Lifeline - 23. Lonely Souls

Episode Date: September 11, 2022

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Oh, yeah, yeah, yeah. Snoop and Daz all big over the city. Pino, pino, pino, pino. Pino makes me think of penises, though. Okay, well, that's not what that song is about. I wonder what Freud would say about uh well i wonder what freud would say about that you know i'm saying uh so i noticed snoop dog um that you say do you want to know about me yes so what i've been doing uh i've had my first day of sessions giving advice advice to

you you go to mattalia.com book an appointment, 20 or 40 minutes. I had a full ass day. My first day was a full ass day. Gave some great fucking advice. Everyone that came to me, I appreciate you all. I love you all. You're all very sweet and cool and kind. And thank you.

Probably not all of them. Thank you. No, all of them. Probably not all of them. No, all of them. So far far so good i will say that probably one or two so get your appointment now and uh i'll tell you what we'll talk to you soon what uh it's very unprofessional last day i sit really nice i sit straight i've always sat straight okay but just so everyone knows he's like half an inch taller than me not eight inches taller than me what is is with this? No, dude. I'm an inch maybe taller than you.

Maybe. Maybe, yeah. But you know my podcast. Wow. My, what do you call it? Oh, wow. Can't talk. My posture is infinitely better than yours.

It is. Yeah, but look how pimping pimping it is when I chill back like this. But I'm pimping pimping too. I don't think you are. You look nervous. That's fine, but nobody sits more pimpin pimpin than i do and you know that well see now you leaned back into it like and you took me you took your page from me in the book i write on how to sit and you're being more pimpin pimpin around us opening a drink like this i like how dad takes a picture on vacation dude that when dad takes a picture

on vacation it's like he's trying to cram his arms yeah in as tight as he possibly can so if somebody was standing behind him it would look like he had no arms he's a contortionist yes dude he when remember he was on the gondola and we were doing like this and we were in italy and he was doing it like this he's like look at that's taking a picture and i didn't realize it when i realized that i laughed so hard yeah i i do remember that okay but also i sit very cool and and you know that dude a lot of people say i sit like bon jovi and a lot of people say i sit with no respect but that's not cool at all to have no respect for something let's let's all get this straight i agree with it is not cool to present as if you have no respect i i i think there's a difference between having no respect and being comfortable

within your own body, showing the respect you have for yourself and sitting the way you want to. Yes, got out of that one. How about me and Barney, though? No, no, no. We were going to talk about this. About Barney? Me and Barney?

No. I think sitting the way you want. I don't like when people are like, dude, sometimes I have my foot up on the bottom of a chair. All the time, dude. All the time. Oh, so I don't sit erect then. So I do sit chilling, chilling. Okay, fine. Okay, so I got you on that. But it's not pimping, pimping. You sit chilling, oh so i don't sit erect then so i do sit chilling chilling okay okay so i got you but it's not pimping pimping you sit chilling chilling you

don't have a pimping so my point is i have the foot up and people will be like take your foot off and they don't even fucking have anything to do with where we are it's just like i'm at a cafe and some customer is like dude you shouldn't have your foot on the thing and i'm like dude customers yeah yeah it's happened that's the last time it happened was a patient at a doctor's office i was at a doctor's office i had my foot up on the the seat part of the seat not it wasn't like on the wall or some shit like that when you say the seat part of the seat what do you mean the part you sit on that part so that person didn't want the the bottom of your shoe touching where his ass might

go her her ass of course her an old lady she was like i don't think you should be having your foot So that person didn't want the bottom of your shoe touching where his ass might go. Her. Her ass might go. Of course her. An old lady. She was like, I don't think you should be having your foot on the seat. Speaking of mean old ladies, dude, I got into an elevator. I was with someone. We were going down.

And it was a smaller elevator. There were two elevators. One was bigger. One was smaller. The small one came. And in this building, the elevators take a while. The old woman goes in because we obviously let her go, because we have fucking manners. Yeah, of course.

And then the two of us get in the elevator, too, because we want to get on the elevator. Of course, yeah. Okay? So we both walk on, and she's making a big production. And then before the doors close, she goes, two. Oh. And I said, I was like taking it back. I was like, sorry what and she says two

and then before i could even realize what she meant she just gets off the elevator and then i saw and then i realized she meant hit number two it only there only two people are allowed on this elevator because i decided that and as if i was supposed to know that to her she wanted only two of us on the elevator oh you're sure that's what she meant i'm positive how are you positive though because when we got when we got to the lobby again there's a tiny sign near the entrance that says something about the small elevator can only only two people can ride it but also that was like from the beginning of the pandemic oh this is like a fucking few weeks ago yeah anyway two wow dude that's horrible to do that i don't like when people are like that also i'll do it if you ask nice if she says excuse me of course dude are you

kidding me you're scared like of course i'll take the next one so would i of course i'll kick you out and make you take the next one two oh i'm sorry ma'am here why don't we i'll kick you out and make you take the next one. I was going to say. Two. Oh, I'm sorry, ma'am. Here, why don't we – I'll show you out. Just pick her up. Like this. Like this. Yep. Why are the two elevators different sizes? What kind of weird fun house were you in?

I don't know why. That there were two elevators different sizes. It was like a medical building. I think one was for big-ass things to be able to – Doctors, fat doctors. Oops, oops. Right. Well, I'm making a joke so we can interrupt, right? You're asking. oops right well i'll make it a joke right you're

asking yeah and then you're toppling me i'm asking and then immediately while i'm answered you're toppling me but that's because that's what humor i'm doing it with humor that's not and oops is like uninterrupted be like oh yeah by the way today no i think it is you ask me a question and immediately when i start answering you start toppling me what oh oh this shit behind the back no andrew dice no all right so um yeah don't go oops if i'm doing a joke dude do not do that i didn't i said oops oops yeah you're not gonna so it was two of them um i'll get we'll be honest with you guys if i was watching this podcast and this is the first time i watched the podcast i turn off and never watch

it again no way dude i think the opposite i would be like what is this podcast i'd be like these guys are fucking annoying look at that guy's pink shirt it's great i got white shorts on with fucking purple writing on it send you know if you're lucky you'll be able to see that who knows who knows what might happen the rest of this hour yeah you could see my shorts stay tuned worst stay tuned you might see my shorts after these messages we'll be right back dude hell yeah all right so uh do you want to get into it or what it's already too hot so i'm fucking that's awesome i'm not that i'm always hot i'm not hot right now there's been a heat wave in los angeles there's 108 degrees the other day it was 108 degrees dude let me tell you something i hate when you talk about the weather and someone's like

oh are we so boring we talk about the weather motherfucker when it's 108 degrees yeah yeah you you weren't even digesting what i was saying at that point and i have an issue with it i wasn't no i didn't even hear you there we go yeah so no i was not only not digesting it i didn't even hear you. There we go. Yeah. So no, I was not only not digesting it, I didn't even put it in my mouth. In my mouth? Digesting. I'm using your metaphor. I said it was 108 degrees. As I was saying it was 108 degrees,

you were going, and then when I was done talking, you said it was 108 degrees. I already said that part. So basically what you were doing was not listening to me and then being redundant. I listened to you and I knew what you were going to say.

