Life Uncut - ASK UNCUT - A Matty J special

Episode Date: January 28, 2021

Happy Friday Lifers!This episode is a day behind because we recorded an entire episode without realising a microphone wasn’t plugged in. Yep, it finally happened. But to be fair it took 18 months and over 100 episodes before it happened so really we think we’ve done pretty darn well! Anyhow it’s here now so get it in your ears. We have special guest host Matty J recoding with Britt today answering all your deep and burning questions because, well, Laura basically has an arm hanging out of her and the birth of her next child is imminent so we’ve cut her some slack and put her on bed rest and we hope you can cut her some slack too! Besides, you get Matty! On the menu today;What do guys really mean when they say “It’s not you it’s just timing. The timing is wrong” do they really mean that or is that a lame ask excuse and a load of bulls*it?I’m 25 weeks pregnant and my boyfriend is not feeling comfortable being romantic with me in the bedroom. Aka, he doesn’t want any sexy time. This is making me feel pretty bad about myself. Should I let it and should I be worried? Is it just me? Or is this a normal thing for men to feel?Why do so many guys not reply on dating apps!? Why do they leave you on matched or just not respond when you write to them!? It’s really starting to get to me.My partner and I have been together for 6 years, we still love each other and we want to stay together but the spark is just gone.How do we bring it back and get some spice back into life? Matt- Why do some males just pound you during sex - literally pound town from start to end. Curious, does that actually feel good for you guys?We hope you love having Matty J on as much as we love having him visit! (From the lounge room to the studio haha ) Keep the questions coming in guys! Slide on in to our Instagram DM’s @lifeuncutpodcast and title the message “ask uncut”If you loved the ep please hit subscribe, leave a review and share the love, because, well, we love love xSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Hey guys and welcome back to another episode of Life Uncut. This is Ask Uncut. It is our Thursday edition, our down and dirty quick edition where we answer your deepest, darkest secrets. I'm Brittany and I have a very special co-host on the episode today because Laura has an arm hanging out of her vagina and she couldn't quite be here with us today. Matty J, welcome to the pod. Look, it's good to be here. I have to start off by apologizing because... Is this a mutual apology?

Well, look, I'll put my hand up and say that I was at fault here. Obviously, this episode coming out is a little bit late. When we recorded this a couple of days ago, I looked at my microphone. It was unplugged. I kind of handed it to you. I didn't say plug it in. I think you grabbed it. We started talking.

Next thing, the episode's finished. Let me explain this a little bit better, guys. Maddie J and I did record this a few days ago. It was always planned. We had three microphones sitting on the desk because we always have an extra microphone for when we interview people matt handed me his cord and somehow in the kerfuffle i have plugged in the third microphone into his port and i left his unplugged we then proceeded to record an entire episode that was quality without matt even it was pretty good it was pretty good it was solid and

when i say pretty good we walked away being like nailed it that was absolute golden like we mic dropped and it was so easy to mic drop because it wasn't plugged in so i want to apologize obviously we take this very serious this is you know it's a little hobby but at the same time oh it's not a hobby well laura's like excuse me this is like okay no because i say i say it's a hobby because well we record this in the bedroom you know i feel like a lot of people out there i mean laura and i still take that seriously it doesn't matter where we are we take this very seriously. This is a very serious job and I hate to come in here and not treat this in at the level that it deserves. I love and I appreciate that you were trying to take responsibility for

this but it would be very unprofessional of me and I wouldn't be a very good friend if I didn't say I was literally the one that didn't plug it in. So I feel like we're equal. I think we can meet halfway. We make mistakes. It'll never happen again. I apologize but I've been making a lot of mistakes lately. Oh god what have you done now? I've had a bad run. You know sometimes you just just some weeks are worse than others literally that's me this week and the microphone was to top it off so yes i feel you i don't know what is going on but i had an accident at icebergs as in the pool the pool not the restaurant i've been really trying to get into my swimming lately okay like a new fitness venture yeah like just something different i'm mixing it up

