Life Will Be the Death of Me with Chelsea Handler - Vag of Honor with Naomi Watts

Episode Date: February 13, 2025

Actress Naomi Watts joins Chelsea to discuss starting perimenopause at 36, why she’s so passionate about helping women know their options around this life stage, and what you should be looking out for.  Then: A medical professional feels like there’s no help for her early signs of menopause.  And a sniffer calls in with a series of mysterious symptoms.  * Pick Up a Copy of Naomi’s Book Dare I Say It? Everything I Wish I’d Known About Menopause * Other reading referenced in this episode: Inconceivable by Julia Indichova Women Have Been Misled About Menopause by Susan Dominus * Order Chelsea's new book I'll Have What She's Having today. Best enjoyed with a tasty Owl's Brew hand-crafted boozy beverage. * Need some advice from Chelsea? Email us at [e-mail] * Executive Producer Catherine Law Edited & Engineered by Brad Dickert * * * The views and opinions expressed are solely those of the Podcast author, or individuals participating in the Podcast, and do not represent the opinions of iHeartMedia or its employees.  This Podcast should not be used as medical advice, mental health advice, mental health counseling or therapy, or as imparting any health care recommendations at all.  Individuals are advised to seek independent medical, counseling advice and/or therapy from a competent health care professional with respect to any medical condition, mental health issues, health inquiry or matter, including matters discussed on this Podcast. Guests and listeners should not rely on matters discussed in the Podcast and shall not act or shall refrain from acting based on information contained in the Podcast without first seeking independent medical advice.  See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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Hi. Here we are. Here we are. It's, what day is it? Is it Thursday? Yes, it's Thursday. It must be Thursday. It's our podcast day.

And you're back in Whistler. I am. I'm back. I'm home. How has the skiing, I mean, as much as you've been able to be there, how has the skiing been this year? Well, the skiing's been good. I mean, a couple of dry spells or rain spells.

Whistler gets wet, so it kind of ruins the snow. But there's a lot of snow right now. I mean, I'm still recuperating from my shoulder sitch, so I'm not really skiing, but I just love being here, you know, in the snow. And I've been reunited with Doug. My dog trainer up here was with him. She moved into my house. abby from tail tail tails from whistler i don't know what the company is hot tails from whistler

but she's so awesome i mean she really saved me when i had found out i had to get that shoulder surgery so uh doug now thinks she's her mother his mother so i have to contest with that but i'll fucking take it you know what i mean she's so good with him that's great and he's so i mean you should when i he sees me he puts my hand in his mouth and he's not biting but he's playing and he just like and she goes that's when he is so overwhelmed with emotion that he can't express himself like he just and he when I got home I mean he had my hand in his mouth for like almost 40 minutes I could not get it out it's like cute aggression you ever get that he's just like look at me look at me I'm like oh Doug I didn't want to leave you I didn't want to um I added more

Vegas dates you guys sweet so I want to make sure I mention those so my next dates are March 21st This is my residency at the Cosmopolitan in Vegas at the Chelsea Theater, March 21st and April 18th. And then we added July 5th, August 30th, November 1st, and November 29th. So go to ChelseaHandler.com for your tickets. Great. And your book is, like, about to come out. Ooh. It'll be, like, a week away.

Ooh. Very soon. So get your preorders in. Yes. And you can actually, on Barnes & Noble, you can, like, say, I would like a signed copy. And yes, I signed 8,500 copies for Barnes & Noble. So you can get that if you want to sign copy or come to any of my book signings. They're all up on my website too.

I'm going to New Jersey. I'll be at the 92nd Street Y in New York. I'll be in Cincinnati. Let's just read it while I have my phone here. Let's see where else I'm going. Yeah, Boston, Cincinnati, Chicago. I'll be in New Jersey on the 24th, my birthday. I'll be at the 92nd Street Y.

26th, I'll be in Boston. Then Cincinnati, then Chicago. then LA at the Grove, and then Seattle, Washington on March 3rd. So go to chelseahandler.com for all that information. Make sure you order your Owl's Brew or buy your Owl's Brew so we can have a nice boozy book club. And I'll put a link to that in the description as well. Awesome. Thank you so much, Catherine. Drum roll, Catherine, please. Chelsea Handler Abroad Abroad is my European tour, which I just announced yesterday. Tickets go on sale tomorrow or today, or there's a pre-sale code, Chelsea. So I'm coming to obviously find a husband abroad. I need to get the hell out of

this fucking country. And it's not as easy as you think. So I'm coming to Reykjavik. I'm coming to Dublin. I'm coming to the UK. I'm coming to Brussels, Paris, Belfast in May and June. I'm coming to Oslo, Stockholm, to Copenhagen, Manchester, London, Glasgow, New Zurich, Vienna. I've never, ever been to Vienna. Berlin, Barcelona, and Lisbon. I'm coming. Abroad is abroad. That sounds like fun. I'm going to go see you abroad. I know. I want to go see me abroad. And there I'll be. There I'll be. We have a bestselling New York Times author on today. Her new book, Dare I Say It, Everything I Wish I'd Known About Menopause, debuted at number four on the New York Times bestsellers

list. Please welcome actor, author, and entrepreneur, my friend, Naomi Watts. Oh, hello. Oh, hello, menopause lady. Hi. Oh, hi. Are you excited to continue your talking about menopause? I know that you have. Yes. I've seen you everywhere. I know, I feel very...