And I took the deep breath in so I could hit it right when you finished saying the word degrees. Yes. It's shitty. It's not shitty. It's good. It's kind of like what dad does, actually. Yeah, I know. You know what I mean?

I know. And we both agree that we what? We hate that. Okay, yeah. All right. Now I kind of like it though after years of hating it it's like tradition you know what i'm saying well yeah okay i get it all right so look let's go i'm gonna uh you know we're gonna i got crazy good advices we don't know

what the videos are yet but let's do it dude we'd like to get our fresh take on it let's go number one hello chris and matt this is Juliet. And I am 49 years old. I'm Cuban. I live in Miami, Florida. I've been a fan of Chris for many years. And now I love the both of you. Thank you. I have a question.

I get fired from every job I have. Wow. When I'm about to get my period, I lose my temper. And that gets me in trouble. Now, a few people suggested that I do a podcast and also OnlyFans. Now, my question is, in 49, is it too late for OnlyFans? She's beautiful. Look at her.

Ow. What do you guys think? Absolutely not too late. Thank you. That's not too late. She's beautiful. But also, even if she wasn't so beautiful, it's not too late. 49 is not.

Dude, there are men who have specific fetishes for women way older than that. My whole thing is, oh, you're acting like there's not lonely souls. That are your age. Yeah, but you're acting like there's not lonely souls in this fucking planet of eight billion people you don't think fucking 25 lonely souls why are you saying it like that we'll we'll fucking sign up for your only fans and give you 20 bucks a month how many and that's yaper dude how many i'm just saying you can find 20 lonely souls to just fucking subscribe to your only fans but also podcasts way different than an only fan just you know podcast way harder yeah showing your tatas i mean

no way easy if you want to do a podcast do it but you're gonna make if you're talking about jobs and lifestyle and living wage of cost of living shit yeah the only fans is the way to go okay yeah do the podcast as well and pump up the podcast on your only fans push people while you're naked one feeds the other pushing push them towards the podcast you get more viewers more listeners yeah also anyone who sounds like this that's from the south of miami absolutely pops off at the mouth and gets fired so that i mean you know what i mean like that there's no way dude she's like a like a classic like a hundred percent firecracker thing yeah yeah i mean you could see her being like well that's actually not how you're going to talk to me right now i'm out of here and walks away with blood blood like dripping down her leg i know

but her shit her shit not me i know her shit she did it but i paint images right so we're gonna get on because i paint images? That's too gross. It's not gross. It's natural. It's beautiful. So you're sexist. Yes, got to do that one. It's not gross.

It's graphic and crass. So beautiful red liquid. And one thing about me is that I'm not crass. So then beautiful red liquid, not blood. What? How would I make it? It happens. It's natural.

So how would I say it to make it not crass? You wouldn't say it. That's how it would work best. So we're denying it. So again, you're sexist. No. Yes, got to do that one. It's beautiful and it it's natural some women rub it on their faces but i'm not saying she's also not from the south of florida she's from cuba obviously that's why i'm saying i

was trying to not be racist about the whole popping off at the mouth thing you know cubans you were racist anyway okay but cubans go like this you actually not gonna talk to me like that yeah yeah you know what i mean and uh cubans fucking rule let's get they rule yeah oh they rule okay but they also you know they pop off at the fire they're passionate they're passionate exactly everything good and also bad like they'd be like wow this food is so amazing i can't believe it what i'm tasting right now this is unbelievable i love this food it's so good and you're like all right yeah it's very good just relax but i can't stop thinking about that shit and then when some falls

off the plate they're all you fucking piece of shit. Flip the plate over. Fuck all this place. Never coming again. I'm saying passion on everything, right? I fuck up. I'm a stupid motherfucker. Both extremes, yeah. And so, yeah.

So you can start an OnlyFans. It depends. You need to figure out what kind of OnlyFans you want to do, right? You want to show your boobs or your feet, right? Totally different stories. You get more money for your boobs obviously right because of why i don't know how many people lonely souls yeah i know what is

that i don't know dude i do not understand the foot fetish thing so many men have that shit dude and i'll tell you what i don't understand it and i'll tell you what i've tried what do you mean i've sat there and looked at feet and been like let's try and work this out you know work this out because it will be nice to have a fucking kinks are nice you got a kink that's an extra thing in your life there's certainly nothing wrong with them but to try to have a kink is not going to work kinks the whole thing about a kink is that it's like ah i can't help it it's like i love fucking you know uh belly buttons or whatever the fuck, you know? I do like belly buttons, but yeah. Okay. But yes, you can start with the podcast.

Try a podcast. It might be okay. You keep getting fired. Become your own boss. That's what she's getting at. She's getting at. Become your own boss. You don't even realize you may be getting at that.

