Leah on the Line - 67: She flirts with my boyfriend INFRONT OF ME!

Episode Date: May 22, 2023

Hey babes! Welcome back to another episode of Leah on the Line. The weekly debate today is "if your partner worked with somebody that had a crush on them, would you be okay with it?" safe to say that the majority of us are on the same page! I hope you all enjoyed this episode and thank you so so so much for listening. I appreciate all of your support so much. As always send in your confessions/dilemmas to [e-mail]. Love you! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

hello hi everyone welcome back to a brand new episode of lear on the line happy tuesday happy tuesday everybody the sun is shining it's been a beautiful last few days where are you guys from i'm just talking about the uk here well the majority of the uk hopefully it's sunny everywhere i don't know but where are you guys from it's kind of interesting my mum likes to check chartable to see where we'll rank in all over the world and she'll come to me like you're number 87 in france today like oh Frances do you know one of the hardest accents is French it's actually so hard one of you guys tagged me in the TikTok the other day this girl doing like all these incredible accents and they're like you should give this a go also all I've got under my belt

is Australian as we know and we've got I can do a bit of Newcastle if you're from Newcastle I feel like I'm not too bad at that wait what do they say right I'm back and this time I'm single I've broken up with my boyfriend and this time and this time I'm I'm going to get with loads of boys. That doesn't even sound Geordie anymore. I'm starting to sound a little bit Northern. Well, obviously, I know that's Northern, but I'm saying Northern because they're like Yorkshire, like general Northern.

Do you know what I mean? Actually, there's a difference between like Yorkshire, right? They'd say like, I a baby. Whereas Manchester, I a baby. I a baby. Do you know what I mean? what do you guys prefer what is your favorite accent of all time I love a northern accent which is ideal because obviously my hunky boyfriend is a hunky northerner he's northern and it's I enjoy it I enjoy it but

he's like Yorkshire so he'll say baby not baby and i'm partial i'm partial to both do you know what i mean but what is your favorite accent what is your least favorite i don't know because i don't want to offend anybody but i think least attractive on a guy it's like scottish like i don't like a scott Scottish accent on a guy like Scotland Leah how would they what about Welsh do you guys like a Welsh accent how do they sound Gavin and Stacey what do they say um all right Gav how's it going all right that wasn't actually too bad was it what else have i got up my belt under my belt up my belt irish is hard all i can say is flyer baking and stuff working with flyer what is this intro honestly what is this intro you guys have a crack at an accent it'll

really lift your spirit try and do i challenge you all right now to try and do try and do a west country accent since that's where i'm from reap my love reap my dolem what you up to say got anything plans got anything nice plans might go might go might have a nice bath later might get might jump in the bath get a couple of bubbles go um might pop a glass champagne you know what you mean who knows i don't talk like that though i don't think so but then to be fair a lot of you do say to me are you from bristol and i'm like you are like i swear it's not actually that apparent in my voice but seriously who knows anyway so pointless this intro is just random and nothing to do with this podcast but anyway i love you guys

so much always as i always say great we can eat a baby today oh shut up like what every week yeah every fucking week so we never miss baby we never we never miss we never miss anyway i hope you're feeling really good i hope the sun has lifted everybody's spirits to my uk peeps why am i talking about the weather like people only talk about the weather when there's nothing to talk about seriously oh and annoying though like in the summer especially in the uk right and you bump in someone that you you know but you don't know no and they'll just be like oh lovely weather isn't it yeah a bit hot yeah it's all really hot in here, yeah, it was burning on Saturday, it was burning, watching the football, it's burning, oh yeah, me too, like, what, what,

can we not talk about something more interesting than the weather, we're that boring, same when it's shit weather, awful out in here, awful, yeah, honestly, I just want to stay in, it's awful, innit, bring on the summer right bring on summer and summer comes like oh it's too hot in it's way too hot way too hot out here all we do is complain us brits don't we anyway love you guys let's just get into the episode shut up leah thank you so much for listening to leah on the line remember to leave a rating on apple podcast and spotify and hit the notification bell you can send in your confessions and dilemmas to leah on the line at gmail.com and follow me on socials at leahontheline and at leahlevane to see visual clips of the podcast. I love you. Enjoy the episode.

