Life.Church with Craig Groeschel - There Is a Reason, Part 2: Find Your Why
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How many of you know the purpose of an athletic cup?
Just type in the chat, I do.
If you know the purpose, raise your hand.
How many of you know the purpose of an athletic cup?
I thought about holding one up to demonstrate,
but I thought that might look a little bit weird today.
In fact, it's challenging to describe in a way that's both accurate and appropriate.
So what I did is I went online and I looked for a definition.
the exact definition of an athletic cup.
And guess what?
I couldn't find one anywhere.
I went all over the World Wide Web
and couldn't find a single definition
of an athletic cup anywhere.
Now, I could find a definition
for an athletic supporter
or for a jock strap,
but not for an athletic cup.
So after extensive research and reflection,
I came up with my own definition,
the best definition I could come up with this
is an athletic cup
is a triangular plastic cup that boys wear playing sports
to prevent personal injuries.
Imagine a catcher, if you will,
wearing a, actually don't imagine a catcher if you will,
but it's a triangular plastic cup
that boys wear to prevent personal injuries.
Is that a decent definition of an athletic cup?
It's important that you understand this.
It's a little cup, it's got little holes in it and such.
Well, when I was in the fifth grade,
I lived next door to a girl named Missy.
Missy was in the sixth grade.
She was an older woman, and Missy had a crush on me, and I might have had a crush on
Missy.
She was older, she had a crush on me.
She was what we call a cougar back in the day.
And so Missy came over to my house one time, and I've told you before that my dad was
a professional baseball player, played in the minor leagues, and then he continued to play
very competitive, fast-pitched softball in which he would occasionally wear.
triangular plastic cup to protect him for personal injury. Well, my dad left an athletic cup for some
reason sitting out in the living room in plain sight when Missy, the older sixth grader, came over to
our house. Well, lo and behold, as you would know it, she saw it, didn't know what it was,
walked over and picked it up, put it in her hand and said, what is this? We all gasped, as you can
imagine, and then she figured out what she believed the purpose was of an athletic cup.
She said, oh, I know, it's an oxygen mask. The moment she said that, all the oxygen in the room
immediately vanished, and she put the mask to her face and started breathing in and out,
and she said, oh, it's an oxygen mask. Very disgusting story to prove a very important point.
if you're taking notes wherever you are,
if you don't know something's purpose,
you'll likely abuse it.
If you don't understand the purpose behind the creation of a thing,
you're very likely to misuse and abuse the purpose of the thing.
And that's the very reason why some of you today are frustrated.
You don't understand your purpose.
What's the reason? I don't get it.
What's the point?
Why bother?
It might be in a job that you're busting your tail at and nobody seems to notice or care.
What's the point?
Why do I do this?
It might be you're trying to guide your teenagers and they all they show you is rebellion and
disrespecting.
What's the point?
Why do I do this?
It might be you're fighting for your marriage and your spouse doesn't even seem to care at all.
And you wonder, what's the point?
What's the reason?
Why am I doing this?
Maybe there are some of you, you're trying to serve God and you're trying to be faithful.
and no matter what you try and how faithful you are,
life just continues to seem to go wrong for you,
and you think, why bother?
Why do I even try?
What's the purpose?
I don't know why.
Everybody say why?
I don't know why I try.
The title of today's message is,
find your why.
There is a reason.
There is a purpose.
What's your why?
Find.
your why. Father, we ask in the name of Jesus that as we look at your word, your spirit would speak
to our hearts to motivate us, God, according to your divine purpose to do your will, God, for which
we were created. God help us find our why. In Jesus' name, we pray, everybody said, amen.
Type it in the comments. Amen. Amen. Amen. This is not something we observe. We're going to participate
wherever you are. Let me show you a scripture in the New Testament that I think is really cool
and really powerful. Luke was writing the book of Acts in Acts 13, verse 36. There's one little
verse where he talks about David in the Old Testament. This was David, the man after God's own heart.
