Let's Be Honest with Kristin Cavallari - A Slutty Valentine's Day with Justin Anderson

Episode Date: February 24, 2026

Justin is back to recap another unhinged LA trip. This week, I'm downloading him on everything- from the slutty Valentine's Day party I went to, to a spray tan that left me feeling vulnerable and exposed. We get into the actors and athletes that I saw on Valentine's Day without their girlfriends, we discuss cheating, aging, and we even touch on more clone/Epstein theories. A word from my sponsors:FX's Love Story: John F. Kennedy Jr. & Carolyn Bessette. Watch now on FX, Hulu, and Hulu on Disney+ for bundle subscribers.ADT - Visit ADT.com to learn more.Taylor Farms - Grab a Taylor Farms chopped salad kit. And get your salad together!FIGS - Get 15% off your first order at wearfigs.com with the code FIGSRXNutrafol - See thicker, stronger, faster-growing hair with less shedding in just 3-6 months with Nutrafol. For a limited time, Nutrafol is offering our listeners $10 off your first month’s subscription and free shipping when you go to Nutrafol.com and enter the promo code HONESTMill - Try Mill risk-free for 90 days and get $75 off at mill.com/HONEST and use code HONEST at checkout.The Real Real - Get $25 off your first purchase when you go to TheRealReal.com/ honestFor more Let's Be Honest, follow along at:@kristincavallari on Instagram@kristincavallari and @dearmedia on TikTokLet's Be Honest with Kristin Cavallari on YouTubeProduced by Dear Media.This episode may contain paid endorsements and advertisements for products and services. Individuals on the show may have a direct or indirect financial interest in products, or services referred to in this episode.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

The following podcast is a dear media production. This is Let's Be Honest with Kristen Cavalry, a podcast all about getting real and open on everything from sex, relationships, reality TV, wellness, family, and so much more. And just a fair warning, there will probably be some oversharing. Is this thing on? Hello? Is this thing on? You know what that's from? What is that from?

Is this thing on? Oh, Britney Spears. Yeah. Put another down in the J-Vox screen. Of course, I know. Wait, can we just really quickly not to like, we're not going to get into this whole thing. But the Epstein file is called Britney Spears a clone, okay?

And I just want everyone to know. I fucking told you. Did you see that? How did you miss that? I had so many DMs of people being like, you were right. You're like all over this. I'm all over, but I didn't see the Britney thing.

You're going to have to look that. There's a lot. Well, whatever. It's probably true. But I feel like they're putting so many weird things in. to throw people off. It's like, no, there's a lot of really stupid stuff in there. Like some of it's fake, you mean?

Yeah, on purpose to get people confused and to get people talking about the conspiracy stuff when we need to focus on the men who actually did stuff. Wait, really? This is so bad and I honestly feel like it could like really mess things up in the world. Wait, I never even thought about that. Because people are getting so distracted with all the like random things. Right. But I mean.

Right. So my new thing is I'm like Selena Gomez is a clone. Yeah. See, so you focus on. all of those things. And by the way, if they are clones, okay, let's out them or whatever. But I'm like, that's not my focus right now. Right. I want to take down like pedophile. We got disgusting people. Yeah. Like I don't care if Selena Gomez isn't a real person. She's not though. That's not her. Okay. Now I'm back on TikTok, right? I was all for six months. I'm back. Now I'm seeing all this stuff

again. There was one video I saw of like, of her doing an interview from, I don't know, let's say, 2015 every year and like the evolution of how she's become like this? And you're like, I'm sorry. She used to be bubbly and alive and had big personality. So the point of getting a clone is so that they can continue to make money off of her forever. And then they comply with whatever agenda, you know, they want. Ooh, the agenda. Work. Okay, but that is not what this podcast is about as much as we would love to do more conspiracy

series. I don't ever want to get into that again. Oh, I love it. Well, I love it too, but I don't like to do it on a public platform. I know. Because also people get insane about some of this stuff. I'm open to anything. I don't need to be the end-all be-all.

but like some stuff I like to dig a little deeper and be like what is the what is the reason like why are you making Britney a clone you know and people get really fired up about Bernie I just think secretly I want to hope that she's just safe blah blah whatever that's that's that look at her teeth okay anyways but she can be whatever you guys want to be the teeth well she doesn't wear a retainer anymore

and they had her on lithium for 10 years okay fine that's not it your teeth don't change that dramatically anywho anywho it's nice to have you back on the couch oh it's so wonderful to be here we I figured it's been a minute since you were here and so we miss you all of us i speak for everyone who listens to this podcast everybody misses you well that means the world to me it's true and life's just been boring right like the last few months we haven't done a whole lot i haven't been traveling usually i always travel i did just go to la for the first time in months and i remember one time on the podcast you were like

every time you go to la like you have stories and you get a date and like life just starts moving right So I did have a pretty jam-packed long weekend, and I figured I just fill you in. Yeah. And she kind of saved it for the pause so that I can react in real time. I mean, you told me like little things, but I was like, don't tell me too much because I want to like hear it on the podcast. I know. So we're just going to run through my, I guess I was there for three days. Okay. So we'll, I'm going to glaze over a few things. Oh, well, actually, no. Okay. So first. So let me back up. I've known I was going to go to L.A. this particular weekend, which was Valentine's Day weekend. I knew I was going to be there for, probably close to two months because it was based around an uncommon James photo shoot. We did our spring summer campaign. Okay, so I knew I was shooting that Friday and I just was like, I'll stay in LA for Valentine's Day. There's nothing here for me. The kids were with their dad. Okay, so I was going to hang out with my friend Sophie, who she runs the aloe gym in L.A. So she knows everybody. She's so

gorgeous. She's like, so you're kind of growing up. I love it. Yeah, I would love her. I did a little talk you on social media. You guys would love each other. She's actually moving to New York, so she'll be a good one for us to know in New York. Anywho. So she, we always knew that the two of us were going to go to dinner, have a night, but that was sort of the extent of it. Okay, so I'm on the plane. It's Thursday morning. And by the way, I went Thursday. Well, obviously, I had to go the day before, but filmed a podcast before in Conrad. Right when you got there. Immediately. I literally landed, got straight into her and makeup and went and filmed before. And it was so good and I can't wait for you guys to hear that.

Did a little teaser that'll come out and just the two of you. Just the two of us. And you got the deep? Yeah. I mean, I think, yeah, we talked about a lot, a lot that I don't think she's talked about publicly. So I'm excited for that. A lot of like reality early 2000s like just the impact. I love this.

I love the two of you coming together. Said it. The world is healing. Yeah, it is. It's healing. Okay. So stay tuned for that. Okay.

But on the plane, you guys, my flight was like 7 a.m. Sophie's texting me and she's like, I have a party for us if we want Saturday night. I'm down. I'll do whatever. So she sends me this link that you have to click to request an RSVP. And she's like, put my name in, you know, you'll get accepted. So I'm like, okay. So you have to download a specific app for just for the RSVP. I wouldn't go. This is so gay already. Luckily, I was sitting on a plane. I had nothing else to do. I'm like, dude all your homework. This is fun.

