Life Will Be the Death of Me with Chelsea Handler - Girl Climber with Emily Harrington

Episode Date: November 20, 2025

Mountain Climber Emily Harrington is here to talk about being the first woman to summit El Cap in a day along the Golden Gate route, the mental fortitude it takes to be an endurance athlete, and how to meet a man on Everest. Then: A nosy sister wants to intervene when her brother and his wife are having marital problems… that she’s not supposed to know about. A divorcee searches for the best slopes now that she’s free from a toxic marriage.  And a mom’s surprise vacations get in the way of a daughter’s holiday plans.  * Need some advice from Chelsea? Email us at [e-mail] * Executive Producer Catherine Law Edited & Engineered by Brad Dickert * * * The views and opinions expressed are solely those of the Podcast author, or individuals participating in the Podcast, and do not represent the opinions of iHeartMedia or its employees.  This Podcast should not be used as medical advice, mental health advice, mental health counseling or therapy, or as imparting any health care recommendations at all.  Individuals are advised to seek independent medical, counseling advice and/or therapy from a competent health care professional with respect to any medical condition, mental health issues, health inquiry or matter, including matters discussed on this Podcast. Guests and listeners should not rely on matters discussed in the Podcast and shall not act or shall refrain from acting based on information contained in the Podcast without first seeking independent medical advice.  See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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I'm sure the penguins will make you a changed woman. So Emily Harrington is the first woman to free climb the Golden Gate Route on El Capitan in under 24 hours. She is a five-time U.S. national champion climber, has summited Mount Everest, and skied most of the 8,000-meter peaks. Her new documentary is called Girl Climber, and it's out now. Please welcome Emily Harrington. Hi, Emily. Hi. Good morning. Top of the morning to you.

Are you on a mountain peak as we speak to you right now? No, no, I'm in Tahoe. I had to watch your movie twice because I couldn't believe it the first time. So I had to watch it again. I had to rewatch it. It's called Girl Climber and it will be available for everybody to stream. It's out on Jolt right now. And then it comes on some streaming platforms, I believe, correct?

Yes. Okay, so let's talk about you and your peaks. Wow. First of all, how are you doing now? you have a baby, you're married. I feel like your energy and ambition has probably recalibrated a little bit. Yeah, I think that's a very accurate statement. Yeah, I've had some life changes since the movie. All good things. But yeah, just, you know, different, different, challenging. And yeah, energy sapping. Energy, yeah, right. Well, first of all, congratulations

on being the first woman to climb El Capitan, the Golden Gate. You did that in less than 24 hours. You also climbed Mount Everest when you were 25 years old. So it's like, I don't know where to begin. Let's begin there since that happened first. You did that without really any training. You went and climbed Mount Everest with a group of people, left your Sherpa in the dust because he couldn't keep up with you. So talk to us about that decision and about how one decides to do something like that without the proper quote unquote training. I don't say quote unquote, because you do fucking need training to do that right ice climbing and all yes you do and you know yeah without specific training but you have to remember that I've been a rock climber since

the age of 10 so but that's not in snow though is that I mean no but I also grew up skiing and then you know in my early 20s I started kind of diversifying my climbing and I learned how to ice climb I actually like won an ice climbing competition like earlier that year so I had like started acquiring the skills, I would say. I just didn't have very much altitude experience, which I think is very important for something like Mount Everest. But thankfully, it all worked out. Well, yeah, it did work out. Tell us about it, though. I mean, there was a great scene in the movie where you're stuck in the tent with your girlfriend, who has since sadly passed away in an avalanche. But as you were talking about climbing Mount Everest, there's a part of it

where there are like five avalanches a day that happen and you have to just kind of time it right so that you don't get caught in one. I mean, that sounds absolutely fucking crazy. I think to, you know, the lay person, it might be a bit insane. Mount Everest is a very interesting place. I've learned a lot since being there myself.

I think as a young 25-year-old, I was pretty naive. Now I'm married to a mountain guide who goes to Mount Everest every year. So I have quite a different perspective. on it but yeah it was a wild experience it taught me a lot it is it was a radical departure from anything that I was used to in my climbing you know Mount Everest is is walking up a big snowy hill for a very long period of time with this like excruciating suffering of high altitude it's not technically difficult like I was used to in rock climbing so those types of skills were

actually quite easy for me but at the same time there was there was a lot of suffering there was a lot of what we call type two fun, which is like the, in hindsight, looking back like, oh, that was actually pretty cool, even though I was fucking miserable the whole time. So yeah, it was, it was a really, I think it was a valuable experience. It changed my entire life because that was where I did meet my husband. Um, so I have a lot to thank for Everest. That's not good advice for our listeners. That's how you meet your soulmate is by climbing Mount Everest, because I mean, how many people are going to be able to just whip it out and do that when you're doing these things, because like, I think a through line of

this movie is your fear, your, your, not your fearlessness, it's pushing beyond your fear. And it's, it's about, it's about really kind of get the adrenaline that comes from beating your fear and moving past any sort of boundaries that we may set for ourselves and also committing to the pain of it, right? The pain is a side, it's kind of almost a side notion. It's like, that's part of the process to get where you're going was kind of one of my takeaways from watching this is that a you wanted to be up there like you know you didn't want to be thought less than as a woman because women are you say this in the beginning of the film inferior or thought to be inferior physically to men and you wanted to prove that that's not necessarily true correct

I mean I think more than anything I wanted to prove something to myself and I think throughout that journey on Golden Gate, it became more evident that it was much more an internal struggle than an external struggle. That said, I do think the film did a really nice job of kind of like expressing these more feminine characteristics of vulnerability, of expressing fear, crying, showing emotion. And it kind of, you know, a lot of these things that are perceived of as weaknesses, I think the film does a really nice job of kind of revealing those things as strengths. I was very vulnerable. I did. I was very honest about my fears and my struggles and my failures. But I think a lot of those things are what eventually enabled me to to be successful

because I did become comfortable sitting in those spaces of fear and struggle and failure. And I think those are pretty important human experiences to have that a lot of us just don't get to have in in daily life. We don't get to confront those uncomfortable things very often. The movie starts out with you attempting El Capitan with Alex Honnold, who we all know from Free Solo. And you kind of weren't really as prepared as you would want to have been. And then you go back again the next year, you do more training, and then you train on El Capitan, and then you make your next attempt, right? So it's kind of like, how do you frame those periods of time that were in the movie from the beginning to the end? Like when you look at that, do you say, do you think, oh, I wasn't prepared enough? Like, do you accept that?

