Let's Be Honest with Kristin Cavallari - My Audition to Join the Montana Boyz

Episode Date: March 26, 2024

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The following podcast is a Dear Media production. This is Let's Be Honest with Kristen Cavallari, a podcast all about getting real and open on everything from sex, relationships, reality TV, wellness, family, and so much more. And just a fair warning, there will probably be some oversharing. Welcome in to Let's Be Honest. I'm your host, Kristen Cavallari. And today, we are at my house with three boys, TikTok stars, the Montana boys. We have Mark, Caleb, and Cade, aka Cutter. Welcome, guys. How's it going? Thanks for having us. Good. Thank you.

Happy you guys are here. Okay, so you guys just moved to Nashville. What do we think so far? Yeah, it's been good so far. It's pretty fast-paced, but we're not really used to it. And we've been having fun. Yeah, since we've moved down here, we've kind of noticed how more fast-paced for us the city life is compared to Montana. The food is bomb. Food's fire. Where have you guys been going?

What are your favorite spots? We went to Edley's about four times. Oh, Edley's is so good. Barbecue. And what was the deli called? The 50. 51st Deli. 51st Deli, yeah.

I don't know about this place. You guys are going to have to teach me. It's good. Bakersfield Tacos. Taco Tuesday. No, Redheaded Stranger. Tacos all day long. It's on the list.

Okay, okay. You got to go. I think Mark's been actually. I have actually. Okay, so I got to ask though. You guys are the Montana boys on TikTok, but now you're living in Nashville. to go. I think Mark's been actually. I have actually. Okay. So I got to ask though, you guys are the Montana boys on TikTok, but now you're living in Nashville. So how's that working as far as the branding goes? Are we changing the name? What's happening? So the brand will stay

as the Montana boys, but we're just going mobile. Montana boys go mobile. Montana boys on the road, huh? Yes, ma'am. Okay. Okay. So when I first prepped this podcast, nothing was going on with Mark and I, and I've been sitting here for the last few weeks like, all right, how am I going to play this? So I've decided I'm keeping all of my questions the exact same. I'm not changing a damn thing. And I was told you guys are going to be really honest with me. So we're just going to have some fun. Okay. Let's be honest. Let's do it. Let's be honest. Perfect. Okay, so you guys obviously don't have a hard time meeting girls, right? So I want to know why you two are single right now and why you waited so long to get into something. Yeah, honestly, I would say there's a couple different reasons, but the main reason would be just because we're bad at talking to girls.

No, I don't think that's true at all. That's not true. Well, I mean, really, sometimes we get pretty awkward and we get nervous. I think my case is I have to go out with these two guys every time. So it's a tough world out there. But I can spit game, though, fortunately. I believe it. It works out for me.

But we're coming from the underdog position. So, hey, we're learning. I feel like you're the sweet one. You're the really sweet one. Like the little lovable puppy. But I think really. He's a Rottweiler. On a real note, like coming from Montana,

you kind of got to understand like the sus pool of dating in Montana. There's like barely a million people there in the first place right so they're the five most beautiful girls or whatever five of your best friends have already slept with them right so it's like that eliminates yeah most of girls yeah that makes sense so are you guys just going buck wild now that you're here in nashville and the options are limitless we're all going buck wild other than marquess good answer cutter good answer honestly yeah i mean it's been fun because you know it's a whole different scene when we go out it's completely different vibe broadway like just the amount of people on broadway would be like the

whole amount of people in our town so it's that's wild honestly yeah so it's a whole whole change up but we love it it's kind of our vibe for sure yeah i love that so okay how do you guys typically meet girls is it like sliding into the dms like how is it going down at age 24 by the way you guys are 24 and you're 20 22 22 okay it will just turn 24. Happy birthday. Thank you, Kirsten. Yeah. DMs are,

DMs are fun. Yeah. Okay. So what's like the go-to line when you slide into someone's DMs? That's the hardest part is thinking of what to say. Okay. Yeah. So, so you don't have a go-to line.

It changes for every girl. It changes. Or there's like five that you use. Honestly, whatever I think of at that moment, if I think it's good, I'll do it. But.

