Let's Be Honest with Kristin Cavallari - I'm Definitely Getting Married

Episode Date: March 19, 2024

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The following podcast is a Dear Media production. This is Let's Be Honest with Kristen Cavallari, a podcast all about getting real and open on everything from sex, relationships, reality TV, wellness, family, and so much more. And just a fair warning, there will probably be some oversharing. Welcome in to Let's Be Honest. I'm your host, Kristen Cavallari, and I'm so excited for you guys to hear today's episode with Cindy from Revealing Soul. But I just wanted to give you guys a little disclaimer quickly that this episode was filmed a few weeks ago. This is before Mexico when Montana and I went public. So just want you to keep that in mind. This is when things

were not quite as serious as they've become. So with that in mind, happy listening. Hi. Hi, Kristen. Thanks for having me. Thank you so much for being here and for you being here in Nashville. Yeah. So we've known each other for over four years. I know time flies. It flies. Flies. So met you because you actually did all of the aura readings at my Chicago store opening. And then we did a session just us and a girl that worked for me at the time. Yeah. And I've seen you numerous times since. It's addicting. It's addicting. It is addicting. And, and I'm just, I'm so excited to talk about everything, but okay. I want to start with you and how you got to where you are today, how you realized

that you have these gifts. Because I actually think your personal story of where you are, getting to where you are today is so fascinating. So tell everybody how you got here. Yeah. So I always say people fall into one of two camps, that they're either born with it and they're kind of aware of it their entire lives or something happens to them later in life and they awaken to their spirituality. I'm in the former. So I was aware of spirits and energies in my home and in my bedroom when I was little. Didn't know what it was.

Did it scare you? Oh my God, yeah. I would go like crying and screaming out of my bedroom. Because you would see what or like pick up on what? So I used to see like, this sounds weird, but a man, he was dressed in a business suit. Remember this? And so he would be at like the end of my bed

and not scary, but just like in the room. And I'm like, what the hell is this? So my parents would come turn on the lights. They're like, there's nothing there. I'm like, yes, there is. So, you know, over time, then eventually that started to kind of go away. But I used to think there was an owl in my house, too. I remember this. And I would make my mom put food and water out for it and leave like the windows open so I could come and go because I thought it was like my pet owl. Turns out it was just like a spiritual guide. And every like medium that I go to says, oh, you have this owl. I'm like, yes, it's like my guide. So you can also have like guides that are spirit animals.

And so, yeah, which we can talk about that. And so, yeah. So then fast forward to like high school, I had a neighbor that took me under her wing and like really helped me awaken and tune in and hone my gifts. And then I went to college and did the whole thing. And then I went to the corporate world and did that for 11 years. And then, yeah, I eventually quit. It was five years ago, five years ago in March that I quit to work full time for myself. I remember because it was right before we met that you did that. Yes, exactly. Yeah. It's crazy. Wow. Okay. And what did your parents think? Like, it's like when you had this owl, right? And your parents are like leaving out food and water. Were they like, you're crazy? Or they were like, okay, honey, we'll do that. No, I mean,

they were very accommodating in the beginning. Like, you know, like an imaginary friend, like if you've kids, like if they think there's something around, whatever you want to be polite, but then after time it gets a little old, you know, so I'm not feeding this imaginary one more time. Yeah. So they were good in the beginning. You know, I mean, with any little kid, it's you want to honor them, but then it's it's hard to keep it up. It's so funny. Yeah. OK. And then let's back up for a second. Explain what a spiritual medium is for those people who don't understand. So I describe a spiritual medium as someone who connects to the other side with departed loved ones, guides, pets, angels, or friends. And I can connect with people that

you know that have departed or even what I call like collective consciousness guides and maybe someone you haven't met, but like an angel type of energy, pets, future kids. I work with a lot of people trying to get pregnant. Just happens to be the age range that we're in. I love talking to spirit babies. So past, present, future, I can connect with it all. So that's why I call myself a spiritual medium because it's really based in evidence and validation.

Yes. And I require that whatever spirit or soul or entity that I'm connecting with provide some sort of validation that only you would know. And that I, there's like no way for me to know it. Well, and that's actually my favorite thing about you. So every session that we have at the end, well, really throughout the entire session, but then at the end, you always do give this validation. And we have had some crazy validations and since we're on the topic,

we'll just get right into it. So, well, there's been a few that really stand out in my mind. The last time we saw each other was June, 2023. And at the end of it, I remember you saying stuff. My brother always comes through in our readings. And you were saying, you know,

he's talking about his clothes, like his clothes and his shoes. And I have his clothes that he died in and his shoes. And I have his clothes that he died in and his shoes. And so you would never know that. I don't even think most of my friends know that, you know? So it's things like that, that I'm always like, that's really freaking cool. You can't deny it. And then another one also in June, you saw an ex getting a DUI in my life. And we both thought it was going to be somebody else. Yeah.

Thought it was someone else entirely. But then, and if you guys listen to the podcast, you know this story. I got coffee with an ex in LA in the fall and he got arrested for a freaking DUI. Like you can't make this stuff up, you guys. It's insane. That was insane.

That was insane. I was DMing him. I'm like, I'm texting him. Is this stuff up, you guys. It's insane. That was insane. That was insane. I was DMing her. I'm like, I'm texting. I'm like, is this the DUI, you think? And you're like, what? Oh, my God. I'm like, I hope that this is it. Yeah, holy shit.

And I only remember that because I don't like predicting, like, quote unquote, bad things. And I'm very careful when something like that comes up. And I definitely was like, if that comes up in a reading, I always like to say it's because you're ready to hear it and or it's a heads up for you that maybe you can prevent it or maybe you can, you know, keep it from happening. Totally. Oh, my gosh. In this case, you this guy's had great content for the pod. I was great content for the pod. Oh, my gosh. But yeah. So I love that so much because it just makes it so you really you can't deny this stuff.

