Life.Church with Craig Groeschel - The Habit That Will Heal Your Heart | Habits of a Healthy Heart | Part 1

Episode Date: January 7, 2024

You might be feeling a little pressure to change some things about yourself. Maybe you want to hit the gym, save money, or accomplish more at work. Instead of adding more New Year’s habits to your p...late, what if you simplified instead?ABOUT THIS MESSAGEIn new seasons, we often focus on what we should do more of. But sometimes, just need to simplify. In our series, Habits of a Healthy Heart, we'll take a deep breath, make space for God, and allow Him to work in our lives.NEXT STEPSHave you made a decision to follow Jesus? You may be wondering what’s next on your journey. We want to help! Let us guide you to your next steps in your walk with Christ: https://www.life.church/nextABOUT LIFE.CHURCHWherever you are in life, you have a purpose. Life.Church wants to help you find your next step. Our hope is that your journey will include joining us at a Life.Church location throughout the United States or globally online at https://www.live.life.churchFind locations, videos, and more info about us at https://www.life.church or download the Life.Church app at https://www.life.church/appFIND US ON SOCIAL MEDIAFacebook: http://www.facebook.com/life.churchInstagram: http://www.instagram.com/life.churchTikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lifechurchYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@LCNowCONNECT WITH PASTOR CRAIGYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/craiggroeschelFacebook: http://www.facebook.com/craiggroeschelInstagram: http://www.instagram.com/craiggroeschelTikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@craiggroeschel#lifechurch #craiggroeschel #habitsofahealthyheart Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

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Starting point is 00:00:00 Let me ask you a question. When you lie, who do you think you lie to the most? Can we just go ahead and start the year and get ridiculously honest? How many of you lie? Raise your hands. Go ahead and leave them up, leave them up, go ahead and leave them up. Look to the person who's not raising her hand right now and just call them a liar, right? Just call them a liar. Yeah, we all lie. When you lie, who do you lie to the most? How many of you would be on? honest and say that you've lied to your boss before. Anybody ever lied to your boss? Okay.
Starting point is 00:00:37 I'm looking for my staff right now. I'm looking for my staff. You know, it's a beautiful day out. No, I'm not feeling well. You know, I got to stay home. I got a headache. It's a beautiful day. You lie to your boss.
Starting point is 00:00:49 How many of you've ever lied to your kids? You might lie to your kids. Boy, I do. They asked me, can we do this? And I'm like, oh, we'll think about it. I'll think about it. I ain't no way we're doing that. I'm just stalling.
Starting point is 00:01:02 How many of you ever lied to your parents? I'm looking at my kids right now. Their hands just went up, right? It wasn't me, it wasn't me, I promise. How many of you've ever lied to your friends? Raise your hands. Yeah, I wish I could help you move on Saturday, but I got a lot going that day.
Starting point is 00:01:22 Anybody ever lie kind of on social media? You post something that's not exactly true. Like, my life is blessed and perfect and happy, and it's amazing and it really sucks up depressed and I want to die right now. Anybody ever do that? It's interesting when you think about the lies that we tell. Who do you think you lie to the most?
Starting point is 00:01:45 It may surprise you, but the research is conclusive. The person you lie to the most is you. The person that you lie to the most is actually you. In fact, experts say that we will lie dozens to literally hundreds of times every single day to ourselves. We'll tell ourselves, I'll do it tomorrow when you know you won't. We tell ourselves, I can stop at any time when you really can't.
Starting point is 00:02:25 We tell ourselves, I'm fine, I'm fine, I'm fine, when you're not fine at all. You tell yourself, I don't care at all what they think, but you really do. And we tell ourselves, it's not really that big of a deal when it's really a big deal. Studies show that the one that you lie to the most is actually yourself. In fact, Jeremiah 17.9 tells us something very important to understand that the human heart is the most deceitful of all. things and desperately wicked. Who really knows how bad it is? The unredeemed heart has the capacity to not only lie to others, but to completely deceive yourself. And that is one of the major reasons why most of the New Year's resolutions that you have and you're so excited about right now
Starting point is 00:03:28 are likely going to fail. And the reason is, with very good intention, you're focusing on some external behavior, you're focusing on something that you do on the outside. You want to whatever it is. You want to get more organized, or you want to get up earlier, or you want to stop being on social media so much,
Starting point is 00:03:51 or you want to stop looking at things you shouldn't look at, you want to eat better, you want to save more money. Whatever it is, you want to stop yelling at your spouse. The problem is you're simply focused on external behaviors, but where are behaviors actually born? Our behaviors are born in our hearts. So, as I've always said, if you want to change your life, change your habits, but if you want to change your habits, let God change your heart.
