Leave A Message with Ally & G - 70 - Manifesting A Ring… And Stealing A T-Shirt!

Episode Date: July 2, 2025

The gallies are spiralling – again. Ally’s behind a modesty screen, G’s manifesting a ring (and possibly crashing the proposal?), and a listener is questioning her whole relationship after her boyfriend dropped some questionable future plans… On this episode of Leave A Message, Ally & G we’re helping a gally who is stuck between compatibility and core values. With their partner expressing some very tradition views on gender roles… should she keep it cute or cut her losses? Plus – after a weekend of fun, a gally has accidentally kept a boy’s t-shirt, but now he’s ghosted. Should she text him or chill? All of this and engagement theories, why we’re NOT taking out the coil this year and Glastonbury conspiracies! Want to be a part of the group chat and featured on the pod? Send your voice note to ⁠https://wa.me/message/LLWFXNK4YXMHE1⁠ (and please, don’t leave out ANY of the juicy details).   NOTICE: Any advice provided in this podcast does not, and is not intended to, constitute professional advice or guidance; all information, content and materials presented are for entertainment purposes only. Any injury, damage or loss that may result from the consumption of this podcast is at the sole responsibility and risk of the listener.   Follow Ally & G Instagram: ⁠@allyandg⁠ TikTok: ⁠@allyandg⁠ YouTube: ⁠@allyandg Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Guys, this is the reality of having bad body image. I can't even record at the moment. We have a modesty screen. I'm at my legs. Girls, listen, some days is just not the day and you've got to make the right... It's brilliant. I think it's great. I think that's brilliant. I feel like a nana outside. Also, especially with the top, you look like an elderly lady. I think it's great.

On the Titanic, I've just gone like top deck for my little afternoon bit of breeze. What were we talking about? How horny I am. Oh yeah, sorry. Yeah, yeah, yeah. We actually weren't talking about that. No, we were talking about a stare. We were talking about a stare. I just really do think the next relationship I'm in, if I can afford it and if my partner's

up for it, I'd love to have a relationship therapist. They're not going to be up for it. First off the bat, they're not going to be. I already know. Do you know that? Okay. I'll put a hundred quid on them. The mighty oak would go to therapy with me if I asked.

He's a nice boy. He would. If I said, babe. Raw's a nice boy and I floated it and it was a no! No! What did he know? He said, I'm not broken. I said, you've misunderstood therapy.

Oh, you've misunderstood because let me tell you, brother, you are. What do you think bootcamps for? Sorry, real recognizes real. Me too, me too. I'm not broken either, but I am. He's caged. He's caged. Roar's gore to go because, okay, it doesn't work for everyone and I actually think therapy is a little bit like God. You have to believe in it to reap the rewards. Oh my God. Sorry. I was thinking the same because you know that painting, Michelangelo's

painting where it's a man and God, but his finger is like this and God's finger is out. And basically the whole meaning is if he reaches his finger out, he can touch God, but it has to come from him. And therapy is the same. That's exactly it, babe. And, Rour, poor, sorry to talk about you all the time, but you won't even benefit because you don't even believe in it. I know. So like he can't go. You're right. Listen, he can't go until he's ready. He's got to be ready. The thing I know, learn more and more about Rourke as he gets older, it's everything has to be according to his, he has to be ready.

It's Rourke's world and we're just living in it. Like if you tell Rourke to do, he will just not do, like, he can't be talked around basically. And that's fine. Like, look at us. He is quite stubborn actually. Oh my god, yeah. Oh my god. We were talking about getting engaged and I said to him. Babe, at some point you've got to stop talking about it. No, no, his mum the other day was like, so when are you getting engaged?

I mean, fair. Do you think, I hate him because he hasn't said anything to me. He said he's got a master plan. I know, but why is he not involving me in it? I know, shocking. To your detriment, just so you know, boy. Babe, at Glaston, we're a bit waived. Why don't you take him to one side and say, I know you've got a master plan, let me in.

