Life.Church with Craig Groeschel - What to Do When God Says Wait | Book Club: Part 2

Episode Date: June 14, 2026

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God's put something on my heart today to speak to you. If you've ever felt stuck, if you've ever felt like you're in a wilderness, if you ever felt like I don't know how I'm going to get through this season, I believe with all my heart that God has allowed you to lean into this moment because he wants to speak directly to you today. I wrote a book, and it's called Slow Burn. But this book is just the story of God's word impacting my life. When I was born, my parents, Denny and Dionnezzaduron, they gave me a life verse.

Isaiah chapter 40, verse 31. It says this, they that wait upon the Lord, they shall renew their strength. They will mount up with wings like eagles. They will run and not grow weary. They will walk. and they will not faint. You know, Isaiah 4031, it's not just a birth verse for me. It's been a life verse for me.

I've gotten my hands a Bible that I was given on Easter when I was nine years old and scribbled inside and some really messive cursive. Is that verse, Isaiah 4031. And we say that the Word of the Lord stands true, age to age. And sometimes we can think when we say age to age, that's some huge period in time and history, or that it's generations or centuries. But friends, I want to tell you that in my life, age to age means from nine years old to 41 years old today. The same word of the Lord has sustained me again and again and again. And so it is for you.

Because this verse and this Bible, I need it more today than the day that I was born. I'm learning how to live in the weight. I'm learning how to trust God. And it's truly a slow burn. Will you pray with me today? Lord, thank you so much for this moment. Thank you, God, that your presence is here. Lord, as we proclaim your word, there's freedom. And God, I just thank you that as we look to you, you are the author and the finish of our faith. So write what you want our hearts today. Establish something that will carry for every moment to come. We trust you, we love you, and Lord, we look to you. In Jesus' name we pray, and everybody said, come on, and everybody said? Amen. Well, last year, my husband turned 41 years old, and we had a family dinner at the house. We cut

some cake, and then we sat outside on the deck telling memories. And while we set out on the deck, I had like an epiphany. I realized, Rich, I think that we celebrated your birthday 20 years ago together in Cambridge, England when we were studying together in college. And I think I've got the journal to prove it. And I ran inside and I grabbed my journal. I went through my bookcase of journals. I came outside on the deck with this book and I said, I've got it. And I flipped open and sure enough, there was a journal entry from 20 years, years before when we were celebrating his 21st birthday. But as I began to flip to the pages, the last page, well, it has the goals of a 20-year-old girl going back for the summer in between college. And, you know, I hope that, well, that you're impressed by these goals

to accomplish in two very short months. Things I want to do this summer. Number one, read the entire Bible. No big deal. Number two, let's amp it up a little bit. Learn Spanish. See? Number three, go to all the boys' games. That would be my brother's games. I have five brothers. That's a lot of games. Number four, become a domestic goddess. That was a really popular book on cooking in that time. Number five, read an etiquette book. Number six, have a good job. How many of you know, you don't just need a job? You need a good job, amen. Number seven, visit my best friend in college. Number eight, exercise dash arms defined. Number nine, singing the choir. Number 10, get involved with youth ministry. Number 11, record a

worship album. I mean, why not while we're at it? I didn't have a 12. I went straight to 13. Surprise mom and dad on their 25th anniversary with a love song concert with the boys. Number 14. Interview Papa and Grammy, my grandparents, about their life story. Number 15, hang out with my great-grandparents. Number 16, go to the hospitals with my grandfather to pray for people. Number 17, create a scrapbook of the year. Yes. And drum roll, please. Number 18, orthodontist. Dash, figure out a way to straighten teeth without bracket braces.

That's a pretty good list. Okay, 20 years later, can we all just be honest? What was I thinking? This is not a list for a summer, friends. This is a list for a decade? An entire decade. I mean, many of the things that I wanted to accomplish that summer 20 years ago, I am just now in my life stepping into today at 41 years old.

And I'm still not a domestic goddess. Truth is that life has a way of showing us that it's not about short-term gratification or how fast you move, but about the one that is leading you, sustaining you, and establishing you every step of the way. And like everyone's story, mine involves a lot of waiting. You see, I'm sure you have your own lists too, don't you? The things that you'd like to accomplish, that you'd like to see God do in your life. But God uses long stretches of time to accomplish his will in us and through us, both through the people that we read of in the Word of God and in your life here and now today. He says, they that wait upon the Lord.