This was the little boy who grew up to be King David. He said this of David. He said,
now, when David had served God's purpose, somebody say, serve God's purpose. Whenever David
had served God's purpose in his own generation, he fell asleep, which is a nice way of saying
he died, when David had served God's purpose in his own generation, he fell asleep, he was buried
with his ancestors and his body decayed. Now, the last part of that's kind of gross, his body
decayed. The first part is amazing. He served God's purpose in his own generation. He found his
calling. He understood his why. He accomplished his what. He served God's purpose. In fact, Dr. Miles
Monroe is a preacher from the Bahamas. It was in the early 90s I first heard him talk about
purpose. In fact, I've got notes and his teaching influences my teaching even today. He said this.
He said, the greatest tragedy in life is not death, but a life without purpose.
The greatest tragedy in life is not dying,
but it's living without a reason,
without understanding your why, not knowing your purpose.
In fact, I would argue that perhaps for many of you,
that's one of the things about COVID-19 this season,
that's so incredibly frustrating to you
because none of us saw this coming,
and it's really, really difficult to understand
what's the purpose behind this.
I mean, here we have this massive global panic.
So in order to protect people,
We're going to shut the whole world down.
And in an effort to save lives, of which we will save some,
we end up killing the economy.
And so we save some lives and we ruin other lives.
And you start to wonder what's the purpose.
In the early season, there was a lot of fear and anxiety,
what's going to come.
And that has moved in some places to frustration.
I can't take this anymore.
I know some of you, you're settling into the rhythms and the routines
and you're actually kind of enjoying this
and now you finally got used to it.
time to maybe go back to work in the way it was.
Like, I just got into this.
But I have a friend who was just so frustrated, and he said, no matter what, I just can't get
going.
I'm not motivated.
I don't feel any sense of purpose.
And the very thing he was saying is, I've lost my why.
I don't have a reason that drives me and motivates me and compels me to a life outside of
myself.
He lost his why.
He's not finding his purpose.
What I want to do today is I want to show you three principles of purpose.
David served his purpose and his generation.
The first principle of purpose, if you're taking notes, is this.
Number one, your purpose isn't for you.
Your purpose is God's purpose.
Super important.
Your purpose is not for you.
It's not about you.
Your purpose is God's purpose.
and David understood this, and you can even see him saying it when he was running from Saul in the Old Testament, Psalm 57, verse 2.
He said, I cry out to God most high, to the God who will fulfill his purpose for me.
Your purpose isn't for you.
Your purpose is God's purpose.
What I love about David is he wasn't trying to find his purpose, what's my purpose.
he was fulfilling God's purpose for him.
In other words, your purpose isn't for you.
Your purpose is God's purpose.
Now, what is purpose?
If we're going to clearly define it, purpose is original intent.
There is an original purpose by a designer who designed you
and created you for a purpose outside of yourself.
The challenge is, if you don't know something's purpose,
you'll likely abuse that very thing.
If you don't know the purpose of an athletic cup,
whatever you do, do not put it up to your face
and pretend like it's an oxymath.
Don't do that in the name of the Father, the Son,
and the Holy Spirit, just say no.
In fact, the very purest definition of sin.
Now, in the church world, we talk about sin a lot of times,
and people think that's just like something gross and horrible that we do,
and yes, sin is gross and horrible.
But the purest definition for sin,
And it comes from the Greek word Hamartia,
which is an archery term that means to miss the mark or to miss the target.
What sin is is it's missing the purpose.
It's an abuse.
It's a violation of purpose.
It's doing something with our lives outside of the God-given unique purpose and calling for us.
That's what sin is.
And the very reason why so many people fall into sin is they don't know the purpose.
so they're always searching, looking for some type of validation.
I'll try this job, maybe that will make me happy.
I'll try this relationship.
I'll go perhaps on this vacation, I'll get this experience,
I'll try to get this brand,
maybe off-lights will make my light shine bright,
and then I'll finally be happy or whatever it is.
