Lenny's Podcast: Product | Career | Growth - Lessons from one of the world’s top executive recruiters | Lauren Ipsen (Daversa Partners, General Catalyst)
Episode Date: November 3, 2022Lauren Ipsen is one of the most well-known and respected executive recruiters in the industry, having placed over 90 senior product leaders at companies including Twitter, Reddit, Opendoor, Postmates,... Nextdoor, and many others. She is currently the Director of Executive Talent at General Catalyst, and prior to that was a senior leader at Daversa Partners. In today’s podcast, Lauren shares advice for founders on hiring senior product leaders, tips for product leaders on finding better opportunities, and the most common mistakes recruiters make. She talks about how to play the long game of networking to find the best talent and about recruiting best practices, and we also dive deep on market mapping, LinkedIn, and how to approach reference checks.—Find the full transcript here: https://www.lennysnewsletter.com/p/lessons-from-one-of-the-worlds-top—Where to find Lauren Ipsen:• LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/lauren-ipsen-6a5a84113/—Where to find Lenny:• Newsletter: https://www.lennysnewsletter.com• Twitter: https://twitter.com/lennysan• LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/lennyrachitsky/—Thank you to our wonderful sponsors for making this episode possible:• Retool: https://retool.com/lenny• Miro: https://miro.com/lenny• Vanta: https://vanta.com/lenny—Referenced:• Gokul Rajaram on Lenny’s podcast: https://www.lennyspodcast.com/gokul-rajaram-on-designing-your-product-development-process-when-and-how-to-hire-your-first-pm-a-playbook-for-hiring-leaders-getting-ahead-in-you-career-how-to-get-started-angel-investing-more/• The Power of Now: A Guide to Spiritual Enlightenment: https://www.amazon.com/Power-Now-Guide-Spiritual-Enlightenment/dp/1577314808• You Are Here: Discovering the Magic of the Present Moment: https://www.amazon.com/You-Are-Here-Discovering-Present/dp/1590308387/• Your Own Backyard podcast: https://www.yourownbackyardpodcast.com/• Top Gun: https://www.amazon.com/Top-Gun-Tom-Cruise/dp/B001K3K5MO• BeReal: https://apps.apple.com/us/app/bereal-your-friends-for-real/id1459645446• Strava: https://apps.apple.com/us/app/strava-run-ride-hike/id426826309• Spotify: https://apps.apple.com/us/app/spotify-music-and-podcasts/id324684580• Joe Suliman at Daversa Partners: https://www.daversapartners.com/team/joe-suliman/—In this episode, we cover:(04:46) Lauren’s background(07:52) Why the best recruiters seem to be migrating to VC funds(09:44) Mistakes founders make in searching for their first senior product leader(13:26) Questions for founders to ask when thinking about who to hire(16:07) The three main types of PMs(18:27) What do job titles mean, and why are they more susceptible to change in a startup environment?(21:50) What should product leaders do ahead of hiring senior product leaders?(23:14) How to network with great talent(27:37) Why the timetable for recruiting is variable(29:02) How to be productive with your time by tapping your network(30:27) Why recruiting via LinkedIn might not be the best use of your time(33:17) Lauren’s favorite placement of all time(37:30) The importance of diversifying your experience(40:16) The art and science of staying long enough to have a meaningful impact(43:23) The importance of creating real impact as a leader(47:57) Good questions to ask references and how to dig deeper(49:35) Resume red flags and the importance of honesty(53:39) Interview tips for product managers (57:29) Common mistakes recruiters make(1:00:57) Advice for founders looking for a recruiter(1:04:24) Lightning round—Production and marketing by https://penname.co/. For inquiries about sponsoring the podcast, email podcast@lennyrachitsky.com. This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit www.lennysnewsletter.com/subscribe
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Regardless of whether or not you're hiring, you should always be keeping a pulse on the market.
That is the most important thing. And I think that should be the case for both candidates and,
you know, folks that are hiring. Like, you never want to put yourself in a position where you have
no idea what good looks like, whether that's from a company standpoint or from a candidate standpoint.
So both parties should always be having a good understanding of which companies are thriving,
which individuals are building great things and are well-known commodities in their organizations
and get great references. Oftentimes, I encourage founders to simply chat with what good looks like
and get a really good sense of kind of what benchmark candidate profiles could be. And who knows
where that person will be in a year or what have you, but staying really, really close to really
great people and using them from an advising capacity or getting them ingrained in some type of
involvement in the product prior to actually having that specific need, I think is really important.
Welcome to Lenny's podcast. I'm Lenny, and my goal here is to help you get better at the craft
of building and growing products. Today, my guest is Lauren Ipsen. One of the most important
skills for founders and senior product leaders to develop is the ability to hire great people.
You won't be able to build the best company or the best product if you can't hire the best people.
And Lauren is one of the most experienced and successful people in the world when it comes to hiring product leaders.
She's placed over 80 senior product leaders across tech companies and has worked with some of the biggest companies out there.
When I asked a bunch of really smart product leaders who their favorite product recruiter was, Lauren's name came up a ton.
In her conversation, we get super tactical about what founders need to do to find the best product talent.
What product managers should be doing during their career to give themselves the most opportunity?
And we also touch on what recruiters themselves often get wrong when trying to attract great talent.
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Lauren, thank you for being here. Welcome to the podcast. Thanks so much. It's great to be here.
I've been meaning to do an episode on product hiring and recruiting product people for a while.
And when I asked a bunch of smart friends, who should I have on to talk about this stuff?
Your name came up a bunch.
And so I'm really happy that we're finally doing this.
Me too.
Absolutely.
I'm grateful that you asked.
So to help listeners get a sense of just your background and kind of the journey you've been on to get to where you are now, can you just spend maybe just a minute kind of talking through the wonderful things you've done in your career and what you're doing now?
Yeah, absolutely. So I started my career in broadcast. I originally thought that I wanted to be on the news and quickly realized I didn't necessarily want to be the face of sadness. There's a ton of that happening in the world. So made a pivot pretty early on and thought, where could I use the communication skills that I've been working so hard on and do something that's impactful in a big way, but maybe just with a little bit of a different angle.
and stumbled across executive search.
Exec search is not really something that people major in college by any means
or think they're going to end up doing.
So it was something I found fascinating.
I had applied to all of these different companies like Twitter and Snap and Pinterest hadn't
heard back from any of them was a name in the resumes and thought,
how cool would it be if I could work with all of them and have an opportunity to play
apart from a different lens?