It doesn't say they that always believe. It doesn't say they that can pray the best prayers or they that always win no matter what. No, it says they that wait. I'm in my 40s now. And, you know, when I turn 40, I learned that the number 40 scripturally represents testing and trials. Oh, that's great. It's exactly what you want on your birthday card, right? You are in a wilderness.

But in every testing and trial, one thing is consistent. Every person God calls and trusts with a purpose and with a destiny, they had to make a decision to wait. and not wait on a thing, but wait on God. For years in my life, through eight years of infertility and so many other seasons in my life, I just thought waiting was a season that I had to get through. Grit your teeth, hope that you can do your best and get to the other side. I didn't understand there was a theology of waiting if we looked to the scriptures, but then God got a hold of my heart with a game changer. See, waiting is not a season. Waiting is life. So now the question becomes, will you live in the wait? Hear me today. Waiting is not a curse. Waiting is an invitation to experience the presence of God,

to lean into his grace, to be formed by his good hands. I think of what Charles Swindall once said. He said, we don't like waiting, but that's when God does some of his best work on our souls. Best work while you're waiting? Yes. It's called the slow burn. If waiting is life, then what does living in the weight actually look like? Well, I think that Romans chapter 12 gives us a pretty clear, honest picture. It says this.

Therefore, I urge you, brothers and sisters, in view of God's mercy, to offer your bodies as living sacrifices holy and pleasing to God. This is your true and proper worship. You know, in Louisiana, I grew up with bonfires. My favorite hang time with friends was a bonfire. And I understand for people watching today, maybe that sounds a little foreign. So let me explain to you how we do it in Louisiana. We would plan a date and a time. We would get the wood.

We would light that thing on fire. And everyone gets their seats and everyone faces the fire. You can get a guitar. You can pull out the blankets. But the fire is the center of attention. And it is blazing. Now, my husband, he grew up in Washington State, and he did not grow up with bonfires. He grew up burning incense. And to this day, he burns incense in our house. And it's so interesting because when people walk in, it's the first thing they notice. It's not what they see in our home. It's what they actually sense. Hear me. We are conditioned by culture to live for the bonfire moments. We are conditioned by culture to hold our breath until that moment that we are blazing with the glory of God. Our goals came true. God proved faithful, but truly life is not

about the bonfire moments. What if following God your life actually looked more like smoke than a blazing fire? It's a slow burn, trusting God. leaning into his presence when things don't make sense, understanding that he is moving right here, right now, in the wait. Why? Because the slow burn requires surrender. Somebody say surrender. See, the word incense comes from the Latin word incendiar, which means to burn. And God instructs his people in the Old Testament to set up the altar. of incense, and every morning and every night to place incense on the altar, a very specific blend. And as the incense burned, smoke would rise, signifying the worship and the prayers of God's people. The priest would come and they would take incense, and they would place it on the fire. And an interesting chemical reaction took place. As the incense was placed on the fire,

all of a sudden, the incense was transformed from the inside out. A fragrance within it is unlocked and starts to fill the holy place, marking every person who would come in. And as the smoke would rise, Jewish tradition tells us that the smoke would catch wind and travel for miles past the temple. Isn't it interesting that as you look at the smoke, smoke, we're told in scripture that our life is like a vapor, that it's here today and it's gone tomorrow. But here's the invitation. Surrender your little to God in the wait and watch him transform what you think is small into something that you could never be on your own. Again, offer your bodies, as Romans 12 says, as living sacrifices. See, we want the fire, but God, he wants the fragrance

of your life. We want the spotlight, but God wants the surrender. We're looking at God going, God, will you just raise me up? And God is saying, I wish you would lay your life down. We want the short-term gratification, get to the end of the goal, and reach it on our own, but God says, I don't want anything short term. I want eternal transformation in your life from the inside out. I want to show you what I created you to be. It is a slow burn for those that wait. In my life, I've always looked forward to the 4th of July. Growing up in Louisiana, we would run with our brothers, we would pick up a lot of fireworks, pack the car with them, head back to the house, and we light them one by one. Now, the scariest thing in the world