Exposed. Yeah, definitely. Billie too. Poor Billie, poor hot Billie. She's married to Billie Crudup, who I have a very intense crush on. I've expressed such to him and Naomi together. And luckily, he's very gracious at my advances,

but also keeps his distance. First of all, on behalf of my sister, I want to say thank you for sending all of your products to my sister, Shoshana. She got all of your products. She fucking loves them. Oh, I'm so glad. And I love them too.

And I have to say, so Dare I Say It is this book, and this is perfect for our audience because we have so many women listening, and all of you women are going to get to experience the joy of menopause. And the great advantage and the bravery that Naomi is bringing to the subject matter by discussing it so openly

and encouraging so many other women that are now discussing it so openly, is that we don't have to go through this without having the information like women 50 years ago did. We don't have to go through all of this without talking about it like women 50 years ago did. And there are so many tools and there are so many brands, including Stripes, which is Naomi's brand, that has so many ways to help you deal with all of the experiences that you will go through during perimenopause. And you also mentioned, which is very funny, because my sister Shoshana, who is a nurse, said on the podcast, she goes, you know, menopause is just actually one day.

It's a year from the day of your last period. Is that right? Is that what it is? That's exactly right. And I said to her, you don't know what the fuck you're talking about. This was, this was a couple of years ago. Right, right. And meanwhile, she's an RN. So clearly, she knows them way more than I do. But you also talk about that in the book, which I think a lot of people didn't know, right? Yeah. And that also, it's basically a third of our lives that we will be in this menopause, perimenopause, postmenopause state. So not to say that the doom and gloom of your symptoms will last this, you know, many decades, but you could still have some

menopause related symptoms that, you know, unless you're getting treatment and that is obviously everyone's choice, whatever is safe for them. So it is something to prepare for, but not with fear. And we don't have to flail around trying to piece it all together by ourselves anymore, because it's now broken open. We can talk to our friends. We can go to our doctors with the right questions and explore it with feeling armed with what's available now out there on the internet. I mean, there's that fantastic New York Times Susan Dominus article

that was written a couple of years ago that really goes granular into how to approach treatment if you want to. It's a different time. And one of the things that you talk about in your book that I think is so people don't really realize is that you can be going through perimenopause and also becoming a mother, like motherhood can be in conjunction with perimenopause. So which is something that happened to you? Yes, I well, the news came to me that I was close to menopause, quote unquote, at 36. When I was not getting pregnant, my doctor said, let's take some blood

work and I did and then the results suggested that I was you know I had a high FSH level which is follicle stimulating hormone and I kind of ran out of the office not ran but like walked out of the office in pieces feeling terrified oh my god two bits of bad news my fertility was done possibly and I was going to be going into menopause which just felt like the end of everything I called my mom right away and said, why didn't you tell me more? She had told me that she went into it at 45, but when I asked her why she didn't give me more detail, she said, well, these were the conversations I never had with you because my mother never had them with me.

Like there was some code of silence that was just agreed upon. We suck it up. We suffer through. We soldier on. And yeah, that's just the way it goes. And this made no sense when we're half the population that is going to get there, God willing, that we live that long. And, yeah, why should we suffer? Why should we have to deal with any kind of conversation that is taboo or stigmatized?

It didn't make any sense, especially now that we're living longer. So we need to optimize our health. and you know if you don't get things under control you can it can lead to other issues yeah there's a lot of like suffering like the subject of women suffering and women being tough and having to deal first of all we're juggling more than most men are on a daily basis you know we're able to multitask we're able to do all of these things but the idea of like female suffering is just it's so crazy that people i mean there are certain people who think you have to suffer that it is part of the journey, that it is part of the game. You have to suffer in order to get

stronger. You have to suffer in order to, you know, be the body weight you want to be. You have to suffer. It's like, that's all bullshit. You don't have to suffer. You have to work hard and be determined. I know it's like, it's part of our programming. I mean, and you know, even going back to the first time we had our periods and there was pain and it was like, come on, everyone has period pains. Just suck it up. You're fine. And then you find out 10 years later, this young woman has got endometriosis and, you know, has been complaining about it, but everyone around her has said, you know, you can deal. So I think it's just part of our wiring that we think that we must just soldier through. And I don't think we need to do that. And I think as we get to this

point in our life, as, you know, older women who have experienced a few things, we get to say, no, actually not. I'm not going to, I'm not just going to roll through this. I I'd like some support and I'd like to have some compassion and empathy from all those around me. So what was like, what was the issue for you? Cause I mean, coming up with this product line is incredible. It's incredibly helpful for so many women. What was the issue for you that made you develop your first product and which one was the first one? Okay. So I developed this company called Stripes Beauty because we've earned our stripes. I wanted this woman to feel seen, that it was not the end,

that she should head into this time with support and agency, unapologetically so. And I really wanted to create a brand that recognized her symptoms, her age exactly where she's at, and not promise the world that you could look like a 25-year-old. Because frankly, when I was 25, I didn't like how I looked. I want to look my best in this moment right now. And also that this is a part of your life. This isn't the end of your life.

