Las Culturistas with Matt Rogers and Bowen Yang - "Traitors Among Us..." (w/ Matt & Bowen)
Episode Date: January 17, 2024Bowen wraps Wicked, Matt starts Barry's and Los Angeles basks in the afterglow of what seems like a dozen awards shows this week! Join your Las Cultch hosts as they recap and review the Emmys and Gold...en Globes, chat Mean Girls: The Musical: The Movie's box office success and cultural update, and get into the reality show of the moment: Peacock's The Traitors! So much to unpack: Parv's chalice! Sandra's braces! Dan's gameplay! And... can a Real Housewife actually win the game? Matt and Bow think so! All this, Ariana's new smash "Yes, And?", gratitude culture vs. ambition culture, how ten days is a lot of time to prepare a ten minute awards show bit, and... the announcement of a NEW ELEMENT of the Las Culturistas podcast. Behold, The Goblet of Cultural Years! RPKF's... get ready to culturally excavate! Y'all so faithful... This bonus episode is available early for subscribers to Big Money Players Diamond on Apple Podcasts: https://apple.co/lasculturistasSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
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Oh, I see.
Wow.
Bowen, look over there.
Wow.
Is that culture?
Yes.
Goodness.
Wow.
Las Culturistas. Ding Wow. Las Culturistas.
Ding dong.
Las Culturistas calling.
My girl sneakily did this thing right before the countdown where she made me laugh.
Oh, I have a habit.
I have a habit of making the world very happy.
Can I congratulate you on a milestone?
I guess.
I don't know what it could possibly be.
Well, you wrapped Wicked the film.
Oh, I wrapped Wicked the films.
The films. Oh my god.
Which one is better?
I think
we're going to do
a third installment that's very
Rosencrantz and Guildenstern are dead.
Oh my god.
It's Fanny and Chen Chen
are kind of
navigating Oz.
Are kind of like navigating
Oz when Dorothy lands. I think
that could be really slay. And they're trying to get to Dorothy
because she's the new Queen Bee.
Oh my god, yeah, the new girl on the block.
The new girl on the block. I mean, Glinda
is still always Queen Bee,
especially in the Dorothy Wizard of Oz
story. But when Dorothy shows up, they're like,
we have to find her.
She killed the Wicked Witch of the East.
We must slay.
So your character's name is Fanny.
I always want to pronounce it Fanny
because of the way it's spelled.
But your character's name is Fanny
and Glinda's other BFF is named Shenshen.
Shenshen.
So you find out that you guys are the ones that wrote,
who's that girl?
La la la la la la la that wrote, Who's that girl?
He's that girl.
One of the actual best melodies of all time.
It's actually really close to number 26.
Who's that girl?
It's one of the best melodies of all time.
Think about it. It has everything.
It has questions.
It has la la la.
And it kind of just like stretches on longer than you think it will.
And then you're very happy that it clocks in how it does.
Like I dare you the next time you hear it.
And it's obviously always playing.
To not absolutely get up and spin around in your joyous freak bag.
Oh my God, it is always playing, isn't it?
I'm just so proud of you.
I'm so proud of you and your role of Fanny.
Well, thank you, dear.
I think that you're going to change hearts and minds with this one.
Well, the thing is, what were L. Frank Baum and...
Baum.
Baum. Baum. What were L. Frank Baum, not
Frank Oz and
of Muppet
fame? What were L. Frank Baum and Gregory
McGuire thinking with some of these names?
I mean, Winky Country. Winky, I guess
means like cock, like
wiener in the UK.
Pee-pee-ville. Pee-pee-ville. And then
Fanny means pussy.
Oh, shit.
To the Brits.
So there's a lot of...
I think I know exactly what you are.
You're a Fanny boy.
My name is literally pussy.
And then Fiyero comes from Weiner country,
like Cockville.
Well, that one's for the real fans out there
that have the real fan service.
How excited are you about
potentially really young kids
seeing this and writing sexy fan
fiction about Fiyero and Fanny?
I think, unless
they cut it,
there's a moment... Oh my god.
I don't know if you can spoil
it, girl. We are months out
from this. Well, I feel okay saying
that. That's my catchphrase. Famous line. I feel okay saying that. That's my catchphrase.
I feel okay saying this. That's my catchphrase
on this show. There is
a fun little comedy moment
between Fiyero and
Fanny that I hope and pray
they keep. Would you call it the
like, if there's like an A story, a B story,
a C story, is this like the
M story? This is Z.
This is Z. This is the Z story.
It goes to the Canadian alphabet. That's how bottom rung
this is. Bottom rung.
Not that Canada is bottom.
The fanny story. Bottom rung.
I'm just so excited to
see the film. I'm so excited that you've...
How long was the filming?
Okay, total it was like 150
days for two movies.
And it's been a full calendar year of shooting with the strike built in.
Anyway, thank you, dear.
Thank you, Darlene.
Yeah, well, we're not really here to talk about films that much today or even upcoming films because we did that last week.
Today is Tuesday, January 16th.
We are sitting in the afterglow of the Emmy Awards,
the Primetime Emmy Awards. And not just that, but also the fleet of award shows that have been sort
of hitting us back to back to back. And you're going to always get it again and again and again. Critics' Choice, Golden Globes, Emmys.
Boom, boom, boom.
And I think I have the reaction that we...
I mean, the one I wanted to have was that Ayo would sweep,
and now Ayo has swept, and we're proud of you, girl.
We are proud of you, girl.
Not only are you winning for great performance,
but you're also turning looks.
You're being charming in every speech,
every moment, very winning.
We feel the industry has said,
it's you, girl.
And we couldn't be prouder. Go back and listen
to, and we're not making this about us,
obviously, but listen to the Omarosa
fan club. Omarosa fan club,
a great episode. An Omarosa
fan club member now has
Critics Choice
Emmy
and Golden Globe
and Not For Nothing
SAG's coming up
SAG nominee as well
and that'll also
probably happen for her
this is the thing
is it's like
it's one of those moments
and we've said before
obviously we're happy
because it's our friend
but it is one of those
results again this year
where it feels like
they have chosen three
shows you know what i mean like it's like yeah beef succession and the bear and they're all
incredible but it it has been a lot of the same names again and again which probably is just all
the award shows being packed into one but um yeah i mean it's it's just so weird to see Succession still awarded in 2024.
But it feels like, well, yeah, if that's when it was eligible, it should take everything.
It just felt so long ago.
A little victory laugh for Succession.
But I think that no surprises last night for the most part.
No, especially not being the third award show in a row.
I guess what I was surprised about was like, well, not surprised about, last night for the most part. Especially not being the third award show in a row.
I guess what I was surprised about was well, not surprised about, but
if you look at the collection of winners,
you know what I will say?
Much has been said about
how difficult it is to get things made
lately, etc. But the stuff we were
awarding yesterday, the people we were awarding yesterday,
you can look at it and really
be like, you know, the industry really has, there's been evolution in the past 10 years. And it's really
amazing to see. I mean, there was an extremely diverse group of winners, an extremely deserving
group of winners, and a lot of, you know, passion behind, let's call it passion behind certain shows
because people are really excited about them, which is a good thing.
Yeah. I think the
only non-Succession
Beef the Bear winners
on the acting side were Quinta
and Coolidge. Coolidge.
I think those were the only two, which
go off. And everyone
else, completely deserving.
And I will say my only
biggest surprise for me of the night.
What? Katherine Heigl being in this
Grey's Anatomy tribute. We got to talk about
it. So I will say I
did love all
of those little retrospectives.
I think my favorite might have been Ally McBeal.
I just loved watching.
I didn't see that part. Like Calista
in a bathroom and it was all voiceover and she
was just like looking at herself in the mirror. She's like, I I look good and then like her Ally McBeal castmates from way back
come out and like dance her over to the stage and she like shimmies over to the mic it was kind of
wordless but then she came out and I believe she presented either best actor or best actress it
was best actor in a drama because Kieran won um congrats to you kieran well deserved but that was my favorite
and then i have to say the graze anatomy one did shake me when they said at the end an emmy winner
katherine heigl i was like here we go my theory is she and shonda have patched things up i don't
know about she and shonda but you know who's in camp Team Heigl? Ellen. Camp Team Heigl. Camp Team Heigl.
Ellen.
Ellen has gone on record saying
Katherine Heigl was ahead of her time.
And a lot of the stuff that she said then
would have been well-received now.
Well, that Actors on Actors was really interesting to me.
Oh, yes.
And I think that's when Ellen said it.
She was like...
And then they go into their whole like thing about I don't
think it's it's more Ellen Pompeo doing this but like and this is this is beautiful Ellen Pompeo
Bostonian vibes which is just like I mean now everyone has an opinion and it's like she's like
you you were ahead of your time for having an opinion back then.
And she's not wrong.
But I really, it really hit me where I was like, oh, we have come.
We're 20 seasons into the show.
Yep.
That was another thing.
It was like when they said when that show debuted, I was like, oh, my God. It was 20 years ago.
Like, insane.
Yeah. Yeah.
Yeah.
You know what I was thinking the other day?
Do you remember when American Idol started in 2002
and Paula Abdul was on the judging panel?
And everyone was like, oh yeah, wow.
Now the kids get to know Paula Abdul,
who was a pop star when I was young,
like an old pop star.
She had been famous like 10 years before.
Right. Like, now in the year of our Lord 2024,
Katy Perry is like
Paula Abdul for these kids.
Wow.
Do you ever think about that? That's what I'm saying.
It's like, oh yeah, that old pop star
Katy Perry. It's like, meanwhile,
we were in college for the California girls.