is lighting a firework, backing up, waiting for it to erupt, but nothing happens. And what do you do? You don't run forward. You tiptoe forward. And you're going, is that thing still lit? Because it may not have gone off yet, but you know that it's burning towards a an expected outcome. Have you ever wondered if your faith was still ignited? Have you ever wondered if you have what it takes to get through the waiting season that you find yourself in? Well, today, if you find yourself in that place, I want to give you some encouragement. Following Jesus is not a one-time ignition moment. It's at the name of Jesus that the light immediately can show. It's shine into your heart. It's every prayer, it's every moment of worship, it's every decision to find

yourself in community. You may say to me, Don Shri, I feel so burned out. Hey, that's okay, friend, because I've got news for you today. You're not the fire. And if you want to get relent, all you have to do is head back to the altar. Surrender your life again. He is the all-consuming fire. He will transform you from the inside out. He will change your mind. He will renew your body. He will heal your broken heart. You just got to come back to the altar. It's good news that you're not the fire. It takes the pressure off of you. You're not the healer. You're not the restorer. And any moment from morning to night or in the midnight hour, you can call upon the name of Jesus. you can surrender and you can experience the transformation of the slow burn.

When you surrender, a miraculous thing happens. The slow burn releases a fragrance. Smell has stang power. I was in Nashville recently. I rented a car. I picked the car up as soon as I opened up the car door. I was like, oh my goodness. There was an overwhelming smell, and they had not been burning incense.

It was a different type of slow burn that had taken place in that car. And I was driving around from meeting to meeting, and as I got out, I was thinking, oh, my goodness, this scent is all over me, and then it occurred to me. I've never met the person who was in this car before me. I wasn't with them when they decided to do this, but their decisions are all over me. And some of you today, you are living carrying a fragrance of what others have done to you. You're carrying the fragrance of the heartbreak. You're carrying the fragrance of the betrayal.

Or perhaps you're carrying the fragrance of your own shame, your own mistakes, your own regret, but I am thankful that Scripture tells us in 2 Corinthians chapter 2 verse 14, thanks be to God, who in Christ always leads us in triumphal procession and through us spreads the fragrance of the knowledge of him everywhere. For we are the aroma of Christ to God. Among those who are being saved and among those who are perishing. Hear me. Through us, God spreads the irresistible aroma of the gospel. You may have carried shame.

You may have carried fear. You may have carried the words that others spoke over you since you were young. But when you surrender your life to Christ, all things have passed away. All old fragrances have passed away. Behold all things. things are new. And now you've got a new fragrance. You're carrying the fragrance of faith. You're carrying the fragrance of goodness and gentleness and faithfulness and kindness and patience and people encounter you're not even be on the mountaintop. It might just be the valley

where others look at you and say there's something about them. I don't know what it is. I can't see it, but I sense it. It's because you carry the fragrance of Jesus. It's because you carry his goodness and his faithfulness. He has given you his grace to carry. And you are now the aroma of Christ. See, Jesus is the high priest. The temple, the altar, the incense.

It is only a shadow. Jesus is the substance. And Jesus did not sacrifice. He did not sacrifice any animal. He did not sacrifice anything else on the altar. He sacrificed his own blood. He didn't go into a man-made temple. He walked into the very presence of God in heaven. He sacrificed everything so that you would know today that through his blood he gives you the power to become. And today you can make an exchange. It's a beautiful exchange. You say, Don Sharia, I have nothing to put on the altar today but my tears. Well, today he says those who sow in tears will reap with shouts of joy. The tears that you sow will bring a harvest one day if you will keep waiting on the Lord in the slowburn. You say, Don Shri, if you could look at my life, it's just the ashes of defeat. It's the ashes of disappointment. Well, he promises us that he'll give you beauty for your He'll give you the oil of joy for your mourning. He'll give you a garment of praise. You say, Don Shiree, there's nothing that can be redeemed about this season I'm in. Or you can declare like the psalmist, this is the day the Lord is made.

I will rejoice right here in the slow burn. There's an exchange that is made on the altar, that everything that you have that is broken is put in his healing hands. And as we give him our all, something supernatural happens, our little transforms, and it doesn't just release a fragrance, but that which was stagnant and dormant and could only lay on the altar now transforms from the inside out and starts to rise. The incense could never move without being laid on the altar, but now it rises and it carries You see, the slow burn raises you to life because of Jesus. Jesus, Jesus, Jesus, there's just something about that name.