Okay, who can guess what I'm gonna say? Who can guess it? Very interesting weekly debate for you today. It's not actually that interesting. It's more like interesting isn't the word. The word would be um scurry it's scurry we don't want to think about this but we're going to think about it today together okay my question for you this week is if your partner worked with somebody that had a crush on them would you be okay with that now it's kind of obvious the obvious answer is it's not ideal it's not ideal do you know what ideal. Do you know what I mean? Preferably not.

Would avoid that situation at all costs. But let's just see what you guys are saying about it. Okay. This happened to me with my ex. It didn't bother me. Okay. Secure queen. We love you.

This literally happened. She even started messaging him on Insta, safe to say i was fuming yeah babe yes because i trust them not to act on it of course they're gonna fancy my boy he's unreal oh okay i love that mentality to be fair to be fair my mentality is very similar like i'm not i'm i say this all the time i'm really not jealous girl i'm really not jealous i mean i'm really not crazy i'm really not but i'm being serious i'm actually not that jealous like the thought of someone fancying my boyfriend does not bother me like fancy him yeah as you should sexy sexy man but if you're working together and i'm outside babes i don't know what you think you're getting up to when i'm not there

not him her you know i mean maybe it's getting a bit flirty with the boyfriend and I'm not there to say get away do you know what I mean well he should he should yeah enough said on that one um someone says yeah it's not his fault yeah so true I trust him so yes but I would feel uncomfortable about it obviously he's a face so it's not his fault oh we love the mentality we're really picking up the boys today aren't we babes I trust him, so yes, but I would feel uncomfortable about it. Obviously, he's a face, so it's not his fault. Ugh, we love the mentality. We're really picking up the boys today, aren't we, babes? Just found out on the weekend his co-worker flirts with him by his other co-workers.

Okay, why did that information not come from him? That's what I'd like to know. As long as he doesn't entertain it, then yes, I think I'll be offended if no one had a question him really i mean i get what you mean i get what you mean it's like confirmation yeah i'm with a sexy boy but at the same time if i'm the only one that sees that all right someone says no um no i would not be okay with that um absolutely positively no yes as long as my partner doesn't find them attractive oh yeah god no good no yes it's just the partner's responsibility to not act inappropriately towards them yeah let's not blur any lines here babe um I've been in this situation and he just bragged I don't care because I know I have 10 times fancying me love it um this has happened to me so many times with my current boyfriend I'm not

bothered though gorgeous I would find it quite flattering as I trust him however in the back of my mind I would always think yeah okay um no but what can you do yeah what can you do really yes as long as they don't have a crush back i wouldn't stop them from working but i wouldn't be happy about it could you imagine babe this girl at work told me to say that she has a crush on me right well there's only one solution here you're gonna have to quit or at least get her fucking fired okay um yeah i have and she tried to break us up and then spread rumors about me fuck off seriously um no straight up no yeah my ex cheated on me with the 20 year old admin assistant that he told me not to worry about so yeah oh that's a stinger isn't it love you babe I wouldn't stop them I wouldn't

stop them from working there but it would it would stress me out yeah I trust him but would absolutely hate it and if you if you say you're okay with it you're lying okay what do I think about this one okay let me put myself in that situation I had depends how I found out babe I think this girl at work fancies me what were you going there you give her a piece of your mind nah I think because put it this way like I've said loads of times I have worked in bars for years and in my experience you're surrounded by people of a similar age obviously there can be quite big age gaps but you tend to be very similar in lifestyle when you work in a bar I find and it happens a lot where there is a lot of flirting like there was a guy who worked at my last bar

and he definitely fancied me and listen I'm not saying it like yeah everyone fans to me like no no he like made it clear and would flirt with me and like when I was on shift with him he'd be very happy about it and he once said to me um I need to tell you something later and I was like okay like what what you stole a bottle of vodka or something like what anyway and then later comes and he's like you have to okay i'm gonna tell you something but you have to promise me that you won't tell your boyfriend and i was like immediately no like no there's no deal and he's like okay i won't tell you then like obviously thinking i'll be like no no no okay okay i'll wait till my boyfriend but i was like okay he was like wait don't you want to know I was like well yeah but you said I have to I have to