Let me help you. Because you won't bring her, you're going to buy her. You don't know. No, I think he wants to go ring shopping after we get back from the wedding. With you? Yeah, the three of us. Me? Yeah.

I'm a vlog. I'm going to say, can we not just go? No, you don't need to say, can we not just go? No, you don't need to come, King. No worries. We'll cover that. We do need to know quite seriously though, what is the budge? Because it's very dependent on the budge.

I've got a budge in mind. That just needs to get a size drop. But maybe it's not your budge. So you're irrelevant because it's Raw's budge. I think Raw's budge is going to have to meet my budge. I don't know about this, sister. No. Because there's only so much budge in the budge. No, I said Tim. You can't just create a budge.

I know how much he gets paid though, and I'm like, I think you can add a couple of, at least a couple of K onto that figure. I know it's meant to be sister. He gets a bonus. Just get a lab. Yeah, yeah. All these girls getting real diamonds, I can't believe it. Blood in your diamond, blood on your finger. I said to him, do you think you've dragged your feet? Guy, people would be shocked the way. I don't-

Dragged your feet how? About getting engaged. I said, you have dragged your feet, haven't you? Babe, you literally nearly broke up with him in the first place. And then he said to me, I thought we weren't compatible. Yeah, sorry. He'll never get over it. He'll never get over it. He will say that in his vows. I know. We will be at that wedding, waved, he'll get up, do his speech and he'll be like, can't

believe we're here considering two years ago, Al told me we were incompatible. Do you know why I told Katie Bates about that the other day? She was like, did you actually say that? I was like, yeah babe, clear as day. That's my truth. And maybe you should say that to your partner. Why not? Test the water, see how it lands.

And I said, you've dried your feet, haven't you? Did his mum say that to him? No, not? Test the water, see how it lands. And I said, you've tried your feet, haven't you? Did his mom say that to him? No, I said that to him. And I said, you've tried your feet. What are you waiting for? I said, do you know how lucky you are to wake up next to me every day?

She's not wrong. And he said, it was always going to be this year. And that's what I mean. If he didn't want to do it, if he says it's this year. I feel nervous when you say that. I feel nervous. I feel sick. I feel sick. You can't get married actually, I've just decided. No, no, I'm not getting married. I'm just getting engaged. Really? It's just pure engagement. When will we do the wedding? Two years. Coil out, get engaged, get another coil in. Coil out, coil in. Oh my God. Sorry. So we're going to get married not next year,

the year after. I'm not doing it next year. I've got a lot of shit to do. Well, you can put 2026 bride in your bio then, and you don't want to do that. What do you want to put in it? 2027 bride in your bio? 2027 to 2030 bride. 2030, she's full of shit. You'll get that ring, you'll be gassed. I know you will.

I'm not getting married next year. Do you know what I hate about the weddings? No, you can't turn it around in a year like that, can you? I hate the planning. You don't, you'll love it. I already know. That's the thing that puts me off of genuinely about getting married, is the organization and the money.

Honestly, I just think I don't want to do it. Honestly. Maybe we could do a GoFundMe. You could sell tickets! I imagine. Can you make sure that it's in this country so I can... No, it's not going to be. It won't be.

I need a minimal guest list. The only way to get a minimal guest list is to go abroad. I can't be having that. I know. What are we going to do? We're going to have to do a live pod from the ceremony. I don't know what to tell you. We're going to have to get voice notes in.

Oh my God, the day before. The galleys will care. Oh my God, the day before we are going to have to do it. You're right. Listen, there's no point talking about this now because as soon as that rings on her finger, I am gonna put my fucking gloves up. I'm gonna kick back, relax, because I've honestly been talking about my breakup for two years now and I can't wait for you to talk about an engagement.

