was breaking it down. And I'm like, oh my God, I lived this. I lived this album. And you talked about this in therapy.

Oh, extensively today. And then I was like, and then I feel like Tortured Poets is a perfect hangover after Midnight's. I think Midnight's is her strongest concept. It's not my favorite. It's her best concept to me. If we talk about Taylor Swift,

the concept album artist. Yeah. But I love that you have made this connection in your own life. It will always be important to me because literally Lavender Haze into Maroon, into Antihero, I identify with, and into Snow at the Beach,

which by the way, justice for Snow at the Beach, that song is fucking amazing. I think it's even better when they released the version with even more Lana Del Rey that's an even better version and then until you're on your own kid

and then it's in Midnight Rain I said no this album is and then forget about Bone what was your favorite part of the concert? Be honest Bejeweled It's always going to be bejeweled just even the bracelets lighting up around the stadium into jewel tones.

The way that all of these gems like on the screen morph into her face. I'm like, come on. Like, this is ridiculous. It's such an important moment in the concert because guess what? You, and I'm talking to you, the readers. I'm definitely talking to you, the Katie's. I know you need this. You need to hear this. You need to hear this.

Everyone needs to hear this. You can still make the whole room shimmer. You can. Oh, yeah. Best believe you are still bejeweled. This woman, I have it on good authority, did our show with the sinus infection. Yep.

She was wiping away snot, and I can confirm. You know what? I find it so refreshing, because it's like seeing Jonathan Groff spit at the whole audience. It's like being in the splash zone at Merrily We Roll Along. It's like, yeah, these people have fluids inside of them, just like you and me. It's rule of culture number 18.

Yeah, these people have fluids inside them, just like you and me. You know what I was talking about this with? Lily Gladstone. There is nothing wrong with talking about shit, or toilet humor, quote unquote, or poop, piss,

things coming out of your mouth, because those are actually the only universal human experiences. 100,000% more people shit than feel happy, sad, excited, surprised, angry. Like everyone shits. Not everyone feels every emotion. And you know, there's some sociopaths out there. They might not feel every emotion.

They might not have empathy, but they do shit. And that is the equalizer. That is the equalizer that is the equalizer she 100% during Cruel Summer at the end when she's going with you with you

she tossed her shoulder over and she looked she knew where you were and she gave us a with you and we screamed we screamed. We screamed, Taylor! Love her. Anyway, bravada, Taylor.

Okay, so we do Amsterdam. Then July 5th, we're supposed to board our flight to Catania, which is on the eastern coast of Sicily. We get to the airport. We lounge in the lounge, as you do. Looking forward to our trip. Matt and I had checked our bags along with some of our other friends

and we go to the lounge. Then we get to the gate after some delays, which we don't think anything of. I think it was three or four delays total, just like little inching delays, like 30 minutes, 30 minutes, 30 minutes, 30 minutes, two hours all told. We were like, no problem.

We get to the gate. I look at the monitor and see that the flight is canceled. Canceled? What? Hmm. Oh my God, what do we do? Then we all go back to the lounge. On the way back to the lounge, all of us pull up our phones and see that all of our flights

have been rebooked to different flights, essentially. Except Matt and I have been booked to the same one because we booked our flights basically together on the same confirmation. These rebookings are for like, not like a few hours later, but like two days later. Days later. So then we think, oh like two days later. Days later.

So then we think, oh, there must be something really wrong. And also this can't be right. So we go to the lounge and we ask the women working at our airline's lounge, like, hey, do you know what's going on with these flights? Oh, yes. All those flights have been canceled. And the woman who will go down in history as one of the great deliverers of any lines ever for all time turns to us and says, it is because the volcano has erupted. It is the eruption. This is the reason.

Six gay men face cracked all at once. This is the reason. I said, any time you ever deliver bad news from now on, you have to end it with, this is the reason. Title of that. It is the volcano.

It has erupted. This is the reason. Now, to be honest, title of that. It is the volcano. It is erupted. This is the reason. Now, to be honest, I heard that and I was like, what? And I was like, I don't,

I think she's making this up. It can't be. And like, where is there a volcano in Sicily? Like I did not, I listen, this is where you go. Oh God,

I wish I could have worked at like a wine bar or something because Mount Etna, one of the few and maybe biggest active volcanoes in Europe, erupts at such a regular interval that like the soil there is amazing. The grapes that come out of there are world-class. Some of the best wines, some of the best Italian wines you could ever get are from Sicily or from Mount Etna region. But Mount Etna had erupted with spewing lava covering the town of Catania in ash. The airport was closed. Because obviously once the atmosphere is affected in that way,

you cannot fly in and out, which totally fair. Of course. We think, okay, act of God, whatever. So now we're just like, we literally have a moment where we're saying, okay, so because the volcano has erupted, tragedy has struck, an act of God,

maybe we're not even going to Sicily. Heartbreaking, we start to decide where else in the world we should go. We start thinking, maybe we'll go to Bahamar. Maybe. Do you remember when we almost went to Bahamar? And then I looked up flights. We would have had to pay four figures to travel 25 hours total with layovers. So that was not in the cards. Then we find out, oh, the airport in Catania is reopening and we're like well okay so are the flights back on no they are not that only we in that three-hour window I guess lose the flight everyone else

rebooks for that same day etc so we deal with the legends these women were legends at the KLM lounge. Because so we checked in. It was a KLM flight. So KLM is the Sky Team in the Netherlands, like the Sky Team airline in the Netherlands. They're partnered with ETA Airways. More on that later. But we talked to these women at the KLM lounge who really were legendary. They were legendary. They got us rebooked on another situation. So the four boys we were with were going to get into Catania like four hours prior to me and Bowen,

who were going to get there on a little bit of a later flight. We couldn't all work that out, whatever. So then we got the next day. Bowen and I land in Catania. All the boys are there already. They're sending us these pictures of our, like, this hotel, the Villa Sant'Andrea, where we were staying. It was so beautiful.

