Life Uncut - ASK UNCUT - Your nudes are great sweetie

Episode Date: June 8, 2022

Welcome to therapy Thursday!Sit down and get comfy, as we take a deep dive into your questions!Firstly, we'd like to clear up Laura's teenage crush on Hanson, because it seems like some of you have misunderstood...Then we dive into your questions:1. I hooked up with a guy twice from Tinder in January. It wasn't the best time, it wasn't the worst. I messaged him after it and he never replied. Now, months later he's messaged and I didn't reply because I know that I should have some standards. He's followed up with "are you home?"My question is how much should you chat with someone when it's just been casual sex? How long 'between drinks' is too long? 2. I've been with my partner for 4 years and we've recently been trying to spice up our sex life. He loves it when I wear lingerie and costumes, which I am also open to. But for some reason I feel so silly when I present myself to him in the costumes! He's very complimentary, my self esteem is good, so it's not that I feel self conscious. How do I become more comfortable in dress up?3. It's been 7 weeks since my partner and I have seen each other ( we've both been away). I decided to send him some hot nudes and his response was just "great." Now correct me if I'm wrong, but I expected a bit more of a response and it's leaving me feeling a bit rejected and disappointed. If you have a question you'd like us to unpack, send it on in to our DMs at lifeuncutpodcast on instagram!Tell your mum, tell your dad, tell your dog, tell your friend and share the love because WE LOVE LOVE!!! xxSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

A Life Uncut podcast acknowledges the traditional custodians of country throughout Australia and their connections to land, sea and community. We pay our respect to their elders, past and present, and extend that respect to all Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander peoples today. This episode is recorded on Gadigal land of the Aurora Nation. Hey guys, and welcome back to another episode of Life Uncut. I'm Brittany. And I'm Laura.

And they really come around quick, these episodes, don't they? This is our Thursday episode. If you're new here, this is our Ask Uncut episode, where we answer all of your deep, your dark, and your burning questions. What about what just happened 10 minutes ago? I was just so chuffed and so proud of myself. We were sitting in my lounge room and mind you, we look like we're going to the snow. This house is so cold.

When Brittany moved into this apartment, if you're new to the podcast, Brittany moved into my old apartment. She moved in here in January during the great floods of Sydney. I told Britt, I was like, you have never lived anywhere as cold as this apartment and you need to get a gas heater. and now we are we're steaming into winter and the girl still doesn't have a gas heater so it's it's 9 p.m at night it is really cold I literally I don't own a bigger this is like my snow jacket I don't own a bigger puffer I can't move in it because you're gonna hear you don't hang on I'll

show you know when you move listen to this wait you could hear you guys can hear that you know when it like rubs against each other so I'm sitting like a little snowman and I can't move my Just to really set the scene, Brits is like a feather-downed PE nation and I'm wearing Katmandu. I'm wearing a Katmandu jacket inside the second bedroom, which is the recording studio. But we're sitting in the lounge and I'm like, you know what? This is ridiculous.

I am just going to be the most efficient person in the world and I'm going to jump on and I'm going to order a heater right now because I was like, I've had enough. I did this within two minutes. I got on, Googled amazing heaters, saw one, purchased it, sent it, and I said to the girls so chuffed, guess who just bought a heater? in like two minutes she bought a heater and the girls were like what that quickly and i was like yeah that's how good i am feeling really proud of myself laura laura goes what what brand was it i

told her she's like did you check what was the delivery on that and i was like well i don't know i didn't look it was two minutes probably standard 12 weeks guys this heater is coming next summer this is not coming anytime soon i made a very grave error so we're going to be sticking in these puffer jackets for a little while longer you will have your heater for this apartment in the same amount of time that I think I will have my passport after lining up tomorrow. And that's what I'm going to be doing with my day tomorrow, everyone. I'm going to go to the passport office in Sydney

and stand there for eight hours. But that's not why you listen to this podcast. I want to tell you something else. Well, I was actually going to ask you if you had one because you have alluded to the fact that you have a story multiple times. It's not really – it's nothing to write home about. Oh, fuck, do we want to podcast about it? Yeah, because it was pretty funny.

