Let's Be Honest with Kristin Cavallari - Athletes Are Dirty Dogs

Episode Date: February 6, 2024

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The following podcast is a Dear Media production. This is Let's Be Honest with Kristen Cavallari, a podcast all about getting real and open on everything from sex, relationships, reality TV, wellness, family, and so much more. And just a fair warning, there will probably be some oversharing. Welcome in to Let's Be Honest. I'm your host, Kristen Cavallari. We're back with Justin Anderson. I'm so happy to be here.

We're happy you're here. So, guys, hey, we're going to catch you up to speed on some stuff. And also, in honor of Valentine's Day, I'm going to tell you guys about a Valentine's Day that I had one year. That was pretty. A little story time. Just a little story that was pretty hilarious. You love Valentine's Day, huh? No, I mean. I'm not a big Valentine's Day fan. I'm not really either.

The last few years, I've spent it with my kids. Like, I'm taking my kids to dinner. Oh, because kids is cute. Last year was really cute because Camden, my oldest, he brought his little girlfriend at the time to dinner and they had their own table. And then Sailor Jackson and I sat at the table next to them. But Cam had like an actual date. Like we went and picked her up.

He opened up. Yeah. And like, obviously I was there, but they were at their own table. And so Cam- As a kid, I'd be like mortified at my family's. He'd be like, Mom, leave me alone. He's a little Casanova. He really is.

He brought her flowers. He went to the door, picked her, got her and opened her car door for her. I mean, it was like, it was so cute. But Cam didn't single this year. So it's just a little heartbreaker. So the four of us are just going to go to dinner. What are you and Scoot going to do?

We don't take it that seriously. I mean, we like are so romantic and lovey and always together already. Every day is Valentine's Day. Every day is Valentine's Day. No, we're not like over the top romantic. I just don't like Valentine's Day and Scoot doesn't really either. Like, I don't like those forced kind of holidays. I agree.

You know, like. Like, you have to be romantic today. Yeah, yeah. No, so we'll do something cute. Well, I fucking hate it because I'm single. No, I don't care. But good girls love it, though. Like, some girls love Valentine's Day.

You know what I used to love was Galentine's Day when you would spend it with your girlfriends. And, like, I used to, when in my in my early 20s, we would go out. Like we would go to the club on Galentine's Day, which was like every other weekend. Because you like love when you're looking for guys. Yeah. And that's actually a really good time to go out, obviously. It is. Go out on Galentine's Day because it's like the single people are out.

Yeah. Maybe I should go out. You should. Sorry kids, actually I can't go to dinner. Mom is going out. There's not where to go. That's a real thing though. Where would we even go in Nashville? Scoot and I are go out. You should. Sorry, kids. Actually, I can't go to dinner. Mom is going out. There's no way to go. That's a real thing, though. Where would we even go in Nashville? Scoot and I are with you.

This is our mountain bike day. See, here's my problem. By the way, I'm getting a t-shirt made that says, he's not my boyfriend. Because Justin and I were just in Park City. And I'm chalking it up to this is why guys don't come up to me. Because I'm always with Justin. But I really think that there is something to it. Because we travel all the time

together and... We look like a couple. Yeah, we don't like hang all over each other but we're always like deep in a conversation. We're like really into something because a lot of times if someone's together, well no, I guess I guess if you look like a couple though you probably wouldn't be talking to each other. You'd be on your phone the whole time. That's true. You look like the most in love couple.

Yeah, it looks like a first date. But then I'll always try to play it up. Like, I really try to do, like, my gay mannerisms. It kills me when there is a cute guy around. Like, we had snowboards dropped off, and Justin turned on his gayness. Like, so hard. So hard. Yeah, I think he was kind of uncomfortable.

He was like, okay, I get it, you're gay. That part kills me. But also, you, at first glance, and even even just in conversation don't come off as super gay You're not like a pretty quick. I mean I can turn it off Yeah, I could turn it off. That guy was funny though. He was funny and I guess and he was like, oh I'm done after that I didn't pick up on anything You guys at the end of it was at a point where we were trying on our snowboards like trying on our gear and everything And at the end cuz it like started turning like flirty like we were all like laughing or whatever and i was like and then really letting him know that i

was gay so i think he caught on yeah and he's like yeah this is actually my last appointment of the day like i don't know really you thought you'd be like you want to grab a drink yeah well that's cool i'll have fun going home i like don't pick up on shit like that at all okay but anyway so yeah so justin and i just went snowboarding in Park City. We had so much fun. While we were there, there was a snowstorm happening in Nashville. This is the first time in, you know, since my divorce, I've left my kids with a babysitter. I've had, I have my kids full time right now. I've had them for a while.

