Life.Church with Craig Groeschel - Help! These People Are Driving Me Crazy - Missing Peace Part 2

Episode Date: December 13, 2020

Have you ever wished there was a manual for how to deal with difficult people? Jesus didn’t call us to be right, He called us to be loving. He called us to forgive. So while it’s easy to be offend...ed by what we see in the world, we’re called to forgive. Join Pastor Craig Groeschel for a lesson in how to deal with difficult people in this message.ABOUT MISSING PEACEMoments of peace are precious. When we find them, we hold on tight and pray they last. But there's a peace that goes beyond our understanding—beyond the pain and fear we face today. If you've been Missing Peace, come discover it with us. Learn more about Missing Peace: https://www.life.church/missingpeaceStart the Missing Peace Bible Plan: https://www.go2.lc/missingpeaceCHRISTMAS AT LIFE.CHURCHServices start Tuesday, December 22. You’re invited to come worship with us in person or online. Learn more about how you can be part of Christmas at Life.Church: https://www.life.church/christmasWE’RE OPENTo ensure safety at all of our Life.Church locations, our weekend services have been redesigned to create a sanitary, touchless environment that allows for physical distancing. Learn more about everything we're doing to keep you safe and how you can help by using hand sanitizer, washing your hands often, and more: https://www.life.church/updatesFind a time and attend a service with us: http://www.life.church/locationsNEXT STEPSHave you made a decision to follow Jesus? You may be wondering what’s next on your journey. We want to help! Let us guide you to your next steps in your walk with Christ: https://www.life.church/nextABOUT LIFE.CHURCHWherever you are in life, you have a purpose. Life.Church wants to help you find your next step. Our hope is that your journey will include joining us at a Life.Church location throughout the United States or globally online at https://www.live.life.church. Find locations, videos, and more info about us at https://www.life.church or download the Life.Church app at https://www.life.church/app. FIND US ON SOCIAL MEDIAFacebook: http://www.facebook.com/life.churchInstagram: http://www.instagram.com/life.churchTwitter: http://www.twitter.com/lifechurchCONNECT WITH PASTOR CRAIGYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIIdiIO-Y20hRW9niR0CA8AFacebook: http://www.facebook.com/craiggroeschelInstagram: http://www.instagram.com/craiggroeschelTwitter: http://www.twitter.com/craiggroeschel Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

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Starting point is 00:00:00 Hey, I'm curious, how many of you at all of our church locations are online, how many of you know someone right now that's a little bit difficult to love? Raise your hands? Raise your hands. Don't point at them right now. Just don't do that. But it's interesting that 2020 has seemed to made more of them. Have you noticed that? It's almost like crazies multiplying in 2020. You come to this time of year normally, just a regular Christmas season, and you get cray-cray in your family. It can be very complicated, but it seems like this year there's crazy with extra whipped cream on top of the already crazy in your lives. In fact, I've been reading about this, and experts say it's going to take decades before we fully understand the impact that COVID is having on all sorts of different things, not just our physical lives, but our spiritual lives, our mental health, and certainly our relational health.
Starting point is 00:01:03 In fact, talking to many of the counselors that we work with in church right now, say as it goes with families and marriages and relationships, the early indications show that things are not good right now. And it's no wonder, because this year has created the perfect scenario for tension, you essentially shut down the world for a significant period of time. you're forced to spend enormous amounts of time with some people and almost no time at all with other people. If you're a parent, suddenly you're a homeschooler, whether you wanted to or not. There's all the complications with school. There's compounding disappointment after disappointment after disappointment after loss. On top of all the fears of health and financial worries, then you take what I call the unholy Trinity.
Starting point is 00:01:54 There is the Holy Trinity, Father's Son and Holy Spirit. Now there's an unholy Trinity. What are the two things that you never talk about at the dinner table or talk about with loved ones? You don't talk about religion or politics, right? There's the third one now, and it's science. Science. Like nine months ago, I didn't know anybody that was an expert in science.
Starting point is 00:02:19 Now everybody is. Because you've watched three YouTube videos and you've listened to a podcast, and now you take these three science. What you know to be true about masks or the virus. You know because you've read it or you've heard it. Mixed with your politics, which, you know, one side's here and the other side here, mixed with your religion.