But you know what?
Katy, and I
don't quite have the working knowledge of Paula
Abdul's discography to
define this analog, but Katie has
will always be able
to hang her hat on Teenage Dream. Do you know what I'm
saying? I mean, it's
one of the great records.
It is a time capsule for us.
It will always remind us of being
like, young, fun, and free. Those are not the words, but they feel like they could be. it is a time capsule for us it will always remind us of being like young
fun and free
those are not the words but they feel like they could be
yeah
Katie is
Katie is legacy
what also came out
20 years ago
was
Mean Girls
the film
I saw it last night I saw it a couple days ago i want to say
that renee rap is here to stay and here's what i love about renee's performance like not even for a
second trying to copy rachel which is so the move for two reasons.
A, speaking about getting further away in time
from certain things,
like the further you get away from that performance,
the more you realize it is one of the great performances.
I think she should go down like in history for that.
The other thing is like that type of bully
wouldn't work for a movie about like like, a Gen Z group of kids.
You know what I mean?
And so, Renee took it entirely in a different place.
And her voice is just insane.
I mean, World Burn, excellent.
Excellent.
All I wanted was, I wanted the last note in World Burn held out longer.
Oh, okay. Like, it ends in this insane, like, crazy high belt.
And I just wanted it extended a little bit more like the gay person in me
just wanted to hear her sing louder, longer.
Gay people always want these girls to sing louder and longer.
And we should.
That feels like a real culture to me, bro.
And what number is that? I think six.
Rule of culture
number six. Gay people always
want women to sing louder
and longer, and they should.
I thought that the
movie was, really what I
appreciated about it was
it felt almost like a tip
of the cap to us,
like the people that love that original movie.
It felt more of like,
it was like a commemoration and acknowledgement of the original movie in a way that felt really fun.
Like,
and also just like it's testament to its staying power.
The fact that like,
it feels like a lot of this movie actually stayed the same because you do have reverence for literally even the way that some of these lines were said,
you know what I'm saying?
Like a lot of Gretchen stuff.
It's like,
how do you walk?
It's a tough task because how do you walk the line between fan service,
which ultimately the existence of these things are fan service.
Yeah.
And also like wanting to create and give an opportunity to these people to be iconic
in their own right and it was interesting where i thought the movie went for you know commemoration
and throwback vibes and where it went for interesting you know swings at like updating
it and making it into a movie for you know kids that are that age now. Yeah. I feel like they had
this really, they as in
Tina and these
directors
had this really hard task
in terms of modernizing
it with
social media stuff.
Right. Where the
burn book can kind
of easily be replaced by the entire like apparatus of social
media, but then they do the smart thing of just like making those things work in tandem.
I don't think either thing is diminished necessarily.
No, I think it was right to update it in the script where they were like, Regina's
mom finds the burn book.
It's like a relic that they used to do.
That feels right.
Especially like even the prop work on that book,
they made it look exactly like the old book.
Yes, yes, yes.
You know what's funny?
I think for some reason,
I remember in 2004 seeing this
and feeling like I have to remember these lines.
You know what I mean?
Like it,
it was like that.
Like you felt like there was some sort of like,
we were in hallowed ground watching the movie in terms of like cinematic
relevance.
I think that's what motivated me to go see it like four times in theaters
when I was 13 years old yep going by myself i think two
out of the four yeah and then going up with my sister for one of them and then i forgot who else
for another but like it was i was like something's happening yeah like this is my favorite movie ever, I think. Yeah, like, it just, like,
defined everything about the way I was, like,
speaking from then on,
and the way I viewed the world.
I was like, oh, this is all, like, hierarchical,
and this is, like, this is what I, like... So the year this came out,
it launched us into high school.
We were, like, in the eighth grade, I think,
going into high school.
Yeah, it's fuzzy for me, but yes.
Yeah, yeah. And I think it into high school. Yeah. It's fuzzy for me, but yes. Yeah.
Yeah.
And I think it just informed everything about high school for me.
It was just going into it being like,
well,
this is like saw high school movies,
which were big at the time.
Didn't really apply it to anything real or grounded or lived in,
in my own like little world.
But then like something about Mean Girls,
based on the source material of the book by Rosalind Weissman,
I was just like, oh, this is all pretty well-studied behavioral stuff.
And that's what makes it work,
and that's what makes it evergreen, I think.
You know what's interesting is it's like
certain things that were really integral to the plot of the 2004
film that really you know alter the direction that characters are going like in the update
you realize how much our world has changed like for example in the 2004 version one of the ways
they destroy regina is they fuck with her weight and in the 2024 version
the weight thing feels a little different doesn't have as much yeah i realized that when like well
for me it felt like it actually felt even more sensitive because this is something that it feels
like i don't know it feels like in 2024,
we are in a more diverse version of this school.
And we're in a more,
like even though there's like bullying at play,
we are like in an environment
where it feels like the world has changed.
So when they try to fuck with her weight
in the 2024 version,
and Renee has the line where she's like,
sweatpants are all that fits
me right now it felt like darker and a little different and heavier now in 2024 because we
know better as a culture to do this and also like you get the sense like it hasn't really felt like
they care about their weight too much and then at the end you're well, this is of course something that's still going to be sensitive,
even in a time of like, you know,
body positivity and like talking about like being at the,
really at the forefront of like, we're an inclusive accepting world.
It's still interesting how that still hurt in 2024 as it did in 2004.
I don't even know if I'm making it with a different flavor.
Yeah.
It just hurts different.
Like the,
um,
the weight thing in 2004 was embedded in the culture a little bit neater than it does now, where I think there's this like really tough incongruity with like the way bodies are discussed now but i think
it's still ongoing but it's like now in like a post ozempic culture it's like well then i guess
and then how but how do we really feel about i guess what i'm trying to say is like in 2024, it feels like we know better than to make this an issue.
And so the character saying like,
sweatpants are all that fits me right now.
Like,
and her realizing that this is what they've done.
Like,
it feels like even more of a betrayal because it's just weird.
Like I was more on Regina's side at that point than I was in 2004.
Does that make sense?
Because I was like totally
feels like this is like really brutal in 2024 when we've had this conversation especially gen z
is like very like you know there's like a refusal to at least like around face value there's like a
refusal to condemn each other for whatever your body size may or may not be and so for that to
happen in 2024 felt like more of a betrayal and it almost like complicated
it for me in terms of like what side i was on versus the other plastics and katie you know
what i mean totally it makes it compelling to watch but i think on that note of being on regina's side
it does make me think well in character wouldn't regina george make the weight gain work for her right and like
that was a part of the the original that i was like i didn't even think about that update
but i was like wow there it feels like really interesting and different when we're talking
about it now via v then also the queer stuff because they made a lot of updates
to the Janice back to the Janice stuff like Janice isn't out lesbian in this
movie mm-hmm like and she has been since she's young and it's part of the central
conflict between her and Regina which I think also was a pretty smart update
for totally I think that was done well yeah in 2004 the weaponization was like the closetedness
and and the the thing of like she might be a lesbian and in 2024 it feels like the weaponization
is based on the fact that like you thought you had a safe space with me right and now i'm hurting you
based on your feelings and i'm emotionally manipulating you based on your feelings which
felt like
a change. It's still about the closet.
It's still about the closet which I think is smart.
But anyway, I think it's
kind of cool that it
opened, that it was number
one because
where are we on this whole
where are execs on this
with the whole like let's
hide the broccoli under the cheese when it comes
to a musical like let's never market these things as musicals and then it i guess it works i guess
people are like snookered into like going to to buy a ticket for wonka um when like there's no
there's nothing in the publicity that's like it's a musical
but then like people sit down but then it
gets butts in seats so I'm like okay I guess
this is working but I don't respect it
necessarily I think what separates
these two examples from everything else is IP
so Wonka is
like people that were going to see Wonka
were going to see Wonka because they love that property
or they love Timothee Chalamet or whatever
reason so the fact that it's a musical like also kind of lives in the DNA of what that
is so you're buying into a certain thing when you buy into the Wonka of it all you know you're
gonna go to like a surreal silly place where if they sang it wouldn't feel crazy I mean it's like
that's part of what the original Wonka was. I think with Mean Girls that IP
was also going to do well regardless.
I never for a second
thought, oh, that movie
might not make money. I was actually
shocked when they were putting it on Paramount+.
Initially, I was like, why wouldn't
you put that in theaters? That will make money.
And so when they did
and it made money, I wasn't
surprised because Mean Girls is a very, very, it has a stronghold on like pop culture.
Like that is pop culture.
I think that in a pre-Eris tour Barbie world, which is maybe when Paramount was deciding on where to put this.
They were like, put it on the streamer.
After the Year of the Girl, Summer of the Girl thing went down,
they were like, wait a minute.
Women love to spend money at the theater.
It's so insane that they don't realize that by now. It's like the fact that Barbie and Aristotle
like quote unquote needed to happen
or needed to play out
or needed to at least feel like it was going to play out
for them to make a decision to put mean girls in theaters.
Like I understand we all want to help,
that they all want to help their streamers out.
So that's part of it.
But it's just like,
of course this movie was going to make money.
You know what?
It's mean girls. Like it You know, it's Mean Girls.
It's not even like a hit movie from 20 years ago
like anything else.
This is Mean Girls.
This is something that is readily quoted 20 years later
and people don't even think about the fact
that they're quoting the movie
because it became part of the lexicon.
You know what I mean?