And before I got them full time, this trip was booked. So we were like, we're going. So while we're in Park City, my babysitter is calling me that there's a leak in my basement and the septic system. So let me back up. When you live in the country, everyone is on a septic system out here. It's very glamorous. And this is all very new for me. Right. But so my septic system had gotten full, I guess. So now there's a leak. It's not, there's not like shit leaking from my ceiling, but there's water. Okay. But so that's going on. I'm like, oh my God, this is pure mayhem.

But okay. So I come home and none of the toilets on my main floor work. My shower doesn't work. You can't use the dishwasher. You can't use the laundry machine. So it's like everyone is snowed in. Like you can't leave the house. There's nowhere to go.

So I got, when we got got home it was still snow so you could kind of maneuver around but then it it melted a little bit and then it got freezing cold so everything was ice so my driveway is like this like it is very steep and it's very long and anytime this happens i literally can't leave my house but jackson has slept at a friend's house so i did have to leave to go get him i slid down my driveway remember you got stuck on my driveway one year or two i slid down i was like literally two inches away from hitting a tree the only good thing about that was the tree would have stopped me from going into a ditch so now i'm super shaky because that shit scares me really badly that happens it scares the crap out of you because you have no control yeah well i've never had that happen before because i'm from california but like that just happened during this one too for me i slid into somebody's yard like went straight into their

yard and you have to just like let go of the steering wheel and just like go you can't slam on the brakes because that makes it worse you have to let off the brake yeah you actually can kind of steer a little bit but you have to let off the brake in ice. We were actually texting and then, we were texting and then like five minutes later, you're like, I just went into someone's yard. I was like, what are you doing? Yeah, like Kristen's like, wait, you're out driving right now?

I'm like, yeah, it's fine. Those streets are totally fine. I'm going to my workout, no problem. And literally right after I just slid right into someone's yard. Oh my God, stay safe. But I'm like a really good driver to know. Cause in Park City, we watched that guy drive. Oh my God, stay safe. But I'm like a really good driver to know. Cause in Park City we watched that guy drive.

Oh my God. He was a pro. He was so good. There was like a snow storm going on in Park City and this one driver that we had was driving so well. He was doing like little taps on his brakes and like turned to the side and he was like telling us how to do it. So I was thinking about that when I got home.

Look at that. Yeah, I felt a little proud. Yeah, we almost didn't know if we were, cause we stayed at the Montage, which is at the top of Perk City. It's really Deer Valley. And we didn't know if we were going to make it home one night because it was such a bad snowstorm. But we had the best drivers. Yeah, we each got like a little lesson on driving in ice and snow. By the way, that drive was so funny because we were like full on in the craziest conversations ever.

Like an embarrassing conversation, to be honest you and chewy were talking about housewives we were talking about housewives but then we were like going into like every vert like so anyways all of a sudden we see the driver in front it was like his shoulders kept shaking he was laughing so hard but then it turned out because i thought he had no idea of anything right but then all of a sudden he totally knew who you were he was like a fan he was yeah yeah football came up i was like oh no. He was. Yeah. Yeah. Football came up. I was like, oh no. I was like, what did I say?

He heard a lot that night. He heard a lot. So hopefully he doesn't go and tell anyone what we were talking about. Okay. But anyway, so I still have to go get Jackson, right? Because he's at a friend's house. So now, okay. I'm a little shaky, but I keep driving down my driveway and I have a gate.

And right before my gate, it's also steep. And that was pure ice. And I started slipping. So I had to turn my car so that I was sideways because otherwise I would have ran into my gate. And yeah, so I was so fucking shaky, but I get Jackson. Okay, fine. Now we're coming up. I'm like, coming up is easier. My car gets stuck. So I'm like, I'm fucking done. I am not leaving until all this ice is melted, which I did not do. So, okay. We were stuck at home for, I think it was four days. Camden had a friend here for like four days. Like no one could leave. Anyways, our first night out of the house, we went to the Presgate. We went to a hockey game. I have

season tickets. It's actually through my company. So I don't go to all the games. Most people from my company use them, but it made me think of, do you remember the hockey player that DM'd me like two years ago? Oh, yeah, yeah, yeah. He started to talk. I absolutely did. Okay, so you guys, here's the deal on the hockey games. I have season tickets two rows behind the visitor's bench. So all of the visiting players, I'm like right there.

And my kids are obnoxious. And they're always like, hey, hey. So I get a lot of DMs from hockey players after games. Which is- It's so fun how close you are. Cause- It's very fun. All we do is talk about which ones are super hot.

We're just sitting there like, okay, I'm looking them up like, mm-hmm. And hockey players are exceptionally hot. You know what it is? The ass. The ass is phenomenal. The ass and the thick thighs. It's also just like that, like super masculine,

like toughness. Well, and a lot of hockey happens in the north. And I feel like northern people. Canada, Minnesota. Like it's the nicest people. Like they're the. Yeah. We should go to Minnesota some more.