Yeah, absolutely. Like, I think that first attempt, I actually knew that I wasn't prepared, but sometimes you need to kind of like try the thing in order to figure out what you need to do differently. Like you have to go fail in order to find out what needs to change and what you need to improve upon. And so for me, that attempt was actually just, I didn't really expect to be successful. Like the weather didn't look good. The season was really tough.

The entire wall was wet. Like the odds of success were pretty slim, but it was like, I need to go try to kind of like see where I'm at and see where my fitness is and see the weak points so that I can like go back and train and then I can come back and be better. So you kind of have to go, I had to go fail in order to like figure out what to do. Almost like a dry run, right? Yeah, it was a dry run. And to be fair, you got like rained and hailed off the side of the mountain, so fair.

Yeah, so and then you go, okay, so then you go back and start training with him, which by the way, great support system. I mean, he's like the best climbing buddy you could possibly have. And your husband, of course, is also a great support system. But I mean, it felt like, you know, the first time I watched it, I wasn't sure how many times you had done it. I was like, wait, did I just watch her four or five times do the same thing? And then I realized, oh, okay, this is you practicing and this is you on a pitch where

you fall down a pitch and then you redo the pitch. So there's all these different kind of technical terms that I wasn't familiar with. But I mean, it's an incredible feat and it's incredible strength of mind because you talk us through when you were younger and you had an eating disorder. You were eating only carrots for a period in your life where your mother said your hands turned orange because you were only eating carrots. and to be doing your physical activities with that little nutrition and what you were doing in terms of rock climbing and ice picking and all of those things, like the wear and tear that that

must have had on your body and the innate strength that you had to even continue to do that in those conditions. Yeah. I mean, I think eating disorders are pretty pervasive in the sport of climbing just because it is kind of a strength to weight ratio sport. And you do see like really short term gains and it's very obvious when it happens but like it is short term like it doesn't last and so I think for me I just started emotionally and physically breaking down and recognizing that climbing was making me really unhappy and it was becoming a punishment and that's actually when I started transitioning into other avenues of climbing different disciplines that's when I had the opportunity to go to Nepal to go to the Himalaya and then the following year I went to

Mount Everest. And with that kind of climbing, you really cannot get away with not feeling properly. Like it's just not an option. You just won't go anywhere on the mountain. And so that was really eye opening for me was like, oh, actually, like, I need to feel my body in order to be successful. And it took several years for me to kind of like wrap my brain around it. I kept kind of having falling back into the bad habits. But I think, you know, thankfully, I had some really good mentors and really good influences on me. And then I did kind of diversify and go into this other realm of climbing and recognize essentially what I was doing wrong and that the approach was just flawed. And how was the approach flawed? Because of the eating disorder or because

of everything surrounding that? I think everything. I think the idea of trying to control every single thing in my life and having this really like perfectionist mindset and being super hard on myself if things didn't go perfectly. It was just beating me down. And then the eating disorder was kind of a, you know, it was kind of just like an effect of all of those feelings. And then it was like a cycle of punishment. Like if I didn't succeed, then I had to train harder and I had to eat less and I had to do more. And so it was just like this cycle of exhaustion and punishment and honestly just unhappiness. And I think a lot of like athletes can relate to being kind of stuck in that space. And do you think that's more of a female thing, female athlete thing? Or do you

think eating disorders are pervasive among men in sport as well? I think it's pervasive among men as well. I just don't think it's as talked about. Right. I don't think it's as accepted for men to talk about it even. But I do know some men who have struggled with it. And, you know, I think that they're much more prone to kind of like hiding it and not talking about it and having it people not really like think it's an issue with men but I very much think it is okay so halfway through this movie you're attempting to climb you start I think at four in the morning you're attempting again to climb El Capitan you're with Alex and his girlfriend and you have a fall you fall how many feet did you fall I think I fell like 50 feet it's something I mean how did

you not get more injured during that fall I don't know honestly I think it was like one of those super lucky situations. I completely like flipped upside down and I think I flipped upside down and there was so much, there was so much slack in the system that the rope actually caught me on my neck and like burned my, I had like this crazy rope burn up all up and down my neck. And I did hit my head. I lost consciousness. So for me, like, I don't remember a whole lot because I did lose consciousness. I think it was like far more traumatic for the people who were there and rescued me yeah and it's all caught on camera so that was also like because you're hearing you scream and you don't know exactly what has happened to you and then we see you in the hospital

and we realize that you you are injured but you're not it's not like you can't walk again which is what Alex was worried about when he heard that fall I think we were all worried about that I did have back pain but then like I went to the hospital and they were kind of in disbelief too they were like you fell how far like oh my god and then they did all these tests and they were like you're fine you can you can leave so you know I had a concussion obviously but and mentally I think I was pretty shaken and it took me a while to kind of like get back to a place where I felt comfortable climbing again where I could really trust myself but um yeah I got I got incredibly lucky and it's just such a mental like when you are watching this movie and watching you I just

felt such a an understanding of like it's almost I mean of course it's physical it's all physical but it is so more it's it if not more mental than commensurate to how physical it is I want you to talk to me about that what part of you do you think is mental and for this kind of thing or and what part is physical I mean I think it's massively mental I think the ability to kind of look at this 3,200 foot wall and say, okay, I'm going to try to climb it in under 24 hours. It's just a massive mental and emotional undertaking. And it's really hard to not feel incredibly daunted when you're standing at the bottom. So it very much is a process of like breaking it down into these more digestible pieces and maintaining composure over this really long, long period of