It was a real moment. you know those moments that you have where you're like oh that's right I'm old it was one of those moments was it when Daily Mail got your age wrong again no they get you wrong I'm only 34 you're like 452 oh Laura Byrne the 70 year old went out for a walk today Laura celebrates her 90th she's very agile we joke about this but I don't think Daily Mail has gotten my age correct in the past two years no they did recently they got it correct once and then something you must to piss them off again because it went there every time I slagged them off they had another two years to my age no they had they did write something nice about us last week that was nice wait was

it the article that they wrote about how Matt won't go down on me or was it the other article that they wrote about me and how they tried to find out who my Wednesday night shag was which wasn't rocket science they figured it out actually some of the listeners figured that out pretty quickly no but in between those two it was a compliment sandwich reversed so they they threw a nice article in. I think that's what they do. They buffer it outside like a sandwich. They give you the bad stuff on the outside and they give you one little thing like a nice juicy rissole or something in the middle. Anyway, what I was going to say is this moment made me feel really old. So anyone that might not have listened to the radio show last week, I was very proud of

myself. I pulled off something that I think was amazing. Laura, as a child, as a teenager, was obsessed with the boy band Hanson. Now Hanson, if you don't know who Hanson are. Who doesn't know who Hanson is? Stick with me here. Stick with me. Maybe 20 year olds who listen to this podcast. Yeah. So I think there are some people that don't know who Hanson are. Hanson was the Justin Bieber of my generation. Well, maybe not even the Bieber, but like one direction. They were the boy band. So, and they were hot. They were young, very young. One of them was like 12, but they were when we were teenagers they were hot property Laura had posters of them on that they were like her Beale and Endall they were the young Jason Momoa she had posters of them

she used to make out with them on the walls she loved them I managed to track Hanson down I played the audio that Laura used to make out to them and I surprised Laura with Hanson it was a we were all very happy it was a great time to be alive now I on the weekend ran into a girl that listens to the podcast and we were just chatting about what was happening and I had said oh I had this great surprise today did you happen to listen to the radio show she's like no I haven't and I told her I said oh it was so good and I was like Laura Laura grew up obsessed with Hanson I'm talking used to make out with them and I retold this story to this girl just because I love a chat told this whole story about your obsession and you're making out with Hanson and stuff and then

I said and then I surprised her and she didn't give me the reaction I wanted she's like that's unusual I was like oh what do you what do you mean like it was great she's like no it's just more unusual that that was her crush and I said well it's a pretty big deal she's like I just haven't heard anyone crush on them before and I just didn't think Laura would be like that this went on and on and I was like am I missing something I was like what I was like they were like three super hot guys and she's like hang on who was her crush and I was like Hanson she's like you're talking about Pauline Hanson aren't you the politician and I said what I said you think I'm talking that Laurie used to make out with a poster of Pauline Hanson she's like well who the

hell is Hanson could you imagine if half of our listeners have been thinking that's what I think is happening that anybody that anyone who's listened to this podcast has thought that I'm into pauline hansen well she had and our fucking listenership is dropping by the second it was so funny because we were both going on and i was like well yes she was obsessed like she thought i was that you were obsessed with the party like pauline hansen's whole political party and that's who used to make out with and i thought there there might be some people out here really questioning you right now no i was obsessed with a young boy who looked like he could have been a barbie doll and he was 11 years old and i was 11 years old and that's where it ends how old do you

feel now that there are a bunch of our listeners that don't they missed out on Hanson they missed a huge part of their life so that really I said that to I don't feel old I just feel sorry for them you missed out on really important formative years of what were my life but anyway I'm glad that we could share it all with you well before we get into talking about your questions and answering your questions there was something else that we wanted to touch on and that is also something to do with a celebrity from the past do we say that Shakira is from the past she just played at the Super Bowl with J-Lo. She's definitely front and center. She's not a thing of the past. And also she hasn't aged in like 20 years. I just think of her song, which is like,