And there is more to be excited about after you're done with menopause and quite possibly during the whole process of menopause, which I would argue is something that you can go through with the right help and the right support and the right products while enjoying the time that you're going. It's not like a funeral. You have a whole life ahead of you after. Exactly. It's just, it's a whole new chapter that, yes, some changes take place and not just

physically, emotionally, you know, your household emptying out perhaps, or the about to, your ailing parents, job pressures, marriage issues, you know, like that so many things can happen at this exact time. And it's kind of a cruel trick that you do get that zinger of the old menopause thing, But we can get through challenges, again, with support systems and good doctors, good community, all of it. But to go back to your question, Vagivana, if I may, is our best seller. And you've got it right there. It's one of the curvier bottles.

I think that's the lube. This is Oh My Gly. That's the play oil. Going to use that for butt sex. So I wanted to create a product line that was from scalp to vag because we need extra hydration at all of those points. And that's a deep hydration level for your skin, for your hair, for your body and the vag. And so you can put this anywhere, right? You can put it on your scalp or your vag. Oh no, wait, what are you, you've got the, oh my God, that's just for the

vag? The power move. Oh, the power move is just for the face. Just face. You don't put the face on your vagina. No. You can put it on the face of your lover and then maybe he can put it on the base of your vagina. This one is called resting clean face. Very clever. I love that, which is a nourishing and calming face wash and then there is lube and then what do you have for night sweats well there's different things you can do for for night sweats and if you are into supplements we have something called inside edition is that what you have there i have inside edition yeah i think that's it right there oh yeah this right here yeah that's gonna help you with i've taken these i've taken these for my night sweats and they work i've taken these good yes good i'm

glad to hear. People in perimenopause have really had a great time with those. That is a great way to start when you don't know what's going on, but certainly the sweaty nights is a big one and something that I ticked on medical forms for years and years and years before I was told I was in menopause. Anyway, I have since gone on HRT, which is working for me. It was a great conversation with my doctor. He went through my medical history. We talked about my symptoms. If I wasn't getting enough sleep, it was going to lead to other things, depression, anxiety, memory, brain fog, all those kind of issues. So based on my medical history, he felt it was safe for me. And what kind of HRT are you on? Estrogen and progesterone. So there are so many different

delivery methods. I have pretty much tried them all. It's all trial and error, whatever works for you, different doses, different methods of delivery. I am currently on the gel, but before that I was on the patch. I kind of missed my patch. And before that I was on the pill. I don't know. I may have the chronology off here, but I've tried the pill, the spray, the ring that you insert inside. They're all great things. The pill is meant to be the least safe one because it goes through your liver and can cause blood clots. Yeah, I'm on the patch. I just started the patch and I take the progesterone when I go to bed at night. But it really has helped. I mean, the inside addition stripes really helped me with the night sweats. The progesterone and the

estradiol, that's helping with the sleep. Because the sleep, we've talked about this, when you drink and you can't, I mean, it's like you can't drink anymore because if you drink and go to bed- Yeah, you need a few hours before you go to bed. The sugar is going to spike in the night and wake you up, I think. But yeah, it takes the joy out of- It's day drinking from here on out girls. Stay drinking. You're not there yet, Catherine. Not yet. No, no. I'm cresting right now. I'm cresting in my perimenopause. Yes, yes. When you talk about hormone replacement therapy or like bioidentical hormones, like that's a buzzword I've heard a lot. Is there a difference between those? Are those like two terms for the same thing? Basically, yes. As I understand it,

it's a marketing term they're basically the same thing but yeah I mean I again I'm not a doctor I don't know why I said again it was like I was in the last meeting sorry she's still not a doctor that's what happens when you're on the treadmill you're like you have to keep repeating to people I'm not a doctor I'm not a doctor I have not even played one so but you do have a story in the book about someone who kind of went with some info from the internet and then used some hormones and used way too much of them and then found out she was using yes maybe way too much of the testosterone yes she she had a terrible experience and she didn't get enough instruction from her doctor

or at the pharmacy and she Googled it and she looked up, I think, the dosage of what the male, what men were doing and she blew through this testosterone at a rate that was just not safe. Yeah. And as a result, like, started losing her mind and almost her marriage because, you know, she started making stuff up and it was a big problem. So yeah, you do really need to be on top of this and be the CEO of your body and your whole menopausal journey, because we're just watching doctors get educated in real time

about this. With the conversation not being open, nobody was saying, I've got a problem. So the research wasn't there. So it's just on the, you know, on the, on the, on the precipice of change in the last five years, it's only going to get better. And I think your generation or the next generation is going to be much better set up for success. Yeah, thankfully. I mean, we could at least do them that favor after what we did to the climate.

Yeah, that's true. What are some other things, knowing that you're not a doctor, Naomi, what are some other things that progesterone and estrogen do, provide you with? Well, I find progesterone helps me sleep. I find it takes away anxiety. and I've found that that has been a game changer in my sleeping. You know, I know that some people might even take higher dosage than I do. I've heard that and I'm definitely curious about that at some point for myself. But it's definitely helped me with sleep and anxiety.

I'm curious as to like when you were starting this kind of, you know, research for yourself and then started to become more outspoken about it. Like, when did you decide you were going to write this book? With this book, you have to get, if you're a woman, you have to read this. You have to understand what your body's going through so that you can get ahead of it. Like, arm yourself with information.

Information is so powerful with everything. Like, and it's just so easy to pick up this knowledge, you know, and then have, once you have like a base of knowledge about something, to be able to talk to other people about it is just so advantageous. But when did you think because it is not a sexy topic, it's not hot, you know, you're not talking about youthfulness, which is, you know, what everyone wants to be talking about. So how did you how did you feel about taking this on?