time. And then there is a level of exhaustion that you eventually reach, you know, halfway up the wall, two thirds of the way up the wall or whatever that may be. And there is like this mental component of like, you have to keep going even though you feel exhausted. I mean, it's just like any endurance sport where you really have to kind of like dig into those mental reserves and the mental endurance in order to kind of like keep moving. And you have to have a lot of belief and a lot of faith that you do have that little bit of extra to keep going. Yeah. What would you say to people who are, I mean, who are struggling with that because it's any athlete, you know, I was just at the U S open and you could see people who are not mentally like, you know,

they're tougher physically than they are mentally. Their mental game isn't there. And then when you see people who are mentally clicked in, you know, you could see how they are just unbeatable. Like they just keep going and they keep going, but it's not something that is, you know, it's, it's not a permanent state of mind to be mentally prepared for something. No, it's not. But I think that it has to be trained just like your body has to be trained. And I think that's a lot of things that like maybe amateur athletes don't often recognize is a lot of these elite athletes are doing mental training alongside their physical training. So they're preparing their minds just as well as they're preparing their bodies for like the big

day or the game or whatever the match or whatever that is. And it does, it takes a lot of work up front to kind of prepare your mind and then, you know, be ready for when circumstances arise that are out of your control on the day to kind of like deal with those circumstances and deal with the pitfalls and keep going. I think you have to think of it like a muscle. Like I do work with a sports psychologist who kind of like has helped me for years get to the point where I'm ready on the day. And I just think that that's often something that's missed is that we also like train our minds just as much. And do you think you were leaning? I mean, of course you were leaning on Alex kind of in an emotional way, right? Even though he was there to climb with you, you know,

because watching it, first of all, but they don't show your sports psychologist in this movie. No, it's like a little clip of me talking to her on the phone. Okay. There's like quite a bit of like liability, liability with that. I would imagine. How did you feel? How did you feel watching this film and seeing yourself at all these different stages in your life? It's funny because everybody sees the film and then they, you know, everybody kind of like thinks they know you and they know your story. And part of that is true, but it really truly is just like this little snapshot of my life. And thankfully, I really like the movie. I think it's done quite well. I'm really proud of it and I'm proud of the whole team. And so it's been a really fun

kind of reliving of the whole journey um it's been pretty nostalgic and I think after after I I did Golden Gate I went through this period of time where I was like kind of downplaying it in my head I think a lot of athletes go through this you kind of like do the thing and then you're like a little depressed and everything feels like melancholy and you're like well what am I doing now I I'm lost I definitely went through that and so now that the movie's out and I've had some distance from it it's been really fun to kind of like feel proud I don't think I felt like this is the most proud I've felt of the actual achievement because I got to kind of like relive it with all these people and people are like inspired by it and that's just been such a cool process to go

through yeah how many times have you climbed it since then since you've since you've had a baby no I haven't I haven't been back I mean no I have been back I've been back every year I just haven't been to El Cap. I've climbed in the valley and other areas, other walls that are quite a bit shorter. I haven't quite, I haven't quite gotten the like fire back to climb on that wall. Every time I drive into Yosemite, I look at it and I'm like, oh my God, it's so big. I can't believe I did that. So I'm, yeah, I'm getting there slowly, but it's been kind of a long road to get back to that style of climbing for me. I do still climb a ton and I train really hard and thankfully there's all these different styles of climbing that kind of like are a bit easier and less time consuming

than free climbing on El Cap. So I still rock climb a bunch. I haven't made it back to El Cap yet, but I really hope so. And you climb with your baby, right? I mean, I guess they're not a baby anymore. He's two and a half. Yeah. We, we try to do trips that are like kind of like friendly for families. We have a bunch of like, all of us have kids now. We're just all like aging athletes. Like, Honnold has two kids now. So, we all go together and, like, bring the vans and go. And it's just, like, complete chaos. But we all get to climb and kind of help each other out. And it's super fun. But, yeah, we bring him along. He's, like, pretty excited. He's pretty stoked on, like, swinging around on the ropes and, like, talking about climbing. But, yeah,

it's kind of like a family affair now. Another thing I'm really jealous of is that you've skied so many peaks in so many different countries. What is it? 8,000 peaks? Is that what it says? 8,000 foot peaks. 8,000 meters. 8,000 meters. 8,000 peaks. I'm like, who's counting all those peaks? 8,000 meters. I haven't done 8,000 peaks. Yeah. I'm a skier. You're a skier as well, right? I love skiing. Yes. But I mean, I've never done anything like that. No, I would be fucking shitting my pants. I mean, skiing was my first passion. I started skiing when I was two years old and I was a ski racer and I quit for climbing and then I moved to Tahoe when I met my husband and he's a he's

like a professional big mountain skier so he's skied like a lot of the biggest mountains in the world and I've like joined for some of the trips but for me skiing is like I've since rediscovered it it's a total second passion and it's just like this really amazing alternative to climbing that I have where like I don't have any like weird expectations or performance or like anxiety or identity like wrapped up in skiing like skiing is for me it's like this amazing fun lovely activity for me to do with my husband and it's just like one of my favorite things like sometimes I'd much rather go skiing than go climbing because it just is such a like refreshing alternative to like my career, which is rock climbing. Right, right, right. And in what ways do you think that you've

applied what you've learned from actually accomplishing that and having such, not a bumpy road, but your challenges along the way to accomplish what you set out to do, which was climb El Capitan in less than 24 hours on that route. Have you been able to measure how that experience has influenced your like mother, you know, being a mother or and having a baby and being a parent? Like how does it influence your decisions or challenges that you face in your real life? Yeah, I mean, I just like to say that having a kid is like embarking on a lifelong expedition. Like when you go on an expedition, it's like you're you're like sleep gets all fucked up. You're like not eating as well as you want. You don't have a routine like you're

exhausted but you still have to like perform and you still have to like keep moving forward and you still have to keep trying and that's kind of what parenting is it's like some days it like sucks and you're tired and like nobody's happy but you just like keep moving and every phase is temporary and just keep going and like when you look back on it you're kind of like oh yeah actually like that was a great memory that was a super fun time even though it was like really hard and so I think we've sort of applied that to our parenting it's just like another adventure that we're embarking on and we're still like trying to do all the same things we're still trying to go places we're trying to be skiers we're trying to be climbers we're trying to be athletes and we're trying to incorporate