keep it a secret from my boyfriend and he's like yeah yeah that's the deal and I was like okay no deal he's just like so confused anyway like it was those things that was like well I'm not going to disrespect my fucking boyfriend you know what I mean in that situation, I feel like if my boyfriend said to me that a girl at my work fancies me, I'd probably be like, why are you telling me? Because if I was in that position and I was working in a place full of young people and somebody made it apparent that they fancied me right i'm not gonna go home to fucking jamie and be like babe i'd be a bit scared if i were you like and i just wouldn't even say anything i would just be like well it's irrelevant do you know what i mean whether someone

fancies me or not whether they even told me or not it's irrelevant i don't i don't think i would even say anything to my boyfriend because i know there's my responsibility to put boundaries in place let it very known that I'm not interested and I love my boyfriend and that's that like I feel like it would be weird for me to come home and be like someone at work fancies me do you know what I mean because also then you're just giving them unnecessary stress anyway that's not the dilemma. How would I feel about it? Yeah, I'd feel like, why are you telling me this? Also, then I'd be like, well, have you told her that you're not interested? Do you give her any impression that you are?

Does she know about me? And I'd like to meet the bitch. No, I mean, listen, if she knows you're in a relationship with me and she's continued to overstep the mark then you're disrespecting me there and i've got personal issue but if she didn't know like maybe you haven't said any maybe you don't talk about relationships at work and she was just like oh i kind of like you you immediately oh oh sorry i i don't feel the same i i actually have a girlfriend who's got big big big batty and she's really really scary so like i would back off if i were you i'm obviously kidding but yeah that's how i

would feel personally it's like well just let her know babe just let her know it's the no-go zone I would feel personally is like well just let her know babe just let her know it's the no-go zone um and if you have a looker in the eyes again that's the end of us but yeah that's my personal opinions I feel like you guys are all pretty much on the same page of like well I'd rather it wasn't a thing and I don't like the thought of it but what can I actually do about that people are gonna fancy my boyfriend or girlfriend. Do you know what I mean? So yeah. Okay. Love you guys. Thank you so much for sending in your responses. Any weekly debate ideas, send them my way. I've got a whole list of good ones on my phone at the moment that I'm very excited to just fire out. So stay tuned for those every week and let's get into some dilemmas. Okay, this one actually says, help, I match this week's question. On the weekend, I went out with my boyfriend for his staff night. As I used to work there,

they still invite me. Two of the girls had a chat with me one-to-one and mentioned that their other female co-worker is very flirty with him i feel sick in my stomach and cried oh no that's actually a horrible feeling like it's just that internet wait what what the fuck like why do you know what i mean what um i trust him but i know i give so little and with possible endo I struggle to be sexual and I feel if she has more to offer he might leave and I know that's just my head over thinking but I can't seem to get out of that thought and we played never have I ever and I found out so much that he has done before me and I'm so distraught but I know he has a life before me but it's just so hard to get over it I feel so boring now and just not right for him.

We are together nearly three years. Okay, that's so awful. The things that you're, the way you're talking to yourself right now is awful. And you need to fucking work on that before anything. You need to be kinder to yourself. You're an absolute catch. And also, what I want to say to you is, first of all all never have i ever with a boyfriend or girlfriend never a fucking good idea okay it's just not it can be fun it can be fun but if it's like never have i ever licked a bumhole and then they're like sip sip you're like well you've never licked my bumhole do you know what i mean it's bumhole if you fucking lit and then you can't get out your head the next time you're having sex you're thinking oh my god whose bumhole was he licked

this sounds like i'm talking from personal experience like why have i gotten a very specific example here this has not happened to me on that occasion but um listen i've played never have i ever before and it happens all right first of all never make that mistake you only made that mistake once all right um okay so that was the first mistake and you're not listen it's so normal the way that you've allowed that to like get into your head like i don't blame me for that and don't you know it's shit but what you can't do is feel like that takes away everything you offer him and how incredible you are and what a catch you are you know and you've been together three years it's up to your boyfriend to decide if you are what he's looking for and you clearly