Starting point is 00:02:41 Well, if you have faith to do this or if you have faith to do that, you come up with the unholy Trinity that's creating some of the meanest people I've ever seen. How many of you have someone who's difficult to love right now? It's incredibly complicated out there. Someone said that this is the age of perpetual offense. Have you noticed that? People right now, they're quick to become angry. They're quick to judge.
Starting point is 00:03:10 They're quick to call foul. They're incredibly quick to be offended. You hurt me. You wrong me. I'm going to cancel you. What I've noticed is that if you're on a continual search to be offended, you will always find what you're looking for. I can promise you.
Starting point is 00:03:33 If you're always looking to be hurt, to be offended, to be wronged, or to be angry, you will always find what you're looking for. The challenge is there is absolutely no win whatsoever in living offended. I've never met a single person. who said, like, my life is so much more productive because I'm pissed off everywhere I go. I've never heard that. I've never heard anyone say, like,
Starting point is 00:04:04 the quality of my life is so much better because I'm angry and find fault everywhere I go. We have to understand is people right now are hurting, people are on edge, they're going to hurt you, they're going to offend it. We need to recognize that being offended is in, inevitable. But living offended is a choice. It's a choice. It's a choice. And as followers of Christ, we will choose wisely. We're in a message series called Missing Peace. The title of
Starting point is 00:04:45 today's message is, help. These people are driving me crazy. And with that, we're going to seek God for some true relational peace from Jesus, who is our peace. Would you pray with me wherever you're watching? Father, we ask that in the same way we've been loved by you, that you would help us to love others, showing your grace, your mercy. And God, I ask not just for physical miracles, but I ask for relational miracles. Wherever marriages or family or friendships have been strained by the power of your Holy Spirit, would you bring healing, wholeness, forgiveness,
Starting point is 00:05:36 and restoration in relationships today? We pray this in the one who is our peace, Jesus. And all God's people said, amen. Amen. Are you ready for a tough scripture today? If you're ready, say I'm ready. Are you ready? Type it in the chat, I'm ready. You ask for it. Are you ready? You ask for it. Let's dive in. Romans chapter 12, verses 14 through 18.
Starting point is 00:06:03 Easy to read, incredibly difficult to live. This is what the apostle Paul said. If you've got anyone who's a little bit difficult to love right now, Paul said this. he said, bless those who persecute you. Bless and do not curse. He teaches us as followers of Christ that we're to rejoice with those who rejoice and mourn with those who mourn. He tells us to live in harmony with one another. He says, do not be proud,
Starting point is 00:06:36 but be willing to associate with people of low position. He tells us, do not be conceded, do not repay anyone evil for evil, be careful to do what is right in the eyes of everyone. Verse 18 is our key verse. We're going to come back to this later in our message. The Apostle Paul tells us, if it is possible, as far as it depends on you,
Starting point is 00:07:02 live at peace with everyone. If it's possible, as far as it's up to you, your will, your ways, your ability, live at peace with everyone. Let's start off at the beginning. When Paul says this, he says, bless those, somebody say bless? He says, bless those who persecute you.
Starting point is 00:07:22 We could say, bless those who are mean to you, bless those who are short with you, bless those who disagree with you. He says, bless those who persecute you. What does it mean to bless? Well, the word bless comes from the Greek word, Ula Geho, which means, it's spelled E-U-L-O-G-E-O.
Starting point is 00:07:43 It's a little bit like eulogy. You know what that would be. EU means good. The logos, logos means word. What this word, ulligeo means, it means a good word. Or very literally, it means to speak well of or to wish the best blessings for someone. I want you to think about this. Speak well of and wish the best blessings for someone who's rude to you.
Starting point is 00:08:11 Speak well of and wish the best blessings for someone who's rude to you. Speak well of. and wish the best blessings for someone who betrays you. Bless those who persecutes you. Now, I don't know about you, but it's real easy for me to wish the best for you if I like you. It's the rest of you that make it difficult for me, right?
Starting point is 00:08:30 It's easy to bless someone who's a blessing, to be nice to someone who's nice, to be generous with someone who's generous. It's incredibly difficult, though, when someone offends you, when someone's harsh to you, when someone belittles you, someone leaves you out, hurts your feelings, or betrays you. In fact, there's a really dark part of me, and I hate to even say this out loud.