So, okay, I download this app. This app thinks it's Raya. It's so secretive. It's like Fort Knox getting in. You know what that would immediately tell me is that everyone's a dork that's going. I know. No one cool is going to do an application process to go to a party. Excuse me.

You're a nerd. You are not wrong. Justin. You're not wrong. It was bad, right? Hold on. Sorry. Well, okay.

I have different, what are, what's a descriptive word? Adjective. Adjective? Thank you. I almost said adverb. I have different adjectives to describe it. Wow, I really, sad. Oh, my God.

I'm using Chadgy BT too much. My fucking brain is mush. So, okay, so I download the app and the dress code says, wear white if you're single, pink if you're heartbroken, black if you're horny, nude if you're slutty. And in my head, I'm like, I have black leather pants and a nude top. Wait, so what is that combination? Sluddy and horny.

Ooh! And that's real, though. That's real. You knew it was a manifestation. You packed the right outfit. That, again, though, that specifically... That's a nasty party. That's a dirty party.

Like, I was like, what the fuck? So I... Who needs to know who's horny at the party? So I try to screenshot it? No, no. I get blocked. You cannot screenshot! No!

Yes! It's like Raya! It's recommended you? By the way, at least on Raya, if you screenshot it, you get that screenshot. This, nope, blank picture. Fort Knox, I'm telling you. So I'm like, what is this party?

Where am I going? part of me is like really excited and part of me is like the fuck am I about to get myself in too. Yeah, it's like the cabal. I know. What was it labeled down at the bottom? Who did it say sponsored the party? Jeffrey F's Dean and friends. Sick.

And Pete diddy. Oh my God. Okay. So I'm like, this is happening. I'm going to be a slutty, a slutty horny chick running around. But okay, so that's that. So I do the podcast with Lauren. That's great.

Then by the way, I did a spray tan. Do you ever do spray tans? I used to and I love them. but you've always been so anti-sprayed tans. I've talked to you about this. I do the ones where you'd rub it on at home. I love it. Self-tan.

Yeah. The problem is is when it fades. I don't care what anyone says how good it is when it starts to fade. Like I can't do with it. Also, I'm like such a clean freak when I start looking like dirty. Like you see those little spark. Yours looks good though. It does.

Well, and it's kind of faded. But so I've, I never have done that. I did. I'm on Dancing with the Stars a thousand years ago. But I've done it. This was my third time doing one. And I've done them for shoots.

That's always been for a specific reason. in. The shade that they did is really good. Well, and I, I got to tell you, like, it does make you feel good, especially in the dead of winter. Oh, my God. Yeah. I was like, no, I'm into this. But okay, so this is my third time ever doing one. The first time she gave me these little teeny tiny underwear, right? And it's like a little string. And I'm like, I guess this is normal. Second time I did one actually in Nashville. Same thing. I wore a little disposable underwear. Okay. So this time I was like, do you have the little underwear? And she was like, oh, I was telling her about my slutty Valentine's Day party on Saturday. She was like, well, what if you have sex?

I was like in my head, like, that doesn't happen with me, but okay. I was like, no, you're right, right. She's like, so don't wear the underwear. What does that mean? Does she going to spray your teeth? Justin, I'm butt naked. I'm butt naked. I'm facing her and then she goes, okay, squat.

Oh, no. And she spreads into my vagina. No. Why? I've never felt so vulnerable in my life. You were violated. I know. And then I turn around and she has me squat again.

For the butthole? No. It wasn't like in my bottle. Kristen, do you know that I, I wouldn't even do that myself. Spread my butt. She could have put self-tanner down there. I am standing naked in front of her like this squatting. Just labia out.

Oh my gosh. I just spilled my water all over me. Oh, I'm just so excited. Okay, so that's how you what? I don't think that anyone needs to have a tan pussy though. Like there's no point to that. It's like, when does the. the sun see it. You're not laying out with your koochee or like your legs spread outside. Like I like a tan

line. I like when certain areas are a lighter color. I agree. You get to contour and shade. It was it was an intense experience. I'm not going to lie. I like having tan lines on my boobs even. Yeah. I love tan lines. I think tan lines are so sexy. I know. I think it's sexy. Scoot does a lot of self tanning. He will net he'll always keep the tan lines and stuff. One time I was putting it on for him and I started going over his butt cheeks and he like got so upset. He's like, I don't want my butt to be tan. You want a little white booty. Yeah, you want a little white booty.

I know, because it is it sexy. Yeah. It's like, oh, you're not supposed to be seen. And it makes sense, you know, like. Yeah, my labia were tan. Oh, my God. My labia were this color. Okay, so I did that.

We had our uncommon James shoot. It was amazing. It looked like we were shooting in Italy. We rented this awesome villa. That place looked incredible. It was incredible. And Palos Vertes, did I say that right? Pallas Verdes.

Berdes. Palace Berdes. Pales, Berdes. is Spanish. Pallas Verdes is beautiful. Beautiful. I'd never been. Well, it's so cool because you can't really get there easily. Like you have to get off the freeway and then drive way out to the point. I love, I went to parties there in high school. Because that was close to where you were, right? Yeah. Because you were Pasadena. Pasadena. Pasadena. But so Palisvarez was kind of like the beach, like when you go straight off the beach. Oh, got it. We went to like high school parties and stuff there.

It's a fun area. I bet. Beautiful. Beautiful. Yeah, I had never been. So that was really fun. Okay. So, so Saturday. now is Valentine's Day and this is the night of the big party right so you do the shoot on Saturday Friday Friday so Lauren Thursday Friday shoot it was damn good busy well then I took my team to Nobu and Malibu after the shoot Friday so yeah it was non-stop well and Saturday just running on fumes got my hair done like it was that every time I go to L.A. because I try to make my trips as short as possible it's just like boom boom boom but it kind of works there like you get in the groove of L.A. and just do so much stuff like it gives you an energy you don't have

to sit on my couch and watch TV. I would be on the couch, watching TV. Absolutely. Actually, I did watch Tommy Lise. Did you watch Love Story yet? No, no, I need to.

You have to watch. Did you watch the finale to Tommy Lise, by the way? So you want to know something? This season's pissing me off. I can't stick. I didn't watch the finale yet. No, no, I didn't watch.

But I can't stand how Lucy's letting that dickhead walk all over. I can't stand Stephen at all. Like, he makes me angry. I want to throw something at the TV. So I stopped after episode three. I'll go back. can watch all of it, but I was just like not in the mood.

I mean, you know my thing. Like, I'm super protective of girls and I hate when girls, like the stuff he was doing to her at the beginning of the season is insane. I would murder him. Murder. Like as a friend or a brother, I would murder him. So I'm like, I can't watch this stuff. It was making, I'm angry right now.

I know. Like it makes me angry. Those really toxic relationships. I love Ridley though. Did the rest of the season kind of chill? I still have the finale. I mean, no, that show is definitely fucked up. But she wises up a little bit.