We had everyone that worked there was so incredible. It was such an amazing experience. But they're sending us these pictures of them splashing around in the sea. We land. Our bags are not there again. We'll be right back. Everyone is a gossip. No one gets a happier life. We don't wear costumes, we wear fashion. And now you're here getting upset. Watch all new seasons on Bravo or stream it on City TV+. On Thanksgiving Day, 1999, a five-year-old boy floated alone in the ocean.

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And I must bring up, and I brought this up to Matt when we landed. I said, there's that 30 Rock quote where it's both a Jenna and Jack quote because Jack sets it up early on in the episode where he goes, this is Manhattan real estate, Liz. There are no rules. Like check in at an Italian airport. No rules. Then later on,

Jenna tells Liz, well, this is Manhattan real estate, Liz. There are no rules. Like check in at an Italian sex party. The chaos of an Italian airport is unmatched. And I've been to Asia. And some of these Asian airports are crazy,

but not as crazy as all of the airports in Italy. And I mean all of them. I'm sorry to generalize. No, it was shocking. It was shocking. But then we will say this. When we got to the front of the lost and found at Catania Airport, we were dealing with truly

the one legend that worked there, which is that woman with that wonderful haircut. Remember she had that insane, that like crazy, like blunt brunette, angled, blunt brunette, Bob. She had Bayonetta glasses. She looked fierce and she was doing her best. And she was very patient with us because I did get her seat, unfortunately, chewed out by an Italian man ahead of us. And this woman just wanted a nice person to talk to her. And we were willing to be those people, even after all we've been through. But we told her, these are our bags.

This is where we're staying. By the way, I love your haircut and glasses. And she kind of looks at me and goes, I think her thought was, and then she just kept looking for the bags. Froggagine was definitely a subtext of almost everything anyone said to us. In fact, when we, so a couple of days later,

like cut to, we go to the resort. It's stunning. It's beautiful. A few days later, we were actually on a boat, and some guys who were cruising past us did yell the words, Fragicine, at our boat. But Bowen,

I wasn't really able to hear it, and that's because earlier that day, I had been stung by a jellyfish. The jellyfish stung me in the waters and i don't know what happened next but i do know that i lost pretty much all my faculties either due to the sting or heat exhaustion both so fine we get the bag back i put i finally put my bathing suit on. We get on this damn boat, which we were so thrilled to enjoy. The water's so clear,

you can see to the bottom, but we are on the boat. I'm sick as shit. But you did get in the water and you were rejuvenated and this just confirms that you are a true Piscean. Like you are of the water, but the other creatures of the water

that are not fish will come and get you. They were threatened by me. I think that's what happened. They were like, oh, this fish thinks he's somebody? Sting! They got me, gal. They took me out.

And I was miserable on this boat. And if you look at pictures, it's just all the guys like jumping in the water, doing whatever. And me in like a full denim jacket, like shaking like a leaf. I was so sick. And these men cruised by Froggiacine. Ugh. Froggiacine. F-R-O-C.

Insult to injury over here. Froggiacine. Froggiacine. Insult to injury over here. Damn it. Insult to injury. here huh? insult to injury over here damn it rallied you rallied you were such a champion that day and then we get home and you were like

I don't think I can make it to dinner and then you rallied yet again to come to dinner and we had a dinner we certainly had a dinner and not everyone was their best self but that's for our private knowledge. Everything's fine now. It's all water under the bridge,

but it got a little housewives-y at dinner and I would have preferred it not. Because we had been watching Housewives, but we also didn't mean to skip over this. Matt luckily got his bag back, I would say, what, two days in? Two, three days in? Yeah.

Mine was on this delay. I found out that it never left Amsterdam. I think neither of our bags had left Amsterdam. Mm-mm. So, like... Oh, no, no, no. No, no, remember? My bag was in Catania the entire time.

Your bag was in Catania the entire time. My bag never left Amsterdam. I don't know how that works, but that's just ETA Airways for you. And I, after much delay, this lost and found office in the Catania airport, I mean, that should be a more invested sector of that place because of what I imagine the common cancellation, how common the cancellations are there. Like you better have like whatever bag retrieval lost and found system there,

like be rock solid. And it's one guy manning one phone. And so our poor concierge, Sandy legend at the concierge just was calling every 15 minutes to no answer. Same haircut as the girl from the airport by the way did you notice that every woman in italy who has like the lucia from white lotus sicily haircut is as much of a slay as lucia is yes so only trust women with that haircut in italy it's actually rule of culture number 30 only trust women with the lucia haircut in Italy. It's actually Rural Culture number 30. Only trust women

with the Lucia haircut in Italy. The rest of them are not to be trusted. And don't, I don't even want to talk about the men. The men.

I don't know about the men. I think you maybe were asleep for this, but we had the guys coming over saying Frottagine to us, whatever. And then we had another guy.

I remember that. And do like a little like Cate Blanchett, like limp wrist. Yeah, no, we were being attacked at sea. But this is the thing. Like all of those guys, I'm like not to be all legally blonde in the musical, but I'm like, gay or European? I was like, I couldn't tell if it was them like being homophobic or them being like, hey, like, y'all gay like us? Because it's just like, these are gay looking dudes. These are gay guys. I'm sorry, but like the aesthetic of a gay guy is universal. And whatever these men do in the privacy of their own bedrooms with whoever they choose to do it with

is irrelevant because y'all read gay. And it renders your frontagini or your limp wrist from your silly little boats irrelevant and ineffective. So I actually don't really care that they were being homophobic. I really don't. I'm like, oh, whatever. First of all, last time I saw a group of gays in Italy, Jennifer Coolidge

died. So I don't need to hear any more. We wake up the morning of July 12th in Italy. Jared had left on an earlier flight. He lands in Rome early in the morning and texts us. I wake up before Matt does. Texts us, just got to Rome. A bunch of flights to Catania are canceled. Check yours. I look up my flight number. It's canceled.