We should go to Minnesota. Really nice guys there. And Canada. Oh, I love Canada. I love Canadian people in general. They're the nicest people. The only thing with hockey is a lot of them are too young for me, but that's neither here nor there.

Well, you know what's so funny? When we were sitting there, we were talking about, like, I think they're our age. I'm older than you. I know. I think they're our age, and then, so I'll Google a player. I'm like, Christian, he's 22 years old. 22. 22. I gotta tell you, though, like, some of these younger guys look

older. Oh, they totally do. They look our age. For sure. Yeah, absolutely. Our age. Well, we look really young. That's what it is. We look young.

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It's that confidence. Yeah. But hockey players are dirty fucking dogs. Well, athletes are dirty fucking dogs. Athletes are dirty fucking dogs. Oh, okay. I've got two stories for you about athletes. Okay.

So, okay. We're just going to call him Hockey Man. So, this one particular guy DMs me and i'm like i remember him from the game because he was like kind of looking at me and i was looking at him remember where it happened where he did like where i was when he damned me we were all in the bahamas together no we had already been talking so actually actually this is what happened how did i know he was following me the bahamas with me youot. I'm not talking Bahamas with me. No, no, no.

Yeah. Just to clarify that. We're not talking about that trip. No, what happened was going into the game, I knew that this one particular player was following me because I will sometimes on Instagram, you can see like the verified accounts who will follow you, like the activity. So I had noticed that this one guy was following me. So during the game, he was like kind of looking at me.

Even my kids were like, he's looking at you. I'm like, I know. Oh my God. So he DM me the next, I think that night and I got it the next morning. So we just kind of started talking, but his profile picture was him and a girl. So he messaged you, messaged you from an account that has a picture with him and a girl. Yeah. It's a private account.

So I can't see all of his other photos, but the main profile picture is him and a girl yeah it's a private account so i can't see all of his other photos but the main profile picture is him and a girl wait he's a verified professional athlete with a private account yeah i thought you couldn't be private if you're a very yeah you can't if it's not in a business yeah i want to make my account private you do just because it's like why do you want these random looky-loo people like i'm jealous of people who have a private account i actually there's something to it. I agree. Well, that's like kind of what close friends is for me,

I feel like. Yeah. Anyways, so we're talking a little bit and then like a day or two into talking, I'm like, by the way,

who's the girl in your profile picture? And he's like, oh, I was waiting for you to ask. He was like, it's my ex-girlfriend, but he's from Canada. He's like,

but I don't want, you know, all of our friends and family back home to start questioning it and you know i just want to like that is the biggest load of bs on earth before we announce it i go okay of course you do of course you do you're almost chill what why how the fuck the fact that i believed, also, you just probably didn't really care. I didn't give a fuck. Not like girl code, but you just were like, if he's telling me that, then whatever.

I'm taking things at face value. But also, yeah. Face value, I like that. Thank you. Very good. Thank you. So I'm like, okay, great. We continue on the conversation.

So we're like talking. We go to the Bahamas pretty soon thereafter. And now we're like sending photos to each other. And it's like getting like, not hot and heavy like no it was for sure not not not anything like sexual or like super flirty but like you guys were messaging a lot back and forth and then that's my favorite game so i remember like we were like in the water and we're like messaging like let me see what you say no not breakfast so we were having like fun with it right and and it like escalated to like not sexy pictures but

like sending pictures to each other and then i don't i must have like literally woken up and i was like this guy is so full of shit this is his fucking girlfriend so i said to him hey hockey man you and i need to stop talking because i know that that's your girlfriend in your profile picture and he just didn't say anything and then remember he kept texting me like nothing had happened no but we're missing out the part like i really did do a deep thought oh yeah yeah i found the girlfriend she was recently posting like because i went into like tag photos i found another friend of theirs and you're a detective yeah i love it like you have to do it and i found a picture of them like a tagged photo where they were just together yeah that's so then you kind of called him out and you're like why are we talking because also by

the way like you're so not interested in that kind of stuff i want to pull up the the text message and do you know i'm already kept fucking texting me too i mean the way you just go for it like you don't give a fuck if he's listening to this I'm just like oh my god this is what oh my god this is what it was so he was gonna come to Nashville that's right after this season he was gonna come to Nashville so I go so you're gonna come here and hang with me yet your profile is still your ex-girlfriend no response okay so that was it and then like two months later he goes you look amazing in your stories because you called him out he knew he goes quiet for a while and then he just comes back here's the thing too like a guy

like that he's clearly in a relationship obviously obviously he has to have the picture because the girl the girlfriend probably forces him to yeah because he because he's a dirty dog. Yeah, because she knows he's a cheater. And then his profile is private, so girls that he's talking to can't see pictures of him and his girlfriend. Like, that is so sketchball. Like, that's so dirty. Dude, he kept texting me a month later, I love ya, miss you with a heart. I've never even met this guy. And then five days later, miss you, cabbie.