I know Billy wasn't so excited about you talking about this publicly, but like how when did you decide to take this on and become kind of an ambassador for such an unsexy subject? Okay, so after my second child, I was able to get pregnant naturally, mercifully. And after my second child, I went into hardcore symptoms. And in my early 40s, I was like trying, you know, the internet was barely active. I was trying to piecemeal information together. I was like, there should be a guidebook, a manual of how to navigate this time that is not telling me it's the end. It should be sexy and funny and informative and warm and cozy.

Where is that book? And I had a book to support me through my fertility that I was, it was like my private little Bible in a way that I would read. And it was called Inconceivable. It was a fantastic book written by Julia Inderchova. And it was my everything that gave me hope. And I wanted the same kind of book. for this topic and it just wasn't there. And I remember talking to a friend of mine and she was

like, you should write that. I was like, oh, come on. I'm an actor. I'm not a writer. And there's no way I'm going to say that out loud in my industry. God, talk about, you know, career suicide. And so I just left it. And that idea came to me first. Then I came to Stripes Beauty. that idea came about, I guess, you know, 10 years later. And I guess being 50, where I'm suddenly the average age, quote unquote, of menopause, you know, which is 51. And so, you know, I just thought, okay, maybe I can just actually own this now. Maybe it's just too exhausting to keep carrying this secret. Maybe I'm going to do it. And, you know, I went and cold pitched the idea to a company that partnered with me right away. And then, you know, I just got

more and more into it. And yes, even talking about the vaginal offerings, I was like, I'm not going to speak about that though. I'm just going to talk about what a woman needs, which is hydration, hydration from scalp to vag. But you know, you can't do this in half measures. You have to just be all in. And the chances are what's happening to me are going to be happening to several other women out there too so it got to the point where it just got more and more comfy with being you know more personal and and exposing my secrets in in service of in the hope that I would heal or soothe other women and you know it just felt ridiculous that women could come together and talk about every awkward moment in their life whether it was their first kiss their first

period, their first, you know, pregnancy or, you know, all those things. We came together and we would talk and compare notes. But then suddenly there was this silence, like we're supposed to just manage this on our own. So that, that's when I just went, screw it. I'm going to write the book and I want it to be informative. I want it to be like a cozy chat with my girlfriend on the couch. I want it to be hilarious and fun. Other women's stories, knowledge, information, you know, all peppered through it and hopeful. And it's not the end. That was the point. Yeah. Okay. On that note, we're going to take a break and we'll be right back with Naomi Watts. Will the lunchbox come home empty, half full, or come home at all?

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offers all sorts of relief to people who are experiencing menopause, going through menopause, which, as we've learned, can be a long period of time. So you want to get your products. I personally like the Inside Edition, which helps with night sweats because I, too, am And it keeps you regular as well. Keeps you regular. Oh, oh, I was like regular. What kind of regular?

There's so many kinds of regular. I know, not regular period. I was like, period. I was like, I already got an ablation to map that, block that out. But, oh, good, good. Keeping you regular is always a bonus. Wait, one question before we begin with callers. One question, Naomi.

When you, since you were experiencing menopause, when you were going through your fertility And then you had your children and then the symptoms became even more exacerbated. Did you confuse that at all with postpartum or did that play, did those two, was it postpartum too? Well, it could have been, yes, for sure. But I was pretty keyed into the menopause thing by this point because at 36, you know, I'd had that message given to me. and then I understood that my night sweats were in fact menopause symptoms that my irregular

periods thinning out and everything was also a symptom I didn't join the dots until then in fact you know those medical history forms that you fill out I'd written night sweats on them for years and years and years and everyone just chalked it up to oh it's a allergy or oh maybe it's that extra glass of wine. They just didn't ever say this could be menopause or perimenopause. In fact, that word was not a word I was familiar with until the last five years, which is a much nicer word, much gentler. So yeah, I was pretty understanding of the symptoms by the time my second baby came. Yeah. Okay. But there was still more that I came to discover later, which was itchy skin. That also led me to creating stripes. I was working on a TV show and I had, you know,

long days under hot lights with makeup and I would come home and after having taken my makeup off and just be ripping the dry skin off my face, it's just angry and itchy. And I didn't understand what was happening. I'd go to the dermatologist. I'd get a little cortisone cream, which would work for a few days. And then the same thing would happen, flare up. And I was just running in circles. Again, no one connected the dots. And then I figured out later that indeed, as we lose estrogen, everything thins and dries out. And you become irritated much easier with things like retinols or things that I'd been using in my skincare regime, which was working perfectly for a number of years, now was not going to not only not work, but it was going to

aggravate me. So I had to really change out all of my skincare. And that's when I created the brand because I wanted to have something that was ultra hydrating and good for sensitive skin. Well, that's interesting that you say retinols because those are specifically marketed to like aging skin, quote unquote, or like fine lines and wrinkles and that sort of thing. So it's like right at the same time that you're having this thinning. Yeah. Well, there's retinoids. We have retinoids in our evening wear, which I've got to get into your hands, Chelsea, because I see you don't have it there. And yes, so that's a gentler form that will help with fine lines. Wonderful. Were we ready for some advice questions? Are they menopause advice questions? They better be.