our son into it of course like things have changed and we've like pivoted a little bit and we have different priorities and we approach risk completely differently than we used to but that's not to say that we don't still take risks. I think risk is like a very healthy part of living and it's something that we should all like talk more about. So yeah, we just kind of like view it in that framework of like what we've always done in our lives. And like we're going to keep doing what we do. We're going to keep trying hard. We're going to keep trying to do hard things. Being a parent is also hard, but it's also like really fun and we've chosen it. And so this is like our chosen like suffering and our chosen adventure. And it's mostly awesome. Well, I like what you

said about taking risks, like how does that apply to being a parent? Like what are some ways in which you take risks as a parent? Because I think people think about that as like a solo journey, right? Risk-taking like, oh, that's about me. And I, you, you're only putting yourself at risk, but is there any way in which you do that as a parent? Yeah. I mean, we take risks in our own like athletic endeavors still, my husband and I, and we talk very clearly about those things and we, you know, kind of like weigh whether or not the, the experience or the achievement is going to be worth the risk and some things just nowadays just aren't as worth it so we we kind of don't do them we back off but also we like encourage our kid to take risks we encourage him to think about risks

and like if he falls down he falls down and he learns something from it we don't really feel like we want to be like the bubble wrap parents and kind of like too late too late yeah prevent him from experiencing like failure and you know getting hurt and stuff like that you I mean, obviously, there's like guardrails that we have, but I think for the most part, we're like pretty stoked on bringing him along for adventures and, you know, really open to talking about risks. And I think, you know, it's going to be harder as he gets older. I think that's the trick with parenting is like when your kid finds their passion, hopefully they find their passion, you know, not really worrying about those things and really worrying about what could happen to them. I think that's going to be like one of the biggest hurdles. Right now, it's like all very simple.

He's two. so like it's not it's not that hard the decisions aren't that hard yet yeah in the movie you talk about the first time you went rock climbing and like that you said a light turned off I would say probably on or off right when you experience that just talk to a little bit about finding the thing that moves you yeah I feel super lucky that I had that experience I was 10 years old and we were at this I grew up in Colorado we're at this lake and there was one of those artificial walls and I climbed the wall and I just remember like I was really afraid because I could like feel the air under my feet and I felt exposure and I was like feeling fear but I just like kept going kept going

and got to the top and came down and it was just like this really empowering feeling to like be afraid and feel exposure but continue to work through it and get to the top and it was just one of those feelings where I just I immediately went to my dad and I was like how do I do this again This is what I want to do. I just, I want to do that again. So I went, he took me to the climbing gym and then everything just took off from there. And I know it's obviously a mostly male sport, like everything in the world is. So what is the community like with climbers? Because in the movie there's feature, you know, there's other climbers featured. Some are mostly male. There's a couple of women in there. What's the vibe like? Do you go in a group typically? Do you ever go by

yourself or is that a no-no? You always need a buddy. Yeah, it depends on what you're doing. I will say that climbing is growing massively. It's an Olympic sport now, and it's just, like, exploding across the world because of climbing gyms, I think. And the female participation has just skyrocketed. And it is one of the only sports, I think, where the difference between men and women is quite a bit narrower, and it's getting more narrow. Like, some of the best climbers in the world are females. some of the most well-known climbers in the world are females because it is a very complicated sport it rewards strength but it also rewards flexibility and it also rewards like you know

puzzle like the ability to solve puzzles and it rewards uh body awareness and so there there are these spaces where females can really excel and we have and we do have these like standout achievements in climbing like what lynn hill did in the early 90s when she was the first person to free climb el cap in a day like that is like the most groundbreaking achievement in rock climbing and it is owned by a woman and everybody knows it so in that way climbing is very unique that said there are you know there's obviously more male participation than female and when i was growing up i basically like just climbed with boys there weren't that many girls but now it's like just so different yeah when we go rock climbing generally if you're climbing with a rope you have a partner

And so I go with my husband or I have friends around. I have a lot of friends, like I said, who have kids now. So we kind of can all go together. If I'm going to the climbing gym, I sometimes will just go by myself and put my headphones in and just like go get my workout in. That's like the most effective, easiest way to train is to just like go by yourself and do your thing. So, yeah, it's a mix. But if you're going outside, generally I have a partner because I like to climb on a rope or with a rope. Do you mentor any young climbers, any young females?

Yeah, I mean, I think I'm sort of stepping into that role as a mentor right now, especially with the film coming out. I am also a part of the North Face Global Athlete Team, which is this really amazing, like, it's a very, like, well-formed team of athletes and we get together and there are opportunities to mentor the younger athletes. I've now been on the team since 2008. So I'm like one of the older athletes on the team. And growing up, I had mentors like Conrad Inker, who brought me to Mount Everest, and Hilary Nelson, who's in the film. And so now I'm sort of stepping into that role with the younger athletes on the team, which has been super fun. And then also I'm now working with this nonprofit called Z Girls, which is like mental health

coaching for adolescent girls. And what it is, is they like pair a professional athlete with a mental health coach. and we do these like virtual calls where we kind of help young girls they're like ages 11 to 14 kind of like deal with all the struggles of being an adolescent and confidence and all of those things

and so that's been kind of a really cool way to like mentor just more young women I was so amazed watching the film like when you guys whipped out of bed like on the side of the mountain I was like wait they're gonna go fucking sleep now I'm like I mean it's kind of amazing

what you can bring up there with you because the definition of free climbing you tell me What's the definition of free climbing? Yeah. So free climbing is exactly what you imagine it to be. It is using your hands and feet to ascend a wall. And no rope.