Yeah. I needed that. I think you should keep watching it. Also, it's not that many episodes. Really? No, the finale is already aired. Okay, yeah. Okay, cool.

I'll get back into it. Okay, great. I'll take a Xanax and watch it. So our plans sort of shifted, right? So again, Sophie knows everybody. So we ended up going to an athlete's house. I'm going to be very careful about saying, I'm not going to say a lot of names because. I will.

I was kidding. I don't know. I just feel like... No, no, no, don't say names. It's not worth it. I don't want to be like that girl, right? Then ever people will be like... It looks dorky. You can't come into my... The thing is so crazy is you want to say it just because it's part of the story.

Right. But then at the same time, it's like those fucking dorks who like will just pop into the podcast. She's a name dropper. Right. She's saying it to stay relevant. But then also you being like sitting here being like, I can't say it. Then they're like, oh, she thinks she's too cool to say the name. So you can't win. I can't win.

You can't win, bro. So just do what you want, you know? I think probably out of respect for these people, I won't say their names because I think if someone was like, and then I went to Carson Cavalry's house for a pregame, I'd be like, that fuck, bro. Yeah, that would bother you. You know what I'm saying? It would bother you. Yeah.

Yeah. Because it's kind of like they're what trying to use your name for a story. Right. Makes sense. So I totally can appreciate that. Okay. But anyways, we went to an athlete's house. You guys would definitely know who he is.

Okay. So it's Sophie and I, Jocelyn, who works for me. She stayed. And then this male athlete. And this male, they're like, oh, Sabrina Williams. That's all cool.

Just want you guys to know I'm hanging out with males. Look, I'm soaking wet from my water, by the way. Yeah, I looked like I peed in my pants, but I didn't. So, okay, and then later, tie-dye. Then later a model came, who was beautiful. Female or male? Male.

Or sorry, female. This one was female. And then a male. Another male. And that was our crew for the night, okay? So from there then. Was the other male the big deal? No, no, no.

Okay, okay, okay. So this, he, this guy has grown up in L.A. and he's like an L.A. staple, but like he's not famous. Okay. He just knows everybody. I think he helps put on events and stuff. So then our little crew, we go to, I will say this, the owner of Raising Cain's house, Todd. Raising Cain's chicken.

Chicken? Yeah. Yeah, fried chicken. Who's, by the way, one of the nicest men I've ever met in my entire life. He's got to be loaded. Loaded. He owns all of them. So, by the way.

He bought Sam Nazarian's old house. Did I tell you this yet? I did tell you that part. Have you told them what your connection to Sam Nazarian? Okay. The people? Yeah, our friends are. Our friends?

They're listening. This isn't just you and I. Sam Nazarian used to be an LA staple. He owned SBE, which owned Katsuya. Katsuya hide all of the big restaurants and clubs. What are you laughing at him at? I'm just laughing because that was like your time. This was my time.

You were like Mrs. SBE. Mrs. Svee. And so I was at this house all the time. So when we, I wasn't paying attention, we're in a car, like chatting, blah, blah, blah. We pull up and I'm like, is this Sam Nazarian's house? I was like, I feel like I'm in 2006. It was such a trip to walk back in that house and be like, whoa.

That little part of L.A., though, and like that street in particular, everyone just recycles the home. It's so true. It's so, like Keanu Reeves lives right there. Leonardo had house there, Toby McGuire. Yeah. They've been there forever. Yeah.

But everyone just moves those houses around. I didn't know Keanu was there. I'd go knock on his door. I just rewatched Point Break. Oh, he was so cute back there. He was so cute. I loved the way he talked. He was so stupid.

I love him. People were like a little bit stupid like that. A little dumb. So we're there. There is an actor already there. Now I'm not knocking name names. And then another actor came. And I'm telling you, it was like 2006.

I was like, where the hell am? Why this is such a trip. Okay. So then from there, we're like, what are we doing? Where are we going? Big actors, by the way. Like, two of the biggest actors ever.

And I wish you could tell stories because it's so funny, but that's for another day. I know. Or a book. And you know what? Honestly, if the one wasn't nice, you would have. I probably would have. But they were nice and it's for respect.

They were nice. And that would, people would really get riled up about that. So. But I did like that he came in immediately, remembered you, said hello. Like that's been probably 18 to 20 years since that's been.

Because there's a thing that people do in L.A. So much where they played like, like they don't know. I love when somebody's just like, oh my God, great to see you. It's been so long. Also,

I do that a lot when I don't really know if I know the person. Well, right. I do it all the time. Like, oh, good to see you. You know,

like, we've met before, right? Well, to one of the actors, I said, it's nice to see you. Well, he's a dick. The little one. Yeah, he's a dick. Yeah.

And he was like, kind of looked at me. And then I saw him like, look, I think he honestly was trying to figure it out, though, but like, I've met him before. Yeah.

But then the bigger deal, it's always like the people who think they're bigger than they are have this ego and they have to be like, put you in your place. But the other guy was great. Yeah. Great. Anyways. Okay. So then from there, those two actors did not come out with us. They had big nights the night before.

So now we've added Todd, owner of raising Keynes to our crew. Great guy. Great guy. Love it. And we go to this. It was literally called slutty Valentine's Day party. Okay. So we get there.

And it is probably the crazy. security I've ever seen for a party or an event. There is security just to get through the gate. And by the way, you need a QR code to get through the gate. And then once you get through the gate, there's a checkpoint where you have to check in, see that your name's on the list. And then they put a sticker over your phone. Okay. Everyone needs to calm down. Over your camera. And also, you know, where my mind would go, they're trying to trap me in. That's not for safety people getting it. I would immediately be like, they're trying to keep me in this party. Because I'm sorry, you could go to Ellen DeGeneres' house for a party.

I mean, who would want to do that? But you'd go to, and there's like one person out front. Like, no one's breaking into a party. So I would be like, this is freaking me out. Why are you trying to keep us in here? So shady. So I'm like, Jesus Christ, what are we about to walk into? By the way, the sticker that they put over your camera was lips.

So we walk into this house, you guys. It's straight out of the 70s. I felt like we were in the movie Boogie Nights. It's like the blue lights in the pool, pink in the palm, trees, just like a few people mingled around here and there. But then they're like telling us to go, go down the stairs and walk down. So we're walking down these stairs. And I'm not kidding. All of a sudden, it's like we turn the corner and we enter a nightclub. There's like a nightclub at the bottom of this house. Even with a room with like a cage with a stripper pole, we walk in. We all, we all said the

same thing. It was like the door open and this gust of heat just hit all of us. And we all were like, Ugh. You like body heat? Like the heat from all the dancing, the sweaty just and the energy was so sketchy. It felt like a drug den. It felt like hookers. I didn't see one. I couldn't sit here and be like I saw any foul play.

I didn't see any drugs. I didn't see. But it just felt like that. Yeah, like that dirty energy. Dirty air. We were there for, I'm not kidding. Four minutes. Okay.