are so I don't think it makes any sense for you to be sat here like does he want more if you are what he's looking for, and you clearly are, so I don't think it makes any sense for you to be sat here like, does he want more, if you wanted more, he wouldn't be with you, you know, you are more than enough, you're amazing, and you're incredible, and you're not comparing yourself to anybody, obviously it's a bit of a wobble when you find out like, oh someone's been flirting with my boyfriend, it's fucking shit, especially when you're so like, it's a shock, and you you had no idea because I think a lot of the time you can get an inkling can't you like sometimes you can just meet someone and be like do you know what I mean but yeah that's a that's a tricky one I think you just have to be kinder to yourself and just think you know what I am enough I'm incredible we've been together three years he's clearly very happy with me he loves me and I think the reason

he hasn't told you about this girl at work is because you've got nothing to worry about so why would he do that to you and stress you out doesn't matter it's fucking irrelevant I mean to be fair if she's flirting with him shut it down what the fuck there that's one thing and if you want to say that to him you can say that to him I've heard this girl's flirting with him shut it down what the fuck there that's one thing and if you want to say that to him you can say that to him i've heard this girl's flirting with you um i'd like to know that you've shut that down please you know but yeah babe just be nicer to yourself you're amazing you're an absolute catch okay i love you oh i love you i feel sad i hate reading that okay next dilemma okay hi leah i don't know why i've decided you're american i'll go back to british i don't know where you're from but we're gonna

guess british hi leah my dilemma is i was with my ex for four years we lived together and had a rescue pup last year he kissed someone else on a night out drunk we broke up the same day it happened and have now been for 10 months no contact wow we haven't spoken in 10 months that's great well done and we recently got back in contact as he got into a really bad way after the breakup and it wasn't getting any better i reached out to help since then we have worked together and he's back on track with life now and doing so much better i know a lot of this is down to him feeling better because we're talking as he said the only thing that has motivated him to change his life around again is with the hope that we can make things

work i do still love him and want my future with him but I can't help but worry I'm doing the wrong thing going back to a cheating ex please help oh okay listen don't let anyone tell you what is the right or wrong thing to do in these situations you 100% just have to do what feels right for you in this moment um what I would be cautious of cautious of is you know it's been 10 months and you said that he everything went downhill for him after this breakup um and you've come back into his life and you've turned it all around for him and you know that's amazing from you but also um sometimes i feel like we can really struggle with the guilt and the need for forgiveness on top of obviously the heartbreak of losing you and I feel like you know getting that forgiveness from you and knowing that you are in his life again and you know seemingly forgiving him you know seemingly forgiving him can heal a lot of those feelings that he had and I think it's important to be aware of that um it's not necessarily a bad thing it's just something to

be aware of you know like do you want this because you really want to be with me or do you want this because you want to feel better about what you did and what happened you know and about yourself as a person you know so just be cautious of that obviously only you can judge that and only you will really be able to tell at least better than anyone else on the outside and do what is right for you do what's best for you do not allow outside noise to make you feel ashamed of whatever decision you make. You know, people do make mistakes. People do stupid shit and they will change. It does happen, you know.

And like I said, just prioritize yourself, what is right for you. And make sure that you don't lose yourself in the process of like trying to build him back up um make sure that it's not taking anything from you you know don't just be filling his cup make sure that you're also filling your own as well as he's filling yours so filling you up anyway i love you that was quite a short answer but i feel like i if i keep talking i'm just going to repeat myself i don't know I don't really have much more to say on that one because it is a massive it's massively um just down to you and what you want to do and I do not believe in anybody else's opinions altering those levels of like serious decisions do you know what I mean um and just enjoy your life and love yourself because I love you all right next dilemma okay hi Leah loving the pod as always and hoping you can give me some advice to set the scene my

boyfriend and I have been together for three years and I've done long distance for the majority of it whilst I've been at uni when I was last at home in April myself my boyfriend and his group of friends went away for the weekend to the coast and rented out a huge house for all of us. My boyfriend is part of a big group of guys and all the girlfriends of the boys. One of the girlfriends invited her friend along to this weekend who I have never met, but my boyfriend had and said she was a nice girl. So I was open to getting to know her. nice girl so i was open to getting to know her however over the weekend i really started to dislike this girl as she made no effort to speak to me even though she she chatted to everyone else oh fuck i hate that that's such a shit feeling because it feels fucking personal doesn't it