So, OK, when it comes to spirits, are you always picking up on energy and spirits? Like, can you go out to dinner at a restaurant or is it like this loud noise that you always have? Yeah. I'm really good with boundaries. So when I'm done working, I'm like, we're done. Like nobody's allowed to talk to me. No one's allowed to visit me in dreams. Like we're done. Okay. We're over. But it can be overwhelming if you don't know how to like turn it on and off or if you're not good with setting boundaries. Yeah. Which is why I think some kids get overwhelmed when they go to school because then they're

if they are really open and really intuitive as many kids are, they go to school and they're all of a sudden overwhelmed and bombarded with all the energies, which is why they start getting anxiety or they have trouble like concentrating. It's not necessarily because they're not wanting to learn. It's just they're overwhelmed with everything else that's going on that they're picking up on. So that makes sense.

Yeah. So no, I can go to dinner. I can go to the grocery store. And by the way, those shows that you see where they're like walking up to someone in the grocery store, that's staged. I'm sorry. It just has to be.

I don't really think that. I think everything on TV is staged. Yeah, you've been to TV. You'd know more than me. But I feel like it's, but I mean, it's, I always like to have permission. So like when I read for someone, even if it is on the spot or I'm at someone's house

and they're like, oh, you should read for them. I always ask permission. I'm not going to go up and just like randomly start spouting things. Because it's personal. Yeah, yeah. It can be, it's a lot. So, but it is, it's that accessible

that you can literally be at a party and someone can go, oh, read for her. And you can just then be, okay. And you can start picking up on things. That's amazing. It took me a while to get there. Like I used to have this whole routine, especially when I was working in the corporate world, which is very different energetically than what I'm doing now. I had like a whole 30 minute like routine and like meditation and breath work thing. And now I can basically like take a moment, breathe and like kind of tune in. Yeah. So cool. Yeah. Okay. So before we get to the juicy stuff, the really good stuff, what do you say to skeptics? Yeah. So I love a good skeptic, by the way. In fact, a lot of people

send me their husbands and they're like, I don't know about this. I'm like, just be open. It's fine. But to the skeptics, I basically say be open. And that's where I work with the person's guides or loved ones and say it needs to be a validation that's not Googleable. Right. Like it needs to be beyond question of something like, I mean, you're a celebrity. You're in the spotlight. It's stuff that no one knows that will come through. Not not every word out of my mouth, but something will show up that no one else knows. Exactly. Sometimes it's a nickname, too, that like I have a client, a repeat client. Her dad comes through a lot. And and it's not it's it's a nickname, too, that like I have a client, a repeat client. Her dad comes through a lot. And and it's not

it's something different every time, too, which is also really cool. So one of the times he opened with mentioning blue and she started crying. She goes, that was his nickname for me. My blue eyes.

He called me blue. And I was like, oh, my God. You know, so it's just stuff like that where it's I wouldn't know that. Exactly. How would I know that? No, exactly.

It's just cool. And it's one of those things that until you experience it, it kind of is hard to wrap your head around. Yeah. But I have found so much peace in it. I really have, especially so my brother passed eight years ago. And I feel like that really started my spiritual journey and just questioning, what are we doing here?

You know, what is all of this? Yeah. And I'm thankful for that. And I think because he's come through in so many of our sessions, I've gotten so many signs from him. I am now so at peace with death. And that was actually the number one question people had asked me. I reached out to my Instagram followers and they submitted questions and everyone, it was about death and like how to not be terrified of death. So I do want to talk about that. Like, what do you say to people who are really scared of dying?

Yeah. So I believe without a shadow of a doubt that there's a part of us that lives on after death and that it's not something to be feared, but something to actually be celebrated and not be so closed off to it. And I also say that like the relationship that you have here on earth continues on after death. Yeah. And it's important to like cultivate those relationships. I have some people that say they have a better relationship with a parent or someone who's passed after they passed and they did in real life because they're actually able to listen and hear and receive signs. So

death is just, it truly is like, this is technically the hard stuff. Like life, life is hard. Yeah, it is hard. Okay, like I mean death, and I think people aren't so afraid of death as a transition into death. Okay, right. Like I think a lot of people are scared or a lot of people come to me and are really, if they have a heavy passing

or someone passed in a kind of traumatic way, that weighs on them. And the souls that come through are basically like, what? That was like a blip in my, that was one day and it's the most least interesting day of my life. Okay, right. They want to talk about all the stuff they did before that and all the

stuff they want to help you with after that. Right. But we're so focused on like that exact transition. So I don't know that people are afraid of death as, as much as the like moment that you're transitioning and how traumatic that can sometimes be. Exactly. That makes sense. I just want to add a caveat that, you know, you don't have to know someone really closely that's died to see a medium. Right. Absolutely. Anyone can go. And then again, you'll receive validations of things that like literally I'll talk to clients and the first thing they'll come through is something they literally wrote in their journal earlier that day. Like, how would I know that? You know, and it's not that they know anyone special who's passed. They just want some

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slash honest to get a free sample pack with any purchase. So when we die, where do we go? So my best, so I believe there's different like planes and like energies too. So basically they're in a different vibration and a different plane and we just can't see them. So my best example is, you know, like a ceiling fan or like a, like a helicopter, like the blades on a helicopter. Right. When it's stationary, you can see all the individual blades. OK, just there. When you turn it on, it's going so fast that you can't see the blades moving. Right. But you can feel it. OK, right. You can hear it. Yeah. The fan makes a sound. You can sense it like it makes the room cooler. OK, right. So that's like spirit.

Exactly. Oh, that's such a good analogy. You get goosebumps. You feel them. It feels, sometimes people describe feeling colder when they're in the room. You can sense them around. You get messages. Like, it's the same thing. You just can't see them, but you can feel the other senses around them. But they can see us. Yeah, to a degree. Yeah. It's like on Zoom. It's like they're like watching for like a video screen, essentially. That's how I describe it. Like, like on Zoom, like you can be doing something. We all do it, right? We're all on like the videos off and you can see what's happening, but they can't see you. OK, right. That's what the spirits are. They're on the other side, like doing their own thing. They're keeping an eye on you. Right. That makes sense. And you can't

necessarily hear or see them unless they unmute themselves or they show themselves. Right. So that makes sense. Zoom is my best example of like what it's like for them. I love that. And so we will see all of our loved ones on the other side when we die. OK. Yeah. I believe that we all go to the same place. And even people who go through difficult circumstances in life, we still go on the other side and reconnect to heal. OK. I love that. Yeah. Okay. Let's talk about signs. So how can people be open to signs? How do they receive signs? Do you just ask for them? Like, what is your advice? You just hit the nail on the head. Okay. You got to ask. You got to ask for signs. Like your loved ones are not necessarily just going to keep sending you signs like over and

over and over again. You have to ask. So that's the number one thing I say. If you're not receiving signs, you have to ask for it. And then my second favorite thing to tell people is you have to be open and kind of be in like a higher vibrational or fun state. So my favorite example most recently is I just moved to New York, back to New York. And I was like asking for a sign from my friend who passed, like I specifically wanted one from him. And I was like, you jerks. I'm like, I like to sign. I'm like, you got, I'm like, I do all this work and you didn't bother sending me one sign. So I'm like moving, I'm like moving into my apartment, right?