So you get in there. Were there a lot of. It was packed. Famous people? I don't even. I don't know. Not that I wasn't like that. So who's the security for?

That's what I like don't understand. That's what's so weird. I feel like something really got that. That was like a ditty party. That must have got really weird later that they were like trying to like keep. Had to have. Yeah. Because otherwise what is what?

I mean I would understand maybe if there were tons of famous people and then they were trying to but whatever. I didn't see any. But I also. We were like in our little group being like we get the fuck out of here. Like we were all so freaked out. Let's talk about Taylor Farms. You know that. feeling when you make a salad. You're like, oh, wow, I'm so healthy. Look at me. I'm being a responsible

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How did you get here? I don't know. So that's why it also felt like 2006. I would probably like that party. It was fun. We were dancing and having a good time. I feel like people in that environment just like really let live. People want to have a good time.

Yeah. There's nothing like shady like people just having fun. Yeah, I don't go to that one. That you would have loved that one. But like, remember in the early days, you're just like chasing a party and like running around LA. That's all L.A. is though. Because it's like I remember that thing. You go out.

Everyone's chasing something. Yeah. trying to go to the next party or whatever. I'm like, you guys just make it fun. I'm always like, you can make anything fun. By the way, we said later, we were like, we should have just stayed at Todd's house with our crew. Yeah, that's always the best night.

I know, I know. Why do we do that? Yeah. Chasing a good time. Yeah. I mean, I was excited to go out because I haven't been, I mean, when was the last time I went out? Like out like that, yeah.

Like, we've gone to dinner. But, I mean, I haven't been to a party or anything like that. God, I love a party. I know. I love a party. It is fun. It is fun. But I don't like a dirty party.

Not a, I don't want to be around any of that dirty energy. Dirty party or a ditty party. No. So we also, we were there for like probably 30 minutes, honestly. And then our original crew from earlier in the night just went back to the same athlete's house, had a little nightcap, did a little recap on the night. And by the way, when I got back to the house, I went to open my, I saw the lips on my, my camera. I opened up my phone to the camera.

It did absolutely nothing. What do you mean? Like, even though there was a sticker on it, it didn't. cover a goddamn thing and I could have easily taken a photo. I was like, you fucking rookies. You don't even know what you're doing. So. What are they covering the camera for?

Why I'm, I'm so obsessed with this party. Well, that's what I don't understand. Like, I feel like it got real dirty later. Because by the way, we walked in at probably 11. Yeah, Kristen,

so by like 1.30 in the morning, it was probably nasty there. That's how, and honestly, that was the vibe that I got. I was like, who are these people? And the outfits that these girls were in.

And by the way, like, I'm not one to judge, but like, they took slutty. Very literally. Like in just lingerie and stuff. Just, yeah. I don't know.

It was interesting. Oh my God. It was interesting. You were wearing a full gown though? Yeah. Long sleeves. Yeah. Very good.

I like that. Baggy pants, baggy top. But black and nude. Well, you're Doc Martin. Just come stomping in. Oh my God. So that was my night. I didn't go to bed until 3.30.

I woke up at 8 and got straight on a plane and came home. But here is the good news. I met a really cute. guy at the rap party. He's not a rapper. Not a rapper. And he's friends with my friend Sophie. And so we've been talking. He got my number and we've been talking. What are the vibes like? He's really sweet. He's really cute. He's younger than me, which is a deal. By a lot. Nine years. That's, I've said, I've got two, two big boundaries moving forward. Older than me and already has kids. Yeah, I like those rules. Yeah, but here we are.

No kids. 30. Are you guys chatting quite a bit? We're chatting and I think he's going to come to Nashville next weekend. No. I think so. Not stay with me, but like just take me on a date. Give me to dinner.

Really? Yeah. Otherwise, I'm not going back to L.A. until the end of March. So, which I guess is like a little, like a month, a little over a month. It's not that bad. But it's interesting because you literally have said on the podcast, every time you go to L.A., you meet a guy. I haven't talked to a guy in months. Here.

Yeah. Well, and no, I haven't even had one man in my. No, but it is true every time you go to L.A. But it's also just so much more social. Yeah, I don't do anything. I want to say people are more approaching, or are coming up to you more in L.A. Yeah, there's just a lot more going on. Well, on a night like that.

I mean, I don't know that I've ever really had a night like that in Nashville. I just think it's different. And way more single people in L.A. I know. That's what it is. So many more single people. There's way more single people. You never meet single people here.

Like, when we go out, everyone's with their partner. Yeah, that's so true. We're in God's country. married, Christian, you know. Everybody got their partner. And they don't believe in divorce. Yeah. So they could be very unhappily married, but they're married.

And so I'm S.O.L. shit out of luck. But it is true every time you go to L.A. Also, like, you just kind of have that vibe. Like you like that like amped up energy. You know, it's like meeting a guy out like a, in a situation like that. You like when it's fun and exciting. Yeah. Yeah.

So like I get it. It makes total sense to me. And I really am manifesting meeting someone in real life. Yeah, and I also think that guys in those situations or in L.A. have more confidence coming up to you. I agree. I feel like some people here where they wouldn't approach you. Like, oh, she wouldn't be into me or like, whatever. People think that that's your world. Totally. And I, this guy is really confident. And I do. And I saw some pictures of you. I mean, you were on Cloud Night. You were like, living up, hands up in the air. I was having a good time. Yeah. She's my party girl. I was like, it's Valentine's Day. I'm going out. Valentine's. Valentine's is a good day to go out, though, with like, you're single. Because if you think about everyone's, who's out is single.

Whoa. Well, by the way, though. So one of the actors and an athlete that I saw that night are in relationships. And they were not with their significant others. And I was like, hmm, that's interesting. Like, I cannot imagine if I told Scoot I was going out on Valentine's Day. Like, I'm just going to go out to a party. Like, I'll catch up with you tomorrow.

On what planet does that work? I don't understand. So they're not real relationships. Or like, right. That's not a real relationship. And I don't even like Valentine's Day. I think it's so stupid. Like it's just, I hate those kind of forced holidays or whatever.

Especially if you're really in love. Like scoot and I are going to like give each other. We did like give each other cards. I can't imagine you guys. No, but I was like sitting at a dinner together with a bunch of dorks on Valentine's Day where the food is so disgusting. The food is so gross. Yeah, I would never go out to dinner.

But anyways, I would also never go to a party by myself. No. I was sitting there like where are the girls? Where are the girls and what? do they think right now? So confused. Wait, another thing, too, I wanted to talk to you about is, can we talk about the word dating and what it means? Because I think guys and girls have different opinions on what that word means. Like, and I was just having this conversation with someone. To me, right? If you go on one date with someone, you're like, I went on a date with him.

Absolutely. Great. If you go on two, three, four dates, aren't you like, I've been dating him? I mean, what do you say? Yeah, but then what about if you talk to people who live in L.A. mostly or like New York who are going on multiple dates a week with different people? Like they could go out to dinner with you on Monday, then another girl on Wednesday, then see you again the next Tuesday, which isn't necessarily wrong because you guys aren't committed to each other. But then so he's dating three people?