So got into exec search was really focused early on on consumer mobile buildouts,
was doing a lot of work with Twitter and Reddit and TaskRabbit and Nextdoor, Postmates,
you name it. And that was probably 85% of the work I was doing. And then as on the agency side,
15% was obscure. Autonomous helicopter selling into the Department of Defense and then
retail and robotics. And it was all very fascinating. But for me, who has,
wicked bad ADD. It was amazing to be able to be so stimulated by so many different industries
and feel like I couldn't really master this. So long story short, had an awesome career at Diversa
Partners, which is a boutique executive search firm and thought I was going to be there potentially
forever, was tapped by a awesome individual, Abe Shafee, who was founding a company. I'd been doing
a lot of work for them. They were a client of mine at the time, placed a couple of great hires
and they said, we're either going to kick off
that head of talent search with you,
or you can come over and join us.
So I was the first recruiting hire over there,
built out the talent function in its entirety.
I definitely think there was a part of me
that I loved the operating experience,
learned a ton, worked side by side, some amazing people,
but was really missing working with founders
and lots of them and keeping a pulse on the market.
So General Catalyst tapped me most recently
and been working here for the past couple months,
and it's been great thus far,
and I'm specializing in our consumer on crypto investments.
Awesome.
The fact that you're at GC now makes me think about another recruiter that I know who's awesome,
awesome, awesome, Bresendine.
And it's interesting that a lot of the best recruiters seem to be heading to VC funds.
And I'm curious why that is happening.
Is it like a comp thing?
Is it like a comp thing?
It's a great question. It's definitely not a comp thing.
I'll say that I think it could be a stability of life thing.
search is incredibly volatile and you have to hustle so hard. And as soon as you have three wins,
you've got four more things to execute on. And so there's aspects of it that can be tough,
especially in a market like right now, where you really do have to chase business and you can't
be selective about what you take on. So you could be pitching things that maybe you don't
necessarily believe in in its entirety or what have you. So I think that's one component.
In-house is obviously difficult right now as well for talent leaders. It's really scary to take a bet
on one single company right now and know what it's going to look like six months from now.
And so I think those things combined might be the reason for an influx in folks leaning more
towards venture. And I think it's just timeliness. Got it. That makes sense. The downside is it's
hard for people to find awesome recruiters because once you're in a fun, you're just going to help
those startups. And so we're going to talk later about just how do people find awesome recruiters,
what do you look for? But there's roughly three things that want to spend our time,
chatting through today. One is for founders and hiring managers, just how to find the best talent
and what they could do to be successful finding the best talent. Two is for product leaders and
PMs, how to give themselves the most opportunity from the flip side. And then third is just for
recruiters. What do they often do wrong? How do they mess out on the best product talent? Does that sound
good? Yeah, that sounds great. Okay, cool. So on the hiring front, just diving in, say you're a founder,
or someone really early at a company,
and maybe you've got a couple PMs,
and you're starting to think about,
we need to hire a really senior product leader,
or first senior product leader.
Sure.
What do you find is often the biggest mistake
that founders make when they're trying to hire
their first senior product leader?
You know, I think especially for founders
that haven't hired for this caliber of talent in the past,
it's really easy to be distracted by shiny objects
and look at huge names.
You want to find the CPOs,
of Google and YouTube or what have you, because that seems like it would be such an incredible
opportunity for brand recognition. And to an extent, it is. But the fact of the matter is,
oftentimes those individuals are pretty far from the work and have a great team of executors
that they've put into place that are actually the ones that are in the weeds. And so I think
that's the biggest mistake I see people make, especially on, you know, the hiring front where
they have limited resources and maybe they're an early stage company and trying so hard to bring in
big names is not always the best way to go about it because the fact of the matter is they need to go
then hire a team. So I think looking for someone that's a little closer to the work, maybe someone
that can step up into that type of role and do so in a way where some days they might actually
be operating like a PM and then other days they might be able to build from a leadership perspective.
Like that's more of the DNA that people should be targeting.
Do you think the source of the issue with that going wrong that they no longer can do that work as well because they've been shielded away from the tactical day to day?
Or is it that they're not as hungry as they used to be?
And they're just like, I already am a YouTube 10 year super successful.
I don't need to prove myself anymore and they're just not as hungry or something else.
I mean, I'm not going to sit here and say that all senior leaders aren't hungry.
I think that there's some folks that really lean into the work in a different way and miss that.
and often go to startups because they crave building.
So it's not necessarily that,
but I do tend to lean towards folks that have a chip on their shoulder
or have something to prove and want to build a name for themselves.
All of that to say, there's a reason that a lot of those people got to where they are,
and some of the best talent are some of the senior folks,
but just maybe not necessarily the best talent for where this company is today, right?
It could be great for 10 years down the road,
but the past five years of that individual's career could have been,
and far more focused on.
Camaraderie, team building, operational components, performance reviews,
and then aspects of product vision,
which just might not be the innovative AB testing type of profile
that you typically look for in these pre-IPO companies.
Got it.
I imagine there are stories that you can't share about people you've placed like that
that have not worked out.
If you can't share one, that'd be awesome.
But maybe a side question, is the general advice?
just don't assume someone that's been successful at a big company with a fancy background is going to be
great. Sometimes they worked out, but not always is that going to take a way. Yeah, I would say the general
advice is who is going to be best for this specific role at this specific time, not necessarily
who is the best talent in the world or in the market. Those are two very, very different questions to
ask. And I think early on in my recruiting career, I was often just trying to recruit these whales
of executives to try and prove myself and say, like, I got this person to entertain this opportunity.
How sick is that? But naturally, that's not necessarily the person that actually can move the needle. And so you need to think very specifically just because this is the best talent. That doesn't necessarily mean they're the best talent for this role today.
So to double down on that, say you're hiring and you know you're going to start hiring a senior product leader, what is it that you suggest founders nail down and iron out when they're kicking off the hiring process?
either on the rowner with a recruiter, like in the job description, what else did they have to
get right to find the right person? It's a number of things. Like product leaders can come in a lot
of different flavors. And so I think it's trying to determine where this person should major and
minor, where they should spike. Is this someone that's going to really lean into the design
efforts? Is it someone that actually kind of needs to just operate like a very senior PM and
continue to build out a team? Is this someone that really should be focused on product
vision for the long haul and then thinking more holistically about how to build the rest of the
team. There's so many different ways in which you can hire for a product leader. So I think it's trying
to work a little bit backwards and think about what is the actual outcome that we're trying
to solve for with this hire? Or are we just hiring ahead of product because we feel like we need to
hire ahead of product? Like that's so often what I see is, you know, the board's telling me we need to
hire a head of product. And, you know, I don't necessarily think that we do or I'm not exactly
sure what we need in this role. And so whenever you're starting a search in that regard,
it's kind of doomed from inception. So you need to get incredibly granular on the front end around.
What is this person going to be coming in to do? What's their mandate? And, you know,
if we think about someone that's just absolutely hitting it out of the park and crushing it,
what does that look like? So I think just trying to be really specific on the front end.
I love that last piece, just what a success really look like for this person.
On the first piece, that's exactly the same advice.
I give founders when they're looking for a PM is like, what do you concretely need them to do day to day?
Not like we need someone to help us with product.
And that often helps illuminate.