Yeah, that'll be the next two years covered. I cannot wait. Then just, babe, that's perfect timing. My sex life, you'll know nothing about it. Two years, it will be wedding chat and then you'll have just fallen in love and then we can move on to your new love. Two year cycle is great. Yeah. Two years, babe, you wedding chat and then you'll have just fallen in love and then we can move on to your new love. Two year cycle is great. Two years, babe, you can find someone in two years.

Two years is a long time. Speaking's so unlikely. Do you know how fast time goes? I last had sex in November. I just said that about my coil. Two years is two minutes. Yeah, and I said it was a long time. I take it back. I lied.

It's a really short time. Short, short time. Short, short, short, short time. Can we introduce the podcast? Sure, hi. This is a leaving message with Ali and G. I'm Ali, she's G. Hi. She's not engaged. I don't know why. This is right. I'm telling you now. In this episode, this is the time you stop talking to him about it now.

Yeah, we're not talking. I haven't talked about it for ages because I... To him, babe. Oh, to him. Stop. Really? Because you're going to ruin everything. Well, why not just float the idea that we're going to go ring shopping, me and you? No, we'll just go. Okay, fine. We'll just go. Just tell him. We're going to go. We're going to ruin everything. Well, will I not just float the idea that we're going to go ring shopping, me and you? No, we'll just go. Okay, fine.

We'll just go. Just tell him. We're going to go. We're going to Attengarden today. Okay, fine. And he knows what that means. But you stop now because he's going to start doing his mighty plan. Babe, you have to get in on the mighty master plan. Why doesn't he want me involved?

I'm going to have serious words. Glastonbury in that field. I'm going to literally look him in the eye and be like, I've heard you've got a master plan and I'm not involved and I don't like it. Have a guy that's called? Um... I reckon it's and I don't like it. What were the Gallies called? I reckon it's because he doesn't trust you not to tell me. Bastard. I wouldn't tell you. Obviously I know that. I know.

What's she, Pid? She think Faye Plunkett knew anything about her engagement? No, but babe. No, it was all in here. Locked up in here it was. She was clueless none the wiser. Sorry, what was your question? What were the Gallies called?

What were the Gallies called? Estair. Estair. I bet we've had Estair before. Love it. I'm sorry, what was your question? What are the galleys called? What will the galleys be called? Esther. Esther. I bet we've had Esther before. Love it. Hi galleys. So I just need some advice. Basically, I've been dating this guy for about a year and he's really lovely.

He's super kind. He's really nice to me and I love him and everything. But we're just such different people. Like to start, we both grew up in different countries and you know, we're from the same country. We're from the same country. We're from the same country. We're from the same country.

We're from the same country. We're from the same country. We're from the same country. We're from the same country. We're from the same country. We're from the same country. We're from the same country. We're from the same country. We're from the same country. We're from and everything. But we're just such different people. To start, we both grew up in different countries and we're from financially different brackets

and my family, we're international, so a bit more well off, which again is not a problem really. But I'm in uni right now. He's a bit older than me, so he never went to uni. And I'm studying to be a doctor. And I think, you know, if we ever had children, my family really has taught me to value education, and I'm very grateful that I get the opportunity to study and kind of pursue what I want to. So I'd really want my children to have that same opportunity. And I don't think he values education in the same way. Like, I don't really think he'd

care if they didn't do well in school or didn't go to uni at all. So that's one difference. And then he's also mentioned a few times that if we ever got married and had a family, he'd want me to stay home and be a homemaker and take care of the children. And he'll go out and work and whatever provide for the family. And that's just so not how I operate like both my parents worked full-time when we were growing up and been in school for so many years and there's so much to come like I really want to work hard and you know pursue my career and I just don't think that he's too keen on

that and of course like we can have conversations about it but I don't really see either of us really changing our stance on these, you know, kind of really core values. And it's not really an issue right now. I mean, I'm 21, so it's not really a big deal. I don't know if I'm just kind of wasting my time if this relationship doesn't really have a future, or if I should just be like, you know what, I'm only 21. Like I don't have to be dating to marry. Like it's fine. Like if as long as you know, we love each other and we're having fun, it's fine. So yeah, I don't really know what to prioritize right now. But I just, I'm really confused. So any advice? Anyways, love you girls. Love, love the pod, love everything.