You're my master, my savior, Jesus, like the fragrance after. Oh, Jesus, he's my Jesus. He's your Jesus. And earth proclaim, they, there's something Jesus. He remains. He reages us. He renew an altar.

He raises us to us to. new incense doesn't look like it could go very far, but once it's placed on the altar, it ascends and its fragrance carries for miles. Lay it down to be raised up. Christ, that as I lay my life down, that's when I truly, I truly begin to live. They that wait upon the Lord, they shall renew their strength. They will mount up with wings like eagles. Again and again and again as you wait, you are raised to new life through the wind of His Spirit. He will carry you to places you could never go on your own. I think about my kids. My kids love for me to make paper airplanes.

I can make a mean paper airplane. I can make that thing fly. Give me a flat sheet of paper. I can turn it into a machine. But friends, you in the hands of God. You've never seen anything like when you entrust your life to the hands of God. You're looking at your season. You're saying this is so one-dimensional, this is so flat, this is so boring.

Why don't you just place it in the hands of the maker, the author, the finisher? You watch as he builds you like you could never ever. To life. I know what it feels like to wait for the wind. You know, in my life, when I was 25 years old, I went to a routine doctor's appointment. And at the doctor's appointment, been married for several years, trying to start a family, I'll never forget the doctor coming in and saying, don't sure your blood tests came back irregular.

You're going to have a hard time having a family. She sent me immediately to a specialist from my 25th birthday. That started an eight-year journey of walking through infertility. asking God to give us a child. Years of waiting, years of silence, years of feeling like I was in the wilderness while everyone else passed on all sides. Perhaps that's how you feel today. I want to encourage you because it was in the waiting that I discovered who God was. And it was in the waiting that I discovered who I am in.

him. And I didn't write this message after I had children. No, I wrote this message in the middle of the weight because the testimony of my life is not simply that God gave me children. The testimony of my life is that far before I ever had a child, God intervened in my weight. He woke me up with purpose. He gave me a destiny. He gave me a passion. He gave me a community to belong to. He met me at the altar. You're not waiting on a baby. You're waiting because make no miss for my children. But Jesus is my treasure. Jesus is my road. You can give me peace and fulfill. Because when my arms were empty, my heart was full in the slow burn. And he will do the same for you. And I would be remiss not to say, yes, God still does miracles. God didn't just give me one child. He gave me two, and then he gave me three, and then he gave me four. And so I want to speak faith straight to your spirit. God is still a healer. God is still a healer. God is still a Redeemer. He is able to move at any moment that he wants to. You just keep entrusting your life

to him in the slowburn. So grateful in the wait that I decided to open up my heart and be vulnerable with my community. In the slowburn, the same people that prayed for me on one side of the miracle are the same people that celebrated with me on the other side. You need community in the slowburn. Don't isolate, don't run away, don't shrink and hide. You plant your feet in the house of God. Those that are planted, they will flourish. But the truth is, we don't get everything that we pray for on this side of eternity. So what if it never happens? That thing that you're praying so earnestly for. What if it doesn't come to pass? I want to look in your eyes today and tell you, your life will not be wasted in the weight.

God always answers. He says yes, no, and he says wait. Don't be afraid of empty hands. Open hands, open heart leads to an open heaven. Right here, right now. God wants to transform your life in the slow burn. You say, Don Shree, what will the testimony of my life be? Your testimony will be, I waited on God and I saw his providence. I waited on God and I saw his protection. I waited on God and I saw his faithfulness. I waited on God in the slowburn. Would you bow your heads with me? Shut yourself away with God. Lord, thank you so much. that you are faithful. You're not a distant God, your loving Father. Thank you, Jesus, for laying down your life on Calvary 2,000 years ago, for pouring out your blood, for raising to new life three days later, so that we would know, even in the most impossible seasons, when our faith is tested and we feel like we're at the end, that you promise us, they that wait upon the Lord. shall renew their strength. They will mount up with wings like eagles. They will run and not grow weary.

