Leah on the Line - 61: Knowing where you stand with a guy & dealing with toxic friends

Episode Date: April 10, 2023

Hey honeys! The weekly debate this week is "can friends with benefits ever be successful?". This was such an interesting one and I feel like it totally can be, but can very easily result in feelings being developed!! As for dilemmas, we discussed how to deal with not knowing where you stand, accepting rejection and dealing with on/off friendships! Thank you so so much for all of your love and support, I can't even tell you how much it means to me. As always send in your confessions/dilemmas to [e-mail]. Love you! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

hello hi everyone welcome back to a brand new episode of here on the line happy tuesday happy tuesday everyone how was your bank holiday weekend did you spend some lovely time with your family friends shout out to everyone that was working love you thinking of you but either way I hope it was pleasant I hope you all made some lovely memories this Easter happy Easter my nephew came running into my room saying happy Easter egg I was like happy Easter egg to you, honey. We did an Easter egg hunt. It was very fun. It was very fun. We got about 100 eggs, actually. How fucking expensive are Easter eggs at the moment? Are you joking me? It's like £6 for like 20 little eggs. I was like, are you joking me? Inflation, honey. Anyway, hope you had a great weekend. are your plans this week back to work perhaps

um what do I have planned this week not much oh got my eyes tested I'm sure you're all shaking in your boots just waiting to hear what my prescription is prescription what's it called is it called a prescription no is it actually why does that not sound right anyway um it's not that major it's uh plus 0.25 I do have astigmatism in both eyes which I wasn't aware of I thought it was in one eye and basically makes a lot of sense because she said to me because basically right my eyes they're just blurry like I'm just one minute it's fine and then like a few hours later I'm like can't fucking see shit darling can't reach it and like I said I've got loads of eye floaters so I was just like oh my god like maybe my eye floaters are just like really

clouding up my vision you know the worst case scenario was on my mind um anyway she said to me that with astigmatism like your eyes not your eyes but I guess your pupil I think isn't or is it I don't know part of my eye isn't round it's like the shape of a rugby ball I was like gorgeous gorgeous what does that mean what does that mean for me hey and she basically said that my eyes have to work harder to focus basically so she said when you're tired or stressed or just like not well like you might notice that like at the end of the day if you've been looking at a screen all day or reading a lot or watching a lot of tv like by the end of the day you you might not be able to see as clearly and I was like yeah

that's it that's it and she's like yeah don't worry about it totally normal like and anyway so she said to me that I could wear glasses just to stop my eyes having to work as hard. Do you know what I mean? I was like, yeah, gorgeous. I'm up for it. And I did get the blue light things fitted into my lens as well. So I'm a blue light girl because obviously I'm on the screen a lot. I'm literally, do you know what?

It's actually quite bad. I'm on my phone every minute of the day because obviously my job's on my phone so if I'm not doing any work I'm either like filming stuff or I'm doing emails or I'm just scrolling through TikTok for inspiration yeah that's I call it I call it research actually I'm just stuck in TikTok hole like the rest of us all right but I just call it research okay and if I'm not doing that I'm watching telly like it's very rare that I'm not looking at technology. It's very sad. I'm very ashamed to admit it. But then I was like, you know what?

I actually need to protect these eyes. You know what I mean? So I've got blue light. Who fucking cares, Leah? No one cares about your fucking glasses and your eyes. All right. Sorry to bore you all. I wonder what your eyes are like.

I hope they're all okay. Anyway, this episode, the usual choose. We've what your eyes are like. I hope they're all okay. Anyway, this episode, the usual choose. We've got a nice weekly debate. One of you guys requested that we did this weekly debate and I felt like it was a really good one. I can't remember. I feel like we might have done it ages ago or something along the lines of it, but either way, let's do it. Do you know what I mean? I'm really looking forward to it. It's a friends of benefits situation. So we'll get into that. Some great dilemmas this week. I've've also decided I think I'm going to do the confession diaries every other Tuesday so twice a month do you know what I mean so that we can have a good amount of confessions

does that make sense but you never know I could I could change my mind but yeah I hope you guys are feeling good whatever it is you're doing I hope I'm happy to be with you I'm happy to be in your ears or on the speaker whatever it is if you doing, I hope I'm happy to be with you. I'm happy to be in your ears or on the speaker, whatever it is. If you're driving, drive safe, concentrate. Okay, don't let me distract you too much. And let's get into the episode. Thank you so much for listening to Leah on the Line. Remember to leave a rating on Apple Podcasts and Spotify and hit the notification bell. You can send in your confessions and dilemmas to Leah on the Line at gmail.com and follow me on socials at Leah on the Line and learovane to see visual clips of the podcast. I love you. Enjoy the episode. Okay, everyone, let's get comfy. Whatever it is you're doing, if you're at the gym, let's turn up the incline, baby. Yeah.