Canceled. Again, because of more fumes from the volcano. Because of more eruption from the volcano. I walk over to Matt's room and I didn't realize what I was doing, but I like rush over to Matt's room and like he wakes up and looks up and goes, what? And then I freeze. Do you remember this? I freeze because I was like, I'm about to ruin this man's day. My best friend's day.

I'm about to ruin it. But you. My best friend's day. I'm about to ruin it. But you had to tell me the truth. I did. Oh, I said. And he told me the flight was canceled. And Matt leapt out of bed with a spirited, you're kidding. And we were scrambling to find a way out.

We just wanted to get the fuck out as much as we enjoyed our stay there. It was just too, I mean, like, we had already pushed the day. We already extended the stay at the resort because we lost a day and a half, and because, like, I was basically there with, like, my luggage on the last day and a half as well.

And then I immediately booked a flight to Paris where we would have had to stay at a hotel airport to then wake up the next day and go back to JFK. As soon as those tickets were bought, ETA Airways goes, just kidding, your flight is uncanceled. Yeah. Giving us like minutes to scramble

and get the fuck out of that resort from Taramina and drive down to contain it. Like the whole, like that airline can fucking eat my ass. Choke on my ass. How about that? Suffocate on my ass. I can't believe ETA Airways made us do that.

Basically. They're bad. They are a bad airline. I don't know how else you get in and out of that area of the world but there has to be some other way there should be like some type of lawsuit that should be able to be filed like i feel so litigious because not only that bowen but this whole time and i'm gonna get to katie perry but this whole time, and I'm going to get to Katy Perry, but this whole time, I'm thinking, well, at least we'll get home. And there's no reason why my bag should go missing a third time.

Landon JFK, your bag pops out, mine does not. Okay. Now it is the last minutes of the trip. And I'm without my bag. I'm just like, you know what? I'm going to go home. It's July 11th. The Katy Perry song is out.

Yes, 11th. So I'll be like, you know what? I'll just in the car. I'll make myself feel better. Because I know Katy Perry is going to give something. This is the worst song of all time. Can you believe

that it's called Woman's World produced and written by Dr. Luke and five other people including Katy herself the verse that literally they allowed the entire internet to run with the bit that it was a joke never corrected that is actually the song the lyrics to that song are

actually i've actually only listened to it two times because i i refused to give it streams. So intelligent. She is, what the fuck is she talking about? That is kind of like the most minor offense to me. I think Jesse David Fox wrote a wonderful piece about how just because you call something satire does not make it any more elevated than, does not elevate any part of this work and for her to put out this video after the video comes out being like you can do anything even satire in all caps and it's just her being so uncomfortable on set for this bts moment being like we're just being yeah like on the nose

and like just really like on the nose and it's like supposed to be stupid and we're like being cheeky but like it's with a wink but it's like on the nose i don't know what it was i think that american idol and maybe vegas made her think that the only way forward for her was to be more broad like listen it wouldn't even have to be a thing of like kind of fuck her if she didn't have dr luke on it like you actually made everyone participate in this thing of like oh the katie perry comeback and then not only was it incredibly mid but you're just like waving in everyone's face that it's like tormentor of a lot of your peers because mind you it's not just kesha that he had a problem with no like kelly clarkson also in a deposition said that he was not a good guy and that all she wanted was to never work with him again and the label

fucking made her so i don't know what it is with the music industry and this fucking dude, but the listeners are not buying it, especially when it also sucks. What? It's a woman's world and you're lucky to be living in it? This is like a girl power platitude from 1999. This is like late 90s, early 2000s bullshit. She's a sister. She's a mother.

Stream stupid love. She's a sister. She's a mother. You wrote Teenage Dream. Like, what are we doing here? This is a person who burst onto the scene with I Kissed a Girl, which was, in Bowen's words, serrated first single with personality that was different, that was specific.

This was never the way she planned. Not her intention. I mean, just read the Pitchfork article. Read the cut. Read like any piece of media that's talked about this. And it would be one thing if it was just a mid song or a bad song, it happens. But you literally went out of your way to be like, no, it's going to be worth it to work with this problematic person because at least he's the best at what he does, I guess.

That's not even true anymore. Right. And it never will be again. What's confusing is the lead up to it seemed so, like they could have done it any other way besides the way they did it, which was little drips, little leaks, little snippets, little things, like actually we're going to be the ones to release the credits that include Dr. Luke.

Like that was after the snippets leaked and the whole internet was confused, being like, what the fuck is this? And then like, oh! And by the way, they're silent about it. Crazy. They're silent about it. She doesn't even say like, you know what, I see

and I understand the response. Here's what I'll say back. It's just nothing. It's just a complete disregard. The response was that you can do anything even satire video which I couldn't even make it through because I was just like I

like she's just doing like her bit voice and all these background dancers are behind her like sheepishly nervously grinning being like what the fuck is she talking about oh the dancers looked like they were yikes they looked shook i felt bad first of all the video's nuts like especially what like it ends like even if it does track a satire the way it

ends with her holding up a ring light in the form of the feminine symbol and the tick tocker being like, who are you? And her going, I'm Katy Perry with like the ring light female symbol in the air. Like, what are you talking about? It's a tough time. Disgusting! Never in a million years after everything we've been through did I think that you would reach out to our sworn enemy. We were friends! How could you do this to me? I don't trust her. The Real Housewives of Salt Lake City.