And I look up and the car, my landlord lives below me. Car parked in the driveway. Has the numbers 1010. Well, that was my friend Andy's birthday, October 10th. And I was like, I dropped what I was holding. And I was like, oh my God. And by the way, it was there the whole time. It was there when I looked at it. It was there when I signed the lease. It was there when I dropped off my stuff. I just didn't see

it. I was so stressed. Yeah. I didn't see it. So when people are like, open to it. Yeah. I'm not seeing signs. I'm like, okay, what are you stressed about? What are you anxious about? Like they're sending you signs. If you ask for it, I guarantee you they're sending it. Yeah. Just you might not be seeing it. And I also tell people to be open to it coming in different ways. So like if a cardinal is a sign for you and you don't live in a place that had cardinals or like ladybugs, right? It could be you see a picture of a ladybug, right? Picture of a cardinal or a license plate that literally spells out ladybug. Right. That could be the sign. It doesn't necessarily always be the it doesn't necessarily have to be the individual thing. Does that make sense? A hundred percent. That makes

sense. Because for a long time, butterflies were a sign for me. And I would see them in a movie on like just in all Instagram. You open up. It's a first picture, like a butterfly. Yeah. Sailor's like coloring a coloring book with butterflies like that. Yes. I love that. I have a crazy story. I want to hear it. Let's hear it. So I'm all about asking for signs and being specific. I am a huge believer in signs. Okay, so I recently started dating someone and I was a little hung up because there's an age gap, okay? And so the other day I was going to his house

and that day I was like, I don't know if I should give this 110%. I was like, I'm just like, I don't know. So I was like, all right, if I should give this 100%, I want to see 777 at dinner. Oh my God. Okay. Okay. Wait, are you, I have to show you something, but go finish your story. Okay. So I pick my kids up from school that day, right? They get in the car and Jackson randomly goes, how many days until my birthday? I'm like, I don't know. Camden's like, I'll figure it out. 77 days on the 7th. Cause he's May 7th. So I'm already like, what the hell? I was like, oh my God, this is so weird.

But I'm like, okay, okay, okay. I'm driving to his house later. I see a license plate 777. I'm like, this is bananas. I have all the pictures you guys, I will literally show them. Okay. So then we're at dinner and we had a new collection drop that day. I'm like, this is our number one seller. He's like, how many units is that? I'm like, I don't know. Let me look. I opened up my Shopify app. We had 777 orders. And I was like, what the fuck? And then on the way home, I see a billboard that is 77777. I have, I'm going to show you all the photos. So I was like, okay, that's my sign. Oh my God. Yes. Give it a hundred percent. I'm like, noted. Thank you, universe. Yeah.

Also, I ran an errand before coming over here and I parked behind a car that says 777 on the license plate. I can't. And I took it as a sign. I'm like, it's going to be good. But I didn't realize it was really a sign for you.

I love this stuff so much. I'll show you the picture. I have the evidence. Like we have the evidence, you guys. This is wild. So wild. So cool. See, I love this stuff. Oh, it's so fun. It is.. So wild. So cool. That's insane. See, I love this stuff.

Oh, it's so fun. It is. Yeah, it's so fun. And sometimes I'm like, I don't necessarily know what that sign means. How do you take that if it's nothing specific? Yeah, great question. So I like to tell clients that

if you're not sure what it means, pay attention to the thought, action, commitment, like thing you just said to yourself, because that's like a hell yes from the universe or like a hell yes from your guide. So if you're not really like asking for anything specific or you're just kind of like daydreaming in your car, thinking about like, I don't know, this, you know, next work thing you're doing or you're thinking about quitting your job and you look up and you see like one,

one, one, one on the license plate. That's essentially a sign of like, yeah, you should go follow that. You should go chase that dream. You should go do that. So it takes a minute. Like a lot of my clients are like, I don't remember what I thought. Okay, well, now you're going to,

next time you see it, you're going to think back to what you were just thinking. It'll become easier over there. Yeah, exactly. And then, because right now, I feel like I'm seeing angel numbers specifically everywhere. What does that mean?

Does that mean you're on the right path? Like how, like, how do you take that? Again, I would turn it back to like, what have you been thinking about lately? What's been on your mind? What have you been thinking about? I would also say if you're seeing them a lot, like everywhere, like everywhere, I'm like, I guess I'm just on the right path. I mean, yes, it is what you're on there. I would also say that in general, you're being supported. Okay. Like general, you're being supported. OK. Like know that you're being supported. You're being guided.

If you're going through a tough time or situation, they're basically saying they're with you. They're watching over you. You're not alone. I do take it like that. Like, OK, I'm not alone. And that's a nice feeling. It's a great feeling. Yeah, it's a great feeling.