laura is a really good swimmer i've never been a great swimmer running was more so my sport of choice and at 33 i'm like do you know what it's time to swim okay what have you done except if anyone doesn't know icebergs pool it's an ocean pool so they clean it out once a week sometimes there gets like a bit of a build-up of sand at the bottom of the pool right sure yeah in your lane you have two black lanes marked on the bottom of the pool so you always have to hug the left yeah you just swim straight exactly swimming straight it's very simple not hard to do except at one point I touched the wall, turned around and I got lost because the black mark was all hidden by the sand. Oh, you got lost. It was murky. You got lost going straight.

It was murky. Well, yeah, because I couldn't see the black line. And then only when I kind of realized that maybe I had drifted over and then I did my stroke and I ended up punching this old man right in the forehead, like between the eyes. And I, cause I, you know, I was really trying to swim with a bit of pace here and I've just clocked him. So you hit him with force. I'm like, yeah, I've dropped this old guy. And I was worried for a second because I thought maybe this guy

is going to be knocked out. Because he's laying on the bottom of the pool. And he got up and he was fine, but he was furious and he was blowing up and he was like, what are you doing? Like, you're an idiot. And it was on a Saturday morning and it was in the lane that was closest to where all the seats are. So everyone is there on a Saturday.

You can imagine how busy Icebergs is. If you don't know Icebergs, guys, it is always packed and it's packed with the really serious swimmers. There's the squad training. Yeah, Saturday squad training. Yep, squad training. There's the VIP members that have been there every weekend for their entire existence.

That's probably the man you punched out. He was probably the vice president of Icebergs. I'm now banned from Icebergs. Literally, I had to get out of the pool after that lap. With your tail between your legs. I came home and Laura was like, well, you're home quick. And I was like, I'm never swimming again. Are you actually banned though?

Well, I'm going to take a break. I'm going to take a week off and maybe I'll just stick to swimming in the ocean, not in the pool. Or maybe just go to like a normal mainstream pool, but not like the busiest, most popular pool in Australia. I thought I was up for it. I thought I could do it. Okay, I love that bit. Well, guys, we do have some questions today for you. Matt put some questions out on his story and you guys wrote in hundreds of questions.

Well, that's what you've told me anyway, Matt. Had a really great response. Lots of questions. There were things like, why do guys sit down and pee? Well, I mean, that's an aim thing, isn't it? Like that's a mess thing. Well, sometimes it's just nice to relax. So lots of questions like that I answered actually on my stories.

So is that a lazy thing when guys sit down to pee? I think so, yeah. You know, you just want to sit on your phone. Seeing as most of our audience are females, we probably don't need to go into that one. No. I am going to kickstart with a question of my own. This was something that I sort of just came in and mentioned to Laura and Matt. And they were like, this is actually a good question.

This happens a lot. This is really common. We get it a lot. So I was like, you know what? I'm just going to put it out there. You guys know that I have been seeing someone lately, and that is not a secret. The Daily Mail picked up on some stuff.

It's like I've put some stuff on my stories. Not a lot. I'm not shouting it from the rooftop, but it's out there that I'm seeing someone. You're off the market. Yes. You're good at getting stuff out. Well, my question is, is that this week – Hang on, I'll say it.

So you're very happy right now with how things are progressing. You're not looking elsewhere, so to speak. I am very happy and I am not on the dating apps anymore. I am very focused on this one human that is providing me with a lot of happiness. It is a human. Thanks for confirming. Yeah, guys, I don't want to give too much away. He's a human.