Okay, I see.
We need someone to help us ship more consistently.
We need someone to help us hire engineers.
Like, yeah, just make a list.
Like, what are they going to do in the first month or two or three?
Yeah, yeah, absolutely.
I think those are the most important things.
Like the 90-day plan is something that's overused, but so necessary.
And that's just the tip of the iceberg.
So that component.
And then, okay, a year from now, what should this person be doing?
Two years from now.
Do we want them to grow up into a CPO role?
Do we think about that in a different way?
How are we thinking about the product direction today, 12 months from now, 18 months from now, through IPO?
Like, I think it's really difficult to think about things that way.
and so often you're thinking about the task in front of you
and just trying to iterate quickly.
But that is the type of thought process
that needs to be happening
from the CEOs and founders.
Are there archetypes of PMs,
if you just like bucket,
like here's the three maybe most common
types of product leaders that founders hire
because there's like an infinite list of skills
and things they could do,
but just to make it even simpler.
Like here's probably one of these three you're looking for.
Do you have something like that in your head?
Yeah, there's platform product leaders or folks that are kind of more indexed on the infrastructure components.
There's folks that are typically focused on like core product or consumer product if it's on the consumer side of things.
And then you'll have folks that are really indexed and that can include like UX individuals, design folks.
And then there's also typically specialists.
So individuals that are really hyper focused on growth or monetization or what have you.
Those are the three buckets that I would say I see most often.
Do you feel like founders sometimes pick one of the wrong buckets and that's a common mistake?
Or is it generally it's the wrong bucket, but maybe it's not the right spikes of skills within that bucket?
Well, it's kind of twofold.
I think sometimes people just bring in a head of product to do everything.
So that's probably not the best way to go about things.
I think that ends up being a unicorn, which you hear often in the search world, and it becomes really difficult to hone.
in and on what good looks like. And so, you know, I think, again, it just comes back to, like,
having a clear org chart on the front end and determining are we hiring someone specifically
to build out our Waldgarden ads approach, or are we hiring someone to run product marketing,
or are we hiring someone to help from a product perspective to build a better core user experience?
Like, those are all very, very, very different roles. And if you bring in one person to try and do in
all the fact of the matters, they're going to have to bring in some key lieutenants to help them.
So is that something you want to do?
Or are you more focused on bringing in someone imminently to help on the ad side of things?
And then we can find that head of product to help them out down the road.
Like, that's kind of the way in which I would architect it and think about it is what's most
imminent and what do you actually need to hire for today as opposed to just hiring for the sake of
hiring and bringing in that leader.
And part of the discussion there is maybe they grow up into this head of product long term,
Maybe not. Maybe we just need someone to ship ads platform.
That's exactly right. Yeah.
You mentioned this title of Head of Product.
There's also VPF product, CPO.
There's all these titles, and I feel like people sometimes use them interchangeably,
don't know which one to use when they're putting out a job description.
Do you have any kind of heuristic rule of thumb of just hears how to think about when to use
each of these titles, or is it not even a big deal for, say, a founder hiring the first
senior product leader?
It's a great question.
And it definitely leads to confusion across the board because I'll have candidates come to me and they'll say I'm only looking for a CPO role.
When I'm working with a startup where maybe on the venture side of things, we've actually advised that startup to not hire C-level executives at this point.
And so that naturally could eliminate a candidate that could be amazing for the role.
Similarly, people could feel that way if, you know, it's a VP of product role, but that in their mind is the most senior product leader within the organization running everything from end to end, who they intend to be the CPO down the road, but are not in a position where they're ready to hire C-level execs.
So it's tough, and it really depends on the organization and the way in which they're thinking about org charts and leveling.
A lot of startups at this point are almost allergic to C titles or VP titles or are just more title agnostic than I've seen in the past.
So you see a lot more of these head-ofs, and that is sector leaders up until probably C-plus or D-Stage.
And then you get to D and E and you'll see more of the VP-director C-PO type.
And I think that is like the way that people should be thinking about it is if I'm joining a company very, very early days and it's called head of engineering, that is intended to be the most senior engineering leader within the organization.
The fact of the matter, though, is there's good reason sometimes why they're not throwing out that C title.
And could this person be layered down the road?
Potentially, because maybe the talent they need right now is different than just as we had spoken to earlier is different than the talent that they might need from a massive CPS.
oh, in two and a half years.
And so I think that rubs people the wrong way
because they want a bit of a promise
that things are going to,
if they join at this stage,
that they'll be in it for the long haul
and be that chief product officer
that takes a company through an IPO.
But companies are so dynamic
and things change so quickly.
So, you know, I guess a long-winded way of me saying,
like, there's different breadth and depth to each role,
but I think for the most part,
unless it's a very siloed company
with multiple different VPs,
if you're coming into a company
and they say, this is the head of product, the VP of product, or the CPO,
that all means the same thing dependent on the stage, for the most part.
And the other takeaway there, which is awesome, is if your early stage startup,
probably just start with head of product.
Keep it something.
Don't ever promise everyone understands.
Yeah, because the last thing you want to do is have to demote someone.
But, you know, once you get to a place of having C-level executives,
like that's not going to do any good.
But maybe you start as a head of product.
And then as the company continues to grow, you lean into the growth side of things more.
And so you become that head of growth or an SVP of growth.
Like things iterate and change, but you just never know and you can't predict the outcome of a company on the front end.
A lot of people listening to this probably aren't hiring senior product leaders right now, but plan to and will in the future.
And so I wanted to ask, what should founders do when they know they will hire a head of product, say, in the next year?
that could set them up for success down the road,
which should they be doing ahead of time?
Regardless of whether or not you're hiring,
you should always be keeping a pulse on the market.
That is the most important thing.
And I think that should be the case for both candidates
and folks that are hiring.
You never want to put yourself in a position
where you have no idea what good looks like,
whether that's from a company standpoint or from a candidate standpoint.
So both parties should always be having a good understanding
of which companies are thriving,
which individuals are building great things and are well-known commodities in their organizations
and get great references. Oftentimes, I encourage founders to simply chat with what good looks like
and get a really good sense of kind of what benchmark candidate profiles could be. And who knows
where that person will be in a year or what have you, but staying really, really close to really
great people and using them from an advising capacity or getting them ingrained in some type of
involvement in the product prior to actually having that specific need, I think is really important.
That sounds awesome. And it makes sense. How do you, as a founder, do some of that? Do you just
kind of ask folks like, hey, who are some of the best product leaders you know? I just want to chat with
them. I'm not hiring. Just want to kind of meet people that are awesome. Is that the behavior you suggest or
is there something else you can do? That's a great way to go about it. And by simply saying,
No agenda. I'm not trying to hire you tomorrow. I just want to know great people. And to be totally
honest, people feel flattered by that, typically. Most of the time, if you've been referred to someone and
heard nothing but great things about them and you really don't have an agenda other than wanting
to pick their brain, people are like, well, this is different from the day to day. This is like
fulfilling. And people want to pour their knowledge, especially into companies that they believe in. So I
think more often than not, you'll find that not just product leaders, but executives across
the board are actually really inclined to do so and want to help out, because it's a little bit
different from the day-to-day monotony of their work lives.