Starting point is 00:04:24 This year, we're not starting on the outside. we're starting on the inside, and we're going to ask God to change our hearts. Today, we're beginning a new message series. I'm calling it Habits of a Healthy Heart, and I want to show you where we're going to go over the next few weeks. We're going to look at five different habits of the heart. Today, we're going to look at the habit of self-examination to give a very true, very sincere, very honest look at our own lives and give God permission to work in our lives. Next week we're going to look at the habit of simplicity. Almost all of us are looking for more, more, more, more, more, when actually less is often more.
Starting point is 00:05:04 The third week, we're going to look at the habit of solitude, of slowing our lives down to be quiet before God, to genuinely seek him in his word and to hear his voice that will direct our steps. Then we're going to look at the habit of sorrow. You say, but I don't want to be sorrowful. We actually are going to discover in scripture that the habit of sorrow is very powerful, worldly sorrow, that leads to death, and we don't want that. But there is such a thing as godly sorrow that brings us to repentance and leads us to salvation and to life. And the final week, we're going to look at the habit of slowing.
Starting point is 00:05:42 I may skip that week or actually delegate it to someone else. But in a world where we're actually very, very fast-paced all the time, we're going to learn to take a day off to honor God with the Sabbath. to slow our lives down in a way that would truly be God honoring. Today, what I want to do as we launch into a new year is I want to talk about the habit of self-examination. And God's word tells us this in Psalm 139. It was David who prayed this prayer.
Starting point is 00:06:11 He said, search me. Somebody say search me. He said, search me God and know my heart. Because my heart is actually very deceitful. It's deceitful above all. things. He said, test me and know my anxious thoughts. God, see if there is any offensive way in me and lead me in the way everlasting. What I'd love today at all of our churches, if you wouldn't mind just saying this aloud, kind of quietly, almost as a prayer where you sit today online,
Starting point is 00:06:47 you can do the same thing. Just say it aloud. Search me, God. And, know my heart. Test me and know my anxious thoughts. See if there is any offensive way in me and lead me in the way everlasting. Search me, God, and know my heart. Test me. See if there's any offensive way in me.
Starting point is 00:07:15 This was a prayer of David. And why do you think David prayed this prayer? If you watch his life, you'll discover that over time, David started to understand the same thing that I hope that you'll understand. He started to understand his propensity to lie to himself. He was the master, just as all of us are, the master of self-deception. And he started to discover this later on in his life after what happened in 2 Samuel, Chapter 111. Let me show you what this pivotal moment in his life. Scripture says in the spring of the year when kings normally go out to war. So he was the king, he should have been at war, but he wasn't at war. David instead sent Joab and the Israelite army to fight the Amorites. However, what did David do? He wasn't at war? What did he do? David stayed behind in Jerusalem. What was going on in his own mind? He was actually deceiving himself. We don't know exactly what he thought, but I'm going to kind of just read into it a little bit. He
Starting point is 00:08:20 probably thought, okay, this is the time when kings go off to war, but I've been at war quite a bit. I've been fighting. Everybody knows I'm kind of a war hero. I am the king. It's dangerous when I go out. I've fought enough. I actually deserve a break. It's probably better if I sit this one out, take care of myself, and keep myself safe. After all, I am the king, and I have proved my worthiness on the battlefield, and so he's probably telling him something like this. And then at some point, he thinks, hey, I want to relax, so maybe I'm going to go have a little drink on the roof of my house and watch the sun set. And when he does, he looks across and he sees a woman taking a bath. And he looks at her, the Hebrew word that is used as the word ra'a, which is pronounced this way.