whatever, whenever. That's the only one I can remember. Well, very, very unfortunately for Shakira and you know, her hips do not lie, but her husband does. Oh, that was, that was off the cuff. That was a really good one, Brittany. She has recently split. She announced the split with her partner of 10 years he was a soccer player his name is Gerard Peake or Peake I don't know I think it's Peake like Peake like anyway but okay if you guys I mean if you listen to the episode on Tuesday it was all around cheating there have been many rumors and not just rumors like she's come out and pretty publicly said that he has cheated on her and that that's why the marriage broke down well I don't think she said he's cheated but she's alluded in many ways I

don't think she's actually said he's cheated but she released a song being like you're a liar and you're a cheat just like really subtle digs without directly saying he's a cheater yeah and then bless her soul the queen that she is immediately and this is how the world I guess knew that something was amiss she just went on and followed every hot man in every hot athlete every hot actor every hot person in Hollywood she just want to start following on a mass follow on Instagram, which is hats off to her because that, you know, two likes and a follow and you're in, especially if you've got 75 million followers like Shakira.

But isn't this just the thing? Like when you know that someone is freshly single, all you have to do is one, check what they're posting, and two, check who they've started following. And if they've just started following a whole lot of single, shirtless, hot men, oh, you're single. And she has good taste. I'm talking Kelly Slater, Henry Cavill, Scott Eastwood, Chris Evans,

Jason Momoa your hall pass Sam Heughan we know I love Sam uh there's a there's a whole bunch of really really spicy hot tamales on there and I just think hats off to her now you'll be happy to know Laura Jason Momoa didn't follow her back Henry Cavill didn't follow her back but Chris Evans has so she's having some there are some people there she's having some success with some of these people what I like though is just the dedication and like there's no buffer it's not like for every four hot men like she followed one chick she just went on there and followed every single hot man in Hollywood and was like one of these is gonna land that's some dedication to the cause but also there's no hiding what she's doing either she she has 70 nearly 75 million

followers and she only follows 151 probably 100 yesterday but 151 so like there's no hiding like it's here I am I'm keen can you just go in there and scroll I am I'm telling me are they just is it just so many hot men yeah but in between the hot men it's like michelle obama great so she's like she sporadically put some in we've got nick jonas in there hot and aspirational wycliffe jean who's that laura wycliffe jean he's an amazing musician he's from like our childhood never heard of him um she's what i can say she's got really good taste but imagine waking up if you're anyone in the world why are you waking up to shakira two likes and a follow like wouldn't you be straight in the dm not if you're jason momoa maybe he's trying to play it cool yeah next week he'll give

her a little a little slide it maybe he didn't follow or like he just slid into the dms but anyway guys that is it for unpacking that weirdly we got far down on the celebrity train just then but that's enough for celebrities because we've got some relationship chat for you we have picked out the best questions that always feels weird saying that we've picked out three questions and let me tell you there were hundreds of questions that came in this week yeah and we try to vary them we try and give you a bit of a bit of b bit of c bit of spiciness bit of relationship bit of friendship and we're gonna do our absolute best to answer them okay i'm gonna kick it off with number one i hooked up with a guy from tinder twice in january now there wasn't a

lot of banter in between mostly just hey do you want to come over now it wasn't the best time ever but it also wasn't the worst time ever i'm just enough to get you through well i messaged him a third time but he never replied now i was a little bit upset about the fact that he ghosted me but mostly it was because I didn't get the chance to reject him first. Fast forward, I was sitting at home this one day and this is months afterwards. And he sends me a message out of the blue that says, Hey, what's going on? I didn't reply because I know that I should have some standards. Good. You should have some standards. And then he wrote, are you at home? Question mark. Now, as I said, I know that I am worth more than this. However, my question is how much should you chat with

someone when it's just been casual sex how long between drinks is too long for a hey how you going or you up text now also i want to know would i have looked desperate or pathetic if i did reply in this situation and should i reply to him to let him know that it's never happening again there are a lot of questions there's one more yeah can we surmise this or is the random text a nice ego boost to know that someone is thinking of you and that i should just do nothing basically i mean i'm like so this is the entire episode of ask uncut it's unpacking okay basically like they they had sex twice there was not much banter in between the having sex twice it was clearly just a casual thing and then he didn't text her for a very long time and out of nowhere he's