So I know. So that's where it gets tricky because I think for guys, guys think dating is when you're in a relationship, which is sort of to your point, right? Like you don't just go around saying you're dating everybody. Yeah. I guess to one of the podcasts I did where I think it was with you where I was talking about how I was seeing that guy in L.A. And or no, maybe it wasn't with you. But I was like this guy that I'm dating, meaning I've been on a few dates with him. And it became a headline. Everyone was like, Kristen's dating someone new. And I was like, no, oh my God. I'm not. That's not what I'm saying. But I feel like it's also the way that you say it. Like if you're just kind of like talking to a few of your friends who know your story and you're like, oh, I'm. dating this one guy right now or whatever. But when you say it on a public platform like that, people think that you're making an announcement, being like I, yeah, but no, I'm with you. It's like you can date someone, quote on quote, for weeks or months before you're even committed.

A thousand percent. So what do you say in that like the first month and a half, let's say, where you've been on a handful of dates, but you're not exclusive. You're not committed to each other yet. What is that called? I've been seeing this guy or I've been hanging out with this guy. I remember when I was saying I was talking through the hanging out thing. hanging out, you know. Okay. But to me, if I said hanging out, it sounds like I'm just sleeping with them. Yeah, I was.

So that was my story, you know. Right. No, but yeah, I think that everyone takes it different ways. But dating to me feels like you are seeing them. You're exclusive. Yeah. Yeah. It's different for everyone, you know.

I haven't been single and so long. I mean, it used to be called going steady back when I was, we used to say going steady. Going steady. Yeah, I'm going steady with her. And you give them a ring. A promise ring In elementary school Did you guys ask people out?

Yes You would like officially ask them I asked her out Like we're going steady No I actually We didn't say steady My mom used always say steady We're like mom don't say that

Maybe you're right Maybe we didn't say it Going out with Going out Who are you going out? Yeah my kids even say dating Do they really? Yeah but probably because I do

With them Okay so the reason that you're asking About the term dating Is because a few of the guys that you saw that night said, oh, I'm dating somebody and you're like, where are they? No, I think for some reason it's just been on my mind lately. And I've had this conversation with a few people. And I've gathered that men definitely have a different opinion about it, which is dating means we're excluded, like we're in a relationship. But I think,

I think I struggle with like, well, what do you say? Like, even that guy in L.A. when I was like, I'm, I guess I would be like, I'm kind of dating someone. This new one? No, no, no, no, no. Oh my God. I was like, girl. No, I haven't even hung out with him yet. Oh my God. That was embarrassing. I'm in a relationship. What if I was that crazy?

And I came on the podcast. I was like, so I'm seeing something. And I haven't even hung out with him yet. And then he heard it. And he's like, this bitch is fucking crazy. Oh, my God. But even I think that the last guy that you talked to in L.A. saying, him saying he's dating you, that's a little aggressive.

I don't know that he said that. Oh. I sort of. You were saying it? Yeah, I guess I said it on a podcast, but not meaning like, no, no. And I know why. That's what I'm saying. Like when you say it with your friends, like, let's say you and I, you're like, oh, well, I've been dating him for a few weeks. Or like, oh, that one guy that I was dating or whatever. I would get what you're saying, meaning you went on dates with him. Yeah. You had a couple dates. Yeah. But then let's say you were talking on a podcast and you're like, I'm dating this guy in L.A. That sounds like you're committed to that person. One of the media outlets because Jack, my publicist has called me. And I was like, no, Jack, you have to kill that.

He was like, no, that's not what I said. And he was so embarrassing for you. I know, I'm like, I'm not dating. I don't want people think I'm dating someone. So I was like, you have to kill it. And he was like, they're saying you said it on the podcast. You said, I'm dating someone. I was like, fuck.

That's not what I meant. I was like, I've been on multiple dates with him. Ew, I hate that. That's so embarrassing. I know. So then I don't think. I mean, he would love it though. The guy if he heard it.

You know it's so funny though. I don't know if he ever saw or heard anything because he never said anything. Or maybe put it together. could have thought it was in old. Maybe. And I guess I can sort of. Or he's probably smart enough to know, like, she's not talking about me because we're not dating.

Because we're not dating. Yeah. He's like, who's she dating? Oh my God. That would kill me, though. That's the thing. The podcast is not good for my player mentality.

But I also think that people who listen to you enough, like you talk real casual. Like, if you were actually dating someone, you probably also wouldn't talk about it. Like, if you were really serious with the guy, you probably wouldn't talk about it.

Until I knew what it was. Because you'd be protected. But saying like, I'm dating people. I'm dating multiple people. You know. Exactly. I'm more interested in like, so going back to the guys in LA, like when you have a girlfriend, like, do they say like, oh, my girlfriend's not here tonight or this girl that I'm dating? So this.

Because I would be so offended if like back in the day when I was in Scoot and I first were really together and I were in love, I would want him to be like my boyfriend, my partner, you know, like if he was like, I'm dating this guy, bitch, excuse me. Right. Because it's like a diff. There's like layers. Yeah. One of these athletes the other night said he had a girlfriend. Oh, straight up girlfriend. Yeah, he did say girlfriend. Okay, we like that. Yeah, but he was still single on Valentine's Day that night. So where was she? I know, I know. That's so weird to me. I thought it was very strange. And especially the actor, like very public with his girlfriend, very and solo. But so many of those things. And that's just where LA is so creepy and gross because of somebody of those things, it's like a, uh, uh, uh, setup or it's like a deal. Like we have a deal. Also, some of those kind of guys, like, they set the term. I'm with my boys on Valentine's night. Could you imagine a guy telling you like, I hang with my boys on Valentine's. Okay, go suck your boy's dick then. Like, we're not

together anymore. Goodbye. Like, I can't believe the stuff that, unfortunately, women will put up for some of these men. I know. So I'm like, ew. Well, then I was like, okay, maybe I shouldn't just assume the worst, right? Maybe like, she's working in another country or, you know, There are variables. I guess it just doesn't have to be the worst case scenario. She's like a traveling bartender? What do you mean she had to work on Valentine's Night? Like who works on Valentine's Night?

Traveling bartender? No, like if she's a model, let's just say, she could be like on location. Oh, out of town. Like a good example actually is I was in L.A. shooting for Uncommon James. Maybe my boyfriend was back home in Tennessee. Yeah, I mean, that would make sense. But you wouldn't have gone to that part.

if your boyfriend was at home. You would have been home eating sugarfish with Shar. Right. You know what I mean? You're right. I would have been a sure. That's the thing that I'm saying like what because when you're going out to parties like that in LA it's not for like just a gab you're not going out to like meet buddies

and chat you're not going to a party where you wear horny outfits or sexy horny. You're right. Okay. So that's my issue with these men is they put themselves in situations that shit could go down when like yes. And also what about out of respect? If you were with a girl and you loved her, and let's say she is a traveling bartender and she's at a big gig that she has,

you know, cross seas or whatever it is. You know, but she's out of town, but you love her, right? And it's Valentine's Night. Wouldn't you want her to know that you were staying home? I know. Like, I would do it for scoot. I'd be like sending pictures of myself in bed every couple hours. Right.