And all of life is reduced essentially to just one big experiment.
I'm just looking for something,
anything that brings me fulfillment and joy
because we don't understand the original intent,
we're missing the why behind the reason why God created us.
So we experiment and we search
and we treat yourself and would pamper yourself
and why it's all about you and you do you, boo-boo.
And we look around and we see all these people
that have what we think we're looking for
and yet they're not even happy when they have
what we think we want.
You know people, they're popular, and yet they're miserable because they're missing their purpose.
That they may be powerful, but they hate their own life.
Why?
No purpose.
They may be prosperous.
They may be financially blessed.
And yet they're still incredibly dissatisfied because there is no purpose.
What do we need to understand?
Is that we are created for heaven.
but so many of us are living for this world.
We're searching in this world for something this world cannot provide.
That's why we have to embrace our why, understand our purpose.
Your purpose isn't for you.
Your purpose is God's purpose.
He created you for his will, for his purpose, and for his glory.
Number one, your purpose isn't for you.
Your purpose is God's purpose.
Number two, if you're taking notes,
you don't find your purpose.
You serve God's purpose.
This is so important.
You don't just like find your purpose.
Instead, you serve God's purpose.
When you look at David, I love this.
He wasn't pursuing his dream.
It wasn't all about, I got to live my bucket list.
What he did, scripture said, is he served God's purpose.
In fact, I believe it's no coincidence at all that Luke, under the inspiration of the Holy Spirit in the
book of Acts, used that phrase, served.
He served God's purpose.
David served God's purpose.
In fact, let me show you some examples.
If you go back to the Old Testament whenever Samuel the Prophet was looking to choose under the
inspiration of God, who is the next king that's going to rule and reign.
And so Samuel the Prophet went to the house of Ben Jesse.
and looked at the oldest son who was handsome and strong and smart
and scored really high on his ACT, you know,
and had the fat, had everything.
And God said, no, that's not him.
And the next son, the next son, the next son,
and Samuel couldn't find the one that God wanted to choose.
What do you think David was doing
whenever Samuel anointed him to be the next king?
Let me tell you what David was not doing.
He wasn't building his resume.
He wasn't strategizing about,
how he was going to expand his brand
and get known everywhere.
He wasn't trying to get noticed.
He wasn't trying to get discovered.
He wasn't looking for his big break.
He wasn't making the perfect TikTok video
that he was sure that was going to go viral.
What was he doing?
He was simply taking care of the sheep.
That's what he's doing.
He was serving his purpose,
taking care of sheep.
In fact, this is what scripture says.
Psalm 78, verse 70, that God shows his servant David calling him from the sheep pens.
Some of you are trying to get in the spotlight when you should be in the sheep pens doing what
God created you to do. He took David from tending the ewes and the lambs and made him the shepherd
of Jacob's descendants, God's own people, Israel. Where was David when God called him to his purpose?
He was serving doing what he was faithfully called to do.
He wasn't seeking a position.
He was serving a purpose.
If you remember whenever Goliath basically held a whole war hostage
and everybody was afraid of him,
and David walked up and ended up under the power of God defeating Goliath.
Why do you think God shows David in that moment?
Again, little David was just like probably a teenage boy.
He wasn't the biggest, he wasn't the most ripped warrior,
he wasn't like verified with over 100,000 followers, right?
He wasn't the richest, he wasn't the most powerful,
he wasn't the business person to just close the latest deal.
What he was is he was a little boy,
he was a teenager who was bringing luncheables
to the warriors on the front line.
He was the guy who was faithfully doing what he was.
was asked to do, he was serving when God chose him for that moment.
He wasn't hoping for his big break, he was faithfully serving.
What did David do?
David served God's purpose.
He served God's purpose in his generation.
I hope you'll feel this.
You may feel locked down in quarantine.
but your purpose is not for you.
Your purpose is God's purpose.