If we're cleaning, if we're cleaning the house, turn it up, baby. Crank me up. Let's get in the cleaning mood if you're on a nice lovely walk look up look up at that beautiful sky hopefully it's that hopefully the sun is shining hopefully it's not raining the weather is a bit bipolar at the moment one minute is is wanting to give me love and warmth on my skin next minute wants to shower me with heavy rain and i'm not too sure how i feel about it. It's given hot and cold. Do you know what I mean? It's giving love bomb and then it's giving the breadcrumb. Do you know what I mean? Anyway, I'm in a toxic relationship with the weather right now, guys. The weekly debate this

week is can friends with benefits be successful? So I don't know how I feel about this one because I feel like it can I'm sure it's worked but personally I feel like most of the time it can get complicated so let's have a look what you guys are saying in most cases no you've got to be really mentally strong slash unemotional for it to work I think yeah I'm with you on the unemotional part because it's like naturally like we get attached to people I feel like unless you're in a phase of your life where you're like no I'm cold unavailable absolutely unavailable do you know what I mean unless it's a situation like that I think naturally we get attached to people or at least our ego does do you know what I mean so it's like I don't actually want to be with you but if you decide you you want to be with someone else that's that's going to be an issue for me and my ego

do you know what i mean okay let's move on to someone else personally no one always catches feelings more than the other only if you both know you don't ever want a relationship this never worked for me though i'd love to hear a success story hopefully we might have one in here okay only if neither of you would ever want to be together there has to be clear boundaries yeah I get you but then also it's like I know I guess it is normal to be like right if we're gonna do this let's set some boundaries in place let's let's make sure we're on the same page here you know um no from experience one of you always gets attached um i feel like when sorry i feel like even when you're both open with each other one person ends up catching feelings um as long as you're both on the same page and remain respectful it could work

i worked as a holiday rep abroad and had a friend of benefits it was convenient and worked well until he tried it on with another rep who i was close to in front of me and on my birthday wow the disrespect even though it was nothing more than friends with benefits i felt disrespected yeah i think it gets difficult when you see slash find out you are not the only one oh yeah like friends with benefits i feel like it's fine and can work if you're not having like multiple sexual partners do you know what i mean like i feel like it would be a success story if it's like you know neither of us want relationships but we want frequent sex so i'll bring that into your life and you can bring that into mine no strings attached but if it's like we're friends of benefits

but you're also sleeping for the people it's like well what what am i doing here do you know what i mean um it no turns to a relationship or it ends the same as a relationship it's life or it ends lol oh my goodness yeah i guess i wonder how many friends of benefit situations ended up relationships and it was like you know we it was just sex at first but we just fell madly in love i'd love tyranny if anyone's got any of those stories send them my way literally my situation right now but he picks and chooses when it suits him to reply or see me ouch no no no no would rather light myself on fire than ever go there again jesus um either one person catches feelings and gets hurt or you both catch feelings and fall in love oh i kind of like the idea i just love love you know what i mean i'd say if you set clear boundaries and accept it for what

it is then sure i couldn't know i catch feelings quick yeah okay i feel like most of us are on the same page here of just like it's a dangerous situation you know like we gotta tread carefully if we ever enter a friends with benefits situation you know it can be a bit of a code red sometimes but I can imagine it works like I really can if it's like look I am totally unavailable I don't even know what it feels like to like someone right now I'm cold I'm not interested I'm working on myself I just want to have sex because sex is amazing and the other person's like I'm on the same fucking page couldn't think of anything worse in a relationship right now let's have