Remember at one point, like, I thought it was a fake person. Yeah, yeah. I was like, this isn't real. I saw him in real life. Because it's like the way that he was messaging with you, it was so weird. It was like. Then I go again. I'm pretty confident you have a girlfriend, so probably best if we don't talk.

And he didn't respond. And then since then, he has texted me twice and I just didn't respond. These guys are fucking trash, man. I almost like a large part of me wants to say his name just to like save this girlfriend. No, that's so terrible. But it's not my place. It's not your job to do that. It's not my place.

So I'm not going to. I'll message her. You get on it. I'll message her this podcast directly. It was your boyfriend we're talking about. But so, okay, so guys are pretty scummy so another but wait what do you think that his purpose is just to feel i think it's to say i'm talking to kristen that's what i'm like his teammates yeah i think he shows people like look i'm actually

talking to her or whatever yeah because by the way the guys who do cheat and do this stuff are telling their guy friends because it's a brag for them yeah but whether it's i'm not saying just with me i'm saying with like any girl it's like yeah look i still got it i got it ew that's so gross guys are trash not all guys i love a lot of guys no there's a lot of really good guys but there's still a lot of dirt bags i just don't like because the majority of like straight men that i hang around like they'd be so turned off by that like i agree i feel like we live in an age now like i even think about like kevin the guy that we Like, because the majority of, like, straight men that I hang around, like, they'd be so turned off by that. I agree. I feel like we live in an age now, like, I even think about, like, Kevin, the guy that we train with.

Yeah. Like, the most solid, salt-of-the-earth guy on earth. And imagine one of his friends showing him that. He'd be like, dude, you're married. He'd be like, what are you doing? Yeah, and it's just like, I don't know. But I guess there are guys who still think that's cool. In the last couple years, though, I have had so many married guys, guys in relationships, married guys come after me to the point where I'm like, what the fuck is going on?

Is it something that I'm giving? I've had to say to multiple people, you know, that's like all these people you're married or you're in a relationship. Like, what the fuck are you doing? Stop texting me. I wonder what that is, because it really is a thing. I mean, there are a lot. I can think of five people. No, I know.

I can think of ten just for you. I'm like, I don't get it. Okay, but anyway. Okay, so I'm going to tell you guys about another athlete story on Valentine's Day. So this is in my early 20s. I was probably 21 or 22. And there was a baseball player who at the time was a very big deal. He played for San Francisco. That's all I will say. And it means nothing to me. Honestly, probably means nothing to 90% of the audience.

I'm like, what? Women love sports. Yeah. So this guy, he was neighbors with one of my audience women love sports yeah so this guy he was neighbors with one of my friends and so we would see him out all the time and he was like really interested in me apparently and i was like single he was single i thought he was single and but he was always so drunk every time i would see him out like there was one time he was coming up to talk to me and he literally fell on the table at a club like bottle service like the whole thing he fell on the table and i was like oh my god get that away from me like you're so embarrassing but every time i would see him out like he would always come up to me and was like fucking badgering me and finally i don't know why but i was like all right i'll go on a date with you you can break her down ladies and gentlemen why literally a full persistency

by the way that just happened with someone else like should i just go out and he's been chasing me for two years i don't know why the first because i also do you think like persistence like really turns kind of hot you like love it i'm like you want me really badly. All right. What's going on? I mean, you know, I didn't want it for two years, but hey, why not now? But then it's always a letdown because you know at the beginning if you should or not. I fucking know. Yeah.

I just agreed to go out with someone else that I've literally been saying no to for two years, but whatever. Anyways. Okay. So I go out with this guy. So now I'm like kind of dating this guy to his credit i will say i think at one point in time it had come up that like he was dating someone in san francisco like when he was in san francisco he sort of had a girlfriend and i was like okay i mean i respect that you're telling me that oh he told you that

i'm pretty sure he told me that. And I was like. Like drunk at a bar. Probably. He's like falling over tables. He's like slurring. My little white apple girlfriend. But like he was up in San Francisco during the season and he was in L.A. during the off season. So I kind of took it like, okay, when he's in L.A., like they're sort of doing their own thing.

And when he goes back up to San Francisco, like they'll be together. Fine. So I'm thinking like, okay, when the season starts, like we'll be done anyways. So one Valentine's day, I get a huge bouquet of flowers from him. And I'm like, Oh, you know, he's so sweet. You know, my baseball player boy. So now I'm at my friend's house with all, all my friends and it's his neighbor's house. And I'm telling everyone how I got flowers from my baseball boy. And my friend Kendall goes, he sent me flowers too. And I was like, what? He sent you flowers too?