No, I'm very happy. But my question was, right, okay. Now, I am 100% happy. This is just something I thought was really fascinating. i was seeing someone at the start of last year and it was like this weird on and off thing a lot of texting a lot of facetiming all the time a couple of dates here and there he was like very casual though very casual but i quite liked him and he was like i really like you too and he used the excuse of i think you were so perfect that if we actually started dating you could be it for me and

i'm not ready for that that was his excuse now i know better than anyone that that's just an excuse you just don't want to date me whatever but he didn't ever want to not have me around it was a very weird time but it was never like i'm don't want to be in a relationship at all it's not you it's no one don't want it so i was like okay cool like so fine let's move on not going to talk anymore but like also stop calling me incessantly and stop messaging me and stop you know as soon as he knew that i was seeing someone now because he has found out because we we're still friends we're not not friends at all but he's found out he's seen some stuff and he's come crawling back this week i got and i quote you up i got a you up message oh yeah and then i proceeded to say

well like yes i am up but also i'm busy then he wrote want a visitor it's so typical though isn't it so typical i said no i was really honest guys because i believe in that i was like hey like uh that ship sort of have sailed i'm seeing someone i'm happy then he started to facetime me i was like i literally said i'm happy i'm seeing someone take care and then he started facetiming me and he wanted he was like really trying to see me you know it's so typical that as soon as you say no they then come on even stronger and then the more you pull away the more they then try more and more and more well this is the question why not just for me but for all these women because i have so many women that write to us saying like as soon as i don't show

interest anymore they want me are they actually interested or is it just the fact that they're not getting the attention anymore and they feel like something is slipping between their fingers what do you think it is is it more of a like oh my god i didn't realize what i could have had now that they're gone or is it just like hey give me some more attention i think it's as simple as guys just guys want what they can't have you know sometimes you're at a restaurant and you go oh i have the special and they go oh sorry the specials just run out damn that's all i want and then you're like yeah i don't want anything else right now i just want that special is there any way you can whip up a special no i'm so sorry it's gone and you're like shit yeah

right stop thinking about the special yeah so you think it's just fake news it's just it's it's really shit it is so shit it's so shit because it's just messing you about but i think it's wanting to know that they can still get something they once had i tell you what though it felt so great to be the one that's saying no and i know that he would have been like sorry what like what do you mean no not answering his calls because we're friendly i'm always answering it so anyway there's power in that ladies if that happens to you be the one that shuts him down it feels really good actually it's a nice segue into this question brit that we had this person wrote in and said i'm curious to whether guys are legitimate when they say that they're not ready and timing isn't right

for our relationship are they being genuine or is that just a cop out oh do you know i hate that sentence i hate that so much because personally and i have come full circle i used to back in the day i used to be a big believer that timing is everything i was a big believer on i thought i had met my human my penguin a long long time ago and he used to always say to me you're the right person but the timing's wrong like maybe down the track the timing's wrong and I used to believe that then I waited three years and we met up again because he was like I think the timing's right now and I was like yeah it's right and I met him again he was like it's still wrong and that's when I was like you know what fuck you the timing's not wrong you're wrong the fact is

if two people or a job or an opportunity if any of these present themselves to you you can make the timing right i don't believe and i genuinely don't believe from the bottom of my heart that there is a perfect time for everything i think there are obviously going to be more suited times and things like that but i think you need to grab opportunities and you need to make things right for you and you need to put the effort in to make something work if you really really like someone look i agree i think there's never going to be like that perfect time but i know that from my own personal experience. When I moved to London, when I first arrived there, I definitely wasn't looking for a relationship. My priorities were work first and foremost. I got a brand new job

and that's what I wanted to excel at. I wanted to meet new mates. I wanted to travel as well. I didn't want to spend time investing my energy into a relationship. Like I met some people who I thought were really great at the time, but I was pretty open in saying, I'm just not looking for anything serious right now. So for me, timing wasn't right. But I know that when I met Laura, timing was great. You know, I was at a point in my life where I was really ready to prioritize somebody else. And I think it was the same for Laura as well. She definitely had her timeline very in line with mine. Well, I mean, the timing was right for both of you because you were on a dating show. Like that's what made it right. So I think timing does come into play, but I think