It's just how many of these lines did they feel like they couldn't change because they're so important to people you know like i know color me totally unsurprised but in terms of the musical
of it all like the fact is they do hide it they hide it all the time so strange so strange to me
anyway this is me like coming off of,
not that I was heavily involved in any of this discussion,
but like all respect to Josh Harp and Aaron Jackson
for like making a film and like going with it
and calling it Dicks the Musical.
Right.
Like God bless you for putting musical in your title yeah i mean also it's just like
i don't believe this thing and i get that there's like empirical data but i don't believe this thing
that people don't see musicals because wasn't it not that long ago that one of the biggest hits
of the entire year was greatest showman like you know what I'm saying? It's just like, what about these examples
that make a fuck ton of money?
And maybe I'm naive,
but isn't it just
the movie should be good?
Yeah, but that's so arbitrary
and I don't know.
To the people, I guess,
greenlighting it, maybe.
Yeah.
I guess it's that thing
where these studios
are more and more separated by this chasm of
not knowing what the audience is anymore. It's just about the audience relationship and there
are more and more agnostic things about capital T, capital A, the audience. I'm speaking so
abstractly, but... But it's just weird because you would think that they would understand
that when you activate a demographic that you can literally see activated
over the things they love in all media.
For example, in music, that demographic literally,
even if the Eris tour movie never came out,
even if the Eras tour movie never came out even if the eras tour never happened
you know how gavin osdai are for like taylor swift and harry styles and like all those things
so why wouldn't you make something for that market that can engage them and make them dress up and
make them like interact with each other and like in some cases meet each other you know what i mean
to engage on this thing because we know how powerful
culture is i mean that's how we do this podcast it's like these things literally bring people
together so it's just like the hesitancy about whether to put mean girls in theaters to me is
just like i understand not wanting to just pull the trigger and just do it but like what a sure
thing it is to make money at least from my my preview. Like had that bombed, I would have been really surprised.
Right, right. Same thing kind of applies, but not quite to Color Purple. Like, it did great.
Yeah. Well, especially something that's like literally tried and true. Like both those things.
I think, you know, what must have really scared people is the West Side Story of it all.
But genuinely think about who the audience for West Side Story was.
And when they were opening it, like it's not rocket science to find out that that might not do well.
It was a nostalgia movie geared towards older people.
It is unabashedly a musical.
There's no way to hide it.
And it's long.
And it was pretty deep COVID.
It was like a dark time for COVID.
So that to me shouldn't be a bellwether from musicals and film.
Right.
But yeah, that was kind of the like crater for a second.
And now we're coming out of it.
Yeah.
It felt like, well, if that failed, we can't do this genre.
And I'm like, just because it's a famous musical doesn't mean that people would want to see it.
Like, I know 50 people who you say,
you want to see Mean Girls the musical,
they'd at least be like,
oh yeah, I definitely want to check it out.
I love the movie.
You say West Side Story, that's a different ask.
Right.
They're like, um,
I am not necessarily interested or i am so emotionally attached to
the original like there are a million reasons for people not to see it yeah yeah yeah or also like
you know it's gonna be really sad you know it's gonna be really dark yeah like as much as it's
like that and that's me doing like little sharks and jets dance.
Like it's sad.
It's dark.
It's deep.
Like you disrespect Leonard Bernstein again.
And he can always get it again.
And again,
again,
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We got some
blowback last week for our
apparently hot takes.
People have really turned on me.
For my innocent, not innocent,
I guess I was pretty like,
but I'm like, you know, she'll be fine.
But if people
want to, listen,
this is a beautiful thing to me.
If your affinity for Rosamund Pike
is more important than
our friendship, relationship,
your relationship to this
podcast.
I,
I understand.
I,
and you,
and listen,
go off,
go off this actress who maybe has nothing in common with most of us.
Like if you want to line up with that,
go ahead.
Love you.
Someone,
someone DM me.
This was,
this was so,
it set a chill up my spine.
Oh no. And I didn't even say anything really negative about her. I said,... It set a chill up my spine. Oh, no.
And I didn't even say anything really negative about her.
I said, I do think she's pulled it off.
I said, I do think she's been...
You're catching some of the backflaps.
No, no, no.
This was...
It was funny, Bowen.
It was like a serial killer.
Someone sent me a picture of her and said,
You will never be as talented or as successful.
That same person sent me the same thing.
And I was like, oh, brother.
Oh my God. It's going to chill up my spine.
It was like getting a message from the traders.
It's from the traders. Oh, which we have to talk about.
But I'm like, in that moment,
when I saw that message, I laughed and I was like,
well, this bitch is clearly listening
to the podcast. I was like,
thanks for your readership.
I went full Monica Garcia and I blocked. It was like, okay. I actually also blocked. I was like, thanks for your readership! I went full Monica Garcia
and I blocked. It was like, okay.
I actually also blocked. I almost responded
watch me, bitch.
But I just blocked. Challenge
accepted. Challenge accepted. On
my way to Rosamund Pike levels of fame
and success, bitch. I'll see you there.
I mean, listen.
I feel bad that she fell down the
stairs at Christmas. And therefore she had to wear that cage around her face
at the Golden Globes.
And I think she's really talented.
I disagree with my sister on the basis of
has she ever pulled it off?
I think that she has pulled it off.
And I said it as an asterisk,
she has pulled it off as well.
Her Jane Bennett is supreme.
First of all, really all I have to say is i don't want to talk
about her anymore but let's be finished no no i but i will double down on this thing about gone
girl because like people were like floored that we would say that reese witherspoon would make a
better amy and gone girl that's my opinion in the in the words of the great tamra judge traders season two that's my opinion
that's bowen's opinion we have a different view on what would have made amy effective in that movie
if you think obvious ice queen from go works better for you and you love the turn and you
love the way she did the cool girl monologue. Congratulations. Many millions agree.
So do Academy voters.
That's incredible.
I thought she was good,
but there could have been more of a misdirect
in that characterization from the beginning.
That's my opinion.
And if you don't think Reese Witherspoon is capable of that,
you have not seen the work you went to see.
Oh, L, people are saying that we are
pro-Reese
in this case because we want to
work on her projects.
It's
to say that we
It's so funny
It's so funny to be like, well, they probably
want to work with Reese. It's like, babe, we
want to work with Emerald Fennell too.
It doesn't make us stop saying we didn't
think Saltburn was a 10.
These are our opinions.
Can I get real?
Either we are
too filtered and too
walking on eggshells
because we're
in the morass now with these people
or it's that when we do
express an honest, authentic,
genuine opinion, it's that when we do express an honest, authentic, genuine opinion,
it's because we're like
bitchy gays. Or that we
have the wrong opinion. What do you want from us,
people? That's all.
We love you guys. I never
have felt any real, actual
contempt for anything
in this
Las Culturistas ethos. But
like, it's okay if you guys don't like the same movies
as us it's okay if we don't like the same movies as you it's fine we're all having fun here it's
actually art and subjective like someone said to me that we were talking about the sag nominations
and in my group chat i was talking about like you know who i might vote for because you know
bon and i are in sag and we get to vote for this one so i was like you know, who I might vote for because, you know, Bowen and I are in SAG and we get to vote for this one. So I was like, you know, for best actress, I might vote for Margot Robbie.
And people were like, why? And I was like, oh, because art is subjective and that's my opinion.
And I don't think anyone else could have played Barbie. I respect the way that she crafted an arc
of stereotypical perfection into human realization into full-blown
humanity i don't think it was easy you know i don't see a ton of people producing their movies
the way that she seems to actively produce it she hasn't won a big award like this and i liked her
performance and i'm torn between her and emma that's my opinion but people would treat me like
it was like a jill stein vote what i was like i
don't care about being right or predictive i am in the union i'm gonna vote for the performance
that i think was the best i have a lot of respect for margot robbie and her characterization and i've
voted for her before for sag i voted for her for itania ia. I'm a fan. That's my vote. That's my opinion. This is what makes art
a beautiful thing
to discuss on a podcast like Lost Culture
Is This. Now, speaking of
Tamara Judge, shall we
move on to The Traitors Season
2? Yeah. Yeah,
we should.
I'm so happy
this show has returned.
Oh, first of all,
if you want to get into Traders,
you're so in luck
because there's the whole first season of US,
there's a great season of UK,
and an excellent season of Australia.
Which I will be getting into soon.
The same game, familiar,
but really what's so great about this
is you see how just the dynamics of a cast can
change the entire way and outcome and upper hand like that a faithful can have over a trader
i also love all the different hosts but speaking about the second season of traders i think we
have probably the greatest reality tv cast of all time every fandom fandom is eating good, as they would say.
And I just can't,
I can't think that they could have offered better fan service
that also feels like exciting,
watchable gameplay and not just fan service.
I just can't think of a better way they could have done it.
Like the way it shook out is so iconic.
Genuine moments of triumph in my viewing experience.
And let's just say, not for nothing.
Spoilers here.
Spoilers.
This is spoilers for the first three episodes of Traitors.
Don't say we didn't say it.
Okay, continue.
Sorry.
Maybe we'll insert a little thing here to tell you where to skip to.
But I watched it with a group of friends who have not seen any Traitors before.
And everyone was remarking.
We were all just laughing, applauding at every single thing Alan Cumming was saying.
Because I think whenever Drag Race wants to, like,
whenever RuPaul even just wants to, like,
take a step back from racking up all these Emmys,
like, Alan deserves some kind of recognition for the work he's doing here.
He's having so much fun doing it.
He does look amazing.
And also, he has...
It's like that thing when a host is perfectly matched
to the show, you know what I mean?
He's in the fabric of that show.
And it's funny because when you do watch
the international versions from UK and Australia,
it's the same vibe with those hosts.