Okay. Yes. We have to curtail everything to our special guest. Yes. Well, obviously like blanket statement, as Naomi mentioned, you know, there are so many different variables for everyone. So talk to your doctor, but this is just some advice from our perspective. So that's what we'll name the episode. We are not doctors. Naomi, you'd be surprised how many times I have to say I'm not a doctor also. Really? Yes. Yes. You'd be very surprised. Because people are calling in for your advice. I know. Yeah. And then I dole out unsolicited medical advice as well, pretty typically. Our first question comes from Kelsey. She says, Dear Chelsea, I am 36 years old and stopped taking my birth control two years ago. I had taken oral birth control since I was 18

and would skip my placebo slash cycle every two months and maybe have a period every three months. Since stopping, I've had night sweats, dry skin, acne, rotator cuff pain without injury, and Jesus Christ, the low energy is killing me. My question is, if I'm in perimenopause, what kind of supplements and skincare should I use? I tried a number of lotions and washes and nothing seems to help my dry skin. Note, I have not been officially diagnosed with perimenopause. I'd like to be tested, but I work in the medical field, CMA, and I feel like getting tested or asking for help is pointless because there isn't much treatment from the MD perspective. With so much love, Kelsey. Hi, Kelsey. Hi. Hello. Hi, this is our special guest, Naomi Watts, who just

wrote a book called Dare I Say It, which is all about menopause. So you're in good hands today. Awesome. Thank you. So you're 36, right? Is that what you said? 36? Yeah, I just turned 36. That's how old Naomi was when she discovered she was going through menopause. Exactly my age, yeah, when I started having the symptoms. Well, actually, I'd had night sweats for a number of years and I've had migraines and irregular periods. I did have blood work done and you're right. There's no one exact defining test except for if you've had a full year without a menstruation. But I think there are lots of other indicators like- But there's also a urine test that you can do that Dr. Nygma told me about called the Dutch

test. Naomi, do you know about that one? I don't. I heard that clear blue is doing one now as well. Yeah. There's something called the Dutch test and it requires you to like you pee on this little stick like three or four times from like in a 12 hour period. And that they say is a better indicator than blood work will like indicate when you come back. Yeah. So you might want to look into that too. Yeah. I've never heard of that. Yeah. The rotator cuff thing. I had a frozen shoulder. Many of my friends have had that and that can be very painful, particularly when you're sleeping. But you're in the medical field. I would say, can you talk to your colleagues? Can you get some, I mean, this is the thing is that it's so many doctors were not even trained in this area

specifically. Gynecologists, I've done panels and symposiums and with a great number of fancy doctors and they talk about their one hour specific lecture centering around menopause. It's mind boggling considering half the population will go through it. So I would just try and piecemeal together all of your symptoms and go to your doctor and ask them what they think is best based on your medical history. And also frozen shoulder for that specifically. I've had a lot of conversations around this recently cause I had shoulder issues and I thought maybe that was what I have, but I had an infection in my shoulder. So it wasn't given to me by a doctor who shall rename nameless for now until I decided to blow his gasket. Um, but frozen shoulder, I've had a

lot of conversations about that and you want to treat that like you would treat a shoulder in physical therapy. Like you really want to keep mobilizing it. You really want to keep moving that and just kind of doing daily exercises to increase mobility because the less you use it, the worse you're going to be. Yeah. Emotion is lotion. So basically, we have estrogen receptors all over our bodies. And that's what happens there. It just kind of locks up. And Chelsea's right. I was doing a lot of PT. And I did suffer through it for a good year. Eventually, I did something that I didn't want to do, but I ended up having to do it because the pain was too excruciating. I ended up having a cortisone shot and just giving it some relief was really helpful.

And then I did hardcore PT, you know, grabbing a towel or a band and going up above your head and down and forward. That was really good. And, you know, like car wash kind of round and round, those kinds of things to just increase mobility. And did you do that cortisone shot that helped, right that gave you some it really really helped and it has not come back since and i'm you know i'm knocking on wood but that has been a game changer for me yeah that's good to know i ended up getting cortisone shots too because oh you did yeah i did physical therapy for a long time and even my physical therapist doctor was like i don't know really what else to do for you but i didn't think about doing pt after that because now that it doesn't hurt so much i might be able to like

Yeah. And that's also that's also the thing when it doesn't hurt is the most important time to keep it up. You know what I mean? To keep just that mobility going, because like that, I don't know. I've talked to so many PTs about frozen shoulder because it's my obsession since reading Naomi's book. I read Naomi's book and just had every symptom that she described like out. I'm like, and then I came back and I was like having night flashes. And I told my sister, I'm like, I'm having night flashes. and I tried this other over-the-counter stuff before, Naomi, you sent me this. And I was like, and they worked for my night sweats. And my sister's like, you are so, you're so impressionable. She's like, you read a book about menopause, then you decide you have menopause

and then you cure it in one day with this over-the-counter drug. You are on it. I know, I'm on it. But yeah, so the frozen shoulder thing is like, you really want to stay on that because it's when you ignore it or when you're in so much pain

that you lose your mobility that you kind of can get stuck. So you want to stay on that too. and yeah inquire about that dutch test yeah that's very interesting i haven't heard that because you know you have like hormone level checks but if they're not off and it's kind of like well yeah yeah the thing is is the hormone checks can change every single day yeah they that's why they don't find them completely reliable because yeah and a dutch test i think that was from my naturopath so if you like look that up online i'm sure you can order one because you know yeah it's