Okay. And what's the response rate for you? Pretty high. I think of at that moment, if I think it's good, I'll do it. Okay. And what's the response rate for you? Pretty high? I mean, honestly, like... I wouldn't say high. I definitely have some out there in the cloud that will never get response to, but... Okay. Yeah, I don't know. Maybe like 50%. Okay.

What are the go-to lines for you guys? I love you. What up, sugar? That's usually what I hit on. Wait, Mark, what did you say? What did you say, Mark, what did you say? What did you say, Mark? What did you say? What did you say, Mark? Well, I thought I was on my own account,

but I was on the Montana Boys account, and I DMed Kristen, and I said, I love you right off the bat. So, okay. I don't think I've told you guys this. So, this is back, I think you DMed me in October. So, like, probably September, October. I don't think I've told you guys this. So this is back. I think you DM me in October. So like probably September, October, I saw you guys on Tik TOK and I was like,

who the fuck are the Montana boys? Mark specifically, I was like, this guy is so hot. So I sent it to my best friend and I was like, look how hot this guy is. And we both were like, yeah, wow. He's amazing. Okay, great. Like three or four weeks later, I get a DM from the Montana boys that said, I love you. And I was like, oh my God, it's fate. So then what do I do? Because I have no chill. I was like, I want to get you guys on my podcast. And then long story short, I put you guys in touch with my assistant who booked you

guys on the podcast. And then she told me you guys were moving here. And I was like, what the fuck? This is crazy. So it was meant to be. Yeah. To add on to that, when he did dm you we got we got a dm back and i was the first one to find it i was like who in the hell dm kristen cavallari

on our account because she just responded and we were all pretty pumped and i was like oh no oh shit i was supposed to have my own account yeah i was like what the heck and then i remember you responded you go i think you did tell her that it was you, right? Eventually, I asked who I was talking to. And he said, Mark. And I said, oh, good. You're my favorite. Yeah.

Thank God I did it on that account. Because I don't know. I wouldn't have seen it. I don't think you would have seen it. I don't think I knew your name at the time. So I saw the Montana boys and I was like, oh, my God. That's true. It worked out.

It worked out. Okay, cool. Love that. Okay, so when i say the term fuck boy what do you guys think of uh cutter you can take this one yeah it's a tough one honestly fuck boy is like i would just say a guy that doesn't really care about a girl's feelings you know i mean you can be a guy that doesn't really care about a girl's feelings, you know? I mean, you can be a guy that, you know, if you go hook up, as long as you are respectful,

I wouldn't say you're exactly a fuckboy. But if you're rude and if you are disrespectful and you go about hooking up and you keep doing it and you stay in that way, then I would say that is kind of what a fuckboy is. Spot on. Bad manners. Along with. I think it matters on your demeanor, too. just like how you carry yourself day in and day out so are there any girls out there who would refer to you guys as fuckboys potentially absolutely 95 percent of

them all of them not all of them but yeah we've definitely good amount yeah yeah uh okay so so we don't have manners we're not respectful what's? Well, I don't think that's just our terminology on it. Right. Girls are like, ah, you know. I think we get this persona just because of how we portray ourselves on social media. But like if you actually get to know us, I would say we're not completely fuckboy. Yeah. But I mean, there's a little bit of fuckboy in there, no doubt.

I mean, I think you guys are also young. Like this is when you're supposed to be fuckboys. But I would agree with that. I think you guys have a certain image this is when you're supposed to be fuck boys but I would agree with that I think you guys have a certain image and when you do get to know you you're not you're not bad guys thank you for she's up no problem um have you guys ever been in a serious relationship um yeah I mean as serious as a year-long relationship can be you know yeah I think but were you in love that's the thing i mean i don't know i i feel like if i was in love i would still be with that person so oh but do you feel like love is something that can only happen once in your life absolutely not i'm with caleb i think you can love

somebody for like who they are and you can find like true love in that so like you can love someone for who they are but being in love with someone is different i think you can only be in love with one person but you can love someone for who they are like don't get me wrong i love my ex for who she was she's a great person but i'm not in love you know okay so okay it's kind of how i'd go about that you guys agree with that yeah i think like sometimes you definitely get like what cutter's saying kind of like you get almost like forced into saying I love you just because you're like six months into it. But like you really aren't in love technically. But it's just like this generation now, it's like you almost got to say it like at a certain point or something.