Starting point is 00:09:05 Ra'ah. That's how he looked at her. Because what it means is to look and to keep looking. So he saw this woman taking a bath and he ra'ahed or he looked at her. He stared at her. And he probably thought to himself, hey, I'm not doing anything. I'm just kind of looking. It's not that really big of a deal. And somewhere in his mind, he deceived himself again and said, hey, you know, I have been going kind of hard, and some companionship would be good.
Starting point is 00:09:31 So he sent one of his men to go and bring her to his place. And she comes to the palace, and he probably thinks we're just going to spend some time together. We're just going to talk about her life and the kingdom and what it's like to be the king. And one thing led to another. Who knows, maybe he brushed up against her. Maybe he said, hey, can I give you a back? from whatever it is, one step after another, he rationalized his sinfulness,
Starting point is 00:09:54 and he ended up having sex with her. If you know the story, she ends up being pregnant, and he finds himself in a really, really bad place. What am I going to do now? And so in his mind, he's thinking, well, I've got to cover this up. And so I'm going to call her husband, Uriah, home, and I'm going to give him a chance to be with his wife,
Starting point is 00:10:15 so then he'll think the baby's his. and Uriah comes home, but he's too loyal of the soldiers. So he says, I'm not going to be with my wife. I'm going to stay with my men. And so that doesn't work. So David's like, well, I've got to protect my name, and I've got to protect the kingdom. Whatever he's thinking, he's telling himself,
Starting point is 00:10:33 and I've got to protect the name of God. And so he says to his mind, put Yariah, her husband, out on the front lines, and sure enough, Uriah loses his life. Looking back, step by step by step, He would have rationalized his own sin, and the whole time thinking what he was doing wasn't a big deal. But what exactly did he do? He abused his power.
Starting point is 00:10:59 He violated an innocent woman, Bathsheba. He committed the sin of adultery. He wrecked an entire family. He essentially murdered Uriah. Then when the baby was born, the consequences evidently led the baby to get sick and die, and step by step by step, sin by sin by sin. He didn't recognize his own sin because of the heart is deceitful above all things, and we are the master of self-deception.
Starting point is 00:11:31 Psychologists call that a cognitive bias. The Bible calls it flattering yourself or deceiving yourself, or the Bible calls it having a deluded heart. In fact, Psalm 362 says, this. The Bible says, in their own eyes, they flatter themselves too much to detect or hate their own sin. I'm not that bad. I'm not doing anything wrong. And we flatter ourselves and deceive ourselves. And that's why it's important to adopt the habit of self-examination. I researched this and spent a lot of time in the last few weeks. And I discovered that our self-deception tends to manifest itself in five
Starting point is 00:12:20 major ways. You may see yourself somewhere in these different categories. I'll show you them. The first one is what experts call addiction to distraction. Because we're doing something wrong, we find ourselves unintentionally distracting ourselves by anything that keeps us from facing the truth about ourselves. It might be an addiction to pornography. It might be an addiction to social media. It might be an addiction to the news. It might be an addiction to talking bad about other people.
Starting point is 00:12:56 It might be an addiction to alcohol or some other form of drug. It's an addiction that distracts us from facing the truth about ourselves. The second way it manifests is in a manic cheeryness. This is the person that's not really happy, but pretends like they're happy all the time. I'd call it the Lego syndrome, right? Everything is awesome.
Starting point is 00:13:21 Okay, you've got to have kids to understand that reference, but it's like you just go around smiling and act like everything is great and showing this great life on social media. When the truth of the matter is in honest moments, you're actually down or maybe depressed or discouraged or maybe even worse having thoughts of ending your life. you don't show it, you show this manic cheeriness, even trying to deceive yourself. Another way we'll see it is in judgmentalism. We have something wrong with us, but we point out the faults in other people. We point out the speck in their eye when we have a log in our own eye. And what we do is we oftentimes will judge others very, very harshly about the own sin in their life when the reality is we're vulnerable to that very sin in our life.