So bye. Love you both. Hi babe. Love you. Well, much to say. I've got much to say. How funny. It was as if I read Rohana's brief. We were just talking about incompatibility. So let's get into it. Well, when you first said incompatibility, I thought, babe, don't worry, you can overcome your incompatibility. But values are very different. However, incompatibility, we like to watch different TV programs is not... Incompatibility, you like rowing, I like running.

Yeah, fine. You like seafood, I like steak. Fine. I sell myself on the internet, you work in construction. Fine. Different to have... Core values. Really different.

And I really take a strong stance on this because we, like you, babe, are very ambitious and are very determined and career driven and we're, you know, we will stop at nothing to get where we want to get, I think is fair to say. Stop at nothing. Nothing. Okay. And that means relationships, they go in the bin. That means babies.

Yeah, that means I was not allowed to take a coil out this year. No, babe, five, three, guys, I said two years, now I'm thinking more like four, five. No, but it just means that like... It just means that your priorities are your priorities. And they're not up for discussion. Yes. And I think that, okay, two things. Yes, you're 21, don't get me wrong.

You don't even really need to think about it. You're a year in. However, sometimes, and I don't want to generalize, but sometimes those men who are a bit more traditional in those views, even though you're not married with his kids yet, their views carry through to how they behave in your relationship. And for me already, that would be a hard no. If you already shit on the fact that education is, my education is worthwhile, then that's already a big problem for me because my education is going to get me to where-

You're training to be a doctor, so it's quite essential that you read a book or two. Do you know what I mean? In the dream world. So I think that, I don't know, for me, that would be a deal breaker to be like, you are so- Even at 21, to be honest. Me too. Because you are so misaligned with how I see the world that even if we like fumble along for the next couple of years, number one, there will come a point where you think, I already know all this stuff about him.

So these kinds of things I do think don't often change. And I think the kids thing is crazy because yeah, you're talking about it years out of it mattering. But it will come around. But it comes around and also, yeah, I think you have to take someone at face value when they tell you their stance on stuff like that and you have to take that for like their truth, whether that changes and evolves or not. It's like you have to assume that it won't and how would you feel if it didn't? Yes, yes. My mum always says this because she is a divorce lawyer and she sometimes

couples will come to her and sometimes they get divorced because the man or the woman didn't want kids and the other person always goes, I'm so shocked. And my mum is like, I'm always so surprised by how few people have that discussion before. They just, you just assume that that person will want kids, but don't assume. Or that they might change their mind. Like you might have that conversation at 21 and think he'll grow out of it. He'll want them by 30. Well, she'll, of course she'll want them once she's reached the peak of her career. Of course she will. But it's like, maybe I don't or maybe you don't. And like that's actually something you have to take so seriously. Obviously he hasn't said he doesn't want kids. He's just said he wants you to raise them.

But that is a value thing. Like, it's OK that he places value on the mother of his children raising his children. That's OK. It just maybe means that you're not the prime candidate to be the mother of his children. Do you know what I mean? Yeah. And that's OK. But I probably would save myself some years of pain. I agree. That's awful, babe. Sorry that save myself some years of pay. I agree. That's awful, babe. Sorry that you might have to break up with your boyfriend.