Otherwise, like she's gone. Yeah. And like for my experience, I was in love with the idea of what it could be. Yeah, I get that. I wasn't necessarily in love with her. I was in love with what I thought it could be in my own head. I thought I was in love, but looking back, reflecting, I wasn't in love. Yeah.

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offer valid through 5-31-2024. So I think having multiple situationships at once is kind of the norm now, right? Would you guys agree with that? I'd agree, yeah. So like how many girls are in rotation at the moment? Well, moving here? Yeah. So like in Montana, we all had our own reputation. Which was what?

Depends who you ask. Yeah, depends who you ask. I mean, they weren't great from a lot of people. Okay. But so like moving here, we kind of have a clean slate. That's nice. Which is super like refreshing and nice. Yeah. So, so like moving here, we kind of have a clean slate. That's nice. Which is super like refreshing and nice.

Yeah. So like, I honestly don't really have any. You've got no girls right now. Like I'm texting some, but I'm not like. You're not seeing them. Yeah.

Okay. Because I want to like, I don't want to move down here and then like. Get tied down. Yeah, hook up with all these girls. Why would you do that?

I don't know. It's crazy. Why would you do that? Well, I can understand his situation. But like, I'm saying like, I don't want to be known as this guy that's moved down here that's you know trying to hook up with all these girls oh okay oh you're trying to like have a good reputation yeah you don't want to have like 10 girls in rotation and then be known as a player exactly it's not that i

don't want that but it's like what's best for me right now you're being mindful of your reputation okay respect that cutter i agree with him 100 like having a reputation with what we're diving into is a big deal you don't want to be known as you know because people know who you are yeah so you're worried about people just like trashing the montana boys exactly yeah okay i mean i get that's definitely part of it it It's a real thing. Yeah. Okay. Okay. You got to respect the brand. You do. It's a real thing because people love to trash on a brand. Yeah.

That makes sense. Okay. What makes you guys attracted to a girl? Like qualities? Yeah. Do we know them already or are we just. Just know like, like describe your dream girl. Oh, that's so hard.

I mean, if you do know her, that's cool too. Um, I think it's like right to your left. Right. Like someone like hard to write to my left. I don't know. I think even these guys could agree. Like I was kind of like, like, uh, I don't even know, like a powerful, like a powerful woman or you know what I mean?

Like just someone that's like, you know what i'm saying yeah no yeah like the confident somebody like keeps me on my toes at all the times you know where i'm always like wondering what the next move is going to be in a weird way i don't know i like that i can do that and i know you can't i don't really know but it's somebody that like always is wanting to like the best for me. And like, I can chase that rather than like you're dating a girl and you're like, oh yeah, it's whatever. She's cute. I like her. But when it comes down to it, like what's tomorrow going to look like?

Like how happy is she gonna make me the next day? Yeah. And if she can't do that, then it's like, that's kind of like. But how does a girl make you happy is it like like taking care of you like putting your best interests in mind like what does that look like for you or what did you call those three and we were talking about the three forms of affirmation or something um the love languages okay there's five of them right there's five okay so words of affirmation so you need to. Okay. So words of affirmation. So you need to hear like, I'm words of affirmation.

Like you need to tell me you love me. Touch, gift giving, quality time and acts of service. So like making dinner for you, like doing your laundry, like that kind of stuff. Yeah. I would say mine is definitely quality time. Okay. And a good dinner would be fire. Okay.

So acts of service. Yeah. That's big time. That's big time. That's big time. I know, Mark loves to cook. Absolutely love it. Gotta be able to cook. But definitely like just quality time,

like respecting each other's time and then like when you do have time with each other is like important to me. Yeah, you're locked in. What are you attracted to in a girl? I think one of the biggest things

when I'm like really thinking about a girl, like relationship wise, is she's got to be completely confident in herself and understand like who she is, what she's doing in life, where she's going. And then she's got to be happy first off with herself. It has to be or else it's going to be really hard. The fact that you're 22 and can say this though, like that actually kind of blows my mind because I wasn't aware of that stuff when I was 22. And that's the most important thing I would say.