frequent sex just me and you me and you baby no one else gorge but then also the exclusivity of it kind of sets it up for feelings you know what I mean it is a dangerous game I'm with you on that one it is a dangerous game I feel like sometimes it's an ideal situation do you know what I mean sometimes it's like well I don't want to not have sex but also I'm not fucking interested in getting to know someone going on fucking dates and shit you know what I mean like if you're really not in that place where you're just not looking for that right now but also the heart wants what it wants honey do you know what I mean the heart wants what it wants honey do you know what i mean the heart wants what it want selena gomez tune so yeah very interesting weekly debate i feel like there is no answer there is no settlement to that debate it will be ongoing forever it's situational at the end of the

day thank you so much for all of your opinions and responses and experiences i love you i appreciate you if there's any success stories or any stories where it started as a friends of benefits situation and you ended up in a relationship, please send them my way to read out because I find it so interesting. All right, let's get into some dilemmas. Okay, dilemmas time. I promise to be as gentle as possible sometimes i forget that it's like people's real life situations and i'll just be like no hey it's fucking horrible get rid but i need to remember it's just really not that simple you know so i will i will try and be less straightforward sometimes because you know i do love you and i don't actually ever want to

hurt anyone's feelings do you know what i mean all right let's get into the first one hey Leah love the pod I'm new welcome I love you but you have helped me stay awake driving to and from work so thank you well I'm glad I can keep you awake at the wheel that's probably the best for all of us thank you I love you okay I need some advice on a guy I've been seeing I'm really confused so I started seeing this guy in January. We knew each other previously at uni, but didn't rate each other like that because we were both players. Love it. Anyway, he's friends with my guy friends. So I thought I'd invite him to my birthday. And when I messaged to ask him, the conversation carried on for days and we actually

began to see each other more and more and go on dates etc this guy was amazing showered me with compliments showed he cared and that he listened on our first date we had a takeaway night at his and at midnight he surprised me with a birthday cake the size of my palm saying happy birthday with my name on it oh that's sweet that's sweet basically love bombed the absolute shit out of me oh okay fuck it's a love bomb situation cold red anyway he came to my birthday plans met all my friends literally made all of them laugh and really impressed me then a few weeks went past maybe like four or five and he started getting really slow on replies oh would barely conversate the guy who was obsessed was suddenly not given anything

so of course my anxiety went through the roof and I was sat there panicking for about two weeks thinking what have I done but my girls told me I'm overthinking it so I ignored it in the end I finally grew balls to ask him are we good and he basically said he's not okay at the moment he's going through some stuff he wasn't sorry he was being very vague and clearly didn't want to open up sounds like a bit of an excuse i feel like it's a classic it's a go-to i'm just i'm just having a bad time right now i'm just really going through it right now it's i feel like it's a shit excuse i get it sometimes it is the case sometimes it is but we hear it all the time don't we okay So I suggested if he wanted and it would make things easier, we could take a break until he gets his head clear again. Silly, stupid thing to suggest.

I know. Of course I didn't want to, sorry. Of course I didn't want the break, but I wanted him to fight back and be like, no, I want you to be there. Instead he said, thank you for understanding. Oh, this is the thing. This is the thing. It's like self-sabotage, isn't it? Like we all do it. It's like, well, maybe we should just fucking break up then. And you want them to be like, no, no, no. And then they're like, yeah, it's probably for the best.

You're like, what the fuck? Okay, well, if you just, you know, if you need some space, I'm happy to give you space. We want, no, no, no, no, no, no, no. I really don't want space. But instead it's, that would be really nice. Thank you. What do you mean? Where's the fight, please? Okay. Right. Let's continue on. He told me he lost his uncle that week and that he thinks that might be the best thing for us right now. I was gutted. My heart was shattered. I wanted more than anything to be there for him, but he didn't want me to be. I checked in on him about a week after as he hadn't messaged anything and he replied once, then ignored my message. Oh no. Okay. It gets worse. A couple of weeks go past and I still

hear nothing. So my friend suggests I forget about him and get back out there. Yeah, I'm with your friend on that one. So I redownloaded Hinge. I'm swiping no to all these guys when I come across his profile. My first thought was that it's probably an old one. I think she didn't put the word one, but it's probably an old one. And he forgot to delete his account whilst we were seeing each other exclusively why do we do it i'm sure this is really old i'm sure he wasn't on this the whole time we were exclusive oh girl okay until i scroll down to see his prompt you