So the advice is keep track of companies who are killing it, who you might be able to kind
of poach from in the future and keep a list and keep warm contact with folks.
They're awesome.
It reminds me of a founder that are basically all founders who are really good at hiring and how
far ahead, they plan seeds and how they just kind of play the long game with the best people
they meet and they just kind of keep the conversation going until they finally convince them to
join like a year or two later. Is that you find out the same thing? One million percent. Yeah.
When I was on the executive recruiting side of things at Diversa, the VP of Engineering
candidate that we ultimately landed, it was a seven-month game of courtship. And let's bring him in
to help out from an advising capacity. Let's ask him how he would
think about structuring this org. Let's talk to him about the best talent that he would recommend
that we're spending time with. No question that's invasive, but more so just collaborative and
exciting. And you'll find that the founder and that leader will build a different level of rapport
and trust by not going through a formal interview process and having it feel transactional. And then with
that, magic can happen. And you can land incredible people. This all sounds like a lot of work and a lot of
time. Do you have guidance on how long it should take to find, like for early stage
startup, say, series, A or B to like find someone awesome and or how much time founder should
spend a week, just best practice on hiring for someone like this? I mean, I think if you're going
to search, so if you're looking for this individual, it's really so case to case. Like,
there's searches that I've been in that I call three people. I know they're amazing for this.
I tell the founder and CEO, these are the three people.
you should chat with, hire one of them. And it's that easy. There's others where it's a lot of
trying to figure out what the person's actually looking for. If there's, you know, some,
they headed off from an emotional standpoint. There's so many different things that come with it.
I would say from a timing perspective, like, it's not a hard number. It's more of just put yourself
in the room with great people. If you have a tremendous amount of respect for someone,
continue to harvest that relationship and ask what good looks like.
Find excuses to continue to touch base with people that are important in your network.
If you remembered that they mentioned that they were going to some event and you think that
you might want to hire them down the road, in a non-tribue way, show up to that event.
These are things that I'm constantly doing and I think that founders can do a better job of,
but just make yourself known and relevant.
And then when you reach out and timing is right, it won't feel so.
so obscure or so transactional.
It reminds me it was time at Airbnb where we had these meetups for engineers every month or so
or it was like a tech, oh, it was a tech talk.
And then all the engineers get a target engineer that is coming to vent.
They get their profile on their picture and their job is to make sure they have a great
time and try to convince them to join someday.
Oh, my God.
But it's so real.
It's similar to college trips where you're trying to get recruited for a sport.
And you have to ensure that you're, yeah, just continuing to give people the best experience possible and staying top of mind for people.
Yeah, but I could seem creepy. They have no idea. There's just assigned to them. But it works. It worked great. It was a great tactic.
That's awesome.
I want to come back to a question that I asked,
but I feel like you'll have an actual more concrete answer
to the specific piece of just,
what's your guidance per week,
how much time you should be spending on hiring broadly
and specifically like heads of product,
if that's any different?
Do you have any just like advice?
Because I imagine it's always spend more time than you think.
It's going to take a lot of time.
Yeah, it's definitely spend more time than you think.
If you are in an actual search,
then you should devote all of your time to it.
I know that sucks to hear,
but like you should be really carving out concrete time.
The thing that's tough, though, is you could spend, I guess what I was trying to say is you could
spend one hour on something or you could spend 10 hours on it, but it's more so around,
are you doing things to be impactful during that period of time?
Like, are you actually doing things that are going to move the needle?
Are you just blindly reaching out to people on LinkedIn?
Because that's not going to be the way in which you're going to find the best of the best.
Some of the greatest talent, they're not even.
on LinkedIn. And so I think it's building a really strong network in advance. And then once you actually
get to a place where you need to hire that person, like calling all of those amazing people that you've
built relationships with and saying, now tell me who your favorite person is and who the best person
you've ever worked with is. And could you put me on a thread with them? Like, how are you going to
differentiate yourself from the rest of the market? So it's less in my mind like a quantitative number of
hours and more of how are you doing things differently than the rest of the market. I want to
Pull in this thread. Okay, so you're spending one hour versus 10 hours and your point about how you could spend one hour and get as much done maybe in those 10 hours.
What sorts of behaviors and actions should folks take to make use of, say, that one hour in hiring?
Like, how do you not waste your time?
I mean, I would say I've got probably five of my all-time favorite product leaders in the world that I tap whenever I'm kicking off a search.
and they know that whenever life brings them to an opportunity where they are going to start looking
or want to lean into board opportunities, that I'm going to set them up and shout their name from the rooftop.
So oftentimes they're willing to point me in the right direction of great people, make those introductions, what have you.
And I'm going to know simply because of how great they are that they would never put me in touch with someone that wasn't equally as qualified.
So that, I think, because the quality is there, so I'm not just blindly guessing on quantity, spending a ton of time on LinkedIn and then having to call unknown entities and ask for back channel references when they also might not even feel comfortable sharing the dirt.
You know, so it comes back to rapport and people that you have around you that you know you can trust and tap into and ensuring that you're spending the time in the right areas.
Got it. Yeah. So tapping your network makes a lot of sense. If you don't have that yet,
I guess is it worth spending time on LinkedIn just cold messaging people as a founder?
And any tips there for just cold outreach that do you think work for a founder doing it versus you who are a professional at it?
I do think it is worth that time.
If you see someone that looks amazing, hell yeah, reach out to them.
Spend time with them.
Why not?
And oftentimes, again, people are excited to see, oh, the CEO and founder wants to pick my brain.
It doesn't look like they're coming at me to try and recruit me, but rather just to have.
an open-ended conversation for sure. And they can sense, you can definitely sense that type of
interaction and feel comfortable with it, whereas sometimes the walls immediately go up when
someone senses that they're trying to get poached. And so, you know, it's, I think something
that's worth them doing for sure. It's just if you are going to look for a key executive and are on a
time crunch, I don't necessarily think the best use of your time is blindly reaching out to
executives when you don't necessarily have the expertise in knowing which companies were thriving
during that period of time, which organizations were great and which were a little bit weaker within
companies. All of those things are just the inner workings of the recruiting atmosphere and technology.
And I think like tapping people, if you don't have the network, talk to a great recruiter or just
spend some time kind of doing some research on who's great. You can ask investors or board members
in your companies as to who you should be targeting. So there's always got to be one or two people
that can at least point you to another three or four.
It reminds me of a tactic go-cool shared on this podcast about one of his best tricks
is you think of if you're hiring salespeople, instead of looking for who are just the best salespeople,
you look for the company that is known for being really good at sales.