No, you use a rope. So this is where it gets confusing. Free climbing is using your hands and feet to ascend a wall and you use a rope and protection in case of a fall. Now that's, so it's meant to be compared against aid climbing, which is how like back in the 60s they climbed walls like el cap they would like place protection and pull on the protection and they would use the ropes that's called aid climbing because they thought it was impossible to free climb like they thought it was impossible to to climb just the rock itself and now we have

free climbing the the reason that it got fucked up is i blame alex honnold because of free solo everybody the term free everybody just associates that with like no ropes free solo is actually free climbing without a rope. Okay. It's the term solo that differentiates it. So free climbing is anything. If you've ever been to a climbing gym and you're like climbing on the little, the colored holds, that is free climbing. Like anytime you're just using your hands and feet to ascend, that's free climbing. It's just like this umbrella term. And in general, we use rope and protection in case of a fall. And what are you doing to eat on your way up? What are you taking for nutrients I'm kind of like a snacker so I would bring just like a variety of

like bars and dried fruit and nuts and salty things a lot of water you know we had like a good support crew with us so like Alex had a backpack with a bunch of stuff in it and he wasn't free climbing he was like ascending the rope behind me so he could carry like a lot more and then yeah we had Adrian brought down some food for me so yeah it's just like kind of it's kind of like running an ultra marathon or like running a long race. It's like you kind of want to be fueling a little bit every hour, essentially. Yeah. What did you think, Catherine, when you watched the movie? I mean. Did you have to watch it twice like me? I didn't watch it twice, but I was wrapped. Like my attention was just so with you. Yeah, it was really intense. I mean, it really

like real just tough stuff. Yeah. Two things that really were shocking to me. One being the choice to sort of announce that you were going to do this project, that you were going to free climb El Cap, not the easiest route, but you know, a different route, a harder route in under 24 hours before you did it. Because if you hadn't announced it, like no one would know that you've, you know, quote unquote failed a few times. No one would know if you never made it. But I thought that was so interesting that you chose to do that. Did you do that so that you would do it? I mean, I don't know. I think like in this day and age, like as an athlete, you're kind of like your own brand. And so you do have to tell stories. And I'm a firm believer in kind of like bringing people along for the ride in all of its forms, like in the failure and the success. And I think people are the reason people are so like kind of drawn to the film is because they can relate to it, because there is a lot of failure and because they did tell the story and I wasn't afraid to like be vulnerable.

And you wanted to give up. And there were times where you wanted to give up even while you were climbing. You were like, forget it. I can't do it. And they're like, you're going to do your husband, I believe, was like, you're going to do it today. You know, like, I mean, that is anything that is something that anybody can relate to is failing and wanting to give up and throw in the towel. But the perseverance is what separates, you know, the winners. And the other thing about that is that was after you had had a fall on that success, you know, the attempt that you were successful. And that fall is so excruciating to watch where you just head first hit the wall. I mean, you end up with a hole in your head.

Yeah. But the fact that you stop, you have yourself a little cry, and then you go the rest of the way to fuck up the mountain. Like that to me was so incredible. and you know what you were saying earlier about showing emotion that is a perfect example of that like you got that out of your system and then you kept going yeah and that's what i tell people it's like people are like how did you keep going like you wanted to give up and it's like yeah i didn't want to give up but i kind of knew like i also needed adrian there to be like nope you're not

you're not done i would tell you if you were done like you you're fine like we did first aid and everything i didn't actually have a concussion um but i really needed to like like you said i needed to like get it out of my system and like have the cry express all the doubts like express that I wasn't feeling confident and then it was like okay like all of that's out there I got it off my chest and now I can like try again which honestly like logistically it kind of was the easiest thing to do like bailing at that position on the wall is quite difficult yeah like you're not it's not just like you're gonna like hop in your car and you know go home and have a night what does happen when one bails at that point because i would i would think you would just belay down or repel

down or whatever super convoluted and really difficult to do like you can't really repel straight down off that section of the wall for various nuanced reasons the easiest way is up so you could like ascend ropes basically or aid climb out but at that point it's like why don't you just try to climb the pitch one more time you know so i'd like kind of big wall free climbing is cool and it kind of like forces you into these positions like you're kind of like forced into trying because it's actually just like kind of the easiest thing to do in the moment and what is that called when you're sandwiched in between like like in a cave when you're correct yeah the crack what is it what's the term for that is just a crack well yeah it's crack climbing when you're ascending a

crack but what we when it's like wider than your your hands can fit then that's called like wide climbing or off with climbing um and it's this super like uncomfortable like specific style of climbing that is very unique to uh lcap and other like you know granite yeah i mean it seems impossible it's like it like sucks it's like my least favorite kind of climbing and i'm like not that good at it so when you summited and you got to the top for the first time when you i mean the way you wanted to. I think you had done it before, but not that, like not free climbing, right? So the first time you did it and you break down and you're emotional and you're joyful and all the things. And you say this really great line about like, you're hungry, you're wet, you're cold,

but everything is perfect. Something along those lines, which I thought is a great line. Yeah. It's really beautiful. And I kind of sums up everything that anyone would feel after fighting your way to get somewhere what was it like for you to watch yourself do that and be in that state it's so awesome like I always whenever the film is premiering and I have to be at a premiere I always leave for the middle and then I always make sure to come back for the end because I do it's like it's just so special and I'm I just feel so lucky that it you know I got to I get to experience it again it was just such a relief honestly like a relief and surreal and joyful I was just so stoked and then what people often don't realize is like you have to like walk back down off the top

and it takes like three and a half hours so we were just like at the top and then we had to walk back down we got back at like 3 a.m or so you walk down off the back of the mountain or you rappel back down you like walk no you don't rappel down you kind of like walk back and then wind your way around and you actually end up having to do like three or four rappels and then you you hike through the woods and down but it takes like three hours and it's super easy to get lost it's it's just like a whole thing especially in the middle of the night and i know i know i don't even understand how people do this in the middle of the night with a miner's lamp what and also all of those hooks are those hooks already on all these mountains because where do these hooks come

from like are they permanent on el capitan that you're hooking your ropes to yes so some of it is so there are bolts that the first ascensionists like the people who go up there and like find the line and make the route sometimes they put in bolts where they drill a hole in in the wall and then they hammer in a bolt and you can clip a carabiner to that and that's how you clip your rope in so the bolts are permanent and then we have like traditional gear which is like we have these devices called cams and they're like they're like pieces of metal and you squeeze you squeeze a trigger and it like contracts and you stick it in the crack and it expands and it's actually super solid and will hold a fall but you put those in and then you remove them so we have like

gear that can be placed permanently and then gear that can be removed and it kind of just depends on the style of climbing and the place some places have specific rules about bolts like some don't allow it so it's all like again very nuanced but yes some of the gears up there and some of what we bring with us and like put it in and take it out okay okay we're gonna take a break and we're gonna be right back with emily harrington from girl climber behind every night spent making the kids lunches there's a lot of suspense will they finally eat the veggies will the pesto survive the first bite will the lunchbox come home empty half full or come home at all and will you finish episode eight before you're done slicing the cucumbers get bell pure fiber internet with