Become your own boss. Start a business. You can do a, you know know you could sell stuff on fucking whatever it is or do only fans which is what she's already volunteering she might want to do the answer is all signs fucking go do the only fans yes do the podcast yes but what i'm saying is she might not be realizing that the true thing she wants is just to be her own boss she might not want to start a podcast so i'm just saying think about that for a little bit, and those are my advices. But if the question is simply, am I too old

to do an OnlyFans? No. Absolutely not, even at all. And you know why? Lonely souls? Okay, right. But also age, not only does it not matter in this context, or really many contexts, unless it's like athletics, there are specifically men, and maybe even

women out there too, who have specific kinks or fetishes for older women 49 is not even that old no it's not old no but yeah like there's porn sites out there that are like 42 is not old either women like 70 year old women you know yeah i know yeah and they make money dude yeah they're driving around in fucking night you know the nice version of a fucking whatever the nicest version is of like a buick a lower end car yeah oh oh i thought you meant like an old well they're not driving fucking uruses around town you know what i mean they're not making that much money they're not driving your rethros around town what is it yours with the tits flopping around below their belt okay okay so when i talk natural you get disgusted

when i talk natural when when i talk beauty you know an older woman has okay so their boobs are perky what do you want me to do a lot you said tits flapping around below the belt how oh see well that's yeah you could and it's gross but no i didn't say that and ages you're putting words in my mouth uh but anyway uh not even close to too old no regrets no way congrats on that yeah you did it cool and also she looks fantastic for 49 yeah that's great so good job good job on that keep going do do keep doing what you're doing next what's good matt and chris chris and matt um calling in today because I need some advice on living single ah living what I'm I'm at the point in my life now where I'm starting to realize like maybe I'm the problem you know it's a deeper

but been there for sure like I'm just tired of the cycle that I have with dating women like getting to know them and i've i've pretty much ruined every relationship i could i could have had or had and i'm at the point where i'm just tired of it you know like i'd much rather be by myself if i can't woke up and still get lonely so i'm trying to i want to see like do you guys think it's possible to get to a point where you're so in tune and just got it together so well with yourself where to the point where you no longer lust after romantic relationships or even care about them anymore? Like, oh, wow. You guys think it's possible to get to that point being single? And if you do, how do you go about doing that? God damn. I mean, love some feedback from you guys.

Appreciate the pod. Keep killing it. Love y'all both. Peace out, man. Thank you, bro. Thanks, dude. He's asking, to be clear, could you be in a point where you're not- You're so comfortable-

Lusting after, got it. Oh, man, this is me. Look, this is me. Wishing I was in your boat. That's me. In another boat, just that's me in another boat just wishing you could be like that fuck yeah dude okay well here's the thing happy with nothing is it okay to be that way absolutely 100 can you live a life like that absolutely 100 however we are social animals and we do at certain points sometimes for some people all the time for other people people probably like you, and frankly, also like me, it's like less. You want or need that less than maybe most people.

So you can go long periods about being single, maybe go on a date here and there, or maybe even not. Who knows what this guy's talking about? But I think that it's absolutely possible if that's how you want to live your life but what i would absolutely say i can't emphasize this enough do not rule out a potential relationship because you're so what you have a word you might call dedicated to being alone and single that to me to me, when you go over the line, it crosses the line when you're like, no, I am absolutely always going to be single. And I decided that, and I will never have a partner. That is crossing into a new territory. Talk about it's a deeper. But it's

unhealthy. It's unhealthy, dude. It's not being real with yourself. Sometimes we do want a relationship, but we need to remain open to it, even if you actually really would rather be single, which I totally do get. Go ahead. By the way, I've never been so sure that somebody has woken up an hour and a half before the video. You know, I just said that and I didn't. I don't know. You can tell with his face.

I don't know if I agree with you. It's on the back end of being puffy from waking up. You can tell. Okay. Also, he couldn't look more like he's from 1995 and it's all good but that is a 1995 face and that is amazing dude interesting he couldn't look like if i met him in 1995 i wouldn't think of anything different i would just be like hey dude that's a guy you know what i mean okay and now what do you think now i go, what's he doing now? Right. He took a time machine. Yeah, yeah, yeah. Okay. So that guy is fine.

I mean, I never can tell. Honestly, I can't tell how old black people are. I have no idea, dude. Dude, I can't tell how old anyone is. White people I can do, and that's pretty much it. I can't tell, dude. I don't know how old anyone is. Why are you looking at my hair so much?

I wasn't. Okay. at my hair so much i wasn't okay but but but but black people are like either so 25 for so long or just have been 60 forever like morgan freeman so that guy is 30 or he looked young i mean he could could be 22 again i'm bad at guessing everyone person everyone's age in the fucking world i would guess that guy is like early 30s yeah okay well it could be in his late 20s for sure yeah i know 100 um i i think that just careful how selfish you are you know uh make sure you're doing it because you feel comfortable and not necessarily it's gonna be a little selfish do it it because you feel comfortable and not necessarily it's gonna be a little selfish

do it so because you feel comfortable not because you don't want anyone else not because you don't want love fucking your life up right like you don't want to be fucking matt damon and uh uh the movie good will hunting right sorry i'm fucking allergic to i didn't want you to sneeze just now uh that's okay ah it's crazy and um didn't want that at all okay though dude wow and uh yeah dude i i feel like uh you can be open to it without being like nah fuck that you know yeah i mean you can really get into this zone where this is why i said it was unhealthy you can get in the zone where you're talking to yourself all day about it and convincing yourself that you'd like it more being single when really you're just afraid to get in another one and fuck it up and

feel that pain of that. Don't be afraid of that. But also, you're clearly aware that you're the, as you put it in the beginning of the video, you might be the problem. That is an amazing step on the way to actual happiness with a partner. So if you do get back out there, keep that in mind. And if things come up that remind you of things in the past, how maybe you would have handled something before, think about how to handle it in a different way, how you might handle it in a way that isn't going to ruin the relationship. I mean, you definitely, there's going to be people out there that you do date and want to date.

Try some new version of yourself that is comfortable for you hello how are you uh well when you like to eat i always pick yeah you just be british um but yeah i think uh it's okay to be alone and single but you can go over a line you gotta be careful with yourself keep an eye on yourself yourself, so to speak. At 49, he's going to be like, should I start a podcast on OnlyFans? All right, let's do it. Next. Hi, guys.

I'm from France, so I'm sorry for the mistakes. Cool. I need your advice on my situation. But it turns out that a few weeks ago, you already gave advice to a guy who was in the exact same situation as I am right now. I am still a virgin at 25. The advice we gave the guy a few weeks ago was to be more social

and to get on dating apps. I am already on dating apps. I've been for 10 years, but it's difficult to make meaningful connection on there. Then to be more social, okay okay but i have social anxiety okay i'm dealing with it i'm in therapy everything is working great still i don't go out much i like to be at home i don't drink i don't like parties so yeah now here's my problem uh i don't know how to act around men they make me uncomfortable once if i like them i'm gonna be uncomfortable i don't know how to act so when they try to flirt with me i go away

you know i'm scared because i know that i have to tell them that i am a virgin and i am scared of their reactions so i'd rather just bye and then if i have to explain it there's gonna be questions like why are you a virgin how why what's the catch with you nothing okay i'm just anxious you have to live with with that like you're a virgin and maybe you won't find someone who will understand accept you and take the time to teach you everything there is to know. Most people are impatient. They want to sleep with me before getting to know me.