The same Valentine's Day? Same Valentine's Day. Oh my gosh. My really good friend. Like we would hang out all the time. She told me he does have a girlfriend up in San Francisco and they are fully together. Fully together.

Okay, As much as I think that I know everything that happens in the world, this is like one area where like, I really am like innocent. Like, I think that's so gross. Disgusting. That's so gross. Like when you're in a relationship, like I would be heartbroken. I know. But also imagine sending multiple people flowers. But, who has the time? I know. Like, I'm in a relationship for 10 years. I always think about, like, even if I want, and I'm the horniest person on earth.

Like, I would love, like, the idea of it. Like, who has the time or the energy to do all of this stuff? I know. Or the sneaking around. And also, like, Scoot knows everything that I'm up to. Not to mention, not to sound like I'm trying to be like Mr. Goody Goody but like I could never hurt Scoot like that I know like these people like why are you in a relationship don't be in a relationship then if you're that dirty I just talked to a dating coach

and he said that the reason people will cheat and do all this stuff well yes and it's also because like his whole thing is like achieving a 10 out of 10 relationship. And, like, you would say, like, you and Scoot have a 10 out of 10 relationship, right? Like, you're very happy on every level. That's actually very interesting. I think it's a lot of times when people settle and they're, like, or they're, like, lacking one really important thing. Or, like, we were talking, or you do not have the connection. Like, I really do feel so connected to Scoot. I know I will never find that anywhere else. So there's no way I would look anywhere else like I know nothing would compare but yes these

people who are in relationship and they've settled they're not happy yeah and you see a lot of people too like unfortunately I found say people I went to high school that married really young they just kind of got married and then later they start being like well what if I wanted to try other people like you have to be with the right person like the connection has to be there because if you're gonna spend the rest of your life with somebody yeah you have to be in love with them because that's my thing like every relationship i've ever been in when it's been really good well how do i want to say this because it's like it was just say how you're thinking well because you are really good with relationships you are you i'm very loyal yeah you are the most i'm the most loyal you will not cheat when i'm when i like someone like that's it for me even if it's a boyfriend even like i have

never been one to look around and see what because like if i'm gonna be with you it's because i really fucking like you well and you want well that's why I go back to the confidence thing. Like, I think you are very confident. Like, I think all these people, like, in a relationship and they're looking at other people, like, they want to feel hot. They need that extra validation. Yeah. Like, I don't care about that at all. Like, at all.

No, I don't either. Then I think that you don't at all. I don't either. So, I think that made a lot of sense to me when he said, like, if you don't have a 10 out of 10 relationship, like, that's usually when it happens. And that makes sense. But I think the whole thing that we're talking about, like, these guys doing it, it's, like, obviously it's terrible to the woman that they're with. But also these guys, like, imagine how much easier your life could be if you just did what you wanted to do. Like, who has the time for this stuff?

I know. I know. for this stuff i know i think a lot of guys and girls but guys live in fear of like just it's like almost easier to cheat and do these things than ending what's right in front of you because you're so fucking scared of yeah and it's selfish and probably exciting a lot of people are bored in their life so think about if you're bored in your life like what's the most exciting thing you do cheat go get a hobby my goodness go to pottery class you and i because like i haven't been dating lately and and i i wasn't talking to anyone there for a while and finally i started talking to someone and we're both like we needed this like you and i we needed this we needed me

to talk to someone because that's like we get a little excitement back i literally lived through you for that kind of stuff. Like, I love it. That's probably why I'm such a dork sitting on these podcasts like this because it's like, I enjoy it so much. I also like love romance and like the flirting stage and all that kind of stuff. It's the best.

Yes, I love hearing about it. It makes me feel young. You know what's so funny though? It's like, I was just thinking about this last night and today because I just really started talking to someone and it's like the fantasies that we come up with in our minds of, like, who these people are. I have not met this guy, okay? We're literally just talking.

Oh, my God. I wish that we could just show a picture. I'm so fucking hot. But every night, I'm like, I can't wait to go to bed so I can, like, lay in bed and, like, come up with this, like, fantasy in my head. Naughty girl. Not naughty. Oh Oh my God. She's always in charge. You guys, I think at this point,

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All right, fine. I plug it in. And I'm like, I have to remember to put that back before my kids come home from school. I don't. I darn do not remember, of course. And so it's just in my bathroom charging on the counter. No. It's the one from Goop that looks like the ice cream cone.

So it could be anything. It could really be anything. The face tool. Yeah. Oh, that's a good idea. That's what you should always say that's a good one but so you have to go through my bathroom to get to my closet and the other night i was in my closet and camden of course out of all my kids my oldest who maybe kind of know what it is i don't know why he would but of all of them and so he came in my bathroom and i was like oh my god i remember i was like wait hang on i'm coming i'm coming, I'm coming.