And then you go find people there and try to poach their lieutenant types, not like maybe
necessarily their head of sales.
Do you think that's a good move?
Yes and no.
Oh.
Yes and no.
Because I think if the organization is incredibly good at sales, then the majority of
if the folks are probably amazing,
but you always have weaklings.
And just because someone has a brand on their resume at the right time,
I think oftentimes CEOs and founders will do this thing
where they kind of overgeneralize.
Well, you know, Amazon's prime team at this time was amazing
or something like that.
It's like they definitely could have been.
But just as any other company,
there's going to be people that are breakout,
top 1% type individuals,
and then other individuals that get to ride the wave.
and reach the benefits of being at the right place at the right time.
And I think that's a good starting place,
but then also spending time getting a little bit deeper
on who the best people are within that organization.
But yeah, we always start with market mapping
so determining who the best companies are within a specific area.
And then I just encourage everyone to take that a layer deeper.
Got it.
It just comes back to your previous piece of advice.
Jeline someone that has an awesome logo is going to be great,
but sometimes there.
There's a question I should have asked you at the beginning that I'm going to ask now.
How many folks have you placed?
How many companies have you worked with?
And then also, is there a story of just like your favorite person that you've placed slash company you helped hire that comes to mine?
Yeah.
So both great questions.
I've placed probably 85 executives over the course of my career and lots of entry-level employees when I was in-house and also some great TV leaders.
Yeah, probably 85 searches that I've opened and closed.
So that's been incredibly fulfilling work.
It's also fun too on the exact side of things because you hire the VP of Engineering at Postmates and you see firsthand the product to change.
You know, you watch those types of things happen before your eyes, which is it's fulfilling stuff.
It's really cool.
And delivery gets there faster too.
Yeah.
Yeah, exactly.
So that's really fun.
Favorite placement of all time has got to be the VP of engineering that I placed at IRL, which is, to be completely honest, a big reason that I joined that company.
Alex Strand is his name, and he is just the most incredible, atypical, high, emotional, intelligent
engineering leader, still super technical, but has managed teams in the hundreds, built out Amazon Prime
Day, then went on to build the core messaging platform at Snapchat, called him, and he was like,
why would I ever leave? There's a ton of financial incentive and a team that I've built.
that all loves me. And we got him to ultimately make a move in two weeks, which is just kind of
unheard of, although it ended up being like a seven-month push for a start date. But that was a big
reason why I went and joined IRL was to work side by side him and help build out his team and learn
to get more deep on the technical side of things. Because oftentimes on the executive level, as mentioned
before, can be sometimes more of that people management type role. And so he just felt like this
unique hybrid of an individual. And yeah, you know, you close searches and you cross your fingers
and hope for the best and feel very good about it. But he was one where I just, I had all the
confidence in the world that I could not have done better. You know, I just felt so, so great about that.
So that was a good. I don't know how much more confidence you could instill in a candidate
joining company than the recruiter also then joining the company. I did say that to him. I, you know,
I kept saying, and if I were to go in-house, I swear, this is
probably the company I would do it for.
And then about four weeks after he signed,
I texted him and I said,
well, you'll never guess.
Wow.
Amazing.
What a stamp of confidence.
Yeah.
And a full circle life moment.
I sent him a box of cookies.
He sent it back and said, your turn.
And is he still there at IRL?
Awesome.
He is.
He's great.
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I want to shift a little bit to kind of flip to the product person's perspective and talk about
how do you be successful as a product leader in finding new opportunities and giving
yourself opportunities in the space. And so maybe a first question is just generally what
should product leaders and PMs focus on to give themselves the most opportunity in their
career. I think breadth is incredibly important. It's so critical, especially if someone has an end
goal of wanting to step into a product leadership role to have been able to have touched lots of
different components, as opposed to specializing in one specific thing. So I would say that's
very important to be able to make sure that you're maximizing opportunities for yourself down the
road. And then, as mentioned before, just always keeping a pulse on the market, regardless of how
happy you are in your current company, regardless of what the project is that you're so incredibly
excited about that isn't going to conclude until Q1 of next year. It's just so important that you
always know the companies that are doing great things and keep those windows open for people
because, you know, you never, you never know what the next 12 months hold and you want to be in a
position where you're never running out the door looking for what's next, but rather, you know,
being able to be super selective about the things that you have in front of you.
And that comes with time and network building and relationship building over years, honestly.
And when you say breadth, are you saying things like work on the platform team for a bit,
work on the user-facing team, maybe the internal tools team, like different types of product or something else?
Exactly that.
Yeah.
I think there's people that probably want to just be a specialist in growth or want to get super deep on ads.
And if that's the case, then by all means, do so.
And I think there's something to be said about that as well,
because those types of skill sets will be needed.
But if you're looking to diversify your skill set,
continue to grow from a career trajectory perspective,
and think about potentially being in a head-of-product-type role,
I think it's really important that you touch all aspects of that.
I'm really happy to hear that because that's exactly the advice I give UPMs,
that a variety of experience is one of the most powerful things you can do
because you also just become better PM because you can see how different types of products are built
and how different types of teams operate and just makes you better.
Yes.
Variety of experience, I think taking a bet on doing something more entrepreneurial, starting something,
and then also joining things that are a little bit later and more established to get best practices.
Like there's, I think diversifying your skill set within an organization,
but also diversifying the work in what you're doing and the companies that you're spending time with
is awesome.
Yeah.
So on that, something I'm always weary of is folks jumping around between all the fancy companies
to get a bunch of logos on the resume.
Oh, I worked at Snap and Facebook and Netflix.
And I feel like you're just like building your resume and then your life flies by and you forget
that you should enjoy the things you're doing and work on things that are fulfilling and
optimize for not a great resume.
And curious your thoughts and just how often you think you should be.
move from company to company, one to optimize for opportunities in the future, or just like
generally, do you recommend people try to move around or go deeper at their company? Like, there's a
bunch of questions there, but take it work. Yeah. Okay, sounds good. I think it's an interesting one
because logo collecting is never something that you, you know, want to be known for. And the first
thing you're taught, like entry-level recruiting 101 is recognize patterns of candidates that
jump from place to place and don't give opportunities a full chance. So you're spot on.
Like, that is definitely not something you want to be known for if you're a prospect.
There's also something to be said about staying somewhere too long, though. And I will say that.
I think sometimes you find people that are almost loyal to a fault. And companies have tanked
and all executives have left and the writings on the wall, and they're holding on to the fact that
they were hired by a really good guy or gal, and they want to make it work because they care
about the human being. And I think sometimes in your career you do have to be a little bit more
selfish and think about what's going to be best for you in the long haul. And so maybe that is
still keeping your head down and working hard while also being thoughtful about other things that are
that are out there and not saying hard nose to opportunities that knock on your door.