when someone says, I'm just not ready for a relationship, I think it doesn't really matter if they're trying to be genuine or maybe they just don't want to hurt your feelings. I think what they're saying is that they don't want to be with you. So when someone's trying to show their true colors, take it for what it is. I really, really agree with that. I think what you just said is really important. And this is my biggest piece of advice that I always give on all of our episodes. If someone does want to be with you, if someone has feelings for you, if they want to see you if they want to contact you or talk to you they 100 absolutely will and I know you will agree with that Matt if a guy wants to message you he will find time he won't be like I've been had a

really busy week he probably has had a busy week but he will still find the time to contact you if someone is saying to you like I'm not looking for a relationship right now the time is just not right like Matt just said the reasons are relevant the underlying message here is I don't want to be with you i don't have the time for you it's tough love 100 and i've been on the receiving end of it everyone's been on the receiving end of it and it sucks like no one wants this unrequited love totally the best thing you can do is be really honest with yourself and that's what i do now i'm just like hey brute guess what the guy doesn't like you move on move on because i think the right person at the wrong time it's still the wrong person yeah ultimately if the right person comes

into your life you're both going to make the time to make it work absolutely all right let's move on to the next question question number two you go brett you go this one i've got this one it's really important question actually i think a lot of people probably find themselves in this sticky situation i can't answer this so it's purely for you i'm pregnant and that's not me that's the question daily mail don't run with that i'm pregnant i'm 25 weeks and my boyfriend is not feeling comfortable being romantic in the bedroom aka he doesn't want to get down and dirty and he doesn't want to go to pound town should i be offended by this and how can i make him want to be intimate with me gosh it's tricky isn't it i fell into the category of someone who found

their partner really attractive when they were pregnant i didn't grow up having like a pregnancy fetish you didn't like google pregnant women on porn hub never like well you know once before but anyway curiosity killed the cat but when laura was pregnant with marley i remember i just thought she was so beautiful. Like if anything, I wanted to have sex with her more, you know, but I know that for other guys, I think they really struggle with the concept of having sex, knowing that there's a little human in there. Cause I think psychologically it can really impact, you know, trying to get into the mood. So do you think that they don't want to have sex because they think they're going to spear the baby in the head or cause some sort of traumatic injury? Or is it

just because they're disturbed that there's a human life in there already? I think it's just the psychology behind it because obviously you know sex is very physical but then I remember there was one time Brit when Marley was just born she was asleep in the cot that was next to our bed we were having sex we heard this little noise I looked across and she was awake and she was kind of standing up holding on to the edge of the cot and she's looking at you and instantly you know I I lost my... Mojo. Yes.

It's like when a dog poos and they look at you, they still have the look of eyes with you. There's nothing worse. You've got to walk away. Nothing worse. I think for some people it can be a little bit off-putting knowing that there's somebody else in the room. So you think it's pretty normal.

I guess there's probably two categories. There's the people that are just so hyper-attracted to pregnancy and they think it's beautiful and they think it's sexy because I have friends that have said that too, that they just find their partner so attractive when they're pregnant. Yeah, Laura's like beating me off with a stick right now. but then there's other friends of mine who you know they were pretty open to me and said that they really struggled to stay sexually active whilst their partner was heavily pregnant the

thought of of having sex in that period of time wasn't appealing to them but i think what's really important is for this person to speak to her partner and to really find out well what is it about having sex that you're struggling with right now like is it you know the concept because i think you can have sex with the lights off because sometimes out of sight out of mind it can help to start easing into being sexually active again. And there are some positions that don't highlight the fact that your partner's pregnant. Like missionary is one where it's very obvious.