Thank God he didn't see it. But I had a fucking panic attack. Like what would I, what would I, I was going to say a back massager. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. They wouldn't know. But I mean, at that age, I remember that I had one neighbor who like their parents had condoms in their drawer.

And every time I would go over to my friends. The parents had condoms? The parents had condoms. I mean, this is like in the 90s yeah they didn't want to be a kid but i was so obsessed with that yeah i would always just go look at the oh yeah everything is such a big deal at that age it's a huge deal yeah it really is oh my god i know so that was that was a whole thing okay but my point is it's just so funny because like she's thinking about her she's thinking about her ice cream cone now i'm thinking

about masterware i already did today do people talk about that with their friends because you and i talked about what did you we talk about it i know why i said i jerk off too yeah like one of my i actually have one girlfriend that like i consistently talk about that with it's the most natural thing in the world by anyone who's like weird about that like Like, well, they're probably really uptight. If they're not doing it. By the way, all of my girlfriends are in relationships, every single one of them. So I'm probably masturbating a lot.

But I mean, do people still think that masturbating is like taboo? I don't think so. Right. Everyone does it. Cool with it. And if you don't like, you know,

who doesn't masturbate people who are negative trolls on Instagram, they do not. They do not. They need to let some steam out. They do not masturbate. They do not masturbate. If they took that energy and put it there. They need to let some steam out. They would be so much happier. They were just coming all the time. Whenever people are like,

masturbating, I never do that. I'm like, you are so tight. You need to let go. Yeah, your shoulders probably hurt. Literally the best thing about being a girl

is that you can make yourself come so many times. I came like four or five times today. Oh my gosh, please cut this out. That's too much. Thinking about my new boy toy. But okay, so it's so- To the point where when we went to Park City together,

it was the one time. We travel all the time together, Chris and I, right? And we always get our own rooms, obviously, because we're adults. We should, we will never be sleeping in the same room. But we were going to Park City and it was last minute. And I was trying to do this thing where I'm like, I'm not going to travel as much. And I only like to really spend a lot of money if I'm with Scoot.

I don't want to spend a ton of money on myself to travel at a last minute. It was the last minute trip to Park City. So I was like, Kristen, I'm not going to spend because it's expensive. Scoot is an expensive fucking store, man. So I was like, Kristen, I don't really want to spend all that extra money, especially if Scoot can't come or whatever. And I was like, but if you share a room, I'll go with you. And so we both decided to share. Because I'm like, please come skiing with me.

Yeah, she wanted to go so bad. I'm like, if you share a room. So anyways, we get a room to share. And both of us could not stop thinking about it. I was like, I cannot sleep in the same room as Krista. As close as we are, we're also very bossy. Like, when you want to go to bed, you go to bed. When I want to go to bed, I go to bed. When I want to go to bed, I go to bed.

And whatever. So at the last minute I got my own room. And I was like thank god because now I can jerk off. But that's what we post on our website. And I told you that was my biggest worry. How am I going to jerk off? I'm here. How the heck did I say jerk off?

It's so funny. It just makes it funnier. I know. Well that's like I'm always like I have the biggest dick. Just the idea of a girl jerking off. But when that's like, I'm always like, I have the biggest dick. But when you're cranky, I'm like, did you jerk off today? It is true, though. Like, everyone needs to have that release, man.

It's true. If I'm a little uptight, I'm like, oh, my gosh, because I haven't masturbated in a couple days. I hope my mom doesn't listen to this episode. Or anyone I know. Oh, God. I hope no one that I know is going to cut some of that out I'm not going to

we're being honest but it's so funny when you start talking to someone before you meet them because you come up with this whole idea of who they are

in your mind 9 out of 10 times because you can be let down 9 times out of 10 I am let down because I've built them up to be this like the hero

character right i'm just gonna save me so you're like just to sweep me off my feet and i'm like god you suck i really hope that with this particular guy that i'm not let down because this he could be a real game changer for me in the sense that guys i'm gonna be very real with you there has been no one in my life consistently. How do we want to phrase it? Just like a male companion that I could have sex with from time to time. Because I have like no sex, you guys. Like I literally have no sex.

I don't know the last time I had sex. I don't either. Wait, I like really have to think about this. You really do need to have a journal. You need to have a diary. Justin, it's been a long time since I've... You're all about your calendar. Do you put it in there?

I don't know who it was with. I do, but I'm not going to say it. Say it. Wait, no, it wasn't. No, it was. Yeah, it was. It was... Kristen, that's like months ago.

Oh, my God. Oh, my God. Get the dust buster out. It was Pittsburgh, Mike. That wasn't like Thanksgiving. That was before Thanksgiving. Wow. It's been a long winter.

It's been a long, cold winter. Oh my God, that's so sad. But why can't you just have like a... It's the South. They don't do that here. There was one person here that I like tried. I feel like if you were in LA, you would have somebody like... Everybody has someone they hook up with. Yeah.