Is that what we just said? I'm so sorry. Well, I just think you need to really assess your own priorities and like how... And your core values. Yeah. And like if they are in your blood and in your soul, don't ever, ever let anyone try and dissuade you from reaching your dreams. If you were to sacrifice your career to be a homemaker,

the only thing you're going to feel is resentment. And you don't want that in the home. That's not making a happy home, is it, resentment? We want banana breads, not regret. Regret. Hey guys, I just want to say I love your broadcast, but I desperately need your help. So basically I met this guy on Hinge around this time last year. We started seeing each other. Things were going great. Went to his family house, met his sister and her boyfriend. It was just going so, so well. Then he kind of went really weird running for three weeks and ended things with me. Fast forward to, we've kind of been speaking on and off since around November, but we haven't

seen each other. We FaceTime, it's very chill. And then this weekend, my parents are away, so he came over to mine and stayed the night. So he got here, we had a really nice time and we hadn't slept together when we were seeing each other last time. We did other stuff but we just didn't sleep together. And then we slept together on the weekend and it was really nice. He was really good, kind and nice and made me feel good about it afterwards. And it was just like a really, really nice weekend. And when he was

leaving, he was like, I will have to see each other soon. And I was like, yeah, I was trying to be very nonchalant and like relaxed about it, even though my head I was like, I want to see you tomorrow. And he was like, you know, I've got a few weeks like busy with work, but we can for short organize something. I'm going traveling this summer to Thailand and Bali. So I said just before I go away in July, and he was like, obviously we'll see each other before then. So I left it on such a good note. I kind of did something bad.

Basically he was leaving in the morning because he was going into London for this work thing, and then he came back to get his stuff in the evening. And I realized he left one of his t-shirts in the bathroom in the middle of the day and when he came to get his stuff he didn't get it because he obviously didn't go into the bathroom so I didn't tell him. So I've got his t-shirt. So he left Sunday evening, it's now Tuesday. I haven't heard from him. He hasn't messaged me or anything. And I don't know if he knows that I've got his t-shirt, but I've just got his t-shirt in my house. And I know it's not a big deal and people leave stuff all the time, but I just got up thinking it's weird to go from such a close, nice weekend where we were basically playing house. And now there's nothing and he hasn't messaged me or anything. I don't know how this stuff works. I'm not good at this chill thing, like casual thing,

like of just not speaking and stuff like that. Like all I want to do is text him, but everyone that I'm speaking to is like, don't do it, don't do it. But then one of my friends said, maybe he's waiting for you to text him. As you can probably tell, I'm really confused and stuck and I'd really, really, really appreciate your advice and what your thoughts are. But, love you guys. We're going to have different opinions. I don't think we are actually.

Do you not? I think you should text him. Me too. I thought you were going to go cool girl. Well, because I don't know, like, listen, the only reason I would say don't text him is because I know these boys. Yeah, and he's giving chill. He's giving like, you're going away.

I like you and it was nice. I've been a very, very, very similar situation. These boys, I hate generalized, but I do think it's true, especially when you're young, they don't feel things the way that we feel them. And he's not emotionally available, clearly. He's probably not looking for a relationship. I'm sure he really liked you, babe. And I don't think that weekend was like a lie. I'm sure he really liked you, babe, and I don't think that weekend was like a lie.

I'm sure he was having a great time and playing house was really fun. But boys can hold two things at the same time. And they do want that girlfriend experience without wanting a girlfriend. And they want, so he wants that and like loved it and really that was all, I guarantee he was genuine. But he also feels like he's a single boy. He can go out, he can do it. He doesn't owe you anything.

Yeah. Yeah. like, he's a single boy, he can go out, he can do it. He doesn't owe you anything. Yeah, yeah. And so that would be my only hesitation. Actually, not because of him, for yourself, because I think that whatever you get back will not satisfy your need. Like, he's not going to text you a love letter, do you know what I mean? So if you put yourself out on the line and then you get some mediocre response back, that might actually hurt you more. Or if you text and you're like, I'd love to see you before I go and he's like, yeah, cool,

when can you do and you get a date in, you also then have to be prepared to have that time and it'd be an elevation on the time you've just had and then still have to leave and not get the response. Do you know what I mean? And not start a relationship with him. Or you text him and say, I'd love to see you before and he's like, sorry, I can't, I'm busy. Then you're also sad again. So it's like, they're all bad options. But the thing is, I am just really like, as you know, a modern woman, I'm just quite keen for if you want something to go for it. Like, I really do believe that, like, you don't have to wait for the text.