like your blood levels, they don't show like you could be on your period and get them or you could be two weeks into your cycle, which are going to have completely different results. So I think that's why they're not accurate. And we live in LA. So we have doctors that are just willing to dole out anything at any moment for anything, you know. So it's like, you don't really know what's working sometimes, because I know for me, I'm just taking so many different things, whether it's peptides or anti aging stuff. It's like, I'm not sure what's working. I just know something is. Yeah. Now for someone like Kelsey, who, you know, maybe you're not getting the help that you need from your current doctor, your current OBGYN, what are the sort of things that she should be

looking for in a specialist? Okay. So I think at a minimum, if the doctor is not willing to give you a full spectrum of what's available, if that conversation is not, if he's blocking, he or she's blocking that conversation, then that's not the right doctor. I think you have to go in with your list of symptoms, your list of questions, your medical history and your family's. And if they're just flat out gatekeeping, then it might not be the right provider. And it's a bummer to have to change because I know that takes work, but you can go on the menopause society and look for a doctor that's suitable in your area and also there's a there was a great article in the new york times by susan dominus to two or three years ago called women have been misled and that

is she goes really deep into um the whole experience of of treatment and how we've been misled because there was a study that went wrong and the media got ahead of the study and basically everyone feared hormones from that day forward. Now, of course, they're not going to be everyone's choice, nor are they safe for everyone, but they should not be ruled out if you are in need of symptom relief and it's safe for you. So you do have to trust your doctor. You do have to make sure they're hearing you. Yeah, that's a good one. And we do have a naturopath in town. I was actually thinking about. Yeah. I think naturopaths have a better vibe on menopause than medical doctors. You know what I mean? Sometimes. I mean, not overall speaking, but like until we have

menopause specialists, like naturopaths seem to have some better kind of elixirs. There are some specialists. It's like HerMD, Alloy, MidiHealth, EverNow. These are all available. You know, they're not, that's telehealth places. So I think we're up to navigating it. It's a bummer that we have to do a lot of it on our own, but I think the change is only just started and it'll be better for the next generation. But there's still a lot of work we have to do in order to get the right support and treatment that we need. I totally agree because I feel like all my symptoms are like oh well you know try this or that and I'm like but when you add them all up like I'm having yeah a good amount of these specific kinds and it's also you have to understand like you have

to trust yourself and understand that you know how your body feels and if it feels off or if it feels regulated yes and like when we talk to other people sometimes that there's like this placebo effect of like oh well they said it's not this it's like you have to know your body you're in the medical industry, be like, sit with yourself and actually feel what you're feeling. And you'll know, okay, this doesn't feel right. I do want to do something about this, you know, regardless of what other people's opinions are. Yeah. Have you considered HRT or have you mentioned it with your doctor? I know you said you were on birth control. I have, I haven't talked about any hormone replacement yet. I was actually even recently kind of thinking about going back on birth control,

but I don't really want to do that. Right, right. Well, I mean, I know what you're saying, Chelsea, that naturopaths, there are lots of things available and you get, you know, it feels like you're getting a lot of focus, but I personally go for the FDA-approved way because it just feels certain and, you know, things have been tested. But again, it's got to be your choice.

it's your body and obviously what's safe for you. Awesome. Thank you. All right. Well, thank you, Kelsey. Will you report back in a few months and let us know if there's any, any change? Yes, that sounds good. I will. All right. Yes. Report back and let us know if you get pregnant. We're interested. No, not whatsoever. Okay. Have a good day, Kelsey. Thank you. Thank you, Kelsey. I mean, just the irony of this woman working in a hospital, calling into a podcast asking us about menopause is just like, you're in a fucking hospital. You can't even get in a straight answer. Yeah. And I wonder if she does see a naturopath, if they might suggest an MD that they, you know, have worked with or that sort of thing too. So yeah. Well, our next caller

is Karen and a little bit of a, a little bit of a, to fill Naomi in a little while back, we had someone call in that was so annoyed that their friend kept sniffing constantly. Do you remember this like oh like they were sniffing sniffing sniffing and they're like how do i tell my friend to stop sniffing i've tried it's upsetting it's a horse a whole a whole thing is this gonna are we gonna find out this is a symptom of menopause well we'll see because wait i just edited my next my i just edited my stand-up special uh-huh and i was sniffing throughout the whole thing and i was like why am i sniffling this whole time i sound like i look like a cokehead and then i and my manager goes, can you lift out the sniffling? And I was like, I just gave them

that note too. I'm like, I don't know. I must've had a cold. And I'm like, do I do that all the time without knowing? Well, Karen says, dear Chelsea, of all the things I've wanted to write in and ask about my 48 year old perimenopause symptoms, et cetera. Here I am responding to a recent pod episode about a friend's annoying sniffing. It's me, not literally. And I'm not snorting any drugs. I don't have seasonal allergies. I have inner ear congestion and the sniffing helps clear my ears. I've caught myself doing it and I annoy myself. I've even seen myself in videos doing it. I can't imagine what people think. I've seen at least two doctors and they couldn't help. No amount of decongestants work. I feel like I'm underwater. I feel for these

two friends, the sniffer and the sniffy, which got me thinking. I have a host of seemingly random symptoms. In addition to the sniffing, I'm exhausted. I have headaches and I constantly feel like my head is in a fishbowl. My periods have changed and I'm back on birth control to help with the heavy flow. I find myself wondering if it's something serious, but could it just be menopause? XO, Karen. I don't know. Hi. Hi, Karen. Hi. Welcome to Dear Chelsea. This is Naomi Watts, our special guest today. Thank you so much for having me. Yeah. I mean, look, as far as I've been told, I knew that fertility changes after 35, but what I didn't know is that you can experience perimenopause symptoms right from then onwards. And certainly in my case, that's what was