right she borrowed a top of mine and didn't give it back borrowed makeup without saying thank you and worst of all flirted with my boyfriend right in front of me boys are just oblivious and my boyfriend reassured me that she wasn't but girls know other girls and i could see it yeah we know we know for example when she would speak to him she would touch his arm whisper in his ear and just leave me out of all their conversations no that's just rude that is just rude behavior my boyfriend is well aware of my dislike towards her but the dilemma lies with the fact that she is now part of the friend group and goes out with them every weekend fuck that's annoying i know this isn't my boyfriend's fault at all, but I can't help but get annoyed when I know she is out with him

and I'm at uni where I can't see what's going on. I trust my boyfriend completely, but I just find myself going crazy thinking about how she might be getting on with him. Any advice would be massively appreciated. Oh, babe. This is similar to the first one, but probably a bit more intense because this is a night out situation and the fact that she was flirting with him in front of your face no i'm sorry it's disrespectful and actually a little bit nasty like leaving you out of

conversations that's quite nasty behavior and you're right girls do know other girls and it is a situation where it's like i don't know if this is like girl code but when you meet someone new and their boyfriends around you are so aware of making sure that you are like almost bro-ing them do you know what I mean you're like hey bro hey bro like do not fancy you do not fancy you do you know what I mean like just so that the girl feels comfortable and like you know being a new girl around you just never really know what I mean like just so that the girl feels comfortable and like you know being a new girl around you just never really know what situation you're walking into and I don't know maybe it's me personally I just really like to make sure that I'm on the girl knows I'm on I'm

on the girl's team do you know what I mean so the fact you know that's a bit shit from her but um I think all you can really do is just talk to your boyfriend about it and I mean I know you already have like you said your your boyfriend knows how you feel towards her and stuff but I think you can talk to him and just say like similar to the first dilemma of like you know are you making it clear to her that you are not interested and if it gets a point where he has to say like I think this is getting inappropriate like I don't I don't want you to flirt with me then that's what it comes to at the end of the day like what would you do if a guy was flirting with you and your boyfriend said to you like this guy's fucking

flirting with you he's pissing me off he was ignoring me all night and flirting with you in front of my face he's pissing me off and then you're going on nights out with this guy every weekend you would eventually say to this guy like you know i think you should stop flirting with me like i don't know i might be reading the situation wrong but it does feel a little bit flirty but like just to let you know like you know this is where i stand you know and just out of respect i don't know i might be being dramatic because at the same time i know there's a lot of people listening that probably think it's only flirting it's harmless if he's not doing anything back if he's not flirting back then who cares he's not doing anything wrong but you set your

own boundaries in the relationship you you decide what is comfortable and uncomfortable for you um and yeah communication with the boyfriend very important in this situation um but don't let it affect your self-esteem. Definitely not. You're amazing. Remember that. You're an absolute catch. And I mean, you can't really, I don't know.

Are you close enough with the group to ask them to talk to this girl and be like, why are you flirting with Sally's boyfriend? Do you know what I mean? I don't know. That could be an option. But yeah, communication with the boy um and maybe if it gets to the point talk to herself and just be like hey i might have read the situation totally wrong but like that night we first met like i felt like you weren't really speaking to me like is have i you know am i wrong about that and also I don't know I felt like you were a bit floaty my boyfriend like the whispering in the air was making me a bit uncomfortable

making me a bit uncomfortable and she might be really nice she you might have read the situation totally wrong and she might just turn around and be like oh my god no like I have a boyfriend like I was not floating like I'm really sorry if I made you feel like that like it's not like that at all and you might feel 10 times better but there's your options weigh them up and see what feels right for you um and yeah I love you so much you're amazing never forget it okay guys um it's been a while but who knows what it is can you guess can you guess what we're about to get into let's get into the confession diaries okay it has been a while it has been a while but i feel like it works better when we spread them out more i feel like like I