So what's your advice? What's your advice? There's a few things going on there. Don't say to be social and to get on dating apps. Why do you need to tell them beforehand? This is your shit. You run the show. You run the show.

Yeah. Well, I think she would want to. I think that's fair to want to say that to someone before you have sex with them. I guess so. That you're a virgin. I mean, I totally get that. But I would say, though, there's a few things to that. But one of them I want to get out of the way.

And this is something I've come across a lot because i actually feel the opposite but so many men that i know would love specifically to meet a virgin and start a relationship with a virgin i feel the opposite yeah oh right because they get jealous of the past and stuff like they'll be like oh who else are you talking about fetishes it's like a the men fetishize this idea of like someone new to sex they get to be their first person it's like that's as old as fucking i mean i talk about you know they do that in the tutors all the time like they were like well i won't marry her if she's been deflowered you know what i mean right i finished the tutors it's very old-fashioned it's okay in my opinion oops about the tutors all the time but it's not it's well i'm done with it okay i

finished it and it was not that good at the end got worse i know it was very boring the end got very boring okay season one was bad season two was okay three was fine and was bad and no one cares about any of it but they were like well they were like you know they always want they could they he fucking beheaded a woman because he thought that she slept with someone before whoa that he was you know so he was pissed she yeah he was like you and and and she didn't even she just he he thought that and he wrongfully accused yeah so that's i'm just saying that is a bummer right and you're living in a time now where that doesn't happen you run the show dude you let yourself um because here's the thing you're 25 it gets to a point where you now it's like you want to do it but it's like this thing you know i'm saying and you're

already kind of there so i'm not saying do it to get it over with but yeah you might be looking for that perfect first time that doesn't exist. That does not. Yeah. I can vouch for that. It just doesn't exist. Yeah. Right. Yeah.

I knew a very beautiful woman who was a virgin into her early 30s. And she just kind of like this woman was saying, she just never met a guy that she felt comfortable doing with it. And then, as you said, at a certain point, it became this big thing that was like she was too hyper aware of it that it would get in the way of her starting new relationships.

But I think telling a guy is going to be fine. A lot of guys are going to like that. So get that out of the way. Put that out of your mind. Second of all, them asking you why, why, why why just say exactly what you said to us because i'm socially awkward and i never had a relationship where i felt comfortable doing that that is totally fine and normal nothing wrong with that nothing wrong with that nobody would think there's something

wrong with that uh but the social anxiety thing what i would say about when men flirt with you and you get skittish and go away, even if you like them, if you like them and they're flirting with you, practice one thing and that is keeping your feet where they are. Don't slide away. Don't skittle away because it's easier. Just stay there.

And if you get uncomfortable, it's okay because I promise the guy there is attracted to you and wants you to stay there too. Yeah. You know what I mean? Sometimes it's easier to control your body than it is to control your mind. Oh, for sure. Just keep your feet where they are. Keep it simple. Keep your feet where they are. When I first started doing standup, I was like, how am I going to get on that stage? And I literally thought if I just move my feet forward step by step to the stage, I'll be on the stage and then I'll have to start talking and i did that i didn't think about it i was just like one step

two step come on keep going keep going i got on stage is that true yeah whoa yeah tell that story that's fucking weird huh yeah that you said that and i i've thought that for years yeah it's funny kind of like you're copying me but yeah no you do the one step i'm talking about counting the steps you did that oh weird yep i was like come on keep going dude you got this okay yeah keep your feet firm i mean if not like always when a guy's hitting on you if you don't like him get the fuck out of there matt's head uh but yeah you long term you're not gonna have a fucking problem you're like a sweet funny personable young woman. Also, 25 really is not that old.

It's not that old. Yeah. All right. Next. Oh, my God. What's up, Matt and Chris? You guys get a lot of advice questions about dating coworkers, and I just want to get my input on that since seven years ago, I asked a coworker to go on a date with me, and I

think it's definitely okay to date co-workers as long as you read the situation. He's married. And you never know where it might lead to. It led to him never wearing a shirt. Don't be creepy. It led to me not being able to hang my pictures up. She seems to be into you.

Why not ask her out and just save the universe. But say hi to Nala and thanks for the show save the universe hi nala what i would say to you hang your pictures up first of all 2015 ain't 2022 buddy what does that mean it means it was a lot easier oh yeah yeah yeah but obviously that's what i meant and the fact that you asked you what i meant pisses me i didn't know that he met her in 2015. But he said seven years ago. Okay, well, so I don't do the math and I didn't know what he meant. Should have before you asked what I meant.

I assumed what you meant. I wanted to make sure, dude. It's always good to make sure. I don't like that. I don't like that. It is different. I don't think it's wrong. I just think you got to be a lot more careful now to do it.

Exactly, yeah. Because, you know, people will be like, hey, fire this guy. Yeah, you can't willy-nilly do it. You can't be a fucking even remotely like a creep. You just got to be way, way, way more careful and smarter and not be like, if you only do it, this is the ultimate advice. And I think I even said this at the time. Only do it if you really feel there is an actual connection and it could turn into a

real relationship. Yeah, but guys are crazy though. What? Guys are crazy though. So are women. What do you mean? Yeah, because they'll be like, oh, this is a fucking,

this means something. And they're like, she's like, who's that guy? That's not, it's not about already believing you have a special, I'm saying if you only do it, only go to that far,

if you believe so far as to ask someone to go out with you at work, if you believe there's a potential long-term relationship that's all i'm saying uh yeah yeah we're not just trying to fuck you're saying i mean no i would say it's a little bit more specific than that it's not just trying to runk not just it's not just it's not not just trying to runk it's like you're you're you're foreseeing more than just like like there's somebody you really, really like. Not just some willy-nilly girl you think is pretty.