So it's one where I would say it's an art and a science because you have to be thoughtful about
taking on new things and knowing when it's worth taking a bet on yourself, but also you can't run
as soon as things get hard because that is recognized. And if there's a riff or an internal
dispute or a new leader brought in. And that is so quick as to make you run for the fences,
that's not something that people look for because startup world is hard. Tech is hard. Look at the
crypto world right now. Things are incredibly volatile and difficult. And you want to be able
to bring people in that are going to hang with you through the highs and lows. We're always
looking to see where people move to the needle, especially on the product side, where their
fingerprints were, what they can actually point to that they did and, you know, are proud of during
their time there. And so if all that they can say that they did was onboarded and moved on,
then it doesn't matter where you are, but it's not going to be something that I can at least stand
on to to cheer you on. I really like that. A lot of this comes down to what impact have you made.
And I was going to touch on that. And your point is one kind of heuristic for how long to stay at a place
at the minimum is like have some meaningful impact you can point to that you led.
That sound right.
Yeah, exactly.
And have that meaningful impact be something that others can speak to.
You know, I think that's huge.
If you built something within the organization that you're proud of,
but no one knows about it,
then that's more difficult to have as your stamp of approval for what you are able to accomplish there.
But if you did something that cross-functional leaders were speaking to that your team all sings the praises of, then that is something that you can put a feather in the cap and say, okay, I left this place better than I found it. And that's the reason that I have decided to move forward.
And I imagine part of that is for reference checks. People are going to check to see if you actually were successful.
All the time. Yep. Whether you are exploratory, opportunistic, not looking at all, people.
People are constantly calling each other.
And the world of tech is so, so, so small.
And no matter how fired up you were leaving a company or what went sideways, it is so critical
that you try to leave the place better than you found it and do so as seamlessly as possible.
Because you want people to have nothing but positive to say.
And oftentimes that the thing that I always find, too, is if I call.
10 people that were a part of the same organization as someone during a given period of time,
and they can't speak to anything they did.
In that case, it's no news is not necessarily good news.
You want to have an impact.
You want to be able to say, you know, I did X, Y, and Z.
I'm super proud of this.
And the reason I moved on is because, you know, I did what I came into accomplish.
It's a little bit innately tricky for product leaders.
I imagine you run into this, that sometimes you have to upset people as a product leader,
to get stuff done that needs to get done and maybe they disagree and then later it's like,
okay, I see what you did. Is that true? Do you deal with that or is it generally like, oh, yeah,
do the great people everyone knows? Like 100% of people will say they're awesome.
It's a really good question. I think there's a way to navigate conflict without
rubbing people the wrong way so that they'll, you know, say negative things. There's a way to be
an impactful product leader and disagree and make change.
And maybe your engineering leader and design leader and marketing leader completely disagree
with the direction in which you're going.
But because you have all of the data to support it and because you have gone about things
in a way that steals very stacked first and less emotional, it's really difficult for
them to then point to why they dislike this person.
Yeah.
This is interesting.
So say you make those 10 calls.
in your experience, the leaders you want to hire,
are you finding 10 out of 10
or generally like, yes, this person's amazing,
you should hire them.
There's ones that are slams down,
and no one has any negative to say.
That's incredibly rare.
More often you find some people like to just
have something negative to say,
just to have something negative to say.
I also take all of my backchannels
with a grain of salt.
Maybe the person I'm calling to back channel
this person with, I also have me back channeled, right?
So every single thing that here you just take, make note of, and then move on and think more holistically about.
But I think typically what I would say is the glaring nose are very obvious.
People that are polarizing individuals or have done wrong within an organization or made bad calls across the board are, you can get that information typically pretty quick.
It's the mixed ones where it's, I think that person was decent.
Those are pretty tough.
and you need to really find people that work super closely with them because otherwise it's
pretty difficult to say whether or not they were able to make an impact, which again comes
back to like why right off the bat, it's so nice to just have people that you can tap within
every organization that's like an academy company or a great company and say, point me in the
direction of the three best people. I don't want to have to go through the burden of having to
try and back channel all of the maybe middle 50% or what have you.
Yeah.
Most people don't have that, which is a reason to hire work with a recruiter.
You come built in with that network.
Totally there.
Yeah.
There's a couple things I want to touch on that I wasn't planning to touch on, but a reference
calls.
You do a lot of them, I imagine.
And I'm curious, do you have any tips for how to ask questions on a reference call
where you actually get useful advice where it's not just, yes, I like them.
They're great.
I hear them.
Especially on references, provided references.
I've only had two candidates where provided references have come back negative, which that's tough.
Outside of that, typically references are a standard.
It is important to dig pretty deep and ask the hard questions.
It's hard questions.
Yeah.
Why would I not hire this person?
What are their biggest weaknesses?
And then if they give you like the typical, oh, they work too hard, it's like, no.
Tell me more.
What are their actual weaknesses?
What are things that we should be really cognizant?
of, you know, would you hire this person again? Would you report to this person? Would you
endorse this person if you knew that your name was attached to it? Things like that, I think,
get people thinking. And even if you just sense the slightest pause, that in itself will be enough
to kind of make you think twice, right? So it's a lot of reading the room and probing harder
than you think necessary, which is tough. But back channel references, I think,
always provide a greater source of truth than provided.
It's similar to like an Instagram reel as opposed to the photos you're tagged in.
That's the way I think of it.
It's like this is what you want the world to see or think of you as.
And then these are what your peers and your direct reports and the people around you actually say about the work that you did during this time.
Awesome.
Coming back to a point you made about recruiter training 101, you learn how to find patterns and red flags in people's resume.
What else is a red flag in your?
your resume that you want to avoid slash.
There's a rule of thumb of like, if you're at a place for less than a year, it's bad.
Is that true?
How do you feel about that?
How do hiring managers generally feel about that?
It definitely depends with regards to being at a place less than a year.
If that's a recurring theme, of course, that's a big red flag.
Even if it's happened two or three times, three definitely.
If it's happened twice, it's like, huh, that feels off.
You got to let people tell their story, though, and their side of things.
And again, it comes back to like reaching out to different people and understanding if what they're saying is true was actually the truth.
And so when you have a really good pulse on what's happening in tech and whether there was a riff and the reason that person was let go was actually for, you know, because they weren't prioritizing a certain part of the product or whatever, like those things, it happens.
That's life, especially right now, right?
If we were to X every single person that has a short stint that joined a new company over the course of the past year, like, that wouldn't do anyone any good.
You know, another thing I've found that's pretty interesting is that people will often, because they're so afraid of that narrative, they'll often not include on their resume companies that they didn't stay for a year.