Starting point is 00:14:14 We judge in others the very thing that we dislike and ourselves. The next thing we're going to find is that we can be very, very defensive. We're offended if anyone makes any indication or suggestion that we might be wrong, that we're vulnerable, that we're doing something unwise, that we're doing something sinful. Any suggestion that we have a problem, we're defensive against them. We may deflect it. We may say that they have the problem. It's not our fault. We don't have a problem. It's someone else's fault or I'm a victim or whatever it is. We're completely defensive
Starting point is 00:14:51 about any suggestion. And the final one is sometimes we just become cynical. We surrender to cynicism. And we think that everything is bad in life and everyone else is the problem and everyone is wrong. And we deceive ourselves because we don't want to face the truth. about ourselves. And that is the very thing that David did. He deceived himself and his life fell apart. What happened when he said, I'm not doing anything wrong? Everything's okay.
Starting point is 00:15:26 I can get away with this. It's not that big of a deal. And in sin by sin by sin by sin, he found himself in a very, very, very dangerous place. Well, the Lord sent a prophet. And the prophet Nathan sat down with David and had a little conversation. And to help David see his own sinfulness, Nathan the prophet told him the story. And the prophet said, David, let me tell you a little story about two guys.
Starting point is 00:15:56 One guy is really, really rich. And the other guy was really, really poor. And the rich guy had unlimited number of sheep and cattle. He was rich. And the poor guy had only one little lamb. and his whole family was close to the lamb. The lamb was like a little pet. And one day the poor guy with his little lamb
Starting point is 00:16:16 ended up at the rich guy's house and it was time for dinner and the rich guy went to get a lamb and instead of taking one of his thousands of lambs he took the one lamb of the poor guy sacrificed that lamb and fed the poor guy's lamb to him for dinner. And David heard that story and said
Starting point is 00:16:39 that's the worst thing I've ever heard. That guy should be punished. He should be put to death. And Nathan looked at David in Hebrew and said this. Ataish. Ataish. Ataish means you're the man. You're the one who did that.
Starting point is 00:17:05 You're the one that was judging someone else in this story when you're guilty of the very same thing. you're the one that's been defensive and pushed back and made excuses and rationalized and you've done the very same thing the habit of self-examination not easy to do search me god search my heart show me is there any offensive way anything sinful anything in my life that i don't see that you see that you want to change. And I would ask you, if you would stop for a moment and let God search you, what problem are you denying? What sin are you rationalizing? What issue are you hiding? Welcome to church early in the year where we're going to get after it. Just so you know. If I hadn't stepped on your
Starting point is 00:18:12 toes yet, just hang in there. We're going to get everybody today. That's my goal, everybody, including myself. Where does God want to work? Is it a secret? addiction, you're addicted to porn or masturbation. Is it alcohol or drugs? Is it that you lose your temper over and over and over again? And you think, hey, I wouldn't do it. If you didn't do that, it's not my fault. You make me do it. Are you flirting with an affair? Or are you in a full-blown affair? Are you addicted to overeating? and make jokes about, ah, that's just the way I am? Are you addicted to overspending?
Starting point is 00:19:04 And you pretend like it's not a problem. Are you numbing yourself consistently with a drug or just with TV or just scrolling mindlessly on social media? Do you say you don't need help? You really, really do. Asking for help is never a sign of weakness. It's always a sign of wisdom. Are you at church on the very first weekend of the year?
Starting point is 00:19:39 Your body is present, but your heart's far from God. Search me, God. Know my heart. See if there's any offensive way in me. I want to give you three warning signs to think about as you adopt the habit of self-examination. You're asking God to speak to you. Let me give you three thoughts.
Starting point is 00:20:05 Number one is I want to encourage you to watch. for what others have tried to tell you. If someone else has tried to tell you, hey, you might have a problem, I always tell myself, if more than two people that love me, tell me I have a problem, I better pay attention to that.