Starting point is 00:08:52 I don't know if any of you are this dark, but there's a sick part of me when someone I don't like, someone I don't trust, someone I don't respect gets something bad in their life. There's a very sick part of me that kind of likes it, and I hate to say it. You can look there and act like you don't know what I'm talking about. Just polish your halo and act like you're better than everybody else. But there's a part of me that just is kind of like, I don't know if you're ever driving down the road, the speed limit. And someone in like a sports car flies by you,
Starting point is 00:09:31 90 miles an hour. And five miles later, they're pulled over by a police officer. Oh, there's a secret part of me that wants to run. roll down the window and preach, you reap what you saw, you idiot, speed devil, you know, whatever it is. He goes, they got what's coming to them. But Paul gives us a very specific, very direct command. And in the Greek language, his command is what's called a present imperative.
Starting point is 00:10:01 And what that means is any time in the Greek language you see a present imperative, that means to do what you're told to do and keep on doing it. It's not a one-time action. Very literally, when Paul said, bless those who persecute you, you could translate it, be a continual blessing to those who are a continual problem.
Starting point is 00:10:22 That's what he's saying. Be a continual blessing. I don't know about you, but like I could be a blessing to someone who's your problem for probably a good solid five seconds. I can do it for a minute. But after a while,
Starting point is 00:10:33 if they're continually a burden to me or offensive to me, at some point I snap. A snap. And I want to retaliate. The flesh in me wants to retaliate. I have come a long way. Amy, of course, is in the service,
Starting point is 00:10:47 and she'll tell you, like, I've matured so much. And my ability to handle criticism or mistreatment, I honestly think today I've come to such a place. If someone hit me one time, I honestly think I could have the patience and the love to turn the other cheek. That's what Jesus taught. But I have you know, someone hits me one time,
Starting point is 00:11:07 I am praying to hit me a second time. because Jesus never said what to do if they hit you twice, and it's going to go down if they hit me twice. I mean, the human part of me is just like anybody else. I don't want to bless someone who's mean to me, and yet Paul is giving us this imperative, inspired by the Holy Spirit, that we as followers of Christ are to be a continual blessing
Starting point is 00:11:27 to those who are a continual problem. How do we do that? Like, it's completely impossible in my nature to ever do that. The only way we can do what Paul's talking about in Romans 12 is to understand the context of Romans 12. I want to go back to the very first verse in this chapter. This gives us the context that sets up the how we love people that are so difficult to love. Paul starts off this way and he says something very rich. He says, in view of God's mercy, somebody say God's mercy.
Starting point is 00:12:03 How merciful has God been to you? how much has he forgiven you from that you didn't deserve? How much has he blessed you beyond what you've earned? In view of that, in view of God's goodness for you, in view of his grace for you, Paul tells us to offer our bodies as a living sacrifice. Interesting phrase, I want to come back to that. In view of who God is and what he's done,
Starting point is 00:12:35 offer your lives as a living sacrifice, holy and pleasing to God. This is your true and proper worship. I love this. If you want to worship God, worshiping God, isn't just the songs we sing. It's the life we live. Loving people as we've been loved is a spiritual act of worship. How do we do this? Paul says we're living sacrifice.
Starting point is 00:12:57 Now that seems like a contradiction of terms. Think about it. Living sacrifice. Finally, when I think of sacrifices, I think of dead sacrifices, right? What's a living sacrifice? Think about this. Any time an animal is sacrificed, if the animal could know, they're taking volunteers. How many little lambs do you think would say, bah, I like to be, slit my throat?
Starting point is 00:13:24 None of them would do that. When you think about living sacrifice, I think of the lamb of God, who, when he was alive, said, I am willing to die. living sacrifice. No one shows. He said, no one takes my life. I lay it down. How do we love others? We lay down our own natural responses. We lay down our own selfish desires. We die to ourselves so that Christ can love others through us. Paul said it this way in Galatians 220. My pastor who passed away last week used to preach it like this. My pastor, say this, he would say, I am crucified with Christ. And then he would run over the other side. And he say, but nevertheless, I live. Then he say, but it's no longer I who lives,
Starting point is 00:14:16 but it's Christ who lives in me. How do we love people? It's not, it's not me. I don't have that in me, ever, ever in my own self-it. I want to hit back, fight back, retaliate. but it's not me. I've died to me, but it's Christ inside of me. That's how we do it. That's the, in view of what God has done, I let Christ love through me. Paul goes on to say this in verse 16. He says, live in harmony with one another. Great verse when you go out to the mall. Live in harmony with one another. Then he says, do not be proud. Somebody say, do not be proud. And he says, do not be conceded. He says, do not be proud and do not be conceded.