I love that. Yeah. OK, and then I want to talk about dreams. This was another question that people had a lot of questions about is when someone passes and then you have a dream about them. Cause I had a dream about my brother. So my brother passed and it was really unexpected. And I remember just saying, I wish I could just give him one more hug. And I had the craziest dream with, it was another medium who I used to see out in LA and she like opened up her arms in the dream. And then my brother was there and I gave him a hug and I just woke up bawling, crying. It was a dream. Like I've never experienced, like it wasn't a dream. I was actually hugging him. There is no

denying it. Yeah. So explain, explain how spirits when they first pass are able to visit you in dreams and how it really is. You guys are really together, right? Yeah. So when you're, I got to back up when you're sleeping and in that dream state, technically like your soul is traveling, right? You're traveling to a different plane and technically you're, remember I talked to the fan moving, your soul during that dream is vibrating at the same like frequency that they are. And that's how you're able to connect and hold and touch and be together. That's so cool. It really is cool. Yeah. Because and you know, you can talk to people who have had similar experiences and everyone says the same thing. Like I know I was touching them. Like I was giving my brother a hug. There's no doubt

in my mind. And they often did this happen soon after he passed? It was the week he passed. Yeah. So a lot of times, especially after a soul transitions, especially I find with like the younger souls or a soul that transitions in kind of a very tragic way, they will want they will do everything in their power to get to you to let you know they're OK. And so you might receive a lot of those dreams and a lot of those signs and a lot of those messages right off the bat. And then people like a month or two later, like, well, where'd they go? And I'm like, they didn't they didn't go. It just takes a lot of those messages right off the bat. And then people like a month or two later, like, well, where'd they go? And I'm like, they didn't go.

It just takes a lot of energy for them to send all that in the beginning. And it's just a lot. So once they know that you got the message, they might just back off a moment just so they can like transition and go through their life and like take a beat. And then, you know, they're still there.

It's like on Zoom. Again, they just like muted themselves for a second and turned themselves off video because they need a minute to like regroup. Yeah, that makes sense. And sometimes it doesn't happen for a while. Like my friend who passed, it's been like, I think, 11 years now. It took like eight years before I started seeing him in dreams.

I don't know if I was just like too sad. I was just really grieving. I don't know if it's just I wasn't ready. I often say that sometimes I like he shares like big messages. I don't know that I was ready to hear it. Yeah, 100%. Yeah, So right. So you do. You have to be open, but you also have to be ready for it, too. OK, that makes sense to me. Wow. Yeah. OK, let's talk about soul contracts. So we've talked a lot about it. And I'm a big believer that when we come to Earth, we have

soul contracts with certain people. And so explain what that means. So soul contracts are essentially contractual agreements that you agree to before coming down to earth with certain souls and individuals. You can have soul contracts that are very short, like literally like just an experience, like literally at a coffee shop or something like that, where you just say something nice to someone or they make your day. And then of course, you can have the big lifelong soul contracts with the people that you get married to. You have kids with, with your kids, with your parents. Yeah, exactly. And soul contracts have lessons in them. So it's, yes, it's beautiful and it's fun and it's loving. It's amazing. But there can also be some like deep lessons that are being learned and healing that's happening too. Yeah. And so, okay. So in that sense, when we come to earth,

there are certain things sort of planned out, but then we have free will. So explain that to me. Yeah. Love this question. So I 1000% believe in free will. Okay. Okay. And I also believe in there's like destiny and fate. Okay. Where the two marry together is the timing of it. Okay. So you can have experiences and destiny and things that you're meant to go through and learn. But sometimes who it's with or when it happens, that's where free will comes in. Oh, I see.

So I give the example of like in, I think it was college. I was going through a really rough time, lost my grandmother and also had some rough experiences with some girlfriends. And afterward, when I was like talking to a medium and tuning in for myself, I received the message of like, this was the right time for you to learn that message of betrayal and grief in that time. It could have happened when I was 40. It could have happened when I was eight. It happened to happen when I was like 21, 22, because that was the right time for those people to come in and teach me that lesson and for me to learn it. And that's where like the destiny fate is.

I needed to learn that lesson, but the free will is it could have been at any time in my life based on the thoughts, actions and decisions that I'm making. Got it. OK, that makes sense to me. Yeah, because, OK, a question I had for you is because um, cause I went back and looked at all. So what I do is we have our sessions and you always record them and you send them, which I love. Then I'll go through and like take the cliff notes from it, you know, like write down the highlights. So I haven't got these word documents I can go back to. So I went back and looked and for the last few years you had been saying, okay, I see you in a relationship close to like the end of 36, just recently turned 37. And I'm like, have I not been in a serious relationship because I

didn't pass a certain test? You know what I mean? I'm like, what did I do? I failed. I'm an epic failure. I'm not. But it's so funny because it's not like karma doesn't work that way either. It's not like the guy who cuts you off in the road, then gets in a car accident five minutes later. That's not how it works, okay? I wish it was that way, but it's not. Funny, I haven't told you this, but I pulled cards. I'm like a guy. But there's something about what happened in his past.

And so it might not be the, you might not be the reason why you're not together until 36. What about your partner? Like the person who's- I'm making everything about me. I mean, that's fine. I do the same thing too. I'm like, what the hell? Like what I've's- I'm making everything about me. I mean, that's fine. I do the same thing too. I'm like, what the hell?

Like what I've done? I'm doing all the work. Like where is he? I'm ready. I'm ready. I'm trying. Hello. Is anyone listening?

Okay. Yeah, literally. I'm like, I'm literally waiting. Let's go. Okay, wait. Oh, right. So maybe something happened with him. Yeah.

And that's why how many years ago I said, oh, I see like 36, 37 because maybe there was something that that guy who's in your highest and best good was going through. Got it. That was the timing was going to be closer to then than when you were ready. I don't know, three years ago. Yeah. Got OK. Broke up with. Yeah. Divorce. Yeah. OK. OK. That makes sense. So it's not always about remember free will is involved with not only you, but the other person. Right. And this is where speaking of dating and relationships where it gets tough is I believe we have multiple

soulmates and you might be with someone who is a soulmate and it might be beautiful but then they ghost you or it like it doesn't work out or something bad happens it's like well they have free will too okay right and if they're not doing the work and healing themselves or if they're not quite ready then yeah it's not gonna work but there's other people lined up. And I believe that we have more than one person that we plan to come in for. And based on where we're at and where they're at, they're going to send the person for the highest and best good. Oh, I love that. Right. And so in that sense, like you can't miss what's meant for you. You cannot miss what's meant for you. Literally, you cannot miss it. In fact, when I work with clients that are trying to meet their partner, it's funny that after they've met and after they're engaged,

like they go back and like, well, we actually go to the same gym or we actually knew each other. Like we actually have mutual friends from college. Like it ends up being we're on the same dating apps at the same time. Like it actually ends up being they could have met in all these different ways, but it ended up being this one specific however, however it was. Right. So that's why I'm like, oh, yeah, you could have met in any of these ways. It's just finally one of the, you synced up in the way it was meant to be. I love that. That's why I tell people keep doors open who are single. Like I know the dating apps suck, but like at least have it open and like check it every once in a while. Yeah. Cause you never know.