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because you're a five-time U.S. national champion climber. So, okay, we're back. We are back. We're back with Emily. Are you ready to give some advice? We're going to field some questions from callers and give some advice. And I'm sure these are related to your experience in life. They'll all be in your wheelhouse, more or less.

Okay, perfect. Okay. Great. Our first question, this one's an email, comes from Molly. She says, Dear Chelsea, I need travel recommendations and advice on how to have fun, feel empowered, but stay safe while traveling solo as a 44-year-old female. I'm finally out of a 20-year toxic marriage and looking forward to finding myself again on the slopes.

After years of raising kids without much of a partner, financially scraping by, and wasting so much time, money, and energy on getting legally unhitched, on December 25th at 12 p.m., I will be child-free and on winter break from work for over a week. Chelsea, where should I go? Tahoe! Go skiing! Yeah. She says, I used to love to travel Europe, but that was always in his shadow on his schedule

with his rules. I'm an avid skier. I've got all the gear, but finances are a thing. I've been saving and will have about $3,500 to spend on the whole trip, soup to nuts. I love all the places you travel, and I'm hoping to reconnect with the independent, intelligent 20-year-old woman I was just before I met my ex. In the meantime, maybe I can know what it feels like to reclaim my narrative, even for a week.

I know you love Whistler, and I'd be all in if I can financially swing it. what are some other places of your favorite places to go in the middle of winter to get away and have fun? I think Tahoe has the most options and is the most affordable. Tell me if I'm wrong. I mean, Aspen's expensive. Whistler's expensive. Tahoe's a little bit more affordable with a lot of array and they've been having great snow for the last like five years. Do you agree with that, Emily? Yeah. I mean, I'm biased, but I love Tahoe. And there are, we have so many ski resorts around Lake Tahoe that you can kind of like pick and choose. some are more expensive than others some are more you know for expert skiers some are more for

beginner skiers the terrain differs but you do have a lot of options and a lot of traffic like there's going to be a lot of people there like in a good way you know it's Tahoe's really popular and it's accessible it's not as bad as like some of these other ski towns where there's only one way in and one way out and if your flight gets delayed you're on a bus for eight hours I feel like Tahoe doesn't have that problem as often as like a place like Aspen does or even some of like Telluride or Jackson Hole, same kind of thing. So yeah, I think you should go to Tahoe. All right, Molly, you're going to Tahoe. There you go. Excellent. Well, we do have people calling in. So our first caller today is Scarlett. She says, Dear Chelsea, I could really use your take

on a recurring family vacation issue. I live in the Rockies with my long-term boyfriend. My family and his are both on the East Coast. To keep things fair, my boyfriend and I split the holidays, Thanksgiving with my family, Christmas with his, especially because my family is Jewish and Christmas is my boyfriend's favorite holiday to spend with his family. The issue is my mom has a long-standing tradition of surprise family Christmas vacations. She books the whole thing without telling us the destination, just sends a packing list and reveals where we're going at the airport. Cute as a kid, but as an adult, she still books my flights and accommodations without asking me and has made it difficult to balance the surprise trip and whatever else is going on in

my life. I've directly asked her many times to please run trips by me before booking anything on my behalf, but it seems to fall on deaf ears or she just ignores me. One year in law school, I had a chance to go abroad over winter break. I explicitly asked her to wait until I had my travel dates for the program and told her it would be my only opportunity to go before I was done with law school. As soon as I had the dates, I called her and lo and behold, she'd already booked the family trip anyway. I ended up cramming in both trips, bounced across four time zones, and crashed so hard afterward that I barely kept up with classes. I fear this set a bad precedent because now it seems like

as long as she books the trip first, she gets dibs on my availability. No, she doesn't get to book your trip. This is ridiculous. So another Christmas issue that came up was the first year that she and her boyfriend decided to spend the holidays together. Her mom booked the Christmas trip without telling her, and so she wound up having to go with her family, and they'd already spent Thanksgiving with her family.

So it was a little unfair on his behalf. So now this behavior has expanded to all family events. She gets passive aggressive if I say no. It keeps asking me to reconsider. And honestly, I'm exhausted trying to juggle her expectations with my job as a brand new baby lawyer and my life. In law school, I learned that if I don't make in time for myself to recharge, my body will force me to repay that debt later via blinding migraines.

So here's my question. Is it reasonable to skip family trips even if I'm technically available? Do reasons like work, needing a break, or just not wanting to go make me an asshole? I'm so resentful that even her generosity, she pays for everything, is starting to feel suffocating. Do I need to adjust my attitude? Scarlett. No, I'm suffocated by this letter.

It's too much. It's too much. She needs to chill out and you need to put it in writing. I have asked you repeatedly, you are not listening to me. You are not hearing me. You guys are both splitting the holidays. She has to respect that. like she has to respect that you're in a different part of your life now you're an adult you live

with her you're not her little daughter that she has to pay for to take everywhere like that's just not the way it needs to go down so I would recommend writing a very stern email saying you've left me no recourse but to actually write this letter to you and these are the rules moving forward like you're not telling me where I'm going we're not doing surprise trips anymore you have to get my permission before I agree to go on a vacation what do you think Emily yeah absolutely. I mean, I could never let someone book a flight for me. I can't do it. And I like way too controlling to handle that. Yeah. You got to lay down the law for sure. Yeah. And I think unfortunately you're going to tell her this again, she's going to do it again.