I wouldn't be out at a party on Valentine's night. It's sketchy parties until 3 a.m. Like that's the love night. That's you're looking for love and sex and like to fill a void on Valentine's night. Not me, apparently. No, it's true. No, I haven't hooked up with anyone in a fucking minute. I haven't even kissed.

I haven't kissed anybody in years. That's a bummer. It's whatever. And everyone, you know what? Whatever. It just pisses me off that sometimes they hate. I'll get always from guys is like, ugh, like what a slut I am, right? Oh, God.

Get a lot. I'm like, if you only knew, if you only knew the lack of any physical touch that I've experienced in my life in the last six years. But also, like, you couldn't. easily count how many people you put like you are the furthest thing from a slut i saw this video on uh instagram the other day where there was like the sex counselor and she was talking and she literally said the number of she was like i've slept with over a hundred men and she was like this woman like in her 50s or whatever and she was just being talking about it she's like so blah blah blah the thing was about connections and sex whatever she's a therapist all the comments were all these men being like

a hundred men you're disgust and i think a hundred is a big number but i'm not judging it but guys can do that and brag about it. Yeah, that's what I'm saying. Like, think about a DJ. Like, how many women has Diplo hooked up with? Any famous person, any famous man has hooked up with over a husband. Yeah. Yeah. I'm also so not a slut shame or whatever. I'm very sex positive. Very, I think people should explore whatever they want to until they're in a relationship and they commit to somebody. But like, I would never judge that, you know? I wouldn't either. Well, we wouldn't judge anyone on fucking anything. Like, go do whatever the hell you want. But you know who judges. Well, whatever. We've talked to. People who are just...

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What did we make that night? We love a steak and potato. Did you help him make dinner? Yeah, I did. And I got him a beautiful flower arrangement, wrote him this really amazing card that even got him to like tear up a little bit. Scoot does not cry.

And he's words of affirmation so that goes a long way. Yeah, he lit up when like he loves that kind of stuff. He told me he's like, Justin got me flowers and he hasn't done that for a really long time. Yeah, it's been a long time. We're not like flowers people, you know? Yeah, I get it. But it was perfect for that day. Cute. Did he get you anything? He gives me something every day. It was just the gift of school. I mean, the way that that man takes care of me. No, it was like, yeah, he's just over the top with everything.

No, he's the best. But we're, we're that couple that always says things like, we're not getting each other anything. This past Christmas, we're like this year is not about gifts. We're not doing gifts. You know, like, because we buy whatever we want and for each other. We're constantly giving each other. things. I don't like forest holidays. I don't either. Like they bug me. It makes me mad to be like out with all the people looking. Even when I went to get the flowers, I'm like, I'm such a geek right now, you know? Like, you go on Valentine's Day. Yeah. Yeah, I went on that day. What? I'm going to get like a week old flowers, an arrangement from a week ago. Oh, that's a good idea. I would just really cute place by Urban Market. They have a cute. Which place? It's a flower shop with a coffee shop. And it's adorable. Right there. Right there. Yeah, right on that corner. It's really, really cute.

They have good arrangements in there. Good to know. Good to know. I love that. Well, good. And then we saw Wuthering Heights. Oh, my gosh. That was so good. Sobbing. We were sobbing after. You know, it's so funny. The online discourse, is that the word for it? Like, the way people are talking about it online, people are very fired up about it. They either love it or they hate it. And I don't quite understand it because I know, I guess they changed. I read the book. They changed quite a bit from the book. Why are people so afraid? of like change. There's been like four Weathering Heights movies already. Oh, have there? Yeah, there's been a bunch. I went back and rewatch the really old one the other night. And it's terrible, to be honest. The Margarabi one's much better. And that's my opinion.

If you love the original, you love the original. But like it's a made up book. It's a fantasy book. It's not like they're changing history. So why are people so mad about that? I never read the book. I, to be honest with you, knew nothing about the story. It's actually a bad book. I've heard that. It's not, it's not very. I remember reading it in junior high and then I read it

again in high school. And when we talked about in class, we were all kind of like, it's kind of a dumb book. I actually haven't heard anything good about the book from anybody. So I feel like what they did with this movie actually made it really interesting, dark, twisted to me. I loved it. I loved it. I thought the movie was so good.

And I guess if you have an idea of it already in your head, to your point, people don't really love change. And so it's hard for them to wrap their head around this new version of it. I had no, no expectations going into it. I want to see it again. I haven't stopped thinking about it. I want to go back for sure. And I want to see in the theater.

I want to see it in the theater. Because it's like the whole experience of it. You really get sucked into the movie. It's just absolutely beautiful. And I could watch Margarabi for hours. She's just so stunning to look at. Her face is perfect. Yeah, beautiful.

I did her hair for years. She's so hot. And she's so sweet, right? She's the nicest person in the world. And she's one of those actresses that's very, like, dedicated to her craft. Like she was always like taking notes while I was doing her hair for projects that she was working on.

She's very into it. She's not into the fame side of it. You know, she's very chill, the nicest, coolest person. And I love when you see somebody like that, just get tons of success. I mean, when you look at Margarabi, I mean, her movies bring people to the movie theater. No one goes to the movie theaters anymore. No one's going to see it. But like that movie did really, really well.

Barbie crushed it. She's killing it. She has that thing that just really sucks you. And she's just like an old school actress, like beautiful, obviously, but then so good. There's like, she's so. beautiful, but there's this girl next door quality about her that makes her relatable and like you want to be her best friend. She's not threatening because you like her so much. Who would be a threatening actress? I think Angelina Jolie was really threatening for women. Oh yeah. And that bitch

cheated. So we didn't like her for that. America hated her. Yeah. One time I got a call to get to do Angelina's color and I had to say no because Jennifer was my client. I imagine if I tried to do two of them at the same time. But then also with that, I never judge people like I mean whatever I know, but there's got to be some loyalty, right? Yeah, yeah, yeah. But I'm saying also, from the outside, whenever there's a cheating scandal and everyone wants to hate the cheaters

or whatever's happening, I'm also like, but how long did they know the relationship was over? You know? Because there's things can happen. And I'm the most like, I love relationships. I'm so protective of mine.

But if something did happen between when we cheated, I'd be like, the relationship was probably over for a while, you know? And I'm sorry, but we've probably talked about it. Why are we blaming the woman? Always you blame the woman.

We have no idea what Brad Pitt told Jennifer, Angelina Jolie. For all you know, he was like, no, we're done. It's over. Exactly. You just don't know. It's the guy. That is the biggest thing.