should message me if his response was if you're going to rolling loud i'm assuming that's like an event i don't know i'm not cool girl so i don't really know what that is which he booked whilst he was with me i'm so baffled and confused as to why he wasn't just honest with me did he really have family issues was that all a lie i get the urge to message him angrily asking why he wasn't just honest with me i'm not gonna bite his head off if he tells me he lost interest really need to hear some of your advice as i'm holding on hoping he will come back but also do i really want that back okay so immediately this is what i always say right when a guy fucks you over and they show you they don't give a fuck because realistically that's

what he's showing you like he doesn't care and it's fucking rude yeah and you deserve better than that first and foremost but he's showing you like he's he's not bothered right now he isn't god knows what happens in the future we'll see but right now he's unbothered he's obviously using hinge chatting to girls he's come up with an excuse like he might be going through it right now that might be true but that's still an excuse as to why he doesn't want to know you because he's wanting to talk to other girls do you know what i mean so that was a fucking like what's the word cop out that's the word it was a cop out so immediately i want to say to you don't send this message of like you really hurt me why won't you just fucking honest with me like you think i'm gonna cry if you tell

me you're not interested like i'm a big girl i can handle it that's what we want to say don't we you could have just fucking had some balls and told me do you know what i mean rather than fuck me over the fucking disrespect like we want to do that but they read it and they think oh fuck off like they just think oh god like they're not like oh my god no she's really mad at me she's really upset like they don't care and it's annoying right because we want to get it off our chest but i always like whenever i'm talking to a friend in that situation when I've been in that situation myself I always just think right we've got to flip the way we see it because right now it feels like he's got this control and he's like oh I'm

not fucking interested and you're the one that's feeling rejected and you're and you're you you're like dying to tell him how you feel just to get it off your chest and you're hoping that he's going to tell you he gives a fuck when his actions have clearly showed you that he doesn't right we've got to flip it and just think like fuck off then do you know what i mean like fuck off then and literally that is taking control as well by saying i'm literally not going to message you and there is a high high high chance that he thinks you're still there waiting think he's going thinking he's going for a hard time and the door is open for him to message you whenever he wants right and there's a high chance that he will and he will message you and be like

hey how are you and you're he's expecting you to be like no it's no reply no reply darling not getting nothing from me it's the disrespect and the bullshit basically and he's not bothered because he's talking to other girls do you know what i mean he's on hinge he's not bothered and that's fine he's allowed to do that but be honest about it do you know what i mean and give someone an explanation if you're exclusive with someone you've been seeing me for months you've met all my friends and then you've just gone absolute ghost we're not going to be sat here waiting for him to change his mind about us like it's a situation where it's like fuck off then do you know what i mean whatever he'll come back it's highly likely there's a 90 chance he'll slide

into your dms pop up to a fucking story or just message you saying how are you you look good on saturday whatever mate do you know what i mean because to him the door's open it's open for him whenever he's ready and he doesn't even know that you've shut the door and he's gonna be in right shock when he comes sliding into your messages can't even get that you've shut the door. And he's going to be in for a right shock when he comes sliding into your messages. Can't even get in. Door shut. Door's locked. Bolted.

Darling. Do you know what I mean? That is the mentality. Okay. I hope it helps. Just remember you're a boss, sexy, gorgeous, funny, talented girl. Yeah? Bad bitch energy from now on always.

I love you. Listen to your friends friends they sound very wise okay next dilemma hey gorgeous girl oh feeling like a stunning girl i know i need an outsider's perspective on this situation i have going on okay i've got you babes after matching on tinder we started seeing each other over last summer we got on so well so quickly and acted as a couple for about two months met families etc however we were going back to our unis two hours away in september so it fizzled as we knew we didn't want a long distance relationship one thing i will add is that this boy is such a ladies man and has admitted to me now he slept with with a couple girls while seeing me in the summer oh that's so

fucking shit okay i thought we'd go our separate ways for good but every time he comes home from uni for christmas etc as i go to uni in our hometown he makes an effort to come and see me but then goes back and doesn't speak to me yeah because you again similar to last dilemma the doors open whenever it suits him whenever he's home he's got that girl waiting for him for a bit of fun a bit of attention bit of an ego boost right he came he came back for easter and after a drunken night out he told me he loves me he said it was somewhere between platonic love. What is platonic love? Is that a fucking thing? Platonic?

Doesn't platonic mean the opposite of love? Like, I don't know. Maybe I'm misunderstanding that. And in love, sorry, it was somewhere between platonic love and in love. But it was the most he's ever felt for a girl and he wants to be with me, but doesn't think it'd be right with the distance. I didn't say it back. Good for you, girl.