And I think the only way she's actually going to stop is when you say like, sorry, those dates are ones I told you were not available. And then you don't go on the trip. I think this is when she's going to have to learn the hard way. Yeah. You're going to have to actually follow through on not going on some of these trips yeah and I think that's been the hard part is like I actually have to even though she's paid for it even if she beat me to booking my own trip to still say no and maybe that will finally be when it sinks in what about timing do you have any I think putting it in writing is a good idea but I guess trying to find like a good time to talk about it you know what I mean or I don't know as early as possible yeah exactly today you should do this today like

start crafting that email today so that because the holidays are coming up and you're going to face this issue again and you have to give her something that's close enough to the holidays it's perfect timing go in preparation for the holidays this year that's how you could start it out I'm giving you this advance warning I do not want you planning a vacation unfortunately I've tried to express myself over the years and you're not listening to me I this is what we're doing we're spending Thanksgiving here we're doing you know whatever you decide that how you guys are going to split like what you've been doing and you can even give her the range of dates now you know because I guarantee she's already looking she's already looking for all I know

she's already booked it again but that's if you want to go do you want to go away with her this year not over Christmas no and I don't and I think that yeah like I think from here on out I'm just not going and I think what's been tough is that like if I miss that or like she's kind of been like score keeping or she kind of like tracks stuff so it's like for other family vacations too she'll be like well you can work remote over here we'll pay for everything versus like kind of under like she only accepts a logistical reason for why I can't go she doesn't really accept like a I don't have the bandwidth for it right now you know what I mean like she wants like a real issue versus like yeah I don't know how to kindly explain like it's not that I don't

want to see them it's that I'm too I don't know like I just don't have the bandwidth or the energy or I just like would rather spend that time doing something else yeah and I mean you don't have to say that, but you can just say that her controlling like nature is taking the fun out of these vacations for you also, you know, that it makes you want to withdraw or retreat that you don't necessarily want to go because of her insistence upon going. And I think the blinding migraines are a really solid reason. Like I do need to take that time to restore because that's when people are gone. That's when nobody needs me. Like that, we find ourselves in that situation as well as Like, people who don't live in the same place as we grew up, it's sort of on us to travel.

And we had to make the decision a few years ago of, like, that's the only time we get to rest for the year. So, like, we're going to stay home. And we do miss Christmas with our families. Emily, what do you guys do with your families, your respective families in the holidays? Yeah, I mean, it's pretty similar. Like, we definitely have to kind of, like, massage the situation a little bit sometimes and, like, accommodate people. But at the same time, I think traveling is exhausting and I think it can be really hard on like your body. And so I like being home for the holidays and I kind of like laid on the law with it a little bit.

But we'll do like, OK, we'll do Thanksgiving with you, but we're not doing Christmas or vice versa. You know? Yeah. It's kind of one of those things. It's like you kind of like you want to be there and you want to like show that you love them, but only to a certain extent. Like sometimes vacations can be like super stressful, stressful and hard. especially with your families you know yeah yeah and like family's important but also like if you you want to be like in a good mood and having good time with people when you're on the vacation you don't want to be like resentful the whole time also you can also threaten like like if you don't listen to me now then our next step is going to therapy together you know what i mean

if you don't if you don't hear me now we're gonna have to go to a therapist because that's what you're gonna have to do you're gonna have to have someone mediate yeah because i think that's what's The other thing that's interesting about, she gets to plan everything. She picks the destination and all of that sort of stuff. There's no buy-in from anybody, you know, like there isn't like a back and forth. It's just this thing that's decided for us. And it's just been hard to, yeah, accommodate that. And I'm getting like very resentful of the whole thing.

Okay. Well, good luck. Let us know what happens. Yeah, I will. Even though we know what's going to happen right away. We want the long-term repercussions or the long-term outcome, not repercussions. Email us after you write the email and then also in January when you've had to have her cancel your part of the trip. Yeah.

We'll see. All right. Thanks, Scarlett. Well, thank you so much. It was so nice to meet you. Bye. Bye, Scarlett. Thanks for calling in.

Thanks. Bye. Bye. So let's go to another caller here. We've got Rachel calling in. She says, Dear Chelsea, I'll start off by saying I have a difficult relationship with my brother's wife. They've been together for over a decade, and our family has stayed mom and just accepted the fact that she's not going anywhere, until I found out that they've been having

marital issues, and she suggested a divorce. As much as I want to celebrate this news, my heart broke for my brother. Fast forward to now, and I find out they're supposedly doing great. How am I supposed to accept this and act like I don't know about their past issues? Everyone's telling me to leave it alone, because I'm not supposed to even know this in the first place, but I want to talk to my brother about it. What should I do, Rachel? Hi, Rachel.

This is our special guest, Emily Harrington's here today. Hi. Hello. Nice to meet you both. Hi. Are you hiding in a closet right now calling us? I am. Perfect.

Okay. So you heard that they were having problems from, who told you? I was praying. Okay. And so you've never heard anything from your brother regarding that? I have not heard anything from the source, but I have heard it from now multiple sources at this point. But you're and he's saying everything's fine with their marriage.