He's the one in the relationship and who knows what he's saying. And then to add on to that, that's why I always get so mad too when people want to blame the woman, if the woman cheats or whatever. Because for a woman to cheat means she's really unhappy. She really wants to get out of it. For a guy to cheat, it could be anything. The guy could be in a good, stable relationship and just want to hook up with someone on the weekend.

Because they think with their little brain. Yeah, they think with that little. Women, it's emotional. Yeah, so it's emotional. And that's why I'm like, that's why I always give a little bit of grace to the woman. Because I'm like, why was she in that situation? And you're exactly right. What was the guy saying to her?

Oh, we haven't slept together in months or we haven't even seen each other for a few months. Exactly. Because guys are, they're shady. Very shady. Yeah. Very shady. You know who got a lot of that. hate too and she's a friend of mine and I love her but Leanne Rhymes and you know Leanne.

We love Leanne Rhymes but when Leanne Rhymes her thing happened she got so much hate and then now look at them they've been together for like 15 years the most beautiful couple and everyone wanted to hate her because the country music world is really hard. Yeah. I mean they like shut her down because he was with Brandy right? Yeah. And I think Brandy's great and fun to watch on TV and I love her on social media and stuff But who knows what the relationship was like at that point. He could have been miserable for a long, whatever it was. But my point is, because that's right when I started doing Leanne's hair.

We became friendly. I love her. Greatest person ever. But it was like terrible the stuff that was being. You know, you post pictures of your clients online or whatever. So I would like post a picture of Leanne Ryan Rhyme's hair color. The comments were just like, she's the guy. She's a cheater.

I was like, oh my God. Wow. You know, like it's so if people do, they do it to the women. There are those instances where there was maybe a little overlap, little cheating involved, but they do end up together, like, for the long term. I mean, I can think of a couple other relationships. And so, you know, again, you just never really know what's going on or being said behind closed doors. Have you ever been cheated on? Oh, well, yeah, different things. Yeah. I think so. I don't really have 100% proof, but I've got like pretty concrete proof. I wasn't asking

that for a specific reason. By the way, I really was like blanking. But now you're a I don't remember. I remember last doing that little investigative work. Well, and I didn't know until after the relationship was over, which honestly, thank God. Because had I found out in the relationship, it would have ruined me. But when I found out a couple years later, it was like, you know, thanks for validating what I already thought. I suspected. I just didn't know for sure.

It is the worst thing in the world and what it can do to somebody. Like, if you think you're in a relationship and you are really in love and you think, but then to find that out, it is not to. not to, what's the word, minimize it in any way or make an excuse, but when this alleged cheating happened, I can kind of understand it. Because we were, that's big of you. I was, we were kind of done. And, you know, if I say anything more, people definitely know who it is. But like, I can, I can understand it. Let's put it that way. But even that, I mean, that's really mature of you. There was one relationship that I was in that I got cheated on. I found out. And it just crushed me. But like my Scorpio side, I got the worst revenge in the world.

I can't even say it on here because it would, yeah. People would judge you. Yeah, they would judge me. Yeah, yeah. It was pretty bad. I love that about it. When I need to get revenge on somebody, it's like scary. I love that.

I want to, will you tell me as soon as we're done? Yeah, but I was so broken when it happened. You know, like I really had no idea. And looking back on that particular person kind of had like a sex addict. Like when people say they're a sex addict, they really were. It had nothing to do with our relationship when they would try. When they would travel, they would kind of look for that. But when I discovered it, I was broke.

I was much younger too, you know. That is so hard. Yeah. It messed me up for a while. And there is nothing worse than like being in a relationship where you feel like you need to check someone's phone or like, look. I will never do that. You know. If you have that feeling, you already know.

And that's how I found out. I had this weird feeling and I started going through stuff finding, you know, and searching. And then sure enough found it. You know. If you have that feeling. Yeah. You have that feeling. But I mean, Scoot and I've been together.

for like 12 years, I don't know his passport on his phone. But I would never even need to, you know. And like that to me is the most important thing in the world for a relationship. I can't be jealous or not trust people. To me, everything is about trust. Without that foundation, you have nothing. Yeah. I will say too, in my experience, if someone is projecting, right?

If someone is accusing you of cheating, it's because they are. Yeah, that's 100% what it is. And I used to be like, I am literally not doing anything. That's so what it is is the projecting because then also that one situation where they were cheating on me would always accuse me of it or be like who are you talking to? I know you're talking to other people. I'm like on what planet? Also like I wouldn't be in a relationship if I was doing that. Like to me cheating is so dirty and gross. I'd be way out of the relationship before that happened. But the projection. And then once I found I'm like, that's why you were saying it. Because you were doing it. You piece of shit. Yeah. It's so gross. The way people manipulate and turn. And that's why I always feel bad for people in young. younger relationship. That's why that show drives me crazy. Tell me why it makes me so mad because it's like if you pulled yourself out of the situation and realized that Stephen is a pile of shit, girl, like move on. It makes me so angry when especially younger women have to deal with that stuff, the way

that men are sneaky and disgusting. I think that's why that show is so relatable because I think most people at one point in time have experienced that toxic relationship. And when you are in it, you can't see it. And all your friends are like, he's crazy. What are you doing? And then when you finally get out, you're like, whoa, holy shit. So that's why women are so drawn to that show.

I think so. People love it. They love that show. I think it's relatable. Yeah. I mean, I, you know, maybe I wasn't in college, but like I've been in those dynamics and it jives you fucking crazy. Yeah. And we've talked about it.

I mean, we love a little bit of, like, toxicity back in our 20s. Like, I loved a little bit of toxic relationship where now I could never do it. If there was anything toxic about, even my friendships, I can't do any of it. But I used to love a little drama back in the day. Yeah, I think me too. You know, you kind of, I think in your early 20s, it's like you thrive on it. Yeah. And even the people that you're attracted to you kind of are looking for a little bit of drama.

Like, you know you're not supposed to be with them. As fun as it was. I'm like, it just sounds exhausted. I don't miss it at all. I like peace now. Yeah. Too much, apparently, because, yeah, I'm not myself every night. It's fun to have you back.

I love being here. I'll come back at any point. I know. We'll make it more of a regular thing. If the date goes well, we can regroup, but don't hold your breath. Let's have them on. I'll interview him. My new boyfriend. That would be so fun.

He comes into town. You guys go to one dinner and then the next morning and I do a recap with the two of you. Could you imagine if you asked him that like, hey, I want to do this thing? That would be so funny. Which, by the way, I would love it. But like, could you imagine you'd like pitching that to somebody? Right. Oh, my God.

We've done worse, though. We've thousand percent. I always think about this one time that Kristen had this guy come into town and we loved him. It was a great guy. I really liked him. He sent you the singing video. Oh. So we loved him.

He was fabulous. I really liked him. He flew into town to meet Kristen for the first time. No, no, you went there first. Then he came to Nashville. We all went to dinner. We go to a party after Kristen left him with scoot and I at the party. Because I had my kids that night.

We partied with him all night and then you went home. He stayed at the party all night. All night. It's a group project when people date you. I also think I allegedly. I allegedly. I think that night too, I was like, I'm over it. You were.