They will walk and not faint. We need you, Lord. We open up our hearts to your love, to your peace, to your grace, here and now in the slowburn. In Jesus' name we pray, and everybody said, Amen, amen. Come on, church. You can do better than that. All of our churches tell D.C. Thank you. I can only imagine how prophetic this message is for some of you right now, in the middle of the wait. So what I want to do is just stay in an attitude of prayer. And I want to pray specifically for some of you. For those of you that would just say, yeah, that message was for me. I'm in the middle of the wait.

And I need the presence of God. I need the power of God. I need the provision of God in the weight. If that's you today, everybody looking around, doesn't matter because we're family here. We're community. each other, would you lift up your hands right now? You need the presence of God in the middle of the way. You can lift up your hands. All of our churches online, you can just type in the comment section. I need the presence of God in the way. If you want to leave your hand up, like as an act of worship,

feel free too. Father, I thank you for this word, for your living word. God, that we're not just waiting on the provision or the promise, but we're truly waiting on you and in your presence when we lay down. Even our desires, in our hurts and our disappointments, God, you'll raise us up with your power, your goodness. And so, God, I pray for your supernatural presence to comfort those that are waiting. God, to strengthen us, to renew our faith in you. God, that we wouldn't even be dependent on the outcome,

but we would be dependent on your presence, your goodness, your promises, that every word is true. And so Holy Spirit, do a work in us. God, draw us close. As we lean upon you, we cast our anxiety on you. God, we trust. in you with all of our heart and lead not on our own understanding God, but in all of our ways. We acknowledge you.

We depend on you. God, meet us in the wait. Meet us in the slow burn that we could know you and glorify you. We pray. Meet us, God. We pray in Jesus' name. As you keep praying today, you can just keep her eyes closed to different churches. And I want you to think about this.

You know how it feels to wait on someone or something. Imagine what if God is waiting on some of you? I want you to think for a moment. Where are you with God? If we could just sit down across my table and talk, some of you would say, I'm walking with him daily. I know I belong to him.

Others of you, you couldn't say that because you're not walking with him daily and you don't know him personally and intimately. I want to tell you about how good he is. He is a very relational God who loves you. It's not just how he feels about you. It's who he is. He is love.

and he loves you as you are, and he loves you so much, that he sent his one and only son, Jesus, the living son of God who was perfect in every way without any sin who died on a cross and God raised him from the dead so that you could know him, his presence, his goodness, his peace, experience the forgiveness for all of your sins, and walk in his joy and walk in his victory

and walk in his power being loved by his presence. If you don't know that, let me tell you what God is doing, The Bible says that he is very patient. In other words, he's waiting on you. He doesn't want anyone, the Bible says, to perish, but he wants to have everyone to have eternal life. What if God's waiting on you? How do you receive eternal life?

Well, you can't earn it. You can't work for it. The Bible says that very, very clearly. It's a gift. We just turn away and we let go of our sin that the Bible calls it repentance. We turn the other way, and we turn to Jesus. We call on him.

And when you confess his Lord's Jesus, The Bible says your sins will be forgiven, you'll be made new. And today there are those of you can sense it. This message is for you. God is waiting on you. You're ready to know him. You're ready to receive his forgiveness. You're ready to receive his joy, his life.

We're stepping away from our sin today. We're just calling on him. We're confessing our need for him. We're saying, Jesus, take me, save me, make me new. When you call on him, he'll hear your prayer. He'll forgive your sins. It'll make you new. Today there are those of you are here today.

For this moment, the Lord is waiting on you. and your answer is yes, I need you and I want you. If that's you today, wherever you're watching from, say, today I'm stepping away from my sins. I'm giving my life to Jesus. I'm receiving the free gift of salvation. My life is no longer my own. Jesus, I give it to you.

That's your prayer today. Would you say yes? Jesus, I surrender my life to you. Lift your hands right now and say, yes, I give my life. Lift your hands right now. All of our churches and say yes, as we have people today, all of our different churches saying, yes, Jesus. I surrender to you.

I give you my life on life. you can just type in the comment section. I'm surrendering my life to Jesus and today wherever you are. Would you pray aloud together? We are the family of God. Nobody prays alone. Pray Heavenly Father,

forgive all of my sins. Jesus save me. Fill me with your Holy Spirit so I could know you, so I could serve you, so I could show your love. My life is not my own. I give it all to you.

Thank you for new life. You have all of mine. In Jesus' name, I pray. Could you celebrate today, church? Welcome those born into God's family. Come on, come on, come on.