Wednesdays at 9 on Bravo. Or stream it on City TV+. On Thanksgiving Day, 1999, a five-year-old boy floated alone in the ocean. He had lost his mother trying to reach Florida from Cuba. He looked like a little angel. I mean, he looked so fresh. And his name, Elian Gonzalez, will make headlines everywhere. Elian Gonzalez.

Elian. Elian. Elian. Elian. Elian. Elian Gonzalez. At the heart of the story is a young boy and the question of who he belongs with. His father in Cuba.

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My latest episode is with Jelly Roll. This episode is one of the most honest and raw interviews I've ever had. We go deep into Jelly Roll's life story from being in and out of prison from the age of 13 to being one of today's biggest artists. We talk about guilt, shame, body image, and huge life transformations. I was a desperate, delusional dreamer

and the desperate part got me in a lot of trouble. I encourage delusional dreamers. Be desperate delusional dreamer and the desperate part got me in a lot of trouble. I encourage delusional dreamers. Be a delusional dreamer. Just don't be a desperate delusional dreamer. I just had such an anger. I was just so mad at life. Everything that wasn't right was everybody's fault but mine. I had such a victim mentality. I took zero accountability for anything in my life. I was the kid that if you asked what happened, I immediately started with everything but me. It took years for me to break that, like years of work. Listen to On Purpose with Jay Shetty on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. Trust me, you won't want to miss this one.

I want to point out something just to move on from moment's world any closing thoughts I feel like you you have expressed yourself very very well I mean I feel bad that the review of this song is coming on the heels of this trip where my luggage was lost several times and the stakes weren't so high for her and not only just her comeback but making me smile again turned it around she could have really turned it around and And maybe it's the wrong single, or maybe she just sucks now. I think there's a knock-on's-razor thing here where it's like the simplest explanation is probably the real one. I can't.

A fun moment happened on the flight home, though. Before the torture began, in the words of Reba, I was on the plane. I was on the iPad watching something while Matt was reading a full-ass book. And it was a fun little role reversal because it was like I was watching season one of The Real Housewives of Beverly Hills

and living my life. Here's my thing. I'm not that literate in the early seasons of a lot of franchises, but specifically Beverly Hills. Oh, it's so good. I was like, God damn, I can't believe it was just right there all along.

And this is from the beginning. So fucking good. Like, wow. I did not realize that the Kim and kyle thing is there from day one from the episode one it's essentially the main plot of the show that's why i say kyle is the protagonist because like that's like sure totally that was the show and the first two seasons of beverly hills is like what housewives always is trying to be. Like there's like certain seasons of different franchises, like, you know, season nine of Atlanta

or even earlier in Atlanta too. Like our season, honestly, season four of Salt Lake, like season one and two of Beverly Hills is like one of those. Right. Like just what I cannot stop thinking about is how perfectly distilled of a housewife moments taylor armstrong like the perfectly distilled moment of taylor armstrong saying if you can't be my friend please don't be my enemy

don't be my enemy it's like that is so the pathos in that is like it feels like the classics it feels like oh like it doesn't get better than that oh i love it i mean so i'm looking over and bowen is like bowen turns his screen and it's just kim richard's face in a confessional and i had to laugh because i looked down at my book and i was reading mean boys by jeffrey mack and i was just like literally reading a chapter about how like empathy is the only way forward. Like the last essay in the book is called me and boys. And like it actually, this is really interesting and timely because you got to segue into this,

but it talks about the psychology of a mass shooter. And I've just got men, people who want to kill people in general. Right. Exactly. And just, it's usually these broken men to kill people in general. Right, exactly. And just- It's usually these broken men. And I will say that book was excellent.

And I was really happy that I read it. And I've been thinking about it a lot because I've been thinking a lot about like the drug culture amongst the gay community. I've been thinking a lot about, you know, our collective mental health. Even after Taylor, in your shrooms moment, you had Googled in the night,

why are gay men so sad? And I think that was, and I really told you the next day, I was like, I think it's a really good thing that you did that. Like, I don't think you should be like, don't chalk it up to like drugs or anything. It's just like, this is a totally valid thing to ask, especially in the summertime when people are all across the fucking spectrum with their emotions, whether they're like happy that it's summer, they're with their friends or they're even with their friends and sad and like just very morose about like how overwhelming life can be. I definitely Googled the words why our game ends so sad. And I can tell you that it has a lot to do with the fact that no matter how happy we think we are, we, especially men of our generation,

have internalized rejection to such an extent that we come to expect it so that when it happens, it's extra crushing, but also it's something that we're like low-key used to. We live every single day with really the ingrained idea, like really in our DNA. It's our ethos. That we are not valuable.

Yeah. And so that informs a lot of the way we react to each other, the way we treat each other, the way that we feel when we see other people succeed, fail, attempt things, the way that we interact with one another in romantic situations. The way that we adopt certain conventions within a gay subculture or a culture within that culture, it, it kind of motivates specific drug use in the gay community. Like, I think it motivates like, why does everyone at basement have the same sunglasses?

Like, I love that they have the same sunglasses, but it's this like arbitrary thing of like, we all sort of adopt these conventions, these literal conventions, these units of the culture. And like, it's all just like this crazy two mirrors facing

each other, but it's like actually millions of mirrors facing. It's like, it just gets like reflected into infinity. And like, it just amplifies like the pain and the misery and it's interesting. I mean, essentially, I think we're all just trying to be cool and individuals and we're all trying to like be interesting and we're trying to find community within community and we're all out here. And a lot of what this book talks about is like the way that fashion and politics speak to each other and the way that culture, they say politics flows down river from culture. So this is like one of the ideas in this book. And so there's a whole chapter about people going to Art Basel in Miami and how that's really more about partying, exclusively about partying and not really about art. But on the outset, it feels like something that you need to go to and participate in in order to be part of the culture, right?