Starting point is 00:20:24 Maybe there are those that are telling you, hey, maybe you're working too much. You're not present. Or you're always looking at your phone. Or you're spending too much time on video games. Maybe some people that love you say, hey, you drink every single night and you say you don't have a problem, but you can't seem to go without it. Maybe there are people that love you that tell you, you're dressing them modestly. And I know you say it's the styles and I know you say it's no big deal, but people who love you say maybe that is an issue.
Starting point is 00:20:59 There are people that love you that may say you never say no because you have a problem. People pleasing. when you ask God to search your heart, watch for what others that love you have tried to say to you. The second thing is watch for what you rationalize. Watch for whatever you try to explain away. Watch for the time when you say, it's no big deal, and I can handle this,
Starting point is 00:21:26 and I'm not hurting anyone, and I don't have a problem with this. Watch for what you rationalize, because it'll sneak up on you. Amy and I were talking about recently years ago when we had a single adult life group in our home and we had them all gathered and we were talking about the value of relationships and how much they matter to us and how much we matter to each other. And then time went on and they just wouldn't leave. We had a baby and none of them had babies and they didn't know. And so I said, like, it's been great
Starting point is 00:21:57 and you all matter so much. We're going to wrap things up and it's been awesome and they didn't leave. and so I went in the other room and I put on a robe when I came back and said, it's been awesome and, you know, we've got the baby, we're going to put the baby together, and they just wouldn't leave. And then I turned the heat up really high. I mean, made it ridiculously uncomfortable. I'm in a robe. You know, Amy's sitting there yawning, we got a baby crying.
Starting point is 00:22:20 You all matter to us so much, but let's call it. It's good. And they wouldn't leave. And so I said, hey, Amy, let's go in a room and check on a baby. Went in the room with a baby. And I just said, these people are ridiculous. They've got no brain. They don't take any cues.
Starting point is 00:22:32 What's wrong with them? They're idiots. They're completely idiots. And right as I'm saying that I look down and I saw the baby monitor in our bedroom broadcasting into the living room where relationships matter and you matter to God and you matter to me, your pastor. That was our first church split and since then we've been rebuilding. But watch for those things that you just try to explain away. I wouldn't do what I'm doing if you weren't doing what you're doing.
Starting point is 00:23:14 Search me, God. other people are trying to tell you, watch for what you rationalize. And number three, watch for where you're most defensive. Watch for your most defensive. Wherever you push back and say, I don't have a problem. Or maybe you get a little bit angry and say, leave me alone, it's not of your business. I always tell those that I love that the more convinced you are that you don't have a problem, the more likely it is that you do. The harder you push back when people who love you press in, the more likely you really do have a problem.
Starting point is 00:23:49 And I have learned that through the school of Hard Knocks. This is our 28-year anniversary of the church. I've been in ministry for 33 years, and literally almost the whole time, the people that love me the most have said, Craig, you work too much, you work too hard. And almost the whole time, I've said, you guys just don't love Jesus like I do.
Starting point is 00:24:16 I know that's kind of arrogant, but that's literally what I thought, is that you don't understand. This is a call on my life. And year after year, all the way back in my early 20s, they put me in mandatory counseling for being a workaholic, and I shook that off. And in my 30s, and in my 40s. And in my 50s, my body actually started to catch up with being in 2019,
Starting point is 00:24:37 my body started to break down. I had a two-week period where I thought. functioned fully and had no memory of what took place in that time. I was performing, going through the motions, and yet I couldn't remember anything. And so Amy helped me to get a very good counselor, and we started working together. And after months of working together, his diagnosis and his suggestion was incredibly offensive to me. He said, we're not going to talk you into slowing down, so we have to distract you. And so what I want you to do is come up with a list of 30 things to do. We're going to try five or six of them. We're going to start with 30, and they have to be adrenaline
Starting point is 00:25:15 producing, they have to appear kind of dangerous, and they have to involve other men. I mean, this is the dumbest thing I've ever heard. So you'll be like, it's like race motorcycles or jump out of airplanes or climb mountains or whatever. I was insulted. I was angry. Like, the last thing I need to do is throw axes and play laser tag with a bunch of men. Stupid, right? And so I pushed back, and he said, I said, this is dumb. I can't believe what I'm going to be. I was real honest, and we had that kind of relationship. And he said, you're kind of at the crossroads right now. And in the same way, I'm going to say to some of you, you're at a crossroads right down. You let God do what he wants to do or you stay in bondage. And my counselor looked at me and