You never know. And I know people who have met on dating apps. I mean, they're married now and very happy. So it can happen. Yeah. Even though my experience wasn't so great. I'm the worst on them because I'm like, I don't need to go on the date to be like, I don't I don't want to like this. I can tell like the energy of them. I'm like, I cannot. And people send me like screenshots of the person like, what do you think? And then they get so devastated. I'm like, I don't know. We go on dates and then they're like, yeah, it sucked. I'm like, I told you. I was like, I don't know. You're like the best friend to have. Like, Cindy, what do you think? Should I go on a date with this guy? The only problem is that most of the time I say no. Well, yeah, because you don't

want to waste anyone's time. I know. I know. That's great. Okay. That's so interesting. Wait, and yeah, dating for you specifically. What is that like? I mean, it's like not happening. I mean, I want it to happen. It's just tough. Can you read your future? I'm, it's tough. It's hard doing it for myself because I really, my head starts to like spin. Yeah. Like I get really like, oh my God, wait, what? What's happening with that?

When's that happening? You know, so I, it's tough. It's hard when it's doing, when you're doing things for yourself. Well, it's funny because after some of our sessions, I have found that I'll be like living by it. I'm like, okay, Cindy said in seven weeks, I'm meeting a guy.

I'm like counting down, which, oh, here's another one. Yeah, I'm going to share that story. Okay, yes. This is a good one. So saw you in June again. This is a lot happened in this session. A lot happened. Holy shit.

And you were like, I'm seeing seven. You're like, I don't know if it's the seventh month. Which seven, by the way? What the hell is going on with seven? Okay, sorry. That's just so crazy. Well, seven is the number for partnership, by the way, just to kind of know.

I didn't know that. Yeah, seven is one of the numbers for like partnerships, soulmates, relationships. So also the fact like you're so intuitive, the fact that that's the number you asked for. Y'all, I want to see sevens. Like, oh, wow. I did not know that.

Holy shit. And you guys were going to do like a little mini tune in on this guy that I'm dating in a minute. But okay, so you were like, I'm seeing seven. Long story short, exactly seven weeks later, I was in Mykonos. I was in Greece and I ran into someone who I was like really excited about for a minute. Didn't work out for the best. But but you said, you know, sometimes you pick up on like the next guy who's coming in, not necessarily like my next husband.

Yeah. But I thought that that was, I was like freaking out. I was like, oh my God, it's been exactly seven weeks. And this guy did come into my life for a little bit. Yeah. Yeah. Just another validation. I know.

Well, I always say sometimes when I'm in a reading with someone, whether it's you're calling in a person, job, baby, whatever it is, sometimes your guides are going to give you like the next thing to look out for so that you don't get too far ahead of yourself, like stressing. Okay. And then the other thing is, is this is where I always say I can't really predict the future. And what I can do, though, is see the path that you're on and what's most likely to happen based on your thoughts, actions, and decisions today. In June of 23, based on what was happening, you were aligned to run to this person who gave you butterflies and it was fun and it was exciting and it got you. I kind of feel like it kicked off a lot of your reinvigoration and re-excitement in dating, right? It 100% did,

by the way. So I feel like that's what they were trying to lead you to is like, hey, you got to meet this person that's going to get you excited. And then what we probably didn't say, but it's going to lead you on this path of meeting your person or meeting the right person. Exactly. And the same thing happens with people getting pregnant, jobs, careers, finding the right house, because I can't always pick the future. It's just I'm looking at the path that you're on and what's most likely to happen. And I you're not the only one. I have other clients that I had this one client where I told her she was going to, I mean, sometimes it can be so specific. I told her you're going on this trip. She was like, I'm going to Washington. I was like, yeah, it's on the East coast. I'm like, you're going to meet somebody. And then you're

both not living in the same city, but he's moving to you. And literally she was going that summer. Well, nothing happened. One year later at the exact time I said, the exact trip, she met this guy and now they're like, I think they're engaged now. And he lived out there and he was moving to Chicago. And I was like, I was off by a year, but I was like, it's literally exactly what happened. And you've told me things like even you, when I got Quinn, my Bernadette puppy about a year and a half ago, you were like, I'm seeing like the puppy energy is like bringing in a guy. Nothing happened. And I was like, well, I just got this other puppy, Teddy. And now I actually. Nothing happened. And I was like, well, I just got this other puppy, Teddy. And now I actually am dating someone. So I'm like, whoa, this is wild. Yeah.

And so that's where it's not always a perfect science, especially because your loved ones are not bound by time and space. They like everything's happening at the same time for them. So when I'm channeling them to try and input an exact date and time, it's really tough. It's really, really hard. Although spirit babies are a lot easier for some reason. They're a little, they kind of, they know when they want to come in. Can we talk about spirit babies? Because you've told me numerous times now that you see another baby for me. I know.

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Yeah. That's all you have. Are we not saying it? I don't know what I'm going to call him on the podcast. Oh, Sparky. We'll call him Sparky. We're calling him Sparky. I'm going to refer to him, I think, as like 777 guy.

But I don't want to steal that if you want to use that for future people. No, let's run with it. Okay, so long story short, there's a lot coming up with like new information and or he's, I don't know if he's in the news or if he does something with like newspaper or like digital or sending information. There's a lot of fun on texting with you guys too like this also indicates like you have a lot of fun banter over text and like phone calls and voice notes and you know that kind of thing yeah so that's very like exciting digital world oh is it yeah there's something with like digital or works in tech or some I don't know something I'm not as well versed

in that world because I was not in it and I have no desire to be in it. So anyways, there's something where he's healing from a past hurt. Okay. So I don't know. And I'm not necessarily saying it's a breakup. It could be something like a grief, like a loss. It could even be something like a work thing that didn't work out for him or something. But I will say the good thing about this is he understands grief. I feel like he's going to get and understand like going through a divorce. He hasn't been through one. He's either known someone who has or he gets it. OK, so you guys can connect on a really emotional level. Love that. You and Sparky. Sparky and I. I love that. OK, and then I pulled the house card for you and him. So the house is basically you guys can build a home together. So I like him that he's very, and he might even be really handy around the house too.