And you can. I'm in that situation. It's Tuesday. If it gets to Thursday, I will send a text. I don't think that's bad. If you find that embarrassing, I'm not the girl for you, don't worry. And if you don't want to be with me, if you don't want to date me, you won't be anyway, whether I text you or not. So all I'm doing is saying, I would like it. It's here if you want it.

And you can say no or yes. At least then I know I haven't been wishy washy and like, miss mysterious. Because I'm not Miss Mysterious. I literally, I was, that period where you go through, and with every boy at once, say it in your life. And you rewrite the text 55 times. I literally will like, have it in a chat to you, and I'll be like, hey, hi. Hey, is it hi or hey?

Was just thinking, oh hey, I wouldn't, the one thing I wouldn't do is mention the t-shirt. No. I wouldn't use that as your intertext. No, I think it's too textbook. I'd just literally be like, hey, I'm going away on X day. Would love to see you before I go. That's still quite chill.

Chill? I just want to shag. Relax. Do you know what I mean? It's still chill. But she doesn't just want to shag. That's the problem. You have to be prepared for it to just be shag.

Yeah. And that's why. Or for just for it to be a really nice weekend. My only thing to not text is that sometimes like you're fresh, babe. It's only Tuesday today. Like you're just off the back of it and you're like, it's like a drug where you're like, I need more and I need it now. And why is it not text?

I mean, you're thinking about it every second. If two weeks goes by and you haven't heard from each other, that feeling will lessen. Yes. That's my only, like almost as a protection thing. Like if he is going to go away for three weeks and then you're away and la, la, la, like, you know, you really need to go into these thinking, do I like him? Do I like, really like explore? I think you do, but I think you like him maybe because he was nice. He liked you. I think because you might not like someone that goes funny for three weeks, doesn't speak to you and

then only like, you know what I mean? Like you might not actually like that. So just go into it being like, I'm not pining for him. We're just seeing if we like each other. That's all it is at this stage. But yeah, I think you have to be prepared if you do see him before you travel for that to just be that and then for you to have to kind of put him on the back burner whilst you're away and then who knows what you pick up when you get back. My only reason to not text him would be, can you put him on the back burner on your own?

Yeah. Can you get there by yourself? Let's do question of the week. Those were pretty straightforward, I think. I can't even remember the first one now. The first one was that you're incompatible. Oh, listen, compatibility shmatability. No, I'm joking. Core values are essential. But other stuff I think we can get over. Do you know the one thing I actually think might be a non-negotiable? You're going to hate this.

But my ex, oh my God, the disconnect in our sleep pattern really was not conducive to a good relationship. I don't think that's a deal breaker. I just want to make that abundantly clear. I do. As someone with a really difficult sleeping pattern. If I was awake every morning at 7, twiddling my thumbs until 11 on a weekend, I'd be like, I hate you.

Why? Because I think Raw loves it because he just gets up, he gets to watch, do his own shit. I know. And I did kind of like that for a bit. It's because you didn't live together. We didn't live together. I think it's actually quite nice, babe, to be gifted some hours of silence. Yeah, maybe it is. Maybe it is. Okay, we asked the galleys, let's talk compatibility. What are the three main things you would need to agree on with a partner or a friend?

I thought throw a friend in because, you know, that's the same same. This is good. Religion, money and politics. Fine, good. All very strong things. Liking Beyonce. Political views, basic future goals, holidaying vibes. We always talk about travel cam. Go away with your newest thing, early doors. That is my biggest piece of advice when you're first dating. Get a holiday in. Maybe not abroad, but a weekend away because you see a lot about a person. Lots of people saying morals. Morals, humor and lifestyle. Humor is coming up a lot.