sent that you up text oh okay so he ghosted him and zombied he zombied and came back yeah he's a zombie but the thing is is like she clearly was never that invested in him in the first place either no she just wanted to pull the pin first and he got in before her he ghosted her before which is like really that is warranted you can get upset about that especially if you were the one that wanted to be in control and you feel like that was taken away from you well I guess the part I wanted to unpack about this question and the bit that I thought interesting was when the listener said I know I have standards and I deserve better than that and I was like hmm I feel like there's something in this to talk about in terms of why like okay yes it's very

important to have standards and boundaries and tell people how you want to be treated and all that sort of stuff but if you're not interested in anything from him either if it's just casual sex and I mean take ego out of it like why can't you just continue texting someone who you've had this casual relationship with why can't he just come up again out of nowhere and be like sup do you want to do that hangs and bangs thing we did a couple of times yeah I mean if that's and I guess how long's a piece of string is my answer to this question there are a lot of questions in there like how long how much should you text between these casual hookups how long can you leave it before you someone pops back up in your life all of these are literally how long is a piece of string that

is completely up to you and the person you are interacting with and also what you're both looking for if you're both okay with just having some sex randomly now and again then I don't think there has to be a certain level of texting in between if at the end of the day he writes to you and he says like hey are you home if you are interested in a casual hookup with him there is nothing degrading or nothing that you should feel bad about about saying hey yeah come over like there is nothing wrong with that because you're both on the same page and there's there's still this level of like I am so okay with this because this is what I want but if you want more and you feel disrespected then that is you saying if you're thinking okay well hang on you haven't actually

messaged me in like two months you can't message me now that means for you it's not okay so you probably will feel shitty if you let him come over because you're obviously wanting a higher level of communication in that time so it's completely up to you in that situation on how you feel but there's no there's no right or wrong in this situation yeah and I think the big thing for me when it was like you know I should have better standards than this I don't think that this is about standards I think this is about like what is it that you're after like if you were just after something that's super casual and there is no emotional commitment then it you don't have low standards by having casual sex every so often they're not those two aren't synonymous you

know so I guess the thing is is if you are expecting exactly as you said if you're expecting and you wanting more connection, more conversation, something that's a higher level than just somebody who sends a you up text and you have hangs in, you know, at really average sex by the sound of your question with, if you want more than that, then I guess you're only being disrespected if your expectations are not being met and you continue to go back there. So really in these sorts of situations, I would say, think about what you want out of it. If the only thing you want out it is sex then go and have a great time and do whatever you want if you want more than that or you're worried that maybe you're going to catch feelings or you know that you're a little bit more

of a somebody who once they've had sex their emotions grow like I know a lot of people once they've once the relationships become physical even if they don't really like the person they can sometimes start to become and are more attached and form these sort of like deeper feelings if you know that you're that type of person then I would say kind of stay away from it and you don't owe them anything you don't have to write back to a you up text you can if you want to you can you know put them in their place you can say we're not going to ever hang out again you can completely close the chapter you can block and delete it's truly open to however you feel you want to navigate that situation there's no right or wrong in this one I agree and I mean if you want to

if you know that you still want to bang him but you you do want that level of communication in between maybe you can see if you can do that so maybe you can write back and say hey long time hey stranger make it make a point of being like oh oh you're back or you could make a joke and be like sorry who's this question mark make a joke and then say something like how are you whatever try and start a conversation but then say I actually can't tonight maybe in a couple of nights you know and then see if you can engage in some convo before to make if that's going to make you feel better about getting something that you actually want anyway there are so many ways around it but like Laura said you don't even have to write back if you are genuinely not