Like you buy it and you love it. But there's something about Alan.
He's just got this gravitas that's also playful.
That's also very authoritative, like just perfect.
And I hope for, again, not that it really matters,
but like I hope for recognition for him at the emmys for
this and i'm hoping that all the traders needed to do was establish itself as a show that's like
yes a real hit and a real zeitgeist moment because i mean if the rubric like i always say is could
anyone else have done it this well i don't think anyone else does it as good as No, and speaking of that rubric,
no one is doing it as well
as Parvati Shallow.
And
this is a
spoiler. There's a moment where she
is recruited
to the
traitors. I launched
out of my chair and applauded.
It was, I mean,
so I think that I was praying to God when they said it was between the four
of them.
Cause they were choosing between,
and this was so long.
They were choosing between Parvati,
Janelle from big brother,
who is an icon.
Yeah.
My sister is freaking out about Dan and Janelle from big brother.
She's like,
you don't understand.
They picked the two best people. She's like, you don't understand. They picked the two best people.
She's like, this is going to be major.
Dan is an icon, et cetera.
Apparently, he played the best game of Big Brother ever,
and it's not close.
Where he staged his own funeral or something?
He staged his own death or something.
It's very, very insane.
But it was between them, Larsa, Sandra, and Parvati.
The Larsa thing, their logic was, let's break up that couple of Larsa and Marcus.
But the Sandra thing, I mean, you made a very good observation.
Just Sandra always plays best from the bottom.
From the bottom.
She's really amazing.
You can see in her first two games of Surviv she has a rough time yeah she plays defensively really well because people just don't think they have to
worry about her and then meanwhile she's been right under the surface collecting doing it she's
carrying the bones and then in her last two games of survivor when her ego was sort of part of her
thing queen stays queen etc And she plays very aggressively.
It becomes very clear she has to go.
And so what I'm seeing her do in Traders so far
is she's being a little bit more on the client side.
She's playing as a faithful.
She's playing from the bottom.
So that makes her a threat.
Now, I only remark on this because it is the year 2024.
But for her to have
a substantial amount of
money
from winning Survivor twice
in the year 2024
to have
full-on braces
and not
braces on TV and not Invisalign,
you can at least go for the Invisalign.
I don't think
she should change a thing.
I think Sandra
should keep
following her
every instance.
I think when Sandra
DS20 wakes up
in the morning,
she wakes up in the morning
and opens her eyes,
she should always do
the first thing
that comes to her mind.
She cannot lose.
Braces on TV
as a full-grown woman
who should have the money to work around
this, I say chef's kiss.
She
is so
necessary right now in this moment.
In this moment of reality television
competition, specifically Survivor,
specifically where everyone's collectively
rediscovering it,
it's so important that she's back on our televisions.
Oh, 100%. And I will say, but I mean, Survivor fans know, you can't pick better people than
Sandra and Parvati. You just can't. That's exactly right. And then I would say the challenge people
would probably say the same thing about CT and Bananas, even Trishel. Those are characters.
Drag Race people had Peppermint for a short time but you know at
least we had that and then the housewives they've chosen pretty fun housewives for this i mean even
larsa who's about as dumb as a rock like has been showing a galvanization in the wake of marcus's
murder that's like really interesting it's very interesting because she's right she's intuitive
and i think they even oh no this is i'm reading an agatha christie book where someone says
the way women form their intuition is from like this like undercurrent of like analyzing every
single thing every single input that comes their way and i think like there is i think the house
waves are actually everyone's like oh like even people on way. And I think the housewives are actually, everyone's like,
oh, even people on the show are like,
well, the housewives aren't physical players,
and they're very new to this whole concept of
reality competition. But it's like,
the housewives have this,
these antenna
that are extremely
useful for a game like this.
And Larsa has Dan's
fucking number.
100%. I think it's also a mistake
to not think of Housewives as a game.
Absolutely.
I think it's a mistake to think
that they don't compete.
Because what you see every season,
especially as the show has become,
as a franchise,
something that is
really, really, really embedded and feels like it does feel
gamified in a way because i mean what you want if you are really someone who wants to play this game
and wants to keep the check and wants to keep the spotlight and wants to keep the platform
you want to be sitting next to andy on that couch you want to be safely let's call it center diamond
and so you're playing mind games on like another level you know what i mean like is is it mentally
healthy probably not but for example like there were winners and losers of the recent salt lake
season you know what i mean like the winner winner of Salt Lake was Heather this season.
The loser was Monica.
In that social game,
the core four win.
The Faithfuls win.
The Faithfuls won.
Oh my God.
I need to rewatch
this season of Salt Lake
with the frame of
this is a season of the traitors.
I mean, think about it.
It was someone with the knowledge the rest of this is a season of the traitors. I mean, think about it.
It was someone with the knowledge the rest of them didn't have the entire time trying to make them feel comfortable.
Yeah, yeah.
And trying to eliminate other people on that cast based on lies.
Like, it's not that different.
So to think that a housewife can't win the show is a mistake.
Huge mistake.
Huge mistake.
I'm curious to see how far Tamara goes.
Obviously curious to see how far Phaedra goes.
I think Phaedra's great.
They're not cutting to Sheree in the confessional at all,
which really is strange to me.
And it must,
something must have happened on the production side where like it wasn't
usable or something and like
well not everyone
can get it's a large cast
and not everyone can get airtime
and I feel like right now
well it's two
things right it's like one thing is like they have
to actually follow the game that's being played
and another thing is
based on a rewatch you actually have to be able to game that's being played. And another thing is, based on a rewatch,
you actually have to be able to track the winner
from the first episode.
Like, that's just like an editing rule of reality television.
But speaking of the editing,
they're not investing in anything that Sheree's doing at all,
which makes me go, then does that mean...
She probably doesn't win.
But, like, if she's sticking around for at least four episodes
and, like, cut to her for at least four episodes and like cut to her
for at least a couple seconds
that's, I don't know, I'm just a little
confused. I'm thrown. They do a pretty good job
on this show of making it feel
like everyone is a part of the show when
that literally can't be the case. I do
want to take this moment to say over the past
two days, you know what I've done? I've
finally binge watched this most
recent season of survivor
forget what you heard this was a great season this season was excellent it was the most dynamic
relationships i've seen on this show in a really long time i am confident calling it I think the best season of the new era it is
it's really good
and a post winners at war era
yes the winner is a 10
wow the winner is a 10
I don't want to say anything because I think you'll have fun
watching it but
really compelling
like strategic moves
out of relationships
and not just gameplay,
which I've been missing on this show for a really long time.
Like long scenes that are just establishing relationship and storyline and
character dynamics that I think make the show really compelling.
And it's great to see someone win playing a great strategic game,
but also being really winning in that respect.
10 out of 10, this was a great season.
It starts weird because some of the players are...
Not.
Odd.
But really, really, really worth it.
And I'm happy that I got to binge it all at once
because that's the way I love to watch Survivor.
It's how I trained myself to watch it during the pandemic.
But everyone jump in. And anyone that watched it live and was like, what are you doing? I love to watch Survivor. It's how I trained myself to watch it during the pandemic, but everyone jump in.
And anyone that watched it live and was like,
what are you doing? You gotta watch. You were
right. I finally did, and I
love it. I love to hear this.
I love to hear this.
So are you predicting, who are you predicting to win
Traders at this moment? Well,
it's, Faithfuls are always at a disadvantage.
And this is, if you've played enough games of
Mafia or Werewolf or whatever, you know this already this already like there was a real period where we were playing this
all the time at chinese school on sundays like it was the obsession and mafia usually wins it's
really hard for these faithfuls to root out who among them is deceiving, cunning, whatever. But I think my opinion,
and this is me being pretty big brother illiterate,
I feel like Dan is not as smart as he thinks he is.
He's not playing it.
Obviously, his scent is sort of
wafting through the halls a little bit.
I think that he's not making it till the end.
And I think that what's showing...
What was interesting about last season,
mild spoil if you haven't seen the
first season of The Traitors U.S.,
Seri was able to manage these boys
and what's
happening now is Dan thinks
he can manage these women, but he
is in over his head.
It's very much giving. I know better because I'm a man. I'm sorry. That's just how it's
coming off to me. I think also, well, I was having this discussion the other day, which is
if I'm a contestant on the traders and I look around and I'm someone who knows something
and I look at someone like Dan, I look at someone
like Parvati, I'm thinking, well, they're going to want to pick them as a trader because that's
what the audience wants to see. So I hear that argument. But at the same time, as someone who
was like a fan of several different franchises here when they picked phaedra
i wasn't surprised at all because that to me felt like housewives fan service and i i feel like
someone who loves big brother feels the same way about dan someone who loves survivor feels the
same way about parvati yeah and in that respect you kind of can't really use
the logic of oh well they had to pick them because every single fandom has that person and they can't
all be picked as traitors so like if i'm there you have to go solely off gameplay and that's where
knowing something about these franchises comes into play because
if you see dan acting weird then dan's acting weird you know what i mean also i think it's
different when everyone is a reality show person who's trained to think in this psychotic way
where like you can't be quiet dan like you don't have the option of being quiet. You look suspicious.
Because you wouldn't be quiet.
Right.
And Parvati, I think, is doing great.
I think she's flying under the radar a little.
Like, all three of these traders are a little too quiet for my liking.
But Parvati walking around with this chalice was hilarious because I don't think it's the gameplay that she's used to.
No.
And I,
I had pure,
I had like real anxiety watching her.
I was like,
Oh my God.
Oh my God.
Oh my God.