Yeah. Self-love. Yeah. Yeah. A hundred percent. If you, I mean, if they can't love themselves and they're not coming into the relationship from a growth aspect, rather than I need you to make me happy, you know, then it's going to be very tough to be able to pursue that and have it grow. But wow. That's about it i'm impressed so you guys don't act your age you're much more mature go out with us on friday night yeah well i think we can all get along yeah we'll see tonight at barstool with cutter so in my early 20s there was no social media or if there was i wasn't on it i don't think i joined

until like 25 myspace oh yeah there yeah, there's MySpace. I had MySpace when I was like 18. You're right. But I feel like it's completely changed dating, social media has. Do you guys feel like, obviously there's like so many women at your fingertips. Is it like, do you feel like you're always looking for the next best thing? I think just in our timeframe, like the level of instant gratitude that everybody expects it definitely does affect that but i also agree with it showing the more truer version of you because everything is posted everything is everything's out there you know like you can't hide anything anymore so yeah it does show a truer version but it does the instant gratification

just in our day and age does make it a little bit tough. It does because like, there's always like the FOMO, there's this, there's that. But I think like in my personal experience or like, I think that you'll know, if you know, you'll know, like there's always a next best thing you think in your head. But like, if you can rather like not go do the next best thing and sit there with like the girl that you love, then I think, you know, social media doesn't even really play a part. Okay.

Yeah. Just an avenue to use. Yeah. That makes sense. Obviously girls are sliding into the DMs constantly. What is the craziest thing a girl has said to get your attention? I actually just saw one this morning because I was just going through. I was, I was curious.

Can I say it? Please. I'll pull it up. I can't wait. Oh boy. I can curious. Can I say it? Please. I'll pull it up. I can't wait. Oh, boy. I can't wait. I thought it was so funny. I will not say her name, but.

No, please. She's so. Okay, no, this was yesterday. This is last night at 817. Okay. I would sit on your face all day, every day. Hard eyes, hard eyes, heart. Correct.

Oh, my God. And well. So what, heart. Correct me. Oh my God. And well. So what did you say back? I'm just kidding. I didn't respond, but. No, you did the fire emoji. Oh my God. That's so great.

Okay. What's the overall temperature of guys your age with relationships? Like, are you wanting to be in a relationship or are you trying to not catch feelings as they say? Catch flights, not feelings. Shut up, Brooks. Shut up, Brooks. Well, I think from

what we've all heard from people that are older than us is don't settle down. Yeah. Wait to settle down. You do it at 22, you're going to wish

you didn't at 27, stuff like that. Yeah. So right now, we have the opportunity to not settle down. So I think in Montana where we come from,

like there's definitely that culture, the good old boy, like there's definitely that, that culture, the good old boy, like I want to marry my high school sweetheart. There's definitely still that going on everywhere. But like from our experiences, I don't want to settle down right now. I know Cutter doesn't,

I don't know about this guy. I don't know about this guy either. But I know that like, there's so many different things that could happen in the future. Yeah. Why not like try to get those like in your twenties? Yeah. See what happens.

I do think like from our perspective as well, it's not that we don't want to settle down. We just have individual goals that we really want to reach. That's true too. And being with someone right now would be tough. I mean, Mark Estes is fine. He's God looking. He'll be okay.

He'll be okay. But definitely have some personal goals that we want to reach. So it's kind of tough to do that when you're locked down and you're focusing on a relationship yeah you want to work on yourself as much as you can before you get into the next one yeah okay but what if you met your dream girl that's what we're talking about the window yeah me and caleb actually had a pretty deep talk the other day in the truck about that it was like like would you settle just because of your age or whatnot like and it's like we're talking about like yeah i'm 24 but at the same time like what if i don't want to settle and then five years later i'm like fuck that was the one

yeah like is it you know what i'm saying like yeah you don't want to have any regrets like if someone came along right now and i completely fell in love heck yeah i'm gonna settle down is what we want to call it give it a shot i mean at the end of the day i think calling it settle down is kind of a bad term. Yeah. You know? Yeah. Because I mean, when you find the one, it's the one. And it doesn't matter what time frame it is. That's true.