And in my personal opinion, that's actually almost more of a red flag because that that did happen. And you don't want to just pretend like that wasn't a decision you made in your life. And usually, you know, is handled with grace. You can speak to the reason that you decided to make a bet, the reason that you went there and the reason that you moved on in a way that people can typically resonate with. But I've seen executives just put that they've simply been advising for two.
years or something like that, when in reality they had two companies that failed. And the fact of the
matter is, I have some CFO candidates I'm talking to right now, and their past three years have been
short stints because they were brought in to take a company through an IPO, and then that changed,
or they were brought in to enter into us back, and then that became less of the buzz, right? So, like,
these things happen and roles change, and I think it's just allowing people to tell their story.
is the most important thing.
So I would say, Red Flag is, for me,
just always be honest about, like, when you started,
when you left a company.
You know, if I see that someone still has present on their LinkedIn,
but they've been gone for two years
and they kind of are acting like they're still there,
that doesn't feel good.
You just want people to give you the truth,
the straight facts,
so that you can support them and tell their story
and represent them in a way that makes you feel like you have all the details.
Got it.
So basically, don't lie.
That makes sense.
That reminds me a little bit of people kind of upgrade their titles a little bit because maybe they don't have an official title or they just want to sound a little important.
How do you feel about when people do that on their resumes?
Yeah, I don't love that.
I also don't love on the resume when people, and some people do this and it's okay.
But when people say like silly, vague names, like they'll say something along the lines of whatever at Reddit, like as their title or master of blank at this.
And it's like, okay, what were you actually doing?
I think they do that to avoid recruiters reaching out to them.
Exactly.
As their direct target, I'm pissed.
So I feel directly attacked in that regard.
So that's something that throws me off.
But that could definitely be a personal thing.
And I think overall, like, for the most part, people don't have any other things that really just throw me for a loop.
And the fact of the matter is, resumes, we look at less and less, especially at the executive level.
And it's a lot more of allowing people.
to tell their story, meeting in person, talking with their different people that support them,
and getting kind of more of the big picture around who they are.
I want to talk about what recruiters often do wrong and what you've learned there.
But before we get there, one last question, do you have any tips for a product manager
in the interviewing process, how to be more successful interviewing?
I've had this come up a few times when I've interviewed product folks that they'll speak
down on their counterparts or say that, you know, the reason they weren't able to meet deadlines
or push product in the right way was because of the engineering team or because of other components
of the business and it wasn't them. And so I think that's never a good way to go about it. So,
you know, it seems obvious, but you would be surprised how not obvious it is. So, you know,
thinking about things more holistically, speaking honestly about your strengths and things that you
want to continue to grow and improve upon. And then being able to tell your story, like practice
telling your story. So often people don't do that, especially when they're not
looking for jobs. And then it's not until their 10th interview that they know how to tell their
story and what they did and what they impacted and why they were someone to be missed when they moved
on. Those are things that you want to know how to speak to. And unless it's something you've been
doing or practicing, it's less natural. That's some advice, I think, just off the top of the head.
Awesome. That's really good advice. One thing that makes me think about, I know I want to get to this
last section, but do you think the best product leaders have their kind of story, that
out in the future and work backwards from that and have a sense of where they want to end up
or just kind of take it as it goes because I'm the latter. I just had no plan. I just wanted to see
follow the path that was presented. Do you think that is generally true for folks that end up being
successful or do you recommend people think about there's or aren't to be in five years? Here's
what I need to do to get there. You have any guidance there? I mean, for what it's worth, I'm definitely
more with you. I don't know where I want to be in five years. So it's tough for me to say,
But I do think that typically someone that has the end goal of being a CEO will put the pieces into
place to try and get there. And so it's not a bad idea. If you do have an end goal of wanting to run
your own thing to inch towards that. So maybe you go from being a product specific leader to then
operating in some type of GM of a business unit capacity and owning a P&L. And then although it's more
of a product-oriented role, you're still getting closer and closer to that end goal of COO or CEO. So
if it's something like that, then I think that naturally makes sense. Do you think people can be
enticed by shiny objects so excited because it's a step up from a title perspective and things like that?
And I think that's just so not important in the grand scheme of things. You could be the VP of product
or a CPO of what? You know, that's so vague. Like if someone just says, I want to be a chief product officer,
that's the end goal. I always say, of what? Like, you could be the chief product officer of your
household. Is it of a multi-billion dollar consumer brand? Or so I guess what I'm trying to say is
work backwards from a goal for sure, but don't allow titles or valuation bubbles or other things
to derail something that feels good. If you're in a role and you feel like you're making impact
and you're learning and you're growing and are excited about the work you're doing,
do not allow a title of some other company to make you feel like what you're doing isn't worthwhile.
I love that advice.
So many people have just chased some fancy new role, new title, new logo, and end up getting there like, man, this sucks.
Exactly.
Yeah.
This reminds me I did a meditation retreat once, and one of the teachings there was you don't want to be fixated with achieving a specific thing,
but you want to push your cart in that direction, just like head that direction.
and have a general sense, but not, I need to be that thing.
And that's what will make me happy.
Exactly.
I think that's exactly right.
Awesome.
Okay.
Final topic is from the recruiter perspective.
What do you find recruiters do wrong most often or miss when they're trying to attract
great product talent to a company?
Yeah.
So this is one I feel especially passionate about because I do think recruiters have a bit of a reputation.
And I think that it's for some good reason.
There's naturally people that forget that these are human beings that we're dealing with every single day that have lives, have families, have careers or ambitions outside of their career.
So I think it's essential that you remember that this is another human being on the other end of things and that you should treat them with the same level of respect that you would expect to be treated.
This has become even more apparent now that I have gone through some of my own recruiting cycles where I,
I was looking for different jobs.
And a transactional recruiting call just will rub you so the wrong way.
And we'll make you want to put things on your resume.
Like I just alluded to that say things like whatever at Reddit or what have you,
because you just don't want to deal with it.
And so I think you have to be a human.
You have to start with a relationship, find common ground, build report, listen to people,
like actually listen and remember what they.
say. So if someone says, I never want to do a crypto company and I just am only shoving crypto companies
down their throat, that's just insanely tone deaf. Or if they say, I have this vest that I really want to
be around for in May of next year and I just keep hitting them up prior to that, that's just
so not receptive to what they just said. Things like that make notes if easier because we speak to
so many people all day long. So it's definitely not easy to do. But I'll have a note on my
calendar that John Kim's vest just happened in March, and then I'll be like, oh, okay, might be a good
time for me to catch up. I won't say, congrats on the recent vest. I'll say, you want to grab a
coffee, or do you want to catch up about this? Or, hey, I saw that you were speaking at this conference,
love what you spoke about with regards to this. You got to find ways to connect with people outside
of just shoving them into a job. And so I would say something that I've learned and
become very good at is starting with the foundation of relationship building, gaining trust from
people, because once you have that, then people will hear you out on jobs and people will listen
to you and actually trust your advice from a career direction and perspective. But that takes time
to build that. And it's definitely not going to be built by just chucking things at the wall
and seeing what sticks with people and seeing where you can shove them temporarily. In fact,
that will make them lose trust. And once you lose trust, and it can't.
it's impossible to get it back.