always say it gives me more of an opportunity to collect some really juicy ones do you know what I mean and then we throw in some mild ones as well here and there like don't worry you don't have to throw in like oh I slept with my sister's boyfriend like it doesn't have to be that dramatic yeah but I like the uh unique ones so I like to give us some time to collect them together but anyway let's just get right into the confessions thank you so much to everyone who trusted me with these who sent them in your secrets are safe with me I mean they're not because I'm literally about to read them out publicly but your names they will never be known okay hey bestie I have a really bad confession I am a bad person I'm sure it's not true but let's have a look I've been with my boyfriend for nearly nine years oh my god a few months ago I slept

with an ex not a proper ex just someone I was seeing way back I never slept with anyone else before I felt like I needed to get out of my system now I feel better holy fuck that's a heavy confession that is a heavy fucking confession guys nine years I mean I'm not trying to make you feel worse but fuck okay so by the sounds of it there's no intentions to reveal the secret um okay well I'm not gonna say anything because it's not it's not a dilemma it's just a confession but it's heavy babe it's heavy okay next confession I had my heart broken a few months back but I'm starting to enjoy the single girl life again. Stunning.

Great start to this. I've been seeing two guys, and this weekend I saw one on Saturday and one on Sunday. To my surprise, they both suggested the exact same date. Steak and a movie at theirs. Where is the fucking thought and orig... orig... orig... Wait a damn minute. Originality? movie at theirs where is the fucking thought and origin origin origin wait a minute originality why does that not feel right originality anyway jesus guys do you know what i mean predictable

or what on top of that not only did i meet sorry not only did i end up watching the exact same movie. Oh God, what was it? Fifty Shades. Fifty Shades. With both of them. But I also ended up sleeping with them both. Deja vu or what? They have no idea that other one exists. And both have expressed that they want to see where things go. I feel awful.

But at the same time, it was kind of fun. I'm definitely going to be breaking a heart or two here if they ever find out i can confirm you will be breaking a heart or two but what can i say it's a confession not a dilemma um i'm here for it and the fact that you have created some leo on the line content other than that um i do not wish to be you or either of those boys but keep me updated with that one babe let me know how that one goes enjoy it but just be careful okay be careful right there okay let's do another one the other night my boyfriend and I got home after having a lot of drinks and while having sex oh my god guys while having sex I accidentally said a mutual friend's name who i had been

speaking to that night and used to have feelings for i don't remember if he heard me love you girly love you babe but fuck oh guys how many people has this happened to like just out of curiosity how many of you have said somebody else's name during sex because i don't i refuse to believe it's an easy mistake to make how often does that happen please tell me please send them in as confessions when that's ever happened to you and how did it go down did they hear you how did they react whose name was it was an ex was it one of their friends was it the guy or girl you told them not to worry about honestly seriously tell me okay i'm gonna do one more let's find a let's find a little one let's find a little one okay great this is a great one i had sex in a sauna on my boyfriend's birthday hopefully with your boyfriend

hopefully with your boyfriend how many of you guys have also had sex in water just out of curiosity like is that an enjoyable experience because i don't imagine it to be you know like hot also not to like make you feel gross about it but saunas are fucking weird to me like don't get me wrong i'm fucking getting them oh wait i'm picturing a hot tub i just realized i'm talking about a sauna i'm picturing a hot tub oh sex in a sauna sweaty the red light yeah steam room would be a bit of a vibe someone walking and wouldn't fucking see you just be shagging in the corner no one even know but uh sauna that's sexy sexy vibes sweaty steamy

the red lights the smell smells good in a sauna especially when they put that like vix shit in the stuff yeah baby anyway i just realized I'm talking about water how many of you guys have had sex in water though side note from the sauna situation because I know a lot of people say like do you have sex in the sea in the swimming pool in a hot tub but yeah do you know what what I was going to say was about hot tubs is I used to go to a gym in Cambridge when I was at uni and there was a hot tub like on the rooftop outside and it was quite stunning to be honest it's only 20 pound a month bit of a bargain now but I wonder what it is these days anyway so I was in the hot tub right and then this like big bloke