My point is, how many friends do you have that are like, oh man, she's awesome. I can see a real connection. And you're like, okay, bro. But that's not the point. I have two. You can't make these guys unplug their radars. They still have to trust something.

I guess, yeah. Try to avoid it at all costs. But also, it would be hilarious if she went to his work now and was like, he fucking hit on me. And he'd be like, you have two kids. Yeah. She's like, it doesn't matter. Maybe uncomfortable.

You should fire him. Yeah. They would fire him. That's how twisted now is. Well, people would be so confused though. But that's how twisted now is. In 2015, they would be like, get the fuck out of here. You have two kids.

Now, there will be like a fucking op-ed written about you. You know what I mean? Interesting. I'm just saying interesting all right interesting hey guys so my husband's band is going to be recording in los angeles for 10 days in december so i'm going to be tagging along and bringing our five month old baby so i am asking what can i do for 10 days in los angeles a five-month-old baby? Chris, is there anywhere you like to take Calvin?

I really hope you guys answer this because the Google searches are bullshit. So please, please let me know. I really need things to do for those 10 days. Thanks, guys. I think there's a lot of cool parks. I know that Google might not show you. They'll show you where the parks are. But it's so cool because the weather's nice.

I don't know where you live. But the weather will be breezy and crisp. It might be a little too cold in December. Sorry, when did she say she was coming? December. Oh, December. And if he's five months now, he'll be seven months. There's other cool places.

I don't know what you have or where you're from. But the Tar Pits is awesome. The Tar Pits is amazing. I went to the Tar Pits and Calvin fucking loved it. There's a video out there that I did bringing Calvin to the, surprising Calvin is called on my YouTube. And that's cool. But my son loves dinosaurs.

She said it was a son. I don't remember what she said. I don't know. I think so. But yeah. And there's like also the Museum of Tort or museum of pain oh that's not good yeah go that yourself leave the kid home yeah yeah um but also it's just 10 days so do tar pit um what else what's your favorite park to take common there's, well, I don't want to fucking, well, you know, people show up. Right, right, right.

Yeah. I don't know. I don't know. I mean, there's the LA Zoo. Yeah. For sure. But I always feel bad with zoos. Whatever.

Yeah, I know. I'm just saying. He's seven months old. It exists. It's there. Oh, what about the Gene Autry Museum with all the Western stuff? I mean, seven months is so young. Seven months is so young, yeah.

You know what? It doesn't matter what you do with a seven month old. Yeah, young it's so young yeah you know what it doesn't matter what you do with the seven yeah exactly yeah you know it really doesn't it's for you do the stuff you want 100 yeah because the seven month first of all they're not gonna remember anything yep okay second of all they're not even gonna know what they're looking at just pick something with bright colors dude yep go see you know get a dvd of rio and just fucking watch it in the hotel yeah it's like it's just not yeah i think that you know i don't think it matters i fucking was even now my son's two and a half and he's just like today his whole

thing was taking a squeaky dog toy that's a lion and bopping a fucking oh i love that though that game bopping a fucking t-rex and laughing like hell i love bopping a fucking t-rex so uh so yeah he also came down this morning and said smells like fucking poop are you fucking serious and we were like we just go we just go right did you hear about what he said that's fucking crazy oh yeah yeah yeah but that was that the first time he said that's the first time he said crazy yeah fucking yeah and so now what he just says it all the time crazy it was really funny. It smells like fucking poop. What? That's what the nanny said. What do you do?

I say, it smells like poop. And then he says, it smells like poop. He says, no, no, no. It smells like fucking poop. Yeah. How does he know what? I don't know. What?

We say it enough. He probably thinks of it just as it's a word for emphasis. Oops. You jinxed me. I didn't. I didn't do anything except say the word at the same time. You said the same word while I was saying it as if we were going to do a duet. I didn't say jinx.

You said emphasis. When I said emphasis. I said emphasis. So, yeah. So, I think just do what you want to do, dude. First of all, Google is terrible. Seven months, though. They don't know anything, dude.

Just keep them at the hip and go to CBS. Yeah. All right. Hey, Chris. Hey, Matt. Thanks for doing this podcast. It's something to look forward to every single week. Chris, it's a gift to have you back.

So welcome back. Thanks for the laughs. So recently had a situation where I found out that my cousin got married and nobody called me, texted me, invited me to the wedding. That's hilarious. I've been told it's a small wedding, but that's not really what I want to hear. Growing up as an only child, these were my brothers and sisters all involved in that side of the family. And it's kind of hurtful to not be considered to attend that wedding. Caveat, I live in Tampa, Florida. They live in Providence, Rhode Island for some reason. And I always make the trip up for family event funeral wedding you name it and i would have been

there so do i say something or do i let it go big believer in letting it go but i also think that i could have a conversation with them that wouldn't be confrontational so curious to hear your thoughts on that situation thank you guys both chris see you in lakeland fuck you lakeland we'll be there for some reason um let me say something i have a good thing to say but go ahead and then i'll it's not even about the advice okay when he's when his face came up uh-huh i was like this guy's hardcore motherfucker is gonna be so hard-assed oh really he opened his mouth and that he's like the sweetest oh fucking most respectful guy yeah not even trying to fucking one-up you but i knew it was going to be sweet i love him i love him okay okay i'm i want to marry him okay well and we're gonna get married and not invite you can't do that in florida so you're not gonna invite his cousin

uh that's funny good job on doing that i didn't think of it but um so mad it's fine i should have thought of it but uh i think the thing is if you should maybe bring it up if you feel like you're close to them and you should have been invited bring it up but here's how i think you bring it up dude no no this is actually good i think i'm giving good advices right now we'll see you say listen i know you didn't invite me to the wedding that's your deal you decide that understood i want to know if there's something that i'm not privy to or lacking in in this relationship that warrants me not being invited because i feel like i would have invited you to mine and i just wonder where your head's at do you know what i mean i don't like that i want you to digest it after the podcast you're gonna love it so you're saying you

don't like it is actually not the case and it's a little disrespectful to do that i think that puts you in a precarious position with that person because that person can can start to get uh defensive because they feel like you're putting a guilt trip on them. No, no, no. But I don't think, okay, so that's why I say this. I don't think this guy would make it seem guilt trippy. Maybe, maybe. That's why I say it to this guy. Okay, fair enough.