And then you go and you're just fucking exhausted and high. And then you're like, hold on a second. Wait, why did I even come here? And that sounds like so many things. Yeah. It's like everything. It's like going to that party, this thing, that, being pictured this way on Instagram, looking this way, wearing

these clothes. Like, essentially, all these things are being decided for us by someone up top who is really unhappy. So, it's just, it sounds like a dark book, but, and in many ways it is, but it was also very illuminating. And I think very true. Yeah. And I really, really love that. I'm going to illuminating. And I think very true. Yeah, and I really, really love that. I'm going to read the ending

I think forever. He ends on this hopeful note of empathy is the only way forward. It is the thing that it makes me think of, sorry, but Fleabag, people are all we've got. Other people are all we've got.

Right. That is the only way out of the but like fleabag like people are all we've got like other people are all we've got right that is like the only way out of your the prison of your own mind or whatever like connection is important and community is like the building block of like an egalitarian society and like what is happening right now in the culture is that like those things are being broken down and everyone feels disconnected and all these troubling things yeah And basic human empathy and understanding is one way to really connect with someone else and find that community because you're not going to find happiness in a sweater or a party or a drug. Like you're never going to find lasting happiness in those things. And I don't know, it was just, it was just really refreshing almost to feel

it put like that and a lot of reading it was very tough but i recommend it especially for you know gay men our age or queer people our age really or anybody it's very good but anyway that's why that's what i was doing while bowen was watching uh kim and k Kyle argue in the limo. Oh my god. Kyle. You take that back right now. Do you hear what you just said? Do you hear what you just said? You are a liar and an alcoholic. I love... You're such a fucking liar,

Camille. Camille. So good. I will say this. Back then, Kyle had a different personality. Back then, Kyle was nasty. Kyle was serrated. She was not nice.

She wasn't... What is Becca saying? Producer Becca says, my husband has treated you like his second wife. Jesus. Wait, have you gotten to the scene where Kyle and Kim team up and bully Brandi Glanville? No. Brandi has.

Well, I do, of course, know you're a slut pig. Like that's iconic Kim Richards right there. Yeah. Well, Brandi and one, Brandi's like new to the show in the second season. And she comes in on crutches because she's hurt her foot or something. And she's over their house and they're being so merciless to her. And then they hide her crutches. I mean, that is monstrous,

but also it's Brandi Glanville and so and that is like one of the most despicable human beings to ever be put on TV. Well, I mean, listen, I think that's what made her though. Like I think that was the origin story right there. I was like, no, because I remember I went back and I was like, oh,

there's Brandi Glanville. I can't wait to see how crazy she is. Like, here we go. And then I'm watching it and I'm like, no, because I remember I went back and I was like, oh, there's Brandi Glanville. I can't wait to see how crazy she is. Like, here we go. And then I'm watching it and I'm like, no, Kyle and Kim are the villains here. Like, they're being really mean. They were being so mean. years later that like or maybe even a couple years later that like Kyle became like sort of like the de facto protagonist who we all love and like you know the sweet gooey center of Beverly Hills but

you know it's it's interesting to see where where she started it was not what it is now producer Becca says except Brandy's son did piss outside lol well the thing like Brandy like I love that we're talking about season two of Beverly Hills on this podcast in 2024,

but I just can't believe, I didn't know about the whole, like, Brandy fucking ruining Adrian's marriage thing. Oh, yeah, yeah, yeah. Like, well, it's crazy. This woman has destroyed so many lives. She's definitely chaotic is a kind word. But I also know that she's fucking going through it now.

And I, it's a whole fucking thing. Whatever. I will say OC is great this season. I love OC. And so is Jersey. OC and Jersey are both giving. But Jersey is just wild because the more you watch theresa's scenes the more you realize what a warped reality she lives in oh yeah every scene with her is completely

berserk like in this last episode there's a scene where they like are going to a live show she's doing for her podcast which by the way theresa with a podcast is an interesting um interesting idea but she has the women like gather before the podcast taping in like this big quiet room and it's just you can tell they're all just like sort of trying to find something to talk to her about and Jen Aiden is just she's just so sad you can tell she's such a broken person that it's coming out in very toxic ways and she was on Watch What Happens Live the other night

and it was really weird and it just Teresa and Jen of it all it just has to stop it's just gotta stop and like you know I guess if you want it to continue then give teresa her own show and we'll see how many people watch it but like this is not housewives of new jersey anymore it feels like two different shows one is like jen and teresa being these like sad dark

clowns and then the rest of it is the housewives of new jersey and i feel like that's the show we should be watching but i'm not totally up to speed on Jersey. We're only one episode into OC at the time of this recording and I'm enjoying it very much. Shannon spiking Cameron saying perfect is iconic. Oh, so good. I mean, that was a great episode. And I feel like, you know,

this is all the pop culture of right now. What else? I mean, like gypsy rose is pregnant you know good for her um uh what else um oh right there was an assassination attempt on trump i guess in the grand scheme of things i just want to say i think it's fucking pathetic the way that the democrats have handled this i just think it's ridiculous that like the thoughts and prayers, we obviously never want this to happen. When is someone just going to stand up and say the truth,

which is the fact that one of the reasons this can even happen is because the man that is the leader of this political party would do nothing to stop something like this from happening. Oh, you're kidding. Someone who spews violent rhetoric and makes this an even more unsafe country to live in day after day after day as we take this high road towards death. Like, this guy finally had the violence turned around on him?