We had a conversation the next morning, sober sober and he told me he meant every word but with lads slash girls holidays booked for both of us in the summer and another year at uni we don't think it'd be right to get together okay well what the fuck was the point in telling me then i don't really understand this boy has a history of sleeping around and cheating but he tells me that he has a huge soft spot for me i bet you fucking do yeah i bet you fucking do and wants me but i just don't think i could ever truly trust him but i do feel the same way towards him my family and friends adore him he treats me so well but i don't know if i could be with that much of a ladies man i don't know how to say, but he has slept with a lot of girls. What do I do?

I've told him actions speak louder than words and he doesn't show me how much he cares, but says he will show it in the long term and he's never met a girl like me. I don't love him, but I definitely think I could just have never allowed myself to grow those feelings for him before because never expected him to be this serious about me. Love from a very confused girly okay this is confusing like even i'm even even i feel confused by this boy but what do you mean you love me what do you mean i'm so confused okay so he's like i really like you i've never felt this way but we can't be together it's like what but in my opinion it's like if you love me distance means

fuck all like you you come home all the time this is your home like you just go to uni so in my opinion it sounds like he might have a situation at uni that he might be going back to and he doesn't want to commit um but it's also difficult because it could also just be true and he could also just be in a situation where he's like he can't help that he feels this way about you but he's just like mentally not ready it's almost like his heart wants you but his head doesn't do you know what i mean by that my personal opinion is that he just doesn't want to commit to anyone listen there's a possibility that he might genuinely have these really strong feelings for you but at the end of the day it's about what he's willing

to give you not just what he's saying he feels because that's that's not enough for me do you know what i mean like you can't just go yeah i love you and all that but not sure if it's platonic or if i'm in love but also don't want to be with you but also i've never felt this way about anyone but also like i just couldn't do this distance like i'm sorry what the fuck do you think i am like if i got mug written on my forehead do you know what i mean i think you deserve just better than that like commitment at the very fucking least from someone um if that's what you want but yeah i just don't i think this guy doesn't know what he's fucking feeling it could be bullshit it could be a situation where he's saying what he knows you want to hear because i always say this boys know exactly what they need to say i always say it and

it's true like he obviously knows what he wants from you whether it's that you're sleeping together i can't remember if you even said that it's sex that you've actually been doing with him but if whether it's sex or just someone to feed his ego whatever it is that he wants from you he is a possibility that he's just saying all this because he thinks that's what I need to say to get that from her but there is also a possibility that he genuinely means it but at the end of the day it's not about what's coming out of his mouth like you said actions speak louder than words and he's not showing you anything he's not showing you any signs of wanting to actually be with you he's just saying it not actually saying he doesn't want to be with you but saying he loves you like

sorry what the fuck what am i supposed to do that information please do you know what I mean so I would really try to disconnect from the words you're hearing from him and focus on the behavior that he's showing you because that's the reality of the situation just remember you could turn around to him and say I don't even fucking like you I'm not even fucking interested in you I don't fancy you that's all rubbish but you could just be saying that to detach do you know what I mean you could turn around and say to him I'm in love with you I've never felt this way about anyone before please be with me and it could be bullshit like you can say whatever you want and it doesn't mean it's true so look at what he's doing not what he's saying and I think that's when we see people's intentions and who they are and

what they want from you because at the end of the, if he wants to be with you, he will make that happen. He will show you that. He will ask you. And if he doesn't, he's going to continue behaving the way he is. So I would just say be careful and try as hard as you can to detach from the words. Focus on the action. I love you so much. You deserve better than that.

Love you. Next dilemma. Okay. Hey, very long story story so I'll keep it short and sweet basically me and Lauren had been friends since babies grown up together went to the same primary and secondary school together a few times also together full stop a few times she dropped me when someone new came along or if i became friends with someone which she didn't like me doing oh no not one of them not one of them well last year she dropped me again blocked me randomly on my birthday what the hell for ages i've wondered why again she messaged me recently explains i did nothing wrong but not explaining to me why she did what she did and says that she wants a friendship again i don't know how to feel or what to do