Oh my God.
She's being so obvious.
She's being so obvious.
Yeah.
Like,
and readers,
Katie's publicist finalist.
If you don't know what we're talking about,
just please,
please,
please try and watch this as soon as you can.
You won't regret it.
But Parv walking around with this goblet, I was like,
she is not used to this kind of like surreptitious behavior necessarily.
And the way that Survivor, you can sort of like couch your intentions in like communication.
This is her with something physical being in like a crowd of people.
So many variables around her.
It's,
it's a little panic inducing for me as a viewer.
Yeah.
And this is where I think like,
as a viewer,
you're just looking for things that they're not like,
I think us as viewers,
we,
with the knowledge of poverty as a trader walking around with that chalice,
we're like,
Oh my God,
she's so obvious I genuinely
think if you're there
you might just forget
that she could hand you something
that's a poison drink you know what I mean
like it's like that's where it's
it really makes it seem
like it should be easier and more
obvious until
you're doing it I would imagine
I would imagine it's like anything else
where it's just like anyone on the couch would be like,
oh, I'd absolutely crush this.
Like you should have seen me yesterday
watching Survivor being like,
well, here'd be my game plan.
Like, no, it wouldn't, bitch.
All bets are off when you're there.
All bets are off,
but they couldn't have picked.
I mean, the outcome was incredible.
I mean, when I heard her voice laughing,
I was like, oh my God, they actually picked her.
And it was similar to what you were saying.
Like, I think I got up out of my seat and paced around.
I was like, I love my life.
I love my life.
I hate how the Peppermint stuff shook out.
And fucking Trishel.
They still haven't spoken.
I saw a headline where Peppermint and Trishel still haven't spoken.
Because Trishel is a fucking loser.
I didn't love the way that shook out.
I just wish it didn't have to go that way.
One thing I'll say is you do get the sense that Peppermint is a very big personality.
And they do tend to leap on the big personalities
especially early when they have nothing to go
off but that whole
situation with them talking
and then Trishel making
Peppermint's reaction so much more
than it was felt like
amplifying something in a negative
way. It didn't feel right.
I know what you're saying.
It, yeah. We'll leave it at that. negative way yeah i know what you're saying right i know what you're saying it yeah
we'll leave it at that cut to charrette i am not happy right now
charrette is so funny charrette is so funny i hope she stays a little bit longer than we expect
her to uh but we're not expecting her to she's the bone collector like she carries the bones i
mean you know me i I want Housewives supremacy.
There would be nothing I want more
than to watch this be all Housewives.
They're insane
social tactics being used.
Tamara interrogating this
man from Parliament about his asthma
was
completely out of hand.
Tamara's
gameplay so far, I'm like, okay, her asking for an inhaler when gameplay so far, I'm like,
okay, her asking for an inhaler
when they're running, I'm like,
pretty smart, pretty clever.
I think nothing's been as
smart so far than
Parvati faking out that she was gonna vote
Dan, crossing out the D,
and then writing... Yes, oh my god, I was
obsessed with that. She's just
good. She's just thinking more than she
she just hasn't missed a step she has not missed a step i was thinking about the web and
black widow brigade and i was just like i was just thinking about her thing with um what's his face
in micronesia of like who do you want to take to the end? Girls. Yeah. So, such a great TV moment.
Sheree though, I'm like,
have we talked enough on this podcast
about the force that is Sheree Whitfield?
Just like the staying power of
so many of the things that she said.
I was with Tomas Matos the other day
and like,
Oh, I'm jealous.
We were laughing
and then someone was talking about
like the beat of a song
and then like
immediately
they launch into
definitely I liked
the
I liked the track
I liked the beat
it was good
I liked the beat
I liked the beat
and
Hugo and Check Me Boo
of course
I watch Hugo and Check Me Boo
frequently
and my sister
who's like a huge
big brother and
survivor fan
doesn't know
Housewives.
She was like,
how do I know
who these people are?
I just sent like
four clips that
would get them
all across.
And of course,
I said,
who gonna check
me boo?
And she was like,
my sister was
screaming,
screaming,
laughing at like
what played out,
what transpired
between Shrek
and the party planner.
I mean,
it's like
product television. It's so like product television so good customer service
and then and then whatever happened to hello how are you my name is how are you
my name is and then oh and name is. How are you? How are you? My name is. My name is. And then,
the thing that gets overlooked
in the September,
spring,
summer moment
is Candy going,
like,
he's asking you,
like,
when it's coming out
or something.
And then,
and then Sheree goes,
quiet.
Like,
Sheree,
like,
brushes her off
and then Candy goes,
okay, well, it wasn't clear. And then Sheree goes, quiet. Like, Sheree, like, brushes her off and then Danny goes, okay, well, it wasn't clear. And Sheree goes,
you're not being clear.
Atlanta.
We have to save Atlanta.
We have to save Atlanta. We have to save our
girls. Save our girls. No, but, and I'm
telling you, like, so,
of course, like, there's been interviews. I'm
obsessed with the Traders. Like, I cannot stop.
And so I'm watching all their interviews
and trying to suss out based on what they say
in the interviews with ET or whatever the fuck online,
whether or not they stay.
I was watching an interview with Shreya,
and they were like,
what's up with Real Housewives of Atlanta?
When are we going to hear?
And she was like,
well, there's going to be a cast shakeup.
And I was like, please, God, let's fixanta and and by fix atlanta i don't mean
fire everybody because i understand why that needed to happen to for new york i'm not there
yet with with atlanta but what do you think like drew sonja marlo gone i think they have to go i
just don't think marlo i don't think marlo is um she does not hold the. I just don't think Marlo. I don't think Marlo is.
She does not hold a peach.
Well,
I don't think it's positive.
You know what I mean?
Like I just,
it feels,
I don't know.
It just feels like something dark sided about it.
Whereas like,
I think we can move forward with Kenya.
Candy.
Well,
candy.
So hugely popular that you kind of can't just like fire her but like i don't think
she gives great story but maybe she could and then charie and um you know i just i want the
classic girls you know atlanta in the seasons where porsche was there where phaedra was there
where cynthia bailey was there like you know not say, but like NeNe in her prime, there was
no one better. Obviously, we'll never get those days
back because NeNe is never coming
back, but we could do
it. We could do it with these great characters that we
know and love. It's just,
I don't know. It has to make sense.
They have to have real relationships.
It's like any of the shows.
Yeah. Brooke Ashley did a whole
video essay about how Potomac is in its
flop.
I watched it.
Well,
I think essence wrote an article.
Yeah.
It was a whole thing about how,
like how disappointing it is to have,
you know,
Wendy and NECA against each other,
the way that they are based on culture and based on,
you know,
heritage.
And it's really ugly.
And they really called out the way that it feels like
the goalposts do move for certain cast members.
You know, it's in its flop era, I would agree.
But I'm so thrilled that Brooke Ashley shares our opinion,
which is break up or just get rid of entirely
the Green Ambien debts.
She was making a really good point about how Beverly Hills this season is so great.
Because Rinna's gone.
Because they got rid of, you know, a toxic element of the group.
And I say this as someone who has really liked Rinna and appreciated what Rinna has done before.
But at a certain point, like, we know what the show is with Giselle.
You know what I'm saying?
It's like, we know.
And I'm bored.
We know what the environment and the setting
and the feel of the show is with Giselle at the center.
And it's not working anymore.
And who knows?
Maybe it will be a lot better.
At this point, like, it can't get worse.
I don't think Potomac can get worse.
What a hateful person.
I will say it till the day I die.
Giselle, Brian, God, you are a canker on this state.
We're going to get DMs now that are like,
I don't care.
Pictures of Giselle being like,
you will never be as talented and successful as her.
I'll be like, watch me dance.
Bring them forth.
Come forth. Come forth.
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Oh, thoughts on Yes And?
I like Yes And a lot.
Like, it's so funny.
Like, I knew when I was first hearing it,
I'm like, oh, people are going to be like,
I don't know about this.
And then in two sips,
they're going to be like,
it's my favorite song.
And that's what happened.
I just was like,
trying to put myself in the mind frame of like,
this is going to be a
fucking moment I happen to like it
from the very beginning like I really did like
the song but there was
that reaction that I could tell was going to happen
which was like I might need to listen
to this a bunch of times and now it feels
like people are turning a corner
and liking it but it certainly
feels like an installment
in that type of song we've been getting again and again
which is that like house
house inspired like
you know summer bop like
it's certainly En Vogue right now
to do this type of song but it's also like
very essentially Ari I feel like
her DNA is in there
yeah I love
the swing of
you're not getting a vocal from me until it's 45 seconds into the song.
Yeah.
I love that. appreciation for just how layered and like textured she is in all of her music even if
she's not like belting down like right just listen to the little harmonies and like little places
where there's vocals and like really extra color and just like she's two things she's an amazing
singer she's also an amazing recording artist And I really like the way that she creates her like scape.
Like I just,
I'm really into it.
Like I'm,
I'm really listening to positions again,
the album,
which was my fucking shit in the pandemic.
It was a grower for me though.
Yeah.
But that's what I'm saying is it's like,
I think a lot of her music people call growers
because they're not appreciating just how fun
and how much there is in like her more quote unquote
simple music where she's not singing to the rafters.
But the consistent thing with her stuff
is that it's always technically yeah very lush and have you
seen this this video that she put up of her it's like i want to say like five six seven eight
minutes long of her like on pro tools yeah picking the takes going back being like well i sound like
i'm actually speaking english in this one like she like you hear her thought process and she's teaching Max like the
shortcuts and like how to do things in pro like she's telling Max
Martin,
like little production things.