Okay. This next question, I swear to God, I wrote before anything ever happened with Mark and I. Just want to throw that disclaimer out there. Okay. So when I was 23, I met my ex-husband, which is crazy to think about because I was like, essentially y'all's age. So if you guys met the love of your life right now, do you think you could get married in the next couple of years? Wrote it before anything ever happened. Not just asking because I'm on

Mark, you want to answer this question? I knew that was coming. Yeah. I think it goes back to what I was talking about. I think if she's the one, she's the one. I don't think there's really a timeframe necessarily on it. And that's like kind of the stigma it's like there's a stigma out there saying like oh you're young you don't really know what you want or like you haven't had enough experiences or you haven't been with enough girls uh figure that out but I just think like I don't know everyone's kind of at their own race you know that's fair okay what do you guys think the best quality about yourselves is for our relationship? I can think of yours.

Oh, that's cute. No, I'm just saying. Say it for each other. I think the most important one is just like self-love. Like you love yourself, so you're not relying on a girl to fulfill anything. I think the biggest thing would be like putting yourself in the other partner's shoes and knowing like what's the situation is because you might think that like you're right at times and then you like flip your perspective to the other person and you're like oh shoot

look at you that's such a good quality there you go okay okay. Are you empathetic? We can be empathetic. I'm talking to you after this. Good quality. Marky baby. So what was the question exactly? What are you bringing to the table there, bud? I don't know.

How would you answer that? He's hunky. This is my body's hunky. I'm hunky. Hunky model. You know, okay. I'll answer it for you. I feel really safe with you. Like, I feel like you could protect me in more ways than one.

You could put somebody to head and arm, like rear naked, something like that. Absolutely. Okay. I've been there actually. It's not fun. It's not the best time, is it? if you love athleisure wear you're definitely going to want to check out rowback i just got some of their pieces and i am obsessed you guys the best way to describe rowback is best fit best feel and that is absolutely true they recently launched a new women's line and comfortable would

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Really? I don't think that's true. I don't think it's true right away. Okay. But I think like, like if there was a girl, I'm like, I want to date her and we hang out the first time she pukes all over me, then I'm going to get the egg,

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I want to date her and then she pukes on me and then I'm like, oh, well, I mean, okay. You know,

that's fair. Okay. Okay. You could like have this idea in your head of like what it could be. Night one, she's puking down your leg in the car. You're like.

She can't hold her booze. Yeah. And why are you doing this in the first place? Like, why are you puking like this? So could you be in the wants nothing to do with you box and that could grow over time? And all of a sudden you're in the date box? No. Yes.

I think so. Really? I don't know. I agree with you i think it's very tough to go from unless they have an insane personality yeah and you're just like wow that's what i'm saying but you don't like you don't know anything about her though like you just think a girl's hot or whatever and then you end up hanging out through like you don't you just want to hang out there she's hot and you guys are banging or whatever but and then you put her into a box maybe like

a week later though you actually figure out like who she is and like yeah that makes her even better like her morals and stuff that'd be the yeah so then you'd want to date her that i think that'd be the only way because you have to get to know her like if she's not in the dateable box and you don't get to know her and all you do is like hang out with her and hook up then there's no way she's moving yeah okay but so is this like off the bat you've just seen them or is this like you know that's what i'm saying too that's what i know i think it's i think you know her so like once you know a girl a little bit i thought you meant like first appearance no i know and i get what you guys are saying i don't actually know but i'm assuming it's more like you know her a little bit so like

when you know a girl a little bit it's not like first glance you're like i want to date her yeah then it's definitely tough yeah then it's tough to move yeah but like you know her a little bit and then it's hard to move from box to box yeah and it just depends on like they treated you too okay yeah that makes sense because there's definitely those girls that like we've all experienced that you know oh you're this you're that so then they're in the i don't want anything to do with you box yeah but then you kind of get past that and you're like oh you're actually cool you're not so bad yeah you yeah okay that makes sense do you guys like when a girl makes the first move how do you feel about that love it you love it love it if a girl makes the first move

it's a generation like i don't think i could ever make the first move the stress though yeah because like people like girls just expect the guy to make the first move so like when a girl actually does it it's like all right that that's cool that's like yeah you feel good yeah you want to have a good day you're like a little pep in your stuff interesting because i go back to again if he wanted to he would so like if he wanted to come talk to me he would yeah but that's like think about all the guys out there that are just scared to make the first move yeah i know but i don't want that guy yeah but everyone goes through that phase they're like how do i do it should i even do it okay everyone goes through like maybe i shouldn't how she can respond okay so it's like if the girls put all that pressure

on just the guys yeah then it's like, oh, we're screwed. Okay. But when they do it, when they do it every once in a while, it's like, okay, I am,

I'm freaking cool. Okay. Okay. Gives you a little confidence. Yeah, it gives you confidence. Yeah. Okay.