interested in having a friend with benefits with him anymore just don't write back that's fine you don't know the guy anything and I think the last thing I want to say on this as well is in terms of your very last question was should I just take this as an ego boost I don't think this is an ego boost I don't think any guy he's horny he's just horny any guy or any girl popping up after months of being completely ghosted like you know turning up as a zombie that's not an ego boost I mean it could be he's at the end of the day he's thinking about you in some capacity well I don't know if he is or if he's just scrolled through his phone to see who's available maybe he's sent off several of those are you up tags might be a bit a bit b I think that that is like you know

definitely don't read into it more that's probably my biggest advice in this is like if somebody does the you up text you're more than welcome to go back there if you want to have just a physical relationship but definitely don't read into that as though that they could potentially be interested in more or that there is that they're thinking more that they're you know being pining over you it's usually more or more or less just a case that nothing else is going on in their world at that time and that they want a distraction and they want to have sex with someone pretty much they're horny yeah thank you britney they are horny let me put the word in there for you laura they are horny all right let's go into question number two i've been with my boyfriend for four years

and recently we have been making more of an effort to keep our sex life spicy go girl he really he really likes it when i put on proper lingerie and has asked if i would try a maid outfit too I'm totally open to it all but for some reason I just feel really silly when I present myself to him in lingerie costumes makes it sound like she's presenting you know how like a peacock puts its feathers out and presents herself she probably is doing exactly that he's very complimentary my self-esteem is good so it's not that I'm worried about how I look in it it's more just that I feel really silly in it like I'm wearing a silly costume even if it's the lingerie how do I get more comfortable with wearing sexy playful stuff and stop feeling like

an absolute goose I think that this is kind of normal I think for so many people if you're not and I feel the same that's why I'm like I think this is normal I don't think I could do dress-ups where I dressed up like a maid especially if it's maybe a cliche kind of like sexy dress-up like a maid or a nurse or a I don't know what else or like a little uniform I think if I was to dress up in something like that, I would also find it quite silly. I think that I completely agree with you. I think that that feeling of maybe slightly being uncomfortable, I think it's probably normal because it's not, you're doing something that you don't normally do. You're doing something that's obviously outside of your comfort zone. I would be far more comfortable in lingerie than

an outfit. I'm not a, I'm not a dress up person. You wouldn't dress up like a maid and go around pretending that you're going to clean something. I would just burst into laughter. I just can't, I can't hold it. I would rather just get down dirty. I'd rather just not pretend. The lingerie I could do. I think that at the end of the day, I really think don't force it. If you're genuinely uncomfortable with something, you don't need to do that.

You can be sexy in other ways. I just stand there naked. Surprise him. Do naked man. You know how they walk into the room and they're not expecting you and you're just laying somewhere naked on the lounge or on the kitchen bench. Have you seen that? I had a man do that.

I've told you about the guy that did that to me with a pie once, right? you're gonna have to tell the story again the naked man passed in I was good I went back to this guy's house who I'd met a few times and he was like kind of a friend that had turned into more than a friend but we'd never had sex and I was like can I use your bathroom and he was making apple pie and by making I'm sure he just puts in the oven he was defrosting apple pie right and so i went to the bathroom and i came out and when i came out he was completely nude standing in the kitchen with two bowls of apple pie and i was like so fucking confused and also still did not have sex with him except he didn't have a boner he was just standing there with a flaccid

penis what what what did he think was gonna happen would you do it with a flaccid penis or an erect penis if you're gonna do naked man it's probably more it's probably more aggressive to come out with a boner i well i don't know i don't know if there's rules for naked man i don't know if it should be flaccid or hard but i mean i would probably if i if i was walking into a naked man situation i think i would want it probably to be like he was ready roaring and ready to go do you know what it certainly needs to be it needs to be consensual don't go doing naked man without knowing that the other person wants a flaccid or a hard penis and i wanted neither of them at the time so you naked man in a safe place in your relationship but you could naked woman for sure