going on. So it sounds like with the exhaustion levels and the heavy periods, I mean, was that regular, the heavy periods, or is it just suddenly or in the last? It was new and it was so uncomfortable. I didn't want to leave my house. And I went to my doctor to make sure everything was okay. And then I ended up going back on birth control pill and it helped, but there's so much stigma around the birth control pill. And why is that? Why is there so much stigma around birth control, Naomi? Do you know that? Yeah, there shouldn't be. Let's put it that way. Is it just such an adjustment when you get off of it? Is that the downside of it? I was on the birth control for, gosh, maybe, and, you know, of course, when I wasn't getting

pregnant, I thought, oh, is it because I was on it for too long? But no, I don't think it was related at all. It's probably a big adjustment. How long did you say that you haven't been on it for? Well, I was on it for probably 15 years. And I got pregnant like two months after I stopped with my first daughter when I wanted to start a family. And then I went back on it. And when And I wanted to have, when I had my second daughter, the same thing, I was able to get pregnant right away. And then after her, I was like, oh, maybe I should, you know, do I have to give my body a break from it?

Or, you know, so I was off it for five years until just like 14 months ago when I went in, I was like, this is miserable. I was getting like really bad headaches. And when I was young, I was like the only one of my friends that like took it. I'm very type A. So I was so good at taking it. And it made my period like three days, very light. I had a lot of friends that said, be careful. You know, that's not good for you.

But here I am on it and it's helping me. But there was something in the back of my head, like, am I hurting myself? Like, you know, it's hard. No, look, I think HRT is, as I understand it, lower levels of estrogen. So if you want to go to, if you ask your doctor if it's safe for you, that would be maybe better for you i i i mean people stay on hrt till till the very very end you know i know people that are in their 70s still taking it so the old messaging about oh you're only supposed to be on it for a certain amount of time a set the lower dose the least

amount of time that's old that's old education right there so i think you should maybe investigate if you want to get your regular periods under control, you should investigate that. I sound like I'm pushing HRT on everyone, but it's an option. No, I don't think so. I think that is exactly what you're dealing with right now. It sounds like you're going through early perimenopause. Yeah, I feel like it's just really helped me. And it's very confusing because this study that went wrong, put the fear of God in not only women who were taking it, they literally flushed their hormones down the toilet, but doctors started doing the same thing. And that was it. They just stopped the research. But you're talking about the article that came out that's saying it caused

cancer, right? Yes, exactly. That it was leading to breast cancer when this was in 2002. And this is like more than 20 years ago now, and we're still dealing with the fear of what happened there. I would say, look at the menopause society. That is a great website that it leads you to doctors and all kinds of education and, uh, get your symptoms under control. And the sniffing thing that, that, so that, tell me more about this. You know, I, um, I, I had this, I had a a doctor look he's like oh yeah it looks like you got some fluid in your inner inner ear you know take some decongestants which I love taking honestly I understand why they make them in math but um or use them in math but sometimes it wouldn't work and so like I do this like

this kind of like big sniff because it clears my my ears so I was taking a video of like bees in my garden and I was watching the video back and I could hear myself and I'm like oh my gosh it's terrible and then i hear the episode and i'm like oh i wish chelsea could tell me like not that off but it's it's really if i if i don't do it then the congestion kind of builds and then i'm like leading my head over and people like what are you doing and i just kind of wonder if it's just um kind of well also my my ears would like they ring sometimes and then they started well tinnitus is definitely a symptom and i've definitely been there with sticking my finger so far down my ear that i look like like because i started itching and i'm like i'm literally turning into a bitch

i feel like you need to go to a hormone doctor i think you should go get some testing done not just blood work like to ask for the urine test ask to just test all your levels at the right time of the month like track when you're going to be in mid-cycle or whenever the most optimal time for hormone testing is? 48 is around the exact age for all of those symptoms to be taking place. And it's the not knowing what's going on with your body, the feeling of like, wait, this didn't used to work like this. That kind of period, the transitional period from perimenopause through to that menopause day, which is one year after you've had your last menstrual cycle, that is a confusing time. So I would definitely try to get in front of your

doctor, a doctor that you trust. Yeah, I need to. And you have to advocate for yourself in these situations. You have to be a little bit more pushy and a little bit more bold than you might feel comfortable with, but no one's going to advocate for yourself better than you are. So you want answers, especially with your nose and your pressure and your ear situation. You need to go to an ENT and go, what is this and what can I do about it? There's got to be some solution out there that it could at least abate the symptoms to a degree, you know, like, so you're not feeling pressure in your ear, whether those are eardrops or what, you know, whatever, like there are answers out there, but you kind of sometimes, especially with this, as Naomi has

demonstrated, you really have to push and be pushy to get answers. You know, women's health is not a priority for anyone in the history of the world. So we have to make it a priority. And you have to go in there and ask for answers and demand to get them. And if you don't get them from a certain doctor, then you have to change doctors. And that can be an exhaustive process, but it's going to be worth it in the end for you. Yes, exactly what she said. Yeah, I agree. And then we're in the meantime, we're going to rename Naomi's book to I am not a doctor. Okay, do you feel better equipped you just needed a little bit motivational speak motivational push right here yeah yeah go be a squeaky wheel karen yeah yeah well my name is karen it's so i know live up to your

potential don't worry that's that's the name that's my alias i have to travel with an alias like when i'm in hotels and stuff i don't have to i choose to but karen is my alias and everyone thinks that's the funniest thing that my name is karen i'm like yeah she's sitting right here so we're sisters hilarious all right thank you so much bye take care thank you bye all right we just have a couple more minutes so we'll take a quick break and come back to wrap up okay we'll take a break and we'll be right back to wrap up with Naomi behind every night spent making the kids lunches there's a lot of suspense will they finally eat the veggies will the pesto survive the first bite will the lunchbox come home empty half full or come home at all and will you finish