So it makes you feel good. Like, for example, Mark with you is like, for him, you're like, no offense, like you're big time,

right? It's like, no, like realistically. So him making the first move, he might be like, oh dang, I don't want to, I don't want to push this you know i don't want to he really wants i sort of actually

like he did the initial i love you and then i had to kind of like yeah exactly and that's just kind of like yeah it's tough sometimes in the situations you're in but that doesn't mean they're not confident yeah no okay i get that i get that all right i'm gonna do a little section where i'm gonna give you guys a scenario and it's who's most likely to do X out of the group. Okay. Let's go. Who's most likely to ghost a girl? Caleb.

Mark. I don't know. Mostly. I mean, that's a hard one. I think I'm going to say like all three of us, honestly, like you guys are totally cool to just go. I mean, it depends like what kind of I mean. Yeah. I mean, yeah. no we're attracted heck yeah yeah we'll let them know like be like you'll say like i'm just not interested or you're literally right no i'm not yeah i don't know what's indefinite ghost you're fucking ghosting so like you you've maybe hung out

with a couple times and then you just don't and then you just stop i would never i don't think we ever go oh you guys are good guys. Okay. I would say, I mean, I can't do this anymore. Okay. So you'll say, yeah, you'll say.

Okay. Give them an explanation for sure. Yeah. Okay. I mean, like if it's one night thing, then yeah, there might be no text the next day. But if you're talking,

if you've hung out a couple of times, no, I mean, I'm going to at least let you know. Okay. That's good. But yeah, I would say one night thing

kind of brought this cake. Do we really I'm surprised me too okay who's most likely most likely to call their mom every day we're all kind of

mama's boys that's why you guys are good boys okay yeah I think we all call our mom pretty similarly our moms all talk too

so they do they're all buds. Oh, that's so cute. Okay, who's most likely to get their heart broken? Cutter. Yeah, I'd probably say Cutter. I don't know. It's kind of hard because we're all the same person when it comes to these questions.

We're all pretty similar. We just kind of fall in the same categories, but I'd maybe say Cutter, too. Yeah, I would say Cutter. Okay. Who's most likely to break a girl's heart? Mark Estes. Yeah.

Really? You're going to go with me on that? I'm going to kill Winterbird. I'm going to kill all day. You wanted to say that. Yeah, it probably may help. Okay. Who's most likely to tell a girl what they want to hear just to get them in bed got her i knew you were gonna say that hey i'm gonna be honest i'm going with caleb you guys can put mark in there too if you want i mean you know honestly no mark mark wouldn't do that okay who's never say I love you to some random

girl. You have to say I love you to them. Yeah, I guess. That's what they want to hear. Who's most likely to say I love you first? If you guys were all in a relationship, who's falling in love the quickest? That's tough.

All pretty similar, I'd say. We really are though like cause that's why we're best friends cause it's just like we understand each other so much it's like we do the same damn things

yeah and we all have had like one relationship that we had when we were adults to like see how we were in relationships okay

and they all kind of panned out the same exactly they're all like the same time frame really oh wow that's interesting yeah

okay it's fun though okay who's most likely to plan a romantic date They're all like the same time frame. Really? Yeah. Oh, wow. That's interesting. Okay. God, this whole section sucks. It's fun though. Okay. Who's most likely to plan a romantic date? Oh, I'd say Mark. Yeah.

Honestly. We can go with Mark. Yeah. Okay. Who's most likely to have multiple girls in rotation or the most girls in rotation? Caleb Winterburn. Ah, dang it. No. I i'm gonna go with the dark knight caleb winterburn batman here okay let's talk about y'all's social media presence so you guys

are tiktok stars how did the montana boys start we uh were just playing beard eye one day and we threw up tiktok it was my old account and it went viral. Thank God for Mark hopping in the tick tock. Mr. Blue hat. What song was it? It was good for you. Yeah.