there are other ways at the end of the day what I'm trying to say is you don't have to force yourself to be doing something that you're uncomfortable with if you've tried it a few times like you said you have and you just feel like it's not you that's cool like that is so so fine so please don't push yourself to be doing something see I I mean agree of course I agree with you I don't think you should ever push yourself to do something that you don't want to do but I also think that sometimes these things feel silly because they're outside our comfort zone they're new to us and the it's almost like exposure therapy the more you do something do take my advice but also a maid costume might be something that feels silly but maybe there's

some other type of costume that's not quite so cliche do you know what i would end up doing i would end up doing something stupid like getting a dolphin costume or something that's you know no but that's what i would do because that's how there's britney dressed up in an inflatable dinosaur running around the bedroom but no I just mean like the more that you do something and the more that you maybe can get into this idea of role play it might be something that feels less silly for you or alternatively maybe they're like silly light-hearted fun part of it maybe that is also something that he is turned on by and he finds really sexy and I guess ultimately like just because it's his fantasy and his kind of kink or interest and he really likes it doesn't mean

that you have to match his enthusiasm, but it's awesome of you that you're trying and you're doing things that gets him excited. Even if you feel a bit silly doing it, it's amazing that like you're still wanting to try things to keep him interested and keep the relationship sexy and spicy. So I just, I mean, as much as I want to say like, yes, you're so right, Brit, you shouldn't do anything that makes you feel uncomfortable. I do also think sometimes when we do things that are new for us we feel uncomfortable and then we become familiar with them and actually it's you know then next thing you're going to be dressing up like a dinosaur inflated I don't know then you then it might be something that would be even more sexy or even more risque and out there and

the dressing up like a maid will feel pretty like normal well I think what you're doing is the right thing you're trying different things you're trying to appease each other in the relationship but I think that that's what you should keep doing I don't think you should stick on something and keep pushing yourself but I think you can keep trying the different things until you both find something that works for you and you're both comfortable with but hats off to you or maybe just find an in-between outfit maybe the lingerie gets a bit sexier and it's not quite a maid outfit yet so maybe you just go in between and do something cute and funny maybe just get naked and put a bow on you or something and pretend you're like the president for two seconds it's

gonna last two seconds he's gonna rip that off and then you're gonna be getting down and dirty also when you do role play how long are you the character like are you pretending to be a nurse for the whole time that you have sex are you like or are you pretending to be like the maid are you still like oh no don't I have to go clean now like are you doing this for the whole entire session or is it just the start of the session well I don't think you stay in character for like two weeks did you know Laura that this actually happened to a friend of mine that he's worked with a long time ago she was dating someone for quite a while like one to two years and then she found out that he had he was like moonlighting as an escort but not a normal escort an escort

that had to pretend he was a cleaner so he used to go in the relationship he used to go to like rich women's house and pretend he was a cleaner and then they would have sex okay my question here is is do they actually come and clean first like do they clean your house and then you have sex with them because that sounds amazing i think so yeah i think you genuinely i don't think it's well You know what? It probably is fake cleaning, but she's probably like, I'll give him half an hour. I'll let him scrub the toilets for a while and then go.

Well, I don't think women want to have sex with them after they've scrubbed the toilets. But if you come and do the dusting and tidy some things away. Clean my fridge. That's a sure way to get some women fired up. If you've got kids, that's the way to someone's heart. As soon as you get over the age of 30, if you clean, it's a turn on. All right.

Question number three. Final question. Okay, ladies. I have been overthinking this since it happened. my partner is away on a trip for five weeks i was previously away on a trip for two weeks prior to that so it has been seven weeks without my partner which means seven weeks without sex so one night i decided to send him some nudes i'm talking photos and also a cheeky video i like that you had to describe that because what else would she send as a nude i sent him an entire package

of a human okay to my disappointment his reply was simply just great what he wrote simply just great or he wrote great he just wrote great back to her news now correct me if i'm wrong but i feel like i should be getting a lot more from him considering that we are in a two-year relationship and it is very healthy and we have a great sex life what do i do because this is not the first time that this has happened and it's leaving me feeling really disappointed and rejected i don't think it matters whether you're in a two-year relationship or you just sent a nude to like someone you're casually banging great is not the response that you want let's let's say this great is not that great no at a minimum thesaurus the word or great with a fire emoji just come up with