You don't say. Well, and then for the response from the center, because that's what they are, to be like to apologize for even existing is so devastating and so sad. And it's it's like sealing the fate of an entire country, world, whatever. It's like it's just it's bad. It's really bad. Just make it about guns, it's just, it's bad. It's really bad. Just make it about guns. Let's just make it about guns. If you want the gun situation in this country to change, you cannot support the GOP. You cannot do it. And even if we weren't just going to make it about that, let's make it about abortion. If you want that to be an

option in this country, an option. You cannot support the GOP. Like, I feel like I'm going fucking crazy. And obviously, like, I don't think Biden is the way forward. Obviously, I just think it fuels people that are like, oh, well, Biden, I don't know. He can't string two sentences together. Sure. While that's true, at least we would still have democracy and a chance to change these things. Like.

Huh? I feel like I'm living on another planet. and a chance to change these things. Like, huh? I feel like I'm living on another planet. Ugh. The effect that it's having on me is like what I'm kind of going through at the moment, which is just to like ignore, ignore, ignore, which is like not constructive, not productive. It's just like, it's kind of

protective for now. And... I get it. I will come out of it. It's just... I need this week to be over of RNC stuff. And then...

And then who knows? Oh, my God. And the J.D. Vance of it all. Like, the fact that, like, he was out here saying that Trump is Hitler and like the this is literally I mean it's just it's comical this fucking joke of a human that they've chosen as the VP was out here being like I would never support him I would never vote for him you're sick if you do he's like Hitler and now he's just like gladly signed on the dotted line to be next in line to power. Like, if you don't see this, you're a moron.

Like, it's crazy, bro. It's nuts. But, you know, it's a woman's world. We're lucky to be living in it. The Real Housewives of New York City are back for another bite of the Big Apple. Look who it is. Joined by elite new friends. Rebecca Minkoff.

Have you ever heard of her? But things could change in a New York Minute. She had this wild night and ended up getting pregnant by some other guy. What? You told her? Not today, Satan. Not today. The Real Housewives of New York City, all new,

Tuesdays at 9 on Bravo or stream it on City TV+. On Thanksgiving Day, 1999, a five-year-old boy floated alone in the ocean. He had lost his mother trying to reach Florida from Cuba. He looked like a little angel. I mean, he looked so fresh. And his name, Elian Gonzalez, will make headlines everywhere. Elian Gonzalez. Elian.

Elian. Elian. Elian. Elian. Elian Gonzalez. At the heart of the story is a young boy and the question of who he belongs with. His father in Cuba. Mr. Gonzalez wanted to go home and he wanted to take his son with him. Or his relatives in Miami. Imagine that your mother died trying to get you to freedom. At the heart of it all is still this painful family

separation. Something that as a Cuban, I know all too well. Listen to Chess Peace, the Elian Gonzalez story, as part of the My Cultura podcast network, available on the iHeart radio app, Apple podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. Hey, I'm Jay Shetty and I'm the host of On Purpose. My latest episode is with Jelly Roll. This episode is one of the most honest and raw interviews I've ever had. We go deep into Jelly Roll's life story from being in and out of prison from the age of 13 to being one of today's biggest artists. We talk about guilt, shame, body image, and huge life transformations. I was a desperate delusional dreamer and the desperate part got me in a lot of trouble. I encourage delusional dreamers. Be a delusional dreamer and the desperate part got me in a lot of trouble. I encourage delusional dreamers.

Be a delusional dreamer. Just don't be a desperate delusional dreamer. I just had such an anger. I was just so mad at life. Everything that wasn't right was everybody's fault but mine. I had such a victim mentality. I took zero accountability for anything in my life. I was the kid that if you asked what happened, I immediately started with everything but me.

It took years for me to break that, like years of work. Listen to On Purpose with Jay Shetty on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. Trust me, you won't want to miss this one. Is there anything happy going on? Is there anything good? I like the Kesha single. Kesha single's great.

I don't know. Hard to say. We did have fun in Sicily and we did have fun in Amsterdam and Taylor was amazing. I really loved those experiences. At least on like a, on a stress level,

which is like what I tend to like, what motivates me to go on vacation. Like it came out a full wash. Like with the travel stress on the ledger, with the pleasures that were had, like it was balance net zero, which is not bad. It could be worse. Oh, it could have been very, a lot worse. Yeah. But I'm just saying like,

ugh, all right. Like that's where I'm at with that vacation for now. I'm sure like years from now, I'll like forget about like those bad travel memories will flush out sooner than the good memories of being in the destinations. There was like a moment where I was swimming around in the sea and I was so happy to be there and I felt like so free. And that's when I was just like, you know what? Actually, it's not worth it to be like nihilistic and fatalistic about everything. Like there's so many beautiful things in the world.

There's so many experiences to be had. There's so many people that are out there that don't want like the negativity and the darkness and the, you know, fucking hellscape that it seems like we're headed towards. I wish that there could be projected more positivity. but I also think we're in a moment where we need to fucking snap in and understand and get that. Like, like, yeah, I hear you. Things that we take advantage of. We take,

we, we, we take it for granted, dude. And I know, I know we do. I'm not all the way hopeless. I'm just like saying right now,

the past. Yeah. 72, nine, you know, 96 hours actually have just been a lot. Should we move into I Don't Think So, Honey? Sure.

This is I Don't Think So, Honey. This is our segment where we take one minute to rail against something in culture. Matt, do you have something? Do I have something? Do I have something? I feel like this entire episode has been, I don't think so, honey. Yeah. We can skip it.