Good for you. There you go. We were just goofing around. Yeah. We were just goofing around. It went viral. And then we were like, all right,

let's do a couple more. Kept going viral. And then we switched the account to Montana boys and it was raps from there. And then like 10 months ago ish. I mean're all in college we're all like and mark was about to fall below 10 000 followers on instagram so this is a real story too it's like boys we gotta get we gotta get our shit together we gotta post on our tiktok so then like last march ish we started posting more and luckily like our third one we posted blew up and we're like okay let's try to like really do this thing yeah this

is all because mark did not want to drop below 10k on instagram thank god so like actually thank god for that you gotta strip it again here we are okay how much thought goes into your videos like are you guys having like creative conversations about it or is it more just like oh let's you know we're like already out here in montana let's like throw up a video honestly at first it was like we battled with it at first we didn't really know what the hell we're doing because no one else does it montana so it's like we had like no advice and we weren't talking to like any other tiktokers from anywhere so we had no advice so we kind of just were copying what other people were doing at the time but now it's nice living here because we're kind of in it with like other tiktokers i've been doing it for a long time and just

just flows makes it easier i think learning from them i think the biggest advantage we had was the background yeah as well as like how we look on the camera or whatever but i think the background and the montana vibe yeah at the time after yellowstone glacier park yellowstone yeah just like everything that montana is for itself and then on top of that we're dancing or whatever well we're bad at dancing but like we did right with the gas station vibes yeah a long time yeah we're like i think that was the first one i ever saw and i was like this is so cool and then we're like well we got sunsets here yeah because everyone else was doing the gas station yeah i didn't know that we're like should

we do it and we're like so we're just trying to go like honestly what it took to go viral that's what we're and that's just i mean okay just copying other people really and then we kind of realize like we were like okay what do we have off we what do we have to offer that other places don't and that's the whole country thing and that we all like know well you're like all right let's just do this let's try this more i saw you guys posted a montana video this morning so are you going to keep doing like nashville and montana do you have enough content thing no but i think we'll be going back like quite a bit like okay so you'll film yeah yeah when we go back home like we'll you know take some montana content yeah i know during like hunting season we'll be going back a lot so it'll be we'll do some videos when we go back

this summer as well too we'll be back a lot okay nice okay so what's next for you guys you have belmont acres your clothing brand that's doing really well right how's that going doing good yeah we just had our first month and it honestly better than we thought i was gonna go good so will you do another collection yeah so we're gonna do another drop and we're gonna change up the style a little bit just a little bit because we're kind of just testing the waters right now we don't really know what's gonna work and what's not yeah so we're gonna test the waters and then uh hopefully it just keeps going love it yeah and then where do you guys see yourself in five years what's the plan on a yacht

no i'm just kidding uh honestly i have no i have no idea i mean considering a year ago i would never expect it to be here i can't really i can't really give you a time frame yeah we have no clue like yeah exactly what he just said if we would have thought that we'd be sitting on your couch last March 1st, he would have said we're fucking crazy. Not like it just happened. So we're thankful that it happened, but we have no idea. Ride that wave. Yeah, we're going to try.

Well, I appreciate you guys coming. This has been really fun. And then tell everybody where they can find you guys. You can find Cutter at Aldine's tonight. Woo! And Caleb at Barstool. Yeah. No, like social media. Yeah. Every Friday night. No, like social media.

Yeah, you can find us at The Montana Boys. Yeah, you can find us at Let me look at the app. Oh, geez. At The Montana Boys. With a Z. With a Z.

I think it's The Montana Boys on Instagram. Our Instagram is The Montana Boys with a Z. Yep, our Instagram. You can find us at The Montana Boys on Instagram and on TikTok.

You can find us at Montana.boys with a Z. With a Z. Amazing. All right, thanks, you can find us at themontanaboys on Instagram and on TikTok, you can find us at montanaboys with a Z. With a Z. Amazing. All right. Thanks, you guys. Thank you, Kristen. Thank you, Kristen.

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