You know what I'm saying?
Like she,
like she is this like technical person literally on like the software
level.
Yeah.
In a way that I think people are finally starting to appreciate.
Yeah.
Because they think of Ari,
they think,
Oh,
like singer,
the singer and the looks and the makeup and the,
and you know,
all this stuff.
But it's like,
this is a fully rounded artist.
Yeah.
She is very intentional and thoughtful about what she wants to say.
And each song she thinks of,
she is an album artist down.
She has
this very holistic view on things
in terms of her
body of work.
She is
really excited. That's all I
can say firsthand. Yeah.
She's kind of got all the tools.
She's a great singer. She's like
a really adept producer.
She's someone who can create her own work lyrically. She also has great taste and she
also has a really, really, really strong individual brand. All that stuff that comes together, like
it's kind of unbeatable and really sets her apart, I think, from a lot of other people.
You know what I mean?
And so, therefore, it feels like she can kind of do whatever she wants to do
and people aren't going to be, like,
they're never going to say Ari Flop era.
They're just not.
And even when she goes through her, you know, publicized struggles.
Right.
Like, she's always going to have her gift and her talent.
And it feels like she's always able to kind of divert back to that in a way that I think is, like, A, kind of crucial in an era where people are always going to be up in the business and think that they know better and be
like something
where maybe if she does make a mistake, she
always has that. You know what I'm saying?
It's like it's six of one and no one
knows really what's actually going
on, but everyone knows that
she's fucking talented as fuck.
Yeah. Yeah. I wanted to
Can I quickly shout out one other thing
before we move on?
Waxahachie, new single, right back to it.
Excellent, beautiful.
If you're a Waxahachie fan, subscribe to her sub stack.
She is really writing some beautiful pieces,
long form things about how she's writing these songs.
And it's really interesting.
I'm so excited she's back.
She did send me the whole album.
It's coming out in March. It is fantastic. I'm so, so, so. She did send me the whole album. It's coming out in March.
It is fantastic.
I'm so, so, so excited.
Oh, now I'm going to reach out.
I want to hear it.
Katie!
Katie Crutchfield.
Come on, Crutch.
Come on, Crutch.
Prior guest of the pod, of course, if you weren't aware.
Okay, that's all.
So speaking about when you say prior guest,
I think that Bowen and I want to take this opportunity
to just talk about the podcast and just talk about how in our ninth season, we want to evolve and we want to feel like
the podcast is, while this is so fun, not always us just talking about the culture catch-up because
let's just be real, as you guys have seen, we don't have a lot of guests anymore.
And that's for a couple reasons.
I think that I can say for us, we've gotten busier.
And I think that while the guests are incredible, they require a certain amount of prep on our part. Logistical alignment, yeah.
And there's just a lot going on.
And the truth is that Bowen and I really like just doing it like this.
And it's no shade to the concept of guests.
And we're not saying we're not going to have guests.
But it's just shook out the way that this is the way the podcast is happening now.
And we love it.
And, you know, in the next few months, like leading up to our 400th episode, which is so exciting,
Bowen and I aren't going to be in the same place because I have to remain
in Los Angeles for good reasons
and Bowen has to be in New York for
what we know are good reasons.
We wanted to think of a way
to create a new element
of the podcast and we came up with something that
we're pretty excited about.
We have not really named
it and is that an important piece to this
you think or no? I think we should index what this is. And is that an important piece to this? You think, or no,
I think,
I think we should index what this is because it is not quite a segment. It is a new facet of the full prism of the podcast.
Yeah.
But basically what we're going to do is we are going to randomly.
Oh,
you have it.
Okay.
I have a goblet.
I have a goblet in my hands.
So Bowen, before, the reason I was two minutes late to the Zoom,
and I can admit to being two minutes late to the Zoom,
is because, so this is what happened.
Bowen texted me the other day and he made a great point,
which was that, you know, a lot of times,
like especially like in podcasting now,
where it feels like there's a million,
a lot of people are doing the thing of
two people talking and we just want to make sure that we feel ahead of this thing and don't make
it feel like what was that article that you said like results in like overindulgent glut when people
are just talking to each other this is a piece in byline which is a lovely, lovely, lovely new online publication that is really trying to fill in this really sad, huge,
gaping hole in media right now
where there is no place for new writers to start.
We're not in a time of Man Repeller Gawker,
like, you know, Ricky Mag anymore.
And as all these things get bought out by these bigger media entities, and it's really
sad. And anyway, it's quite sad. But they did a whole profile on these on the two founders in the
New York Times that I thought was really interesting. But someone writes this piece about
podcasting becoming overcrowded. We know this to be true already. I sent Matt this little excerpt,
podcasts need to embrace seasonality.
The trend towards open-ended podcasts leads to
overindulgent glut and ultimately audience
fatigue. Creating podcasts
with different themes and seasons allows those making
them time to ebb and flow and fold
in new ideas. This is a new idea and we're
very excited about it. Yeah.
And so we're going to be doing it all the way up
until our 400th episode. I have
a goblet in my hands.
And this is the Goblet of Cultural Years.
So there are 50 years in this goblet.
And so every episode, we are going to on
the following episode do a full cultural excavation we're going to be talking about
the news of this day the pop culture of this day how they interacted what the top films were yes
sorry what the top films were what the top music was what the top stories were, what the top music was, what the top stories were, what was happening to the girls
in this year, what we remember of this year if we were alive, what we can find out about this year,
and do a full-blown cultural excavation on that year, sort of calling back to the very origin of
this podcast, which is Las Culturistas. We are culture curators and excavators. So we are really excited about this
because it's going to not be homework,
but also be educational culture.
And this podcast being mentioned in academic work,
I mean, I can't really think of a better move for us
in terms of us getting an honorary degree
from Harvard one day.
You know what I mean?
Absolutely.
That is the goal here.
And I am very excited.
I am so curious to see what this first year is.
Should we find out?
Let's find out.
Let's find out. I am reaching into the gavel of cultural years,
and this will be on our next episode.
We will be deep diving, twirling,
and thriving in the
year that I pick out, and it's in my
hand right now. That year is
Bowen, the gods are shining
on us. I'm so excited.
This was a culturally ripe
year, and it's an important year
for you and I.
1998? 2009.
2009 year for you and I. 1998? 2009. 2009
will be the
year that we culturally
excavate on the next
episode of Las Culturistas.
I mean, I'm already bursting at the seams.
I already know what I'm going to talk about.
DJ Earworms,
United States of Pop mashup.
That was his best work. That was one of the best mashups in the history of mashups. It's mashup culture. United States of Pop mashup. That was his best work.
That was one of the best mashups in the history of mashups.
It's mashup culture.
We're talking about mashup culture.
We're talking about girl talk.
We're talking about all the pop girlies.
I'm so excited.
You know what happened is the culture gods,
they actually heard us say Katy Perry Teenage Dream
earlier in the episode.
And they were like, well, let's get truly into it on the next episode of last coach.
Wow.
I didn't realize how much I love this idea until we did this.
I can't think of a better year.
This is good.
So you can now think of last coach Reese does as the occasional guest will
come on.
If there's anything really,
really insane that's happened in the culture,
we might do a full culture catch up,
but think of last coach Reese is going might do a full culture catch-up. Think of Lost Culture Reasons going forward
as a third culture catch-up,
a third cultural excavation from the hands
of the Goblet of Culture,
and then a third I Don't Think So Honey in the aftermath.
How about that?
I love that.
And obviously the pie chart
is going to be a little uneven at times.
I Don't Think So Honey might take up
a mere three minutes, all told.
But we're excited.
I think this is,
nothing is really fundamentally changing
about the podcast.
And it's a thrill.
And we're very excited.
But it has to remain fresh.
You know what I mean?
And I think that this is just something that,
if you really think about it, I don't think I ever have more fun
than when we're doing our
rankings and our
lists and our stuff like that. And I feel like this is
in the family of that and the way that we can
make a permanent part of the podcast.
I'm super excited about it.
Yes.
Let's
go into I Don't Think So Honey on that note. I'm into it. What even is that?
I Don't Think So Honey is our segment. We've done every episode where we take one minute each to
go into a diatribe about something that's really bothering us in the culture. And do you have
something, Matt Rogers? I do. I do. We missed a Golden Globes recap
when we did our last episode
because we recorded it right prior
and I have something to say.
Okay, this is exciting.
This is Matt Rogers'
I Don't Think So Honey
as time starts now.
I don't think so, honey,
that 10 days is not enough time
to put together jokes
for a Golden Globes monologue.
I understand that it's a really high profile gig and watching it.
I even think sometimes this is a no win gig,
but you have 10 days to put together what is essentially really only has to
be a five to 10 minute bit.
And I'm not dragging because I feel like he's been dragged enough,
but Joe Coy has been in the game since 1994.
So I would imagine that he knows a lot of people that he could have gotten together to put a room together.
And also that room could have included people who really cared about or knew about those movies.
Because the fact that we ended up with a situation where we have to compare Oppenheimer, whose story was based on a book, to Barbie, whose story was based on a doll with big boobies.
It was humiliating.
And that was a really early joke.
To throw your writers onto the bus?
You didn't pick the right writers.
You are given the opportunity of a lifetime.
Don't blame it on everything else.
10 days is a lot of time.
That's one minute.
I can't imagine what it's like to be noted at a thing like this.
You've written for the Globes.
If you can provide some insight into this, I would love to hear it.
It just felt ridiculous to me that that A, ended up what it was quality-wise,
and B, that the story ended up being what it was,
which is, well, production was such a nightmare.