So you think like doggy or something? I think so, yeah. Okay, but then I think this is where my mind immediately goes that if he's saying like, okay, fine, I'll have sex with you, but let's turn the lights off and flip you over. Knowing that she's A, a woman, she's B, full hormones, she's going to be like, excuse me, you can get the hell out. you're going to have sex with the lights on and look at me she'll be I think she'll be offended

by that I get totally get what you're saying but I just know as a hormonal pregnant woman that's not going to go down well yeah that's a good point Brit so okay let me rephrase that point if I may you may I think it's very normal that the amount of sex couples have may be reduced during pregnancy but I think it's still important to still be intimate because you can still be intimate you can still satisfy each other without actually having sex I agree and I think it's really important to keep that intimacy it's really important for both people to feel loved and wanted and needed you can still kiss and cuddle and you can still have really nice dinners you can still massage each other you can still get the oils out you can still surprise each

other you could introduce sex toys if it's the fact that you're still attracted to each other but you don't want to actually cross that boundary because it is a psychological thing the most important thing here is to have a really open conversation and if you're feeling really neglected and unloved and unwanted by your partner the worst thing you can do is turn you back roll over and go to bed quietly you need to express that unless that's how you're going to start the doggy style once you're going to back up on it but no i mean like all jokes aside i think it's really important just to have that conversation and move from there as long as you're both feeling understood because otherwise it's going to escalate we all know what happens then it

manifests inside you it gets toxic and then it explodes you don't want to have nine months of no sex no or no action at all like you need to meet halfway that would be a nightmare aka in the middle of the bed halfway yes yeah i think we got that well said okay okay this is a quick one it reads why do so many guys not reply on dating apps i think this is really common i don't actually think that this is just men involved i know a lot of women that don't reply on dating apps either i have been one of them in the past i will raise my hand and say that i have been guilty of that okay when you weren't replying what was the reason for that is that because you'd already started talking to somebody else a little bit earlier and you're invested in them

yeah so personally I do always try and be really open and honest with people because I know what it feels like to be on the receiving end and I always encourage people not to ghost because that's just shit behavior for the times that I have probably done it I think what happens is I would match a lot of people like you just say yes to whoever you start matching then you start to talk to some people and I personally only like to talk to one or two people at a time I don't like 15 conversations at once because I physically don't have the time for it so what I used to do is I used to start to talk to someone and get a little bit invested in that and feel something and I was vibing with them bantering with them and I would just without really meaning to forget

about the others because I didn't have enough brain space for them it was as simple as that it wasn't rude it wasn't for me I wasn't matching for an ego boost 100 definitely not that it's just I couldn't be bothered and I didn't have the time. Okay, because that's a very good explanation. Sometimes, and I still think some girls will do this as well, many years ago, Brit, when I was on dating apps, sometimes you just want a little ego pash and to know that you still got it and it just feels good to get a match

and you're not really looking to start a really serious conversation, but you just want to know that people out there want to see you. And that is exactly right. i think 95 of the time that men aren't responding to you on a dating app it's because they have matched with you for an ego boost and they don't actually care again i hate doing this tough love thing but you can't take any of this personally because it's literally you don't know each other it's a face value you don't know that their friends haven't taken their busy at work but also like i have had friends that have been out drinking with each other they take each other's

phone matt you used to actually do that to mine sometimes you just like swipe crazy make matches for me when i didn't even know about it i used to do that quite a lot that was like hey where's your phone i would matt was like can i just check this post of yours or something like that i'd give you my phone i'd get it back and i had like 50 matches then i had people all right legend no because you would yeah i get what that means now yeah i had so many matches um but then there'll be messages in my dms like he would just start messaging people in my dms and i'm not kidding he would do this to me all the time so you don't know that things like that aren't happening as well. So I think the worst thing you can do is take this personally. If you have messaged them

and they don't message back, cop that one on the chin and move on. Absolutely. Do not take this personally because it's not a reflection of you as a person. It's just a guy who's probably wanting a little bit of a boost. He doesn't know you. You don't know him. So definitely don't dwell on the matches that don't respond back to you. Yeah. And think of how many people you have matched and not responded to as well. Works both ways. I'm going to ask you another question. This is one that happens all the time this is a really common question that we get and I think I think it's pretty unavoidable in really long-term relationships me and my partner have been together for six years how do we bring the spark back because I feel like it's really dulling we