But what I would suggest is just saying plain and simple, why are you doing that? Fucking flexing. I feel the moment. I think that you should just plain, especially as you said, it wouldn't be awkward. It would be fine. He thinks he could bring it up with them.

I think you just plainly say, hey, I don't want to make this weird at all, but I think about it sometimes. And I just wanted to ask you, so I don't have to think about it anymore. Can you just tell me why you didn't invite me to the wedding? It'll be fine no matter what. I really would love to know. Yes. And that is good. Do that. Literally fly to the yes and do that is good do that

literally fly to the wedding to do that and ask him that in a suit already oh wait the wedding didn't already happen no no and do it and do it with tears in your eyes well yeah for sure if the wedding didn't happen then definitely do that get on your knees and you're not yeah i just need to know crying do you ever think about sometimes what if these people call in and they're just an absolute lunatic and the people they're talking about, they don't even exist? No. I've thought of that. But I do think about it if they're waiting to get our advice and the minute they see it aired, they just do it right away. Oh, yeah.

Oh, do our advice? Yeah. Oh, that's hilarious. No, I think they probably don't take our advice anyway. Yeah, no, me too. But they should. Yeah, they should. They should take my advice for sure.

Yeah, and mine. My mind. Sometime. Like 30% you, 100% me. Okay. 100%. Okay, what's up? Hi, Matt and Chris.

Really love your show. So here's my dilemma. Recently, I convinced my boyfriend to stop drinking because he's had a long-term problem with alcohol and he's been doing really great hasn't been drinking for months but I still work part-time at a bar and I have late nights that I work sometimes I'll stay out I'll drink with somebody's yeah and I know that he resents me that I get to drink and he doesn't. So I'm trying to decide, should I stay in the job this year and get the paycheck and hang out with my friends? Or should I quit my job for the winter and stop drinking in solidarity with my boyfriend?

Would love some advice. Thank you. That's really sweet that you're even thinking of that. It is very honorable to do that. At the end of the day, since you're dealing with addiction, this all has to do with

him being able to do this. I think in the beginning, if he's not going to a facility and if he's trying to quit drinking, I don't know if he's an addict or not, but if he's trying to not drink and And if he's trying to quit drinking, I don't know if he's an addict or not. But if he's trying to not drink and you say he's doing a good job, then he might be able to handle it. But I think just keep it in mind.

Like I think that eventually he has to stay clean because he wants to, not because of anything that you're doing. You guys obviously are not in a toxic relationship. And if he's the one with the drinking problem, you're not. You guys obviously are not in a toxic relationship and if he's the one with the drinking problem you're not you don't have to do anything like that but i do understand her yeah you know it's like yeah i do i do understand that and that is very very honorable and if you do feel like you can do it and you feel like it would be a thing that you would bring you guys closer then maybe you do do it you know if you're not hurting for money and you don't need to have that job, then, you know.

But also, real life is real life. And if you do need money and that's the job you have, then he has to understand that. That's what I was going to say. I mean, it's a job we're talking about. It's not a certain kind of social event. Right, right, right.

This is how you make a living, I'm assuming. And so for him to resent you for having a certain job to make money to support you or the both of you or whatever, I think that would be sort of out of line for him to resent you for that. Yeah. I also think, I mean, maybe I don't know because I've never worked at a bar, but is it possible to not drink there? Yeah, you could not drink. And then, I mean, they did it in Cheers. You could not drink and then just go home they did it in cheers you could not drink

but uh and then just go home and not that's what i mean like yeah that means much harder obviously i know but i mean i what i'm saying is i don't go to a gym and not fucking destroying reps okay well i don't think that i don't think the thing is there i'm gonna fucking rep it out either quit or continue to work and drink i don't think those are the only two options. I think you have another option is don't quit and stop drinking. And I think if you're worried about him, that would mean the most to him. If you sacrifice drinking, even though the, whatever you want to call it, temptation or allure is there and you're denying it for the sake of solidarity, that would absolutely mean the most to him. Now, if that's not even an option, then I think you shouldn't, probably shouldn't actually quit your job.

No, yeah. Unless, again, you do have the complete financial stability. You don't need that job. Right. But yeah, I don't think that him resenting you for keeping your job and behaving the way you've always behaved at that job,

when you don't have a drinking problem, like he does, ostensibly, I'm assuming, then I think that's a bit much for him to resent you for that. And if he does, he should bring that up with you, and then you guys work it out. So, no, I don't think you should quit. Could you imagine me going into fucking Iron Paradise

and not pressing it out? Iron Paradise is a gym? Yeah. And pressing it out is bench pressing yeah or other presses yeah yeah i can imagine that it wouldn't happen oh i'm saying you're asking me if i can imagine it i say yes if we're in a relationship me and you okay you can't go to the gym for fucking three weeks because no for three months because you got a surgery yeah okay could you imagine me being like okay and then driving by every day to work i go by the iron paradise and not stopping

in and just pressing it out for 20 minutes i can completely imagine that you can imagine me not 100 even body weight stuff anything it would never happen so my point is in solidarity with you i might be like i'm not gonna go to the gym but i also might be like i'm not going to the gym and still drive by crunch a few days and just rep it out really quickly. And not tell you about it, but you won't be able to tell because I don't stink of anything. Because in alcohol, you stink of alcohol. That would be dishonorable though, what you did. It would be, but also I'm helping your addiction.

I'm helping your addiction. That's true. You'd be lying for a good cause. And you'd also be like, what's up with the traps, dude? I noticed something. Then exactly, you get caught. You go like this. I thought we were in this together.

I know we were in this together, but it's like your shoulder's going for a week? No. So what's the deal? No. No. Are you,

I'm going to ask you a point, Blake, are you driving by crunch, stopping in for 20 minutes, and pressing it out? So dumb, you know you're gonna be all sweaty with a tank top on one of those low ones where you can see my nipples and i'm just like nipples no with a gym bag all right all right cool what's up man chris appreciate what you guys do. Chris, definitely been down for a long time.

Matt, I love the podcast that you used to have. So quick question. I'm the youngest 41-year-old that you guys know. There you go. But I still have a huge sneaker habit. Whoa. You know? Whoa.