Well, as of the latest update about a week ago, things are back to not being great. OK, OK. Well, I think what you should do is very innocently let your brother know that you're there to lean on if he needs that. But I would I would assume just from what you've told me and the fact that you are in a closet that your brother knows how you feel about his wife and is probably not going to come to you with any information. So all you can do is just let him know that you're there if he needs to talk to you about anything. And I wouldn't even make it specific to his marriage. I would just

remind him that you're his sister and that you love him and that if there's anything he ever needs or wants to talk about, that you're available. And I would leave it at that. Okay. I've been thinking about doing that. I just worry about by doing that, he's going to know something's up, which then yeah but you're gonna like even if no one told you you can tell when people are like not getting along having a difficult time like you can just say I picked up on some things you know if he asks yeah that's what I was kind of hoping towards like the vibe seemed to be kind of weird but yeah you can say something like that but just don't be you know like when people aren't revealing things it's hard to go in on them hard you know like tell me everything like it can't be

gossip it's his life so just be sensitive to the fact Emily do you agree with that what do you think yeah I totally agree I think being sensitive and being like yeah expressing that you're you're there and you're supportive and you're a sounding board and you're always available to chat is good um it's hard because you kind of like never know what's really going on in a relationship yeah unless you're like in the relationship even then sometimes you don't know what's going on Yeah, exactly. And it just seems to be so like lip flop back and forth. So I never know like where they stand one day. And so I'm like, when do I approach it? What do I say? Yeah. Even though I've never said anything, you're right. Like he knows my feelings about his wife. Yeah. So it's

better to come, especially if he's having trouble with her. Like he might have, you know, oh, I can't talk to you because you already don't like her. You know what I mean? You have to kind of open up the avenue to say like, anything is safe here. It's okay. You don't have to gang up on whatever's going on with her. It's like, you just want to be there to be a support and listen to him. You don't have to go, yeah, she's such a bitch or I can't believe her. When are you going to leave her? That's not the right approach. I think you should really just be dialed into showing up for him and helping him in any way that he feels comfortable asking for help. Because men are hard to help sometimes, you know, they don't, they're not effusive like women. We're

not emotional. I mean, Emily and I were just speaking about that, you know, how it's so much healthier to be able to express your emotions. And I think the people that bring that out best in men are typically women. Yeah. Yeah. Especially my brother. Yeah. So we wish you well. Thank you. Appreciate it. It was so nice meeting you both. Nice to meet you too. Take care. Take care. Bye-bye. Okay. And we'll be right back with Emily Harrington. Behind every night spent making the kids' lunches, there's a lot of suspense. Will they finally eat the veggies? Will the pesto survive the first bite?

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On the new podcast, Solita, we share the messy reality of traveling alone as a woman. I can wait four hours for the next bus or this random dude is offering me a ride on his motorcycle. I chose option B. I'm Julie Pinheiro, and I travel by myself because it's a rare space where I can say yes without asking anyone else first.

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how about we flip it on his head right how about we flip the script okay what is the surprise woman who actually you think is the straight man is actually the one who's acting weird adam scott this entire time you've been expecting adam sandler to come to visit the show i i would never let go of that i have i would never set expectations for something like that it seems like if the universe allows for something like that to happen i'm open to it i'm always going to accept you know danny mcbride fine yeah it's all this fragile masculinity exuding i could smell it walking down the hallway to be honest with you i was like is that weed nope it's fragile masculinity ben stiller no because a lot of times in out of context people don't get it or even know

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Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. Okay, and we're back with Emily Harrington from Girl Climber, which is going to be available for everyone to see. It's a fucking awesome movie displaying true grit, true strength, and true determination, three things, and follow through. I think follow through is the most important thing here. Setting a goal and doing whatever it took to get there and making adjustments along the way after failing, after falling, literally falling, and making those adjustments to actually achieve a goal. So it's a great example and testament to a strength of mind, you know, great fortitude. So thank you so much for being

our guest today, Emily. I loved the movie. I'm going to watch it again and again and again. I think it's just a great movie for every woman to watch. Yeah, agreed. Yeah. Thank you. Well, thank you so much. Yes. Take care. Thanks for having me on. Yes, absolutely. Bye-bye. Bye, guys. I just announced all my tour dates. They just went on sale this week. It's called the High and Mighty Tour. I will be starting in February of next year. So I will be touring from February through June. So go get your tickets now. If you want good seats and you want to come see me perform, I will be on the High and Mighty Tour. Do you want advice from Chelsea? Write into DearChelseaPodcast at gmail.com. Find full video episodes of Dear Chelsea on YouTube

by searching at Dear Chelsea Pod. Dear Chelsea is edited and engineered by Brad Dickert. Executive producer, Catherine Law. And be sure to check out our merch at chelseahandler.com. I survived nine months in captivity, and I've spent my life exploring how other people survive what should have destroyed them. I'm Elizabeth Smart, and these are The Survivor Files. Every week, I'm with survivors who live through the unthinkable. abducted, stalked, controlled, and nearly silenced. These are stories about what it

takes to make it out alive. Listen to The Survivor Files with Elizabeth Smart on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. If your bookshelf and your For You page are equally important to your personality, welcome home. Pro Society is a weekly podcast that's part book club, part group chat for anyone who thinks Pride and Prejudice and Love Island deserve the same level of discourse. Each week, we're connecting the dots between books, the internet, and pop culture with your favorite writers, book talk creators, and plenty of overthought opinions. Yeah, I'm obsessed. I'm obsessed.

Listen to Pro Society on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. Did you hear the new episode of the Hey Jonas podcast? We are at D23, so we'll see who stops by. The cast of Frozen stopped by. Kristen Bell, Josh Gad, and Idina Menzel. I auditioned for Frozen. What? For Kristoff.

They said, okay, what are you going to be singing today? I said, I don't know. That must have been why you didn't get it. Oh, you probably won. Plus, John Stamos, Hayden Christensen from Star Wars, and more. And I guess I can share that, uh... No way. Listen to the latest episode of Hey Jonas on the iHeartRadio app,

Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. Hey, this is Hayes Davenport. And Sean Clements. We host the podcast Hollywood Handbook. Each week, we talk to someone in show business and try to help them with their careers and see what they have to offer us. Everyone has a good time, and no one gets mad at their publicist for letting them do our show. We've had a lot of great guests like Sarah Sherman, Adam Scott, Danny McBride, Ben Stiller,

and a lot of other big shots that wouldn't be where they are without us. Listen to Hollywood Handbook on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. On the new podcast, Solita, we share the messy reality of traveling alone as a woman. I can wait four hours for the next bus, or this random dude is offering me a ride on his motorcycle. I chose option B. I'm Julie Pinheiro, and I travel by myself because it's a rare space where I can say yes without asking anyone else first. I'm on a mission to reclaim the word solita, trading the pity for possibility. Listen to Solita on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts.

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