still really love each other we really care about each other we want to stay in the relationship but I feel like the spark has gone that was definitely a question that we had the most on Instagram. So many people in the same boat. I think it's not an isolated case because it's so easy in a relationship when you do get past the three, four, five year mark. And especially after you have kids for that spark to feel like it's starting to dwindle. And like when you start a relationship, there's passion, you have butterflies, that spark is at its strongest. Obviously you're going to come down from that at some point, but I think it comes down to making an effort. You know, I think it's so easy to fall into the routine of being in a relationship you get home you have

dinner you watch tv you're on your phone and all of a sudden it feels like you're losing that connection with your partner I think don't be too hard on yourself if you're in this situation and you're in a long-term relationship and you are feeling like things have changed and the spark has gone there is no way that after 10 20 30 40 50 years your spark is going to be the same I think the spark will always be there but it evolves like when you start dating like you said you get the butterflies and you get the excitement and it's fireworks and then after a couple of years it's a sparkler like it drops down to a little sparkler it's still there but it needs some work well you know when you start a relationship and you know you'll have sex like every other day like five

times a day like it's i mean that's what my friends tell me that's not sustainable long term And I think it's easy to always look back at the early stages of a relationship and be like, gosh, I wish I was still back there. It's so frustrating. But I think it's so normal to have ebbs and flows in a relationship. But I think it's really important to realize that sometimes actions can precede feelings. You know, it's like when you come home from work, maybe you don't feel like being super romantic. But you need to take those first steps. You know, I think it's really important to still kiss passionately.

I think it's still important to have that intimacy not just when you go to bed and kiss each other good night I think during the day like in the morning I think it's important to try and build up that momentum that you have to think the difference when you start a relationship you're wanting to impress that person you're really excited by them you don't know anything about them so you're wanting to learn about them you're wanting them to fall in love with you the same way that you're falling in love with them so you're always going to present your best self you're always going to put in so much effort there's going to be times where you're like I'm so tired but I know he'll love this, so I do it.

After a few years, it's purely a comfort thing. You get into a position where you're like, I'm so comfortable with you. I feel safe with you. I know I don't need to work as hard for you anymore. But I think that's where people go wrong. I think you should never stop dating. And I think that this is a really great piece of advice.

It's a piece of advice that my parents gave to us. They've been married 45 years, really happily. They're still in love. My dad will still write love letters for my mom on the table. They still hold hands. That's beautiful. it is and they make a lot of effort but this is the key piece of advice here is they make the effort it doesn't just happen my dad has to go and get a piece of paper and a pen and write it

and leave it my mom has to go and do something for my dad they're actually taking the actions and i think that's a really good point that you just made where sometimes you're not going to want to feel it but once you take the action and start you might be exhausted and you're like the last thing i want to do is have sex like don't touch me don't come near me let me lay here but when you feel it, you're like, oh, hang on, maybe I do want that. I think it's the biggest myth that sex will always be spontaneous in a long-term relationship. I think it's really important as well to still have those occasions,

those little dates where you have a rush of dopamine. You know, I think doing new experiences, things that you both really enjoy, things that will create memories, even as simple as Laura and I went to dinner the other night and it was, I think, like the first time we had a dinner in months without Marley. we had a babysitter and getting dressed up and having a really beautiful night like that all of a sudden you know you reconnect and it's so important to do that frequently throughout the relationship i think to answer your question like let's come full circle and actually answer it i

think what you need to do is really make a committed conscious effort to make the change because it's like the age-old saying if you do the same thing over and over you're always going to get the same result if you don't change anything nothing is going to change if you don't feel like there's any spark or romance or love or passion or whatever it is that you feel like you're lacking if you don't do anything to change that it's not just going to miraculously come back into the relationship so this is where I think you need to start doing things like taking him on a spontaneous date or buying him something that might be something you haven't done like something sexy in the bedroom maybe bring a toy into the bedroom have really great date nights