Oh, that's nice. And my question for you guys is, 41-year-olds, should I still have a big sneaker habit? Should I sell these away and use them for things towards the house other adult type things i love them though i'm a huge sneaker guy chris i know you're a sneaker guy matt i'm not so sure but kind of curious what you guys think so uh oops you hey dude so disrespectful you think disgusting uh hey dude you think the off-white So disrespectful. You think? Disgusting. Hey, dude. You think? The Off-White Futura Collab-a? You think?

You good? You good now? The Off-White Futura Collab-a. Watch out with the drink, dude. Okay, but I'm saying. Just a tempting fate so hard. My point is, and I don't even wear black with light shoes, so you got to- Why not?

Because I don't like the way it looks, but- You're doing it right now. I had to wear them. Okay. I could have wore a light- light shoes. So you got to. Why not? Because I don't like the way it looks. But you're doing it right now. I just kind of had to wear them. Okay. I could have wore a light. Stop throwing your shoe on the table. I wore a light shirt last time. I didn't want to wear a light shirt this time.

But I wanted to wear these. I can see that. So I just go like this. Nope. Oh, in a sitcom. You think? A sitcom about shoes. So dude, bro, does it spark joy?

You watch Marie Kondo? Does it spark joy? If it sparks joy, it sparks joy keep them you got those grateful deads those are beautiful dude i wish i had the ones he was showing the green ones yeah nice and so does it spark joy also here's the other thing that i always wonder about shoe shoe guys and and and because i'm 42 and people are like why do you wear the heat you know what i mean like why do you fucking wear the heat bro put on some loafers or whatever the fuck 42 year olds wear no one says why you were in the heat but why did they do they go oh you got that you oh it's what are you walking on coals they go like does it hurt right yeah well how about them blisters buddy i know what you're saying dude no one says it but the whole thing is you don't get money until you're older and when and heat is expensive okay you can't afford those grateful debts when you're older. And heat is expensive.

Okay. You can't afford those Grateful Deads when you're 23. Okay. You can afford them now, dude. How much, when he held up the shoe, how much are they? That shoe? Yeah. I mean, at least 600 bucks, I think.

Let me see. They might be, I don't know what they are now. That's a lot of money. Yeah, it is. I don't care. About shoes, yeah. About shoes. money yeah i don't care about shoes about shoes so i but i but i still agree with chris if you love it i mean unless you're hurting for money which is possible but if you love it keep the collection and don't sell them if you're hurting for money obviously fucking sell them because their shoes so size seven is nine hundred dollars size oh size 10 is which is the most common is 960 bucks dude uh my size which they make one of per

shipment which is 13 because i got a fucking you know i'm in charge when it comes to the downstairs area okay um 1890 what yeah size size 13 and that's a fucking large and like two fucking g notes i mean but we're talking about from my belly button to my knees it's cramped three legs it's cramped you need a third shoe so it's like 2700 total yeah uh wow that's so expensive yeah sometimes i there was one time where i'm not trying to brag, but my shit gets so crowded down there that one time- Sounds like a brag is coming. No, it's not a brag.

But one guy, there was a guy, I was just sitting on a fucking, I was waiting on a plane, and I was waiting on a plane. I was in the fucking terminal, and I was waiting. I was delayed. And dude, this guy next to me kept putting a fucking camera on my head. And I'm like, what are you doing, dude? Finally, the the first time i was like get out you know what the fuck you know and i just can't be i must be crazy why would a guy put a camera on my head that's a great question yeah and i and and he finally kept putting the camera on my head and i go hey buddy what are

you doing and he goes whoa he got scared and i was like shocked he was was so scared. He said, I'm sorry. I thought you were a tripod. And I said, oh, yeah, you know. So he was like, I get it. You're crowded downstairs. And I go, and I was like, oh, so you didn't even know I was human. That's why he got scared when I started talking. He said, yeah, because tripods don't talk. Oh, okay. I don't believe you that that happened guys try to put cameras on my head all the fucking time just twisting it twisting it in on top of trying to twist you

around i was running and he was like how's this guy keep moving that is so stupid wow if a guy picks me up they instantly think that guy's a cameraman okay well no one ever picks you up because what the fuck no one ever picks you up no one ever picks up an adult male human um but yeah okay what did he ask again oh. I don't even know who the person was. I got so lost. What was it? The shoes. Oh, yeah, yeah, yeah. Unless you need money, don't sell them.

You love the shoes. You love the shoes. Keep them. Make you happy. This life sucks. Wow. Find the things that make you happy and hold on to them to your time. I ain't fucking.

You're talking about this life sucks. People think I'm a fucking tripod. Okay. Yeah, it's true. It's tough. Anyway. All right. Next one.

Hey, Matt. Hey, Chris. So close. Huge fan of the podcast. You guys literally keep me sane while I'm at true. It's tough. Anyway, all right, next one. Hey, Matt. Hey, Chris. Huge fan of the podcast. You guys literally keep me sane while I'm at work, so thank you. Chris, my baby for life, so is my husband. My question for you guys is about relationships slash marriage slash sex. My husband and I have been together for almost nine years, got married young, had kids young and back-to-back. So our kids are

three and a half and two and a half we're slowly seeing some more independence and freedom come back that we used to have but the number one thing that has changed is our sex life so straight up my husband would like to have sex every single day and for me that's just not realistic so I guess my question to you is how do I meet him in the middle? How much is too much? How little is too little? You know, we're trying to figure this out. And obviously, I want to keep him happy at the same time.

So it's just been the number one thing that we are bumping heads on. Really? Because we have completely different views on it. Wow. So any advice would be great. Wow. That's the number one thing, huh? First of all, it all sounds real normal. Sometimes it's the number one thing huh first of all

every day all sounds real normal sometimes it's the woman who wants more sex sometimes it's the man everything's normal once a day is not i wouldn't call it abnormal but that is not compromising yeah true like the guy needs to your husband needs to fucking compromise i want to be on the dude's team because, you know... But it's just... I can't. Once a day, dude? I got to be more of a person here. Yeah.

Seven times a week? Yeah. 365 times a year? Yeah. Come on. I know. It needs to be more. I think it should be three, four times a day.

No, I... You need to do it 1,500 times a year. Let's talk about once a week. Yeah. Let's start there. Well, that's... Start there, I said. What do you mean?

Start there once a week. Him or her? Her, start there. Well, they're going to have sex I said. What do you mean? Start there once a week. Him or her? Her, start there. Well, they're going to have sex together. It's like fucking sex shark tank. He has sex five times a week. She has sex twice a week. They're a couple.