Starting point is 00:15:10 Let me say this to you. Do not be proud and do not be conceded. Let me say it again. Do not be proud and do not be conceded. Let me say it again. I'm saying it to you, not the person that you think I'm saying it to. Say it to them, pastor, preach it to. But I'm saying to you.
Starting point is 00:15:27 You, listen, do not be proud and do not be conceded. In the Greek language, let me tell you how this is true. translate it, write it down. You ready? It means literally, do not be proud and do not be conceded. I have never seen so many proud and conceited people right now. I mean everywhere, everywhere, everywhere. The people in the church, proud and conceded in Jesus' name. I've never seen so many right people. I'm right. I'm proud. I'm right. I'm right. I know. I'm right. I'm right. I'm I'm right. I want four YouTube videos and listen to three very biased podcasts. And I got a friend who knows someone who sent me an email. I'm right. I'm right. Everybody else is wrong. They're all
Starting point is 00:16:21 right. You're just stupid idiots. That's all you are. You're a stupid idiot. You're stupid idiot. I'm right. Listen to me. Right person. Remember, Jesus didn't tell us to be right. Jesus told us to be loving, to be loving, to be loving. He told us to be loving. He didn't say the world was going to know us by how correct we are. He said they know us by how loving we are. I don't know if we're still talking politics, but I just want to talk politics.
Starting point is 00:16:55 I have anybody real mad at me in like two days. I'm missing it. I just want to talk politics for just a minute because I've been wanting to give this all my chest. It's bizarre to me how many of us. of my conservative friends, and I'm talking directly to some of you, yes, you.
Starting point is 00:17:10 So my conservative friends will say things like, I can't believe anybody liberal could ever love Jesus. There's no way they could love Jesus. And on the other hand, I've got some liberal friends who say, Republicans are a bunch of hate mongers, there's no way they could really love Jesus. If you live in either one of those extremes, I wanna invite you to get out of your pathetically small world.
Starting point is 00:17:30 For just a moment, I'm serious, I'm dead serious, listen to me, no joking aside. If you can't for a moment visualize someone else who is born in another part of the world around a totally different way of thinking with different parents, maybe a different skin color, perhaps different friends, different opportunities, and different threats. And you can't imagine for a moment how someone could love Jesus
Starting point is 00:17:57 from a different perspective at a different point in their walk than you can. Like, come on, guys. When people talk, don't listen to respond, don't listen to correct, listen to understand and listen to love. We start with grace and then we lead to our truth. But if you can't understand another perspective, your impact is always going to be limited. We're followers of Christ. We have to be bigger than that. I had a counselor who explained it to me this way.
Starting point is 00:18:39 The counselor said, you're going to face conflict and you're going to face misunderstandings and you're going to face differences of perspective because you don't understand. And because our brains are biologically wired to protect or defend, what you tend to do is you tend to tell a story that explains whatever part you don't understand. So if someone is unkind with you or sward
Starting point is 00:19:02 or has a different opinion about something, you make up a story about them to fill in the gaps. We do this all the time. For example, if I'm short with you or if I'm late or I do something wrong, I judge myself by my intentions, but I tend to judge you by your actions. In other words, if I wasn't kind or I was a little bit short, I'll say, hey, you know my intentions. That wasn't what I meant.
Starting point is 00:19:24 I mean, I was running late and you should understand. We're fine, right? But if you are short with me, I judge you by your actions. You're a jerk, you're a loser. You need Jesus to save your pathetic soul, right? And so what we tend to do is we tend to tell ourselves a story about something we don't understand. And what the devil wants us to do is whenever we tell a story about someone else, he wants the premise to be accusations. Because he is the great accuser. He's the accuser of the brethren.