maybe buy some new lingerie and this isn't one-sided he needs to do this too so you probably do need to have a conversation but you definitely need to introduce these things into your life because not only is it going to create new passionate moments it's going to create new memories that are then going to give you new things to talk about and move forward so it's going to bring so many new aspects into your relationship i think it's so easy to fall into that sexual routine so having a bit of mystery in a relationship is really important to keeping things interesting. Yeah. So there it is for this one, guys. Just know it is easy to get complacent and comfortable. And I mean, quite frankly, it's easy to get lazy in a relationship and drop your

expectations. Pick up your game, girl. Pick up your game. All right. This has been a really long episode, but I do have a very quick question. Can I, Britt, do you mind if I ask this? Yeah. Is it personal? It's not, but I was surprised by this one and I'd love to get your thoughts on it. This one reads why do some males just pound you during sex does that actually feel good for you guys i'm thinking surely this just must must be like a one-off right like this this is so common matt this is like every woman yes there are so many men out there that just think going straight to pound town no detours no stopping at any servos no stopping for lunch they just go straight to pound town they think that that's normal zero to a hundred in the blink of an eye zero to a hundred

real quick this is really common every one of my friends has had this happen i have had this happen this is 100 not a one-off experience but i mean i want to ask you this question do you actually think that feels good when you oh i know i know it feels good 100 100 it's i mean obviously obviously knowing that the person you're having sex with is not enjoying it makes it less enjoyable but this is my question do you as a male species do you know that when you are going straight to pound town that it doesn't feel good for the woman so does that mean you're doing it purely from a selfish point of view or are you mistaken that you think pounding a woman is what she wants i mean i really hope that there are guys out there who are just being extremely selfish and

they're not living their life their entire adult life thinking that that's what a female wants during sex like i really hope that these poor guys out there haven't had somebody previously say hey by the way just slow it down a little bit at some point you don't have to be running at like 100 miles an hour the entire time because that really hurts well it's pretty okay look it's pretty common i think if this is happening to you in a relationship if you're seeing someone and dating someone. Hang on, hang on a second. Oh, yeah.

So when you were being jackhammered, did you say anything to the guy at the time? No, because it wasn't like a relationship and it wasn't going to be an ongoing thing. And that actually cemented the fact that it was not going to be ongoing. I was like, yeah, I have signed out right now. Well, maybe it's the same guy. Maybe he's just like the serial jackhammerer.

Just around Bondi? Yeah. I mean, this question came from Bondi, so maybe it's the same guy. He needs to be stopped. We need to stop him. Someone needs to stop me. Okay, so we're just going to put this out to the people. If this is you and you're seeing someone that's jackhammering you,

you need to do everyone a favour and let the guy know. Actually, if you are a guy right now, because there are a lot of guys who listen to the podcast, we know they're there, they're not very active on social media. If you were listening and you were a jackhammerer, stop it. Stop it right now. There's no place for jackhammerers in society. Stop getting your lessons of sex from Pornhub

because it's not what the women want. Guys, that is it for today. I hope you guys got something out of that. Matt, it was so great to have you on. Thank you for filling in for your better half. Sorry that we had to do it twice. Look. But it's just nice to spend time with each other.

Do you know what I mean, Britt? I feel like that's what you did. I think you did it on purpose. I actually think you unplugged the mic so that we could do it again. I don't know how it happened. Oh, my gosh. Guys, thank you so much. Please keep the questions coming in.

If you do have more questions, send them in to the Instagram on the interweb, which is at Life Uncut Podcast. just make sure at the top you put ask uncut also keep sending us in your accidentally unfiltered and any other stories you think we want to know if you haven't joined the discussion group on facebook that is where the magic happens there are so many great conversations happening in there you guys are so engaged and active with each other and we really really love that so that is life uncut podcast as well on facebook now i do want to say there's nothing nicer i think when i walk buster in the afternoons almost every walk that i've been on recently somebody has stopped me and

and said hey i'm listening to the podcast right now and it is so lovely to hear that so if you are enjoying the podcast let us know let matt know guys tell your mom tell your dad tell your dog tell your friends and share the love because we love love We'll be right back.