It's interesting how one of the recurring themes of our chat so far is just play the long
game in every way, which takes more time.
It kind of sucks.
They have to put in all this time ahead of time before you really need to get something done.
But what you keep coming back to is just that's how you end up being successful as a recruiter,
as a product leader, as a hiring manager, as a founder.
A million percent.
Yeah.
Yeah.
And it's really easy when you've got a quota to hit and you've got, you know, people to provide
for and a mortgage to just.
think about the numbers, but you have to play the long game because people aren't just a commodity.
It's so much more.
And one of the perks of working with the recruiters, they have done that already for you.
And so I was going to ask, when does it make sense for a founder to engage with a recruiter
like yourself? And when should they not?
Engaging with recruiters sooner rather than later in a proactive way is always a positive thing.
It's just sometimes companies aren't at the stage where they can necessarily hire a full-time recruiter because of resources and how expensive it is to bring in an exec recruiter.
So, you know, having someone that you can bounce things off of in a more informal capacity, bringing in someone like a talent advisor that can help in a consultative way, those types of things, a million percent.
Leaning into the venture firms that have backed you, which is a lot of what I'm doing right now, that is definitely.
areas in which early CEO founders should be leaning into that and trying to get as knowledgeable as
possible. And then I would say typically series B feels, you know, series A dependent on the check
size and then series B feels like a good time to bring in a couple key big players if the company's
well positioned to do so. And bring it meaningful time in-house recruiters or a firm?
Probably bring in a firm. Yeah, that would be my recommendation. I think you can bring in one or two
recruiters in the early days, like seed if it makes sense for the company and they're growing
quickly. But it's all kind of case to case. The fact that you're you're kind of off the
table for most founders, and that you're at GC, which is a part? And is that true? Like you basically
at this point work for general catalyst founders. Is that correct? I am supporting all of our
GC founders in the consumer and crypto portfolio. That being said, I spend all day, every single day,
networking and chatting with amazing entrepreneurs, people that could be founding a company down the
road and need some advice, great people that want to help in an advising capacity. So it is,
I would say, 50% networking, 50% actual parachuting into portfolio. Got it. Okay. That's cool. I didn't
know that part. Yeah. So outside of that, what he suggests founders look for when they're looking
for recruiter in this second to last question? What are signs that this is a good firm and good
recruiter? What should you be looking for when you're looking to hire a recruiter? Either
in-house or a firm. I think it's important to provide them with some direction and then see if they
can recite it back to you. You know, tell them the types of things you're looking for and then say,
did that resonate? Because I'd love to hear from you what you took away from that and what you
think we should be looking for. And then kind of off the bat, ask them for a couple candidate ideas.
You know, don't give them time to just go call other people. In real time, ask them for some candidate
ideas. Where does their brain go? Who are people they would call tomorrow on this? The more that you
can get that dynamic relationship formed before you even go to search, the more you can determine
whether this is someone you want to calibrate with. So yeah, I think just putting them on the spot a
little bit and asking them to show their work rather than just sending over a deck of searches
that could have been done by other partners or could have just been done by other people on their
team. You want to actually understand who this person is. So that first one,
question is testing their listening skills and their ability to actually hear what you're saying
and what you're looking for. And then the second is, okay, now how quickly can we get calibrated
on what this profile should look like? Awesome. That is great advice. Very tactical. Any final
words or wisdom before we get to our very exciting lightning round? This has been awesome,
by the way. I think more generally, the advice is just treat people like human beings,
build or poor, play the long game, and gain trust. And that takes time. And so those are the
most important things from a recruiting standpoint is being able to tap people and have them feel
like you genuinely have their best interest at heart and that you care about their career and
life outside their career. And so I think that's what makes for a really good recruiter.
Simple advice, but often forgotten and easy to overlook. Awesome. All right. We've reached our
very exciting lightning round. I'm going to give you six questions. Whatever comes to mind, we'll go through
them real fast. Does that sound good?
Okay. Yes. Let's do it. What are two or three books that you recommend most to other people?
The Power of Now and you are here.
Wow. Awesome. What are favorite other podcasts that you listen to other than this one?
I mean, there's tech ones, but your own backyard because I went to Cal Poly. So that one hits a little close to home.
Wow. Haven't heard of that. Cool. What's a recent movie or TV show that you've watched that you've enjoyed?
Top Gun. I've watched too many times.
The new Top Gun.
And then TV show, oh, it's all trash reality. So I can't, I just can't tell you.
I understand. My wife has that. She can't tell anyone.
That's my one secret. All right. Okay, great. We'll move on, but that's great.
What's a favorite, oh, this is interesting. What's a favorite interview question that you like to ask?
Or maybe you've seen someone ask. I love the good strengths and weaknesses question.
I think it's really good to see how people self-analyze themselves.
What do you look for in their answer?
That's the sign that it's well-answered.
Honesty. Authenticity.
Can read right through a work-too-hard answer or a perfectionist-type answer.
What are your weaknesses? Let's talk about it.
For real.
So that one, I think, is always a really good tested character.
What are some favorite apps right now?
I've been playing around on Be Real.
I mean, I love Spotify, straightforward.
And then I've been on Strava. I've been running.
So those are the...
That's a good combination of apps.
That's like a full life.
Thanks so much.
Trying to be.
Final question.
Who else in the industry would you say that you most respect as a leader and thought leader
influence type person?
My first boss at a college, Joe Suleiman, is awesome.
He's always taught me to lead with that relationship-based approach.
And it's really so easy to say that you do that, but then to actually do it and live it out
for the people that work for you as well as the people that are in industry.
and speak of you is something else.
And so he's always taught me to do that.
And I just learned a ton from him.
And he's just incredibly smart and in tune with what's happening in industry
and makes great stances and opinions on how to navigate those types of things.
So he's someone that I have an immense amount of respect for.
Sounds like an amazing person.
Lauren, this was excellent.
I feel like this is going to be useful to so many people, product managers, founders,
other recruiters, all kinds of other people.
Thank you so much for doing this and making the time.
Two final questions. Where can folks find you online if they want to reach out or maybe collaborate with you and learn more? And how can listeners be useful to you?
Yes, absolutely. And also thank you. This has been so much fun. They can reach out to me on LinkedIn. I happen to be on that one quite a bit. So definitely can DM me there, can send me an email and I can shoot you that over as well. And then the way they can be helpful is if there's people that they think the world of, shoot them my way. If they have questions around, you know, best ways to go through an interview process or how to navigate different things, please, by all means, like a huge part of my job is trying to help people that.
are going through this for the first time.
Happy to just be a sounding board or help in any capacity.
So if you're an awesome product leader, you want to see what's out there.
Find Lauren on LinkedIn.
Is that the best place to find you?
That's perfect.
Awesome.
Thanks, Lauren.
Thanks so much.
Appreciate it.
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