Starting point is 00:19:49 So if someone does something to hurt me or offend me, he wants me to say, well, I can't trust her. Well, he's only out for himself. Or people are always going to lie to you. Or they're always going to let you down. Or Christians aren't this. Or they're not that. Or conservatives this. Or liberals are that. or my mom's always gone to, or your dad's always gone to, accusation, accusation. The devil wants our stories to be rooted in accusation, but God wants our stories to be rooted in love. In love. Because what do accusations do?
Starting point is 00:20:21 Accusations erode marriages. And some of you are seeing that right now in your very own. Accusations split friendships. accusations divide churches. And that's why Paul said, let it all be in love, Ephesians 4-2. He said, be patient with each other, making allowances for each other's fault
Starting point is 00:20:44 because of your what? Because of your love. Because of your love. They're not going to know us by how correct we are, the world's going to know us by the way we love. That's why I remember. remember, you're going to be offended. It's inevitable. Living offended is a choice. I tell myself over and over and over and over again this truth, and I hope you'll tell yourself this truth,
Starting point is 00:21:12 that your life is too short and you're calling too great to be offended by something small. Your life is short. It's a miss. It's here a little while. Your calling is one by God himself to show his love. Your life is too short. and your calling is too great to be offended by something small. Imagine if Jesus was easily offended. Think about how he couldn't do his mission. Imagine if Jesus was easily offended. Matthew, you weren't paying attention to my sermon.
Starting point is 00:21:46 I said, like, blessed through the meek for the unhered that, you didn't even write that down. I healed ten lepers, only one came back. Nobody cares for me. Nobody appreciates me. I can't go on. Right? Thomas, you didn't even. even brag on my miracle. I raised the dead. I just open blind eyes. I raised the freaking dad.
Starting point is 00:22:06 Thomas always doubting. I just can't count on Thomas. Being offended is inevitable. Living offended is a choice. Previse 19 is so powerful. It says this. A person's wisdom yields patience. And it's to one's glory to do what? It's to one's glory to overlook an offense. Wouldn't it be amazing that because of God's love for us, we got better at overlooking offenses? What does it mean to overlook an offense? This isn't the same as pretending that it didn't happen. Overlooking an offense is a conscious decision to let it go. It's essentially like real-time forgiveness.
Starting point is 00:22:52 It's forgiveness in the moment. The word overlook in the Hebrew language is the word avar, and it means to pay. pass over. It means to get up above. Life's too short. Your calling is too great to be offended by something small. You get over it. I'm over it. I'm over it. I'm on top of it. My mission is more important than this. My calling is greater. I'm over this. Hey, you can play down there, but I'm not coming down there with you. We've got more important things to do. I'm over it. I'm over it. Type it in the chat. I'm over it. Someone's rude to you. I'm over it. Someone's rude to you. I'm over it. Your mother-in-law corrects your kids again. That's a tough one. I'm over it. I'm over
Starting point is 00:23:29 it. Someone makes a passive aggressive statement. I'm over it. Your spouse makes fun of the way you chew or walk or unloads the dishes. Seriously, I'm over it. I'm over it. She's over it. We've got more important things to do. Listen, apply this to the jerk at the mall. Most importantly, apply it to the people you love the most. Apply it to the people at home. Sometimes people will ask me sometimes, they'll say, do you and Amy look like you've got an amazing marriage? Do you really have an amazing marriage? I see you on Instagram. Yes, like honest to goodness. Honest to goodness. It's like the best marriage I've ever seen. It's incredible. It's blessed. But I want you to know this. We do have constructive discussions. You know what that is? That's preacher language for intense
Starting point is 00:24:23 arguments. We do. This season right now that we're in, I don't know if we've distinguished. We've disagreed as much on some of the major issues. We've got very significant different opinions. If we sometimes differ on our philosophies and parenting, sometimes I'm more strict, sometimes she's more strict, sometimes we disagree on how I should be leading the church. I'm doing it and she's right and she lets me know. And we get into arguments that are bathed in love,
Starting point is 00:25:01 that are bathed in love. Because love doesn't seek to win the argument. Love seeks to protect the relationship. Church, in your effort to be right, some of you have forgotten to be loving. I've never seen anybody better at overlooking than Amy. It's amazing.