We can make history. No, I don't think we can. Um, sure. I have an I don't think so, honey. Okay. This is Matt Rogers. I don't think Sony's time starts now. I don't think so, honey.

No chicken parmesan in Italy. It's American, babe. It's an American thing. It's an American thing. It's so American. And I, that's kind of like at a certain point, it really was all I wanted. I was like, I can't wait to get a big old piece of chicken covered in marinara and cheese. And then I was curiously on no menus. And I said, I don't think so, honey, that I've seen it even offered. Then I come to find out when I say it out loud to someone like, well, why is there no chicken parm? Everyone's like, oh, that's an American thing. And I was

like, well, that stinks because I think one of the great dishes is chicken parmesan. And I'm embarrassed for my lack of culture, but just how exactly did the chicken parmesan become not only such a staple Italian food, but such a marquee Italian food if it doesn't even happen in Italy or at least Sicily, it doesn't even happen there. But yeah, I don't think so, honey. I was not able to get that.

It is my favorite food. I would have loved it authentically in Italia, but I guess I'll have to go to its authentic birthplace. What, New York? I don't think so. That's one minute. Oh, this happens all the time with like, quote unquote, like cultural foods. to go to its authentic birthplace. What, New York? I don't think so. That's one minute.

Oh, this happens all the time with like, quote unquote, like cultural foods. It's like there's Americanized Chinese food, like things on a Chinese menu here that you would never, ever find anywhere across the great big country of China.

I mean, listen, here's what's great for us. If we want our favorite things that are Italian, but not Chinese, but not, we have them in spades here in America. You just can't go get it in a place where you think they would absolutely knock it out of the park.

Mm, totally. Totally. Do you have an I don't think so, honey topic? I do. It's a little inappropriate, but here we go. Inappropriate? Yeah, you'll see. You'll see why. This is Bowen Young's I Don't Think So Honey as time starts now.

I Don't Think So Honey when cute straight guys aren't gay. I was at a wonderful event last night helping to support Sean Wang, the director, the Oscar-nominated director of Night Night in Waipo, which is the documentary short that was nominated at the Oscars this year. It's on Disney+, if you want to check it out. It's 17 minutes. But he's coming out with a movie on July 26 called Didi. And it takes place in 2008. It's like a coming-of-age story taking place in California of this Chinese kid

who's growing up with an older sister and... 30 seconds. A single mom. The grandma's living there with them. I have never related to a movie more, at least not in a while. Joan Chen is a fucking force of nature. She's one of our fucking best.

Put some respect on the name Joan Chen. 15 seconds. Watch Shoo Shoo, The Sent Down Girl. Wonderful movie. I can't recommend it enough. I feel like Sean Wang is the perfect example of straight, cute guy

who is just a wonderful person inside and out. Same goes for Eric Nam, who was also at the dinner. K-pop star from Atlanta. Gosh, I mean, they're missing out, we're missing out.

It's a shame sometimes. You know, sometimes you just feel that way about certain guys. You're like, oh, that's a bummer. And that's one minute and change. And I have to say, I to say i agree with you sister i mean sometimes i'll meet a straight who has that thing 99 of the time i'll meet a straight guy i'm like yeah no problem even if they're like wonderfully attractive or great on paper whatever i'm like no problem i i can cope with that but

every now and then you meet a couple people where you're like, damn. Who sticks. Who sticks. I know. And they stick and we're like, oh, that stings, you know? Well, I recently embarrassed myself. It was like a month ago we were doing game show and one of the contestants, one of the straight contestants, that's famously the conceit, is that there's two straight contestants competing. And I have such a crush on one of them.

Can you say? That I actually said, I didn't realize he was in front of me, but I said out loud, like, oh my God, I would throw it all away if he were ever to decide he was gay, et cetera. I think I know who you're talking about. And he was right there. And I didn't even realize he was there. And I was so embarrassed. And I felt like I had embarrassed him. And I was like, oh no.

But that was my vulnerable moment. know but it's okay it's okay to have a crush like it's just like and honestly sometimes it's nicer to have a crush on a straight person because at least now you don't know you don't have to deal with any other bullshit because that's a whole other thing that i'm so annoyed about right now which is like dating in the summer or like trying to engage with guys in the summer. Forget it. You're all so annoying. All anyone wants is attention. And then you give them attention. I'm so over it. I'm so over it.

Stay out of my DMs if you're just trying to get me to... No. None of us have the time, including you. I'm talking about you, like these guys. Like you have in the words of Jerry Blank, bring a book, bring a book, read a book. It's ridiculous. Like when it's like, don't engage with me in a way that would suggest you're down to like, see if there's more.

If like, if that's not true, it's fine. I get it. It's the summer. Everyone wants to have their fun, like a little true it's fine i get it it's the summer everyone wants to have their fun like a little single sexy summer i get it just don't get it play don't play in anyone's face y'all play too much you're playing in our faces what i'm encountering on multiple occasions in recent weeks and i'm not really complaining about this although i am because it is just kind of like fucking annoying is like guys talking to me on the apps, like expressing genuine interest, flirting. And then, oh, I see what the end game is.