I only had 10 days.
Now I'm spinning out publicly.
So on that note, we got there for the year
that andy sandberg and sandra o hosted i think like six days six or five days of lead time
i agree it's like it's 10 days to write eight minutes right and maybe come up with like two, three quick little bits
interstitially throughout the show,
whether that's
something in the audience,
something on stage,
something outside of,
whatever.
Right.
There's a lot of latitude there.
You are well resourced to,
like the reason I went was
because it was my first season
working at SNL
and like there was this sort of...
I think Sandra wanted some Asian writers,
so I went, Karen Chi went,
and Sudi and Fran had written for her
It's an Honor to be Asian thing at the Emmys that summer.
So they were able to have their pick
of who was going to write for them.
I would imagine Joe Coy had the same latitude.
So all that being said, I agree with you.
I think it's just a matter though,
of this guy not being embedded in that room.
It's everyone being like, who is this guy?
He's not one of us.
And then you put that together with the jokes being what they were.
They were rough.
And also, one of the lamer jokes of it,
in that it wasn't even a hard joke,
but got a lot of pickup for no reason,
was this Taylor Swift thing.
Right.
First of all, there's not a more innocuous joke
than one difference between the Golden Globes and the football, whatever.
And NFL, yeah. Is that there's less cuts to Taylor Swift. First of all, then they cut to her. She didn't look
pissed. She was just playing along, like looking pissed and taking a sip of her champagne. I don't
think there's anything negative about the way that she acted. I just thought like there's a fervor
around that joke because of her fan base because of what it is yeah yeah that was that was like a
perfectly whatever middle of the road like five of a joke at that show there were some truly heinous
jokes at that show which i think is exactly what you're saying the root of it being he doesn't
fucking care about this opportunity i would doubt that he watches these movies. Well, he had to be told.
Ali Wong had to tell him.
They were asking him, what was the advice?
Before the show, they were like, what advice have your friends given you, your fellow comedians given you?
And he was like, well, Ali Wong, my good friend, told me to watch all the movies.
Yeah.
Which I don't think made a difference at all.
I don't think you could tell that he had even... His whole thing of, I didn't think made a difference at all like I don't think
like you could tell that he had even
his whole thing of I didn't have a new year's I
was watching all these movies while everyone else is drinking
champagne it's like well none of that
showed that wasn't I mean you
didn't that wasn't none of that was in
the like you made a joke about
Barbie's boobies why did you watch all the
movies that you should have had a new year's
it's like your writers are going to watch all these movies and write jokes about that. I don't
quite know who these people ended up being. I don't know if it's anyone that we know,
which is neither here nor there. I just think it's complicated because it's just like a perfect
shitstorm of stuff. Like he blames them. He panics. It's like it's every bad rough worst case scenario thing transpired what's sad
to me is that this is like pulling in all these conversations about is there a need for a host
it kind of feeds into this larger cultural conversation that we're all having about or
not that we're all having that they're all that's in the back of our minds about comedy and about
how like if hard comedy has a place anywhere, if hard comedy has a place anywhere,
because if hard comedy has no place at award shows,
if like someone can't go up there
and open the show with like jokes about the movies
and about the people there,
then like, where does it belong?
Where does it exist?
Like it's harder and harder to get movies made
about that are hard comedies
and TV shows to be categorized
or even like exist as that.
Like there is nowhere to go anymore for comedians. that are hard comedies and TV shows to be categorized or even exist as that.
There is nowhere to go anymore for comedians.
It's really sad to me that this is a sidebar conversation that we're having in the wake of it.
Look, I think that here's the thing
that we have to remember
is that there actually have been great performances
of hosting these shows.
It gets lost,
but the year of Regina Hall hall wanda sykes and
amy schumer that year of the slap they did a great job hosting that show literally this last weekend
chelsea handler say what you want she was the type of person who should be hosting a show like the
critics choice awards you know what i mean did amazing last week at the governor's
thing right and anthony anderson last night like i didn't love the opening bit but perfectly
charming had like a place there kept the pace like got the vibes to be at a certain place
like where it felt good joe coy coming in like it was a specific vibe that he felt uncomfortable didn't want to be there
and was just badly advised about how to set up his bit because at least the party that I was at like
people just got up and walked away because it was too uncomfortable so right and it was it was it
was hard to watch but then it got worse when he spun out and blamed it on all these things. But to say that a comedian can't host this show, that's just not true. I mean, we see it happen all the time. It's just that that job sometimes feels no win because when people do do an amazing job, it's not the story.
Right. When people do a bad job, it's the story. And I don't mean to help that narrative.
I guess I just feel like it's a cop-out to say that you didn't have enough time
or that the writers didn't serve you
because I'm sorry, but I don't buy that.
As a comedian and other people that I talk to,
10 days would be more than enough time
if you even wanted to be there with 50% of your being. It would be more than enough time. If you even wanted to be there with 50% of your being,
it would be more than enough time.
What else do you have to do on the schedule?
That's more important than like an internationally watched television show
where your job is to just for five to eight minutes or whatever it is,
just set a good tone and make jokes.
Yeah, yeah.
That's the part of it I didn't like,
is this idea, this narrative being built
that like that wasn't enough time.
Like, I'm sorry, but give me a break.
Well, yeah, and I'm here to say that like
we had less time the year that Andy and Sandra hosted.
And that's what I wanted to ask.
Yeah, yeah.
So there you go.
Joe Coy though,
I mean,
perfectly respectable,
serviceable comedian. That sounds so fucking shady of me to say,
but like a solid,
successful comedian.
No,
he's great.
I mean,
like that just wasn't his venue.
It just wasn't the venue.
And Joe Coy, though,
if you want to see more of him,
he plays my little henchman in The Monkey King
on Netflix.
And I bet he's great in that
because I'm sure he wanted to
be in the booth.
I know.
I guess my thing is just like, there's so many people that would want that job.
I know.
That would do an amazing
job at that. That would treat it like an opportunity because i don't know like i don't
think that audience wants to hate the host i just know like that audience wants to have a good time
that audience has a sense of humor about itself like and if they don't, like, and the joke is good enough, then whatever. I mean, like, it is what it is.
Part of the reason why people go to those award shows, people watch award shows.
Look, look, the words thankless job have been thrown around so much since those Golden Globes that I'm like questioning whether or not that's even true.
And I'm starting to think maybe it's not because people go to those shows and watch those shows
because it's giving Hollywood.
You know what I mean?
And like, someone coming out
and like doing the hosting thing
is like a huge part of it.
There is like,
I just remember growing up
and watching Billy Crystal
would be being like,
it was the reason I watched.
Half the reason I watched was just to see what like Billy Crystal, Whoopi, being like, it was the reason I watched. Half the reason I watched was just to see what
Billy Crystal would do. And then when Whoopi
came down from the fucking ceiling of the Kodak Theater
being like, I am the sexy beast,
I was like, this is blowing my
mind. There is
a way, not to be all nostalgia-pilled
about this, but like, and not to be
all like, make blank great
again, but it's like
this, there is this way back to that. I am so sure of it. It really bums me out now that we
talk about this, that like, I think it's another cop out to be like, get rid of hosts entirely.
No, no, no, no, no, no. Please let's not. Let's please not. This is actually a sacred place for
comedians to like like try new things,
break out.
It's,
it is like,
for lack of a better term,
a captive audience for comedians.
Right.
In a way that like,
we don't get other places.
I also think like there is absolutely a world where you make a good joke
about Taylor Swift and her fans actually like it.
You know what I mean?
Like maybe you have to be more intentional about what that joke is. Okay. So what? Like she's far and away one of the biggest
stars in that room. Like she's there. You're going to have to make a joke about it. I honestly think
the reason why that totally innocuous joke hit the way it did is because the vibes had been so
rancid in the lead up to that joke. He had already been flopping.
I think there was no coming back from that Barbie joke.
Right.
That cut to Greta in the audience after that Barbie joke.
I know she's being a good sport about it now
and being like, yeah, it didn't bother me.
That was not a good vibe at all.
That was really, really rough.
It was not for nothing
a Golden Globes that had moments.
And like, between the Joe thing, it kept
the conversation going about the whole award show.
The whole Selena whispering, like
the mouth reads.
The Taylor of it all.
The Timmy and Kylie of it all.
And like, Aya winning her award.
Like, Ali
and Wong and Bill Hader kissing.
I'm like, they were just, it gave us moments.
And I was like, this is what award shows should be,
except for the host bombing.
That's the only note I have.
But you know what?
Even that is kind of a tell-us-all this time.
You know what I mean?
Like we remember like, we remember famously,
David Letterman hosted the Oscars
and it was one of the worst hosting performances of all time.
It didn't hurt him in the long run.
I think it was just like a hazard of the trade.
Sometimes when you host these things, you're going to bomb.
I guess it's just like, if you're going to bomb,
don't also show us the seams.
Like, then it's not even fun.
In real time.
Right.
Like, it was just like to blame,
especially after everything that we've been through with the strikes,
to be like, the writers flopped.
And you know what? No one's perfect.
And again, I'm not saying Joe Coy's a bad comedian.
He was the wrong person for this job.
And if you know that's true,
and if you know it's not something you're going to do well,
don't say yes to it.
I don't think it helped anyone.
Like by saying yes to something,
and maybe it caught in his head too that everyone else had passed
and he wasn't the first choice.
At that point, it's like make your decision then based on that feeling.
But there's even a way around the I'm not like you element to it.
Like who is this guy?
He's not one of us.
Like the way that Tina and Amy and Ricky Gervais
all were in their own way successful.