You don't find your purpose.
You serve God's purpose.
Now, how do you do that?
If I want to serve God's purpose,
how do I go about doing his will,
glorifying, and serving his purpose?
Number three, if you want to serve God's purpose,
start serving God's people.
It's so important.
If you want to serve God's purpose,
start serving God's people.
I feel some people right now going,
it's so lame.
I want something big, something important.
Don't deserve God's people.
I want to write a book.
Tell my story.
I want to be an entrepreneur.
I want some followers.
I want to make six figures.
I want to be an influencer.
That's so lame.
It is never lame to love.
If you want to serve God's purpose,
you start serving God's people wherever you are.
If this is not below Jesus, when he came,
he said, here's my purpose.
He said it mark 1045,
for even the son of man didn't come to be served,
didn't come to be important,
but came to serve and to give his life as a ransom for many.
If you want to serve God's purpose, start serving God's people.
Do it today.
It's not about you.
It's not for you.
It's not for your glory.
David was a man after God's own heart.
Serve God's people.
Get in the game.
Those of you who want to be involved in business and want to be successful in business.
Don't make it about you.
I want to be important.
I want to be a CEO.
I want to make a name for myself.
I want to have a lot of money.
No, no, no, no.
Listen to me.
Create a product.
that serves people.
Create a service that blesses people.
And when you think about blessing people
and giving them something that they value,
they'll be so excited.
They'll give you money in exchange for that
what you created to bless them,
and suddenly you have a business.
If I create something valuable to you
and you're so excited about it,
then I have a little business.
If I create something better
and the two of you country,
I've got a little bigger business.
If all of you get excited
about the value
the product that I created, I've got a bigger business. Then suddenly what happens is I can hire
somebody else to help me run the business. And they're not here to help fulfill my vision.
I'm helping them have a job that adds value to their life. It's all about other people.
Those of you that are business people, I hope you feel this. What you're doing is God honoring.
You're kind of like the guy that God gave two towels and you multiplied it to four or God gave you five.
You multiplied it to. This is God honoring. What you're doing is your investment.
what you have to serve people. The same is true with content. I want to have a great YouTube
follow and I want to be verified on Instagram. I want everybody to follow me because I'm so great.
No, no, no, you don't start with that. It's not about you. It's about creating something that
impacts someone's life. It could even be that it entertains them and just helps them relax.
It could be that it helps them get better or closer to God. It's about creating content that
serves and blesses people. When I started to
the leadership podcast. It wasn't like, hey, I want to have the biggest leadership podcast around.
It's what I want to do sincerely, and I hope you feel it, is create content that helps you grow
better as a leader. And if it helps you, you tell people, and suddenly there's value in helping
other people along the way. You don't serve your own ideas. You serve God's purpose. The same with
those of you that want to build that big ministry. Don't start with that. That's almost insulting to God.
I want to build a big ministry.
No, just love somebody faithfully.
Serve them when nobody's looking.
Love one person faithfully.
And if their life is blessed, they're going to tell someone else.
And suddenly you're loving and serving two people faithfully.
And then all of a sudden, more people want to join you.
And we're coming together saying, together we can make a big difference in this world.
It doesn't start with what I want.
It starts with what God's wants.
It's you serve his purpose.
You get involved.
you are. You serve to make a difference and that's where the fulfillment is. You feel locked down,
you feel frustrated because you can't do what you want to do. Don't let the devil rob you of your
why. Serve where you are today. You aren't called to seek a platform or power or position. You're called to
serve God's people. Get creative wherever you are. Pick up groceries for a neighbor and deliver them to
serve them to make a difference. Make masks for someone who needs a mask. Volunteer to deliver
prescriptions to somebody. Become a prayer warrior right where you are. Nobody has to know just God,
just you, get down on your knees and believe for healing for somebody who's sick. Serve at church
online. There's 170 or 80 services every week and we're reaching people and you're out of the game,
get in the game and make a difference. Do an online life.
group, give a gift to someone, write notes to those who maybe are stuck in a nursing home,
get in the game. Here's the thing, you don't have to like launch a non-profit. I'm going to have
my own, you know, my own organization. No, no, no, no, just go. Do what Amy did. Go pick up a
gift card, sneak over to a widow's house who's on fixed income, can't get out of the house
because she's at risk, drop the gift card in the mailbox,
no note, no credit, no name, just drop and run and smile.