There's not a lot of guys in Nashville. That are single. There's just not a lot. Right, that are single. Yeah, I mean I tried to... At your age. Right, so that's why I have to... You can go down to Broadwayway and you get laid i

can listen guys if i wanted to get laid i could get laid i just feel like no i mean you want something very that you feel comfortable with like i have to be attracted to the person obviously it would just be nice to like have someone that i could date from time to time who i could also sleep with yeah or somebody like let, I want to watch this new show or this new movie. Come over and watch the movie. You could cook for them. And then it's also,

I think also too, like even because, Raya, you have been meeting guys, they all want to be your boyfriend right away. So that's the thing. It's like an every guy. And it's something I've been saying for a long time too. Like you also need to slow it down.

Yeah. Like, hey, maybe I'll see you in two weeks. I know. Like it doesn't have to all of a sudden be like roll into just like you're dating all of a sudden I know I know so I can't think that you messed it up a little bit too well I come on I can I also come on strong I know that I can come on strong and you can start because I get really excited I am like because I'm all or nothing right so like if I like someone I'm all in and i am like oh my god and then like zero to 60 yeah that's my nickname and then reality sets in and i'm like oh which is fine you're doing fine

but you would like to yell at a little bit it's gordon or or just but like date someone a little but also like a little make out here and there like cuddledle on the couch. Is that so fucking hard to ask for? I think at this age and in Nashville it is. Yeah. Most people are married. Like, you know, most people are married. Yeah. Or they're younger.

So that's why I'm going younger. But like in LA and New York, there's so many single people, even into their 50s or whatever, you know. But like here, I don't think a lot of single guys in their 30s, 40s are moving to Nashville and just hanging out out in this area. They're not. They're not. So that is what makes it a little bit hard. It's a real problem.

So, yeah. So I've taken the last couple months off dating, and I think now I'm, like, kind of ready to, like, date again. Oh, my God. Oh, my God. Really? Or just make out with someone that's really hot but do you want

to be in a relationship no I don't want to be in a relationship so that's why I just need someone or I don't know no I think right now with where I'm at

and having my kids more I just need someone who I could talk to from time to time make out with from time to time and like maybe go to dinner with once in a while that That's all I really want. Yeah, I think that would

really, but I also want him to be obsessed with me. Well, that's where we run into a problem. Well, not really. Well, right. Cause then they want to be in a relationship. Yeah. Then they literally want to lock it down. Like you basically need the male version of you, like a guy who's kind of in a similar situation as you. And I always say this, too. Like, maybe a guy who's, like, newly divorced, has kids, also has a lot of priorities to take care of for himself.

Yeah. Like, I think... Because also, all these guys that you've gone out with, like, they make it all about you. Yeah. Like, they don't have kids.

They haven't been married before. No, that's not... Well... Who has been married? Well, if we want to go down that road, I mean, there's been... There's been... Um... But, I mean there's been there's been But I mean you weren't the first

Guys that I've actually been attracted to yeah, no the guy well, here's the issue the guys that I actually though I mean we won't say his name right now, but he would have been perfect If he was hot if he was if i was attracted to him don't put any of that here's the issue the only guys that i've been attracted to yeah have been in their 30s their early 30s so they don't have any kids they've never been married it becomes a lot it's just different my my world is very specific like i have three kids like whatever we've talked about i've got a lot going on i can't just i can't yeah i can't just like hang out all the time wait so did you end up saying what the baseball player he sent you flowers and the other girl did you ever confront him about it yeah so i think i finally said something to him yeah obviously and i ended Wait, why can't you share the story about the other one?

Oh, the Valentine's Day? The massive Valentine's Day. The presents that I got? Can't you just say his name? He's not a good look right now. Oh, wow. Do you know all this shit going on? I didn't pay attention to it, but recently I talk about everything pop culture

on my Instagram, and at one point, like everyone was saying, I can say it, it's not a big deal. Say it. P. Diddy, Puff Daddy. Everyone was like, talk like everyone was saying, I can say it's not a big deal. P. Diddy, Puff Daddy. Everyone was like, talk about Puff Daddy, what he's going through.

I didn't really look into it, but yeah, he's in like hot water right now. It's bad. Well, I dodged a fucking bullet there. Yeah, that could have been you. Okay, so one Valentine's Day, I was 22, I believe. We had a mutual friend. He got my number or whatever.

He sent me the biggest bouquet of flowers I've ever seen. The biggest box of chocolates I've ever seen. A huge teddy bear. All of his tequila because he had a tequila brand at the time. I don't know if he still does. And I mean, it was like, holy shit. And he was like multiple people like bringing shit into my house kind of a thing. It's like shit you see in a movie.

Yes. And then he told me he had a TV crush on me and he wanted to take me out. And I just sort of kept like poo-pooing it. And then I finally said no. But was there a part that was like, oh, my God, this is insane. Incredible. Like kind of interesting. Yeah.