And with Ricky, I'm like,
I don't quite know about that.
Is that like,
they felt like they were like ingratiated into that space.
Mulaney did the best thing at his Oscars thing
where he was just like,
I'm just like one of you.
Let me read an email,
like a casting email. And it was a great play into a great joke. I was like, that's how you
do it is that you like make a joke about how you aren't one of them. And then that kind of like
dusts off that shelf. And then you get to like put whatever you want on it. You know what I mean?
Would you ever want to host the Golden Globes?
Not the Globes. Maybe no awards show.
It actually, I don't know. It seems like
the culture needs to get into a better
place first. Like, the culture's bad right now
because, like, awards shows are
bad because the culture's bad. And I know
that's a cop-out answer, but it's like, that's my answer for so
many things. Anyway. I would do it with you.
I would only do it
with you. I know we would crush.
Because we would have fun with it. Because this is what we talk what we talk about all year also like you just have to have fun
just have fun with it and then they have fun i don't know maybe it's simplistic of me to boil
it down to that but like there's got to be a sense of fun and like you know sense of wanting to be
there if you have fun and you want to be there they'll have fun and they'll want to be there what joe
not to note this to death but like people kind of got on joe's shit about like him doing a mom
impression because that's kind of what he does a lot in his stand-up i think you should have leaned
into that more because that's clearly his comfort zone that's him having fun on stage like do that
like do like a whole bit about your mom talking about all the nominees. Make that a whole fucking two, three minutes.
Exactly.
Exactly.
And even if that bit hadn't like placed him in the greatest host of all time category,
he wasn't going to be that anyway because he doesn't, he's not the really the right
person for that job.
So do something that's going to be fun and reliable and you're good at and just get off
the stage.
Your job as the host is the vibes curator.
Yeah. Like, leave with good vibes. Make everyone have a good time. Don't be yelling about the
writers. What did you expect the reaction was going to be from Greta Gerwig about Barbie Big
Boobies? Did you think she's going to be laughing and cackling that everyone in that room was going
to be like, hilarious boobies joke about barbie like this
isn't a fucking middle school talent show with all boys in the audience like it's the golden globes
what did you think yeah
this fall on bravo it's time to turn up think you've seen it all i don't think you've been a
good friend to me lately.
We're friends like that.
Who needs enemies?
You ain't seen nothing yet.
Cheers to being Germanic.
With the Real Housewives of Potomac.
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It's gonna be amazing.
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Everyone is a gossip.
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You broke the rules and now you're here getting upset.
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Hey, I'm Jay Shetty and I'm the host of On Purpose.
My latest episode is with Jelly Roll.
This episode is one of the most honest and raw interviews I've ever had.
We go deep into Jelly Roll's life story from being in and out of prison from the age of 13
to being one of
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I was a desperate, delusional dreamer, and the desperate part got me in a lot of trouble. I
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On Thanksgiving Day, 1999, a five-year-old boy floated alone in the ocean.
He had lost his mother trying to reach Florida from Cuba.
He looked like a little angel. I mean, he looked so fresh.
And his name, Elian Gonzalez,
will make headlines everywhere.
Elian Gonzalez.
Elian, Elian, Elian Gonzalez.
Elian, Elian, Elian Gonzalez.
At the heart of the story is a young boy
and the question of who he belongs with.
His father in Cuba.
Mr. Gonzalez wanted to go home
and he wanted to take his son with him.
Or his relatives in Cuba. Mr. Gonzalez wanted to go home and he wanted to take his son with him. Or his relatives in Miami.
Imagine that your mother died trying to get you to freedom.
At the heart of it all is still this painful family separation.
Something that as a Cuban, I know all too well.
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So, Bowen Yang, this is your I Don't Think So, Honey.
Are you ready to absolutely tear and pop?
Yeah, yeah.
Okay.
Bowen Yang, this is your I Don't Think So, Honey.
Your time starts now. I Don't Think So Honey. Your time starts now.
I Don't Think So Honey,
for me personally,
gratitude.
I'm done with gratitude.
It's time to shift into full ambition.
In the words of Ashley O,
I'm stoked on ambition and verb.
I'm gonna get what I deserve.
So full of ambition and verb.
I'm gonna get what I deserve. This is my thing.
I made a whole playlist yesterday. I was like, I've been
wallowing in gratitude, and I'm not wallowing,
but I've been in gratitude for so long that I'm like,
it's time to get out of the pool
and actually reach for
the stars, because it's time.
Niecy Nash's Emmy acceptance speech
lit a fire under my ass.
Period. You need to believe in yourself.
In her press room speech,
she said,
that's why it's called self-esteem,
not mama esteem,
not them esteem.
15 seconds.
Because ain't nobody have to believe in it,
but you.
And that is part of ambition.
There is nothing wrong with being ambitious.
Five seconds.
It's time for us to scale new heights
as a culture,
as individuals,
but collectively, we are all getting out of gratitude for the current circumstances and reaching for something better.
There you go.
That's one minute.
My sister is galvanized in the year of our Lord 2024.
Oh, my God.
The way this is the year.
Really?
If we're talking about vibes curation today, Wednesday, January 17th, the vibes are fucking
good. This is, can we say
now that we've introduced
the goblet of years, 2024
is the year
of years.
Whoa.
2024 is the year of
years. That's title of app.
2024 is the year
of years. And you know app 2024 is the year of years and you know what we have to we have to put
good vibes out there okay because there are forces of evil bowing all around there are forces of evil
that are going to try to make traitors among us There are traitors among us. I'm serious. And there are forces
that are going to try to make
this year, 2024,
a bad year in retrospect.
And we have to fight that
with all of our might.
We have to.
And it starts here.
Okay?
It starts here.
We're recording this
from the Iowa caucus
we are in the cold
we have to fight
we've never been colder
we've never been colder
we are at Nikki Haley HQ
trying to figure out what's next
we are trying to strategize honey
girl
can I say
you know what I've started doing this week?
Berries.
Oh my God.
I'm so excited for you.
What are your thoughts?
My thoughts are, let's get shredded.
It's going to be three times a week at Berries for me.
And let's fucking try hard this year.
Oh, I'm so jealous.
Why are you jealous?
That can be you.
It literally can't.
When I'm at work, there's just no time.
I can put in once a week, but not three.
And I need three.
You couldn't do Monday?
I could do Monday.
I could do Tuesday.
I was going to do Tuesday
with just going to the gym,
and then I couldn't
because we decided to move
the recording from Monday night
to Tuesday morning
because we were like,
we have to talk about the Emmys.
We wanted to scoop the Emmys.
I have no regrets.
But then the rest of the week
is kind of a bust.
And then Sunday, I'm catatonia.
I'm catatonia.
The best thing you can do at that point is just rest.
I'm so excited you're doing berries.
Can I say what's worked wonders for me already?
Yes.
And I hate that I'm this person now
and it's only going to last like two weeks tops.
I have meal prepped, protein-rich, protein rich meals. I love it.
And it's working for me right now for my lifestyle because I am just like,
I don't care what I'm eating really. I have the decision fatigue down. Let me just pop this
chicken and broccoli stir fry with brown rice that I made on Sunday night in a huge walk.
Let me put that in the microwave and I'm eating protein at
least 30 grams per meal
and I'm eating
the Quest protein rich cookies.
I'm eating these protein rich things because
I'm like trying to what?
Tell my body to burn the fat instead of the protein.
That's all. And it's already working.
Healthy choices,
healthy life, healthy queen.
Healthy wife. Healthy wife. Happy life. Christmas tree. healthy choices healthy life healthy queen healthy wife
healthy wife
happy life
Christmas tree
Christmas tree
tree pain
well
should we tell everyone
so a while ago
I said to Bowen
as I want to do
I gave him a new name
I said
hey Christmas Jones
which is
Dennis Richards' name
in the James Bond films
and then Bowen
turns to me
and he points to me and he raises his eyebrow and he goes christmas tree i think i was i think we were
both very stone you told me girl christmas tree christmas jones christmas tree
i was just like wow you are so right about that one.
Yeah.
Hey,
Christmas Jones,
Christmas tree.
Christmas tree.
I think I even repeated.
I think you said,
hey,
Christmas Jones.
And I repeated,
I said,
Christmas Jones,
Christmas tree.
I said,
let me sit back.
Um,
wow.
What a thrilling episode this has been.
It's the beginning of the year.
It's the beginning of a new era.
Of the year of years.
Of the year of years.
And 2024 is the year of years.
And that's how we're setting the tone.
I'm very excited.
And thanks for joining us on this journey.
Thank you so much.
And before we do ads,
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Hey, I'm Jay Shetty and I'm the host of On Purpose.
My latest episode is with Jelly Roll.
This episode is one of the most honest and raw interviews I've ever had.
We go deep into Jelly Roll's life story
from being in and out of prison from the age of 13
to being one of today's biggest artists.
I was a desperate delusional dreamer. Be a delusional today's biggest artists. I was a desperate delusional dreamer.
Be a delusional dreamer.
Just don't be a desperate delusional dreamer.
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Trust me, you won't want to miss this one.
On Thanksgiving Day, 1999,
five-year-old Cuban boy Elian Gonzalez
was found off the coast of Florida.
And the question was, should the boy go back to his father in Cuba?
Mr. Gonzalez wanted to go home, and he wanted to take his son with him.
Or stay with his relatives in Miami?
Imagine that your mother died trying to get you to freedom. Listen to Chess Peace, the Elian Gonzalez story
on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts,
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And I'm Tarika Foster-Brasby.
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