Like really handy, like likes to work with his hands. Like really good. Oh, look who's coming in as we're talking about this. Teddy! Teddy's so excited. Teddy just came in. Yeah, Teddy loves him. But there's something about building a house together

that you guys might even live near each other or he has a home nearby or he's willing to be nearby. Which by the way, he just moved to Nashville and this is the first guy I've dated in Nashville. Like, well, in a while. I told you I'm one of the other many. I was like this. You need someone in Nashville. You're like, that's not happening. I was like, there's no one here. And I was like, I don't know. The cards are saying it's Nashville. And you're like, no. And I was like, OK, yeah. So like living close to me is. Yeah, it's so different. It's better that someone's actually in the same city as me.

Yeah. And by the way, I did not know that he lived. No, I did not. He literally just moved here a couple of weeks ago. Literally did not. I don't know anything about this guy. And then the last two cards. So the book is kind of like, I feel like he's by the book when he's dating you a little bit.

So he might want to take things a little, I don't want to say slow, but a little bit just, I don't know. It just feels like by the book. Yeah. Okay. Yeah. but a little bit just, I don't know, it just feels like by the book. Okay. This could also speak to either he's really well read or well like educated. Yeah, he's pretty intelligent with that stuff.

Maybe even well traveled too. He's got the ship card, which is well traveled. Or you guys are going to travel a lot together. He could have also moved from a coast. Like he moved from one of the coasts because it's like the ship card. So we're going to Mexico together tomorrow. Oh. Do you think that could be it?

Like traveling? No, I feel like this is, I kind of did a little bit. Well, I mean, sorry. Yes, the answer is yes. I feel like it was going to travel a lot together, but I pulled for more of like the next, like six months to a year.

So this is also looking like farther out, not just in three days or whatever tomorrow. I don't know what day it is. Right now. You're like immediately right. I wanted to know a little bit farther out than right now for you. We want to know like the long term. Right now. Like, right now. You're like, immediately right. I wanted to know a little bit farther out than right now for you. We want to know, like, the long term.

Like, is he still around in six months? I'm trying to get you long term with your partner, okay? Thank you. I'm like, right now, right now. You're like, what are we doing right now? So he's going to be around in six months is what I'm saying. Okay, great. Thank God.

I can't keep doing this. No, it's a good thing. It's a good thing. Okay, okay. I mean, all good things. No, like, forever ring showed up just yet, but it's a good thing. It's a good thing. Okay. Yeah. I mean, all good things. No, like, forever ring showed up just yet. Okay. But it's not a no.

That's fine. I would say, for once, I'm saying it's not a no. Yeah. God. Everyone else is like, eh, they've got a lot of work to do. Like, maybe not the best guy for you. I like that he's been through something. He can connect on an emotional level.

Okay. That's huge. That I think is very huge. I mean, what I've heard on the pod. I don't know that all the other guys are giving that to you or not. Okay. This is great. What is your process for pulling cards like this? Like how do you just like randomly pull cards? Yeah. So I, well, I didn't, you gave me what I had like a person. sorry, I had like a person. So I like to use a couple different methods when I'm working with a client. If we're live and in person, I love using my Aura camera to take a picture of the energy,

which we've done before. And it's just a very, it's just a tool to help like unlock what's really happening and kind of validate what's going on. In lieu of that, when I'm virtual, which is where 90% of my work is, is over Zoom, I love to use cards to help validate some of the information.

And this is a French deck that I've been using lately. I do use Tarot and I do use Oracle but this is a really cool like French deck. And I pull based on

whatever your topic or question is. So if you're asking about love you were specifically asking about the guy I could probably if you wanted to pull really quick

on like where you're at with it. Like this is all him. So that's the other thing too is that like I pulled on him for you. Right. But again free on like where you're at with it. Like this is all him. So that's the other thing too. Is that like, I pulled on him for you. Right. But again, free will, like, are you going to like him in six months? I don't know.

I mean, he looks like he's going to be liking you. Wait, pull one for me. I'm so excited. But anyway, so I use cards just a way to validate when I'm not like live with a client. I don't need any of these tools. I can do it just virtually. I mean, I literally like on Instagram

during like the pandemic and stuff, I would be live, not have the person's first name, not see them. And we just be like, they type in like the Instagram live, like a note. And then I would channel for them with that.

And then they respond back. So I don't need much. Yeah. It helps if I have a little more information. Yeah. I mean, that's the other thing. When someone comes and sees me, I like a cold read.

Like I don't, I mean, I would never Google a client, but I'm not going to, I don't want to know anything. mean, that's the other thing when someone comes and sees me, I like a cold read. Like I don't, I mean, I would never Google a client, but I'm not going to, I don't want to know anything. Yeah, that makes sense. Like I just want to go in and like whatever's coming through will come through.

So cool. And then that's where it's, I like doing repeat with clients too because once I have a report and like you said, some of those things that come in at the end, like I don't know why,

my guides love to like send in the zingers at the very end where it's like, like I have a repeat client and at the very end, her husband passed and he was like, mention sharpening the kitchen knives. Oh, how funny. And I'm like, have you been sharpening your kitchen knives?

Like so random. And she goes, she turned like white and she goes, my son just started a business doing that. Like a nine-year-old son. Oh my God. Or maybe he's older than that. I'm like, damn. Maybe he's 12.

I don't know. I don't know how old he is. He's not. He's like younger than a teenager. He's like doing it for neighbors. Wow. And how damn. Maybe he's 12. I don't know. I don't know. He's not. He's like younger than a teenager. He's like doing it for neighbors. Wow. And how funny. And like, how would I know that?

I would never know that. That's the thing. You cannot deny this stuff. And it was at the end of the reading. So if someone's waiting for like a validation, sometimes in the beginning or the middle, sometimes it comes at the end. You know, sometimes it's, I don't know. But I love that you give them.