something more creative more descriptive or throw some emojis on the end fire hands up praying hard eyes dick emoji sweat like there's a lot you can speak you can get a lot across with emojis see the the most perfect here it is guys the most perfect emoji to use when someone sends you a nude is the one with the tongue out that's the one the mouth and the uh no not the face just the mouth and the tongue oh no i like the face one i'm gonna more expressive no i just like the tongue i'm gonna i'm gonna use the tongue in the title for this episode i have some friends that this has happened to too i have some friends that have got nothing back from their nude like and to people that they should have I think all you can do is literally have the conversation with him and

say I would say do you not like when I send you nudes like bring it up like that and he'll probably say I love it why just say oh you just said you didn't really give me much you didn't engage you said one word back like I went to a lot of effort for that I would just start the conversation because you are 100% great is not acceptable 100% great is not acceptable in this situation It's pretty deflating though. Like, I mean, I understand the feeling and to think that, you know, you've, you've put in the effort, you've sent a nude, which is exposing. And it's also a really vulnerable thing to do. Like there's a moment of like, Oh, okay. Putting myself out there to not be met with some sort of gratitude or ego boost or affirmation, excitement, anything

from your partner makes you feel a level of rejection. And I think that that's probably the biggest part. And then you don't want to have to say to your partner, Hey, you made me feel rejected when you showed me no interest or you made me feel inadequate or whatever the feeling is that you have you know whatever the feeling is that this incited in you I agree with you Brit that you do need to have a I mean having a conversation good communication it's like at the crux of everything but it is something that feels shitty because it's kind of taken something that should have been really fun being able to send nudes to each other it's made it not fun and it also means that like now when you send the next time you send a nude you're going to probably

have a little bit of a feeling of like oh they're only doing that because I've told them that they have to you know when he sends you one just send him a thumbs up but it's like the one and just be like well you know taste of your own medicine it probably also depends on what he's doing like was he in a conference was he in the middle of a meeting like I do think that it could be a situational thing as well maybe when he's really busy he's not really thinking about oh like now I'm I'm horny and I'm getting nudes and when you have been with someone for a longer period of time I think that there can be less excitement around great Laura great even in a meeting always great even in a meeting like the most at the end of the day the emoji is even easier in a meeting I'm

I'm just not letting this guy escape this one there is no coming back from this there's no reprieve from my wrath for the response of great to a fiery nude that you have just put effort in and that you were excited about you deserve more I haven't sent Matt a nude for a very long time I'm gonna ask him what would be his reaction if I sent him a nude why don't you just quickly send him one and see what his reaction is go in and take a quick photo of your boobs dude there's a mirror right here in the office just lift your shirt off and take a photo of your boobs and see what he says can you please that would be the best I really don't know what he would say how do I take a nude can you do it just to see what he does it'd be so funny what'd he say I just text

Matt and I said what would you do if I said it's been a really long time since I've sent Matt a nude like a really long time I believe that I wrote what would your reaction be if I sent you a nude and I said answering an ask uncut question he said give me some more context do you mean like if you sent one randomly or if I was away and I said yeah if you were away and he said I would simply be confused he would be like I do need help do you need me to send someone to the house so maybe that's it if you don't often send nudes if sending nudes is a very rare thing that you do and then all of a sudden you've just sent a nude with no context with no like little like sexy messages beforehand it was just out of nowhere out of a cold just titty shot bang he just

sos what the hell is going on well i guess that's the thing we don't know the context so i'm still going with great it's not okay i i know that i've spoken to matt i think that that's something he would say i'm going not say great at least he would do a fire no i think he would do a thumbs up that's what i actually think matt would do i think he would send me a thumbs up emoji if i ever get to that point in a relationship i reckon i'm tapping out if someone thumbs ups me i'm like well it's time to let it go i can't tap out i have two children and i love him dearly it's time to hand the nudes and every self no he just knows how to get me aroused he just goes and cleans the house every so often once a month makes a tiktok of you cleaning and you're like i'm coming home

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