Them being like, so I'm just actually curious if you'd want to come on my on the podcast that I started. No, I don't want to do that. That's fucking weird. That's a weird pretense. And don't fucking do that with people. Just don't do that with anybody, period. Do not like flirt with them textually

in the hopes that you can book them on your podcast. Get the fuck out. That's fucking pathetic. It's so weird. Sometimes I'm like, I can't even make, I don't even know. Like, I guess I should just go into every situation now, just assuming it's like totally platonic

and friends and like don't ever assume anything from anyone but the fact is that some of us are 34 and actually trying to find a situation and I would say like I recommend that mindset Matt but like also I've been doing that for a while now

and I can't say that it's like yielded any great results I mean like I'm polite I give people their boundaries it is good to assume platonic pretense but I am also like oh but like I wonder if I've missed out on things but that's also like it's impossible like you're damned if you do you're damned

if you don't yeah yeah it's just it's it's like anyway back to my point some really wonderful straight guys are out there and we celebrate you

we celebrate John Wayne go check out Dee Dee in theaters July 26th fantastic Joan Chen I will not shut the fuck up about Joan Chen

that is one of a talent a talent oh my god and she is the funniest motherfucker on set on any set she's on. I have a good authority.

We love when people earn that moniker. Funniest on set. Funniest on set. That's you, bitch. No, bitch. On the wedding banquet, it was Joan motherfucking Chen. Love her.

Love her. Love her. Love her. Hurrah. I love hurrah. Hurrah. Love her. Love her. I love her. Hurrah. Speaking of funniest on set, I mean,

congratulations to everyone involved with Oh Mary. Finally on Broadway. I saw it on Friday. I mean, just a perfect show, a perfect show. And I'm so happy for everyone involved. Cole,

James Scully, Conrad, Rick and Mora, Hannah Solo, Peter Smith, Peter Smith, Sam Pinkleton, Sam Pinkleton, everybody, everybody in the cast and crew. We love them. Wonderful, wonderful. And

go check it out. That's some great news, right? To feel so excited for them. I mean, that's amazing. That's amazing. That's one shining light in the void. And I think we should, I really love hearing you talk about books. I think you should start reading more.

Well, reading more is, so I'm drinking a lot less, a lot less. I'm reading more. I'm trying to take care of my skin. Honestly, LA has been kind of nice over the past few days I'm like because like while I feel like less impetus

to go out and do things here just because whatever reason it also like keeps me fucking healthy and in my own lane. No problem because New York has been kind of chaotic recently for me. Sure you know what I've been

doing ever since I got back? Like in a manic way almost is doing all my laundry and folding all my bed linens and it's actually really satisfying and

I can fucking fold any fitted sheet now. Like it's my job and I would be happy to do it for anyone. Yeah. Can I tell you what I'm feeling? I'm feeling like readers. I'm sorry. Like I feel,

I feel like, I feel like about what? I don't want to be so negative about the state of the world and Katy Perry, but they leave me no choice. It's your truth. Also, you just got the news that fucking your bag is still not at your house, which you were promised it would be days ago.

But I didn't realize that this was your first time losing checked luggage. I've had it happen to me several times. And I kept having to reassure Matt in a way that I didn't mind. I was like, no, no. Anytime I've lost my luggage, like it's gotten back to me.

They will send it back to you. They can't even do that, which is like a basic fucking part of the contract. But like, I'm really sorry. And you don't have to apologize for being a little bit, you know, ornery. So whatever. I'm also fresh.

I'm fresh out of therapy and I actually did cry today. I'm sorry. Whatever. Hey, here's something. What a journey I'm on. I'm talking to another friend about EMDR and I'm like, I got to just do it. I really got to just do it. I straight up asked my therapist. Have you tried? No, no, no. But I'm going to bring it up. I did bring it up to my therapist who specializes in ketamine therapy. I was like, do you think I'm a good candidate? He was like, no, like what you're going through is like pretty normal at this point. Like you've come a long way since last year when I had like a bad moment.

And he was just like, that's not your thing. And, but I did, I did have to like inspired by Orna. I was just like, just tell me what's going on. I need you to tell me what's going on with me.

And he was like, okay, here's what I'm thinking and whatever. But EMDR, I think, I think I'm gonna going on with me. And he was like, okay, here's what I'm thinking and whatever. But EMDR, I think I'm going to look into it. Give it a shot because honestly, I had a breakthrough every single time. I didn't do it today. I just did regular talk therapy today because there was a lot to talk about

and a lot going on not just in the macro but in the micro. Yeah, it was good, but therapy is 40 minutes away from me so i drove the 40 minutes there 40 minutes back here now i have to do the hour to lax the hour back and i guess the good news is i will be streaming joyride by kesha the entire time because what i am happy about is the fact that it's absolutely smoking Woman's World on the charts. Victory for Kesha.

By the way, Kesha, you were amazing at We Hope Pride. She's a great TED Talk up too. Oh, I saw that. I read that. The Alchemy of Pop? Yeah, The Alchemy of Pop. It's great. She composed it to scuba diving because she liked to scuba dive. Yeah, that was a good TED Talk. I'm happy you watched it. Yeah, I watched it too. Yeah.

Stream Joyride. Stream Charm by Claro. Fantastic new album. There's another song I really like too which i wanted to tell you about which is it remy wolf no it's not right but i did see that you were posting that and i will i will get into that it's actually it's very lana coded it's called summer song by remy bond oh check it out. Okay, girl. Thanks for the rec. I put it on my big, beautiful, blonde summer playlist.

It's the last track. Anyways. We're still in it. Well, I love you, sister. Have fun going to LAX. Stay safe, girl. Love you, queen. I can't believe I have to go do that.

I'm sorry, but it's almost over. Our long national nightmare is almost over. Should this episode be called Long National Nightmare? I don't know about that. Long International Nightmare. I claimed an earlier title of F, which was that is the reason. This is the reason. This is the reason.

Okay, this is the reason. We got to give that woman her flowers because that was an iconic delivery. Should it be this is the reason, parentheses, long international nightmare? Like it's a song? Yeah. This is the reason, parentheses,

long international nightmare. All right. Well, we end every episode with a song. It's a woman! Just kidding. Just kidding. No song this week.

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