Work ethic, kids roles within the household. That is so funny because you can think about kids honestly at 21. I don't think it's that like crazy to think about that. And listen, it might change, like how you want to parent might change as you grow and as you learn more, but it's interesting to think about. Everyone, morals, morals. Abortion and contraception, hell yeah. Imagine. That would be bad boots. I'd be like, sorry.

Mindset, timeline, expectation, empathy, humor, and humor and morals, and politics, and religion. Lots of people saying religion. Yeah, fair. Values, politics, morals, money. This is a girl after my own heart, food preferences. I hear your sister. Time to eat dinner. Very good. What if they want to eat at eight every night and you like to eat at five?

One of the main three things. Music. I love when people put music. What would you say are your top three? What's the question? Sleep routine. What are the three main things you need to agree on? It's a hard question. For life. Think about yours, Rohana.

Are we talking about for life? For a partner for life. Definitely roles in the home. Yeah. One million percent. You will never have a happy marriage if you or happy relationship if you are mismatched on everyone's contribution. I've got one.

Go on. I think one of mine would be money. I think so too. Just in the way that you spend it, the way that you save it, the way that you value it. And the way that you earn it. And the way that you spend it, the way that you save it, the way that you value it, and the way that you earn it. And the way that you earn it. Because also, like even like stupid things, like I'm not tight, but my ex would spend all of his money on delivery.

And like, that's fine. That's your money to spend. But if we were like living together, I really like just value doing like a weekly shop. I think it's just more cost efficient and it's nicer to cook. Do you know what I mean? Like that's so simple and that's so small, but that is a point of contention if every day they would rather have a delivery. It's especially a point of contention if one person is earning the money. I think that

you have, I really think that there has to be shared values on. How you share your money is interesting too because lots of people don't feel the same way about that. It's not all a melting pot for some people. I really actually think that if one person is a spendthrift and the other person is a bit scroogey, it's bad. It's pretty tricky. Lots of... So we're getting roles in the home.

Yeah. Money. Yeah. Anyone for a third? Mine would be, and this is so weird because I know that you can have different things on this and this isn't actually a core value, but I actually would really like someone that enjoyed the same like simple pleasures as me. Like I think that's really important.

Like you said about like conversation, I think it's really important to find joy in like the same small things. Like I think if someone wasn't content in that way with the smaller things that make me really happy and are enough for me, I think I would really struggle with that. I think humor is a really, really big one. Humor is such a huge one. Oh, I've never been with a funny boy. But it's not about funny. I don't think it's actually about funny.

I think it's about sharing a sense of humor. Yeah, but that's the same. Because you think you're funny. But that's the difference. I do, yeah. Exactly. But like, for everyone, it's not about them being really funny. It's about you. No, no, it's about them making you laugh. That's what I mean about being with a funny boy.

I'm sure someone else could have found my ex funny. I was funny. Do you know what I mean? But like, yeah. They have to be able to make you laugh. You laugh is different. Yes. Sure.

Not like, not everyone likes every comedian on the circuit. But like, I would love to be with someone that got me and made me laugh. Yeah. Yeah. What a joy that would be. I think that's actually quite essential. Oh, yeah. I would put that in my top three actually, I would. Because also guys, life is long and a lot of life is actually really hard.

You've got to have a lol. You've got to be able to find the light in it. I think that often. I know. If you were one of those people that took everything was so serious, I could not. I'm like, ha ha lol, everything's fucking up around us. I think that often, if you were one of those people that took everything so serious, I could not. I'm like, ha ha! LOL!

Everything's fucking up around us. Funny! Laugh! Yeah. And also there's loads of different types of humour. Yeah. Like, you know some people have that mean humour. I don't like that.

It doesn't make me laugh. Do you know what I mean? I don't actually know that many people with that sense of humour anymore. I do. That many, babe. I know, one. Okay. Thank you all so much for listening we love you so much please like and subscribe and also please keep sending your voice notes. We love you. We love

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