Starting point is 00:25:31 I'll be short, I might be sarcastic, I might be harsh, and she just keeps on going. I'm over it. I'm choosing to overlook that. Our marriage, our ministry, our calling is too great to be caught up in something so small. Sometimes she'll even tell me in real time, I'm choosing to overlook that.
Starting point is 00:25:51 And then she does. In other words, I'm not going to let a hurt accumulate upon another hurt. We're just, we're letting that go. We've got so much more important things to do. This is our key verse in all of it. How you love those people that are difficult to love? We all have them.
Starting point is 00:26:11 Verse 18 of Romans 12, Paul said this. He said, if it's possible, as far as it depends on you. And the fact that he said, I love the fact that in God's grace, he gave us the clause, meaning sometimes you can't control what somebody else does. But as far as it depends on you.
Starting point is 00:26:34 Whatever's within your power, whatever's in your response. We're gonna live at peace with everyone. Everyone. That means the person that you're not talking to right now. As far as it goes with you, you're gonna do what's right. That person who is really rude to, the person that wronged you and took advantage of you.
Starting point is 00:26:57 As far as it depends on you, you're gonna do what's right. Because listen to me, life is too short, and your calling is too great to be offended by something small. I'll tell with you, I'll tell you my greatest personal regret, and I hope and pray I never have one greater than this one. Last week I told you that my pastor, Nick, is now in heaven. He's having a better day than we are right now. He is in heaven. And he helped me get into ministry as well as over 30 other women and men. He helped get into ministry. One of them was my best friend in my 20s.
Starting point is 00:27:43 his name was Jay, and Jay was one of the best young pastors I'd ever met. We were super close. And Jay got into a place where he made some unwise and very hurtful decisions. And one time I confronted Jay on it, and Jay's response wasn't great, and my response to his not great response was even worse. And we didn't talk for a period of time. about two weeks into that period of not talking, I was writing a message called, I remember the title,
Starting point is 00:28:19 Loving those you don't like. And Jay was my sermon illustration in my mind because I loved him, but at the moment I was mad at him. And I realized I should reach out to him, but I didn't do it. And a few days later, I preached that message on a Tuesday, and driving home, I'm sure Amy remembers, I leaned over to her and said,
Starting point is 00:28:38 I've got to reach out to him. This is too silly. I love him too much. And I'm going to call him tonight when I get home. This was pre-cell phone days. We got home and there was a voice message on our answer machine that his wife had found him and he had taken his life. It is my number one regret.
Starting point is 00:29:01 And if I told you the whole story, what you would do is you would say, Craig, you were right. Because I was right in the situation. If Jay were here today, Jay would say, yeah, you were right. I was right. 100%. I was right, but I wasn't loving. And I tell you that because I can't undo what happened and I don't have another chance with him,
Starting point is 00:29:37 but some of you, you still have a chance with somebody. You still have a chance. You still have a chance for your fractured marriage to be healed. You still have a chance to begin a relationship with your child or your mom or your dad. you haven't talked to for years, you still have a chance to forgive someone who wronged you
Starting point is 00:30:06 and maybe see a miraculous restoration story that only God could write. Many of you, you still have a chance. And so when I tell you, the assignment is tough, it's tough. It's tough. And you can't do it on your own. You need to help from the one who is peace and brings relational peace.
Starting point is 00:30:35 What you're going to say, though, is, but they're not whatever. They're not being nice. They didn't apologize. They're not being kind. It takes two to reconcile. Yes, it takes two to reconcile, but it takes one to forgive. It takes two to reconcile, but it takes one to be loving. And so as far as it depends on you, as far as it depends on me.
Starting point is 00:31:00 we're gonna live at peace with everyone. So I promise you, people gonna let you down, I'll let you down. I may have ticked you off today. Being offended is inevitable, but living that way is a choice. And just remember, Jesus, the one who is our peace. He didn't tell us to always be right.
Starting point is 00:31:25 He told us to always be loving. So as far as it depends on us, on me, on you, what are we gonna do as followers of Christ? to do our best by the power of the spirit of God in our hearts to live at peace with everyone. And it's my prayer today that for someone, that could be just what you need for healing in a relationship that's broken.