You serve God's purpose.
Do what my daughter Joy did.
Get a bunch of friends together, make a bunch of cookies, write a bunch of notes for leaders
who've blessed them in the church, then go drop the cookies in the notes off in their mailbox,
and run and smile.
But when you do that, save a cookie for your dad.
Because my daughter didn't save a cookie for her dad.
Do what my son Sam did.
He posted a scripture online and a girl asked a spiritual question.
She said, I'm not a believer.
And he engaged in an ongoing dialogue through DMs.
And she ended up recognizing her need for Jesus.
And he led her to Christ.
like that, do what my son Stephen did.
Reach out to someone who's down and discouraged and pray for them,
encourage them, lift them up.
Don't let the devil talk you out of your why.
Why might you feel a little empty right now?
Like you're missing something.
It's because maybe you're missing something.
You're missing the opportunity to do what you were created to do,
to serve someone.
Have you ever found that the greatest joy in life,
the greatest thrill,
is when you're used by God to make a difference
in someone else's life?
You can get that something you want.
I finally got the watch, I finally got the shoe,
I got the purse, the brand.
And it's fun for about that long.
You can go to some great place when we finally went there
and it's refreshing and I hope you do that.
But it wears off.
But whenever you find yourself,
in the lives of someone else making a difference,
there's fulfillment.
That's your purpose.
That's your purpose.
That's your purpose.
Your purpose isn't one big future event.
I'm going to write a book.
I'm going to produce movies one day.
No, no, no, no, no.
Your purpose is being faithful to Jesus today.
It's faithfully serving today.
I told you about Paco.
Paco is my workout.
partner and I said what's what's the hardest thing on you with this whole COVID deal and he's like
he's in construction so he's still working and he's excited about that he said I just miss church and
I love to him that like yeah he said I miss church and I ask him what do you miss about church
because I knew he's going to say like I miss seeing you preach in person he didn't say that
I knew he was going to say I miss the worship worshiping with all the people he didn't say that
what Paco said was he said I miss serving
I miss serving.
I miss hugging the people
and helping them feel love.
Like serving, man, like you don't get paid for that.
Nobody gives you an award.
There's no like, you're the best servant.
I mean, you give your time for free
and all you get is a red shirt.
I miss serving
because there's nothing in life
that fulfills you as much
as doing what fulfills God's purpose.
David served his purpose in his generation.
He served God's purpose.
If you don't know the purpose of a thing,
you'll likely end up abusing it.
What's your purpose?
Your purpose isn't to binge watch Netflix.
Your purpose isn't to save up whatever money you have.
Your purpose isn't to become famous or well-known or powerful.
your purpose is always for God's glory.
You serve his purpose.
What was David doing?
He was taking care of the sheep.
He was serving his brothers bringing lunch.
Wherever you are, don't let the devil talk you out of it.
Are you going to have to be creative?
Yeah.
Be creative.
Use your brain.
Get innovative.
If you love people enough,
you will find a way.
You can make excuses or you can make a difference,
but you can't make both.
Tell the excuses to get behind you,
tell the devil to get behind you,
and serve God's purpose.
David was a man after God's own heart,
and that's why he served God's purpose.
I couldn't be more thankful for a church of people
that are God-centered,
and others focused.
You are generous, you are prayerful,
you are evangelistic in heart.
This isn't a season that we're trying to get through.
This is a season that we're maximizing.
I charge you to fulfill your purpose.
Today, today, you will never find more joy
than when you share God's love.