please help love you bye okay i just think these friends are really draining i've met these friends okay and they're really exhausting because it's like where do i stand can i trust you do you actually give a fuck about me because listen we've all had those friends we've all come across those people and I think you know a real friend when you know my best friend Jess right we can make a plan for Friday and I could wake up on Friday and go I can't be fucked today I really can't bother to leave the house and she'll go all right, cool, I'm glad you said that, because me fucking evens, to be honest, and it's not like, oh my fucking god,

you bitch, you feel like, like, a real friend, you know, no matter what, you're best friends, it doesn't matter, it doesn't matter what's going on, you're best friends, nothing could get between you, no, you'll never have these, like, oh my fucking god she this fucking bitch like she's my best friend yeah and she was meant to meet me on friday and she literally texted me saying she bothered like she can meet me she could plan to meet me and then and then turn around and be like i'm too anxious and i'll be like sweet love you let me know what you need like it's the the real friendships are when you just know you're just friends for life you're friends for life no matter what you're just friends for life these kind of friendships it's like when are you going

to drop me again have you got a problem with me why are you being blunt with me can I tell her that I've made friends with someone is she going to be pissed off at me is she going to be jealous is she envious of any success like these are the friends that I find really exhausting. So personally, in my experience, I just always, I fizzle out of these friendships because they don't feel real to me. They just feel really draining and really exhausting. And I don't know, as I've gotten older, I've just realized that that's just not normal. Like your friends don't just drop you and then just come back like I feel like there's a personal issue there that she might have towards you whether it be jealousy whether it be some unresolved issue from a while ago whether it be deeper than than surface level issues whatever

she's got a problem and she for some reason she's not saying it like to drop someone to drop a friend is pretty fucking heavy do you know what i mean so i don't know you could approach it and be like look i love our friendship but you're flaky as fuck like you're constantly dropping me for just for no reason and why what do i do and maybe you'll get an answer there you know maybe we might get a bit of honesty um but yeah I would just say like with these kind of friends I call them mates I would say this there's a difference between friends and mates mates are the people that you can go have a great time with you you love them like you're my mate like I've got you and friends is like you're with me for life do you know what

I mean no matter what you're gonna be at my wedding you're gonna be for life do you know what i mean no matter what you're going to be at my wedding you're going to be one of the first people to meet my babies like that's a friend and may is just like we have a sick time loads of great memories love her to bits do you know what i mean and it's okay to have both it's okay to have both and it's okay to have just mate level friendships of people um but i think just be careful and tread carefully because this this friend sounds like she is hurting you and let you down quite a lot which is just shit you know what i mean but yeah let me know what you decide to do and let me know what she says i'm really intrigued because it doesn't make sense like she just said oh you didn't do anything wrong but it's like well

what's the reason then so i think you need a reason you deserve a reason like don't just tell me i didn't do anything wrong i know that but what the hell went through your head like I'd love to understand a little bit more you know um yeah love you and I'll always be your friend babe you got me for life all of us near on the line we're all here for you we all love you um actually that reminds me I get a few messages quite frequently still about like wanting to make friends and stuff. So to anyone that missed it, I posted a feed post on my Atelier on the Line Instagram account saying like, let's make friends. So head over to that because it's basically a post where you can drop a comment about like what your interests are, where you live, like your local

area, how old you are and loads of people like you was all commenting and replying to each other and dming each other and finding friends in your local area or in cities that you go to frequently and I think it's a great beautiful place for for us all to make friends so to anyone that missed that head over to the Instagram because I really love that and a lot of you seem to love it as well so to anyone that missed that head over to the instagram because i really love that and a lot of you seem to love it as well so to anyone that missed it it's still up it will always be up so check it out all right i love you guys let's wrap up the episode okay everyone thank you so so much for listening to this episode i hope you enjoyed it anyone that can relate to any of the dilemmas i hope they were helpful for you as well any weekly debate ideas

send them my way as always send in your dilemmas and confessions there's always a link on my instagram it's in my story highlights but if you'd rather send an email it's leahontheline at gmail.com super simple and yeah I'm always here i love hearing all of your personal stories when it comes to the weekly debates i'm loving the confessions keep them coming and yeah thank you so much for all your support and love you're the best friends i could ever ask for in the whole world and i hope you know i'm genuinely always here for you and yeah have the best week whatever episode you want to do on friday i think we're going to do the quiz so jamie you better get quiz mastering it up hon and get your brains ticking get a notepad and a

pen ready for friday's app all right guys have the best week and i'll speak to you on friday for a brand new episode all right I love you. Bye.