Starting point is 00:25:58 said one of three things. Number one is you can ignore your wife who loves you, your close friends who love you, and you can ignore my professional opinion and you can stay the same until you do work yourself to death, like to death, like die because of it. Number two is you can fire me, get another counselor, go through months of months and come up to the very same conclusion, or number three, you can get over your pride of which you've had for years, and you can listen and you can get better. Those are the options. And when I say working too much, everybody goes, yeah, yeah, it's almost something like you applaud for. It's idolatry is what it is. It's idolatry. It's not trusting God. It's ignoring the more important priority. It is a very, very
Starting point is 00:26:39 problem. So I listened to a stupid diagnosis. I tried two things. One is jujitsu, where you actually roll and fight men on the ground. It looks very odd, strangely fun. I don't know how that happened. And the other thing I tried is I started taking, took flying lessons, ended up getting my private pilot's license, and then somehow I ended up liking that and got my instrument rating. and what I know is that whenever someone is pressing their forehead, their arm into my forehead, or choking me out, or when I'm trying to land a plane at 300 feet in the clouds, you know, when you can't see anything, I don't think about work. And I hate how good of advice that was, because by disconnecting my mind, I give myself a mental break,
Starting point is 00:27:30 and now I am a way better husband, way more involved with the kids, and even more effective and productive at church by listening to wise advice. And there are some of you, there have been people who love you who have been trying to get through to you for a long time, and I want to hear me clearly, you cannot change what you won't confront. It's the habit of self-examination. And for some of you, honestly, like, I just,
Starting point is 00:28:00 like this is a moment of truth. It's a new year God has your attention, and you're going to pray, search my heart. Test me. see if there is any offensive way in me. And I'm going to ask you right now, what is God showing you right now the very thing that you probably don't want to face?
Starting point is 00:28:17 What is he saying to you? If you're afraid of what it is, let me tell you right now, he already knows. You should not be afraid of God. You should be afraid of what your sin will cost you if you don't get free from it. What do you do?
Starting point is 00:28:32 Is you run to him. You confess your need of him. You run to the people that love love you, your life group. If you do not have a life group, how do you do it? How do you face the spiritual opposition and the temptation and all the distractions of the world without an army of people standing by you, praying for you in your life, loving you? What do you do when you're caught? There's two types of confession. You confess your sins to God. Confess your sins to God, his faithful and just to forgive your sins and cleanse you from all unrighteousness. And you
Starting point is 00:29:08 confess your sins to the people in your spiritual community. Confess your sins to one another and pray for each other that you may be healed. You confess to God for forgiveness. You confess to people for healing and you confess. You confess. Because the heart is deceitful above all things. And that's why David prayed this prayer. He prayed, creating me, God.
Starting point is 00:29:31 A pure heart. I've been lying to myself. I've been deceiving myself. I've been pretending like I was. seeking you when I was, and I would pretend it like I was righteous when I was sending against you, God, creating me your pure heart, restore to me the joy of your salvation, and grant me a willing spirit to sustain me. David's sin big time, and yet he's still described as a man after God's own heart. No matter what you're trapped in, this could be a moment
Starting point is 00:30:08 freedom. You confess to God and you confess to people. Is God trying to say to you? What does he want to do in you? Don't resist it. He loves you. He wants freedom for you. And so week number one, the habit of self-examination. To give God permission to show us what we need to hear so we can do what we need to do. This is our prayer. At all of our churches, would you pray it with me? Slowly from the heart with all honesty and integrity, feel it as you pray it. Search me, God, and know my heart. Test me and know my anxious thoughts. Whatever is weighing on you, cast your anxiety on him because he cares so much for you. Pray it with me. See if there is any offensive way in me, God, and lead me in the way of everlasting. Because if you want to change your life, you change
Starting point is 00:31:33 your habits. But if you want to change your habits, you let God change your heart. So Heavenly Father do a work in us. we submit and surrender our hearts to you and give you permission god show us speak to us us today as you're reflecting in prayer if you want to be open to what god would say to you would you just lift up your hand right now all of our churches lift up your hand i hope that's everybody online you can you can just type in the comment section search my heart oh god just type in there. Search my heart, oh God. Just pray that right where you are right now. Just pray it. Just pray, pray, search my heart. Search my heart. God, show us if there's any offensive way in us. And God, I pray as you have spoken to me about my current issue, I confess before you, that I will
Starting point is 00:32:42 confess it to my community. I will turn from it and I will depend on you. God, give us the courage to tell the truth to ourselves, to let your truth, God, your holy truth, set us free. Jesus, you are the truth. You are the way, the truth, and the life. And when you know the truth, when you know Jesus, the truth is a person, when you know the truth, Jesus, the truth, Jesus, will set you free. As you keep praying today at all of our churches, there are those of you, you may be like me, you might have been around the church, but if you are really honest, you don't have a relationship with God.