It's not about you.
It's never supposed to be about you.
David served God's purpose.
And I pray you would do the very same thing.
So Father, today we ask in the name of Jesus,
that your spirit would speak into kitchens and living rooms
and bedrooms and back porches
through mobile devices and televisions and computers today.
And that you would stir up your church
to move from frustration with what we can.
do to passion to do what you've called us to do, God.
We're not gonna wait for a red shirt
in church to be open to serve.
We're gonna sense your spirit and follow your voice
and do what you've created us to do today, God.
Stir within the hearts of your people.
Living rooms, bedrooms, wherever you are,
those of you who say, yeah, I wanna serve God's purpose.
Just by faith, lift up your hand.
It may silly right, seem silly right now.
There's a lot of things silly, just do it.
Type in the chat, I'm in, I'm in, I'm in, I want God's purpose.
I want to serve God's purpose.
Just type it in.
Father, I pray that there wouldn't be a day go by,
that we wouldn't see divine opportunities to serve someone in need.
God, not for our own glory, not just for our own benefit,
but God, to do what you've created us to do,
to honor you in every way, fulfilling the purpose for which,
which we were created.
God help us to serve you by serving others.
And God, I thank you in advance for all the ways that people are going to be blessed,
both those who are receiving and those who are blessed by being a blessing.
God, may we be a church full of people, more blessed because we give more, to make a difference
for your glory in this world.
God, use us wherever we are to serve your purpose.
as you keep praying today, wherever you are.
Some of you may realize, man, like I'm empty, I'm hurting,
I feel alone, I feel desperate, I feel afraid.
Maybe your life has been an experiment.
Maybe you've been missing God's purpose.
What is sin, we talked about it, sin is missing the mark.
And the reality is that every single one of us,
we've all sinned.
You've sinned, I've sinned, we've messed up.
Why do you feel that sense of guilt?
How does that just happen?
It's because God,
created you for him, for his glory, and you recognize,
even if you're not like a Jesus person,
you feel a sense of, I did something wrong.
The truth is all of us have sinned.
But the good news is God sent Jesus who fulfilled his purpose.
Jesus was the son of God who never ever sinned.
He came to serve and to give his life as a ransom,
to pay back, to purchase the
forgiveness of our sins with a shedding of innocent blood.
When someone sins, someone must die.
We sinned and Jesus died in our place.
The good news is our God raised him from the dead so that anyone, everyone, this includes
you, it doesn't matter who you are, doesn't matter the questions you have, doesn't matter
the doubts in your mind, doesn't matter how ashamed you are of what you've done, what you've
said, what you've thought, what you feel.
Anyone who calls on that name, the name of Jesus, the name that is above every name.
will hear your prayer. He will forgive every sin you've ever created. He will fill you with
his spirit and you can start serving God's purpose today. Those who say, I need him. I want
his forgiveness for my sins. I want his spirit to lead me. I want to serve his purpose today.
I turn from my sins. I turn toward Jesus. Jesus, I give you my life. God, I want to serve
your purpose. That's your prayer. You can lift your hand wherever you are. You can type it in the
chat, I'm giving my life to Jesus, I'm giving my life to Jesus right now. I can feel it,
but I can't see it, but I can feel you all over the world saying, yes, Jesus, I surrender my life
to you. And I would love all eight people in this room just to join your faith with those around
you and pray this aloud where you are. Just everybody pray, Heavenly Father, forgive my sins.
Jesus save me and make me new. Fill me with your spirit.
so I can live for you, so I can serve your purpose.
My life is not my own.
I give it all to you.
Use me today and every day to serve your purpose by serving people for your glory.
In Jesus' name, I pray.
Wherever you are, I want you to shout right now.
Just give God some praise.
Tell them thank you for new life in Christ.
And as we serve God's purpose, we worship our God, lifting of our voices together today.
Wherever you are, worship team, help us lead us into His presence as we give our God praise.