I mean, there's obviously a part where you're like, whoa, a guy is like spoiling the shit out of me. You're like, that's so sweet. And I've never met this guy. Like, oh my imagine if I was in a relationship with him. Like how sweet it would be at the time because I was 21. Now as an adult, I'm like red fucking flag and clearly. Yeah.

Yeah. I mean, that's some love kind of shit. He was a big deal at the time. Was it before or after J-Lo? I'm assuming it was after. Whoa, you would have been like the next J-Lo. I'm going to spit a wood up. Did you ever say anything to him?

We talked a little bit. I mean, he kept asking me out. And I think I was just, I think at first I was just sort of like, oh, yeah, ha ha, like that kind of thing. Oh, my God. I wish you did it just for the pictures. That'd be so fun to Google those pictures right now just like you in a fur walk you know Robertson it's like 80 degrees out coming out of the ivy and I've got a lot of stories like that you guys where I could never just go on a date with someone because it was so and so like I literally no you're not had to be

attracted to you I couldn't You also just don't like. I don't give a fuck. Yeah. And you're not one of those people. Yeah. That wouldn't be exciting enough. You want that for yourself. Exactly.

That's also the difference. I don't want to be the arm candy. I want it because people want to take my photo. Not because I'm with someone. Right. No. And you have a lot of confidence like that. But a lot of I think a lot of women in

hollywood would take up that opportunity like people always date all the time in hollywood because you see it makes you a bigger celebrity i don't want there is such a nasty dark side to hollywood and i actually kind of love that it's coming to light a little bit more and this is not the podcast for it i would love to get into it all but i think it's great that people are starting to realize how hollywood is all just a bunch of bullshit to see how manufactured it is i mean when you put certain people together it gets them attention for whatever they're working on well i mean that's a huge thing but more and more people are talking about it but the wrong people are talking about because sometimes i'll hear people talk about it on social media i'm like

you're almost there but you're getting see, people from the sidelines. Like, I'd like to say my whole career, I was in the trenches of that world. Yeah. Hearing everything in real time. Yeah. And then you lived it, too. Yeah. But there's that, like, a lot of people get it wrong.

People get things wrong. They still get it wrong, but they're getting on to something. Like, the way, it's such an illusion. It's all. There is a lot of reality. There are a lot of very real relationships. Yes. a lot of reality there are a lot of very real relationships there's a lot of very good people in hollywood yeah but a lot of it is just it's smoke and mirrors it's completely and they're willing to play the game to get ahead that's

the thing is people will do anything to be famous i mean really i mean there are fake relationships all the time or and i i don't even want to say it's like fake relationships i think it's more just like that kind of thing. It'd be like if I actually like went down the P. Diddy road because it was going to make me more famous. It's like you do it because you know in the back of your mind it's good for your career. Well, I'm sorry, but let's be doing it.

But you, there's also a lot of people who don't have a lot of substance to them. They're just not, and they can, like that's enough for them. Like fame is enough. They'll do it for that reason. But like you want real. I want a real connection. Yeah.

But that's a lot of Hollywood. I don't even know how we got on the Hollywood conversation. But. I don't know how it goes any direction. I don't know what we're doing anymore. What is this? I have no idea. So, happy Valentine's Day, you guys.

Have a good one. Have a great one. Oh, happy Valentine's Day, you guys. Have a good one. Have a great one. Oh, my God. Yeah, that was a lot of I don't even know what. But as always, thanks for joining. Do we end on this note? That is hilarious. We just rambled the whole entire time.

We literally rambled the entire time. Did we give any sort of takeaway? That I masturbate a lot. Okay. All right. Other than that, know your worth. Look for true love. Know that true love

is out there and you will find a good partner. There's also a lot of really good men. I'm not the type of person at all. I have two fabulous brothers who are very committed

relationships, good guys. I feel like there are very good men out there. So like, never a bash on men. There's bad women too. By the way,

I think women are worse sometimes. I've had my fair share of really shitty guys. I can really this too. Never a bash on men. There's bad women too. By the way, I think women are worse sometimes. I've had my fair share of really shitty guys. I can really say that. Really awful fucking guys. You really have. I have. And I have not lost hope that there are really good guys out there and that I'm actually going to find a good guy. So I just think no matter what you've been through, don't let that discourage you because there are really good guys.

Being with those terrible guys, I think, always makes your relationships later better. Makes you appreciate them. Yeah. Yeah. The good guys. The good guys. Being with those terrible guys, I think always makes your relationships later better. Makes you appreciate them. Yeah. The good guys. The good guys. And you can spot the bad. You have to go through that stuff. You really do. We wouldn't know good if we didn't know bad. Work, girl. Purr. Purr. Keeping us young.

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