Yeah. You will get your validation. It's so fun. So, okay. We were pulling on you for. Where I'm at. Where you're at with this. OK, we're going to pull. I mean, OK, we want like forever, right?

I mean, what do you want? We're looking for forever. I mean, I will say like there's an age gap with us, which is my big hang up on it. Interesting. OK, yeah. OK, I'm just going to pull on you then. I'm going to pull on you and where you're at with it. Okay.

But I mean. Which, listen, age is a number. Are you attracted to him? I'm like insanely attracted to him. Okay. I was like, all right, just to be clear. That's why, that's literally like he's so perfect. The only thing is he's younger than me.

Okay. Like a lot younger. Again, like, are you, is everything? So far, so good. I mean, so we'll see. Oh, it's good. Okay. So you got to trust your intuition with this.

Okay. Okay. You got to throw logic out the window. Logic is not going to help you in this relationship. Yeah. You got to throw it out the window. Okay. I mean, even that alone right there is like, no, I mean, how, hello.

Like, this is incredible. Yeah. I mean, again, I don't know this. I didn't know he was younger. I didn't know. Okay. You got to throw logic out the window. It's not it's not going to work for you.

OK, you got to trust your gut, trust your intuition. Also, the magic happens at night. You guys are like really like you love being together at night. Like when this when this got like when it started, like candlelight. I feel like that's when you guys are going to like really, I don't want to say fall in love, but like really connect, especially you. You like, yeah, like being you must come alive at night. It's like romantic.

There's a little bit of like a responsibility with it. Like I feel don't fall into the trap of being his mom. Yeah. OK. Because if there is that age gap, as you're saying, this card is representing like don't fall into being the mom. OK. You got to let him step up and be a partner. Yeah. Just as if he was the same age as you, a little older. Like, don't treat him… Like he's younger. Yeah. Okay. Yeah.

That makes sense. You got to watch that. That makes sense. Yeah. This is for you, by the way. Yeah. No, I'm listening. Like, this is for you.

Okay. And then there's something about, like, two, like, birds of a feather flock together, you know? Like, you guys have a lot in common. Okay. And that will… Which will continue to unfold. Okay.

This can also be, though, that if it does fall apart, it's because of perceived insecurities and perceived like what other people are thinking between the two of you versus you guys not being compatible. Okay. And it might not be just on you. He might be self-conscious that he's dating someone older, you know? Yeah. And so, and it's like, what are people going to think?

Or who knows about his parents or the friends or society? I don't know. It's a real thing? Yeah. And so, and it's like, what are people going to think? Or who knows about his parents or the friends or society? I don't know. It's a real thing. Yeah. Yeah. And I, no judgment. Like I,

if you love the person who cares, right? Like love is love. But this is saying, if it doesn't work out, especially from your end too, it could be, it's going to be like perceived things

or what's everyone else thinking. Yeah. Like what's everyone else perceived. I know I'm trying to just like, like the, the narrative I've been playing in my head recently is like, who do I want to be stranded on a deserted Island with? And what goes, if I'm on an Island status, money, people's opinions, those all go out the window. None of that matters. It's like,

does he make me laugh? Can I talk to him for hours? Can he protect me and keep me safe? Like those things are what's important to me. So yeah, that's what this is saying is that you have to stay focused on that. And definitely it's still how do I put this? Because the engagement ring card showed up. It's basically saying like you're still you're looking for this and like you're not going to settle till you find it. Like you're looking for exactly that. Yeah. You're not going to settle. OK. Yeah. This is saying that it's coming to you like it is going to happen. I'd say you have to give this, like, six months. I mean, you got to give it a little time.

Yeah, okay. And keep seeing six. I don't know if it's June or six weeks or six months. Okay. I would have to pull again that. It's so new. It's really, it's a little tough when it's brand new. It's so new.

But I actually, like, I like this. I like this one. Okay. It's not a no. Like, all the other ones, I was like, this is a hard one. All the other ones. I don't know how to tell a no,

but I was like, this is a hard no. Run away. I don't know. I'm going to say, I don't know if this is the forever base I'm only pulling through six months okay okay so I'm not gonna like say you guys are forever but okay he's I'm gonna tell you this he's really close to what you want yeah like he has all do you think that sometimes a test though like you get sent something that's really close. So interesting thing about tests, I do kind of believe in them. Yeah. Which is it's up to you and what you want.

I feel like tests help reveal the truth of what you really want. Okay. So there's no real right or wrong, right? Yeah. It's just, is this what you really want or is age matter to you? Yeah. Okay. Okay. And does like their status and where they're at and their life experience matter to you? But that's interesting. He's younger than you because that life experience card showed up of like, no, no, he has depth. Like he can, yeah, he can understand things. I didn't realize he was

like the age gap was younger. So yeah, he's younger. Yeah. Yeah. Okay. Well that makes sense. But you do, this is another question everyone asked. You do see me getting married again. Yeah. Yes. This ring 1000%. This is, this is, this is, you're definitely getting married. I just, it showed up behind you. So it just means, I don't know. I don't know if this is the person or not. Sometimes I feel like my spirit guides don't necessarily want me to know. They're like, figure it out on your own. Okay. So, so this is this is like I struggled with for a long time. Like when I started doing this work, I was like, I just want to know everything before it happens. And then I can live my life. Yeah. And then I realized, like, that doesn't leave any room for the universe to surprise you. Yeah. That doesn't leave any like magic. Yeah. That was coming from

a place of, oh, my God, my life sucks. I can't deal with this. And that was coming from a place of oh my god my life sucks I can't deal with this and that was when I was working my corporate job and I just wasn't happy and so my Quinn agrees she's like I agree she's like yep you can't do that um so yeah they're only sometimes only gonna tell because it'll take away the magic they cannot and that's the other thing like your spirit guides and this is something to watch out for from other I guess if you go to another psychic another medium if they tell you without a shadow of a doubt you should or should not do something just run

because like it's like they shouldn't be interfering with your free will okay that's such a good tip and if anyone tries to tell you like

oh you have this thing come back and pay me this to fix it absolutely not run okay if they're not willing to help you in that moment

then no then like it's not a thing don't be like that's such good If they're not willing to help you in that moment, then no. Then like, it's not a thing. Don't be like. That's such good advice. Like catfishing to bring you like, or doing more things. Because I mean, obviously there's a lot of frauds like that. Oh my God, I know.