Starting point is 00:31:49 So Father, we ask that you would do what only you can do, do a work in our hearts today. As you're praying, maybe watching from countries around the world at church online, could be you're streaming this on YouTube months or years later, or you're watching live right now at a life church location. And you are a follower of Christ. And you want to do whatever you can,
Starting point is 00:32:13 wherever you are, whoever you interact with, to live at peace in every situation, whether it's the rude person out in public or the hurtful person in your home. If your prayer is God, help me to live at peace. Would you lift up your hands right now? Just lift them up.
Starting point is 00:32:28 I hope it's everybody today. I really do. As your hands are up, or you can even put them down and relax for a moment, I want to pray for you, and I want to pray very specifically for those of you that have a broken relationship and really need help from God for healing. Father, give us all a love that comes from heaven, a love that we can't generate from our own sinful, fleshly self, but help us to die to ourselves as living sacrifices.
Starting point is 00:32:55 But yet, it's not us living. It's Christ. It's His love. Your love through us. God, I pray now, especially for those who, have seriously wounded relationships, broken trust, broken friendships, broken relationships with parents or children, broken marriages.
Starting point is 00:33:18 God, we thank you that you're a God of restoration, you're a God of healing, you're a God of forgiveness. And we pray for miracles. God, if nothing else, miracles in our hearts, God. Let's just start there. Help us to forgive, help us to rise above. help us to let go, help us to consciously in the moment choose to forgive. God help us to give the massive, what feels like unforgivable offenses
Starting point is 00:33:45 and help us to let the small one goes without even hesitating. God, in the way you've loved us, would you help us love others? We pray for miraculous healing and restoration and relationships today. And may they start in our hearts. As far as it depends on us, God help us to live at peace. As you keep praying today at all of our churches, there are those of you, you're going to recognize when it comes to the most important potential relationship
Starting point is 00:34:12 of all, the one with God, you're not at peace. If we sat down and I just ask you, where are you? How are you doing with God? You might hem haul around and say, well, you know, I watched some sermons or I went to church or I try to be good.
Starting point is 00:34:26 I try not to be bad, whatever it is. But there's not peace in your heart. The good news is, I believe that you're watching today. It's not an accident. by the grace of a God who loves you and loved you so much that he did something for you you couldn't do for yourself. He sent his son. Why?
Starting point is 00:34:44 Because he loves you. Because he loves you. God so loved you that he became like you. He sent his son Jesus, born of a virgin, perfect in every way. The Lamb of God, the living sacrifice, the one who said, I lay down my life. No one takes it. And Jesus gave his life on a cross,
Starting point is 00:35:04 for the forgiveness of your sins. So that you who believe in him, no matter what you've done, when you call on his name, that name that is above every name, he hears your prayers, he forgives your sins, he heals your heart,
Starting point is 00:35:17 he mends your brokenness, wherever you're watching from those who say, I need his grace, I want peace with him, just take a step away from your old life, step toward him as you are, call on that name that is above every name when he hears your prayer,
Starting point is 00:35:30 he'll forgive your sin, you become new. The old is gone, the new is here today, all of our churches or wherever you're watching, those who say, yes, I want him, I want peace with God, I surrender my life, I give my life. Today I give my life to Jesus, that's your prayer. Lift your hands high now, all over the place, say yes,
Starting point is 00:35:47 as we've got hands going up at churches across our country and around the world. We welcome you, we celebrate with you, we thank God for you. Those of you online, just type it in the chat. I'm giving my life to Jesus, just type that in as an indication, it's your sign, yes, My life is no longer mine.
Starting point is 00:36:06 I'm a living sacrifice. I'm dying to myself. I want to live for Christ. Wherever you're watching from, would you just pray with those around you? Then we're going to celebrate being the work of God is grace in your life. Pray out loud, pray Heavenly Father, forgive all of my sins. Jesus save me, change me, make me brand new. God, fill me with your Holy Spirit so I can live your will and love your will and love your
Starting point is 00:36:34 ways. My life is not my own. I give it all to you. Help me to live your mission, to show your love. Thank you for new life. I give you all of mine. In Jesus' name, I pray. Because somebody celebrate really, really big. Welcome some amazing people into the family of God.

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