You know what's interesting is like I can like a guy in their city on their turf. As soon as someone comes into my world, I'm like, ew. Do you know that that makes so much sense to me though? Because it's also like I'm way more fun when I travel. Like I love to go to a new city where. But yeah, if I had to be single and someone came here, I'd be like, oh, you want to sit on the couch and watch a movie. Like I'm so boring here. Like get out.

Or then, yeah, I couldn't do it. I think I've only had one guy come to this new house. And I didn't, that was not an ick to me. But like. Oh. Right after my boobs. Right after my surgery. No.

You had who. Oh. God, one day though, like when we're old and gray, nobody cares anymore about anything that you say. One day will say all the names. All the names. Because that one was really, really funny. In 10 years, we can tell them.

that story. You sent me a screenshot of you guys texting the other day and you sent it to me. Said like Greg Gilmore at the top and you're like, oh my God, look what he's texting me or whatever. Because it's been going on for a long time or whatever. And then I was like, I also, we talk about this a lot. Kristen always is like, Justin, I think that you're losing your memory because I don't remember things a lot. So I was so afraid to ask him. I know. Greg Gilmore. Who the fuck is Greg Gilmore? So then finally I wrote to her like, Kristen, I'm so embarrassed to say this and maybe this is my memory, but I don't remember who Greg Gilmore is. And she was dying. Oh, I'm so sorry. That's a fake name. She had to put a fake name because her kids know who this guy is. My kids would be like, what the fuck? That was funny.

That wasn't even a thing though. That was just like a talking thing. But it was like, what the fuck am I doing? But I'm telling, in 10 years, we can say all the names. All the names. It would be funny. God. All right. Well, on that note, I go tan my vagina. Are you to do it again? Are you, now are you going to be like a springtank girl? I think I'm going to be addicted. It makes you feel so much hot. I love it. Also, I cannot look at my white body right now. When I get out of the shower, I felt so gross, honestly, before my spray tan. And now I'm like, I'm back. Well, and living here in Nashville, my God, my skin's never been this color. You didn't know you could be this color. I did not

know I could be this white. Also, my hair's never gotten this dark because it's not in the sun that much. But this time specifically, what month are we in February? Yeah. But February, ugliest month of the year. You want to know why? Because we usually work in a beach trip in the winter and we didn't. We haven't. And I just look like a potato, like a white potato. It's so gross. We just need to be tan and blonde this summer. Yeah. Yeah, we do.

Also, I just read some. Oh, my God, it's been stressing me out. They say that the two times that you age, the quickest in life are at 45 and 60. I just turned 45. I'm not kidding. I know I look great. I'm a beautiful.

I'm a handsome man. I'm great. I take care of myself, whatever. But all of a sudden you start looking yourself. I'm like, that's not mean. Or you like see things. Like your face just changes a little bit. I'm also like, I'm not worried.

I want to be a handsome man and just like go with age or whatever. But it is a real thing, 45. And then also the way that you feel, I feel a little bit older. I feel a little bit older. Yeah. And just kind of like, you know, the other day I went to jump off of a step. And I said, should I? Should I jump off these two steps?

Can my knees handle it? Or my ankle's going to be all right? I don't know. Yeah. And then I've- What have you jumped and fell? But that also made me think now I'm doing Pilates like three times a week because I'm like, I am going to keep this ball.

working for the rest of my life. And I've also been saying these things, you know, I do all the big, like, muscle things. But now I'm like, I want to be, I want to be Pilates. Yeah, I want to be able to stretch. I want to be able to move. Yeah. All of a sudden, I feel it.

It's interesting. Shit. But I also just makes me want to, like, party really hard. Like, you got to. It makes me want to party. You do, you have to, like, keep the game going. You have to keep moving. Yeah, yeah, yeah.

Because everyone says the quickest way to age is to just be sedentary. Sitting on your couch. Yeah, sitting. So you got to keep moving. I'm like, we need to keep our vacations going. I need to be at a discotheque. A thousand percent. In Greece, you know, I want to have my hands up in the air dancing.

I will keep you party. But it keeps you young. That's why you see also those rich kind of guys who like they do all the yacht trips and stuff. They're like those dirt bags. They're hanging out with these younger people. It's going to keep them young. It's going to keep them moving. It's true.

You know, then we look at like one of our grandparents or someone who sits home all the time and they just limp around. You got to keep it moving. Yeah, you do have to keep it moving. And you need like goals, even like body goals. Like, okay, I'm going to be on the beach this summer. I just, you want to, like, look good still. I think you look the best you ever have. Thank you.

I feel, I thank you very much. I appreciate that. It's little things that you notice about yourself where it's just kind of like, oh, that's a little bit different. Yeah, I know. But you go with it. Guys have it so much better. It's so much easier, not better.

You're allowed to age. Yeah. But women, it's like so hard on women. That's why I will never judge anybody who gets any work and people talk shit about, just do whatever makes you feel good. Because you have this, I mean, I don't think it always. looks that great. I mean, yeah, right. But you can't judge because I just ordered some fucking pillow off TikTok. Now I'm back on TikTok. I'm ordering all these things. And it's like, yeah,

so that your face isn't, because I'm always smushed. I have that too. Does it work? I don't stay on it. Okay. I also got that huge eye, fluffy eye mask that's supposed to keep you from. I can't do any of those things. I rip all the shit off in the middle of the night. People were trying to tape their mouth. I put tape under my eyes in my head. Well, you look good. So something's working. Or rip it off in the middle of the night sometimes. I woke up this morning, all four were still. And I was like, oh, it was a good night. It's a hard balance, though, because they say the biggest thing is like water and sleep, right? But then you got to keep moving.

So I'm sleeping like an animal and that's creating wrinkles. Yeah. The fucking reason is. I've been sleeping like, oh, that's good. And I want to know what it is because I want to keep it going. Because, you know, we've been talking about that. I've been having issues with sleeping for a while. But all of a sudden, Scoot and I, like, wake up in the morning.

We don't set alarms or anything. Yeah. But we wake and we're like, do we just sleep nine hours? Oh, great. So something's really good right now. My mom has said that there's just like ebbs and flows of sleep like throughout your whole life. And usually I sleep really great. Couldn't sleep to save my life last night.

Really? I looked at my phone at 11 and I was like, how have I not fallen asleep yet? And then I'm like, I have to wait up in seven hours. Yeah, I went to bed at 9.15. What was on your mind? Be honest. Honestly, work stuff. Like good stuff.

Collabs and stuff that we have going on. But it just I'm like really excited about a lot of stuff right now. So I'm like playing it all in my head. That's why I don't work anymore. Smart. No dreams, no goal. I'm sleeping like a baby. No dreams, no goals.

No dreams, no goals. But the excitement stuff does keep you up. Yeah, because I'm like, okay, I don't want to do this and I'm going to do that. And it's, whatever. Anyways, on that note, I love you. Thank you for being here. I love you so much. Thanks for having me, you guys.

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