Starting point is 00:33:25 Others of you, there's no question. You don't have a relationship with God and you know it, but something's happening right now, you're being drawn to God. What is that? Let me just tell you right now. That is God drawing you to himself. This is Holy Spirit, loving you and reaching out to you and drawing.
Starting point is 00:33:42 You may say, I don't even understand. It's like, why am I being drawn? It's because God loves you and he cares for you, and it's him drawing you to him. So what do you do? You tell yourself the truth. I've sinned. I've messed up. I've fallen short.
Starting point is 00:33:58 I've done things that're wrong. Guess what? Welcome to the party. We all have every single one of us. The scripture says all of us have sinned. That's where we start. That's why we feel guilty. And then we just confess our need for Jesus when you call on Jesus.
Starting point is 00:34:09 Who is Jesus? He is the sinless son of God, perfect in every way. He is the Lamb of God who was slain, the innocent one who died in our place, and God raised him from the dead, so that anybody, and this includes you, it doesn't matter what you've done. Anybody who calls on his name, you would be forgiven and you would be made new today at all of our churches, everybody online. Those who say, I don't know God personally, I don't have a peace of my heart. We're going to step away from our sin. We're going to step toward the truth. His name is Jesus.
Starting point is 00:34:43 when we surrender our lives to him, he'll forgive all of our sins. He will make you brand new. Listen, some of you, today's, here's what we're going to do. Eyes open right now. Everybody up. Eyes open. Nobody hiding. Tell the truth.
Starting point is 00:34:55 Those of you today that would say, I don't know him, but I need him. I'm turning from my sin. I'm calling on Jesus today. I need Jesus as my Savior. With everybody looking around, we're not hiding anywhere. Jesus said, if you confess before people, I confess before my God in heaven. If you don't, I won't. So now in front of everybody.
Starting point is 00:35:12 I need Jesus. I need him as a Savior. Today I give my life to him. That's your prayer. Lift your hands high right now. All over the place and say that's my prayer. Praise God for you. Praise God for you.
Starting point is 00:35:22 Others other than saying yes. Right back over there and for you as well. Right back there. Put them high. Praise God for you. We worship God for you. Right back there. I need Jesus.
Starting point is 00:35:31 Welcome into the family today. Others today right back over here saying yes. I surrender. Come on. Give him to praise today. Give God glory for who he is and what he's doing. Online. Type in the comment.
Starting point is 00:35:42 sector for everybody to see. I need Jesus. Type that in and wherever you are, nobody prays alone. Guess what? We're not going through life alone. You're not going through life alone. Hey, this is your first life group. Your next one gets smaller. This week is smaller. This is your first one. Right now, everybody together, would you pray aloud? Pray Heavenly Father. Forgive my sins. Jesus saved me. Make me new. Fill me with your spirit so I could know you. and serve you. My life is not my own. I give it all to you.
Starting point is 00:36:18 Thank you for new life. Now you have mine. In Jesus' name I pray. Can somebody tell God thank you. Give them some glory, give them some praise.

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