They all have sex the same amount of times. Yeah, no, no, no. But I'm saying for her to be like, I'll give you once a week. That's what you're saying. You've got to come to the table a little bit on the fucking- But my question for her is how much does she want to have sex? She left it out. Yeah.

I bet she's like, I just, I'm not, you know, I bet that that's the deal. So she's got to meet him a little bit. That's what I'm saying. But also,

but here's the other thing, dude, if you're anything like me, dude, if the guy's anything like me, I don't want to have sex with somebody that doesn't want to. That's what I, that's what I never understood about fucking this kind of shit.

It's like, you know, you hear stories like this and it's just like but but here's the thing i get it if he's like but but it's not it's he wants to have sex once a fucking day but but it's different but when it's like what happened to our passion like that let i need to you to try to rediscover that that's much much more valid but to be like i don't care that you don't want to have sex with me i want it once a day that's much much more valid but to be like i don't care that you don't want to have sex with me i want it once a day that's like that's like fucking 1920s what he's saying but she said it

what do you mean no no she's saying if it were up to my husband he would like to have it once a day it's not necessarily like he's henry the eighth i watch the tutors and when they fucking he would be like this is what we're doing and you have to abide by that. Okay. But yeah, dude, I don't know. I mean, also there's other things. Foreplay is every, tell this guy this. Foreplay is everything you do before sex, not just in the bedroom. It's everything.

You said that before. It's buying flowers. It's doing other things. It's setting your alarm for when you wake up. It's turning on the hot part uh the hot faucet so it's the water's lukewarm when it comes out of the sink it's not necessarily that i'm just saying it could be everything you do up until you have sex and

you gotta make your partner the focus of more i bet to have sex more who's this for is for her no for him i'm saying i bet i bet there's a thing here where if he were to focus on you more not just sexually but in a romantic way you would um want to have sex a little bit more i think maybe not and if not then it's something else but i don't know if um so you're saying the is the sex. The problem might be the connection. But going with that, would you say that she should suggest to him more foreplay? And she might be more likely to want to do it?

Yeah, be more romantic. Be more present during the day, during the non-sex times. You're saying she should tell him... Yeah. I think you should just tell him, I think you should just start with once a day is unrealistic because we're married and have been married for a long time and we're not 19. It is.

And so let's come up with some kind of compromise, whether that is once every, if once a week is outrageous of a suggestion. He's going to go like. Okay, so maybe if he does that, maybe once. Okay, then what would you like? Maybe once between Monday and Friday and then once on the weekend. Like that might be fine for him.

But again, I also come back to the thing Chris said, which is like, why is this guy trying to fuck when you don't want to? I get he would like you to want to right and again talking to her about rekindling some kind of flame starting foreplay doing things that make her happy to make her sort of more excited about having sex but like to just be like we're fucking today and we're fucking tomorrow we're fucking every day and that's what we have to do to satisfy me i mean of course you don't want to who the fuck that's what i'm saying yeah that's not a connection yeah there's other things you have you not only have a valid

point to say that's too much you have a valid point to be like well why would i want to yeah like this is not like some exciting new relationship like do something more don't treat me like i'm just a fried butterfly right like what is that think about what a fried butterfly i did think about it pink why do you now it's pink think about a fried butterfly, right? What is that? Think about what a fried butterfly looks like. I did. Think about it pink. Now it's pink? Think about a fried butterfly if it were pink. Now what?

This sounds like I need more things. What does it look like? Fried butterfly if it was pink. If there was a slit in the middle of it. You're just talking about describing... Because we'll get age restricted. You're just describing a female genitalia. There we go.

Okay, I could have said that if I want to be, you know. Well, that would have been way better. Clinical, I'm just saying it's applied because we're not doctors. If that is a stupid-ass way to say what you were trying to say. Pink fried butterfly with a slit in it. Okay, wow. Don't just treat me like a pig. So inelegant, you know?

He's just like, wait, what? What about a fried what? He's just like, wait, what? What? What about a fried what? Okay. A pink fried butterfly with a slit in it that you dropped in water and took it out. And now it looks like that.

The worst writer. The fucking worst. Dude, spitballing a poet. Spitballing poet. Do you understand if I read a book and it said all that? It'd be my favorite book, dude. So fuck off, man. That would be so bad. The best shit. I would got to read the book really. it said all that it'd be my favorite book dude so fuck off man that would be so the best shit i would gotta read the book really so bad but he um yeah just yeah be open and talk you know guys struggle talking about this shit too so uh but he doesn't

have a struggle saying once a week once a day yeah so it this motherfucker have a word with this motherfucker it's a lot but yeah i mean i understand some guys a bit much dude yeah oh okay uh well are we done we're done and i want to thank you before you look boom yeah that's what i was gonna say that's what i was gonna say spin move mentality t-shirt boom with the spin move totality in the fern and people know what's up dude when you watch it the other ones are the are the fuck you know what my favorite is is the is the i love this but i love the gray crew neck crew neck is the shit with the fucking icons and i'll tell you right now that's the key art that's the number one seller that's is it it must be it's the best shit that there is also hey everybody i'm booking up fast get your shit mattaliacom, one-on-one advice sessions.

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So, yeah, I'll be in Stockton oakland uh wash or no that'll be done uh puri illinois so bad at pitching yourself because i'll be it just comes out sunday hi hi it's sunday i had a good time in washington dc learning english uh savannah georgia i'm coming i heard it's beautiful i'll be there get your tickets at crystalia.com tempe arizonaia i'm coming i heard it's beautiful i'll be there get your tickets at chrystalia.com tempe arizona uh i'm actually doing the club there just to pick up a date um and uh raleigh north carolina can't wait can't wait to bring the fam that's dope raleigh north carolina tickets chrystalia.com austin massachusetts um that first show sold out we got the second one on sale bragging um no it's all good so it's 7 000 tickets total and so um and then albany new york That first show sold out. We got the second one on sale. Bragging. No, it's all good.

It's 7,000 tickets total. And then Albany, New York. And then I got that guy. I'll see that guy in Lakeland with his fucking head on. Yeah, hell yeah. That nice-ass guy? Oh, that was the nice-ass guy. That was the nice-ass guy, yeah. I'll see that guy.

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