got in and he starts like blowing his nose and just like putting the snot in the water I was actually sitting opposite him i was like what the hell and then do you know what it is as well this is another hot tub situation when you're on your own in the hot tub when you spot the hot tub is empty you're like get in you're getting straight in that hot tub alone someone walks in and you're like fuck i really want to get out now because i'm not relaxing enjoying this anymore because i'm aware that you're in here like nothing wrong with that but like my time is up do you know what i mean and you can't get out then it feels rude so you just sit there just sit there uncomfortably in a hot tub with a stranger and it's so awkward why is it so awkward and then you wait and you think is it rude if i leave now maybe i'll get a bit early i'll give it a minute

sometimes i'll go oh it's hot oh hot in it then you gotta get out why is it so awkward as soon as i get in i think fuck i've got to do the awkward hot in it better get out i've been in there ages trust me it's not you it's not you we've been in there two minutes fuck me thanks a lot anyway oh my god love you guys thank you for sending in your confessions thank you for trusting me keep them coming send one in right now stop what you're doing send me a confession right now let's wrap up the episode.

Okay, guys, I literally forgot to tell you. I have fantastic news for me. I'm going to see, guess who I'm going to see in concert? Well, it's not really like a concert like it's a it's a small intimate acoustic gig guess who it is guys yeah i'll give you a clue no longer stress is gonna figure it out all the conversations i do up allows jonas i'm gonna see the jonas brothers guys on the 10th yeah you better fucking believe i'm gonna be tearing it up acoustic tearing it up yeah I cannot wait basically right and they were doing the Royal Albert Hall and I'm big fan okay

big big big fan um and that's their first London gig in a long time so I signed up to the waiting list to get like early access tickets I mean the mailing list to get early access right anyway got the early access thing fucking sold out in 10 seconds and from the prices I've heard that they were I probably wouldn't have gone anyway to be honest but anyway didn't get them but anyway I stayed on the mailing list right and I was falling asleep the other night let me just check my emails check something it was like Jonas Brothers one night event actually it's two nights but yeah two night events in London yeah little small acoustic performance I thought you what babe and it was like on sale tomorrow 10am I said hey Siri set an alarm for well to be fair I didn't

because I would have been awake by 10 a.m. joining me oh no don't worry about it sorry sorry if I just set anyone's cereal but anyway yeah so I made sure that I did not forget and I got straight on I got some tics and me and Jamie I've turned him into a big Jonas Brothers fan like okay this is how I found out he liked the Jonas Brothers we're in the car and he would just play like his liked songs and then the song came on that's like when you look me in the eyes and tell me that you love me everything's all right anyway that song come on and I was like i just looked him i was like yeah yeah this is the man for me and i was like actually he skipped it because he's like

how'd that get on there how'd that get on there and i was like that's the jonas brothers and he's like yeah who who anyway and i was like i love the Jonas Brothers and he's like yeah I think they're pretty cool anyway so then he admitted that he likes them he likes their tunes he likes their music and then slowly over time I've like just got him to this level of obsess that I'm actually a bit concerned he like has his full e-page is the Jonas Brothers like I'll be like oh my god did you hear this about Nick and he's like yeah did you hear this about Kevin yeah I did yeah and basically we're both very excited if you guys haven't seen me and Jamie have made TikToks of our of our Nick Joe and Kevin impressions and it's kind of pretty crazy because

now we're going and we've said to each other for ages like the the moment they announce a tour i don't care how much the tickets cost like we will do it like i will take our loan like whatever it is we have to see them like we love them this them this much, so anyway, we're going, and the tickets were cheap, it was so cheap, it's like 25 quid for a ticket, so I'm really excited, I'm really happy, honestly, I can't wait to tell you guys all about it, I'm so excited, honestly, enough about me, not to rub it all in, oh my god, that sounded like such a, like, haha, I'm going, no, none of you are, but actually, to be fair, I've spoken to a few of you, because I mentioned it on on TikTok live and quite a few of you are going as well so can't wait to see you guys but yeah love you hope you all have an amazing week um whatever it is you're getting up to and

I'll talk to you on Friday we're gonna do um the body positivity episode all about self-love on the body so yeah stay tuned for that have an amazing week and I will speak to you on Friday for a brand new episode all right I love you bye