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And try to help them with their careers and see what they have to offer us Everyone has a good time and no one gets mad at their publicist for letting them do our show we've had a lot of great guests like sarah sherman not that great actually can you help me can can you help me shape this yeah how about we flip it on his head right how about we flip the script okay what is the surprise woman who actually you think is the straight man is actually the one who's acting weird adam scott this entire time you've been expecting adam sandler to come to visit the show i i would never let go of that i have i would never set expectations for something like that if the universe allows for something like that to happen i'm open to it i'm always

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should read and most men should read too quite frankly so you can understand what women are going through since you guys don't really have to go through fucking anything

except getting us pregnant. And there's a quote there's even a blurb for me on the back. I hear a man laughing in the background. Ha ha ha ha. He goes ha ha ha ha.

Show us what you go through. prove to us what you're dealing with i was always like oh what is what's embarrassing what's something embarrassing that a man has to deal with like periods we can't control when we get them we could be on a plane bleed out through clothing i've told the story of meeting my sister on safari after she was on a plane and like bled for 17 hours and she had she's luckily she had those zip safari pants that i had sent her as a joke that she had zipped off and then taken her and taken them and wrapped them around her waist and i was like god what is comparable to like the woman's humiliation of getting our periods in school and in public places yeah and then i was

like oh boners like those are embarrassing but a boner it's like first yeah you can i mean unless it's a really big one but i mean that's embarrassing for your boner to get hard all of a sudden because then everyone knows exactly what you're thinking you know but also it's just like that's that also could be argued you know what i mean there's no evidence yeah with a period there's evidence with it like an with a boner there's no evidence like you just see you think you see something and someone can kind of push it away but yeah I can't think of anything that men go through that is comparable to all of the levels of pain childbirth child rearing all of it and then a menopause on top of it it's the exclamation point we have to educate them we have to bring

them into the conversation and say this is what's going on and I find that most times if they're included into the conversation they don't have to like imagine what's going on if nothing's a mystery then they will want to help they will want to be empathetic uh they just need greater understanding and sadly that's our job to make them understand but you know again this is that the the changes are happening in real time then i i'm certain that this is not going to be the case for the next generation everything will be more normalized and humanized and and it'll be something that everyone knows how to talk to. You know, we can talk to our children and say, mommy's having a bad day. I didn't mean to snap, you know, and this is why, you know,

hormonal shifts, just like when a teenager slams the door in your face, we know what that's about and we empathize. So we've got to bring everyone into the conversation. We have to tell our bosses at work if, you know, you're suddenly in a boardroom meeting and, you know, you're doing a PowerPoint with 10 men and you have a memory blip and you forget something that kind of suddenly unravels the whole meeting, that can happen. I've heard countless stories of women, you know, which can lead to greater anxiety and retreating and, you know, nobody understands what's going on until you tell them. And so if we bring them in and say, hey, this is what's happening, I'm going to need a few

hours or I'm going to need a day. They can adjust and figure out how to behave, hopefully. I love that. I want to say, Naomi, A, I'm really proud and impressed by you for bringing this subject to the fore in the way that you have. And I really want to say, especially in our industry, because I have so many friends that have gone through menopause before me who were very loathed to even admit that that was an issue, who are very secretive about it. I really feel like this is the dawn of a new era and you are someone who can really be credited with bringing that conversation forward. So thank you for doing that for women and for doing that for people within this industry to make people more comfortable with the idea of talking about it

and not being so ashamed at getting older. Like it doesn't have to be a dirty word. It doesn't have to be a dirty thing. And I think by welcoming men into these conversations as well, it's just another opportunity to get more educated for all of us. Exactly. Exactly. Yeah, it was, it had to happen and I'm glad to be a part of it along with a lot of other people. It's all things coming from every angle, all the doctors now who genuinely want to care for people who are coming together and making sure the conversation is not only open, but the treatment is available and we need to optimize our health because if you don't get your health under control at this point in time it can lead to other issues later we we're living longer so we need to stay strong and that means you know

protecting our bones and things i i've seen you do it chelsea you're you're lifting weights that right that's that's what you do and that's protecting your bone health and you know there's so many we don't want to be fragile no i know that's exactly right we don't want to be fragile we don't want to be feeble we want to be strong enough to take care of ourselves right to the end yeah so thank you naomi congratulations on your book and the and her product line is called stripes for anybody and you go to what is it stripesbeauty.com stripesbeauty.com okay thank you naomi have a wonderful beautiful day you guys thanks katherine great to see you take care travel see you soon if you'd like advice from chelsea shoot us an email at dear chelsea podcast at gmail.com

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