That is the one thing about, and I say you just have to use your intuition and or word of mouth. That's like where I get a lot of my clients. But yeah, it's hard. Cause there's no regulatory like body for the work as a medium. There's no one that says you have to at least be able to do this in order to say you're

a medium. Like a doctor, you have to pass. You have to go to school and pass the lawyer. You have to be able to like perform certain things. There isn't that for what we do, which can be a little reckless. You're like messing with people's lives. I know. If you don't really know what you're doing.

Exactly. Exactly. It's hard. It's hard. So I have a lot of people come to me and they're like, this person said this. And I'm like, OK, just breathe. Like, yeah, you free will. Oh, you.

This doesn't have to happen. Like you can. And I work a lot in my mediumship. I love helping clients with manifesting. Like we're laughing about all the like the dating and all that stuff. And we're doing these quick little things. But we've talked in the past about like what needs to be healed? What limiting beliefs are perhaps going on? Like what needs to shift or change before the person comes in? Like, I love working with clients to be able to help

manifest like the thing that you want, the job that you want, the baby that you want, the house that you want. And that's through one, the validations, like that thing that no one would ever know. It like cuts through the ego and the mind and the bullshit telling you like, that's never going to happen. Well, if this thing that I say is true or your guides say is true, like the validation, then doesn't that make a lot of the other stuff true? Like you will get married. You will find a great job. You are meant for more, right? It's so true. And then when you have that, your like neural pathways and science are like open up to,

you can start making changes. Oh, wow. It's like it helps you to like unlock that part in your brain so you don't keep self-sabotaging. And instead you can start making small little changes that lead to the big ones. Yeah. It's having that trust. Like, OK, I know it's coming. Yes. So now I can just kick back and relax because I know it's coming. Yeah. I had a I had a like a client say that she's like, you gave me faith again. Yeah. Yeah. You gave me faith that I'm not alone. You gave me faith that I'm going to meet somebody or I'm

going to have that baby. And I was like, yeah. Yeah. And I mean, I have one of my best friends. We could probably say it be like you did that for her, too, before she met David. Yeah. You know, so I remember it vividly. God, it does. It just it gives you a lot of peace. I find a lot of peace having sessions with you, which is really nice. Yeah. One more question that people wanted to know is how do you know when you're on the right path? So technically there's no right or wrong path, right? It's all just, I have to, I have to say it. I know it's not what everyone wants to hear, but I will not be quoted not saying I will not be quoted. So technically there's no right or wrong path. Right. But to know if you're on the right one. So if you're having to question it, then there's probably a different path for you.

Oh, I love that. Yeah. Right. If it's not sitting well with you. Exactly. Yeah, okay. If you're like, I don't know, is there more? The fact that you're asking that probably means there's more.

Okay. Or if you're in a relationship and you're like, I don't like being someone you're like, I don't know, is this it? Like, is this the forever? Is this everything? Probably not. There's probably something more out there for you. And that's like your little soul inkling trying to nudge you in a different

direction. So when you're with a soulmate, it is like a full body. Yes. What you've said. It's like, I'm, you're not questioning it. Like you just know you feel it in your soul. Yeah. And I would say too, that I get a lot of people that are worried about being able to trust that again, after they've gone through a really bad divorce or a bad breakup. And I like to tell them, look, you're different. You learned a lot from that last one. And now you're going to recognize the red flags that maybe you ignored in the beginning or throughout the process and respond differently. Yeah.

Yeah. Yeah. And a soulmate is someone that like as in a relationship soulmate, like dating, even a friendship soulmate. Like I believe our friends can be soulmates. Our kids can be soulmates. There's someone that makes you feel like you can do anything. Okay. Yeah. You can, you can have any of your dreams. You can, they can support you like that. At least that's what I'm calling him for me too. Like

that's what you want, right? Like someone that's just going to make you feel like you can, you can do anything. You can be anything. You can achieve anything. I love that. Yeah. So don't settle for anything less than that. I will not. I am not. Sparky gave you that feeling. I didn't see it. So far. But again, it's very early with Sparky.

Sparky. Oh my God. God, Cindy, I love you. I could talk to you forever. This was so fun. So fun. This is so fun. I really appreciate you being here.

Thank you. I feel like we'll have to do it again. I feel like people are going to absolutely love this. And then tell everyone where they can find you being here. I feel like we'll have to do it again. I feel like people are going to absolutely love this. And then tell everyone where they can find you. Yeah. So most of my community is on Instagram. It's revealing soul, all one word. I finally got the blue check marks.

Like you won't get scammed. Yeah, I finally got that. But a lot of it's on. So I have subscriptions on there where I answer like stuff in DMs. I pull cards every week for clients. So cool. Yeah. So and then you're just a great follow,

like really inspiring, like get you like the quotes and all the like portals that you post, like everything is just like very cool. Oh, thank you. That's so sweet. So yeah, so I do I do a lot of free content and then the subscription is paid. You get a little more. And then I do virtual group sessions, one to one sessions. I'm doing more in-person stuff in York. And people can book through just Instagram. Through Instagram or revealing soul.com. Okay. Revealing soul.com. It's at revealing soul on Instagram. I'm on TikTok, but I don't use it very often. So sorry about that. It's probably good. I'm like so sucked in now. It's a lot. It's a lot. I'm Instagram's where I'm at. So yeah, revealing soul, revealing soul.com. And then you have a podcast, right? Oh yeah. Thank you.

I'll plug it for you. Thank you for plugging the podcast. Yeah. Thank you. I have a podcast called slightly spiritual with my very dear friend Allie. And we talk about all things spiritual. We can, people submit questions all the time. We have cool guests on. Amazing. And yeah, it's partly spiritual, partly some pop culture. Cause we love, I'm on a, you know, we love talking about what's happening in the world of- Celebrity. Yeah. Me too, apparently, on this podcast. So yeah.

Amazing. And then did you do a code? I do. Okay. Yeah. Okay. So you have a code. It's honest, just honest. And it's 20% off of anything, any service that you book.

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